Currently finishing the video, but one big lesson from this is, “If you need to talk to someone talk to a tree!”😂 I love that! Be very cautious who you share with!
It’s so weird how I totally over share and get hated on and look a lot like her like we could totally be sisters and so if I really expressed my confidence I would be hated even worse than I am now, so I don’t get it how she doesn’t have 1 million haters I’m hanging clearly around all the wrong people lol!
@@hold.on9 I was oblivious to the whole hater thing for a good majority of my life. I just don’t think that way like I want everybody to be happy and do well in life and there was never anybody who I was jealous of or felt “less than“ so I never took into consideration that anybody would feel that way about me. I just don’t understand what causes that. It’s sad because it ruins friendships but I guess you’re right now that I understand.
i get the whole pretty privelege thing here but she is 100% right about the whole energy thing. There are good looking people who are simply boring and not magnetic asff and then there are not so conventionally attractive people who are magnetic and fun to be around simply because they understand their worth as a person and love themselves. Ofcourse, beauty plays a very important role but it boils down to nothing with the lack of self-respect and self-worth.
Oh pretty privileged, but a face caked in make-up! We all look good with make-up on. Just look at some of the tutorials on here! Yes some so-called unattractive people are magnetic, others no so.
The fact that she doesn't care about the hate comments and doesn't filter them out or delete them is simply badass. Those commenters are fighting with a wall
Not trying to be negative at all but not going to lie, I always cringe when I hear people say this because I believe beauty is subjective. Just because your beautiful to some people and some other people don’t find you beautiful doesn’t make you one thing. I think everyone is beautiful to someone so every person should feel good about themselves. No one is ugly.
@@CajunBoyJake but In that case if everyone should feel good about themselves I think it’s valid for her to speak positively about herself as should everyone you know :)
@@tashapatino1663 I just find the part when she says “We’re are not going to act like that’s not true” cringy. As if that’s a hard fact. Personally, I don’t think she “looks good”, so to me, it’s not true but I don’t (nor does any other human) decide who “looks good”. I can only tell you who looks good, from my perspective. Like I can’t tell you that you have to find me attractive, because I am, ya know?
@@CajunBoyJake there are some basic, universal standards of beauty and she hits them. you're talking about your personal preferences of attractiveness but you can still tell when someone, objectively, looks good even if they aren't personally attractive to you. she's objectively beautiful. there is no point in her pretending otherwise. It's cringy to be like "omg im so ugly omg im not that pretty" when you are.
@@CajunBoyJake It's okay if It's cringy for you, but that's not a fact, that's just how you feel because you wouldnt be as much confidente as her. 🤷🏻♀️ And, what about that? Like, honestly, why are you trying to drag down someone else selfconcept dude.
you can't tell me it's all because of her looks when gorgeous people like khloe kardashian, behati prinsloo and victoria beckham get cheated on and still take their partners back. of course she is pretty but so are a million other people. her whole point is beauty without the right energy is meaningless. beauty gets you initial attention but it gets boring pretty quickly and people won't hold on to you if there's nothing more to you past your appearance; you'll be treated like a picture on the wall-pretty to look at, but nothing more. love you liz
“I’m the cycle breaker” TODAY I was saying this about myself to my therapist. Whew!!!! This is SO powerful. I think that is the most powerful motivator for success.
I am so happy you exist. Your presence is so healing. When i feel unstable, lost, and depressed, I watch ur vids and i feel understood, seen, and grounded. I can be calm! Thank u for being amazing. I wish the best for u and anyone else reading this. ❤
Pretty privilege. Look, I simply love the fact that she takes time to make videos to try to help people to feel more like her and be treated like her, i think its amazing, with that being said we simply CANNOT dismiss something as real as pretty privilege in the world that we live in, its just not realistic
@@rose9266x Sure it's not impossible to have people be obsessed with you even if you're not "one of the prettiest people in the world". But it's also facts that pretty privilege exists and more initial impressions are based off looks and mannerisms, especially the scenarios that she was talking about in the beginning where people are like "you've put a spell on us" or "you're so mesmerizing".
@@rose9266x lol you said you were ugly so we agree with you , do you think we are gonna make you feel better about yourself by saying :"no dont say that you are beautiful ", well no if you say you are ugly than you are honey lol
@@rose9266x they said even "if" and in quotation marks as in not their words, "not the prettiest person". Nobody can tell if you're ugly or not, so they have to take your word for it 😂
You can't imagine how much your videos helped me girl. I will be eternally grateful for what you have done even in my 80s i will remember you cause you literally saved me. I have been through so much shit in life like you won't imagine and people like you are the proof that we can rise and build an amazing future no matter how dark is our present. I'm still struggling but mentally ur videos are really helpful. Best wishes. ❤
No, thats secondary.It's about her energy and mindset I knew beautiful woman , which had low energy and semi good looking girls which are surrounded and attracted by great people, cause the frequencies are high 💕💕💕🌟
@Annie where you goo Agreed! Some of the most beautiful women I know are the most insecure, then I see not so attractive women with amazing energy and everyone is obsessed with them. It's more about the energy than the looks. Even I notice a difference in the way people act around me when I'm vibrating high versus low energy!
@@gracewoolfolk2194 Yes 💕 The lower the energy , the more complicated the life .Thats the wonderful thing in life , you have much more in your hand that you think. ✨
Having people obsessing over you is definitely a blessing in terms of boosting your ego and a curse, mostly a curse. They become overly attached to you since you are a reflection of what they long for. From what Liz described, she definitely made it sound so cool to be obsessed with in terms of the qualities that make people obsess over you in the first place, but it's not fun when people actually start obsessing over you, especially if you are someone who values their space, like Liz herself. You feel me?
@@Halo4beatsB02 do you know her in real life or you only see her on TH-cam like me? If you've actually been around Liz, then I'd understand your point.
@@lindokuhleshandu4024 if I were to give you an example of someone charming, think of tyrion lannister from game of thrones. Someone with humor, quick wit, but with humility and empathy and somewhat unsolipistic.
i think it's important to know that being a physically attractive person is proven to open more avenues for you than being a non attractive person, no matter how outgoing you are. some unattractive people may have a better shot by being charismatic and outgoing, so it's always good to take care of yourself and be your best anyway. as a disabled person who uses a wheelchair, i've always had to deal with stereotypes ever since i was a young child of people saying that i'm too "different" or too needy to be in a relationship with. no amount of being "confident" has suddenly made these people see me as a potential partner. however, if you lower your expectations for what you set your happiness on, your quality of life becomes better. being desperate is not only unattractive but also unhealthy. it will make your life miserable if you tell yourself every day that you're hopeless. that's why it's good to find joy in the unconventional things in life and to put your best self forward. after giving up on conventional methods of dating, i met my current boyfriend and have been with him for over five years. he's my best friend and sees the world the same way i do. sometimes you realize that there's nothing wrong with what you want. sometimes there's something just wrong with what you're doing to get it.
Thanks for sharing your story. I've seen a few videos about pretty privelege and as someone who is seen as conventionally attractive I find pretty privelege to be very real. I see the difference in treatment between me and my friends and colleagues in real life. Especially men treat you a certain way based on your looks. I know the most kindest and outgoing bubbly people but others don't want to hang out with them because they don't find them attractive. Sadly that's how it works. I'm glad you have found someone who was able to look beyond your disability and see your true beauty. Much luck to you ❤️😃!
Thanks really for sharing ur story❤but I see that sometimes at least as my exprrience, pretty looks give the exact opposite reaction that you have mentioned, like alot of haters and alot of people who focuse on your small details to critisize and make them big deal like( omg girl you have small lines on your forehead) ,or you look so pale without makeup)😂😅 and stuff like that like it is crazy how they see you attractive and at the same time they want to make sure you feel the opposite
As much as I love your videos , I think it begins with pretty privilege. Of course that's not all , but I think we can't ignore social realities. Energy are a thing and I Believe yours attracts ppl and you have good vibes bc you constantly work on yourself Liz that's admirable. But the first part about the mesmerizing is purely pretty privilege first and you were benefiting from it ...
Anyone can benefit from it with a good lifestyle which she understood and put in the work to have that “pretty privilege” What is beautiful is attractive and anybody can become beautiful with the good lifestyle
@@cosmicboy7188 disagree. You can’t ignore the problems that society puts us in. And you are proving my point , why working hard to deserve other ppl attention / get beauty privilege ? Can’t we be authentic self without involving physical aspects. Since I’m a subscriber for Liz, according to her older vids , ofc she worked hard and changed her mental state. But she also said that she was always considered beautiful. So yeah, pretty privilege is something you already have or chase for it , that has nothing to do with energies in the first place
@The_Audacity who said the opposite ? Y’all are not even aware of the world where you live. There’s social realities that are STUDIED. Yes. Your physical aspect can ATTRACT people more easily. Not necessarily make them stay. You are simply obsessed with assumption on us , about low self esteem while I’m being more impartial and not biased by anything such as insecurities that I could carry. Open a book and learn about social science , HERE we like factual things and WORK WITH FACTS and STUDIES ONLY.
liz i just wanna say that watching your videos has helped me so much. i have terrible social anxiety and chronic overthinking that leads me to spend hours to days thinking about peoples perceptions of me. i was so tired of my mind being filled with things that didn’t even concern myself so i went to ur channel. after watching ur videos i just felt this sort of calm in my mind. it’s like you took my thoughts and beat them up so they couldn’t take up my mind anymore. the way u go about life is so inspiring and i make an effort everyday to live for myself and who i am because of u, thank u!🫶🏽
jesus christ please do not look to this person for help with social anxiety holy fuck, that is the worst possibler thing you could do are you serious? all this girl will do is make you just as delusional and egotistical, which in turn will ruin yor social life as it did hers
@@xHollow. "anxiety" ? I'm not sure if it was your intention to sound condescending but if it was anxiety is a real and very hard mental illness to live with, you don't know anything about this person's life especially from a TH-cam comment so stop assuming and get on with yours because if you have that much time to dictate how their own life is or what they don't or do struggle with is it must be pretty sad. Also while you're at it think about how your words affect other people, keep in mind if you want people to treat you with respect, you'll have to respect them too.
@@Mary-gc7tx Every single person i’ve talked to and 99% of the females ive spoken to claim they have terrible anxiety but are really chill with a lot of people like there siblings type of friendships. i was genuinely happy for the person even little anxiety can be hard to deal with. Also i dont mean to sound rude but i personally dont care about respect if i see fakeness let alone especially if its coming from a youtube comment no offense my views are my views just like how your judging me on how im a terrible person while misunderstanding what i wrote and not knowing a thing about me either. Also i made like 5 or 6 replies throughout this entire comment section and went on with my life im chilling though thanks for the concern 👍
One thing I want to emphasize on that if you take yourself seriously and give so much importance to yourself, others will do the same for you. ALSO DO NOT CHASE PEOPLE. Let them do the chasing and of course that doesn’t mean you neglect them. I used to chase people and care about them more than I cared about myself. Now I don’t do that and people are so obsessed with me. It honestly scared me at first but now I’m like well if you wanna do that you can, it’s not my business. If I don’t like you and you don’t benefit me anyway then I don’t want you in my life. I don’t have free time to waste. How I am right now took me years of pain and lessons. It didn’t just come to me out of nowhere and I have been doing more for myself a lot now. I believe that everyone can do it too. Please learn to love yourself even if it takes a long time.
The fact that all your videos are blowing up and you’re ACTUALLY gaining positive things from this, really shows that what you’re preaching is not bullshit 💯 sounds like u just have to believe in urself and learn attraction y’all! 🕺🏾
To everyone saying “well of course people obsess with you, you’re beautiful.” Yes to some degree it’s true. But also not. I’m not someone who fits traditional beauty standards (and I was honestly not pretty growing up). However, one day I decided that I am hot, I am now my beauty standard and I am attractive. Everything changed, I physically started looking better. People always treat me kindly and are attracted to my energy. This is not to flex but to point out that, It’s up to you. Your energy, how you walk into a room, your self concept is what makes people attracted to you. You can also literally manifest your looks. You can manifest being attractive. You really can.
The only way to “manifest” a change in your look is by working out and eating healthy, plus taking better care of your skin and hair. You can’t change your body only by telling yourself in your mind.
I agree. I became attractive once I convinced myself that I am. When I was this shy kid, hiding my face and being all awkward no one complimented me. And once I was like "you know what, no, I'm hot just the way I am despite my "flaws" " I started to feel better and the confidence reflected on the outside and people would literally compliment me all the time randomly. I'm a shorter guy, but after I became more confident some girls assumed I'm way taller than I am, I'm not even joking. It was very strange. Like "How tall are you, around 180?" and I was like "Bruh I'm 173 what are you on, you're like an inch shorter than me." But it's important to be humble because in the end of the day no one is "better" than anyone else. We're different; be humble without pushing yourself down or too high. And work with the good features you have, work-out, sleep, take care of your skin (less is more!) but that's it. edit: I had heavy body dysmorphia as well for multiple months but I REALLY worked on it, features I now find the hottest were before my biggest insecurity
I agree with you. I know a girl who is literally the prettiest girl who I was ever around with, but her personality, the way she behaves and talks is so unattractive (because of her negative energy and low-level personality) that I dont really want to interact with her.
So many gems in this video, the way you speak, behave, and think is truly indicative of the level of class and elegance you possess, I’m so grateful to have found your channel
I was in a huge depressive slump for the past few weeks since school started, but I found your videos and it motivated me to get my life together, and be real with myself. I had been advoiding the truth about my eating disorder and how school stresses me out, but I am now ready to face it and happier than ever 💕🙏
@@riyak9102 don't worry, if they don't want you, you don't need them. Cut them out, because if you're staying with htem you're telling yourself that you will never be good enough for quality friends. Treat yourself with luxury, not slander and abuse
i just want to say, im so proud of you !! you got this, i know how it is, i have an ED too. i have my episodes constantly, and i only recently started getting myself together and i can say it has not been easy. it takes so much strength to face these things that taunt and eat away at us so im really so proud of you !!
i'm so glad i keep seeing your videos in my reccomendations, like i used to skip over it bcs my attention span is awful but after watching one of your vids, it literally only felt like 5 minutes but it changed my mindset completely. i've been having a terrible month then i remembered your videos exist and no joke, about 2 minutes into the video and i already feel a lot better. you tell me what i have to hear and not what i want to hear, and it's just so real fr. i don't think i can ever thank you enough for your videos honestly
i remember watching this video for the first time and how i thought she was wrong and its just her pretty privilege and i also thought that it would not happened to me even if i do those thing cuz i was very insecure back then. now that i am working on myself and building my confidence . i dont feel that anymore. i just could not see her loving herself bkuz i could not doing that with myself. a true confident person will never feel threaten by someone else confidence
I like how Andrew Tate gets praised and looked up to by millions of young men while a young pretty woman gets trashed for putting herself first. Epitome of bias.
Stacy wake up? Tate received a lot of hate but also receive some support, like what you do to Thewizardliz. The situation is the same. Epitome of paranoia.
I think this is what Dr. K referred to as "Aphrodite energy" in one of his videos. Some women just can't stop attracting people, whether they mean to or not. It's almost as if they emanate some kind of aura that pretty much everyone, whether they're male or female, simply can't resist.
"aphrodite energy", that shit dont exist. only thing that attracts men is a bad bitch. if she was 10x uglier all this talk wouldnt give her any dick. woman cant talk their way into dick, U JUST CANT. I talk my way into pussy, cuz im a man, is what i do. honest to god, woman need guidance, this shorty, i fuck with her message, somehow i feel she is arrogant with it, i may be mistaken. i think she has good messages, just dont fucking idolize her, she dont deserve it no one does exceptyour parents if they desvered it. honest to god, what she says is cool, just its goofy so many woman needed to hear this, it makes this actually goofy. weak woman, "weak woman", no just lacks a lil bit of character, nothing bad with that. but woman lack character cuz they dad lacked it, also perhaps their mom.
I remember first watching you when I was depressed and I used to see you as a mentor but as I’ve grown as a person I’ve began to see almost as a friend and listening to you feels a lot more genuine and human in a sense. Much blessings are coming your way and you might already have them but never forget that Liz because you absolutely deserve the world!🤩☺️
Finally found a channel that resonate with my mind set 🥳 literally everyone around me try to make me feel bad for it & say I think they world owe me something in a negative way! Thank you Liz ❤
I can assure you people aren't in awe of energy, they just notice you because of your physical beauty. Human beings judge each other's physical appearance first, wether it's consciously or subconsciously. I'm not saying you don't have a great personality (I don't know you), but I'm simply saying people don't notice your personality first people notice you because you're physically beautiful.
I mean I guess so, but being pretty can’t do shit when a person has a terrible personality. Its demeanor that makes people obsessed. Being pretty doesn’t solve life problems.
There are a lot of beautiful people in the world, and I am sure they are not all treated the same. I have witnessed energy really draw people in and make them really alter the way that person looks in their mind, or that it only matters second to their bubbly personality. I like to observe what makes people tick, I think good looks and people oriented personality is the key to popularity.
These comments are honestly lame. Yes she's beautiful but she's also gotten comments saying the complete opposite because not everyone has the same taste and also, not all conventionally attractive people command the same responses from others. Pretty privilege is real but using it to disregard everything she's saying as if all attractive people are living the same life is short sighted and comes off bitter/insecure that this person "has it easy" but wants it to seem like it's something else when, it IS more than just her physical beauty. I've seen many pretty people with forgettable personalities and what did I do after? Forgot about them. That is clearly not the case for her on average and you can see as much in the fact that her content is quite literally her talking to the camera and saying what she thinks. Does every pretty girl on youtube have a million subscribers based on that formula? No. You all can keep denying the truth but energy doesn't lie. It's also the reason that conventionally "unattractive" people can also command lots of attention and amass popularity. Again, energy doesn't lie.
I've never seen (or rarely) a person talking a lot about their good sides with so much authenticity and true honest visible happiness and not with fear or being like toxic or fake about these statements ❤️ily Liz, much respect to you
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I'm surprised about how she praises herself so much. I really want to learn this skill. Even though I know that I am good enough at everything, still there is the feeling of not deserving it.
The fact that Elvis was extremely handsome didn’t hurt either. He was also talented and a deep passion for his craft, but would not have been idolized in the way he was without his looks
There are some comments misunderstanding, but I totally get what you mean by “obsessed” with you. It’s not about looks. If you’re just ‘beautiful’ or ‘hot’, not everyone would want to be with you, or not everyone will be mesmerized by you. There are girls at my school who are so pretty and live up to Eurocentric beauty standards, but people are not mesmerized by them because of what energy they give off. It always depends on what you look for in life, if you put your energy towards good things and live up for yourself (also what she said in the video) people will be more into you. When attractive comes in, if you take care of your body, your skin, hair, hygiene, etc. you’ll be attractive, no matter what skin color or feature you have. It’s about living for yourself.
@@robdog114 She's very pretty, yeah. But that's not what the video was about. Some may not find her miss universal. Some might not find Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Aniston beautiful. That's why looks don't come into the picture a lot of the time.
@@robdog114 that's not true, maybe for you she is, but then it depends on everyone's type, for me I don't find her that pretty but I won't say she's ugly or not attractive, she is absolutely beautiful she's just not my type
Hey, pretty privelige is totally a real thing. Saying that her mindset and "energy" is the reason people treat her the way they treat her is delusional. Shes not a bad person for having that privilege, but she does. There is no way her videos would have been pushed by the algorith if it where not for her looks. Imagine a teenage boy who isn't convetional good looking would have made the same video. It would be pathetic. Imagine a 20 year old guy saying that he gets girls obsessed with him, with his mindset. Sounds kinda like a psychopath.
2:42 Being physically attractive serves a huge advantage to make people feel that way towards you. I wonder if this will work for average looking people?
I wonder if people will still be obsessed with her if she is 300lbs? 🤔. Not trying to put her character down, but I agree with M’adame that physical beauty can give a person huge leverage.
I can give you examples of many people in my life who might not have pretty privilege or an appealing appearance...but their energy, confidence and charisma attracts people. You can even see it in many celebrities who are not considered "good looking" based on society standards but they're super loved and respected
I'm "obsessed" with you in healthiest way possible. Your content is speaks volumes to how far you've come and your sharing your knowledge to help others. "Beautiful" 💙
I can conform this, coz it’s just been 10 days since I have started watching her and Iam literally obsessed with her, the energy and aura this woman carries us something else. I found her on my most crucial period and I am thankful that I found her. Thankyou liz for everything ❤️
I like her and messages she is giving to love oneself value one self out of everyone and etcss but sometimes she sounds really selfish rude and self-centered It just doesn't seem right to me. Is it just me?? 🙄
nah i think people these days just aren't used to seeing others who are confident, and genuinely content with themselves. So when she says stuff about how great she is, it comes across as selfish. But self-love and true confidence is rare and important and easily misinterpreted.
It’s what I keep saying to warn people , she’s not a narc but she has huge tendencies , and indeed if she was condescending on weak people they might develop an unhealthy obsession. I knew a person exactly like that who would littéraly use and abuse people with her charm ( think amber head as an extreme exemple ) Liz isn’t a bad person she’s not selfish but obviously she has a long way to go in her communication
1) she seems like a good person. Genuinely wants to help others, able to admit when she was wrong about something, pushes herself to grow as a person 2) making a mental connection between “people get obsessed with me” and “that means I’m an especially good person with an especially high vibration” is not only incorrect, but also a very damaging mindset to have. Consciously or subconsciously wanting people to become obsessed with you because it’s a form of validation puts some of your perceived self worth into the hands of other peoples’ reactions to you. 3) people get obsessed with others for a couple reasons, the largest and by far most common one being physical attractiveness. If you’re young and pretty, it’s very common to have people that get obsessed with you and even stalkers, especially if you’re public facing a lot (like having a job as a bartender/waitress) I’ve had many ppl get obsessed with me as have most of the women I know, it’s not a rare thing (and the line about “buying whatever you’re selling” from customers who are men is a common half-joke that most attractive women who work in food service have heard before) I’m not saying personality has NOTHING to do with whether people become obsessed/stay obsessed with you, but looks have a lot more to do with it than she seems to realize. Especially if they’re strangers, see you as a potential romantic partner, or are random customers at your job Some other reasons besides beauty ppl may become obsessed that have nothing to do with how high your vibration is: you have social capital, they’re insecure and need someone to latch onto and you’re the closest person to them to do that with, you’re a people pleaser and unconsciously tell people exactly what they want to hear which ends up with people who already find you attractive projecting their ideal partner onto you and thinking that you’re they’re soulmate (I’m guilty of being a people pleaser, been trying to work on it) 4) You can and should be confident and secure without having delusions of grandeur. Real confidence lives in the naked honest truth, and the truth is it’s not a rare thing for a physically beautiful person to have many people be obsessed with them throughout their life. Having people be obsessed with you isn’t something to strive toward or even necessarily be proud of, because it usually doesn’t actually have much to do with you. This isn’t meant to be critical or tear anyone down. It’s just the harsh truth, which I hope fans of this nice girl can appreciate
If you don't think she is getting attention just because she is pretty, imagine her being average saying the same things or look away as you listen, if she wasn't so good looking, no one would care, she has said nothing new. Plus people just click on the video because the whole idea of people just being obsessed with you is seductive and they want to live through Liz vicariously by watching the video and hearing her experiences.
Oh my gosh imagine her kids with this mom like they dont need anything else she's solid concrete imagine all the things they would learn from her like youre gonna be a great mom Liz 💗
Liz you are literally the only person i go to for advise! since I started watching your videos I feel more motivated and stronger! so yeah thank youuuu
I relate to this. I always get told by people that I have a presence when I walk into a space, and I captivate peoples attention through my energy and words. People love to spend time with me and want me in their lives a lot. It can be tiring for me at times cause I need to find someone who can bring that energy to me as much as I do for them. You are that person Liz. 🎉❤
Stop being friends with such ppl! If something’s off, usually there is a solid reason for that. Distance yourself from friends who drain your energy. Also from ppl who are toxic in any way. Jealousy is mostly a major reason why friendships between girls ain’t that good! On your face, ppl are the sweetest but in the hearts lie a lot of hatred. Hope this helps n answers your question. ♥️
I love how she didn't delete the hate comments. edit: I'm literally talking about the hate comments Im aware that hate =/= constructive criticism and I'm not talking about those who are criticising her.
I don’t know if we’re talking about the same comments, but people calling out her pretty Privilege are not wrong. The ones I’ve seen haven’t even been hateful, just honest. This video is kinda bs and whilst her other videos are amazing and informative, it’s ok to criticise someone who generally gives good advice.
@@maria-212 she actually didn't denied that her beauty plays a role and she was honest about that, I don't get why people are being hateful and calling her names and stuff down the comments when she clearly mentioned that.
@@cobra9983 the point is, most of her charm comes from her beauty. You can believe what you want but people will always be drawn to her MAINLY because of her prettiness, not 'energy'
The looking good part and being young is like 75 percent of the power you have. This will change with age, the energy will fade and the looks that you once got will be father and fewer between. So make your money now, take full advantage of it. Nobody told me how important that youthful power I had was so important. I squandered it and took it for granted. It is a betrayal from society, that pretty girls must face later in life.
Didn't feel the high vibe but love the honesty. Like watching you I don't think I'd be obsessed nor interested but I like the confidence, the courage to post it, and some of the message even if some point seem fake (for example, being in a relationship with someone so obsessed is literally toxic). Overall a cool video tho, good job 🙌
People mad in the comments are the same people who don’t do ANYTHING to better themselves. Sure she attractive: SHE WORKED FOR IT. She goes to the gym, has a diet… try to put effort and you’ll be certainly more attractive too. Don’t be jelly
She's not that good looking when you take away all of the plastic. She only looks "good" in a room full of average looking people. In a group of Victoria Secret models, no one would give her a second look.
honestly this is the only video of Liz with which I can connect with myself. The every point she said, referred everything is so relatable with me. I knew people were obsessed, I knew few reasons why and here girl listed every points briefly.
you dont have to agree with everything liz says, you dont have to follow all her advices like its sacred. When you listen or read to gurus, you must think for yourself too. Take what you need and resonates, and leave what you dont. Or adapt it to your reality. I can agree with Liz in many things, and actually she has helped me a lot; that doesnt mean i have to do everything like her, be or act the same way.
This video randomly played but I resonate very well with your mindset so I actually watched the whole vid. There are not a lot of people with true confidence in the world.
iam still trying and trying to heal and fix my self to be the best version of me, i want to come back here and thank to this woman and me because of what we did.
this is the biggest achievement i want to made cause it was hard to deal with it if you have toxic parents and always draining me at my young age, i was really obsessed becoming mentally unstable for my future self
I truly believe what she says is true, I experienced this in my own life. I was once really insecure in my own skin even though a lot of people tried to convince me that I am over the average and really beautiful. I was also really attached to relationships and to other people in general, and I never got the same energy back so trapped myself into the victim mode and that, for many years where I asked myself the exact same questions over and over again:"why do people never want to hang out with me? Why can't I be as popular as xyz?" till I learned about spirituality and the concept about "I don't chase I attract'. Till then, my life really changed in a few aspects like for example friends, family, love interest etc. I have a few friends who truly respect me and want to hang out with me even though I don't really care if we will continue being friends forever, it's not like I don't like them, I really do, but I don't put the friendship on a pedestal anymore. Same thing with family. I have a lot of love interest now. I am still working on my negative believes, but I will just say the least, it's worth it and how other people treat you has not just something to do with your looks.
@@tw69ad i think part of it has to do with her looks, i am not going to doubt that, but the main reason why people get "obsessed" with her are the point's she explained in the video.
Aight. I'm seeing some "eye-roll vibe" comments about Liz's energy talk simply because the fact that she is beautiful. Okay, we're not going to lie. She is. It plays a role. But I'm proof that is true, because I witnessed it. Read this " *Look* ...uh, not trying to throw sand at the obvious - she is beautiful and that counts -, but there is truth to what she is saying. Some people, they might not even be your type or that good looking, but THE ENERGY!! My sis, I do not lie to youuuu. At my previous job (which I quit, Glory to God - literally) I was a lab technician for Covid tests, attended, collected samples, blablabla; one time this guy came for testing. I'm telling you, I've seen better looking and better attractive-perfume guys entering, BUT NONE OF THEM HAD HIS ENERGY! I was like!! What is this witchcraft?!! IT's a demon?!!! Sis, facts are facts but Liz is not lying, the energy, allure, whatever thingy is true. It's like that guy had a vortex or magnet pulling me to him. Cray-zy. I'm thankful I had a mask on or I'd look stupid." This happened to me, I wrote this. It's true. It's real, get over it. You're right about Liz, but Liz isn't wrong either.
@Vanja Lo Yeah like in one of her videos she said she was a people pleaser and also she's been depressed for 2 years, she is only 23 years old now I wonder how did she get out of depression in such a short time and became so magnetic-energetic that people were obsessed with her. I love Liz and her content but I am super confused
@Vanja Lo I think the "brand" is her yt channel because she once said that her dream job was to be a successful youtuber. Btw she talks about her mother being nicest woman ever but she also mentioned that she had an abusive childhood. Why didn't her mother stop her from being psychologically and physically abused? Why she didn't protect her daughter if she's a literal earth angel
It plays a role? It just...plays a role? No, its the only thing she has. These type of women are super narcissistic and I envy people who are able to tolerate their repulsiveness. She is literally telling me that I can manifest being the most attractive guy while I am not even tall enough to be considered into conversation for that sort of thing. I cant believe how many people fall for this stuff, this does not fking work if you are not outstandingly pretty.
@@naughtiousmaximus7853 Excuse me, but I didn't hear her say that you can manifest being the most attractive guy or girl. I did not hear that AT ALL. What I did hear is what SHE THINKS made people attracted, "obsessed" to her. This is just some pointers that she finds important. And guess what, some things she said won't apply to me because ... I'm not that special or try hard to socialize with people, and that's okay. Although I am pretty, I know that Liz is on a upper level, and to me that is alright, because finally, literally Thank God, I like myself. So, please, pleasee.. like yourself too. I didn't get a narcissistic vibe from her although it was a bit awkward seeing her talking highly of herself. But you know what? Why? Why is strange for us to hear her talk so highly of herself? In my case, I can explain it: I've never talked that highly of myself, never had people talk that highly of myself self constantly, was told pretty negative stuff when I was growing up, self doubt, wanting to be white to feel more attractive, to get attention, being jealous of men because maybe if I was a man I'd feel more power or safe or with more respect, opportunities, I don't know. But is it wrong to say good stuff about yourself, to say that you're smart, pretty, beautiful, and also, this is her channel, she can talk whatever she wants,even fart. So like yourself a little more and no, i'm not being delusional, i know i'm not going to be pretty for everyone, smart enough, cool enough for a lot of people. SO. WHAT. God, Jesus Christ loves me, died for me and has given me and continues to give me the highest validation, AND I'm beautiful, intelligent, goofy in a good way). Wasn't easy, but I'm here. He got me here. Like yourself a little bit more. You're not a narcissist for pointing out the good things in you. Also, pretty can only get your so far, BUT you're right, it's important. IF YOU got this far, check out Brae's channels. BRAE and see his before and after. He's a good dude, and I hope his looks, mental evolution, give you determination.
Hi Liz, I was wondering if you could do a video on where to find good friends for you. I really appreciate my current friends, but I want to find people with goals and plans for the future, so that we can work towards those goals together. Thanks, you are such a great role model!
I used to be in these situations in high school, then I had to think deeply about why. I realised perhaps I was making the wrong friends, boyfriends etc. I was gravitating towards individuals who were insecure or gloated about me, subconsciously it made me feel good. When I stopped and started creating meaningful relationships, all that changed. I no longer need that validation, so I am no longer in predicaments like this.
i hate doing my school work, but when i put on a video of liz & listen too her talkin abt bettering ourselves it helps me fllllly through my work. it’s amazing, this woman gives m motivation & dedication through anything
@@yupyup1435 she’s not a confident woman. If anything she is the opposite. People usually big themselves like she is doing because deep down they feel the need to feel superior because they either have some of personality disorder or deep down they dislike themselves. For you to admire narcissistic qualities you probably are the same.
This is refreshing. I've had occasional times in my life where I've had people get obsessed with me. Usually it is people who are lower energy too. Like moths to a flame. I can't always maintain that enthusiastic energy but it's a major aspect of my personality and I realize its raw magnetism. I think it's made me more introverted because I've drawn some crappy people into my life as a result. It's a unique dynamic if you've experienced it. What really blows my mind about this, is that you're the only person that I know of who believes that expectations lead to disappointment. I use to say that a lot but basically everyone was uncomfortable with that idea... but it's absolutely true. The better way is to hope rather than expect. Putting expectations is rather rude in a relationship and signals a sense of someone treating the other like property. Imagine being told *I EXPECT YOU TO DO THIS OR THAT* ?? Hope is better than expectations. You're obviously highly magnetic for a few reasons beyond physical appearance. Add classy and intellectual, so you're a triple threat! 😏
The video I never knew I truly needed! Thanks queen for sharing your confidence, and wisdom. You are a blessing. Beautiful inside and out and that is truly why people take to you.
People in this comment section still need to work on their limiting beliefs & their mindset. The things she’s saying doesn’t only work for attractive people. There’s plenty of people who do not fit the standards of what is beautiful, yet people are still obsessed with them… plenty of women who also do not fit the standards yet are treated better in their relationships than any "attractive woman". Confidence, mindset and having the right energy will take you far.
Her fault for choosing a shallow example in the beginning of the video. Talking bout strangers being obsessed with her after looking at her once, that’s literally because of her looks not energy. If she talks about how her friends likes to hang out with her a lot then it makes sense to say it’s because of her energy.
@@emmarose7491 Girl please.. her confidence triggered you guy’s insecurities which is why y’all are trying to invalidate her message by saying that it is just bc of her looks. She replied to comments saying that she wasn’t only talking about that she was talking about people who stayed in her life for a long time, people do not stick around just bc you’re cute.
@The_Audacity Insecure people rarely learn, it’s easier to believe that something isn’t possible than believing it’s possible and making the necessary changes. A lot of these people will remain exactly where they are.
.i have suffered Obsession that she said in beginning..also she said her mother said that to be parasites..why would u want such parasites and shallow retards comes in your vicinity just coz u have some power to attract people and appeal one..i really donno..as was a sufferer of Obsession...people wanting to be part of my life...i had bad repurcussion..and there are many many things to bring in table ...it's called your empathy,love.. helpfulness your ideas..people ll get latched on to you or attracted to you..her perception or judgement seems solely on looks..looks are gifted..u can either born ugly average or beautiful..but it's important you inculcate good values things and skills that is important than anything..
@@emmarose7491 forget .she is insecure ..so much fillers in lips already...looking beautiful.. gaining confidence and than wat happens one grows old..they can become ugly as possum..and that's where thes people ll cry and become a desparate measure to colour their lonesome lives
“ I had women come up to me and were like, my husband finds you mesmerizing” JFC this lady is egocentric and narcissistic af 😂 No self respecting wife will come up to you and say that. No less, no husband is stupid enough to express that to his wife.
I think you’re completely wrong. I’m married and I am like you said "a wife with self respect". Self-respect is about knowing your own worth and also having good and true conversations with whom you relate. I’ve always had this kind of conversation with my husband. Many people are not in the habit of being honest, but that doesn’t mean they don’t think about the beauty of a stranger on the street. There is also the issue that finding someone mesmerizing will not automatically make you jump on that person’s lap. It’s not the fact that you bring to a conversation what you really think “prevents you from doing something” but your commitment to who you relate to. A lot of people don't say what they think and yet betray their companions.
I have seen this happen with my sister, married ladies have come up to her and said, “my husband and I find you absolutely beautiful” so I believe it 😅
You have no idea how important this video came at this time for me. I was doing much more reflection (must be the retrogrades) and I seem to attract jealous friends or people. I don’t flaunt anything or brag (if anything I’m the opposite and need to change that and start owning myself). Anyhoo, I was told that the pure hearted are unfortunately the target of narcissists. They want to radiate that energy, try to emulate it but can’t and will pull you down to being themselves up and passively hate you in front of you face. I learned to detach completely and it’s a life changer. Ignorance is truly bliss. Detachment is everything. So underrated
I can relate so much to this video, people have always told me that I have a vibrant energy and I didn't know how until now and this is such a confidence boost
This is the first time i have ever left a comment on a video, but i couldn't help but say that i was so shook that most of the things u said are the definition of me, there is literally sentences in that video that i exactly said years ago, for me this wasn't advice this was a confirmation that i wasn't crazy im on the right path and there is at least someone like me out there even tho its miles and miles away. Hope we can meet one day because the benefits of it would be unbelievable.
I agree that it’s a good thing to be a bit detached and to base your value on yourself and not others, however I don’t believe we are born and die completely alone. The nurses that delivered you, the doctors treating you, the builders that put up the hospital all helped in some way. It’s not personal help (they aren’t your best friend) but general human compassion and connection. ❤
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It’s probably because you are very beautiful and yeah are also confident or have a nice energy like you say. People tend to put beautiful people on a popularity pedestal for some reason and and apply all sorts of other positive character traits to it. You see it with celebrity culture people are obsessed with beautiful unique people and want to be like them. People are weird.
Wow. I came into this video thinking “you’re genuinely beautiful, of course everyone’s gonna gravitate you” but I’m so glad that I decided to finish the whole video anyways. Here’s my reflection. So I won’t lie, I still believe that you being very physically attractive plays a significant role in the treatment you get, but there’s still a lot of wisdom that I gained from this whole video. One that really hit home for me was when you said “people come into your life and leave when it’s meant to happen”. It helped me to stop being mad about the people who left my life and to really appreciate their role in my life. Yeah we may have ended in bad terms, or good terms but in the end, them leaving has actually helped me learn something. Every time. Honestly I’d recommend everyone to watch the full video before commenting. I promise you’ll learn a lot
I haven’t watched the whole video yet but I think the only reason people become obsessed with you is because you are so attractive and that’s not the case for everybody so it might be hard to make someone obsessed with you if you’re not at least 7/10. Some peoples personality shines through so they become so attractive even if they are not but also that is not likely to happen if you are a shy person. Shy+not so attractive is mixture of an extremely social anxious person. I might sound like a very insecure person and I am, I do like myself and rate it 7/10 but I think most people would rate me 5/10, that did not affect me until recently cause I realised that most people don’t find me attractive even my friends. I know that I shouldn’t see myself through the eyes of other people but is hard not to, cause if I want people to become “obsessed” with me at least I have to be pleasing to their eyes. I really hope that I overcome this lack of confidence as soon as possible cause it’s really affected my mental health so badly 🙏🏾
But in fact I find it sick to want people to be attracted to you. For what purpose? There are much deeper and more fulfilling things in life to commit oneself to, such a desire can lead to making oneself obsessive in the first place, especially in the most insecure people, to whom this thought could give the illusion of power, but I don't think this is the right way to solve self-esteem problems. It would be more important to teach the importance of the fact that it's okay if you're not the center of attention, it's okay if you walk into a room and nobody considers you, who cares.
This has happened to me all my life but i never talk about it cuz ppl just end up thinking im bragging. Like literally all the time in a group setting, everyone wants to sit with me, talk with me, want my attention. I'v had people stare at me in an unsetteling amount. I've had people imitate what i wear and eat and do. Even in my friend group its always blatantly obvious that im their top priority. To this day I've never understood the reasoning behind it. And trust me im not tryna be humble but I dont posses any form of astonishing attractiveness. Average looking with a somewhat fit body.This video was very informative. Tysm for speaking so frankly about this topic
Obsession doesn’t come with, only because the person is hot. Many girls are pretty and don’t get the same type of obsession, many people are not that great looking and yet people are mesmerised by them because of what they exude. People want to be around people who carry themselves in a way that is attractive and endearing, attractiveness and potent obsessions from others doesn’t simply stem from looks otherwise it would be too easy. Now, I am not saying that being pretty doesnt come with its privileges but i am stating that if that is all you have then it will not last long. Your morals and the way you go about life creates an energy that a lot will try to understand and partake of, therefore explaining what shes saying in the video.
As an immigrant, I felt like I don't belong here. I graduated top of my class. and was very dedicated to my work and learning. I find myself in a place where I don't feel like I belong anymore. I wasted a lot of time doing nothing and wallowing in self pitty after losing two of m brothers to drugs and suicide. I was eager to learn and make progress in life. After having gone through these tragedies I just gave up in making mt dreams come true. and becoming the best version of myself.
That’s still true tho, people who have no purpose in life are obsessed with internet celebrities and so much superficial things. They forget what makes them and invest their energy on perpetual worshipping. It is pathetic.
I used to be in these situations in high school, then i had to think deeply into why. I realised perhaps i'm making the wrong friends, boyfriends etc. I was clearly gravitating towards individuals who were insecure or gloated about me, subconsciously it made me feel good. When I stopped and started creating meaningful relationships, all that changed.
She's a narcissist with an underlying insecure and avoidant personality, of course she is going to attract anxious and clingy people. It's pretty telling that she has obviously no insight into that and attributes it to her 'flawless' personality and not the fake, superficial persona that she has created.
Yes im 45. Time flies girls!! Trust the advice Liz gives :) thet being said i dont think we ever waste anything in life, because we always evolve. Im loving my life and i still think im young. Time doesnt exist. ✅️
This woman is exceptionally beautiful. That’s it. That’s why men and women alike are obsessed with her. I knew a girl in Portland, OR like this once. She was exceptionally attractive. Like one in a million level attractive. Deep down she was an awful, entitled, deluded brat…but no one cared. She just got away with it and everyone swooned over her. So yeah, this is what life is like for the 1 in a million.
Its not because of that. Liz chooses to look like this because she values herself, she talks about how you need to take care of your appearance in her videos
I think, as a human no one should strive to be obsessed by someone or to obsess over someone. Human Life is way more than that. The goal should be self content and finding peace from the within. Obsession in general can turn very negative very quickly so rather strive for balance in your emotions ,in your work and in your relationships.
Currently finishing the video, but one big lesson from this is, “If you need to talk to someone talk to a tree!”😂 I love that! Be very cautious who you share with!
It’s so weird how I totally over share and get hated on and look a lot like her like we could totally be sisters and so if I really expressed my confidence I would be hated even worse than I am now, so I don’t get it how she doesn’t have 1 million haters I’m hanging clearly around all the wrong people lol!
@@thirstonhowellthebird doesnt everyone have secret haters at least
@@hold.on9 I was oblivious to the whole hater thing for a good majority of my life. I just don’t think that way like I want everybody to be happy and do well in life and there was never anybody who I was jealous of or felt “less than“ so I never took into consideration that anybody would feel that way about me. I just don’t understand what causes that. It’s sad because it ruins friendships but I guess you’re right now that I understand.
My mom always told me: If you need to talk to someone talk to yourself in the mirror
Hhhh right ? Yeah trees are so healing ✨️✨️👌🏻🌲.
i get the whole pretty privelege thing here but she is 100% right about the whole energy thing. There are good looking people who are simply boring and not magnetic asff and then there are not so conventionally attractive people who are magnetic and fun to be around simply because they understand their worth as a person and love themselves. Ofcourse, beauty plays a very important role but it boils down to nothing with the lack of self-respect and self-worth.
Oh pretty privileged, but a face caked in make-up! We all look good with make-up on. Just look at some of the tutorials on here! Yes some so-called unattractive people are magnetic, others no so.
@@annmarie39able a good base doesn't guarantee an elevated aura.
@@ittsanaa What?
Same and I do agree with you
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It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest
The fact that she doesn't care about the hate comments and doesn't filter them out or delete them is simply badass. Those commenters are fighting with a wall
and that's on period
Yuss
Why do they hate her she’s seems so kind
@@lovelylanafansweetie4240 ikr? they're just mad that they could never be her ⚰️
She is filtering them out though. I don't see any hate comments even though she 100% deserves some for this cringe content.
"If you really need to tell someone, talk to a tree" is the motivation i needed, thanks
Absolutely loved that line ❤
So you're saying that you can't rely on anyone? I'm not sure that's a healthy place to be.
Liz: “Do I look good? Yes. We are not going to act like that’s not true”.
The confidence. I love it. 😂
Not trying to be negative at all but not going to lie, I always cringe when I hear people say this because I believe beauty is subjective. Just because your beautiful to some people and some other people don’t find you beautiful doesn’t make you one thing. I think everyone is beautiful to someone so every person should feel good about themselves. No one is ugly.
@@CajunBoyJake but In that case if everyone should feel good about themselves I think it’s valid for her to speak positively about herself as should everyone you know :)
@@tashapatino1663 I just find the part when she says “We’re are not going to act like that’s not true” cringy. As if that’s a hard fact. Personally, I don’t think she “looks good”, so to me, it’s not true but I don’t (nor does any other human) decide who “looks good”. I can only tell you who looks good, from my perspective. Like I can’t tell you that you have to find me attractive, because I am, ya know?
@@CajunBoyJake there are some basic, universal standards of beauty and she hits them. you're talking about your personal preferences of attractiveness but you can still tell when someone, objectively, looks good even if they aren't personally attractive to you. she's objectively beautiful. there is no point in her pretending otherwise. It's cringy to be like "omg im so ugly omg im not that pretty" when you are.
@@CajunBoyJake It's okay if It's cringy for you, but that's not a fact, that's just how you feel because you wouldnt be as much confidente as her. 🤷🏻♀️ And, what about that? Like, honestly, why are you trying to drag down someone else selfconcept dude.
you can't tell me it's all because of her looks when gorgeous people like khloe kardashian, behati prinsloo and victoria beckham get cheated on and still take their partners back. of course she is pretty but so are a million other people. her whole point is beauty without the right energy is meaningless. beauty gets you initial attention but it gets boring pretty quickly and people won't hold on to you if there's nothing more to you past your appearance; you'll be treated like a picture on the wall-pretty to look at, but nothing more. love you liz
Khloe is disgusting I never heard a man say they find that thing attractive
Khloe Kardashian is not gorgeous
This is a very wise interpretation of the video❤ I 100% agree
None of those women are gorgeous though.
Khloe kardashian is not gorgeous please be serious
“I’m the cycle breaker” TODAY I was saying this about myself to my therapist. Whew!!!! This is SO powerful. I think that is the most powerful motivator for success.
1-high energy, by yoga,
2- detach, you dont chase, you attract
3- do what benefit you only
4- prioritize myself, only the best
5-good intention
This sounds like stuff Andrew tate would say
Some of the things of this list sounds borderline selfish.
You guys are narcissists for liking this comment and you will be alone
I am so happy you exist. Your presence is so healing. When i feel unstable, lost, and depressed, I watch ur vids and i feel understood, seen, and grounded. I can be calm! Thank u for being amazing. I wish the best for u and anyone else reading this. ❤
Pretty privilege. Look, I simply love the fact that she takes time to make videos to try to help people to feel more like her and be treated like her, i think its amazing, with that being said we simply CANNOT dismiss something as real as pretty privilege in the world that we live in, its just not realistic
@@rose9266x Sure it's not impossible to have people be obsessed with you even if you're not "one of the prettiest people in the world". But it's also facts that pretty privilege exists and more initial impressions are based off looks and mannerisms, especially the scenarios that she was talking about in the beginning where people are like "you've put a spell on us" or "you're so mesmerizing".
@@rose9266x you said it, not me 👀
@@rose9266x lol you said you were ugly so we agree with you , do you think we are gonna make you feel better about yourself by saying :"no dont say that you are beautiful ", well no if you say you are ugly than you are honey lol
@@rose9266x I plead the fifth your honor
@@rose9266x they said even "if" and in quotation marks as in not their words, "not the prettiest person". Nobody can tell if you're ugly or not, so they have to take your word for it 😂
She's so iconic,I understand why everyone's obsessed with her.
Like literally
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I have literally no idea who this is lol
@@KydraExhale shes an icon... she teached us how to love ourselfes
@@KydraExhale sounds like a you problem
You can't imagine how much your videos helped me girl. I will be eternally grateful for what you have done even in my 80s i will remember you cause you literally saved me. I have been through so much shit in life like you won't imagine and people like you are the proof that we can rise and build an amazing future no matter how dark is our present. I'm still struggling but mentally ur videos are really helpful. Best wishes. ❤
Big big hug.
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Jesus can free you, he knows the extent of your problems and can give you life everlasting ❤
50/50, just being hot doesnt automatically give you this kind of aura
Stop lying bro
"if you really need to talk to someone, talk to a tree" LMAOO I LOVE HER.
You guys forget she’s very attractive. That’s also an important aspect
One of the most crucial over all tbh 😂
No, thats secondary.It's about her energy and mindset I knew beautiful woman , which had low energy and semi good looking girls which are surrounded and attracted by great people, cause the frequencies are high 💕💕💕🌟
@Annie where you goo Agreed! Some of the most beautiful women I know are the most insecure, then I see not so attractive women with amazing energy and everyone is obsessed with them. It's more about the energy than the looks. Even I notice a difference in the way people act around me when I'm vibrating high versus low energy!
@@gracewoolfolk2194 Yes 💕 The lower the energy , the more complicated the life .Thats the wonderful thing in life , you have much more in your hand that you think. ✨
All confident people are attractive
Having people obsessing over you is definitely a blessing in terms of boosting your ego and a curse, mostly a curse. They become overly attached to you since you are a reflection of what they long for. From what Liz described, she definitely made it sound so cool to be obsessed with in terms of the qualities that make people obsess over you in the first place, but it's not fun when people actually start obsessing over you, especially if you are someone who values their space, like Liz herself. You feel me?
It's because she's attractive that's it if she was ugly or average hardly anybody would be giving her second thoughts.
@@Halo4beatsB02 her attractiveness compels people to approach her, but her personality makes them want to stay.
@@lindokuhleshandu4024 nope her personality is not that charismatic I've been around charismatic girls, they act nothing like this.
@@Halo4beatsB02 do you know her in real life or you only see her on TH-cam like me? If you've actually been around Liz, then I'd understand your point.
@@lindokuhleshandu4024 if I were to give you an example of someone charming, think of tyrion lannister from game of thrones. Someone with humor, quick wit, but with humility and empathy and somewhat unsolipistic.
i think it's important to know that being a physically attractive person is proven to open more avenues for you than being a non attractive person, no matter how outgoing you are. some unattractive people may have a better shot by being charismatic and outgoing, so it's always good to take care of yourself and be your best anyway. as a disabled person who uses a wheelchair, i've always had to deal with stereotypes ever since i was a young child of people saying that i'm too "different" or too needy to be in a relationship with. no amount of being "confident" has suddenly made these people see me as a potential partner. however, if you lower your expectations for what you set your happiness on, your quality of life becomes better. being desperate is not only unattractive but also unhealthy. it will make your life miserable if you tell yourself every day that you're hopeless. that's why it's good to find joy in the unconventional things in life and to put your best self forward. after giving up on conventional methods of dating, i met my current boyfriend and have been with him for over five years. he's my best friend and sees the world the same way i do. sometimes you realize that there's nothing wrong with what you want. sometimes there's something just wrong with what you're doing to get it.
Thanks for sharing your story. I've seen a few videos about pretty privelege and as someone who is seen as conventionally attractive I find pretty privelege to be very real. I see the difference in treatment between me and my friends and colleagues in real life. Especially men treat you a certain way based on your looks. I know the most kindest and outgoing bubbly people but others don't want to hang out with them because they don't find them attractive. Sadly that's how it works. I'm glad you have found someone who was able to look beyond your disability and see your true beauty. Much luck to you ❤️😃!
bravo
Love this ❤
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Thanks really for sharing ur story❤but I see that sometimes at least as my exprrience, pretty looks give the exact opposite reaction that you have mentioned, like alot of haters and alot of people who focuse on your small details to critisize and make them big deal like( omg girl you have small lines on your forehead) ,or you look so pale without makeup)😂😅 and stuff like that like it is crazy how they see you attractive and at the same time they want to make sure you feel the opposite
this women has saved my life. not even being dramatic.
As much as I love your videos , I think it begins with pretty privilege. Of course that's not all , but I think we can't ignore social realities. Energy are a thing and I Believe yours attracts ppl and you have good vibes bc you constantly work on yourself Liz that's admirable. But the first part about the mesmerizing is purely pretty privilege first and you were benefiting from it ...
I agree!
I dont know who can be fooled by this. We all know its because she is goregous!!!
Anyone can benefit from it with a good lifestyle which she understood and put in the work to have that “pretty privilege”
What is beautiful is attractive and anybody can become beautiful with the good lifestyle
@@cosmicboy7188 disagree. You can’t ignore the problems that society puts us in. And you are proving my point , why working hard to deserve other ppl attention / get beauty privilege ? Can’t we be authentic self without involving physical aspects. Since I’m a subscriber for Liz, according to her older vids , ofc she worked hard and changed her mental state. But she also said that she was always considered beautiful. So yeah, pretty privilege is something you already have or chase for it , that has nothing to do with energies in the first place
@The_Audacity who said the opposite ? Y’all are not even aware of the world where you live. There’s social realities that are STUDIED. Yes. Your physical aspect can ATTRACT people more easily. Not necessarily make them stay. You are simply obsessed with assumption on us , about low self esteem while I’m being more impartial and not biased by anything such as insecurities that I could carry. Open a book and learn about social science , HERE we like factual things and WORK WITH FACTS and STUDIES ONLY.
liz i just wanna say that watching your videos has helped me so much. i have terrible social anxiety and chronic overthinking that leads me to spend hours to days thinking about peoples perceptions of me. i was so tired of my mind being filled with things that didn’t even concern myself so i went to ur channel. after watching ur videos i just felt this sort of calm in my mind. it’s like you took my thoughts and beat them up so they couldn’t take up my mind anymore. the way u go about life is so inspiring and i make an effort everyday to live for myself and who i am because of u, thank u!🫶🏽
also you: * is friends with the entire school *
in all seriousness, glad you've calmed your mind from your "anxiety"
jesus christ please do not look to this person for help with social anxiety holy fuck, that is the worst possibler thing you could do are you serious? all this girl will do is make you just as delusional and egotistical, which in turn will ruin yor social life as it did hers
@@xHollow. "anxiety" ? I'm not sure if it was your intention to sound condescending but if it was anxiety is a real and very hard mental illness to live with, you don't know anything about this person's life especially from a TH-cam comment so stop assuming and get on with yours because if you have that much time to dictate how their own life is or what they don't or do struggle with is it must be pretty sad. Also while you're at it think about how your words affect other people, keep in mind if you want people to treat you with respect, you'll have to respect them too.
@@Mary-gc7tx Every single person i’ve talked to and 99% of the females ive spoken to claim they have terrible anxiety but are really chill with a lot of people like there siblings type of friendships.
i was genuinely happy for the person even little anxiety can be hard to deal with. Also i dont mean to sound rude but i personally dont care about respect if i see fakeness let alone especially if its coming from a youtube comment no offense my views are my views just like how your judging me on how im a terrible person while misunderstanding what i wrote and not knowing a thing about me either.
Also i made like 5 or 6 replies throughout this entire comment section and went on with my life im chilling though thanks for the concern 👍
@@xHollow. how do you know this person is friends with an entire school tf! Do you even know them?
One thing I want to emphasize on that if you take yourself seriously and give so much importance to yourself, others will do the same for you. ALSO DO NOT CHASE PEOPLE. Let them do the chasing and of course that doesn’t mean you neglect them. I used to chase people and care about them more than I cared about myself. Now I don’t do that and people are so obsessed with me. It honestly scared me at first but now I’m like well if you wanna do that you can, it’s not my business. If I don’t like you and you don’t benefit me anyway then I don’t want you in my life. I don’t have free time to waste. How I am right now took me years of pain and lessons. It didn’t just come to me out of nowhere and I have been doing more for myself a lot now. I believe that everyone can do it too. Please learn to love yourself even if it takes a long time.
If no one chases, we wouldn’t have relationships
@@poopbutt6241 The point is that the man chases
This woman’s words have put an impact on me. Ive put myself in a position which will benefit me. Im legitimate so glad I came across her.
The fact that all your videos are blowing up and you’re ACTUALLY gaining positive things from this, really shows that what you’re preaching is not bullshit 💯 sounds like u just have to believe in urself and learn attraction y’all! 🕺🏾
Yesss its all about beliving🥰
To everyone saying “well of course people obsess with you, you’re beautiful.”
Yes to some degree it’s true. But also not.
I’m not someone who fits traditional beauty standards (and I was honestly not pretty growing up). However, one day I decided that I am hot, I am now my beauty standard and I am attractive.
Everything changed, I physically started looking better. People always treat me kindly and are attracted to my energy. This is not to flex but to point out that, It’s up to you. Your energy, how you walk into a room, your self concept is what makes people attracted to you.
You can also literally manifest your looks. You can manifest being attractive. You really can.
The only way to “manifest” a change in your look is by working out and eating healthy, plus taking better care of your skin and hair. You can’t change your body only by telling yourself in your mind.
@@raidexe I think they meant "manifest" as in convince yourself that you can & work on it. Imo.
I agree. I became attractive once I convinced myself that I am. When I was this shy kid, hiding my face and being all awkward no one complimented me. And once I was like "you know what, no, I'm hot just the way I am despite my "flaws" " I started to feel better and the confidence reflected on the outside and people would literally compliment me all the time randomly. I'm a shorter guy, but after I became more confident some girls assumed I'm way taller than I am, I'm not even joking. It was very strange. Like "How tall are you, around 180?" and I was like "Bruh I'm 173 what are you on, you're like an inch shorter than me." But it's important to be humble because in the end of the day no one is "better" than anyone else. We're different; be humble without pushing yourself down or too high. And work with the good features you have, work-out, sleep, take care of your skin (less is more!) but that's it.
edit: I had heavy body dysmorphia as well for multiple months but I REALLY worked on it, features I now find the hottest were before my biggest insecurity
I agree with you. I know a girl who is literally the prettiest girl who I was ever around with, but her personality, the way she behaves and talks is so unattractive (because of her negative energy and low-level personality) that I dont really want to interact with her.
I hate to be harsh, but you are living in delusion. Love the confidence tho!
So many gems in this video, the way you speak, behave, and think is truly indicative of the level of class and elegance you possess, I’m so grateful to have found your channel
I was in a huge depressive slump for the past few weeks since school started, but I found your videos and it motivated me to get my life together, and be real with myself. I had been advoiding the truth about my eating disorder and how school stresses me out, but I am now ready to face it and happier than ever 💕🙏
I hate school.... I feel like that I am not that included in the our friends group
@@riyak9102 don't worry, if they don't want you, you don't need them. Cut them out, because if you're staying with htem you're telling yourself that you will never be good enough for quality friends. Treat yourself with luxury, not slander and abuse
@@chefskiss7392 thankkkk youuuuuu!!! Anyways it was comforting to talk to you!
@@riyak9102 of course 💕
i just want to say, im so proud of you !! you got this, i know how it is, i have an ED too. i have my episodes constantly, and i only recently started getting myself together and i can say it has not been easy. it takes so much strength to face these things that taunt and eat away at us so im really so proud of you !!
simps : wow she is confidence, self-aware
the reality : narcissistic, manipulative
She is one of the most delusional & self obsessed people on the internet.
Even better this way.
Its always the ugliest people to insult the prettiest ones smh
And I’m not even talking about physical beauty.
@@Faded______ self obsessed? how
i'm so glad i keep seeing your videos in my reccomendations, like i used to skip over it bcs my attention span is awful but after watching one of your vids, it literally only felt like 5 minutes but it changed my mindset completely. i've been having a terrible month then i remembered your videos exist and no joke, about 2 minutes into the video and i already feel a lot better. you tell me what i have to hear and not what i want to hear, and it's just so real fr. i don't think i can ever thank you enough for your videos honestly
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
i remember watching this video for the first time and how i thought she was wrong and its just her pretty privilege and i also thought that it would not happened to me even if i do those thing cuz i was very insecure back then. now that i am working on myself and building my confidence . i dont feel that anymore. i just could not see her loving herself bkuz i could not doing that with myself. a true confident person will never feel threaten by someone else confidence
I like how Andrew Tate gets praised and looked up to by millions of young men while a young pretty woman gets trashed for putting herself first. Epitome of bias.
Andrew Tate don't have a good reputation either, he is way more controversial than this woman
In fairness most people absolutely hate him
Praised? Manz is banned everywhere and don’t get to speak through TH-cam and most platforms
Stacy wake up? Tate received a lot of hate but also receive some support, like what you do to Thewizardliz. The situation is the same. Epitome of paranoia.
Wouldn’t say he gets more praise than hatred though..
I think this is what Dr. K referred to as "Aphrodite energy" in one of his videos. Some women just can't stop attracting people, whether they mean to or not. It's almost as if they emanate some kind of aura that pretty much everyone, whether they're male or female, simply can't resist.
Do you mean Dr. K from HealthyFamerGg?? I’ve never heard him talk about it, can you tell me what video are you mentioning?
Hey I'm also a big fan of Dr K, can you please share the title of the video?
"aphrodite energy", that shit dont exist. only thing that attracts men is a bad bitch. if she was 10x uglier all this talk wouldnt give her any dick.
woman cant talk their way into dick, U JUST CANT.
I talk my way into pussy, cuz im a man, is what i do.
honest to god, woman need guidance, this shorty, i fuck with her message, somehow i feel she is arrogant with it, i may be mistaken. i think she has good messages, just dont fucking idolize her, she dont deserve it no one does exceptyour parents if they desvered it.
honest to god, what she says is cool, just its goofy so many woman needed to hear this, it makes this actually goofy.
weak woman, "weak woman", no just lacks a lil bit of character, nothing bad with that. but woman lack character cuz they dad lacked it, also perhaps their mom.
I think they call that the "dtf vibe" and yeah, I totally feel it-
wally coughlan
yeah it's called being top 0.1% attractive and having sex appeal 😭😭
I remember first watching you when I was depressed and I used to see you as a mentor but as I’ve grown as a person I’ve began to see almost as a friend and listening to you feels a lot more genuine and human in a sense. Much blessings are coming your way and you might already have them but never forget that Liz because you absolutely deserve the world!🤩☺️
Whenever i feel lost i just watch her videos and it always works thank you liz for coming into my life.. i love you so much❤❤
Finally found a channel that resonate with my mind set 🥳 literally everyone around me try to make me feel bad for it & say I think they world owe me something in a negative way! Thank you Liz ❤
I can assure you people aren't in awe of energy, they just notice you because of your physical beauty. Human beings judge each other's physical appearance first, wether it's consciously or subconsciously. I'm not saying you don't have a great personality (I don't know you), but I'm simply saying people don't notice your personality first people notice you because you're physically beautiful.
I mean I guess so, but being pretty can’t do shit when a person has a terrible personality. Its demeanor that makes people obsessed. Being pretty doesn’t solve life problems.
And thats true about noticing pretty first ig but my point still stands
Exactly. She is delusional and thinks she is special. Every pretty girl experiences the same.
There are a lot of beautiful people in the world, and I am sure they are not all treated the same. I have witnessed energy really draw people in and make them really alter the way that person looks in their mind, or that it only matters second to their bubbly personality. I like to observe what makes people tick, I think good looks and people oriented personality is the key to popularity.
These comments are honestly lame. Yes she's beautiful but she's also gotten comments saying the complete opposite because not everyone has the same taste and also, not all conventionally attractive people command the same responses from others. Pretty privilege is real but using it to disregard everything she's saying as if all attractive people are living the same life is short sighted and comes off bitter/insecure that this person "has it easy" but wants it to seem like it's something else when, it IS more than just her physical beauty. I've seen many pretty people with forgettable personalities and what did I do after? Forgot about them. That is clearly not the case for her on average and you can see as much in the fact that her content is quite literally her talking to the camera and saying what she thinks. Does every pretty girl on youtube have a million subscribers based on that formula? No. You all can keep denying the truth but energy doesn't lie. It's also the reason that conventionally "unattractive" people can also command lots of attention and amass popularity. Again, energy doesn't lie.
The first time I saw the title of this video, I automatically smiled. And said to myself "oh yeah. she's Liz after all."
“When there are no expectations,
There’s no disappointment”
8:10
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I've never seen (or rarely) a person talking a lot about their good sides with so much authenticity and true honest visible happiness and not with fear or being like toxic or fake about these statements
❤️ily Liz, much respect to you
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I'm surprised about how she praises herself so much. I really want to learn this skill. Even though I know that I am good enough at everything, still there is the feeling of not deserving it.
Look "law of assumption" , especially Sammy Ingrams videos
@@jay.jay. oh, thanks! I will
@@rubyjendek1961 Check out Neyah alongside Sammy too, they are both so great
@@gmfr2762 will have a look🤍
@Vanja Lo make sense, but I always see how others can do this easily, so easily that they even exaggerate😄
The fact that Elvis was extremely handsome didn’t hurt either. He was also talented and a deep passion for his craft, but would not have been idolized in the way he was without his looks
Absolutely correct, the difference between a jim croce qnd an elvis presley can be just the looks
There are some comments misunderstanding, but I totally get what you mean by “obsessed” with you. It’s not about looks. If you’re just ‘beautiful’ or ‘hot’, not everyone would want to be with you, or not everyone will be mesmerized by you. There are girls at my school who are so pretty and live up to Eurocentric beauty standards, but people are not mesmerized by them because of what energy they give off. It always depends on what you look for in life, if you put your energy towards good things and live up for yourself (also what she said in the video) people will be more into you. When attractive comes in, if you take care of your body, your skin, hair, hygiene, etc. you’ll be attractive, no matter what skin color or feature you have. It’s about living for yourself.
She's not just beautiful tho. She's like miss universe level beautiful
@@robdog114 She's very pretty, yeah. But that's not what the video was about. Some may not find her miss universal. Some might not find Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Aniston beautiful. That's why looks don't come into the picture a lot of the time.
@@robdog114 that's not true, maybe for you she is, but then it depends on everyone's type, for me I don't find her that pretty but I won't say she's ugly or not attractive, she is absolutely beautiful she's just not my type
@@nora-us6jq idk I just come to this channel to listen to this goddess talk about random things
Hey, pretty privelige is totally a real thing. Saying that her mindset and "energy" is the reason people treat her the way they treat her is delusional. Shes not a bad person for having that privilege, but she does. There is no way her videos would have been pushed by the algorith if it where not for her looks. Imagine a teenage boy who isn't convetional good looking would have made the same video. It would be pathetic. Imagine a 20 year old guy saying that he gets girls obsessed with him, with his mindset. Sounds kinda like a psychopath.
2:42 Being physically attractive serves a huge advantage to make people feel that way towards you. I wonder if this will work for average looking people?
Yes it would based on real experience. ENERGY IS EVERYTHING.
@The_Audacity Thank you for giving in your thoughts, I’ll definitely try this out.
I wonder if people will still be obsessed with her if she is 300lbs? 🤔. Not trying to put her character down, but I agree with M’adame that physical beauty can give a person huge leverage.
I can give you examples of many people in my life who might not have pretty privilege or an appealing appearance...but their energy, confidence and charisma attracts people. You can even see it in many celebrities who are not considered "good looking" based on society standards but they're super loved and respected
@@moonchild2831 Thank you for giving in your thoughts, I’ll definitely try this out.
I'm "obsessed" with you in healthiest way possible. Your content is speaks volumes to how far you've come and your sharing your knowledge to help others. "Beautiful" 💙
I can conform this, coz it’s just been 10 days since I have started watching her and Iam literally obsessed with her, the energy and aura this woman carries us something else. I found her on my most crucial period and I am thankful that I found her. Thankyou liz for everything ❤️
I like her and messages she is giving to love oneself value one self out of everyone and etcss but sometimes she sounds really selfish rude and self-centered It just doesn't seem right to me. Is it just me?? 🙄
sometimes her wording comes off narcissistic but i don’t take offense to that because i know what she means and where she comes from…
nah i think people these days just aren't used to seeing others who are confident, and genuinely content with themselves. So when she says stuff about how great she is, it comes across as selfish. But self-love and true confidence is rare and important and easily misinterpreted.
It’s what I keep saying to warn people , she’s not a narc but she has huge tendencies , and indeed if she was condescending on weak people they might develop an unhealthy obsession. I knew a person exactly like that who would littéraly use and abuse people with her charm ( think amber head as an extreme exemple ) Liz isn’t a bad person she’s not selfish but obviously she has a long way to go in her communication
you just can't bear to see somebody confident
1) she seems like a good person. Genuinely wants to help others, able to admit when she was wrong about something, pushes herself to grow as a person
2) making a mental connection between “people get obsessed with me” and “that means I’m an especially good person with an especially high vibration” is not only incorrect, but also a very damaging mindset to have. Consciously or subconsciously wanting people to become obsessed with you because it’s a form of validation puts some of your perceived self worth into the hands of other peoples’ reactions to you.
3) people get obsessed with others for a couple reasons, the largest and by far most common one being physical attractiveness. If you’re young and pretty, it’s very common to have people that get obsessed with you and even stalkers, especially if you’re public facing a lot (like having a job as a bartender/waitress) I’ve had many ppl get obsessed with me as have most of the women I know, it’s not a rare thing (and the line about “buying whatever you’re selling” from customers who are men is a common half-joke that most attractive women who work in food service have heard before)
I’m not saying personality has NOTHING to do with whether people become obsessed/stay obsessed with you, but looks have a lot more to do with it than she seems to realize. Especially if they’re strangers, see you as a potential romantic partner, or are random customers at your job
Some other reasons besides beauty ppl may become obsessed that have nothing to do with how high your vibration is:
you have social capital, they’re insecure and need someone to latch onto and you’re the closest person to them to do that with, you’re a people pleaser and unconsciously tell people exactly what they want to hear which ends up with people who already find you attractive projecting their ideal partner onto you and thinking that you’re they’re soulmate (I’m guilty of being a people pleaser, been trying to work on it)
4) You can and should be confident and secure without having delusions of grandeur. Real confidence lives in the naked honest truth, and the truth is it’s not a rare thing for a physically beautiful person to have many people be obsessed with them throughout their life. Having people be obsessed with you isn’t something to strive toward or even necessarily be proud of, because it usually doesn’t actually have much to do with you.
This isn’t meant to be critical or tear anyone down. It’s just the harsh truth, which I hope fans of this nice girl can appreciate
you must have so little going on that you could be bothered to write a long comment like that. Who cares? She is a TH-cam narco!
Agreed. Absolutely no hate to her but she is a little delusional and on a high horse.
@@Marochka he is spitting facts though
@@Marochka not everything is about jealousy and 'proving the haters wrong'. It was just valid constructive criticism.
@@K9amilo90 true. this woman is an absolute narcissist and there is nothing attractive about her "personality". Thats all there is to say.
i’m at my absolute lowest right now. just got out of a 3 year relationship. you have no idea how much you’re videos are helping me re invent myself.
good luck chloe, i know everything will turn out beautiful and just the way you want it!! ❤
You'll shine through this 💓
you will get through this ❤️ you’re healing and growing into yourself more every day.
If you don't think she is getting attention just because she is pretty, imagine her being average saying the same things or look away as you listen, if she wasn't so good looking, no one would care, she has said nothing new.
Plus people just click on the video because the whole idea of people just being obsessed with you is seductive and they want to live through Liz vicariously by watching the video and hearing her experiences.
😂 keep making excuses, being pretty has nothing to do with what she’s been saying
@@Caseybyden simp
@@Caseybyden you would literally be the type to obsess over the pretty girls w no personality just cause they are pretty
Oh my gosh imagine her kids with this mom like they dont need anything else she's solid concrete imagine all the things they would learn from her like youre gonna be a great mom Liz 💗
Liz you are literally the only person i go to for advise! since I started watching your videos I feel more motivated and stronger! so yeah thank youuuu
Same and we all got u as well girll
she's so full of herself. She thinks she's kim k
@@Nick-fk1in what's bad about that, it's just clear we came alone we'll die alone so taking care or ourselves alone isn't a problem lol
@@ordinaryshiven imagine aspiring to be Kim Tardashian 🤣🤣 woke feminism has really corrupted a large portion of western women
@@Nick-fk1in ok why are you watching this then
I relate to this. I always get told by people that I have a presence when I walk into a space, and I captivate peoples attention through my energy and words. People love to spend time with me and want me in their lives a lot. It can be tiring for me at times cause I need to find someone who can bring that energy to me as much as I do for them. You are that person Liz. 🎉❤
It’s crazy that I found another woman thats shares the exact same values as me 😭😭 only good and high vibrations for ourselves!!
I would love to see a video on female friendships. Have you ever had friendships where it just feels off and how did you handle it?
me too! id like to watch that
Me toooo
me too!! i’d love this
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Stop being friends with such ppl! If something’s off, usually there is a solid reason for that. Distance yourself from friends who drain your energy. Also from ppl who are toxic in any way. Jealousy is mostly a major reason why friendships between girls ain’t that good! On your face, ppl are the sweetest but in the hearts lie a lot of hatred. Hope this helps n answers your question. ♥️
I love how she didn't delete the hate comments.
edit: I'm literally talking about the hate comments Im aware that hate =/= constructive criticism and I'm not talking about those who are criticising her.
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I don’t know if we’re talking about the same comments, but people calling out her pretty Privilege are not wrong. The ones I’ve seen haven’t even been hateful, just honest. This video is kinda bs and whilst her other videos are amazing and informative, it’s ok to criticise someone who generally gives good advice.
@@maria-212 she actually didn't denied that her beauty plays a role and she was honest about that, I don't get why people are being hateful and calling her names and stuff down the comments when she clearly mentioned that.
@@cobra9983 the point is, most of her charm comes from her beauty. You can believe what you want but people will always be drawn to her MAINLY because of her prettiness, not 'energy'
I am the storm that is approaching!!!
The looking good part and being young is like 75 percent of the power you have. This will change with age, the energy will fade and the looks that you once got will be father and fewer between. So make your money now, take full advantage of it. Nobody told me how important that youthful power I had was so important. I squandered it and took it for granted. It is a betrayal from society, that pretty girls must face later in life.
wow, it seems that even you are obsessed with yourself... which is usually something one should avoid.
Didn't feel the high vibe but love the honesty. Like watching you I don't think I'd be obsessed nor interested but I like the confidence, the courage to post it, and some of the message even if some point seem fake (for example, being in a relationship with someone so obsessed is literally toxic). Overall a cool video tho, good job 🙌
محممد صلاحح 💀
People mad in the comments are the same people who don’t do ANYTHING to better themselves. Sure she attractive: SHE WORKED FOR IT. She goes to the gym, has a diet… try to put effort and you’ll be certainly more attractive too. Don’t be jelly
Love that fact that Liz just knows who she is! More than being extremely beautiful she is also confident in her personality
People are obsessed with you because you’re good looking not because of your personality. The cognitive dissonance is unreal in this video.
She's not that good looking when you take away all of the plastic. She only looks "good" in a room full of average looking people. In a group of Victoria Secret models, no one would give her a second look.
@@SB-se7vb 🤣
why so jeleaous?
She will get old and then no one will obsessed anymore…she just has to wait!! 😂😂😂😂
@@SB-se7vb definition of bitter lmao 😭💀
honestly this is the only video of Liz with which I can connect with myself. The every point she said, referred everything is so relatable with me.
I knew people were obsessed, I knew few reasons why and here girl listed every points briefly.
you dont have to agree with everything liz says, you dont have to follow all her advices like its sacred. When you listen or read to gurus, you must think for yourself too. Take what you need and resonates, and leave what you dont. Or adapt it to your reality. I can agree with Liz in many things, and actually she has helped me a lot; that doesnt mean i have to do everything like her, be or act the same way.
who said you should act the same way as her ?
Guru???????? Wtf you talk about ahahah
Exactly. Take what resonates and leave the rest.
This video randomly played but I resonate very well with your mindset so I actually watched the whole vid. There are not a lot of people with true confidence in the world.
iam still trying and trying to heal and fix my self to be the best version of me, i want to come back here and thank to this woman and me because of what we did.
this is the biggest achievement i want to made cause it was hard to deal with it if you have toxic parents and always draining me at my young age, i was really obsessed becoming mentally unstable for my future self
I truly believe what she says is true, I experienced this in my own life. I was once really insecure in my own skin even though a lot of people tried to convince me that I am over the average and really beautiful. I was also really attached to relationships and to other people in general, and I never got the same energy back so trapped myself into the victim mode and that, for many years where I asked myself the exact same questions over and over again:"why do people never want to hang out with me? Why can't I be as popular as xyz?" till I learned about spirituality and the concept about "I don't chase I attract'.
Till then, my life really changed in a few aspects like for example friends, family, love interest etc.
I have a few friends who truly respect me and want to hang out with me even though I don't really care if we will continue being friends forever, it's not like I don't like them, I really do, but I don't put the friendship on a pedestal anymore.
Same thing with family.
I have a lot of love interest now.
I am still working on my negative believes, but I will just say the least, it's worth it and how other people treat you has not just something to do with your looks.
Don't you think it's because of her looks?
@@tw69ad i think part of it has to do with her looks, i am not going to doubt that, but the main reason why people get "obsessed" with her are the point's she explained in the video.
How did you started your journey in spirituality?
@@ervayasar2065 Na not even close😭😂
Relatable
Aight. I'm seeing some "eye-roll vibe" comments about Liz's energy talk simply because the fact that she is beautiful. Okay, we're not going to lie. She is. It plays a role. But I'm proof that is true, because I witnessed it. Read this " *Look* ...uh, not trying to throw sand at the obvious - she is beautiful and that counts -, but there is truth to what she is saying. Some people, they might not even be your type or that good looking, but THE ENERGY!! My sis, I do not lie to youuuu. At my previous job (which I quit, Glory to God - literally) I was a lab technician for Covid tests, attended, collected samples, blablabla; one time this guy came for testing. I'm telling you, I've seen better looking and better attractive-perfume guys entering, BUT NONE OF THEM HAD HIS ENERGY! I was like!! What is this witchcraft?!! IT's a demon?!!! Sis, facts are facts but Liz is not lying, the energy, allure, whatever thingy is true. It's like that guy had a vortex or magnet pulling me to him. Cray-zy. I'm thankful I had a mask on or I'd look stupid." This happened to me, I wrote this. It's true. It's real, get over it. You're right about Liz, but Liz isn't wrong either.
She's just yapping. It's her good looks.
@Vanja Lo Yeah like in one of her videos she said she was a people pleaser and also she's been depressed for 2 years, she is only 23 years old now I wonder how did she get out of depression in such a short time and became so magnetic-energetic that people were obsessed with her. I love Liz and her content but I am super confused
@Vanja Lo I think the "brand" is her yt channel because she once said that her dream job was to be a successful youtuber.
Btw she talks about her mother being nicest woman ever but she also mentioned that she had an abusive childhood. Why didn't her mother stop her from being psychologically and physically abused? Why she didn't protect her daughter if she's a literal earth angel
It plays a role? It just...plays a role? No, its the only thing she has. These type of women are super narcissistic and I envy people who are able to tolerate their repulsiveness. She is literally telling me that I can manifest being the most attractive guy while I am not even tall enough to be considered into conversation for that sort of thing. I cant believe how many people fall for this stuff, this does not fking work if you are not outstandingly pretty.
@@naughtiousmaximus7853 Excuse me, but I didn't hear her say that you can manifest being the most attractive guy or girl. I did not hear that AT ALL. What I did hear is what SHE THINKS made people attracted, "obsessed" to her. This is just some pointers that she finds important. And guess what, some things she said won't apply to me because ... I'm not that special or try hard to socialize with people, and that's okay. Although I am pretty, I know that Liz is on a upper level, and to me that is alright, because finally, literally Thank God, I like myself. So, please, pleasee.. like yourself too. I didn't get a narcissistic vibe from her although it was a bit awkward seeing her talking highly of herself. But you know what? Why? Why is strange for us to hear her talk so highly of herself? In my case, I can explain it: I've never talked that highly of myself, never had people talk that highly of myself self constantly, was told pretty negative stuff when I was growing up, self doubt, wanting to be white to feel more attractive, to get attention, being jealous of men because maybe if I was a man I'd feel more power or safe or with more respect, opportunities, I don't know. But is it wrong to say good stuff about yourself, to say that you're smart, pretty, beautiful, and also, this is her channel, she can talk whatever she wants,even fart. So like yourself a little more and no, i'm not being delusional, i know i'm not going to be pretty for everyone, smart enough, cool enough for a lot of people. SO. WHAT. God, Jesus Christ loves me, died for me and has given me and continues to give me the highest validation, AND I'm beautiful, intelligent, goofy in a good way). Wasn't easy, but I'm here. He got me here. Like yourself a little bit more. You're not a narcissist for pointing out the good things in you. Also, pretty can only get your so far, BUT you're right, it's important. IF YOU got this far, check out Brae's channels. BRAE and see his before and after. He's a good dude, and I hope his looks, mental evolution, give you determination.
Hi Liz, I was wondering if you could do a video on where to find good friends for you. I really appreciate my current friends, but I want to find people with goals and plans for the future, so that we can work towards those goals together.
Thanks, you are such a great role model!
Samee
how old are you guys ? how about making a group chat with ppl with similar ages and become friends?
i need this!
we have same thought, i relate to youuu
@@yournightmare4218I'm 16 what about you
no babes ur just pretty...these talks about energy and stuff wont work on ppl that don't fit in the beauty standards. speaking from an "ugly" person
As another “ugly” person I agree.
I used to be in these situations in high school, then I had to think deeply about why. I realised perhaps I was making the wrong friends, boyfriends etc. I was gravitating towards individuals who were insecure or gloated about me, subconsciously it made me feel good. When I stopped and started creating meaningful relationships, all that changed. I no longer need that validation, so I am no longer in predicaments like this.
I think she will eventually come to the same conclusion as you, if she is as self reflective and growth oriented as you are.
i hate doing my school work, but when i put on a video of liz & listen too her talkin abt bettering ourselves it helps me fllllly through my work. it’s amazing, this woman gives m motivation & dedication through anything
They're not obsessed with you, you're obsessed with yourself.
LMAO
"The inner machinations of my mind are an enigma." Patric Star
lol. Hit the nail on the head
Y’all get so threatened by confident women each time 😂😂 it’s hilarious atp literally cry abt it
@@yupyup1435 she’s not a confident woman. If anything she is the opposite. People usually big themselves like she is doing because deep down they feel the need to feel superior because they either have some of personality disorder or deep down they dislike themselves. For you to admire narcissistic qualities you probably are the same.
Imagine having someone so powerful in your life. Thank you so much Liz for your advice
this girl always uploads when I need someone like her the hardest
I really appreciate you Liz
This is refreshing. I've had occasional times in my life where I've had people get obsessed with me. Usually it is people who are lower energy too. Like moths to a flame. I can't always maintain that enthusiastic energy but it's a major aspect of my personality and I realize its raw magnetism. I think it's made me more introverted because I've drawn some crappy people into my life as a result. It's a unique dynamic if you've experienced it. What really blows my mind about this, is that you're the only person that I know of who believes that expectations lead to disappointment. I use to say that a lot but basically everyone was uncomfortable with that idea... but it's absolutely true. The better way is to hope rather than expect. Putting expectations is rather rude in a relationship and signals a sense of someone treating the other like property. Imagine being told *I EXPECT YOU TO DO THIS OR THAT* ?? Hope is better than expectations. You're obviously highly magnetic for a few reasons beyond physical appearance. Add classy and intellectual, so you're a triple threat! 😏
The video I never knew I truly needed! Thanks queen for sharing your confidence, and wisdom. You are a blessing. Beautiful inside and out and that is truly why people take to you.
People in this comment section still need to work on their limiting beliefs & their mindset. The things she’s saying doesn’t only work for attractive people. There’s plenty of people who do not fit the standards of what is beautiful, yet people are still obsessed with them… plenty of women who also do not fit the standards yet are treated better in their relationships than any "attractive woman". Confidence, mindset and having the right energy will take you far.
Her fault for choosing a shallow example in the beginning of the video. Talking bout strangers being obsessed with her after looking at her once, that’s literally because of her looks not energy. If she talks about how her friends likes to hang out with her a lot then it makes sense to say it’s because of her energy.
@@emmarose7491 Girl please.. her confidence triggered you guy’s insecurities which is why y’all are trying to invalidate her message by saying that it is just bc of her looks. She replied to comments saying that she wasn’t only talking about that she was talking about people who stayed in her life for a long time, people do not stick around just bc you’re cute.
@The_Audacity Insecure people rarely learn, it’s easier to believe that something isn’t possible than believing it’s possible and making the necessary changes. A lot of these people will remain exactly where they are.
.i have suffered Obsession that she said in beginning..also she said her mother said that to be parasites..why would u want such parasites and shallow retards comes in your vicinity just coz u have some power to attract people and appeal one..i really donno..as was a sufferer of Obsession...people wanting to be part of my life...i had bad repurcussion..and there are many many things to bring in table ...it's called your empathy,love.. helpfulness your ideas..people ll get latched on to you or attracted to you..her perception or judgement seems solely on looks..looks are gifted..u can either born ugly average or beautiful..but it's important you inculcate good values things and skills that is important than anything..
@@emmarose7491 forget .she is insecure ..so much fillers in lips already...looking beautiful.. gaining confidence and than wat happens one grows old..they can become ugly as possum..and that's where thes people ll cry and become a desparate measure to colour their lonesome lives
you look so smart in comparaison to your age! I realised what you are speaking about when I get older ( at 24 )
“ I had women come up to me and were like, my husband finds you mesmerizing”
JFC this lady is egocentric and narcissistic af 😂
No self respecting wife will come up to you and say that. No less, no husband is stupid enough to express that to his wife.
fr like that’s honestly weird asl 😭😭
I think you’re completely wrong. I’m married and I am like you said "a wife with self respect". Self-respect is about knowing your own worth and also having good and true conversations with whom you relate. I’ve always had this kind of conversation with my husband. Many people are not in the habit of being honest, but that doesn’t mean they don’t think about the beauty of a stranger on the street. There is also the issue that finding someone mesmerizing will not automatically make you jump on that person’s lap.
It’s not the fact that you bring to a conversation what you really think “prevents you from doing something” but your commitment to who you relate to.
A lot of people don't say what they think and yet betray their companions.
I have seen this happen with my sister, married ladies have come up to her and said, “my husband and I find you absolutely beautiful” so I believe it 😅
You have no idea how important this video came at this time for me. I was doing much more reflection (must be the retrogrades) and I seem to attract jealous friends or people. I don’t flaunt anything or brag (if anything I’m the opposite and need to change that and start owning myself). Anyhoo, I was told that the pure hearted are unfortunately the target of narcissists. They want to radiate that energy, try to emulate it but can’t and will pull you down to being themselves up and passively hate you in front of you face. I learned to detach completely and it’s a life changer. Ignorance is truly bliss. Detachment is everything. So underrated
I can relate so much to this video, people have always told me that I have a vibrant energy and I didn't know how until now and this is such a confidence boost
Confidence and narcissism are two different things lmao
@@Icydamuffinmane thank you someone sees who she is 😂 i can’t with thèse self help youtubers girl or guy tbh all the same
This is the first time i have ever left a comment on a video, but i couldn't help but say that i was so shook that most of the things u said are the definition of me, there is literally sentences in that video that i exactly said years ago, for me this wasn't advice this was a confirmation that i wasn't crazy im on the right path and there is at least someone like me out there even tho its miles and miles away. Hope we can meet one day because the benefits of it would be unbelievable.
Same
I love you liz!! The fact that you listen to Sandra as well!! ❤ I love her! I watch her like my wise grandmother!
I agree that it’s a good thing to be a bit detached and to base your value on yourself and not others, however I don’t believe we are born and die completely alone. The nurses that delivered you, the doctors treating you, the builders that put up the hospital all helped in some way. It’s not personal help (they aren’t your best friend) but general human compassion and connection. ❤
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Love the confidence of her. That deserves a sub.
It’s probably because you are very beautiful and yeah are also confident or have a nice energy like you say. People tend to put beautiful people on a popularity pedestal for some reason and and apply all sorts of other positive character traits to it. You see it with celebrity culture people are obsessed with beautiful unique people and want to be like them.
People are weird.
Wow. I came into this video thinking “you’re genuinely beautiful, of course everyone’s gonna gravitate you” but I’m so glad that I decided to finish the whole video anyways.
Here’s my reflection.
So I won’t lie, I still believe that you being very physically attractive plays a significant role in the treatment you get, but there’s still a lot of wisdom that I gained from this whole video. One that really hit home for me was when you said “people come into your life and leave when it’s meant to happen”. It helped me to stop being mad about the people who left my life and to really appreciate their role in my life. Yeah we may have ended in bad terms, or good terms but in the end, them leaving has actually helped me learn something. Every time.
Honestly I’d recommend everyone to watch the full video before commenting. I promise you’ll learn a lot
Those are basic concepts taken word by word from self improvement books.
If you are so self-confident - why get the lip fillers and the gigantic veneers 🤣
Exactly lol
I haven’t watched the whole video yet but I think the only reason people become obsessed with you is because you are so attractive and that’s not the case for everybody so it might be hard to make someone obsessed with you if you’re not at least 7/10.
Some peoples personality shines through so they become so attractive even if they are not but also that is not likely to happen if you are a shy person.
Shy+not so attractive is mixture of an extremely social anxious person.
I might sound like a very insecure person and I am, I do like myself and rate it 7/10 but I think most people would rate me 5/10, that did not affect me until recently cause I realised that most people don’t find me attractive even my friends. I know that I shouldn’t see myself through the eyes of other people but is hard not to, cause if I want people to become “obsessed” with me at least I have to be pleasing to their eyes.
I really hope that I overcome this lack of confidence as soon as possible cause it’s really affected my mental health so badly 🙏🏾
But in fact I find it sick to want people to be attracted to you. For what purpose? There are much deeper and more fulfilling things in life to commit oneself to, such a desire can lead to making oneself obsessive in the first place, especially in the most insecure people, to whom this thought could give the illusion of power, but I don't think this is the right way to solve self-esteem problems.
It would be more important to teach the importance of the fact that it's okay if you're not the center of attention, it's okay if you walk into a room and nobody considers you, who cares.
That’s what she telling bruh if you think you are 7/10 ppl gonna think that start doing these things and seee the change
I hope you one day like yourself enough to tell yourself you’re more than a perceived 5. You are not being realistic, you’re being rude.
This has happened to me all my life but i never talk about it cuz ppl just end up thinking im bragging. Like literally all the time in a group setting, everyone wants to sit with me, talk with me, want my attention. I'v had people stare at me in an unsetteling amount. I've had people imitate what i wear and eat and do. Even in my friend group its always blatantly obvious that im their top priority. To this day I've never understood the reasoning behind it. And trust me im not tryna be humble but I dont posses any form of astonishing attractiveness. Average looking with a somewhat fit body.This video was very informative. Tysm for speaking so frankly about this topic
It’s easier to say when you are attractive and you know it
Liz talking about her mom is the cutest thing 💓
Obsession doesn’t come with, only because the person is hot. Many girls are pretty and don’t get the same type of obsession, many people are not that great looking and yet people are mesmerised by them because of what they exude. People want to be around people who carry themselves in a way that is attractive and endearing, attractiveness and potent obsessions from others doesn’t simply stem from looks otherwise it would be too easy. Now, I am not saying that being pretty doesnt come with its privileges but i am stating that if that is all you have then it will not last long. Your morals and the way you go about life creates an energy that a lot will try to understand and partake of, therefore explaining what shes saying in the video.
As an immigrant, I felt like I don't belong here. I graduated top of my class. and was very dedicated to my work and learning. I find myself in a place where I don't feel like I belong anymore. I wasted a lot of time doing nothing and wallowing in self pitty after losing two of m brothers to drugs and suicide. I was eager to learn and make progress in life. After having gone through these tragedies I just gave up in making mt dreams come true. and becoming the best version of myself.
"You shouldn't bring people down"...later in the video "people are boring and their life is pathetic so they fantasize about me " X'D
That’s still true tho, people who have no purpose in life are obsessed with internet celebrities and so much superficial things. They forget what makes them and invest their energy on perpetual worshipping. It is pathetic.
It shows how self obsessed you are !! And it's good
If people are obsessed with you then you're picking the wrong friends. Nobody should be obsessed with anyone.
ok 🥰
I used to be in these situations in high school, then i had to think deeply into why. I realised perhaps i'm making the wrong friends, boyfriends etc. I was clearly gravitating towards individuals who were insecure or gloated about me, subconsciously it made me feel good. When I stopped and started creating meaningful relationships, all that changed.
You clearly didn't watch the video
she very ugly tbh
She's a narcissist with an underlying insecure and avoidant personality, of course she is going to attract anxious and clingy people. It's pretty telling that she has obviously no insight into that and attributes it to her 'flawless' personality and not the fake, superficial persona that she has created.
Yes im 45. Time flies girls!! Trust the advice Liz gives :) thet being said i dont think we ever waste anything in life, because we always evolve. Im loving my life and i still think im young. Time doesnt exist. ✅️
This woman is exceptionally beautiful. That’s it. That’s why men and women alike are obsessed with her.
I knew a girl in Portland, OR like this once. She was exceptionally attractive. Like one in a million level attractive. Deep down she was an awful, entitled, deluded brat…but no one cared. She just got away with it and everyone swooned over her.
So yeah, this is what life is like for the 1 in a million.
Its not because of that. Liz chooses to look like this because she values herself, she talks about how you need to take care of your appearance in her videos
This is the perfect example of exactly what a narcissist person would say. Me, me, me, me. Which is fine if you like these kind of people.
I think, as a human no one should strive to be obsessed by someone or to obsess over someone. Human Life is way more than that. The goal should be self content and finding peace from the within. Obsession in general can turn very negative very quickly so rather strive for balance in your emotions ,in your work and in your relationships.
I agree 100%