How to Achieve Your Most Ambitious Goals | Stephen Duneier | TEDxTucson

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  • @cody4516
    @cody4516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8994

    "The secret to getting ahead is getting started"
    -Mark Twain

  • @srideviraman6662
    @srideviraman6662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6132

    What he said - break down your goals into small managable tasks.
    What he didnt say - dont have too many goals at the same time.
    Notice how he achieved most of his goals by focusing on one goal at a time.

    • @berndmayer2046
      @berndmayer2046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      so underrated this comment, very fair observation!

    • @alexwilder8315
      @alexwilder8315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      He didn't say a lot of things. In fact it's like he hasn't analysed what he's done and tried to distil why it works down. He probably doesn't even know that he doesn't know why he got to where he got. He thinks he's passed on a philosophy that works but he's barely communicated anything about the how, at all. Mostly he just gave a random list of achievements. Such an annoying talk

    • @TERPELATUX
      @TERPELATUX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      @@alexwilder8315 pardone me sir, i don't understand why you are say this anoying thank you

    • @gavinclark7364
      @gavinclark7364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      Stephen used time blocks. He focused on one goal for a specific amount of time, and then after the time he set was over, he would immediately stop what he was working on and move on to work on a different goal.
      You can never have too many goals [at least that's what I believe]

    • @schholar
      @schholar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you

  • @TheBeardedSandman
    @TheBeardedSandman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8424

    I've listened to this talk so many times I've lost count. Since finding this video, my life hasn't been the same. In fact, everything has changed for me. My work has improved, my studies have improved, projects that I have been putting off for six years will now be finished by Christmas. Even my wife has noticed this change. This talk has been the very key to absolutely everything in my life. Everyone should listen to this again and again and again.

    • @peterfallon4018
      @peterfallon4018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      God bless Will..all of your improved actions & talk positively affect others, who then affect others... May sound corny but it’s true!

    • @rakeshrangaraju872
      @rakeshrangaraju872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That sounds good! It is good that it is working out for you, I hope everything will get improved in my life also

    • @maggienoodle
      @maggienoodle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Good for you! I hope it'll impact me in the same way.

    • @xoxo-zl9qk
      @xoxo-zl9qk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      you're amazing!!!

    • @akakaakak2911
      @akakaakak2911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Can you put steps that i can do?
      I am not english speaker and i have a hard time understanding his ideas on his book Alpha Brain.
      I will appreciate you if you can breakdown his ideas into practical steps I can take. Thanks

  • @firewall23o78
    @firewall23o78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1488

    Man, this man is undoubtedly the definition of living your life to the fullest.

  • @yourasa1213
    @yourasa1213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3493

    The key of this speech is:
    "Break ambitious goals into manageable decisions"

    • @maryanne2025
      @maryanne2025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Chibi Chubby also routines ?

    • @Vajra1021
      @Vajra1021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Chibi Chubby also, “marginal adjustment”

    • @JaeWest
      @JaeWest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      No. Break down goals into smaller bites so you don't get overwhelmed and anxious.

    • @mimi-xw5se
      @mimi-xw5se 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @mimi-xw5se
      @mimi-xw5se 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jailorsaab I know ahaha

  • @gavinclark7364
    @gavinclark7364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4226

    “When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don't adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.” - Confucius

    • @vtymes1982
      @vtymes1982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Great quote

    • @yvonnewanda
      @yvonnewanda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I’m Chinese and I’ve been searching the web for the original quote in Chinese, couldn’t find it and apparently no other Chinese person has found it (yet).

    • @kyupified2440
      @kyupified2440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@yvonnewanda maybe it was translated hardly and this translated version is not accurate

    • @osirusj275
      @osirusj275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At least he credited it...

    • @Sternentigga
      @Sternentigga 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Also, have a lot of money and a stable high salary job in finance.

  • @helix4529
    @helix4529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2888

    It doesn't matter how slowly you go as long as you don't stop.

    • @CATDHD
      @CATDHD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I though like that. I dont know now. World is changing fast

    • @umitanonymous3400
      @umitanonymous3400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly, perseverance.

    • @okrleague3820
      @okrleague3820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes. speaking of goals, have you heard of OKRs? To know about OKRs - Objective and Key Result and how it helps top companies like google, amazon etc you can checkout my channel :)

    • @mellktea8610
      @mellktea8610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      -Confucious

    • @sarangkim6373
      @sarangkim6373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I face an unbearable situation.
      I begin thinking
      ‘It won't work anyway.’
      ‘They will all hate me.’
      ‘I will only be humiliated.’
      Then I think about the situations I have been avoiding.
      Meeting with people that make me feel uncomfortable.
      Work that stresses me out.
      Things I have been procrastinating for a while.
      ....
      ...
      Now I can deal with it!!!
      search youtube "paradox of I can do it"

  • @lynnkoeffler8326
    @lynnkoeffler8326 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    If you feel you are losing everything remember that trees lose their leaves every year and they still stand tall and wait for better days to come

    • @bernddamian9519
      @bernddamian9519 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's true. But I think the better days has finally come invest in forex and crypto trading today and regain your balance

    • @bernddamian9519
      @bernddamian9519 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't doubt expert Larry Kent Nick he has brought me about of the wrenches and to a better living option and encourage newbies to trade with him

    • @martinsriggs2441
      @martinsriggs2441 ปีที่แล้ว

      Getting good results while investing comes down to having a financial advisor and information. I also invest with Mr. Larry kent nick and it's been 6 years with him, which feels good. I have made many decisions in life, but trusting and working with Larry is the best decision of my life.

    • @charleyluckey2232
      @charleyluckey2232 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm surprised to see Larry's name here. I was able to create a source of passive income by allowing him to manage my investments as well as financial planning. In my experience, working with an investment advisor is much more resourceful than relying on investing TH-cam videos or reading investing books.

    • @fosterwhales1027
      @fosterwhales1027 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've heard so much about investing and I'm ready to give it a try. I am certain that it is risky to embark on this adventure without solid knowledge and without a financial adviser (mentor). Please how can I get in touch with your financial adviser?

  • @inchbyinchstories
    @inchbyinchstories 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2536

    “Be not afraid of going slowly, be afraid only of standing still.” Chinese Proverb

    • @tonymind308
      @tonymind308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Slow but consistently is good. But sometimes you need to speed up. For Some things it can be too slow. Sooo start slowly and consistently, but be aware of need to speed up within the period. Otherwise it will be a failure.

    • @RelaxingForLife
      @RelaxingForLife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love this !!!

    • @bharaninathkomandur6330
      @bharaninathkomandur6330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@tonymind308 it is relative. Going slow is always better than not going at all.

    • @inchbyinchstories
      @inchbyinchstories 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Accounts mentioning forex and trading are bots, just ignore them they are SCAM.

    • @sahebsidhu5544
      @sahebsidhu5544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@tonymind308 you will slowly get faster the more you do it. Like he mentioned how he could only focus for 5-10 minutes but eventually he was spending 45 minutes learning a Germanic language.

  • @eytan0127
    @eytan0127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3154

    I feel smarter after pretty much every TedTalk, but this one fundamentally changed me.

    • @stun09
      @stun09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I thought this said "TikTok" instead of TedTalk

    • @vatsalnarang1632
      @vatsalnarang1632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      KobeFayd lol😂😂

    • @vatsalnarang1632
      @vatsalnarang1632 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same here

    • @sukers624
      @sukers624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@72bpm lol

    • @vtvtify
      @vtvtify 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      נו איך זה שינה אותך? מה שינית?

  • @MMortal
    @MMortal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2765

    After countless TH-cam videos and countless TEDTalks, this might just be the one that change it all for me!

    • @LetsTalkPhilosophy
      @LetsTalkPhilosophy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I hope it has and I hope that you are still working toward not only reaching those ambitions, but exceeding them!

    • @DataNiks
      @DataNiks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed

    • @keshiasangi2062
      @keshiasangi2062 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed

    • @Killerphantom69
      @Killerphantom69 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It’s been 2 months bro how you doing

    • @MMortal
      @MMortal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Killerphantom69 it's going great but I rather keep it to myself because your profile pic is very misleading

  • @groceryjin5897
    @groceryjin5897 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    This reminds me "the man who loves walking will walk further than the man who loves the destination "

  • @ahmedmohamedali7304
    @ahmedmohamedali7304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +902

    The guy wont have regrets on his death bed, he injected me with a motivation generator instead of a shot of motivation... the most impacting ted talk I've ever watched!

    • @curtisthiele9870
      @curtisthiele9870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Really great analogy, much better than all the random quote comments on here. I always come back to this talk when my generator is broken and this always has the tools I need to fix it.

    • @zongxina1817
      @zongxina1817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@curtisthiele9870 well why don't we co-operate since we all are here for improvement

    • @KelleTN
      @KelleTN 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love drawing and my dream is to animate but i don't have a drawing tablet. Please help me reach my dreams by giving support to my channel so I can monetize my videos and i can buy the tablet :(

    • @siddhants8214
      @siddhants8214 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KelleTN if there is wish..there is a way

    • @KelleTN
      @KelleTN 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@siddhants8214 very insightful

  • @adimasaditya
    @adimasaditya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1341

    I cried myself off when watching this halfway, realising I have wasted 35 years of my life without reaching any specific goal I set. Thank you for the video

    • @Annndokz
      @Annndokz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      I feel you. Let's start and try to rebuild our life NOW.

    • @Annndokz
      @Annndokz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      One step at a time.

    • @shakiba7860
      @shakiba7860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      It’s never too late. Imagine 40-year-old you thanking yourself for the decision you made to change when you were 35. Even the smallest change is worth it.

    • @vitorsantos2120
      @vitorsantos2120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Don't cry. There is so much time yet. You sttil young and able to do things you can't imagened.
      You did the first step, you recognize your flaw, now you have to do the right things to change it.
      Feel embraced.

    • @RakeshKumar-im6jn
      @RakeshKumar-im6jn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Mate, 40 years old here and still finding my feet. Life is a process of continuous exploration and evolution, so don't fret. Just make sure that you look after your health. Keep going!

  • @h4ck0rman
    @h4ck0rman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1066

    "I'm an undisciplined person..."
    I felt that

    • @samrat447
      @samrat447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too.

    • @josef.torrealba6992
      @josef.torrealba6992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Cheers for this, I have been researching "setting performance goals" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Farnicaas Switcher Capitalisation - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my brother in law got excellent results with it.

    • @anacod9114
      @anacod9114 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the video content! Sorry for the intrusion, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you thought about - Peytonivon Abs Takeover (probably on Google)? It is a great one of a kind product for mastering life with this simple goal setting technique minus the hard work. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my old buddy Taylor at very last got astronomical success with it.

  • @JustAnotherConcernedCitizen
    @JustAnotherConcernedCitizen ปีที่แล้ว +278

    As someone with ADHD, I just feel acknowledged and reassured that I can live my life without having to change myself. Thank you.

    • @ammarahmed-zc9qx
      @ammarahmed-zc9qx ปีที่แล้ว

      How well are you keeping up these days?

    • @catedoge3206
      @catedoge3206 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes

    • @foltyn_noah
      @foltyn_noah ปีที่แล้ว

      ADHD isnt real, believe in it and watch your life crumble and become worse, its a lie created to sell you fake medical pills and it worked, they make billions

    • @sachins5784
      @sachins5784 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you take meds for it? Is it really manageable without meds?

    • @Wilczurrr
      @Wilczurrr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sachins5784 it is not

  • @JustinBlastoff
    @JustinBlastoff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +781

    This guy makes me feel like getting old isn't that bad

    • @nickldawg
      @nickldawg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      After 44 years, getting old happens auto

    • @carminedimaro524
      @carminedimaro524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly what I thought!

  • @Isayhello123456
    @Isayhello123456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1616

    *Summary: Marginal improvement is the key to success*
    Speaker says that what stands between us and our most ambitious dream is not magical skill or talent but more with how we approach problems and make decisions to solve them.
    Marginal improvements are the key to be better. Stop becoming a spectator and become an active participant of your actions and decisions.
    Take big assignments and break them into smaller tasks. Speaker says in college he used to not think of completing 5 chapters but reading 3-4 paras at a time for 5-10 min then do something else for couple minutes and then come back. He was a straight-A student all through college- dean's list.
    You have to break big goals into smaller achievable goals.
    The talk includes many personal stories about the speaker's life which I recommend you to watch for yourself. I also found the oratory skills of the speaker to be very good. A must watch video.

    • @perpetual_bias
      @perpetual_bias 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Thank you, fellow human

    • @rehanullah6366
      @rehanullah6366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I just read your comments u summarise whole story

    • @sayyer10
      @sayyer10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I just watch the video then I saw ur comment. U have some special skills there! U just explain the whole narrative in a unique way as if it’s “your own” English but the thing is when we read it we understand u completely. U can do something with ur talent and make big money! Think about it......

    • @rajabharat1691
      @rajabharat1691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you👍🙌

    • @hammadahmed7851
      @hammadahmed7851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      thank you soo much fam i need this for my exam.

  • @powerpath659
    @powerpath659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +743

    Finally somebody’s who has really achieved something teaching how to achieve something!

  • @mainifester1668
    @mainifester1668 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    This is what I paid my internet bills for,what a guy.I bow down to this man.
    Sir,If you are reading this, you have inspired me a lot.Thank you so much🙌

  • @jesterpew
    @jesterpew 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3840

    Followed your advise. Took 3 hrs to watch your video

    • @Anthony-zh2cp
      @Anthony-zh2cp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +314

      But watched the video, you did none the less.

    • @filmiverse27
      @filmiverse27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Ha ha ha..that was epic mate..

    • @g_dub
      @g_dub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      lmao, great comment brother

    • @chinmay0705
      @chinmay0705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Then you missed the point

    • @mrfox5165
      @mrfox5165 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Quality 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nickdesposito4394
    @nickdesposito4394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +575

    “If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” - Martin Luther King Jr.

    • @Babybeluga_
      @Babybeluga_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      me: mom, i want harry
      mom: we have harry at home
      harry at home:

    • @abangmlbb
      @abangmlbb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hey guys.. I need your help!!!! is it any slang word that the presenter use?

    • @myrtlefowler6800
      @myrtlefowler6800 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      "What you've done is just a drop in the ocean."
      "But the ocean is made of many drops."

    • @russobznet873
      @russobznet873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I CANNOT CONCENTRATE FOR MORE THAN FIVE MINUTES BUT I HAVE WATCHED THIS TED TALK IN ONE GO. A ACHIVEMENT GUYS APPLAUD ME.

    • @indigopillow8260
      @indigopillow8260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what if you are in a wheel chair

  • @ashutoshsrivastava3618
    @ashutoshsrivastava3618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +766

    I CANNOT CONCENTRATE FOR MORE THAN FIVE MINUTES BUT I HAVE WATCHED THIS TED TALK IN ONE GO. A ACHIVEMENT GUYS APPLAUD ME.

    • @carloscepeda8663
      @carloscepeda8663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice one

    • @user-asfh2ubiv5dh
      @user-asfh2ubiv5dh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You could make a goal so that when you want to watch a ted talk you don't watch it for the whole duration but only 5 mins at a time each day or whenever and see what happens. Congrats.

    • @maryroseestigoy8081
      @maryroseestigoy8081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congrats😊👏, on your way to increasing your concentration capacity. Goooo gooo

    • @odeeagle2386
      @odeeagle2386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@user-asfh2ubiv5dh that's a cool challenge : )

    • @joshgordon6537
      @joshgordon6537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go you!

  • @andynghi
    @andynghi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I set a reminder to watch this video every month, and every time I watch it, it makes me better.

    • @eddiereece5050
      @eddiereece5050 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing. I’ve loved this video for years now and will also set a reminder to watch it once a month at least.

  • @slemanbisharat6390
    @slemanbisharat6390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +500

    " Break your ambitious goals into their simplest form " + "make marginal adjustment to your routine"

  • @BlakeWashington_
    @BlakeWashington_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +605

    “because if you dont make the right decision on the couch, there is no decision that occurs when ur on top of the mountain”.... wow what a metaphor for life

    • @yashumagar2608
      @yashumagar2608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What does that mean ?? Plz explain

    • @BlakeWashington_
      @BlakeWashington_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@yashumagar2608 You have to take the first steps if you want anything in life and that the first steps are always the most important.

    • @yashumagar2608
      @yashumagar2608 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cali Soul thank you so much 😊😊

    • @hopecabs3046
      @hopecabs3046 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BlakeWashington_ thank you so

    • @bwc2000
      @bwc2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BlakeWashington_ problem is.. I always have the 1st and 2nd step. it's the 3rd and latter steps which I'm 'worry' about lol..for myself. Need something to continue to motivate to 3rd and 4th step and more. I think this talk is good for the mind set to start and break things down so they are manageable... need to have another talk about how to motivate to get that 3rd and 4th step and more because setting goals is one thing.. MOTIVATED to get to the goal is another.

  • @AnaLu07
    @AnaLu07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +654

    I'm a very shy girl from a small town in Brazil,no one expects much from me,but i wanna do my medical residency at Stanford.

    • @louiseparis2023
      @louiseparis2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      just do it :)

    • @fauxhound5061
      @fauxhound5061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Work towards that objective in a realistic time frame, and see every obstacle as an opportunity and you will make it

    • @Rangellegacy
      @Rangellegacy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Check out the knight Hennessy scholarship. At Stanford. That’s the one I was looking at .

    • @cwg824
      @cwg824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You can do it, the world believes in you as long as you believe in yourself! Do it!

    • @yossribelhedi5373
      @yossribelhedi5373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But we expect much of you cuz you can do it
      Always work for your dream and make it happen one day ,believe you'll never regret one second you spent fighting for your goals

  • @HarisSir
    @HarisSir 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +856

    Great video, but why does no one mention the book about achieving your goals which is currently a bestseller on Lexnory. The best first step you can imagine...

    • @KirubelTamene
      @KirubelTamene 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      title?

    • @HarisSir
      @HarisSir 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@KirubelTamene achieve your dreams

  • @emersonsteinke2550
    @emersonsteinke2550 6 ปีที่แล้ว +930

    Kaizen is the Japanese word for small continuous improvements that lead to positive changes and major improvements.

    • @awalton9024
      @awalton9024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      There is also a part of Kaizen practice called the one minute principle. It says that anyone can commit to spending one minute a day toward a goal. The idea being that over time, the one minute becomes habit and becomes more than one minute.

    • @blousey7692
      @blousey7692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Karan they've evolved over 9000

    • @HamzaTuranKubulay
      @HamzaTuranKubulay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Emerson Steinke 改善 means improvement(for good) nothing more. There’s no method within the definition.

    • @00Mass00
      @00Mass00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well yes, Unfortunately that is also the outcome. Small improvements, I've been to factories where Kaizen was introduced. They went bankrupt because all they did was focus on small details, while they completely missed the bigger picture.
      Penny wise, pound foolish.

    • @windflier1684
      @windflier1684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's just a world means "improvement"(改善), you guys think too much.

  • @kentuckyliyanita2303
    @kentuckyliyanita2303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1539

    I've been listening to this talk for 3 years now and it's still one of the greatest talk I've ever heard

    • @ddryadd
      @ddryadd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah, same :)

    • @shankCR7
      @shankCR7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      what did you achieve since then bro?

    • @kentuckyliyanita2303
      @kentuckyliyanita2303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@shankCR7 learning how to play the drums... his method really worked

    • @shankCR7
      @shankCR7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@kentuckyliyanita2303 great brother

    • @yanet6320
      @yanet6320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Can you please suggest other great ted talks?

  • @oMRbananao
    @oMRbananao 5 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    "Start by doing what's necessary;
    then do what's possible;
    and suddenly you are doing the impossible."
    -Francis of Assisi

  • @mahistyashappyworld8957
    @mahistyashappyworld8957 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    I listen to this talk everyday after my meditation before i attack the day with full enthusiasm and excitement to serve and become the best version of myself...I'm on my journey to make personal development a part of every humans life especially school students..on my way .. almost there ❤️

    • @Nichouchou
      @Nichouchou ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cheering for ya!!! 8 month old comment 🤣 hope you are doing well!!

    • @necro-claud6370
      @necro-claud6370 ปีที่แล้ว

      How it's going?

    • @ashleyjklein9997
      @ashleyjklein9997 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great idea!! I'm a year late, but I'm going to follow suit.

  • @enjoyinglife9853
    @enjoyinglife9853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +711

    In short:
    1)Break big things into smaller things that you can do
    2)Do things in a period of time that you can manage
    3) Take a break
    4)Repeat

    • @basilea1149
      @basilea1149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Pomodoro method

    • @danielcolt5542
      @danielcolt5542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      also very crucially adjust your process to make it a little better and it will snowball over time.

    • @philippinesbaybayin7044
      @philippinesbaybayin7044 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@basilea1149 exactly

    • @deeptracy23
      @deeptracy23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. At around five minutes I began to wonder why the video was 17 mins long, if there was new information coming.

    • @captaincaption
      @captaincaption 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This comment NEEDS more likes!

  • @Corn_DOG
    @Corn_DOG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +728

    That last line made me tear up. Growing up I was told by teachers that I shouldn't expect to go to college, that I didn't have what it took to get there and I should have lower expectations for my life. Now, hold a Masters degree have seen many amazing countries through travel and am currently a successful engineer. thanks for sharing your story

    • @olalila2173
      @olalila2173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I am a teacher, and believe me a teacher should never ever say that 😡

    • @olalila2173
      @olalila2173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Gulaid M maybe... 🤔

    • @JulesTrades
      @JulesTrades 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I wish they were lying, but I've had teachers say this to me, and guidance counselors. It depends where you go to school honestly.

    • @workin251
      @workin251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jason Ready get the PhD

    • @dudewholikesfood6769
      @dudewholikesfood6769 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      So many teachers shouldn't be teachers. I was told the same and soon ill have my eng degree

  • @naghmehnajafizadeh6357
    @naghmehnajafizadeh6357 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1017

    ''We are what we repeatedly do. Ecellence then is not an act but a habit.'' - Will Durant

  • @theblackwoodworkerwilliams4370
    @theblackwoodworkerwilliams4370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    The first comment I noticed on this video encapsulated how much this talk has changed my life: I’ve learned woodworking, how to build countertops, lay tiles, install a toilet, build a fence…the list goes on and on. The point is that with the help of this video (and many, many other TH-cam videos) I’ve made small changes that have blown the minds of my friends, family, neighbors and my coworkers!

    • @Shinchan958-h9z
      @Shinchan958-h9z ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow that is great can you please tell how did you learn these jobs from this video

    • @programming_and_snacks5192
      @programming_and_snacks5192 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can you share what other videos have helped? Thanks :)

  • @Babayaga_themanoffocus
    @Babayaga_themanoffocus 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1407

    Little changes
    Remove distractions
    Develop habits
    Make good tiny little decisions for just small time
    Smallest decisions at a time nothing more
    Marginal adjustment to routine

    • @ConceptsMadeEasyByAli
      @ConceptsMadeEasyByAli 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      thanks, saved me 17 minutes.

    • @dawoodwaris
      @dawoodwaris 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I know exactly where I go wrong. I take smallest decisions at a time but I procrastinate or sometimes doubt myself and ends up not doing what I decided.

    • @amazingme1408
      @amazingme1408 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      THE REASON YOU PROCRASTINATE IS YOU DONT FEEL YOUR WHY

    • @jeanchristophe5976
      @jeanchristophe5976 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      good summary

    • @prateekgrvr2
      @prateekgrvr2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I m unable to do it. I focus for 10 20 mins then i get up and an urge to refocus never comes back. Whats going on

  • @xeno5053
    @xeno5053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +764

    I have struggled with ADD all my life and only recently got help, him pointing out that he could never pay attention really gives me hope that I can still achieve great things, please like and comment on this, I really could use the daily reminder.
    Update: Thank you for these reminders everyone, 3 months now, landed a job I really wanted and lifes been good, not quite knitting across the country lol but I'm happier. :) your all awesome.

    • @akakaakak2911
      @akakaakak2911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good luck.

    • @ArtyMars
      @ArtyMars 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ughhh same

    • @zachary6488
      @zachary6488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      delete youtube from your phone to remove the distraction and get to doing stuff bro

    • @smmsdancercathy
      @smmsdancercathy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      jus keep swimming jus keep swimming!!

    • @smmsdancercathy
      @smmsdancercathy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Also today my teacher mentioned that projects or ideas that you have been thinking about don’t have to be separate from the obligations of your daily life, you can keep them in mind when on ventures that may not necessarily be specific to the idea or project and use them to inform one another. :)

  • @LesterDiaz
    @LesterDiaz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1769

    This guy is amazing, I have done this and it works like a charm, taking things that sound really hard and breaking them down to simple steps in a consistent basis, using this method I learned to build sites, started 3 businesses and reached my income goal because I did the same repetitive tasks for months and years.

    • @ehethuji
      @ehethuji 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      How many days it all took to you. From when you started to posting this comment or realizing your achievements?

    • @derek554
      @derek554 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What’s your income goal?

    • @takethedamnphoto
      @takethedamnphoto 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very awesome Lester!

    • @moonlitm3285
      @moonlitm3285 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We have to give great thanks for this guy for helping us break down seemingly-impossible tasks into smaller more manageable steps, it has certainly helped me and many others :)

    • @yomamasofat413
      @yomamasofat413 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      still dont get it. What kind of marginal improvements can I do to my routines? I want to build websites, so I should learn 1 line of code every 5 mins and take a break?

  • @md82892
    @md82892 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I was searching for more of his content and videos but couldn’t find anything after this talk. I saidly learned that he had a stroke in 2017. In case you also wonder why he hasn’t continue on his mind blowing achievements this is the reason.
    Very sorry to hear what happened to him, he’s so inspirational I wish he could contribute more 😢

    • @bangcabias8067
      @bangcabias8067 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      sad...

    • @cam4short
      @cam4short 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh no. 😟

    • @bayesianlee6447
      @bayesianlee6447 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      wish he's better now. his brilliant ideas and his wonderful decision to share his how to succeed helped me really a lot

  • @jonathanpinkney9268
    @jonathanpinkney9268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +469

    "What you've done is just a drop in the ocean."
    "But the ocean is made of many drops."

    • @YeoLja2XO1
      @YeoLja2XO1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cloud Atlas 📚😊

    • @manishabhosley
      @manishabhosley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What we know is a drop.
      What we don't know is an ocean.

    • @md.iftekharzawad8830
      @md.iftekharzawad8830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@manishabhosley Ayy another Dark fan here

    • @manishabhosley
      @manishabhosley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@md.iftekharzawad8830 glad somebody noticed XD

    • @joycejeyaratnam433
      @joycejeyaratnam433 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love this!!

  • @LavishlyJackie
    @LavishlyJackie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9294

    wow, one of the most valuable tedtalks ever!

    • @benwyse
      @benwyse 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Totally agree!!!! :-)

    • @chrisjames4872
      @chrisjames4872 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Absolutely

    • @amazingme1408
      @amazingme1408 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      YUP

    • @ireviewdopesht7216
      @ireviewdopesht7216 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Denis and Jackie one of the top 5 best Ted talks ever. They Should have an award for that.

    • @mahammadelabd2071
      @mahammadelabd2071 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i was just about to comment the same comment. really beautiful talk

  • @user-ip3nf3bd1r
    @user-ip3nf3bd1r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Dude is like forest gump. Everything he touches, turns to gold.

    • @gtfzo
      @gtfzo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Don’t... don’t you mean Midas?

    • @supriyaanand9843
      @supriyaanand9843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was thinking the same

    • @victornadin1791
      @victornadin1791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gtfzo I think you mean midori

  • @raphaeldouglas9361
    @raphaeldouglas9361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time.

    • @tianalucas8147
      @tianalucas8147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah! I agree with you sir.If you want to be successful have the mindset of the rich, spend less and invest More. Don't give up your dreams.

    • @henrycarl8097
      @henrycarl8097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tianalucas8147 People come here with the aim of chasing money more than knowledge and that will damage your progress, trust me. Chase knowledge first and I promise! The money will follow you just like it's following some of us now.

    • @sabrinaslime4493
      @sabrinaslime4493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@henrycarl8097 That's very correct
      And that is why most of them end up losing they money don't be in a haste to invest. Know what and who you are investing to and be sure that the person will deliver before I n v e s t I n g.
      Learn and get the knowledge first before investing..

    • @sabrinaslime4493
      @sabrinaslime4493 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      People wants to do what the 99% does but wants to get results that are fit for the 1%, but it doesn't work that way

    • @isanibenson8402
      @isanibenson8402 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sabrinaslime4493 Investment is the quickest path to financial freedom, the rich stays rich by spending like the poor yet investing! While the poor stays poor by spending like the rich yet not investing.

  • @AmadeaNatasha
    @AmadeaNatasha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    He didn't teach, he inspired. Showed us how to do what he has done.

  • @millennialknowledge
    @millennialknowledge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +915

    "Success is not final; Failure is not Fatal; It is the courage to continue that counts." - Winston S. Churchill

  • @pja2306
    @pja2306 6 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    I am following this method for less than a month and when I started working out. I definitely lost a lot of weight compared to what I weighed before. I am setting some ambitious goals. Such as reading 24 books per year + learning Kendo + learning Japanese + and starting e-commerce. May God give me strength.

    • @tyrannde6392
      @tyrannde6392 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good luck bro

    • @yannickmartens1428
      @yannickmartens1428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don’t know what it was but this comment just let me to learn danish i loved what you where saying

    • @SH-yd2su
      @SH-yd2su 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Checking up - How are you doing now? Hope it's going awesomely!

    • @AnthonyTurcios
      @AnthonyTurcios 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Give us an update bro

    • @rogerrabbit2902
      @rogerrabbit2902 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      InsyaAllah.

  • @joshuadickey2078
    @joshuadickey2078 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    As someone with very severe adhd I can say this is the way to reach your goals. I’ve achieved top 3% of income for my age and continue to grow. It’s all about the willpower to make small steps one at a time. What got me through my double masters program was allowing extra time in my schedule to play on my phone in between focusing hard and getting items done one line at a time

    • @kashutosh9132
      @kashutosh9132 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What did you do earn top3%,is it about your degree or profession
      Plz guide

    • @sandyshi
      @sandyshi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how u did it?

  • @pritommazumder9897
    @pritommazumder9897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    It's been almost 2 years I have first seen this video, and still can't get over this. Every minute of this video is as precious as a real book. It seems somehow illegal to watch this content for free. One of the best if not the best TEDx Talks ever. Kudos, Stephen Duneier.

    • @rockdude4life
      @rockdude4life 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have a similar name to me, have you achieved much in the 2 years?

    • @pritommazumder9897
      @pritommazumder9897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I can not say if I have achieved much or not. But what I can tell you is I can now finish more tasks than before, like finishing a book.

    • @foreverduke4059
      @foreverduke4059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pritommazumder9897 It's been 2 years since you watched this video. Surely you must have achieved something in this time. Please share your experience and how this video helped you.

    • @maryroseestigoy8081
      @maryroseestigoy8081 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow

    • @ravishingtwinkle3811
      @ravishingtwinkle3811 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is my best find in TH-cam

  • @alirizvi9
    @alirizvi9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +558

    Just like another reader here I had a BIG million dollar question... how to work on something for 5 minutes, then take a break, NOT get distracted, and return to the task?? I purchased his book that came out a few days ago called AlphaBrain and he explains several concepts in detail. Doing the task is just a small part of the big picture and supposed to be the easiest. He puts in a lot of time before the task in planning and making decisions about what he is going to do and why? That's the toughest part that 95% people just don't do because it's hard to think through that stuff. They start at a task, get distracted and don't complete it. Steve breaks his goal down into tiny little pieces, plans out when, how and why he's going to do it, even planning for when he won't feel like doing it, and how to address that state in advance. Overall, he advises on how to improve the process of making the minute to minute decisions we make in a day and not fall into same old traps. Most of us don't approach problems that way and that's why we fail. I'm still trying to re-read, absorb and implement the advice in his book. I see how it can be life changing.

    • @NatureloverNaturelover2024
      @NatureloverNaturelover2024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      yah...same doubt arised for me too
      its worked for him...to not to get distracted and return to work
      if its not working for us...there is something that worked for us...we have to found that out by observing ourselves
      in my case...i put a timeslot...i.e.,at 6 am every morning i should do this..like that
      hope it may be helpful ...

    • @trallivalli9055
      @trallivalli9055 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a very important point - thank you for sharing!

    • @ridhamh2966
      @ridhamh2966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you for valuable comment ali , i may start doing this :D

    • @savannamist3595
      @savannamist3595 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agnes V. That is extremely helpful thank you

    • @yosha2467
      @yosha2467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, the key takeaway is to plan before you put in the work. Like a programmer would first get a feel of how the program should be build, work through some pseudocode with some examples etc.

  • @Vishaal1797
    @Vishaal1797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This man has taken "Divide and conquer" technique to the whole another level

  • @saraparker4082
    @saraparker4082 5 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    I love this ! I’m over 50 and just now came to this realization. I’m so excited for my future !

    • @andrewweiss1760
      @andrewweiss1760 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Perfect! Also if you're looking to join a group of fellow goal-setters that encourage each other let me know!

    • @astrostudent2302
      @astrostudent2302 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@andrewweiss1760 I am looking to join your group.

    • @jaglinuxmint
      @jaglinuxmint 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All the best for your future.. I wish you all success and happiness

    • @jaglinuxmint
      @jaglinuxmint 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andrewweiss1760 what's the group? I would like to join.

    • @andrewweiss1760
      @andrewweiss1760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jaglinuxmint Great! What's the best way to contact you?

  • @ravichandar5426
    @ravichandar5426 5 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    "Stop being a spectator in my decision making and start being a participant" Excellent.

  • @Melissa-oi2if
    @Melissa-oi2if 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1529

    he's the real life forrest gump

    • @mohitnegi2727
      @mohitnegi2727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha

    • @kaviarasu1836
      @kaviarasu1836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I thought the same :)

    • @adityabhanu9784
      @adityabhanu9784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was actually trying to find this comment. If nobody would have written, I would have left my remark on this 😁

    • @Melissa-oi2if
      @Melissa-oi2if 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adityabhanu9784 hah great minds think alike!

    • @nindigo1997
      @nindigo1997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Finally someone said it

  • @onlybryanliu
    @onlybryanliu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This is the single most important talk about how to achieve your dreams I have ever heard.
    This is downright practical and simple.

    • @gaurigoyal5744
      @gaurigoyal5744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And DOABLE.
      It doesn't go into abstract ideas like you have to be working hard constantly, consistently. The moment I hear such phrases I am discouraged.
      Like him, i cannot focus for very long. And knowing that I can take one step at a time is a huge relief. It's all about increasing the probability of achieving success by a marginal change.

  • @Merthalophor
    @Merthalophor 6 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    "instead of assuming that I would suddenly settle down and focus on learning, I decided to assume I wouldn't. And so if I wanted to achieve the type of outcome that I desired (doing well in school), I was going to have to actually change my approach."
    That's a great approach. Definitely going to try that.
    A big reason why I'm such a master procrastinator, I think, is because I'm constantly assuming that I could stop procrastinating anytime I want.

    • @shawnmand5607
      @shawnmand5607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep my favorite line from the whole speech.

    • @PrinceShawn99
      @PrinceShawn99 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here 😁

    • @it701ayush6
      @it701ayush6 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too the p procrastinator

  • @IvelinNikolov1
    @IvelinNikolov1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +830

    This is the guy that changed my life long before he came up with this speech. If this doesn't inspire you to get yourself together, not much else will.

    • @worldshaper1723
      @worldshaper1723 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ivelin Nikolov please tell where you were and where you are right now.

    • @IvelinNikolov1
      @IvelinNikolov1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Red/white
      I was full of energy and secretly believing that I can do more, achieve more, deserve better. I was in a low paid, a bottom-of-the-ladder job, which is fine but not what I wanted to do. I was working hard but not seeing the positive outcome coming my way. Stephen changed that. He told me that I can and I will get where I want but also gave me the recipe. He told me to change the ladder and gave me the confidence and method to achieve more. He changed me.
      I'm now running my own business, doing exactly what I want, earning more than ever and not feeling I have a job.
      More importantly, I'm happy and know how to do more. It's a different question that I still need his inspiration from time to time. But since I've known him, I don't have the excuses anymore.

    • @sughanthans23
      @sughanthans23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Where did you meet him?

    • @IvelinNikolov1
      @IvelinNikolov1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      In London

    • @sughanthans23
      @sughanthans23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ivelin Nikolov do you know where I can learn more about his works on decision making?

  • @silverliningart2183
    @silverliningart2183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +421

    This is exactly how I started painting during COVID lockdown. Then started this youtube channel showcasing my art when I was bed ridden after a surgery. I thought art was the silver lining in all this, but now I know its those small decisions I made on the couch. Thank you for your talk.

    • @mayamathew5919
      @mayamathew5919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️

    • @shraddhapandit8968
      @shraddhapandit8968 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey mee too, good going , great channel bdw

    • @h3941
      @h3941 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey man that's awesome and you are super talented I just watched your watercolour in yellow video amazinf work

    • @hallhrndz3529
      @hallhrndz3529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish you succeed man, I will subscribe right now!

    • @yourmajesty7604
      @yourmajesty7604 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Subscribed! Way to go sir!

  • @kworldinc
    @kworldinc ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’ve watched a lot of Ted Talks and videos my entire life and I’m still pretty young “I think” this probably has to be the number one game changer for me - thank you. Everyone reading this - we are all blessed to have witnessed the jewel.
    - Kory Outlaw.

    • @tamasims606
      @tamasims606 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow that's great, am glad young people are into such upbuilding information

  • @LouderMusic4U
    @LouderMusic4U 5 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    That has really shaken the C student who was watching this. You possibly never gonna watch this comment but thank you. I will try this out.

    • @mariammel
      @mariammel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I want to know what happens! Please keep us posted on all the great things you'll end up accomplishing!

    • @marinordskog1073
      @marinordskog1073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I want to know how you're donig as well! :D

    • @siblingsquad2k196
      @siblingsquad2k196 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hey, how are you doing now? any progress? just a reminder that you can keep doing great things! even if you're a C student.

    • @Q_QQ_Q
      @Q_QQ_Q 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sibling Squad2k19 good

    • @kowalczukmarek
      @kowalczukmarek 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want to know too!

  • @ojsympson35
    @ojsympson35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +561

    The Japanese Call it Kaizen, which is to do something that is in congruent with your goals, even if it is just for a minute. This technique changed my life in just a few months. Goals that I failed to hit for years, habits that I failed to break since childhood, I achieved in a span of just 8 months

    • @ojsympson35
      @ojsympson35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @Ayandolos if you set a goal, like let say to loose weight, it will be difficult to be consistent in effort especially when you are not used to excercising. So the way Kaizen works is that you put in effort everyday by being consistent and breaking down the task into something more accommodating to the mind. If you are supposed to run for 1 hr, and you fill tired, or not in the mood, just decide to run for 5 minutes instead. If you get up and run for 5 minutes, you will have manipulated your mind to take the first step, as a result, you might be able to run for maybe 20 to 30 minutes. It eliminates Procastination and laziness. The key is to be consistent no matter what, even in days that you don't feel like doing the difficult task.

    • @ojsympson35
      @ojsympson35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @Ayandolos the secret is consistency, that is more important than putting so much effort in a task but failing to be consistent. Kaizen will get you to be consistent, then you will be able to increase effort and output in time

    • @ojsympson35
      @ojsympson35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @Ayandolos exactly, when you don't feel like doing, just set a goal to do just 1 push up. When you are on the floor and doing just one, you will reignite your momentum and push to even 5 or 7, and that's how you will remain consistent

    • @RealionairesClub
      @RealionairesClub 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I want to thank you both for going into detail and simplifying the method for me.

    • @damianogiolitti3416
      @damianogiolitti3416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@ojsympson35 I know I'm kinda late but If you think about it our brain is designed to chase comfort since the beginning of the times. The brain want's easy and fun stuff (aka instant gratification) so we can use it in our favor by making hard stuff easy and enjoyable. Once we reach the small successes we want more and become more productive. Some people become workaholics. Absolutely no magic pills just small adjustments. Also focusing on long term goals instead of instant pleasure is important. Thats how I think, you don't have to agree with me. Also sorry for my grammar, I'm still learning the language peace 🖖

  • @BumbleBee-eh3cn
    @BumbleBee-eh3cn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    GRANDMA IS 80. Published the first time in book of short stories at 79. Just published in 2nd book of poems at 80. Taking a computer course to work
    on her full book. Her instructor is 84 years old. No one in her class is younger than 75 years old. I had to take the first stories to her book group for publishing myself. She did consent to go with me until she realized that no matter how afraid she was of success, I was submitting her short stories for publishing.
    She took the poems herself. Her name is in the index of the second book, with all her poems listed. Never would have happened if she had not taken the first
    step by joining the local writing group. One day she will get her romance novel published. And then it will be a series, and then one of them will be made into a movie, and then she will buy her dream home at 89. It is never to late to dream.!

    • @yeseniarivera1956
      @yeseniarivera1956 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I feel so proud of your grandma. Im 17 and I feel like its so late for me to do anything.

    • @pomegranatejuice3851
      @pomegranatejuice3851 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wow your grandma is such an inspiration:)

    • @MiSsMaURa820
      @MiSsMaURa820 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️ love this!

    • @IvanIvanov-yz2yv
      @IvanIvanov-yz2yv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yesenia Rivera I am here with you. If you need any advice i will be glad to help you and motivate you to be better version of yourself. Just tell me and i can reach out to you. I know what you are going trough because I am too

    • @ajit2766
      @ajit2766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Proud of you grandma, i am 26 , i also feel that, i am too old to perceive my small goals

  • @Positivelyimagined
    @Positivelyimagined 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    My main takeaways: Break things down that can be done in 5-10 minutes. Then come back to another 5-10 minute task (take tasks one at a time)
    These last lines of the video are POWER 🔥
    Pull your most ambitious dreams off the book shelf and start pursuing them, by making just a marginal adjustment to your routine. Break it down to it's simplest form, and then make marginal improvements along the way to improve your odds of achieving them

  • @MashAttack
    @MashAttack 4 ปีที่แล้ว +490

    If you combine this with "The Firsr 20 Hours" TedX talk by Josh Kaufman, I'm utterly convinced there's nothing you can't do

    • @TheMayihelpu
      @TheMayihelpu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I second that, i have josh's "how to learn a skill in 20 hours" and i can see how his outlook on leaning skills can be in conjunction towards this video!

    • @kingnzaree8356
      @kingnzaree8356 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dude I just watched that one

    • @faizulazim2906
      @faizulazim2906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      + The discipline of finishing by Conor Neill. It’s a great one, guys.

    • @HarHar_hariOm
      @HarHar_hariOm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have seen that one too....really boosts your moral for achieving things.

    • @GT-eq4px
      @GT-eq4px 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ditto! i was literally thinking the same!!

  • @princeprem6820
    @princeprem6820 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    *imp points from this amazing talk*
    1.Choose your desired goal! Eg. My goal is getting good grades in my preboard exams
    2.Break it into simple manageable tasks eg. Now I daily complete my homework and try to get full marks in my regular test series...
    3.Make Margial improvement along the way Or margial adjustment to your routine to achieve your goals...🙂 Eg.Usually I studied for 3 hr daily but during exam days I skip games and music time to more studies & Studied for 4 to 5 hr daily* 🙃
    4.Reward yourself eg.After exam complete I will party with my friends and full enjoy*
    5.ReAgain Step1.2.3.4.5!
    *I HoPe U also Achieve ur desired goal ....*

    • @mimymalki6660
      @mimymalki6660 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thankyou do much that help me because i dont understand english very well thankyou

    • @qinghe7316
      @qinghe7316 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      great

  • @evankell4135
    @evankell4135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    There’s a name to the method he uses, it’s called the pomodoro method to counter procrastination and there are apps that force you into a system of tackling work: 25mins of work 5min break and back to 25mins of work, after 4 times of doing the work, you get a 25min break. The point is to let the built up stress go from working and relax for a bit, then recover and return, it works very well ngl

    • @MrLuxeLife
      @MrLuxeLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just looked it up, thanks for sharing

    • @jarofpixies
      @jarofpixies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for sharing. I’m 19 and ran out of weed like 4 weeks ago and figured I’d actually try at something.

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am doing this right now trying to clean my messy room. I’m going to use this method in other parts of my life as well🙏🏾

    • @brittanybanet2729
      @brittanybanet2729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Except if you have ADHD it’s a nightmare

    • @raffisandoval9103
      @raffisandoval9103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      have you heard of animedoro?

  • @360gen.Digital
    @360gen.Digital 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We've been able to overcome procrastination, improve my relationships, and achieve goals I never thought were possible.
    If you're feeling stuck or unfulfilled, I highly recommend watching this talk. It's a powerful reminder that with the right mindset, anything is possible.
    His insights into decision-making will have completely transformed your outlook on life.

  • @zayinghui6282
    @zayinghui6282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    He basically describes the pomodoro technique in studying where you study or read 25 mins and take a 10 min break and repeat. This has changed my level of focus and attention in insane ways. That’s the secret to As. Time dedication and the pomodoro technique

    • @Matthew-vu7su
      @Matthew-vu7su 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks for sharing that valuable info. A speech like this is great, but a technique is like a well that one can keep drawing from...

    • @shellyt556
      @shellyt556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He also mentioned strategizing his short bursts instead of time related activities

    • @Matthew-vu7su
      @Matthew-vu7su 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shellyt556 That sounds interesting, but I''m not sure what you mean. Could you elaborate?

    • @shellyt556
      @shellyt556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Matthew-vu7su The pomodoro technique works if you know what you are focusing on beforehand. A person can read something for 25 minutes and break for 10 minutes and not understand a thing. Stephen mentions learning to speak german by removing his distractions like music and his commute. He was thinking and anticipating how he would reach is goals. Problems solving his shortcomings. I guess in summary using time effectively. Also, studying with intent.

    • @jameshutchins7042
      @jameshutchins7042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I kind of disagree with you. He is focusing fir 5 to 10 mins on something then taking a break and maybe coming back to wgat he was doing. Or going to something else fir 5 to 10 mins. The pomadoro technique you work 25 mins on something. Take a break then comeback to the same thing you were working on. Similar but not the same. This talk changed my life.

  • @safalshrestha7730
    @safalshrestha7730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I can't put into words how much my life has changed after I watched this video three years ago. I didn't think it was possible. Thank you.

    • @Keepcool233
      @Keepcool233 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great Safa. can you elaborate a bit on what has changed in your life since watching this lecture.

    • @jongoodman4253
      @jongoodman4253 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice ,it's been over 10months I saw this video. I remember taking the most important step in my life when I invested my last income with an experienced trader. it took courage to know that investing was the right thing to do at the time.

    • @charleslouis2128
      @charleslouis2128 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So much wisdom in those words, what do you invest in?

    • @andretravis6281
      @andretravis6281 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Forex and crypto trading is very profitable if you have a good progressional trader

    • @khuonghieu3894
      @khuonghieu3894 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Last year, my investment in Forex and cryptocurrency trading increased the capital I needed for my new real estate business, I made over 85% profit..

  • @yaelgwolf
    @yaelgwolf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I watched MANY TED talks and felt, yeah thats a good speech, BUT after watching this talk a couple of times (which I just felt compelled to), I literally got up and accomplished nagging projects in a few weeks that I couldn't do in years. Usually I try to finish a task and lose steam especially with an ADHD brain. Now I can put an excited effort for a brief time and keep coming back again an again without feeling like a failure for quitting. I feel competent not weakened because I don't get bored, I can't wait to come back to work. When spending a stretch of time doing something I need to do, distractions are a relief cuz I already lost focus, but now I don't spend enough time to get bored, I get excited to switch back and refocus with intent. It goes against common knowledge that our brain can't focus on more than one thing and it takes time to get your back. BUT if you approach something with complete attention as much as you can give it before you dread it, you will come back cuz you crave not dread to complete it. This is a very different message or advice Ive received for years. I will start with basic goals that need to be accomplished and now seem "almost fun" and hope to go from tasks to dreams. wish me luck

    • @MegaRecon117
      @MegaRecon117 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good luck with your goals man that and more!

    • @sachinbudhathoki3591
      @sachinbudhathoki3591 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You will achieve it for sure. Only predictor of your success is your enthusiasm. Your enthusiasm which you reinvigorate every single time you a break.

    • @aicedd
      @aicedd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So. A year has passed. What can you tell now? Do you still persevere in your willingness to use that approach?

  • @KarinaBudzinskaya
    @KarinaBudzinskaya 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Amazing! I love it! in this video I've found the missing element "focus not on the goal, but on what I can do regularly..even if it's 1 minute" Thank you!

  • @mathurhp
    @mathurhp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This is not some stuff that spiritual gurus do by playing with beautiful words. This is so practical. Thank you sir.

  • @OMsklv
    @OMsklv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Watched this in class. Made me tear up in the dark thinking about all the goals I had for myself that I gave up.

    • @Conighttonight
      @Conighttonight 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      "In class" I assume you have a lot of time to achieve these and other things.

    • @DecipherDiz
      @DecipherDiz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You will never make it. You have a weak mind.

    • @OMsklv
      @OMsklv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@DecipherDiz Thanks. Wish the same to you.

    • @wakranich3488
      @wakranich3488 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@DecipherDiz Read & absorb what I said to Annie. Don't do that to yourself. When you're at the end of your life the last thing you'll want to think about is how mean you were..

    • @Harias_VI
      @Harias_VI 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Annie its never to late annie go out and get it!

  • @ericgamundoy
    @ericgamundoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Wow, I have a son that has the hardest time focusing. I worry about him and after seeing this, it brought tears to my eyes, I can’t wait to show him this, I think it’ll help his self confidence, mahalo nui for making this talk and to all those people it took for me to see it.

    • @LA-cm9uo
      @LA-cm9uo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No. Take him to a neurologist ASAP.

  • @tarunjaiswal1437
    @tarunjaiswal1437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    This talk changed my life , i listened it one year ago , and applying this , now i can say my life is going pretty great
    Edit -
    I used to be 85kg now I am 65kg.
    I started improving my creative skills now I have my design agency.
    And more....

    • @maile-cf4wz
      @maile-cf4wz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      congrat! Can you say more detail how you made a plan to lose weight?

    • @shubhkedia259
      @shubhkedia259 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maile-cf4wz truly man im fatter than i should be

    • @zeinasleiman4595
      @zeinasleiman4595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How long did it take to go fro. 85 to 65 cause im currently 73 and struggling

    • @ArijanaLukic
      @ArijanaLukic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats! That is amazing! :)

  • @pranavkamthe2217
    @pranavkamthe2217 6 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    You are a god, you solved my lifelong problem now it's been 4 months I have completely changed from very depth of my heart.. Thank you

    • @atallahkhalil1412
      @atallahkhalil1412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hovv are thing going today?

    • @justinkase5574
      @justinkase5574 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      THanku praise the Omnipotent ,numerel Uno, Big Thumb....Christian Cloud Maker....Man of men....Alla Balla Washington/Jones...Boss of bosses...king of kings...Thee one and Only , Hall of fame Planet maker...this Galaxy has ever known...Lets give it up for......

  • @lazyskull7949
    @lazyskull7949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Drawing: One line at a time
    Writing/Reading: One word at a time
    Music: One note at a time
    (Saving this for a reminder)

  • @monikasingh5001
    @monikasingh5001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I have watched this video I don’t know how many times , whenever I feel stuck , I always come back to it and immediately I feel I have the option to take smallest step , let’s do it . I can do this. I loved this talk and will always recommend to everyone.

    • @rjrocky1240
      @rjrocky1240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same for me

    • @sridhara7932
      @sridhara7932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When I talk about TED this breakthrough video is on my mind and just like you I recommend it to everyone

  • @IvanBickett
    @IvanBickett 7 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    This is very powerful. Marginal improvement. Similar concept to 1%. Get 1% better at the thing you're doing. Then do it again and again and again. Very powerful. I really appreciate his idea of breaking things down into the smallest bites possible. Sounds similar to what BJ Fogg talks about. Awesome. Just awesome.

    • @joshuax6968
      @joshuax6968 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're very well informed! Thanks for sharing.

    • @dawoodwaris
      @dawoodwaris 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I want to raise and mange £1 billion from wealthy clients but how to break that down? The idea is in my mind for years but I stuck in a rut on that marginal improvement.

    • @thumbprint7150
      @thumbprint7150 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dawood: why $1 billion? I think this speaker's message would be:
      Start lower. One client at a time.

    • @exnihilonihilfit6316
      @exnihilonihilfit6316 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, people always have this obsession with huge goals. It doesn't occur to most that this is actually the best way to freeze your brain's creativity by activating the fear/anxiety in the amigdala.

    • @justinkase5574
      @justinkase5574 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thumbprint7150 right 2 to 3 and a half Billion eoro's...then it is...JUST to begin with...and then onto OUR realistic Goal of 10 quintillion Trillion BRAZillian dollereno's !

  • @midhunnoble595
    @midhunnoble595 7 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I have seen how replacing music with podcasts while driving have accelerated my learning by 2 hrs everyday. It really works

    • @blahblah3726
      @blahblah3726 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Well, don't take everything at face value. For one thing, listening to music is a great way to distress yourself because it releases dopamine thus improving your mental health. Second, while podcasts are great and all, when you're doing an activity like driving, it takes attention away from the driving which would increase your risk of getting into an accident.

    • @endofjourney665
      @endofjourney665 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blahblah3726 both podcasts and music distracts you from driving, so who knows. Although most of the people do smth when they drive which is sad but true

  • @nattauhi
    @nattauhi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    "The man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away small stones."
    - Confucius

    • @wiseversa5369
      @wiseversa5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This one quote quintessentially summarizes this entire video and Stephen Duneier's life journy!

  • @AneliyaDimitrova123
    @AneliyaDimitrova123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The first "gray square" shifting Stephen from a consistent C to a consistent A student - In Junior Year "I'm going to make a change ... a marginal adjustment. I'm going to stop being a spectator to my own decision-making and start becoming an active participant!" And now he has taught us how to do it :)

  • @aflah8890
    @aflah8890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    This really changed me, I just won 3 science competition less than 3 months and i'm going to number 4

    • @sarthaksaini7542
      @sarthaksaini7542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      please tell it works

    • @TheCoster11
      @TheCoster11 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow that's awesome. Congrats honestly. Continue to be as sure time in your ventures

    • @nihaalnadeem9427
      @nihaalnadeem9427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Update man?

  • @entitledOne
    @entitledOne 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    So here I was lying in my bed, watching some videos and somehow ended up here. I just want to say thank you. I don't know why this video resonated so hard with me, but it did. It forced me out of my bed to my computer. I deleted all the video games on it. I deleted them on my phone. It's late to do anything now, but I made a reminder with this link for tomorrow morning and I'm going to start working on the idea I always had. I don't know if I will achieve it, but I will take small steps.
    This sounds like a cliche, but the speech moved me. Than you once again.

    • @gregstone2446
      @gregstone2446 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go for it!

    • @SandraSine40
      @SandraSine40 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Just checking up on you, did you make any progress?

    • @wakranich3488
      @wakranich3488 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SandraSine40 You & all the other positive people should be cloned. You folks (and I) know how important being positive is to our Health.

    • @SandraSine40
      @SandraSine40 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wakranich3488 Thank you, weary much :)

    • @YaNeK92
      @YaNeK92 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss! I believe in you dude 🤙🏼 Sending Postive vibes from Western Australia 😁

  • @dreonthetube
    @dreonthetube 5 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I find myself going back to this video every couple of months. Always a good reminder.

    • @fwlzzg
      @fwlzzg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      lotusbvby I’ve been letting this play while doing other stuff at the same time, and letting it play once more when going to sleep. I have huge problems with my memory and concentration, and I’m trying to make this technique a part of my lifestyle. It’s been a little over a week now and I’ve watched this probably 30 times 😂😂 Still forgetting it though, but hopefully soon I won’t!!

    • @lavakumar5944
      @lavakumar5944 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @ronglass5968
      @ronglass5968 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Felt the same. Doing so now, yet again.

    • @taiyolumi2218
      @taiyolumi2218 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you do

  • @ayse1x
    @ayse1x ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I watched this video a long time agoand watched it again to regain my study habit. I used to be good student. Now I've missed old me. As far as I learned from here, I'm gonna study 15-20 minutes and take a break. It is so inspiring video. Thank you so much!

  • @l.w.paradis2108
    @l.w.paradis2108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    An example of pragmatic self-love. He gave himself complete permission to be himself, but not to keep having the results he did not want.
    This is rare. Love it.

    • @abangmlbb
      @abangmlbb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hey guys.. I need your help!!!! is it any slang word that the presenter use?

  • @jumhed994
    @jumhed994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1631

    Nobody:
    Him: That tree needs a sweater.

    • @zac1002
      @zac1002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂 ikr

    • @mazzymazzi8591
      @mazzymazzi8591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jum Hed 😆😆

    • @rrrrradsw
      @rrrrradsw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh no, the tree is freezing

    • @SumanDevi-vi5wo
      @SumanDevi-vi5wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is noone thinking about...how the tree will fulfill the the process of transpiration through it's lenticles( presents on the stem)???

    • @blo0mfilter868
      @blo0mfilter868 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SumanDevi-vi5wo they remove it after because it's illegal to leave it there permanently

  • @MilkWithKni7es
    @MilkWithKni7es ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This is a really beautiful representation of (what I can guess might be) ADHD, how incredible it can be. Thank you for the positivity and encouragement to those of us who definitely have it

    • @alfienrusdiana3892
      @alfienrusdiana3892 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what I thought too!

    • @johnegan9521
      @johnegan9521 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s a representation of someone with a much higher than average ability to recall information.

  • @jagaha527
    @jagaha527 6 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Easily the most productive 17:52 mins of my time on youtube... As a content creater myself, very inspired!

    • @tugaykaya7738
      @tugaykaya7738 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      what do yo ucreate though?
      ggreetz

    • @natashapetrenko208
      @natashapetrenko208 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Walla123autistiskKiddoAlecsandra ,,,срочно найти ...

    • @andreacarrizo2869
      @andreacarrizo2869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @SplendorousPear
      @SplendorousPear 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amateur 😏 it took me 8:56

  • @吳樂華-k5m
    @吳樂華-k5m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I am so happy to realize I needn't force myself to become someone extremely self-disciplined and put myself in a super uncomfortoble mood to achieve what I want.

  • @dannyr333
    @dannyr333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1349

    Is this a real person wtf he done like every activity known to man

    • @koxlc
      @koxlc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      His real achievements were hiking to lose weight and writing a book. I bet no one would employ him as a german translator, drummer etc

    • @sizzlinsj8135
      @sizzlinsj8135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +245

      @@koxlc you don't learn a language only to be a translator but it opens new doors to knowledge and perspective. His achievement here was that he learned german where he could have wasted that time listening music.

    • @stirfrypho1846
      @stirfrypho1846 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know right i admire him so much

    • @MukkaDotCom
      @MukkaDotCom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He learned German and drums from listening to all that music dude is a Legend.

    • @tharunkrishnan6626
      @tharunkrishnan6626 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn

  • @247artsnsourcing6
    @247artsnsourcing6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The Prophet Muhammad (saw) said “Take up good deeds only as much as you are able, for the best deeds are those done regularly even if they are few. ' (Ibn Majah). He also said. “The most beloved of deeds to Allah are those that are most consistent, even if it is small.” (Bukhari).

  • @maksymiliank5135
    @maksymiliank5135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    Every time I watch those "motivational" videos, I feel like I must do something. Read a book, learn a new language, travel. But in the end I always end up doing nothing. The hardest thing to do is always to start something.

    • @gehadkertan604
      @gehadkertan604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Write down a very short vision. Where and what do you want to be in 10 years? You must also write down why it`s youre vision and how you are going to achieve it. Begin to take a pen and i wish you good luck for youre journey in life.

    • @stutiswarnkar5147
      @stutiswarnkar5147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really believe you need self motivation to do ANYTHING. Not someone else's point of view. Again, that is my thinking, yours can be different.

    • @GRRRRRRRRRRME
      @GRRRRRRRRRRME 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maksymilian K so what I’m doing is taking it one day at a time kind of like what he’s saying break your goals down to manageable area for you even if it’s a sentence in a book or a phone call or email to a business owner each day you can make a small step

    • @PrincessYonna1
      @PrincessYonna1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I can start I just can't finish . After two or three days I stop and never go back. Weeks go by , months go by , than it's a year later and u think what if I had've continued-

    • @GRRRRRRRRRRME
      @GRRRRRRRRRRME 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Princess Yonna ♡ it’s definitely not easy I’m struggling with that myself but then I start thinking what if I do finish. Or the time I’m wasting doing nothing and it kind of pushes me a little because when I think about another year going by without doing anything I get idk not upset but more like you know you’re somewhere you don’t want to be and you know where you want to go so you should just go you know?

  • @KaiAndrew
    @KaiAndrew 6 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    I agree with the overall message. Really great talk. There's really only one way to really achieve your list of goals - create and build a system that supports the goal. Don't think about the end point, but just follow the system.
    For example: Don't think about losing the 30lbs. Focus on building the infrastructure to support the healthy lifestyle that puts you at a lower rate. Eat a salad 3x a week, do jumping jacks for 20 minutes straight, drink 4 glasses of water a day. That's it. Then slowly adjust as you it become easier and your habits grow.
    Great video.

    • @michaeljfreeman94
      @michaeljfreeman94 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      the messge in the talk..................Modern Maximalist

    • @oanaalexia
      @oanaalexia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just reminding you about this video in case you have new year resolutions.

    • @deuteriumtritium9700
      @deuteriumtritium9700 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice name.

  • @Jake-gx6bn
    @Jake-gx6bn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    What a truly empowering talk. I'm putting my phone down now and off to read!

    • @ranevc
      @ranevc 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jay C You can read on Kindle for smartphones though.

    • @worldshaper1723
      @worldshaper1723 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What did you read?

    • @nicestuff8755
      @nicestuff8755 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jay C yea right, you probably when to Facebook

    • @dhidhi1000
      @dhidhi1000 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      1 year later...
      how are you doing now? haha

    • @exnihilonihilfit6316
      @exnihilonihilfit6316 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His motivation lasted for that day only. :P Probably for that hour only. :D

  • @astrophile2234
    @astrophile2234 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I learned a lot from this 18 min podcast and i will definitely implement the lessons I learnt in my daily routine,
    1) Start with small
    2) figuring out the waste of time and utilizing it to learn new things or pursue hobbies
    3) Dividing big goals in small chunks and just start doing that.
    4) Do something for others volunteerily.
    5) Learning is enjoyable and never ending process❤.
    Thaks for this podcast💖

  • @pritommazumder9897
    @pritommazumder9897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    By the way, Novak Djokovic just won his 20th Grand Slam. This guy just proved what is the power of small improvements.

  • @louisfarrell8724
    @louisfarrell8724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I’m a 15 year old dude from Glasgow, Scotland. My dream is to come to the USA, Kansas City cause my NFL team that I am obsessed with. It’s not really that ambitious but I just felt like sharing 😃.

    • @kelvinbaman2522
      @kelvinbaman2522 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Entrepreneur isn’t easy that’s why I have encouraged people to passively do something incase you’re seeking for an option. Contacts
      @Ben_uptrade on Instagram

    • @louisfarrell8724
      @louisfarrell8724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SkyRL see you at the tailgate in 10 years lol

    • @Saipan2297
      @Saipan2297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m a kid on Thailand who is saving money to buy a laptop, my dream is to be a successful Minecraft streamer

    • @e.k.d6181
      @e.k.d6181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have something similiar as well haha I really like music bands of UK. So I really wanna enjoy the pubs and the concerts there. Not a fan of England and all but I would like to go just for this reason.

    • @Post98w
      @Post98w 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A dream is a dream man hope you make it down here sometime.

  • @alextaylor4052
    @alextaylor4052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    Watching Tedx videos is keeping me from making marginal improvements in my life.

    • @drzavahercegbosnaponosna5974
      @drzavahercegbosnaponosna5974 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Procrastinators around the world lets unite!.....Tomorrow.

    • @gauravchoudhary2080
      @gauravchoudhary2080 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@drzavahercegbosnaponosna5974 let's meet at Beethoven concert

    • @wakranich3488
      @wakranich3488 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I woke up this morning to Stephen Duneiers Ted Talk.. I was not watching this last night.. Just exactly the best idea I need right now!!

    • @maliahjoy2959
      @maliahjoy2959 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same!

    • @telikanatik5799
      @telikanatik5799 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@drzavahercegbosnaponosna5974 😂😂😂😂