Does a Relationship Complete us? | Q&A Eckhart Tolle

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  • @forlifeandoceans
    @forlifeandoceans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    Was actually sobbing, asking God for an answer to this exact question, opened TH-cam to look for A new Earth snippets, and found this new video on the channel. So grateful

    • @YaTut169
      @YaTut169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The only thing that is appearing to stop you from enlightenment/self-realization/eternal life/knowing yourself to be unconditional love is identification with thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences instead of being aware of being aware and knowing yourself to be that unconditional love pure consciousness in which all thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences appear but are not inherently one with you; they are an expression of unconditional love; you are that infinite that is expressing itself as suffering/pleasure but inherently you are neither; you are that nothing/unconditional love/pure consciousness in which they are appear and by which they are perceived;
      Suffering/pleasure comes and goes; there is an awareness that is aware of them coming and going; that you are; remember and know what you are; never identify with anything that is appearing within you; since it appears within you; it can't be you; you are that in which it appears. When you abide as that in which it appears instead of identifying; nothing has a grip on you; if anything comes; it quickly goes; like clouds passing; only if you identify as a cloud then it will appear as if the cloud is here for longer than it is originally supposed to; if you simply rest as the awareness and do not identify; it will quickly dissolve; be unconditional love by being aware of being aware; this is the highest; this is what you are seeking in absolutely everything else; you are seeking yourself; you are seeking unconditional love; but you are looking outside of yourself; instead of being aware that you already are unconditional love. Love love

    • @correctioneffected4319
      @correctioneffected4319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They always seem to show up for me as an answer when no other outer thing seems able

    • @realshanedejongh8455
      @realshanedejongh8455 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@YaTut169 Thank you for Enlightening us alll here , very much appreciated Brother. It's Pleasing to stumble upon another Eckart Tolle ​ @Sebastian Key - Truth, Consciousness, Bliss . Take care My SON

    • @UrAWizard
      @UrAWizard 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing

    • @correctioneffected4319
      @correctioneffected4319 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@YaTut169 I especially like the part where the cloud stays for longer than it was origionally supppsed to ... Bad cloud lol

  • @mdmmalou
    @mdmmalou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    If you've been programmed you are not enough to be loved from childhood, then you get lost in longing for love by searching it in others. Until you realize that love is within you even if you are taught different. Don't look for you in the eyes of others.

    • @OliverandLucas
      @OliverandLucas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow... thank you

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @reneewolf1738
      @reneewolf1738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don’t look for you in the eyes of others...that is absolutely profound and stopped me in my tracks. This teaching from Eckhart and your phrase really was a moment of pure consciousness for me.

    • @carl8568
      @carl8568 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People go searching for it (unconsciously) in achievements also, to fill the void of lack.

    • @AA-wc3tw
      @AA-wc3tw ปีที่แล้ว

      It took me almost 40 years to learn this, after being raised by a narcissist.

  • @orin734
    @orin734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    When I feel thirsty and look for some water, only people like Eckhart can quench my thirst..
    Thank you

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @AuthenticSelfGrowth
    @AuthenticSelfGrowth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Relationships are on the level of the physical, emotional and mental. Who you truly are is beyond all these. Enjoy relationships but don't seek you happiness in them 🙏🏽

    • @manojs3728
      @manojs3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Superb! Indeed!!

    • @mariameere5807
      @mariameere5807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Very well said! I no longer feel the need for a relationship of that kind! When you get the relationship right between you and your higher self then all other relationships fall into place! I love being alone now, but we are never really alone when we have access to consciousness! Which is constant!🦋

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariameere5807 true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @mariameere5807
      @mariameere5807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@michellethompson6999 You’ve tried this on so many people when are you going to give up the con??? The people of this channel are way too intuitive and not at all as vulnerable as you think spiritual people are to have hit this community looking for victims! My ego is not responding or reacting I’m simply saying that I know what you’re up to without negative emotion.

  • @tabaradiagne3739
    @tabaradiagne3739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm only 20 but I've been on the spiritual journey for a little bit more than a yeaars and a half...
    I just wanted to say that I feel so glad to have seen Eckhart's videos and teachings at such a young age...I feels amazing

  • @elodieleaf
    @elodieleaf ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Being single is a very powerful experience. I was married, but when I was admitted into palliative care I divorced. I find that being single intensifies my life in a beautiful way. Grateful for your videos🙏🏼

    • @peaceandlove4620
      @peaceandlove4620 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can TOTALLY relate to what you said!! BEAUTIFUL experience for me as well. 😊

    • @elodieleaf
      @elodieleaf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@peaceandlove4620 🎉🎉🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @anandakumarsanthinathan4740
    @anandakumarsanthinathan4740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Eckhart is just as beautiful, innocent, majestic and aware as the tulips behind him.

    • @debbietodd8547
      @debbietodd8547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think those tulips are gladiolas but, yes, he is :-)

    • @peterjohnson8935
      @peterjohnson8935 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ??

    • @annekoenig9414
      @annekoenig9414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Adore your description. I love his pauses follow by a cute hiccup of a giggle.

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @jaggi1973
      @jaggi1973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beautifully said 😊!!

  • @wzupppp
    @wzupppp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This man is like a prophet to me. My life changed after reading the "power of now"

    • @Gaurav.P0
      @Gaurav.P0 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is your life now ?

    • @joewallace9030
      @joewallace9030 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      His life is more now than ever.
      Four months later?: Still now.

  • @wigglezbub
    @wigglezbub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    His spiritual Winnie the Pooh-ness is stronger than usual here!

    • @aogm720401
      @aogm720401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA thank you for saying this, this way🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 This particular feature of his, is what grounds me to be attentive.

    • @marcelaalmeida2382
      @marcelaalmeida2382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂 perfect comment

    • @hellen5955
      @hellen5955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha, yes, feel it also. So nice to read this. 🤗🙏

    • @livingdoll3445
      @livingdoll3445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi it's Annie thank you Eckhart this is a very good talk. I have been celibate for almost 15yrs as I could not find honesty and faithfulness from a partner always had been with some one who could not be faithful and that has always been important to me in a relationship. We feel closer to God as you say when we stop looking for some one out there.

    • @soulwaves20000
      @soulwaves20000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or care bear hahahaha

  • @Evolveyouawakened
    @Evolveyouawakened 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the most precious answer for handling desire of any kind...love money acceptance whatever desire that brings suffering.
    Eckhart Tolle thank you

  • @eileen945
    @eileen945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This lesson is coming quite late in life for me... @ 67.
    better late than never though,. It is
    starting to compel me to find the joy in it.
    That is a beautiful thing. I’m learning

  • @prkzoomin6994
    @prkzoomin6994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A Good Quote, Today is the Perfect Day to be Happy

  • @mousumidas6607
    @mousumidas6607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Everyday I watch his videos and each time A breeze of freshness touches me..🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @MrJmuno
    @MrJmuno 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What I gather form this teachings is we we can only work inwardly for that completion and to look at a partner who compliments your journey.

  • @feelflowfree
    @feelflowfree 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Wow, look at the young Eckhart. So cute!!

    • @wzupppp
      @wzupppp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Present Davie he looks very young for his age. I guess thats because of the peace of his mind

    • @georgiec8643
      @georgiec8643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’d like a doll of him and I’d put him on my fireplace x

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @TheDhammaHub
    @TheDhammaHub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    A caring partner and noble friend can certainly assist a lot in a spiritual practice!

    • @mahakala
      @mahakala 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      it is better to walk the path alone than walking with a fool.

    • @elizabethpiela7389
      @elizabethpiela7389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A good friend can be so helpful with spiritual growth! A spouse can be helpful as well, as long as the spouse is not being used to augment one's form. Hollywood kinda does a mind-f in this regard, IMHO..

    • @TheDhammaHub
      @TheDhammaHub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@elizabethpiela7389 It does, but luckily we all have the choice to consume less media =)

    • @Blonde111
      @Blonde111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The point of this talk is what do you do when you have no good friend or partner? People don’t really care unless you can do something to help them...

    • @TheDhammaHub
      @TheDhammaHub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Blonde111 Well... and old Buddhist saying is: to get a noble friend, become a noble friend...

  • @tanya4485
    @tanya4485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just want to say thank you Eckhart for the beautiful, thoughtful way in which you address this woman's question. I have heard others explain similar longings only to be torn apart from some so called awakened people and it breaks my heart. What you offer is such kind insight towards how one can tune into that wholeness within -- it's very freeing. I've learned so much from your kind and open approach. My heart went out to this woman, just so glad you handled this with such care.

  • @ReynaSingh
    @ReynaSingh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Eckhart has such a calm and wonderful presence 🙏🕉 thank you for these videos

    • @alphadraconian3483
      @alphadraconian3483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes absolutely that is exactly what I was thinking too : I love his book and his videos are awesome

    • @RuthGarner
      @RuthGarner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He really does!!

    • @rahuleducationalacademy8356
      @rahuleducationalacademy8356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Om namah shivay

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @marykrone5652
    @marykrone5652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Embrace loneliness.. surrender into it. Grateful for this lesson. Thank you

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @lindakoch9524
      @lindakoch9524 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What steps to take exactly??

  • @Sahasrara1008
    @Sahasrara1008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.
    - David Brinkley.

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @johnathanholman3600
      @johnathanholman3600 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @johnathanholman3600
      @johnathanholman3600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@michellethompson6999 💜💜💜

    • @golondriz3
      @golondriz3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear Spontaneous, Can you explain this quote to me. Thank you.

    • @gabardjean-paul3779
      @gabardjean-paul3779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      life is life - There is no success nor fail - just be it !

  • @TerriblePerfection
    @TerriblePerfection 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hello, beautiful souls! Whether you are single, married, or anything in between, your atoms are part of everything else. You don't need another one person, or children, or anything else that has been paraded before you like a Disney movie. The sun and the stars and the truly astonishing diversity of life is yours to enjoy. Peace and good health to all. 🌍

  • @Gliss_Bliss
    @Gliss_Bliss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Solitude is beautiful. 💗🙏🏼

  • @mountainserenity
    @mountainserenity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Oh, the wisdom of Eckhart Tolle!

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @RuthGarner
    @RuthGarner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    We all want to be loved, knowing, accepting and loving yourself you will be able to love others and connect with others in a nourishing healing way

    • @BbizoCoUk
      @BbizoCoUk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @carpenterfamily6198
    @carpenterfamily6198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Longing is separation from what you already have.

    • @bobstover1336
      @bobstover1336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good point

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @veraintuizione6497
      @veraintuizione6497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@michellethompson6999 Sorry but what are you doing?

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@veraintuizione6497???

    • @veraintuizione6497
      @veraintuizione6497 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michellethompson6999 Ok I got it.👋

  • @RelightwithKat
    @RelightwithKat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Relationships exist to help us become conscious, and more accepting of other people for exactly who they are! That's a very freeing kind of love.

    • @seemranhoro1572
      @seemranhoro1572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes❤

    • @onreact
      @onreact 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good point. Yet most relationships are somewhat dysfunctional. It does not have to be that way. When you're aware together true love can blossom.

    • @RelightwithKat
      @RelightwithKat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@onreact of course. from that dysfunction it can turn into a vehicle for healing even if only one person is willing (which in turn affects the energy dynamic with the other!)

    • @onreact
      @onreact 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RelightwithKat Yeah, sure, been there LOL. It's not a prerequisite though. You can start a relationship with another aware person and omit the ego-driven needy ones.

    • @RelightwithKat
      @RelightwithKat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@onreact hahaha no biggie it's all in the name of growth right;) as we grow more aware i feel like those more unconscious / energy vampires no longer resonate anyway

  • @shoonyah
    @shoonyah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Incompleteness cannot complete incompletenes. Be whole, let the neediness go and the one who compliments you will show up.

  • @angeloiodice9304
    @angeloiodice9304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A great blessing to mankind such a man is.

  • @aliiscott1346
    @aliiscott1346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    eckhart at his most wondrous. Great good fortune to be listening at the feet of You.

  • @heartofhawaii8232
    @heartofhawaii8232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    WHAT a remarkable, deep and thorough look at this eternal "quest" for a soul mate/twin flame. The real understanding that we all need to become aware of. THANK you Eckhart!

  • @leliu5thelement448
    @leliu5thelement448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I am my true whole self, I am already complete. I do not long for another. I do converse in social settings, I enjoy my own company. If I should connect with another whole being that would be wonderful, if not then I still have my true whole self. Love comes from within, not from another. No one can complete you, as you are already complete. look within yourself for answers. If you do not LOVE your true self, you cannot give to another what you do not already have from within. Just my thoughts.

    • @seemranhoro1572
      @seemranhoro1572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @salronmumbai
      @salronmumbai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bravo! Perfect! I'll add when you are loving something, anything, an object too, in That moment you don't need Love, you are actually overflowing it.

  • @carolyn6689
    @carolyn6689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I used to search and look always for someone to love me ..because it would take away my loneliness ,I thought but truly ..you can still be lonely in a relationship ,esp if you have a strong attatchment.There is nothing wrong with being alone ,it means you get to know yourself more and work on being a better person .

    • @manojs3728
      @manojs3728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I completely agree with you This video of Eckhart makes tremendous sense.

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @suzanneadamson1306
    @suzanneadamson1306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Happy is the person who's @ home w/ himself. The pair-bonding trend is peddled to us thru marketing/media, anyhow.

  • @clownworld-honk410
    @clownworld-honk410 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Most people simply cannot be alone. Social stigma also plays a role. I love Eckhart's philosophy on relationships. It's not one I expect you'd hear from on-line dating agencies, though!

  • @shhhh_tell_no_one
    @shhhh_tell_no_one 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    14:14 "Beautiful" 14:25 🧘 thanks for this teachings. God bless you🙏

  • @IWouldChange
    @IWouldChange 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As I'm listening to this and gaining greater realisations about my own patterns in my relationship, my wife is singing 'You Can Make Me Whole Again' downstairs!

  • @molyvan3
    @molyvan3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Love the ways he talk so calm..
    Always helpful 🙏🙏🙏

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @ek4172
    @ek4172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You must become the person you are meant to be before you can be in a relationship successfully, a deep harmonious relationship, a greater partnership. You bring to that what you have discovered within yourself. ( Love and Relationships by *Marshall Vian Summers* )
    You see, if your life is about contribution, you do not have a problem finding people to be with you. Your problem now is choosing the right people to be with. You do not have to worry about a good career. Your problem is choosing the right career. Life bends itself to you who give, so thirsty for giving is life here. If the Presence is with you, people will come to you like magnetism. (Wisdom from The Greater Community Volume I, Chapter 15: Giving, by *Marshall Vian Summers* )

    • @Jac0bIAm
      @Jac0bIAm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beautiful quotes, thank you!

    • @shielanunn3484
      @shielanunn3484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      First know Yourself!

  • @danieljimenezgradilla2246
    @danieljimenezgradilla2246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Eckhart has changed my life, every time I listen to him I learn more and more that helps me reassure that I am awareness, and that has made me realize that this is what it is and I am enjoying every minute of it, and if I ever react, (not enjoying) I can become aware of that, and become conscious, so my life has changed, thank you so much Eckhart, I have being spreding your words and I know that that is part of the evolution of the Universe, where I am totally aware of it, thank you!

  • @kuri190
    @kuri190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God is already complete. The only one who can suffer from incompletion is the separate self (ego).

  • @PsychedelicActualization
    @PsychedelicActualization 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You are already wholeness itself ❤️🙏🏽

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @muhlenstedt
    @muhlenstedt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wonderful, deep and freeing! Thank you!

  • @varshamuzik2149
    @varshamuzik2149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Whoever is reading this
    May all your dreams come true 🤗

    • @lighthousea4655
      @lighthousea4655 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What about your own dreams?

    • @ZaberBiest
      @ZaberBiest 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if you dont have dreams?

    • @GMILES-hy5fg
      @GMILES-hy5fg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZaberBiest even better!

    • @ishikachakraborty4019
      @ishikachakraborty4019 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      May yours too ❤️

    • @guillermochavez2515
      @guillermochavez2515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same to you thank you! At the end of the day we must make a great effort to be in the present whether our dreams come true or not.

  • @deepthir503
    @deepthir503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for sharing this 🙏 Thank you so much for your presence 🙏 Thank you so much for your teaching 🙏

  • @Gerkola
    @Gerkola 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This question I've had myself for a long time, thank you for the amazing response. ❤️

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @mohorplenicar3597
    @mohorplenicar3597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Tolle has really given me the answer and the right method for dealing with loneliness. Thank you, I didn't know before have this can greatly affect my life.

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @lindakoch9524
    @lindakoch9524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is amazing!!
    I’ve just been dealing with this issue….thank you God for leading me to this video….dear Eckhart ❤️❤️❤️

  • @naturenurture6507
    @naturenurture6507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "You have been looking for God through someone else, but it is only through surrender you find the BEING within"

  • @jamief.g
    @jamief.g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I needed this. Thank you eckhart

  • @Tori_4
    @Tori_4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so thankful for Eckhart Tolle 🙏🏾
    so much wisdom ❤️

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116?

  • @bcvc3365
    @bcvc3365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy Valentine’s Day 💕

  • @charubala6307
    @charubala6307 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Masters like Eckhort Tolle are pure awareness, Thank you for this :)

  • @SilverEye168
    @SilverEye168 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nothing external can complete the soul, but sometimes it can be reminded of it's existing perfection.

  • @elizabethplane9868
    @elizabethplane9868 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is life saving. I’m 74 I have had horrible going wrong relationships that destroyed me. After 30 years single I’ve come across ET talking and he actually answered what was happening.

  • @agnieszkag.5170
    @agnieszkag.5170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is true what he says here. I know it is. Lately I am experiencing beautiful nothingness, seeing life as it is, and then bum I suffer, becase I use to love some guy who treated me really bad and this is very hard for me to understand how can someone be so cruel and I think about traumatic past over and over again and I cannot free myself. I wish I could forget all this and him. This is such a waste of my youth. Bad relationship are wasting in us incredible gift that life is. They bring only death and sorrow. On the other hand, if I wouldn't suffer so much in my life, I could not appreciate so much silence, being alive, seeing life.

  • @MybabyboyIra
    @MybabyboyIra ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir Eckhart Tolle, I hope you can see all these comments on your videos.
    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORK!! You have helped so many many many people including me!! Especially this video specifically. Sending you love! 💓

  • @naturenurture6507
    @naturenurture6507 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This BEING is indeed my Teacher 🙏

  • @angelinaperfumes
    @angelinaperfumes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A masterpiece, such a beautiful blessing. Thank you Eckhart!

  • @Valerie-mn5ic
    @Valerie-mn5ic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Exactly what I needed to hear. Yah lead me to this page. Yah bless Eckert.

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @peterjohnson8935
    @peterjohnson8935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just very calming to listen to. Thank you.

  • @ania7451
    @ania7451 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As I listened to your words off acceptance, I have looked inside felt and accepted,immediately the feeling turned into calm peaceful and complete, I am thankful 🌸🌸

  • @oranjelibertine
    @oranjelibertine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Pain body” a very useful phrase for me, mine is sadly quite alive and well.

  • @thesilentshopper
    @thesilentshopper 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video made so many things come to the surface. I will be returning to it. Thanks.

  • @desmondehoppie4758
    @desmondehoppie4758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Enlightening. Thank You for taking the time to make this video.

  • @rexjohnson5802
    @rexjohnson5802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One of your best!! Thank you!

  • @jewel2022now
    @jewel2022now 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this! So beautifully put.

  • @annrunyon4467
    @annrunyon4467 ปีที่แล้ว

    Forever grateful for your books and videos providing us with beautiful reminders of what lies within each of us. 🙏❤️

  • @PhyllisMoon
    @PhyllisMoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Surrender & acceptance will spare us from much suffering. I experience this continually, having followed Eckhart's teachings. THANK YOU, you are such a blessing. Ich bin so Dankbar. Viele liebe Grüße aus DE. 🙌💖🌈🌎

  • @The_Invisible_Man
    @The_Invisible_Man 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was his greatest speech to date.

  • @kerrieatley7220
    @kerrieatley7220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you,perfect timing

  • @douglashagan65
    @douglashagan65 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is truly the essence of Love itself

  • @douglashagan65
    @douglashagan65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes it's the path to Awakening you're alive you're in the here and now it's love letting go of the fear and finding inner peace

  • @williamcitan
    @williamcitan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful.... Thank you Eckhart 🙏

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @raquelcohen7137
    @raquelcohen7137 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eckhart I am so grateful for your presence. Your response make me cry b’cause of happiness.
    Thank you again. I follow you from the DISTANCE I live in Mexico but I am close to you🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🌺🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🌺🌺🌺

  • @youlong1234
    @youlong1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Important teachings!

  • @GMILES-hy5fg
    @GMILES-hy5fg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you.. Beautifully explaned. Very helpful.

  • @ms7HD
    @ms7HD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's not about being single or in relationship , it's not about being rich or not rich , it's not about being successful or unknown .
    It's just about not seeking happiness in any of those things , which implies that without anything you are not happy . Lack is state of mind not reality , see how huge need becomes to escape nothingness to escape doing nothing having nothing being nothing.
    Being nothing doing nothing is simplest thing in world but there is so much resistance towards it , obviously nothing will happen if we are nothing yet we so scared of that . Real question is why ?

    • @bobstover1336
      @bobstover1336 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ekharts ,Power of Now book can help w/ this answer.

  • @Omnipresence10
    @Omnipresence10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Mr Tolle

  • @jlpsinde
    @jlpsinde 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is amazing.

  • @Vic00788
    @Vic00788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really needed to hear this tonight... Thank you 🙏

  • @Jac0bIAm
    @Jac0bIAm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is beautiful. Thank you!

  • @jamesSwhite
    @jamesSwhite 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Eckhart.
    Much gratitude and love ❤️

  • @julianau5907
    @julianau5907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you!! God bless you ❤️

  • @bwambalebenard4415
    @bwambalebenard4415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you eckhart.

  • @shubhisharma4261
    @shubhisharma4261 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love when he gigles and laughs. I wait for it.❤😁

  • @penmai9941
    @penmai9941 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Eckhart. I needed this very much this morning

  • @fabiolalimpias394
    @fabiolalimpias394 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is my spiritual practice. Thank you Eckhart 💗🙏

  • @pco2004
    @pco2004 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this. thank you Eckhart

  • @cytrynaa9438
    @cytrynaa9438 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ekhart, you beautifully put it in words. 🙏🙏

  • @kasia4919
    @kasia4919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank You Eckhart ♥️

  • @theotherway1639
    @theotherway1639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Listening to this while doing mindfulness exercises from that book "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels.

  • @ObiNovi
    @ObiNovi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "The road to Heaven is through relationships. It is a road of relationships. You may try your hardest to feel whole and joined with life, and you will have experiences of this now and then, but until you can be joined to another, give yourself and dedicate your resources in conjunction with another’s dedication, you are only flirting with reality." Living The Way of Knowledge, Chapter 8: Building Spiritual Community

    • @SS-md8uj
      @SS-md8uj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your comment.

  • @indioryder5981
    @indioryder5981 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful. Thank you, Eckhart 🙏🏻🤍

  • @2010BLUEHILLS
    @2010BLUEHILLS ปีที่แล้ว

    True these moments one can feel the presence ...no two minds are alike they get bored soon and conflict starts another can never complete the other ...

  • @candyvert5897
    @candyvert5897 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love the way he embresses stillness

  • @URM8831
    @URM8831 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this video. Really needed this. Thank you 💞 for the grace🙏

  • @tomekgorniak
    @tomekgorniak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you.

  • @UnlicensedThinker
    @UnlicensedThinker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just ask what another person provides that I am unable to provide to myself. 💖🌞
    Then, why do I think I am unable to provide that to myself. 💪😸

  • @michaelashe5265
    @michaelashe5265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    An oldie but a goodie :)

  • @roz352n
    @roz352n 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks alot for deep wisedom my beloved teacher, God bless you🙏💌