Tony I think I’m fairly accurate when I say the reason women do not listen is because there is this desperation. Whether women want to admit it or not. 95% of women are desperate. To be married, to not be alone, not be a single mother, or just to not be the sole provider and needing help financially to release stress. I have been listening to you Tony and even in the season of loneliness & desperation, I have been working on my 3 B’s and trusting God and his timing.
The Problem is that many people have a stronghold over their Lust and Perversion. This is not flesh and blood, it's spiritual warfare. The reality: people are WEAK, and truly don't want to have the discipline because it simply seems, and frankly is, Really hard. Submitting your will for GOD'S WILL is 1 of the most difficult wars 💯💯💯 I wish it wasn't so...but God gave people a choice to love/follow him. For whatever reason 🎯
Hi Tony, you said something in this teaching that really spoke to me. You talked about how women feel the need to be picked. This is very true. As a single woman myself, I do struggle some days feeling good about myself due to being overlooked by men. It can take a toll on a woman’s self-esteem if we allow it to. The stigma around women’s singleness runs deep. We are made to feel like we are not good enough unless we have a man and it is frustrating because of the double standard. 😖 This video is a reminder to keep my head up and not place my worth in men. I am valuable. ❤️
@@user-ltyz9380 I know a lot of men. You're not missing much of anything. I know it's hard to believe, but, it's true. And, they hardly get better with age. You're much better off finding ways to enjoy your life through Jesus, family, friends, church, travel, hobbies, etc. Then, if the right man comes along, you don't look like you've been sitting around thirsting and desperate for love.
I’ve been listening to your videos since 2017. I am finally listening to you, and turning my life over to Christ after leaving 2 ungodly relationships. My pain finally became greater than my unconscious desperation for love. I’m no longer letting my trauma run the show. I’m enrolled in therapy and taking church classes to become born again. I’m in the season where it’s just me and God everyday, and I thank Him for it.
@@nadialovesmogwai Know that you don't need a class to become born again - you can do that immediately, right now, no need to wait. The classes you're taking are probably discipleship classes, teaching you how to live the life of a born again believer. God bless you!
“The Fornicating Podcasters” 😳😳😳 The way you are just talking about all this in black & white direct terms now makes it extremely difficult to slip into Lil Dummy mode 🙌
Ladies please reverence God more so he could renew your mind and connect you with who he need for you to be with. We have to have patience and let her have her perfect work. I promise, It will be worth it. You dont won't the smoke with God because of disobedience 🙏🙏🙏
@@denanikiawilliams Sorry, that’s a misinterpretation. Jesus (repeatedly) refers to the Holy Spirit has He. This is apparent granted we all agree (with the Bible) that God is one, male and two, truine: Father, Son (Christ), & Holy Spirit. John 14:26, Jesus says, "But the Comforter, which is the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things and will bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you" The Holy Spirit is the Comforter, the Advocate, the Spirit of truth who convicts us of sin and testifies and dwells within us. James 1:4 isn’t even talking about the Holy Spirit but instead, it talks about what we gain when we “count it all joy” when our faith is tested by trials, tribulations, and adversity. Whoever you’re sitting up under who’s preached to you that the Holy Spirit is female should repent. It’s heretic.
@@Healingthroughrighteousness I just wrote a whole essay that somehow didn’t post but simply put: sorry, you’re deceived. The Holy Spirit is male. Although patience is a fruit of the Spirit, this verse personifies patience as female and NOT the Holy Spirit. He’s clearly male as stated in John 14:26. There’s no such thing as a female God in any form (be it the Father, the Son, or Holy Spirit). All three Persons of the godhead are in fact, biblically, male.
Many of today’s women are emotionally immature. They have what psychologists call “arrested development”. They are in adult female bodies but are emotionally 16 or 17 years of age. Women must evolve past the “maiden” or “lover” archetype into the “mother”, the “queen” or the “sage” archetype. It’s encouraged and celebrated to be “forever young”, however God never intended this. He wants women to evolve and mature and eventually teach younger women to be good wives and mothers themselves. Older women are to guide and protect younger women’s purity and virtue. I’m doing a series now about female emotional immaturity that hopefully will truly help women to recognize the traumas and wounds they have and finally heal them. Women who are emotionally mature are happier and more fulfilled and they are the jewels of society. 💎💯
I think ive found a little bit within..myself 😮. At 58! It was hiding good too. Places to fast & spend time w/ Lord when tempted. 1 of my 3 Bs is off..im less likely to believe a man's true interest. So I'm not gonna be a default abstainer. My priority is in Lords hands now.
So true. I just wanna say this was a major point of the Barbie movie. We are so desperate to be seen, loved and chosen. It took me 30 years to start choosing myself bc I didn't understand my trauma.
I was dealing with the spirit of lil dummy. I watched plenty of your videos Tony but never took these things serious. Thanks so much for giving us the truth!
True! My husband talked for 3-months straight while I stayed quiet and observant to see if we could fit into each others’ lives. He barely knew anything about me, but he fell in love. 😍
I have this man af the gym that keeps looking at me, the attraction is there for sure, now previous me would shoot my shot, hell noooo, I smile and move accordingly, he is not moving towards me and he is single yes, but the greatest part about this all is I notice the other men moving towards me..if this was my old self I would not see other men and it is just becomes a turn off when a man does not approach, wish him well but I got to move 😂
You are doing right. I’m married now, but when I was single I would notice this same thing and 9/10 times these men that stare but do not approach are married or single but not that interested , as I would later find out. You’ll only embarrass yourself by approaching them first
The male won’t show his hand. He uses the truth in an acting script to manipulate the female because she talked too much. Talking too much gives her power away. So, ladies keep your secrets to yourself regardless of how quiet he gets or how much he seems to listen and comply with your expectations. Let him tell you who he really is. Hold to your own standards, boundaries and self confidence. Great revelation, Tony and thanks.🙏🏽
It's such a shame! I have been blessed to be strong enough to keep my legs closed! It takes getting in the Word and loving God more than you love self! Men have tried, but I know God's way of escape is powerful! Women aren't tapping into the Holy Spirit! That's the issue! I truly appreciate you for what you are doing! I've learned so much from my experiences and from listening and applying what you speak! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 ❤❤❤! I think if women can keep their legs closed, even when they meet up with these ugly spirits, they will always come out unscaved! I can say I have! I'm going on 4 dates in 4 years, and none of these men have proven worthy of me! I realize usually within a month they're not serious about their walk with God! Men are being overtaken by Satan because they refuse to submit, and in the process are passing up women that could be their lifetime partner (wife).
Heyyy everyone! Thats from the steve wilkos show. He asked the lady, this is what you’re gonna settle for? And she said yes, Imma stick beside him! Tony I’ve watched EVERY video of yours since 2020. I haven’t been tested as of yet but I know when I’m tested I will be hearing your voice. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Tony! My mom is so jealous of me and the fact that I listen 🎧 to you every day! She has the Jezebel/ Levitatian spirit it’s sickening! I’m gonna keep on cause you giving the TRUTH!! 🙏🏽🎉🔥
The reason why a lot of this advice doesn't work when a woman is really tested is because she's only taking the advice to get a man. The man is still her God. Its like changing your diet and you keep gaining the weight back. You have to transform in the way you see food to have lasting results. Until a woman changes the way she sees herself...by self mastery and being transformed by the renewing of the mind (Romans 12:2), the game giving will be a bandaid for the symptom and not solving the root of the problem. The malecenteredness is destroying women.
Definitely taken the jewels you dropping TG. I'm in my word and I read my Bible and my Tony Evans study Bible and I journal and meditate. I pray that God leads me and gives me clear understanding and instructions. I choose not to make no moves without God leading me.
Women CHOOSING to be dumb (when it comes to romance), is really a thing. The Bible calls them silly women. Crazy, but, real. Most folks want to say speaking on this is "victim-shaming/blaming". But, there are actual victims, then there are willing participants and enablers. Willingly being dumb does not make you a victim. I chose to be dumb when I was young, but, I refuse to be an old(er) fool. I choose to believe that women are smarter than this and many more women will stop being willing participants of foolishness when it comes to relationships.Thank you for speaking on this.
I can name 2-3 women I’ve known for years that r choosing dumbness , coming with same complaints for years, one in particular is infuriating and draining at times ughhhhhh
@@heather7119 I agree. I stopped being friends with women and men like this (many more women than men). I do understand that it's tough, but, I got tired of the ladies blaming men all the time instead of taking responsibility for choosing these men. There are exceptions, but, not that many. Most of the men they couldn't let go of were boyfriends - people they could walk away from. Marriage may be a bit different when trying to leave, but, even that is possible to leave.
@@broco6608 we must know the same people! lol. Same with one person in particular, with her boyfriend (emphasis on boy) she been with for over 15 years (she wears that fact like a badge) I used to blame him but She is really the issue. he just doing what she allows. She is no longer a victim but a volunteer. She gets mad when I remind her who she chose but I keep saying this to remind her it os a CHOICE.
As a man, it’s insane to think more women consume your content. I’ve gotten hip a few weeks ago from you provider man videos. I’m all the way tapped in. Thank you big bro🙏🏾
Since I’ve been a subscriber I have learned so much from your videos TG. I’m listening to make a change within myself and my relationship patterns that I’ve repeated in my life. I’m that person who embraces hard, candid, constructive and honest criticism conversational topics like THIS. Your message in this video has so many profound nuggets and genuine advice! I’m grateful for your wisdom and teachings that you bring to us (women). You’re a God sent one. By the way honestly, like the other subscriber in the comment lol I to only listen to you, (my pastor) and Pastor Blake’s. I’m not one to find it wise to constantly ALLOW MULTIPLE RANDOM PEOPLE (famous or not) in my ears. As long as their lifestyle and teaching is in alignment with Gods word, I will humble to it. Thank You for THIS!
That is why I put my hope and trust in God! We have to CLING to Jesus. God is so faithful to protect me from evil men, giving me dreams to show me who they really are, giving my Mom dreams to reveal and confirm who the men I’ve considered are. God is the one who sees and cares for us, his furious all consuming love is what we truly need and a good community! He will order our steps and sit with us in loneliness and give us the way out of temptation! God is so good, taste and see! Dive deep in to His loving healing arms and pursue Him the way these Women and Men pursue each other!
Tony most us women are very naive I ws one who was naive about how men can be and are very vicious and the lies the manipulation we end up victims we think men are with intentions but in reality that’s very rare this why I’m praying to god o give my life to God to guide me I been hurt too much by men I was very naive very trusting I was very dumb and did not believe what men are capable of destroying us i learned a lot from yuo and R c blkes ,Jonathan Ashley
THIS IS REAL TRUTH SERUM MY BROTHER. KEEP ALLOWING HOLY SPIRIT TO SPEAK THROUGH YOU. MANY BROKEN WOMEN NEED TO SEEK HOLY SPIRIT SO THAT HE CAN CLEANSE THERE SOULS OF ALL THOSE SOUL TIES. THESE WOMEN HAVE NO IDEA WHO THEY ARE . CAN'T NO MAN OR ANY BODY DO THAT FOR THEM BUT HOLY SPIRIT. I'M PRAYING FOR THE WORLD WERE LIVING IN, A BUNCH OF LOST SOULS ( MEN AND WOMEN)
Good afternoon Mr. Tony Gaskins your message is very on point if I heard you 40 years ago I would have listened I was caught up with Lil dummy spirit for decades because I didn't have a clue how men were I truly hurt myself numerous times now listening to you and few others I'm so clear Lord have mercy just pray younger women listen and take heed to what your saying ❤️ keep speaking 😊
If women just really submit to God and listen to God they will not be played in life period. We can't live in rebellion to God and expect our lives to be fully blessed how God intends. People don't listen to God. If God's Word is in you and you're for real about it God's word don't change and nobody can tell you anything about it or its a lie. The Bible is the playbook. You need God to lead you because no amount of studying how men think is good enough to keep you.
I use to want an older wise mentor in a woman when I was younger. I did have 3 at different times in my life. Learned that no matter the age women don't know men the way they think they do and married women seem to be the most naive about their own men. I've been divorced for a little over 20 years, decided to stop dating about 5 or 6 years ago been practicing celibacy for 12 years ✌🏽 💙 I have learned so much from you and RC Blakes about men and how to go about the business of being in a relationship also how to choose the right man for my future whenever I decide to start dating again and give up my peaceful singleness lol. I love God and God loves me , it's very good being a child of God 🙏🏽 ❤️ in Jesus Name Amen GODLY SORROW LEADS TO REPENTANCE, CHANGING YOUR WAYS. I do enjoy my amplified Bible 📖
😂 Your comment had “translate to English” under it. So, naturally I clicked and (whatever the language) it translates to “Hinder” 🤣😂 now that’s a WORD! Tony don’t even know how SPOT ON he is 🤣😂🫶🏽
Hey y’all! Just want to share this scripture Galatians 5 19-23: NLT When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, idolatry, sorcery, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissension, division, envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other sins like these. Let me tell you again, as I have before, that anyone living that sort of life will NOT inherit the Kingdom of God. But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things! Let’s encourage new believers and the body of Christ to take accountability and live the best we can like Jesus!
Yes most Women are in DENIAL about their 😢 broken 💔 relationships with these NARCISSISTIC Men!💯 I get most of my advice from GODLY men who know the games other men play ✔ ( PROVERBS 27:17) ROYALTY BABY 👑 Thank You Tony for this Video Message ❤
A person can be smart in a relationship - the right relationship. If someone chooses to be dumb in a relationship, they should shoulder most of the blame for what they allow in that relationship.
Tony is the top 5 funniest people I have ever heard 😂 So much wisdom and comedy all in one. Love it !
Tony I think I’m fairly accurate when I say the reason women do not listen is because there is this desperation. Whether women want to admit it or not. 95% of women are desperate. To be married, to not be alone, not be a single mother, or just to not be the sole provider and needing help financially to release stress.
I have been listening to you Tony and even in the season of loneliness & desperation, I have been working on my 3 B’s and trusting God and his timing.
@@Candy_Nicole444 Thank God I am in the 5%.I am an introvert, I think he would be more trouble than good.
@rebeccasharpe ditto cause the way I'm focused and working on me 🙌🏾🙏🏽
It’s programmed into us to crave companionship and love. Unfortunately, men know this so they use it against us by playing games.
I'd say competitive 😌
@@ckantrel1977 What about competitive?
Very true, I only listen to you and RC Blakes, brother Tony You know us well 😂
Only two men I listen too very thankful for their input….. RC Blakes and Tony G.
Me too
That's right, true men of God
Same
And Shumakes way
I’m 41 now and I’ve been celibate for 16 1/2 years. I can honestly tell you that celibacy isn’t normalized in the Christian community either 🤦🏾♀️
The Problem is that many people have a stronghold over their Lust and Perversion. This is not flesh and blood, it's spiritual warfare. The reality: people are WEAK, and truly don't want to have the discipline because it simply seems, and frankly is, Really hard. Submitting your will for GOD'S WILL is 1 of the most difficult wars 💯💯💯
I wish it wasn't so...but God gave people a choice to love/follow him.
For whatever reason 🎯
@@missklassy4447 No, I'm 41
Hi Tony, you said something in this teaching that really spoke to me. You talked about how women feel the need to be picked. This is very true. As a single woman myself, I do struggle some days feeling good about myself due to being overlooked by men. It can take a toll on a woman’s self-esteem if we allow it to. The stigma around women’s singleness runs deep. We are made to feel like we are not good enough unless we have a man and it is frustrating because of the double standard. 😖
This video is a reminder to keep my head up and not place my worth in men. I am valuable. ❤️
You took the words right of my mouth. I feel the same way at times, as well.
Very true!
@@user-ltyz9380 I know a lot of men. You're not missing much of anything. I know it's hard to believe, but, it's true. And, they hardly get better with age. You're much better off finding ways to enjoy your life through Jesus, family, friends, church, travel, hobbies, etc. Then, if the right man comes along, you don't look like you've been sitting around thirsting and desperate for love.
I’ve been listening to your videos since 2017. I am finally listening to you, and turning my life over to Christ after leaving 2 ungodly relationships. My pain finally became greater than my unconscious desperation for love. I’m no longer letting my trauma run the show. I’m enrolled in therapy and taking church classes to become born again. I’m in the season where it’s just me and God everyday, and I thank Him for it.
❤❤❤Glory to Jesus,all the best to you 🙏be blessed.
Glory all goes to God. I pray that your transformation stays that way 🙏🏾
@@nadialovesmogwai Know that you don't need a class to become born again - you can do that immediately, right now, no need to wait. The classes you're taking are probably discipleship classes, teaching you how to live the life of a born again believer. God bless you!
I started back reading my bible plan this morning. 😊😊
Are you born again?
“The Fornicating Podcasters” 😳😳😳 The way you are just talking about all this in black & white direct terms now makes it extremely difficult to slip into Lil Dummy mode 🙌
Ladies please reverence God more so he could renew your mind and connect you with who he need for you to be with. We have to have patience and let her have her perfect work. I promise, It will be worth it. You dont won't the smoke with God because of disobedience 🙏🙏🙏
Her?
@@cxxxdxxxPatience. Patience is “her”…
@@cxxxdxxx The Holy Spirit is a feminine Spirit. Patience is a fruit of the Spirit. The scripture says let Patience have her perfect work. James 1:4
@@denanikiawilliams Sorry, that’s a misinterpretation. Jesus (repeatedly) refers to the Holy Spirit has He. This is apparent granted we all agree (with the Bible) that God is one, male and two, truine: Father, Son (Christ), & Holy Spirit.
John 14:26, Jesus says, "But the Comforter, which is the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things and will bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you"
The Holy Spirit is the Comforter, the Advocate, the Spirit of truth who convicts us of sin and testifies and dwells within us.
James 1:4 isn’t even talking about the Holy Spirit but instead, it talks about what we gain when we “count it all joy” when our faith is tested by trials, tribulations, and adversity.
Whoever you’re sitting up under who’s preached to you that the Holy Spirit is female should repent. It’s heretic.
@@Healingthroughrighteousness I just wrote a whole essay that somehow didn’t post but simply put: sorry, you’re deceived. The Holy Spirit is male. Although patience is a fruit of the Spirit, this verse personifies patience as female and NOT the Holy Spirit. He’s clearly male as stated in John 14:26. There’s no such thing as a female God in any form (be it the Father, the Son, or Holy Spirit). All three Persons of the godhead are in fact, biblically, male.
Don’t hold back on women Tony. 🙏🏽 …Its time we are held accountable for our decisions and stop always wanting to play the victims of men.
💓
Many of today’s women are emotionally immature. They have what psychologists call “arrested development”. They are in adult female bodies but are emotionally 16 or 17 years of age. Women must evolve past the “maiden” or “lover” archetype into the “mother”, the “queen” or the “sage” archetype. It’s encouraged and celebrated to be “forever young”, however God never intended this. He wants women to evolve and mature and eventually teach younger women to be good wives and mothers themselves. Older women are to guide and protect younger women’s purity and virtue. I’m doing a series now about female emotional immaturity that hopefully will truly help women to recognize the traumas and wounds they have and finally heal them. Women who are emotionally mature are happier and more fulfilled and they are the jewels of society. 💎💯
Im looking forward for that video Anita you too gave so much wisdom
Beautiful 👌
I think ive found a little bit within..myself 😮. At 58! It was hiding good too. Places to fast & spend time w/ Lord when tempted. 1 of my 3 Bs is off..im less likely to believe a man's true interest. So I'm not gonna be a default abstainer. My priority is in Lords hands now.
So accurate! Been loving your channel too, Anita ❤✌
Cinderella complex
And let’s not forget more women being abstinent is going to equal more marriages😊
💯💯
I only listen to Bishop RC Blakes, JR and you, (Tony Gaskins).
JR????
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Listen to Ken Canion too. Him and Tony are my fav
@@lwarfield52 I genuinely don't know who JR is???
JR= junior as in RC Blakes Jr.
So true. I just wanna say this was a major point of the Barbie movie. We are so desperate to be seen, loved and chosen. It took me 30 years to start choosing myself bc I didn't understand my trauma.
Women being educated has changed the relationship & marriage dynamics.
Hi, in what way?
I was dealing with the spirit of lil dummy. I watched plenty of your videos Tony but never took these things serious.
Thanks so much for giving us the truth!
I have peace in the aloneness of not being an open book, having high standards, and not feeding into desperation.
True! My husband talked for 3-months straight while I stayed quiet and observant to see if we could fit into each others’ lives. He barely knew anything about me, but he fell in love. 😍
This! While you observed over those 3 months, did he just think you were reserved (not a big talker)?
"You is grown, you is musky, you got discharge in ya drawls" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Took me out sis 😂
Boy I'm crying over here 😭
@@tranitat 😂😂😂
a comedian!! lmao - no lies told
I have this man af the gym that keeps looking at me, the attraction is there for sure, now previous me would shoot my shot, hell noooo, I smile and move accordingly, he is not moving towards me and he is single yes, but the greatest part about this all is I notice the other men moving towards me..if this was my old self I would not see other men and it is just becomes a turn off when a man does not approach, wish him well but I got to move 😂
You are doing right. I’m married now, but when I was single I would notice this same thing and 9/10 times these men that stare but do not approach are married or single but not that interested , as I would later find out. You’ll only embarrass yourself by approaching them first
Facts @@Desertvibes234
Ditto. Embarrassment is a 2 sided problem. I don’t care to go there anymore. Every behavior is a form of communication.
The male won’t show his hand. He uses the truth in an acting script to manipulate the female because she talked too much. Talking too much gives her power away.
So, ladies keep your secrets to yourself regardless of how quiet he gets or how much he seems to listen and comply with your expectations. Let him tell you who he really is. Hold to your own standards, boundaries and self confidence. Great revelation, Tony and thanks.🙏🏽
It's such a shame! I have been blessed to be strong enough to keep my legs closed! It takes getting in the Word and loving God more than you love self! Men have tried, but I know God's way of escape is powerful!
Women aren't tapping into the Holy Spirit! That's the issue! I truly appreciate you for what you are doing! I've learned so much from my experiences and from listening and applying what you speak! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 ❤❤❤!
I think if women can keep their legs closed, even when they meet up with these ugly spirits, they will always come out unscaved! I can say I have! I'm going on 4 dates in 4 years, and none of these men have proven worthy of me! I realize usually within a month they're not serious about their walk with God! Men are being overtaken by Satan because they refuse to submit, and in the process are passing up women that could be their lifetime partner (wife).
I Totally get it. “Lil Dummie” = willfully ignorant
"Willing participants" and "enablers" are other terms. "Co-dependents" may be a term.
Thank you for sharing The TRUTH. May the Lord keep blessing you for your obedience. Thank you for bringing light into this dark world.
I definitely been Pruning things out of my life. And God has been removing those people, places, and things. Totally agree with you.
We don’t listen because we are too ilusional we think that men are not going to hurt us
I just love this teaching. Tony, the good Lord has used you to change my life as a married woman for the better! Jesus is awesome!
Heyyy everyone! Thats from the steve wilkos show. He asked the lady, this is what you’re gonna settle for? And she said yes, Imma stick beside him! Tony I’ve watched EVERY video of yours since 2020. I haven’t been tested as of yet but I know when I’m tested I will be hearing your voice. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Tony! My mom is so jealous of me and the fact that I listen 🎧 to you every day! She has the Jezebel/ Levitatian spirit it’s sickening! I’m gonna keep on cause you giving the TRUTH!! 🙏🏽🎉🔥
The reason why a lot of this advice doesn't work when a woman is really tested is because she's only taking the advice to get a man. The man is still her God. Its like changing your diet and you keep gaining the weight back. You have to transform in the way you see food to have lasting results. Until a woman changes the way she sees herself...by self mastery and being transformed by the renewing of the mind (Romans 12:2), the game giving will be a bandaid for the symptom and not solving the root of the problem. The malecenteredness is destroying women.
This man be cracking me up😂 while teaching me at the same time! Much appreciated 😊
Woman need to talk less and listen more. To hear what a man is telling you. Is my takeaway I received from this video of Tony's.🙏🙏🙏
Definitely taken the jewels you dropping TG. I'm in my word and I read my Bible and my Tony Evans study Bible and I journal and meditate. I pray that God leads me and gives me clear understanding and instructions. I choose not to make no moves without God leading me.
Women CHOOSING to be dumb (when it comes to romance), is really a thing. The Bible calls them silly women. Crazy, but, real. Most folks want to say speaking on this is "victim-shaming/blaming". But, there are actual victims, then there are willing participants and enablers. Willingly being dumb does not make you a victim. I chose to be dumb when I was young, but, I refuse to be an old(er) fool. I choose to believe that women are smarter than this and many more women will stop being willing participants of foolishness when it comes to relationships.Thank you for speaking on this.
I can name 2-3 women I’ve known for years that r choosing dumbness , coming with same complaints for years, one in particular is infuriating and draining at times ughhhhhh
@@heather7119 I agree. I stopped being friends with women and men like this (many more women than men). I do understand that it's tough, but, I got tired of the ladies blaming men all the time instead of taking responsibility for choosing these men. There are exceptions, but, not that many. Most of the men they couldn't let go of were boyfriends - people they could walk away from. Marriage may be a bit different when trying to leave, but, even that is possible to leave.
@@broco6608 we must know the same people! lol. Same with one person in particular, with her boyfriend (emphasis on boy) she been with for over 15 years (she wears that fact like a badge) I used to blame him but She is really the issue. he just doing what she allows. She is no longer a victim but a volunteer. She gets mad when I remind her who she chose but I keep saying this to remind her it os a CHOICE.
Thank you for always speaking the truth. It is necessary in these times.
Message received. So much truth in this delivery.
Tony, you know what you're talking about...💯 I thank God for you and RC Blakes. I'm looking forward to the series "Lil Dummy."
As a man, it’s insane to think more women consume your content. I’ve gotten hip a few weeks ago from you provider man videos. I’m all the way tapped in. Thank you big bro🙏🏾
Since I’ve been a subscriber I have learned so much from your videos TG. I’m listening to make a change within myself and my relationship patterns that I’ve repeated in my life. I’m that person who embraces hard, candid, constructive and honest criticism conversational topics like THIS. Your message in this video has so many profound nuggets and genuine advice! I’m grateful for your wisdom and teachings that you bring to us (women). You’re a God sent one.
By the way honestly, like the other subscriber in the comment lol I to only listen to you, (my pastor) and Pastor Blake’s.
I’m not one to find it wise to constantly ALLOW MULTIPLE RANDOM PEOPLE (famous or not) in my ears. As long as their lifestyle and teaching is in alignment with Gods word, I will humble to it. Thank You for THIS!
Arabia? “That’s Aladdin and ‘nem”😂😂😂
I guess I'm that "1%" then because it boggles my mind, too. I have never let a man put me through it. If anything, it's been the other way around lol.
A longing could easily turn into desperation
I love your leadership style! Thank you Tony! ❤️
That is why I put my hope and trust in God! We have to CLING to Jesus. God is so faithful to protect me from evil men, giving me dreams to show me who they really are, giving my Mom dreams to reveal and confirm who the men I’ve considered are. God is the one who sees and cares for us, his furious all consuming love is what we truly need and a good community! He will order our steps and sit with us in loneliness and give us the way out of temptation! God is so good, taste and see! Dive deep in to His loving healing arms and pursue Him the way these Women and Men pursue each other!
“That’s In Arabia, Aladdin and dem”…😂😂😂😂😂
Tony Gaskins is hilarious
Tony most us women are very naive I ws one who was naive about how men can be and are very vicious and the lies the manipulation we end up victims we think men are with intentions but in reality that’s very rare this why I’m praying to god o give my life to God to guide me I been hurt too much by men I was very naive very trusting I was very dumb and did not believe what men are capable of destroying us i learned a lot from yuo and R c blkes ,Jonathan Ashley
Lord help me be quiet on these dates!!
Me too ✋🏽 😂
the "spirt of little dummy" and "little ugly" is hilarious!
2 Timothy 3..SILLY WOMEN...THIS IS BIBLICAL
THIS is good information!! Thank you, Tony, for sharing this!! You made my day with laughter and lessons 💯🩷‼️
You are talking to me. I learned the hard way.
Amen and amen! Priceless information. Thank you!
Amen Tony 🤗
Good evening Blessed Tribe❤
Blessings to the blessed tribe!🙏🏾🔥❤️
THIS IS REAL TRUTH SERUM MY BROTHER. KEEP ALLOWING HOLY SPIRIT TO SPEAK THROUGH YOU. MANY BROKEN WOMEN NEED TO SEEK HOLY SPIRIT SO THAT HE CAN CLEANSE THERE SOULS OF ALL THOSE SOUL TIES. THESE WOMEN HAVE NO IDEA WHO THEY ARE . CAN'T NO MAN OR ANY BODY DO THAT FOR THEM BUT HOLY SPIRIT. I'M PRAYING FOR THE WORLD WERE LIVING IN, A BUNCH OF LOST SOULS ( MEN AND WOMEN)
"You can be a smart dummy..." 😂
Good afternoon Mr. Tony Gaskins your message is very on point if I heard you 40 years ago I would have listened I was caught up with Lil dummy spirit for decades because I didn't have a clue how men were I truly hurt myself numerous times now listening to you and few others I'm so clear Lord have mercy just pray younger women listen and take heed to what your saying ❤️ keep speaking 😊
If women just really submit to God and listen to God they will not be played in life period. We can't live in rebellion to God and expect our lives to be fully blessed how God intends. People don't listen to God. If God's Word is in you and you're for real about it God's word don't change and nobody can tell you anything about it or its a lie. The Bible is the playbook. You need God to lead you because no amount of studying how men think is good enough to keep you.
Thankful for you big bro Tony 🙏😇God bless you and your family ABUNDANTLY!
Now that’s game but that’s the hardest thing for most women to just be quiet!Thats how you get intel by listening.
I get knowledge and entertainment with his faces and comments: that’s Aladdin and them lol!!!!
I use to want an older wise mentor in a woman when I was younger. I did have 3 at different times in my life. Learned that no matter the age women don't know men the way they think they do and married women seem to be the most naive about their own men. I've been divorced for a little over 20 years, decided to stop dating about 5 or 6 years ago been practicing celibacy for 12 years ✌🏽 💙 I have learned so much from you and RC Blakes about men and how to go about the business of being in a relationship also how to choose the right man for my future whenever I decide to start dating again and give up my peaceful singleness lol. I love God and God loves me , it's very good being a child of God 🙏🏽 ❤️ in Jesus Name Amen GODLY SORROW LEADS TO REPENTANCE, CHANGING YOUR WAYS. I do enjoy my amplified Bible 📖
My thoughts exactly, why im I doing this and everyone living in sin,and then i hear voice say you can't be like everyone else
Thank you for this video Tony. Very timely🙏🏾
I like messages like this,brother Tony
“Angalang” 😂
😂 Your comment had “translate to English” under it. So, naturally I clicked and (whatever the language) it translates to “Hinder” 🤣😂 now that’s a WORD! Tony don’t even know how SPOT ON he is 🤣😂🫶🏽
Thank you Tony.. God send msg God bless you and your family.❤
Tony looks how my father used to look when he was with Jesus 😢….now my dad looks like the counterfeit he serves 😢😢😢 please pray for my dad 😢😢 🙏🏿
Teach Mr. Gaskins!!! Teach. Amen.
Tony, you said a digalig in her face.LOL😂😂
Yes he did!! 😂😂 I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂
We don’t tell them we listen to you! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’d never. Just to protect myself…… 🤷🏾♀️
Thanks Tony for Another Much Needed Video 🙏🏿🙌🏽☺️
This excellent teaching, Brother Tony!
Hes right about being able to see and hear that lust spirit if you listen and watch...
Every time he says yellow couch 🛋 I crack up...
My second time watching this video. “Applied Knowledge is Power” - TG. This would be good on a hoody!
Absolutely 💯
Tony that’s exactly how I’ve been thinking but the Bible says not to get weary in well doing.
Thank you for the message Tony.
“Bump being real if being real is REAL DUMB!” 🤣 -Tony Gaskins JR
16:48 “what brought you to that?” “I listen to Tony Gaskins and Bishop RC Blakes.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hey y’all! Just want to share this scripture Galatians 5 19-23: NLT
When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, idolatry, sorcery, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissension, division, envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other sins like these. Let me tell you again, as I have before, that anyone living that sort of life will NOT inherit the Kingdom of God.
But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!
Let’s encourage new believers and the body of Christ to take accountability and live the best we can like Jesus!
I share your messages with all my friends 😊truly blessings
Here listening ❤
LORD give us ears to hear 🙏🏽💯💜
Keep the eorld encouraging Tony , the wages of sin is death 😅
(POV: Sweeping the floor)
Tony: ....flipped and tossed...
Me: Fell out 😂😂😂😂.
Blessings and Peace 🙏🏾🕊️💖
I guess Tony your wife is in that small percentage of women that hit the jackpot with you. Pray for the rest of us.🙏
I just went to find the “I’m gonna stick beside him clip” OMG 😱 this is so sad! This joker refuses to use his spine, to sit up in the chair!
Yes most Women are in DENIAL about their 😢 broken 💔 relationships with these NARCISSISTIC Men!💯 I get most of my advice from GODLY men who know the games other men play ✔ ( PROVERBS 27:17) ROYALTY BABY 👑 Thank You Tony for this Video Message ❤
This was good.
Be smart and lonely or dumb and in a relationship?
A person can be smart in a relationship - the right relationship. If someone chooses to be dumb in a relationship, they should shoulder most of the blame for what they allow in that relationship.
As someone said, you have something to lose - you may lose your sanity, or what's left of it
Good evening blessed Tribe 🙏🌹🌹
I love that life application bible.
This is true Tony
Good late evening everyone 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
"Arabia 😂that's Aladdin and them in the Bible" -TG LOL 😂
Not the pause & blink’s to “woman do not listen, to NoThing
😂😂
A Hardhead makes hard behind 😳
#SpiritOfRebellion
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Amen 🙏🏾