At the end of the day , he wants you to allow him to be as flirtatious as he wants as long as he comes home with you! He believes he's the prize!! In actuality you are his covering! If you stay too long in these relationship s , you become cold to people in general !
My husband has never love bombed me but he used to say things like we will watch movies and buy me anything. He always wanted to do things that he wanted to do. He never courted me because he’s a miser. I think he only forced me.he did not except my thoughts and feelings . He used to gaslight make me believe everything is fine.
lol... I got nothing of that... I was so starved for attention... I settled for breadcrumbs.... I was so open to love.... he jumped in with nothing to offer me...but love... and then took that away too....he started his abuse in the first month.... I settled for breadcrumbs and abuse for the rest of the 3 years.
Your videos are very helpful, thank you. I need advise, I live with covert, toxic horse-racing gambler who suffers from alcohol abuse (triple treat!). He has been bankrupt twice. Luckily I have kept my own home in my own name, but he won’t move out, just threatens to and ‘jokingly’ asks if I’ve made a will. I have had some very frightening moments with him during our 20 years together. I used to be personable, kind hearted and generous, but now I am emotionless and I don’t know myself anymore.
There is no honesty in the relationship. That says is well. Thank you for your contribution to this very painful relationship issue that is becoming more predominant.
Thank you so much for for your info..... And for understanding what we go through..... 42 yrs. With the abuser. Narcissist!! trying to leave the marriage it's very hard .
Been out of my relationship with my abuser for almost a year. He used the church and marriage to lure me in. Claimed to be a Godly man, yet constantly blamed his exes for everything that happened in his life. After hearing these excuses for 5 1/2 years I finally said, enough - move on, get over it. Our relationship took a turn at that time since he was caught in a lie about going out with his ex girlfriend and flipped his cheating on me. Caught red handed, and still denied it.
OH yeah! One guy I dated for only 2 weeks (and kicked him out because he was just that insane in the membrane) bought me a tiny little badge of a rabbit. (He thought it was funny to try and scare me about what he termed as "bunny boilers" and told me that HE loves little badges and he even bought me a bar of cheap soap because he did not feel comfortable with the liquid Castille soap I used. He presented it to me (almost like a guy would present a wedding ring on his knees come to think of it) and I got the unspoken message in that moment "THIS is soap". SO many other weird little behaviors like this. After less than a week he had moved ALL my paintings around my home, without even asking me?? He once hit me over the head and burst into tears after I tried to reassure him that I usually have some boxes I don't unpack when I first move into somewhere new and apparently in saying that I reminded him of the 8 different homes he'd been kicked out of THAT YEAR,(I wonder why :D ) and what a bitch I am for upsetting him?? I bought him a cup of coffee in the city and cracked a joke about being his sugar mamma, and it turned into a HUGE issue where he argued relentlessly with me for making him look bad for having no money (even though he's the one who hinted that he wanted a coffee) and turned it into a giant drama to the point where we missed the party we were heading to! Most insane person I've ever met.
I absolutely LOVE your videos, Dr. Dart. They are helping me tremendously. I am embarrassed to admit my 'marriage' to my ex-narcissist even beat Kim Kardashian's 77 day record. He woke up one morning and in "tears" sat on the edge of my side of the bed before he went to work and said, "I love you so much, you know that, don't you?" When I got up to get a cup of coffee, he said, "This isn't going to work out." and he left for work and came back with the police in the evening to get his things. That was less than 45 days after we got married and now, over 10 years ago. I am still embarrassed by how stupid I was back then. I saw ALL the red flags and chose to ignore them. When people tell you they are bad Co-Dependents, BELIEVE them!!
I’m so happy to hear that my videos are helpful to you! I understand your feelings and yet HE is the one who has something to be embarrassed about. Such cruelty on his part. Hold your head high 💜
The message is your not good enough...And if your not giving into the fantasy. Theres always someone else that he can get more supply from . And no one will ever be good enough. So dont think your missing anything. Someone else may look happy for the moment but they will go through the same cycle. They never change. This is a cycle of a lot of Hoovering , Fantom exs and discarding or ghosting .
yup...he had a harem... I did it 9 times.... he kept me spinning in this cycle 9 times.... every 2 months went back to his harem... now his harem is supporting his fake facade.
Oh, it'll be different alright, just not in a good way . Things will be wonderful, (maybe) for about a week and then - the punishment for having the audacity to leave of your own volition will start up - and it will not quit until you quit the relationship and leave for good. Those two last words are important... FOR. GOOD. *YOUR GOOD*
Oh my....... 😕 This describes what I have been through so very accurately, it's rather depressing but enlightening to hear it. I think I must join your Facebook group as I feel I need some support from women who have had the same type of experience. Thank you so much for the wonderful supportive videos
I am so profoundly grateful for all of these videos. It is my belief I grew up with a narcisist, I have some terrible issues as a result of this, but have been in the dark about all this stuff until now. I think you have a fighting chance at love, when you can heal yourself and clear yourself of toxic patterns and people.
They are always looking for new supply. You are always a temp situation. Even if youve been there decades.. you may not know of the targets.. but theyre there. When he finally manipulates the RIGHT target.. he will b done. But not until. Your staying power is ALL hes banking on
I wanted what I saw everyone around me. A home of my own. Stability and trust and time and energy. This is NOT what theyre looking for. Which is y this disorder is rare. Look around you at the stable couples. Thats proof. Now he might tell others hes successful and a homeowner. Because hes figured out that thats what most expect. And he will future fake you. Telling you if you just work more or make more money or love him more ... sex him more.. but thats all they want. They dont care about what you need
I can only be one part of myself with my mom, and she’ll always drag me back if I’m authentic. This is how: .”what will people think if they see you like this?” .”I am better and have it worse than you, so you’re reaction isn’t justified.” .” If you calm down we can get lunch, or whatever you want.” .”you embarrass me, I’m hurt by what you’re saying/doing” .”you do the same bad thing to me so you’re lying.” .”I’ll leave you alone” Know the signs, know your worth. I will respect you if they won’t.
I love this video .I wish I'd figured him out before I married him.I was sooo confused I did question my own sanity ! Thank God I left I only realized what I tolerated after I left
No it doesn’t change yes it has suck my life out he doesn’t last in no relationship , he doesn’t last in a job for 2 years , where ever he get a apt he only last for a year , if he had a cell phone company he only last for a year , phone number constantly changing it .. he is unstable
Exactly! You cover it exactly like it is! Took me years to figure this all out! I'm rounding the corner to home plate now! One base at a time but I will hit home plate! Your videos are excellent! Thank you!
You're so right!!💔 I was engaged to a man I dated on and off 13 years. He gave me a company car, NEVER asked me, what kind of car would YOU like, it would've been a turquoise bug Volkswagen LOL, when we went to go get the engagement ring it was all about what HE liked in taste, and what He bought??? I tried voicing my opinion ......When I started HAVING A voice, opinion, etc....it was done. I gave him back his $18,000 diamond it's more than I make in a year, everything was about him!!! And because previously I was the one doing all the Romancing seen being so available, he even hung up on me when I would not change my address and say I bought his house which was over at $700,000 house, for 350,0000, so he could save on taxes he went through the rough after hanging up on me. He cheated one of his new girlfriends had physically beat the crap out of me and he said it was a slap in the face things were not adding up!!! One of the boundaries I put into place was him you're speaking to his ex-wife and lo and behold he had talk to her about our hernia that was causing him no pain, I said I don't care if she's a medical doctor you promised that you would not have a conversation with her concerning anything but your child that you had together who is an adult this year by the way, so there was actually no reason to speak with her whatsoever and I let him know that it would be a dealbreaker for me well after three strikes, I was done!!!! He tried to project it on me that I was being too sensitive that's BS!! I was very hesitant about even dating him this time around, and he said you don't have to leave me just because I'm giving you this house the cost of $60,000, well I live in an apartment now after being tormented by him!!! I am now free and a much wiser person and on the road back to me thank you for all your videos🌹
It's interesting to think about the elaborate measures the Narcissist will go to in order to manipulate. For the narcissist there is no reality other than what they deem it to be.
All heterosexual women should listen to your advice and wisdom Denise. You should write a book and appear on Oprah. Sad things is that the establishment media and religion would fight you tooth and nail.
why are the other exes still around..... and keep in contact with him.... ??? and he has totally discarded me .... why do I seem like the only one who is suffering and all the other exes are enjoying a loving relationship with him ?
+paula dsilva In many cases the ex’s are initially discarded and then Hoovered back in. It’s very common for the Narc to have a harem of old girlfriends and wives who fell for the “we can be friends” line.
Dr. Denise Dart 😢 he tried to do the ...let's be friends thing with me... I said ok... but he would have sex with me every time he saw me......you are right...his wife had an affair on him... he treats her like a jewel now... grovels.... he grovels for all his harem.... just not me 😢 thank you for responding to me 😊
I got hold of a video of narcissistic and it discribe him I told him you need help you a narcissist .. I saw a video how you suppose to answer a narcissist , this last time he was answering me like that video that saw how to answer a narcissist he was talking to me like I was a narcissist I said omg this man is pathetic , I bet he started watching videos on narcissist.. every one he had sex with he bad mouth , all his ex are in a little jar when ever he need a supply he takes them Out .. yes he dump me he cames back in my mind we trying to work things out but no he just wants to distroy me , this man is sick I
Our kids are suffering he triangulates them especially my daughter we are divorcing after 30 years my daughter and son have gained weight and depressed and my daughter is failing school he won't work so he is home all the time after he abused me physically in Feb 2017 I moved out because I knew I was going to file for divorce and would not be able to withstand his verbally abusive self and did not want my kids to experience anymore crap they are 15 ,17 my daughter is 15 and homeschooled because she was having trouble and public school with her grades and she's a tomboy so she's being picked on for the way she dresses and she's a pretty girl but she doesn't have much self-esteem so wasn't wanting to get up in the morning so my husband just want to what had an enrolled her in homeschooling without getting permission from me and so there she's been for the last two years feeling on our divorce attorney basically said that she needs you know counseling some therapy and we are going to need to do that but my daughter is so stubborn i'm just even wondering how I'm going to get her to the therapist because of course he's washed his hands of it told me this is your responsibility like everything else in him our marriage with a married for 30 years I am a dentist and have been for the last 13 years went back to school because I felt like he was never going to be able to support us or help in supporting us so I just decided to follow my dream of becoming Dentist since then that's been kind of the downfall of our marriage it's been very very difficult and he's just stayed home because I had my kids when I was in dental school and he stayed home at that point and took care of them and it's just been like that ever since he's worked a little bit here and there to appease me but he doesn't want to work and he won't work I just got through cancer two years ago I think because of the stress of this relationship he had a mild stroke we're literally killing each other and her four kids are in the midst of the battle and I just don't know what to do ?! We go in front of the judge in two weeks to finalize the divorce and I'm currently looking for a home I have a lease until March in my apartment my one-bedroom apartment but the kids won't come over because it's not comfortable for them and I'm looking for a home right now to accommodate them but it's it's just so difficult because now I've got to get her into school I'm going to get her to the therapist she's very stubborn and you know how do you force a 15-year-old to do anything really I mean I hope you have some suggestions
For those of us men who have been victims of the narc wife or woman in our lives, it is terribly offensive that you always speak as if men are the only ones capable of committing Narcissist abuse. I'm here to tell you the Covert or vulnerable female Narcissist is the worst among the worst. I've lived with one for nearly 30 years. The hellish emotional & verbal abuse she has put me through is beyond description. Up your intelligence quotient will you & recognize there are thousands of men who are suffering this vicious abuse.
You are absolutely right! This channel was designed for a primarily female audience. This is most definitely not a gender specific issue, nor is it specific to a male/female relationship. I know the hell you describe and appreciate you taking the time to leave feedback. 💜
Omg, every woman I've ever asked where would you like to go eat. The answer always is "it doesn't matter" then when I pick a place "oh we're going there". They never tell me where they'd like to go or their favorite place.
Yes Adrien, I do know and also know how incredibly painful these relationships are. My channel is simply designed for a primarily female audience. Please stay connected of my videos are helpful and you can know HE is used as a universal pronoun. Men and women both can be victim or perpetrator. The abuse can be devastating. You CAN recover fully. 💜
Always talk to, and believe, a previous woman.
I would suggest that "always" doesn't work. Sometimes the previous woman isn't the victim.
At the end of the day , he wants you to allow him to be as flirtatious as he wants as long as he comes home with you! He believes he's the prize!! In actuality you are his covering! If you stay too long in these relationship s , you become cold to people in general !
My husband has never love bombed me but he used to say things like we will watch movies and buy me anything.
He always wanted to do things that he wanted to do. He never courted me because he’s a miser. I think he only forced me.he did not except my thoughts and feelings . He used to gaslight make me believe everything is fine.
lol... I got nothing of that... I was so starved for attention... I settled for breadcrumbs.... I was so open to love.... he jumped in with nothing to offer me...but love... and then took that away too....he started his abuse in the first month.... I settled for breadcrumbs and abuse for the rest of the 3 years.
Your videos are very helpful, thank you. I need advise, I live with covert, toxic horse-racing gambler who suffers from alcohol abuse (triple treat!). He has been bankrupt twice. Luckily I have kept my own home in my own name, but he won’t move out, just threatens to and ‘jokingly’ asks if I’ve made a will. I have had some very frightening moments with him during our 20 years together. I used to be personable, kind hearted and generous, but now I am emotionless and I don’t know myself anymore.
There is no honesty in the relationship. That says is well. Thank you for your contribution to this very painful relationship issue that is becoming more predominant.
Yes, it’s been the most confusing 20yrs of my life. I’m trying to find the strength & energy to leave now. Thank you for your videos:)
It was always his favorite restaurant!
Key Phrase: “Don’t Waste Your Life on Them” #WordsOfWisdom💜😇Thank you!
Omg this gave me goosebumps. You described my ex perfectly. Wow. I cant believe people can be like this.
U r talking about my Ex here! It was exactly the same...he used to leave me so confused. It was tiring.
Thank you so much for for your info..... And for understanding what we go through..... 42 yrs. With the abuser. Narcissist!! trying to leave the marriage it's very hard .
Been out of my relationship with my abuser for almost a year. He used the church and marriage to lure me in. Claimed to be a Godly man, yet constantly blamed his exes for everything that happened in his life. After hearing these excuses for 5 1/2 years I finally said, enough - move on, get over it. Our relationship took a turn at that time since he was caught in a lie about going out with his ex girlfriend and flipped his cheating on me. Caught red handed, and still denied it.
OH yeah! One guy I dated for only 2 weeks (and kicked him out because he was just that insane in the membrane) bought me a tiny little badge of a rabbit. (He thought it was funny to try and scare me about what he termed as "bunny boilers" and told me that HE loves little badges and he even bought me a bar of cheap soap because he did not feel comfortable with the liquid Castille soap I used. He presented it to me (almost like a guy would present a wedding ring on his knees come to think of it) and I got the unspoken message in that moment "THIS is soap". SO many other weird little behaviors like this. After less than a week he had moved ALL my paintings around my home, without even asking me?? He once hit me over the head and burst into tears after I tried to reassure him that I usually have some boxes I don't unpack when I first move into somewhere new and apparently in saying that I reminded him of the 8 different homes he'd been kicked out of THAT YEAR,(I wonder why :D ) and what a bitch I am for upsetting him?? I bought him a cup of coffee in the city and cracked a joke about being his sugar mamma, and it turned into a HUGE issue where he argued relentlessly with me for making him look bad for having no money (even though he's the one who hinted that he wanted a coffee) and turned it into a giant drama to the point where we missed the party we were heading to! Most insane person I've ever met.
I absolutely LOVE your videos, Dr. Dart. They are helping me tremendously. I am embarrassed to admit my 'marriage' to my ex-narcissist even beat Kim Kardashian's 77 day record. He woke up one morning and in "tears" sat on the edge of my side of the bed before he went to work and said, "I love you so much, you know that, don't you?" When I got up to get a cup of coffee, he said, "This isn't going to work out." and he left for work and came back with the police in the evening to get his things. That was less than 45 days after we got married and now, over 10 years ago. I am still embarrassed by how stupid I was back then. I saw ALL the red flags and chose to ignore them. When people tell you they are bad Co-Dependents, BELIEVE them!!
I’m so happy to hear that my videos are helpful to you! I understand your feelings and yet HE is the one who has something to be embarrassed about. Such cruelty on his part. Hold your head high 💜
Learning to react with less emotion isn't easy, but every time I do it, it helps me feel more in control.
The message is your not good enough...And if your not giving into the fantasy. Theres always someone else that he can get more supply from . And no one will ever be good enough. So dont think your missing anything. Someone else may look happy for the moment but they will go through the same cycle. They never change. This is a cycle of a lot of Hoovering , Fantom exs and discarding or ghosting .
yup...he had a harem... I did it 9 times.... he kept me spinning in this cycle 9 times.... every 2 months went back to his harem... now his harem is supporting his fake facade.
Every single word is true!
Oh, it'll be different alright, just not in a good way . Things will be wonderful, (maybe) for about a week and then - the punishment for having the audacity to leave of your own volition will start up - and it will not quit until you quit the relationship and leave for good.
Those two last words are important... FOR. GOOD. *YOUR GOOD*
Oh my....... 😕 This describes what I have been through so very accurately, it's rather depressing but enlightening to hear it.
I think I must join your Facebook group as I feel I need some support from women who have had the same type of experience.
Thank you so much for the wonderful supportive videos
I am so profoundly grateful for all of these videos. It is my belief I grew up with a narcisist, I have some terrible issues as a result of this, but have been in the dark about all this stuff until now. I think you have a fighting chance at love, when you can heal yourself and clear yourself of toxic patterns and people.
Emotional abuse sounds like it damn narcissist that I just discarded I am so glad that bastard's out of my life
They are always looking for new supply. You are always a temp situation. Even if youve been there decades.. you may not know of the targets.. but theyre there. When he finally manipulates the RIGHT target.. he will b done. But not until. Your staying power is ALL hes banking on
I wanted what I saw everyone around me. A home of my own. Stability and trust and time and energy. This is NOT what theyre looking for. Which is y this disorder is rare. Look around you at the stable couples. Thats proof. Now he might tell others hes successful and a homeowner. Because hes figured out that thats what most expect. And he will future fake you. Telling you if you just work more or make more money or love him more ... sex him more.. but thats all they want. They dont care about what you need
I can only be one part of myself with my mom, and she’ll always drag me back if I’m authentic. This is how:
.”what will people think if they see you like this?”
.”I am better and have it worse than you, so you’re reaction isn’t justified.”
.” If you calm down we can get lunch, or whatever you want.”
.”you embarrass me, I’m hurt by what you’re saying/doing”
.”you do the same bad thing to me so you’re lying.”
.”I’ll leave you alone”
Know the signs, know your worth. I will respect you if they won’t.
When in reality the truth is that what other people think of us is none of our business 💜
I love this video .I wish I'd figured him out before I married him.I was sooo confused I did question my own sanity ! Thank God I left I only realized what I tolerated after I left
No it doesn’t change yes it has suck my life out he doesn’t last in no relationship , he doesn’t last in a job for 2 years , where ever he get a apt he only last for a year , if he had a cell phone company he only last for a year , phone number constantly changing it .. he is unstable
Exactly! You cover it exactly like it is! Took me years to figure this all out! I'm rounding the corner to home plate now! One base at a time but I will hit home plate! Your videos are excellent! Thank you!
You are terrific, organized, and informative.
You understand 100% of my situation!
You're so right!!💔 I was engaged to a man I dated on and off 13 years. He gave me a company car, NEVER asked me, what kind of car would YOU like, it would've been a turquoise bug Volkswagen LOL, when we went to go get the engagement ring it was all about what HE liked in taste, and what He bought??? I tried voicing my opinion ......When I started HAVING A voice, opinion, etc....it was done. I gave him back his $18,000 diamond it's more than I make in a year, everything was about him!!! And because previously I was the one doing all the Romancing seen being so available, he even hung up on me when I would not change my address and say I bought his house which was over at $700,000 house, for 350,0000, so he could save on taxes he went through the rough after hanging up on me. He cheated one of his new girlfriends had physically beat the crap out of me and he said it was a slap in the face things were not adding up!!! One of the boundaries I put into place was him you're speaking to his ex-wife and lo and behold he had talk to her about our hernia that was causing him no pain, I said I don't care if she's a medical doctor you promised that you would not have a conversation with her concerning anything but your child that you had together who is an adult this year by the way, so there was actually no reason to speak with her whatsoever and I let him know that it would be a dealbreaker for me well after three strikes, I was done!!!! He tried to project it on me that I was being too sensitive that's BS!! I was very hesitant about even dating him this time around, and he said you don't have to leave me just because I'm giving you this house the cost of $60,000, well I live in an apartment now after being tormented by him!!! I am now free and a much wiser person and on the road back to me thank you for all your videos🌹
Bang on yet again, youre fantastic at articulating crazy, thx
From the moment I sat down to do the first video many years ago I have simply spoken from my heart. I'm glad to hear my videos have helped you!
This one really hit home for me, although I think your videos are all golden...
Thank you for keeping us educated & aware through your videos.
Girl you are so right 100%
This is such a great video, so helpful, thank you so much 🙏🏼
Such truth! Thank you!
Perfectly explain good video
Thank you so much. I am in the 3rd time dump.
Thank goodness I was never asked to go along with a fake anniversary, birthday etc. But lots of fantasy.
It's interesting to think about the elaborate measures the Narcissist will go to in order to manipulate. For the narcissist there is no reality other than what they deem it to be.
All heterosexual women should listen to your advice and wisdom Denise. You should write a book and appear on Oprah. Sad things is that the establishment media and religion would fight you tooth and nail.
Thank you so much!
This is some good stuff right here
wow you have him to a tea
She is so on point.
That's awesome Kriss....never again 💜
why are the other exes still around..... and keep in contact with him.... ??? and he has totally discarded me .... why do I seem like the only one who is suffering and all the other exes are enjoying a loving relationship with him ?
+paula dsilva In many cases the ex’s are initially discarded and then Hoovered back in. It’s very common for the Narc to have a harem of old girlfriends and wives who fell for the “we can be friends” line.
Dr. Denise Dart
😢 he tried to do the ...let's be friends thing with me... I said ok... but he would have sex with me every time he saw me......you are right...his wife had an affair on him... he treats her like a jewel now... grovels.... he grovels for all his harem.... just not me 😢
thank you for responding to me 😊
I got hold of a video of narcissistic and it discribe him I told him you need help you a narcissist .. I saw a video how you suppose to answer a narcissist , this last time he was answering me like that video that saw how to answer a narcissist he was talking to me like I was a narcissist I said omg this man is pathetic , I bet he started watching videos on narcissist.. every one he had sex with he bad mouth , all his ex are in a little jar when ever he need a supply he takes them
Out .. yes he dump me he cames back in my mind we trying to work things out but no he just wants to distroy me , this man is sick I
Our kids are suffering he triangulates them especially my daughter we are divorcing after 30 years my daughter and son have gained weight and depressed and my daughter is failing school he won't work so he is home all the time after he abused me physically in Feb 2017 I moved out because I knew I was going to file for divorce and would not be able to withstand his verbally abusive self and did not want my kids to experience anymore crap they are 15 ,17 my daughter is 15 and homeschooled because she was having trouble and public school with her grades and she's a tomboy so she's being picked on for the way she dresses and she's a pretty girl but she doesn't have much self-esteem so wasn't wanting to get up in the morning so my husband just want to what had an enrolled her in homeschooling without getting permission from me and so there she's been for the last two years feeling on our divorce attorney basically said that she needs you know counseling some therapy and we are going to need to do that but my daughter is so stubborn i'm just even wondering how I'm going to get her to the therapist because of course he's washed his hands of it told me this is your responsibility like everything else in him our marriage with a married for 30 years I am a dentist and have been for the last 13 years went back to school because I felt like he was never going to be able to support us or help in supporting us so I just decided to follow my dream of becoming Dentist since then that's been kind of the downfall of our marriage it's been very very difficult and he's just stayed home because I had my kids when I was in dental school and he stayed home at that point and took care of them and it's just been like that ever since he's worked a little bit here and there to appease me but he doesn't want to work and he won't work I just got through cancer two years ago I think because of the stress of this relationship he had a mild stroke we're literally killing each other and her four kids are in the midst of the battle and I just don't know what to do ?! We go in front of the judge in two weeks to finalize the divorce and I'm currently looking for a home I have a lease until March in my apartment my one-bedroom apartment but the kids won't come over because it's not comfortable for them and I'm looking for a home right now to accommodate them but it's it's just so difficult because now I've got to get her into school I'm going to get her to the therapist she's very stubborn and you know how do you force a 15-year-old to do anything really I mean I hope you have some suggestions
It sounds like you are going through a lot of very painful stuff. I'd recommend getting connected with some support locally if you aren't already.
I lived this.
Dr.Dart thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom. Can this information be also applied to
Sons and friends?
Absolutely! To any relationship! 💜 this is also not a gender specific issue. My channel simply has a primarily female audience.
How do you let go and not feel guilty?
Thank you!
Spot on!
The fantasy phase Lols!
Thank you.
You just described my now dead marriage
so many lies!
SO MANY LIES!
Poor mum....
True!
Text book....
In a man the role is in reverse ..u describe the woman in with ..x2
For those of us men who have been victims of the narc wife or woman in our lives, it is terribly offensive that you always speak as if men are the only ones capable of committing Narcissist abuse. I'm here to tell you the Covert or vulnerable female Narcissist is the worst among the worst. I've lived with one for nearly 30 years. The hellish emotional & verbal abuse she has put me through is beyond description. Up your intelligence quotient will you & recognize there are thousands of men who are suffering this vicious abuse.
You are absolutely right! This channel was designed for a primarily female audience. This is most definitely not a gender specific issue, nor is it specific to a male/female relationship. I know the hell you describe and appreciate you taking the time to leave feedback. 💜
Omg, every woman I've ever asked where would you like to go eat. The answer always is "it doesn't matter" then when I pick a place "oh we're going there". They never tell me where they'd like to go or their favorite place.
Not all about women you know
Yes Adrien, I do know and also know how incredibly painful these relationships are. My channel is simply designed for a primarily female audience. Please stay connected of my videos are helpful and you can know HE is used as a universal pronoun. Men and women both can be victim or perpetrator. The abuse can be devastating. You CAN recover fully. 💜
Thank you!