Transcending Neediness
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- Do you have advice on how to work with the longing nature of my ego?
Eckhart recommends allowing space to go within and find your true home. From this inner rootedness, we transcend neediness.
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Eckhart Tolle is widely recognized as one of the most original and inspiring spiritual teachers of our time. He travels and teaches throughout the world.
Eckhart is not aligned with any particular religion or tradition, but excludes none. His profound yet simple and practical teachings have helped thousands of people find inner peace, healing and greater fulfillment in their lives. At the core of his teachings lies the transformation of individual and collective human consciousness - a global spiritual awakening.
Eckhart Tolle is the author of The Power of Now, a #1 New York Times Bestseller, which has been translated into 32 languages and become one of the most influential spiritual books of our time.
In his most recent book, A New Earth, he shows how transcending our ego-based state of consciousness is not only essential to personal happiness, but also the key to ending conflict and suffering throughout the world.
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It's an incredible time in life that knowledge like this is at our fingertips.
Totally. We can choose superficial videos or those like this which enrich our conciousness and life.
Keep on searching for truth, knowledge.
Ikr! The internet got me out of depression.
Clay Black
Yes !
*conscious awareness
I love how he giggles like a little kid. It's adorable.
he excuses kindness
That's so sweet, you have elevated, I still find his laugh to be hella weird
He really reminds me of winnie the pooh, and thats a high compliment
My favourite giggle😂. Love you Eckhart ❤
I am deeply touched not only by Eckhart's wisdom, but also by the lady who posed the question. I'd like to thank the lady - thank you for being so true to yourself. That alone is touching to me.
"It's just about letting the universe know what you want, and then working toward it while letting go of how it comes to pass.”
-Jim Carrey
Yep
staying focused on the present!
TRUST the Universe. It is far more capable of providing... than we are. Set your intention on worthy goals and leave it to Source
Genuine help for people who tend to do negative self-talk. This book makes you understand what factors are important for your own happiness and what you can get rid of in order to be emotionally strong. I read it over and over so that I can apply what the book teaches to my everyday life. I also got this sense that I’m communicating with the author through the author’s personal experiences. It’s definitely worth a purchase.
search 'kit for emotional stability' on amazon
So true...love this quote
I am thankful for rejection and abandonment experiences now, because the inner peace that's slowly growing somewhere within me is really liberating, and nourishing on a much deeper level. ❤️
That is part of my journey too, nice.
You sum it up beautifully. I'm also coming to embrace this :)
I hope to get there soon, I’m in the midsts of feeling the uncomfortable & painful feelings.. I’m hopeful to know that this can be healed
How can u not love Tolle's laugh. Brightens my heart!
Adorable ✨
So gentle and genuine 🤍
❤️
Eckhart Tolle you have Changed my life. Whenever I’m becoming bothered by my ego or thoughts I listen to your videos. They help me immensely. You are a gift to humanity 💓
Who is the one being bothered by the ego?
@@chrismccaffrey8256 the jins
When I last had a house, I had a large chalkboard in my kitchen where I wrote some wisdom to remember. One was, "Learn to want what you already have." It has helped me to let go and appreciate MORE of what is present.
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Woow ..
It's so lovely to be around someone who doesn't need anything. 🙂💚💚💚💚💚
I can't remember how Alan W. Watts said it but, "The more you let go of it, the more you have it... But not to try and obtain power over the rest of the universe, because that will only disturb it all the more." I believe the talk is named: How to trust the universe; and this is what Eckhart Tolle is talking about towards the end of the video. Amazing.
Eckhart you would love Nebraska skies! They are the most expansive I've ever seen.
When you can get to a place in mind that says... "everything is taken care of" you let go of neediness and like he said things you previously "needed" just start to either show up in your life or you get little nudges to take action towards a certain thing or doors just start opening for you, it is really quite amazing.
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We have a saying in my religion that states exactly this.
When we stop chasing after life out of need, life will come to us.
mashallah
I am a Muslim too. Can you tell me what sourate it is ?
@@kingsakoura6241
It is not in the Quran.
It is a saying of the Prophet.
I'll put it in Arabic for you
هذا الحديث رواه الترمذي (2465) عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: مَنْ كَانَتِ الآخِرَةُ هَمَّهُ جَعَلَ اللَّهُ غِنَاهُ فِي قَلْبِهِ وَجَمَعَ لَهُ شَمْلَهُ، وَأَتَتْهُ الدُّنْيَا وَهِيَ رَاغِمَةٌ، وَمَنْ كَانَتِ الدُّنْيَا هَمَّهُ جَعَلَ اللَّهُ فَقْرَهُ بَيْنَ عَيْنَيْهِ، وَفَرَّقَ عَلَيْهِ شَمْلَهُ، وَلَمْ يَأْتِهِ مِنَ الدُّنْيَا إِلَّا مَا قُدِّرَ لَهُ .
@@kingsakoura6241 it's also told by Rumi the Sufi Saint..
Thank you for this comment. It has come to me at a perfect time.
But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.- Matthew 6:33. The kingdom of God is within you.
Leah O truth when we want something outside us it is not the Kingdom of God anymore.
This came to mind immediately. N now i think I've found my answer to the question I've been asking my whole life.
Amen
I never understood this until I started following Eckhart Tolle’s teachings
Its true ..things manifest when you are not longing for it..always had this experience
preeti jaiswal, I know, but the part the sucks is when you want something so badly!
@@thomaskeets3194 ego makes us believe we can't survive without having it..but the truth is nothing is needed to make you feel complete..understanding our egoic pattern is helpful and gives freedom.Assume what you want you have it and trust the universe it will deliver to you,the main thing is the emotion is it of wanting or of gratitude
Even when you want to find a proper person to share your love and life with? Did you have that experience?
@@lordaiesan5050 I had that experience. My dream job, and my beautiful friend turned my wife
Me too. I think it is because if you get it when the ego is too much a part of the desire, the fulfillment strengthens the ego / false self more. In Christianity, they talk of God as the Giver and the thing we desire as the gift. (You can also think of God, in Tolle's terms as the Deep "I") When the ego is too involved, the gift can easily become more important than the Giver and we become attached to "it" more and more for our sense of fulfillment. We forget that the real treasure is already within us. That's how I look at It anyway. But I've often had the experience of getting things like you say, when I am no longer craving them or seeking them intensely. (But it is much easier to say than do.)
"well that sucks" - the moment I laughed so hard during this video... I love these teachings ❤️
😂😂😂
Yess me to 😂😊
xD me too
Joy
Instead of laughing realize that some people need just this .
Their understanding is different from those who laugh and that's OK.
Enjoy the laughing because without laughing we suffer.
It's beautiful how much care and time he takes with each person, not that many people truly care from their heart. So enlightening!
Infinite thanks, Eckhart! I surprised myself being quite suffocating, demanding towards my friends, needing them to be there for me. Remembering the fleeting nature of everything, also the impermanence of all forms, taking a deep breath, made things, situations easier, diminishing the heavy weight of clinging to another person.
I’ve been single for 22 years! But when I stopped being needy I got in a relationship!! This is so powerful! 🌟💪🏼
WoW that's beautiful to hear! Were you an anxious attachment style person..? How did u heal ur childhood wounds and became securely attached? 🙏🏻❤☺
I've not been needy for years, still no relationship, it's all chance lol
@@covalentbond7933 it’s not really chance at all.
It’s completely knowing oneself. Many people are in denial about their own neediness. Cover every angle as to why you want another person in your life…what needs are you wanting them to provide? Then go deeper.
Your subconscious is operating in opposition to the conscious, most of the time. Until one becomes aware of their subconscious programming, conditioning, and core wounds, they are at the whim of the direction of the subconscious. The conscious mind can’t out-will the subconscious.
Believing that it’s all chance…is a learned helplessness narrative. If you’re truly connected to self, aware, empowered, you’d never think much was chance.
Power of belief and law of attraction are powerful.
Check any cognitive distortions, root out any limiting beliefs.
I hope you can get to the place where you deeply understand. To be in that place, is unexplainable.
@@Alphacentauri819 who and when you meet someone is all chance, you seem to have watched a video or two on philosophy and now you think you know enough to write this block of vague nonsense, why put so much effort into writing so much BS? You know how limited words are so it's already difficult to express basic ideas, pls keep this nonsense to yourself, thanks
@@covalentbond7933 wow, you must not follow Eckhart much at all.
Here you are with your ego front and center, trying to dictate to others what to do. Telling me to keep nonsense to myself…hilarious, and hypocritical. Follow you own rules.
I have every much of a right to post in this space as you do. The fact you tried to control me says a lot.
I was in medicine, worked cardiac for over 10 years and now I’m in neuroscience..far from watching a few philosophy videos. Nice narrative btw. To make meaning out of things without much evidence (assumption), is exactly what a cognitive distortion is. It appears your thinking is rife with them, just in the comments you’ve written.
So sad. You don’t even see your own blindness. Maybe a touch of anosognosia, eh?
Now, as I have a policy…having been a medical practitioner…not to engage with those who seem mentally incompetent, I’m out. This is my last comment to you and I’m muting you.
Don’t bother replying (doesn’t feel nice to be told what to do, huh?) as I am refusing to engage further. Boundaries.
If yoda was a man!! You are a wise and adorable man who has learned to use the force and Thankyou for your teachings 🙏💗
Exactly what I was thinking of him
Ooh Man thats soo truuue
I love how he breaks up the concept of individual awareness ("I"), to help me understand the complex layers with which I can function. For the longest time, that "uneasy" surface part of me has been taking the forefront of my relationships. I lose my sense of identity in other people. I just need to be conscious and remember the deep "I" which has never left me, and embrace stillness. It is in stillness that I am deeply rooted in myself. I sincerely love this.
This is so true, after weeks with trying of meditating everyday, yesterday for the first time I reached the state of being absolutely present in my "deep I". Once there, there were no thoughts, it was not possible for the thoughts to enter this state. It's truly amazing and a bit scary because it's unusual for the self. After this I watch another video of Eckhart Tolle and I felt actually blessed for those who made me suffer so I could take the decision to become present.
same happened to me. but now i lost it
How did you do it
That’s beautiful that you are thankful for suffering in that it pushed you into the state of presence in the deep I.
You’ve never lost it! It’s ever-present and always available to you. It’s only when the mind says “I’ve lost it” and is seeking too much that it gets lost in thinking and concepts again, so the presence isn’t lost, only overlooked.
What I’ve realised and forgotten over and over again is just how simple accessing the deep I is. You’re reading this text right now, now notice that you’re aware of the fact you’re aware of reading the text. That’s as simple as it is.
When you find an anchor of presence that works very well for you, bring all of your attention there. But then after that is established become conscious that you are conscious, and that is pure awareness. Very little room for thinking, or feeling like “I’ve lost it” because you realise you ARE it.
All that’s required is the willingness to go there, the conscious choice to be conscious, and to be open to whatever comes into your experience 😊. I wish you wellness and peace ✌️
@@adamdownes4725 thank you so much for this
Yes this is so true Eckhart! Neediness causes more neediness…and all we really need is ourselves😊🙏
Eckhart is really evolving. His humour & his awareness of ' real life' , is making watching these videos very enjoyable.
I love the sky and can truly relate to that. It’s so beautiful and magnificent even when it’s cloudy and dark. The spaciousness it’s so powerful.
Thank you Eckhart for your wisdom 🙏
This teaching really pulls me back from excessive worry and thinking. I’m so grateful
Tolle changing the youtube spiritual game
Eckhart’s just such a beautiful, shining gift from God. We’re all so lucky he’s touched our lives. Don’t know where I’d be without his teachings. ❤🙏☮️
"Yesterday's home runs don't win today's games." --Babe Ruth ♡*
That’s deep
Whoever gets to hang out with Eckhart is so darn lucky! ☮️✌️☮️
Hi Eckart :)
I love you and I'm so happy that you exist in my time. I really believe that you are one of the greatest teachers of all time. You are wise and yet, humble. You actually listen to people and answer accordingly and it's like the universe is talking through you to me. As though you always needed to exist for me to access my channel to the universe. Thank you for choosing to teach all you know and not relaxing in a cave somewhere with your eternal internal peace.
I agree with the spiritual aspect of eckharts teachings but it's also important to acknowledge our needs on the emotional dimension. especially when they were suppressed in childhood because of abusive caregivers.
Eckhart, you're so awesome. A divine golden gift for planet earth.
Seek first the kingdom within!
Omg I love this. What he says about stillness and spaciousness. Often find myself looking deep into the sky when I crave grounding, it's so neat to see him describe the same thing.
Try it sometime.
I think Eckhart talks with honesty and sincerity.
He is a very genuine and sensitive man who always makes me feel entirely at ease. He also has a child like innocent laugh.
Very unique but entirely authentic...💚
Yes it is a miracle that such invaluable knowledge is available anytime to us without visiting places and people. Thanks Allah. It is a blessing.
Thanks for the great pointers about not fighting neediness, but transcending it!
The only teacher i hve no doubts about . He was born for me 🗽🗽🗽🙋🏻♂️🙋🏻♂️🙋🏻♂️🙋🏻♂️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
When the student is ready the teacher will appear. Great wisdom from a great teacher! ❤️💫🌼
Could Eckart Tolle be anymore charming and fun, and also pack 15 mins with a magnum of wisdoms to be shared. I am so grateful. Sheer grace. Thank you
So uncredibly helpful Eckhart.. and I believe it without a shadow of a doubt.
The lady who asked the question is really wise.
"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."
What a great time to be alive!! I love you all ❤️
his laugh is the most beautiful thing in the world ❤️
It's beautiful that we have grown in conciousnes to desire such content and even to understand the teaching
Freud's book I believe was "das unbehagen in der kultur" and the English translation was Civilisation and It's Discontents
I'm so so grateful for Eckhart Tolle.... I have been all over his videos and podcasts lately and I feel presence and really accessing the power of the now is truly what I have been searching for my whole life - accessing my inner world and he has put it so brilliantly!! Thank you thank you thank you xxx it's really helped me come to myself after an unexpected and heart breaking break up.
She has no idea how she asked a question and got an answer to it. What I'm trying to say is she saved my life by asking this question. I was in such a deep hole and after hearing what he said I feel like I'm born again. Years of pain finally understood. Thank you to both.
LOVE looking at the sky! I think that is also why I loved skydiving 😊 but also why I love being in the mountains... and being away from city lights like in southwest US. Such a meaningful response. Thank you Eckhart💗
It is so true! I‘ve been following unease and tried to „solve“ it instead of questioning it. I deeply feel this principle is my key to ease, fulfillment, enjoying life as it is 🤗 Thank you, Eckhart Tolle 🙏🏼 for your presents for me
By the end of this video I felt better than what I felt when I first clicked. Thank you Eckhart, I will always reread your book.
❤❤🤗🤗🥺🥺wow this healed everything in me!! Thankyou Divinity🤗❤💐💐😊😊🌟🌟❤❤🤗🤗
Eckhart is divine❤🤗
I was suffering from depression years ago healthy now..became needy sick alone and had an abusive roommate narcissist..healthy now strong happy ..I was ashamed about my neediness after healthy..it hurts others emotionally and is destructive..may god shine on all of those who struggle with neediness,,rise strong love yourself you are a whole person look inside you are capable..
Eckhart Tolle is an amazing teacher, affording many the opportunity, to view their lives, from an entirely new perspective.
Thank you I love listening to you
I was lovebombed by a narcissist as well and have been away from him for almost 2 years and still miss that time and think of him every effing day! 💔💔💔💔💔
Look at a tree for a few minutes.
Look at the sky.
Dear Eckhart, thank you for helping me wake up.
When you realize all is well things flow easily to you
Somehow I dropped tears listening to this..This is beautifulll...
There's a feeling of wanting to be a "saviour/super hero" for my family. Take away their financial stresses. I grew up with less, and I've also experienced what to me at the time was a decent amount of money from my Baghdad deployment in 2003. Music has been in my soul since childhood and I aim to spread a message through it, even though it seems the market for non-violent hip-hop isn't booming. Feels like I'm chasing an idea of success that runs a little faster than my small legs can keep up with. Haha.. But eventually I'll find that balance. I'm hopeful😎💯👑
FynePrint100 that’s beautiful. I feel the exact need to do the same for my family. Sending you all love and light ❤️🙏🏽
@@ladybird74786 Thanks so much.
Be careful with that desire to save them. It could drown you.
@@kenediii_ryan it could. Hasn't yet though in this moment. 😊
@@FynePr1ntWilliamsMUS1C 💛
Its a pleasure and joy to listen to him . Pure joy . Thank you .
“...and the ego says, “well THAT sucks!” 😂
lol
Listening to this video is using TH-cam in a manor that’s beneficial.
I Love his giggle: true wisdom.
I am from the east, I am a seeker, I was just surfing over internet and shocked to see an enlightened being here. I am all tears just seeing this guy. I wish west recognise him, in the east we consider this beings as Shiva/buddha/krishna/jesus. He is not a another preacher, he is the Ultimate in human form, thats how we see it.😍😍😍
The west does recognize him. I have been listening to him for years. Thanks for caring
Become more comfortable with yourself and spend time by yourself ❤️ love yourself first
E.T is a alien indeed. Thank you Sir!
Thank you so much for sharing I really need this information after a breakup with a long term partner 💔♥️
Dear Plant, hope this finds you doing well 💐
Thank you Eckhart!! I follow Vedanta and this resonates so much with that. The questioner was really kind in putting this because this is what we all go through. There is a tremendous want but we know we don't need it. There is a fierce battle and we know we want to win it even when losing it feels like the best thing to do. He addresses the problems not just of the question but of the solution as well! Thanks again!!
He sounds like Winnie the Pooh talks psychology 😊
Kat Kat I think of Pooh every time I listen to him! I consider him Poohs older brother
He is neither a cartoon or a joke nor does he speak about psychology😉
Look up "the tao of pooh."
Sonia díaz u must be fun at parties
Kat Kat OMG he really does lol that’s so cute 😂
The universe always sends me a message through eckart’s videos. Amazing
Thank you Eckhart! Please make a video on blame
I am finally learning to find my true self, bit by bit, day by day. I was very codependent all my life and I still feel neediness sometimes. ET's teachings help a lot
I dont know who this man is but he is amazeballs. ☺️📿
Stillness is the way
,,,and that's how the perfect universe puts me here to learn, and follow the path you are guiding me now. Thanks for living Ekhart Tolle!
Another incredible answer from eckhart
@Andy Gadd I guess his reply wasn't too specific to her question, but basically telling her if she goes into the "deeper I" she'll no longer feel the need to want to cling to her partner as often
@Andy Gadd u will be there...u will understand..people who are attracted to him have a space inside them u dont know it yet...just be patient...
Whaaassssuupp Eckhart, I am stuck with frozen diesel car, can't get down the hill to store, etc.. So, I came inside the house, put car keys away. Then I thought to look for a wee bit of help from you and by God there it was : A Cure For Angst! Your books, your way, the tutorials; kept me sane for the last year, now! Thanks Exceedingly, Dr. Rob
Universe delivers, always, and the timing is beautifully orchestrated.
What a beautiful human being Eckhart is! :)
Wonderfully explained. I am very fond of your teaching. This was very helpful to me. I go inside daily which grounds me & am still one of life's students ☺ x
This was a blessing to me. Thank you to the teacher Eckhart and to the learner for being willing to ask. 🙏🏾
What a lovely and comforting message
Thank you for bringing this into this world. Thank you for shining light upon this world. Namaste ❤️🙏
Im just here to scroll through the comments while he talks in the background
Lol me too! We're killing it on this "being present" thing
You are not a troll then, just a scroll.
nato2panama Too clever! Truly, it is amazing how healing becoming Eckhart’s scroll can be, especially for one that is isolated. It’s like listening to our higher self through the comments of others.
That is our ego resisting to listen.
Same
can't stop repeating this wise words. I really like Echart Tolle
Omg, the redhead is just adorable!☺️ I wish her all the best! ❣️
Above all things Seek the kingdom of God, and all these things will be added on to you.
"king"dom
I'm an atheist.
To me, god is just a middle man, an extra, outside of myself.
Peace is within.
Jesus said the Kingdom of God is within. It's what peace, love & acceptance actually is.
@@sophiet1576 that is what Eghart explains...people put God as a 'form' as in 'something' or 'someone' to worship.
You missed the most important word...Seek the kingdom of God "within"...
Thank-you Eckhart. I call It Our Divine Nature... inside, outside, upside, down. Blessings
This is so good, I'm watching it again :) Thank you
These videos are like nothing else, so pure. I catch myself smiling at some of the audio
Beautiful smile 🙏🏻
This video is just too perfect
With these examples and most importantly his laughh 😍😍😍
This was one of the bessst.....
I need this right now talk about neediness lol!! But seriously I'm finding myself in the same boat as the woman who asked the question. I'm glad he was able to clarify the details of her question.
But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
Matthew 6:33
Thank you Eckhart and his team
💜
If 2 people truly love each other they would want to be together... if someone says he or she does not want to spend a lot of time with you because they want their "freedom" they do not truly love you.
That should be his answer.
Yes but that would be cruel to say in front of all of these people. He is actually saying this in so many words.
There should be space in your togetherness SPACÈ!