3 Phases of Healing From Emotional Abuse

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ม.ค. 2022
  • You can begin healing even while you're in an emotionally abusive situation, small steps and nano-seconds of healing. Understanding my phases of healing from emotional abuse encourages you to begin and continue the healing journey. Wherever you are--even if you have not started the journey yet, seeing there is a pathway can help. Listen in.
    HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
    Healing begins with realizing that and how you have been wounded
    The three phases of the healing from emotional abuse process
    Why it takes longer to heal than you want it to
    If you want to be emerging empowered from a past or present in which you experienced emotional abuse, you need this episode. Understanding the blueprint and anticipating the process is wise, and will make you much less susceptible to going back to a Hijackal of any stripe....even a Hijackal parent!
    * * Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
    and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.
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ความคิดเห็น • 27

  • @sharlapatriot2725
    @sharlapatriot2725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm disabled, on a fixed income & He controls money except for what my measly amount brings in. A back injury put me in this mess & now I'm stuck with this narcissistic jerk. BUT! I am working my way out of this. I've learned a lot from Dr. Shaler & am grateful that I found her.

    • @ForRelationshipHelp
      @ForRelationshipHelp  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm glad you found me, too. Good for you for having a plan to work your way out of it!

  • @insiteandawareness3500
    @insiteandawareness3500 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I deserve to recover from emotional abuse!

  • @christ565
    @christ565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gaslighting forever…. Tiring! Ya, lots of $$$$$ spent counseling. Love the msg! Sounds all too familiar. Continues to continue. Detached now. Don’t even tell others in your social circle, it will bite you.
    I think you meet on Wed. during the morn, not doable. Thank you for sharing! Super style and informative! Listen often.
    Good luck when the person is in your social circle. It is a wound…

  • @ritadoran5039
    @ritadoran5039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Healing is really work and hard combination of counseling, and putting new habits into practice physical excercise and prayers really helped me
    Thanks Dr Shaler like the new format set calming and you look beautiful

    • @ForRelationshipHelp
      @ForRelationshipHelp  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're welcome. I'm glad to hear you're moving steadily forward.

  • @rascallyrabbit
    @rascallyrabbit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow, we really must be born again and recreate our self in a good light.

  • @michelleplaskoff9920
    @michelleplaskoff9920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have been a godsend for me...Thank you thank you doctor 🙏💙

  • @actuallyalley
    @actuallyalley ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was very validating, thank you

  • @kattfranklin6933
    @kattfranklin6933 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr. Rhoberta Shaler,
    Great doctor who gave her all to help us.
    God bless you ❤️ 🙏

  • @getupandgo77
    @getupandgo77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its taken me a lot longer than one full year.

  • @peat_dont_repeat
    @peat_dont_repeat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I see your new format is really doing you well. It helps what you say and be relaxed to magnify all the information you give in a way less stressful way. All you have to say be my client and then we see the words. Great idea!! And the confidence you must get that your voice is really clear. Posture is so important for peace. What victims need to do when we recover. Because In the bring of my recovery my voice changed. I would get marble mouth and that is not esteeming.

  • @AshishKumar-mw5hp
    @AshishKumar-mw5hp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have been abused over and over for last 4 years.

  • @toddamngus5269
    @toddamngus5269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do I find out your “live” schedule?

    • @ForRelationshipHelp
      @ForRelationshipHelp  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I do the Save Your Sanity Podcast live every Monday at 6 PM Pacific time.
      I do the TH-cam members live, every 2nd Sunday at 10 AM Pacific. Join the membership on TH-cam
      I do "Ask Me Anything" lives twice a month for my Emerging Empowered Community. JoinInToday.com

  • @christ565
    @christ565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A year later. Ha!

  • @cathychase663
    @cathychase663 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    sadly for me years haven't helped much