My ex hubs did this a lot. And he never took responsibility for noothing he did. I was married for 14 years and he committed adultery the whole time. He blames me for that too.
You've spit facts only. This is actually a confirmation of my assessment of my ex. He has so much work to do on himself. At one point I had to tell him that he crucified me everytime because he lacked accountability for his own actions. His insecurities stemmed from his childhood, past infidelity, and of course the inability to heal from his past traumas
What a sick behavior to humble/put in place/even the score a woman who he knows has value and goodness and high level traits. Instead of trying to grow and match her level he wants her to go down so he feels good about himself. So sick.
Mines attacked me and wanted me to cut all my friends off woman nd men because he felt he only mattered then told his family I was crazy and did a bunch of things to him then turned them against me too I wasn’t even aware
I actually appreciate you, because you seem to be very positive, and you’re not attacking women for being who they are and you’re being honest about how men truly are
PLEASEEEEEEE POST MORE MEN AND THEIR CHILDHOOD MENTAL VIDEOS LIKE THIS PLEASEEEE AND HOW THEY ACT IS A PRESENTATION OF THEMSELVES A WHOLEEE SEPARATE WORLD FROM THEIR S.O THIS WAS BEYOND BEAUTIFULLY PUT. THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 👏
THIS IS SO ON POINT AS I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH A LOT OF THINGS GOING ON IN MY LIFE. 7 YEARS OF DEALING WITH THE MADNESS.. I HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO MOVE ON AS THERE IS NO COMMUNICATION OUTSIDE OF THE YELLING AND BLAMING AND TALKING SLICK TO ME. ENOUGH OF THAT..
My husband blames me for every single damn thing. When I say everything I MEAN EVERYTHING!! He even tell his family friends and anyone I'm the blame for his Fu*ked up life!!!
🙏Hi Derrick Jaxm THANK you for your reading it resonates 100% to me truly that's my Husband whether l must say it my self lm a very good hearted person for my family grandchildren and other people but he will never change me God is good to me lm not perfect but I tired to move on spirituality 🙏🙏THANK you for bringing peace to my Soul 🙏🙏🙏l love you Lord 🙏♥️♥️♥️
🙏🙏 Amen Hi Derrick l THANK you for bringing more clarity to my mind and Soul🙏🙏 but most of all l THANK God for putting the right poeple on my Path 🙏🙏l can see there is light at the end of the tunnel Amen 🙏🙏be bless ♥️♥️♥️
God bless you Derrick ☝ I mean he already obviously did with the life experiences that led you to sharing this wisdom, immense gratitude for that Sir, thank you🙏❤ So I guess we're all blessed after all, if we just choose to see all the blessings👁 Seeing or not seeing truly is a matter of free will and choice, cowardice or strenght, beauty or beast 🧚♀👹
Damn!!! You got that right! He blames ME, says “I’m seeing someone else”, cuz he can’t reach me on Friday night! Told him, I’m not, and, that’s what people are doing to ME! ( and accuses me, hah!)
Ok.. so when we split and 1 year later he blames me for his relationship not working . Ive been no where near or spoke to him for all this time .. he wasnt nice 😔. Hey! He did me wrong thats why i ended it. I just don't get it
My husband divorcing me yesterday just because he said my attitude really bad when we fight. It doesnt make sense just because lil thing he left me. He blamed me I'm a bad person. Like I deserve this
Thanks for clarifying lot of what I went through for 23 yrs. Is this a Reprobate person? I divorced him on his Birthday! He did t bother to show up. Thank you.
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Yea if he constantly finds fault in you - that’s his guilty conscious. He can’t bare staring in the mirror so he’s projecting his guilt on to you.
“He’s cultivated a distrust by being untrustworthy.” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
My ex hubs did this a lot. And he never took responsibility for noothing he did. I was married for 14 years and he committed adultery the whole time. He blames me for that too.
Be happy sister ,🙂
that you gave him up,
that you broke up with him and ,
that you are doing YOUR life without him .
@JustSimply Marie... That's my current situation!!! It's just nonstop adultery!
Me too gurl ...hit me up! Lets chat and uplift each other
I’m glad that you are no longer in that toxic relationship.
Not your fault. Gaslighting and no accountability.
Good men are rare
Godly men are rare too. ❤
It's really hard for people when all Blame is thrown their way, and accountability is nowhere to be found.
Whew! These brothers ain't safe to love.
You've spit facts only. This is actually a confirmation of my assessment of my ex. He has so much work to do on himself. At one point I had to tell him that he crucified me everytime because he lacked accountability for his own actions. His insecurities stemmed from his childhood, past infidelity, and of course the inability to heal from his past traumas
💯 Men like this are so obvious they tell on themselves every time 🙏🙏🙏🙏
What a sick behavior to humble/put in place/even the score a woman who he knows has value and goodness and high level traits. Instead of trying to grow and match her level he wants her to go down so he feels good about himself. So sick.
Everyy try thing he said i feel like i just went through. It had me in tears. I hope to never go through that again.
Always my experience
I just want through this he left me just a couple day ago now he's telling people I did him wrong its crazy
Mines attacked me and wanted me to cut all my friends off woman nd men because he felt he only mattered then told his family I was crazy and did a bunch of things to him then turned them against me too I wasn’t even aware
I was married for 21 years, then we got divorce. Don’t want to take accountability for his actions. Adultery and few more things
I actually appreciate you, because you seem to be very positive, and you’re not attacking women for being who they are and you’re being honest about how men truly are
PLEASEEEEEEE POST MORE MEN AND THEIR CHILDHOOD MENTAL VIDEOS LIKE THIS PLEASEEEE AND HOW THEY ACT IS A PRESENTATION OF THEMSELVES A WHOLEEE SEPARATE WORLD FROM THEIR S.O
THIS WAS BEYOND BEAUTIFULLY PUT. THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 👏
THIS IS SO ON POINT AS I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH A LOT OF THINGS GOING ON IN MY LIFE. 7 YEARS OF DEALING WITH THE MADNESS.. I HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO MOVE ON AS THERE IS NO COMMUNICATION OUTSIDE OF THE YELLING AND BLAMING AND TALKING SLICK TO ME. ENOUGH OF THAT..
FACTS AGAIN!!! WHEN I NEED TO HAVE REASSURANCE OF WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH AND THE PERSON I USED TO BE WITH... BOOM, A VIDEO POPS UP😊 THANKS AGAIN!!
God works in mysteries way beautiful 💜
@@Yoqyyyes!
Always!😉
You spoke facts. This video described my ex hubs, to the T.
Beyonce says to play the cards we’ve been dealt, ehich means listen to his blame game, see his cards, smile&wave and leave without a shdow of a doubt.
Facts. when i heard this song i was like wow she is right
What song is this?
Damn ! You’ve got some incredible insight I’ve never heard before. This explains my last 7 year Situationship.
Situationship! Love that, gonna use it now.
I can’t go for a long drive just to think without a thousand questions n accusations
true... i agree! blame the woman & make that all her faults where actually its his + accuse her for things that she aint do
My husband blames me for every single damn thing. When I say everything I MEAN EVERYTHING!! He even tell his family friends and anyone I'm the blame for his Fu*ked up life!!!
Facts, you have described half the men out here. With that being said, there are a handful of good ones out here too.
🧐 where?
Asking him just that one question opens up the probability of an argumen
Thank you Derrick for this truth …Thank God for you. You are inspiring generations of women and giving them the courage for change for the better.
Oh wow, this makes so much sense. I see now. Thank you for sharing!!
I All love and respect for the respect you give to men and women in teaching respect for each other.💯💞 all love and respect for you and your family.💯💞
That is the language that he is speaking to himself!
The last point struck home thank you Derrick for clearing up everything that I have been enduring
You couldn't be more on point Derrick !!! 🎯🎯🎯
He projects on you to create an alibi for his future wrongs, a game strategy ~ a great defense is a good offense !! Textbook Player Game
GOODNESS YES! EVERY SINGLE WORD!!
I love that u still do these videos ❤
Wow...😢 I needed this. Thanks 🎉
🙏Hi Derrick Jaxm THANK you for your reading it resonates 100% to me truly that's my Husband whether l must say it my self lm a very good hearted person for my family grandchildren and other people but he will never change me God is good to me lm not perfect but I tired to move on spirituality 🙏🙏THANK you for bringing peace to my Soul 🙏🙏🙏l love you Lord 🙏♥️♥️♥️
🙏🙏 Amen Hi Derrick l THANK you for bringing more clarity to my mind and Soul🙏🙏 but most of all l THANK God for putting the right poeple on my Path 🙏🙏l can see there is light at the end of the tunnel Amen 🙏🙏be bless ♥️♥️♥️
OMG YOU MAKE TOTAL SENSE!!!
Thank you for sharing!!!
TY 4 keeping it real 🎆
Make perfect sense with everything you've said.
On point! Thank you 🙌🏼
Love it..respect from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️
Love u derrick you keep up the good work 🙏
Yes you making sense
Thank you for this video 🙏
I you are RIGHT!
That is so true
God bless you Derrick ☝ I mean he already obviously did with the life experiences that led you to sharing this wisdom, immense gratitude for that Sir, thank you🙏❤ So I guess we're all blessed after all, if we just choose to see all the blessings👁 Seeing or not seeing truly is a matter of free will and choice, cowardice or strenght, beauty or beast 🧚♀👹
You are making perfect sense
It's because it's good doesn't mean it's right, on point!
An ex for a reason. I was spared and am so grateful for it ♥️.
Excellent points
Lots of blamers accuse me
B4 you accuse me, take a look at yourself ~ Eric Clapton song lyric
Thank you for this video
WOW! This is my life right now!
Mine too😢
Thanx for the facts big brother 😊❤
everything you said hes doing each and every one of those to me
You are speaking to me my Bro
Been through this
Oh my God, amazing explanation!
your reading resonates with me. Ex of mine come from a critical entourage and did it with me also so i decide to remove myself
True facts 💯
This was a great video
Your making good sense
Damn!!! You got that right! He blames ME, says “I’m seeing someone else”, cuz he can’t reach me on Friday night!
Told him, I’m not, and, that’s what people are doing to ME! ( and accuses me, hah!)
Thnx derrick
Facts 🤴🏽
He goes back and forth.
Yes
its speaks to me ,
Ain’t nobody listening to U. U just HECKA FINE. We all know better ❤
I worry about what he do but more importantly what he don't do and don't correct
That's what I had in a marriage and He Just left me and gone
Ok.. so when we split and 1 year later he blames me for his relationship not working . Ive been no where near or spoke to him for all this time .. he wasnt nice 😔. Hey! He did me wrong thats why i ended it. I just don't get it
Talk the talk bro
Yo facts
Hit home!
Felt.
💯
Oh yes
My husband divorcing me yesterday just because he said my attitude really bad when we fight. It doesnt make sense just because lil thing he left me. He blamed me I'm a bad person. Like I deserve this
That’s a cluster b personality.
All his exs were crazy red flag
Thanks for clarifying lot of what I went through for 23 yrs. Is this a Reprobate person? I divorced him on his Birthday! He did t bother to show up. Thank you.
❤
My case is #4 hence we are getting a divorce
No but we’ve been together since we were kids
Next would be his placement
Idk , I don't think his mom taught him better than than that.
Eye
Good is not right.
I have frozen ground beef.
Seekingattention
I down
9:34 and 11:08
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😢😢 I
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He say all I do is nagged but i don’t
Bro, it's time to get that bible out and read Revelation. This game is coming to an end!
That Old ,,,, Satan ,, Might Be,,,, Wise ,,, Behind Strong ,,Challenge's ,,, For Glory's ,,,, Imagining ,,, Into Strong ,,, Ending's ,,,, Of,,,,Y'all,,, Mess,, Up ,,On,, The,,,,, Orders Of ,, Extra,,,, Crumble ,, Deals ,,, Broken On ,,, The,,,, Table's,,,, Wide Opening ,,, Behind,,, Ham's ,,, Just ,, Stealing ,,,, Lands Of ,,,,, Dog's ,, Fielding's Into Greedy Ham's,,, Again ,,,,, Into,,,Mysteries ,, Ways ,,,,,Ant Had Enough Of Evilness ,,,, Rewarded ,,,,, Yet,,,,,,, Now Am Tired Of Glory's ,,,,, Spirit Tripping Off ,,,Y'all Foolishness ,,, With Becoutiues ....
They do not exist.
Yes