I have a social media issue. I was unintentionally rude to woman more than 4 four months ago on Onlyfans, Twitter and Instagram. The woman blocked me on both Twitter and Instagram. The only social media website I am following her on is her Facebook fanpage. I tried to no contact but I failed, how do I resolve the situation ? .
So funny you talk about this. I feel I've been attracting more women than ever as of late, simply by focusing on myself (financially, with fitness, with my business, and investing in my future, etc.) than I ever did by seeking anything outside of myself. I've sort of developed a catch phrase after watching your videos, and a few others, and it's "focus on the mission". It's kind of my compass at this point, and whenever I feel I might be getting distracted, I remind myself to focus on the mission, and life keeps moving forward in the right direction. ...that and NO FAP has been a HUGE game-changer. 3+ weeks in baby, let's goooooo!!
I feel you man. I’ve realized by improving every aspect of my life physically and mentally it has progressed everything like finance, woman, my future etc... Just by focusing on myself for real and really making changes and developing, everything else falls into place.
Man you had such a similar experience to myself. In my late teens and early twenties I focused solely on my goals in business, music, and fitness. Over the years, as I experienced growth girls started to notice me more. As my confidence grew, so too did my opportunities. Excellent video my man!
You legit depicted how I've been going about the whole "meeting girls" thing, I didn't take any interest in going out to clubs or parties, and yet still did wonder if I was going about meeting a girl the wrong way. So glad you clarified it :D keep growing, David! Love everything about your channel & videos
Focus on yourself but also talk to new people "girls" inorder to keep yourself in an abundance and helps get rid of your needy vibe.after that back on yo purpose
before this nofap thing i craved for girls but now i lost interest on them. i now started to love myself and started to devolope.man i am f**king fully goal oriented and dude i am dangerous.😎✌️
@@stevewolfe8536 tbh i thought that too but after that flatline these urges are strong. but i involved me in this mindfulness meditation stuff and dude it work amazing. brother after that i started to love myself the most.
I feel like we’re always on the same vibration bro, I was just talking to my brother about this & this has been the message I’ve been getting all week, 💪🏼💪🏼and then you make a video, just helps remind me I’m on the right path! Much love brother 💪🏼💪🏼
I’m 7 years into my career and just got promoted. Been working 65+ hours a week and staying out of the dating game. Feels so much better to be investing in myself and my future. It’s not always easy, sometimes I feel FOMO or that I should be out meeting women but at the end of the day what benefit will that provide compared to investing in yourself?
It’s a great point, it’s the principle of what we need to follow, purpose. You can also attract women to what you post in social media, you have to be selective with this as well. Also joining events or classes of some sort. You will draw women to you, these things work. Again with everything considered, you have to be on purpose when you attend to these things and not focus on women.
Wow simply wow! This video just took my whole “game plan” when it comes to seeking woman and flipped it upside down. But in a good way! I definitely agree to attract you need to do the opposite of chasing. Not chasing. Focusing on myself, my passion and what makes ME happy. A huge thank you to you! I love how you speak like I’m chatting with a best friend.
Damn similar experience as you, I been doing it unknowingly since high school, I was interested in girls but they weren't on my mind, it wasn't my interest to go out of my way to meet them, I continue to focus on my goals and drives and girls flocked at me. I do agree you are perceived as more attractive when you do your own craft (sports, business, music, etc). And I did realize that people who chased, got less, and I have been there as well but not for long. I know a friend who chases and chases but never listens to me, has no goals and nothing to offer, which why women don't go to him.
Thanks for this David! i agree on this topic! a lot of people need to watch this to understand, keep up the great videos my friend! Have a blessed Wednesday!
Hehe, crazy how you talked about this. I graduated college last year and in those 4 years, I haven't been attracting any mamis till last year. I was so focused on me and nothing else and I noticed more girls were starting to try and get with me. Abou 10+ girls would ask me out everyday for weeks on end. Still works, I just never thought of it like that.
I'm 18 and i see u as my big brother. U motivate me and give me some tips. because of you I started to see myself as "good looking" and to love myself and more. Thank u.
I agree, yet even though you have all this stability and high market value, it doesn't mean women will come in flocks for you. You still have to approach them with good game. And wierdly enough, to make her stay, you have to be more self focused instead of relationship focused. Keep up the good work bro! 👌
Thanks a lot David, There's this religious leader of us Muslims, called Imam Ali once he stated that when one runs after anything in this world, it will run away from them. however if they let it go, it will surely come and seek for them. wish you the best👊🔥
I'm at a month and some days as well. However i'm having a woman over tomorrow and i somehow feel a bit bad breaking hardmode with her. It's still nofap but retention is just something else. Especially my fitness training has been going amazing lately. I'm driven because of retention. Women... -_-
Idk man. I focused on my dream, purpose and passions for the longest time and women didn't come. I had to go out of my way to get them. And now that I am the very best I've been, they don't even look at me. Im losing hope
learn to market urself on social media,its kind of a skill but if u can show how much resourceful u are even if women dont normally realise they will know by looking at ur profile etc bt u gotta market urself
Started at the gym again 1st time in 5 years [28 y.o./5'8/146lbs]. Question; do you recommend personal fitness trainers? Do you believe in their value? David, you give amazing advice, love it, you help my ego a fucking butt ton brother. Thank you, amen.
You get better at something by practice. There's no substitute for practical experience. Even if you completely focus on the so called "passion & purpose", you're still an infant in the women arena. Just put yourself out there without expectations. Look forward for learning. Approaching women in itself is "self development" (although I hate that word for the business people make out from that) in that area. As they say, the world is an illusion (and it is) then why even concerned about building up something inside an illusional matrix ? Why even so bothered about wins & loses ? Nothing is permanent anyway, so go out there & have fun while you can..
there is this quote I read like, the men that women fear is the men that can't be controlled by sex like that, YESS WE BOIS HERE ARE THE COOKIES IN THE JAR YEAHH HAHAHAHAHA
True, im always busy guy on myself to be better once i get out im the mysterious guy in the club and once women started to notice me they become interested.
What I realized happens to me is that when I'm not thinking about attracting women AT ALL (and by at all I mean when it doesn't even cross my mind, not when I'm trying not to try) is when girls orbit around me and when I see there are some girls practically throwing themselves at me. For example, when I legit went out with the intention of having some fun and dance to some music is exactly when I had most success in my life, now when I went with the mentality of "I'll try to get some girlz" is when I failed. My guess would be that it's because when you go to a nightclub, 99% of the guys in there are there with the intention of maybe "getting lucky" and getting a girl. When you go without that intention, you will automatically stand out But here is the trick, you can't control that. I tried few times to "convince" myself that I didn't go out to get girls but in the end I was just lying to myself. Still til today I don't know how to achieve that 'nirvana' aura of just wanting some fun
Actually been doing this for the las few years, but it hasn't really worked out yet to get a girl, but I improved so much in mental and physical health, that I don't relly care that I'm single atm
@Self-Developed Hey I need some advice. My girlfriend and I have took a break from seeing each other and we got back into contact with each other. She told me that’s she still wants to be with me and still has feelings for me and I told her give me sometime to figure out if this relationship is something I want and if I have feeling for her and I took a couple of days to see and I realized I do have feelings for her. I told her that I do have feelings for her and she told me that I have been so difficult and that she is having doubts about me now. How should I approach this situation?
Bruv, if she doesn’t respect the fact that you had to take time to assess your emotions and thoughts then to put it simply, she’s a bit of a dick. It’s easier said than done but don’t let your feelings for her cloud your judgement.
Bonus tip to attract woman: Create a TH-cam channel where you give other people advice in an intellectual yet humble way. If you know what I mean. Fr tho just putting thoughts together like what he does is what a lot of women look for!
Yo bro check out “The Savy Psychologist” on Spotify. You can access the podcast for free 👍🏼 I never fully studied psychology but I have been using this to get an overview of what it entails.
New subscriber on my longest streak ever of 11 days after years of trying it’s finally clicked ! Everything changed when I started seeking the Kingdom of God!
I'm on a 220th day of no fap .... From timid pigeon to attacking eagle ... My journey what I have learned is don't give a damn to your problems work everything goes right after sometime because you have worked not thought what will I do
Hope you guys enjoy the video! COACHING, COURSE & WORKSHOP BELOW! 🔥👇 www.self-developed.com
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Interesting and very true but at the same time frightening..........
Thanks David🙏
I have a social media issue. I was unintentionally rude to woman more than 4 four months ago on Onlyfans, Twitter and Instagram. The woman blocked me on both Twitter and Instagram. The only social media website I am following her on is her Facebook fanpage. I tried to no contact but I failed, how do I resolve the situation ? .
Be a gentleman, efforts, communicate clear. This is what girls like.
A wise Mann once said "Dont chase the butterfly, Mend your garden and let the butterfly come"...
Love this man! 👊🙏
Hundreds percent you're also wise man 👨 🙏👍
Dude that literally is amazing!😂
What??? Wth ohhh pls a guy should chase a women. Wtf
@NYCfactor 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
So funny you talk about this. I feel I've been attracting more women than ever as of late, simply by focusing on myself (financially, with fitness, with my business, and investing in my future, etc.) than I ever did by seeking anything outside of myself. I've sort of developed a catch phrase after watching your videos, and a few others, and it's "focus on the mission". It's kind of my compass at this point, and whenever I feel I might be getting distracted, I remind myself to focus on the mission, and life keeps moving forward in the right direction. ...that and NO FAP has been a HUGE game-changer. 3+ weeks in baby, let's goooooo!!
Keep going bro 🔥
Shit I like your tattoos
Haha HELL yeah bro! Keep growing my man! 👊💯🔥
Wow
I feel you man. I’ve realized by improving every aspect of my life physically and mentally it has progressed everything like finance, woman, my future etc... Just by focusing on myself for real and really making changes and developing, everything else falls into place.
The best part of this channel is how genuine and uplifting David’s tone is.
Try to bro cheers! 🙏😌
Focus on your own development, make yourself a high-value man and women will *naturally be drawn to you.*
Bang on. Women are a cherry on top to the success we have or have not achieved! 💯🙏
Man you had such a similar experience to myself. In my late teens and early twenties I focused solely on my goals in business, music, and fitness. Over the years, as I experienced growth girls started to notice me more. As my confidence grew, so too did my opportunities. Excellent video my man!
Bang on man. It’s the truth! The harder we work, the harder life meets us in the middle! 🙏💯
Newton himself said "For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction."
Life is NOTHING
Or life is EVERYTHING
@@David_Hammond that's how positive you are man 🤗
or life is everything u chase and dream just to realise how less u will actually experience out of those...and thts fking sad imo
You legit depicted how I've been going about the whole "meeting girls" thing, I didn't take any interest in going out to clubs or parties, and yet still did wonder if I was going about meeting a girl the wrong way. So glad you clarified it :D keep growing, David! Love everything about your channel & videos
Good stuff my man! I’m glad it could help! 💯🙏👊
Focus on yourself but also talk to new people "girls" inorder to keep yourself in an abundance and helps get rid of your needy vibe.after that back on yo purpose
Self develped and develop attraction is the best channel of all time.
Dude I wish you huge success. Get successful and change the this toxic world.
before this nofap thing i craved for girls but now i lost interest on them. i now started to love myself and started to devolope.man i am f**king fully goal oriented and dude i am dangerous.😎✌️
Haha keep growing bro! 👊💯
You killed off your testosterone and sex drive dude that’s bad...
@@stevewolfe8536 tbh i thought that too but after that flatline these urges are strong. but i involved me in this mindfulness meditation stuff and dude it work amazing.
brother after that i started to love myself the most.
Dont give up bro you got this
Crazy that I've been here since 30k. Thank you David for the free value everytime 🙏
Yes sir glad to have you! 👊💯
True. Needy = creepy. Keep chasing them, they sense you are being needy, it repels them & they elude you even more.
Not true. We like guys that chase us but it depends on who that guy is
@@cyncyn4403bingo
Hey dude, so good to see a Dhs/creek veteran in my feed, and become my new favourite TH-cam channel.
I feel like we’re always on the same vibration bro, I was just talking to my brother about this & this has been the message I’ve been getting all week, 💪🏼💪🏼and then you make a video, just helps remind me I’m on the right path! Much love brother 💪🏼💪🏼
Yess sir! Keep growing my man! 👊💯🔥
Focus on your purpose and women will focus on you
Love your energy and passion while you discuss these topics, man!
Keep it up!
Thank you. This video reminded me how much I loved my life before Corona because I was busy.
You can still be busy. Nothing has changed my man
I’m 7 years into my career and just got promoted. Been working 65+ hours a week and staying out of the dating game. Feels so much better to be investing in myself and my future. It’s not always easy, sometimes I feel FOMO or that I should be out meeting women but at the end of the day what benefit will that provide compared to investing in yourself?
It’s a great point, it’s the principle of what we need to follow, purpose. You can also attract women to what you post in social media, you have to be selective with this as well. Also joining events or classes of some sort. You will draw women to you, these things work. Again with everything considered, you have to be on purpose when you attend to these things and not focus on women.
I'm a long time subscriber I'm happy to see u grow
Thanks for sticking around bro glad to have you! 👊💯
Wow simply wow! This video just took my whole “game plan” when it comes to seeking woman and flipped it upside down. But in a good way! I definitely agree to attract you need to do the opposite of chasing. Not chasing. Focusing on myself, my passion and what makes ME happy. A huge thank you to you! I love how you speak like I’m chatting with a best friend.
Another SOLID video!!! Keep up the grind homie 💯🙏🏻💪🏼
Cheers to you as well my man! 👊💯
Watching your videos makes me motivated. Thankyou brother
Good man. Now take that action and reap the rewards! 😊👊💯
Friend: How good are u at math?
Me: 0:31
Loooool 😅😂
Love from India bro keep hustling ❣️🙌
Cheers my man! To you as well. 😊👊💯
Damn similar experience as you, I been doing it unknowingly since high school, I was interested in girls but they weren't on my mind, it wasn't my interest to go out of my way to meet them, I continue to focus on my goals and drives and girls flocked at me. I do agree you are perceived as more attractive when you do your own craft (sports, business, music, etc). And I did realize that people who chased, got less, and I have been there as well but not for long. I know a friend who chases and chases but never listens to me, has no goals and nothing to offer, which why women don't go to him.
Thanks for this David! i agree on this topic! a lot of people need to watch this to understand, keep up the great videos my friend! Have a blessed Wednesday!
Cheers my man to you as well! 👊💯🔥
Love the videos man, keep doing what ur doing. Your videos have been helping me out for a while now!!
Glad my man let’s keep growing! 💯👊
Love the energy man, you're the best!
👊👊
When building yourself up...
Don’t forget to smell the roses.
Very true! 🙏💯
Working on yourself is always the best!!
the mindset: work on your self, go out, and have fun. The chicks will come to check that out :D
Have you done a video on 75 Hard? I think a lot of men here can benefit from it. It’s definitely a game changer. Going through it myself now.
👍🏻👍🏻 Woah, mindblowing advice, THANK YOU!!
Hehe, crazy how you talked about this. I graduated college last year and in those 4 years, I haven't been attracting any mamis till last year. I was so focused on me and nothing else and I noticed more girls were starting to try and get with me. Abou 10+ girls would ask me out everyday for weeks on end. Still works, I just never thought of it like that.
I'm 18 and i see u as my big brother.
U motivate me and give me some tips.
because of you I started to see myself as "good looking" and to love myself and more.
Thank u.
Ahhh so glad to hear man. Keep going bro! 👊💯❤️
As my man mystic would say *" focus on you and the woman will too"*
Absolutely love it! One of my favourite quotes! 👊🙏
I agree, yet even though you have all this stability and high market value, it doesn't mean women will come in flocks for you. You still have to approach them with good game. And wierdly enough, to make her stay, you have to be more self focused instead of relationship focused. Keep up the good work bro! 👌
This video felt like i needed to see this on this right moment.
I still remember when the cupboard wasn’t there.... back with 15k subs
Man it’s like you reading my mind 😂 I just started doing this like 2 weeks ago
Bruh I love the energy in your videos it’s amazing 😂💯
Haha good I’m glad! 😊🔥
Another great video my brother
Keep working , and eventually everything will fall into place don’t Force anything in your life .
Bang on man. Something I need to be reminded of as well! 💯🙏
Thanks a lot David,
There's this religious leader of us Muslims, called Imam Ali
once he stated that when one runs after anything in this world, it will run away from them. however if they let it go, it will surely come and seek for them.
wish you the best👊🔥
Yes sir bang on bro. Relate it to life here! 🙏💯
Love how you drink and transition to speaking so seamlessly haha I’ll be spurting my water all over
Loooool. It’s a serious skill 😂😉
Great video man!
Came in clutch my dude! 37 days no fap 😁
Kill it bro! Keep growing! 😊👊💯
I'm at a month and some days as well. However i'm having a woman over tomorrow and i somehow feel a bit bad breaking hardmode with her. It's still nofap but retention is just something else. Especially my fitness training has been going amazing lately. I'm driven because of retention. Women... -_-
Idk man. I focused on my dream, purpose and passions for the longest time and women didn't come. I had to go out of my way to get them. And now that I am the very best I've been, they don't even look at me. Im losing hope
Keep going bro
learn to market urself on social media,its kind of a skill but if u can show how much resourceful u are even if women dont normally realise they will know by looking at ur profile etc bt u gotta market urself
David is focused on bring hydrated
Started at the gym again 1st time in 5 years [28 y.o./5'8/146lbs]. Question; do you recommend personal fitness trainers? Do you believe in their value?
David, you give amazing advice, love it, you help my ego a fucking butt ton brother. Thank you, amen.
Noti gang
You saved a life ✊
You get better at something by practice. There's no substitute for practical experience. Even if you completely focus on the so called "passion & purpose", you're still an infant in the women arena. Just put yourself out there without expectations. Look forward for learning. Approaching women in itself is "self development" (although I hate that word for the business people make out from that) in that area. As they say, the world is an illusion (and it is) then why even concerned about building up something inside an illusional matrix ? Why even so bothered about wins & loses ? Nothing is permanent anyway, so go out there & have fun while you can..
如何吸引更多女人到你身邊?
最棒的策略是 不是你花時間 去用找的
你把時間用來自我提升，在身體 心靈 財務...各方面
為什麼不用搭訕、去酒吧、去夜店，去追逐認識妹子，
因為這些方式有點太強求，太刻意要去追求甚麼的感覺
當你想從外面去追逐這些快樂時，代表你本身自己並沒有辦法讓自己快樂，
把你的能量用來健身、看書、去爬山、接近大自然，把這些過程攝影記錄下來，
把能量用來建立自己的熱情、興趣，讓自己變成一個更有價值的男人
如果你總是把重心放在去尋找下一個女人，
用各種話術、策略，去要讓女人上鉤，你沒有在為自己建立任何的東西，
你沒辦法提供女人任何的真正的價值
如果你把自我提升當成生活的重心，在財務上、事業上、生活經歷上，
幫自己建立了足夠的價值，這時你去搭訕、去酒吧、去夜店，
你不是用一種想要追逐妹子的心態，
你散發的能量才會不一樣，你不是去找快樂的，
你能夠去給予你遇到的人足夠價值，
這才是一條吸引女人比較正確的道路。
Youhhh amazing 😀
Ever since i started nofap, i don't know what it is, but all my "friends" don't like me anymore.
then These are not real friends
valtteriii dont mind them
@@csgo8614 i know, i'm better off alone.
Go solo brother. Better friends are on the way! 👊💯
They are jealous
From cup to massive flask 🤣. Great stuff though David!
Loool gotta 10x on their ass 👊😂
there is this quote I read like, the men that women fear is the men that can't be controlled by sex like that, YESS WE BOIS HERE ARE THE COOKIES IN THE JAR YEAHH HAHAHAHAHA
Nicely said👍👍
When did Nyjah Houston started givin life advices? Great videos btw
Hahaha. Cheers bro 🛹
Good advice.
Good Shit !
Do you have any examples of how to be a more valuable man. Like what should I focus on to achieve it and what type of hobbies are good etc?
True, im always busy guy on myself to be better once i get out im the mysterious guy in the club and once women started to notice me they become interested.
I love this man 🙏🏼💯👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
Love you too bro! 😊👊💯
What I realized happens to me is that when I'm not thinking about attracting women AT ALL (and by at all I mean when it doesn't even cross my mind, not when I'm trying not to try) is when girls orbit around me and when I see there are some girls practically throwing themselves at me.
For example, when I legit went out with the intention of having some fun and dance to some music is exactly when I had most success in my life, now when I went with the mentality of "I'll try to get some girlz" is when I failed.
My guess would be that it's because when you go to a nightclub, 99% of the guys in there are there with the intention of maybe "getting lucky" and getting a girl. When you go without that intention, you will automatically stand out
But here is the trick, you can't control that. I tried few times to "convince" myself that I didn't go out to get girls but in the end I was just lying to myself. Still til today I don't know how to achieve that 'nirvana' aura of just wanting some fun
Actually been doing this for the las few years, but it hasn't really worked out yet to get a girl, but I improved so much in mental and physical health, that I don't relly care that I'm single atm
Talk to them
New subscriber, nice content ❤
The 🐐 is teaching us the way of the goat !
Yessir! 👊💯
Well, at the mean time.he has become Wolfe. No sheep anymore.
Bro can u do a video on long term relationship
I’ve made a few yes! But I’ll keep it in mind! 😊👊 short answer is it can work beautifully if done correctly!
@Self-Developed Hey I need some advice. My girlfriend and I have took a break from seeing each other and we got back into contact with each other. She told me that’s she still wants to be with me and still has feelings for me and I told her give me sometime to figure out if this relationship is something I want and if I have feeling for her and I took a couple of days to see and I realized I do have feelings for her. I told her that I do have feelings for her and she told me that I have been so difficult and that she is having doubts about me now. How should I approach this situation?
Bruv, if she doesn’t respect the fact that you had to take time to assess your emotions and thoughts then to put it simply, she’s a bit of a dick. It’s easier said than done but don’t let your feelings for her cloud your judgement.
Hey man, I heard in another video that you’re from Canada. What province are you in?
Bonus tip to attract woman: Create a TH-cam channel where you give other people advice in an intellectual yet humble way. If you know what I mean.
Fr tho just putting thoughts together like what he does is what a lot of women look for!
Shoot that shot
Yes, I think your advice will help men even further. I wish more ladies like you the world would have. The world misses.this type of ladies.
I liked this man true build yourself
The thing is why are we programmed to look or search
ROAD TO 100K LETS GOOO!
Yesssir! 😊👊💯
My mans gives knowledge. Your vids helped me out during some low times r.n . Im at an all time high 😎💪. Day #4 no fap less getit
Today mark's exactly 1 year of no fap hard mode for me! Its something I never thought I'd be able to do for like 1 week.
Crazy bro! Congrats man keep it up! 😊👊💯
Clicked within 27 seconds
😊👊
ye bro. can you give me tips to grow my channel , I am following your channel for quite a while and your channel is growing at a very fast pace
Consistency my man! Been on TH-cam over 4 years now!
Doing same😂, much love man❤️
Ur awesome ❤️
I like it when you look at yourself at the screen :-D
Hahah gotta make sure I’m in focus! 😁👊
Love it bro 💪 would love to collaborate on something
You got high by your own words and that hit me so hard😌✨
Bro what kind of coffee do you drink in the morning ?also how many teaspoons
Just a keurig coffee!
Just a question, How did you study or learn psychology because I’m just really interested in studying it
Yo bro check out “The Savy Psychologist” on Spotify. You can access the podcast for free 👍🏼 I never fully studied psychology but I have been using this to get an overview of what it entails.
Learn however you do! For me I loved audio books, reading, learning from others on TH-cam but most importantly trial and error! 😊👊
New subscriber on my longest streak ever of 11 days after years of trying it’s finally clicked ! Everything changed when I started seeking the Kingdom of God!
How do you have so much energy?
Passion !
What’s your ethnicity bro? Half Filipino ?
I'm on a 220th day of no fap .... From timid pigeon to attacking eagle ... My journey what I have learned is don't give a damn to your problems work everything goes right after sometime because you have worked not thought what will I do
RIP creator chats :(
5:59 😆😆😆
😂😂
Yeah, do nothing... focus on yourself... after 15 years+ still single... great, I guess 5 more years won't hurt bro :) keep improving
first like xD
Yes! 👊🏼
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Found my 2nd guru haha