After the rejection, don't be afraid to feel any emotions that come your way. Sadness, anger, fear, and similar feelings are all natural parts of rejection, and working through them now will make it far easier to move on in the future. Don't be afraid to cry or scream when you're alone
@Michael Skinner well, yeah, but it's heartbreak. building yourself up and buttering upt he girl for possibly years and then getting friendzoned... fucks you up for at least a week. if you wanna feel heartbreak, watch clannad and come back to me in 2 weeks when you stop crying
If you're crying over a woman it means you haven't emotionally matured enough yet. Wait till you're 30 and you won't care about rejection. Crying over women means you have abandonment issues and therapy will definitely help with that.
@Michael Skinner Sometimes the truth is uncomfortable. It's known science that mens testosterone drops after 30. The hormones in your 20's are making you make irrational decisions. Believe me I was a lonely dude due to my desperation back then. Now I could care less. Once you've been through the bullshit it lets you make better decisions on what you really want out of life. You don't want to get into a relationship with the wrong person.
@Michael Skinner Also in your 20's you should be working on establishing your career and enjoying life with the people around you. It's better to get the adventures out of the way when you're young because you won't be able to do the things you want if you start a family that early.
@Michael Skinner True but keep in mind he's filthy rich. The average isn't that well off financially. When you include debt in to the mix one wrong decision and you're screwed. Also the person you're with might want to be a stay at home mom and a house so you won't have alot of money to work with with to take your kids travelling. Unless you both are well off financially.
@@xChikyx no one is bullet proof. All he is saying is that it no longer becomes a big deal. If she is interesting, a man's just got to go for it with the various approaches we got. 😂
This guy gives so much support with all that hype that now I’m better after being rejected and friendzoned by my flirt who I know for 4,5 months.Thank you alfa.
One of the best sources here! I've spent all year just leveling up my own way of living! 2021 will be absolutely glorious! Cheers to being desensitized by rejection
"leveling up" has to be one of the most disgusting ways to describe the human experience, that I've ever encountered. (Yes, I'm currently shaking my head)
For those who are new out there, this means dont specifically ask her out. Just be her friend for a while and if you really wanted to ask her out on that moment, don't say things like "Hey are you free today? do you want to grab some food or watch a movie with me?" The best moment for this is read her language first if she says something like she's not doing anything at home and she's pretty bored. This is a girls way of saying "ask me out" at that moment, instead of asking her out, say things like: "I need to buy something in the mall, you can join me if you're bored or not busy if you want"
Just always remember that men were given the superpower of being able to get rejected, and be totally fine. This is what nature gave you; when she says 'nah' you can just get up and go to the next one
0:30 ''rejection is much worse than just rejected'' bro whenever I approached a girl her first sentence is '' whatever you are thinking it just can't happen ''😑😑😧😧
Honestly speaking, alpha m. has the best advice and it has changed the way I think, act and look. After watching his videos, I am feel much more than just motivated. All I can say is thank you soo much and you are more awesome alpha m.👊
I’m so confused so do I wait a bit and make her wanna text me or do I don’t text her?? It’s like one thing is said then the next week something else is said to contradict it
Best way to not get rejected is to focus on yourself and your grind and let the women come to you. Don't give them the attention and the power to choose if you're good enough for them or not.
Wait so with number 5 is it because you act uninterested and never ask her out or is because you act uninterested and wait too long and by that point she's no longer interested
Been rejected by a girl today after a very long time of not being rejected. Feels a little shitty but I also feel so good 😂 Better than standing on the sidelines full of regret
Alpha m is one of the best advicers i have seen and i am apllying all the tips and tricks that he provide in my life and i can see my future far better
I have to say, the hoodies I wear do have designs on them, but, they represent my personality or an Army unit I've served in or a certain social group I belong to. They are: The Army Basic Combat Training unit I trained in, the 10th Mountain Division Battalion I served in, Yee Yee Nation by Granger Smith and F150 Nation for my love of Ford F150s.
I still get rejected even after all this stuff, I met a girl at the gym cause I noticed her staring me down multiple times so I decided to approach her. I talked to her for a month and she started avoiding me and stopped talking to me. All I did was let her know I found her attractive and we went out to dinner one time and hungout around our neighborhood once. I feel like that’s not coming on strong I feel that’s pretty standard..
That hoodie is lit af, I wanted to get my brother that hoodie for Christmas but I didn't wanna risk it arriving after Christmas so I'm getting it for his birthday, dude needs a sick hoodie
Hey Alpha! Can you do a video on Online dating and Dating during all these Lockdowns? I live up near Philadelphia and the restrictions up here are more extensive than most places. Let me know and thank you bro!
Just started seeing a girl, only had a single date so far yet and im really crazy about her. Idk what it is but it’s completely different from anything else i experienced and since i dont really have much experience its so nerve wrecking because i rlly rlly rlly want this to work out. The pressure is up there 😅. These vids will come in handy tho i can always use more
To be honest and I've noticed Alfa. I play it cool at first, everything is cool but when I get that mindset of "everything is cool", I rush it. Then boom, rejected How do I slow it down??
Hey alpha! I just got my acne system level 2 today 😁 but I don’t know how to use it, so I just apply it all at once’s :/ for the wash, I don’t know if I should just let it sit there for a while then rinse
I take care of myself with exercise and grooming and I dress as well as my financial situation allows but still to worried about rejection to the the point I don’t try to approach a woman. I understand the fear of rejection because it is real
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Brooooo u r really amazing......love u....❤️
Hey Alpha, is there any ruling which helps us maintain the balance between coming on too strong and appearing disinterested?
Another video on interview stuff? :)
Can't get those spicy babes if you don't have a career lol
Hey Alpha I have a que for you who the fcuk is Bryan 😂
Besides your mom, Alpha is the only one tells you that you're awesome. True for a lot of guys. Thanks Alpha.
Lol my mom doesn’t even tell me that
TMF too
Hit a little too close to home
My mom tells me Im useless.
After the rejection, don't be afraid to feel any emotions that come your way. Sadness, anger, fear, and similar feelings are all natural parts of rejection, and working through them now will make it far easier to move on in the future. Don't be afraid to cry or scream when you're alone
@Michael Skinner well, yeah, but it's heartbreak. building yourself up and buttering upt he girl for possibly years and then getting friendzoned... fucks you up for at least a week. if you wanna feel heartbreak, watch clannad and come back to me in 2 weeks when you stop crying
If you're crying over a woman it means you haven't emotionally matured enough yet. Wait till you're 30 and you won't care about rejection. Crying over women means you have abandonment issues and therapy will definitely help with that.
@Michael Skinner Sometimes the truth is uncomfortable. It's known science that mens testosterone drops after 30. The hormones in your 20's are making you make irrational decisions. Believe me I was a lonely dude due to my desperation back then. Now I could care less. Once you've been through the bullshit it lets you make better decisions on what you really want out of life. You don't want to get into a relationship with the wrong person.
@Michael Skinner Also in your 20's you should be working on establishing your career and enjoying life with the people around you. It's better to get the adventures out of the way when you're young because you won't be able to do the things you want if you start a family that early.
@Michael Skinner True but keep in mind he's filthy rich. The average isn't that well off financially. When you include debt in to the mix one wrong decision and you're screwed. Also the person you're with might want to be a stay at home mom and a house so you won't have alot of money to work with with to take your kids travelling. Unless you both are well off financially.
Once you get comfortable with rejection that’s when you can go after the women you really want
agreed
Yep
so she can say no too :D
@@xChikyx no one is bullet proof. All he is saying is that it no longer becomes a big deal. If she is interesting, a man's just got to go for it with the various approaches we got. 😂
I agree with this
he legit roasted my life in a single video
@Cate u seeem to be pretty experienced bro. but thanks appreciate the advice
@Cate well tbh for me at this point in my life relationship is scary so just enjoying single days
Him asking for a like surprises me every time... how does he do it? It fits so good in his story!
It’s not so much rejection, more so the fear of an awkward encounter
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My thoughts WERE really “where did you get that Henley” 😂😂😂
Don't wanna ruin that 69 like count
Saamme tho, that material looks first class👌🏼😂
So ...Gentlemen!
Love From INDIA❤️
dude i love watching this guy just because he is full of good energy
Finally after being subscribed to alpha for 2 years
I have made my crush my girlfriend
Congratulations man!
@@GodOfWoe thanks bro
omg insane
Congrats brother, I’m up next
A round of applause for our man👏👏
1:11 Alpha and this Brian guy definitely have some history
When you said , " you are amazing , you're awesome " i said you too .
This guy gives so much support with all that hype that now I’m better after being rejected and friendzoned by my flirt who I know for 4,5 months.Thank you alfa.
achievement 🎉📣: girlfriend
😅 achievement
A success case thanks to the Alpha M program!!! 🍾
“Only 0.1% of gamers unlocked this”
The weird uncle Barry is proud of you 👏
Congratulations. You just got a parasite
People : Do you have a girlfriend?
Me : No, I have a spicy senorita 😎
Lol 😂😂
You're defenitly a virgin
@@Cris_Formage anyone who calls someone a virgin, is probably a virgin
@@TrampConnoisseur Which means you just called me a virgin wihich means you're a virgin explain your logic bruv
This guy is my fav. For sure , he gives the advice as well as the laugh that you need for living the life 🤟🏼
One of the best sources here! I've spent all year just leveling up my own way of living! 2021 will be absolutely glorious! Cheers to being desensitized by rejection
"leveling up" has to be one of the most disgusting ways to describe the human experience, that I've ever encountered. (Yes, I'm currently shaking my head)
@@Wolf-wn6nk what's with the negativity? Who hurt you?
@@Wolf-wn6nk bro shut up
Your videos never fail to inspire! You are also super awesome Alpha
At the Army's Infantry Officer Basic Course we call the answer man spring butt
My eyes were all on your Henley till the end of the video 😂😂lol
Where the fook is the summary guy.😂
Check the description
"how do I know? Coz I've been REJECTED" makes me feel better on myself .
me: having a problem in life
alpha: drop a video with solution
IT'S LIKE HE'S READING MY MIND
Not Marcus Aurelius or Kierkegaard? An Alpha M. video?
99% of rejection is based of. Looks
Facts
nah... far from truth
I agree. I had some brutal rejections.
Thanks Alpha. Really needed this vid today
Everytime alpha upload new video, i get motivated..
"The only way to not get rejected is to not ask her out. "
😂😂
omg, thank you, you're a lifesaver (^_^)
For those who are new out there, this means dont specifically ask her out. Just be her friend for a while and if you really wanted to ask her out on that moment, don't say things like "Hey are you free today? do you want to grab some food or watch a movie with me?"
The best moment for this is read her language first if she says something like she's not doing anything at home and she's pretty bored. This is a girls way of saying "ask me out" at that moment, instead of asking her out, say things like: "I need to buy something in the mall, you can join me if you're bored or not busy if you want"
Have som balllz
Just always remember that men were given the superpower of being able to get rejected, and be totally fine. This is what nature gave you; when she says 'nah' you can just get up and go to the next one
5:10 BOOM!!
क्या भाई कैसा है
Your the dad figure my generation never had thank you!
0:30 ''rejection is much worse than just rejected'' bro whenever I approached a girl her first sentence is '' whatever you are thinking it just can't happen ''😑😑😧😧
Do you respond to that?
Pull some reverse psychology on her. She won't expect it
a woman like that is not worth it :) don't worry about it bro
If she doesn't like u she doesn't, approach other girls and u will get one who responds back to u.
Then ur makin it obvious dat u want to get into her pants
Honestly bro acknowledging insecurities is easy if you are honest with yourself but overcoming them is kind difficult
"Picking Your Nose While Driving" you got me Alpha 😂😂😂
#1 is basically no simping
Alpha and my Mom: Reminding me that I'm handsome and amazing 👏
Honestly speaking, alpha m. has the best advice and it has changed the way I think, act and look. After watching his videos, I am feel much more than just motivated.
All I can say is thank you soo much and you are more awesome alpha m.👊
I’m so confused so do I wait a bit and make her wanna text me or do I don’t text her?? It’s like one thing is said then the next week something else is said to contradict it
"The reality is everybody's poop stinks"
this is so funny but so true
I'm not supposed to be on this vid but I just wanna say ill be getting my first kiss with my girl on Thursday! Wish me luck boys!
Did you get boy ?????
What if I didn't ask her out in the first place? 😂
genius you wont get rejected
It's just you got laid with out getting laid. You are never gonna get rejected.
@Michael Skinner dude it was sarcasm. I was just supporting your comment in a funny way.
@Michael Skinner that almost never happens lol. Super rare. The boy always has to approach and ask her out.
Great video. Getting Rejection means you go on ,you dont die. Just thinks about it a different way.
Aaron makes my motivated and also chilled out by cracking some jokes here and there. U r the best!!!!
Perfect timing, I’m going back and forth with a spicy señorita right now. Glad to have my boy Alpha backing me!
You're AWESOME ALPHA M!!! :)
2:27 RIP😂😂 "OMG BECKYY"
Best way to not get rejected is to focus on yourself and your grind and let the women come to you. Don't give them the attention and the power to choose if you're good enough for them or not.
I experienced the second point you explained in this video in my Engineering. Hope I knew this at that time..2015.. Anyways..Thank you 👍
Best confident boostup guy
Wait so with number 5 is it because you act uninterested and never ask her out or is because you act uninterested and wait too long and by that point she's no longer interested
Been rejected by a girl today after a very long time of not being rejected. Feels a little shitty but I also feel so good 😂 Better than standing on the sidelines full of regret
My dog started watching Alpha now he is a Human
Alpha m is one of the best advicers i have seen and i am apllying all the tips and tricks that he provide in my life and i can see my future far better
Today I got rejected and you uploaded this thanks 👍🏻
Sometimes people know what to do but just need reminding.
Awesome information Alpha M!
Love you Alpha bro... You are the best.
I have to say, the hoodies I wear do have designs on them, but, they represent my personality or an Army unit I've served in or a certain social group I belong to. They are: The Army Basic Combat Training unit I trained in, the 10th Mountain Division Battalion I served in, Yee Yee Nation by Granger Smith and F150 Nation for my love of Ford F150s.
yo bro you cracked me up when you said that: fire ass henly
I still get rejected even after all this stuff, I met a girl at the gym cause I noticed her staring me down multiple times so I decided to approach her. I talked to her for a month and she started avoiding me and stopped talking to me. All I did was let her know I found her attractive and we went out to dinner one time and hungout around our neighborhood once. I feel like that’s not coming on strong I feel that’s pretty standard..
Nothing wrong with that mate. She obviously wasn’t for you, move on.
That hoodie is lit af, I wanted to get my brother that hoodie for Christmas but I didn't wanna risk it arriving after Christmas so I'm getting it for his birthday, dude needs a sick hoodie
But alpha what if getting rejected makes me feel pumped up and kills my fear for next girl
Excellent point don’t 💋 you know what be your self and be calm and relax 💪
As soon as i clicked the video I knew that Henley was cuts and it looks sick
from when he said stupid i got so anxious and then to gentlemen it felt so great haha
" Do not Forget about FUNKY PITS and MUSKY CROTCH. "
- Aaron Marino
(2020)
2:26 damn. that hit.
Lmao
1:00 too
02:27 HAHAHAHA EPIC !!!
This should be recommended to everyone..
Hey Alpha! Can you do a video on Online dating and Dating during all these Lockdowns? I live up near Philadelphia and the restrictions up here are more extensive than most places. Let me know and thank you bro!
Great . Love from India.
VERY GRATEFUL FOR YOUR ADVICE ALPHA DO KEEP ON CREATING SUCH AMAZING COOL VIDEOS THANK YOU❤️❤️❤️
Just started seeing a girl, only had a single date so far yet and im really crazy about her. Idk what it is but it’s completely different from anything else i experienced and since i dont really have much experience its so nerve wrecking because i rlly rlly rlly want this to work out. The pressure is up there 😅. These vids will come in handy tho i can always use more
1:08 ehahaha desperate to answer first then regret later
Alpha is Amazing .
Mornin Alpha!
To be honest and I've noticed Alfa.
I play it cool at first, everything is cool but when I get that mindset of "everything is cool", I rush it. Then boom, rejected
How do I slow it down??
Merry Christmas. Yes You.. You right there i'm wishing you a Merry Christmas 😊.
Love you brother 😭❤️
Me after watching this video: *gets rejected*
Years of academy training wasted
I legitimately laughed out loud at 1:13 🤣🤣🤣
7:41 you gotta trick em man! 🎃😆
Thats life. People reject people. Nothing happens after. You live happily after.
I AM THE HYPE!!!
nice
nice
Hey alpha! I just got my acne system level 2 today 😁 but I don’t know how to use it, so I just apply it all at once’s :/ for the wash, I don’t know if I should just let it sit there for a while then rinse
Nevermind i should have just read the thing carefully 😂 I guess I was way too excited
thank you for helping us dude
I have gotten worried about a long distance relationship between us, I want to move to a different state then Oklahoma and have more opportunities.
Yo Alpha!
When ya gonna do the VS between 2 TH-camrs?🤧❤️
I take care of myself with exercise and grooming and I dress as well as my financial situation allows but still to worried about rejection to the the point I don’t try to approach a woman. I understand the fear of rejection because it is real
The Marco Polo of Spicy Senoritas😂😂
The great fashion God praise us with his presence and some magnificent tips.
Alpha video = improvement video ❤️💪
don't feel bad wehen somebodys rejects you or ignores you. People usually reject expensive things because they can't afford them.
Me who actually does all this yet get rejected😭
Spicy senioritas always give me heart burn.
A yyo Alpha!❤❤
Alpha M:- Never Disappoints
@alpham. Sir I love your videos being 100% pure awesomeness; loads of love and respect