Stop being friends with just anyone

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  • @Chimchim-tt7sc
    @Chimchim-tt7sc 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    so truee,,, I was roommates w this girl who was a friend in my school since 8th grade,, She was kinda dumb tho I always taught her the concepts in school, but i did not mind,, then she started trauma dumping (everyone naturally opens up to me but since i am an empath it drains me ) and i did not think she would come live w me in the dorm after we were done w school,, but her parents and she too were so consistent and kinda clingy about it. we lived together for 2 yrs which was hell. She was really insecure and I remember she even asked me what i am insecure about (luckily i know we shouldn't reveal such things because it can be used against you) so i told her i was perfect lol,, but whatever i tried, her negative energy was really strong. sure she did things for me like running errands and sharing her food (even tho i did not want to, she was very adament about it, i don't usually share my food or even take it from others so i always told her i don't want it) but yea after we were done w that, i was out and did not contact her ever since. I did drop a lot of hints that we were not gonna stay in touch and she got it. thankfully i am done w her. she was really immature but also cunning

    • @Ellaphetrrada
      @Ellaphetrrada  17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Happy for you that you’re done with her now, cuz why should we be with anyone who drains us especially in your own room like in your case. Imagine coming home tired and on top of that having someone drains you, literally hell lol. 😅

    • @Chimchim-tt7sc
      @Chimchim-tt7sc 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Ellaphetrrada frr I did not even plan on being friends w her for sooo long, but I was a good student with great academics and she was not. So her parents wanted her to live w me. She even started copying every little thing I did, ordered the same clothes lol (when I told her that it was just like what I have, she pretended she did not know when just last week she complimented me about that outfit). Yk these little things annoy the shi out of you, I was so drained and couldn't focus. But thankfully I am done w her now

  • @nehadeokar4591
    @nehadeokar4591 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had a group of friends. There was trio in that group which I was a part of . They were passively being toxic . I stoped hanging out with them . They started bullying me . They started mocking me making fun of me like I'm a crazy girl .
    They make it seem like I'm a crazy girl cause i refused to take their crap and keep distance. They still make fun of me and mock me after years . Them doing this is just and indicator that i took the right decision.

    • @nehadeokar4591
      @nehadeokar4591 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I said nothing just peacefully stopped engaging with them and still they wanna give me a hard time for that

  • @joey.9.5
    @joey.9.5 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    i dont have friends.

    • @Ellaphetrrada
      @Ellaphetrrada  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Me too but keep developing a relationship that we have with ourselves and then right friends will come along. Quality over quantity. ❤️✨

  • @silvermoon1051
    @silvermoon1051 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i love this, you deserve more views ❤

  • @mridula630
    @mridula630 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I agree to each and every word of yours. I appreciate this video. May this reach more and more people. I myself will follow all you said so that I attract better people in my life. Thankyou ❤

    • @Ellaphetrrada
      @Ellaphetrrada  17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@mridula630 thanks for such beautiful words. ❤️

  • @randytalley7
    @randytalley7 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Keep up the good work! You are amazing. Your videos are great!!
    Thank you!

    • @Ellaphetrrada
      @Ellaphetrrada  19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      My pleasure 😊

  • @balachdanish9963
    @balachdanish9963 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes, very accurate

  • @JamesTengbeh-c1r
    @JamesTengbeh-c1r 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm seriously interested of what am saying.So please direct me to get idea on this.
    Tengbeh James

  • @shang_chi8626
    @shang_chi8626 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love you my princess you’re cute and knowledgeable 🫰🫶🩵❤️‍🔥

  • @curtislathrop
    @curtislathrop 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    do you booboo 🎉 stay true