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I forgot to add: NEVER COMPLETELY RELY ON A MAN FOR MONEY. Make sure you have your own money too!! I’m not financially dependent on my partner and you shouldn’t be either. Independent AND spoiled. 💞
Getting spoiled by men cuz you‘re not smart enough to create wealth by yourself is not realising your worth, it‘s quite the opposite, it‘s realising how unworthy and incompetent you are.
I(32) am disciplined, hardworking but poor. I have a brain injury and therefore don’t have the privilege to visit college or another institution to get higher education. Despite learning a lot and being interested I barely passed high school. I tried college but dropped out soon. Over the years I survived with small jobs like dishwashing or working as a waiter. Whenever I encounter women in a romantic context, they ghost me after learning about my educational past. Some even called me lazy. Its hilarious. I am getting judged for something I never had control over. Its sad. If you are poor - and already fighting with everyday struggle to survive - you are also not receiving any lovea and constanly judged negatively. Though those women never walked a day in your shoes.
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267I am sorry, if you came here for sympathy. It is impossible to raise a family on a dishwasher salary. You’re barely able to raise yourself. Have you thought of starting your own business or staying at one certain dishwashing job to move up the ranks in? College itself is not the one way to gain money. There are other ways.
I am mentally handicaped, I will always make somewhat minimum wage. But I am here to inform hat these women are just hypocrites. They misuse the words like ambition, disciplined to lie over their true intentions, which is finding someone they can take finanically advantage of. @@lunkee6972
Yes ,but her kids are not able to go working and earn money. You as an adult have enough qualities and can provide for yourself. If the man earns enough- of course he can support you. But do not expect another human being (expect your parents) to treat you like their child🤷🏻♀️
@@katrinbrankova1373 But how did that woman end up with kids anyway? Just because the children can't work, doesn't mean it's ok for the woman to do all the duties from cooking, cleaning to many times working 2 jobs and that's normalised. But when it's a single dad, he gets so much praise and the mother is looked at as this evil woman. There are many women I know who spoil their boyfriends, they just don't make as much noise as the broke men who are paranoid about 'gold diggers'.
17:11 "Men are literally not afraid to ask us for anything. They will ask you to take your clothes off in 2 seconds." made me laugh so hard LMAO 🤣 Love you Liz! ❤️
"Demanding a man to do something is disgusting. The men don't OWE you anything" I am so glad you dropped that one in. Never force someone to do stuff, it's very trashy and very rude
Christ’s promise of peace reaches far beyond this life, and into eternity. He assures us that he left this earth and went to his Father’s house in heaven to prepare a place for us. "In my Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so I would have told you; I go to prepare a place for you" (John 14:2). This wondrous promise gives our lives meaning. Instead of viewing this life as a few decades in which to accomplish something and then die forever, we understand that this life is a short though difficult journey to an eternal home where we can accomplish everything good and satisfying, and die never. As Jesus said to Martha, "I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live" (John 11:25). Jesus also said, "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life." (John 3:16). To know that there is a place for us in God’s own eternal home -well what more do we need to feel fulfilled and at peace? "Since I go to prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to myself, that where I am, there you may be also" (John 14:3). To believe in this promise of a place in our Father’s house, it helps for us to know how we are going to get there safely. Jesus assures us that he himself will personally return, gather us up to him, and escort us to our new home. Jesus says that nobody can come to the Father except through him. "I am the way, the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through me" (John 14:6). Unless we are in that blessed gathering that Jesus himself escorts to heaven on that last day, we have no other way of getting there and will never see our Father’s house. How do we become one of those who are assured of this escort to heaven? Jesus himself tells us what is required, as follows Six Steps to Grace The words of Paul in Romans (and his agreement with Jesus in the gospels) on what people should do to receive grace. 1. Hearing Christ’s word (Romans 10:8-17, Matthew 7:24). 2. Believing -having faith (Romans 1:16-17, John 3:16). 3. Repentance from sin (Romans 2:4-5, Romans 6:1-2, Luke 5:31-32). 4. Confessing Christ (Romans 10:8-10, Matthew 10:32). 5. Being baptized into Christ’s death (Romans 6:3-4, Mark 16:15-16). 6. Ongoing commitment (Romans 12:1-2, Romans 12:11-12, Luke 9:62). Jesus loves you ❤❤ Gods grace : the spontaneous, unmerited gift of the divine favour in the salvation of sinners, and the divine influence operating in individuals for their regeneration and sanctification. Feel free to ask questions or watch The Bible Project on TH-cam for further explanation I can also give you my private Instagram account for questions just let me know :)) God bless In simpler terms : God's Grace Is Forgiveness, His Spirit (that was given to all after the Jesus paid for our sins on the cross to receive it we must do the steps of grace) , His righteousness and power that effects our lives. For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. Romans 3:23-24.
its goign to be very hard for this nar-cissist to heal her very very deep wounds shes not aware of!she looks older than her age and made surgery of nose ect...she looks like MJ !
Liz i have applied all of your advices for almost 7 months, I am a highly sensitive person and also an empath, not so much ago I sadly attracted a narcissist and I am so grateful that I found out really soon abt his shitty ass behavior and I dumped his sad ass, I felt so proud and I immediately thought abt you and all of your advices, really my life has changed A LOT, I couldn’t be more grateful for all the things you do for others
You should be really proud of yourself ❤ And now the good thing is that you are also showing God or the Universe that you will not allow these types of people in your life
Every girl needs to be financially independent, so you are not just someone's wife or someone's sister or someone's daughter, your identity will be defined by your ability to be independent and that comes with finance in the world that we live today. It doesn't matter who your father is, or who your brother is or who your husband is gonna be or who the man in your life is, you need to be responsible for your finances and be financially independent. You go girl!! - PC
@@xoliphakathi5614 its not about masculinity. I mean look at the economy right now. It is a good idea to be financially independent. Prior to meeting the one, and try to keep sustanance. Its great that a man provides for his woman. But to be safe, worst case scenario he passes away, she is still able to stand on her 2 feet to move on long term.
@@xoliphakathi5614 What's wrong with having your own money being financially independent? I believe everyone regardless of their gender should be financially independent.
I love the advice Liz has given here. Something I'd add: 1 - Be careful of telling a guy what you want from the get go as he might shape shift in the beginning and act like a provider, but once he gets you the facade will fade away. 2 - ALSO be careful of lovebombers, who might spend lots on you but their intentions are to blind you from any red flags and essentially trap you this way 3 - If you want a provider, generous man, make sure you're also bringing something to the table by adding value to his life in some way. You can't expect princess treatment if you behave like a peasant x
rule 1: don't look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset rule 2: have realistic expectations rule 3: let a man know what your intentions are rule 4: do not demand a man for things rule 5: do not tell a man your exes treat you badly rule 6: don't say you don't need a man rule 7: act like you do need him for small things rule 8: appreciate your man rule 9: make him do small things for you rule 10: dont fear to aks for giving you things rule 11: make sure he knows what you like rule 12: show him that princess treatment genuinely makes you happy
For all the people who are dating young...princess treatment doesn't always mean like spending a lottttttt of money and gifting etc...that counts too....but literally even the small stuff matter...like tying the shoe laces... helping you wear a sandal... holding your hands while leading you through crowds.... giving you a lot of reassurance.....all that matters....✨✨
Girl, I have watched like 5 of your videos and I have the exact same mindset! Men get away with way too much! Women need to expect better and if not they need to walk away. If a guy don't treat you right, you treat you right and the right guy will come along because you are able to attract the same high vibe man because you are being a high vibe woman! Girl your content is amazing and you are amazing thewizardliz! Keep doing what you are doing! 💜💜💜
Growing up, my father gave me THE princess treatment, and spoiled me rotten. He taught me my worth, and I will not accept anything less. He raised my younger brother to have the “provider mindset” that you described in the video. Thank you for reminding me of this, Liz 💕
same with my dad. I had few guys tried to date me and it was just hilarious how most of them expected me to pay for them when they never even paid for me not once. Nothing wrong with it, I'm just not into feminine men. Never settling for anything less ever
@@angelcndz Glad that we’re in a day and age where women are starting to realise their worth and the power we hold. God bless Liz for spreading the word!
@@truereligionfiend738 Room Temp IQ. A lot of women and girls here didn’t experience that, so they don’t know how they’re MEANT to be treated by their partners.
I wish I knew these things before I got my heart broken by a ''man'' who couldn't even provide things for me. Thank you so much for your words full of wisdom! :)
Saying "all my exes took care of me. I was always financially taken care of" is such powerful advice and a great way to mentally reframe the old narrative too. Dropping gems as usual, Liz x
@user-pi4qd8ik5i Ugh, why do people like you exist? Is that supposed to be a smart retort? Yes, your ex-girlfriends can be good-looking and do all the cooking and cleaning, and there's nothing wrong with that. But, what do YOU bring to the table? There's nothing wrong with having expectations, as long as you can meet the expectations of the person you want. If she wants a man with money, and she's bringing good looks and and housekeeping on the table THEN THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. ffs
Christ’s promise of peace reaches far beyond this life, and into eternity. He assures us that he left this earth and went to his Father’s house in heaven to prepare a place for us. "In my Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so I would have told you; I go to prepare a place for you" (John 14:2). This wondrous promise gives our lives meaning. Instead of viewing this life as a few decades in which to accomplish something and then die forever, we understand that this life is a short though difficult journey to an eternal home where we can accomplish everything good and satisfying, and die never. As Jesus said to Martha, "I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live" (John 11:25). Jesus also said, "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life." (John 3:16). To know that there is a place for us in God’s own eternal home -well what more do we need to feel fulfilled and at peace? "Since I go to prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to myself, that where I am, there you may be also" (John 14:3). To believe in this promise of a place in our Father’s house, it helps for us to know how we are going to get there safely. Jesus assures us that he himself will personally return, gather us up to him, and escort us to our new home. Jesus says that nobody can come to the Father except through him. "I am the way, the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through me" (John 14:6). Unless we are in that blessed gathering that Jesus himself escorts to heaven on that last day, we have no other way of getting there and will never see our Father’s house. How do we become one of those who are assured of this escort to heaven? Jesus himself tells us what is required, as follows Six Steps to Grace The words of Paul in Romans (and his agreement with Jesus in the gospels) on what people should do to receive grace. 1. Hearing Christ’s word (Romans 10:8-17, Matthew 7:24). 2. Believing -having faith (Romans 1:16-17, John 3:16). 3. Repentance from sin (Romans 2:4-5, Romans 6:1-2, Luke 5:31-32). 4. Confessing Christ (Romans 10:8-10, Matthew 10:32). 5. Being baptized into Christ’s death (Romans 6:3-4, Mark 16:15-16). 6. Ongoing commitment (Romans 12:1-2, Romans 12:11-12, Luke 9:62). Jesus loves you ❤❤ Gods grace : the spontaneous, unmerited gift of the divine favour in the salvation of sinners, and the divine influence operating in individuals for their regeneration and sanctification. Feel free to ask questions or watch The Bible Project on TH-cam for further explanation I can also give you my private Instagram account for questions just let me know :)) God bless In simpler terms : God's Grace Is Forgiveness, His Spirit (that was given to all after the Jesus paid for our sins on the cross to receive it we must do the steps of grace) , His righteousness and power that effects our lives. For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. Romans 3:23-24.
My ex wife was like this, I was with her for 14 years and eventually it broke me. I felt like I wasn't worth anything, all I was good for was money. I'm so glad I had the strength to walk away before deleting myself. Please don't ever treat anyone you "love" like a human bank account.
@@cheekyqueefs You're not kidding. I felt like I'd escaped from a Cult where I'd been brainwashed. It took three years and therapy to get myself back to normal.
"Men will say that they want a good women but good women don't get rewarded" that is so true but I feel like that speaks for good people in general. Good people don't get rewarded instead get used and taken advantage of.
Make men spoil you BUT please also be financially independent. Work for yourself to be financially independent. Please don't be financially dependent on men or anyone. Make men provide for you but please also make sure that you are financially in a situation that if you are not with him anymore, you won't have any problem providing for yourself because you are financially independent. So do work, don't sit at home thinking that only man will provide for you. Work for being financially independent!!! (unless you have money in your bank account or have a family who will take care of you)
Lol the audacity. So what do you give in the relationship exactly? Girl, you better be a house wife, cooking cleaning without complaining, if you want to be provided for. Re read your comment 😂😂.
@@salaahkhayr2398 Y'all deserve nothing. Even when women work and provide for themselves you would still want her to cook and clean for you. Think about the audacity of men for oppressing women for thousands of years and the audacity of you all to still treat us like your slaves. Women should develop the audacity to treat you all the same.
She’s making me realize things… it’s true that if a guy doesn’t at least try to spoil you he doesn’t want you or you’re temporary I’ve also seen this many times.
@@kyojuroswife4112 Men are Sovereigns. Women aren't. We are not equals. Don't act like you are being virtuous about suggesting both Ways, because Women don't give or do anything.
I may say this is one of your BEST videos. What a lesson! You could put in words what I always wanted and never put together so well. Thank you. God Bless you.
I have missed your videos so much. The highlight for me is “ good woman don’t get rewarded “ i just love how you capture certain words or phrases in your speech its amazing how talented you are. By the way you’re looking gorgeous and the glow is apparent on your lovely face ❤
My first 3 serious relationships were me basically SPOILING my bfs 🤦🏻♀️taking them out, buying them whatever they wanted and I thought that was noble but HAHA now as a 21 yo woman who actually needs stability and care, NO MORE BS!! Liz has literally helped me become a more self aware woman and know what I deserve.
Yes, ladies please don't EVER do this. Men do not respect women who do this because you are taking over their role in the relationship. This is why Liz's sweet mother got cheated on. Men don't respect provider women because it's emasculating for them. If they can't provide for you, they will find someone to provide for. It's also the quickest way to resentment and burnout for a woman because the roles are reversed and a woman will eventually resent the man she's providing for because he stops doing things for her. It's disastrous. I'm happy you're realizing this early and before making a baby. Never again girl. Keep your head up and receive what your new man has to give.
@@kenadams894 if by reciprocate you mean with appreciation, encouragement and a grateful heart, then yes. It's not necessary to reciprocate their actions or to feel pressured to give something in return. Of course it's always sweet to give back in some way, and for provider men, like Liz said, all they truly desire is to feel needed and appreciated. Boost his confidence and peace. Be in that receiving energy and this should be no problem 🙂
Time stamps: - 3:47 - people in life get what they expect - 6:08 - shape your beliefs about wealthy, provider men - 6:57 - don’t look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset - 8:12 - have realistic expectations - 9:49 - if a man shows off ask him to give it to you - 10:24 - let a man know what your intentions are - 12:26 - don’t tell a man that your exes treated you badly - 13:21 - work on a man’s competitive nature - 14:06 - stop saying you don’t need a man - 15:19 - appreciate your man - 15:35 - make him do small things for you - 15:57 - don’t be shy to ask a man for things - 17:21 - make sure he knows what you like - 17:42 - show him that princess treatment genuinely makes you happy - 18:25 - make him think spoiling you is his idea - 19:47 - you don’t need to be extremely feminine to attract a provider - 20:30 - a woman has to receive ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
arent the points made in minute 11:45 and 15:58 contradictory? the first one says never demand things for men and saying you should let them spoil you from their own initiative however later on she says dont be shy to ask men for things like ''give me money''. Maybe theres a barrier between demanding and asking, perhaps thats what she meant but the words are way too similar and cause confusion. Im just here to learn.
Life really changes, when you change your mindset… Thank God I learned my lessons in my 20s and still grateful to willingly learn so much more, with minimizing mistakes 💯
WOW. I am dumbfounded. I literally have the "I DON'T NEED A MAN, I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF" mindset bc I grew up with a Mum like yours too. My Fiancé is a provider and we keep on arguing about this. I would always tell him that I don't need money and stuff (but I REALLY do esp. now that I'm broke & unemployed). I'm having a hard time bc I'm feeling guilty, "What if he thinks I'm a gold digger?". But this video is so enlightening and helpful. Yes, I do want to get spoiled and stuff so BAD. I DO want to be provided for. I was taught to be a "Strong, Independent Woman" all my life but it would be SO nice if you can depend on your partner, as well. I am just my worst enemy. I'm actually lucky because my Fiancé never listened to me and is now taking care of me. He's a MAN and by declining his offer to provide for me will actually make him feel LESS like a Man. I just realized this now. Damn. P.S. I never accepted any help from him in the entirety of our relationship. This is the first time I'm actually letting him provide for me.
It’s ok to let him provide! I provide for my family and they do all the household stuff while I work. I literally am so happy with that because anytime I need anything they’re there, if I ask for him to come out and park the car or literally anything he will. He feels like you do and guilty. But this is what I’ve said since I was a kid I wanted. I have someone nurturing me in ways I never had and I get to spend time with him. Who knows how long it’ll be for but for now it works. If it starts to not work then we’ll adjust. ❤just wanted to share a little because if that’s his desire let him!
@@GetElevatedWithMeYea, speaking of- we don't have kids yet but that's actually another problem--- He wants kids and of course, I want em too. But I would love to work and help him with the bills as well, also because I have a good career and I don't want it to go to waste. Nonetheless, he wants me to stay at home and take care of the kids. I would feel guilty not being able to help him financially but he literally has this *Provider Mindset*. I get it, no one's going to take care of the kids but me. It's just that, it's literally a struggle I tell you. I grew up being this "Strong Independent Woman" now I don't know how to adjust. 😢😢😢😢
@@sooyaswiftcarpenter if you want to work would you consider part time? Or is he wanting you to stay home all the time. Like maybe for your independence and needing to socialize pick up a part time job. Idk so many things or ways to live life, you just gotta try things! And I don’t have kids either lol but we have a dog and 3 cats. They’re expensive 🤣
@@sooyaswiftcarpenter I will add this, my sis is a stay at home mom and her husband owns his own business. He works long hours and she care for their 3 kids. She’s just as independent as you and I are. Trust me lol 😂 she pours her time and energy into her kids and they’re literally gonna do amazing things. She feels fulfilled now. She wants more sure but she’s the best mom I know
Paused this video because I realised our 6 month anniversary is less than a week away and asked my boyfriend very sweetly what our plans are for that day and how I would just love it to go out for dinner at one of the nicest restaurants in the city. He took the hint and saw how I lit up and reserved it right away. Ladies, enthusiasm and appreciation are the key, he really just wants to see me happy! But without me hinting he would've probably not bothered to organise anything. Princess treatment only, happy to learn all this at 19 :)
He is my first boyfriend but he literally calls me his princess and it feels so good, don't settle for guys who do not want to treat you right and provide!
I really love your channel. You always explain the things so well with examples and in a humoristic way. And althought, you're helping people. Love you. ❤
I(32) am disciplined, hardworking but poor. I have a brain injury and therefore don’t have the privilege to visit college or another institution to get higher education. Despite learning a lot and being interested I barely passed high school. I tried college but dropped out soon. Over the years I survived with small jobs like dishwashing or working as a waiter. Whenever I encounter women in a romantic context, they ghost me after learning about my educational past. Some even called me lazy. Its hilarious. I am getting judged for something I never had control over. Its sad. If you are poor - and already fighting with everyday struggle to survive - you are also not receiving any lovea and constanly judged negatively. Though those women never walked a day in your shoes.
I needed this woman like, over 5 years ago. It would have saved me from sooo much trouble. Coming from being raised by a single mom, tired and frustrated with 3 jobs, watching my mom being literally slaved by a few terrible boyfriends, that didn't pay her anything and abused everything... And now me, recently divorced from a young marriage from a young alchoholic who thought his cheating father was a wholemodel of manlyness to follow, like his own personal andrew tate... So sad.
My step dad has a provider mindset and he loves to spoil my mom. It’s really sweet. Ex: As soon as he parks the car, he opens the door. He never lets her open the door by herself. He always pays for things and he’s always helping her. I’m really happy for both of them because my mom in her previous marriage (with my dad) he was abusive.
“In my head - no one is good enough for me - I am the best - I make people happy - you have to make me happy as well” - boundaries and self love at its finest 🎉❤
There's a thin line between getting spoiled , and get dependent completely on men. And liz , like seperated it with a fine thin line ,showing how these two are totally different things. Getting our respect and be dependent ourselves is what we all want when it comes to any type of relationship. Lovely video 💗
I can’t wait til all these gold diggers hit the wall And won’t even get the attention from their own father 💀 Also the lip filler will look mad hideous once they get older
You’re becoming a PROSTITUTE in both. That’s the name of y’all. When someone put money or material things in an interchange for sex an company THATS A PROSTITUTE and if you do that you are one. Nothing special and you are the opposite of special
I’ve never been with a man that hasn’t given me enough money to make sure I’m okay if we end. Like if I we break up I won’t have to struggle they are gonna make sure I’m good. I don’t have to work because they give me money and if I do I don’t have to ever spend that money
1:02 I am SO glad Liz mentioned this. We think it's okay for women to give their everything to take care of their kids but it's not okay when they expect the person who also has responsibility over those kids to help her? It's not okay when she expects the man who also chose to have those kids to treat her well and provide for her? I love the fact women are realising their worth and value - thank you Liz and all the other female content creators speaking out about this!💗
You are so on point. There are wealthy men who are so stingy it's disgusting. I dated a very wealthy man who is SO STINGY. My love is very generous but he is not a very wealthy man. He treats me like a Goddess. He started paying ALL my bills after our second date. I get gifts ALL the time. I am LOVED 24/7 without demanding it. I expect it, I deserve it and so I receive it.
@@Joynzau Unfortunately, there is now way around it but being blunt. A man that does not want to provide for you will not take hints or miraculously change. If you’re clear about this standard when in the talking stage, you can save yourself from entertaining a “dusty”. I too have had poor dating experiences in the past, but we must stand up and stop accepting less.
Omg the last part is so true. My husband never provided for any of his gf. When he met me he started providing and we got married in less than a year. And ever since he’s been providing he’s been more productive and even start a business, which he could had opened before but he said “I didn’t have the motivation” now he’s making double than he has making before we start dating
I was getting confused if you were focusing on dating wealthy men only but the line "he should have a provider mindset, he may or may not be wealthy" cleared alottt of things. Whatever you said about a man who strives to grow and provides as much as he can was totally relatable.
@@salaahkhayr2398 he is not very active in household chores. We plan on getting married in the near future. No matter what promises he makes, I know i'll be the one mainly looking after his house, his kids, and other stuff. In return, it makes sense that he'll be the one taking care of the finances. I was under the impression that Liz wants us to date men only who are wealthy and can provide only the best. But her statements in the video cleared that she wants a guy "with a provider" mindset. Someone who is not a couch potatoe and ready to go above and beyond to build a career and provide for you.
3:49 People in life get what they expect 6:09 Reshape your beliefs about wealthy, provider men 6:58 Don't look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset 8:22 Have realistic expectations 8:36 Focus on being wealthy instead of trying to look wealthy 9:47 If a man shows off ask him to give it to you 10:25 Let a man know what your intentions are 11:45 Never demand a man for something 12:28 Don't tell a man that your exes treated you badly 13:24 Work on a man's competitive nature 14:07 Stop saying you don't need a man 14:27 Act like you do need him even for small things 15:19 Appreciate your man 15:36 Make him do small things for you 15:58 Don't be shy to ask a man for things 17:22 Make sure he knows what you like 17:43 Show him that princess treatment genuinely makes you happy 18:26 Make him think spoiling you is his idea 19:49 You don't need to be extremely feminine to attract a provider 20:31 A woman has to receive
As a woman it's important to get a man that spoils you because men want sex and sex with most men isn't that good and even if it is, a man will always enjoy a woman's body way more then you'll enjoy his. If he can't make you "O" the least he can do is be a provider and spoil you.
Cause kids are not adults and need help and both husband and wife are adults and should help each other? It's that simple , why an adult women isn't even capable of having adult life lmao ?
@@eveline_2877 I never said they don't? I replied to the commentor on how comparing providing for kids is way different then providing for wife/husband aswell as children.
@@JustABoy98For the same reason lots of men don’t cook, clean, do their own laundry and ect. Each gender has their own roles even in the Bible. A man is a provider and a woman is a homemaker
i just entered a situationship recently and he already gifted me jewelry, takes me out to eat every week , and is taking me to the hair salon next week. He is not rich at all, just prioritizes taking care of me !! this video reinforces my beliefs and guys its TRUE I SWEAR its all about mentality
Thankyou so much for this video i just came across this video and I’ve learned so much already . I just want to say keep doing you! You are doing absolutely amazing work!!
Ever since I started watching your videos and changed my mindset about myself, relationships and men in general, I now have a really good partner who has a provider mindset and provides for me and gifts me stuff and spoils me. And it really does make women happy. Thanks Liz ❤
The point of provider mentality is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT my father had money he was taking responsibility for the bills and etc but compaired to his income it was nothing he could spoil mom and us waaaay more than he did
Love your content every time I forget something I come back and rewatch your videos to remind me of what I need to hear and do to either set boundaries, confidence, or motivation. I sub when you had less than 500K and look at you now WOW!!! XOXOX
wow... is all i have to say first of all you're so strong to go from that environment and still know your worth and value. also ty for creating this video and reminding me as well i haven't even finished watching the video but ur really speaking the truth babes ily 😘
You should go marry her. Then the question will be, will you provide for Liz or will she provide for you, and what happens when either one of you goes "broke"!? Liz don't have any money, she is broke as hell right now, so are you willing to go broke to support her lifestyle!?
Honestly at first i wasnt getting her point .....but by the end it really made sense. Liz never fails to bring out the feminine energy in us. As a women we all must support her. Women supporting women is the most powerful thing.
@@amariajade255how are you able to explore different opinions and ideas? You read books don’t you? Do you think the authors show you everything. Do you like art? Do you know how many influential artists abused their wives? Sure, you don’t have to support the person themselves but do you support the opinion? Do you agree?
@@human6826wanting to have a boyfriend who gives you gifts and takes you to nice places while you still be earning your own money does not make you a gold digger
Men supporting men is also the most natural thing, that's why we would always hire you as a cleaning lady or secretary but never as the ceo of the company Btw I am certain that her bf looks by far worse than her and therefor feels the necessity to cover his lacking attractiveness with financial support towards her. So what is her real deal? Gets a bit of money but never gets the excitement of an equally attractive partner? Thats not rocket since, thats a classic trade off
Liz said “Now, is it necessary for you to be spoiled by a man? No, absolutely not. If you want to do 50/50, I don't care because it's not my life.” So people shouldn’t bash her
I really agree with the last part where you said me who take care of women get wealthier. My dad has 4 women including my mum, my sisters and me. Half of my life we were humbly well off but later he got promoted to such a position where he earns 6 times than he did before. Even my mum says the wealth came in because he has 4 women to take care of ❤️
I think the OP is trying to tell herself that shes not actually a parasite bc by leeching off some guy she actually makes him rich.... smh....these female dating vids ive seen so far are mostly about how to make guys spend money on you. We are lost 🎉
Liz didn't lie. Soon as I put standard in my dating life, even the "talking stages" provide for me. It all started from getting free daily dose of coffee to getting my rent paid for a whole year. On top of that, they respect my decision not to continue the date if I don't see us being together in a committed setting in the future.
@@rayray9508 That is where you are wrong. There is no need for convincing because they just want to. If you need to 'convince' them they will never ever provide for you. Move on, next!
Time stamps: - 3:47 - people in life get what they expect - 6:08 - shape your beliefs about wealthy, provider men - 6:57 - don’t look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset - 12:26 - don’t tell a man that your exes treated you badly - 14:06 - stop saying you don’t need a man - 15:19 - appreciate your man - 19:47 - you don’t need to be extremely feminine to attract a provider - 20:30 - a woman has to receive ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was always the strong independent I actually would feel insulted if a man gives me money let alone asking him to lol but your videos are helping me feeling okay receiving without the need to give a gift or the money back, I learned and laughed at today's vid you are an inspiration liz, sending you love from Algeria ❤
I love the fact that she brought up that it can also be 50/50. It’s such a great idea of both people putting in 100% effort to try to be great for their partner ❤
As a man, I’m perfectly fine with a woman expecting me to provide, in fact that’s exactly what I want her to expect from me. I actually crave being the provider for a woman I love, it gives me so much purpose, focus and direction. The thing is though she shouldn’t be surprised when I expect her to take care of the home (ofc I will help her out with that when I can). I say this because I’ve noticed that nowadays there’s a culture of women expecting traditional male behavior but then cry sexism when the man expects traditional female behavior.
Exactly. Okay you want me to provide? I can do that and it can feel good and purposeful. But, what are you going to offer and bring? You have to give effort too. You can’t expect to manipulate guys and then not add value and feel good about yourself or a “relationship”.
that's what I want to hear for a long time that nobody tell me how to behave in a relationship and I start realizing my worth now because of your words 🌷thank you & love you sis 💓
I think this is my favorite video of yours yet, it's so insightful and you touched on numerous very important topics and gave us so many crucial tips ! Thank you so much, Liz! 💗
I agree with the “luxury” thing, I valued designer when I was insecure .. now I’m secure in who I am and I don’t find my value in what designers I wear
I forgot to add: NEVER COMPLETELY RELY ON A MAN FOR MONEY. Make sure you have your own money too!!
I’m not financially dependent on my partner and you shouldn’t be either. Independent AND spoiled. 💞
yep! establish your own financial security ladies. just make sure YOU have that freedom first & a partner who adds to your life is wonderful too.
Thank you Liz 🫶🏾
Gracias Liz por todo te quiero ❤❤❤
Thank you 👑✨
Yea yea make sure you have your own money, keep it, use it whenever you want but the man is gonna spoil u as well
I love this era of women realising their worth.
💯 ❤
You're right
Samee
Not all tho ...
Getting spoiled by men cuz you‘re not smart enough to create wealth by yourself is not realising your worth, it‘s quite the opposite, it‘s realising how unworthy and incompetent you are.
"Try daing a broke man... those men have no money but they have audacity" 🤣
Liz you're so right, that made me laugh, thank you for all your teachings!
This channel shows what man hating is.This channel is full of man hating and misandrystic women.
I(32) am disciplined, hardworking but poor.
I have a brain injury and therefore don’t have the privilege to visit college or another institution to get higher education. Despite learning a lot and being interested I barely passed high school. I tried college but dropped out soon. Over the years I survived with small jobs like dishwashing or working as a waiter.
Whenever I encounter women in a romantic context, they ghost me after learning about my educational past. Some even called me lazy. Its hilarious. I am getting judged for something I never had control over.
Its sad. If you are poor - and already fighting with everyday struggle to survive - you are also not receiving any lovea and constanly judged negatively. Though those women never walked a day in your shoes.
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267I am sorry, if you came here for sympathy. It is impossible to raise a family on a dishwasher salary. You’re barely able to raise yourself. Have you thought of starting your own business or staying at one certain dishwashing job to move up the ranks in?
College itself is not the one way to gain money. There are other ways.
I am mentally handicaped, I will always make somewhat minimum wage. But I am here to inform hat these women are just hypocrites. They misuse the words like ambition, disciplined to lie over their true intentions, which is finding someone they can take finanically advantage of. @@lunkee6972
And they also have knives to kill you when you broke up with them. A lot of samples are there in my country
The moment you said "why is never realistic when a single mother is providing" i gasped. SO true and I never thought of it like that.
Yes ,but her kids are not able to go working and earn money. You as an adult have enough qualities and can provide for yourself. If the man earns enough- of course he can support you. But do not expect another human being (expect your parents) to treat you like their child🤷🏻♀️
@@katrinbrankova1373 But how did that woman end up with kids anyway? Just because the children can't work, doesn't mean it's ok for the woman to do all the duties from cooking, cleaning to many times working 2 jobs and that's normalised. But when it's a single dad, he gets so much praise and the mother is looked at as this evil woman. There are many women I know who spoil their boyfriends, they just don't make as much noise as the broke men who are paranoid about 'gold diggers'.
17:11 "Men are literally not afraid to ask us for anything. They will ask you to take your clothes off in 2 seconds." made me laugh so hard LMAO 🤣 Love you Liz! ❤️
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Ikr🤡
*They’re savage* 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am too laughing hard! 😆😆
"Demanding a man to do something is disgusting. The men don't OWE you anything" I am so glad you dropped that one in. Never force someone to do stuff, it's very trashy and very rude
Their like the female equivalency of guys that expect sex after dinner
These both groups are so entitled
Christ’s promise of peace reaches far beyond this life, and into eternity. He assures us that he left this earth and went to his Father’s house in heaven to prepare a place for us. "In my Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so I would have told you; I go to prepare a place for you" (John 14:2).
This wondrous promise gives our lives meaning. Instead of viewing this life as a few decades in which to accomplish something and then die forever, we understand that this life is a short though difficult journey to an eternal home where we can accomplish everything good and satisfying, and die never. As Jesus said to Martha, "I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live" (John 11:25). Jesus also said, "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life." (John 3:16).
To know that there is a place for us in God’s own eternal home -well what more do we need to feel fulfilled and at peace?
"Since I go to prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to myself, that where I am, there you may be also" (John 14:3).
To believe in this promise of a place in our Father’s house, it helps for us to know how we are going to get there safely. Jesus assures us that he himself will personally return, gather us up to him, and escort us to our new home.
Jesus says that nobody can come to the Father except through him. "I am the way, the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through me" (John 14:6). Unless we are in that blessed gathering that Jesus himself escorts to heaven on that last day, we have no other way of getting there and will never see our Father’s house. How do we become one of those who are assured of this escort to heaven? Jesus himself tells us what is required, as follows
Six Steps to Grace
The words of Paul in Romans (and his agreement with Jesus in the gospels) on what people should do to receive grace.
1. Hearing Christ’s word (Romans 10:8-17, Matthew 7:24).
2. Believing -having faith (Romans 1:16-17, John 3:16).
3. Repentance from sin (Romans 2:4-5, Romans 6:1-2, Luke 5:31-32).
4. Confessing Christ (Romans 10:8-10, Matthew 10:32).
5. Being baptized into Christ’s death (Romans 6:3-4, Mark 16:15-16).
6. Ongoing commitment (Romans 12:1-2, Romans 12:11-12, Luke 9:62).
Jesus loves you ❤❤
Gods grace : the spontaneous, unmerited gift of the divine favour in the salvation of sinners, and the divine influence operating in individuals for their regeneration and sanctification.
Feel free to ask questions or watch The Bible Project on TH-cam for further explanation I can also give you my private Instagram account for questions just let me know :)) God bless
In simpler terms :
God's Grace Is Forgiveness, His Spirit (that was given to all after the Jesus paid for our sins on the cross to receive it we must do the steps of grace) , His righteousness and power that effects our lives.
For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. Romans 3:23-24.
If you don’t like their treatment you can just not be with them
It feels good when a man spoils you because he wants to and it makes him happy to see you happy, anything done forcefully is just not worth it.
its goign to be very hard for this nar-cissist to heal her very very deep wounds shes not aware of!she looks older than her age and made surgery of nose ect...she looks like MJ !
Liz i have applied all of your advices for almost 7 months, I am a highly sensitive person and also an empath, not so much ago I sadly attracted a narcissist and I am so grateful that I found out really soon abt his shitty ass behavior and I dumped his sad ass, I felt so proud and I immediately thought abt you and all of your advices, really my life has changed A LOT, I couldn’t be more grateful for all the things you do for others
How did you notice he was a narcissist?
So proud of you ❤️❤️❤️
Im so proud of you! I was married with a narcissist for 3 years, and I’ve been divorced for 5 months, I’m still healing ❤️🩹 it’s been a long journey
You should be really proud of yourself ❤ And now the good thing is that you are also showing God or the Universe that you will not allow these types of people in your life
You yourself must be narcissistic that is why you attracting.
Every girl needs to be financially independent, so you are not just someone's wife or someone's sister or someone's daughter, your identity will be defined by your ability to be independent and that comes with finance in the world that we live today. It doesn't matter who your father is, or who your brother is or who your husband is gonna be or who the man in your life is, you need to be responsible for your finances and be financially independent. You go girl!! - PC
You're masculine that's y you have this opinion....
@@xoliphakathi5614 its not about masculinity. I mean look at the economy right now. It is a good idea to be financially independent. Prior to meeting the one, and try to keep sustanance. Its great that a man provides for his woman. But to be safe, worst case scenario he passes away, she is still able to stand on her 2 feet to move on long term.
just do both get money but still let man pay for u
men have to learn from a woman and women gotta learn from a men
@@xoliphakathi5614 What's wrong with having your own money being financially independent? I believe everyone regardless of their gender should be financially independent.
I love the advice Liz has given here. Something I'd add:
1 - Be careful of telling a guy what you want from the get go as he might shape shift in the beginning and act like a provider, but once he gets you the facade will fade away.
2 - ALSO be careful of lovebombers, who might spend lots on you but their intentions are to blind you from any red flags and essentially trap you this way
3 - If you want a provider, generous man, make sure you're also bringing something to the table by adding value to his life in some way. You can't expect princess treatment if you behave like a peasant x
It’s a manipulative tactic!! Don’t tell them your dream man
N CAN WE GET THIS PINNED🗣🗣
What exactly do we need to bring to the table? Genuine question.
@@hinaguiza8810righttt
3 is so true
rule 1: don't look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset
rule 2: have realistic expectations
rule 3: let a man know what your intentions are
rule 4: do not demand a man for things
rule 5: do not tell a man your exes treat you badly
rule 6: don't say you don't need a man
rule 7: act like you do need him for small things
rule 8: appreciate your man
rule 9: make him do small things for you
rule 10: dont fear to aks for giving you things
rule 11: make sure he knows what you like
rule 12: show him that princess treatment genuinely makes you happy
And what are you doing in return?
@@salaahkhayr2398go away its a girls safe place no men are allowed here
@@salaahkhayr2398she is giving her divine presence to a man and that's enough. Men do, women just be.
@@salaahkhayr2398women itself is a price for men. Women is a source of love and nurturing.
@@salaahkhayr2398nothing 😮
For all the people who are dating young...princess treatment doesn't always mean like spending a lottttttt of money and gifting etc...that counts too....but literally even the small stuff matter...like tying the shoe laces... helping you wear a sandal... holding your hands while leading you through crowds.... giving you a lot of reassurance.....all that matters....✨✨
EXACTLYYY
No only money matters and lifestyle. You must be smoking weed!
Literally if you’re going to buy me anything, buy me a book, a stuffed animal, and flowers. ❤ I love hugs too
Girl, I have watched like 5 of your videos and I have the exact same mindset! Men get away with way too much! Women need to expect better and if not they need to walk away. If a guy don't treat you right, you treat you right and the right guy will come along because you are able to attract the same high vibe man because you are being a high vibe woman! Girl your content is amazing and you are amazing thewizardliz! Keep doing what you are doing! 💜💜💜
@MdoubleHB.xbro ur Everyfkg place what the hell this place is not for u wtff😭???
LMAO, any guy who dates her (or her deranged followers) would have to be an absolute loser.
Respectfull Treatment ist that woman and man wants. But a man is not your financal Provider.
Growing up, my father gave me THE princess treatment, and spoiled me rotten. He taught me my worth, and I will not accept anything less. He raised my younger brother to have the “provider mindset” that you described in the video. Thank you for reminding me of this, Liz 💕
same with my dad. I had few guys tried to date me and it was just hilarious how most of them expected me to pay for them when they never even paid for me not once. Nothing wrong with it, I'm just not into feminine men. Never settling for anything less ever
@@angelcndz Glad that we’re in a day and age where women are starting to realise their worth and the power we hold. God bless Liz for spreading the word!
WELL DUH HE'S YOUR DAD NOT YOUR PARTNER
could you explain what he exactly did? As someone who did not have that I am interested in what it look liked.
@@truereligionfiend738 Room Temp IQ. A lot of women and girls here didn’t experience that, so they don’t know how they’re MEANT to be treated by their partners.
Liz ALWAYS posts exactly what you need to hear and we are here for it
Fr
And always at the right time it’s magic
Agreee
yees
For realll
She is right on point. I been thinking this for years and it's gets worse and worse everyday with society. Keep preaching sis.
I wish I knew these things before I got my heart broken by a ''man'' who couldn't even provide things for me. Thank you so much for your words full of wisdom! :)
Saying "all my exes took care of me. I was always financially taken care of" is such powerful advice and a great way to mentally reframe the old narrative too. Dropping gems as usual, Liz x
“All my ex girlfriends were good looking and did cooking and cleaning”
@@user-pi4qd8ik5i why would he date an "ugly" woman then
Nothing like entitlement
@user-pi4qd8ik5i Ugh, why do people like you exist? Is that supposed to be a smart retort? Yes, your ex-girlfriends can be good-looking and do all the cooking and cleaning, and there's nothing wrong with that. But, what do YOU bring to the table?
There's nothing wrong with having expectations, as long as you can meet the expectations of the person you want. If she wants a man with money, and she's bringing good looks and and housekeeping on the table THEN THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. ffs
Christ’s promise of peace reaches far beyond this life, and into eternity. He assures us that he left this earth and went to his Father’s house in heaven to prepare a place for us. "In my Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so I would have told you; I go to prepare a place for you" (John 14:2).
This wondrous promise gives our lives meaning. Instead of viewing this life as a few decades in which to accomplish something and then die forever, we understand that this life is a short though difficult journey to an eternal home where we can accomplish everything good and satisfying, and die never. As Jesus said to Martha, "I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live" (John 11:25). Jesus also said, "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life." (John 3:16).
To know that there is a place for us in God’s own eternal home -well what more do we need to feel fulfilled and at peace?
"Since I go to prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to myself, that where I am, there you may be also" (John 14:3).
To believe in this promise of a place in our Father’s house, it helps for us to know how we are going to get there safely. Jesus assures us that he himself will personally return, gather us up to him, and escort us to our new home.
Jesus says that nobody can come to the Father except through him. "I am the way, the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through me" (John 14:6). Unless we are in that blessed gathering that Jesus himself escorts to heaven on that last day, we have no other way of getting there and will never see our Father’s house. How do we become one of those who are assured of this escort to heaven? Jesus himself tells us what is required, as follows
Six Steps to Grace
The words of Paul in Romans (and his agreement with Jesus in the gospels) on what people should do to receive grace.
1. Hearing Christ’s word (Romans 10:8-17, Matthew 7:24).
2. Believing -having faith (Romans 1:16-17, John 3:16).
3. Repentance from sin (Romans 2:4-5, Romans 6:1-2, Luke 5:31-32).
4. Confessing Christ (Romans 10:8-10, Matthew 10:32).
5. Being baptized into Christ’s death (Romans 6:3-4, Mark 16:15-16).
6. Ongoing commitment (Romans 12:1-2, Romans 12:11-12, Luke 9:62).
Jesus loves you ❤❤
Gods grace : the spontaneous, unmerited gift of the divine favour in the salvation of sinners, and the divine influence operating in individuals for their regeneration and sanctification.
Feel free to ask questions or watch The Bible Project on TH-cam for further explanation I can also give you my private Instagram account for questions just let me know :)) God bless
In simpler terms :
God's Grace Is Forgiveness, His Spirit (that was given to all after the Jesus paid for our sins on the cross to receive it we must do the steps of grace) , His righteousness and power that effects our lives.
For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. Romans 3:23-24.
true words from liz. made me go from disliking myself to loving myself
Omg sameeee
Considering it's coming from a girl who hates herself
My ex wife was like this, I was with her for 14 years and eventually it broke me. I felt like I wasn't worth anything, all I was good for was money. I'm so glad I had the strength to walk away before deleting myself. Please don't ever treat anyone you "love" like a human bank account.
14 YEARS IS CRAZY
@@cheekyqueefs You're not kidding. I felt like I'd escaped from a Cult where I'd been brainwashed. It took three years and therapy to get myself back to normal.
"Men will say that they want a good women but good women don't get rewarded" that is so true but I feel like that speaks for good people in general. Good people don't get rewarded instead get used and taken advantage of.
Make men spoil you BUT please also be financially independent. Work for yourself to be financially independent. Please don't be financially dependent on men or anyone. Make men provide for you but please also make sure that you are financially in a situation that if you are not with him anymore, you won't have any problem providing for yourself because you are financially independent. So do work, don't sit at home thinking that only man will provide for you. Work for being financially independent!!! (unless you have money in your bank account or have a family who will take care of you)
Yes, don't be a gold digger
Agree 💯, balance ,make the man feel his masculin energy by taking care of u and in the same time be independant and make ur own money
Lol the audacity. So what do you give in the relationship exactly? Girl, you better be a house wife, cooking cleaning without complaining, if you want to be provided for. Re read your comment 😂😂.
@@salaahkhayr2398 Y'all deserve nothing. Even when women work and provide for themselves you would still want her to cook and clean for you. Think about the audacity of men for oppressing women for thousands of years and the audacity of you all to still treat us like your slaves. Women should develop the audacity to treat you all the same.
@ConnorMurpheehee You need to consult a psychiatrist. Hope you get well soon.
She’s making me realize things… it’s true that if a guy doesn’t at least try to spoil you he doesn’t want you or you’re temporary I’ve also seen this many times.
Is that your own mental justification for believing you are entitled to a Man's money and asking him for it!? LOL. Cope baby Cope!
@@prussiansocietyofamericaa relationship goes both ways- if u ain't providing don't expect nurturing
@@kyojuroswife4112 Men are Sovereigns. Women aren't. We are not equals. Don't act like you are being virtuous about suggesting both Ways, because Women don't give or do anything.
@@prussiansocietyofamericaIf you’re saying this shit them you shouldn’t be watching Liz’s channel or be in her comments lmao
@@prussiansocietyofamerica ur just mad cuz this shit is actually true
I may say this is one of your BEST videos. What a lesson! You could put in words what I always wanted and never put together so well. Thank you. God Bless you.
I have missed your videos so much. The highlight for me is “ good woman don’t get rewarded “ i just love how you capture certain words or phrases in your speech its amazing how talented you are. By the way you’re looking gorgeous and the glow is apparent on your lovely face ❤
My first 3 serious relationships were me basically SPOILING my bfs 🤦🏻♀️taking them out, buying them whatever they wanted and I thought that was noble but HAHA now as a 21 yo woman who actually needs stability and care, NO MORE BS!! Liz has literally helped me become a more self aware woman and know what I deserve.
I almost died when you said you were spoiling your bfs😭😭 im so glad you realized your worth 💕
Yes, ladies please don't EVER do this. Men do not respect women who do this because you are taking over their role in the relationship. This is why Liz's sweet mother got cheated on. Men don't respect provider women because it's emasculating for them. If they can't provide for you, they will find someone to provide for.
It's also the quickest way to resentment and burnout for a woman because the roles are reversed and a woman will eventually resent the man she's providing for because he stops doing things for her. It's disastrous.
I'm happy you're realizing this early and before making a baby. Never again girl. Keep your head up and receive what your new man has to give.
Good so see U realised u can’t provide for yourself. Good luck finding someone
Just reciprocate whatever your man does for you.
@@kenadams894 if by reciprocate you mean with appreciation, encouragement and a grateful heart, then yes. It's not necessary to reciprocate their actions or to feel pressured to give something in return. Of course it's always sweet to give back in some way, and for provider men, like Liz said, all they truly desire is to feel needed and appreciated. Boost his confidence and peace. Be in that receiving energy and this should be no problem 🙂
Time stamps:
- 3:47 - people in life get what they expect
- 6:08 - shape your beliefs about wealthy, provider men
- 6:57 - don’t look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset
- 8:12 - have realistic
expectations
- 9:49 - if a man shows off ask him to give it to you
- 10:24 - let a man know what your intentions are
- 12:26 - don’t tell a man that your exes treated you badly
- 13:21 - work on a man’s competitive nature
- 14:06 - stop saying you don’t need a man
- 15:19 - appreciate your man
- 15:35 - make him do small things for you
- 15:57 - don’t be shy to ask a man for things
- 17:21 - make sure he knows what you like
- 17:42 - show him that princess treatment genuinely makes you happy
- 18:25 - make him think spoiling you is his idea
- 19:47 - you don’t need to be extremely feminine to attract a provider
- 20:30 - a woman has to receive
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Omg thanks
Ty ! ❤
Thank you for your work 💓
Thanks
arent the points made in minute 11:45 and 15:58 contradictory?
the first one says never demand things for men and saying you should let them spoil you from their own initiative however later on she says dont be shy to ask men for things like ''give me money''. Maybe theres a barrier between demanding and asking, perhaps thats what she meant but the words are way too similar and cause confusion. Im just here to learn.
Life really changes, when you change your mindset… Thank God I learned my lessons in my 20s and still grateful to willingly learn so much more, with minimizing mistakes 💯
WOW. I am dumbfounded. I literally have the "I DON'T NEED A MAN, I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF" mindset bc I grew up with a Mum like yours too. My Fiancé is a provider and we keep on arguing about this. I would always tell him that I don't need money and stuff (but I REALLY do esp. now that I'm broke & unemployed). I'm having a hard time bc I'm feeling guilty, "What if he thinks I'm a gold digger?". But this video is so enlightening and helpful. Yes, I do want to get spoiled and stuff so BAD. I DO want to be provided for. I was taught to be a "Strong, Independent Woman" all my life but it would be SO nice if you can depend on your partner, as well. I am just my worst enemy. I'm actually lucky because my Fiancé never listened to me and is now taking care of me. He's a MAN and by declining his offer to provide for me will actually make him feel LESS like a Man. I just realized this now. Damn.
P.S.
I never accepted any help from him in the entirety of our relationship. This is the first time I'm actually letting him provide for me.
I love your comments - dont take advatnage of your man though
It’s ok to let him provide! I provide for my family and they do all the household stuff while I work. I literally am so happy with that because anytime I need anything they’re there, if I ask for him to come out and park the car or literally anything he will. He feels like you do and guilty. But this is what I’ve said since I was a kid I wanted. I have someone nurturing me in ways I never had and I get to spend time with him. Who knows how long it’ll be for but for now it works. If it starts to not work then we’ll adjust. ❤just wanted to share a little because if that’s his desire let him!
@@GetElevatedWithMeYea, speaking of- we don't have kids yet but that's actually another problem--- He wants kids and of course, I want em too. But I would love to work and help him with the bills as well, also because I have a good career and I don't want it to go to waste. Nonetheless, he wants me to stay at home and take care of the kids. I would feel guilty not being able to help him financially but he literally has this *Provider Mindset*. I get it, no one's going to take care of the kids but me. It's just that, it's literally a struggle I tell you. I grew up being this "Strong Independent Woman" now I don't know how to adjust. 😢😢😢😢
@@sooyaswiftcarpenter if you want to work would you consider part time? Or is he wanting you to stay home all the time. Like maybe for your independence and needing to socialize pick up a part time job. Idk so many things or ways to live life, you just gotta try things! And I don’t have kids either lol but we have a dog and 3 cats. They’re expensive 🤣
@@sooyaswiftcarpenter I will add this, my sis is a stay at home mom and her husband owns his own business. He works long hours and she care for their 3 kids. She’s just as independent as you and I are. Trust me lol 😂 she pours her time and energy into her kids and they’re literally gonna do amazing things. She feels fulfilled now. She wants more sure but she’s the best mom I know
Paused this video because I realised our 6 month anniversary is less than a week away and asked my boyfriend very sweetly what our plans are for that day and how I would just love it to go out for dinner at one of the nicest restaurants in the city. He took the hint and saw how I lit up and reserved it right away. Ladies, enthusiasm and appreciation are the key, he really just wants to see me happy! But without me hinting he would've probably not bothered to organise anything. Princess treatment only, happy to learn all this at 19 :)
He is my first boyfriend but he literally calls me his princess and it feels so good, don't settle for guys who do not want to treat you right and provide!
What are you doing for him in return to deserve all of this?
@@jonathanxavier2026shes existing. isnt that enough?
@@jonathanxavier2026 none of your business
@@prettyglowin694 This has nothing to do with value and everything to do with her reciprocating. What is she reciprocating.
Where have you been all my life. I had 0 confidence and your videos changed my mind almost instantly. Thank you Liz
I really love your channel. You always explain the things so well with examples and in a humoristic way. And althought, you're helping people. Love you. ❤
she just made me realize so many things and opened my eyes within the first 10 minutes. please never stop making these videos
I(32) am disciplined, hardworking but poor.
I have a brain injury and therefore don’t have the privilege to visit college or another institution to get higher education. Despite learning a lot and being interested I barely passed high school. I tried college but dropped out soon. Over the years I survived with small jobs like dishwashing or working as a waiter.
Whenever I encounter women in a romantic context, they ghost me after learning about my educational past. Some even called me lazy. Its hilarious. I am getting judged for something I never had control over.
Its sad. If you are poor - and already fighting with everyday struggle to survive - you are also not receiving any lovea and constanly judged negatively. Though those women never walked a day in your shoes.
Why is very hard for a man to find a good women nowadays.
Is the video maker single? This mind set is too expensive. Run fellas
shera seven vibes the real goat. but liking Liz too
@@Tom-px9hdbecause you hate women. Congratulation for your coming out 🌈
“you want money? go bless a woman” LOVE IT
I needed this woman like, over 5 years ago. It would have saved me from sooo much trouble. Coming from being raised by a single mom, tired and frustrated with 3 jobs, watching my mom being literally slaved by a few terrible boyfriends, that didn't pay her anything and abused everything... And now me, recently divorced from a young marriage from a young alchoholic who thought his cheating father was a wholemodel of manlyness to follow, like his own personal andrew tate... So sad.
liz is always putting me on game. she always helps me reset my thinking. she’s the best 🥰🥰
@@kojinmastergreat! 🎉
“One thing in life that broke men have is audacity” -WizardLiz
They call women goldiggers yet chase after beautiful hot women but shame women the hypocrisy!!!
Are you ok to cook and clean, stay at home and look after the kids without complaining if the man is providing?
@@salaahkhayr2398You better have money for a women to be a stay at home mom
I bet you're in debt
@@jmtolerico and I bet you’re broke and that’s why you so salty LMFAOO
The second Liz uploads I know my day (and life) is gonna get so much better
I know right 🥰💌
I LOVE THIS ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
trueeeeee
Lol why,? Can’t you buy your own shit?😂😂😂
That's cuz you're mentally unstable
Never stop with what you are doing❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I watch you all the time and without your videos I would not survive
This is one of the best videos I’ve ever watched on this topic. You have so many really good examples and it made so much sense.
My step dad has a provider mindset and he loves to spoil my mom. It’s really sweet. Ex: As soon as he parks the car, he opens the door. He never lets her open the door by herself. He always pays for things and he’s always helping her. I’m really happy for both of them because my mom in her previous marriage (with my dad) he was abusive.
Unless woman has beauty/youth and purity
They deserved no providement
@@Zyrockpurity…? You want a child…?
@@lc-do5eo this the best response u could think of?
Nope just don’t want an old bag with a “High mileage”
@@Zyrockyou don’t deserve a woman, wether she’s young or a bit older, especially not with that mindset.
@@eeerin167 what’s wrong with men having standards?
Are we not allowed to? Lol
“In my head - no one is good enough for me - I am the best - I make people happy - you have to make me happy as well” - boundaries and self love at its finest 🎉❤
You badass energy i like that
Prng png narcstc kaya yan
i love her how she use words tht easy to understand
“You want money ? Go bless a woman.”
Gosh yes 🎀
There's a thin line between getting spoiled , and get dependent completely on men.
And liz , like seperated it with a fine thin line ,showing how these two are totally different things.
Getting our respect and be dependent ourselves is what we all want when it comes to any type of relationship.
Lovely video 💗
I can’t wait til all these gold diggers hit the wall
And won’t even get the attention from their own father 💀
Also the lip filler will look mad hideous once they get older
You’re becoming a PROSTITUTE in both. That’s the name of y’all. When someone put money or material things in an interchange for sex an company THATS A PROSTITUTE and if you do that you are one. Nothing special and you are the opposite of special
I’ve never been with a man that hasn’t given me enough money to make sure I’m okay if we end. Like if I we break up I won’t have to struggle they are gonna make sure I’m good. I don’t have to work because they give me money and if I do I don’t have to ever spend that money
@@dani09eveline ur either dating simps
Or this is cap
Ur also bl4ck which is prob among the least desirable in the dating market statistically proven
Every men are now becoming a part of mgtow and saying no to dating and marriage...avoiding women.....
1:02
I am SO glad Liz mentioned this. We think it's okay for women to give their everything to take care of their kids but it's not okay when they expect the person who also has responsibility over those kids to help her? It's not okay when she expects the man who also chose to have those kids to treat her well and provide for her? I love the fact women are realising their worth and value - thank you Liz and all the other female content creators speaking out about this!💗
Frr!!
@@alara.a2its a bot
Lol it’s feminists who brought the women don’t need men shit. Men have been providers since the dawn of time. May be blame feminists to begin with.
Liz you changed my life for better am so thankful
I was a little skeptical but the more I listened, you are so right! Great thoughts and advice.
4:55 “but good women never get rewarded” omg you are so right
We might very well get rewarded in the hereafter but we definitely won’t be getting rewarded my broke men or just any man who takes us for granted
You are so on point. There are wealthy men who are so stingy it's disgusting. I dated a very wealthy man who is SO STINGY. My love is very generous but he is not a very wealthy man. He treats me like a Goddess. He started paying ALL my bills after our second date. I get gifts ALL the time. I am LOVED 24/7 without demanding it. I expect it, I deserve it and so I receive it.
Same question as bellow
He got a parasite and you enjoy being a parasite
@@Rezzas4298^
@@Joynzau Unfortunately, there is now way around it but being blunt. A man that does not want to provide for you will not take hints or miraculously change. If you’re clear about this standard when in the talking stage, you can save yourself from entertaining a “dusty”. I too have had poor dating experiences in the past, but we must stand up and stop accepting less.
What do you do for him tho? I mean, what does he get in return for being a provider?
Thank you very much for the video! I'm very grateful to have met you on the internet, thank you.
This video was so good. Straight to the point with practical examples. Thank you👏🏽👏🏽💚
Omg the last part is so true. My husband never provided for any of his gf. When he met me he started providing and we got married in less than a year. And ever since he’s been providing he’s been more productive and even start a business, which he could had opened before but he said “I didn’t have the motivation” now he’s making double than he has making before we start dating
Sounds like a good slave!!!
“those men have no money, but they have audacity” liz could not have said it better💀😭
These women have no beauty/youth nor purity
But have audacity to ask to be provided for 💀
Love how you understand both men and women perfectly.❤ Love ya Liz🥰
Just find your channel and I already LOVE it , thank you so much for this energy and the truth💓🌞👏🏽
I was getting confused if you were focusing on dating wealthy men only but the line "he should have a provider mindset, he may or may not be wealthy" cleared alottt of things. Whatever you said about a man who strives to grow and provides as much as he can was totally relatable.
A Man should never have a provider mindset. Men were programmed to believe that, but it's not true in reality.
And what do you do in return?
@@salaahkhayr2398 he is not very active in household chores. We plan on getting married in the near future. No matter what promises he makes, I know i'll be the one mainly looking after his house, his kids, and other stuff.
In return, it makes sense that he'll be the one taking care of the finances. I was under the impression that Liz wants us to date men only who are wealthy and can provide only the best. But her statements in the video cleared that she wants a guy "with a provider" mindset. Someone who is not a couch potatoe and ready to go above and beyond to build a career and provide for you.
@@salaahkhayr2398nothing
@@salaahkhayr2398 ask that to a provider man
3:49 People in life get what they expect
6:09 Reshape your beliefs about wealthy, provider men
6:58 Don't look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset
8:22 Have realistic expectations
8:36 Focus on being wealthy instead of trying to look wealthy
9:47 If a man shows off ask him to give it to you
10:25 Let a man know what your intentions are
11:45 Never demand a man for something
12:28 Don't tell a man that your exes treated you badly
13:24 Work on a man's competitive nature
14:07 Stop saying you don't need a man
14:27 Act like you do need him even for small things
15:19 Appreciate your man
15:36 Make him do small things for you
15:58 Don't be shy to ask a man for things
17:22 Make sure he knows what you like
17:43 Show him that princess treatment genuinely makes you happy
18:26 Make him think spoiling you is his idea
19:49 You don't need to be extremely feminine to attract a provider
20:31 A woman has to receive
Thank you so much
Some of these are kinda manipulative
Thank you for your work ❤
As a woman it's important to get a man that spoils you because men want sex and sex with most men isn't that good and even if it is, a man will always enjoy a woman's body way more then you'll enjoy his. If he can't make you "O" the least he can do is be a provider and spoil you.
@@9darshana so if he provides, you owe him sex? It’s ok for him to expect sex? And it doesn’t matter if you didn’t enjoy the sex either?
Liz , thank you for all these essential things you taught us..Im gonna use them all asap..thank u
Wow! Very insightful! I've never even thought about some of this. Thank you, Liz!💖
When she said why it's normal for single mom to provide for five children but not normal for one man to provide for his wife, wow 🤯
Cause kids are not adults and need help and both husband and wife are adults and should help each other? It's that simple , why an adult women isn't even capable of having adult life lmao ?
@@JustABoy98Not you asking this while there's more women working than men and it's a normal thing to see women do all the housework and also work
@@eveline_2877 I never said they don't? I replied to the commentor on how comparing providing for kids is way different then providing for wife/husband aswell as children.
@@JustABoy98For the same reason lots of men don’t cook, clean, do their own laundry and ect. Each gender has their own roles even in the Bible. A man is a provider and a woman is a homemaker
I dont understand her point no one ever said its normal...
i just entered a situationship recently and he already gifted me jewelry, takes me out to eat every week , and is taking me to the hair salon next week. He is not rich at all, just prioritizes taking care of me !!
this video reinforces my beliefs and guys its TRUE I SWEAR its all about mentality
Thankyou so much for this video i just came across this video and I’ve learned so much already . I just want to say keep doing you! You are doing absolutely amazing work!!
Love to hear you every single day, its makes my day!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH LIZ for your efforts...🥰
Ever since I started watching your videos and changed my mindset about myself, relationships and men in general, I now have a really good partner who has a provider mindset and provides for me and gifts me stuff and spoils me. And it really does make women happy. Thanks Liz ❤
And you what do you do?
@@salaahkhayr2398 what do I do?? I work at UNHCR and also EGSCO organization for refugees in Spain and I make good money out of it. Satisfied?
@@salaahkhayr2398 WE GET IT, YOU ARE BROKE. now stop commenting this bs everywhere
Hope that you’re not a leech. Hope you reciprocate and buy him stuff too and spoil him.
@@kenadams894 LMFAOOOOO poor guy wanna be treated like a princess. honestly stfu
Women truly are blessings, and the fact that we have Liz to help other women become blessings to other people is just amazing!!
This is true. She is teaching us our true nature as women, the receivers, and also to be grateful when we receive.
@@diandra4311and what do you do in return
@@diandra4311EXACTLY!! As women we need to understand that we are the receivers while men are the doers.
we are blessings indeed!
The point of provider mentality is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT my father had money he was taking responsibility for the bills and etc but compaired to his income it was nothing he could spoil mom and us waaaay more than he did
Love your content every time I forget something I come back and rewatch your videos to remind me of what I need to hear and do to either set boundaries, confidence, or motivation. I sub when you had less than 500K and look at you now WOW!!! XOXOX
my daily routine : getting whatever I want when I want it
I cant stop watching her videos literally. She is a real life changer. I really love herr❤
From uganda 🇺🇬, I love you liz ,you really some thing great ❤
The white cat in the background scared me sm omg
I love you, don‘t ever stop doing these videos. You are helping me so much thank you 💖
wow... is all i have to say first of all you're so strong to go from that environment and still know your worth and value. also ty for creating this video and reminding me as well i haven't even finished watching the video but ur really speaking the truth babes ily 😘
“One thing a broke man has is audacity” 😂📝
“Those men have ΝΟ money but they have audacity”☠️☠️☠️🤣🤣 cryinggggg i love you Liz🤣
You should go marry her. Then the question will be, will you provide for Liz or will she provide for you, and what happens when either one of you goes "broke"!? Liz don't have any money, she is broke as hell right now, so are you willing to go broke to support her lifestyle!?
@@prussiansocietyofamericaur a man, aren't u?
@@prussiansocietyofamerica leave if ur so fucking mad
@@_vayda_ wrong! He's a brokey. A broke man ! 🙂
@@Chatwithalisha he def is fr
Love that you agree with Shera when so many don't 👏🏾.
Thank you so much, everything is explained perfectly and clear, love you Liz ❤
Honestly at first i wasnt getting her point .....but by the end it really made sense. Liz never fails to bring out the feminine energy in us. As a women we all must support her.
Women supporting women is the most powerful thing.
lets inspire girls to be golddiggers
@@amariajade255how are you able to explore different opinions and ideas? You read books don’t you? Do you think the authors show you everything. Do you like art? Do you know how many influential artists abused their wives? Sure, you don’t have to support the person themselves but do you support the opinion? Do you agree?
Women who watches videos of liz are the biggest red flag.
@@human6826wanting to have a boyfriend who gives you gifts and takes you to nice places while you still be earning your own money does not make you a gold digger
Men supporting men is also the most natural thing, that's why we would always hire you as a cleaning lady or secretary but never as the ceo of the company
Btw
I am certain that her bf looks by far worse than her and therefor feels the necessity to cover his lacking attractiveness with financial support towards her.
So what is her real deal? Gets a bit of money but never gets the excitement of an equally attractive partner?
Thats not rocket since, thats a classic trade off
Liz said “Now, is it necessary for you to be spoiled by a man? No, absolutely not. If you want to do 50/50, I don't care because it's not my life.”
So people shouldn’t bash her
Love you Liz, God bless you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
I love being provided for. I loooove it. And, I am a very highly paid individual. What is mine is mine, what is his is mine.
I really agree with the last part where you said me who take care of women get wealthier. My dad has 4 women including my mum, my sisters and me. Half of my life we were humbly well off but later he got promoted to such a position where he earns 6 times than he did before. Even my mum says the wealth came in because he has 4 women to take care of ❤️
Why every women cheat?
Wow this place is Crazies Central! 😂😂
@@RS-xx9ve haha men of culture, we meet again.
I think the OP is trying to tell herself that shes not actually a parasite bc by leeching off some guy she actually makes him rich.... smh....these female dating vids ive seen so far are mostly about how to make guys spend money on you. We are lost 🎉
Liz didn't lie. Soon as I put standard in my dating life, even the "talking stages" provide for me. It all started from getting free daily dose of coffee to getting my rent paid for a whole year. On top of that, they respect my decision not to continue the date if I don't see us being together in a committed setting in the future.
Omg you need to make a video? How do you convince them
@@rayray9508 That is where you are wrong. There is no need for convincing because they just want to. If you need to 'convince' them they will never ever provide for you. Move on, next!
Live , laugh , liz. I love this woman so much.
Thanks for the recommendations.I love you so much Liz 🌸
Time stamps:
- 3:47 - people in life get what they expect
- 6:08 - shape your beliefs about wealthy, provider men
- 6:57 - don’t look for a wealthy man, look for a man with a provider mindset
- 12:26 - don’t tell a man that your exes treated you badly
- 14:06 - stop saying you don’t need a man
- 15:19 - appreciate your man
- 19:47 - you don’t need to be extremely feminine to attract a provider
- 20:30 - a woman has to receive
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I was always the strong independent I actually would feel insulted if a man gives me money let alone asking him to lol but your videos are helping me feeling okay receiving without the need to give a gift or the money back, I learned and laughed at today's vid you are an inspiration liz, sending you love from Algeria ❤
@@user-fq8rz6kk4zstop assuming she follows everything to a T just bc she has a hijab on you’re weird
Algerien men the worst though you it's literally really hard to find that type of man there I'm from Algeria btw and the men are all shitholes
This girl is speaking the deepest facts. Every word.
Liz, you are a genius and I love you. Thank you for this video.
I love the fact that she brought up that it can also be 50/50. It’s such a great idea of both people putting in 100% effort to try to be great for their partner ❤
I kept having questions about things she said and she kept answering them throughout. Liz is definitely a wizard 💅
You have good insights. They are appreciated.
As a man, I’m perfectly fine with a woman expecting me to provide, in fact that’s exactly what I want her to expect from me. I actually crave being the provider for a woman I love, it gives me so much purpose, focus and direction. The thing is though she shouldn’t be surprised when I expect her to take care of the home (ofc I will help her out with that when I can). I say this because I’ve noticed that nowadays there’s a culture of women expecting traditional male behavior but then cry sexism when the man expects traditional female behavior.
Exactly. Okay you want me to provide? I can do that and it can feel good and purposeful. But, what are you going to offer and bring? You have to give effort too. You can’t expect to manipulate guys and then not add value and feel good about yourself or a “relationship”.
I’m 21 and I want a provider. And if I found a man worth it and man that is a provider I would get in the kitchen so quick😂
@@zachreadsshortswho hurt u?
that's what I want to hear for a long time that nobody tell me how to behave in a relationship and I start realizing my worth now because of your words 🌷thank you & love you sis 💓
I think this is my favorite video of yours yet, it's so insightful and you touched on numerous very important topics and gave us so many crucial tips ! Thank you so much, Liz! 💗
Liz, you're so fantastic. Thank you for always giving us amazing content. You shine just by being your own self❤
you are right and brave, im sure there is individuals who try to shame u and u upload your guidance anyways. thank you queen
I agree with the “luxury” thing, I valued designer when I was insecure .. now I’m secure in who I am and I don’t find my value in what designers I wear
Designer shit is dumb
Only one benefitting are the big companies profiting off of it lmao
Just what i needed from you !! Thankyou for saving me sister🥀
I LOVE HOW YOU TALK, I LOVE YOUR ADVICESSSSS
I'm Brasilian🇧🇷
I'm learning english with You! love your advice.❤
He is taking care of u coz u are pretty
Now a days everything is related to being pretty