How to Heal from Breakups (As a Catholic)

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  • @alyssaroudebush5504
    @alyssaroudebush5504 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    "Don't think the healing will come by returning to that relationship." Great advice, thank you!

  • @angelicarodriguez5921
    @angelicarodriguez5921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    i related to christopher, when he talked about all the time he put into that relationship at a young age. i had been on and off with someone i met in high school for 5 years and just now ended things for good. It felt comforting to know that my feelings of pain are validated and that it just proves how important relationships are, and that only God can truly heal us and fill the space in our hearts that yearn for intimacy and unconditional love.

    • @antoniomoyal
      @antoniomoyal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When going out with someone look for what of God is in him.

    • @iph1
      @iph1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      hey angelica :)

  • @Vrmi143
    @Vrmi143 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "opening the ouchie"!!! I love this!

  • @RHSTang
    @RHSTang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This video has given me a breakthrough in my healing from a relationship that ended almost 7 years ago. Praise God for this ministry and thank you for what you do. There is hope to be free to love again.

  • @thelittlehummingbird
    @thelittlehummingbird ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this necessary conversation on heartbreaks. I also relate to Christopher. I was in a relationship for 6 years and thought he was the one, I invested so much time and emotions. But God had revealed to both of us that it was over. I have been going through all the stages of grief and it's beautiful to see you both say how important it is to feel all the pain in order for God to heal my broken heart.

  • @tamderpo8830
    @tamderpo8830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "We have a God who loves us, (who) loves us in our pain, and who wants to walk with us into those painful places to bring healing". ❤️

  • @mariadle8715
    @mariadle8715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Never been through a break up as such but this has been so helpful

    • @jjchick95
      @jjchick95 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Consider urself lucky

  • @antoniomoyal
    @antoniomoyal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I dare to say that most lacks of committments to true love come out of unresolved failures in past relationships. We need Christ to come and heal us.

  • @cayennepepah
    @cayennepepah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love listening to Elizabeth talking in this account. So joyful and she explains so well. Bless you

  • @elizabethschmitz5435
    @elizabethschmitz5435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow. Deeply touched. Thank you both for bringing this to the table. Especially helpful for me was the "icon" image. This is such an enlightening way to look at past and present relationships, evaluating where it fulfilled that design, and where it may have strayed from it.

  • @beaver0006
    @beaver0006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes! Another GREAT discussion! Thanks for broaching this difficult topic with great analysis and explanation! GREAT JOB! Thanks!

  • @mariawciso9565
    @mariawciso9565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow... this is so true. Thank you, Christopher, for sharing your story. God answered my question through what you have said.

  • @BlessedisShe
    @BlessedisShe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a great discussion!

  • @oambitiousone7100
    @oambitiousone7100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The pain is a map into the heart

  • @HunchoCOL
    @HunchoCOL ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven't been on a relationship but I'm still thinking about a girl from my school, I think I'm obssesed with her because, nowdays girls are rude and rachet, she is candid and maybe is idolatry but maybe She's the most pure person I've ever know
    And I not getting over it, and I've prayed about that but nothing seems to change.

  • @oambitiousone7100
    @oambitiousone7100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting that safe physical touch is part of Christopher’s reaction to pain. Using massage therapy with the intent to feel what you’re blocking is another part of healing!

  • @AP86777
    @AP86777 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, that is perfect for me now. Thanks a lot. I made Zoom lessons about Theology of the Body. Great stuff. ❤ And feeling love pain now. But it will be good again.

  • @veronicacorningstone3888
    @veronicacorningstone3888 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you guys, love you

  • @antoniomoyal
    @antoniomoyal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So much good advice in this video....

  • @linearchitect
    @linearchitect 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks 🙏 lots of love from indonesia...

  • @kathydoe9287
    @kathydoe9287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dr West you might need a healing from the stronghold of that relationship from your youth

  • @maiarazanatta
    @maiarazanatta ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great info, but he should let her talk more in these videos, not the first one I watch in which he’s pretty much the only one talking

  • @loveyouu_
    @loveyouu_ ปีที่แล้ว

    broken

  • @DwayneEagle114
    @DwayneEagle114 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chris can you do a video on the same but men who fall into addiction after the break up.

    • @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute
      @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for the suggestion! We'll consider it.

    • @DwayneEagle114
      @DwayneEagle114 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TheologyoftheBodyInstitute thank you would love if you could have Fr Carlos martins as a guest over zoom perhaps to explain and break down the wound and how to seal it before it becomes a problem. (Only if possible ). I have you book on the theology of the body it’s lovely.

  • @CM-ym9yn
    @CM-ym9yn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Could you share the title of the book that you guys were referring to? @5:38

    • @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute
      @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello @CM-ym9yn ! The book is titled The Dark Night by Fr. Marc Foley

  • @johnnyamuzuwe478
    @johnnyamuzuwe478 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen!

  • @daglasan4285
    @daglasan4285 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    And how do you heal from a breakup as an orthodox?

  • @nellyblancaflor5559
    @nellyblancaflor5559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pls speak slowly. She speaks so fast, we foreigners can't keep up with her

  • @hillarymary
    @hillarymary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She's so bubbly. It's annoying. She is annoying.

    • @dinosaurcj
      @dinosaurcj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I personally like it.

    • @sassafrassanid5718
      @sassafrassanid5718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      offer your frustration to the Lord... if He carried a huge wooden cross to his death you can bear Elizabeth’s demeanor my friend