Women get hooked on men who have an abundance mentality. In other words, he's willing to let her go because he knows he can get any woman he wants. But she doesn't want to let him go because she doesn't want another to take her place. So even though she doesn't like the fact that she can't manipulate him like she manipulated other men, she would rather live in his world than live without him, in hers (Gladys knight).
Hi Dating skillz, I just need some advice. I just want to figure out what is going on here! several weeks ago I met a girl who is going through a breakup-like situation with her bf (But seems to be it is still going on she keeps checking her phone, but kind of separation there due to pressure from the girl's parents! but not fully as I can sense from the girl, she always posts heartbreaking posts). I knew that after I was speaking with her. This all started with I caught her staring at me on public transportation and she is always looking for talk with me (still). When I talk with other girls to test her idea about me, she goes crazy and passes hints to me saying " have you finished talking with your girls!", " And when I staring at any other side rather than looking at her, she uses to check where I am looking at often, and when I look into her she slowly and surely gets her default position where I cannot see her looking where I was looking" like that, and keep telling me that girl is looking at you sort of. Yet when I ask her about the relationship between me and her, she keeps saying that she use to talk to me because we are in the same working place, yet i don'tknow you well sort of. Yet she is keeping eye on me to check who I am talking to especially girls. Can you recognize what's going on here? Later I found out she still continues her relationship with her bf (but she refuses me to explain her relationship status, and she was refuse one of her office members to explain her BF's job because it is not quite good to tell any other). Yet she keeps eye on me if I talk with another girl she use to upset and frustrated. Yet she claims she has no feelings for me. Can you figure out what's going on and how I know what kind of feelings she has for me? If I wanted to attract her what should I do? Do you suggest me to do no contact rule? (she and I have a considerable age gap of more than 13 years. Is that a problem? My appearance is much younger than my real age. Many people are around me telling me that my appearancelike I'm 25 or 28. She is 22 and I'm 37
This video will change my life. This woman should have a TV show to save countless men from ourselves. I have never been so thoroughly enlightened about what I have been doing wrong all my life. I have three kids with an ex and we've been a mess since day one. Now I realize all I had to do was build myself to be the best man I could be in order to even have had a chance of us raising our family together. I also realize now that she may not have ever been the right woman for me. Thank you Apollonia 🙏
"The life that you create with the money that you make" - Appolonia Ponti. High Value man that has never grasped this concept will never reach true ascension. A High quality man will surpass easily because of the fine details and works in his character. The missing piece to the puzzle, thank you Miss Ponti!!!!
@@growing.grounds4054 feelings come and go. You can't sustain 'feeling' confidence. But if you build a life for yourself, achieve goals and don't need validation from a woman because of how you have built your life, you will be 'confident'
Confidence, variance of modes, desire. The key aspects I'm missing in my life which you've mentioned just kept on resonating in my head! Thank you Appolonia!
One of the best videos I have seen on having standards and reaching out to achieve them. It took me an hour and 10 minutes to go back and forwards ,making notes . Guys dont let your eyes glaze over after a few minutes. Take a notepad out and start writing down what she says. Because this content is pure gold.
Wow I'm a 45 Latin man.. I thought I knew a lot about being a real man. I've learned so much from your videos. A break up brought me to youtube and try to find the help I needed. I'm definitely in a better position as man thanks to all this amazing videos. My next relationship better be ready because I'm coming back with a better version of myself.
You nailed it at the end for me. A woman I desire has to have those main elements…respectfulness, attentiveness , and is she trustworthy. Problem is I have yet to come across women who exemplify that
One thing I’ve noticed after watching quite a lot of dating advice videos is they almost all talk a lot about the value and importance of confidence (and rightly so) but from the ones I’ve seen don’t talk about how to obtain/develop it. Ultimately the only way to truly develop confidence is but overcoming difficult things - taking challenges on and coming out on top. I can speak from experience that before facing many things in my life head and finding a way to come out on top I was a very unconfident person - this is the biggest area (and most difficult) that you should be focusing on - go for it guys you’ve got it in you the best version of you is just waiting to be revealed don’t give up and keep moving forward 👊
Apollonia, you are a very, very bright woman. I am so glad I found this channel, never stop doing what you do: Teach us what you women want. The thing about the roller-coaster I found out myself 15 years ago in my interactions with women. Your videos are gold!
A real one is going to understand that I have things I'm not secure about. Because I am human. If I show 1 insecurity, and she leaves, whatever. That woman may have had like 5 insecurities 😅
In short, A man should have these traits: 1) confidence 2) happy with your life and job. Be the best version of yourself 3) decisive with masculine energy 4) have standards. How does she compliment you in life? Is she the right fit 5) give her rollercoaster feeling (show her different modes of you) 6) build on connections (ask better questions, their lives and values) 7) pickup on her cues.. be daring to get comfortable with opening up and flirting
I clicked to watch this video because I thought the caption was an exaggeration, like most others. After you addressed the issue of wanting to be the object of addiction, I'm glad you moved past it and explained the healthy way to go about it, which is what I thought would be the real subject of this video.
Great video!!! Also, having an actual plan and interest for the woman you’re dealing with is key when getting one addicted to you. Days of intimacy without direction and substance is easiest way to lose a woman
Dam! not only your style is hot , but ur knowledge ,intentions and the efforts to make vedios to help us men is so attractive personality. Keep it going , from uk 🇬🇧
I love this. I have boundaries and the confidence as well as the skillset. I don't chase, I attract but I do act and respond. Mixed emotions are unexpected shifts to show your complexity and keep her guessing not knowing what is coming next. Leading is better than pleading #bossmode ☯️❤️🔥♾️
It’s crazy that I’m looking at all your videos and I never once dated so this is just all learning experience for me.Sad to see that I’m learning it late but I know there’s nothing wrong with that
@Apollonia One of my favorite videos! It really resonated with me bc I've been really focused on building my life and the best version of myself as possible. That being said, I bumped into someone and we had a our first date and everything seemed to flow. She even commented that even though we've only known each other for a few months, she feels like she's known me forever. Now the challenge for myself is to keep that flow and life of abundance going and not to fall back into my old self of overly obsessing over dating and staying on course with my goals and the life I'm building. 🔥🔥 And as you say, that just builds the attraction in a natural way.
This channel is so great!! I met a girl I was really interested in, but wasn't sure if she would be into me because she's a really high value woman. I am confident in myself, but your tips have helped me (us) tremendously. Understanding what women want is not in most men's nature so we need more messages like this so we can find meaningful relationships, not just quick pleasure and excitement. Thank you Apollonia!!
Excellent video !! Apollonia, I appreciate all your efforts on this channel. I have noticed throughout all your videos on your channel, you haven't changed your message on dating and relationships. You haven't changed your narrative to reflect the social conditions of present. I commend you on this. In regards to this video a man must have a firm knowledge of their personal frame. This basically means he must know who he is. What he want's and what he needs to work on to give himself a better chance of being successful. A key point you made in the latter part of the video is "There has to be a level of desire from the woman.........." This is a huge issue for most men. I feel a large part of your viewers are men much like myself. Men who don't have the "Looks, Money, or Status" that is said to be the basis for what a majority of women desire in a man. The question is, is there anyway really to overcome this ? In my life's journey, I have seen first hand how those of us who don't meet the above stated requirements get passed over time and time again by women. Regardless of our character or what we have to offer. This is REALITY for us. Will this ever change ?
I get your point but you cannot blame it on yourself. You’re putting yourself in the victim mindset. Looks, status, money is often a easy way to attract a women. But that doesn’t mean all women are like this. It’s the toxic ones who look for that. The way the media, movies, tv shows, social media, society degrades men and women. This is why people think that being nice to a girl is mistaken for flirting because they never were taught this. The guy is a nice dude with boundaries. Once the boundary is pushed, it gets ugly. Old school is gone, replaced with new misled concept where men and women think that it’s cool to be a “savage and rude af” but it’s highly unattractive. Hooking up, etc are the normal. That new normal is unattractive and causing world wide problems. I’m old school I’ll be very happy when we go back to old school. It will put people in their place and hold them accountable.
Hi Kevin, I've actually talked about this in a video. I think this also comes from how we vision our reality. Many women love a man not because of looks but many love because he has money and status. Does not mean he has to be rich but does mean he has to have a mission that brings home something they can both enjoy and ambitions. I coach more successful men than I do not successful and a lot of men think that successful men have it easy with women which is not true. A lot of them struggle as well. What is the secret sauce about you? What is it that you offer? What are you confident in? Embrace that with abundance and look at yourself as a woman dating you to be a pleasurable experienced and not "She will find the next best thing" You are the best thing! Understand? Starts there.
@@ApolloniaPonti The most disingenuous comment you've made. He asked you about a woman's nature & you ultimately made it about him. When we both know female nature never changes. So you have to use it against them.
Apollina, you are so deep and profound who always go beyond the timely and surface tips usually adopted by your contemporary coaches and blogger. You construct minds and personalities by bringing about paradigm shifts. This video is another addition to your persistent philosphy of relationships science. Hats off to you to shape our minds on scientific method of relationship building.
Some time this is not easy find a woman who want to level up, while she ask you to do it. But I believe bye showing example she level up little by little but she's doing it. If she's not or won't do it you have to decide if that may continue or not. I agree with you saying you make the choice, but if you agreed of her level don't be made of the result. You pick so deals with.
Thanks Appolonia, I have the greatest confidence in the world. I won't tell any one how I got this confidence. I love you Appolonia for mentioning the phrase "confidence mysterious component" Appolonia you're gifted for coaching on dating.
Help: Slept with a coworker and her bf called me a month later. The no contact thing is hard to do when she work with me. We both pull back, but she is still showing signs, and her bf actually called me second time.
Sup fellas straight to the point She pretty much said s you need game to get women if not your put of luck so my best advice is just pay for it easier n less stressful and its guaranteed
Hey I am divorced twice and widow for 13 years, now I meant a woman on of we dated too months now and she and I are addicted to both of us I love her and she loves me that's what matter.
I totally agree with you! I chased a girl that I got infatuated with in my early 20’s Didn’t know any of the stuff you were saying and things never flowed, I was always jealous of my brother in laws that got a totally different treatment from their wives, etc Then that day came when she started cheating then blamed everything on me, some lame stuff, it was ridiculous. What sucks is that I could’ve spent the last 21 yrs with someone that would’ve been a good match for me, ugh.....
Thank you so much Apollonia , for waking me up 🤗 I almost lost the very women whom like you said , i already know actually is the Right woman for me !!!! 🤓
Thank you I appreciate you.I been learning from you for awhile and healing myself. Thank you. I sored a high quality woman . I said your not the woman I thought your not. Your so so right she did. Say what and what do mean. I said don't worry it all good. And she said it again. And I said u have it all and more. After that she opened up I will say she made me work for this relationship. I did the same She can't get enough of me. It all good
Apollonia this is another one of your excellent videos. You always talk about confidence, however how do you inbody this keep up the good work Luv you B safe
Public comment. Very good information allow you to think before you act. What is the true purpose. What do you want in a relationship.?? It is very important to know that you want.?fact . Unity and love and dedication to each other..
I needed to watch this video... I know all of this but, there was this girl that completely knocked my socks off and i was about to make a mistake hahaha easy boy, easy... Thank you Apolonia, youre the best!
“Mixed emotions doesn’t mean you tell her you like her one minute and then you tell her you don’t like her the next” the idea of someone doing this on a date made me lol
💯🔥🔥 One question, is the pace and patience The same if it’s a crush you have at work compared to if you met her out at an event? I will have to do a video on how to approach your crush.
I have listened to dozens of these coaches, Ponti", is very wise, and i consider her to be very wise. You can tell, if your honest w yourself. Im 52, and tried alot of this out on a 33 yr ole nieghbor girl, only, now, to find out, ok, it, works, now, honesty time!!!🙄 is this best for me? 3 yrs older then my daughter? And they were nieghbors!!!🤔
This one was really good, but really difficult to listen to, because it made me realize the person I've been trying to make things work with is the wrong one to spend my time and attention on. Thank you, but I also feel horrible.
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Plan the date according to what YOU want to do. Remember, you're inviting her INTO your life. Plain and simple.
Women get hooked on men who have an abundance mentality. In other words, he's willing to let her go because he knows he can get any woman he wants. But she doesn't want to let him go because she doesn't want another to take her place. So even though she doesn't like the fact that she can't manipulate him like she manipulated other men, she would rather live in his world than live without him, in hers (Gladys knight).
So true. Done this , it works.
Lol, 💯 true.....
Not true. Everyone is different. You are so fucken wrong.
That’s deep ❤
Hi Dating skillz, I just need some advice. I just want to figure out what is going on here!
several weeks ago I met a girl who is going through a breakup-like situation with her bf (But seems to be it is still going on she keeps checking her phone, but kind of separation there due to pressure from the girl's parents! but not fully as I can sense from the girl, she always posts heartbreaking posts). I knew that after I was speaking with her.
This all started with I caught her staring at me on public transportation and she is always looking for talk with me (still). When I talk with other girls to test her idea about me, she goes crazy and passes hints to me saying " have you finished talking with your girls!", " And when I staring at any other side rather than looking at her, she uses to check where I am looking at often, and when I look into her she slowly and surely gets her default position where I cannot see her looking where I was looking" like that, and keep telling me that girl is looking at you sort of. Yet when I ask her about the relationship between me and her, she keeps saying that she use to talk to me because we are in the same working place, yet i don'tknow you well sort of. Yet she is keeping eye on me to check who I am talking to especially girls.
Can you recognize what's going on here? Later I found out she still continues her relationship with her bf (but she refuses me to explain her relationship status, and she was refuse one of her office members to explain her BF's job because it is not quite good to tell any other). Yet she keeps eye on me if I talk with another girl she use to upset and frustrated. Yet she claims she has no feelings for me. Can you figure out what's going on and how I know what kind of feelings she has for me? If I wanted to attract her what should I do? Do you suggest me to do no contact rule? (she and I have a considerable age gap of more than 13 years. Is that a problem? My appearance is much younger than my real age. Many people are around me telling me that my appearancelike I'm 25 or 28. She is 22 and I'm 37
“In order to attract the best version for ourselves. We have to be the best version of ourselves” I think this line at 20:01 summarizes it best
That is a good point
Love yourself first and the rest will all come in place. Never let others effect how you feel each day and women will be attracted to this.
That is a good point
This mentality is about pacing: "Remember, The slower you move the faster she will".
are you leARNING OR PREACHING YOUR IDEALS
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So true
Spot on!
This video will change my life. This woman should have a TV show to save countless men from ourselves. I have never been so thoroughly enlightened about what I have been doing wrong all my life. I have three kids with an ex and we've been a mess since day one. Now I realize all I had to do was build myself to be the best man I could be in order to even have had a chance of us raising our family together. I also realize now that she may not have ever been the right woman for me. Thank you Apollonia 🙏
"The life that you create with the money that you make" - Appolonia Ponti. High Value man that has never grasped this concept will never reach true ascension. A High quality man will surpass easily because of the fine details and works in his character. The missing piece to the puzzle, thank you Miss Ponti!!!!
Confidence comes from how you've set yourself up in life. It can't be faked.
🤝
Huh ? How ? Confidence comes from how you feel about yourself nothing more.
If you fake confidence you will never show or have results if your confident shit gets done with no problem
It absolutely can
@@growing.grounds4054 feelings come and go. You can't sustain 'feeling' confidence. But if you build a life for yourself, achieve goals and don't need validation from a woman because of how you have built your life, you will be 'confident'
You are soooo right on about having confidence! Everything else magically falls into place once you obtain confidence. Great content!
Yes she is right about having confidence
Definitely need to boost it up after a failed 21 yr toxic relationship....
You're such a mentor regardless of women" uphold standards within yourself" that part. You gave relationship skills that we never taught...
Okay bro
Give them the roller coaster life without drama....Fun, Serious, adventurous, excitement etc......And over and over again
This actually works
For how long will you be doing that my friend
Confidence, variance of modes, desire. The key aspects I'm missing in my life which you've mentioned just kept on resonating in my head! Thank you Appolonia!
One of her best guidance videos. Honest, concise and to the point. Thank you.
For sure
"Confidence" is mentioned 22 times in this clip. It is the key.
Amen 🙏🏽
Yes it is
You're one the most genuine person who with some genuine advice. Huge respect for you
I too appreciate this woman
One of the best videos I have seen on having standards and reaching out to achieve them.
It took me an hour and 10 minutes to go back and forwards ,making notes .
Guys dont let your eyes glaze over after a few minutes.
Take a notepad out and start writing down what she says.
Because this content is pure gold.
Wow, thanks!
Can you please shere it?
@@ApolloniaPonti will this technic work on u ? 🥰
@@deshamp286 she did fool
Men like humble, submisive, nurturing, beautiful, petite.
Wow I'm a 45 Latin man..
I thought I knew a lot about being a real man. I've learned so much from your videos. A break up brought me to youtube and try to find the help I needed. I'm definitely in a better position as man thanks to all this amazing videos. My next relationship better be ready because I'm coming back with a better version of myself.
You Got This, Jose!!!😊
Apollonia your advice is so solid especially because you really know what we as men feel when we go thru it with women
If this would be tought at school, I am sure that it would save the world a lot of heart break
So go teach it!
Apollonia- nail on the head with this video. Thank you
'It's about the life you create with the Money you make.' Apollonia with the Bars! 🎤🤣🙏🏾
I don't work to make money to go to the bars i make money to move out
your advice gets more and more on target... you resonate with wisdom!
Fact
You nailed it at the end for me. A woman I desire has to have those main elements…respectfulness, attentiveness , and is she trustworthy.
Problem is I have yet to come across women who exemplify that
I want to say thank you for your help even though I have not scored the woman that I won't just yet but I have made an impression on a few
One thing I’ve noticed after watching quite a lot of dating advice videos is they almost all talk a lot about the value and importance of confidence (and rightly so) but from the ones I’ve seen don’t talk about how to obtain/develop it. Ultimately the only way to truly develop confidence is but overcoming difficult things - taking challenges on and coming out on top. I can speak from experience that before facing many things in my life head and finding a way to come out on top I was a very unconfident person - this is the biggest area (and most difficult) that you should be focusing on - go for it guys you’ve got it in you the best version of you is just waiting to be revealed don’t give up and keep moving forward 👊
Apollonia, you are a very, very bright woman. I am so glad I found this channel, never stop doing what you do: Teach us what you women want. The thing about the roller-coaster I found out myself 15 years ago in my interactions with women. Your videos are gold!
Thank you so much! I'm always happy to help with the videos I put on this channel!
A real one is going to understand that I have things I'm not secure about. Because I am human. If I show 1 insecurity, and she leaves, whatever. That woman may have had like 5 insecurities 😅
In short,
A man should have these traits:
1) confidence
2) happy with your life and job. Be the best version of yourself
3) decisive with masculine energy
4) have standards. How does she compliment you in life? Is she the right fit
5) give her rollercoaster feeling (show her different modes of you)
6) build on connections (ask better questions, their lives and values)
7) pickup on her cues.. be daring to get comfortable with opening up and flirting
you've helped me through tough times Apollonia.. Thank you so much
Glad I could help
@@ApolloniaPonti I love you
@@ApolloniaPonti i need your help
I need your help too
Veeery deep video, the most professional advice, unlike many youtube channels these days.
I clicked to watch this video because I thought the caption was an exaggeration, like most others. After you addressed the issue of wanting to be the object of addiction, I'm glad you moved past it and explained the healthy way to go about it, which is what I thought would be the real subject of this video.
Great video!!! Also, having an actual plan and interest for the woman you’re dealing with is key when getting one addicted to you. Days of intimacy without direction and substance is easiest way to lose a woman
If u want women get addicted to u just ignore her often and don’t show her u like her trust me this is the best way
That doesn’t work in marriage
Usually videos with these types of titles are BS but this one was actually so informative. subscribed
Hey I would love to talk with you ... About my relationship
Dam! not only your style is hot , but ur knowledge ,intentions and the efforts to make vedios to help us men is so attractive personality.
Keep it going , from uk 🇬🇧
I've watched a few life coaches, and she's the best one. She goes straight to each point. Thanks
Again you nail it on the head ... real advice without the ego bs ... guys we have to work on ourselves...
I love this. I have boundaries and the confidence as well as the skillset. I don't chase, I attract but I do act and respond. Mixed emotions are unexpected shifts to show your complexity and keep her guessing not knowing what is coming next. Leading is better than pleading #bossmode ☯️❤️🔥♾️
It’s 16 minutes into this video at the moment and I love what you said... keep it up with the nuggets.
Thank you!
The key is to attract not what we want, but attract who we are. Women want a man to lead, set up the date, time and place.
It’s crazy that I’m looking at all your videos and I never once dated so this is just all learning experience for me.Sad to see that I’m learning it late but I know there’s nothing wrong with that
@Apollonia One of my favorite videos! It really resonated with me bc I've been really focused on building my life and the best version of myself as possible. That being said, I bumped into someone and we had a our first date and everything seemed to flow. She even commented that even though we've only known each other for a few months, she feels like she's known me forever. Now the challenge for myself is to keep that flow and life of abundance going and not to fall back into my old self of overly obsessing over dating and staying on course with my goals and the life I'm building. 🔥🔥 And as you say, that just builds the attraction in a natural way.
I enjoy your advice. Thanks.
This video is one of best i found since i watch u. Much content in one
Wow,cool explanation,❤
This channel is so great!! I met a girl I was really interested in, but wasn't sure if she would be into me because she's a really high value woman. I am confident in myself, but your tips have helped me (us) tremendously. Understanding what women want is not in most men's nature so we need more messages like this so we can find meaningful relationships, not just quick pleasure and excitement. Thank you Apollonia!!
That's awesome!
That is a fact
You really just don't miss with these videos. Everything has been spot on.
Appolonia Ponti is the Aunt I need.
Excellent video !! Apollonia, I appreciate all your efforts on this channel. I have noticed throughout all your videos on your channel, you haven't changed your message on dating and relationships. You haven't changed your narrative to reflect the social conditions of present. I commend you on this. In regards to this video a man must have a firm knowledge of their personal frame. This basically means he must know who he is. What he want's and what he needs to work on to give himself a better chance of being successful. A key point you made in the latter part of the video is "There has to be a level of desire from the woman.........." This is a huge issue for most men. I feel a large part of your viewers are men much like myself. Men who don't have the "Looks, Money, or Status" that is said to be the basis for what a majority of women desire in a man. The question is, is there anyway really to overcome this ? In my life's journey, I have seen first hand how those of us who don't meet the above stated requirements get passed over time and time again by women. Regardless of our character or what we have to offer. This is REALITY for us. Will this ever change ?
I get your point but you cannot blame it on yourself. You’re putting yourself in the victim mindset.
Looks, status, money is often a easy way to attract a women.
But that doesn’t mean all women are like this. It’s the toxic ones who look for that.
The way the media, movies, tv shows, social media, society degrades men and women. This is why people think that being nice to a girl is mistaken for flirting because they never were taught this. The guy is a nice dude with boundaries. Once the boundary is pushed, it gets ugly.
Old school is gone, replaced with new misled concept where men and women think that it’s cool to be a “savage and rude af” but it’s highly unattractive. Hooking up, etc are the normal. That new normal is unattractive and causing world wide problems. I’m old school
I’ll be very happy when we go back to old school. It will put people in their place and hold them accountable.
1 more thing:
I dated, talked to women who my bro’s say claim 9, 10’s but I also rejected them because they were unattractive internally.
Hi Kevin,
I've actually talked about this in a video. I think this also comes from how we vision our reality. Many women love a man not because of looks but many love because he has money and status. Does not mean he has to be rich but does mean he has to have a mission that brings home something they can both enjoy and ambitions. I coach more successful men than I do not successful and a lot of men think that successful men have it easy with women which is not true. A lot of them struggle as well. What is the secret sauce about you? What is it that you offer? What are you confident in? Embrace that with abundance and look at yourself as a woman dating you to be a pleasurable experienced and not "She will find the next best thing" You are the best thing! Understand? Starts there.
@@ApolloniaPonti The most disingenuous comment you've made. He asked you about a woman's nature & you ultimately made it about him. When we both know female nature never changes. So you have to use it against them.
Hey Apollonia! Thanks for the video! Have a great day! ❤️
Thank you! You too!
Apollina, you are so deep and profound who always go beyond the timely and surface tips usually adopted by your contemporary coaches and blogger. You construct minds and personalities by bringing about paradigm shifts. This video is another addition to your persistent philosphy of relationships science. Hats off to you to shape our minds on scientific method of relationship building.
It's Apollonia, not Apollina 🙄
@@cluggyahoo Thanks for correcting.
Thank you Apollonia for these great reminders and words of wisdom to help better communication and healthier relationships. Great work! ❤
You are so welcome!
She talks all FACTS!!!
What a deep and great message!🎉
Some time this is not easy find a woman who want to level up, while she ask you to do it.
But I believe bye showing example she level up little by little but she's doing it. If she's not or won't do it you have to decide if that may continue or not.
I agree with you saying you make the choice, but if you agreed of her level don't be made of the result. You pick so deals with.
Needed to hear this right now.Thank you so much 🙏🏿
You are so welcome
So do i
Thanks Appolonia, I have the greatest confidence in the world. I won't tell any one how I got this confidence. I love you Appolonia for mentioning the phrase "confidence mysterious component" Appolonia you're gifted for coaching on dating.
Thank you!
I don't have time for this, just say what to do and finish the video 😂
Help:
Slept with a coworker and her bf called me a month later. The no contact thing is hard to do when she work with me. We both pull back, but she is still showing signs, and her bf actually called me second time.
Great video AP!
Sup fellas straight to the point
She pretty much said s you need game to get women if not your put of luck so my best advice is just pay for it easier n less stressful and its guaranteed
Not the answer I was looking for but the answer I needed. Great stuff!
Great to hear!
One of your best videos ever Apollonia!
I’m starting to believe that all relationships are based on either love/respect or power/control. I’d love some feedback on this.
It's never about controlling.
@@alrent2992 Unless you are unfortunate enough to date a Covert Narcissist.
Hey I am divorced twice and widow for 13 years, now I meant a woman on of we dated too months now and she and I are addicted to both of us I love her and she loves me that's what matter.
I totally agree with you!
I chased a girl that I got infatuated with in my early 20’s Didn’t know any of the stuff you were saying and things never flowed, I was always jealous of my brother in laws that got a totally different treatment from their wives, etc
Then that day came when she started cheating then blamed everything on me, some lame stuff, it was ridiculous. What sucks is that I could’ve spent the last 21 yrs with someone that would’ve been a good match for me, ugh.....
Really really good. Sauce for the Goose.
I think this is the best video you have made.... Great advice!
Glad you think so!
This by far the best talk only.because of mytakeing time to listen. Trying to be a better player your helping grestly
a wonderful abundance of knowledge shared here! Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Wow Apollonia this video was stellar. You gave me a lot to think about thank you.👍👍👍
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you so much Apollonia , for waking me up 🤗 I almost lost the very women whom like you said , i already know actually is the Right woman for me !!!! 🤓
I found the right woman at a different gym 🏋️♀️ 💪
Thank you my best coaching❤😅
Thank you I appreciate you.I been learning from you for awhile and healing myself. Thank you. I sored a high quality woman . I said your not the woman I thought your not. Your so so right she did. Say what and what do mean. I said don't worry it all good. And she said it again. And I said u have it all and more. After that she opened up
I will say she made me work for this relationship. I did the same
She can't get enough of me. It all good
You're videos are fantastic and straight forward with no filler ...as a Male I appreciate this.
Thank you so much for watching!
Awesome video
Apollonia this is another one of your excellent videos. You always talk about confidence, however how do you inbody this keep up the good work Luv you B safe
Waw nicely stated I think a lot of people can relate to this really like this video thanks girl
Thanks for watching!
would love to see you on the Roomates podcast one day AP 💯👍
What’s roomate podcast?
Great content..... I see what you did there.... it was amazing 💙
Public comment. Very good information allow you to think before you act. What is the true purpose. What do you want in a relationship.?? It is very important to know that you want.?fact . Unity and love and dedication to each other..
I always say “Become the magnet 🧲 you wish to attract”
I needed to watch this video... I know all of this but, there was this girl that completely knocked my socks off and i was about to make a mistake hahaha easy boy, easy... Thank you Apolonia, youre the best!
Awesome advice. Thank You!
You are so welcome!
So gents to shorten this
Confidence
13:50 that’s me to the T smh lol
You just summarized why I want my ex back lol..all the wrong reasons you just stated 😂
I am actually impressed by the psychological analysis 👏
“Mixed emotions doesn’t mean you tell her you like her one minute and then you tell her you don’t like her the next” the idea of someone doing this on a date made me lol
💯🔥🔥 One question, is the pace and patience The same if it’s a crush you have at work compared to if you met her out at an event?
I will have to do a video on how to approach your crush.
Very useful content with deep & relevant explanations ✅
Hey solo, you literally helping me tank u. The names bead. Love
I love how real you are
stepping into your flow is the key-well said App
Thank You!
I have listened to dozens of these coaches, Ponti", is very wise, and i consider her to be very wise. You can tell, if your honest w yourself. Im 52, and tried alot of this out on a 33 yr ole nieghbor girl, only, now, to find out, ok, it, works, now, honesty time!!!🙄 is this best for me? 3 yrs older then my daughter? And they were nieghbors!!!🤔
Great video thanks
This one was really good, but really difficult to listen to, because it made me realize the person I've been trying to make things work with is the wrong one to spend my time and attention on.
Thank you, but I also feel horrible.
Thank you !
Good message