HOW OFTEN SHOULD YOU TEXT A GIRL? (You're Doing It All Completely Wrong...)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 พ.ค. 2020
- Hey guys, welcome back to another video! In this one I speak of how often you should text a girl as a man! I hope this video helps and with that said I will catch you all in the next one, cheers! :)
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As a girl, I don't really know why I'm watching this, but honestly, I think it's so very attractive when a guy has a life, goals and things to do so even when he's texting someone, there's a lot to talk about! We girls do like it when a guy text us first and often, but quality is better than quantity, and excessive texting isn't attractive.
It's lovely to see quality men like all of you growing like this. Keep it up!
I am a girl and I agree, but do you agree with their mentality that the women should be chasing? That's what I don't understand. It's possible for a man to have a healthy balance of chasing their goals but still being the one to pursue the woman which is how it should always be..
@@gem9811 Yeah, I believe if a guy is not pursuing/giving me the time and attention he's supposed to give someone he's interested in, then that's not the right guy for me. I mean if he's ONLY focused on his goals, then why should I be in a relationship with him? There should be a balance! I believe when a guy is interested, he'll automatically start pursuing, planning and making things happen, after all, that's how masculine men are wired, they just have to be that interested first. :)
@@h_b_a_a definitely. Once they make excuses about being too busy, I start to think I'm just an option 😂😂
@@gem9811you most probably are
@@h_b_a_a I'm not sure if you've been paying attention, but all this "chase" talk boils down to two simple things: getting a girl to see a guy as a challenge and a bit of a mystery. If he pursues you most of the time and always reaches out... Where do you get the space to actually wonder about a guy and build up attraction? What guys actually see work in real life is that a bit of discomfort and uncertainty makes a girl more proned to reach out and show her interest
Dont text a girl who's wasting your time and using you as backup. I had to learn that the hard way. Just do you and focus on your goals. Everything else will follow.
me too
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Wish i had seen this video back in the day. Lets just say some things wouldve gone better lmao...
@@plugmanjohnson7456 I feel u dawg we’ve all done stupid shit 😭😭😂
Yeah I too had to learn that the hard way.
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Just focus on your goals and you will stop worrying what and how often you should text a girl. Improve yourself everyday and be the diamond and girls will be the ones chasing you, great video as usual.
They really notice when you put yourself first .
I agree
How do you find out what are your goals? I feel lost and lack of direction.
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😂 it’s 2021, girls aren’t chasing anything. Btw girls go to TH-cam to listen to guys dating tips and come prepared.
Imagine this was taught to us from young boys... we wouldn’t have “simps” or “betas”
It’s a food chain bro
i really needed this 7years ago oh how fked up i have been
simps and beta are usually rich ones that women chase later on.
@@tainle girls chase them for money and thn cheat on them with chads after marriage 😂
@@Rajdweep not all women are the same and beside as they get older, what you see they at younger age start to reverse. so i dont know why you are laughing. apparently u know nothing about women ..
'If you are too available... You loose value' i felt that
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from my experience, I knew this but I didn't had much going on in my life so I was always pretending I didn't read the text and et cetera and that consumed a lot of my energy. Too much calculations about when I should answer her, so here it is a simple formula that will make you text in a "healthy" way: get a job and don't answer texts (unless they are important) while working. That'll be half your day "busy" and not even having to think about it. Join the gym, that'll be another hour busy in your day. Cook healthy meals. This will result in so little free time to answer texts that you wont even have to think if you are texting her too much or not.
A few more tips that can help you:
- it's okay to let the conversation die. Seriously, if she answered "hahaha" and you have nothing more to say, just leave it like that and talk to her another time when you having something to talk about. It's better than trying to force the conversation
- it's okay to not answer texts. If you read a text and simply forgot to answer, it's okay. No need to apologize
OMG YES THE LAST PART...I’m a girl but sometimes when I text my male friend and we both have nothing more to say he always wants to force the conversation and I would rather do what u said
@@monisworld3965 that male friend probably wants to be more than a friend if he does that
Y'all have your whole life ahead of you than to actually worry whether you need to text or haven't received a text from someone. Like just step back and look at your entire life and you are worried that someone hasn't texted you or you want to text someone for the sake of it.
I was that person before until recently I just flipped the switch doing my own thing knowing good things come to those who not only wait but work towards a goal.
Another insightful video David !
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How do you know/find out what goals to work on? I feel lose and have no sense of direction..
@@archangel323118 Financial independence? Financial stability? Isn't that a goal worth working towards?
Saying nothing, says a lot. Especially with women.
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And what does it imply when she says nothing....
@Ayaan Lalani Either she doesn’t know what to say, or she just isn’t intrigued. You must understand that when a man has their own priorities they stand out more than others. So take pride in who you are and what you like doing and she’ll come around. If not, then it wasn’t meant for you
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I'm giving that a go too. There's one I like, but I get the impression she's waiting for me to make the move, again. She's lately taken up a similar activity that I like, but if she wants to engage with me in that shared hobby then I'll leave it down to her to ask, otherwise nothing is going to happen.
You read my mind my man I was actually thinking about this
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no it about algorithms
Google read mine. Was texting a chick and I was wondering when boom! random recommendation.
Same
Honest to god I had a feeling he’d bring up the chess analogy. Simply because I’m quite familiar with the concept of this philosophy: ‘life is a chess’
It's interesting that dating coaches for women say exactly the same thing and now I wonder... If both parties value themselves high enough to not make a first step too quickly how it's going to end...
That’s why dating is so hard and nerve wrecking nowadays. It’s like a chest game. It’s a battle to see who gives in first. It’s all about the ego. I’m sick of it. Our grandparents and parents didn’t go through all these. Whatever happened to men pursue women, men are the hunters...instead of enjoying pursuing women, men are more concerned with their ego nowadays. They’re so afraid to invest, even with a little text message! Everyone is holding back and waiting for the other person to move first, then start judging “umh he/she seems desperate because he/she reaches out to me first...” yup that’s feeding their ego. Nothing is genuine in dating anymore with all these games and calculations.
@@JMK719 couldn't agree more. Where's calculation there's no genuine love.
Stop caring about texting lmao. Tinder has caused our minds to turn to glue, I don't use that shit anymore.
-If you send the first text, keep it light, keep it breezy "How's the hangover this morning?".
-Respond proportionally to the way she responds. If she's giving one word answers, don't double down and send her an essay.
-When a conversation dies, let it, don't make desperate attempts to keep it going, conversations always have a start and an end.
-If you text her again, do it with purpose, don't just say "What's up?". Give some news "I just got that Job I was talking about!", or arrange a date "Are you free next Saturday?".
-Timescales are irrelevant, yes everyone has their phone on them 24/7, but if you're stressing about her taking too long to get back to you, you seriously need to work on your priorities.
Also, I know plenty of girls who turn off notifications, and so only respond when they want to. I've done the same, honestly, it changes everything, we're fucking ruled by our phones these days, turn notifications off is a refreshing way to stop obsessing over social media and texting.
This is great advice, thank you!
Thanks bro.
THIS !! I just wish my boyfriend would try and understand this. He’s super needy and always wants to force a conversation and gets mad at me if we are not texting every hour of the day
Bro, the thing is girls nowadays are also pursuing careers and the majority of them can be very busy, so if you as a man don’t initiate interaction, nothing will work out. It’s even more true considering the fact that most girls want men to be active and decisive in a relationship, so I’m very confused right now
I think the point is some sort of balance. You can text her first and see how is the interaction with her but honestly, the best is to ask her out and do stuff with her, face to face. Texting should really be secondary.
Why tf are there rules for this?! Life would be more easy if people just replied whenever they see the message. No games
@@tudor_sebastian no we live in a SIMs game for kids
Honestly
turn all notifcations off and it really does change bro trust.. you only use the phone when u want to, not when it barks at you.
@@tudor_sebastian yeah we don't, texting did not exist back then. Dumb ass
torchu hey jack wagon texting didn’t exists back then so Mind You
Go by following rules: Texting is for setting up dates only ✌🏼
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
No one is too busy to send a text lol. It takes a minute to read, analyze, and reply. Even less if you just want to text her
If you want to see how people look at you, try finding how u look at yourself..🌸
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I dont text anyone , so nobody texts me , makes my life pure calm .
She literally texted me "dont worry if you think your bugging me" and I'm stilling questioning whether I should..
Men are attracted to responsive women because that gives us certainty, we like to know where we stand. Women however aren’t attracted to responsiveness or certainty. They get weird enjoyment being ignored and worrying where they stand with you. I hate it
Skid w x downs s Cisne x w ehhh false as a Woman, I don’t like being ignored... I’ll just assume they’re not feeling me and I’ll move on
@@tiedyemoon3849 agreed. In this day of smart phone if someone (guy or girl) cannot take two seconds now and again to respond, well-known advice says they are not interested. And there are many more guys on the dating site he came from. So why waste your time?
I am attracted to responsiveness. However i have worked in a corporate world for a decade so responsiveness is appreciated.
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Become a diamond... and don't text her?
If you like her text her. Or don't and you'll never know if she's into you. Same can apply to women.
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I’ve never been considered a “ladies man” due to my introverted self. But because of that, I noticed that whenever I text women, they tend to latch onto me rather quickly. I think this is because of how “mysterious” I seem, by not replying back fast or even replying at all. Sometimes taking days to spark up a conversation. And in reality, I’m not mysterious at all. It’s just me being an introvert, and not wanting to talk as much as the dude next door. Eventually I learned to embrace this, and I’ve had my girlfriend for a year now.
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Glad my man. So awesome to hear keep running it my man, we’re all in this together! 🙏💯❤️
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Great advice bro! I’ve been doing that lately with this one chick and she kept on double texting me and constantly snapping me. Love the content brother💪
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Growing up and now I understand why knowing these things are so important. As a kid only taught to study hard and work hard, earn money, and stuff and life will be good. But life is so much more. There are things like these that'll either make you or break you. Having relationships ended with heartbreak and feeling like crap. And small psychological things like this are what define where the relationship will go.
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No one is perfect. Even if you work on yourself but don't put yourself out there, you'll still be single. Self-improvement helps, but knowing when to engage, when not to, when you're tired, when you're not, helps. Listen to yourself first before you pursue.
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I came to find out if I should txt her every day but I got one of the best motivational speeches and bits of advice I've found.. cheers!!
Focus on yourself ( SELF DEVELOPMENT )
What I meant was never text a girl because 100% of the time they won't respond just let her talk to you in person
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Im so useded to being open to someone right away, and after this video I understand what I have to do different. My first message should be short and only be based on something about her profile. a question and nothing more.
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ok finally i found an analogy that really makes sens to me. Be a diamond not a pebble, be rare.
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As a girl, I appreciate it when a guy actually writes to text about sth and doesn't start every conversation with: how's your day? What are.you doing? etc. It doesn't need to be sth very complicated, could be funny meme, movie you saw, great song you listened to, whatever. Because let's face it: usually our everyday life is pretty reptitive, not so fun or exciting. Therefore i'd rather have a fewer conversations about sth, than get tons of messeges that don't actually add any value to our lives. And don't get me wrong, asking how someone's day was is a good thing to do, just don't start every conversation with it😉
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