It can be... I don't know why today I let it sink in, like I really want to feel sad today. I guess in a sense, its a way to never forget ya know, so you don't make the same mistakes again.
I feel like I don’t know how to be happy I’m scared of who I’ll be if I’m happy but I know how it feels to be depressed 😢 it’s comfortable in an odd way
@@beantown7158many of us. Takes a long time to accept life for what it is and for what u make it rather than what you want it to be. This and “nothing changes if nothing changes man” are Theo’s best messages.
Anyone else find it comforting to slip back into your depressing self? Like it hurts and you know it’s bad for you and all the self destructive behaviours but at the same time it feels like home?
It does but its like an addiction. Its just easier to give up, its easier to not change, beacuse you dont deserve it, you dont deserve to be happy. But thats just how you feel. You Do deserve better, you deserve to be happy even if it takes time. Until youre trying youre doing better
hey, i just wanted to tell anyone reading this, its all going to be ok. i know it does NOT seem like it. but please show up for yourself even if its just for a hour in the morning to get the most basic things done. please just one more hour, im not even asking for a day because i know how hard it is being at your lowest, but you are beautiful and unique and you have a light that this world needs even if you cant see it. YOU MATTER and the world would be worse without you in it. please be gentle and loving to yourself. you've got this keep going just 1 % better everyday, dont forget to rest mentally and physically. its easy to burnout, and you're going to be ok. you are not alone in this pain
Dog shut up. For real. What if I’m dying of cancer? What if I get raped and fall off a cliff? You don’t know people. You don’t know who’s reading this. Toxic positivity. Stop. It makes the pain worse.
Can’t tell you how important these talks Theo has with his listeners are. For the men specifically including myself who have so many thoughts that break us down and cripple us at times. Theo puts perspective on it and truly helps to make one understand that it’s ok, you will be ok and you’re not alone in this world.
That bit about being with his loved ones in the dark when the power went out was a deeper analogy than he even intended, it was beautiful. It's nice to have someone shining even a small light on your path through life, reminding you that you do matter, but even if you don't find that someone remember this Bruce Lee quote: “Now I see that I will never find the light unless, like a candle, I am my own fuel.”
“I’m waiting for everything to be perfect before I live my life” hit me like a tonne of bricks, I have been in a high stress job while studying for the past 6 years, lost a lot of friends and stuck in a downward spiral routine. I needed to hear that line to wake me up
Theo Von is seriously a role model for millions of young men. His wit can cut the pain out millions of young mens homes, he’s a a man with so much humility. He’s a man with such brazen vulnerability, it’s teaching people how to work through, and deal with, trauma. He’s also an incredibly kind hearted man. Theo you rock brotha JP
depression isn't always bad For me, depression is a natural response to challenging life experiences. i think It's important to acknowledge and understand feelings rather than suppressing them and videos like these helps me get into a state quicker in which i can acknowledge feelings I've been suppressing for a while.
I totally understand, it's cathartic, like looking for a song and having a good crying session, just reminding yourself that you are human and you are alive, in a healthier manner.
The part when he said his favorite part of when being a kid when" the power went out because that's when the family would be together and had to work together " man I remember being poor and having the lights go out but I loved it because my family would have to work together through the tough time and when the lights came back on we all went back to being dysfunctional
Saved this video and watching this again after many months. Man how much my life has changed in such a short amount of time. When I first watched this I was on the edge with my depression and had zero hope. Today I'm flying out to meet my girlfriends dad and ask for her hand in marriage. I found a girl who is the answer of all my prayers. I've gotten better at regulating my emotions and just living in the present moment. I have a community of people around me who I know care about me and I care about them. Life can change in a blink of an eye. Even a finger nail clipping sized piece of hope for a brighter future can grow into something great. Keep going brothers and sisters.
I can completely agree on the times without electricity, always loved when hurricanes would come and flood the streets. Knock out the power and bring us back to a time of before. I remember sitting on the porch at night hearing silence no cars, every now and then hear a helicopter go by and someone you'd hear people in their lil aluminum skiffs riding through neighborhoods. It was always so peaceful.
One of the best things in life is hope, no matter how bad things get you always need to hope for something better. There is always a silver lining in any situation, once you find it you need to latch on to it. Every person that accomplished great things did so with hope and likewise so too did every survivor. When you've been crawling for so long the most painful thing to do is to get up.
Theo Makes people feel understood and i‘m happy he is doing so Cause i believe Thats His purpose. He is verbalising the thoughts of those that don‘t Know how to express them in a way thats very authentic and comforting. praise God
I love Theo, and I’m sad to realize I stopped watching him about a year ago. But I want to thank you right now Rezzy. You’re a small channel and yet you still make these videos, and with beautiful music as a nice touch. Life gets really really scary sometimes, and it’s videos like these that lift us up in those dark times. I’m glad the TH-cam algorithm recommended me these videos, and I’m thankful for how you compiled Theo’s words. Thank you, subscribed.
Bryan callen is such an important friend I love him so much and how he makes everybody feels so welcome and involved. Thank you for being part of this, thank you for your time Theo. My son is named after you
Cool might do the same if it: Find a girl+determines she’s worth it+she feels the same+we both want kids+and nothing bad happens. Man if that insane prospect lines up like the planets… 😂
Theo Von is like the family member you avoid because you’re ashamed they’re going to notice how bad you’re doing and judge you. Then you realise it was never about that. They just understood. And wanted you to know they understand. I love these videos. But I hate how they break through every little egotistical barrier I’ve built to protect myself. God bless you Theo.
negative emotions can really be addicting for some reason. maybe becuz being sad and angry seems so much more authentic and real. sometimes i doubt my happiness but i never doubt my sadness. when im sad i know im sad. when im happy, well, im just not so sure. this new hopecore genre is awesome. im a big fan. keep pushin these videos out man, ur saving lives.
Damn man, I just have to say thank you for sharing this cause I have never heard anyone else describe that feeling so perfectly. Not doubting your sadness, but doubting your happiness. I feel this a lot, and I didn't know how to word it, so thank you for the more clear perspective. It's almost like when I feel happiness, it hesitates. I almost don't feel allowed to feel it sometimes, of course I work past that feeling but it's odd to have it come up in general. Anyways, blew me away. Thanks
"I'm always waiting for everything to be perfect before I live my life". Fuck that hit hard. I put career and money ahead of love. I tried to get the money, house, cars, etc before getting settled. Now still single in my 40s. I regret it now. No matter how much I have, I still feel empty. Don't wait for everything to be perfect before you live.
@@lindboknifeandtool That's what I thought too. Then I realized I'm not someone who likes to flaunt. And I'm looking for a deeper connection rather than a younger girl using me to take IG pics at high end restaurants. The high quality women get snatched up no later than early 30's. You have time, but if you don't hit financial success by then, don't wait. Find your companion. It's not worth being alone. Nothing is. Loneliness is utter pain and agony.
Waiting for everything to be perfect before living my life, I’m stood here aged 21 having worked full time from education, ironing my uncomfortable polyester white collared shirt to go and face another day in a corporate job that I despise and that makes me feel less than human. I keep telling myself that I just need that one break before it’ll all get better. What if it gets worse? And then I wasted today hoping for a better tomorrow. What if tomorrow something changes and it isn’t the same as what was today, a person is lost, something comes or goes. I nearly cried when I heard Theo start talking about that in that segment. That was exactly what I needed to hear I think
I haven’t cried in many years but I cried when he spoke about always striving for perfection before living your life. For some reason it just struck me so hard because I’m just starting my life at 22 years old and I don’t want to make that mistake one day because I’ve started noticing that I do it already and have caused many problems in my life already 😔
its alright man, you re not alone. im 20 and this same problem made me miss many opportunities. just go do what you feel without thinking too much about it, you ll have time to think about it later
It’s reassuring to know that even with all the success and love and adoring fans that someone like Theo has, he still struggles with the pain/trauma from his childhood and his addiction. It’s like you never really get over it. I feel the same (but ofc I’m nowhere near Theo’s success) I’m so glad he’s open about it. He left the King and the Sting to do his own thing and I think this is one of the many benefits of that- he doesn’t feel like he has to just be funny all the time and he can open up
5:00 this part i can resonate with. Theres been many times where ive done things with friends or family and i wasnt 100% there or had a mood but looking back those were the best moments. The closest people have told me that it didnt matter what mood i was in or if i was all there. The fact i showed up meant a lot to them. In the moment i was so hung up on something else or worried about what i got them if it was a birthday party or something. Later on i found out that just showing up was all they needed. Its astonishing that something so simple like that brings so much meaning but yet can be difficult at times.
I try to not dip into the sadness, I tend to ignore the feeling entirely because it’s easier to get by. I spent so much of my adolescence so sad and empty, I don’t want to fall back into that bottomless pit. But sometimes, late at night, when you’re all alone, the depression can be comforting. It’s almost like you’re not alone.
I love and believe in you, man. Be kind to yourself. You're important. Life can be really hard sometimes, but you're gonna keep on getting up, my brother. Bless.
Dude I used to watch these a year ago at work during a really hard time in my life. I was working this trash job through apartment complex’s. Walking around, picking up trash bags, dirty asf, knowing I’m not living my true purpose. ( no offense to anyone with that job that enjoys it ). But here I am, 1 year later. I have a job I love, and recently got a manager promotion, I’m in the most loving and caring relationship with the sweetest, most loving girl that I’m pretty sure is the one.. and I couldn’t be happier. It gets better boys. Just keep your head up, keep it pushing, stay strong during the dark nights, and you’ll be okay. I promise.
I love reading stuff like this… Last year I’d listen to this on repeat during a very hard time myself I was doing okay but fell back into bad ways and just hating myself so thank you man I’m gonna do better
Thanks for this compilation man, something so real and grounded about Theo makes me feel seen and understood, and these vids are an awesome way to take a minute to reflect on what I need to do for the best.
That part about your father hits home becuz my dad died like last year and we were never close either and it hurts me to this day I never got that relationship with him
I use to use videos like this to make me less sad. All they did was allowing me to maintain a sad lifestyle. Now I'm free of the lifestyle and these videos does nothinh for me. Mabye some of the watchers will benefit from these but alot need to stop huffing the copium. Life is short. Start making changes. Remove those toxic people. decorate your room. Uppgrade you closet. Uppgrade yourself. Have a good day. Best of luck guys.
Thanks for making this, it’s helped me even if just today This past week a lot has happened and I’ve really felt I can’t keep going on I know it’s someone else’s words but you out this together and I saw it tonight so thank you
Sometimes I don’t feel worth it man. You are definitely worth it. You are a good person, you’re saying shit that really helps people thank you. You are helping people by just relating, sometimes people don’t need advice, they just need to know that someone else feels the same. Thank you. I’m thankful for you.
Thank you for these. I’m at work crying because of how much shit I have bottled up. Life isn’t easy but it isn’t hard either. My situation isn’t forever but it feels that way when there’s no one to talk to. I have my dad around but what can he tell me that I don’t already know? I have to sort of let things pass and remain strong.
Every year i get old older life feels like more of a struggle, to the point where i don't know how far I'll make it if I'm being honest. Most of the time it feels like nobody really cares we all have our own shit to deal with and you just don't want to be a burden on other people who are already struggling as well so I just keep it to myself. Maybe I'll figure life out and make it or maybe I'll feel like I've had enough in a years time , life is odd and I don't think I'll ever figure it out.
I always say to be a good therapist or psychologist or just a life advisor of sorts u had to be in that dark place as well if not u will say all ur patients are crazy but if u know that dark place u know the person is suffering and struggling... peace be upon u bro
Wait. This is a thing you're doing? Im not shocked, but im caught off guard, and i guess i gotta cry it out man. Sheesh. Word hook. Took the gut. Love you, Theo. I dont normally say that to a stranger on TH-cam, but after really getting to know your work deeperband deeper its clear u deserve all the love from your fans. Thanks broh. This is real
Thanks theo! I relate to your words alot and it made me feel better about the situation im going thru. I was also grateful for my dad but I was also angry at my dad when I was 16 when he passed. I judged him without ever knowing him. Even if the time we had was limited, there were moments when I know I should’ve gotten to know him more but I wholeheartedly regret not taking those chances. Hopefully one day I dont make the same mistake again with my own children. People don’t realize how much your content is keeping some of us going. I feel like we all share this feeling within us trying to understand ourselves but never truly finding out why.
"Resentment is like there's a corner inside of you where there's supposed to be a curve" hit so fucking hard. So deep. This is exactly how I feel and how I will explain or relate to this feeling from now on.
I've been pulling myself out of a pit recently. Got a job, aiming to leave the shelter life in a few months, started drawing again... But I've found myself on the edge of another pit. My mom isn't doing well, financially, and maybe mentally? I'm not certain about the latter, but I have a feeling. We live in different provinces, and I'm just starting to get my life back on track. She thinks I'm doing far better than I am. I guess I'm just scared because I don't have the means to help her, as she doesn't have a home either, but isn't quite "homeless". It's not a fatalistic feeling about the future, but one of concern and uncertainty. Listening to this is soothing, in a sad way. The hope lingers too, and I guess looking for a positive here is that I've begun my journey of self-revitalization; all I need to do now is keep working hard, and flush out all of my habits that do not serve me, so I can better serve my loved ones and my self. I do have hope, I just need to cultivate it. I know you can too, whoever is reading this: we aren't alone. Although the amount of effort needed to feel that way is increasing, investing that effort into the right people can easily change your life and theirs.
Your mother is happy to see you trying to be the you she knew when you were young. It isn’t realistic but it’s warranted and that doesn’t make it any less real. Use it to continue your growth even in the most minuscule way. Reminders will save you from yourself. Don’t stress about not being able to provide yet or even the worry about it even being a possibility in the future. These things fall into place they aren’t “put” into place. I’ve hired many people in transitionary periods and the best advice I can give you brother is stay away from what you know. Focus on work and building what you don’t have, what you know is what got you where you are. You know this and so does everyone around you. Everyone wants a partner in misery but it takes a special person to take part in someone’s growth. The only thing you need to “take” is your time brother.
The world is cruel and always will u will get off this video and get motivated for a couple hours days maximum and then something out there gets you down again , let go of your urges your bad cravings let go of your addictions that you know for a fact that they’re making your psychical and mental health horrible , idk what next im trying to figure it out but yeah man we think too much about stuff just be just live just interact don’t think about what will or would happen if you know for damn well it’s not going to harm you in any way shape or form like you’ve already sabotaged yourself let that sink in words of wisdom keep on grid
Those somewhat early days of the podcast hit so damn hard. Theo would have me feeling so much that I hadn’t felt in so long. Felt like we were growing together and to see his success has been awesome. Can’t believe I used to be a bigger fan of Brandon than Theo on King sting
man I tell you , the things theo says are verbatim what I'm thinking . like when he says when everything is there ill show up . I also spend far too much time trying to make things perfect before I show up.
I thot the opposite of addiction is sobriety,; turns out it s human connection. Sobriety is putting addiction in check. But it can take over. Connection to ourself, to others is what heals u from addiction. No wonder u are healing u and others from your own work on the podcast. How incredible to be of service and be so valuable to even strangers!
you know, i do everything i deem is right, i am passing my university exams and getting further but only barely. somedays i cant even get out of bed and sometimes it even gets a little better but then it all comes crumbling down like a house of cards and than i wish that it never shouldve gotten better in the first place, because losing everything i achieved and worked so hard for, is harder thannot having it in the first place. i am sure, some peoples lifes doesnt get better, no matter how hard they try. i am still trying to accept this and still keep going but idk its hard
Being sad can be addicting, these help but keep striving to better things for yourself guys
It can be... I don't know why today I let it sink in, like I really want to feel sad today. I guess in a sense, its a way to never forget ya know, so you don't make the same mistakes again.
I feel like I don’t know how to be happy I’m scared of who I’ll be if I’m happy but I know how it feels to be depressed 😢 it’s comfortable in an odd way
@@juandavidtrujilloaristizab3764 I feel you, man. It gets comfortable down here.
@@juandavidtrujilloaristizab3764 feeling sad makes us feel human, if we didnt feel sad then we wouldn't feel anything
@@RochellB46 I wouldn’t even know who I was if I wasn’t sad, it’s my identity now 😢
that dustin poirier part when he talks about you cant wait for everything to be perfect to start living your life was so good
Touched me too
It's so true waiting to feel good enough as life passes you by in the mean time
How I’ve lived forever
@@beantown7158many of us. Takes a long time to accept life for what it is and for what u make it rather than what you want it to be.
This and “nothing changes if nothing changes man” are Theo’s best messages.
"You can't wait for everything to be perfect, to start living your life". Man, that hit.
We are truly blessed to be born in the same era that Theo Von is in
Anyone else find it comforting to slip back into your depressing self? Like it hurts and you know it’s bad for you and all the self destructive behaviours but at the same time it feels like home?
Absolutely. My eyes would rather not adjust to the light but stay comfortable in the darkness of the hole I'm in.
don't do it
It does but its like an addiction. Its just easier to give up, its easier to not change, beacuse you dont deserve it, you dont deserve to be happy. But thats just how you feel. You Do deserve better, you deserve to be happy even if it takes time. Until youre trying youre doing better
@@blyab5167 absolutely
That is called the fear of change
hey, i just wanted to tell anyone reading this, its all going to be ok. i know it does NOT seem like it. but please show up for yourself even if its just for a hour in the morning to get the most basic things done. please just one more hour, im not even asking for a day because i know how hard it is being at your lowest, but you are beautiful and unique and you have a light that this world needs even if you cant see it. YOU MATTER and the world would be worse without you in it. please be gentle and loving to yourself. you've got this keep going just 1 % better everyday, dont forget to rest mentally and physically. its easy to burnout, and you're going to be ok. you are not alone in this pain
This was a nice message, thanks for sharing it
Thank you
You healed a soul this day..thankyou
Why do you say I matter to the world. Wouldn’t it be better without me me in it?
Dog shut up. For real. What if I’m dying of cancer? What if I get raped and fall off a cliff?
You don’t know people. You don’t know who’s reading this.
Toxic positivity. Stop. It makes the pain worse.
Can’t tell you how important these talks Theo has with his listeners are. For the men specifically including myself who have so many thoughts that break us down and cripple us at times. Theo puts perspective on it and truly helps to make one understand that it’s ok, you will be ok and you’re not alone in this world.
That bit about being with his loved ones in the dark when the power went out was a deeper analogy than he even intended, it was beautiful. It's nice to have someone shining even a small light on your path through life, reminding you that you do matter, but even if you don't find that someone remember this Bruce Lee quote: “Now I see that I will never find the light unless, like a candle, I am my own fuel.”
“I’m waiting for everything to be perfect before I live my life” hit me like a tonne of bricks, I have been in a high stress job while studying for the past 6 years, lost a lot of friends and stuck in a downward spiral routine. I needed to hear that line to wake me up
Reminder that you are in control, you are capable, you are not alone. Good luck my friend.
omg....I know dude...
Theo Von is seriously a role model for millions of young men. His wit can cut the pain out millions of young mens homes, he’s a a man with so much humility. He’s a man with such brazen vulnerability, it’s teaching people how to work through, and deal with, trauma. He’s also an incredibly kind hearted man.
Theo you rock brotha JP
We need more Theo Vons in the world and less Andrew Tates.
depression isn't always bad
For me, depression is a natural response to challenging life experiences. i think It's important to acknowledge and understand feelings rather than suppressing them and videos like these helps me get into a state quicker in which i can acknowledge feelings I've been suppressing for a while.
I totally understand, it's cathartic, like looking for a song and having a good crying session, just reminding yourself that you are human and you are alive, in a healthier manner.
The part when he said his favorite part of when being a kid when" the power went out because that's when the family would be together and had to work together " man I remember being poor and having the lights go out but I loved it because my family would have to work together through the tough time and when the lights came back on we all went back to being dysfunctional
Theo von is what the media world needs. Truth. Wisdom.
Forgive and let go the troubles of the past, your future self will thank you.
Listening to this made me not feel alone thanks to you bro
Saved this video and watching this again after many months. Man how much my life has changed in such a short amount of time. When I first watched this I was on the edge with my depression and had zero hope.
Today I'm flying out to meet my girlfriends dad and ask for her hand in marriage. I found a girl who is the answer of all my prayers. I've gotten better at regulating my emotions and just living in the present moment. I have a community of people around me who I know care about me and I care about them.
Life can change in a blink of an eye. Even a finger nail clipping sized piece of hope for a brighter future can grow into something great.
Keep going brothers and sisters.
For me these are comforting like I’m not the only one to feel sad and it’s gonna be ok
I can completely agree on the times without electricity, always loved when hurricanes would come and flood the streets. Knock out the power and bring us back to a time of before. I remember sitting on the porch at night hearing silence no cars, every now and then hear a helicopter go by and someone you'd hear people in their lil aluminum skiffs riding through neighborhoods. It was always so peaceful.
One of the best things in life is hope, no matter how bad things get you always need to hope for something better. There is always a silver lining in any situation, once you find it you need to latch on to it. Every person that accomplished great things did so with hope and likewise so too did every survivor. When you've been crawling for so long the most painful thing to do is to get up.
Theo Makes people feel understood and i‘m happy he is doing so Cause i believe Thats His purpose. He is verbalising the thoughts of those that don‘t Know how to express them in a way thats very authentic and comforting. praise God
God Theo is a national treasure.
International*
Sensational*
Global*
I love Theo, and I’m sad to realize I stopped watching him about a year ago. But I want to thank you right now Rezzy. You’re a small channel and yet you still make these videos, and with beautiful music as a nice touch. Life gets really really scary sometimes, and it’s videos like these that lift us up in those dark times. I’m glad the TH-cam algorithm recommended me these videos, and I’m thankful for how you compiled Theo’s words. Thank you, subscribed.
Bryan callen is such an important friend I love him so much and how he makes everybody feels so welcome and involved. Thank you for being part of this, thank you for your time Theo. My son is named after you
Cool might do the same if it:
Find a girl+determines she’s worth it+she feels the same+we both want kids+and nothing bad happens.
Man if that insane prospect lines up like the planets… 😂
Theo is so much smarter than people give him credit. God bless him, by far my favorite comedian❤
You posted this at the right time sir thank you
Bruh the last one literally made me cry, good on you for making these
Theo Von is like the family member you avoid because you’re ashamed they’re going to notice how bad you’re doing and judge you. Then you realise it was never about that. They just understood. And wanted you to know they understand.
I love these videos. But I hate how they break through every little egotistical barrier I’ve built to protect myself.
God bless you Theo.
negative emotions can really be addicting for some reason. maybe becuz being sad and angry seems so much more authentic and real. sometimes i doubt my happiness but i never doubt my sadness. when im sad i know im sad. when im happy, well, im just not so sure.
this new hopecore genre is awesome. im a big fan. keep pushin these videos out man, ur saving lives.
Damn man, I just have to say thank you for sharing this cause I have never heard anyone else describe that feeling so perfectly. Not doubting your sadness, but doubting your happiness. I feel this a lot, and I didn't know how to word it, so thank you for the more clear perspective. It's almost like when I feel happiness, it hesitates. I almost don't feel allowed to feel it sometimes, of course I work past that feeling but it's odd to have it come up in general. Anyways, blew me away. Thanks
"I'm always waiting for everything to be perfect before I live my life". Fuck that hit hard. I put career and money ahead of love. I tried to get the money, house, cars, etc before getting settled. Now still single in my 40s. I regret it now. No matter how much I have, I still feel empty. Don't wait for everything to be perfect before you live.
I’m 25. Putting girls off. Thinking I’ll be valuable to them when I’m older.
@@lindboknifeandtool That's what I thought too. Then I realized I'm not someone who likes to flaunt. And I'm looking for a deeper connection rather than a younger girl using me to take IG pics at high end restaurants. The high quality women get snatched up no later than early 30's. You have time, but if you don't hit financial success by then, don't wait. Find your companion. It's not worth being alone. Nothing is. Loneliness is utter pain and agony.
Waiting for everything to be perfect before living my life, I’m stood here aged 21 having worked full time from education, ironing my uncomfortable polyester white collared shirt to go and face another day in a corporate job that I despise and that makes me feel less than human. I keep telling myself that I just need that one break before it’ll all get better. What if it gets worse? And then I wasted today hoping for a better tomorrow. What if tomorrow something changes and it isn’t the same as what was today, a person is lost, something comes or goes. I nearly cried when I heard Theo start talking about that in that segment. That was exactly what I needed to hear I think
from 4:55 to 7:21 is beautiful. it hit alot of notes in my life.
this comment section feels like my heart speaking 😭 none of you are ever alone.
I haven’t cried in many years but I cried when he spoke about always striving for perfection before living your life. For some reason it just struck me so hard because I’m just starting my life at 22 years old and I don’t want to make that mistake one day because I’ve started noticing that I do it already and have caused many problems in my life already 😔
its alright man, you re not alone. im 20 and this same problem made me miss many opportunities. just go do what you feel without thinking too much about it, you ll have time to think about it later
@@todie616 Thanks man I appreciate that a lot
How you doing mate @@alessiosmith123
that ducking line if you can’t wait for everything to be perfect and to just live now and act upon things now really hit man
It’s reassuring to know that even with all the success and love and adoring fans that someone like Theo has, he still struggles with the pain/trauma from his childhood and his addiction. It’s like you never really get over it. I feel the same (but ofc I’m nowhere near Theo’s success)
I’m so glad he’s open about it. He left the King and the Sting to do his own thing and I think this is one of the many benefits of that- he doesn’t feel like he has to just be funny all the time and he can open up
5:00 this part i can resonate with. Theres been many times where ive done things with friends or family and i wasnt 100% there or had a mood but looking back those were the best moments. The closest people have told me that it didnt matter what mood i was in or if i was all there. The fact i showed up meant a lot to them. In the moment i was so hung up on something else or worried about what i got them if it was a birthday party or something. Later on i found out that just showing up was all they needed. Its astonishing that something so simple like that brings so much meaning but yet can be difficult at times.
The talking about the power going out and everything just feeling close for once thats so real
Hopecore seriously is saving lives
I try to not dip into the sadness, I tend to ignore the feeling entirely because it’s easier to get by. I spent so much of my adolescence so sad and empty, I don’t want to fall back into that bottomless pit. But sometimes, late at night, when you’re all alone, the depression can be comforting. It’s almost like you’re not alone.
I struggle to get out the pit I have put myself in but these videos genuinely give me hope makes me feel less alone.
I love and believe in you, man. Be kind to yourself. You're important. Life can be really hard sometimes, but you're gonna keep on getting up, my brother. Bless.
@@HURHRHRHRHRI second this. You are the opposite of alone ❤ stay strong brother :)
Here with you man
Love you Theo, it’s so so so amazing that you are able to talk about your trauma with such a perspective ❤
Dude I used to watch these a year ago at work during a really hard time in my life. I was working this trash job through apartment complex’s. Walking around, picking up trash bags, dirty asf, knowing I’m not living my true purpose. ( no offense to anyone with that job that enjoys it ).
But here I am, 1 year later. I have a job I love, and recently got a manager promotion, I’m in the most loving and caring relationship with the sweetest, most loving girl that I’m pretty sure is the one.. and I couldn’t be happier.
It gets better boys. Just keep your head up, keep it pushing, stay strong during the dark nights, and you’ll be okay. I promise.
love this for you bro!
@@JezusPlayzFactions thanks G!
I love reading stuff like this…
Last year I’d listen to this on repeat during a very hard time myself
I was doing okay but fell back into bad ways and just hating myself so thank you man I’m gonna do better
These talks are my favorite part of Theos podcast. Thank you! Please continue making these videos.
Thanks for this compilation man, something so real and grounded about Theo makes me feel seen and understood, and these vids are an awesome way to take a minute to reflect on what I need to do for the best.
i just wish i had someone to share my moments,it's sometimes really hard man.
I LOVE THEO HES SO COOL
That part about your father hits home becuz my dad died like last year and we were never close either and it hurts me to this day I never got that relationship with him
i was waiting for this thankyou
Theo von is one of the realest person in the world
I use to use videos like this to make me less sad. All they did was allowing me to maintain a sad lifestyle. Now I'm free of the lifestyle and these videos does nothinh for me. Mabye some of the watchers will benefit from these but alot need to stop huffing the copium. Life is short. Start making changes. Remove those toxic people. decorate your room. Uppgrade you closet. Uppgrade yourself. Have a good day. Best of luck guys.
Happy new year
in my opinion these videos help but only when you are really suffering and need support, if you rely on them emotionally it will not get you anywhere
Thanks for making this, it’s helped me even if just today
This past week a lot has happened and I’ve really felt I can’t keep going on
I know it’s someone else’s words but you out this together and I saw it tonight so thank you
Sometimes I don’t feel worth it man. You are definitely worth it. You are a good person, you’re saying shit that really helps people thank you. You are helping people by just relating, sometimes people don’t need advice, they just need to know that someone else feels the same. Thank you. I’m thankful for you.
Thank you for these. I’m at work crying because of how much shit I have bottled up. Life isn’t easy but it isn’t hard either. My situation isn’t forever but it feels that way when there’s no one to talk to. I have my dad around but what can he tell me that I don’t already know? I have to sort of let things pass and remain strong.
Hope you're ok
My dad doesn’t know shit about life. He white knuckled it through life without empathy for anyone. He can’t imagine being depressed or even sad.
I'm crying I love you theo your such an inspiration
The nation should walk out when he passes to give him the respect he deserves
Every year i get old older life feels like more of a struggle, to the point where i don't know how far I'll make it if I'm being honest. Most of the time it feels like nobody really cares we all have our own shit to deal with and you just don't want to be a burden on other people who are already struggling as well so I just keep it to myself. Maybe I'll figure life out and make it or maybe I'll feel like I've had enough in a years time , life is odd and I don't think I'll ever figure it out.
"you can wait everything to be perfect to start living your life" that hit me to and it hit hard, very hard!"
I love Theo Von man. Realest dude
Thanks for showing up theo 👊❤️
Theo Von is an actual national treasure god bless him
I always say to be a good therapist or psychologist or just a life advisor of sorts u had to be in that dark place as well if not u will say all ur patients are crazy but if u know that dark place u know the person is suffering and struggling... peace be upon u bro
Wait. This is a thing you're doing? Im not shocked, but im caught off guard, and i guess i gotta cry it out man. Sheesh. Word hook. Took the gut. Love you, Theo. I dont normally say that to a stranger on TH-cam, but after really getting to know your work deeperband deeper its clear u deserve all the love from your fans. Thanks broh. This is real
Thank you for the video beautiful clips and music, made me cry middle of class❤
You can't wait for everything to be perfect.. before you start living your life.
Damn 😔
Thank you. I cried tears. Of joy and grief. Thank u brother
Keep the uploads coming man these are great
This feels like a therapy session and we’re all the therapists.
The guy at the end is right. Theo is important. He helps so many people. More than he knows. Myself included. I watch these edits all the time.
He is Preaching for real
Thanks theo! I relate to your words alot and it made me feel better about the situation im going thru. I was also grateful for my dad but I was also angry at my dad when I was 16 when he passed. I judged him without ever knowing him. Even if the time we had was limited, there were moments when I know I should’ve gotten to know him more but I wholeheartedly regret not taking those chances. Hopefully one day I dont make the same mistake again with my own children. People don’t realize how much your content is keeping some of us going. I feel like we all share this feeling within us trying to understand ourselves but never truly finding out why.
Thanks! I'm grateful for you.
thank you for making these videos, they put my mind at peace
"Resentment is like there's a corner inside of you where there's supposed to be a curve" hit so fucking hard. So deep.
This is exactly how I feel and how I will explain or relate to this feeling from now on.
“Speed bumps for the way that you can love others”
i need to treat others the way i want to be treated
Yeah bro, it’s one of the most important things I think about.
Golden rule
Thankyou Rezzy
Perfect timing. Thank you
I've been pulling myself out of a pit recently. Got a job, aiming to leave the shelter life in a few months, started drawing again... But I've found myself on the edge of another pit. My mom isn't doing well, financially, and maybe mentally? I'm not certain about the latter, but I have a feeling. We live in different provinces, and I'm just starting to get my life back on track. She thinks I'm doing far better than I am. I guess I'm just scared because I don't have the means to help her, as she doesn't have a home either, but isn't quite "homeless". It's not a fatalistic feeling about the future, but one of concern and uncertainty. Listening to this is soothing, in a sad way. The hope lingers too, and I guess looking for a positive here is that I've begun my journey of self-revitalization; all I need to do now is keep working hard, and flush out all of my habits that do not serve me, so I can better serve my loved ones and my self. I do have hope, I just need to cultivate it. I know you can too, whoever is reading this: we aren't alone. Although the amount of effort needed to feel that way is increasing, investing that effort into the right people can easily change your life and theirs.
Your mother is happy to see you trying to be the you she knew when you were young. It isn’t realistic but it’s warranted and that doesn’t make it any less real. Use it to continue your growth even in the most minuscule way. Reminders will save you from yourself.
Don’t stress about not being able to provide yet or even the worry about it even being a possibility in the future. These things fall into place they aren’t “put” into place.
I’ve hired many people in transitionary periods and the best advice I can give you brother is stay away from what you know. Focus on work and building what you don’t have, what you know is what got you where you are. You know this and so does everyone around you.
Everyone wants a partner in misery but it takes a special person to take part in someone’s growth. The only thing you need to “take” is your time brother.
Please make this atleast a 5 part series awesome work
The world is cruel and always will u will get off this video and get motivated for a couple hours days maximum and then something out there gets you down again , let go of your urges your bad cravings let go of your addictions that you know for a fact that they’re making your psychical and mental health horrible , idk what next im trying to figure it out but yeah man we think too much about stuff just be just live just interact don’t think about what will or would happen if you know for damn well it’s not going to harm you in any way shape or form like you’ve already sabotaged yourself let that sink in words of wisdom keep on grid
This is gold.
Those somewhat early days of the podcast hit so damn hard. Theo would have me feeling so much that I hadn’t felt in so long. Felt like we were growing together and to see his success has been awesome. Can’t believe I used to be a bigger fan of Brandon than Theo on King sting
I love these videos of Theo. It’s serious but kinda funny because of his word play
God Bless you all have a wonderful day🙏✝️You are loved
"at your worst you feel nothing and at your best you feel everything" Pipkin
man I tell you , the things theo says are verbatim what I'm thinking . like when he says when everything is there ill show up . I also spend far too much time trying to make things perfect before I show up.
Theo is a genius, everything makes complete sense, if you’re really listening to him.
please make more of these man i need them
I thot the opposite of addiction is sobriety,; turns out it s human connection.
Sobriety is putting addiction in check. But it can take over. Connection to ourself, to others is what heals u from addiction.
No wonder u are healing u and others from your own work on the podcast.
How incredible to be of service and be so valuable to even strangers!
4:10 that whole segment is very profound and true.
push forward kings, the only way it up. it's okay to get put down, its necessary to get back up
Damn Theo... These hit me right in the chest. Bro is a modern day philosopher
you know, i do everything i deem is right, i am passing my university exams and getting further but only barely. somedays i cant even get out of bed and sometimes it even gets a little better but then it all comes crumbling down like a house of cards and than i wish that it never shouldve gotten better in the first place, because losing everything i achieved and worked so hard for, is harder thannot having it in the first place. i am sure, some peoples lifes doesnt get better, no matter how hard they try. i am still trying to accept this and still keep going but idk its hard
Love you, Theo.❤🙏❤
"Soumin special about that" ... Love you Theo!!!!!!
hopecore
when theo gets real hes just the best
Thankyou so much for these videos
Genuinely hope everyone here has a great 2025 man ❤
Bro I tapped as a joke and got hit w the most relatable shit ever man
shes a keeper, she said yes when she didnt see a ring, just him.