@@Hamed234-i5z yeah my first language is Spanish and only reading her subtitles, I was trying to understand everything, but now I can understand everything then, I would like to watch without subtitles cus sometimes it's hard Understand her and another native American speaker
Remember that the Lord Jesus Christ died on a cross for you because He loves you so much. He then rose up from the dead three days later. The Ten Commandments are called the moral law, (most of us are lying, thieving, blasphemous and adulterer at heart) you and I broke the law Jesus paid the fine that’s what happened on that cross. By believing that Jesus died on the cross and rose up from the dead 3 days later and not just confessing your sin, but also repenting of all sin you have done and putting all your trust in Him in prayer, He will grant you everlasting life as a free gift.
I manifest that every person who read this, will get confident friends, they are REALLY hard to find, and watching this video was like a hug of positive vibes, thank you Liz
After being in an extremely toxic friend group where everyone was just feeding off of each other’s insecurities, I finally found someone who was fully confident in themselves and is able to spread that confidence and positivity onto others and I couldn’t be happier
If u think they're really hard to find, they will be really hard to find. Confident friends are easy to find and confident friends come to me effortlessly. Periodt.
But the problem is that everybody knows when person is imitating confidence, all mature people can feel it. Also the feeling of fake confident is worse than feeling insecure when you are that person
@@КаренСимонян-п4б I think what we’d need to do is be okay with people knowing you’re faking it. Eventually you’ll get there for real, you’re just practicing. You know why you’re doing it, you know it will take you somewhere. They can judge you if they want to, at the end of the day the people who are worth something will be with you. That sort of thing?
@@Blulisianthus thats correct. people that ive been talking about in my surroundings usually trying to fake it by bulling someone, but if they re nice theres no problem with it
idc if ppl criticise her or how she acts and spreads messages, she motivates me. she’s cool and inspiring and everything i need. she’s a better therapist than anyone LOL
Liz is the first “self-help” influencer that has ever actually moved me. I genuinely believe what she is saying. She is so straight to the point and sharp that I listen to whatever she says. Thank you Liz xxx
We, the people who live in cities, need confidence......and we can have confidence.......it's just that.....we lived too much in the city......and we are not strong enough......yet.......for this planet. But we can be strong enough
I started crying when liz said do not laugh at jokes at your own expense. This is what I do to myself, I don't take myself seriously and just to make other people laugh just to please them, I actually laugh at jokes on myself and I consider myself dumb infront of them and that's the reason why no one values my words and no one takes me seriously and Liz I wanna thank you... You are helping out so many girls with your powerful words and thankyou again! May God Bless You💗
@Дм Го first of confidence doesn’t mean you don’t need a caring mother and this person NEVER said that they needed a mother they said she gives of motherly VIBES
Remember that the Lord Jesus Christ died on a cross for you because He loves you so much. He then rose up from the dead three days later. The Ten Commandments are called the moral law, (most of us are lying, thieving, blasphemous and adulterer at heart) you and I broke the law Jesus paid the fine that’s what happened on that cross. By believing that Jesus died on the cross and rose up from the dead 3 days later and not just confessing your sin, but also repenting of all sin you have done and putting all your trust in Him in prayer, He will grant you everlasting life as a free gift.
liz ... u saved my life, truly😭! did you know? because of watching your videos, my voice gradually changed to be secure, i used to have small and timid voice and i thought i couldnt change it(i have cptsd), but look at me now??? MY VOICE TOTALLY CHANGED. and not only that, i became more comfortable in adjusting posture to be straight posture, and not slouching anymore(i used to feel slouching was more comfy). and now i can vary my responses so that i can adjust my style of talking. AND IM NO LONGER TO BE EXTREMELY LIMERENT(?) LIKE I WAS BEFORE. im able to do my activities and complete it daily only FOR ME, and never think to do anything to please others. thank you so much, liz🥰
lil update guys now im able to communicate calmly with elders? like i used to isolate myself from them and now i feel confident talking with them! my social skill is increasing
This woman deserves a big "Thank You" from me. 5 yrs ago, I farted in front of my friends and they'll bring it up every single time they see me to embarrass me but a few days ago, after watching her video, I was like, why is it even embarrassing? I'm not the only person in this earth who farts, so today morning, these people brought it again and I had to reply, "you guys hold your toxicants in your body?" and I've never ever in my life felt this level of confidence.
that's so embarrassing on *their* behalf. image holding something so irreverent over a supposed "friend". ditch them or establish boundaries, even if you end up losing them in the process. better them than yourself.
1. set small daily goals and accomplish them 2. make friends that u can be like 3. take care of your physical appearance 4. stop attaching yourself to everyone and everything 5. realise that it’s okay to outgrow people and situations 6. confidence is silent 7. realise that most people are really just interested in their own life 8. learn about body language 9. start conversations with random people 10. start having boundaries and be firm about them 11. do not laugh at jokes at your own expense 12. in order to be valuable to others we need to value ourselves first 13. spend time with yourself, journal, get to know yourself 14. start acting like you are already confident 15. praise yourself everytime you look into the mirror 16. treat yourself as you would treat someone you love 17. be so proud of yourself!! 18. start now with what you have
why is making confident friends soooo hard!??! I'm tired of always being the most positive, confident & energetic person, I need someone to share this energy with to multiply it but everyone is soooo insecure 😩 Watching this video felt like I was finally having the conversation with a friend that ive always wanted. Someone smart , uplifting & aware! Thank you for being here & sharing your energy with us, it goes a long way 💗
I will tell you something actually you attract just people who are same to you and you will not be able to see how are you acting in the real way you act until you see yourself talking and all of that so i advice u to recored videos even you are the only one who gonna see and then you will know the breaking points in your mentality and then when you fix it and become best version of your self every amazing one will seriously want to be around you exactly like how all of us want to be around that amazing girl in the video
~Set daily goals; learn to trust yourself ~Make friends you want to be like; helps you get confident like a mentor ~Take care of your physical appearance; value the way you present yourself, if you don’t like something fix it! ~Stop being to desperate;always be realistic with the way people are(learn it’s okay that peoplethings leave new and better will come ~It’s okay to outgrow people; learn that things can change and that’s normal value your happiness ~Confidence is not loud; it’s about what your aura projects not your words ~Don’t be embarrassed; who are you embarrassed of? Your not the main character of their life ~Body language; shoulders back, chest out good, posture, use hand gestures (helps with trust), open body language! ~Go up to people and talk to them ~Do not except disrespect; set boundaries, don’t let people use you, it’s okay to say no you don’t need a reason ~Show that you value your time so people respect you and are their best version with you ~Do not laugh at your expensive; don’t let anyone disrespect you, don’t take a joke it’s going to turn into what they mean ~Ask people to explain the joke; don’t ever let people disrespect you. ~Be selfish; put yourself first, what is bet for you? ~Know who you are; if you know yourself no one else can tell you who you are( know what you don’t like how you want to be treated start spending time with you self journal) ~Act like your confident; no one will know ~Give yourself compliments; don’t expect them from others ~Start with what you have; your improving a blank canvas create your best self
For myself 12:32 don’t be embarrassed 15:45 talk to people 16:30 don’t please 17:50 know your worth 18:38 bullying 21:28 put yourself first 23:37 pretend ;) 24:20 compliment yourself
1. set small daily goals 2. make friends that would be an example to you. 3. stop attaching yourself to everyone and everything. stop being desperate 4. don’t fear if you outgrow something or someone 5. confidence is silent. “you have to be humble, but aware of your worth.” 6. have and RESPECT your boundaries. 7. do not laugh at jokes at your own expense 8. whenever somebody makes a joke or anything towards you, ask them to explain it 9. at the end of the day, the selfish win. so fuck everything, you need to place yourself first. 10. know yourself. ask yourself questions in order to comprehend more of you. so that you’ll always have a reason for what u do, and can shut tf up arrogant people who ask. 11. treat yourself as you would treat someone you love 12. start right now. start with what you have
this is going to be my new year resolution 1.start trust yourself 2.make ambitious friend 3.start self care routine 4.stop being desperate 5 confidence is silent 7. forget about embarrassments 8. start talking to people 9. perfect body posture 10.start putting your self first 11.start having boundaries
One thing I notice about traumatized children (which I am one) is that they all want to be the most loving parent for their kids, and it's so warming and heartbreaking at the same time.
I loved everything she does, the way she talks, the way she moves her hands and her personality and her special presence. I can watch her all day and never get tired
@@lilsoso8103 confidence? She has beauty surgery's -> that is the opposite of confidence. If you are confident you dont need surgery so change your appearance :)
@@FiNN-- She, a self-confident person, accepts and loves her body, but she knows that she is not perfect, and she can have plastic surgery if she wants because she knows that this will not define her value as a person, she will continue to love herself no matter what.💗
@@FiNN-- Omg, I could have a million surgeries and still talk about confidence, after all that's how she said, "If you're not satisfied with something, change it."
I just got up and styled my hair, did some light makeup, Straightened my back, and now I'm planning to finish all of my homework and other things that I've been putting back for a while, just after watching this video and the "create a new version of yourself" video , the amount of motivation and inspiration liz gives me.. It's unbelievable. Thank you liz, truly 💕
that friend advice at 5:57 really hits home. everyone was talking about their mental health and everything that’s negative and it was so bad that i had to remove myself from the group. i barely have any friends anymore but i’m feeling much better mentally.
i didn't realize how much this vid changed me until i watched it again after months. 1. i started setting daily goals and i was so determined to accomplish them. now it's been 2 months of me exercising bcz of that and it's my first time being this consistent 2. i did not "ditch my friends" bcz they weren't even friends to me, they weren't the ones for me and they were exactly like you said, instead i made new (real) friends and met people with a goal and purpose in life. it really affected me positively! 3. i started intensely taking care of my skin (suitable products & healthy diet) , body (exercising & moving more) and hair (treatment) alongside with my mental health and 6 months ago me wouldn't have believed it. 4. im also working on confidence and healing together, i do the positive slef talk and it never failed me, i got closer with god, closer to my soul, i meditated, i prayed, i searched for ways and signs and i GOT them, im way more chill than i was like about a month ago, and i still crave for the best 5. "humble, but aware of your worth" OMG little did i understand what this actually meant first time i heard it from u liz! but it's ok bcz i get it now. i used to be jealous of so many people, thought that no one liked me so i kept trying to please them and pretended that im someone who isn't me and the result? fake friends and a lost self, im grateful i started to get connected with my real self before it went too far. 6. i started setting clear boundaries and i showed them to people, the respect they built for me ever since was 👌 7. i started trying to know the real me through every way i can reach, i ceased watching shows just for fun and started reading books and watching things that can get me closer to myself, and i can say that i built an unbreakable respect and bond with me. and im so happy with it. 9. the self praising might look dumb air cringe for some people but i think it's a cute way to accept/love how you look (tmi: is sometimes blush when i compliment myself) and it makes me smile more through the day so why not?🤨completely harmless & kinda helpful! phew, that was the longest comment i wrote in my life, but i just wanted to show u how i take your words to heart and it really got me somewhere i wished i'd be in. if you're going to read this or not, im always grateful for you & you'll always be in my "things im grateful for" list
6 minutes in and she has spoken STRAIGHT facts. I’m 26 now and I knew this naturally at 16-18. If you tell yourself “for a month I will hit the gym straight no matter what” and you actually hold yourself accountable even when times are tough, you can’t help but feel proud of yourself. Unfortunately, from ages 22-25 I started behaving like a complete bitch because I wasn’t trusting myself due to me not following up with my promises. If we as human beings hit the gym, eat clean, and focus on making money consistently no matter what, we will all be extremely confident.
Most of the things you describe makes you confident are external, which are good, but I hope that confidence comes from within and truly a reflection of your love for yourself.
@@aestheticallypleasingaesth8941 no it makes you confident internally because you trust yourself to follow through and you create an identity you agree with
Liz's confidence is based 100% on her looks and for being 26 years old when she is 23 years old is not a healthy situation here. Let's see a liz that has confidence without fillers, botox, lip injections, skin routine and just a plain Betty. Liz worth is $0.5 million selling you lies and fairy tales! Confidence is manners to yourself, not pleasing others! when you turn 35 years old let's have a discussion about this individual and be honest. Liz is a fraud.
i literally cried 14 mins into the video, I wish i had a figure like you growing up to tell me i am worth it, to make me believe i am worth it. Thank you for helping others out there!
When I don't know you, I look at the mirror and think that I am so ugly even when my friends post a picture of them I comment there" slayyy/ u r so prettier than me" but when I know you I became so confident I start to care about myself, love myself and everyone start to call me selfish, when anyone call me "u r so ugly" I replied "Not like u, I love myself that is enough ". Thank you Liz you are a QUEEN ❤❤❤❤❤🥀
Liz, I just wanna say one thing I find your videos the most comforting out of other youtubers and that's because you seem like you actually say everything from the heart and you don't sugar coat things, you seem like an older sister to me and I am grateful for that. Thank you so much
I copied this and this is just to remember! ~Set daily goals; learn to trust yourself ~Make friends you want to be like; helps you get confident like a mentor ~Take care of your physical appearance; value the way you present yourself, if you don’t like something fix it! ~Stop being to desperate;always be realistic with the way people are(learn it’s okay that peoplethings leave new and better will come ~It’s okay to outgrow people; learn that things can change and that’s normal value your happiness ~Confidence is not loud; it’s about what your aura projects not your words ~Don’t be embarrassed; who are you embarrassed of? Your not the main character of their life ~Body language; shoulders back, chest out good, posture, use hand gestures (helps with trust), open body language! ~Go up to people and talk to them ~Do not except disrespect; set boundaries, don’t let people use you, it’s okay to say no you don’t need a reason ~Show that you value your time so people respect you and are their best version with you ~Do not laugh at your expensive; don’t let anyone disrespect you, don’t take a joke it’s going to turn into what they mean ~Ask people to explain the joke; don’t ever let people disrespect you. ~Be selfish; put yourself first, what is bet for you? ~Know who you are; if you know yourself no one else can tell you who you are( know what you don’t like how you want to be treated start spending time with you self journal) ~Act like your confident; no one will know ~Give yourself compliments; don’t expect them from others ~Start with what you have; your improving a blank canvas create your best self
@@najlaahassanmohammed9311 Gurl? She's BEING fr. Why do u care about who HER motivator is? BTS helped me through my life too. Why disrespect someone else's opinion? Keep scrolling.
Same. It's my third time watching this because right now, I feel like I'm going back to my old self who's insecure about everything, have too much social anxiety and thinks too much about other people's opinion.
Wow, this vid is so powerful, i'm 19 still dealing with "social anxiety", lack of self confidence etc etc.. and it helps so much, like a few years ago i was the most insecure guy and i've been making improvements little by little and i'm doing so much stuff that i couldn't before, just by daring to do little things that are awkward to you and progressively increasing the difficulty you'll be way more confident, and god i still have a long way to go.
GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE BABY! whenever its wearing two different pairs of shoes in public, talking to random strangers or listening to music in your headphones loudly. DO IT. Its gonna get more comfortable EVERY TIME. its called exposure therapy. The best for combating social anxiety ❤️
same! I'm 19 too and younger me would kinda be disappointed that I'm still dealing with the same issues but I have to remind myself that life doesn't end at 19..it sort of feels like it just started :)
@@Krisy444 same here!! I was literally reading my younger self’s notes, and it was saying how omg in a week I turn 16 and I’ve done nothing with my life. Being 19 reading that now I’m like 😂😂 girl, you don’t even know the half of it.
Why are there these comments everywhere? Like bro who is gonna say like “nO iM fRoM 2019” what were u expecting? Like “haha omg your commenting this in this year OMG like this comment right now”
I've been dealing with so much bad energy and low confidence recently to the point that I can not go to my classes at University without a mask. I constantly had to hide myself. I'm in class right now without any mask or even makeup! Idk how she did it but she made me so much more confident. I know it might not be ground breaking but it's a big move for me. Thank you so much! Your channel is the best thing that has happened to me in a very long time ❤️❤️
These sessions are like personal therapy for me. I feel as if you're directly talking to me. Thank you so much Liz! May Allah bless you lots and lots for the good that you do.
Im only 10 minutes in and I already admire this, I genuinely love your advice and mindset. It gives me the motivation to become a better person, thank you so much in behalf of everyone. You’re doing a wonderful thing Liz. I hope you heal from everything and you become more and more happy :)
🤯WOW! Liz,This is your best talk yet. You have really opened my eyes to how much I need to reaffirm my boundaries. For the past 33 years of my life I have been playing the role of the "nice girl" and it has NEVER benefitted me. Time to be selfish.😎 Thank you young lady 💕
I've been suffering with low self-worth for years and I'm grateful for how you take the time to give out advice to those who need it! Sending so much love
1° Set small daily goals and accomplisht them 2° Make friends you want to be like/get mentor 3° Take care of your physical appearance 4° Time means nothing if the situation is not brining you happiness anymore 5° Learn about body language 6° Start conversation with random people 7° Do not laugh at jokes at your own expense 8° In order to be valuable to others we need to value ourselves first 9° Spend time with yourself, journal, get know yourself 10° Start acting like you are already confident 11° Praise yourself everytime you look into the mirror
@Naes Galaxy i agree. I disagree with the way she presents to be confident. There is a fine line of being arrogant and confident and in some cases such as the one with the guy not opening the door is wrong. As well as when she doesn't do anything that doesn't benefit you. If you dont sacrifice for others without getting benefited some times then fck it
8:21 I can relate to this so much. I used to be desperate for a parter, for a lover, for someone to take care of me. I know this is a normal human desire but this shouldn't be the center of anyone's life. Now I'm learning how to love myself first before I can spread this love to another human being and that's amazing. I'm happy to be coming out of this phase. This video is gold and I'm so glad I've found your channel!! New subscriber earned for sure.
Liz wow. This intro, was everything I needed to hear. I have been doing the work and on this healing journey for years now, and still it can be like “aren’t you healed yet?”. It takes time and the way you hold yourself in care patience and kindness is a beautiful thing to watch. Thank you for being a model of self care. It is so healing to hear the words you share.
Love that you mentioned meditating, journaling, and reading. These are universal things that over time are guaranteed to help you out but most people don’t do them.
your videos make me wanna get up, get outside and do something with my life. and that's a big compliment coming from someone who deals with anxiety + depression 😂
this woman saves me every single time im at low point. whenever i make a decision, her videos pop up in my feed, and affirm them, even though they are scary. you are a hero liz.
I LOVE how Liz affirms she will be the cycle breaker! LOVE IT when someone can be SO honest and so woken. Liz, you are such a blessing. My ex was abused by his mother as a child - she was an addict and awful to him as a kid. He struggled with addiction as an adult and trauma. I could tell he was hurt inside and sometimes, even though he had a loving heart, it would scare me “if” he would be also an abuser. He never “abused” me but he was dealing with intense addiction. I lived with him anxious because I never knew what would “trigger” him. Im happy to see how your life has made you be the voice to sooo many and helping sooooo many recognize their trauma and learn to HEAL! God bless you!
You have definitely changed my mentality and I thank you very much Liz, you have opened my eyes to things that I did not want to see "red flags" and I have watched your videos and now I have become more confident in myself 💗
She is SO real. I thank you so much for this video Liz. I’m currently a very insecure person who has no confidence and lacks boundaries and you’re really helping me sort my sh*t out. You’re so wise. Thank you for your contribution to the world 💐
Her content is on another level, and she doesn't even sell anything on her videos like most "guru" youtubers, she's just a really powerful woman sharing plain wisdom gained through experience, it's amazing
(00:00) Intro (03:45) Set small daily goals and accomplish them (05:35) Make friends you ant to be like/ get a mentor (07:27) Take care of your physical appearance (08:16) Stop attaching yourself to everyone and everything (10:04) Realise that it’s okay to outgrow people and situations (11:08) Time means nothing if the situation is not bringing you happiness anymore (11:39) Confidence is silent (12:33) Realise that most people are really just interested in their own lives (13:51) Learn about body language (15:44) Start conversation with random people (16:01) Start having boundaries and be firm about them (18:38) Do not laugh at jokes at your own expense (20:43) In order to be valuable to others we need to value ourselves first (22:02) Spend time with yourself, journal, get to know yourself (23:37) Start acting like you are already confident (24:17) Praise yourself everytime you look into the mirror (25:01) Treat yourself as you would treat someone you love (26:23) Start now with what you have
I was just watching your other video on how to create a new version of yourself because I want to become more confident in myself and then I see that you have just uploaded this video with that title. I take this as a sign from the universe that I’m on the right path of becoming the best version of myself! Thank you so much, dear Liz, for all your work and dedication! 🌈✨🕊
She is the most amazing person I’ve ever seen. I relate to her so much, because I’m in the same place where she used to be. I was a very shy, insecure and unconfident person, but lately I started to realise my worth. I was looking for guidance on how to become a better person and I stumbled upon her videos. I have to say, I’ve never felt as motivated to improve myself as I do when I finish watching her videos. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
as a girl who was bullied during half of her life I feel very identified with you, the way you express your traumas and how you go through them day by day really identified me, thank you so much for sharing this content and inspiring people like me to be the best version of themselves :3
I love that she anchors confidence in what you DO. So many people think that confidence is something you’re just born with, or it’s associated with your looks or how many people like you but that’s the FARTHEST from the truth. Confidence is a muscle that requires movement and challenge to be strong. I was never confident until I gave myself reasons to be confident in myself. Sticking to promises I make for myself, not shying away from a goal just because it seems complex and difficult. It’s all in how you treat yourself and what goals you make. Lastly, I think making goals that aren’t just related to your confidence or self improvement is key. If you spend too much time navel gazing and being obsessed with how you’re progressing and being ‘that girl’, you’ll inevitably lose steam. Find a cause you care about and take steps to support it, learn a new language or go to classes (if you can) for a subject you’re passionate about. I’m the most confident when I’m working on my Biology degree- because it takes me outside my self while also making me better in the long term!
i love how eager you are to be the cycle breaker and give your future children the love and nurturing you probably didn’t get. you are such an inspiration, literally love your channel.
I never Imagine myself watching all this 28Minute because I'm kind of person who like to read more than listening to someone. Happy that I watched all this and listen to every single word you said. thank you Liz you are the best many opinion have changed 👏🏻 im a new follower from Saudi Arabia. thanks a lot 💓
i just didn't want this to end, i could literally feel her amazing energy through the screen, it just hyped me up !! sending lots of love and positivity towards your wayyy
Thank you, Liz, this is amazing!! I can totally envision you becoming a life coach with a beautiful office, having a podcast of your own, and helping (quite literally) millions of people. Only up from here for you. And all of us!!!
Liz is the friend I needed. She really is inspiring, How I wished I have seen your channel earlier! I really started subscribing and now binge watching-- after I have came across first on your video about "Watch out for these types of “friends”, literally she is very bright and I admired her doing this channel sharing her knowledge and experiences. Thank you so much Liz.
Very potent Liz. One point that really resonated with me was the part where you said “ask them why do you think I’m dumb”. Turning the spotlight back on them really makes a difference. I Always enjoy your videos.
The end when she started saying to love yourself gave me chills I instantly felt so beautiful and at my best energy all sweaty and I’m bummy clothes at the gym!! 😂 Love your energy so much!! 💗💗
This is real honest therapy. Better then Better Help. Love this not just sitting in a chair and my therapist is so damn quiet. Words in action are my inpiration. Thanks.
I LOVE YOU LIZ!! Everyone I asked advice for tried to tell me that I'm being dramatic and my problems didn't matter because people go through worse. Thank you for helping me get back on track after being behind in school + self care after a heartbreak 💖
In my friends group i am the most confident one, and when she said that you should find friends that are confident i felt so proud of my self and who i am, not too long ago i was the most insecure person, and i was bullied sometimes, so proud of how far i've come and i'll continue working on my self and my confidence and support my friends, so proud to be THAT person that people NEED in their lives to be better versions of their self. Thank you Liz❤️❤️
Dear Liz, I started watching all your videos from the beginning and I am keeping notes, I am trying to become the best version of me and you are really helping me. I wish I had more people in my life like you! Thank you for all your effort in creating this content❤️😊
Thank you so much, Liz. I've been having a hard time trying to become more confident and this video will surely help me just like your other videos🥺❤. I love youu, Liz!💕
this came out of my recommendation, and I could ever be more thankful. it's a blessing that I get to hear all of this today, I'm in a very bad status right now and this is just the right thing I need to hear out. thank you so much Liz! I'm will be better and confident version of myself. ♥️
When I started working I started to realize how low my confidence was. And I started to realize it was because I relied on praise and achievements to see my self worth and after working I didn’t have much of that. So I realized confidence should come from within. Also I started to see that critical judgmental voice in my head was actually my own and no one else’s and people are more accepting of me and my flaws than I am of mine.
you know i never had a friend or somone to tell how i feel or what to do. With you know i can walk confident knowing no one will lower my bounderies. Thank you so much liz❤
Liz your videos poped up at the right time I needed the most. You have a beautiful mind, you remind me so much of myself and my mother. Thank you for your videos ! God bless you !
This really helps!! I listen to you videos while I do skincare, I workout, I cook for my self…while I take care of myself and I really needed this and now I know how much I value and what I deserve. Thank you so much!!!
I’m so happy I found you!!! I always say “change it!!” So many people play victim card for things they DO have full control over, I have had my hardships and trauma, and have put myself in therapy and worked with coaches for years. Everyday is another opportunity to grow and change our circumstances. Cheers to you and your strength!
This lady is bilingual, she speaks English and the truth.
Well said
I learning English with her
@@Hamed234-i5z yeah my first language is Spanish and only reading her subtitles, I was trying to understand everything, but now I can understand everything then, I would like to watch without subtitles cus sometimes it's hard Understand her and another native American speaker
@@Hamed234-i5z¿ am I? It's a question asking you by yourself
@@erickcadena8468 you should say I am learning not I learning
That's what I was trying to say
‘people who get angry at you for putting yourself first are the same people who benefit from you putting yourself last’, so powerful
s/o to my ex friend
Iread that comment the moment she said it😭
Exactly
Yes
this woman is something else ♡
"Confidence is not loud."
"Be humble, but aware of your worth."
Honestly love that!
First comment
Only be humble infront of eyes
haifa wehbe is a great example
Remember that the Lord Jesus Christ died on a cross for you because He loves you so much. He then rose up from the dead three days later.
The Ten Commandments are called the moral law, (most of us are lying, thieving, blasphemous and adulterer at heart) you and I broke the law Jesus paid the fine that’s what happened on that cross.
By believing that Jesus died on the cross and rose up from the dead 3 days later and not just confessing your sin, but also repenting of all sin you have done and putting all your trust in Him in prayer, He will grant you everlasting life as a free gift.
@@dove3853 The best confidence is found in God 🤍✝️
Why is no one talking about book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”? Just look at that energy, it's exactly what Liz embodies!
2.9k likes but not a single comment
Strangely amazing
@@Ummm902 It’s from 2 days ago aswell. How did that happen 😂💀
Is it a good book?
@@munirarose It's a bot promoting the book
I have seen it everywhere
"Be humble, but know your worth. Confidence is not loud" Loved this ✨
I know it's a weird question but why does everyone want to appear confident?
@@sweetiegrandes9665 why would anyone want to appear shy, or unconfident?
@SuM of NoN that’s why I said OR. read carefully
@@sweetiegrandes9665 Numerous studies confirm that higher self-confidence and self-esteem predict a higher level of happiness
mikasa is that yoU ??!!!!
I manifest that every person who read this, will get confident friends, they are REALLY hard to find, and watching this video was like a hug of positive vibes, thank you Liz
Amen
Thank you💕
After being in an extremely toxic friend group where everyone was just feeding off of each other’s insecurities, I finally found someone who was fully confident in themselves and is able to spread that confidence and positivity onto others and I couldn’t be happier
If u think they're really hard to find, they will be really hard to find. Confident friends are easy to find and confident friends come to me effortlessly. Periodt.
Thank youuu
“90% of life is confidence, and the thing about confidence is that no one knows if it's real or not.” - Maddy Perez
yes I love that scene
But the problem is that everybody knows when person is imitating confidence, all mature people can feel it. Also the feeling of fake confident is worse than feeling insecure when you are that person
perfect.
@@КаренСимонян-п4б I think what we’d need to do is be okay with people knowing you’re faking it. Eventually you’ll get there for real, you’re just practicing. You know why you’re doing it, you know it will take you somewhere. They can judge you if they want to, at the end of the day the people who are worth something will be with you. That sort of thing?
@@Blulisianthus thats correct. people that ive been talking about in my surroundings usually trying to fake it by bulling someone, but if they re nice theres no problem with it
This is one of the best videos I have seen on the internet. An advice from woman to a woman. You really felt like an older sister! Thank you!
idc if ppl criticise her or how she acts and spreads messages, she motivates me. she’s cool and inspiring and everything i need. she’s a better therapist than anyone LOL
love your profile 😌
your profile photo 🥺
ur pfp is so cute 🥰🥰 we love jungkook
No cause ong
People dont like her?
Liz is the first “self-help” influencer that has ever actually moved me. I genuinely believe what she is saying. She is so straight to the point and sharp that I listen to whatever she says. Thank you Liz xxx
facts i feel like she could start a cult and i’d happily march my way to it😂
Yes I started to feel insecure and searched for Liz’s video to help get me out of it and I feel SO much better!
@@florencee3324me too! shes a life saver
Me too she’s amazing ❤
Yes get Botox now😂
i love how realistic and honest she is
😍
😻🙀
We, the people who live in cities, need confidence......and we can have confidence.......it's just that.....we lived too much in the city......and we are not strong enough......yet.......for this planet. But we can be strong enough
did she get plastic surgery on her face or is she that naturally gorgeous?
@@juls.faithhdoes it matter
I started crying when liz said do not laugh at jokes at your own expense. This is what I do to myself, I don't take myself seriously and just to make other people laugh just to please them, I actually laugh at jokes on myself and I consider myself dumb infront of them and that's the reason why no one values my words and no one takes me seriously and Liz I wanna thank you... You are helping out so many girls with your powerful words and thankyou again! May God Bless You💗
You explain my life in this comment
i used to be like this, until i found people were abusing me, so NO MORE
Same 🎉😢
i respect this woman SO MUCH. honestly, Liz gives off caring mother vibes 🫂
@Дм Го can you be quiet
@Дм Го you’re unconfident if you feel motherly vibes from someone??where’s the logic in that?
@Дм Го first of confidence doesn’t mean you don’t need a caring mother and this person NEVER said that they needed a mother they said she gives of motherly VIBES
@Дм Го you’re the one who’s actually unconfident. Confidence doesn’t mean you don’t need a caring mother in your life whether you live with her or not
@Дм Го you’re just arrogant and confident ppl are not so ..
THIS QUEEN NEEDS TO START A PRODCAST
She really does !! praying she does at some point hah
What's a prodcast?
@@mo777- yeah its not a prodcast lol
YES
Remember that the Lord Jesus Christ died on a cross for you because He loves you so much. He then rose up from the dead three days later.
The Ten Commandments are called the moral law, (most of us are lying, thieving, blasphemous and adulterer at heart) you and I broke the law Jesus paid the fine that’s what happened on that cross.
By believing that Jesus died on the cross and rose up from the dead 3 days later and not just confessing your sin, but also repenting of all sin you have done and putting all your trust in Him in prayer, He will grant you everlasting life as a free gift.
"confident people are silent becuz their confidence radiates..." So true🤐
mengatasi
liz ... u saved my life, truly😭!
did you know? because of watching your videos, my voice gradually changed to be secure, i used to have small and timid voice and i thought i couldnt change it(i have cptsd), but look at me now??? MY VOICE TOTALLY CHANGED. and not only that, i became more comfortable in adjusting posture to be straight posture, and not slouching anymore(i used to feel slouching was more comfy). and now i can vary my responses so that i can adjust my style of talking. AND IM NO LONGER TO BE EXTREMELY LIMERENT(?) LIKE I WAS BEFORE. im able to do my activities and complete it daily only FOR ME, and never think to do anything to please others. thank you so much, liz🥰
lil update guys now im able to communicate calmly with elders? like i used to isolate myself from them and now i feel confident talking with them! my social skill is increasing
i’m proud of you 💕💕 you deserve it !!
@@amande22 thank you so much😭🌸♥️♥️♥️
Goshh woww I'm so happy and proud of you. You deserve the world sweetie
@@DiyaJain-id1jg aaaaww thank youu🥰🥰🥰🙏🌸
This woman deserves a big "Thank You" from me. 5 yrs ago, I farted in front of my friends and they'll bring it up every single time they see me to embarrass me but a few days ago, after watching her video, I was like, why is it even embarrassing? I'm not the only person in this earth who farts, so today morning, these people brought it again and I had to reply, "you guys hold your toxicants in your body?" and I've never ever in my life felt this level of confidence.
I don't think you should call them your "friends".
that is so low from their side to make it a laughter. everyone farts. it is a sign of normal body and organism
that's so embarrassing on *their* behalf. image holding something so irreverent over a supposed "friend". ditch them or establish boundaries, even if you end up losing them in the process. better them than yourself.
Did they said it every time during 5 years? 😮 those guys need to get a life asap
so happy for you
1. set small daily goals and accomplish them
2. make friends that u can be like
3. take care of your physical appearance
4. stop attaching yourself to everyone and everything
5. realise that it’s okay to outgrow people and situations
6. confidence is silent
7. realise that most people are really just interested in their own life
8. learn about body language
9. start conversations with random people
10. start having boundaries and be firm about them
11. do not laugh at jokes at your own expense
12. in order to be valuable to others we need to value ourselves first
13. spend time with yourself, journal, get to know yourself
14. start acting like you are already confident
15. praise yourself everytime you look into the mirror
16. treat yourself as you would treat someone you love
17. be so proud of yourself!!
18. start now with what you have
Thank you!
@@udontknowmyname8714 you are welcome 💓
it"s literally helpful
@@anestysp9044 happy to hear that!
Thank you so so so much!❤
why is making confident friends soooo hard!??! I'm tired of always being the most positive, confident & energetic person, I need someone to share this energy with to multiply it but everyone is soooo insecure 😩 Watching this video felt like I was finally having the conversation with a friend that ive always wanted. Someone smart , uplifting & aware! Thank you for being here & sharing your energy with us, it goes a long way 💗
This is so truee
Same, I’m surrounded by a lot insecure ppl who like to self project
I will tell you something actually you attract just people who are same to you and you will not be able to see how are you acting in the real way you act until you see yourself talking and all of that so i advice u to recored videos even you are the only one who gonna see and then you will know the breaking points in your mentality and then when you fix it and become best version of your self every amazing one will seriously want to be around you exactly like how all of us want to be around that amazing girl in the video
Literally, I love my friends but they can be so draining sometimes
Yesssss honestly ima work on myself on hope that i manifest confident friends
"at the end of the day, the selfish win. so fuck everything, you need to place yourself first."
(love this as a people-pleaser)
~Set daily goals; learn to trust yourself
~Make friends you want to be like; helps you get confident like a mentor
~Take care of your physical appearance; value the way you present yourself, if you don’t like something fix it!
~Stop being to desperate;always be realistic with the way people are(learn it’s okay that peoplethings leave new and better will come
~It’s okay to outgrow people; learn that things can change and that’s normal value your happiness
~Confidence is not loud; it’s about what your aura projects not your words
~Don’t be embarrassed; who are you embarrassed of? Your not the main character of their life
~Body language; shoulders back, chest out good, posture, use hand gestures (helps with trust), open body language!
~Go up to people and talk to them
~Do not except disrespect; set boundaries, don’t let people use you, it’s okay to say no you don’t need a reason
~Show that you value your time so people respect you and are their best version with you
~Do not laugh at your expensive; don’t let anyone disrespect you, don’t take a joke it’s going to turn into what they mean
~Ask people to explain the joke; don’t ever let people disrespect you.
~Be selfish; put yourself first, what is bet for you?
~Know who you are; if you know yourself no one else can tell you who you are( know what you don’t like how you want to be treated start spending time with you self journal)
~Act like your confident; no one will know
~Give yourself compliments; don’t expect them from others
~Start with what you have; your improving a blank canvas create your best self
thank you
thank you sista
Thank you
This really help 💗🥺
thank you so much 💘 a lot of great thoughts and advice in one video 🫠🙌🏼
For myself
12:32 don’t be embarrassed
15:45 talk to people
16:30 don’t please
17:50 know your worth
18:38 bullying
21:28 put yourself first
23:37 pretend ;)
24:20 compliment yourself
Might come back to this later
Coming back to this
I will also be coming back to this
1. set small daily goals
2. make friends that would be an example to you.
3. stop attaching yourself to everyone and everything. stop being desperate
4. don’t fear if you outgrow something or someone
5. confidence is silent. “you have to be humble, but aware of your worth.”
6. have and RESPECT your boundaries.
7. do not laugh at jokes at your own expense
8. whenever somebody makes a joke or anything towards you, ask them to explain it
9. at the end of the day, the selfish win. so fuck everything, you need to place yourself first.
10. know yourself. ask yourself questions in order to comprehend more of you. so that you’ll always have a reason for what u do, and can shut tf up arrogant people who ask.
11. treat yourself as you would treat someone you love
12. start right now. start with what you have
Thanks a lot girl💙
I need it a lot
Thanks honey 🍯
Thanks Queen
That's great help! Thanks honey ❤
Thank chu
this is going to be my new year resolution
1.start trust yourself
2.make ambitious friend
3.start self care routine
4.stop being desperate
5 confidence is silent
7. forget about embarrassments
8. start talking to people
9. perfect body posture
10.start putting your self first
11.start having boundaries
One thing I notice about traumatized children (which I am one) is that they all want to be the most loving parent for their kids, and it's so warming and heartbreaking at the same time.
For real
What’s sad tho is that big portion of those traumatized people tell themselves that they won’t be like that, but then end up being like that
Wanting to be a loving g parent is not a bad thing though
I loved everything she does, the way she talks, the way she moves her hands and her personality and her special presence. I can watch her all day and never get tired
same for me
that's confidence baby
@@lilsoso8103 confidence? She has beauty surgery's -> that is the opposite of confidence. If you are confident you dont need surgery so change your appearance :)
@@FiNN-- She, a self-confident person, accepts and loves her body, but she knows that she is not perfect, and she can have plastic surgery if she wants because she knows that this will not define her value as a person, she will continue to love herself no matter what.💗
@@FiNN-- Omg, I could have a million surgeries and still talk about confidence, after all that's how she said, "If you're not satisfied with something, change it."
I just got up and styled my hair, did some light makeup, Straightened my back, and now I'm planning to finish all of my homework and other things that I've been putting back for a while, just after watching this video and the "create a new version of yourself" video , the amount of motivation and inspiration liz gives me.. It's unbelievable. Thank you liz, truly 💕
Proud of u
Love you girl
Slayyy girl slayyy
soo proud of you sister❤❤
hahah you reminded med to use straight back
Who's watching this in 2025
Me
Me 🤞🏻
Here 🙋
She's like the older sister I never had.
Thanks Liz. You're amazing ❣️
i can feel her confidence through the screen, honest and straight forward advice. Thank you Liz
Liz we need that self care, skin care, diet, or maybe even a daily day in your life!❤️ Go girl💅
Yessss
yess
Yesss
Yesss skincare please
We need that glow Liz.
that friend advice at 5:57 really hits home. everyone was talking about their mental health and everything that’s negative and it was so bad that i had to remove myself from the group. i barely have any friends anymore but i’m feeling much better mentally.
Seungberry!
Yes! It's really good you learned to protect yourself from people who will negatively impact you and weight you down
i didn't realize how much this vid changed me until i watched it again after months.
1. i started setting daily goals and i was so determined to accomplish them. now it's been 2 months of me exercising bcz of that and it's my first time being this consistent
2. i did not "ditch my friends" bcz they weren't even friends to me, they weren't the ones for me and they were exactly like you said, instead i made new (real) friends and met people with a goal and purpose in life. it really affected me positively!
3. i started intensely taking care of my skin (suitable products & healthy diet) , body (exercising & moving more) and hair (treatment) alongside with my mental health and 6 months ago me wouldn't have believed it.
4. im also working on confidence and healing together, i do the positive slef talk and it never failed me, i got closer with god, closer to my soul, i meditated, i prayed, i searched for ways and signs and i GOT them, im way more chill than i was like about a month ago, and i still crave for the best
5. "humble, but aware of your worth" OMG little did i understand what this actually meant first time i heard it from u liz! but it's ok bcz i get it now. i used to be jealous of so many people, thought that no one liked me so i kept trying to please them and pretended that im someone who isn't me and the result? fake friends and a lost self, im grateful i started to get connected with my real self before it went too far.
6. i started setting clear boundaries and i showed them to people, the respect they built for me ever since was 👌
7. i started trying to know the real me through every way i can reach, i ceased watching shows just for fun and started reading books and watching things that can get me closer to myself, and i can say that i built an unbreakable respect and bond with me. and im so happy with it.
9. the self praising might look dumb air cringe for some people but i think it's a cute way to accept/love how you look (tmi: is sometimes blush when i compliment myself) and it makes me smile more through the day so why not?🤨completely harmless & kinda helpful!
phew, that was the longest comment i wrote in my life, but i just wanted to show u how i take your words to heart and it really got me somewhere i wished i'd be in. if you're going to read this or not, im always grateful for you & you'll always be in my "things im grateful for" list
you seem like you've made much progress
Alongside with-> alongside
Im so proud of you, keep going ❤
I am so so happy for you keep going queen!❤🎉
Sooo soo proud of you , Keep going , You gonna rock it
6 minutes in and she has spoken STRAIGHT facts. I’m 26 now and I knew this naturally at 16-18. If you tell yourself “for a month I will hit the gym straight no matter what” and you actually hold yourself accountable even when times are tough, you can’t help but feel proud of yourself. Unfortunately, from ages 22-25 I started behaving like a complete bitch because I wasn’t trusting myself due to me not following up with my promises. If we as human beings hit the gym, eat clean, and focus on making money consistently no matter what, we will all be extremely confident.
Yes! I feel like I knew this naturally till age 13.
@@Notme811_you What do you think made you lose what you knew naturally?
Most of the things you describe makes you confident are external, which are good, but I hope that confidence comes from within and truly a reflection of your love for yourself.
@@aestheticallypleasingaesth8941 no it makes you confident internally because you trust yourself to follow through and you create an identity you agree with
Liz's confidence is based 100% on her looks and for being 26 years old when she is 23 years old is not a healthy situation here. Let's see a liz that has confidence without fillers, botox, lip injections, skin routine and just a plain Betty. Liz worth is $0.5 million selling you lies and fairy tales! Confidence is manners to yourself, not pleasing others! when you turn 35 years old let's have a discussion about this individual and be honest. Liz is a fraud.
i literally cried 14 mins into the video, I wish i had a figure like you growing up to tell me i am worth it, to make me believe i am worth it. Thank you for helping others out there!
this
believe me, you're worth it❤️
tell yourself that!!!
You’re always worth it❤
gurrlll
self validation goes a long way, just ;ike she said in the vid
you don't need nobody, you got yourself!
When I don't know you, I look at the mirror and think that I am so ugly even when my friends post a picture of them I comment there" slayyy/ u r so prettier than me" but when I know you I became so confident I start to care about myself, love myself and everyone start to call me selfish, when anyone call me "u r so ugly"
I replied "Not like u, I love myself that is enough ".
Thank you Liz you are a QUEEN ❤❤❤❤❤🥀
Liz, I just wanna say one thing I find your videos the most comforting out of other youtubers and that's because you
seem like you actually say everything from the heart and you don't sugar coat things, you seem like an older sister
to me and I am grateful for that. Thank you so much
yeeees! she is so sincere ☁️🤍
I copied this and this is just to remember!
~Set daily goals; learn to trust yourself
~Make friends you want to be like; helps you get confident like a mentor
~Take care of your physical appearance; value the way you present yourself, if you don’t like something fix it!
~Stop being to desperate;always be realistic with the way people are(learn it’s okay that peoplethings leave new and better will come
~It’s okay to outgrow people; learn that things can change and that’s normal value your happiness
~Confidence is not loud; it’s about what your aura projects not your words
~Don’t be embarrassed; who are you embarrassed of? Your not the main character of their life
~Body language; shoulders back, chest out good, posture, use hand gestures (helps with trust), open body language!
~Go up to people and talk to them
~Do not except disrespect; set boundaries, don’t let people use you, it’s okay to say no you don’t need a reason
~Show that you value your time so people respect you and are their best version with you
~Do not laugh at your expensive; don’t let anyone disrespect you, don’t take a joke it’s going to turn into what they mean
~Ask people to explain the joke; don’t ever let people disrespect you.
~Be selfish; put yourself first, what is bet for you?
~Know who you are; if you know yourself no one else can tell you who you are( know what you don’t like how you want to be treated start spending time with you self journal)
~Act like your confident; no one will know
~Give yourself compliments; don’t expect them from others
~Start with what you have; your improving a blank canvas create your best self
How do you want to take it?
@@xxire7 Wdym?
@@anandkeshri4382 I want a copy
@@xxire7 take a screenshot and copy text from lens
thank u smm !!
she really inspires me to take more pride in myself, and to change how i percieve myself and how i project myself to others. thank you liz
love ur skins pfp🤭
Her message is the perfect elaboration of what BTS has taught me . Respect and love to her and to BTS 💜💜💜💜
Be SO fr.
@@najlaahassanmohammed9311 Gurl? She's BEING fr. Why do u care about who HER motivator is? BTS helped me through my life too. Why disrespect someone else's opinion? Keep scrolling.
Every time I fall back into my depressive episodes I go watch her literally
Samee I really love her
she can pull all the depression out 💋
Same. It's my third time watching this because right now, I feel like I'm going back to my old self who's insecure about everything, have too much social anxiety and thinks too much about other people's opinion.
Same
REAL
Rewatching her videos is so healing 🧘🏼♀️
Wow, this vid is so powerful, i'm 19 still dealing with "social anxiety", lack of self confidence etc etc.. and it helps so much, like a few years ago i was the most insecure guy and i've been making improvements little by little and i'm doing so much stuff that i couldn't before, just by daring to do little things that are awkward to you and progressively increasing the difficulty you'll be way more confident, and god i still have a long way to go.
GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE BABY! whenever its wearing two different pairs of shoes in public, talking to random strangers or listening to music in your headphones loudly. DO IT. Its gonna get more comfortable EVERY TIME. its called exposure therapy. The best for combating social anxiety ❤️
@@skxii6662 ty
same! I'm 19 too and younger me would kinda be disappointed that I'm still dealing with the same issues but I have to remind myself that life doesn't end at 19..it sort of feels like it just started :)
@@Krisy444 same here!! I was literally reading my younger self’s notes, and it was saying how omg in a week I turn 16 and I’ve done nothing with my life. Being 19 reading that now I’m like 😂😂 girl, you don’t even know the half of it.
That's true, those 3 things play a lot in this type of issues
who is from 2024😅👇👇
Me
🎉me
October 😅🎉
Me
Why are there these comments everywhere? Like bro who is gonna say like “nO iM fRoM 2019” what were u expecting? Like “haha omg your commenting this in this year OMG like this comment right now”
It just so sweet to see that so many people really wants to improve not because someone tell them to but for themselves
Keep fighting y’all
I've been dealing with so much bad energy and low confidence recently to the point that I can not go to my classes at University without a mask. I constantly had to hide myself. I'm in class right now without any mask or even makeup! Idk how she did it but she made me so much more confident. I know it might not be ground breaking but it's a big move for me. Thank you so much! Your channel is the best thing that has happened to me in a very long time ❤️❤️
So proud of you 😚
@@Anitha725-x5v ❤️❤️❤️
You’re doing amazing! Very very proud of you! I hope I can also be like this
@@OnTheBlessedPath I'm sure you'll do great!❤️❤️❤️
you did this yourself you're that amazing
These sessions are like personal therapy for me. I feel as if you're directly talking to me. Thank you so much Liz! May Allah bless you lots and lots for the good that you do.
is she from the middle east?
@@seclow203 i think so she looks arab
May allah bless you with whatever you’re trying to manifest and improve upon your life mashallah
Can we be friends ?
@@seclow203 I think shes from Chechnya
THIS WOMAN IS LITERALLY AMAZING ... GIRL YOU ROCK. ALOT OF LOVE FROM PAKISTAN
Im only 10 minutes in and I already admire this, I genuinely love your advice and mindset. It gives me the motivation to become a better person, thank you so much in behalf of everyone. You’re doing a wonderful thing Liz. I hope you heal from everything and you become more and more happy :)
Thank you Liz! Because of you I gave up smoking forever! And you changed my life
🤯WOW! Liz,This is your best talk yet. You have really opened my eyes to how much I need to reaffirm my boundaries. For the past 33 years of my life I have been playing the role of the "nice girl" and it has NEVER benefitted me. Time to be selfish.😎 Thank you young lady 💕
You kinda remind me of "nurberxo" 💕
I've been suffering with low self-worth for years and I'm grateful for how you take the time to give out advice to those who need it! Sending so much love
1° Set small daily goals and accomplisht them
2° Make friends you want to be like/get mentor
3° Take care of your physical appearance
4° Time means nothing if the situation is not brining you happiness anymore
5° Learn about body language
6° Start conversation with random people
7° Do not laugh at jokes at your own expense
8° In order to be valuable to others we need to value ourselves first
9° Spend time with yourself, journal, get know yourself
10° Start acting like you are already confident
11° Praise yourself everytime you look into the mirror
Tysm❤️
@Naes Galaxy i agree. I disagree with the way she presents to be confident. There is a fine line of being arrogant and confident and in some cases such as the one with the guy not opening the door is wrong. As well as when she doesn't do anything that doesn't benefit you. If you dont sacrifice for others without getting benefited some times then fck it
8:21 I can relate to this so much. I used to be desperate for a parter, for a lover, for someone to take care of me. I know this is a normal human desire but this shouldn't be the center of anyone's life. Now I'm learning how to love myself first before I can spread this love to another human being and that's amazing. I'm happy to be coming out of this phase. This video is gold and I'm so glad I've found your channel!! New subscriber earned for sure.
Liz wow. This intro, was everything I needed to hear. I have been doing the work and on this healing journey for years now, and still it can be like “aren’t you healed yet?”. It takes time and the way you hold yourself in care patience and kindness is a beautiful thing to watch. Thank you for being a model of self care. It is so healing to hear the words you share.
"what you want is more important than what somebody else wants." is so true....
Love that you mentioned meditating, journaling, and reading. These are universal things that over time are guaranteed to help you out but most people don’t do them.
your videos make me wanna get up, get outside and do something with my life. and that's a big compliment coming from someone who deals with anxiety + depression 😂
do it, you can do it, you know that💗.
Same here ..
Person with this level of understanding can't be defeated. Liz is raw and real and honest. I 💯 felt she spoke whatever she has experienced.
it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest
this woman saves me every single time im at low point. whenever i make a decision, her videos pop up in my feed, and affirm them, even though they are scary. you are a hero liz.
I am a psychologist and you are still able to motivate me harder. Very good job Liz, keep going ❤❤❤
I LOVE how Liz affirms she will be the cycle breaker! LOVE IT when someone can be SO honest and so woken. Liz, you are such a blessing. My ex was abused by his mother as a child - she was an addict and awful to him as a kid. He struggled with addiction as an adult and trauma. I could tell he was hurt inside and sometimes, even though he had a loving heart, it would scare me “if” he would be also an abuser. He never “abused” me but he was dealing with intense addiction. I lived with him anxious because I never knew what would “trigger” him. Im happy to see how your life has made you be the voice to sooo many and helping sooooo many recognize their trauma and learn to HEAL! God bless you!
You have definitely changed my mentality and I thank you very much Liz, you have opened my eyes to things that I did not want to see "red flags" and I have watched your videos and now I have become more confident in myself 💗
She is SO real. I thank you so much for this video Liz. I’m currently a very insecure person who has no confidence and lacks boundaries and you’re really helping me sort my sh*t out. You’re so wise. Thank you for your contribution to the world 💐
I'm introvert but I don't depend on friends because I'm completely alone. I go out alone and i do what i want ❤
I admire you!❤
Her content is on another level, and she doesn't even sell anything on her videos like most "guru" youtubers, she's just a really powerful woman sharing plain wisdom gained through experience, it's amazing
(00:00) Intro
(03:45) Set small daily goals and accomplish them
(05:35) Make friends you ant to be like/ get a mentor
(07:27) Take care of your physical appearance
(08:16) Stop attaching yourself to everyone and everything
(10:04) Realise that it’s okay to outgrow people and situations
(11:08) Time means nothing if the situation is not bringing you happiness anymore
(11:39) Confidence is silent
(12:33) Realise that most people are really just interested in their own lives
(13:51) Learn about body language
(15:44) Start conversation with random people
(16:01) Start having boundaries and be firm about them
(18:38) Do not laugh at jokes at your own expense
(20:43) In order to be valuable to others we need to value ourselves first
(22:02) Spend time with yourself, journal, get to know yourself
(23:37) Start acting like you are already confident
(24:17) Praise yourself everytime you look into the mirror
(25:01) Treat yourself as you would treat someone you love
(26:23) Start now with what you have
"I'm litterly going to be the best mom"
"all the love i needed as a child,I'll give my children" ❤
You made me cry😢
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I was just watching your other video on how to create a new version of yourself because I want to become more confident in myself and then I see that you have just uploaded this video with that title. I take this as a sign from the universe that I’m on the right path of becoming the best version of myself! Thank you so much, dear Liz, for all your work and dedication! 🌈✨🕊
She is the most amazing person I’ve ever seen. I relate to her so much, because I’m in the same place where she used to be. I was a very shy, insecure and unconfident person, but lately I started to realise my worth. I was looking for guidance on how to become a better person and I stumbled upon her videos. I have to say, I’ve never felt as motivated to improve myself as I do when I finish watching her videos. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
as a girl who was bullied during half of her life I feel very identified with you, the way you express your traumas and how you go through them day by day really identified me, thank you so much for sharing this content and inspiring people like me to be the best version of themselves :3
I love that she anchors confidence in what you DO. So many people think that confidence is something you’re just born with, or it’s associated with your looks or how many people like you but that’s the FARTHEST from the truth. Confidence is a muscle that requires movement and challenge to be strong. I was never confident until I gave myself reasons to be confident in myself. Sticking to promises I make for myself, not shying away from a goal just because it seems complex and difficult. It’s all in how you treat yourself and what goals you make. Lastly, I think making goals that aren’t just related to your confidence or self improvement is key. If you spend too much time navel gazing and being obsessed with how you’re progressing and being ‘that girl’, you’ll inevitably lose steam. Find a cause you care about and take steps to support it, learn a new language or go to classes (if you can) for a subject you’re passionate about. I’m the most confident when I’m working on my Biology degree- because it takes me outside my self while also making me better in the long term!
i love how eager you are to be the cycle breaker and give your future children the love and nurturing you probably didn’t get. you are such an inspiration, literally love your channel.
I never Imagine myself watching all this 28Minute because I'm kind of person who like to read more than listening to someone. Happy that I watched all this and listen to every single word you said. thank you Liz you are the best many opinion have changed 👏🏻 im a new follower from Saudi Arabia. thanks a lot 💓
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this woman is preventing us from being people pleasers ✨✨✨
Words can never describe how much this girl has helped me lift up my confidence and gave me boost of motivation💌
Thank you so much Liz
i just didn't want this to end, i could literally feel her amazing energy through the screen, it just hyped me up !! sending lots of love and positivity towards your wayyy
Thank you, Liz, this is amazing!! I can totally envision you becoming a life coach with a beautiful office, having a podcast of your own, and helping (quite literally) millions of people. Only up from here for you. And all of us!!!
I'm 73..you remind me of myself when I was young.🎉❤YOU go girl!
This is the best advice about confidence that I recieved in my life.
This really helped, I'm going through a tough time right now.
Thank you so much!
Liz is the friend I needed. She really is inspiring, How I wished I have seen your channel earlier! I really started subscribing and now binge watching-- after I have came across first on your video about "Watch out for these types of “friends”, literally she is very bright and I admired her doing this channel sharing her knowledge and experiences. Thank you so much Liz.
Sameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. Omggggg
Very potent Liz. One point that really resonated with me was the part where you said “ask them why do you think I’m dumb”. Turning the spotlight back on them really makes a difference. I Always enjoy your videos.
she is literally my comfort person. i love her to bits
"People have the right to leave because it's their life" - hits different
The end when she started saying to love yourself gave me chills I instantly felt so beautiful and at my best energy all sweaty and I’m bummy clothes at the gym!! 😂 Love your energy so much!! 💗💗
This is real honest therapy. Better then Better Help. Love this not just sitting in a chair and my therapist is so damn quiet. Words in action are my inpiration. Thanks.
thank you so much liz, i feel like i've really push myself to do what people ask me to. I never have a courage to genuinely defend myself
I LOVE YOU LIZ!! Everyone I asked advice for tried to tell me that I'm being dramatic and my problems didn't matter because people go through worse. Thank you for helping me get back on track after being behind in school + self care after a heartbreak 💖
In my friends group i am the most confident one, and when she said that you should find friends that are confident i felt so proud of my self and who i am, not too long ago i was the most insecure person, and i was bullied sometimes, so proud of how far i've come and i'll continue working on my self and my confidence and support my friends, so proud to be THAT person that people NEED in their lives to be better versions of their self. Thank you Liz❤️❤️
Dear Liz,
I started watching all your videos from the beginning and I am keeping notes, I am trying to become the best version of me and you are really helping me. I wish I had more people in my life like you! Thank you for all your effort in creating this content❤️😊
Last 5 mins of Liz being the happiest was such a bliss ✨✨✨
Thank you so much, Liz. I've been having a hard time trying to become more confident and this video will surely help me just like your other videos🥺❤. I love youu, Liz!💕
this came out of my recommendation, and I could ever be more thankful. it's a blessing that I get to hear all of this today, I'm in a very bad status right now and this is just the right thing I need to hear out. thank you so much Liz! I'm will be better and confident version of myself. ♥️
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Liz, I get bullied just because of my forehead... But because of you I found confidence to defend myself. Thank you so much
Wow that's improvement. Good for you
I get bullied because of my forehead too, but remember us girls with big foreheads are smart
When I started working I started to realize how low my confidence was. And I started to realize it was because I relied on praise and achievements to see my self worth and after working I didn’t have much of that.
So I realized confidence should come from within. Also I started to see that critical judgmental voice in my head was actually my own and no one else’s and people are more accepting of me and my flaws than I am of mine.
you know i never had a friend or somone to tell how i feel or what to do. With you know i can walk confident knowing no one will lower my bounderies. Thank you so much liz❤
Liz your videos poped up at the right time I needed the most. You have a beautiful mind, you remind me so much of myself and my mother. Thank you for your videos ! God bless you !
This really helps!! I listen to you videos while I do skincare, I workout, I cook for my self…while I take care of myself and I really needed this and now I know how much I value and what I deserve.
Thank you so much!!!
I’m so happy I found you!!! I always say “change it!!” So many people play victim card for things they DO have full control over, I have had my hardships and trauma, and have put myself in therapy and worked with coaches for years. Everyday is another opportunity to grow and change our circumstances. Cheers to you and your strength!