Having a Healthy Breakup
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ต.ค. 2019
- The time before and after a breakup can be scary and heartbreaking, but Jackie offers a refreshing perspective here. She says if either you or your significant other wants to break up, there’s no point in wasting your time or their time because you deserve someone who wants to be with you, and so does he or she. After breaking up, there will be a gaping hole, so it’s important to set boundaries at that time so there can be proper closure in the relationship.
Jackie also says it’s much more difficult to end a relationship if you were sleeping with the person. Of course, this should be avoided before marriage, but if your relationship did go down that wrong path it’s still no excuse to stay in the relationship. The bond may have seemed to mean a great deal to both of you, but it was premature and not God’s plan for either of you.
If either of you want to break up, you weren’t right for each other and the person who broke up with you did you a favor by setting you free to discover what God has planned for you. If there is still pain in your heart after considering all this, run to Jesus because he will heal you.
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“The person you marry will be as in love with you as you are with them, ok?”
Exactly what I needed to hear rn
What a joke
Amen
@@eyllieprecious4704 update: it was true. Now happily married for almost a year
Oh man. This is exactly what I needed to hear today!! I’m going through a break up with the guy I thought I would marry. He ended up not being that great to me, lying and lots of other stuff.. including trying to pressure me into having sex because “we’ll be together forever anyway”. Major red flags, and as thankful as I am to be out, it still hurts really bad.
Reba Germaine it will hurt for some time ...but you the decision about breaking with that guy is right and believe me , after some time ( can be few months) you will look back and say the same: it was right. I was once in your place , breaking up with my fiancé who I found out was not good to me either ( similar things you wrote about) and yes, it was hurting but now when I'm happily married to the right guy I know it was a right decision. Try to do something nice for yourself , go out with friends, do something you didn't have time to do it because you were in relationship and pray to Jesus. He loves you very much!
Girl I’m going through the same thing...so glad someone else understands
Thank you Jackie. This is helping me out so much. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 3 days ago. I am so heartbroken and I will offer this brokenness up to God. Please pray for me in healing.
"God doesn't want you to be miserable in a relationship." "He will heal it cos He's faithful."
Of course. Makes sense.
Jackie, you give the best advice. Just ended a 6 year relationship a few months ago and it’s been hard, but turning to Jesus has totally changed my life.
I ended a 4 year relationship. I can't imagine ending a 6 year relationship. I hope you're doing well.
Hi, I hope you're doing well ?
@@gloriagarcia1207 So sorry, I hope you're better now?
MAY GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY AMEN
I broke up with my fiancé. It wasn't healthy at all. Unfortunately I only came to realise the extent of it recently. There was a lot of misusing, but I still love him. I'm so grateful for this video. In fact I started the 54 Day Novena for us after watching one of your videos and I got my answer about him as I began the 2nd half (Thanksgiving). So I know this is the right choice. I'm fighting everything in body to reach out to him. Part of me even wants to send him this video so he can heal, or maybe just as an excuse to contact him. But this video was a God-send. I guess I should just sit back and let us both grow and heal. Please pray for him to find Christ, he has turned away from whatever faith he had and has gone down the darker path (turns out it was the only path he has truly known or understood). I just pray he is healed and his scars become healed again through Christ. One day he might come to know the love of God, unconditional and raw.
Amen
“Our time is valuable.” Yessss Jackie 👏🏼👏🏼
How to break up with someone in a healthy way: send them this video.
Jk jk
EJ if the other person is smart and wants you, they will realized what are you doing.
I had a very bad break up last year... the relationship wasn't chast at all and I created a huge bond with the guy and it hurt a lot when we broke up. But because of how connected I felt with him (apparently I was the only one to feel that way, he was just fine a couple weeks later), I couldn't stop messaging him or asking him for advice or keeping in touch, I didn't know how to live by myself anymore, I couldn't let him go. It was very tough for me to deal with that and I wish I had stopped talking to him right away so that I could heal better. It took me a good time to be able to gather all the broken pieces of me together again and to be able to open up to a new relationship. Fortunately, God has good plans for us, and I've found someone who treats me with unconditional love and respect, as things should be.
Man the timing of this video coming out is insane. Just went through my first break up and needed this, thank you 🙏
I've had a break up around 15 months ago and even though the relationship was just 8 months long, I still don't feel like I have made any progress. I just can't picture myself ever loving someone else but being alone is almost unbearable.
Thanks for this video! I feel so much better! Praying for you too Jackie!
Jackie, I really like your point about one of the other blessings that come (after a break up) with choosing chastity in a pre-marital relationship ... never thought of that one, but it's so true!! 🕆📿❤👊
Thanks Jackie. I really needed to hear this.
This video is so timely for me! 🙌
Me too
Really need this today. Thank you so much Jackie.
Thank you for this Jackie. I needed to hear this
Wow!
Thank you so much for sharing. My daughter and her boyfriend just broke up. It has been hard for her. I just prayed for God to give her some advice. Abs there you were!
Thank you !
Can you please do a video on anxiety and panic attacks?
Angela D this! An anxiety disorder or mental health video. OCD and religion is very problematic when it manifests in your faith.
Yes plsss
Jackie if i had only heard these recommendations when I was a teenager. Amen and keep putting out beautiful content for young people :)
Just went through a very painful breakup today.
This video really helped me.
Thank you.
Video that lot of people need for a long time!
Please keep me in prayer Jackie... As I am going through one... I need prays.. 🙏
This video helped me so much. I had to break up with this amazing guy... But i couldn't because he loved me within a very short amount of time and i was helpless cuz i didn't carry the same kind of feelings for him. Was feeling so regretful but i had to do it.. Thank you for guiding me so well. I finally had a clean break up with him.
Things I didn’t know at all. Great advice.
Wish I would of heard this last year, although doing better.
Thank you!
I so needed this video, God bless
These days God indeed speaks to me often through Ascension presents......Praise God
Thanks for the video! Good advices.
May not be someone who wants to be involved in a relationship. But i feel like there is much wisdom in these videos.
Thank you for the video. As always, it was insightful and unambiguous. You and Bobby are greatly appreciated. Does ascension have a link to submit questions or do we ask them here?
Thank you for this video!! Not a topic many people talk about, yet we all go through it at some point. Really good points from a spiritual aspect of dating as well.
THANKS JACKIE. IT HELPS A LOT
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Thank you so much for this. Please pray for me and my girlfriend as we just broken up recently after dating a few years
Her bright smile and that making sure of that everything is going to be okay if we have the trust in our mind for Jesus will heal us are just melting every bad and dirty parts of my mind. Thank you so much Jackie for this video!
Very important what you talking about.Can you do some more videos about it? Greetings from Poland !
Thank you, Jackie for the reminder that Jesus will heal the pain in due time. Honestly, I am still having a hard time dealing with the pain of the break up 3 months ago. It is never easy to deal with. Sometimes, I don't even know to console myself, so I just pray asking God to heal me.
Thank you I needed this
I had to break up with four young women before I started dating my wife. All the relationships were totally chaste (not even holding hands), but it was still emotionally difficult, and took weeks to months to re-center. Can't imagine how hard it would be if we had become physically bonded.
Best if you don't know how difficult it is when the other person kept telling you he loved you,he liked u a lot,we bonded physically we spent so much time together and all of the sudden he tells me after a beautiful holidays away he can not commit to the relationship,he wants to carry on with his life ..bla bla..but he And it goes from every day contact to no contact.All very sudden.
It makes me physically weak inside,makes me loose interest in everything -I just survive but not live.
Great advice 👍🏽
Thank you so much for this
Thank you! It helped me a lot
My time is very valuable. The same evening... Back to Netflix binging...
Oohh the "what if's....."
Today i broke up with my boyfriend. This video was truly heaven sent.
Thank you very much, i broke up with my girlfriend not so long ago just minutes ago, i feel relief 😮💨 this time I think its for real
Thank you so much, Jackie. That's exactly what I needed. Hey, what about praying one for another those who comment this video? Let's put a "+" in someone's comment if you will pray for that person! ;) Let's be strong together!
SpanishKuna +
+ what do you want me to pray for? 😊
@@peppy619 for peace in my heart, please. Thank you! And you? What shall I pray you for?
@@MrsMrozonka What is your first name?
I would appreciate if God could get me a job in Sweden (my swedish friend is trying his best over there). My name is Benjamin :)
@@MrsMrozonka I'll be praying for you!
Kind of unrelated to the video, is that book that y'all wrote available at book story like barns and noble or only through the links?
You are like my own sister ...thank you...😊😍
I don't believe in being friends with any exes. If it's over, it's over. And if s/he wants to come back (especially if they were the one who initially broke up with you), they can take a hike.
Como eu queria a tradução desses vídeos 🇧🇷🇧🇷. Algumas contas diz Brasil traduziram alguns vídeos de vocês e fiquei encantada. Obrigada por essa oferta ao Alto
Very true! ❤️
Could you guys do a video on whether to give up/sacrifice your corporate career for a vocation?
Joel Pinto I’m guessing Fr Mike May have a video on a similar topic, I think he’s done a couple on discerning 👍
My boyfriend and I broke up today because we think it would be too difficult to raise kids together with our different faiths. It’s so hard because we still love and want each other, but hopefully it will be worth it later
Will you please speak about breaking off your engagement?
MiiaVita sort of similar.
Ascension, please look into having other women speakers. Yes, Jackie’s nice but another perspective, personality, a variety would be so beneficial I think. Thank you for your channel. God bless
True. Rather be alone than with someone just because Im a bit lonely. Do you think it's important to cut off cold turkey as well?
Brigit R yeah at least for 6 months so you can truly get over them
Thanks.
Love this, thank you! ❤️
All I can say is THANK GOD I saved my sanity. 🙏🏼🕊
Divine timing
Thnkyou soooo much n jesus love u
Right on 💛💛💛💛
What about if you separate from your husband?
I don't know if it was in this comment section or not, but I had commented something like: "according to Fr. Martin, Jesus was a liar because he quoted the 'erroneous' (Martin didn't say 'erroneous', I am just using quotes because the OT is obviously not erroneous) OT." I should not have said that because Martin didn't say it.
What is breakup anyway?
I am thinking so hard if I should break up with the person I think is the one for me >.< I need a lot of Holy Spirit to discern what God wants me to do>.
Wowwwww...👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
I know this video is over a year old, but for anyone who sees this can they let me know the best way to stay friends with their Ex. I just got broken up with my now ex-girlfriend of almost two years and they were one of the greatest blessings in my life and they helped me grow closer to the Lord then what I ever could’ve thought. And I still want her to be good friends, does anyone know how I can go about doing this?
Talk to her about it, reset the boundaries of your relationship. You can’t be as close as you were as your relationship with each other has changed. It might be helpful to take some time away from each other completely, but then it might not be helpful. It is just with asking her and having that discussion. And make that discussion v practical, and set expectations of what your friendship would look like. Obviously each situation is different so take my advice with a grain of salt, but this was helpful for me. Good luck mate, I’ll be praying for you
@@rifow1 I’ve been listening to the Discerning Marriage podcast on Spotify and they go into everything in relationships leading up to marriage including breakups. And it said the exact same thing😂, we’re taking a week break from talking to each other. So far it’s been a real mix of emotions but through some good prayer, scripture, and podcasts I feel a lot better and will do the best I can for myself and to have a fruitful period of singleness in my life. And thank you for your prayers!!
Renounce satin and DO NOT let him grab ahold of you.
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Wow:)
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guys i really need ur oppinion i wanna break up BC i dont feel the same++ and i wanna do it over text is this good
" .her name. sry but i feel like Our realationship is falling apart i dont have the same feelings as when we started this realationship i feel like we should break up i dont like anyone else i just have lost dont feel the same anymore…. sry
VIDEO IDEA: Does God actually have a plan for my life?
St. Michaels Friend ofc He does!
How to have a healthy break up, move on
How do you correctly "Off" the spouse that isn't everything you wanted? Slit her throat, strangulation, poison, electrocution, crushing, drowning??? The least sinful way of killing the spouse.... It is till death do you part, and God doesn't want us to be miserable, so spousicide must be ok for men to commit... Otherwise fornication would be permissable!
(ignores amazon synod)
you can't break up a marriage
Spousicide!
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Dating is the way of the world and wrong.
It's better to listen to Paul and not marry. Those who marry will face difficult circumstances. Satan is stronger than ever, and he destroy almost half of marriages. Live happy in Jesus Christ. Take care.
Better half than none. There is family everywhere, the Trinity, the Holly family Joseph, Mary and Jesus. If you feel a call from the Holly Spirit trust and don't fear. The power is within Him.