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9 Biggest Turn Offs For Women | Things We Do That Women HATE!

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    In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro is doing the ladies a solid. Alpha makes sure your grooming game is strong, your style is on-point, and your etiquette is in-check. Some things, however, could be slipping through the seductive crack and turning her off like a light.
    1. Bad personal hygiene - Alpha talks about unkempt nails, bad breath, BO, and stinky balls.
    2. Bad shoes - chicks notice dudes shoes! Don't be dated, dirty, or dorky!
    3. Insecurity - it's unsexy! Constantly needing reassurance is a big turn-off. However, confidence is sexy!
    4. Being rude to waitresses, cashiers, service agents, baristas - it's a humongous dating red flag! You look like a dick.
    5. Talking trash about your ex - it's bad taste and bad form. Don't be too close either.
    6. Being a dirty little boy - filthy car, filthy bedroom, filthy kitchen, filthy bathroom.
    7. Being a bad conversationalist - looking at phone, looking around, checking out other people are all turn-offs. Interrupting her is also a turn-off. Listen with your ears and entire body.
    8. Being too clingy
    9.Being selfish in bed

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  • @gamerN77
    @gamerN77 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2162

    This confidence-thing must be great ... I hear so many stories about it

    • @dawnsw0rd
      @dawnsw0rd 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      +overTIMe legends...

    • @joeblack3451
      @joeblack3451 8 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Well, how he acted in the video, that would be a turn-off. But if you are just introverted or shy then I don't see any problem, I actually like that (f/18) because I'm like that too. The problem is just that people like this have a hard time to find a partner because they (we) are too shy to approach others :/

    • @eastw1nd
      @eastw1nd 8 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      you don't have to BE confident, you just have to APPEAR confident.

    • @gamerN77
      @gamerN77 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joe's music Exactly.

    • @gamerN77
      @gamerN77 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      KEY / 41PH4 / GO_PRO Oh well if it's nothing else ^^

  • @OrbGoblin
    @OrbGoblin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    The ironic thing about insecurity is that, once I'd addressed this issue, I found I didn't really want to be in a relationship anymore.

    • @dancamp6012
      @dancamp6012 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +OrbGoblin could you elaborate?

    • @Herculesbiggercousin
      @Herculesbiggercousin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      +OrbGoblin It's awfully hard to be happy when you depend on someone else to make you feel that way. If you don't love yourself, how can you love someone else the right way? Basically, the opposite of insecurity is independence and through finding independence you'll likely stumble upon your self confidence :)
      Believe in yourself, *then* sell the product you believe in!

    • @OrbGoblin
      @OrbGoblin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      daniel campos
      Most of my drive to be in a relationship came from my insecurities and trying to find someone to validate me. I put a lot of time and effort into addressing those issues in myself and when I did a relationship just seemed kind of superfluous.
      I used to look at relationships like a person dying of thirst looks at a bottle of water. Now I'm hydrated so, idk it's just water I have plenty of my own.

    • @BrandonNielsen87
      @BrandonNielsen87 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +OrbGoblin What about a sex life?

    • @therotaryrocket
      @therotaryrocket 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +OrbGoblin I kind of agree in a way, as my independence grew I had less desire to be with someone. I still love hooking up and hanging with chics, but muuuuuch more picky about a serious relationship and how much I'd invest in it. Also don't really mind being alone sometimes, so yea I feel you man. Then again I still love getting some! haha.

  • @ChompsLewis
    @ChompsLewis 8 ปีที่แล้ว +637

    being subbed to alpha m is like having the coolest big brother in your pocket.

    • @spikebaltar5071
      @spikebaltar5071 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hear ya brother

    • @jayshadex
      @jayshadex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eh.

    • @gregory6798
      @gregory6798 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not go to bed early is a turn left? My wife told me that she doesn't like me to do that. Being on pH is a turn off also.

    • @balloonsdraws
      @balloonsdraws 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He is like a dad to me.

  • @binnysmallbrown1996
    @binnysmallbrown1996 8 ปีที่แล้ว +512

    ur the real life host of total drama island

    • @hoarishgoat5467
      @hoarishgoat5467 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol your the joke. :)

    • @salahammar1538
      @salahammar1538 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +nitrogoat You're * fucking dumbass

    • @hoarishgoat5467
      @hoarishgoat5467 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      +Salah Ammar tryhard."youre the reason alpha made this video.

    • @1986xuan
      @1986xuan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      being rude it's a no no ;)

    • @yatosjumpsuit6837
      @yatosjumpsuit6837 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      On the Wild Side With Hassanen Attabi his name is Chris Mclane. Remember it.

  • @mayaburtch1200
    @mayaburtch1200 8 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    1. Correct
    2. Correct
    3. Correct
    4. Correct
    5. CORRECT
    6. Correct
    7. CORRECT!!
    8. Sometimes
    9. Correct
    This is coming from a girl, so take all of these seriously

  • @SteveAubrey1762
    @SteveAubrey1762 8 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    I'm 53 years old, and a widower. I am so glad I'm not a young guy nowadays.

    • @carlostorres8771
      @carlostorres8771 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      You sound like a sad sad guy

    • @SteveAubrey1762
      @SteveAubrey1762 8 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      I am. I was happily married for 18 years, 39 days before my beloved wife passed away in 2014

    • @theodorehouchin4135
      @theodorehouchin4135 8 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      +MusketeerinFlorida I'm sorry to hear about this

    • @emptysoul2757
      @emptysoul2757 8 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      +carlos torres Fuck you, Carlos.

    • @Haooryu
      @Haooryu 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      53 year old guy on youtube? i dont think so

  • @jakobspencer1
    @jakobspencer1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    hugh mungus

    • @nayperr
      @nayperr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Jakob Spencer hugh mungus what?

    • @jakobspencer1
      @jakobspencer1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      did you just sexually harass me?

    • @michaelmcginley1875
      @michaelmcginley1875 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hugh mungus Bone 2k16

    • @zpirryz
      @zpirryz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      DISGUSTING! DISGUSTING!

    • @AcrOfSpades
      @AcrOfSpades 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jakob Spencer humungus what?

  • @edenjaycollins6055
    @edenjaycollins6055 8 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    A big turn of for me is over-masculinity, like dude show your sensitive side and be human okay

    • @Encentix
      @Encentix 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True.

    • @edenjaycollins6055
      @edenjaycollins6055 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Black Pharaoh then I guess thats just kinda fucked up for that person

    • @mistyghosts9941
      @mistyghosts9941 8 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Yes, for crying out loud. A dude who tries WAY too hard to be masculine reeks of insecurity and douche-y ness.

    • @johnwolf2960
      @johnwolf2960 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eden Jay Collins youd hate me im not masculine at all but also not sensitive at all either

    • @dillionzbuttface2096
      @dillionzbuttface2096 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      a big turn off for me is too much muscle to the point where you look like the hulk, yeah sure some muscle is pretty hot but don't overdo it

  • @kac327
    @kac327 8 ปีที่แล้ว +682

    Biggest turn off for women: me

    • @nathanwright5543
      @nathanwright5543 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      KAC3 with that attitude, yes.

    • @asdodds1126
      @asdodds1126 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nathanwright5543 All the stuff you hear about being good looking nice be nice to woman is aload of shit btw. But I agree having low self esteem does fuck up your chances

    • @Silent_Mochi
      @Silent_Mochi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      2nd biggest turn off for women:Me

    • @petervarga7913
      @petervarga7913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It does happen to people that they lose their self-respect. I think, at first, people should feel more or less okay and only then, you should look for someone to date. If you talk to someone about these stuffs, it‘s more like if the person in kind, you can be a „talking-partner“ to him/her. Maybe that‘s what you need right now. But that‘s not a girlfriend/boyfriend. Get yourself okay, than you can look for a lifepartner 👌🏻

    • @nataliaduquew
      @nataliaduquew 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You missed the confidence point

  • @isiirpriizz
    @isiirpriizz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    fuck i love wearing my crocs

    • @IAmTheConeGuy
      @IAmTheConeGuy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      SEXY

    • @Seahawkfan1108
      @Seahawkfan1108 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      They better be gucci crocs LOL

    • @sarthakvrm7
      @sarthakvrm7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha yes , i too wear my crocs all the time

    • @trvpexity8171
      @trvpexity8171 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      JNR etsos there ugly af tho

    • @ellieb8627
      @ellieb8627 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      crocs are totally acceptable

  • @theunknownnova2488
    @theunknownnova2488 7 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Just realised I fucked up.

  • @glennvannimaiquez315
    @glennvannimaiquez315 8 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    fuck! my wife has all those "don't"s. I'm so totally fucked.

  • @kai5249
    @kai5249 8 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    Last time I checked I'm not a guy, and I pretty sure I'm not supposed to be here buuuuuuuutttt these videos are kinda addicting if I do say so myself as a female

    • @saltedsnail9887
      @saltedsnail9887 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right up there with you girl 😋

    • @davidgaeta
      @davidgaeta 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      its all good I agree

    • @ProfessionalCheater1
      @ProfessionalCheater1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's because he's badass

    • @travelfar4230
      @travelfar4230 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Dojocho he's married to a woman

    • @derekwhite1870
      @derekwhite1870 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Kaiya Kelis As a female, how much of he is saying is true in this video?

  • @conuremaster4338
    @conuremaster4338 7 ปีที่แล้ว +683

    Having tons of money will get you an automatic pass on all of these.

    • @Mattnova_116
      @Mattnova_116 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      ConureMaster but they'll want you for just that. Hit it & quit it.

    • @C12H22O11HIGH
      @C12H22O11HIGH 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      As a female I would rather date a respectable broke person than an asshole with money. I can make my own money so my partner's socioeconomic status means jack to me.

    • @rogeliovalencia129
      @rogeliovalencia129 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      C12H22O11 HIGH I wish more women said that

    • @quellynotmelly2715
      @quellynotmelly2715 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ConureMaster yep especially if you are black

    • @Pruneinei
      @Pruneinei 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean ya you can get a lover that way, but what was mentioned in the video is about having real love. Not "being with you for your money until you go broke and leaving you to rot" video.

  • @MoreThai
    @MoreThai 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I think turn off #1 for women is men in their 30 with no job , lazy , fat and still live with his parents .

  • @emmarose4517
    @emmarose4517 8 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    He seems like a cool Uncle named Ryan.

    • @hhjjghnkuh
      @hhjjghnkuh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah Emma aunty

    • @Friendship1nmillion
      @Friendship1nmillion 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Emma Rose His name is Brian. I don't think he's gay. He's never confirmed it.

    • @clyntencarnacion4318
      @clyntencarnacion4318 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn youre a babe

    • @tristiansharpe5152
      @tristiansharpe5152 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Justin Carrillo that’s not very alpha like

    • @rikvandijk6904
      @rikvandijk6904 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emma Rose “when does uncle ryan come by?’ hahah

  • @enelgee
    @enelgee 8 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    # 10. Being a Mama's Boy.

    • @josiahwouldgetherefield5254
      @josiahwouldgetherefield5254 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I like mama boys

    • @eggbertinkabod1121
      @eggbertinkabod1121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      #11. BEING WHITE

    • @stanleesomanly9585
      @stanleesomanly9585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What about daddy's boy

    • @Phat_336
      @Phat_336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Truth. His mama is his woman. Lol

    • @JeremiahDaniel1995
      @JeremiahDaniel1995 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      EGGBERT INKABOD I’m half white lol my dad is white but he isn’t always right they say like father like son lol! No my dad and I r on 2 to different wave lengths other than that I don’t care 🤷‍♂️

  • @SharMurt1995
    @SharMurt1995 8 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    the tips for being better in bed helped bro!
    my hand and I are growing closer each day

  • @ilydowa
    @ilydowa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I am a woman and these were all my biggest turn offs, especially the not listening part! Good luck with your romantic lives, Gentlemen!

    • @MedievalSolutions
      @MedievalSolutions 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ilydowa who doesn't hate people which look at their phones rather than listening to the person in front of them.
      Also, that brings me to a question... Is there another major turn off for you outside of the ones in video?

    • @ilydowa
      @ilydowa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Had to rewatch to see.
      But yeah bragging,.. well too much bragging (a little bragging is ok most of the time).
      And aggressive talking.
      In my high school there was this dude, who would always brag about how violent he was, it's hard to explain, but for example he would always try to find the opportunity to mention that he carries an army knife all the time, and when he managed bring it up, he would always act kind of superior and make gestures of how he would use it and such.
      It's hard to describe, but if you ever met someone like this you know what I'm talking about.
      They just come off like they want to compensate for their poor social skills with aggression.

    • @kimmiet.8962
      @kimmiet.8962 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Saying money fixes everything, if she's ill, she needs you. Money may help insurance, but can't cure. Grow up fellas.

    • @petervarga7913
      @petervarga7913 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks... 😅

    • @crios333
      @crios333 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      *uses tips from other vid* so illy r u single

  • @abhijeetrai2173
    @abhijeetrai2173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I got a girl, I came here
    I got cheated, I came here.
    Now I found the love of my life, still I come here🍁

  • @kaixinwei3511
    @kaixinwei3511 8 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    If you are a hot guy you can probably get away with most of this stuff, lol

    • @andym28
      @andym28 8 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Totally. If your average you have to be on your game always even if you think the girl is chill.

    • @bruh...8102
      @bruh...8102 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's 35+

    • @malaquiasalfaro81
      @malaquiasalfaro81 8 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Nope. Knew a handsome guy who dressed well. Bad breath killed everything

    • @wolfmayner6274
      @wolfmayner6274 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      +Cal (LiveLifeCal) Not really, no. You can be hot, but people aren't going to look over the fact that you smell like shit, you dress like a chode, you're rude, insecure, inconsiderate, and messy.

    • @elora2525
      @elora2525 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      a shy guy and hot will not get the ladies. women hate shy men regardless if they are hot at least in this country

  • @BeerBiceps
    @BeerBiceps 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    great stuff alpha

  • @matty_b5482
    @matty_b5482 7 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Don't u hate when u wanna watch all of alphas videos, so u switch videos and miss most of the video...

    • @LandonTheTRex
      @LandonTheTRex 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      MATTY_B foreal doe xD

    • @NighthawkX02
      @NighthawkX02 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      MATTY_B
      Emm..no, I just add them to the watch later list

  • @Sam-yx9ry
    @Sam-yx9ry 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Have been really struggling in a new relationship due to my insecurities. Can't explain to you how much this video helped to make me realise she isnt the problem and that I'm the one holding us back... just another box to tick on my list of how many things your videos have helped me with. Love you Alpha.

  • @madeleinerenee8505
    @madeleinerenee8505 7 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Also if a guy curses every five seconds.... like c'mon you can be at LEAST mature enough to use actual words instead of disrespectful fill-ins.... that's just my opinion as a woman tho.

    • @JohnSmith-fs8bu
      @JohnSmith-fs8bu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Matty Betty "disrespectful"... don't listen to this prude guys fuck all that shit

    • @myleggg8425
      @myleggg8425 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      John Smith 😂😂

  • @lc-zd4fm
    @lc-zd4fm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    wth 1:18 I love dorky guys and plus guys be yourself
    yes personal hygiene u can work on but come on personality
    if a girl doesn't like u for u forget about her there r many fish in the sea

    • @pedrohenriquesoutogueiros1449
      @pedrohenriquesoutogueiros1449 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      turtlelovin' elsie. I know how you feel... I like turtles too

    • @pedrohenriquesoutogueiros1449
      @pedrohenriquesoutogueiros1449 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      turtlelovin' elsie. Dorky shoes is one thing, dorky person is alrighty

    • @EmilyShan2012
      @EmilyShan2012 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dooon't miss оout on millions оооf s*xу girls neeееаr you => twitter.com/7a0f11bcc81cabc01/status/801992405775826944 9 Biggest Тurn Оffs Fоr Wоmеn TTTThings We Do Тhat Women HATEEЕE

    • @cptndltrne
      @cptndltrne 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      i like you

    • @kelbel3167
      @kelbel3167 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love dorks too. But there is a limit to how dorky you can look before it becomes a turn off.

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You are such a funny and handsome man. And your video tips are always on point. As a woman, I do hate all those things too.

  • @dclikemtndew
    @dclikemtndew 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My ex was constantly asking me stuff like "Do you think i'm fat?" "Would you still be with me if i got fat?" it was awful. Like, what the hell do you even respond to that with?

    • @dclikemtndew
      @dclikemtndew 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh and i meant the 2nd question, i know what to say to the first one haha.

  • @caayotee
    @caayotee 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    IDK, we men spend too much time, energy & money trying to please women. It's like someone has given them the supreme right to judge us for everything we do. I say, if you are worthy, she will stick to you. If she doesn't, she ain't worth your time. Point is, you are worthy.

  • @thedilldylan147
    @thedilldylan147 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    If a woman made this video we would all get mad and tell her she can't change our way of life

  • @KittyTheMime
    @KittyTheMime ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1. Fighting
    2. Breaking up with or divorcing them for no reason
    3. Being rude
    4. Being discriminatory/stereotypical
    5. Being drunk
    6. Having a bad addiction
    7. Cheating on them
    These are the things that would turn your spouse or crush off

  • @bengerst5650
    @bengerst5650 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The thing about confidence (while mostly true) is coming from the POV of an extrovert. I’m an introvert, and while I really do want to be confident, lack of confidence or insecurity is not always a turn off. Sometimes, but trying to fake confidence means you are not true to yourself. It’s good to be confident, but don’t sacrifice your personality.

  • @supermonkeyyyyyy
    @supermonkeyyyyyy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    It was awkward for you to make that thumbnail wasn't it? XD

    • @icekoldcilla8470
      @icekoldcilla8470 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      SHUT THE FUCK UP

    • @RocketGlitch
      @RocketGlitch 8 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Damn, who shit in your corn flakes?

    • @Ozner532
      @Ozner532 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +RocketGlitch and milk lol

    • @ekadad
      @ekadad 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't understand what did he say wrong?

    • @siikatehpwn3r
      @siikatehpwn3r 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +supermonkeyyyyyy Turn off number #10
      Watches cartoons and uses "XD"

  • @declandavey7725
    @declandavey7725 7 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Is having crippling depression a turnoff ?

    • @philipp9373
      @philipp9373 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Distressed At Dawn Yes, you got to love /fix yourself bevor you can love others

    • @werewally3156
      @werewally3156 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But getting laid might just be exactly what you need.

    • @thelockedsniper7334
      @thelockedsniper7334 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Depends who you ask I say no but its probably just me

    • @tonyabarnhill4413
      @tonyabarnhill4413 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      were wally Why?

    • @junelikethemonth6192
      @junelikethemonth6192 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same this shit sucks

  • @CarlosGomez-zl3bv
    @CarlosGomez-zl3bv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Monday I went out with a girl I had never met before, only by whatsapp... Man her breath was awful, couldn't keep my face straight while she was speaking!... And my ex GF had the nicest smelling breath ... Good luck this weekend my ex GF wants me back.

    • @JORDSKIEZ18
      @JORDSKIEZ18 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Carlos Gómez your all fuckn shit haha

    • @nintendo6462
      @nintendo6462 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cockbreath

  • @simulacrxm
    @simulacrxm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    No sponser? No Tiege Hanley? No Pete & Pedro? Tompson T?
    Someone call 911, there's something wrong with Alpha

  • @soundtooth
    @soundtooth 8 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    another one is only foucising on sex and seeing the girl as a sex object

    • @isaiascardoso2855
      @isaiascardoso2855 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree. as fun as sex is, a relationship shouldn't be about one thing and one thing only.

    • @maegtigekasper
      @maegtigekasper 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Actually that turns on girls more

    • @Encentix
      @Encentix 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Rahim Royce no it doesn't

    • @Kamikoroshiteageru
      @Kamikoroshiteageru 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      What the fuck, it's literally the opposite of that. You must have your brain so filled with feminist propaganda, any time a dude talks about girls & relationships all you hear is "sex object". I pity you

    • @isaiascardoso2855
      @isaiascardoso2855 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kamikoroshiteageru i meant relationships should be MORE than just sex. Anyone can have sex, but not not anyone can handle a true loving relationship. If someone gets into a relationship just for sex, then it's pointless.

  • @Chordofthestrings
    @Chordofthestrings 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    biggest turn off is when your pockets are empty.

  • @the420studiosincttv7
    @the420studiosincttv7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hate most of these..... because I realized that I did them in my last relationship. Not only did this video open up my eyes, but it made me realize how worthless I really was.
    However, it also made me realize how I can change myself for the better. I don't think I can ever get over my ex, but at least i can try and make myself a better person from this video.
    Thank you.

  • @IAmGunzNoob
    @IAmGunzNoob 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I'm in the zone, I flirt like crazy, I mean I am a great conversationalist. But to get to that point is so hard for me, I am very insecure, and it takes a lot of meditation for me to make the first move, but when I do, oh boy.

  • @erdal0
    @erdal0 8 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    what gel do you use for your hair?

    • @alpham
      @alpham  8 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      +erdal0 peteandpedro.com/product/putty/

    • @punkshadows666
      @punkshadows666 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +alpha m. So. Alpha. i love it

    • @ed6249
      @ed6249 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      pete and pedro prob..his own product

    • @ed6249
      @ed6249 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      pete and pedro prob..his own product

    • @rickbalderas4033
      @rickbalderas4033 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can buy garnier fructis mess maker putty it's much cheaper

  • @Sam-hd9cj
    @Sam-hd9cj 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Im sorry Aaron, but i disagree with the insecurity one, I think that all men and women have the right to show their insecurities. Since everybody and i mean EVERYBODY has insecurities it's okay for a man to cry as much as it is for a girl and if you're in a relationship the partner is there to quell your insecurities and be there for you. Every man has insecurities, some just choose not to show them.

    • @AL-SH
      @AL-SH 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your insecurities are for you to keep, not share with a woman. You're a man for fuck's sake, either crush your insecurities and eliminate them or take control of them.

    • @Sam-hd9cj
      @Sam-hd9cj 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Al H. "You're a man for fuck sake" who are you to dict what that is supposed to mean, I am a male but why does that have to mean I have to hide my emotions and create facade. Let men be themselves not what society says they should be.

    • @Sam-hd9cj
      @Sam-hd9cj 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Al H. And if you have a lady that you hold dear in your life why would you want to hide you emotions from them. That's being everything but honest my friend. And honesty is the most important thing if you intend to keep that bond.

    • @AL-SH
      @AL-SH 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sam Chenier Yes, honesty is one of the most important factor in a relationship, but that doesn't mean a man should speak of his insecurities often. What you state is the norm of the current society, that men should be equally honest and open about their feelings. There are significant physiological and mental differences between a man and a woman. We have different instincts than women. We think differently, and if experienced and wise enough,we have the capacity to base our decisions on logic, not emotions. We want to be in control, not just sexually but in almost every aspect of life. We weren't taught to behave this way, we evolved this way. What you are saying is perfectly fine, as long as you are comfortable with sharing your true emotions and feelings with women, but unfortunately, it is not the best method to interact with women, especially if you want her to believe that she can reply on the power of your masculinity and self-control in life.

    • @Sam-hd9cj
      @Sam-hd9cj 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Al H. Yes we did evolve like that, but that was hundreds of thousands of years ago. We have since then gone past that. We are in a safe environment most of the time and need not rely on anything. What I am saying is that I am sick and tired of how men are taught to act and conform to social norms. Men and Women should BOTH be able to be as tough and as in touch with their feminin side as they damn well please and it shouldn't change how "attractive" that person is. This is the kind of mentality that will allow our world to move forward. It's time people learn to be a little open minded, start questioning society and you will help it's development and bring our world out of this state of opperession and prejudice. It's what has happened time and time again on this planet and it is the only way to get out of this. Men have just as many emotions as women there is nothing that should make us hide that, it only causes more unhappiness.

  • @kingmj8813
    @kingmj8813 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo this dude would be my favourite teacher in any class he is funny

  • @joeyfloridaguy573
    @joeyfloridaguy573 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved the GI Joe reference lol .. great video and spot on

  • @oliverarieno3710
    @oliverarieno3710 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I thought he was gay I was wrong

  • @bunnybag
    @bunnybag 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    4:27 - 4:37 U should be an Actor dude..

  • @darkwave957
    @darkwave957 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I literally couldn't agree more with everything you've mentioned here. Took every single word right out of my mouth

  • @golden2k164
    @golden2k164 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's nice to see how much your channel has evolved in quality

  • @manishadwani386
    @manishadwani386 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wanted this video from the beginning thanks

    • @jesuschristneverlived6938
      @jesuschristneverlived6938 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your comment was posted 4 minutes ago and the video is 5 minutes long. Liar

    • @manishadwani386
      @manishadwani386 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +JesusChristNeverLived I mean from beginning of this channel ha-ha!

  • @spicyegg1740
    @spicyegg1740 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Some chicks like dorky guys. They actually think it's cute. Not gross weird dorky, but cute handsome dorky. You just have to know.

    • @kelbel3167
      @kelbel3167 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Spicy Egg they're probably in the minority, but yes. Some girls do like dorks, me included.

    • @ericray7173
      @ericray7173 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right... "you just have to know"

  • @tReShertReSh
    @tReShertReSh 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    clean, confident, polite

  • @devicedd
    @devicedd 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a woman and this was a awesome video. You really knew what you were talking about!

  • @hoodedraider
    @hoodedraider 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    1:11 That's a turn off (crusty up the nose ;) )

  • @silvervixen007
    @silvervixen007 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    okay I'm female and i came here because I have the same haircut as him 😆😆😅 and he styles it really cool. and to be honest, biggest turn off is when guys are rude, full of themselves and unpolite. but certainly not to lack confidence

  • @brendanmcpike184
    @brendanmcpike184 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i disagree with the shoe thing. i'm. pretty much known for wearing special edition vans a lot and i think i'm confident enough to rock them.

  • @niketuck9687
    @niketuck9687 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got adhd which makes it so that if I don't write down my thought or say it out loud immediately I forget my response to what shes saying. One thing that helps me is when I'm video calling I type my thoughts in a one or two word sentence to help me remember so I can keep listening.

  • @scottytaco
    @scottytaco 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Is mayonnaise a turn off?

    • @dynestis2875
      @dynestis2875 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No Patrick, mayonnaise is not a turn off...

    • @ethangriffiths7802
      @ethangriffiths7802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Horse radish is not a turn off either

  • @sincity5268
    @sincity5268 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Raya copied the hell out of this video

  • @Luvjulian1977
    @Luvjulian1977 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with every syllable you said. You are so right!! That constantly reassuring can be a second job. Ugh!!!

  • @rubenbiava8446
    @rubenbiava8446 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The move at 2.12 the best lol ahahah

  • @WolfRanger2008
    @WolfRanger2008 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Oh please...I don't give a damn what any woman thinks about my shoes....When I see the HIDEOUSLY high heel wedge shoes a lot females wear and think of as fashionable; I know they have no room to call anything a man wears on his feet as "dorky" or ugly.

    • @maxjohnson1758
      @maxjohnson1758 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is just letting you know what women like. They do, in fact, notice a man's shoes. If you don't care what they like, I guess that's up to you. But if you want to be attractive to women, how you dress is part of it.

    • @osiris_blanche
      @osiris_blanche 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      & if you don't like HER shoes - I'm sure you can let her know too (or what you prefer her to wear). Why be so resentful?

  • @katicus7987
    @katicus7987 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Insecure girls is the biggest turn off for me, I guess it works the other way to but for instance when a girl watches you and gets mad if you even glance at another girl, when they get aggressive or rude around other girls and just hate them because they are prettier than them or when they constantly txt or call and ask where you are, what you're doing, who you're with and when will you be there, are you with the boys having fun without me, I want you back now. My friends ex-wife now was like that and I had to stop hanging with him from time to time because his dungeon master had a tight leash on him and he couldn't do anything, I'm surprised she didn't make him sign a punch card when he left home and came back.

  • @leahniebauer2740
    @leahniebauer2740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a women. Everything you said is true. Thank you 😁

  • @kt1pl2
    @kt1pl2 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's completely right with everything he's listed especially with not listening and being rude to people. My husband interrupts me all of the time and it makes me really angry.

  • @josephxfitness2229
    @josephxfitness2229 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Did he just say "stinky balls" at 0:56?

  • @danjrgensen1226
    @danjrgensen1226 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The worst is that this is so true for both genders 😅

  • @tommyboxeo6632
    @tommyboxeo6632 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    alpha m's facial expressions are hilarious to watch! so expressive!

  • @Wiseguy248
    @Wiseguy248 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yep he hits all the right points. My problem is interrupting and I do it unintentionally and feel bad about it but I rebound by restating what she said to finish her thought so she knows that I'm listening at least. Still.... Need to work on that.

  • @scottk1525
    @scottk1525 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is the internet now. 10 common sense, blatantly obvious factoids, put into list format, and screamed into a camera.

    • @PigTranceForm100
      @PigTranceForm100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i totally agree. however with this kind of video is fine because its tips on how to better yourself. not "The Top 10 Best Spongebob Episodes" no hard feelings luv u

    • @scottk1525
      @scottk1525 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sphyris 2nd Channel - haha, "no hard feelings luv u." **Virtual high five**. You're officially my favorite person on the internet today.
      And touché, I'll give you that. At least this guy isn't blatantly wasting people's time.

    • @PigTranceForm100
      @PigTranceForm100 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Scott K Thanks dude.

    • @scottk1525
      @scottk1525 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aldrich Leblanc - Really? You didn't know that poor hygiene was a turn off for women?

    • @scottk1525
      @scottk1525 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aldrich Leblanc - "I'm not sure if pretending to be intellectually and socially superior to everyone works for you..."
      huh? how in god's name did you get that impression from that one sentence? You are one delicate little daffodil my friend.

  • @joaosoares3719
    @joaosoares3719 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Alpha: it's "couldn't care less", not "could care less". It's ironic that you made that mistake when talking about the importance of being a good conversationalist...

    • @ritaamorim5455
      @ritaamorim5455 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +João Soares Indeed! Native English speakers tend to make that mistake all the time, it´s quite annoying. As a woman few things turn me off more than guys who can´t speak properly.

    • @realfan91
      @realfan91 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Rita Amorim like?

    • @Consolous
      @Consolous 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +João Soares You got REKT

    • @ricardolourizela5961
      @ricardolourizela5961 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +João Soares "Could care less" when speaking, their/they're/there, your/you're, it's/its, then/than when writing. Why so many Americans make these errors and people with English as a second (or third) language so rarely do I'll never understand.

    • @ritaamorim5455
      @ritaamorim5455 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Jack Lan English is only my fourth language, actually (French my native language, Portuguese my second and Spanish my third). If you're a native English speaker you should really be able to avoid all those errors.

  • @dystopian-arc8404
    @dystopian-arc8404 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved it...one of the best vids you've made.

  • @janaoq1
    @janaoq1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice to see a man that actually understand that we are human. I don't think anyone, male or female, thinks these things are acceptable.

  • @NihumDe
    @NihumDe 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    +alpha m. Whats the length of your stubble beard in this video ?
    Take care

    • @alpham
      @alpham  8 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      +Nihum 3mm

    • @adrenalinejunkie6979
      @adrenalinejunkie6979 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +alpha m. Good one

    • @stefanorunnertube
      @stefanorunnertube 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +alpha m. hi are you sure that the philips grooming is it the best? did you ever tried some other brands?

    • @backspace8990
      @backspace8990 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      B

    • @MKF30
      @MKF30 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Nihum Wait...how does one measure their razor stubs? lol I just figure if I can grab it with my finger tips time to trim lol but yeah apparently the short scraggly look is in now. This guy must have chicks all over him, envy!!

  • @torvamessorem6686
    @torvamessorem6686 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I always fail at "paying attention when she keeps rambling." I'm more inclined to ask if she would just be quiet for 10 seconds.

    • @maxjohnson1758
      @maxjohnson1758 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ha! That's exactly what I was thinking. Trying to fake paying attention while some mindless woman prattles on about the dumb shit they like to babble about is just more than I can handle.

    • @torvamessorem6686
      @torvamessorem6686 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Max Johnson
      I know, right? So let's say you fake paying attention, you'll get the girl. Great, awesome. Now she'll prattle on for hours in your own house too!

    • @samerhamod326
      @samerhamod326 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Max Johnson i think he meant that you should pay attention to a chick you like only, cuz you aint gonna like a dumb one that talks uninteresting shit, right?

    • @maxjohnson1758
      @maxjohnson1758 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Samer Hamod Not sure I have actually ever met one that talks interesting shit. Not to say they don't occasionally have something meaningful to offer, to be fair, it's just that they don't talk about things that interest men for the most part. And in the work place, you have to measure and weigh every single thing that comes out of your mouth when you're around them. Even when you do your best to make sure you don't say anything they can possibly find offensive, they can and will twist your words to try and get your ass in a sling. The second you let your guard down and think they are "cool" and you can talk to them like one of the guys, you're ass is in for a rude awakening.

    • @niklasfreericks5436
      @niklasfreericks5436 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Torva Messorem If you really like a girl, you will want to listen

  • @nanetteniece4635
    @nanetteniece4635 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! Interrupting is such a turn off.

  • @abhinavyadav2802
    @abhinavyadav2802 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are really cool and your videos really helped me to remove my shy personality!!

  • @Foreign_Royal
    @Foreign_Royal 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He was on point but if a chic digs you , this doesn't apply to u

  • @cassandramuro2623
    @cassandramuro2623 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this is amazingly accurate 😂

  • @elmaravilla
    @elmaravilla 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    How in the world that i didnt discover this channel much sooner !!! Great content, Alpha !

  • @atomic_gaming7530
    @atomic_gaming7530 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    its true i wore my jordans and i got millions of girls saying that they love my shoes BTW im in JR. high

  • @gaugeb4066
    @gaugeb4066 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do a video asking how to ask out a girl

  • @Callebravo
    @Callebravo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Another turn off for girls is being short, been there many times. Us short guys have no chance with most women.

    • @TitanFormEren
      @TitanFormEren 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Papi Champú some girls like short guys if they're sexy and funny and have a good personality. Those things plus stuff like hygience, confidence, and good social skills, etc. Are huge turn ons and honestly, what can you do abt your height... you can't change it so just own it I guess.

    • @TRaTSeRiF
      @TRaTSeRiF 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't be too sure. If you can gather up some confidence and just enjoy yourself on the date, you'll make up for quite a few inches of height. If she's enjoying herself with you, she'll forget all about your height and (assuming it's reciprocal), so will you. Don't try to set up an experience that's too elaborate either. Start with coffee, suggest a walk, grab a bite, hit an obstacle course, just find places where you can enjoy each other's company :)

  • @damonbaird1173
    @damonbaird1173 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    This list should be common sense, but great video to make for some people that lack, great channel.

  • @aworkingmanspride2494
    @aworkingmanspride2494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have to say that alpha m is correct if you are insecure by watching more of his videos you will gain confidence and I know because I was once in your shoes but I continue to watch off of him and gain confidence he's not saying that for the views or the likes or anything he's saying that because it's true take it from me

  • @sayitlikeitis1155
    @sayitlikeitis1155 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Men pay attention. Cut your finger nails please!!!! It's such a major turn off 😖😷

    • @petervarga7913
      @petervarga7913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      iLovelucY Well, i chew them off... 😶😁

  • @oscarheath9580
    @oscarheath9580 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ahhhh the insecure thing that makes perfect sense now 😂

  • @Temerarier
    @Temerarier 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the Interrupting part is so true can confirm to 100%

  • @downboy3957
    @downboy3957 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hes so charismatic that i dont even care its being addressing towards men

  • @VeggieGamer
    @VeggieGamer 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yep, my shoes definitely hit all 3 of the Ds :(

  • @alltypeauto2982
    @alltypeauto2982 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I wear a white shirt, overalls, and boots everyday and got the hottest girl in my grade (she was country)

    • @lillypad79
      @lillypad79 8 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      She's country That's why

    • @AspiringAbogado
      @AspiringAbogado 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      BOOM!

    • @michaelmcginley1875
      @michaelmcginley1875 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn i didnt know overalls work. I have a pair and theyre comfy as hell but even i dont wear em.

    • @michaelmcginley1875
      @michaelmcginley1875 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      btw i like your name and profile picture

  • @MrPookie1958
    @MrPookie1958 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I met this awesome guy today. Keep improving the world one video at a time!

  • @jerbearnone2012
    @jerbearnone2012 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    most of your videos are on point, but this one is spot on. no matter who you are if you listen to these 9 things anyone will have a better time not just with the opposite sex, but with everyone.

  • @suspendedgoogleacount388
    @suspendedgoogleacount388 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're like the jeremy jahns of fashion

    • @suspendedgoogleacount388
      @suspendedgoogleacount388 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i mean you remind me of Jeremy jahns

    • @TheManOfRash
      @TheManOfRash 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Bill, watchu doing here? You Alpha as fuck anyway

  • @jayheath1965
    @jayheath1965 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The girl that I'm interested in has a boyfriend, she says he's selfish in bed, she still wants him.

    • @enesapaydin925
      @enesapaydin925 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jay Heath just forget her, she won't let go until he completely stand all over her

    • @TheKingOfGreatness
      @TheKingOfGreatness 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jay Heath find another girl bro

    • @commanderwaddles3483
      @commanderwaddles3483 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Usually girls in bad relationships that have alot of good in them don't leave until worse shit keeps happening

    • @cinderlink7163
      @cinderlink7163 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jay Heath. A bit late but relatable

  • @VibratorDefibrilator
    @VibratorDefibrilator 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ... being rude to waitresses, cashiers, service agents... or even baristas!... hahahaha

  • @markmiller6423
    @markmiller6423 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not making enough money.....not having a nice car or a big house. Not being able to take care of them financially is another major turn off for women.

  • @Stellaa08
    @Stellaa08 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just came across this video :D I feel like my boyfriend is a total turn off :D :D

  • @xGenGameplays
    @xGenGameplays 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Draw my life for 1 million subs please alpha!!! You have one seriously interesting life

  • @chrismcleod1805
    @chrismcleod1805 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think you just saved my relationship..

  • @sagewigger3292
    @sagewigger3292 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Aaron Marino, he's legit the most chill dude ever and his videos are actually helpful. Aaron Marino if you read this thank you for the help you have given me in becoming a better alpha male. :)