Daughter Refuses to Believe Her Father Murdered Her Mother | Karen Ristevski Case Analysis
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Maybe we need to change the basic wedding vows to: For better, for worse - I will not kill you. For richer, for poorer - I will not kill you. In sickness and in health - I will not kill you. To love and to cherish without murder, until death (not by me) do we part.
😂😂😂😂Underrated
"and I promise not to take out life insurance on you for six months"
What I learned from true crime stories: if you bury a body in the woods, some random hikers will stumble upon it.
And don't change your story.
13 years for murdering your wife. You cannot be serious.
Because he was charged, and pleaded guilty to, manslaughter, not murder. When people complain about lenient sentencing it’s not always the courts fault. Police and prosecutors couldn’t put a case together to prove he committed murder
12 years too many
@@adotintheshark4848 Ok, edgelord
Whats wrong with you@@adotintheshark4848
Good morning, Dr. Grande. I watch your channel every day. I'm japanese and I am wondering if you can talk about Japanese woman name "Masumi Hayashi" this incident happened 1998 during japanese festival. She put arsenic inside curry. 4 people died, and 67 people got sick.
She pleaded not guilty but she was convinced for the death penalty. Her kids were placed on shelter, and later on, one of her daughter committed suicide with her daughter.
This is huge news in Japan even now. Some people believe she is innocent, especially her son.
Maybe she is guilty
1. Her husband worked as ants exterminator. There is arsenic in her house. Her and her husband got money from insurance company several times for fraud by poison him with arsenic and hospitalized.
2. She was an one of person watching curry during festival.
3. The police found a paper cup that believes she put arsenic in her house then transport to curry.
Maybe she is innocent
1. Many people believe that the police made up her guilty. The arsenic container was found inside her kitchen cabinet but no finger prints. None of her family was aware about the container. Arsenic concentration was different between the container and the one inside curry.
Because of a huge news at the time in Japan, the police was in pressure to find suspect.
Sorry my English is not so good but I like your channel!!😊
Thank you for reading
I've watched crime shows about that çase it would be awesome if Dr G covered it.
This is why I stopped eating curry!!!
That sounds like a very interesting case!
Very interesting case you explained it well.thank you
Your English is great, actually! It sounds like a very interesting case.
Dr. Grande must have looked up millions of topics researching these stories. I hope nobody dies around him, because his search history would be incredibly incriminating.
All he says is on wikipedia for each case.
He’s never submitted to a self analysis. I think he’s hiding something dark.
Out of context, sure. But I highly doubt he ever searches things like "how to kill someone" or "do you get charged for an Amber Alert." Just two of the ones I can recall from recent videos.
@robertsmith4129 That's gonna be his final video, lol. Like "JK, I actually killed them all! Muahahaha!" Lolol
@@AxelordSMIJES😬
Very high profile case here in Australia. My take on Sarah is she loved both her parents & cannot accept her dad killed her mum. Boris has always kept her close but generally viewed by the public as naive & another of victim of Boris. She is just trying to hold on to the only parent she has left
I can't think of anything more damaging than to be manipulated into disloyalty toward one's own Mother
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I think she was Daddy's spoilt little princess and mummy was on the outs. Like other brats of sociopaths who side with the murderer of their other parent.
Much agreed. Very hard choice for a child, to erase the surviving parent when he/she has not exhibited evil directly to said child.
Excellent comment
Same as the way the Morphew girls are so defensive of their father.
It’s not hard, she’s just weak. I know guys who’s father left the family for another woman and they hate his guts for life. I’m sure if their father murdered her, they wouldn’t come to his aid.
@@shitmandood So what if she is weak! Not everyone can be strong and staunch like your friend. Sometimes strong emotion and complicated feelings can be described as weak by those who are confused by such depth.
@@shitmandoodYeah but did they have their mother to turn to? If yes, they just switched all affection to go towards the mother
Hey doc, thanks for the content. I really mean that. I literally listen to you while I clean my grandmother's house, she calls you the cactus guy. She's not quite all there. But I love her. She's hysterical. And sometimes she catches on to your jokes. But thank you so much for the content. It's so enjoyable. Thanks again.🙏🙏🙏🙏
I think it’s not uncommon to observe some children who view their parents as flawless. As if the status of superhero possessed by the parent never goes away, despite the child being already an adult. This is certainly an inadequate and, in a way, dangerous way of thinking, because parents are flawed human beings like everyone else.
Excellent analysis Dr. Grande.❤
Thank you Dr Grande. I live in Melbourne and followed this story. He refused to say what he did and how. Just pleaded guilty. 60 Minutes interviewed Sarah and she idolises him. The girl is definitely in denial.
I often wonder about the children, now adults, of Nicole Brown Simpson and how they mentally dealt with the death of the their mother at the hands of their father.
Thank you Dr. Grande for a very interesting topic.
they are on their fathers side because they were brainwashed by him and his family.
He was acquitted of the murders. He was found not guilty.
I wonder the same.
@@Sleepparalysisdemon2found guilty in the civil trial.
@Msstarrgirl1 that's not what a Civil trial is.
It's a fine Saturday morning when the Doctor uploads
❤yas. 🍄
Isn’t it great
The daughter knows far more than she admits to and her strong allegiance with her father suggests to me that when the parent’s relationship turned sour, she sided with her father and was probably influenced by the father to see her mother in a terrible light and probably believed her mother was to blame for anything that happened to her. I think in the daughter’s eyes, she can not believe her father would do wrong. Just my opinion.
You are full of assumptions
Assumptions maybe not .opinion yes .. and opinion are personal based ... Assumptions I wld think shld be evidenced based and the daughter by her held beliefs above facts leads to assumption .. that she does know more that she disclosing.
@@liulyou are full of bad manners
Wrong - she was extremely close to her mum.
@michelelucas3025 it's 5 assumptions, and all assumptions are opinion
Naive Sarah, she is embracing denial like it’s a lifesaver. It’s sad though, the support of her dad who confessed to killing his wife makes it seem like her mother has little to no no value in her eyes.
Denial is strong in many people that cannot handle the truth.
She only has her father left and understandably doesn’t wish to lose him as well.
9/30/23❤Thank you❤The daughter’s cognitive dissonance resonated with me. As parents we become quite adept at protecting our children from emotional trauma; I have a feeling that the couple did their altercations outside of their daughter’s view, in other words…the parents kept their flawed relationship under wraps to give their daughter a healthy childhood. That protection backfired on MOM as daughter had no idea that Dad is a Jekyll and Hyde. I did the cover up for my abusers and I am paying the price in other ways… I made the predator into a Saint to protect my kids but now, I don’t look so good…such is the life - GOD KNOWS OUR HEARTS❤❤❤
I am so sorry ❤❤ and wishing that the relationship between you and your children' may become much better again and full of love ♥️
I can relate to what you said, I'm in the position of the child (am an adult now) but I am so confused and don't know whom to believe which caused me to be very distant to everyone involved😢
You have a very good heart and I am proud of you
Man, your faithfulness to post is amazing. For us, anyway.
13 years for murdering your wife is ridiculous.
I hope Sarah overcomes her delusion in this case. She may love this man, but he robbed her mother of her life and admitted to it
Yeah seriously is australia the place to be murdering people or what??
he robbed his daughter of having a mother for the rest of her life and a grandmother for her future children....as all of that becomes apparent to her she will change her opinion
Triable story. I hope Sarah gets help.
@taliabond1 he also robbed her of having a present, interactive father in her life, he essentially made her an orphan... I hope she has extended family that has stepped into the horrible void her father has inflicted upon her...
Bloody YT removed my comment.
Emotional pain is an awful spell to live with everyday and is most definitely a slow, agonizing process of elimination.
Best wishes for anyone who suffers. ❤
Kinda reminds me of Barry morphew and his daughters. Thanks dr love when you upload! Happy Saturday! Xoxoxo ❤
And the children of Chad Daybell
A very sick family dynamic going on there … still.
I’ve seen a couple of interviews with Sarah on 60 Minutes (Australian edition) and she’s so heartbreakingly staunch in her support of her dad but you can tell beneath it there’s a horrible gnawing fear about “what if”. Just her body language (I mean basic things anyone could see such as her expressions, not body language analysis like the bull Dr. Grande mentioned) and the moments she teared combined with her wavering statements made me think she wants to believe him because she loves him and doesn’t want to lose both parents. She can’t confront the truth but something in her betrays some level of fear that it’s all true. It was a pretty well-publicised case here.
Dr. Grande’s assessment aligned with my own impressions so I feel like it must have been fairly evident for anyone to see as all I have is a few classes on criminal psychology so I’m no expert.
What bothers me the most about body language experts is that there are police that also think it is a science.
It’s scary some cops believe that
None of it takes into account ppl with autism. As most of our behaviours would all fall under suspicious to body language experts. So it is def a sudo science. And just like lie detectors, should never be trusted.
never talk to cops!
@@XYZ-kb3mm buffoons smh
body language never convicted or aquitted anyone. Nor polygraphs.
This is such a horrific tragedy I am sure the daughter is just STUNNED in shock. No one wants to lose their mother AND believe their father killed her. Just horrific. 😢😢😢😢😢.
The first odd thing is that if the wife supposedly went to her shop and never came home, why not check there before calling the police? Australia has very poor sentencing for murder.
Fully agree!
The investigation into Karen's disappearance costs the authorities millions all while that asshole denied and deliberately mislead them. Just like he did to his wife.
Yet Australia is a very safe country.
Its murder rate per capita is way lower than say the US which happens to have the highest incarceration rate in the world.
@@It-is-me...Melsie idk i mean it could just be that less people are prosecuted for it? like people love to say sweden has “the most rapes per capita in the world” but like they just prosecute more rapists/have lower standards for a rape conviction they don’t actually have more rapes. and the US has the highest incarceration rate in the world because of it’s nearly fascistic justice system so like again not the best example with regard to actual safety of a country
@@XYZ-kb3mm That's the point though... the US has more of its citizens locked up, yet it's not even close to being the safest country.
Locking people up for anything and everything, and throwing away the key is not working for them. There's no reason for any other country to emulate them.
Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when Boris Badanov kills a woman from New Zealand in Australia like this.
This made me audibly laugh 😭
@@sari9645 Thanks! 😀🦓
6:10-6:18..This statement tugged at my heart. No one should fear for their safety in their own home....RIP
Google Ronnie and Ted Kimble. Their parents are my dad's neighbors. Patricia was a family friend.
Poor Sarah. I imagine that her support of her father is complicating her relationship with her mother’s side of the family. I hope that she gets professional help to navigate this devastating situation. Thanks again Dr. G. I love starting my day with one of your videos. Looking forward to seeing you rock some Halloween shirts soon.
Hey, that's a good suggestion regarding Halloween shirts ---and what if Doctor Grande would wear a full-on Halloween COSTUME this year??
Do it Dr. G. DO IT!!!
@@anonymousstrangeness7348A CACTUS COSTUME PLEASE
10 years for murdering the person who arguably you should trust the most? That's laughable. There are a few people I would gladly give up a decade of my life for ridding the world of. Human life just isn't worth anything to anyone. This is just disgusting.
There were a lot of personal circumstances they looked at though. Which makes sense.
I've talked with people about this case for a long time, and plenty of guys said they would have been tempted to do the same.
@@DoubtingThomas333what
@@DoubtingThomas333 I am not appalled at the sentence, and we know the lock em up and throw away the key places do not make for a safer place to live, and of course there are circumstances to consider. However murder is not something to justify nor be tempted to carry out just because someones spending lots of money.
If you feel that way, you should talk to someone cus that’s not ok. I can’t think of a single person I feel that way about even if I would get away with it.
@@DoubtingThomas333
Ridiculous defense.
I requested this, not sure if you saw it though, thanks for covering it! I found it so strange watching Sarah’s interview, and wondering what is going on in her mind. The lack of closure provided in Borce’s silence/denial of guilt imo is just cruel.
Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande! Your true fans love your sarcastic humor!
Thank you Dr Grande for reviewing this case. It’s amazing to me that’s these daughters of murderers can believe their fathers innocent.
The Morphew case comes to mind.
Uncharacteristically compassionate sentiments expressed at the end. I liked it. ❤
That's a spot-on analysis of the daughter's denial, Doctor Grande. She must have been in shock when her mother was murdered and experienced cognitive dissonance as a result when her father was found guilty of her death. I hope she has received mental health counseling to reconcile what happened. Thanks for another great video!
Denial does save your life until it doesn’t.
The daughter lives in "cloud kookoo land". Her continued support for her father is such an insult to her mothers memory.
I found the information about body language experts very interesting, Dr. Grande. I've learned a lot about pseudo-science from your videos. (Like lie-detectors!) Thanks for what you do!
Thank you for covering this crime so close to home. I lived in the suburb next to where they lived and it was huge here. Everyone was talking about it. The pleas from Boris and Sarah were unbelievably fake that everyone knew they had something to do with it. There was a rumour going around that Sarah committed the murder and Boris was the assailant, and Boris took the charge for Sarah. Although these days I’m not sure if people still think this.
He probably lost his temper and killed her in an unplanned rage. Perhaps he snapped. Sometimes people SNAP 😢😢😢😢
Another complex and interesting case and I appreciate the way Dr. Grande breaks down its components to explain it. Thanks, Grande! ❤ I find your videos calming and informative and your pov is much appreciated.❤
I love your clear and easy-to-follow analysis, in this and all your other videos, sir. With a dollop of humour thrown in. A pleasure to listen and watch - your cacti are adorable, too!
Sounds a bit like the Barry and Suzanne Morphew case
Dr. Grande, thank you very much for your good work. I especially appreciate the honesty and unbiased presentations. It is comforting to know that I, and I am confident, your many viewers can depend upon your knowledge, your insight and above all your honesty in each and every episode.
Great analysis & excellent points. Not facing the truth & grief only prolongs it, brings it back harder. Thanks Dr G😊💖💖
Thank you Doctor for your insight and your wit is unparalleled 😊
Alternate theory: There is a possibility that the daughter might have taken the father's side in the money argument and killed her mother, with the father abetting the coverup after the fact and taking the blame on behalf of the daughter. That might explain the father being short on details and the daughter continuing to insist on the father's innocence.
I agree
I agree it's possible, but far less likely. But that's just my opinion. Could definitely be wrong.
This was my thought, as well...
This is an interesting dialogue.
What exactly would be her motive? Not possible unless there's proof the two hated each other, or just the only child/daughter hating her mom. Is there any evidence at all for her to have a reason, mentally or physically to commit matricide? It's absurd. It's just wanting to hold onto her only remaining family, more than likely has forgiven him, and can live with what he did, and go on.
Ugh, I run into this with my sister (no major murders involved). I had been calling my family out on the circus since I was 7 though so yeah...we don't get along 😒
Wow! Cool mood lighting! Love your podcasts and all you do ❤
Love can either guide us true or steer us in the deadliest of wrong directions.
It would be extremely difficult to find one's father guilty if they'd always has a close and loving relationship. Maybe in time.
Good morning, Dr Grande. Thank you as always. I hope you and your family have a great remainder of the weekend. 😊
I think the motive could be he sells her business that she refuses to sell (but that she is losing money on), and perhaps she had a life insurance policy?
Thank you, Dr. Grande. Some of these are so very sad, but I enjoy your presentation. I think I have viewed everyone of your videos on here. Would you be willing to analyze the Chowchilla bus kidnapping? Have a nice weekend.
Sarah reminds me of the Morphew daughters, left Mom alone on Mother's Day but are there at Daddy's side for every court appearance.
Thanks Dr. Grande, good analysis! ❤
Once again, all bases covered. Well done Dr Grande.
Love the channel, you are a very talented mind, so refreshing. Thanks keep it up:)
Another excellent analysis 💎
Thank you Dr. Grande
❤ thank you for all your hard work! Very interesting!
Just EXCELLENT again Doc, Thanks so much. ❤❤❤❤
This sounds so heartbreaking straight up. 💔
The least he could do it be honest with his daughter so she can begin to move forward.
Excellent Dr. Grande, I wonder if there are examples of family that believe the parent guilty even though the majority of evidence points to innocence. I'd be interested in hearing about such an example.
Good morning Dr Grande😊Happy autumn 🍂🎃🦃🍁!
This was a hard one for me to click on. Thank you for your videos.
This is super duper sad & my ❤ goes out to the poor daughter for she's truly between a rock & a hard place which Idk what it wld feel like & can only offer to say a prayer.
spent all week watching drunken karen vids, now i get to see a proper karen!
What a story!
Thank you
Dear Dr Grande, good on. the Melbourne Prosecution. Well the daughter is a dadies girl and can't see the forrest for the trees. Great choice of case and fantastic analysis. Factually brilliant and very enjoyable. Your effort is very appreciated.
a fair AMD insightful analysis, thanks for the video, especially for the slow roast of the experts lol
I really cotton to your creative collection of cacti
Body language experts are awesome.
"One explanation for a break in airflow when speaking would be breathing." LOL 😄😄
Excellent video 📹
HAPPY FAMILY
Dr Grande sometime it'd be interesting for you to discuss why these videos are so fascinating to so many of us.
Man Doc have you heard of that case from Tullimore? I cant wait to hear your input on that
thank you for switching to a glass cactus on at least one side -- this helps the visual for people who have issues with cacti
Even the second sentence is almost criminally short. He did not even let her family have a proper closure.
I feel the same about “body language experts.” They add confusion and wild speculation to the conversation just by observing the way one is breathing. If she wasn’t breathing while speaking, I’d be very concerned. Thanks for the insightful analysis as always.
And all the amateur body language ‘experts’ in comment sections. Someone looks left and blinks and they accuse them of crimes. Similar to the psychic accusing the professor of murder based on her spirit guides
People could have medical conditions the “experts” are not aware of and so, to me, it’s as accurate as a “Magic 8 Ball”.
I love watching The Behaviour Panel.
Good morning Dr. Grande, excellent analysis. I agree with you. People who are expert in body language are an interesting bunch. I have yet to see two of those experts agree. I have a BA degree in Speech Communication emphasizing Human Behavior from 1984. No way would I began to call myself an expert. But, my degree helped in dealing with the Sales staff at Kent H Landsberg Paperland.
As always I learn something new from your videos.
Have a great Saturday
No sympathy for the daughter. One thing is denial but over time she was supposed to see through the fog, total disloyalty to her mother.
Oh your closing remarks caused me to shudder, Dr Grande. I feel so bad for the daughter and can only hope you're incorrect. Thanks for this analysis.
Boris is so blessed to have a faithful, loving daughter like Sarah. It's too bad he violated that gift of a daughter. I think Dr. Grande may underestimate the congenital father-daughter bond.
But does he deserve it? If she should ever fall out with him she might be next - a murderer is a murderer
@@CarolFremel-my4hs You could be right about that.
What a prescient case to discuss! #MorphewDaughters
Dr. Grande I would really like to hear your opinions on the troubling case of Orrin & Orson West.😢 As far as I know those boys have never been found
Oh my God that’s just round the corner from me. That’s freaky.🇦🇺
To be fair, i also missed the "Offspring-focused familicide-Induced Grief Coping Strategies" day in school. Idk, many people seem to miss it for some reason.
WTH was the judge thinking giving him only 9 years for mustering his wife
Sarah is in denial. Everyone knew Boris was guilty from the jump. Loving that your covering some cases from my neck of the woods. First the mushroom saga from Korumburra (where I was born) and Leongatha (where I went to school) now this from Avondale Heights Melbourne close to where I live now. ❤🇦🇺
That is an intensely stupid sentencing guideline. If the state has proved beyond a reasonable doubt that a crime has occurred, be it by plea or jury trial, the state should not then be required to prove that the sentence should not be mitigated. Absolutely bizzare.
Sounds very dangerous that she would trust him after this. God forbid, but he could get out and end her in the same way if she asked too many questions.
Unless she's guilty herself and he took the fall. But truly I think this union should have never happened. Very sad very unfortunate.
I remember a book called “I am the Cheese”. The title is from that song The Farmer In The Dell” which ends with “the cheese stands alone”. The book is set in a mental institution. Well, I’ll let you read it. But it is really sad. Much like this young girl.
I loved that book when I was in the 8th grade. I remember the moment when I realized that the main character was disturbed and not the person I thought. I did not yet have the term "unreliable narrator" in my lexicon, but there it was. It is also very sad. There were a couple of others by Corimer that I remember liking as well. I think I read everything by him, that was also the year I discovered SE Hinton.
I understand how you feel about "so-called" body language experts, but how do you feel about The Behavior Panel? I watch them and your channel religiously and enjoy the wisdom you all offer.
6 years for murder and dumping your wife's body, that's crazy, but at the same time, that clear privilege is amazing.
I remember this case. So sad for all of Melbourne. Him getting manslaughter was a fucking joke.
Looking at body language is not a science but it's not completely useless as Dr Grande likes to claim.
👍 agree
Are you doing a piece on Gypsy Rose Blanchard getting out of prison? I am very interested in your options.
Very informative I believe deep down inside the daughter believes her dad killed her mom she's in denial because of the love they have for each other, in time she my just come to terms with her father's crime. It's difficult and confusing for her right now.
Thank you for the video
I think it makes sense that she would stick by her fathers side. She is an only child and she’s lost both of her parents. She doesn’t want to believe her father is capable of doing something so horrible. She’s afraid of being alone as well. It’s very sad all the way around.