‘There is a strong link between being gender nonconforming and growing up gay.’ Helen Joyce

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  • @SpectatorTV
    @SpectatorTV  ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Full video: th-cam.com/video/o8b6b2i_LH0/w-d-xo.html

    • @guff9567
      @guff9567 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anusodomisation must be made illegal

  • @katesteventon5296
    @katesteventon5296 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    Puberty taught them who they were.
    That is a powerfully true statement. Almost as if puberty has a purpose 🤔

    • @MrRABC1
      @MrRABC1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats why leftists push puberty blockers

    • @GF-qb3uo
      @GF-qb3uo ปีที่แล้ว +12

      WPATH, the World Professional Association for Transgender Help, is the professional association for physicians involved in gender health, and propagates the policies and standards of care for the field. They formerly admitted that in most children, gender dysphoria will disappear before, or early in, puberty with their recommended studies demonstrating that up to 94% of children referred for gender dysphoria (77-94% in one set of studies and 73-88% in another) grow out of their gender dysphoria naturally. The bitter irony is that WPATH now pushes "gender affirming care" instead of advocating counseling for these kids.

    • @MrRABC1
      @MrRABC1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GF-qb3uo
      They need to be stopped and as your saying most grow out of this nonsense. People should be locked up for pushing this stuff on kids and robbing them of a future in some cases if they have surgery.

    • @GF-qb3uo
      @GF-qb3uo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrRABC1 I agree 100%. In 10 years, society will look back in horror at this time, much as we do now at the lobotomy craze of the early/mid 20th century, with which it has many parallels. The Federalist has on article of the similarities ("10 Ways The Transgender Push Mirrors The Lobotomy Craze") which appeared in an earlier form in 4thWaveNow, a blog for LGB-supportive parents concerned about the increasing trend to medically “transition” gender-nonconforming youth ("Lobotomy: The rise and fall of a miracle cure").

    • @mademoiselledusfonctionell1609
      @mademoiselledusfonctionell1609 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@GF-qb3uo Sad indeed. However, many if not most of the new group of patients exhibiting gender dysphoria are young teenage girls, i.e. many of them have already entered puberty. I believe that the (mostly mental) pains of puberty, in combination with these ideas of "changing sex", is driving this avalanche of patients that we see. (I don't know about you, but I, and most of my friends, have VERY few fond memories of the puberty process itself. The other day I learned that while a butterfly larva goes through the pupa stage and becomes more or less mush, the nervous system is conserved, so that they still remember scents and so on when they finally emerge as butterflies. We humans instead become mental mush during our "pupaerty".)

  • @david8157
    @david8157 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Helen Joyce is a woman of courage & character and a hero of our times imo

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      100%

    • @TacticalGamingFool
      @TacticalGamingFool 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes being a misgendering bully, so strong, so brave. 🤡

  • @catherinerobilliard7662
    @catherinerobilliard7662 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Helen Joyce, the Voice of Reason

  • @joshneal7857
    @joshneal7857 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Put this lady on every news cast please

    • @mastermide77
      @mastermide77 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why she says the same wrong things all the others say

  • @caliconservative20
    @caliconservative20 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    If we support questioning the answers will emerge without medical and surgical interventions. FIRST DO NO HARM.

  • @JCKeternitatis
    @JCKeternitatis ปีที่แล้ว +69

    One of my daughters was till puberty more of a tomboy and wanted to be a boy...she is 19 now and since puberty she can't recall why she was this tomboy girl...and she is absolutely straight...and a beautiful, regular young lady...

    • @Orchideology
      @Orchideology ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have read so many comments from people saying that about themselves! And so many expresses great grattitude for either being born before these ultimate years of great pressure to getting chemically castrated and having healthy body parts removed by surgeons, or having parents who just let their children be tomboy'ish or girly until they'd passed through puberty and things changed. So many being happy with their lìfe, and grateful for being parents; a possibility that they wouldn't have had if they had received "affirming care".

    • @ashleywatts6235
      @ashleywatts6235 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me too. I was the biggest tomboy and thought I wanted to be a boy. Now I'm a grown adult who likes girly things because I was allowed to mature the way I was intended to. I have children that I likely would not have had if I were a child today.

    • @lisaclark6134
      @lisaclark6134 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We need to leave kids alone. They will sort themselves out if given time.

    • @MrRABC1
      @MrRABC1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Orchideology
      Just the term "Affirming care" scares the shit outa me. I hate all of this.

    • @mastermide77
      @mastermide77 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@MrRABC1like 90% of gender comferming care is just letting them us pronouns

  • @brokenandcraked
    @brokenandcraked ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When I was a little girl, I was the biggest Tom boy you would have met. I didn't wear Girl clothes at all. I hated makeup and jewelry. I had only male friends and preferred to play sports or do traditionally male hobbies.
    I vividly remember being mad when puberty hit, and i started growing breasts. I joked that I was a boy living in a girls body.
    Then puberty finished. Turns out I'm bisexual. And while I'm definitely not the epitome of femininity. I am definitely a woman. My sex does not define my personality.
    It really scares me to think about how if I was young today, how I would have been pushed into hormones and surgeries. I love my breasts and the curves of my body. It just took time for me to grow into them and figure out who I was.

    • @yeetyeet1655
      @yeetyeet1655 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brokenandcraked Honey I know you’ve been lied to but that’s not how that works. No transgender person would’ve pressured you to transition because you like sports. You would not have been kidnapped and forced to transition. This does not happen

    • @brokenandcraked
      @brokenandcraked 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yeetyeet1655 I can't tell if you're just really misinformed or if you're trying to gaslight me.

    • @yeetyeet1655
      @yeetyeet1655 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brokenandcraked Sweetheart the NHS has a 5 year wait time for gender clinics. This cannot possibly happen

    • @brokenandcraked
      @brokenandcraked 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yeetyeet1655 Thank you for clarifying that you are gaslighting me.

    • @yeetyeet1655
      @yeetyeet1655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @brokenandcraked It literally does. I am presenting facts. You are presenting your feelings and uninformed speculation

  • @skwest
    @skwest ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Let the lawsuits begin.
    It couldn't happen to a more deserving group of ghoulish doctors.

    • @familhagaudir8561
      @familhagaudir8561 ปีที่แล้ว

      Too bad tens of thousands of kids are being permanently damaged and sterilized while this is still allowed.

  • @Hidinginyourcupboard
    @Hidinginyourcupboard ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Don’t hurt your body!

  • @richalderson6069
    @richalderson6069 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I think it's pretty obvious sometimes which kid is gonna grow up gay and some parents are now turning to transing their children to deal with their homophobia.

    • @clairhonnor6211
      @clairhonnor6211 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Whilst pretending to be progressive!

    • @richalderson6069
      @richalderson6069 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@clairhonnor6211 Exactly!

    • @Tinyflypie
      @Tinyflypie ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That is an excellent point and one that has been rolling around in my head for a while. Thanks for putting it into words. They prefer to mutilate their child than to allow it a gay identity.

    • @AndreasViking1
      @AndreasViking1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol it’s not homophobic dumbass. You completely just made up. Being gay is physically unnatural and a clear negative mutation, and I mean this only as a physical aspect. If two male Lions were gay together then that would go against the means and purpose of nature, they can’t reproduce and same with humans they can’t have sex in any normal way. Same with lesbian. Every single species on earth have one natural setting and that is to be capable of reproducing with your partner.
      And btw a lot of parents would love to have grandchildren someday, a gay child takes that dream away from them. Again I’m not against gay people but everything i have said are proven and very valid facts.
      If I was gay, I know deep down i would be disappointed and sad that I can’t have children in a natural way or with my lover.

    • @ang-a
      @ang-a ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Conversion therapy

  • @ApacheMagic
    @ApacheMagic ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Helen Joyce is just amazing.

  • @trinitylane2202
    @trinitylane2202 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So a high percentage are just gay. Just like many people have been saying. I think there are also a lot of children who have been molested and feel they'd be safer if they transitioned to the opposite gender.

  • @cherylflynn9978
    @cherylflynn9978 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Just because a girl likes what people associate with boys doesn't mean she doesn't want to be a boy and vice versa.....if we would stop pushing this agenda and let people be people instead of insisting they choose a label this would all stop being such a pastime

    • @stephenparry6811
      @stephenparry6811 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kinda regresses back to gender stereotypes ironically

  • @lovenappreciate
    @lovenappreciate ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I never like playing dolls and I love climbing trees. Nobody have ever asked me if I'm a tomboy and I never thought about being a tomboy. I know I'm a girl and I enjoy doing men's work at the same time dressing up and looking sexy being woman.

  • @HappyHobbies64
    @HappyHobbies64 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    when I was little I used to say I want to be a boy but now I love being a girl

  • @harryhill8543
    @harryhill8543 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Theres also a huge link with claiming dysphoria and having a personality disorder, one of the reasons they arent capable of having calm debates and instead resort to threats and other aggressions aimed at destroying someones life.

  • @sistajoseph
    @sistajoseph ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This should be expected, like some are left handed others bi-handed. We don't give them brain surgery.

    • @TEWMUCH
      @TEWMUCH ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or actually let's cut off their hands so they don't write with the wrong ones anymore.

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! I'm left-handed and would have been seen as non-conforming. Let's cut off her hand as part of individual experession!

    • @hotdog1214
      @hotdog1214 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My mother is left handed and she used to get her knuckles rapped with a ruler at school if she used her left hand to write. Only her art teacher would just let her be. This was back in the 50s. And rightly we now look back and see how ridiculous and wrong it was to try and enforce right handed-ness.
      You'd think we'd have learnt to let people be and not try to fit them in boxes by now. Just let them grow up without intervention, they'll find their way on their own, just as everyone before them has done.

  • @karenmignella2819
    @karenmignella2819 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Jordan Peterson has said the same thing

    • @Gatheist
      @Gatheist ปีที่แล้ว

      But they wont listen to Jordan Peterson. Jordan Peterson is in the same camp as JK Rowling as far as they’re concerned, possibly even worse.

    • @1i11ies8
      @1i11ies8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Was he crying when he said it. ?

    • @jeremywickwire565
      @jeremywickwire565 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@1i11ies8I thought men are supposed to be able to show emotion. You must not be a very good liberal. Shame on you.

    • @twiztedsynz
      @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeremywickwire565 There's showing emotion and then there's insanity like JP indulges in.
      Back in the "good old days" they called it "hysterics" in women.

    • @twiztedsynz
      @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Gatheist Because JP is an unhinged wackadoo that at one point used to make sense, but now should be a patient seeking out help.

  • @caramil2007
    @caramil2007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Puberty is supposed to be uncomfortable sometimes. You have to go through it. Trying to escape it is to run away from yourself, from finding out who you are

  • @LLBlackhawk-mc3sq
    @LLBlackhawk-mc3sq ปีที่แล้ว

    I grew up with two brothers and was a tomboy and hated frills and eventually became a carpenter and fell in love with airplanes and cars!
    Then it was discovered that I had a Mechanical Reasoning and Mechanical Aptitude beyond GRADE 18 which defined as being equal to someone who graduates grade 12 and has 6 years of university equivalent. And none of these philosophies weren't in our schools then, and I didn't turn out to be a lesbian!!

  • @Messier45_Pleiades
    @Messier45_Pleiades ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I grew up gay and I was a very feminine little girl who loved dolls and doll's prams and tea sets. I loved doll's houses and frilly dresses. I'm as queer as a bent farthing.

    • @casteretpollux
      @casteretpollux ปีที่แล้ว +13

      When I was a little girl of bout 6 I obsessively wanted a false beard. I saved up and bought a nice bushy red one. To my surprise my family would not be seen out with me wearing it. I don't remember how it eventually got retired. Thoroughly straight, 4 kids. I know it was because I missed my dad who was bearded and who had died. Today I may have been whipped off and surgically and hormonally butchered.

    • @jessicadesrosiers7467
      @jessicadesrosiers7467 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Im the exact opposite. Grew up a giant tomboy. Played in the dirt, did mixed martial arts, hated dresses and anything remotely girly, only played eith the boys, ect. But I'm absolutely straight as an arrow and while im still a tomboy i wear makeup and evem dresses occasionally. I woukd have been butchered and shot up with hormones to high hell if i grew up in todays time. I thank god everyday i grew up in the 90s

    • @deboraballes9044
      @deboraballes9044 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@jessicadesrosiers7467I'm with you, good thing I had only boys, wouldn't know what to do with a girl😅😅

    • @jan9562
      @jan9562 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you.

    • @scotlandtheinsane3359
      @scotlandtheinsane3359 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is the problem with these queeny type gay guys they give a very specific stereotypical view of homosexuality that conforms to some peoples (seemingly ingrained) biases. But it's not their fault. At no point did they have the option of being in the closet.

  • @patricekanagy5898
    @patricekanagy5898 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Helen James. You are the voice of reason. I’ve been saying this for years. ❤

    • @dogsareboss
      @dogsareboss ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who is this Helen James character? X

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You mean Helen Joyce😮

    • @TheNesbittExperience
      @TheNesbittExperience ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dogsarebossshe has a PhD in maths. She wrote for the economist and one day her boss asked her why children kept coming home from school declaring they were trans. She went to write an article and discovered she was met with push back and that this was a subject no one would touch. She thinks the trans movement is a linguistic one. She wrote a book because of the trauma of de-transitioner’s called “Trans: when ideology meets reality.” (#2 in gender and the law on Amazon). She lectures everywhere. She states that the medical profession is sterilizing gay kids, and or women who are undiagnosed with other mental health conditions such as anxiety/depression and even autism. We don’t have any data or research to show that transitioning children is the way to go. “Biological sex is no longer accepted as a basic fact of life. It is forbidden to admit that female people sometimes need protection and privacy from male ones.” H. Joyce

    • @dogsareboss
      @dogsareboss ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheNesbittExperience crikey! You could have saved yourself some time there, if you'd read my comment properly. X

    • @TheNesbittExperience
      @TheNesbittExperience ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dogsareboss who is Helen James? I’m missing something here. You meant Helen Joyce, no?

  • @vrepasky
    @vrepasky ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "PUBERTY TAUGHT THEM WHO THEY WERE".

  • @Ballinalower
    @Ballinalower ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the saddest things I have seen on TH-cam is a man who because he was an effeminate boy was transitioned to a girl and now an adult has detransioned back to male. He said bitterly "So now I am a gay man without a penis."

  • @addlecat1065
    @addlecat1065 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Also, prominent mothers of gnc little boys have openly said they set their sons on this path of medical harm because they and/or their husbands refused to accept their sons may be gay. (Jeanette Jennings and Susie Greene for example.)

    • @ankavoskuilen1725
      @ankavoskuilen1725 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, then you really must hate your kid to do a thing like that.

    • @DoggieFosters
      @DoggieFosters ปีที่แล้ว

      Kai Shapley's parents were fundamentalist "christians" who decided their less-than-3yr old boy "might be gay. And that could not happen. That would NOT happen." They googled conversion therapy and beat him when he played with the "wrong" toys. When that didn't make him less effeminate, they transed him, starred in a documentary, now cart him around to be the pure sweet young face of pediatric gender affirming "care." He's been medicalized now. Likely permanently sterile & anorgasmic. For life.
      I hate people like his parents. I never say I hate people, but I HATE those monsters and all like them.

  • @lou1012
    @lou1012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know trans people who were "straight", and then when they transitioned, they stayed attracted to the same sex as before. Essentially becoming gay after transitioning. No, not everyone who identifies as trans does so just to date the opposite gender. We wouldnt see MORE trans people in a time where you can be accepted as being gay way more easily than being trans and you can legally get married and all that. Most people don't. It's still WAY easier to date as a gay identity than as a trans one. Yes, there is a correlation to people who are same sex attracted and people who want to transition or don't identify with gendered labeling, but there's also environmental and cultural factors to consider. Someone who has been able to question their identity compared to social standards is more likely to be able to do that in other facets of their life as well, and stop trying to fit in with the expectations of others around them.

  • @mikeymullins5305
    @mikeymullins5305 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well I was gender conforming as a kid and now I'm trans and bi so what if that fools

  • @tomarmstrong3297
    @tomarmstrong3297 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Basic common sense, insane that people try to cancel you for it these days

  • @L-mo
    @L-mo ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Gender nonconformity and gender dysphoria are not the same however

  • @screamoguy100
    @screamoguy100 ปีที่แล้ว

    Children experiencing puberty also report, almost unanimously, feeling awkward and self-conscious about their changing bodies and not only how they viewed themselves, but how others viewed them through this stage as well. Without any outside interference, meaning other people including adults, pushing the idea of gender non conformence during this stage of development, most of the children went on to live happy lives in traditional gender roles.

  • @Misshowzat
    @Misshowzat ปีที่แล้ว

    Of course because if they haven't had Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs met as they grow up & they're not in safe place or they've been taken advantage of they can't form a whole organic personality because of how much is grounded in trauma & confusion & now professionals aren't even allowed to explain that.

  • @SusanaXpeace2u
    @SusanaXpeace2u ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeh, we've gone backwards

  • @Muysc_quyne
    @Muysc_quyne 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is kind of my case. I am a man who played "fem" games with girls. Teachers told mom I was gay since I was very young. I turned out to be attracted to men... But my crisis of sex orientation (due to religious ideology) also brought me the strong feeling of not being a man or being closer to women without really feeling a woman. Ten years later I accepted I can be a man and that I still can wear and behave however I like and identify as a cisgender man. I would never think that my conclusion about my identity has to be the same for everyone. Now, my sister had a similar story, but she is 100% straight. She simply liked "boyish" games. I am still gender non-conforming in many ways and I don't stand sexism. Whoever thinks that this video or my story is a reason to discourage trans-affirming care for kids is not understanding what this care means. No one has actually promoted surgeries for trans-kids. Let's avoid taking this data as a justification for bullying trans and gender non-conforming people and sabotaging policies to ensure their wellbeing. Ironically, if we were not so sexist and homophobic, I think, we would have fewer people thinking that they're transgender merely due to their sex orientation. If you think that people detransitioning is a huge problem, in the first place you should recognize it is a mess created by sexism and homophobia, and transphobia is by no means the way to fix it. At the end, whatever people decide with their lifes, let's not bully each other. Trans kids are REAL and deserve respect and love. I don't have the right to question your identity based on my identity.

  • @merocaine
    @merocaine ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is obvious to anyone who has passed through childhood and had enough friends to see the pattern. One of my best friends was a tom boy, short hair, dressed like a boy, loved football and climbing, highly competitive with the boys, preferred msle company as a kid. Came put as gay when she grew up. If she grew up now I wonder how quickly she would be put in a trans box.

    • @twiztedsynz
      @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

      Short answer: No, she'd still be lesbian.

    • @merocaine
      @merocaine ปีที่แล้ว

      @@twiztedsynz missed the point there

    • @twiztedsynz
      @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@merocaine Let's see.
      Grew up tom boy, came out as lesbian when adult.
      Wonders if they grew up now if she'd be put into the trans box.
      Being a tom boy does not make one trans, never has.
      So...
      Answer: no, because she's lesbian, not Trans.

    • @merocaine
      @merocaine ปีที่แล้ว

      @@twiztedsynz totally missed the point. Of course she was a lesbian, what I said is if she grew up now, because she liked boys toys and clothes as a child, would dumb ass adults assume she was trans and push her in that direction. It happens now already, see some of the testimony of women who detransitioned as adults, re tavistock clinic.

    • @twiztedsynz
      @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@merocaine
      Again, no, she would still be a Lesbian.
      She was not, and never was, Trans.
      Not all doctors or places are like Tavistock which was complicated and messy AF. PROPERLY done, a kid who is experiencing possible dysphoria or other gender issues, will see a psychologist and therapist on top of a family doctor, and they will work together to figure out if the kid is just going through that "tom boy" phase, or if they truly are Trans.
      Just because Tavistock was a trash place, doesn't mean all gender focused help centres are trash as well.
      So yes, your friend could go to a place and still be seen as "just" a lesbian.

  • @lisaclark6134
    @lisaclark6134 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love Helen Joyce. Brilliant, pragmatic lady.

  • @borisha1907
    @borisha1907 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so important!!

  • @MarthaMansbridge
    @MarthaMansbridge 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was one of those kids who was fairly non-conforming as a young boy in the early 80’s - loved dolls, women’s shoes, vacuum cleaners, all my friends were girls, I loved Kylie and Madonna. There was even a brief period, before puberty and therefore with no understanding of sexual attraction - where I thought I must be a girl because I was interested in boys - I’m so glad I didn’t grow up recently otherwise I’d have been castrated and stuck in a maxi-dress.

  • @hArtyTruffle
    @hArtyTruffle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who’d o’thunk it ✨ Thankyou Helen 👍🏼

  • @Brutalforgiveness
    @Brutalforgiveness ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm straight and I was a tom boy through and through
    But I LOVED dressing up for proms and balls and fancy girly things.
    I'll play in the dirt and on the same day dress up for an event as simple as dinner. Which I may do tonight for my husband😂
    Let kids be kids and figure out that stuff when they are done growing COMPLETELY
    The average age for a brain to mature fully in a woman is around 23-24 year old, for men, I believe its 25-26. Just let them grow up

  • @kayceetaylor2151
    @kayceetaylor2151 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think their choices during puberty informed, and determined, their sexuality. That doesn't strike me as a difficult concept to understand, like rocket science would be for the vast majority of us. It's just common sense!

  • @marypatfischer
    @marypatfischer ปีที่แล้ว

    We’ll finally someone making sense

  • @riohenry6382
    @riohenry6382 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love countertenors (men who sing in the soprano range) and male ballet dancers. Trust me, there are plenty of straight men in those professions

  • @HarryAcorns
    @HarryAcorns ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where have all the adults gone? We're any ever here? I looked at adults like I wanted to be one. Well then I became an adult. I've been looking many yrs. But I don't think I've met any adults.

  • @masonlongstaff2183
    @masonlongstaff2183 ปีที่แล้ว

    ive been attracted to women my entire life especially growing up as a child

  • @AprilReigns18
    @AprilReigns18 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was definitely a tomboy. But I didn't want to be a boy. My interests just fell in the boy category.

  • @sailorbychoice1
    @sailorbychoice1 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I was growing up there were about fifty kids in _The Neighborhood_ (six streets semi connected together in the suburbs) between 5-18 when I was about 10. Of those 50 there was about a 50/50 split between boys and girls, of the 25 girls there were 5 you would consider Tom-Boys. Of those 5 Tom-boys 4 grew up to become mothers, 3 were married to men, 1 was a perpetual divorcee (I think she got married to about five men over the years) and one grew up to be gay~ 3 of the non- Tom-boys were also gay. None of those 50 kids became trans.

  • @artbanks27
    @artbanks27 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    boys who like ballet end up surrounded by the cutest girls, they are the opposite of gay.

    • @btf1287
      @btf1287 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      cap

    • @AndreasViking1
      @AndreasViking1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is such bullshit comment. Being surrounded by women does not make you straight 🥴

  • @mathewfarnham3000
    @mathewfarnham3000 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been saying this from the very beginning!

  • @janedoe7971
    @janedoe7971 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was a tomboy and still have problems with being feminine because I am hyperactive and aggressive but I am definitely not a lesbian...

  • @danielbochenek3699
    @danielbochenek3699 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember when venom and PayPal froze and closed the accounts of a group called "Gays against Grooming". There are many gay people that are getting a bad rap because of all the other ones who want to push it on our kids.

    • @twiztedsynz
      @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

      So you're okay with perpetuating the sludge that used to be gays just a few years ago, only now it's trans people?
      Good little doggies got yours, now screw everyone else, huh?

  • @authenticallysuperficial9874
    @authenticallysuperficial9874 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quiet you're not allowed to say facts 🙊

  • @reretacnala66
    @reretacnala66 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now, she makes sense,..

  • @mademoiselledusfonctionell1609
    @mademoiselledusfonctionell1609 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another comment on this one.
    She might be right
    about puberty teaching people who they are
    - in the end. But during puberty, you feel even less
    clear on who you are than before conception.
    It is a bit like going through a mental spin cycle.
    Or circling a roundabout in Autobahn speed.
    You do not know while your in it which road
    you will be on when you finally leave the roundabout.
    I apologise for being so negative about puberty.
    It is something we all need to go through.
    (I am not very positive about death either,
    and we will have to go through that as well.)
    But to me, it was not a very positive experience.
    It was necessary, I can see that, but not pleasant
    while it lasted.

  • @bahamutzero4903
    @bahamutzero4903 ปีที่แล้ว

    People forget that it became popular to mutilate yourself before, going so far as to remove limbs because they "felt like it".
    Do what you want, but don't push it like it's sane.

  • @davidmontgomery9194
    @davidmontgomery9194 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Surely, 'gender non-conformity' means that a person would not think of themselves as fitting the stereotypes for their gender. It seems too great a leap to make to then say that 'gender non-conformist' thoughts means that someone would view themselves as members of the opposite sex.
    It would seem logical that homosexual children go through 'realisations' about their orientation, while still identifying with their biological sex.

  • @hyenaqueen3
    @hyenaqueen3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Also, dont tell your kids that being gay is an option. Tell them that men marry women and that thats whtas normal. As for the other people, they are a minority and its not the norm. I was a tomboy, but my parents taught me gay was wrong and i grew up straight. Thhey also forced me to wear dresses to church and i hated it but i got used to it and now i like dresses but only wear them when going out. Dont give kids too much info. Make it simple.

  • @1i11ies8
    @1i11ies8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everybody knows this already. Trans kids and adults still exists and still need support

  • @notmywerds
    @notmywerds ปีที่แล้ว

    Puberty teaching us.... who would have thought... not... people act as if this is new.

  • @missABR1
    @missABR1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Puberty taught them who they were - couldn't have put it better! I was the biggest tom boy out when younger and only really had male friends - Until about 12, then I made friends with a pack of girls and suddenly really fancied some of the boys in my school. Now 36, a mother, could not be more conformist in my views on what makes a man attractive and have mostly female friends. BUT if I had been 8 today I probably would have been transitioned. Terrifying

    • @twiztedsynz
      @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

      No, you wouldn't have been transitioned.
      And what about those of us who "used to be the biggest tom boy out there" and did NOT turn out to be some sort of stereotypical woman? You know, the mom, the dresses, the make up, the blah, blah, blah? What if at puberty, I was "taught" that I like both boys and girls, that there are days I feel less feminine and more masculine?
      In today's society, that doesn't matter either because people will still deny that it's legitimate to be like that.

    • @missABR1
      @missABR1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh dear. A product of this generations terrible ideology. I think you think you have not been 'taught' and trust me you have - You have breathed in an ideology that tells you that it is a crisis to be a women that feels 'more masculine than feminine' (whatever that actually means - as these ideas in your mind come from your own set of stereotypes in relation to these two words, yet ironically you pat yourself on the back and believe you are existing free from stereotypes.) It is not a crisis. @@twiztedsynz

  • @lloydk851
    @lloydk851 ปีที่แล้ว

    I suffered through the whole video. This is the thinking that ... This is what comes out of the north end of a south bound bull.

  • @CarolineKitchen-jd3cg
    @CarolineKitchen-jd3cg ปีที่แล้ว

    Needs to be much more from UK etc., that have been through this.

  • @HalfB
    @HalfB 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🥰✊Helen Joyce is a Godsend…. Wrapped in irony as I do believe she’s atheist 🛐😂

  • @twiztedsynz
    @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

    Sure, puberty taught them what they were, and if puberty taught them that they were trans, or gender fluid, or ace, or what have you? What does that say?

  • @pamelaneal6537
    @pamelaneal6537 ปีที่แล้ว

    Common sense!!!

  • @casteretpollux
    @casteretpollux ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Gender non confoming" is a subjective opinion not a science based category.

    • @littlecatfeet9064
      @littlecatfeet9064 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But almost everyone can understand what it means.

    • @janegardener1662
      @janegardener1662 ปีที่แล้ว

      Apparently everyone knows what gender-conforming behavior is, except you.

    • @casteretpollux
      @casteretpollux ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@littlecatfeet9064 What is it then? We are talking about pre pubertal children.

    • @anastasia-fr1gn
      @anastasia-fr1gn ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because it deals with society and not biology, yes. I’m not sure what your point is though.

    • @janegardener1662
      @janegardener1662 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@casteretpollux Gender conforming behavior is a boy doing what boys typically do and girls doing what girls typically do. For example my little boy used to play in the sand pit with his trucks much more than my little girl did. She preferred playing with her Lego animals and building houses for them.

  • @colleencameron5722
    @colleencameron5722 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tell these students to focus on their studies. Be whatever gender you want. Just remember the immigrants children are busy studying and working hard to get into the better schools.
    You will be working for them if you do not settle down and focus on making a good life for yourself. Very competitive world. Wake up

    • @tracimetcalf3374
      @tracimetcalf3374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why would it be a bad thing to work for the son of an immigrant ? Odd thing to worry about

    • @colleencameron5722
      @colleencameron5722 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tracimetcalf3374 not really. Tired of immigrants taking over. Our parents worked hard for our children to have a good life.
      Tired of immigrants just coming here and taking over. You must earn your place first.

  • @hendrikje5952
    @hendrikje5952 ปีที่แล้ว

    Helen !

  • @milk344
    @milk344 ปีที่แล้ว

    how is this not common sense?

  • @divinicus
    @divinicus ปีที่แล้ว

    wtf is gender nonconforming. what a weird word

    • @sosimple3585
      @sosimple3585 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's behavior that strays from the generally expected norms for either gender, such as girls preferring boxing to barbies or boys preferring barbies to boxing. Clearly, those preferences are fine, but as HJ says, they point strongly to a likelihood of being same-sex attracted after puberty.

    • @AndreasViking1
      @AndreasViking1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sosimple3585so they are anomaly freaks, so close to no relevance to humanity. This should be spoken about in the same amount as the minority of their existence

  • @davebrooks3161
    @davebrooks3161 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both are sick

  • @SsTONEDToOBITsS
    @SsTONEDToOBITsS ปีที่แล้ว

    2 genders

  • @TukikoTroy
    @TukikoTroy ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She just loves saying 'gender nonconforming' soooooo much.

    • @thomass5440
      @thomass5440 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She used words related to gender in a discussion about gender? Shocking

    • @terrypussypower
      @terrypussypower ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow! Imagine someone talking about gender nonconformity and using the words “gender nonconforming”!
      What are the odds?!?!?

    • @TukikoTroy
      @TukikoTroy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@terrypussypower Sorry if that went over your head.

    • @trixietru
      @trixietru ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So what?

    • @casteretpollux
      @casteretpollux ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trixietru It's an unscientific term. It is subjective not objective. What is normal? What is conforming? One short hair cut? A pair of docs ? Not wanginga Barbie ?

  • @wagtail06
    @wagtail06 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This woman is a notorious TERF 😔

    • @mushypeasplease8872
      @mushypeasplease8872 ปีที่แล้ว

      According to trans activists, anyone who doesn't agree with any part of their agenda is a TERF. Which is 99.9% of the world population. Instead of succumbing to the information control tactics of slurring anyone who tells the truth about the cult, listen to what is said, not who said it.

    • @chenilleoneil1289
      @chenilleoneil1289 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can’t call her that because she doesn’t identify as one.

  • @AdrianMunch
    @AdrianMunch ปีที่แล้ว

    Logically you can not change genders, you can say your gender fluid, or whatever ever gender specific, but your still male or female logically and because biology dictates gender. Not feelings, you can express whatever feelings you have about gender. But it’s still female and male, it’s biology, and it will be biology tomorrow. And the day after and the week after and the month and they year after ever-after, Dressing up in the opposite gender specific clothing is called transvestite, not transgender, You can’t change words meanings. Trans gender is a term someone started using because they didn’t like transvestite. But cha are Blanche, ya are,

    • @twiztedsynz
      @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, as a gender fluid person, I'm not changing biology. My biology is in part what makes me gender fluid. I know it's hard to grasp that for some people but... not my fault people limit themselves and understanding of what gender is.

    • @AdrianMunch
      @AdrianMunch ปีที่แล้ว

      @@twiztedsynz I address everyone “You ! You there! “

    • @twiztedsynz
      @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AdrianMunch which is... good for you I guess? Not sure how that specifically relates to the basis of your comment though...

    • @AdrianMunch
      @AdrianMunch ปีที่แล้ว

      @@twiztedsynz How about this then, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, That means the rest came from Uranus.

    • @twiztedsynz
      @twiztedsynz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AdrianMunch I'd laugh but that joke is so old and bigoted that it's not worth the effort.
      How about this. Men are human. Women are human. What parts they have is no business of mine, yours, or anyone else.

  • @matthewabln6989
    @matthewabln6989 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gay was always the most salient of sexual deviation. Affirming it allowed metastasis.

  • @novo611
    @novo611 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    But society in the past has condemned them for being gay. Right yes some of them grow out of phases
    And some dont. Society and its attitudes has a lot to do with it. The bigotry
    The homophobic attitudes
    People are different and society had to accept that much.

    • @dukecity7688
      @dukecity7688 ปีที่แล้ว

      Homophobia is rampant -

    • @FinalGurr
      @FinalGurr ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She's not talking about being homosexual being a phase for these people back then, she's talking about the discomfort of these people being gay, thus developing gender dysphoria, so they can be "straight", however going through puberty/growing up allowed them to accept themselves as Gay, and their Gender Dysphoria went away. It's not about society being homophobic, its about internalized homophobia leading to gender dysphoria, which quite a lot of society now supports.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But also, she seems to be saying something about when sexuality/attraction and sexual expression develop. It seems to be that the cognitive part (awareness) doesn’t fully develop until puberty, thereby the feelings of anxiety cease.

    • @fion1flatout
      @fion1flatout ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, she's saying that trans genderism is the new homophobia

    • @janegardener1662
      @janegardener1662 ปีที่แล้ว

      That was then, this is now. Gay marriage is now legal and socially accepted except in highly religious communities.

  • @ExpendableRedshirt
    @ExpendableRedshirt ปีที่แล้ว

    Except that there are very low instances of those who want to de-transition.

  • @YoukilisTHSGEMB
    @YoukilisTHSGEMB ปีที่แล้ว

    I swear people only listen to her because she is confident, not because she is right

    • @GF-qb3uo
      @GF-qb3uo ปีที่แล้ว

      She's confident because she is right. WPATH, the World Professional Association for Transgender Help, is the professional association for physicians involved in gender health, and propagates the policies and standards of care for the field. They formerly admitted that in most children, gender dysphoria will disappear before, or early in, puberty with their recommended studies demonstrating that up to 94% of children referred for gender dysphoria (77-94% in one set of studies and 73-88% in another) grow out of their gender dysphoria naturally. The bitter irony is that WPATH now pushes "gender affirming care" instead of advocating counseling for these kids.

    • @YoukilisTHSGEMB
      @YoukilisTHSGEMB ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GF-qb3uo yeah no

    • @GF-qb3uo
      @GF-qb3uo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@YoukilisTHSGEMB Willful ignorance doesn't serve one well in life. In the chance additional data might help, here's two studies.
      1. One the largest and longest term studies on gender dysphoric youth found 87.8% desisted: Singh, et al. "A Follow-Up Study of Boys With Gender Identity Disorder." Front Psychiatry. 29 Mar 2021.
      2. The results of the world’s largest dataset on patients who have undergone sex-reassignment procedures demonstrated no advantage of surgery or hormonal interventions in relation to subsequent mood or anxiety disorder-related health care visits or prescriptions or hospitalizations following suicide attempts. ("Correction to Bränström and Pachankis." American Journal of Psychiatry. 1 Aug 2020). This study was initially touted by the authors and media to demonstrate the opposite regarding surgical interventions, but this conclusion was reversed, as shown in the correction ("Branstrom and Panchakis, "Reduction in Mental Health Treatment Utilization Among Transgender Individuals After Gender-Affirming Surgeries: A Total Population Study." American Journal of Psychiatry. 4 Oct 2019 )

    • @isaiahh3754
      @isaiahh3754 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@YoukilisTHSGEMBvery strong argument you have there. Amazing citations.

    • @YoukilisTHSGEMB
      @YoukilisTHSGEMB ปีที่แล้ว

      @@isaiahh3754 I could, but you wouldn't listen to them anyway

  • @georgetravers9333
    @georgetravers9333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's all in your head.

  • @bogella2225
    @bogella2225 ปีที่แล้ว

    If we ignore sucides...

    • @GF-qb3uo
      @GF-qb3uo ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If anything, one can argue that the "trans" movement has increased teen suicides as the teen suicide rate nearly doubled between 2008 and 2018, a time period which encompasses the rise of the movement.

    • @bogella2225
      @bogella2225 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GF-qb3uo When I ignore reality you have a bigoted point.

    • @GF-qb3uo
      @GF-qb3uo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bogella2225 I guess when you ignore reality, you can ignore that the suicide rate for gender nonconforming teens was lower when "gender affirming care" was not a thing. Nothing bigoted about it. It's data.

    • @bogella2225
      @bogella2225 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GF-qb3uo It is bigoted when you cherry pick data to feed your hate filled narrative.

  • @racetoruin7201
    @racetoruin7201 ปีที่แล้ว

    For you reading who is concerned with the idea of children being "mutilated" id like to be honest with you.
    Statistically, transpeople exist.
    And contrary to her ideas, a majority of transwomen (born male) like women and vice versa for transmen.
    There is more presence of lgb people when it comes to transpeople and that is very likely because its a lot more accepted in those circles
    This is because most likely, gender expression and sexual preference isnt inherently bound.
    Now ofcourse, children shouldnt be able to make this choice. And thats why we have puberty blockers.
    You might know that they can cause bone deterioration and a slowing down in braindevelopment.
    This is true. However, the effects of the bone deterioration only happens if the blockers are misused (used longer than intended) and braindevelopment isnt "slowed" its the same speed as before it just doesnt get the additional boost that it would get during puberty. Which it ofcourse gets back once the blockers are of and puberty insues.
    Ideal situation is that they can use blockers until its been made sure by several different proffessionals that the child NEEDS the hormones or that the hormones would drastically increase the childs quality of life.
    Or... until they are 18 and can choose themselves.
    Transpeople do exist, historically aswell, in literally every culture, theres been precedent for people who wish to be the other gender or sex.
    Now ill finish off by outing the gal up there, helen Joyce is a journalist, she covers only transissues and associates happily with jk rowling, rowling openly supports groups which out sensitive transpeople in the society, causing violence against them. Now even if you arent convinced we should let the kids be trans i trust you dont believe violence is good for anyone.
    Consume this media with care, because though much lf it does seem born out of concern, much of it isnt. And if you find yourself being "cancelled" remember that its very difficult to discern concern from hatred.
    Thank you for your time❤

  • @binghamguevara6814
    @binghamguevara6814 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Horrible. Don’t talk to her. Freedom is mass irresponsibility without repurcussion.

    • @terrypussypower
      @terrypussypower ปีที่แล้ว

      Horrible. Don’t talk to YOU! Freedom of speech and freedom of association are the bedrocks of civilisation. Anyone afraid of either has something to hide.

    • @deschloro
      @deschloro ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I hope this is satire.

    • @binghamguevara6814
      @binghamguevara6814 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deschloro what sexuality are you

    • @isaiahh3754
      @isaiahh3754 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@deschlorohas to be

  • @connieadams607
    @connieadams607 ปีที่แล้ว

    I call BS

  • @bobhoward6676
    @bobhoward6676 ปีที่แล้ว

    hogwash

    • @GF-qb3uo
      @GF-qb3uo ปีที่แล้ว

      WPATH, the World Professional Association for Transgender Help, is the professional association for physicians involved in gender health, and propagates the policies and standards of care for the field. They formerly admitted that in most children, gender dysphoria will disappear before, or early in, puberty with their recommended studies demonstrating that up to 94% of children referred for gender dysphoria (77-94% in one set of studies and 73-88% in another) grow out of their gender dysphoria naturally. The bitter irony is that WPATH now pushes "gender affirming care" instead of advocating counseling for these kids.

  • @jlb7608
    @jlb7608 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't see any conflict. You can be attracted to any gender and be any gender that makes you happy. Where's the conflict?

    • @zenbumblebee
      @zenbumblebee ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most people aren't attracted to how someone is identifying but are attracted according to the person's sex. It's called sexual orientation not gender orientation for a reason.

    • @jlb7608
      @jlb7608 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zenbumblebee that's just not true. People who are attracted to women date trans women.
      Sexual preference and gender expression are not related.

    • @zenbumblebee
      @zenbumblebee ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jlb7608 Sorry I don't want to make you look silly but that's not true. If someone has told you this then they are lying to you and/or themselves. There are people who are bisexual of course who aren't that bothered. However most people are attracted to someone's sex not gender. They maybe be initially attracted but once they realise the physical reality they lose attraction. That's a rare occurrence because most trans identifying people don't pass. For example, homosexual females and heterosexual males will only have intimate relations with females. It's not transphobic, it's just their orientation and that should be respected.

    • @jlb7608
      @jlb7608 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zenbumblebee you are misinformed.