I took the leap after 11 years of push pull. The last year was unbearable at times. I’m in my new place, new healing journey, my heart is full of gratefulness. While in it l kept telling myself, believing there will be peace in the end.. l just have to get through this ugliness. Well girls l did it. You can do it..stay strong. Huge hugs to you all.
I love the warmth and calm in the way you communicate and how you keep the focus on personal responsibility. It's wonderful to see how many people you're helping. Your channel is a goldmine I'll be sharing with clients that I specifically coach on boundaries.I can attest that implementing healthy boundaries changed my life 100% for the better. It's a bumpy road when you start, but SO worth it. Blessings.
Dear doctor your tips are powerful. I never knew or read of this angle and analysis. Healthy boundaries is the way to communicate and live. Yes boundaries are to protect ourselves especially innocent people.
Nikhil Sukumar YEAH !!!! The abusers of innocent and naives pressures them and Made them no-boundaries people so they can control them 😔 I've been there . Today I know IM THE ONE RESPONSIBLE OF MY LIFE , NEEDS AND BOUNDARIES HELP ME to keep this healthy new life.
Omg. This used to happen all the time. I would go to the grocery store and he would do this to me always. Then I started to become anxious and nervous shopping. Like always had to check in. Always upset the he would be upset. Thinking about it makes me sick.
Omg thank you for all your videos! It's so helpful and encouraging, just broke up with my boyfriend and your videos make me stronger, really) thanks a lot
I have watched several of your videos tonight and they have helped me very much. I know I am on the right path. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge.
I love your videos and they have helped me a lot, I just wish that there was not a default for labeling the abusers as men. A lot of us are in abusive relationships with women. But thank you, what you do is really important.
This is the relationship with my eldest female sibling. She controlled the whole family even my parents. It's not always a romantic relationship, worse som e of us have been raised this way
i have divorced my husband an also my parents who have controlled my al my live an my depression has been less an less over time but i do feel so lonenly because there are no new people in my live an when i thry to connect with people they always are the same as the people i left behind
Thank you! I left almost 2 months ago. Today is one of my bad days. I left him cause of him accusing me of affairs, blaming me for the empty nest? Finally all my kids are out of the house. I was told it was my fault for the last child moving out, cause we had a BIG fight before she left. it's always the same, my daughters tell him one side of the story, then mind, who do you think he believed? them of course. I always lied to him (in his eyes) if be only knew what was going on he wouldn't be doing this. But that's how it is, always has been. I felt that there is a big secret in my house, and I can't get answers. Afraid I might get my feelings hurt. (that's his excuse.) Need input! and thank you.
wondering why you are assuming that the abuser is a man??? i have met and known countless women who are violent and will stop at nothing to wreck their mans life
It’s 530 in the morning on a busy road very dark, I see a man on a bicycle, no reflectors he can barely be seen. I pull over so he passes me on his bike and I’m able to get a word I say let me give you a ride, he passes me and keeps going. There was something else I was going to tell him, about the manna know that was killed on a bicycle at this hour on a much more quiet of a road. I pull up beside him stop the car and say hey let’s put your bike in now he’s being rude as I’m telling him let me give you a ride. So I say hey I want you to get a taillight on that bike because I know of a man that was killed on a bicycle at this hour, now he’s being even more rude and telling me to go Go, that I need to move along that I am bothering him. Essay, I think your narcissist ! He says F you ! A driveaway, doesn’t bother me one bit. I should explain I’ve been doing this for 11 years, cab driver. I should also explained that I have been not actually giving free rides and not working in the middle of the night anymore since I have learned about narcissists, but I had a voice telling me to offer this man’s help, but I’m not taking any crap from these narcissist now that I know about them and I will tell them when they are being a narcissist then I think they are narcissist, maybe God wanted me to tell him that. Normally something like this would have eaten at me but let me tell you, LOL not one bit not one bit LOL, not anymore… ☮️ 💗U Doc DD ThankYou!!
Profound! Life is too short to remain in abusive, non-fulfilling relationships. Time wasted that you can never reclaim.
I took the leap after 11 years of push pull. The last year was unbearable at times. I’m in my new place, new healing journey, my heart is full of gratefulness. While in it l kept telling myself, believing there will be peace in the end.. l just have to get through this ugliness. Well girls l did it. You can do it..stay strong. Huge hugs to you all.
I love the warmth and calm in the way you communicate and how you keep the focus on personal responsibility. It's wonderful to see how many people you're helping. Your channel is a goldmine I'll be sharing with clients that I specifically coach on boundaries.I can attest that implementing healthy boundaries changed my life 100% for the better. It's a bumpy road when you start, but SO worth it. Blessings.
Boundaries need us find our intuition , needs and self respect . We need that emotional shelter and shield , for our separateness .
Dear doctor your tips are powerful. I never knew or read of this angle and analysis. Healthy boundaries is the way to communicate and live. Yes boundaries are to protect ourselves especially innocent people.
Thank you Nikhil; healthy boundaries are the heart of healthy relationships.
Nikhil Sukumar ,m,
Nikhil Sukumar YEAH !!!! The abusers of innocent and naives pressures them and Made them no-boundaries people so they can control them 😔 I've been there . Today I know IM THE ONE RESPONSIBLE OF MY LIFE , NEEDS AND BOUNDARIES HELP ME to keep this healthy new life.
This is a major key in the healing process!
Omg. This used to happen all the time. I would go to the grocery store and he would do this to me always. Then I started to become anxious and nervous shopping. Like always had to check in. Always upset the he would be upset. Thinking about it makes me sick.
Omg thank you for all your videos! It's so helpful and encouraging, just broke up with my boyfriend and your videos make me stronger, really) thanks a lot
I have watched several of your videos tonight and they have helped me very much. I know I am on the right path. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge.
I love your videos and they have helped me a lot, I just wish that there was not a default for labeling the abusers as men. A lot of us are in abusive relationships with women.
But thank you, what you do is really important.
This is the relationship with my eldest female sibling. She controlled the whole family even my parents. It's not always a romantic relationship, worse som e of us have been raised this way
Daily! Exhausting.
i have divorced my husband an also my parents who have controlled my al my live an my depression has been less an less over time but i do feel so lonenly because there are no new people in my live an when i thry to connect with people they always are the same as the people i left behind
I hope it will get better for you. I find that so brave to leave the toxic people behind :)
Brilliant and very healing compassionate guidance thank you so much Dr Dart
Thank You ⚘
Will the fear of him coming back to hurt me ever go away? I am now afraid when the doorbell rings. What do i do
I cried not knowing why......no fi. Jealous he said he was.
Thank you so much. Agape
He gave me guilt when i said no. He said i was meeting someone if i took too long coming back. Always accused me.
Bingo! ThankQ!💝
Thank you! I left almost 2 months ago. Today is one of my bad days. I left him cause of him accusing me of affairs, blaming me for the empty nest? Finally all my kids are out of the house. I was told it was my fault for the last child moving out, cause we had a BIG fight before she left. it's always the same, my daughters tell him one side of the story, then mind, who do you think he believed? them of course. I always lied to him (in his eyes) if be only knew what was going on he wouldn't be doing this. But that's how it is, always has been. I felt that there is a big secret in my house, and I can't get answers. Afraid I might get my feelings hurt. (that's his excuse.) Need input! and thank you.
wondering why you are assuming that the abuser is a man??? i have met and known countless women who are violent and will stop at nothing to wreck their mans life
It’s 530 in the morning on a busy road very dark, I see a man on a bicycle, no reflectors he can barely be seen. I pull over so he passes me on his bike and I’m able to get a word I say let me give you a ride, he passes me and keeps going. There was something else I was going to tell him, about the manna know that was killed on a bicycle at this hour on a much more quiet of a road. I pull up beside him stop the car and say hey let’s put your bike in now he’s being rude as I’m telling him let me give you a ride. So I say hey I want you to get a taillight on that bike because I know of a man that was killed on a bicycle at this hour, now he’s being even more rude and telling me to go Go, that I need to move along that I am bothering him. Essay, I think your narcissist ! He says F you ! A driveaway, doesn’t bother me one bit. I should explain I’ve been doing this for 11 years, cab driver. I should also explained that I have been not actually giving free rides and not working in the middle of the night anymore since I have learned about narcissists, but I had a voice telling me to offer this man’s help, but I’m not taking any crap from these narcissist now that I know about them and I will tell them when they are being a narcissist then I think they are narcissist, maybe God wanted me to tell him that. Normally something like this would have eaten at me but let me tell you, LOL not one bit not one bit LOL, not anymore… ☮️
💗U Doc DD ThankYou!!
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