Why keep blaming others for your own mistakes

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  • @rathkhan1114
    @rathkhan1114 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well thought provoking video bro!

  • @The-Cat
    @The-Cat 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Checkmate! 😆

  • @BlizzardAbroad
    @BlizzardAbroad หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good message bro.

  • @trenews358
    @trenews358 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We’ll said, no more excuses.

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, brother 🙏

  • @BogsersJazzPopTrio
    @BogsersJazzPopTrio หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love your smooth delivery on hard subjects the truth shall set us free. Needed to hear this message today that's all I will say this was for me thanks for thinking about us over here in paradise

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BogsersJazzPopTrio Stay safe, stay blessed

  • @BossHerbie
    @BossHerbie หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Facts, brother Smooth. I get asked all the time about how I managed to have a successful relationship, and I tell them: 1. I made a list of 10 things that I wanted in my partner, and I would not compromise any of them; and 2. Treat your seach the same way you would as in your home country - take your time and really get to know your potential mates. There's no way to get around it, good things come to those who wait...

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @BossHerbie You did it the right way, my friend

  • @RichieRichAbroad-us6ol
    @RichieRichAbroad-us6ol หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    No shade on the Phils at all, but everything you said about Thailand is true, bro. About the men coming to the Phils and jumping on the first woman that gives him attention, tough to blame some of these men who come here after never having any play at home. They fall hook, line, and sinker for these women who whisper sweet words in their ears.
    If your woman is with you because of your money, that also means that she'll likely leave you for more money. Put in the work and BE the right man so you can get the right woman! If youre still hunting for the woman who is exciting, youre gonna find that she's exciting for all the wrong reasons. Good stuff, Smooth.

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @RichieRichAbroad-us6ol Everything you said is correct. I truly appreciate your sharing your insights. 🙏

  • @DWebbTheOldHead
    @DWebbTheOldHead หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When it comes to this Thailand vs. Philippines comparison/debate, my philosophy is simple…….
    “Different strokes for different folks.”
    I already know what it is, rass. 🥃✌🏾

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @DWebbTheOldHead Yeah, man, respect always

  • @KimmyPat
    @KimmyPat หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thailand is wonderful. I lived there 2 years and now in the Philippines. I have a great wife and 2 boys so I’m here for the duration but have considered bringing my family elsewhere in SE Asia

  • @stephenadkins9883
    @stephenadkins9883 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tell it like it is Brother 😢

  • @Pedro-IT
    @Pedro-IT หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Some of these men don't know what it is like Smooth. Attention is a drug. Sometimes all it takes is kindness for them to fall. Men need to understand their weakness and avoid falling for the trap.

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Pedro-IT So true, my friend. Thank you for your support.

  • @michaelwatkins479
    @michaelwatkins479 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For a small young developing country (78 years old independence), it says a lot about the Philippines because people keep comparing it to Thailand, which is a already well established kingdom never occupied by anyone

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michaelwatkins479 I hear you

    • @henrymcmiller2527
      @henrymcmiller2527 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      A old man like me appreciates the fact that English is spoken in The Philippines.

  • @kimdayne2012
    @kimdayne2012 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I looked in the mirror and cried :(

  • @skip2it426-
    @skip2it426- หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey my brother great insight, I would say to each their own however. How could one go wrong with either choice?
    Thank you for sharing ✌🏾

  • @Tre4khd
    @Tre4khd หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bro, I thought the reason for coming to the Filipins was to get away from the modern bs… but hey, the legal weed got me thinking fr fr.

  • @theadaptivefitnesschannel4308
    @theadaptivefitnesschannel4308 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video smooth! I’ve had six successful trips to the Philippines and because I did my research before going to the country, I’ve had absolutely no problems. I love it! My only complaint actually is that the Internet sucks ass😂😂😂
    I spend my time mostly on the island of Samar. there are very few ex-pats there in my city Calbayog. Although my last trip in August was disappointing to see so many foreigners in my resort. I’m usually the only one. I avoid expats and TH-cam vloggers like the plague. I have no intention or interest in visiting any of the popular cities saturated with ex-pats. And it’s embarrassing that some of the shit the brothers are getting into. I avoid them as well.

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @theadaptivefitnesschannel4308 I hear you, brother

    • @michaelwatkins479
      @michaelwatkins479 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @theadaptivefitnesschannel4308 I agree with you about the expats, they are the biggest problem here, I have no problem with the locals and I watch any expat very carefully
      I live in Bantayan Island and to solve my internet problem I bought Starlink

  • @andyperez7342
    @andyperez7342 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🇺🇸

  • @ripley7t429
    @ripley7t429 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So things are heading back to the way it used to be and really always has been. I dont know if that makes sense or not, but a woman's nature doesn't change just because they live in another country. Hypergamy, hierarchy of needs, etc. A 20 year old girl isnt attracted to an out of shape 60's something man. Men lose their minds with a little attention and leg, and get cleaned out over and over. I can tell you it took me a decade to get myself straight after my relationship ended. Guess what, I had a lot of issues. Fix thyself first men, then go looking. You can find a good one too, but usually not 20 if you are 60. 35-60, sure, but a young one telling you that you are her dream, your wallet is her dream.

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ripley7t429 Great line, fixed yourself first. Stay blessed.

    • @josephrelaford6826
      @josephrelaford6826 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can't take the money with you when you die

  • @michaelinternetpro
    @michaelinternetpro หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    whats up

  • @ellvtv2314
    @ellvtv2314 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was made to believe that filipinas had posters of 60 year old retirees over the beds. lol, I feel so duped by these old tubers.

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A lot of men did indeed get duped.

    • @blobtv7444
      @blobtv7444 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol

    • @invisiblerevolution
      @invisiblerevolution หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dregoingglobal7991
    @dregoingglobal7991 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m not knocking Thailand it seems like a wonderful place to visit but I can see my self in the Philippines to live longer term not knocking Thailand but it just seem like a place to party and have a good time but when I think of Thailand I also think Ladyboys and I’m not into that scene you think your going home with Tiffany but you going home with Timothy no thanks!!! But I bet the country is beautiful but the Philippines is for me 😎

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dregoingglobal7991 I hear you

    • @tombkk1322
      @tombkk1322 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think that’s a very unfair representation of Thailand. It’s not good to make stereotypes if you don’t know the truth.

    • @dregoingglobal7991
      @dregoingglobal7991 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tombkk1322 it’s just my opinion brotha that’s all

  • @michaelwatkins479
    @michaelwatkins479 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why do TH-camrs always try to compare Thailand vs Philippines. One country is fully developed and was never occupied by another country, and the other country just got its independence in 1946, so it's a developing country it's only 78 years old, ask yourself what did the infrastructure look like in the US or Thailand when it was only 78 years old. I chose the Philippines to live because of the people, Thailand is the Las Vegas of Southeast Asia, it's fun and a lot of tourists. The visa for living there long term is also expensive in Thailand

    • @tombkk1322
      @tombkk1322 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry, but Thailand is much more than the “Las Vegas” of Southeast Asia. Having lived in Bangkok for seven years it’s much more than that. That’s such a small part of the total country. It’s a great place to live.

    • @michaelwatkins479
      @michaelwatkins479 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @tombkk1322 yes your correct, I was just trying to describe it for some of the people that haven't been there and the difference in Thailand vs. the Philippines. Yes, it's much more just like Las Vegas is also a great place to live, I lived there myself, but people always say, "What's done in Vegas stays in Vegas." Thailand is also referred to as the world's kitchen, land of smiles, and much more, and so is the Philippines, so it's really up to the person that's looking to move to southeast Asia. I say travel to both and see for yourself

    • @tombkk1322
      @tombkk1322 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michaelwatkins479 Thanks for your sensible comment. I agree.

  • @wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366
    @wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Brother I agree with you man I feel like marriage is dead in today's time especially for us Gen Z, millennials and Zillennials out there thanks to the west aka USA and the UK for ruining real relationships because of 304s & gold diggers keep showing up on the TV in the media, we cannot trust marriage anymore, we just have to get a woman that knows she's a good woman and just keep her on maybe make beautiful kids whatever but to put a ring on it is probably a big mistake, maybe he's up to other guys to do it if it makes it feel good and more right but it just sucks really For young people, and yes by the way my favorite countries I would love to move to is either Vietnam or Thailand because I feel like those countries are probably the best Asian countries ever 🇻🇳🇹🇭

    • @smoothlee64
      @smoothlee64  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366 Do what is best for you, young brother. Stay blessed

    • @wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366
      @wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@smoothlee64 thanks my bro 🙏🏽

  • @JayHNotTheNormalTraveler
    @JayHNotTheNormalTraveler หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Respectfully, Thailand is the King of Asia. The Philippines is still in the Top 4 in Asia.

  • @jamesgilbert2181
    @jamesgilbert2181 หลายเดือนก่อน

    its true no 18 20 year old sits and dreams of a old man its the money .if you ask any one over 50 here will tell you the truth and i can say the area in which i live these same people think its not good.dont get me wrong my wife is ten years younger than me . but i would never even want a 20 or 30 year younger woman