1. Make them feel important . 2. Practice active responding ; don't just listen , try to understand 3. Work on your communication skills . 4. Learn about body language ; make sure your hands are visible. 5. Maintain eye contact . 6. Have the ability to adapt to different people and different situations ; learn that people are different. 7. We are more attracted to people that are similar to us . 8. Look for similarities and point them out
Notice how she doesn't mention physical appearance, clothing, make-up or any other materialistic ways that are known for enhancing the way you look which is often associated with attractiveness. She focuses more in the spiritual ways there are to try, in order to become admirable and truly ravishing. Most people will tell you to go to the gym, try new clothes, make-up, hair etc. Liz on the other hand encourages us to try things that will help us feel better and more confident with ourselves and with confidence and power comes the rest. If you feel good about yourself you will also start taking more care of you and your body. It's not just the way you look, but mostly the way you feel. The energy you radiate to others around you. She also gives us tips to improve our communication skills and thus our relationship with people which is very important. Liz you're so inspirational, thank you for existing❤
I have to disagree on this one. It's true she doesn't mention any superficial physical care, but most people would care about how other people take good physical care of themselves. Then, add with personality and manners like Liz's advice, you will become more attractive. Take care of the outside (appearance) as well as inside(personality).
@@angelsub9184 I'm aware that physical care plays an important role in your level of attractiveness and yes the people surrounding you (family, friends, partners etc.) will most likely expect from you to take care of your appearance. I never said you shouldn't. You should do all those things mentioned (gym, hair, make-up, clothes, skin care etc.). But most people will stop there. What I want to point out here is that it's hard for people who don't feel good about themselves to take care of their bodies. And even if they do, the fact that they don't feel pretty and keep doubting themselves makes them automatically unattractive. That's what also Liz mentions in the beginning of this video. Liz gives additional advice rather than just stating the obvious. I do agree that you should work on both, but without confidence which is more difficult to obtain than looking good, you won't be attractive.
@@demy6179 yes, which is why she differs from so many other influencers, they'll say go to gym, eat better, find your style, and you'll now somehow be confident!! but that is not true nor that easy, no matter how much someone can change themself they'll never look at themselves in the mirror and feel beautiful because they didn't work on their mentality, people will keep chasing for something that will never achieve, and potentially gain body dysmorphia disorder or its tendencies. liz doesn't act like that, rather she takes it in a different perspective, mental confidence IS what gives you physical confidence, its not focusing on the two differently, they are together. when you feel mentally confident, you would want to do what's best for your body, like eating healthier to nourish your body, being more active to help your body's endurance and to live a long healthy life, fixing mental issues like eating disorders, drug addiction, etc will make you not only feel mentally better, but also physically better, for example, if someone is eating healthier to nourish their body for more energy, and going on walks more to help clear their mind, they are developing new habits, they will FEEL better, but you know what also happens in that process? they will lose weight from how they where originally, and now they are a step ahead from the first example, because they aren't so physically orientated in their apperance. mental confidence gives you physical confidence, its never and will never be the way around :D i just felt like writing this cuz i went thru an epiphany
2:17- MAKE PEOPLE FEEL IMPORTANT. 3:07- PRACTICE ACTIVE LISTENING. 5:04- LEARN ABOUT BODY LANGUAGE. 6:30-HAVD THE ABILITY TO ADAPT TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE AND SITUATION. 7:51-WE ARE MORE ATTRACTED TO PEOPLE THAT BEHAVE LIKE US. 9:42-SAY EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN. 10:51-DONT REVEAL EVERYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF. 11:34-PICK YOUR BATTLES WISELY. 12:45-DONT ARGUE IN PUBLIC,CREATE SCENES. 13:36-MAKE A DAILY EFFORT TO TALK TO PEOPLE FROM THE OPPOSITE GENDER. 14:57-LOOK LIKE YOU LOVE YOURSELF. 15:40-UNDERSTAND THAT FIRST IMPRESSION IS BASED ON YOUR APPEARANCE. 16:47-HEAL YOUR TRAUMAS WITH HYPNOTHERAPY. 19:51-HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOUR 20:44-GO COLD WHEN SOMEONE DISRESPECTS YOU. 21:31-BE UNPREDICTABLE. 22:14-PRACTICE DANCING. 23:15-BECOME COMFORTABLE IN WHO YOU ARE. 24:19-WALK TALK ACT. 26:09-DONT BE KNOWN FOR ANY ADDICTIONS. 27:29-CHANGE YOUR ENVIRONMENT.
-Make people feel important . -Work on your communication skills . -Learn about body language . -Make sure your hands are always visible . -Look people in the eye . -Have the ability to adapt to different people and situations . -We are more attracted to people that behaves like us. -Look for similarities and point them out Mirror what people are telling you back to them(don’t use this too much in conversation it will look obvious . -Say exactly what you mean . -Don’t reveal everything about your self . -Pick your battles wisely . -Don’t argue in people create scenes . -Make a daily effort to talk to people from the opposite gender . -Look like you love your self . -Eat like you love yourself . -Understand that the first impression is based on your appearance . -Heal your trauma with hypnotherapy . -Have a great sense of humor . -Go cold when some one disrespects you. -Be unpredictable . -Practice dancing . -Be comfortable in who you are and how unique you are. -Walk talk and act like you are the biggest blessing on earth. -Be confident and humble . -Do not talk bad about yourself . -Don’t be known for any addiction. -Change your environment and look for people to connect with . -Let people meet you at your level.
im 15 and i discovered liz an year ago for which im really grateful . she was always the mentor/mother/big sister i needed as these years are important because one's personality is developing in em. ive started to feel more confident about myself , have started to stand up for myself , cut off myself from fake friends or negative people and much more. and whenever im feeling down or unproductive i just come back here. i hope the future has it better for me as liz has taught me to manifest the best for myself ♡ xoxo
I feel like ur my future self, cause now I am 14 and i think that the ideas that Liz get into my head will make me stronger n sm better in a less than a year! I am so glad that I know her in that young age.
You said something about remembering what people say. I always remember everything, and sometimes I feel lowkey judged for that. As if I was supposed to make it look like I dont care
English is my third language. And I don't know English well. And that's why I wanted to thank you Liz for using words that are easier to understand. It is so precious.
@@smilewithme1234 I see.I am Turkish and I want learn too.My bigest dream to speak different language and travel the world.France, London,Egypt,Spain,Morocco etc.I believe i can do this. Thank you for replying.💖💖
I'm 18 and I'm so confident about myself lately...I feel that amazing energy inside me and it literally helps me to overcome my insecurities...Thank you Liz...u are amazing ❤
@@nazgulmamasheva7479 This is international, not asian. It has nothing to do with ethnicity and was proven to be true for most families regardless of where they're from by multiple social studies...
So many people talk about her and I wanted to check her out. She really changed my mindset on things, it's really helping me to reach where I want to be as a person. I'm on the road to becoming who I imagine myself in my head. Thank you for your videos Liz 💓
it's weird how a human from the other side of the world whom i never meet, never talked face to face can have so much power to change what i do in my day to day life, make me feel heard, confident, vulnerable [in a good way] make me want to do everything i dream in my life up until now, work hard for it. i feel a connection idk how it explain it but it's their and i am soo grateful i found her. it's almost 2 year of watching her and learning now when i look back i can't even recognize my past self and it AMAZES ME. thank you so much lizz u don't know hoe much u mean to me. I LOVE YOU MUCH. stay happy and healthy always
Hi Liz! I’m Italian, and even tho I perfectly understand English, I have been in a position where I could not understand everything and personally know people who struggle with it to this day, so I felt I had to tell you THANK YOU for thinking about foreigners and speaking an easy English. When you said you keep in mind people who might not understand bigger words, it really really impacted me and I felt we were all seen. Thank you, for being so inclusive!
Some videos I would love to see: • how to always look clean (tips for acne, hair care tips, how to smell good etc) • how to get to know yourself/heal • how to make/choose friends
1_ put your phone away and focus on that person you are talking to. 2_ listen to them 3_ communication skills. 4_body language . 5_ use your hands and show them. 6_ eye contact. 7_ adapte to different people and different situations. 8_we like people who act like us. 9_ try to find true similarities. 10_ mirror what others are saying... 11_ say exactly what you mean./ Explain yourself in a nice way 12_ don't reveal everything about yourself/ privacy is very important. 13_ you can't trust everyone. 14_ pick your fights wisely. 15_ don't argue in public/ don't make scenes. 16_ make daily efforts to talk to the opposite gender . 17_ look like you love yourself 💓/ look clean ✨. 18_ eat like you love yourself/ hydrate yourself. 19_ heal your trauma with hypnotherapy. 20_ remember the things that people told you. 21_ have a great sense of humor 22_ go cold when someone is so unrespectful. 23_ be unpredictable. 24_ practice dancing. 25_ come comfortable in who you are . .. be who you are ✨ 26_walk talk act like you're the biggest blessing on earth. / My presence is blessing /. Be humble. 27_ don't be known to any addiction. 28_ find a place where you belong / a talent / workout. 29_ let people meet you at your level.
im 16, growing up in a really toxic household, and liz helped me so much in improving myself however still im drained by those abusive people and i never learnt to be confident so i developed an issue where i had really low self esteem and stuffs,, her videos helped me to improve and keeps me going , however im still scared to talk to people and don't know what to say to continue the convo, and i have trouble making friends too bcz of my depression and being introvert , however im trying to improve myself, tysm to liz i love her so much
You can try to engage with people online if you're not comfortable in public or communicate with people who would encourage you to become a better person
@@khushii630 yes thanks,i have two ppl who help me to improve and not to get depressed but still i lack social skills idk what to say to ppl tp keep up convos
@@afy4509 You can talk about general things or try to share your interests or give them compliments and if you think they aren't giving you the same energy back leave em
I love how whenever Liz uploads a new Video I highly prioritize taking the time to sit down and watch the vid so I can fully listen to her words. I strive to be as valued and respected as Liz. I love her!
Since i discovered Liz a year ago when she only has 10k views and im very very insecure abt myself and im really seeking change her words and her energy saved me now im more confident and living in every word that Liz taught us. This gurl is really a blessing on earth. 😭😭😭
Liz, I can't tell you how grateful I am for all of your videos, I don't even speak English very well (yet), and I can understand everything that you say to us. Watching your videos actually help me to practice my English and also getting my power back, I send you mountains of love, beautiful soal ❤
As a 3rd year high school student who is tired and busy but at the same time wants to rise to the surface and above. Liz; thank you for everything . Hearing what you said and watching you, above all the things going on in my brain, reminded me that what really matters is about me, my body, and how I am and want to be. Now, instead of just struggling and desperately waiting to be noticed, I know how to hold my own hand and even if I fall, I will get up again and again and complete myself towards the top. Thanks to all this, I am wholly me and I do not want to be this or that. I just strive to be the best and most impressive version of myself, and that brings me everything I want - to be noticed, to be cared for, to be taken into consideration, and to respect. I am grateful . God bless you, blessed wonderful woman 💫💘
you’re such a kind hearted person with a loving soul, liz!! thank you for always giving us your love and compassion. the way you speak is not at all in any way possible “harsh” or “mean” like other people say. you’re one of the most loving person i know.
Yes liz! Thank you for these videos. By forcing myself out of my comfort zone and creating new habits, I have become a much better version of myself and I am still improving.
Omg the difference between being physically beautiful and being attractive is my favorite topic to talk about and I can't believe the biggest role model for most girls is just discussing this WOW!!
Thank you for this video! I really needed that. Recently I have fallen into an addiction and started to spend my time with people that didn’t appreciate me or the effort I made for them. I felt really bad and often asked myself: “Will there ever be people wanting to be around me?” I still need to get out of this narrative and change my environment. There are still many holes in my life that need to be fixed, I have much to do, but this video really got me motivated.
Dear liz , im pretty sure you wont even be seeing this comment from a random 14 year old girl . But if you do see it, I want to thank you and i want you to know that you have changed my life and the way i look at myself. You are the most beautiful and inspiring woman i have ever come across and oh how grateful i am to discover your channel at the young age of 14. You have made me feel confident about myself, love myself and be comfortable in my own skin and you have helped me get out of a very toxic friendship . You are the older sister i never had. Thank you so much liz, for being who you are . Much love from Bangladesh 🫶 Edit: i dont wanna be that person but i have to, thank you for all the likes. And yes liz has also helped me though a very messed up relationship over the span of one year and i have never been happier or peaceful before
So, I have 3 older sisters and Liz reminds me of my oldest sister. She's so unapologetically straightforward without making you feel horrible, always leaves you with something to think about and helps you grow. She reminds me of my oldest sister so much! I miss all 3 of them :(((( We live so far apart now, I'm the youngest so they all left to do their own thing
2:17 Make people feel important 3:10 Practice active listening : Don't listen to respond. Try to understand what they are saying 3:39 Work on your communication skills 5:05 Learn body language 5:25 Make sure your hands are always visible 5:40 Look people in the eyes 6:29 Have the ability to adapt to different people and situation 7:53 We are more attracted to people that behave like us 9:13 Mirror what people are telling you back to them (Don't use this too much in a conversation, it will look obvious) 9:40 Say exactly what you mean 10:51 Don't reveal anything about yourself 11:34 Pick your battles wisely 12:46 Don't argue in public, create scenes 13:39 Make a daily effort to talk to people from the opposite gender 14:59 Look like you love yourself 15:24 Eat like you love yourself 15:43 Understand that first impression is based on your appearance 16:47 Heal your traumas with hypnotherapy 19:12 Remember the things that people tell you 19:51 Have a great sense of humour 20:44 Go cold when someone disrespects you 21:30 Be unpredictable 22:13 Practice dancing 23:15 Become comfortable in who you are and how unique you are 24:19 Walk, talk, and act like you are the biggest blessing on earth 25:39 Do not talk bad about yourself 27:28 Change your environment and look for people to connect with 29:00 Let people meet you at your level
There's something that she said that it's very true, about the skills communication bc I'm a Venezuelan girl with a basic English level and I love it when I'm able to understand whatever she said with the vocabulary that I have, so thank you so much Liz, you have helped me a lot to learn even about me in English, and I think that's beautiful
When you think you have me figured out, you haven’t…. I felt this one 😂 Liz you look so happy in this video, i hope you can reach everything you desire in life and thanks for always helping us 💖
That is my boyfriend! He's always surprising me with new things about himself that I never knew before (not in a bad way) And i guess, that's one of the reasons I'm so attracted to him. Cuz he's like a book that keeps on getting interesting page by page!
liz, i love you so much and i am so proud of you. i literally look up to you as a role model and an elder sister. i discovered you and year or two years ago and you motivated me to change my life around. i feel better mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. i lost 12 kgs, excelled in my studies, and overall just had a clearer mind and felt better. i actually started loving and taking care of myself. thank you so much liz, ilysm, please continue being you! ❤❤❤❤
Liz is one one of a kind, she gives actual useful advice and gives a broad perspective on things. I also really love that she uses real life examples. ❤
I love how Liz is like a big sister or a mother to us. I started watching liz a month or few weeks ago and her advices really helped me. Before watching her I was soo insecure but then when I discovered her I gained more confidence in myself!
I do all of this naturally because I actually find people interesting and I want to connect. People absolutely love me! Having said that it gets lonely because no one ever reciprocates or wants to get to know me really. I met a guy once who acted the way I did and I was blown away. My female friends are always caught up in drama and I just watch it from afar, never getting involved.
I love how you touched base on adapting to people! I once heard someone say “Emotional intelligence is not just communicating well but knowing who you’re communicating with”
Hey liz and everyone. I’m 17 and i’m from Portugal. I’m trying to be a better person every day not just for the others but especially for me. Your videos are helping so much!! And i can also practice my english with u, without a doubt u are improving me in every part of my life, thank u liz.
If you want to improve you English, search on youtube: "english for beginners", then find harder and harder videos. Dont watch this youtuber, she is narcissistic and sociopathic.
I remember you mentioning the sun glasses trick to maintain eye contact a while ago & it helped so much for my confidence. glad you shared it again. love you sm, Liz. hope everyone is having a nice day! xx
Comme par hasard, j'étais en train de regarder une de tes anciennes vidéos lorsque j'ai reçue une notification de ta part. Vraiment Liz tu es incroyable, tu es en train de littéralement changer ma vie et je suis terriblement reconnaissante pour ce que tu fais. Tu parles avec tant d'aisance et de dynamisme que on ne peut que t'écouter, t'es un peu comme une grande sœur pour moi ! Hâte d'écouter cette vidéo, Kiss 💗
English is not my first language and im still learning but honey the way you talk and use your hands i can literally understand every single word. liz i love youuuu🥺✨
Hey Liz I absolutely love your videos and have been watching you for about almost a year now. I’m 15 and I get stressed out a lot and worried about things that sometimes I wish I could control but I can’t because life is not in my hands but the universe hands. I go to work and go to school and what I’ve learned from you is to have a balance about everything, literally. One thing that I always try to remember is that draining myself from certain arguments or situations that I cannot control is extremely exhausting and will not help me become who I want to be. Distancing from things that are not good for me is the best fucking thing that can help with being the better you or most confident.
Same age, to be fair staying calm during confrontations immedeatly makes you win, like even with my parents if I stay calm when they criticize me they get to mad and give up, just a tip!
I’m in 6th grade and just started going to all girls school and literally when I tell you liz helped me so much on how to behave and stuff that to the point where the seniors that are friends with my older sister literally compliment me and say I smell nice, I’m not loud etc and I was so happy inside but for real tho liz really helped me cutting out people for the best
Thank you so much for such advices.I think that I needed those advices step by step.Because every time you continue to talk about the topic,I was understanding the mistakes I've done.No one ever told me that I am attractive or not.But I hope that I am gonna work on myself and listen to you and make myself feel attractive.Because If I do this myself for the first time,people are gonna think like this,too❤
i love lizz so muchh , she is really inspiring on how she communicates. Honestly im really glad she have the opportunity to even make this video. i hope liz will always get blessed with beauty and health everyday and for those who notes her words🎀
she really powerful because i started to listen to her and life was better but then stopped because my laptop stopped working and life went downhill and now its getting better because i am listening to her videos and short/tiktoks her advice is really and truly powerful alhamdulliah
Gracias por tus videos, por haber decidido crear este canal, me haz vuelto a abrir los ojos, hace mucho tiempo dejé las manifestaciones, los buenos deseos, mi salud, y gracias a ti, y al amor que tenía guardado, eh vuelto a creer en mi, en la fuerza de mis creencias, la fuerza de mis pensamientos y mis palabras... Tu canal es esencial para nuestra generación, para la sociedad, sigue asi. Gracias por enseñarnos tu mejor versión e inspirarnos de ti 💖 P.D. I am from Chile (LATAM) and I understand english perfectly. Your vocabulary and pronunciation are also completely understandable. In fact, I play your videos as a podcast while I do my university homework. But I wanted to thank you in spanish so that you could see that it is true, people from other parts of the world also see you, and the subtitles help a lot.
like I've had said in her last video. Whenever I feel down or need kind of motivation Liz always post something that is related to them. Wow Liz I dont know how to say what I'm feeling rn. I love you so so much
I'm grateful for finding this video, thank you for sharing with me this incredible advance for my life. All my life I always try to be right, but in a realistic way I realize I want to be happy more than anything! Again Thank You!
She says all the things that we already know but forgot or maybe just wanna hear from someone. I love her for that to remind us all the things we already know. I have been following her since the day she had 100 followers
i work my way into being the best version of myself and i’m confident and hard worker and good but as much as i fight it, now and then i notice how much i’ve been rejected and how unimportant too many people have made me feel. it’s something that i’ve never gotten an explanation of why it has happened at any time and i cope with it and move on but it’s still there. if you could make a video about nasty situations like this that would be lovely.
Yeah, everytime I make freinds they all hang out without inviting me and then brag about it in front of me as if it don't hurt like hell, I've basically said fuck people and when I stop hanging with them and leave the group chat they don't even try to contact me lmfao
MAKE PEOPLE FEEL IMPORTANT. 3:07- PRACTICE ACTIVE LISTENING. 5:04- LEARN ABOUT BODY LANGUAGE. 6:30-HAVD THE ABILITY TO ADAPT TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE AND SITUATION. 7:51-WE ARE MORE ATTRACTED TO PEOPLE THAT BEHAVE LIKE US. 9:42-SAY EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN. 10:51-DONT REVEAL EVERYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF. 11:34-PICK YOUR BATTLES WISELY. 12:45-DONT ARGUE IN PUBLIC,CREATE SCENES. 13:36-MAKE A DAILY EFFORT TO TALK TO PEOPLE FROM THE OPPOSITE GENDER. 14:57-LOOK LIKE YOU LOVE YOURSELF. 15:40-UNDERSTAND THAT FIRST IMPRESSION IS BASED ON YOUR APPEARANCE. 16:47-HEAL YOUR TRAUMAS WITH HYPNOTHERAPY. 19:51-HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOUR 20:44-GO COLD WHEN SOMEONE DISRESPECTS YOU. 21:31-BE UNPREDICTABLE. 22:14-PRACTICE DANCING. 23:15-BECOME COMFORTABLE IN WHO YOU ARE. 24:19-WALK TALK ACT. 26:09-DONT BE KNOWN FOR ANY ADDICTIONS. 27:29-CHANGE YOUR ENVIRONMENT.
25:03 such a gem .. i always felt guilty and wrong for thinking of myself this way - i felt more comfortable taking the humble route but the way you just explained the two living harmoniously released the shackles thank you ♥️
Thank you Liz so much. I began taking care of myself and I look way more clean than before, and improved my communication skills to the point that I made 3 more friends! They came up to me and said "You're prettier up close" and I was like thank you and stuff then the conversation took us to getting to know each other and became friends!! Thanks again
The most important lessons I learned out of everything in this video is don't reveal everything about yourself because I need to watch my mouth in case if someone would backstab me. Go cold when people disrespect me. Walk, talk and act. Of course, first impressions are based on appearance as in looking clean, neat and tidy! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 19:52 I just find this part funny about Liz. Yeah gurl! You go with that self confidence and yes you are funny 😂
i know that i haven't completely accepted myself coz there are so many things that i need to fix about myself and i will. but the girl i am now i love her and i am proud of her also it never even happend if i didn't watch liz's videos , day by day she is pushing me to be the better version of myself and i am loving it to know myself, prioritize my self and not letting anyone to put me down. in this generation where relationships are messy and toxic i am being comfortable of having a relationship with myself.
Thank you Liz! I find all of your advices so relatable! Will start to work on my communication skills, since I also have that problem being uncomfortable talking to certain people. "Good communicator can talk to anyone" - your words inspired me so much. I've been searching for answers why I am just seen as a "good/nice girl" but never truly attractive, and seem I found the right answers. Thank you
Liz your videos have become my guide on what I need to heal about myself. I am consistently working on myself, I pick up what triggers me and journal and talk about it until I have figured it out. It has been working amazingly, it has changed my life. There is one issue I cannot figure out how to deal with. My family triggers me a lot and I'm trying to find a way to heal so that I can spend time with them. I've tried telling them that their disrespect is not good for me, and it works when it's only one person I'm spending time with, but as soon as they get together everything spirals. I genuinely need help with this and I've been trying for a while now. Thank you for listening ❤
Omg Liz the stuff you said about gender literally spoke to me… I grew up with no brothers and went to an all girls’ school, and now I’m at uni and I’m sooo shy around boys/men, even my boss at work I get shy around!!!!!!!!! But I don’t want to be!!! I will be applying your tips for sure ❤️❤️
Same but I'm a girl and most of my freinds and family are male, went to church camp and all of the girls hated me? I hadn't even said anything and was wearing what they did and they just rejected me, I was in a whole cabin of girls while being completely alone
كيف تصبحي فاتنة و جذابة ؟ 🦢🤍 - لازم تشعري الناس باهميتهم و ما تستخدمي الجوال لمن تتكلمي معاهم ، و لمن تنتهي سواليفكم يكون يحس انه واثق من نفسه و انه نعمة لهذا الكون و نظرتهم لنفسهم اتحسنت لان ان البشر بطبيعتنا نحب نشعر اننا كويسين طيبين و حلوين و كل الاشياء الحلوه فينا فا بطبيعة الحال اذا احد حسسهم بذا الشعور رح ينجذبو له و يقدروه - اشتغلي على مهارة التواصل عشان تتمكني انك تتكلمي مع اي احد و و تقدر تتكلمي عن إلي بعقلك بكلام مناسب و جمل مناسبة و منطقيه و ما احسس الشخص المقابل بانه مخالف او غلط ، وكمان ان يكون لك القدرة على شرح موضوعك بكلامات بسيطه كانك تشرحيها لطفل عمره خمس سنوات - اهتمي بلغة جسدك لمن تتكلمي مع احد و احرصي انك تكلميه وجه لوجه و جسمك باتجاهه بلكامل يعني ما تكوني تكلمي و وجهك مايل شوي منه لان هو رح يحس انك ما فهمتيه او ماخليتيه يعبر عن إلي يبغى يقوله و يحس ان إلي يبغى يوصله لك وصل ، و لا تربطي يدينك لمن تتكلمي مع احد لانه تعبر انك منغلق ما لك خلق او انك مو مرتاح ، و حاولي تكون يدينك مكشوفه و واضحة لانهاتخلي الناس يثقو فيك ، حاولي طوال ما انك تتكلمي مع احد ان تواصلك البصري ( eye contact )معاه عشان لا يحس انك تخبي شي عنه او انك شخص مربك و متوتر و غير جدير بثقة طالعي فيهم عشان يثق و يرتاح لك . - اعرفي ايت المواضيع مناسبه للشخص إلي قدامك اذا كان شخص متدين ما يصير انك تتكلمي عن فكرة هو رح يعترض عليها او شخص حساس تتكلمي معاه بطريقة اندفاعية بس لانه تناسب ناس ثانية مو معناته رح تناسبه ،اتعلمي كيف تعطي ايت رد و ايت اسلوب لي ايت شخص، الناس مختلفه ما رح يناسب الكل نفس الاسلوب او نفس الافكار، لان الانسان بطبيعته يحب إلي زيه بتصرفات و الافكار و الاسلوب لان عقل الانسان يشوف التشابه اكثر من المفرقات . - حاولي انك تعدي كلام الشخص المقابل لمن تردي عليه مثل ( انا اليوم رحت الحرم و كان برد ……… و انت: صح انت قلتي انك رحتي الحرم و كان برد اتخيلي بنفس االيوم انا كمان رحت …….) لانه بكذا رح يحس انك سمعتي له و انك مهتمه صدق و هذا الاسلوب مره بيجذب الناس لك ، - لمن يصير لك خلاف ما شخص حاولي تعبري عن نفسك عن موقفك اذا تقصدي او كنتي تبغي لا ترمي كلمه و تهربي لان كذا المشكلة ما رح تنحل عبري عن موقفك لان بلمقابل رح يفهمك و ما رح تصير خلاف بلعكس رح تقوي علاقتك مع الشخص المقابل - حاولي ما تتكلمي كثير عن حياتك و التفاصيل حياتك خلي شوي يكون عندك خصوصيه بحياتك لانه هذي الصفة جذابة و كمان عشان تتفادي ان الناس يطلعو قصص عنك ، و اغلب المشاكل تكون بسبب انك قلتي شي المفروض ما تقوليه . - تجنبي الجدال لانها صفة غير جذاب و اسالي نفس ( انتي تبغي تكوني سعيده ولا محقه ؟) لان اوقات نتجادل على اشياء سخيفة ماله اهمية و تكون حساسية بيناتنا بسبب جدال ما كان له داعي . و اذا حابه تتكلمي و تعبري عن نفسك اتكلمي مغ الشخص بعد ما يهدأ و حلي المشكلة مع الشخص بانفراد مو تحليها او تتجادلو بشكل علني و قدام الناس . و اذا اتجادل معك شخص بمكان عامي حاولي تتحكمي بمشاعرك و تسيطري عليه و اذا كان شخص ما تعرفيه لا تهتمي له و اذا كان شخص تعرفيه خليه يخلص و يهدا او بعد ما الناس تروح تتكلمي معاه و عبري انه ما عجبك ذا التصرف و اتناقشو بلموضوع و حليه ، و لا تخلي شخص يشوفك تتجدالي و تصرخي على شخص بين الناس لانه تصرف غير جذاب و جميل . - حبي نفسك و اهتمي بمظهرك و نظافتك لانه مهم و تزيد من حبك لانفسك و تقدير الناس لك ، و كلي كويس عشان نفسك عشان صحتك و حبي نفسك ،جسمك نعمة عظيمه من الله لازم تعتني فيها و تهتمي فيها لانها صفة جذابه بالإنسان و لانها تعطي الانطباع الاول لدى الشخص و تخلي الناس يحترمونك و يقدرونك لان الناس بالبداية ما تعرفك بس من مظهرك يقررو ،انتي كيف تستحقي انهم يعاملونك هل تستحقي انهم ينجذبو لك و يقدروك ،( اهتمي بنظافة جسمك و ملابسك و ترتيب شعرك و مظهرك و اظافرك و اسنانك و كمان لازم تقفي بشكل مستقيم ) - الاشخاص الواعين بذاتهم و مشاعرهم جذابين اكثر لان طاقتهم تكون نظيفه و يتم ملاحظتهم - حاولي تكون عندك حس فكاهي بدون اذية احد او قول كلامات جارحه و قاسيه بس اذا احد قال شي مو مناسب عنك باسلوب فكاهي لا تضحكي و قوليه ( ما احب احد يتكلم عن بذي الطريقة او ما حبت إلي قلتيه اتمنى انك تنتبهي على الكلام إلي تقوليه ) - لا تتكلمي عن اهدافك خليهم يشوفو النتائج و لا تحسسي الناس انهم يعرفونك او يقولبونك - ارقصي عشان تكوني متصله مع جسمك و لانه تزيد ثقتك بنفسك - خليك مميزة البس إلي انتي تحبيه عبري عن نفسك فقط لا تاخذي صفات و استايلات ناس ثانيه و تقلديهم ، شوفي ايت استايل حبيتيه - اتكلمي و اتحركي و اتصرفي كانك نعمه عظيمه في هذا الكون لان عقلك ما يعرف ايش الصح و ايش الغلط انت تخلي عقلك يصدق إلي انتي تبغيه فا خليه يصدق انك نعمه عظيمه و انتي فعلا نعمه عظيمه من رب العلمين فا استغليه و أظهريه و ذا مو معناته انك تقارني نفسك ، انتي بس ركزي بنفسك انك نعمه عظيمه و انتي فعلا نعمه عظيمه بس لا تتكبري و خليكي متواضعه و مالك دخل باحد . - ابدا لا تتكلمي عن نفسك بطريقة سيئة او تتكلمي مع نفسك بطريقة سيئة - خالي الناس المحيطه بك يكونو بمستوى عالي و حاولي ترفعي مستوك ولا تنزلي ابدا اي شخص اقل من مستواك لا تنشئي علاقة معاه إلا لمن هم يجو لمستواك ، قال رسول الله -صلى الله عليه وسلم- "إنما مثل الجليس الصالح والجليس السوء كحامل المسك ونافخ الكير فحامل المسك إما أن يحذيك، وإما أن تبتاع منه، وإما أن تجد منه ريحا طيبة. ونافخ الكير إما أن يحرق ثيابك، وإما أن تجد منه ريحا خبيثة )
Can I just say how grateful I am for god that I stumbled across your channel 🙏🏻 I've watched many of your videos and they helped me a lot to regain my focus and my inspiration, *Thank you* ❤️
1. Make them feel important .
2. Practice active responding ; don't just listen , try to understand
3. Work on your communication skills .
4. Learn about body language ; make sure your hands are visible.
5. Maintain eye contact .
6. Have the ability to adapt to different people and different situations ; learn that people are different.
7. We are more attracted to people that are similar to us .
8. Look for similarities and point them out
I loooveeee your profile lol
Thank youuuu
@@diannamadriaga7179carat here 💖!!
@@newlife4218welcome babe x
thanks
Notice how she doesn't mention physical appearance, clothing, make-up or any other materialistic ways that are known for enhancing the way you look which is often associated with attractiveness. She focuses more in the spiritual ways there are to try, in order to become admirable and truly ravishing. Most people will tell you to go to the gym, try new clothes, make-up, hair etc. Liz on the other hand encourages us to try things that will help us feel better and more confident with ourselves and with confidence and power comes the rest. If you feel good about yourself you will also start taking more care of you and your body. It's not just the way you look, but mostly the way you feel. The energy you radiate to others around you.
She also gives us tips to improve our communication skills and thus our relationship with people which is very important. Liz you're so inspirational, thank you for existing❤
I have to disagree on this one. It's true she doesn't mention any superficial physical care, but most people would care about how other people take good physical care of themselves. Then, add with personality and manners like Liz's advice, you will become more attractive. Take care of the outside (appearance) as well as inside(personality).
Because she knows she looks good.
@@angelsub9184 I'm aware that physical care plays an important role in your level of attractiveness and yes the people surrounding you (family, friends, partners etc.) will most likely expect from you to take care of your appearance. I never said you shouldn't. You should do all those things mentioned (gym, hair, make-up, clothes, skin care etc.). But most people will stop there. What I want to point out here is that it's hard for people who don't feel good about themselves to take care of their bodies. And even if they do, the fact that they don't feel pretty and keep doubting themselves makes them automatically unattractive. That's what also Liz mentions in the beginning of this video. Liz gives additional advice rather than just stating the obvious.
I do agree that you should work on both, but without confidence which is more difficult to obtain than looking good, you won't be attractive.
Exactly
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@@demy6179 yes, which is why she differs from so many other influencers, they'll say go to gym, eat better, find your style, and you'll now somehow be confident!! but that is not true nor that easy, no matter how much someone can change themself they'll never look at themselves in the mirror and feel beautiful because they didn't work on their mentality, people will keep chasing for something that will never achieve, and potentially gain body dysmorphia disorder or its tendencies. liz doesn't act like that, rather she takes it in a different perspective, mental confidence IS what gives you physical confidence, its not focusing on the two differently, they are together. when you feel mentally confident, you would want to do what's best for your body, like eating healthier to nourish your body, being more active to help your body's endurance and to live a long healthy life, fixing mental issues like eating disorders, drug addiction, etc will make you not only feel mentally better, but also physically better, for example, if someone is eating healthier to nourish their body for more energy, and going on walks more to help clear their mind, they are developing new habits, they will FEEL better, but you know what also happens in that process? they will lose weight from how they where originally, and now they are a step ahead from the first example, because they aren't so physically orientated in their apperance. mental confidence gives you physical confidence, its never and will never be the way around :D i just felt like writing this cuz i went thru an epiphany
2:17- MAKE PEOPLE FEEL IMPORTANT.
3:07- PRACTICE ACTIVE LISTENING.
5:04- LEARN ABOUT BODY LANGUAGE.
6:30-HAVD THE ABILITY TO ADAPT TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE AND SITUATION.
7:51-WE ARE MORE ATTRACTED TO PEOPLE THAT BEHAVE LIKE US.
9:42-SAY EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN.
10:51-DONT REVEAL EVERYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF.
11:34-PICK YOUR BATTLES WISELY.
12:45-DONT ARGUE IN PUBLIC,CREATE SCENES.
13:36-MAKE A DAILY EFFORT TO TALK TO PEOPLE FROM THE OPPOSITE GENDER.
14:57-LOOK LIKE YOU LOVE YOURSELF.
15:40-UNDERSTAND THAT FIRST IMPRESSION IS BASED ON YOUR APPEARANCE.
16:47-HEAL YOUR TRAUMAS WITH HYPNOTHERAPY.
19:51-HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOUR
20:44-GO COLD WHEN SOMEONE DISRESPECTS YOU.
21:31-BE UNPREDICTABLE.
22:14-PRACTICE DANCING.
23:15-BECOME COMFORTABLE IN WHO YOU ARE.
24:19-WALK TALK ACT.
26:09-DONT BE KNOWN FOR ANY ADDICTIONS.
27:29-CHANGE YOUR ENVIRONMENT.
Omg merci !!
slay
thanks!
yo no need to yell /lh
thanks!!
-Make people feel important .
-Work on your communication skills .
-Learn about body language .
-Make sure your hands are always visible .
-Look people in the eye .
-Have the ability to adapt to different people and situations .
-We are more attracted to people that behaves like us.
-Look for similarities and point them out
Mirror what people are telling you back to them(don’t use this too much in conversation it will look obvious .
-Say exactly what you mean .
-Don’t reveal everything about your self .
-Pick your battles wisely .
-Don’t argue in people create scenes .
-Make a daily effort to talk to people from the opposite gender .
-Look like you love your self .
-Eat like you love yourself .
-Understand that the first impression is based on your appearance .
-Heal your trauma with hypnotherapy .
-Have a great sense of humor .
-Go cold when some one disrespects you.
-Be unpredictable .
-Practice dancing .
-Be comfortable in who you are and how unique you are.
-Walk talk and act like you are the biggest blessing on earth.
-Be confident and humble .
-Do not talk bad about yourself .
-Don’t be known for any addiction.
-Change your environment and look for people to connect with .
-Let people meet you at your level.
Thank you❤
This was helpful! Thanks for taking the time to write this down and sharing it with everyone! 👏
Thanks 👏❤️
Thank you!!
ANGELLL
When she says "may god always bless you" I believe her, cause truly she’s a blessing
liz is like the older sister i’ve never had as an only child
that’s amazing!!😊
Same here
Samee
The older sister I never had as the oldest sister
True though she's an angel
im 15 and i discovered liz an year ago for which im really grateful . she was always the mentor/mother/big sister i needed as these years are important because one's personality is developing in em. ive started to feel more confident about myself , have started to stand up for myself , cut off myself from fake friends or negative people and much more. and whenever im feeling down or unproductive i just come back here. i hope the future has it better for me as liz has taught me to manifest the best for myself ♡ xoxo
I feel like ur my future self, cause now I am 14 and i think that the ideas that Liz get into my head will make me stronger n sm better in a less than a year! I am so glad that I know her in that young age.
@@human_287samee
I'm really proud of this generation
Good luck dear ❤❤
Hii same here. Ameen
Liz you have really inspired me into changing myself and not sitting and rotting in my room, love you cuz we all got this🥰
Lets do this🎉
lmao real
You said something about remembering what people say. I always remember everything, and sometimes I feel lowkey judged for that. As if I was supposed to make it look like I dont care
Yeah i also been judged for that,they always make me look like im obsessed with them or something
Her child will be so lucky
We all are her children's💗🌝
English is my third language. And I don't know English well. And that's why I wanted to thank you Liz for using words that are easier to understand. It is so precious.
realll, also i feel so confident when i understand the whole video😭😭
What helped you the most in learning language
@@zehra4711I started to watch series with subtitles. It will help to understand and listen, also vocabulary improves
@@zehra4711 Russian is my native language. So I learned English from Russian chanels. Like, Александр Бебрис
@@smilewithme1234 I see.I am Turkish and I want learn too.My bigest dream to speak different language and travel the world.France, London,Egypt,Spain,Morocco etc.I believe i can do this. Thank you for replying.💖💖
Honestly, I only wish for the best for Liz. She’s helping so many people!
I'm 18 and I'm so confident about myself lately...I feel that amazing energy inside me and it literally helps me to overcome my insecurities...Thank you Liz...u are amazing ❤
You are doing great! Keep going 🎉
That's great but don't be taking advice from this person unless you want to end up being 40 with no kids
@@carbon-based-lifeform9172 what u mean?
@@carbon-based-lifeform9172you're such a fan lmao
I'm so proud of you
as the eldest child in an asian household, i incredibly appreciate liz for sharing to us her wisdom. she is the big sister i wish i had growing up
samee but I'm a Arab /east African household
why do you guys always have to bring your ethnicity in every comment as if it had a link with the video ?
Her videos truly helped me to become more confident in myself. ❤
@@kay.667 cause in asian household the eldest child is almost like a second parent for their younger siblings
@@nazgulmamasheva7479 This is international, not asian. It has nothing to do with ethnicity and was proven to be true for most families regardless of where they're from by multiple social studies...
So many people talk about her and I wanted to check her out. She really changed my mindset on things, it's really helping me to reach where I want to be as a person. I'm on the road to becoming who I imagine myself in my head. Thank you for your videos Liz 💓
it's weird how a human from the other side of the world whom i never meet, never talked face to face can have so much power to change what i do in my day to day life, make me feel heard, confident, vulnerable [in a good way] make me want to do everything i dream in my life up until now, work hard for it. i feel a connection idk how it explain it but it's their and i am soo grateful i found her. it's almost 2 year of watching her and learning now when i look back i can't even recognize my past self and it AMAZES ME. thank you so much lizz u don't know hoe much u mean to me. I LOVE YOU MUCH. stay happy and healthy always
Liz helped me overcome my insecurities and set a goal. love you queen ❤️
I’m not a native speaker, my language is Spanish but it’s crazy the way I understand every word she says. I love her
Hi Liz! I’m Italian, and even tho I perfectly understand English, I have been in a position where I could not understand everything and personally know people who struggle with it to this day, so I felt I had to tell you THANK YOU for thinking about foreigners and speaking an easy English. When you said you keep in mind people who might not understand bigger words, it really really impacted me and I felt we were all seen. Thank you, for being so inclusive!
Some videos I would love to see:
• how to always look clean (tips for acne, hair care tips, how to smell good etc)
• how to get to know yourself/heal
• how to make/choose friends
1_ put your phone away and focus on that person you are talking to.
2_ listen to them
3_ communication skills.
4_body language .
5_ use your hands and show them.
6_ eye contact.
7_ adapte to different people and different situations.
8_we like people who act like us.
9_ try to find true similarities.
10_ mirror what others are saying...
11_ say exactly what you mean./ Explain yourself in a nice way
12_ don't reveal everything about yourself/ privacy is very important.
13_ you can't trust everyone.
14_ pick your fights wisely.
15_ don't argue in public/ don't make scenes.
16_ make daily efforts to talk to the opposite gender .
17_ look like you love yourself 💓/ look clean ✨.
18_ eat like you love yourself/ hydrate yourself.
19_ heal your trauma with hypnotherapy.
20_ remember the things that people told you.
21_ have a great sense of humor
22_ go cold when someone is so unrespectful.
23_ be unpredictable.
24_ practice dancing.
25_ come comfortable in who you are . .. be who you are ✨
26_walk talk act like you're the biggest blessing on earth. / My presence is blessing /. Be humble.
27_ don't be known to any addiction.
28_ find a place where you belong / a talent / workout.
29_ let people meet you at your level.
im 16, growing up in a really toxic household, and liz helped me so much in improving myself however still im drained by those abusive people and i never learnt to be confident so i developed an issue where i had really low self esteem and stuffs,, her videos helped me to improve and keeps me going , however im still scared to talk to people and don't know what to say to continue the convo, and i have trouble making friends too bcz of my depression and being introvert , however im trying to improve myself, tysm to liz i love her so much
Hey! Can we talk?
You can try to engage with people online if you're not comfortable in public or communicate with people who would encourage you to become a better person
@@khushii630 yes thanks,i have two ppl who help me to improve and not to get depressed but still i lack social skills idk what to say to ppl tp keep up convos
@@afy4509 You can talk about general things or try to share your interests or give them compliments and if you think they aren't giving you the same energy back leave em
me too omg
I just watch liz videos again and again and never bored
As an older sister who needed an older sister...thank you Liz❤
I love how she thinks about us, non native speakers
I love how whenever Liz uploads a new Video I highly prioritize taking the time to sit down and watch the vid so I can fully listen to her words. I strive to be as valued and respected as Liz. I love her!
so excited this wasn’t a short! cant wait to watch!
I love how she backed her advice with research and make it so clear for us to understand.
Since i discovered Liz a year ago when she only has 10k views and im very very insecure abt myself and im really seeking change her words and her energy saved me now im more confident and living in every word that Liz taught us. This gurl is really a blessing on earth. 😭😭😭
she's the system update we all need in our lives👑💅🏼
real
just pointing out the main topics of this video in case you have less time to watch this
❤
You put a lolt of work into that ...Beautifully Done ...Thank you x
Liz, I can't tell you how grateful I am for all of your videos, I don't even speak English very well (yet), and I can understand everything that you say to us. Watching your videos actually help me to practice my English and also getting my power back, I send you mountains of love, beautiful soal ❤
As a 3rd year high school student who is tired and busy but at the same time wants to rise to the surface and above. Liz; thank you for everything . Hearing what you said and watching you, above all the things going on in my brain, reminded me that what really matters is about me, my body, and how I am and want to be. Now, instead of just struggling and desperately waiting to be noticed, I know how to hold my own hand and even if I fall, I will get up again and again and complete myself towards the top. Thanks to all this, I am wholly me and I do not want to be this or that. I just strive to be the best and most impressive version of myself, and that brings me everything I want - to be noticed, to be cared for, to be taken into consideration, and to respect. I am grateful . God bless you, blessed wonderful woman 💫💘
I'm 12 years old and I love you so much Liz!You changed me!!Thank you so much!!!
you’re such a kind hearted person with a loving soul, liz!! thank you for always giving us your love and compassion. the way you speak is not at all in any way possible “harsh” or “mean” like other people say. you’re one of the most loving person i know.
Yes liz! Thank you for these videos. By forcing myself out of my comfort zone and creating new habits, I have become a much better version of myself and I am still improving.
Omg the difference between being physically beautiful and being attractive is my favorite topic to talk about and I can't believe the biggest role model for most girls is just discussing this WOW!!
She is my guardian angel I always wanted.
Thank you for this video! I really needed that. Recently I have fallen into an addiction and started to spend my time with people that didn’t appreciate me or the effort I made for them. I felt really bad and often asked myself: “Will there ever be people wanting to be around me?” I still need to get out of this narrative and change my environment. There are still many holes in my life that need to be fixed, I have much to do, but this video really got me motivated.
Dear liz , im pretty sure you wont even be seeing this comment from a random 14 year old girl . But if you do see it, I want to thank you and i want you to know that you have changed my life and the way i look at myself. You are the most beautiful and inspiring woman i have ever come across and oh how grateful i am to discover your channel at the young age of 14. You have made me feel confident about myself, love myself and be comfortable in my own skin and you have helped me get out of a very toxic friendship . You are the older sister i never had. Thank you so much liz, for being who you are . Much love from Bangladesh 🫶 Edit: i dont wanna be that person but i have to, thank you for all the likes. And yes liz has also helped me though a very messed up relationship over the span of one year and i have never been happier or peaceful before
Another Bangladeshi who worships a white girl, ruining your life is what you're doing. Your abba-jaan really failed.
You’re Bangladeshi as well? I am too :o
❤
yess im bangladeshi@@funnyfriend69420
fr!
when you’re already mesmerizing but you’re watching to support liz
So, I have 3 older sisters and Liz reminds me of my oldest sister.
She's so unapologetically straightforward without making you feel horrible, always leaves you with something to think about and helps you grow. She reminds me of my oldest sister so much! I miss all 3 of them :((((
We live so far apart now, I'm the youngest so they all left to do their own thing
2:17 Make people feel important
3:10 Practice active listening : Don't listen to respond. Try to understand what they are saying
3:39 Work on your communication skills
5:05 Learn body language
5:25 Make sure your hands are always visible
5:40 Look people in the eyes
6:29 Have the ability to adapt to different people and situation
7:53 We are more attracted to people that behave like us
9:13 Mirror what people are telling you back to them (Don't use this too much in a conversation, it will look obvious)
9:40 Say exactly what you mean
10:51 Don't reveal anything about yourself
11:34 Pick your battles wisely
12:46 Don't argue in public, create scenes
13:39 Make a daily effort to talk to people from the opposite gender
14:59 Look like you love yourself
15:24 Eat like you love yourself
15:43 Understand that first impression is based on your appearance
16:47 Heal your traumas with hypnotherapy
19:12 Remember the things that people tell you
19:51 Have a great sense of humour
20:44 Go cold when someone disrespects you
21:30 Be unpredictable
22:13 Practice dancing
23:15 Become comfortable in who you are and how unique you are
24:19 Walk, talk, and act like you are the biggest blessing on earth
25:39 Do not talk bad about yourself
27:28 Change your environment and look for people to connect with
29:00 Let people meet you at your level
tysm!
@@aliyavekilova2908 my pleasure
thank you😍
thanks you 😊
just wanted to say that i LOVE that she puts captions on her vids😭🩷 thoughtful queen! thank you for all you do for us liz🥰
There's something that she said that it's very true, about the skills communication bc I'm a Venezuelan girl with a basic English level and I love it when I'm able to understand whatever she said with the vocabulary that I have, so thank you so much Liz, you have helped me a lot to learn even about me in English, and I think that's beautiful
I love watching liz's content while working out. She's my role model. We all love and adore You liz, take care!
Such a good idea!
When you think you have me figured out, you haven’t…. I felt this one 😂
Liz you look so happy in this video, i hope you can reach everything you desire in life and thanks for always helping us 💖
That is my boyfriend!
He's always surprising me with new things about himself that I never knew before (not in a bad way)
And i guess, that's one of the reasons I'm so attracted to him. Cuz he's like a book that keeps on getting interesting page by page!
SHE UPLODED AGAIN AND IM HERE FOR IT
liz, i love you so much and i am so proud of you. i literally look up to you as a role model and an elder sister. i discovered you and year or two years ago and you motivated me to change my life around. i feel better mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. i lost 12 kgs, excelled in my studies, and overall just had a clearer mind and felt better. i actually started loving and taking care of myself. thank you so much liz, ilysm, please continue being you! ❤❤❤❤
wow reading this comment I'm so happy for you, I hope you're a having a great day ♡
@@innocenteve awww, thank you so much! hope you're having a fantastic day too
She is literally the elder sister I never hadd
tysm lizz I love your videos u fr make my day better:)
This was an incredible video liz, just what I needed to stop feeling like my life has once more come out of my control. You are sooo inspiring!!!!
Liz is one one of a kind, she gives actual useful advice and gives a broad perspective on things. I also really love that she uses real life examples. ❤
If you're reading this I'm praying something amazing happens for you today.💗🙏🏼
I love the energy you are giving in this video it seems like you been feeling more like yourself lately. I'm glad to see that
Thank you very much for your videos liz,you really helped me,i used to be lazy,had no friends and was almost depressed,now I’m the total opposite❤️
liz is like an older sister that i wish i had. being the eldest is always figuring things out all by yourself. thank u sm for this video ❤
I love how Liz is like a big sister or a mother to us. I started watching liz a month or few weeks ago and her advices really helped me. Before watching her I was soo insecure but then when I discovered her I gained more confidence in myself!
I do all of this naturally because I actually find people interesting and I want to connect. People absolutely love me! Having said that it gets lonely because no one ever reciprocates or wants to get to know me really. I met a guy once who acted the way I did and I was blown away. My female friends are always caught up in drama and I just watch it from afar, never getting involved.
I love how you touched base on adapting to people! I once heard someone say “Emotional intelligence is not just communicating well but knowing who you’re communicating with”
Hey liz and everyone. I’m 17 and i’m from Portugal. I’m trying to be a better person every day not just for the others but especially for me. Your videos are helping so much!! And i can also practice my english with u, without a doubt u are improving me in every part of my life, thank u liz.
her videos are very good to improve english righ??!! IM from Brazil ! Thanks Lizzzzzzzz
If you want to improve you English, search on youtube: "english for beginners", then find harder and harder videos. Dont watch this youtuber, she is narcissistic and sociopathic.
I am so grateful liz to have you here guiding all of us in becoming a beautiful person by heart. I love and appreciate you so much✨🌷
I remember you mentioning the sun glasses trick to maintain eye contact a while ago & it helped so much for my confidence. glad you shared it again. love you sm, Liz. hope everyone is having a nice day! xx
Comme par hasard, j'étais en train de regarder une de tes anciennes vidéos lorsque j'ai reçue une notification de ta part.
Vraiment Liz tu es incroyable, tu es en train de littéralement changer ma vie et je suis terriblement reconnaissante pour ce que tu fais.
Tu parles avec tant d'aisance et de dynamisme que on ne peut que t'écouter, t'es un peu comme une grande sœur pour moi !
Hâte d'écouter cette vidéo,
Kiss 💗
English is not my first language and im still learning but honey the way you talk and use your hands i can literally understand every single word. liz i love youuuu🥺✨
I wanna hug you so much because you gave me that support and you giving support in my bad days that even my own family didn't
It’s scary and fascinating at the same time about how her videos are on the right time love you Liz 🩵🫂💕
Hey Liz I absolutely love your videos and have been watching you for about almost a year now. I’m 15 and I get stressed out a lot and worried about things that sometimes I wish I could control but I can’t because life is not in my hands but the universe hands. I go to work and go to school and what I’ve learned from you is to have a balance about everything, literally. One thing that I always try to remember is that draining myself from certain arguments or situations that I cannot control is extremely exhausting and will not help me become who I want to be. Distancing from things that are not good for me is the best fucking thing that can help with being the better you or most confident.
Hay you can speak wide you
Same age, to be fair staying calm during confrontations immedeatly makes you win, like even with my parents if I stay calm when they criticize me they get to mad and give up, just a tip!
I’m in 6th grade and just started going to all girls school and literally when I tell you liz helped me so much on how to behave and stuff that to the point where the seniors that are friends with my older sister literally compliment me and say I smell nice, I’m not loud etc and I was so happy inside but for real tho liz really helped me cutting out people for the best
I love how you guide and advise us like your little babies 💓💕💕✨
I like how you use your hands while speaking so natural. Many bloggers don't have such a smooth skill
Thank you so much for such advices.I think that I needed those advices step by step.Because every time you continue to talk about the topic,I was understanding the mistakes I've done.No one ever told me that I am attractive or not.But I hope that I am gonna work on myself and listen to you and make myself feel attractive.Because If I do this myself for the first time,people are gonna think like this,too❤
i love lizz so muchh , she is really inspiring on how she communicates. Honestly im really glad she have the opportunity to even make this video. i hope liz will always get blessed with beauty and health everyday and for those who notes her words🎀
she really powerful because i started to listen to her and life was better but then stopped because my laptop stopped working and life went downhill and now its getting better because i am listening to her videos and short/tiktoks her advice is really and truly powerful alhamdulliah
Literally samee
i genuinely think this is your BEST video !!! (so far) i love you LIZ
Gracias por tus videos, por haber decidido crear este canal, me haz vuelto a abrir los ojos, hace mucho tiempo dejé las manifestaciones, los buenos deseos, mi salud, y gracias a ti, y al amor que tenía guardado, eh vuelto a creer en mi, en la fuerza de mis creencias, la fuerza de mis pensamientos y mis palabras... Tu canal es esencial para nuestra generación, para la sociedad, sigue asi. Gracias por enseñarnos tu mejor versión e inspirarnos de ti 💖 P.D. I am from Chile (LATAM) and I understand english perfectly. Your vocabulary and pronunciation are also completely understandable. In fact, I play your videos as a podcast while I do my university homework. But I wanted to thank you in spanish so that you could see that it is true, people from other parts of the world also see you, and the subtitles help a lot.
like I've had said in her last video. Whenever I feel down or need kind of motivation Liz always post something that is related to them. Wow Liz I dont know how to say what I'm feeling rn. I love you so so much
Liz is such inspiring person, I don't know where I would be without her. She's so confident and I'm trying to be like her.
This is so important ! Thank you Liz. You should talk about mental health and how to end toxic relationships with friends.🥰
You spoke the truth. I’m removing myself from people and leveling up and getting success and then telling people.
I'm grateful for finding this video, thank you for sharing with me this incredible advance for my life. All my life I always try to be right, but in a realistic way I realize I want to be happy more than anything! Again Thank You!
She says all the things that we already know but forgot or maybe just wanna hear from someone. I love her for that to remind us all the things we already know. I have been following her since the day she had 100 followers
Wow 😯 when she had 100 followers?! God willing I’d get a ton of followers too
@@MuyebaA not so long ago.
@@MuyebaA keep posting videos regularly. One day you will have millions followers hopefully inshaallah
i work my way into being the best version of myself and i’m confident and hard worker and good but as much as i fight it, now and then i notice how much i’ve been rejected and how unimportant too many people have made me feel. it’s something that i’ve never gotten an explanation of why it has happened at any time and i cope with it and move on but it’s still there. if you could make a video about nasty situations like this that would be lovely.
Yeah, everytime I make freinds they all hang out without inviting me and then brag about it in front of me as if it don't hurt like hell, I've basically said fuck people and when I stop hanging with them and leave the group chat they don't even try to contact me lmfao
MAKE PEOPLE FEEL IMPORTANT.
3:07- PRACTICE ACTIVE LISTENING.
5:04- LEARN ABOUT BODY LANGUAGE.
6:30-HAVD THE ABILITY TO ADAPT TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE AND SITUATION.
7:51-WE ARE MORE ATTRACTED TO PEOPLE THAT BEHAVE LIKE US.
9:42-SAY EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN.
10:51-DONT REVEAL EVERYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF.
11:34-PICK YOUR BATTLES WISELY.
12:45-DONT ARGUE IN PUBLIC,CREATE SCENES.
13:36-MAKE A DAILY EFFORT TO TALK TO PEOPLE FROM THE OPPOSITE GENDER.
14:57-LOOK LIKE YOU LOVE YOURSELF.
15:40-UNDERSTAND THAT FIRST IMPRESSION IS BASED ON YOUR APPEARANCE.
16:47-HEAL YOUR TRAUMAS WITH HYPNOTHERAPY.
19:51-HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOUR
20:44-GO COLD WHEN SOMEONE DISRESPECTS YOU.
21:31-BE UNPREDICTABLE.
22:14-PRACTICE DANCING.
23:15-BECOME COMFORTABLE IN WHO YOU ARE.
24:19-WALK TALK ACT.
26:09-DONT BE KNOWN FOR ANY ADDICTIONS.
27:29-CHANGE YOUR ENVIRONMENT.
The way you talked about you don’t speak difficult words and speak easy words instead, I really appreciate that.
Listen to you is always a pleasure Liz, you are very wise, thank you❤
still waiting patiently for liz to drop routines or self care videos 💖 ilysm!
Not liz being EXTRA humble and sweet in this video
25:03 such a gem .. i always felt guilty and wrong for thinking of myself this way - i felt more comfortable taking the humble route but the way you just explained the two living harmoniously
released the shackles
thank you ♥️
Thank you Liz so much. I began taking care of myself and I look way more clean than before, and improved my communication skills to the point that I made 3 more friends! They came up to me and said "You're prettier up close" and I was like thank you and stuff then the conversation took us to getting to know each other and became friends!! Thanks again
She said such a true thing that, your closed ones the one who will stab your back .... 👍💯
The most important lessons I learned out of everything in this video is don't reveal everything about yourself because I need to watch my mouth in case if someone would backstab me. Go cold when people disrespect me. Walk, talk and act. Of course, first impressions are based on appearance as in looking clean, neat and tidy! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
19:52 I just find this part funny about Liz. Yeah gurl! You go with that self confidence and yes you are funny 😂
i know that i haven't completely accepted myself coz there are so many things that i need to fix about myself and i will. but the girl i am now i love her and i am proud of her also it never even happend if i didn't watch liz's videos , day by day she is pushing me to be the better version of myself and i am loving it to know myself, prioritize my self and not letting anyone to put me down. in this generation where relationships are messy and toxic i am being comfortable of having a relationship with myself.
Thank you Liz! I find all of your advices so relatable! Will start to work on my communication skills, since I also have that problem being uncomfortable talking to certain people. "Good communicator can talk to anyone" - your words inspired me so much. I've been searching for answers why I am just seen as a "good/nice girl" but never truly attractive, and seem I found the right answers. Thank you
Your English is perfect to me,I am Italian and I can understand everything so please keep it up and don’t change anything😊
Liz your videos have become my guide on what I need to heal about myself. I am consistently working on myself, I pick up what triggers me and journal and talk about it until I have figured it out. It has been working amazingly, it has changed my life. There is one issue I cannot figure out how to deal with. My family triggers me a lot and I'm trying to find a way to heal so that I can spend time with them. I've tried telling them that their disrespect is not good for me, and it works when it's only one person I'm spending time with, but as soon as they get together everything spirals. I genuinely need help with this and I've been trying for a while now. Thank you for listening ❤
Omg Liz the stuff you said about gender literally spoke to me… I grew up with no brothers and went to an all girls’ school, and now I’m at uni and I’m sooo shy around boys/men, even my boss at work I get shy around!!!!!!!!! But I don’t want to be!!! I will be applying your tips for sure ❤️❤️
Same but I'm a girl and most of my freinds and family are male, went to church camp and all of the girls hated me? I hadn't even said anything and was wearing what they did and they just rejected me, I was in a whole cabin of girls while being completely alone
كيف تصبحي فاتنة و جذابة ؟ 🦢🤍
- لازم تشعري الناس باهميتهم و ما تستخدمي الجوال لمن تتكلمي معاهم ، و لمن تنتهي سواليفكم يكون يحس انه واثق من نفسه و انه نعمة لهذا الكون و نظرتهم لنفسهم اتحسنت لان ان البشر بطبيعتنا نحب نشعر اننا كويسين طيبين و حلوين و كل الاشياء الحلوه فينا فا بطبيعة الحال اذا احد حسسهم بذا الشعور رح ينجذبو له و يقدروه
- اشتغلي على مهارة التواصل عشان تتمكني انك تتكلمي مع اي احد و و تقدر تتكلمي عن إلي بعقلك بكلام مناسب و جمل مناسبة و منطقيه و ما احسس الشخص المقابل بانه مخالف او غلط ، وكمان ان يكون لك القدرة على شرح موضوعك بكلامات بسيطه كانك تشرحيها لطفل عمره خمس سنوات
- اهتمي بلغة جسدك لمن تتكلمي مع احد و احرصي انك تكلميه وجه لوجه و جسمك باتجاهه بلكامل يعني ما تكوني تكلمي و وجهك مايل شوي منه لان هو رح يحس انك ما فهمتيه او ماخليتيه يعبر عن إلي يبغى يقوله و يحس ان إلي يبغى يوصله لك وصل ، و لا تربطي يدينك لمن تتكلمي مع احد لانه تعبر انك منغلق ما لك خلق او انك مو مرتاح ، و حاولي تكون يدينك مكشوفه و واضحة لانهاتخلي الناس يثقو فيك ، حاولي طوال ما انك تتكلمي مع احد ان تواصلك البصري ( eye contact )معاه عشان لا يحس انك تخبي شي عنه او انك شخص مربك و متوتر و غير جدير بثقة طالعي فيهم عشان يثق و يرتاح لك .
- اعرفي ايت المواضيع مناسبه للشخص إلي قدامك اذا كان شخص متدين ما يصير انك تتكلمي عن فكرة هو رح يعترض عليها او شخص حساس تتكلمي معاه بطريقة اندفاعية بس لانه تناسب ناس ثانية مو معناته رح تناسبه ،اتعلمي كيف تعطي ايت رد و ايت اسلوب لي ايت شخص، الناس مختلفه ما رح يناسب الكل نفس الاسلوب او نفس الافكار، لان الانسان بطبيعته يحب إلي زيه بتصرفات و الافكار و الاسلوب لان عقل الانسان يشوف التشابه اكثر من المفرقات .
- حاولي انك تعدي كلام الشخص المقابل لمن تردي عليه مثل ( انا اليوم رحت الحرم و كان برد ……… و انت: صح انت قلتي انك رحتي الحرم و كان برد اتخيلي بنفس االيوم انا كمان رحت …….) لانه بكذا رح يحس انك سمعتي له و انك مهتمه صدق و هذا الاسلوب مره بيجذب الناس لك ،
- لمن يصير لك خلاف ما شخص حاولي تعبري عن نفسك عن موقفك اذا تقصدي او كنتي تبغي لا ترمي كلمه و تهربي لان كذا المشكلة ما رح تنحل عبري عن موقفك لان بلمقابل رح يفهمك و ما رح تصير خلاف بلعكس رح تقوي علاقتك مع الشخص المقابل
- حاولي ما تتكلمي كثير عن حياتك و التفاصيل حياتك خلي شوي يكون عندك خصوصيه بحياتك لانه هذي الصفة جذابة و كمان عشان تتفادي ان الناس يطلعو قصص عنك ، و اغلب المشاكل تكون بسبب انك قلتي شي المفروض ما تقوليه .
- تجنبي الجدال لانها صفة غير جذاب و اسالي نفس ( انتي تبغي تكوني سعيده ولا محقه ؟) لان اوقات نتجادل على اشياء سخيفة ماله اهمية و تكون حساسية بيناتنا بسبب جدال ما كان له داعي . و اذا حابه تتكلمي و تعبري عن نفسك اتكلمي مغ الشخص بعد ما يهدأ و حلي المشكلة مع الشخص بانفراد مو تحليها او تتجادلو بشكل علني و قدام الناس . و اذا اتجادل معك شخص بمكان عامي حاولي تتحكمي بمشاعرك و تسيطري عليه و اذا كان شخص ما تعرفيه لا تهتمي له و اذا كان شخص تعرفيه خليه يخلص و يهدا او بعد ما الناس تروح تتكلمي معاه و عبري انه ما عجبك ذا التصرف و اتناقشو بلموضوع و حليه ، و لا تخلي شخص يشوفك تتجدالي و تصرخي على شخص بين الناس لانه تصرف غير جذاب و جميل .
- حبي نفسك و اهتمي بمظهرك و نظافتك لانه مهم و تزيد من حبك لانفسك و تقدير الناس لك ، و كلي كويس عشان نفسك عشان صحتك و حبي نفسك ،جسمك نعمة عظيمه من الله لازم تعتني فيها و تهتمي فيها لانها صفة جذابه بالإنسان و لانها تعطي الانطباع الاول لدى الشخص و تخلي الناس يحترمونك و يقدرونك لان الناس بالبداية ما تعرفك بس من مظهرك يقررو ،انتي كيف تستحقي انهم يعاملونك هل تستحقي انهم ينجذبو لك و يقدروك ،( اهتمي بنظافة جسمك و ملابسك و ترتيب شعرك و مظهرك و اظافرك و اسنانك و كمان لازم تقفي بشكل مستقيم )
- الاشخاص الواعين بذاتهم و مشاعرهم جذابين اكثر لان طاقتهم تكون نظيفه و يتم ملاحظتهم
- حاولي تكون عندك حس فكاهي بدون اذية احد او قول كلامات جارحه و قاسيه بس اذا احد قال شي مو مناسب عنك باسلوب فكاهي لا تضحكي و قوليه ( ما احب احد يتكلم عن بذي الطريقة او ما حبت إلي قلتيه اتمنى انك تنتبهي على الكلام إلي تقوليه )
- لا تتكلمي عن اهدافك خليهم يشوفو النتائج و لا تحسسي الناس انهم يعرفونك او يقولبونك
- ارقصي عشان تكوني متصله مع جسمك و لانه تزيد ثقتك بنفسك
- خليك مميزة البس إلي انتي تحبيه عبري عن نفسك فقط لا تاخذي صفات و استايلات ناس ثانيه و تقلديهم ، شوفي ايت استايل حبيتيه
- اتكلمي و اتحركي و اتصرفي كانك نعمه عظيمه في هذا الكون لان عقلك ما يعرف ايش الصح و ايش الغلط انت تخلي عقلك يصدق إلي انتي تبغيه فا خليه يصدق انك نعمه عظيمه و انتي فعلا نعمه عظيمه من رب العلمين فا استغليه و أظهريه و ذا مو معناته انك تقارني نفسك ، انتي بس ركزي بنفسك انك نعمه عظيمه و انتي فعلا نعمه عظيمه بس لا تتكبري و خليكي متواضعه و مالك دخل باحد .
- ابدا لا تتكلمي عن نفسك بطريقة سيئة او تتكلمي مع نفسك بطريقة سيئة
- خالي الناس المحيطه بك يكونو بمستوى عالي و حاولي ترفعي مستوك ولا تنزلي ابدا اي شخص اقل من مستواك لا تنشئي علاقة معاه إلا لمن هم يجو لمستواك ، قال رسول الله -صلى الله عليه وسلم- "إنما مثل الجليس الصالح والجليس السوء كحامل المسك ونافخ الكير فحامل المسك إما أن يحذيك، وإما أن تبتاع منه، وإما أن تجد منه ريحا طيبة. ونافخ الكير إما أن يحرق ثيابك، وإما أن تجد منه ريحا خبيثة )
Thx 💖.
Can I just say how grateful I am for god that I stumbled across your channel 🙏🏻
I've watched many of your videos and they helped me a lot to regain my focus and my inspiration, *Thank you* ❤️
Your the best Liz!
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