KNITTING for my STUPID MENTAL HEALTH
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ค. 2024
- Watch me work through a tough mental health day.
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00:00 - Intro
06:44 - Getting off the Couch
10:41 - Yarn & Thoughts
27:51 - Swatching
34:00 - Cat Quiz
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You somehow perfectly described the “decision fatigue and desire to get out of the house without wanting to spend money” on a bad mental health day, I experience this way to often lol
Yes, decision fatigue. Great word(s)! I feel like literally leaving the house was what got me in a good mood and we all know that helps but it’s still sooooo hard to fricken do
Oohhh yes exactly! On days like these I go to the library so my monkey brain thinks we're buying something new.
Decision fatigue is definitely a thing! ❤
“Stay out of the comments” are the wisest words I’ve ever heard.
The quiz at the end proved to me that I cannot, in fact, tell your cats apart 😆
as an anxious human, I have never felt more seen and understood than listening to your unfiltered and very real ramblings on your anxious thoughts. I really struggle when I consume short form content too. the term emotional whiplash hits the nail on the head. I feel like we are all the most connected but disconnected at the same time. it’s disheartening and exhausting. which is definitely why I really feel so much safer and calmer consuming and also creating on youtube!
I totally agree. TH-cam feels like a much safer space! Also, love your videos. I was so impressed with your Folklore cardigan! How’s your Arctic Lights sweater coming along? My jaw dropped when she came out with that pattern and I’m obsessed.
I love that the kitties are helping lift your mood. Maybe add 'wind yarn' to the list of things that lift your mood. So much fun!
Love that! They’re so good at looking after me :)
One of my kitties tried to get the yarn on the TV screen! So cute!
😂@@mandeliongardens
I can't believe that someone would leave negative comments, your videos are wonderful. Thank you for all your hard work.
Thank you too! That’s so sweet of you to say 🥰
I found this so engaging and real. Thanks for the open non-nonsense way of addressing the different aspects of social media and mental health and all. Very helpful. And lovely to watch the cats!
Thank you! I so so so appreciate you saying that 💜
It looked like when you were casting on while sitting on the couch, your cat decided to guard your yarn. 'No one is touching moms yarn!' Perhaps the thought of getting her own yarn for helping you ran through her thoughts. 😊
This was a really fun video. It sucks to get negative comments, but it was entertaining to hear how dumb they were, I admit. You were unbelievably clear that the video in question was about ESSENTIALS, not 'nice-to-haves', or 'the best tools and accessories'. Your content is super relaxed and enjoyable, so I think any video is appreciated. Nice work!
Your style (video ideas, color grading, way of talking. Etc) are literally what differentiate you and make your videos entertaining and worthwhile for my busy brain.❤
I love how you colourgrade your videos, it truly fits the cozy vibes of your content!🌼
There is so much negativity in the world. It amazes me when people say such negative things about me and they don’t know me. You have to be so intentional about keeping yourself positive since the world is so negative. Your video on notions and supplies were on point. You were not judgmental, only helpful for those who are new to the craft.
The inner conflict about consumption is so real. I 100% agree with all the stuff you said about overconsumption and guilt about not thrifting something. I feel that! I think some of that guilt is valid and important but at a certain point we gotta enjoy life. I justify it by knowing that I am going to purchase from a small company and that money is more likely to go back into my local economy, stuff like that. Good video, I really resonate with all the stuff you're saying
1. Great outfit
2. I didn't expect this video to have such a wealth of birds
I’m entering my birding phase of life. I feel like it’s crazy to not get excited whenever I see a duck
I found you as a recommended channel after watching Engineering Knits. Your work is the perfect kind of slow and cozy and mindful content that soothes after a long day of work. Do what you do because you love it and it will attract people who love it too ❤
Thank you for posting. Its nice to see that Im not the only one who has this kind of days
Your videos consistently make me feel so at peace and so comfy. Your conversation and casual videos are lovely too - not just the more "organized" ones!
I appreciate you talking about negative comments. It’s something to consider before going online. Stacy Perry at Very Pink Knits recommends caking your yarn twice. It makes for a loose cake. I just got a yarn winder and have been caking twice every ball of yarn I have. It’s soothing and satisfying ❤. Take care, friend.
Yes to caking twice! 🥰 that’s such a great tip
And I join the commenters now. The unnecessary stuff vid was the first one I've seen, like tons of people, and I was really hesitant to watch it because of the clickbaity title. TH-cam wanted me to see it for a few days and I gave in finally on a day I just ran out of my regular, carefully curated, podcasts. While my opinions are wildly different on those categories, I completely fell for the mood you set. Cheers and thank you for keeping me company while I crochet or knit!
I always want the yarn shop people to think I look cool 😅
😂 SAME! It’s a struggle. I kinda want a tshirt to wear to the yarn store that says “I was too anxious to wear a hand knit sweater”
This felt like a really good video to help you process everything. Thanks so much for being vulnerable and speaking up about your experiences on social media. Social media can be such a blessing, but there are definitely days when it feels more like a curse and can weigh so heavily! I really enjoy all of your videos and am so glad you’re here! This video warmed my heart, as do your kitties always. I too have a channel and sometimes those silly comments intended to be hurtful affect me more than I care to admit. But reminding oneself, as you said, it’s the minority and there’s soooo much good that comes out of it. Anyway, I hope you have a great week! Excited to see how this new project evolves!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I totally agree and love the community side of social media (like this) ❤️
Connecting to nature puts things back in perspective.
Mental health is real. I suffer too. I have severe depression and anxiety and there is many times I don't like to go out. Bring around people, especially getting out of an abusive relationship for 2 yrs. Living my life took me a long time to get back.
People need a life or a hobby then worrying about what every one else is doing
Oh so agreed and thank you for sharing your experience. That’s wild!
I have anxiety in my life over legit and irrational things. I used to overthink like you do about shopping until one day I said enough and put myself first. Yes, I try to do my best for the environment but some days when I know I'm not in a good place, I allow myself to indulge in what makes me happy.
People seem to be offended by almost everything these days, and maybe just because they want to. It’s impossible to engage in fruitful discussions that way. Better leave them alone sulking than spending your energy on them. Love how you handled that comment section. Thank you for sharing your piece of mind ❤
Your videos are like a little talk with a friend, while you both drink tea and crochet. Really cool, keep it up)
My first video with you was your essential video. I found your take refreshing. Some items you deemed as non essential I have and never reach for and others I do. I agree with you on most of them. I’ve been back every episode since. I love your aesthetic and minimalist and responsible approach. Thank you
I’m glad to hear that the negative comments didn’t excessively bother you. Your content and demeanor would be sorely missed if you quit posting!
Omg thank you!
Those geese were either paid actors or divine/universal intervention to make you happy
I slipped them each a crisp $20. They're emotional support geese.
I’m glad you decided to post this. I love that you’re so transparent about your mental health. I’m like that, too. I hope it helps normalize talking about mental health. Great yarn, and - I have a cat named Pippin, too! 😻
I couldn’t agree more. I love the TH-camrs that speak on mental health and share. I’m glad they paved the way to make it easier to share. I also just can’t pretend to be feeling awesome when I really don’t feel awesome
@@BreathingYarn I spent too much of my life pretending to feel awesome when I didn’t. Kudos to you for learning earlier than I did. ❤️
My son called the stores "mommy zoo" because I looked but seldom bought. If knitting really helps mental health I should be much happier as this is third time starting this sweater...brain fog is no fun when following many options in pattern. Have always hated going to stores but since covid has been so much worse. hang in there
Okay. I need a dedicated Cats & Ballwinders channel. 😻
I have one of those days today, so when I saw the title I immediately clicked. Just went for a walk and now I am going to organize my closet to get rid of some things that brings me down just by hanging there and taking up space. Thank you for the gentle push ❤
I cannot even explain how much the way that you talk about social media and mental health resonates and makes me think I could do the same and I really appreciate you sharing!
I love knowing I’m not the only one
You have a healthy attitude to the negative comments you got. There will always be people who just want to be mean to others for their own unexamined reasons. It says everything about them and nothing about you.
as a black cat owner, I love your babies!!! I just discovered your channel, glad to learn more about you!
Omg, your cat playing with the yarn on the swift was so cute. Love how so many creators & non creators can relate to one other about having their good and bad days. Please keep being a strong and great influencer.
I am impressed that your cats stay when you are winding. my cat Lucy, (and before her, Micha) would run for the hills when I wound yarn. Same yarn winder by-the-way. love it.
My cats were playing with the winder and sitting under it a lot 😂
I also go to the yarn store if I need an emotional boost. The ladies at my LYS are sooo sweet! I'm glad you have a healthy response to negative comments.
The people that insult are just doing it to bring others down. Misery loves company. Way to be above it.
I cant put into words how much I love you rn- I'm recovering from surgery and I've been feeling pretty shitty , thank u you've helped me alot rn
Glad to hear that the negative comments on your video did not affect your mental health. Sometimes it’s just noise. 🧡
I adore your cats. They add an additional layer of calm to your videos. I almost got everything right at your little quiz. 😂 ~ Kat
That’s impressive. My husband only got 7/9 😂 and he’s the biggest cat dad ever.
Dang, you nailed it about the emotional whiplash. The emotional whiplash is real! Like numbing on your senses. It's hard to quit social media, especially post-covid because booktube and crochettube have brought me community that I've never had. I guess I need to only get on when notifications signal my subscription channels and stay off shorts 💓 I hope tomorrow brings you more peach of mind.
I'm in the same boat. I think it's time for me to steer clear of scrolling shorts and reels.
@@BreathingYarn We can do it! I bet we'll have withdrawals for like 2-3 days and then by week 1 we'll feel better and by week 2 it won't even be something we reach for anymore. Want to try and check back in?
I just cannot get enough of your videos! So calming and very agreable to watch. Maybe it's the adorable cats, not giving a frick over taking the spotlight 💚
🥰 I’m loving how much they adore being the center of attention
I did a social media break for January. I put a timer on Instagram and try to follow knitting content and healthy recipes or workouts. I try to stay out the comments sections. If something gets to me, I do something productive to get a good feeling. Hugs. In my 50s... don't overthink anything and do not give a flying **** what people think of me. 😊
What is the white mountain in the horizon! Loved your nature walk! 😊
Love the yarn you got!! Happy you feel happier! 🥰
Oh. And mental health is not stupid. It's important for self care and to be healthy.
I love this. I also need to stay out of the comment section when consuming media, it’s so unhelpful.
I have two black kitties too! Dodge and Diesel. They are turning 4 in April!
I feel like for people with me, who enjoy watching things like people organizing their kitchen or whatever, something low intensity, this video format is amazing. And also, honestly that yarn choice with that pattern seems like it's going to be really, really beautiful and well matched.
I mostly opt for watching lo-fi videos too. I know alot of us need the chill vibes and slowing down.
@@BreathingYarn yeah, truly! I love the stuff you're putting out, so clearly your lo-fi energy is plentiful 🥰
I love all your videos so much ! They have the same vibe as sitting with your friend on the couch and rambling over tea. Plus your two cats are adorable and I love how much we get to see them in the video :)
Love that! I live far away from all my family/friends and would send them long rambling Snapchat videos of my knitting and realized that with a little editing, I was half way there to creating TH-cam videos. I love channels where I feel like I’m chilling with a friend and I’m so glad I get to do it too!
I'm glad i came across your channel - that supplies video was being heavily pushed by the youtube algorithm, so i like to imagine some of the nasty comments couldn't possibly pass judgment on your character simply because these are not the circles they run in. It's a real shame the sheer amount of negativity that exists online right now, i myself am not sure how to deal with it just seeing it everyday, so i cant quite comprehend the scale of which it affects bigger creators
I scored abysmally in that pop quiz... I thought I had Pippin picked out but it turned out to be Merry half the time.
I threw in some purposefully tough pictures 😂
I didn't think I could tell your cats apart, but I mostly-ish could! Unreasonably excited about that right now.
Thank you for sharing how you were feeling. It's so good to see someone honestly processing the tough stuff. Thank you for being so real.
Hi Isabella, i just watched the Essetial vs. Extra Video (all the way to the end as you can see) and i can not believe that anyone actually got any of it so wrong.
I was almost annoyed at how often you said that this was YOUR opinion and that anyone should have anything they desire and can afford to own.
I loved your categories and agree on most, i do own several pairs of scissors and some (selfmade) project bags though. As i can not use metal knitting needles - they hurt my hands and i can not tolerate the sound - I am using bamboo and wood, i do not own double pointed needles, i use two circulars and do a cross between dpn and magic loop knitting.
The yarn you bought is very pretty, although it´s way out of my colour scheme, i wish you many hours of happiness knitting with it.
I am glad i found your channel today, for many reasons.
All the best,
Pinguinpullover / Su
Love the quiz at the end 😂. And no I can’t tell your cats apart but they are both adorable.
I made that quiz extra hard 😂
This was wholesome as frick
Do you ever feel like if you just reached one person, it would all be worthwhile?
I see a whole comment section that says you’ve reached a whole freaking boatload of us!
Hell… you even got me knitting again after a few years hiatus… one of the colour work scarves I’ve picked back up, Ravelry told me I started in 2015!
So here’s to you, you beautiful soul, you! 🥂
13:54 Damn… that funky noise right there… makes me want a swift, hahaha, why???
That’s amazing!! The 7 year scarf, it’ll be beautiful 😊
I love the energy of this video. I am really surprised you got such over-the-top negative comments on your essentials video, especially since you gave such an extensive disclaimer at the beginning. You were much more accommodating than I would have been had I made a video about my opinions on the essentials :D
😂 I assume it’s just people showing that they didn’t pay attention to the whole video, didn’t read the description, or missed the whole point 😂 I was also intentionally pretty gentle in that video. IRL, I’m way more assertive and opinionated.
I adored this video. So much honesty and calm - just an intelligent chat with some yarn winding - the perfect Sunday afternoon for me! ❤ thank you for sharing it ❤❤
The title speaks to my soul!
Your name speaks to my soul. Smiles are special! 😊
I really enjoy your videos :)
Negative comments/ eh just skip over them. Maybe they had a bad day or bad year. 🤷🏽♀️ what matters is that there are tons of us that enjoy hearing your opinions or preferences. I think you’re brave to share them.
You are the sweetest thing. It’s so calming to watch your videos and I always giggle at your sweet cats being so interested in your yarn. I have three cats and they also love watching them on the screen. Glad your purchase brightened your day.
Oh my gosh thank you for being so sweet! I’m so glad my cats love being apart of my crafting. They’re so good at reminding me to not be so serious.
nope, i still can't tell your cats apart, even after the quiz XD
I just learnt that I definitely cannot tell your cats apart 😂
Mental health is so important! Thank you for sharing your experience!
I'm loving the cat content 😄🤩 knitting + cats = a great day/TH-cam watch. Also I really appreciate your rambling/hangout style of video!
I so appreciate the raw honesty in your videos! Keep putting this out there, it’s real, many of us feel the same, think the same and relate completely!
Omg!!! My cats are also named Merry and Pippin, and Pippin is also a black cat!! This makes me unreasonably happy 💜 I knitted along with this video and had such a pleasant experience. Your videos are a breath of fresh air and I hope you have a lovely day!!
Yess 🙌🏻 another LOTR appreciator and lover of hobbits (I assume) it’s the biggest f*cking compliment for someone to say my videos are on while they knit!
Okay, but pippin playing with your yarn totally made my day. They’re so cute! Also your swatch totally made me realize that I can always work with my gauge and adjust to it! Why didn’t I ever think of that? Thanks for sharing that info!
Oh heck yea! I feel like I never bother checking the needle size and gauge on patterns until after I swatch 😂 it started as carelessness and is now “my process” lol.
I am happy u could ford the negative comments. I really enjoy watching your tubes! Glad u r here!
I can absolutely not tell apart your cats 😺😺, but I love to see them though. Great video, was watching while I was also knitting for my stupid mental health. 💞
I would be soooo sad if supid negative comments kept you from making more TH-cam videos! I love watching your stuff
Thank you! ☺️ I started this channel with the intention to make only 20 videos and then decide if I want to continue or stop all together. I’m not at 20 yet but I already know I’m in it long term. I’m having a great time!
I'm so glad this video made it online. I enjoy watching you because you are real and honest about not always feeling up to podcasting. Having a full time job and still doing this is amazing! Please do this as often or as little as suits you!
Gotta say, I too love your aesthetic and you reminded me of a story: I once went semi-viral for a picture of a waterfall. I had posted, to a local news site, a side-by-side comparison of our local (rather famous) waterfall before and after a storm. The site reposted it and that's when it went viral. Most comments were "wow, isn't nature amazing" type stuff. And then there were the handful of just deeply unhappy people who started examining the photos and yelling about how I had clearly photoshopped them (I hadn't) or the pictures must have been taken months apart (it was 8 days). It was all so silly. Like, what incentive do I have to fake a waterfall picture? That day I learned that the internet is a weird place and some people are just very unhappy. I'm glad I have cats and yarn to retreat to when it all gets to be too much.
Wow, that's wild! I waterfall photo of all things, what a perfect example of just how beautiful and simultaneously silly the internet can be.
Ohhh thanks for putting the short form video feed experience in words, that's one of the reasons I hate it so much! The lack of conrol too, also algorithms sucks. And then if you take a step back and kinda observe the soundscape of scrolling those reels - it's SO chaotic! Short loud bursts of unrelated sounds, my brain honestly just can't take it. So I'm definitely with you there.
It’s an overstimulation nightmare 😂
Both your yarns look LOVELY! I hope the sweater turns out the way you imagined it - or better.
And aren't you the lucky one with 2 lovely furry voids in your life 🐈⬛🐈⬛😻
I am so lucky to have them! I love your profile pic btw!!
I left social media - the usual places - 3 years ago and it’s the best thing I ever did - I focus on me and mine and that’s it - I even stopped watching the news December 2022 - the world hasn’t stopped turning - me knowing that the world is full of awful things and people won’t change anything - look after yourself - Paula (55) ❤
Thanks Paula. I’m so happy I deleted TikTok a few years ago, that was a big help. Instagram is next. Luckily my husband keeps up on the news for me and we have an arrangement where he’ll update me on anything important which is soooo appreciate!!
@@BreathingYarn 🩷
I have the exact same necklace that you wore when going out for yarn! I've never seen anyone else with it! I think I got it from a thrift store years ago! I havent worn it in years but thanks for reminding me to!
Wow, that’s amazing. It was a gift I got in middle school!
@@BreathingYarn I was also in middle school when I got mine!
What a wonderful video!
I appreciate you speaking to the guilt that can come with buying yarn as a "frivolous" purchase! I just bought more yarn for a project I am IN THE MIDST OF but still feel guilty about :0
end of the day, it brings me joy and is not in excess, so it is worth it ! (I've decided)
I always feel like I’m alone with these thoughts/feelings which is crazy. Thank you for sharing that you have a similar experience. I know mentally that I’m not blowing rent money on yarn or anything so I really should chill 😂
I loved this video. Your realness is appreciated and refreshing. That’s my opinion and anyone who can’t appreciate someone having an opinion or being authentic when putting themselves out there in a creative fashion, are emotionally immature, unhappy and insecure. That’s the only way I can make sense of those people lol. Keep doing this how YOU want to! You’re awesome and I like the LOTR names for your kitties.
Gorgeous shopping outfit! And stop overthinking everything! You’re okay!
Spun Right Round is from my area!!! Super happy to hear the shout out.
That’s amazing!
I found your channel and you are so real and soothing and if that brings you joy, embrace it. Ignore the negative comments - if they didn’t make them on your content, they’d make them on someone else’s (and probably have)!
This video was so calming and pleasing. I love seeing creators just being real people and not always putting on a happy face for the sake of content
Every time I watch one of your videos I pick up my knitting and I am better for it
Aw kitties! That bit where you took the yarn away whilst winding and that fantastic 'but it was here? Where's it gone? moment' 🖤 🐈⬛ enjoy your new project.
I resonated soooo hard with how you were feeling in the beginning of the video about anti-consumerism and anxiety. I even have an old (2005) car too! Sometimes all it takes is getting sun on your face & even just touching some yarn to remind yourself how good life is sometimes. Can we be friends??? 🤗
Hell yea! Another old car driver. 😊 I really should’ve mentioned it in the video but you’re spot on. Actually buying the yarn did very little for my mood, it was getting outside and walking around the shop that helped the most!
I am very proud of you! Your videos help me a lot with depression. Thank you for posting this high quality content and don’t feel pressured to post. I will always watch your videos, no matter how consistent you upload them. Love youuuu and sending hugs from Berlin
Okay, a few things.
I decided not to comment on your essentials vs extra video, because it was your first video I'd watched back then and I like to get to know creators better before engaging with them. I've been slowly working through the backlog of videos you have available and I've loved the journey of discovering a new favorite youtuber! I think now we're at the point in our very parasocial relationship that I can reach out and say "hey, your videos make me happy!" just so that you have a nice comment and know what impact you can have in someone's daily life by just posting beautiful, cozy and genuinely hilarious videos.
Pippin trying to eat the yarn made me giggle so much, you have no idea.
Regarding the same timestamp in the video, with the negativity chit chat you had: people will go out of their way to misunderstand things just so that they have the opportunity to spew vitriol and/or try to hurt and upset someone else. I'm glad you could stay emotionally detached from that. It's honestly not worth engaging with them, because the worst thing you could do to them is block their comment and ignore them completely - people like that hate not receiving the attention they sought out.
On a completely different topic, I love that we have the same name!! In Brazilian Portuguese, when people have the same name they're "xarás", which is a non-familial way of saying "twinsies" in English. So, hi, xará, love your videos!! I'm absolutely crazy in love with Pippin and Merry, thank you for blessing your videos with footage of them
P.S.: I can only tell the cats apart if their faces are really clear in the picture, because Pippin has a singular white spot on the inner corner of the eyes and Merry has one on each side LOL
I love that, “Xarás” 🥰 hi to you as well and thank you so much for dropping this comment, I appreciate your very kind words!
I struggle a lot with my mental health and sometimes I need to take a break from social media entirely, so just wanted to let you know that what you have expressed in this video really resonates, so thank you for that.
That yarn feels like spring! Like robins eggs nestled in a tree! So lovely!
Such a poetic and spot-on description!
I haven’t finished the video but had to comment to say thank you for not filming and driving! It makes me so anxious when creators film and drive.
I am glad you posted this. I crochet to calm and center nyself.
Thank you for your honesty and openness. Your demonstration of self care is so uplifting. Your channel is gives me a feeling of hygge
Thank you 😊 hygge is the biggest compliment!
This video was a breath of fresh air. The way you're patient and kind with yourself is something I will start right now. I'm a crocheter and I will go subscribe now. 🤍😊
Woolfolk yarn is insanely comfy and lovely but expensive! Since it pills easily I like it for hats and scarves ❤
That's good to know! I'm glad someone else can share their experience with the yarn. Luckily, I dont mind pilling too much, so I am really glad to hear that it's a comfy yarn.
Thanks for posting. The end quiz was really fun.
I'm glad you decided to cast on THE sweater. I know what that is like questioning if the yarn is good enough for THE sweater. I haven't found my good enough yet.
lol, it only took over a year to find the yarn 🧶 now I just gotta not overthink it
Thank you for this new episode, Isabella😊. Please, don't be sad because of those stupid critics. You are so warm and nice and your style is so beautiful and very personal! You have so good taste, but is not for everyone, only for those with good taste too. The resembling with Wes Anderson style is right 😊 I like his style so much and I recommend you his new fil, "Asteroid City", is so warm and human. And the colours are amazing, you would like those combinations and the harmony, I think!
I love Wes Anderson films! I saw Asteroid City in theaters twice and loved it. Fantastic Mr.Fox is also a favorite but I like all his movies. His eye for color is otherworldly.
O, Fantastic Mr. Fox is my favorite, is full of heart and very clever, but I liked also "French Dispatch" and all his movies.
I recognize all your thoughts
I never understand negative comments. If people don’t like what they see, they should stop the video and watch something else.
I think it says more about the commenter than the video. And because they’re really not people whose opinion is valuable, you really shouldn’t be upset. Actually you should feel validated. 😁
I loved this video. I love the realness. And I think it's so important to be aware of your mental health needs. I applaud you x
I like wearing something that i made to my LYS. They always compliment me on the knitwear.
Also sometimes it helps when i have questions. Like when I'm searching for a yarn and have something knitted in a similar yarn i can wear the top and show them how it drapes.
Thank you for sharing! I liked the video you did even though I disagreed with some things. You have a right to have your opinion. But people should really be more kind in general.