Jessica is always 💯 spot on. Understanding the game is big-time important, and once you do it is likely to be less bothersome and leave you unphased rather than drained. "Don't hate the player, hate the game."
She disrespected me when I was trying to be there for her while she was angry. Out of respect, I gave her space until she tried to play victim. I called her up, engaged her about her disrespectful behavior. She justified her actions by saying she asked me not to come close when she's angry. I was stunned, had no option than to go queite.
Heck with women & their games. When people start pulling sh*t with me, I just walk away. That's not the type of person I would want to be with. I will communicate concisely that the game is over & I will be done 😂
I had the same situation last year. She used to text me regularly and we used to go out for a date but she suddenly changed telling that she will be busy with her life and will not able to answer my messages as before! I did stop texting her and I walked away!!
Did she tried coming back and if so how did you respond ? . Walking away is one thing but when they try to weed their way back is when you have to question why or why now? They will do that just be prepared brother. 😂
One thing about me is that I’m from past experiences of this same exact scenario has taught me to not take the bait ,but to protect my feelings. I don’t show them that I’m actually paying attention and listening of what they are doing. Be easy going with every weird reaction, focus on you . She will know that you value yourself and realize that they are not worthy . When she decides to have an open conversation, works every time.
Applying your tips has really helped me alot in my relationship with my ex, i had to just breakup cuz it looked as if i was d only one in the relationship, she made me feel like i correct her too much, everything i do irritates her, she disrespects me, she compares me.. thank God we're separated now cuz i watched 😊 you video about knowing your worth as a man...
True. A person will love you regardless of having money, expensive clothes, or anything materialistic. You do not have to pose to be a person you are not...
This video was very helpful. Thank You. I still have a lot to work on but I can now see where I was wrong. I wasn’t enforcing and setting boundaries for myself. I self sabotaged not even realizing what was going on. I wasn’t reading the board. I started becoming someone I wasn’t, and I started losing friends. I couldn’t put my finger on the why. I felt depressed. Now im protecting my energy. It’s Still hard for me to speak up about certain things. I try not to let pride and my ego get in the way now.
Blowing hot and cold game seems to be on the increase with many women lately and has certainly been a popular pass-time with many of my ex's, but yes your right Jessie it's very confusing to most guys when they get this,In my case Im afraid I tend to loose interest fast (maybe I should be more 'playful' ) but I do try to look at myself and think 'what did I do wrong'? thanks for great Vid again Jessica 👍🏻x
Your videos are always on point,it has helped me alot to overcome relationship stress, know my worth as a man & etcetera.... Much love from Nigeria...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The real question is: do you really want to be with someone who is able and willing to do this to you? I would never do this to anyone, so we know there are people who don't do this. Choose them instead. Discard people who are toxic, manipulative. Those are your boundaries right there.
Wow, that last statement that you made about what an acceptable relationship should be is something that needs to be in writing in a picture frame 🤩!! People do need to do self work before they go cozy up to the next person, really ☝🏽.
8:17 basically be the leader. This is always a topic that comes up in these videos when talking about our other halves. Setting boundaries and its always targeted at us men. Set boundaries because you are the leader. She does not respect a man who has no boundaries. You could do the most debauched things under the sun but if you set boundaries with her she will see you as a masculine man. I know because i tested it myself. This comes from experience and wisdom.
Brilliant! Brilliant!! Brilliant!!! tips on how to handle games playing & manipulation esp from the female side. You're so intelligent 🧠. Beauty + Brains 🧠 Thank you Jessica
Coming out of a breakup after 7 years together from University and all and this is the second time she's doing this, and seeing my past relationship reflect in most of yhe explanations you've made about these things, I wonder why I wasn't watching these videos and to be a smarter man all these while, I'd not have felt so much hurt. Thank you for this.
Thank you very much,I really appreciate everything you said because right now I'm going through married situation and definitely I apply them in this situation ❤
Jessica ano ne brofo bekumi ooooooo. My listening crush from the days of City FM. One of our best radio presenters in Ghana. I love her soo much. She could be on the radio from morning till late afternoon and we never get bored of listening to her lovely voice. I love her very much.
all of the games have the same goal. to make you unsure about her feelings towards you and make you question where you stand in the relationship. all of the games are a power play she has it and is using it on you. you must lkeave as soon as they start because no mather how much she likes you she likes the games more
I've been liking this girl a workmate of mine. She is giving some actions that is quite inviting we stare to each other a lot after work in the elevator and we Convo when there's no work but after a month she just resigned and the experience of having feelings for her is still lingering inside me. Hopefully I will get to move on and focus on my work all the way and wait for the right woman that will come to my life
@@JessicaOSmadam I am going through the same situation. The girl used to give me attention when I approach and told her I like her she's not flirting with other guys.
This channel loves your videos. very educative and almost the same relationship tips as this channel, even though our channel uses faceless automated videos we agree with you on all your videos. Well done and continue to engage your audients with these wonderful videos.
Thanks so much for this. This is what I'm currently going through. I've been played . I'll work on what you shared here and I believe it going to be helpful. Thanks
I subscribed yesterday sister. You really know what you are talking about. Thank you from the very bottom of my❤ for your amazing work. Love your voice. Thanks.
6:03 I dont respond with my own games. I just tell them straight up. If you aren't happy being here the door is there. You can leave at anytime. If they play stupid game, i just flip the script on them. You want to compare me to other men then i say, "well if you want that then go find him. You sit there acting like you are perfect but nobody is perfect". I make it clear if they want something else that the door is there. My answer is always the door is there. Saying that i kept my own house clean and cooked the meals(where i live, most women cant cook to save their lives) so i would constantly be asked "what am i here for" they knew why they were there because they brought nothing else of value to my life.
Well, the inconsistency happened, and I asked her to discuss it and figure out what's going on, and she refuses. It's left me thinking - what if she just isn't interested? She keeps saying she is interested though.
Life goes on and don't be a wimp and give your heart life and soul they will use you you enjoy u smile and abuse you silently then take a find their short term man to replace you been hey....
Oh damn this hit hard i was trapped into a relationship like this when my whole life was out of words she constantly disrespecting me and full of this game sht but today thank God am free and free forever she was sent by the devil
Treat them well and pull away when they begin to play games. If you have good and clear intentions as a man, the exit is inadvertently a win for you. It's like evading a stray bullet.
9:27 i disagree with that because she will change to meet her man's liking(this is from experience) in order to be chosen. I have told all my exes i like dresses because it make a woman look feminine. Suddenly they only wore dresses and threw out their old outfits. I said i liked it when she wore red lipstick that one time because it made her look pretty. boom, they wore red lipstick every time they saw me. I said i liked a particular hairstyle they did that one time and suddenly they wear that style everytime they are out with me. I have learned a lot from my interactions with my exes about their behaviour because i study and learn my partner and then i noticed their behaviour in other women. She will do what her leader suggests and compliments of her because she wants him to choose her. I just realised I'm a chad but I'm built for relationships. As usual paradoxical in my nature.
I chased her for 18 months. Before then, one big red flag i saw was when i invited her for a weekend two weeks before and she accepted. When it was the day to pick her up, i rang to say we are going out today and replied me "i forgot we had a date". I moved on and after one year or more, she came texting why i have to sit quite and dont even check on her? I responded cos you showed me you're not interested and she responded im the one getting it wrong. Wow, a woman at 38 clearly don't know what she wants. Now she's wants me to date her, and i am way ahead of her thoughts crossing my mind. Just focus on putting value on you bro.
@@noelamesumbe9002 Bro, this one may have been playing games only in the beginning but after a year most probably she was "done having her fun" and no one wants her now so she had to come back around. I have to ask, your username is also your name? Because we may be having almost the same full name 😂
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In your deep voice.
You are never in control of someone's actions but,but you are in control of yourself
Does not matter
This is how (and why) so many women are single. No man has time for those childish games.
And all of them say they're not single to seem desirable
@@RichRayBeatsnFilms yes absolutely, a man is someone with a purpose earning bread and reputation he has no time for this bs
Thats a red flag to me. a woman that speaks of another man especially in my presence is a deal breaker @@tayebizem3749
Thank you,I keep it moving,grow up
FACTS 💯
While she plays mind games for real, “walk away” and never look back for real 😊
How long have you had this information?!🤔
The day Sega released their first console video game 😁
& it,s a total red flag
And then? Wank alone?
@@marguskiis7711😂 u crazy bro .
Setting boundaries is not about controlling your partner but about safeguarding your self.
On point 👉
Women do not care of your boundaries.
It is important to remain calm, don't allow them to manipulate you, they love playing stupid games yet risking your life
How to deal with a woman playing games. Stop talking to her. Find another woman.
😅 basically
@@MichaelMillerVlogs The best way up
Simplicita!! No time to waste - keep moving!
U just don't play them at all accurate
@@MichaelMillerVlogs Hey Mike.
Wish we were close; would have bought you a beer Lol.
A good wife comes from the Lord brothers , if you wanna marry the right person. Be right with God and he will bless you with a good woman
It's not promised and there is no guarantee.
@@ModelJames13there’s 💯 guarantee with God
😂
@@masannehceesay Where in the Bible is there a guarantee that every man will be given a good wife?
@@ModelJames13 Your so ignorant about it why ✍ there's plenty a verse for that anyways
Jessica is always 💯 spot on. Understanding the game is big-time important, and once you do it is likely to be less bothersome and leave you unphased rather than drained. "Don't hate the player, hate the game."
She disrespected me when I was trying to be there for her while she was angry. Out of respect, I gave her space until she tried to play victim. I called her up, engaged her about her disrespectful behavior. She justified her actions by saying she asked me not to come close when she's angry. I was stunned, had no option than to go queite.
Heck with women & their games. When people start pulling sh*t with me, I just walk away. That's not the type of person I would want to be with. I will communicate concisely that the game is over & I will be done 😂
same.
When you are with right person, you’ll always experience a sense of peace.
@@alycemaloney2982 fact
You remain alone.
@@Kingglory1997 problem is: you never find the right one.
I had the same situation last year. She used to text me regularly and we used to go out for a date but she suddenly changed telling that she will be busy with her life and will not able to answer my messages as before! I did stop texting her and I walked away!!
Good for you
She is not busy for the man she has burning desire for. The thing is she lost interest so good thing you moved on. Good for you
🫡🤙🏿
Did she tried coming back and if so how did you respond ? . Walking away is one thing but when they try to weed their way back is when you have to question why or why now? They will do that just be prepared brother. 😂
One thing about me is that I’m from past experiences of this same exact scenario has taught me to not take the bait ,but to protect my feelings. I don’t show them that I’m actually paying attention and listening of what they are doing. Be easy going with every weird reaction, focus on you . She will know that you value yourself and realize that they are not worthy . When she decides to have an open conversation, works every time.
Open conversation is the word!
Applying your tips has really helped me alot in my relationship with my ex, i had to just breakup cuz it looked as if i was d only one in the relationship, she made me feel like i correct her too much, everything i do irritates her, she disrespects me, she compares me.. thank God we're separated now cuz i watched 😊 you video about knowing your worth as a man...
@@HJCreative18 yeh she was tryna play n your face hard asab. Good u bailed out.
Lady I must say " You have an amazing soothing voice".
Thank you! I appreciate that
@@JessicaOS Welcome
💯
True. A person will love you regardless of having money, expensive clothes, or anything materialistic. You do not have to pose to be a person you are not...
Thanks, Ms. Os. I will listen to this over and over again. There two many women playing games
This video was very helpful. Thank You. I still have a lot to work on but I can now see where I was wrong. I wasn’t enforcing and setting boundaries for myself. I self sabotaged not even realizing what was going on. I wasn’t reading the board. I started becoming someone I wasn’t, and I started losing friends. I couldn’t put my finger on the why. I felt depressed. Now im protecting my energy. It’s Still hard for me to speak up about certain things. I try not to let pride and my ego get in the way now.
I can't stop listening your videos ..i just got married last year..keep posting Jessica and be blessed ❤ much love from Kenya ,the pride of Africa
Blowing hot and cold game seems to be on the increase with many women lately and has certainly been a popular pass-time with many of my ex's, but yes your right Jessie it's very confusing to most guys when they get this,In my case Im afraid I tend to loose interest fast (maybe I should be more 'playful' ) but I do try to look at myself and think 'what did I do wrong'? thanks for great Vid again Jessica 👍🏻x
Same even if I found her very attractive initially
Your videos are always on point,it has helped me alot to overcome relationship stress, know my worth as a man & etcetera.... Much love from Nigeria...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wonderful
The content is so timely.very important piece of advice.thanks Jessica
You're so welcome!
"Think of ur emotions as the ocean,
when you stay calm and steady you are as a peaceful sea" 👈Jessica, this powerful 💥hot like fire
if you vaule yourself you will leave they cant play games with you if your not there
Facts facts
I totally agree bro... ❤
I come here also to learn new words and expressions. “A short fuse”, that’s a good one to keep💯
💯
Very clear, concise, mature, and truthful advice. This is how to attract a loving and mature person.
Im going through same but thank you for these tips. I need to protect myself first.
keep remembering this, how you helped me believed in myself anf move on with my life ladle. and now i living my best ever life Emad from Norway
Jess, I needed this video two weeks ago. Anyway, thanks for this.
Better late then never! lol! Glad it was helpful!
See your emotions as the ocean ❤
The real question is: do you really want to be with someone who is able and willing to do this to you? I would never do this to anyone, so we know there are people who don't do this. Choose them instead. Discard people who are toxic, manipulative. Those are your boundaries right there.
This is the best post I've seen in a while on this subject.
Watching this from Lusaka Zambia 🇿🇲🤝, and I think you deserve 1M+ views.
Wow, that last statement that you made about what an acceptable relationship should be is something that needs to be in writing in a picture frame 🤩!! People do need to do self work before they go cozy up to the next person, really ☝🏽.
I follow this lady for her eloquence in the English language
8:17 basically be the leader. This is always a topic that comes up in these videos when talking about our other halves. Setting boundaries and its always targeted at us men. Set boundaries because you are the leader. She does not respect a man who has no boundaries. You could do the most debauched things under the sun but if you set boundaries with her she will see you as a masculine man. I know because i tested it myself. This comes from experience and wisdom.
I walked away but healed was the baddest move i ever took , it ate me from inside until i ate it up now im 🔥🤝🏾
Thank you Jessica! You’re an amazing sister who all need. God bless you 🙏🏾
You are so welcome
Brilliant! Brilliant!! Brilliant!!! tips on how to handle games playing & manipulation esp from the female side.
You're so intelligent 🧠.
Beauty + Brains 🧠
Thank you Jessica
This video came right on time. I now feel relieved. Thanks Jessica.
Coming out of a breakup after 7 years together from University and all and this is the second time she's doing this, and seeing my past relationship reflect in most of yhe explanations you've made about these things, I wonder why I wasn't watching these videos and to be a smarter man all these while, I'd not have felt so much hurt.
Thank you for this.
Better late than never
Me, walking away is tough? Once I read the signs vividly and they are discomforting, me na me kɔɔɔ no. I'm long gone!
What if the mind games are draining my pockets???
What if the mind games are draining my pockets???
@@davidmatovu4230 walk away
Don't give any woman money except your wife or the one that's humble enough to mother your child/children.
Thank you very much,I really appreciate everything you said because right now I'm going through married situation and definitely I apply them in this situation ❤
Best of luck!
This is one of the realest videos out there. Excellent and intelligent presentation !! I thoroughly enjoyed the realness.
Jessica ano ne brofo bekumi ooooooo. My listening crush from the days of City FM. One of our best radio presenters in Ghana. I love her soo much. She could be on the radio from morning till late afternoon and we never get bored of listening to her lovely voice. I love her very much.
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️ appreciate you. Thanks for finding me here
I always like the dopamine you always bring
0:00 there is only ONE WAY. You walk away, do not play any games with any woman when it comes to matters of the heart/emotions.
An On Time Word ! Y'all need to pay attention! Jess O stays dropping some brutal truths 💯💯🖤❤️
all of the games have the same goal. to make you unsure about her feelings towards you and make you question where you stand in the relationship. all of the games are a power play she has it and is using it on you. you must lkeave as soon as they start because no mather how much she likes you she likes the games more
May be just be yourself, if it's true love partner will not go away no matter what the game.
Thank you Jessica Os🙏🙏. I am facing that currently 2:31.
You are right about this. Thank you. I really appreciate you Jessica. Blessings to you.
This video came at the right time 😂😂,
Thanks jess
I've been liking this girl a workmate of mine. She is giving some actions that is quite inviting we stare to each other a lot after work in the elevator and we Convo when there's no work but after a month she just resigned and the experience of having feelings for her is still lingering inside me. Hopefully I will get to move on and focus on my work all the way and wait for the right woman that will come to my life
Thank You Jess, You are the best.
Great presentation and on point and true.
Greeting from CHI-TOWN CHICAGO, IL, USA! Thanks for sharing this highly informative and enlightening podcast! AMEN-ASE!
Jessica, you are wise above your years! Im impressed!
Just discovered your channel. Better late than never..
Thanks 😊😊 Jecissa 0s, for the advice. I also did this to my ex she was not ready to respect me or take my redirections
Good job!
@@JessicaOSmadam I am going through the same situation.
The girl used to give me attention when I approach and told her I like her she's not flirting with other guys.
This video needs 2B views.🤝🤝. I just wanted to let you know that you have solved my problem.
Thank you for this video Princess ❤
This channel loves your videos. very educative and almost the same relationship tips as this channel, even though our channel uses faceless automated videos we agree with you on all your videos. Well done and continue to engage your audients with these wonderful videos.
Thanks so much for this. This is what I'm currently going through. I've been played . I'll work on what you shared here and I believe it going to be helpful. Thanks
Thanks Jessica. I wish I could take back time and listen to you 10years ago.
I dont know why but i felt everything that was said connects with my current situation .🙌
I subscribed yesterday sister. You really know what you are talking about. Thank you from the very bottom of my❤ for your amazing work. Love your voice. Thanks.
Thanks and welcome
Sage words as always, and they came at the perfect time too.
Also, am I the only one who's noticed how tastefully decorated Jessica's room is 😂
Jessica, you are a genius ! You’re analysis is always on point ! 👌🏽
Glad you think so!
🎉 Thank you for sharing 🙏 Live Coach
Any time!
Thank you so much for your videos. Much love from Zambia 🇿🇲
6:03 I dont respond with my own games. I just tell them straight up. If you aren't happy being here the door is there. You can leave at anytime. If they play stupid game, i just flip the script on them. You want to compare me to other men then i say, "well if you want that then go find him. You sit there acting like you are perfect but nobody is perfect". I make it clear if they want something else that the door is there. My answer is always the door is there. Saying that i kept my own house clean and cooked the meals(where i live, most women cant cook to save their lives) so i would constantly be asked "what am i here for" they knew why they were there because they brought nothing else of value to my life.
Exactly said when finding the right person there won't be no type games....
Am currently in exact Same situation and i decided to quit after few weeks. I just stop calling or sending any text.
Thank You so much for your content. It's really appreciated! 🤩💯
You're most welcome
Is there a better video on TH-cam? This is a helpful video.
Where have you been Jess...I couldn't receive your content notifications 😮
Great tips!
Really helpful
Glad it was helpful!
Sometimes is better to prepared for the worst in all relationships with positive mindset to build ur mental stamina
lovely video,this covered the basic and the most number of toxic behaviour a man faces from a girl on a daily basis
Well, the inconsistency happened, and I asked her to discuss it and figure out what's going on, and she refuses. It's left me thinking - what if she just isn't interested? She keeps saying she is interested though.
Jessica is like the sister I never had
Spot on Jessica 👌🏽 clear cut explanation
Hey that's very wise advice from this beautiful woman! Kudos!
Thanks for the lesson. Blessings.
Life goes on and don't be a wimp and give your heart life and soul they will use you you enjoy u smile and abuse you silently then take a find their short term man to replace you been hey....
Wow
Always concise ❤
Thanks very much ❤❤❤ I really do appreciate it a lot
No problem 😊
Love from Pakistan ❤
Women never like the straight conversations. They will take the defencive position and start blame you first. ALWAYS.
I needed to hear this thank you 💯❤️
I love it Jessica🫡 whenever you’re giving it to us everyday 🙏
Waw spot on i really needed this 🤧🙂
Nyc video Jessica this is what a was searching for quite a while thankyou so very much
Oh damn this hit hard i was trapped into a relationship like this when my whole life was out of words she constantly disrespecting me and full of this game sht but today thank God am free and free forever she was sent by the devil
I like what you do great content have experienced something similar you are very right thank you for sharing.
Treat them well and pull away when they begin to play games. If you have good and clear intentions as a man, the exit is inadvertently a win for you. It's like evading a stray bullet.
Thank you, I needed to read this
9:27 i disagree with that because she will change to meet her man's liking(this is from experience) in order to be chosen. I have told all my exes i like dresses because it make a woman look feminine. Suddenly they only wore dresses and threw out their old outfits. I said i liked it when she wore red lipstick that one time because it made her look pretty. boom, they wore red lipstick every time they saw me. I said i liked a particular hairstyle they did that one time and suddenly they wear that style everytime they are out with me. I have learned a lot from my interactions with my exes about their behaviour because i study and learn my partner and then i noticed their behaviour in other women. She will do what her leader suggests and compliments of her because she wants him to choose her. I just realised I'm a chad but I'm built for relationships. As usual paradoxical in my nature.
I chased her for 18 months. Before then, one big red flag i saw was when i invited her for a weekend two weeks before and she accepted. When it was the day to pick her up, i rang to say we are going out today and replied me "i forgot we had a date". I moved on and after one year or more, she came texting why i have to sit quite and dont even check on her? I responded cos you showed me you're not interested and she responded im the one getting it wrong. Wow, a woman at 38 clearly don't know what she wants. Now she's wants me to date her, and i am way ahead of her thoughts crossing my mind. Just focus on putting value on you bro.
@@noelamesumbe9002 Bro, this one may have been playing games only in the beginning but after a year most probably she was "done having her fun" and no one wants her now so she had to come back around.
I have to ask, your username is also your name? Because we may be having almost the same full name 😂
THANK YOU FOR THIS GREAT MESSAGE