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Thanks for reaffirming this. Online dating coaches like Corey Wayne and Casey Z constantly say that a man wanting a relationship is demonstrating feminine energy, showing weakness, and it's the woman's place to decide if you should have long term commitment. I never understood this claim and I would be on board for seeing you refute it (although this video itself does a good enough job at that).
A year ago I was totally clueless about relating to women and realized that there is a whole aspect to this world that I needed to understand. And yes, that journey took me to the red pill, MGTOW, Zander, and such. Although I learned much valuable information, I didn't completely buy into thoses perspectives, as they seem incomplete, cynical, and inauthentic. More recently I have immersed myself in attachment theory, which has really helped me decipher the behavior of the special woman in my life and our toxic dynamics. This has allowed me to, as a start, to take charge of my emotional life and steer our interactions into a more constructive direction.
I'm a woman trying to see my floundering relationship from my boyfriend's point of view. This advice is fantastic! It's gently helping me to realize what he might want from me, and also would be fantastic advice for any man.
I’ve been following Casey Zander’s stuff for a while, and I’d love a video on maybe not attacking him directly but his concepts and how some of them may be flawed. When I implement some, I just don’t feel authenticity, and I really want that relationship we all want.
regarding hamza, i followed him for a while, but i lost interest in his content cause i felt like he was slipping off what is really important. From the person i thought would give good advice to something that felt more like whatever get him the most likes insteed of what would be the best. maybe i'm to judgemental for this, but i don't like "fake" advice for the sake of being popular or whatever he was thinking, no hate or disrespect towards him from me honestly. I just prefer to stop follow people who became inauthentic in my eyes. I am female, but i prefer to follow alot of male role models for man to understand you guys more. Cause i care and i think man get way to much neglected in our society, sadly...
Gay man here! First of all, love your vids man, these are the kind of ideas most relationship gurus out there think they're giving! Second, I like this idea of the "male" and "female" energy, (tho personally I would change it to something more along the lines of a ying an yang.) It really helped me realize that these insights can help pretty much anybody looking to better their relationship in general. I'm currently in a 2 year long relationship with anothey guy, both of us are pretty masculine and "straight passing" with our looks and personalities, but I do feel and understand these energies energies when we go out and spend time with each other. Most people think that since gay men only have to deal with men, it's easier for you to understand each other. Which yes, it can help a bit, I'll admit. But just like you mentioned in this video: you can sleep around and find sexual partners very easily, but the moment you start looking for an actual, stable relationship with someone, the trials and tribulations one has to deal with are just as hard as one you'd see on a hetero one. Appreciate you keeping up with these videos, hope you can stay around to help a lot more people out there!
People saying "oh this man lost half of his fortune to a random woman" really forget how much the relationship enabled the man to reach that amount of wealth. It wasn't a random one night stand. It was his WIFE! Those women may have stood beside them through a lot of shit, not to mention managing social life, daily chores and other unpaid labour.
Thanks for reaffirming this. Online dating coaches like Corey Wayne and Casey Z constantly say that a man wanting a relationship is demonstrating feminine energy, showing weakness, and it's the woman's place to decide if you should have long term commitment. I never understood this claim and I would be on board for seeing you refute it (although this video itself does a good enough job at that).
Lol right that's insane. Wanting a woman motivates man to be better and is literally the spark of the fire of humanity.
A year ago I was totally clueless about relating to women and realized that there is a whole aspect to this world that I needed to understand. And yes, that journey took me to the red pill, MGTOW, Zander, and such. Although I learned much valuable information, I didn't completely buy into thoses perspectives, as they seem incomplete, cynical, and inauthentic. More recently I have immersed myself in attachment theory, which has really helped me decipher the behavior of the special woman in my life and our toxic dynamics. This has allowed me to, as a start, to take charge of my emotional life and steer our interactions into a more constructive direction.
I deeply agree with what you say! Feels good to hear somebody else say what you think yourself!
I'm a woman trying to see my floundering relationship from my boyfriend's point of view. This advice is fantastic! It's gently helping me to realize what he might want from me, and also would be fantastic advice for any man.
A relationship sounds like the most beautiful thing.
Very good stuff, keep going man your words are gold 💪🏼
Some amazing insights here, love the no bullshit approach you have to this topic
I’ve been following Casey Zander’s stuff for a while, and I’d love a video on maybe not attacking him directly but his concepts and how some of them may be flawed. When I implement some, I just don’t feel authenticity, and I really want that relationship we all want.
regarding hamza, i followed him for a while, but i lost interest in his content cause i felt like he was slipping off what is really important. From the person i thought would give good advice to something that felt more like whatever get him the most likes insteed of what would be the best.
maybe i'm to judgemental for this, but i don't like "fake" advice for the sake of being popular or whatever he was thinking, no hate or disrespect towards him from me honestly. I just prefer to stop follow people who became inauthentic in my eyes. I am female, but i prefer to follow alot of male role models for man to understand you guys more. Cause i care and i think man get way to much neglected in our society, sadly...
Thank you Rosaria that is so nice to hear ☺️
Gay man here!
First of all, love your vids man, these are the kind of ideas most relationship gurus out there think they're giving!
Second, I like this idea of the "male" and "female" energy, (tho personally I would change it to something more along the lines of a ying an yang.) It really helped me realize that these insights can help pretty much anybody looking to better their relationship in general. I'm currently in a 2 year long relationship with anothey guy, both of us are pretty masculine and "straight passing" with our looks and personalities, but I do feel and understand these energies energies when we go out and spend time with each other.
Most people think that since gay men only have to deal with men, it's easier for you to understand each other. Which yes, it can help a bit, I'll admit. But just like you mentioned in this video: you can sleep around and find sexual partners very easily, but the moment you start looking for an actual, stable relationship with someone, the trials and tribulations one has to deal with are just as hard as one you'd see on a hetero one.
Appreciate you keeping up with these videos, hope you can stay around to help a lot more people out there!
You are inspiring me to create contents bro.
What are your tips for speaking to women?
People saying "oh this man lost half of his fortune to a random woman" really forget how much the relationship enabled the man to reach that amount of wealth. It wasn't a random one night stand. It was his WIFE! Those women may have stood beside them through a lot of shit, not to mention managing social life, daily chores and other unpaid labour.
great video, sir👍 keep it going 🗿💛