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Oh my, you have no idea how much I needed this video. I feel that when I talk, only a few people understand what I am saying, and that makes me not want to talk
It’s also important to know when to give people room to breathe. If someone is too insistent when talking to me, I will avoid them in the future because they come off as manipulative and/or inconsiderate. Many introverts such as myself prefer a comfortable silence to small talk. But I do find value in seeking out those who share your interests rather than waiting to discover them by chance.
gilr thi sis the best video i evea ever eva saw in my while life. how do you knwo all this whop taughtr you this gem stuff omg hti sgerl is majik. i wish u were my mom i woudl be so smart . i always never knew wat to say in a convo. i always just smile and look up in the air and hold eye conatct for 10 minute bits . i thought i would just follow whats in the air but you ar so rite we have to talk things liek that. girl you ar liek a ninja master and queen omg i wa sliek oh no she didnt but she did!!
who taught u all this smart knowledge omg I WAS LIKE OH NO SHE DIDNT BUT THEN BAMM YES SHE DONE DID! GIRL DOEN DID IT! THIS GIRL DONE DID IT OH YES SHE DOID! I was like she aint gonna bit then she gonna did do!
I surprisingly don’t have a hard time ever initiating a conversation with anyone and can usually have a lengthy first interaction! the problem then comes when i see a particular person again the 2nd and 3rd time and so on where i run out of things to talk about and always find myself talking about things we talked about in the first conversation so i sound like a broken record 😢
omg thi sis so worldly wisdom. i use to never knwo what ot say. peopel would ask me hwo my day is goign and i was like? huh? if its my day then why u askign me . its mine. pshhhhh and when they was askign me like how are you? i was be like cut to the bull sheit and get to the poitn u tryign to rid ethe camel late nite just say so. now i knmwo wat ot say. girl i was like this vid aint gonan help me and now im like vid done di. vid done do did help me
This is awesome advice I just started college, and I feel like I have no friends because I live off campus, I was able to figure out what I was doing right and wrong. I feel like I can talk to people one on one no problem however whenever I'm in a group setting, I have no idea what to do. Like for example I was hanging out with three people that i knew then another girl came up and the vibe was weird like it was thrown off. Or even walking up to big groups to talk to my friend when I come up its so awkward. tying this out i think my problem is introducing myself, i feel like its expected for my friends to introduce me when I can just do it myself.
Whenever I speak in groups, I feel like nobody cares, no matter what I say. And the reactions of the others also indicate this. How do you work on something like that?
Try speaking loudly and engage more in conversations like don't just say one thing and thats it no, like when someone is speaking give reactions the entire time "omg thats crazy" "no way you really did that" "oh yeah i felt that way too" like small things that would make this person focus on you so when you're speaking they will pay attention because you did too and you really made yourself part of the group so others would also pay attention. English isn't my first language so im sorry if this is a mess i tried my best explaining
@@dnoithink These are good tips. At the moment, I only meet this group online. It's difficult to speak out loud. Today I tried to respond to everything. But I think it's a bit different online.
I feel like singling out a person to ask or talk about something works the best, cause naturally, the others will listen and contribute. Much better than just speaking out all of a sudden without any direction
@@juliaegyed5944i think fillers like "hmm" "my god" or just laughing etc works quite well for me online (smth short), it kinda puts ur presence out there so when u state ur opinion people would be more likely to pay attention to u
@@juliaegyed5944dont feel pressured tho. If the other side isn't interested in conversation or they are not trying to integrate with u then it won't work anyways
how ths gilr did it! i m liek she go and go and do doen did this ! im her esitign and this girl all over flying and dining im like omg she super woamn girl are you a superhuman thing? she done did it
I’m just asking for myself, but the way that I speak is weird I guess because of my vernacular my sister will get annoyed with me because I speak old englishy, even though I’m Gen Z like for instance I’ll say “oh I’m not privy to this” etc and it kind of makes things awkward and she points it out “oh my gosh why do you speak like you’re an old man? This isn’t even me trying to be a know it all or to act like “oh I’m more educated than you. “It just slips out because it’s just my ”LINGO” How I naturally speak.
i have no problem building common ground and making conversations with people but i’ve been trying to talk to my crush more and learn about him and i get so nervous i freeze🥲🥲🥲
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a conversation is gonna hate to see me coming
😂😂
Yes
Oh my, you have no idea how much I needed this video. I feel that when I talk, only a few people understand what I am saying, and that makes me not want to talk
That’s so real, I feel like I dont make myself to understand and that I have to repeat everything that I just say and I feel really embarrassed😓
Big mood. I struggle with this as well.
That's on them. As Mae would say "you don't owe anyone, anything"
It’s also important to know when to give people room to breathe. If someone is too insistent when talking to me, I will avoid them in the future because they come off as manipulative and/or inconsiderate. Many introverts such as myself prefer a comfortable silence to small talk. But I do find value in seeking out those who share your interests rather than waiting to discover them by chance.
I am hispanic person and i am just learning english by videos like yours with captions, it's a great way. Cheers
Thats awesome !! I had to learn that way too i promise it does get easier 😊😌
Would you happen to know any Spanish channels like that? :)
@@viks9264 No, but you can always turn on the automatic translator from youtube which isn't perfect but it works
omg 3 videos?! WE ARE EATINg THIS WEEK ANGELS 🪽🪽
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!!!!!!
like this to claim, we’re all LEVELING UP THIS YEAR 🔝💜
gilr thi sis the best video i evea ever eva saw in my while life. how do you knwo all this whop taughtr you this gem stuff omg hti sgerl is majik. i wish u were my mom i woudl be so smart . i always never knew wat to say in a convo. i always just smile and look up in the air and hold eye conatct for 10 minute bits . i thought i would just follow whats in the air but you ar so rite we have to talk things liek that. girl you ar liek a ninja master and queen omg i wa sliek oh no she didnt but she did!!
Love this video! something else that helped me be less awkward was reading“how to talk to anyone” by Leil Lowndes ❤
Just discovered your channel and i can't stop watching your videos! Such helpful advice thank you very much
Love u so much ❤❤❤
who taught u all this smart knowledge omg I WAS LIKE OH NO SHE DIDNT BUT THEN BAMM YES SHE DONE DID! GIRL DOEN DID IT! THIS GIRL DONE DID IT OH YES SHE DOID! I was like she aint gonna bit then she gonna did do!
I surprisingly don’t have a hard time ever initiating a conversation with anyone and can usually have a lengthy first interaction! the problem then comes when i see a particular person again the 2nd and 3rd time and so on where i run out of things to talk about and always find myself talking about things we talked about in the first conversation so i sound like a broken record 😢
same
I just found this channel today, its a great connect
Love your videos!!
omg thi sis so worldly wisdom. i use to never knwo what ot say. peopel would ask me hwo my day is goign and i was like? huh? if its my day then why u askign me . its mine. pshhhhh and when they was askign me like how are you? i was be like cut to the bull sheit and get to the poitn u tryign to rid ethe camel late nite just say so. now i knmwo wat ot say. girl i was like this vid aint gonan help me and now im like vid done di. vid done do did help me
omg i’m so early!!!!
This is awesome advice I just started college, and I feel like I have no friends because I live off campus, I was able to figure out what I was doing right and wrong. I feel like I can talk to people one on one no problem however whenever I'm in a group setting, I have no idea what to do. Like for example I was hanging out with three people that i knew then another girl came up and the vibe was weird like it was thrown off. Or even walking up to big groups to talk to my friend when I come up its so awkward. tying this out i think my problem is introducing myself, i feel like its expected for my friends to introduce me when I can just do it myself.
Early gang where!?
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Whenever I speak in groups, I feel like nobody cares, no matter what I say. And the reactions of the others also indicate this. How do you work on something like that?
Try speaking loudly and engage more in conversations like don't just say one thing and thats it no, like when someone is speaking give reactions the entire time "omg thats crazy" "no way you really did that" "oh yeah i felt that way too" like small things that would make this person focus on you so when you're speaking they will pay attention because you did too and you really made yourself part of the group so others would also pay attention.
English isn't my first language so im sorry if this is a mess i tried my best explaining
@@dnoithink
These are good tips. At the moment, I only meet this group online. It's difficult to speak out loud. Today I tried to respond to everything. But I think it's a bit different online.
I feel like singling out a person to ask or talk about something works the best, cause naturally, the others will listen and contribute. Much better than just speaking out all of a sudden without any direction
@@juliaegyed5944i think fillers like "hmm" "my god" or just laughing etc works quite well for me online (smth short), it kinda puts ur presence out there so when u state ur opinion people would be more likely to pay attention to u
@@juliaegyed5944dont feel pressured tho. If the other side isn't interested in conversation or they are not trying to integrate with u then it won't work anyways
how ths gilr did it! i m liek she go and go and do doen did this ! im her esitign and this girl all over flying and dining im like omg she super woamn girl are you a superhuman thing? she done did it
13:52 ❤❤
Your face is improving, what did you do:>?
The thing is i need to go out and do different things to talk about and share them, i am rotting in my bed that i become so boring
You look more beautiful day by day😘😘
How many languages do you speak now fluently ?
Wait you changed ur makeup style
Nice❤
Somebody explain in brief ! ❤
I’m just asking for myself, but the way that I speak is weird I guess because of my vernacular my sister will get annoyed with me because I speak old englishy, even though I’m Gen Z like for instance I’ll say “oh I’m not privy to this” etc and it kind of makes things awkward and she points it out “oh my gosh why do you speak like you’re an old man?
This isn’t even me trying to be a know it all or to act like “oh I’m more educated than you. “It just slips out because it’s just my ”LINGO” How I naturally speak.
Alright someone hmu so i can use my new communication skills 🤓
Beautiful girl 🫢
interesting ad. I didnt know you were learning languages
Thank you for this amazing videoo🤍
This goes specifically to women. Stop being so dry and boring
You must be soooo cool and totally not living in grandma’s basement lmao 😂😂😂 women must love you
i have no problem building common ground and making conversations with people but i’ve been trying to talk to my crush more and learn about him and i get so nervous i freeze🥲🥲🥲