Tats on women are a big turn off. Permanent graffiti, frivolous behavior, bad decisions, no forward thinking, bad with money, probably reminders of other men, probably high body count, probably no condoms, probably STDs.
I was called a toxic masculine and misogynistic male for telling people I don't prefer tatoos on women in copious amounts or with sleeves. Having preferences is frowned upon nowadays.
I totally agree with your comments...if I was messing around with...NOT DATING...a girl/woman with her neck, face, arms, or legs covered in Tattoos or piercings, I WOULD NEVER TAKE HER TO MEET MY MOTHER/FAMILY...I would not embarrass myself or my family like that!!! A woman/girl with all those "TRAMP-STAMPS"...usually means emotional, psychological, or self-worth problems...in other words..."DAMAGED GOODS"!!! Just my 53 year old HONEST OPINION!!!
Three of my adult daughters got all tatted up after they left home, and they have complained to me that they can't find decent guys who treat them well.
A young lady in one of my exercise classes had a huge amount of tattoos. Every month or so she added to her collection. It was an aquacise class so think swim suits. I was chatting to a much older lady and she was telling me how sweet the young lady was, and so pretty. I agreed and commented that I hoped she did not expand her tattoos to her legs. She had great legs. Well she then started on her legs. So sad really. She did mention once that her tattoos all had deep meaning to her and her very troubled youth.
And it has nothing to do with tattoos. Nothing. You're daughters are probably kind or quiet. Men are turned off by that. Men prefer nasty women, as much as men like to complain about nasty women. They prefer the types of women who neglect kids,, work a full time job in management, and are selfish. Pay attention.
@@jenniferj2456What? I think you are projecting because women love bad boys. Most men love kind, polite women, the famous "waifus" lol. Men may find a promiscuous woman attractive thinking for a quick way to get sex if she is kinda of hot, but they know she is bad news for a relationship. Men have way less bargain power anyway so they often have to settle for women with horrible behavior, because of social pressure or because they don't want to be alone, but it doesn't mean they are attracted to it.
And yet men will still have sex with them. When men deign to sleep with women because they're "Good enough", but the woman doesn't know how the guy really feels, that puts it into her head that "oh if I took me to bed and keeps doing it, he must not care about my tattoos." Part of the problem is not just women getting tattoos thinking guys will like them. Some guys might. Part of the problem is men not keeping it in their pants and spending time and energy on women they otherwise wouldn't want long term. It puts the wrong ideas into women's heads. But hey, try telling a man he has to take responsibility for a few things, like what he does with his dick, and suddenly he gets made. He's the flip side of the feminist coin. It's the coin of "rules for thee, not for me." Both people on both sides of the hypocrite coin should strive to be of a different currency altogether.
You go girl! Any man who doesn’t want your entire body covered in ugly tattoos just can’t handle a strong independent woman. They are probably a incel. You look beautiful no matter how many tattoos you get.
I’ve literally never EVER, as in, NOT ONCE, seen a woman improve her physical appearance with a tattoo(s). However, this woman in the interview seems to be very reasonable and accepting in regards to her understanding of how tattoos can have an impact on things like dating and relationships. My hats off to her for embracing reality and being so mature (unlike most) on a topic such as this which is very personal to her.
True I really respect her mindset in that case, she is looking for help and realized the "problem" which most women never do. but she still damaged from her time on the cc
i am a doctor in the botox /laser aesthetics space. She should just take a laser certification course and BUY her own tattoo removal laser, and slowly do it herself. she would buy herself a job and she would be her own best advertising. "come see me for your tattoo removal because look at ME, before and then after. " the results would speak for themself. it may take five years to get her arms and neck cleaned up but She is royally screwed otherwise.
Not attracted to women with tattoos and not attracted to women that are attracted to men with tattoos, and I don’t have anything against tattoos either just not my cup of tea. Maybe not for all men but I have buddies that are sleeved out and I belief for a lot of them it’s a tough guy facade.
Mirroring. People tend to pick partners that are similar to themselves or are a complement to their own look, style, appearance. Professional men like professional looking women. Athletic likes athletic, Goth likes goth, etc. Another reason she's only getting hits on dating apps from druggies, is because they are the ones who tend to mirror her appearance.
I think it's nasty tbh. A woman with loads of tattoos is a red flag 🚩 The body count is definitely high and she's down for whatever. She clearly admits to NOT having the right guidance in her life. I knew that already. Mental illness is a result. Tattoo on the face ?? Mental illness. Full body ink all over ?? Mental illness and free access to whomsoever. They did it to themselves. There's a thing called accountability. Women should get familiar with being accountable ✅
She's so delusional. The nice hard working guy with a good income and assets wants literally nothing to do with a woman who looks 50, covered in ink, with 2 adult kids!! She is a liability, unreasonable, probably higher body count and STDs. She offers nothing.
She's so delusional. The nice hard working guy with a good income and assets wants literally nothing to do with a woman who looks 50, covered in ink, with 2 adult kids!! She is a liability, unreasonable, probably higher body count and STDs. She offers nothing.
I don't bother even listening to them now, I've come to realise these narcissistic children suffer from a massive case of self entitlement. Just annoying static.
I find that people who openly work hard, don't. It makes sense. If you always have this feeling that you are not pulling your weight, You will probably stay that extra time out of guilt. If you think you have worked hard, you will probably go home a half an hour or hour early as a "reward" for your hard work.
It's sad that so many women think tattoos are great, an expression of their "individuality", and they don't realise it's a turn-off/red flag for a lot of guys
Women today think men like what they like in a sexual context. Men like purity or what’s closer to that standard; women like utility and security and whatever has most of that standard. In building competence, a man’s body in prior times had marks, had wounds due to being out there in the battle field for food and resources to build security for himself, dependents and offsprings. To bring it back: tattoos on men (marks) attractive. Tattoos on women not attractive.
@lauramcnally708 You sound like Michael Jackson in that South Park episode. "You're being ignorant! Stop being ignorant!" 😂 Seriously though, chicks with tats are fine once in awhile, but I've never met an undamaged one that isn't looking for a man to abuse them. Perhaps you're the exception to the rule. But if that's the case, then you're the one who is being ignorant.
It's interesting because she believes her expectations are reasonable. She just doesn't understand that the man she has picked in her head also has a woman he has picked in his.
She doesn't rate herself as high value, yet she is setting the bar pretty high. Even without the tats, she's not dating material for what she is seeking. It's bizarre seeing how they think.
She's so delusional. The nice hard working guy with a good income and assets wants literally nothing to do with a woman who looks 50, covered in ink, with 2 adult kids!! She is a liability, unreasonable, probably higher body count and STDs. She offers nothing.
This also applies to women who have a full face of make up on all the time. At the gym, out for a run, first thing on a morning, every day at work. They won't be seen without make up on. This is a red flag.
There's this app, i don't know the name where you can see what any woman actually looks like without make-up, just point smartphone and snap a photo at the target woman, the app will show you a photo sans make-up, lol
They realize it’s no longer a man issue, it’s the self realization and reflection that can no longer compete with the younger 25 woman and it’s right in your face and that must be difficult for woman to come to that realization.
a sloppy disgusting old plate of cold food in a restaurant that a stranger ate from and left sloppy seconds....sitting on a table for hours (with tons of ink/tattoos as a cherry on top) that isn't appealing???
Speaking as a 65 year old man, I regret not doing a lot of things in my life but one desideratum I most emphatically do not regret is not getting a tattoo. I was tempted a couple of times when I was young. Thankfully I gave them a pass.
I never understood it, and never will. It seems like self sabotaging behavior, and virtually irreversible. I remember when you couldn't get a decent job if you had visible tattoos. It's because they make people look like a derelict.
@@qua7771 Yup, it looks like graffiti. Many times, especially as they get older, bad graffiti. It just devalues and defaces in my opinion. If I had that done to me against my will, I would sue vigorously.
@@erichmacho5741 I don't mind a small tattoo that someone got when they were young. We're seeing people covered in them, and planning their next one. A lot of the so called "art" looks demonic.
Paying a stranger to scribble on your body in a permanent way seems ridiculous to me. It’s like wearing the same tee shirt every day for the rest of your life.
She's so delusional. The nice hard working guy with a good income and assets wants literally nothing to do with a woman who looks 50, covered in ink, with 2 adult kids!! She is a liability, unreasonable, probably higher body count and STDs. She offers nothing.
Tattoos is one of the most obvious red flags. It really signals high time preference, short sightedness, superficial narcissism and a FO-YOLO-attitude. It also signals that someone fishes in a small pool of other tattoo aficionados.
@@KingStreetBrody No it is the 1920's again, and the poster you are responding to is 100% correct. You have bought into yet another myth of postmodernism. There is a reason the world is absolute garbage right now and it because of that childish attitude.
I was at the grocery store about a year ago and had a young, pretty, in shape woman in a tasteful dress walk by. She had poise and grace and not a cell phone or tattoo in sight. She smiled at me even though I was standing there with a dumbfounded look on my face. The reason I was so shocked was because it was like having a unicorn walk by.
I've had a very attractive woman ask me why I don't like tattoos on women... I told her that a tattoo on a beautiful woman , appears to me as vandalism and graffiti on a beautiful sculpture. And a warning sign to men.
Saw a receptionist at a prestigious real estate office yesterday who was COVERED in tattoos from neck to hands. She wore a sleeveless and low cut blouse so she could show the world how beautiful she was as a result of the tattoos. All those tattoos did was make her look gross and dirty. I can't imagine anyone finding that nightmare attractive.
She wouldn't do well as a real estate agent. Clients expect real estate agents to be professional, well-dressed, well-groomed and look and behave like they can be trusted with a lot of money.
@@stevestruthers6180 Damn! How ironic that you replied just now! I just got back from the dentist. The hygenist who was supposed to work on me comes walking out the door and she had this low cut shirt on with her entire chest COVERED in a huge tattoo. She called my name. I stood up and said Uh uh and walked right the F out! She reminded me of the woman I mentioned in the comment you just replied to. How odd is that?? You hit the nail on the head man about the professionalism or lack thereof!
@@buyerofsorts I do have lots of tattoos but unless you’re planning on dating the dental hygienist it’s a funny reason to leave an appointment 😂 would you leave the mechanic shop if your car was broken and the mechanic had tattoos? It’s just a hilarious and silly story
My sister is covering herself in ink and it looks terrible. Her arms are covered in blobs and butterflies and now she's moving on to her torso and I saw with dismay that she's also been busy with her legs. When she showed her latest and proclaimed to me that "isn't it stunning?!!" and gave a 15 minute explanation (like tattoo people love to do to get attention) of the "meaning" of what looks like a blob of ink in the shape of either a exclamation or sperm, I felt my heart drop. It makes me sad to see her going backwards. She seems unhappy in her marriage, where she wears the pants and she's trying to be this even tougher scarier person. I begged her to stop before she inks her face and told her it could be a red flag for mental illness. Why would you make yourself ugly and scary?
Ive never met anyone w a ton of tattoos that weren’t completely hollow NPC’s inside. Its usually a coping mechanism for someone lacking personality whilst being an attention junkie.
@@cattan4696 life’s most profound truths will often undoubtedly come off as cruel and reductionist. This corresponds heavily w religious tradition: Silly, stories used to marginalize and oppress in one’s youth... Manual for spiritual/emotional stability in one’s adulthood.
Tats on women are a big turn off. Permanent graffiti, frivolous behavior, bad decisions, no forward thinking, bad with money, probably reminders of other men, probably high body count, probably no condoms, probably STDs.
She seems nice, probably a 4 without the ink, terrible hair style, not much in the makeup department, I sense a high level of insecurity, she has doomed herself with the ink.
She spent thousands ruining her body. You couldn't make it up. If she had no tats she could probably get a good average guy at best, with all the tats its sad but i can't see any man committing to her.
Men that are into tattoos will have relationships with women without tattoos. But men that don't like tattoos on women will not. Basically, women reduce their pool of candidates by getting inked.
I worked in a shipyard in the 1970's/80's and had one guy on our crew who'd been in the Navy, serving in the Pacific. He had tattoos on his arms and chest and we talked about it several times. He vehemently advised against ever getting one, or more and hated his as they had become unrecognizable blobs of dark blue.
Simps led her astray with empty compliments on tattoos. I see this at my gym all the time. A beautiful woman who is working out gets some dudes initiating convo solely about tattoos and how great they look. It’s messed up. Half the time I am saying to my self: “why is a beautiful woman like that fucking up herself with tattoos like that.” And the odd thing is those typical simps never talk to the untattooed women.
Not simps, but also Chads. Even average to high end guys will sleep with a woman in her twenties with tats. The issue comes in their late twenties or thirties when guys start looking at long term partners and potential wives and say 'No thanks.' Suddenly women like Tamie realize that while guys just wanting to sleep with her will give her a pass, serious people won't.
I have a super beautiful daughter, when she was 15 , I started my please don't ever get a single tattoo. I drummed that toon until she graduated college. What she learned during her modeling career, was that tattoos are like a death sentence in that industry. Models with tattoos are often thought of as strippers and porn stars. Just the way it is.
@@repete2362 There's a couple of "pornstars" that i fancy and these women have no tattoos, if they were to get tattoos, it would mess up their beauty and i wouldn't find them attractive anymore.
I actually felt sad for Tamie. She seems like a sweet person. I see this all the time, and by that I mean; motherly and kind women swept away by the siren song of today's postmodern and selfish culture. These people are peer pressured into taking no thought for the 'morrow, and live vapid lives of instant gratification and behave like they're delayed adults. If she'd have lived a more traditional life she'd probably be happily married with a partner preparing for a blissful 2nd half of her life by now. But now that she's over the hump (to put it politely), she sees the faults of her youth; the divorce, the kids, the ex-partners, the tattoos, she wonders why no man wants to date her or treat her how she expects? Kind of sad. Don't let your life turn into this lady's, folks.
Every women and man needs to read your post. I love this " motherly and kind women swept away by the siren song of today's postmodern and selfish culture.
10:58 "I would hope so...[TATTOOED GUYS] tend to be musicians, people that do a lot of drugs and alcohol..." Umm Tamie So why would non-tat guys want to hang out with you again? I'm guessing as a young chick you were a reasoble looking becky Who passed on the boring clean guys to chase after drama, yes? My solution: cats, wine, vibratey thingy Just look after your kids but don't be surprised if they don't want to hang out with the older generation either
You're the perfect simp, oliver 😆 Tamie was very RUTHLESS in her selection process when she had much to offer; including the greatest gift from wmn to man : children. She's the type who cultivated false hopes in a number of guys looking for affection, while she was on the carousel having the time of her life. I interpret that as the oldest SCAM in the book. She's now crying for walking wallets and human punchbags to take out her frustrations on. Thankfully, she wears her carousel behaviour in the form of indelible ink and every guy can sense her past. Guys. DO NOT APPROACH.
@@jamesclark6487 Ha ha, how can you tell? She regrets her tats, and had to learn the hard way about bad attention and good attention from guys, that sounds like personal growth to me. Negative snap judgements are a display of character too.
No f-ing way she’s 40. Most guys who have been around women a fair amount can see right through this facade. It’s tough for most modern women to hide “50”
I like the "bumper stickers all over a Lamborghini" analogy. But there's another thing. To me, tattoos have a masculine energy. So they are more of a red flag on females. In the old days, almost all tattoos were connected to military service, doing prison time, or being in a biker gang. Now, your kid's kindergarten principal is sleeved out on both arms. It's just too much. Having no tats is the new tats.
Tats on women are a big turn off. Permanent graffiti, frivolous behavior, bad decisions, no forward thinking, bad with money, probably reminders of other men, probably high body count, probably no condoms, probably STDs.
Tattoos are excellent advertising. They immediately let me know that I should not hire you and especially shouldn't date you. What other trait gives you so much information so quickly?
This woman is now paying for her past as strong and independent with two children out of wedlock. These disgusting figures on a woman's body repel serious men and as she said, those men who approach her and have tattoos themselves, are entangled with drugs and have problems with the law. Unfortunately in life, the bill comes when it is too late.
Damaged Goods...plain & simple...something is definitely wrong...emotional, psychological, or self-worth problems...RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN & DON'T LOOK BACK!!!
@@friendzoned4990 I wouldn't say all of the men/women with tattoos or piercings are criminals...but I would say probably close to half are. You know Yourself, that a lot are criminals, thugs, drug addicts, theifs, & homeless. There is no way I would trust some of these people, there is no way I would invite them into my home... I'D JUST BE INVITING TROUBLE!!!
So many visual red flags. The tats scream young adult issues. My experience is those issues pop up within 90 days and if I have a choice I;m gonna not do a date. Thank God I don't have to deal with dating anymore
tats are proof she got long mileage on her. "its impossible to go back to moonshine in your 40s after drinking quality whiskey for 10 years in your 20s"
If I see a woman with scars, I feel sympathetic. I say to myself "poor woman, what terrible ordeal did she survive?" I see a tattooed woman and say, HOORAY the circus is in town!
I think the reason tattoos came from sailors is twofold. The old world sailors spent a lot of time at sea and coming into port was special. They would land in places like Tahiti and other exotic locations. The tribal tattoos of the Society Islands are really beautiful and meaningful to their tribes. I think there was a propensity to get a tattoo only not tribal but things like sea serpents, anchors etc. It expanded into Western culture. The old sailors had idle time at sea and would learn things like playing an instrument, knot tying, tattoo artistry etc. I am not fond of tattoos at all unless they had a deep long standing integration into a tribal type culture. They have discovered tattoos in various places around the world on people in old burial sites.
It's sad that so many people feel the need to deface their skin with tattoos and piercings. Aging will sooner or later deface everyone's skin, why add to it? I'm old enough to have come of age before tattoos became popular. I have 0. I do have pierced ears, but that's the extent of it.
She is good for fun, but nothing more. It took a long time, but its time to pay the bill for her 😂😂 she was looking for the badboy and at 40yrs she wants the "good guy" 😂😂😂😂
Sorta like some of us guys. 15-20 years ago I wanted the easy chick who I knew was dtf. now, I want the quiet girl who doesn't party and who doesn't put out.
@@GuerreroDelInfo Yup. Loads of men think its just a womans problem. Its not, us men get caught out too. I was the young stud and plowed my way through my 20s and all the way up into my early 30s because I could and it wasn't until I hit about 33 that I realised f**k... I'm covered in tattoos, I spend every hour in the gym and simply because of a few things (height, funny, very in shape etc etc) I get a certain type of woman that would never really stick around in a serious sense but that never dawned on me because I was so used of it and didn't care because I wanted to move on and f**k a new chick. The whole new and shiny thing. Now I'm older, wiser but totally accept I f**ked up because I want a family, a nice quiet wholesome chic and a nice wholesome life but I don't deserve to take that away from some good guy whose looking for the same and has been putting the world in.. not that I could anyway. Few women would bring me home to their parents. I did that once - the father basically told me to never come back to their house again in the most polite way he could. I never felt so ashamed. Totally understood where he was coming from, men can read men. The only shitty part was I did genuinely love his daughter but back then would I have cheated - absolutely. Did he protect his daughter from a ruined relationship: yes. Oh well, I'll plow on fellas. Best of luck holding down the fort.
I could be wrong but when I hear words like "dating" "intimate compatibility" "we get along but I'm not wife material" sends me a message that there is a high body count. Men that want a "good time" or "hook up" and even enjoy a 1:1 type of company with a women that has a high body count they still don't want to commit to a long term relationship or marriage. And as she stated the type of man that would want a long term relationship with her would be a Beta male or someone that she is not attracted to. She said she got a lot of her tattoos in her 20's but unfortunately the choices we make in life at an earlier age has significant affects in our later age. She said she is having her forehead tattoo removed but anyone that tattoos their forehead has to at least at the time of doing it would be deemed mentally or emotionally unstable at that decision/choice. Most people that I know or have met with face tattoos are drug addicts, porn stars, prisoners, gang affiliated, tattoo artists or some forms of the arts(musicians) or top level athletes. I hope she finds what she is looking for.
Totally correct in that second to last sentence about the type of people with face tattoos. And if you're the new guy on the scene, imagine if any of the guys from her past is jealous and holding any sort of grudge! No guy of quality would be interested in a relationship with such a woman.
Nose rings, face piercings, tattoos of any kind, neon hair are all great for women to have. It’s advertising in clear view for me to Not engage with them. Makes it so much easier to avoid the problematic ones.
It wasn't just the tats. The tats are an indicator of a disordered life. She has kids out of wedlock, she admits to having having made poor choices, ie she did drugs and screwed around. Most guys are hesitant to get involved with that no matter how hot you are, and that's when you're still young
@@texasred2702that’s what I’m saying! People blame tattoos when they really need to work on the type of person they are, but no one wants to admit they’re personality needs work 😂
There's a girl on TikTok/IG who asked guys if they liked the fact she has tattoos and saw her as wife material and nearly every guy told her don't get anymore because she was beautiful without them and they'd rather she didn't. Her reply? "Well, I guess I'll be single for the rest of my life." smh...
@@youareIndenial981 Maybe but don't you find one small tattoo below the bikini line, near the pussy for example a turn on? I do but that's about it to be honest, other than that, I'm not really a fan of them.
A woman with tattoos is a woman that misunderstands attraction and arousal. She thinks that resembling (or even becoming) the men that she's attracted to will somehow make her more attractive to them. But polar opposites attract, not sames.
I've always viewed lots of tattoos on a woman as a signal of promiscuity because getting covered in tattoos is an inherently risk-taking and rebellious behavior, just like promiscuous sex. Same as piercings. I think this is why I am usually attracted to women with lots of tattoos, but have never thought of dating one. Some tattoos are fine, but being covered in them like this women just looks trashy and in my experience, women who look like the one in this video tend to be an absolute nightmare to be around (I'm not saying she is that way, just pointing out a trend).
One of the main and most obvious traits of Borderline Personality Disorder is having several tattoos. Not that every chick that has them has BPD, but...yeah, it's usually a sign of major emotional instability. And a lot of women may even be awesome/sweet people, until they're in a relationship.
@@docmadhattan Interesting, never thought of it that way. I know one way BPD is characterized is lots of risk-taking behavior, so that definitely fits my theory. I think tattoos can also be an addiction to fill the void, I know my ex was always craving the next tattoo and loved the feeling of having a new one.
She wanted to party her youth away and now she wants a provider. She’s down to earth and seems cool while talking to Rich, but her opportunity was before the party tattoo lifestyle.
Tattoos do NOT augment or improve a female’s attractiveness.
In fact it does the exact opposite - it detracts.
@@arnoldpainal5885 When i look at the girl in the video i feel sorry for her.
Skin graffiti, Kool-Aid hair, stapled noses, lips and other places = mentally challenged and severely damaged. Hard pass.
@@rickhawkins218 I only feel sorry that she was so stupid.
Neither do males'. Tattoos look shit on everyone. Has nothing to do with sex
Women with multiple tattoos.... huge red flag.....
Tats on women are a big turn off. Permanent graffiti, frivolous behavior, bad decisions, no forward thinking, bad with money, probably reminders of other men, probably high body count, probably no condoms, probably STDs.
"huge red flag" understatement of the year !!
Women with ANY tattoos = huge red flag. Nothing screams damaged goods and no father like tattoos.
Compensating for some psychological deficiency. Male or female.
@@bashkillszombies I can attest all my cousins who were raised without a father all have tattoos
I was called a toxic masculine and misogynistic male for telling people I don't prefer tatoos on women in copious amounts or with sleeves. Having preferences is frowned upon nowadays.
Hypocrites aren't they !
It's frowned upon, ONLY if it's men having preferences for women
Only if you're a man. We can't have standards. We can only be misogynist.
Fuck em, they have no right, and are not there doing your work.
I totally agree with your comments...if I was messing around with...NOT DATING...a girl/woman with her neck, face, arms, or legs covered in Tattoos or piercings, I WOULD NEVER TAKE HER TO MEET MY MOTHER/FAMILY...I would not embarrass myself or my family like that!!!
A woman/girl with all those "TRAMP-STAMPS"...usually means emotional, psychological, or self-worth problems...in other words..."DAMAGED GOODS"!!!
Just my 53 year old HONEST OPINION!!!
Three of my adult daughters got all tatted up after they left home, and they have complained to me that they can't find decent guys who treat them well.
Why didn’t you raise them better?
A young lady in one of my exercise classes had a huge amount of tattoos. Every month or so she added to her collection. It was an aquacise class so think swim suits.
I was chatting to a much older lady and she was telling me how sweet the young lady was, and so pretty. I agreed and commented that I hoped she did not expand her tattoos to her legs. She had great legs. Well she then started on her legs. So sad really. She did mention once that her tattoos all had deep meaning to her and her very troubled youth.
And it has nothing to do with tattoos. Nothing. You're daughters are probably kind or quiet. Men are turned off by that. Men prefer nasty women, as much as men like to complain about nasty women. They prefer the types of women who neglect kids,, work a full time job in management, and are selfish. Pay attention.
@@karenmassey8354, Bingo! That is exactly what I was thinking too.
@@jenniferj2456What? I think you are projecting because women love bad boys. Most men love kind, polite women, the famous "waifus" lol. Men may find a promiscuous woman attractive thinking for a quick way to get sex if she is kinda of hot, but they know she is bad news for a relationship. Men have way less bargain power anyway so they often have to settle for women with horrible behavior, because of social pressure or because they don't want to be alone, but it doesn't mean they are attracted to it.
Tattoos and Body Piercings are just not attractive to me.
There are some gorgeous women out there who destroy their looks with that stuff.
And makeup.
And yet men will still have sex with them. When men deign to sleep with women because they're "Good enough", but the woman doesn't know how the guy really feels, that puts it into her head that "oh if I took me to bed and keeps doing it, he must not care about my tattoos."
Part of the problem is not just women getting tattoos thinking guys will like them. Some guys might. Part of the problem is men not keeping it in their pants and spending time and energy on women they otherwise wouldn't want long term. It puts the wrong ideas into women's heads.
But hey, try telling a man he has to take responsibility for a few things, like what he does with his dick, and suddenly he gets made. He's the flip side of the feminist coin. It's the coin of "rules for thee, not for me." Both people on both sides of the hypocrite coin should strive to be of a different currency altogether.
They’re not attractive in general
Agree
Tattoos and long ghetto-esque fingernails is a huge turn off for me.
I'm amazed that these women don't consider how getting a giant tattoo on their neck will affect their dating life.
You go girl! Any man who doesn’t want your entire body covered in ugly tattoos just can’t handle a strong independent woman. They are probably a incel. You look beautiful no matter how many tattoos you get.
@@aussiecathuh no. Tattoos on women are gross. Most guys agree
And she had ink all over her face! Wtf do people think???
Tats are just permanent signs of frivolous bad decisions or reminders of prior men. No thank you.
@@timsimmons9995 they don't think. That's the problem. They are monkey see monkey do
tattoos are a HUGE warning sign.......and turn off... AVOID at all costs
Yes ooooh yes.
I believe there is surgery or some kind of procedure to have them remove.
Yep, 100%. Even a small one. I can’t stand the sight of tattoos.
One thing nice about tattoos are the advance warning without wasting time and money on a woman 🙃
@@francispanny5068 It is going to have to become a lot cheaper and will still be a slow process for removal.
I’ve literally never EVER, as in, NOT ONCE, seen a woman improve her physical appearance with a tattoo(s). However, this woman in the interview seems to be very reasonable and accepting in regards to her understanding of how tattoos can have an impact on things like dating and relationships. My hats off to her for embracing reality and being so mature (unlike most) on a topic such as this which is very personal to her.
True I really respect her mindset in that case, she is looking for help and realized the "problem" which most women never do. but she still damaged from her time on the cc
Most of my friends are tattoo artists and I have seen many many women improve their physical appearance with tattoos
Yes that's how she is NOW. years ago when she started marking herself I can assure you she
"did not" have the same insight
@@steveotatooed Well, I respect your right to your opinion, but, we can agree to disagree.
@@bskee001 Of course
I CAN'T STAND TATTOOS PERIOD.
SHE RUINED HER BODY.
Totally correct
i am a doctor in the botox /laser aesthetics space. She should just take a laser certification course and BUY her own tattoo removal laser, and slowly do it herself.
she would buy herself a job and she would be her own best advertising. "come see me for your tattoo removal because look at ME, before and then after. "
the results would speak for themself.
it may take five years to get her arms and neck cleaned up but She is royally screwed otherwise.
Notwithstanding possible legal complications that may exist, that sounds like a very good idea
Yes all tats look nasty on women.
Not attracted to women with tattoos and not attracted to women that are attracted to men with tattoos, and I don’t have anything against tattoos either just not my cup of tea. Maybe not for all men but I have buddies that are sleeved out and I belief for a lot of them it’s a tough guy facade.
Tattoos on a women looks terrible...
Also for me- Men!
@@mm-qj6cc No, only on women.
Mirroring. People tend to pick partners that are similar to themselves or are a complement to their own look, style, appearance. Professional men like professional looking women. Athletic likes athletic, Goth likes goth, etc. Another reason she's only getting hits on dating apps from druggies, is because they are the ones who tend to mirror her appearance.
Mimetic theory at work.
Bingo!
"druggies" 😂 what in the 1950s fuck is wrong with you people 😆
I thought she meant crystals , like new age crystals
I automatically relate a woman with a lot of tattoos to having a high body count
Yeah, they're like 'Tom, Dick and Harry woz here' graffiti
And that high dna & and microbe count in a crowded petri dish vibe.......
And the clap
I agree, & they usually smoke cigarettes.....as if she wants to look "tough", manly.....biker trash...
I think it's nasty tbh. A woman with loads of tattoos is a red flag 🚩 The body count is definitely high and she's down for whatever. She clearly admits to NOT having the right guidance in her life. I knew that already. Mental illness is a result. Tattoo on the face ?? Mental illness. Full body ink all over ?? Mental illness and free access to whomsoever. They did it to themselves. There's a thing called accountability. Women should get familiar with being accountable ✅
She’s a walking red flag
She's China and North Korea in one person.
She's so delusional. The nice hard working guy with a good income and assets wants literally nothing to do with a woman who looks 50, covered in ink, with 2 adult kids!! She is a liability, unreasonable, probably higher body count and STDs. She offers nothing.
I'm SURE you are too.
Wanted: A woman without tattoos.
They exist, but being that they're so rare, they're all taken-up by quality men.
@@TurnerTurnipNot rare in my crowd at all. Raise your bar.
@@terrifiorelli9819 I am raising my bar. Which is why I want nothing to do with tattooed trash.
So she has two kids out of wedlock! Another Red Flag!!
She's so delusional. The nice hard working guy with a good income and assets wants literally nothing to do with a woman who looks 50, covered in ink, with 2 adult kids!! She is a liability, unreasonable, probably higher body count and STDs. She offers nothing.
RUN
..and they're "not always in my life but we're close." Who talks about their children like they're coworkers they still stay in touch with?
And really fast!
100%...total deal breaker
Im so sick of hearing women say they want someone "that works as hard as they do". They dont realize what they think is hard work, isnt..
100% if you have time to tell ppl how hard you work, you've too much time on your hands! Buck up, head down and continue the grind!
Hard work for most women is just turning up. The rest is gossiping till the next coffee break, then more gossip. -repeat
I don't bother even listening to them now, I've come to realise these narcissistic children suffer from a massive case of self entitlement. Just annoying static.
@@bogusmogus9551you obviously don't know what being a housewife is? Cleaning, cooking etc that shitvis exhausting
I find that people who openly work hard, don't.
It makes sense. If you always have this feeling that you are not pulling your weight, You will probably stay that extra time out of guilt.
If you think you have worked hard, you will probably go home a half an hour or hour early as a "reward" for your hard work.
Some women wear their Red Flags on their skin - as men we should be thankful for this.
Best comment by far
Comments like this are red flags. Hopefully all the women you're interested in find your comments online and know to steer clear.
Precisely correct!
Great comment
I love women with tattoos! They instantly tell me who to avoid. Such a time saver!
It's sad that so many women think tattoos are great, an expression of their "individuality", and they don't realise it's a turn-off/red flag for a lot of guys
Big red flag
Tatoos on men are a turn off for most women in my circle.
Women today think men like what they like in a sexual context. Men like purity or what’s closer to that standard; women like utility and security and whatever has most of that standard. In building competence, a man’s body in prior times had marks, had wounds due to being out there in the battle field for food and resources to build security for himself, dependents and offsprings. To bring it back: tattoos on men (marks) attractive. Tattoos on women not attractive.
Its as big a red flag as someone taking medication for hiv for me
Doing what everyone else is doing is an expression of individually by their logic.
Tattoos look tacky on women
Agreed but I think they look like shit on men too.
Trashy.........very trashy...............
Biggest ick ever
tattoos are for warriors. you get one every life you take. now it’s for dorks who want to pretend to look tough.
@@nitemirror1 word!
More the ink, less the think
more the ink, bigger the ick
.. the optics is 👹
That's totally an ignorant statement..
@lauramcnally708 You sound like Michael Jackson in that South Park episode. "You're being ignorant! Stop being ignorant!" 😂
Seriously though, chicks with tats are fine once in awhile, but I've never met an undamaged one that isn't looking for a man to abuse them. Perhaps you're the exception to the rule. But if that's the case, then you're the one who is being ignorant.
Well put.
Most people can understand that graffiti defaces a building. That concept applies to tattoos on the body.
100%
Yeah, I'm not gonna buy a car that has had too many owners, done too many miles and has a VERY BAD paint job.
Precisely correct!
You just won the internet with your comment!
Yes.
It's interesting because she believes her expectations are reasonable. She just doesn't understand that the man she has picked in her head also has a woman he has picked in his.
She doesn't rate herself as high value, yet she is setting the bar pretty high. Even without the tats, she's not dating material for what she is seeking. It's bizarre seeing how they think.
It is not her.
@@johnshaddick6858 He wasted our time as well as his. I'm going to un-circumscribe
She's so delusional. The nice hard working guy with a good income and assets wants literally nothing to do with a woman who looks 50, covered in ink, with 2 adult kids!! She is a liability, unreasonable, probably higher body count and STDs. She offers nothing.
Huge tattoos on women is just a big marker for somekind of mental or emotional problem.
Or addiction (which I know is basically a mental problem)
100%
💯 I work with young girls sometime and the tattoos they get screams mental.
Daddy issues which basically is scream for attention.
Facts. Tattoos period on anyone
This also applies to women who have a full face of make up on all the time. At the gym, out for a run, first thing on a morning, every day at work. They won't be seen without make up on. This is a red flag.
There's this app, i don't know the name where you can see what any woman actually looks like without make-up, just point smartphone and snap a photo at the target woman, the app will show you a photo sans make-up, lol
Tattoos indicate three things to me:
(1) Immaturity
(2) Immorality
(3) Financial irresponsibility
and bad taste
Loose lips perhaps....
" I want a dominant alpha male." Translation: "I want someone financially successful so he can pay my bills."
Heh, no doubt!
Yes you said it Mate.
No, she wants something of the three x variety. She wants a personality, not money. She must have her own money if she can buy those tattoos.
And money "so he can pay for MORE of my tattoos"
Bingo
Women ONLY start thinking about this sh*t AFTER they AGE and lose their looks! Then a nice hard working guy is supposed to take her leftovers? 😒 NOPE
Facts 😂
She doesn’t want a nice hard working guy.
She wants a Alpha biker type.
Which is why she will die alone.
They realize it’s no longer a man issue, it’s the self realization and reflection that can no longer compete with the younger 25 woman and it’s right in your face and that must be difficult for woman to come to that realization.
a sloppy disgusting old plate of cold food in a restaurant that a stranger ate from and left sloppy seconds....sitting on a table for hours (with tons of ink/tattoos as a cherry on top)
that isn't appealing???
They don't want hard working nice guys
Speaking as a 65 year old man, I regret not doing a lot of things in my life but one desideratum I most emphatically do not regret is not getting a tattoo. I was tempted a couple of times when I was young. Thankfully I gave them a pass.
I never understood it, and never will. It seems like self sabotaging behavior, and virtually irreversible. I remember when you couldn't get a decent job if you had visible tattoos. It's because they make people look like a derelict.
@@qua7771 Yup, it looks like graffiti. Many times, especially as they get older, bad graffiti. It just devalues and defaces in my opinion. If I had that done to me against my will, I would sue vigorously.
@@erichmacho5741 I don't mind a small tattoo that someone got when they were young. We're seeing people covered in them, and planning their next one. A lot of the so called "art" looks demonic.
Paying a stranger to scribble on your body in a permanent way seems ridiculous to me. It’s like wearing the same tee shirt every day for the rest of your life.
I always say., no one gets a tattoo when things are going well for them. I stand by that perspective
A person who willingly tattoos their neck 😂 and she wants a high value man
She tattooed her forehead.
She's so delusional. The nice hard working guy with a good income and assets wants literally nothing to do with a woman who looks 50, covered in ink, with 2 adult kids!! She is a liability, unreasonable, probably higher body count and STDs. She offers nothing.
She should hook up with a tattoo removal guy, sounds like a win-win to me. 🤔
'pay them off' 😉
Why bother at this point! She is way past her expiry date!
Tattoos is one of the most obvious red flags. It really signals high time preference, short sightedness, superficial narcissism and a FO-YOLO-attitude. It also signals that someone fishes in a small pool of other tattoo aficionados.
I have 0 tatoos and i couldn’t disagree more. It’s not the 1930s bro
@@KingStreetBrody Following the Zeitgeist - "because it is the current year" - is also a sign of short sightedness.
@@KingStreetBrody No it is the 1920's again, and the poster you are responding to is 100% correct. You have bought into yet another myth of postmodernism. There is a reason the world is absolute garbage right now and it because of that childish attitude.
its a SHALLOW pond my friends
😂
I was at the grocery store about a year ago and had a young, pretty, in shape woman in a tasteful dress walk by. She had poise and grace and not a cell phone or tattoo in sight. She smiled at me even though I was standing there with a dumbfounded look on my face. The reason I was so shocked was because it was like having a unicorn walk by.
😂😂😂😂 I get you!!!
Next time be ready to snag that unicorn!
i went through the same thing.
Ya know! it's now the exception.
Until you find out about the small hidden tattoos
Agreed.
Women don't get tattoos. Just don't do it.
They make women look trashy.
Like graffiti on a bridge in a run down neighborhood.
Actually the ones who want to should its the best kind of obvious red flag you can simply use eyes to see
It's only a red flag to fragile little incels 😆 @@slinkerdeer
I have no tatoos . I was taught they cheapen the look of a woman. I agree
I know women with minimal tattoos from their youth, like a single rose on their hip. By the time they're 45, it looks like a pizza.
You were raised to love and respect yourself. Good. There is still hope
I've had a very attractive woman ask me why I don't like tattoos on women... I told her that a tattoo on a beautiful woman , appears to me as vandalism and graffiti on a beautiful sculpture. And a warning sign to men.
Tattoos are great!
They identify if a woman is mentally ill, impulsive, deaf to social norms, shortsighted, and bad with money.
Lol Very well said!!!! 👏
@@PlaywithDaisy We don't date men.
We're talking about tattoos on women.
Yes, indeed. like the "Danger explosive/poisonous" signs they have
Hey now, I have a few tattoos and I'm fantastic with money :)
@@lynn99annaWhose money?
No tattoos Period !!
No, ffs get a tattoo when you have your period and I can avoid you even more
Tattoos on a woman remind me of the 'Place Trash Here' sign on a dumpster.
Cumb dumpsters for lowlife men,
That's kind of an insult to dumpsters. 😄
Saw a receptionist at a prestigious real estate office yesterday who was COVERED in tattoos from neck to hands. She wore a sleeveless and low cut blouse so she could show the world how beautiful she was as a result of the tattoos.
All those tattoos did was make her look gross and dirty. I can't imagine anyone finding that nightmare attractive.
She wouldn't do well as a real estate agent. Clients expect real estate agents to be professional, well-dressed, well-groomed and look and behave like they can be trusted with a lot of money.
@@stevestruthers6180 Damn! How ironic that you replied just now! I just got back from the dentist. The hygenist who was supposed to work on me comes walking out the door and she had this low cut shirt on with her entire chest COVERED in a huge tattoo.
She called my name. I stood up and said Uh uh and walked right the F out!
She reminded me of the woman I mentioned in the comment you just replied to. How odd is that??
You hit the nail on the head man about the professionalism or lack thereof!
@@buyerofsorts you had a dentist appointment and left for that reason? 😂
@@MomoTheDisciple You sound like you have way too many tattoos....
@@buyerofsorts I do have lots of tattoos but unless you’re planning on dating the dental hygienist it’s a funny reason to leave an appointment 😂 would you leave the mechanic shop if your car was broken and the mechanic had tattoos? It’s just a hilarious and silly story
My sister is covering herself in ink and it looks terrible. Her arms are covered in blobs and butterflies and now she's moving on to her torso and I saw with dismay that she's also been busy with her legs. When she showed her latest and proclaimed to me that "isn't it stunning?!!" and gave a 15 minute explanation (like tattoo people love to do to get attention) of the "meaning" of what looks like a blob of ink in the shape of either a exclamation or sperm, I felt my heart drop. It makes me sad to see her going backwards. She seems unhappy in her marriage, where she wears the pants and she's trying to be this even tougher scarier person. I begged her to stop before she inks her face and told her it could be a red flag for mental illness. Why would you make yourself ugly and scary?
Funny yet sad post.
She is engaging in body mutilation because she has self hatred.
Ive never met anyone w a ton of tattoos that weren’t completely hollow NPC’s inside.
Its usually a coping mechanism for someone lacking personality whilst being an attention junkie.
Yeah, If you don't have it "inside" you have it "outside" ... It's just sad ...
Agree 100%
You know, this sounds cruel and reductionist, but its actually true. Of men and women
@@cattan4696 life’s most profound truths will often undoubtedly come off as cruel and reductionist.
This corresponds heavily w religious tradition:
Silly, stories used to marginalize and oppress in one’s youth...
Manual for spiritual/emotional stability in one’s adulthood.
Tats on women are a big turn off. Permanent graffiti, frivolous behavior, bad decisions, no forward thinking, bad with money, probably reminders of other men, probably high body count, probably no condoms, probably STDs.
Tats look cheap on everybody.
I do not like tatooed man either. And I am very happy with my conservative approach on this.
I agree. I have a couple of tattoos from my younger days but with a t shirt, they can't be seen. I will not date a woman with tattoos.
@@andrewg2618 I won't date a man with tattoos. 👍 No way.
@@andrewg2618 hypocrite
She seems nice, probably a 4 without the ink, terrible hair style, not much in the makeup department, I sense a high level of insecurity, she has doomed herself with the ink.
Well said
She spent thousands ruining her body. You couldn't make it up.
If she had no tats she could probably get a good average guy at best, with all the tats its sad but i can't see any man committing to her.
Men that are into tattoos will have relationships with women without tattoos. But men that don't like tattoos on women will not. Basically, women reduce their pool of candidates by getting inked.
@@marks-0-0 Simps will surprise you..
@@marks-0-0 the thing is she thinks even in this state she deserves better than average. Delusional.
Tattoos on a woman are battle scars from a war she is fighting with herself.
I worked in a shipyard in the 1970's/80's and had one guy on our crew who'd been in the Navy, serving in the Pacific. He had tattoos on his arms and chest and we talked about it several times. He vehemently advised against ever getting one, or more and hated his as they had become unrecognizable blobs of dark blue.
Only thing we learned about the 33 year old she really liked was that he had a bit of money and a boat, car and house.
Yeah she’s doomed
I think she said that because that's what she thought Rich wants to hear. My guess..
She don't look 33 to me looks mid 40s
@@Eric.Fitness She states that she's 40, but was dating a 33 year old man.
@@melissachartres3219 missed that makes sense.
@@melissachartres3219 I thought she was in her 50's.
Simps led her astray with empty compliments on tattoos. I see this at my gym all the time. A beautiful woman who is working out gets some dudes initiating convo solely about tattoos and how great they look. It’s messed up. Half the time I am saying to my self: “why is a beautiful woman like that fucking up herself with tattoos like that.” And the odd thing is those typical simps never talk to the untattooed women.
The tattoos make them look easy and sleezy
exactly
I totally agree with you!
Not simps, but also Chads. Even average to high end guys will sleep with a woman in her twenties with tats. The issue comes in their late twenties or thirties when guys start looking at long term partners and potential wives and say 'No thanks.' Suddenly women like Tamie realize that while guys just wanting to sleep with her will give her a pass, serious people won't.
Tattoos don't look good on any beautiful women. Maybe a couple of hidden ones but they ruin a woman's looks.
I have a super beautiful daughter, when she was 15 , I started my please don't ever get a single tattoo. I drummed that toon until she graduated college. What she learned during her modeling career, was that tattoos are like a death sentence in that industry. Models with tattoos are often thought of as strippers and porn stars.
Just the way it is.
she'll get one anyway
@@juanshaftpatel7488 Yup....
passed time at a strip for a while .never saw any ink that improved a gals look
@@repete2362 There's a couple of "pornstars" that i fancy and these women have no tattoos, if they were to get tattoos, it would mess up their beauty and i wouldn't find them attractive anymore.
She wears her red flags in the form of tattoos. It truly shows a lack of self respect.
Maybe get "HIGH VALUE WOMAN" tattooed across your forehead, that'll show em.
I actually felt sad for Tamie. She seems like a sweet person. I see this all the time, and by that I mean; motherly and kind women swept away by the siren song of today's postmodern and selfish culture. These people are peer pressured into taking no thought for the 'morrow, and live vapid lives of instant gratification and behave like they're delayed adults. If she'd have lived a more traditional life she'd probably be happily married with a partner preparing for a blissful 2nd half of her life by now. But now that she's over the hump (to put it politely), she sees the faults of her youth; the divorce, the kids, the ex-partners, the tattoos, she wonders why no man wants to date her or treat her how she expects? Kind of sad. Don't let your life turn into this lady's, folks.
Every women and man needs to read your post. I love this " motherly and kind women swept away by the siren song of today's postmodern and selfish culture.
10:58
"I would hope so...[TATTOOED GUYS] tend to be musicians, people that do a lot of drugs and alcohol..."
Umm Tamie
So why would non-tat guys want to hang out with you again?
I'm guessing as a young chick you were a reasoble looking becky
Who passed on the boring clean guys to chase after drama, yes?
My solution: cats, wine, vibratey thingy
Just look after your kids but don't be surprised if they don't want to hang out with the older generation either
She will never not be impulsive and disregard those around her. At least she advertises her character overtly.
You're the perfect simp, oliver 😆
Tamie was very RUTHLESS in her selection process when she had much to offer; including the greatest gift from wmn to man : children.
She's the type who cultivated false hopes in a number of guys looking for affection, while she was on the carousel having the time of her life.
I interpret that as the oldest SCAM in the book.
She's now crying for walking wallets and human punchbags to take out her frustrations on.
Thankfully, she wears her carousel behaviour in the form of indelible ink and every guy can sense her past.
Guys. DO NOT APPROACH.
@@jamesclark6487 Ha ha, how can you tell? She regrets her tats, and had to learn the hard way about bad attention and good attention from guys, that sounds like personal growth to me. Negative snap judgements are a display of character too.
This woman says she’s 40 , looks more like 50, I think she’s lying.
Yea seriously? How can she even expect to find a date at that age. Her dating life is over, she's already had kids!
@@johnstrozzi1126 seems like she has a pretty high bar in expectations as well, what a shock, not.
No f-ing way she’s 40. Most guys who have been around women a fair amount can see right through this facade. It’s tough for most modern women to hide “50”
Precisely correct!
I believe 40, and a lot of meth.
I don't care if women are attracted to tattoos or not...
I will never put one on my body. If that means I'll be single forever, then so be it.
Her body count is probably very high. Tattoos. Kids. Red Flags Galore.
I like the "bumper stickers all over a Lamborghini" analogy. But there's another thing. To me, tattoos have a masculine energy. So they are more of a red flag on females. In the old days, almost all tattoos were connected to military service, doing prison time, or being in a biker gang. Now, your kid's kindergarten principal is sleeved out on both arms. It's just too much.
Having no tats is the new tats.
GUYS IN PRISON SAY THAT COLOUR IN A TATTOO IS ,,CLOWN 🤡TATTOOS ,,, THE REAL INK IN A PRISON , HAS NONE
she messed up and now has to pay the price for it
just beginning to pay the price - no pun but the writing's on the wall and it will continue to head south
Women with tattoos on their neck is a major RED FLAG FOR ME...
Yep, No visible tattoos...
Mental illness.
Tats on women are a big turn off. Permanent graffiti, frivolous behavior, bad decisions, no forward thinking, bad with money, probably reminders of other men, probably high body count, probably no condoms, probably STDs.
And face.
Tattoos are excellent advertising. They immediately let me know that I should not hire you and especially shouldn't date you. What other trait gives you so much information so quickly?
A bad haircut, sunburned skin, and missing teeth.
I don’t care what she says she looks like trouble.
Yep, especially after a couple drinks!!
@@zenos.5315 absolutely 👍🏻
“I can’t be with someone who makes less than me”. This woman is trash.
I remember when we needed a quarter at the county fair to see the tattooed women/men.
hahah good one
@@PB22559 Now you just have to go to Walmart.
And the "Fat lady", Haha to see the weird freaks!!
Tattoos are like big bright warning marks on insects and reptiles saying don’t eat me or come near me
She would probably match with a transient, carnival worker. Live out of a van, etc.
Funny but true
That could be alright lol
...career criminal, outlaw biker, gang member, drug dealer...
I don't think anyone ever regrets NOT getting a tattoo!
The fact that this woman is nice means nothing. She’s ruined herself.
Exactly. Plenty of broke guys out there who are nice. Nice does not get you a mate.
She needs to get some cats and call it a day.
Lol! 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmfao yup
ROFL
You forgot the boxed Chardonnay
Too late.
She’s probably already a dog mom.
This woman is now paying for her past as strong and independent with two children out of wedlock. These disgusting figures on a woman's body repel serious men and as she said, those men who approach her and have tattoos themselves, are entangled with drugs and have problems with the law. Unfortunately in life, the bill comes when it is too late.
She doesn’t understand it though. That’s sad
Damaged Goods...plain & simple...something is definitely wrong...emotional, psychological, or self-worth problems...RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN & DON'T LOOK BACK!!!
So people with tattoos are drug addicts and criminals?
@@friendzoned4990
I wouldn't say all of the men/women with tattoos or piercings are criminals...but I would say probably close to half are.
You know Yourself, that a lot are criminals, thugs, drug addicts, theifs, & homeless.
There is no way I would trust some of these people, there is no way I would invite them into my home...
I'D JUST BE INVITING TROUBLE!!!
Certain Vibes attract those tribes
So many visual red flags. The tats scream young adult issues. My experience is those issues pop up within 90 days and if I have a choice I;m gonna not do a date. Thank God I don't have to deal with dating anymore
FREEDOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
Ha ha the 90 days is so accurate
those are just tats yall weird af
Head to toe in tatts ?
What was she thinking ?
tats are proof she got long mileage on her.
"its impossible to go back to moonshine in your 40s after drinking quality whiskey for 10 years in your 20s"
If I see a woman with scars, I feel sympathetic. I say to myself "poor woman, what terrible ordeal did she survive?" I see a tattooed woman and say, HOORAY the circus is in town!
"I never saw a Bumper Sticker on a Rolles Royce" I have always felt that graffiti on a building or anywhere else is tacky.
Single mom? RUN
zero sympathy at this point. Zero.
Makes you real attractive lol 😂
I don't have tattoos and I don't see why people put graffiti on their bodies! If a woman has tattoos, I'm not interested.
A woman with tattoos is a no-go for me.
Huge turn off.
Walk around with fake tattoos for a month or two, i did, and thats when i knew for sure i did not want real tattoos forever.
That is very smart. That's what everyone should do before they actually get permanent ink blotches injected into their skin
The Tattoos are disgusting.
Good I thought I was the only one thinking that way.
A sign of severe trauma and mental instability.
Tattoos were originally meant for sailors. As a woman.. I find that tattoos on other women look ridiculous
They don't. It's not the 50's.
I think the reason tattoos came from sailors is twofold. The old world sailors spent a lot of time at sea and coming into port was special. They would land in places like Tahiti and other exotic locations. The tribal tattoos of the Society Islands are really beautiful and meaningful to their tribes. I think there was a propensity to get a tattoo only not tribal but things like sea serpents, anchors etc. It expanded into Western culture. The old sailors had idle time at sea and would learn things like playing an instrument, knot tying, tattoo artistry etc. I am not fond of tattoos at all unless they had a deep long standing integration into a tribal type culture. They have discovered tattoos in various places around the world on people in old burial sites.
@@Aro-k5kquiet down little kid
It is sad to see the pretty skin marked up.
It's sad that so many people feel the need to deface their skin with tattoos and piercings. Aging will sooner or later deface everyone's skin, why add to it?
I'm old enough to have come of age before tattoos became popular. I have 0. I do have pierced ears, but that's the extent of it.
She is good for fun, but nothing more. It took a long time, but its time to pay the bill for her 😂😂 she was looking for the badboy and at 40yrs she wants the "good guy" 😂😂😂😂
Sorta like some of us guys. 15-20 years ago I wanted the easy chick who I knew was dtf. now, I want the quiet girl who doesn't party and who doesn't put out.
its impossible to go back to moonshine in your 40s after drinking quality whiskey for 10 years in your 20s
@@GuerreroDelInfo Yup. Loads of men think its just a womans problem. Its not, us men get caught out too. I was the young stud and plowed my way through my 20s and all the way up into my early 30s because I could and it wasn't until I hit about 33 that I realised f**k... I'm covered in tattoos, I spend every hour in the gym and simply because of a few things (height, funny, very in shape etc etc) I get a certain type of woman that would never really stick around in a serious sense but that never dawned on me because I was so used of it and didn't care because I wanted to move on and f**k a new chick. The whole new and shiny thing.
Now I'm older, wiser but totally accept I f**ked up because I want a family, a nice quiet wholesome chic and a nice wholesome life but I don't deserve to take that away from some good guy whose looking for the same and has been putting the world in.. not that I could anyway. Few women would bring me home to their parents.
I did that once - the father basically told me to never come back to their house again in the most polite way he could. I never felt so ashamed. Totally understood where he was coming from, men can read men. The only shitty part was I did genuinely love his daughter but back then would I have cheated - absolutely. Did he protect his daughter from a ruined relationship: yes.
Oh well, I'll plow on fellas. Best of luck holding down the fort.
@@GuerreroDelInfoSpot on mate
The Calvary isn’t coming, Ma’ame. Enjoy your body art
Tatts on a woman are like travel stickers on an old suitcase.
Tattoos and piercings. The two no's for establishing relationships!
She had a tattoo on her forehead!.... Dum dum dum dummm RUNNNN
I want to know what it said! I am with stupid? 😂
That explains the shit haircut
Tattoos on a woman is like putting stickers on a Ferrari.
and she's probably spent enough on those Tatts to buy a decent car. Wonder what she drives?
I could be wrong but when I hear words like "dating" "intimate compatibility" "we get along but I'm not wife material" sends me a message that there is a high body count. Men that want a "good time" or "hook up" and even enjoy a 1:1 type of company with a women that has a high body count they still don't want to commit to a long term relationship or marriage. And as she stated the type of man that would want a long term relationship with her would be a Beta male or someone that she is not attracted to. She said she got a lot of her tattoos in her 20's but unfortunately the choices we make in life at an earlier age has significant affects in our later age. She said she is having her forehead tattoo removed but anyone that tattoos their forehead has to at least at the time of doing it would be deemed mentally or emotionally unstable at that decision/choice. Most people that I know or have met with face tattoos are drug addicts, porn stars, prisoners, gang affiliated, tattoo artists or some forms of the arts(musicians) or top level athletes. I hope she finds what she is looking for.
The clock is ticking!
Totally correct in that second to last sentence about the type of people with face tattoos. And if you're the new guy on the scene, imagine if any of the guys from her past is jealous and holding any sort of grudge! No guy of quality would be interested in a relationship with such a woman.
Don't buy real estate that allows graffiti. Values are greatly diminished.
Nose rings, face piercings, tattoos of any kind, neon hair are all great for women to have. It’s advertising in clear view for me to Not engage with them. Makes it so much easier to avoid the problematic ones.
She's sweet but she dive-bombed her life with the tattoos.
And TWO KIDS!
It wasn't just the tats. The tats are an indicator of a disordered life. She has kids out of wedlock, she admits to having having made poor choices, ie she did drugs and screwed around. Most guys are hesitant to get involved with that no matter how hot you are, and that's when you're still young
@@texasred2702that’s what I’m saying! People blame tattoos when they really need to work on the type of person they are, but no one wants to admit they’re personality needs work 😂
As my mom would say: "Shit attracts flies..."
Good one!
There's a girl on TikTok/IG who asked guys if they liked the fact she has tattoos and saw her as wife material and nearly every guy told her don't get anymore because she was beautiful without them and they'd rather she didn't. Her reply? "Well, I guess I'll be single for the rest of my life." smh...
She wants someone to take care of her and pay to remove the miles and miles of tattoos. Forget it.
Tattoos are a big no for me.
The analogy of a putting bumper stickers all over a Lamborghini is spot on.
Wow! She was actually reasonable and didn't contend with Rich 👍
She's been reduced to reasonableness
I am a tattooist & unfortunately she is covered in crap, every tattoo tells a story & hers are screaming “I F_ed up”.
That's any tattoo. On any woman
More relevant to a man, they’re screaming “I’M fked up.”
@@youareIndenial981 Maybe but don't you find one small tattoo below the bikini line, near the pussy for example a turn on?
I do but that's about it to be honest, other than that, I'm not really a fan of them.
Is there a pic of more of her work?
Women with tatoos are good at making men limp
Plantar fasciitis also makes men limp.
People like you make women dry .
UGH!...flags all over the place...double ugh! my Dad warned me when I turned 16 and got drivers license, "Son, stay away from tatted girls.."
A woman with tattoos is a woman that misunderstands attraction and arousal. She thinks that resembling (or even becoming) the men that she's attracted to will somehow make her more attractive to them. But polar opposites attract, not sames.
She has ONE choice in men at this point - tattoo parlor owners.
Not even only a dog at this point
Find yourself a tatted up lesbian...with cats... and settle down.
Boy, that’s cold blooded!
I've always viewed lots of tattoos on a woman as a signal of promiscuity because getting covered in tattoos is an inherently risk-taking and rebellious behavior, just like promiscuous sex. Same as piercings. I think this is why I am usually attracted to women with lots of tattoos, but have never thought of dating one. Some tattoos are fine, but being covered in them like this women just looks trashy and in my experience, women who look like the one in this video tend to be an absolute nightmare to be around (I'm not saying she is that way, just pointing out a trend).
One of the main and most obvious traits of Borderline Personality Disorder is having several tattoos. Not that every chick that has them has BPD, but...yeah, it's usually a sign of major emotional instability. And a lot of women may even be awesome/sweet people, until they're in a relationship.
HATE TATS AND CAN ANYONE EXPLAIN NOSE RINGS!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEY ALWAYS LIKE AS IF THE WOMAN HAS BUGGARS HANGING OUT OF HER NOSE!!!!!!!!
@@docmadhattan Interesting, never thought of it that way. I know one way BPD is characterized is lots of risk-taking behavior, so that definitely fits my theory. I think tattoos can also be an addiction to fill the void, I know my ex was always craving the next tattoo and loved the feeling of having a new one.
She wanted to party her youth away and now she wants a provider. She’s down to earth and seems cool while talking to Rich, but her opportunity was before the party tattoo lifestyle.
The problem is this mindset comes 20 years too late for most women in her situation.
Kind of a permanent advertisement for prior bad choices