Yea plan in your head but don’t be asking the girl about where she wants to sit at the movies before you’ve even left her house. You gotta appear to be cool and easygoing while also creating the best opportunities for yourself.
This is just superb, I've been looking for "top online dating" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Denrooklyn Wedlock Enhancer - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my friend got great success with it.
I went out on a date recently with my friends sister, (He said he was cool with me dating her) Through out our date she had her eyes gorilla glued to her phone, and her initial responses to everything was "Mhm, Is that so? or you don't say" During dinner is where I drew the line, She ordered the most expensive thing on the menu and I ordered the cheapest thing on the menu. Wanna guess what she did? She took pictures of her food and didn't even bother to eat it so I left her in the restaurant after I finished my food, I didn't pay for it. I just walked out. She wasn't on a date with me she was on a date with her phone. an hour later she calls me up to complain that I was the worst date she ever had, I told her the feeling was mutual, She proclaimed to be a perfect date and I told her every flaw she had during. Some how I got a second date out of her since I believe in second chances, Thought she fucked up this chance as well. I won't tell how, but sh fucked up.
+MrBryBadGuy dont leave us hanging man, i really wanna hear the 2nd date too lol. did that bitch realize what she done wrong? did your friend agree with you? DONT BLUEBALL US BRO
+MrBryBadGuy You should definitely stop with those "2nd chances" thing man! If she was terrible the first time round she won't be complete 180° next time!
Even though I'm a girl and are likely not a part of the demographic this channel was made for, I appreciate watching these videos because alpha m. has got an awesome personality and has great advice not only applicable to men, but often to women as well. This channel is just overall great.
Even though I'm a straight male, I still appreciate the fact that you say "she, or he, whatever you're into" in your videos. I dunno, it's nice to know you're accepting of everyone
+alpha m. you could always refilm the whole video .... also you are dead on with don't be late I was 2 mins late before a date and my excuse to her was the event I was at got intense ... she kept rubbing it in my face that I didn't want a second date
+alpha m. I already expected it when I paused the video at when you said "spicy" so something tells me this isn't the last we'll see of the spicy seÑorita or the sexy seÑor.
Last date I went on the girl talked about her ex non stop (even though i consistently tried to change the subject to anything else). I stood up, dropped some money on the table to pay for my share of the meal and left her in the restaurant. I'm always polite and considerate but that was just a waste of my time
No not weird and that's great if you notice she gets offended because you'll know you have to stop seeing her from first date. See? Isn't that great and not weird?
yeah true but at least offer it and if she wants to pay 50/50 then go with the flow and try not to make a big deal about it. If the girl feels more comfortable with the 50/50 well so be it. She probs don't want to feel guilty or being bought out.
Man, Alpha, you been cranking out the videos lately. Super appreciate the content and the consistency. Keep it up! You've taken hitting a million subscribers super well and are definitely showing your appreciation for it. Thank you.
Guys shouldn't feel obligated to pay for a girl's drink unless it really pleases them. On the first date, I usually asked the guy if he wanted to share the bill. Plus, sometimes, SOME (not all) guys feel entitled to getting "more" than just a date when they pay for your meal/drink... It prevents any misunderstanding or embarrassment. My boyfriend said he was pleased that I asked because he said he was fed up with girls who expect to be treated like spoiled princesses.
When me and my new girl had our first date (what seems like a lifetime ago -- the very next day she had to move out of state due to a family emergency, and we've been long-distance ever since 😢), she insisted on splitting the dinner bill even though I offered to pay for everything -- I actually felt rather worried at that moment, because I thought she wasn't that much into me -- but then when we were saying goodbye she almost choked me with just about the tightest hug I've ever had, and that literally made my day!
Alpha, that camera slap was really kool... I am currently a bit sick, and when you slapped the camera, I thought I was falling. keep up the great videos!!! I love how funny, calm, confident and playful you are. Stay awesome
"Don't be late." Being late, that is such a huge turn off, and if you do it, especially consistently, is relationship SUICIDE. After a while, she's gonna be like: "This guy constantly hurts my feelings by showing up late, and I am tired of it, so fuck him, I am DONE!!!!!!!"
The process is exactly the same, the dates are just less expensive. That's especially if you really wanna stand out from the other high school guys the girls are being asked out by
3:17 I thought you were just gonna say the man should pay but I’ve never actually herd the expression “if you ask, you should pay” and I like that... a lot
+Alejandro Renteria I'll sum it up for you. For dating, always use proper grammar (shows maturity). Hey, how's it going? You got any plans on (time/date)? I was thinking about going to _____ and was wondering if you'd go with me? If no: Is there a day that's better suited for you? If no again: That's alright. Well if you change your mind, let me know! (Find someone else) If yes: Great, I'll pick you up at ______! If you're after more of the friendly chit chat, I've found that I've usually had more success after talking about something currently relevant. If you're Facebook friends, comment on a picture, status or video....then use text/direct message to go into more detail. That's your gate. Since it's fresh they'll have lots to say. Pick up on things that you'd like them to elaborate on and then say something about how it relates to you or reminds you of something... then hopefully they keep the conversation going with a clean segue between each.
+Alejandro Renteria Textgame is personal creativity. You have to practice to get better at it. It's just like social skills. Some people are better at having conversations than others.
I am a female and have seen a few of your videos (they have catchy phrases haha 😊) everything I have heard you say is EXACTLY right! hands down ! Your awesome !
Aaron, you may not see this but if you do have to say you that after watching some of your videos i start to feel good about myself. Thank you from heart!
+Mark Potočnik Great in moderation, and by moderation i mean MAX 1/week, so even better if it's 1/month, in that case save up some money and get a proper one (my personal pick are Romeo and Juliet Churchills)
Ádám Csontos I don't get people who just wait for the "one". Man you have to go date in order to find her/him. Dating comes with experience and knowing what you don't want and have seen before.
How about reaching into your pocket to grab your phone and drop your condoms all over the floor without noticing (in front of your date), until the waitress at the coffee shop you're at tells you, "you dropped something," leaving you to awkwardly pick them off of the ground and place them back into your pocket. Yes, this happened to me.
Lucky for me, I don't use condoms -- I can't feel a dam thing when wearing one and I believe in taking things slow anyway, so I talk it out with my date beforehand and allow her to make her own decision regarding the use of an alternative method of contraception (or not)!
Alpha. Da real MVP. Really though, I've been watching your videos regularly ever since I stumbled upon your channel. I like to think I've taken what I learned and put it to good use. Not too mention, You're videos just fun to watch! Very entertaining stuff you're giving here. I hope you keep it going for another 3 years!
Alpha keep making these vids honestly you're a real inspiration to me and a bunch of other dudes out there. Congrats on 1 mil and keep pursuing your dreams.
Alpha, just a tip, you can mention that what you say applies if your date is male or female, etc. at the beginning of the video, or just use "person", "date", or others to reffer to the person your are trying to court/seduce, inclusive language is nice, but it can get a bit redundant and repetitive if used too much
I never never bragged about myself for my girlfriend, I just gave her the best of me, and eventually she just told me she thinks I'm amazing. If you're really an amazing person (at least if someone thinks you are), there's no need to tell anyone that, they will tell you one day.
I can't think of a single one of the ten to which I disagree. The ones I think are most important are #1 Clean automobile (unless you are on the subway or bus), #2 Do NOT be late, #3 Turn - Off the phone (unless you are expecting a VERY crucial telephone call. I also agree with: "You Ask, You Pay." if one is interested in another, taking it slow and letting a relationship evolve is always a good choice.
Your tips are so right!!! I've just shared them with my BF and we agree!!! Thanks for sharing and teaching men to be wonderful human beings;) Keep up the good work :)
Is there a channel for the alpha fem? Because there sure are some tips the odd female should take note of as well (put your damn phone away girl, seriously).
Hey Alpha, just want to let you know you should do more videos in this "don't do this" format. Rather than saying what we should do, I find it helpful when you tell us "don'ts".
Great video. The only point I do not follow myself is the one about paying for her. Although I'm perfectly okay with admitting that if you want to maximize your chances for a second date, paying for her indeed is important. However, if you a) aren't desperate and b) are looking for a modern, independent woman... Not offering to pay for her is actually a good way to filter out women with old-fashioned/conservative/sexist ideas about relationships, whom you don't want to date anyway.
A modern independent woman who pays for herself doesn't need a man. One screw up, and you're history. A woman who prefers the man to pay may still be able to pay for herself, but she is likely more focused on the partnership of relationships. You do this for me, and I do this for you sort of reciprocation that enables a feeling of relying on one another that develops bonds.
Marci Konopa Actually you hit the nail on the head - a modern independent woman doesn't *need* a man, that's absolutely true. And I don't *need* a woman. And that's good, need isn't necessary. Relationships based on need might be strong, but when that need disappears on either side... or when they figure out it wasn't there in the first place... what's left to keep them together?
+David Fischer I'm not talking about need so much in a dependency sense, but rather as placing a value on partnership. I woman who has an attitude that she doesn't need a man, she can and will pay for things on her own, she has placed her values on herself as in individual. This may work out for casual dating where each is out for themselves, but isn't such a healthy attitude when it comes to joining for marriage.
I used some if these techniques when I last asked a woman out but unfortunately she declined my offer because she had a boyfriend..but said she was very flattered and that made me feel kind of good inside.😊
Hey alpha, you should make a video where you actually actively go through the scenarios along with explanation, like seeing a cute girl at the coffee shop and what to do in that moment along with a visual portrayal of acting it out with people in the video
Nexus 6? Lol nice phone choice. Good video too, normally vids like this just become stale and boring and weird and so on, but your channel has legit quality content haha.
In our case, dining requires especially careful planning -- we're both VERY picky eaters (I have multiple strong food aversions, whereas she has fewer aversions but also a couple outright allergies), so in our case the pickier eater (which happens to be me) researches all the food in a specific geographic area and makes a shortlist of acceptable places, and then the other person (her) chooses from that shortlist!
That was the classiest slap to the camera I've ever seen.
"Don't be stupid" 😂😂
Tip 11: Don't over plan. Be flexible and chill.
Very true!
AndyT:08 a shot of tequila will do
TopOrange Ahahahahaha fuuuuck no
Yea plan in your head but don’t be asking the girl about where she wants to sit at the movies before you’ve even left her house. You gotta appear to be cool and easygoing while also creating the best opportunities for yourself.
GreenPigKing Tip # 12 - Dont have low testosterone
I like the little slap I received for being late
+Dzagh Nežinojau kad ir tu žiūri alpha m. :D
me too 😈😈 lol
fuck the blue pill...
This is just superb, I've been looking for "top online dating" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Denrooklyn Wedlock Enhancer - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my friend got great success with it.
Dzagh so sorry bro better luck next time
Did Aaron just slap me through the screen?
Yep, yeah he did
Lol
This was the most immersive first person bro talk I've ever watched
That moment when you hit the camera. That's gold Aaron.
I went out on a date recently with my friends sister, (He said he was cool with me dating her) Through out our date she had her eyes gorilla glued to her phone, and her initial responses to everything was "Mhm, Is that so? or you don't say" During dinner is where I drew the line, She ordered the most expensive thing on the menu and I ordered the cheapest thing on the menu. Wanna guess what she did? She took pictures of her food and didn't even bother to eat it so I left her in the restaurant after I finished my food, I didn't pay for it. I just walked out. She wasn't on a date with me she was on a date with her phone. an hour later she calls me up to complain that I was the worst date she ever had, I told her the feeling was mutual, She proclaimed to be a perfect date and I told her every flaw she had during. Some how I got a second date out of her since I believe in second chances, Thought she fucked up this chance as well. I won't tell how, but sh fucked up.
+MrBryBadGuy dont leave us hanging man, i really wanna hear the 2nd date too lol. did that bitch realize what she done wrong? did your friend agree with you? DONT BLUEBALL US BRO
How 2nd date go bro
Terrible. She wouldn't stop talking about her ex's and comparing me to them, She also has horrible personal hygiene
WHUT BOUT PART 2??:(
+MrBryBadGuy You should definitely stop with those "2nd chances" thing man! If she was terrible the first time round she won't be complete 180° next time!
Gotta be my favourite TH-cam channel
Ah Ranbeer💖
100th like
*BeerBiceps oh beerbiceps also watches this dude*
Thats why you copy him 😂
Indian 😎😎😎
Why I am watching Alpha's Videos:
50% for Comedy/Entertainment
50% for good Advice
If you can clean a car in 10 min you are a god
True hahaha
I'm a god then! I remove the junk and everything else and dump it in a box. Worry about the box later. The car is clean.
lmao what about the bedroom/appartment part?
Hahahaha
I don’t let my car get dirty😂
Even though I'm a girl and are likely not a part of the demographic this channel was made for, I appreciate watching these videos because alpha m. has got an awesome personality and has great advice not only applicable to men, but often to women as well. This channel is just overall great.
Desiree Zubia I'm learning a lot from him.
Nice
I think he's more helpful than channels dedicated to women because most of them are not realistic.
I've noticed Aaron has been getting waaaay more comfortable with us. I love it!
ultimate dating don't : don't be ugly
trust me, I speak from experience
This is the exact same advice I got from a 65 year old man when I was in high school.
Still right - just pointing it out.
Haha I love how he slaps the camera at 1:34. It felt like an elder bro giving me some valuable advice. :')
+Nikhil Halbe Needed to be done
+Griffin Cannon Absolutely, bro.
Even though I'm a straight male, I still appreciate the fact that you say "she, or he, whatever you're into" in your videos. I dunno, it's nice to know you're accepting of everyone
+Cocoplops Same here :)
+Cocoplops straight women and i like that too about him,he's very openminded about everything
The gay shout out detracts from the video - it adds nothing
JCFrigid It adds acceptance and support. And it doesn’t detract anything.
@@blakestark5177 Just another bunch of pussified,politically correct betas. No wonder everything is going to shit LMAO
please don't do that spicy thing again rofl
+masterx1907 I agree... it was pretty awkward to watch:)
+alpha m. you could always refilm the whole video .... also you are dead on with don't be late I was 2 mins late before a date and my excuse to her was the event I was at got intense ... she kept rubbing it in my face that I didn't want a second date
+masterx1907 I was an hour late recently and she was pissed, had to get my hair cut for her though lol
+alpha m. I already expected it when I paused the video at when you said "spicy" so something tells me this isn't the last we'll see of the spicy seÑorita or the sexy seÑor.
+Jeremy Jackson one hour for a regulation haircut? worst excuse ever! LOL
I love how much this channel has progressed over the years. But having an outro to your videos would be a great addition.
"Don't be stupid."
That motherlike SLAP by ALPHA
Awesome video Alpha! But the goodnight bjs tho. :P
Mayank! I do hope you'll be part of the next stylecon! Love your vids as well.
So alpha is your inspiration
+Reynaldo Evidente, Jr. There are few things in making. Stay tuned! :)
+M Rawat One of the many major role models! :)
Last date I went on the girl talked about her ex non stop (even though i consistently tried to change the subject to anything else). I stood up, dropped some money on the table to pay for my share of the meal and left her in the restaurant. I'm always polite and considerate but that was just a waste of my time
Good for you
Now you need to find a woman interested in you and not her X
+Red Pill Brotherhood yea it was a date not fucking dr Phil
That is Alpha see how it feels to be friend zoned!
Man that comment hits home
My confidence sky rockets every time I watch one of these videos. Alpha is such a great motivator!
dat camera slap tho
this is the best vieo u´ve ever seen by alpha m., interacting with ur camera shows up how funny but serious the facts are
"with that spicy señorita" 😁
Ha ha ha
WildfootTV omg i commented 4 years ago, can’t believe! Bag fan of Alpha M sincer day 2 😂
@@VivienneTutunaru nice it's a awesome channel
Lmao
HELL YEAH! Had a date yesterday and I didn't commit any of these don'ts. Feeling like a true alpha now.
'You may be teaching blind kittens to read!" I died :'D
Like one of the only videos that this man has ever made with a good takes
Some women get offended if you try to pay. Dating has gotten weird.
No not weird and that's great if you notice she gets offended because you'll know you have to stop seeing her from first date.
See? Isn't that great and not weird?
yeah true but at least offer it and if she wants to pay 50/50 then go with the flow and try not to make a big deal about it. If the girl feels more comfortable with the 50/50 well so be it. She probs don't want to feel guilty or being bought out.
I like this guy's videos because he always adds humor to his advice and sometimes cracks me up.
A dating do for the guys: ask her questions. If you don't ask questions, she assumes you're not really that interested in her.
Man, Alpha, you been cranking out the videos lately. Super appreciate the content and the consistency. Keep it up! You've taken hitting a million subscribers super well and are definitely showing your appreciation for it. Thank you.
That Camera slap though
Yes alpha does it right by not discriminating against people's preferences
Guys shouldn't feel obligated to pay for a girl's drink unless it really pleases them. On the first date, I usually asked the guy if he wanted to share the bill. Plus, sometimes, SOME (not all) guys feel entitled to getting "more" than just a date when they pay for your meal/drink... It prevents any misunderstanding or embarrassment. My boyfriend said he was pleased that I asked because he said he was fed up with girls who expect to be treated like spoiled princesses.
Gaelicia shut up
When me and my new girl had our first date (what seems like a lifetime ago -- the very next day she had to move out of state due to a family emergency, and we've been long-distance ever since 😢), she insisted on splitting the dinner bill even though I offered to pay for everything -- I actually felt rather worried at that moment, because I thought she wasn't that much into me -- but then when we were saying goodbye she almost choked me with just about the tightest hug I've ever had, and that literally made my day!
I honestly thinking opening up a car or restaurant door shows how respectful you are.
What do you mean by, "Don't open the car door"? Isn't that being considerate, or am I missing a point?
Alpha, that camera slap was really kool... I am currently a bit sick, and when you slapped the camera, I thought I was falling. keep up the great videos!!! I love how funny, calm, confident and playful you are. Stay awesome
"Don't be late." Being late, that is such a huge turn off, and if you do it, especially consistently, is relationship SUICIDE.
After a while, she's gonna be like: "This guy constantly hurts my feelings by showing up late, and I am tired of it, so fuck him, I am DONE!!!!!!!"
Whenever you say Brian, I act like you are directly talking to me. It makes me feel special.
This was great but can you do this for high schoolers on how to act and the dos and dont's that would be awesome
You serious? Dating in high school goes like this "hey I've got weed" "girl sucks dick"
XD
+Cameron Reid accurate for some people hahaha
yep ha ha ha
The process is exactly the same, the dates are just less expensive. That's especially if you really wanna stand out from the other high school guys the girls are being asked out by
3:17 I thought you were just gonna say the man should pay but I’ve never actually herd the expression “if you ask, you should pay” and I like that... a lot
do a video about how to text or textgame
yes
+Alejandro Renteria I'll sum it up for you. For dating, always use proper grammar (shows maturity).
Hey, how's it going?
You got any plans on (time/date)?
I was thinking about going to _____ and was wondering if you'd go with me?
If no: Is there a day that's better suited for you?
If no again: That's alright. Well if you change your mind, let me know! (Find someone else)
If yes: Great, I'll pick you up at ______!
If you're after more of the friendly chit chat, I've found that I've usually had more success after talking about something currently relevant. If you're Facebook friends, comment on a picture, status or video....then use text/direct message to go into more detail. That's your gate. Since it's fresh they'll have lots to say. Pick up on things that you'd like them to elaborate on and then say something about how it relates to you or reminds you of something... then hopefully they keep the conversation going with a clean segue between each.
+Alejandro Renteria Textgame is personal creativity. You have to practice to get better at it. It's just like social skills. Some people are better at having conversations than others.
+Fallen One You sir are a great gentleman!
James Henry Thanks, I hope it helps a little at least. There is a lot that goes into it, but if I had to summarize it that's how I'd put it. :)
I am a female and have seen a few of your videos (they have catchy phrases haha 😊) everything I have heard you say is EXACTLY right! hands down ! Your awesome !
Wow! came here from Shark Tank. More than doubled the subscribers. NOICE!
Aaron, you may not see this but if you do have to say you that after watching some of your videos i start to feel good about myself. Thank you from heart!
alpha can you talk about cigars?
+muffinluveruuu what man.. cigars are really alpha come on
+Mark Potočnik smoking is beta as fuck. Bad smell, it's a vice, gives you impotence.
+muffinluveruuu L
Cigars are boss tho
+Mark Potočnik Great in moderation, and by moderation i mean MAX 1/week, so even better if it's 1/month, in that case save up some money and get a proper one (my personal pick are Romeo and Juliet Churchills)
I seriously loved his personality and videos after watching the first one. Subscribed after one minute.
Step one: Don't date.
Step two: There is no step two.
+TheMissing8 You are doing it wrong mate :D
Ádám Csontos There is no wrong way to not do something.
That only works if you aren't intrested in getting to know someone more closely.
So true Carlos. The wrong way is exactly to not do something. I don't get your point of view about this... why wouldn't you date?
Ádám Csontos I don't get people who just wait for the "one". Man you have to go date in order to find her/him. Dating comes with experience and knowing what you don't want and have seen before.
Aesthetics on point as usual Aaron. nice to see you rocking the t-shirt!
That 4th wall smack really made this video! :D
Your charisma is incredible in this video! Great job as usual Aaron!
bro tips for long distance relationship pleaseee !
Mohid Fit thats not relationship
I love you Alpha, school these guys please! You need to put this stuff in a handbook for men or something! Great vid!
When you don't have a date but you thought you'd watch just to be prepared
Or when your date is on the other side of the country and you watch just in case she comes back 😢
This is the only video on TH-cam that actually helped me
no need to be too PC imo, just say "your date"
agreed
+TurtleLovesTiger what's PC?
***** politically correct
thanks brah
100,000,000 VIEWS! BOOM, PROUD OF YOU BRO!
How about reaching into your pocket to grab your phone and drop your condoms all over the floor without noticing (in front of your date), until the waitress at the coffee shop you're at tells you, "you dropped something," leaving you to awkwardly pick them off of the ground and place them back into your pocket. Yes, this happened to me.
zellarsDD777 What happened then?
Lucky for me, I don't use condoms -- I can't feel a dam thing when wearing one and I believe in taking things slow anyway, so I talk it out with my date beforehand and allow her to make her own decision regarding the use of an alternative method of contraception (or not)!
Alpha. Da real MVP. Really though, I've been watching your videos regularly ever since I stumbled upon your channel.
I like to think I've taken what I learned and put it to good use. Not too mention, You're videos just fun to watch! Very entertaining stuff you're giving here. I hope you keep it going for another 3 years!
I don't know how but I felt that slap..
Alpha keep making these vids honestly you're a real inspiration to me and a bunch of other dudes out there. Congrats on 1 mil and keep pursuing your dreams.
Wait so open the door for her or don't?
+Patrick Scott Always.
Mother Chucker I would say so too, but the way he said it made it sound like dont do it, but then that isnt something he would say so I was confused
+Patrick Scott Dude I was just as confused, I rewinded #10 so many times and still don't understand what he was trying to say
the door test kid. the door test
yes I was on a date last weekend..it was great.. thank you!..cuz I finally got that confidence to ask someone out ..your videos really helped me a lot
That slap scared the sh*t out of me
Alpha, just a tip, you can mention that what you say applies if your date is male or female, etc. at the beginning of the video, or just use "person", "date", or others to reffer to the person your are trying to court/seduce, inclusive language is nice, but it can get a bit redundant and repetitive if used too much
“Teaching blind kittens to read” 😂
I never never bragged about myself for my girlfriend, I just gave her the best of me, and eventually she just told me she thinks I'm amazing. If you're really an amazing person (at least if someone thinks you are), there's no need to tell anyone that, they will tell you one day.
2:33 who ever said I had an ex....
I can't think of a single one of the ten to which I disagree.
The ones I think are most important are #1 Clean automobile (unless you are on the subway or bus), #2 Do NOT be late, #3 Turn - Off the phone (unless you are expecting a VERY crucial telephone call. I also agree with: "You Ask, You Pay."
if one is interested in another, taking it slow and letting a relationship evolve is always a good choice.
Step One: Fuck; need to clean my car
Your tips are so right!!! I've just shared them with my BF and we agree!!! Thanks for sharing and teaching men to be wonderful human beings;)
Keep up the good work :)
did you start taking spannish lessons or something?
Fredrik Simonsén he wants those sexy spicy senoritas
Damn Aaron, back at it again with the quality advice!
Is there a channel for the alpha fem? Because there sure are some tips the odd female should take note of as well (put your damn phone away girl, seriously).
Hey Alpha, just want to let you know you should do more videos in this "don't do this" format. Rather than saying what we should do, I find it helpful when you tell us "don'ts".
Don't become a best friend!!!!!
Great video. The only point I do not follow myself is the one about paying for her. Although I'm perfectly okay with admitting that if you want to maximize your chances for a second date, paying for her indeed is important. However, if you a) aren't desperate and b) are looking for a modern, independent woman... Not offering to pay for her is actually a good way to filter out women with old-fashioned/conservative/sexist ideas about relationships, whom you don't want to date anyway.
A modern independent woman who pays for herself doesn't need a man. One screw up, and you're history. A woman who prefers the man to pay may still be able to pay for herself, but she is likely more focused on the partnership of relationships. You do this for me, and I do this for you sort of reciprocation that enables a feeling of relying on one another that develops bonds.
Marci Konopa
Actually you hit the nail on the head - a modern independent woman doesn't *need* a man, that's absolutely true. And I don't *need* a woman. And that's good, need isn't necessary. Relationships based on need might be strong, but when that need disappears on either side... or when they figure out it wasn't there in the first place... what's left to keep them together?
+David Fischer I'm not talking about need so much in a dependency sense, but rather as placing a value on partnership. I woman who has an attitude that she doesn't need a man, she can and will pay for things on her own, she has placed her values on herself as in individual. This may work out for casual dating where each is out for themselves, but isn't such a healthy attitude when it comes to joining for marriage.
Marci Konopa
Whoa there, who said marriage?
+David Fischer And this is why I'm dating someone from Algeria. This fear of marriage in our society is bizarre.
0:14 Gayness confirmed.
I used some if these techniques when I last asked a woman out but unfortunately she declined my offer because she had a boyfriend..but said she was very flattered and that made me feel kind of good inside.😊
406 views and already 800+ likes lol
+Gabriel Paolo Rehawi good point i didnt even notice it till you pointed out
Hey alpha, you should make a video where you actually actively go through the scenarios along with explanation, like seeing a cute girl at the coffee shop and what to do in that moment along with a visual portrayal of acting it out with people in the video
Thanks for bringing up the Humour back to the videos...loved it man..!! Amazing as before
Alpha you always make me like full of energy after watching any of your videos .... i a m speechless
Golden video Bro. Seriously stepped your game up since last I saw you
Hair is on point Alpha. Do a tutorial on this "do"
Dude..You are the man...really how confident You are during videos... appreciate that...✔ All the points u told were awesome
Rocking that Nexus 6 I see
i started from hating this guys face and now i am a fan of the channel, good job alpha, and thank you !
Love the fact he hit the camera, like he's hitting you on the head, saying, don't be stupid! haha. That was brilliant!
Hey Aaron,I loved the way you slapped the camera as if you slapping a friend if they had done something wrong.🖐🖐 😂😂
So true. Doesnt matter what you drive so long as you drive. Specially if you live in LA
I literally know everything he says and don't need to watch it, but I just love his videos lol
A new summer essentials video alpha .. a new summer essential video !
man your enthusiasm is great.you're amazing.keep it up
OMG I CAN'T TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! GREAT TIPS THO.
Nexus 6? Lol nice phone choice. Good video too, normally vids like this just become stale and boring and weird and so on, but your channel has legit quality content haha.
All men should listen to this.
Alpha was really looking forward to this video, i guess. What a positive energy.
Alpha thank you for these video's man!
Excellent advice with great humour. Plan ahead, especially the finance and entertainment.
In our case, dining requires especially careful planning -- we're both VERY picky eaters (I have multiple strong food aversions, whereas she has fewer aversions but also a couple outright allergies), so in our case the pickier eater (which happens to be me) researches all the food in a specific geographic area and makes a shortlist of acceptable places, and then the other person (her) chooses from that shortlist!