I thank God I'm not alone in silence anymore. Even though I've been out of the narcissistic relationship for a long time, I never healed. I didn't know how to because I didn't even understand what had happened or why. I lived in fear of getting into another situation and going through it again so I remained alone. I lost all of those younger years and now I'm old. I lost the chance to move to a better climate with a better job but was convinced I should stay, only to be used and abused, then discarded. I lost everything, from health, money, friends and family, better opportunities and was left with a smeared, destroyed reputation. But the beauty of it all is that I found this channel and I'm becoming educated and empowered. Now I understand who narcissists are and to avoid them at all costs. I'm not afraid anymore. I set boundaries, I'm taking care of myself, I'm becoming happier and I'm continuing to move forward each day. There is hope post narcissistic trauma. Thank you Andrew. What you went through and came through has positively touched all of our lives and brought us new life and hope. God bless us all.
Continue to move forward Donna. You're doing great. Self care and living in the moment is truly the path to maintaining happiness and positivity in the future. Stay blessed 💛
From here on out, I will define me. I'm still shocked on all that's happened, but, I am now seeing clarity. I lost him, friends, and yes he's lied to them. Those who stood up and told him he was wrong, he blocked. I am going to be fine one day, and everyone reading this, and you Andrew, are all going to be ok.
You will be better than fine Debbie. Keep educating yourself. The path is not linear. As you move forward out the darkness the light continues to get brighter ✨
You are 100% correct Andrew. I'm a fixer, I thought I could help him. I was willing to sacrifice everything to help him have a better life and help him in every way. I just listened to this for the second time. They don't care about you helping them. To them you're just a doormat for them to wipe their feet on. They don't appreciate it and they're not looking for change anyway. They're happy with how they are, it works for them doesn't it. SO GLAD I'm out of it.
After 7 years living a lie, waking up from the fog, moving on & learning about the dark chapter on narcissism, I am dancing on a higher level now. They are awful teachers giving us the chance to become the best version of ourself. We can do that & yes: we will not ever stoop down to their level again. We also understand that we cannot help or fix them. All we can do is keep up our spirits, keep believe in the goodness of mankind & become even more loving than before. They do not exoect us to take these steps; they realize they cannot destroy our light & they surely do not define us or our reality. They underestimate us. Hallelujah💫💫💫thank you
Thankyou Andrew, for keeping us on track, showing us we are not alone and in giving us hope through this topsy-turvy , good one day bad the next day journey , thankyou
I understand absolutely where your coming from, I thought at times I was going crazy, this video has given me so much hope , thank you Andrew for lifting me up 🙏
When I first figured out what happened I watched different channels 24/7 When I would go to bed I would leave it on My new best friends are these channels I thank you so much I’m glad I found your channel You cant tell others because they won’t understand plus it’s part of our personal journey
I was doing every and all channels till I settled here Not sorry either. I was isolated, still am but learning new skills, how to sleep, how to feel hunger. How to even physically breath because I literally always hold my breath doing everything. Feeling free enough to even have my own email address. LOL!! Still no transport or bank account but I bet you the way I'm feeling now This misery too shall pass. It can only go UP from here..
Crying is thereputic and it’s the only way to heal. I cried for an entire year😩 I had years to process what I went through. It was a Major learning experience of my life. Healing is possible! I’m so happy now and I realize how strong I really am. Thanks so much Andrew💗🙏🤗🌸💪🧘♀️🙌
Healing time takes a lot of time is true! After divorcing a 30 year marriage I was broken but he could never break my soul or my kindness. Now 2 and half years later I am complete and whole. Yes I cried for months to the end. Andrew really nails it of what one goes through. I did do EMDR that really helped and healed my heart. Thanks Andrew for your videos, a blessing
I love you too for speaking to us about everything the difference is when you are over the hard work you put in you don't cry anymore about what was I learned to forgive not only the narcissistic people in my family the ones I trusted the most would turn my confiding in them and use it against me but the lesson was and is forgive yourself first of all then the rest comes slowly until you have forgiven them and don't cry anymore when telling people that this happened that's the best part it is like a huge weight came off my shoulders I still battle with things that's why I said I love you too as now I am learning more through your videos and here's the strange part I stumbled upon your video not really looking for anything just browsing and then I started to listen with the intent not to answer but really hear what you saying. You are a beautiful soul and I was lead to you to make more progress in moving forward. Thank you Andrew may God bless you always or the universe or whatever you believe in 🙏🏻❤🙏🏻
Andrew you are a true gem! Thank you for sharing your story to everyone. When I discarded him I moved in with my sister who also went thru this for 10 yrs. I fell to my knees and looked to Jesus to help me and cried for along time. This shit really hurts!!! I am proud to be in this group. I am almost 6 months out and feeling much better. I hope we can all come together and be friends sharing and caring. Breaking that trauma bond is the hardest thing for me. I give all my love and hugs to you cause you deserve it!! We all do. Never give up and keep Jesus at the forefront and know that Satan will soon be defeated!!!
I've been out of the narcissist life now for 8 months, no contact from her for 3 months, my last message between Xmas and New year. Now I'm learning the truth, I'm having a second depression, of sorts, I'm really emotional and cry watching characters on a TV show or film, I've been like this for years but not as bad as the last few weeks of enlightenment. I know I'll get better
Hi Andrew from beautiful Costa Rica, many thanks for your advice. Like you rightly said we were not taught at school to deal with such distorted behaviors. I thought once having read about it will cure me. I was totally wrong. It has taken me an ocean of ears, sleepless nights, physical ache, doubts, hope... I finally realised the toxicity of that man. The tricks he used to keep me under control. It ended with a depression episode. But having thought again and again I decided that this man would not define me as his commodity. The path is not an easy one but I know sun will shine again, that is called HEALING. Merci beaucoup, from Brussels with Love (true Love, universal that a narcissist will never experience)🙏🏽💖🙂
Oh can I relate, with the grief, the loss of ourselves, money, health! The tears flowed sooo easy in the beginning. Now it’s a quick teary eyed thought. We are genuine. I like genuine people but if others don’t, oh well. This is life! l am grateful for waking up every morning. When I go on walks I count the positive things. I try to find 50 things but I must have ADD because I keep losing count, (smile). It’s a big beautiful world out there and we don’t know how much time we’re given so I try to make every day a good one. What defines me? It’s something inside myself, knowing that I keep trying to do the best I can. Love to you too!
Finding the positivity in all that surrounds helps us heal as we continue to move forward on our healing paths. I love that you focus on your gratitudes when you walk. Live in the moment and appreciate all of the little things💛
I was always called anti-social, I shyed away from people cuz of negative comments & treatment by others. My father is a narcotics, he would say such hurtful things that it be hit at the core in my healing process I am still remembering things he had said (how could I even have for gotten ) because of him & others I always thought there was something wrong with me..... Through this channel, education, healing I have learned I am a empath, spiritual, a daughter, a mother, a best friend I think we are all more than we realuze, once the fog is lifted the healing begins, embrace who you are now, who you are becoming........ A BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING Remember it takes time for a acorn to grow into a mighty oak tree Give yourself time to heal. Take care....
Thank you Andrew for taking the time to share your awareness and truth. I am not alone! I'm 2 weeks post relationship for the 3rd time, and have learned so very much to recover. ♥️
You have committed fully to yourself and committed to us here on this channel and we appreciate this so much, thank you Andrew. A very open and honest video - beautiful. They are indeed the darkest days being with a narcissist but it takes a true empath to overcome their terror but also to fall into their traps. Educating ourselves is the answer - the answer to a beautiful, strong, healthy and loved future 💙🙏💙
What does NOT define me: the cell phone (seeking continual external validation from “sources of supply” via text messaging). What I desire to define me: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (the fruits of the spirit).
I needed this lesson . Just out of a relationship ..4 friends dying 3 from covid one got killed on Valentine's Day I'm so depressed I appreciate you for sharing your time life and energy..thank you God bless you 🙏 ❤️ I'm fighting to get back to a better place 🙏 and the person from the relationship never ever called to say sorry for my loss.. Like you said in time things won't get better thank you 🙏 ❤️ ❤️
Thank you for your prayers 🙏 on my way to work today I lost control of my car and God kept me safe car and Spent around 3 times and landed in the bushes I didn't hit anybody I think God's still be here .. I just been going through .. But This to shall pass 🙏🙏
It is a lonely place post narcissistic relationship and I've a lot of work to do, as it only ended three weeks ago after over 30 years. I worked so hard to keep the relationship going but I now realise, I was the only one contributing while the narc had a very different agenda. I'm so grateful to be listening to these videos and words of wisdom, thank you. We have to step up and become our own best friend and not let ourselves be defined by our narcissistic relationship. This is not who we are - we are bright lights, kind and empathetic human beings and one day we will regain our authentic selves again. It's a process....for as long as it takes......in the pain I feel I'm still that kind person and a precious child of God. That is what defines me! One day I will walk free of this nightmare, we all will heal. Stay strong! We certainly are not alone and thank God for this community. Thank you Andrew.......God bless us all.
Angela, keep moving forward on the path. I understand everything you are feeling. You will heal! It takes a lot of dedication and commitment. You are surrounded by a community that gets it and are never alone. 💛
@@christine11347 thank you so much Christine. Yes since coming across this channel a few weeks ago, I know I'm not alone and that there are other people just like me out there I will keep moving forward on the path to healing. Thank you for reaching out, I appreciate your kindness. I hope you are doing well on your own healing path. God bless you.
@@angelacahill9083 Thank you I am doing great. I get stronger everyday. I am very blessed and I know it. This community is amazing. Andrew selflessly continues to educate and help us all move forward on the healing path. It's a true gift. Have a great day💛
@@christine11347 I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. Yes being a part of this healing community is a real blessing and it's educational and supportive. It really helps us to make sense of what we've experienced. We are all on this healing journey together. We are not alone! We are more than conquerers. We are loved! Our best days are still ahead of us - hold on to your dreams. Have a lovely day - and thanks again.
@@angelacahill9083 Thank you ❤️ Post narscistic abuse recovery you dream big and you turn your dreams into reality. I am stronger and more resilient than ever. Let the challenges keep coming and I will continue to crush them one at a time 💪💪
I have been a child of narcissistic parents and severe neglect. I relate to your isolation. Then a husband, then a boyfriend and now my children. My heart is utterly broken. My ex husband destroyed my wealth. $1.1 million worth of real estate. He was penniless. The fact my children are narcissists is the end of the line for me. I need to write a book. I need help with it though. Thank You !!! God Bless You !
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you so much. I have been on this journey my whole life. I didn't know what it was. Yet, there is a healthy level of narcissism, especially in young adults. But, you witness a tipping point, where, you no longer recognize their soul. And you realize that these people are entities that are very different people. It is akin to demonization. I believe that it is a spiritual phenomenon more so than strictly psychological.
I am accountable also. "Psalm 127:1 Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that built it : except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain." I built the house outside of God's purveyance.
This is one of your most powerful videos and testimonies yet. Really hit home for me. You speak from the heart, from the depth of your experiences, and this can be felt. It is remarkable that you have upheld that commitment to yourself to make videos each and every day, that you have moved beyond those excruciatingly gut wrenching moments and are bringing to light your new understanding. Your consistency, dedication, and courageousness is what has earned you a rapidly growing channel. Thank you for serving us all through your unique insight and through expression of the precious spirit you have!
I wish I could “love” emoji this. The whole narcissistic experience is one thing (we obviously all share). Your continued vulnerability…. that’s a special gift and I want you to know I really appreciate it.
Good morning Andrew! Coming from Staten Island New York. Once again you are 100% correct you have to put in the work if you accept what happened to you I mean this is for your subscribers from my personal experience when you start putting the pieces of your puzzles together you will figure out why it happened and if you accept it in a good way in a positive way you could overcome so many obstacles for me you have to be consistent if you have to write it down on a piece of paper make it all positive if you're an empath like me and Andrew you could get through this even better than the first version of yourself!!! I promise to all your subscribers put in the work you will get better and stronger healthier you name it if it's positive you will get there!!! Okay Andrew looking forward to your next video you have amazing knowledge you really do God bless you!!!🙏💯🙌💛💪💯⭐🙏
Andrew, you're such a beacon of light, one day I'll share my story here, after 29 years with a covert, I've just came out of a traumatic 2 year discard when I called her out in 2020, her mask dropped completely and she threw the kitchen sink at me, I can't believe what I just went through and how far she went, she got the house and our three beautiful kids, everything you say completely resonates.
Andrew-everything you speak of is so spot on..20 years and walked away from a covert narc…day by day..step by step..I am too valuable to endure anymore emotional abuse! I’m taking my power back.. the smear campaign is absolutely mind blowing.. lean on family and close friends!
This video has given me strength to try another day. Each day I get up and try to be positive but as my day goes on I falter. I am so tired. Thank you Andrew for being there for us. God Bless
I am still so hurt and things are so fresh. I gave so much and got treated the worst. I do have a lot of work to do and need to heal from this. I know that I am a beautiful person, he made me feel like I wasn’t. I’m waiting to sincerely smile again. You help me start on the path of healing daily.
You will smile again. You'll laugh and have joy again. He me told to my face on my birthday that he knew he and his son abused me but that he did it because he saw no worth or value in me. He didn't mind using me though. They destroyed me with their smear campaign. People are afraid to be seen talking to me because of the horrible lies. Narcissists are experts at devaluing you, destroying your confidence and making you feel unimportant. But you are important. And you do matter. You deserve a good, long, healthy, happy and fulfilled life. It will come. He wouldn't have been with you if you weren't someone special because they like to have the best for appearances. I think they see us as easy targets because we are compassionate, helpful, kind and forgiving people and they take advantage of us. They also seek to rob you of all that and destroy you because you have what they don't have and the jealousy eats them up. I know you'll come through this. Your heart will heal and you will find Joy again. It doesn't seem like it but it will happen.
Andrew, I start and end each day with you. I've seen all your videos and your amazing growth. When you tell us where you were just a year ago, it resonates. This year was the rockiest road I ever walked. I still stumble but don't fall. My Dark Night was a deep descent that rocked my soul. My friends, you will get through it, I promise. Just stay tuned and the miracle will come.
Just thank you.. I don’t where I would be right now if it wasn’t for your channel. Sending love right back at you. Keep on going Andrew. Thank you for keeping us strong during our weakest times✨
Recovery is like grief...it is not linear. It's like the waves of the ocean. One day I am okay and another I am a mess. I still cry every day. I also still feel anger and fear. But I've learned SO much and will continue to learn something new everyday. Your videos inspire me and so do so many of the other people here when I read their comments. I am not out of the woods. But I can see the light at the end of the tunnel and it is not the headlights of a train....it is sunshine. p.s. I have remained no contact and for that I feel proud of myself.
The grace that God has instilled in me is what defines me now Andrew after coming out of the fire !! My work and education will not be in vain !! I came through this program and your videos in the fight of my sanity !! Today is a beautiful blessed day 💞🌺 💪🙌👌🙏
I am a fixer too, but I had thought I had grown enough to not do that anymore. I ignored 🙁 😔 the signs of abuse because they were not as evident as past abuse. I gave to the narcissist more than I thought I ever would. I am looking into what I gave so that I can recover my self again. Thanks 😊 Andrew for sharing and I truly appreciate you!
I had a moment of weakness this evening and got into an argument with my narcissistic enabler parent. As per usual, I was left feeling angry and completely invalidated. I'm incredibly grateful for this community - even though we are all physically apart, knowing that there are others out there who have survived and understand narcissistic abuse gives me a sense of camaraderie.
Ashley, I even had to cut my own mom out of my life. She is the ultimate narcissist & I understand today why I unknowingly ended up in a seven year transaction with a malignant covert passive aggressive narcissist - of course, it felt right, it felt like being at home...no way. We now create our own reality & do not have others define who we are💫
@@carol-xk3lq I can definitely relate. I was in a six year transaction with a narcissist myself. I'm still young, but I fear that I may eventually have to cut my parents out of my life for the sake of my sanity and healing. Thank you for the kind words and best of luck to you!
@@swanam_1 possibly you do not have to cut them out for good, but make sure to go gray rock. Do not give them surface to attack. Smile, say "whatever" when they provoke, snuggle yourself in, with an imaginary lightbubble or with a good perfume scent & let their darkness be swallowed by your honest cheerful light. Good luck from here to there💫
Even after 2 years still going thru times thinking about 38 years I dealed with it. Now getting educated and going to heal .I am not sick anymore and get stronger every day got goals again after loosing everything.new home new job soon retire and live life to the fullest.hope that divorce goes in my favor. I am strong now and will go to the end.thank you Andrew
Andrew, we are all proud of you… for all the work you did with yourself to go out from the tunnel🎆… You’re an exemple for all of us .Thank you again for opening your heart and educating us 🙏😊Wish you a beautiful peaceful weekend ☀️🌈
Wow this really speaks to me in this moment! I needed to be reminded that I am not where I was, I have more education, I have a deeper understanding , I’ve spent this past year trying to keep looking forward with hope! Your message today was the inspiration I needed to trust the healing process, deep feelings…. Keep going on my time! Thank you for shining the light on your journey to encourage others!! One foot forward, another day towards hope and healing🙏
It takes years to recover from our ex narcs, but take that time to stay out of relationships so you can heal. For a lot of us, while healing from our narc marriages/relationships we discover that our parents were narcs too. Tack on even more time to recover from that too. I’m discovering what I like, and what I want to do in a day. There’s no need for codependency. I have the Lord, and my dog, and they are all I need. :)
🙏 Amen. Take time to heal and discover who you were, are, and meant to be. The journey is long and full of emotion. It is so worth it though and completely transformational. Stay blessed and keep moving forward 🙏💪🕊️✨💛
I adore your intro: think about that for a minute. I always pause and do that. Your channel is helping so many, I am sure, focus inward on ourselves in a safe space where-finally!-we are allowed to do so ❤️Thx sm, Andrew!
My narc ex would disappear and I wouldn't know why. I would call him and his phone eventually went to voicemail for days till eventually I gave up. I wondered if he was ok. Then he would bombard me with calls out of clear blue sky. When talking to him he accused me of never calling or leaving messages and would try to convince him I did, thinking I would show him my phone when I saw him again, to prove it. Talking to him was exhausting and pointless! I wondering how he could be so thoughtless. I went through that many times and finally woke up. I considered going through the pain of going no contact with him versus life long suffering. The irony is that it takes so long to get out of those relationships because I understand now the process of trauma bonding. For the rest of my life I'll have to keep abreast to educating myself, but gladly to fortify myself in protecting myself from these predators. Definitely, it takes a lot of courage to get out of the cycle of abuse. I applaud you for raising awareness.
@@kimalonzo3363 I haven't seen ex for a year now. Best thing I ever did was go no contact. Although it was difficult to do that eventually did it by seeing less and less of him. I wanted out a long time ago, but he wouldn't let me go.
I would add health issues to this: While working on my undergraduate degrees, I had beautiful nails, always kept them polished. They were flexible yet strong. I've always worn my hair long... it's always been thick & easily manageable, held a curl well. While with the narc, I took note of how weak my nails were getting, developed ridges & started peeling & cracking. My hair slowly got dry, brittle, frizzy, split ends, all of which I never had before. Nothing I did to try & mitigate the downward spiral of either nails or hair did any good... They both deteriorated right before my eyes. It wasn't until about 2 months after the narc left, that my Dr explained that my hair & nails were early warning signs of an overloaded central nervous system. I wasn't sleeping nor eating properly, nor was I doing anything to calm the stress driving the overload. The evidence my body was giving me I didn't recognize until the damage was beyond scalp & nail bed deep. My hair is slowly returning to its original luster. The manageability has returned, the frizz & split ends are gone...the thickness is slower to rebound but making progress. My nails have come back BETTER than they EVER were!!! I can wear polish again...with pride!!!... I took back a part of me!!! They stopped peeling & although I still get an occasional crack(the result of grabbing something the wrong way), the plates & beds regrow the length quickly. It took research to develop a protocol to nurture them & the process worked!!! I've applied the same approach to my hair & that is making a bigger difference too. While the best revenge IS good living, healing the damage inside & out makes that good living GLOW... a vivid difference!!!💞🖤
Narscistic abuse takes a toll on you mentally, physically and spiritually. By removing the toxicity, your body, mind and spirit can begin to heal. My health has had a complete turn around also. Self care is so important as you move forward on your healing path. You're doing great 💛
@@christine11347 Something that narc loved to deliberately try to sabotage & STILL gaslights me over is the wildlife rehab hospital I started in '95- 2 yrs before they showed up on the scene!!! I channel my intuitive empathic capabilities where they can do the most good. Animals don't lie. Hand-feeding a hawk too weak to feed itself would enrage that fool: I ignored them & paid attention to a hawk!!! Sick & totally juvenile!!! That hawk, like hundreds of other animals, got released, no thanks to the narc... BUT IT'S ALL THOSE SUCCESS cases that kept me going through my "dark months of the soul(never mind dark night!!!). I had repeatedly proven that my intuition & intellect to tailor a treatment protocol was laser on point...something the narc still twists & LIES ABOUT to this day. What MATTERS is the animal got better & GOT RELEASED... NOT any bullshit claims by a covert narc!!! Helping others...making a true difference in their lives... Is what really accelerates our healing process, because it validates our worth to ourselves in quiet ways that MATTER...to the recipients and to us...💞🖤
@@catherinerhea6336I agree with you 💯 Catherine. God bless you that you are helping rehabilitate these rescue animals in need. By sharing your passions you are truly able to live out your purpose. Stay strong. You're doing great one success at a time. 💯💪✨
This is a beautiful video thank you so much. Post narsscasist relationship I also died and against all the odds I came back had to process this too. For me life is so precious and during my time here, I help myself and also other beings who are experiencing difficulties if this is what they want. I don't wish for things that have already happened and instead accept myself now and also my historical past. My biggest wish is that this world becomes a better place. Whilst the narsscasist is polluting this world with their negative energy the rest of us as a collective have the potential to rise above adversity and have a happy and forfilling life. Narsscasists and their monkey brain agents do need to be held accountable and whilst on the healing path the primary concern should be thyself. Thank you for being such an inspiration in this world and may you always be blessed.
Thanks for the inspiring message Andrew! I've been out for a little while now and you are so right! To those on the channel who are still in the midst of the narcissist hurricane and abuse cycle, just know that you need to save yourself, just as you would if you were in an actual storm of that magnitude. Do everything you can to believe in yourself and as Andrew mentioned, surround yourself with positivity and positive, like-minded people. Just like in a hurricane, when you board up your place of shelter and protect yourself, that's what you do. The storm will pass. Some are stronger and more long lasting than others, but there is calm and peace when it starts to subside. ⛈🌀🔜🌅🌞
I have moved on & enjoyed my life & I'm getting stronger & am getting even stronger due to you being here with all your videos & every one comments here . thank you all . Wish you all have a wonderful blessed day
Andrew, thank you so much for your message on healing and moving on. For me, it was incredibly timely. My Jekyll and Hyde boyfriend just ended our relationship recently after a tumultuous weekend of going from sweet and kind to cold, critical and emotionally abusive. I never gave up hope. But I now know it has ended and your posts are giving me the spiritual and emotional uplifting and encouragement that I need. Thank you again for your selfless giving and service to those of us who are hurting from narcissistic abuse. Be blessed. ❤️😇
Pamela, accepting that you are in an unhealthy relationship is the first step to putting an end to abuse and allowing the healing to begin. Education is key to understanding what has happened to you. Sending you prayers of peace and strength as you begin your journey. 🙏💪🕊️
@@christine11347 Christine, thank you so much for taking the time to encourage and uplift. What I am learning about my ex is that he is incredibly vindictive, angry and incapable of feeling the hurt of others. Definitely someone I’d never trust. Thanks again and be blessed today! ❤️
@@pamelamuench4900 I understand and agree 💯 I was thinking of how untrustworthy narcs are this morning. Completely oblivious, self absorbed and selfish. It is heartbreaking that even when people see this they accept it and stay with them for their personal own reasons . Every situation is unique and I pray for everyone in this no win situation. I am happy you are moving forward and know your worth. Stay blessed and free💛
@@pamelamuench4900 Always 💛 It helps keep me grounded also. When I see these narcs in action it's awful. Thankfully they stay away from me now. I have ZERO tolerance for any of them. Education is the greatest gift you can give yourself to ensure you do not get involved with a narc again in the future. Stay strong and keep moving forward. You are doing great! 💛
Thank you for all of your videos. You are so encouraging and I love your uplifting messages! You are right - in time we need to learn to forgive ourselves to heal.
I know better now from the last two months. I'm still in the relationship because of my kids. I need to protect them with knowledge and empowerment. Thank you for the videos.
I am newly post no contact, and yes it's hard but with videos like yours and great books like "Becoming The Narcissists Nightmare" are really helping me. Thx Andrew 👍👍👍❤
The amount of tears I have cried during the 15 plus years with the narc can probably fill up an ocean. My eyes were always puffy those days and I hide my face with my hair. He was so insensitive to my tears that I stopped showing him that he made me cry.
When my wife left me for another guy 16 years ago, I didn't miss her...but I still hated being alone...sleeping alone. I was much more torn up by the death of my 16 year old cat (kidney failure) because we had a really sweet bond. I still miss him. There are "Divorce Care" programs available here in the U.S.A. often held at various churches from time to time...and they try to put things in a Biblical perspective, but often leave out what good things there are about marriage and what it's like to be married to a very loving partner. Most of us who attended these weekly meetings were empaths who were feeling down and out about divorce and having difficulty processing it. Their main point was to take time to reinvent ourselves...to take up new interests, to stop going to the same places and restaurants where we used to frequent while married, to take our mind off of who we were and what our role was in the old relationship. I threw myself into workaholic mode in my window cleaning business and lost 20 pounds...wondering if I was going to earn enough to afford to keep the house with my own money once she moved out. It was an anxious time for sure !! Never did the word "narcissism" come up in the Divorce Care classes...as this was 15 years ago and TH-cam was just barely up and running at that time and I hadn't even gotten an account on here till a bit later so I could watch music videos...no narcissism recovery content was available. So, ideally, I just wanted an average life...a happy marriage, a couple kids, no divorce...not being stressed with negative dramas. I guess you can't always get what you want. I suppose if I'm supposed to move on and get involved in another relationship, it's VERY important to know what to watch out for...and to truly appreciate someone else who does NOT have a personality disorder. It's been a lot to process this past year...recognizing the narc's playbook and realizing how many others have come in and out of my life who were also narcs. I feel ashamed that I let them get close to me...as if they were whiskey bottles that needed to be avoided and here we are on a daily basis trying not to get caught up in their snares...staying vigilant. I do think we need reminded daily of this warfare. Thank you for all you do to make this possible for us ! I never imagined I'd be part of a narc abuse recovery group...but here we are. I'd like to think that many of us won't let our narc experiences define who we are...I mean...there are a lot of other interests we can develop...sad to find out there isn't a local mini bike club for me to join up with...but there are many other interests we can throw ourselves into and live a more fulfilling life.
I understand how you feel. Education is so important to help you put the past in the past and know what red flags to look out for in the future. Don't let your experience in the narc relationship rob you of the joys and happiness of the present and future. The light is bright. Surround yourself with people who build you up🙏✨💪🕊️💛
it was not easy for me for 1st two weeks but I keep doing my meditation day and night ... Do my yoga practice no matter how I feel.. I attached to the nature everyday..BINGO its almost a month my ex narc bf left me for no reason I feel so good now.. GOD IS GREAT 👍
I have been watching you for about 4 months now and I think that you have healed a lot it gives me encouragement to know that I can get so much stronger than what I still am today I truly appreciate your dedication to helping people You're such a sweet human being I only wish the best for you
This is a good one Andrew everything you said has happened to me and more .. My regret is I could’ve stopped it earlier I knew something wasn’t right but I took it for eight years . I am a little mad at myself but I resent him . I was discarded 4+ months ago in a unexpected and cruel way . The first month of his departure I can only describe it as misery. But with you and the community and time I’m starting to see the light again . He has tried to Hoover a few times but I could never go back there . I have said this before, if you don’t like the effects don’t produce the cause . IM WiNNING ! But a monopoly I wish I never would have played ! Namaste 🙏🏻 My God and my daughter and myself defines me ..
Vicky do not fall for the hoovertrap - they all learn from the same book, will not change, keep on lying & destroying. Protect yourself & your child & move on into a better future where the light will conquer the darkness💫
Once you leave lock the door on the past tight. The narc has no place in your present. You and your daughter deserve peace and happiness as you move forward together to build a new beautiful narc free life. You are doing great! 🙏✨🕊️💪💛
@@carol-xk3lq my ex narc is trying to Hoover because he wants to use some of my land to plant a garden probably sometime in March, I know this I know what he’s up to and I know that’s his passion . No matter what he says or does it is not going to happen. I have no desire to see or talk to him ever again .. he is and has been nothing but pain ..
It’s almost been a blessing to have the world ‘isolating’ in 2020-> with Covid19 bc it gave those of us processing & healing loads of time where no one noticed or thought it odd we were self-isolating to do our inner work 😉
I lost a decade without knowing what was happening... that shit gaslighted me and stalked me in every way possible and all sorts of emotional abuse with authorities watching and doing NOTHING to stop the beast against me
Andrew, I just wanted to let you know that your videos have been very helpful for me during my divorce. After educating myself I realized that he is a malignant psycopath narcissist, I went through the biggest fight of my life divorcing him, 20 months of fighting in court, $85k in court fees, no child support, it was worth every penny for the peaceful life me and the kids now have. I feel that this has been one heck of a journey, my ex narc has ghosted us 4 months ago and we couldn't be happier about that. Now everything is final, I got my name back, I'm going back to school, buying a home, living in a new beautiful community with a wonderful church, getting closer to the Lord! I'm going to unsubscribe now because I don't want to keep spending time watching narc videos and focus more on me, my kids, and those that truly love me. I feel the need to say Goodbye and Thank you for educating me. God Bless you Angel 😇 keep doing the Lords work, I know you're blessing many as you blessed me. You're a Beautiful soul!
✨I LOVE YOU ANDREW! Bless you and THANK YOU for serving the world! ✨🕊💕 What a road! Stories like ours were only something you'd see on TV! Not ever reality! Is this a new thing or are we all just now getting the LANGUAGE to handle and HEAL from it? NARCISSISM needs to be taught from the 1st grade on! Make these narcs RUN FOR COVER! Adapt or else. COST ME LITERALLY MILLIONS! I've been surrounded by them since my first breath. SO exhausting.
Exactly why I watch videos here and elsewhere, to continue to hone my skills, increase my knowledge and understanding ( almost 7 years into my education and I still get lightbulb moments 😁) and support others who feel stuck and lost. 🙏
Recovering from the a narcissistic relationship was very difficult and took a long time. We walked on ashes , we experienced the dark night of the soul and now we healed after realy hard working on ourselves .
You commitment is outstanding to help us. Life goes on after the narc. Rising from the ashes after my experienced and the most empowermentI have ever experienced.. I found my tribe. bless you Andrew
Got goosebumps. I'm part of the Tribe and very proud to be so. We are all connected through our experiences. Thank you Andrew for your strength & understanding. Namaste 👣
It takes lots and lots of courage to be open, direct and vunerable the way you are, Andrew..omg..this just hit me so hard..you are an extraordinary person..words are not enough..❤❤❤ what you just did..most of the people would not dare..you have such a big big heart and we all love you for it. Be strong and take care 🍀🌹
Yes Being positive encouraged supporting loving forgiving seeking growth & maturity & wisdom Amen ❤I have come to really Love 💕 you Andrew Brotherly Love 💕 God bless you. ❤
Thanks, Andrew! ☀ Unbeknownst to us, the other person was never participating; therefore, it was a non-opportunity. Hence, the only reasonable option is to see what is left and to begin the building/rebuilding process from that point. Additionally, thanks for sending out the much-appreciated and healing love. 🙏 🎶 🕯 🎶 🙏
I am an empath and I really didn't know that I realized that after my divorce I was given messages to total strangers I was pushed into telling the person it will be ok and this person just burst into tears and said thank you 🙏🏻❤🙏🏻 understand exactly what you went through by not wanting to be seen or get out of bed cried and cried I couldn't understand what I had done wrong and as you say let it out get it out slowly the light at the end of the tunnel was getting nearer and nearer but even now I have to push myself to get up and go out but I do eventually get out 🙏🏻❤🙏🏻
So grateful to have you here...and I think I may, hopoefully,speak for 'ALL' of us. You are handing us Life Lines and I, for one,thank you most sincerely. You have rebuilt yourself...and shown us all that 'it can be done'. We did NOT 'imagine' the horrors...it was REAL...with your help, we have surpassed and survived them. Thank you again, much LOVE xo
Truly empowering Andrew x I wish more men would get in touch with their emotions as were all human x I had dark nights of the soul too x I blamed myself and some of it was my fault and my behaviour and understood why I was behaving that way x it was so tough to realise my part in it x I forgive myself and others and hold onto my goodness with better insight now x Thankyou Andrew x
Thank you Andrew for your transparency and honesty. You are a great encouragement. Your videos have helped me understand what I have experienced. I am thankful for you. God bless you.
I thank God I'm not alone in silence anymore. Even though I've been out of the narcissistic relationship for a long time, I never healed. I didn't know how to because I didn't even understand what had happened or why. I lived in fear of getting into another situation and going through it again so I remained alone. I lost all of those younger years and now I'm old. I lost the chance to move to a better climate with a better job but was convinced I should stay, only to be used and abused, then discarded. I lost everything, from health, money, friends and family, better opportunities and was left with a smeared, destroyed reputation. But the beauty of it all is that I found this channel and I'm becoming educated and empowered. Now I understand who narcissists are and to avoid them at all costs. I'm not afraid anymore. I set boundaries, I'm taking care of myself, I'm becoming happier and I'm continuing to move forward each day. There is hope post narcissistic trauma. Thank you Andrew. What you went through and came through has positively touched all of our lives and brought us new life and hope. God bless us all.
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Welcome Donna ..💯🙌🙏
Continue to move forward Donna. You're doing great. Self care and living in the moment is truly the path to maintaining happiness and positivity in the future. Stay blessed 💛
Amen. Bless you, Donna. 🥰
You are not alone Donna. I lost so many decades to abusive situationships, but have peace now. Praise God. I am very grateful for Andrew's generosity.
When you can’t rap your head around what the narc did or put you through it’s because you are not like them! You are a good loving person
They hate and we love. They destroy and we rebuild. Keep moving forward the light is bright✨
Exactly 💯💯
God keep his eyes in favor of you my friend.
From here on out, I will define me. I'm still shocked on all that's happened, but, I am now seeing clarity. I lost him, friends, and yes he's lied to them. Those who stood up and told him he was wrong, he blocked. I am going to be fine one day, and everyone reading this, and you Andrew, are all going to be ok.
Beautifully said.
Move forward and don't look back.
Welcome Debbie 💯🙌🙏
He Lost you!!! U were freed
You will be better than fine Debbie. Keep educating yourself. The path is not linear. As you move forward out the darkness the light continues to get brighter ✨
@@mpawl1524 thank you
I'm really happy that I have a tribe with you Andrew I don't know where I would be without your channel and great advice. Sincerely thank you
Welcome always 💯🙌☀️🙏
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DoctorRamani (try her youtube channel). As informative as this channel, but with a different perspective as a woman. Both channels are great.
You are 100% correct Andrew. I'm a fixer, I thought I could help him. I was willing to sacrifice everything to help him have a better life and help him in every way. I just listened to this for the second time. They don't care about you helping them. To them you're just a doormat for them to wipe their feet on. They don't appreciate it and they're not looking for change anyway. They're happy with how they are, it works for them doesn't it. SO GLAD I'm out of it.
Thank you Donna 🙏💯🙌
You and me both ❤️ Stay strong Donna 💪
I felt this
After 7 years living a lie, waking up from the fog, moving on & learning about the dark chapter on narcissism, I am dancing on a higher level now. They are awful teachers giving us the chance to become the best version of ourself. We can do that & yes: we will not ever stoop down to their level again. We also understand that we cannot help or fix them. All we can do is keep up our spirits, keep believe in the goodness of mankind & become even more loving than before. They do not exoect us to take these steps; they realize they cannot destroy our light & they surely do not define us or our reality. They underestimate us. Hallelujah💫💫💫thank you
Beautiful 🙏💯🙌
You are a beautiful light that shines on everyone 🙏 Thank you 🙏 Bless you 🙏 Love and light 🙏❤️🙏
So are you 💯🙌🙏
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It's Beautiful when a man cries and it gives women the freedom to be as emotional as we need to be too
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Thankyou Andrew, for keeping us on track, showing us we are not alone and in giving us hope through this topsy-turvy , good one day bad the next day journey , thankyou
Welcome always 🙌🙏☀️💯
I understand absolutely where your coming from, I thought at times I was going crazy, this video has given me so much hope , thank you Andrew for lifting me up 🙏
Welcome Ann-Marie..💯🙌☀️
I'm so happy for you Andrew I know it was hard it was hard for us as well but we are resilient and stronger people than they will ever be.
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When I first figured out what happened I watched different channels 24/7
When I would go to bed I would leave it on
My new best friends are these channels
I thank you so much I’m glad I found your channel
You cant tell others because they won’t understand plus it’s part of our personal journey
Thank you Rocker Girl 🙏🙌☀️
I was doing every and all channels till I settled here
Not sorry either. I was isolated, still am but learning new skills, how to sleep, how to feel hunger. How to even physically breath because I literally always hold my breath doing everything. Feeling free enough to even have my own email address. LOL!! Still no transport or bank account but I bet you the way I'm feeling now This misery too shall pass. It can only go UP from here..
Crying is thereputic and it’s the only way to heal. I cried for an entire year😩 I had years to process what I went through. It was a Major learning experience of my life. Healing is possible! I’m so happy now and I realize how strong I really am. Thanks so much Andrew💗🙏🤗🌸💪🧘♀️🙌
I haven't cried in years.
Welcome Paula 💯🙌☀️
I find crying very therapeutic also. Whether they are happy or sad tears it helps me to release whatever I am feeling and move forward with my day.
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Healing time takes a lot of time is true! After divorcing a 30 year marriage I was broken but he could never break my soul or my kindness. Now 2 and half years later I am complete and whole. Yes I cried for months to the end. Andrew really nails it of what one goes through. I did do EMDR that really helped and healed my heart. Thanks Andrew for your videos, a blessing
Welcome Chris..🙌🙏☀️
The love I have in my heart for myself and others is what defines me ❤️
Beautiful 🙌☀️🙏
So right We gave now its are turn to give to are selfs
@@davidhodgson5252 I agree David. There is truly no one more deserving of our love then ourselves❤️
To everyone one the Channel let's keep on moving forward guys. Andrew thank you for helping us getting through it.
Always look forward and never look back. The light shines brighter when you make it out of the darkness. ✨
Thank you for sharing this Enwer 🙌💯☀️🙏
I love you too for speaking to us about everything the difference is when you are over the hard work you put in you don't cry anymore about what was I learned to forgive not only the narcissistic people in my family the ones I trusted the most would turn my confiding in them and use it against me but the lesson was and is forgive yourself first of all then the rest comes slowly until you have forgiven them and don't cry anymore when telling people that this happened that's the best part it is like a huge weight came off my shoulders I still battle with things that's why I said I love you too as now I am learning more through your videos and here's the strange part I stumbled upon your video not really looking for anything just browsing and then I started to listen with the intent not to answer but really hear what you saying. You are a beautiful soul and I was lead to you to make more progress in moving forward. Thank you Andrew may God bless you always or the universe or whatever you believe in 🙏🏻❤🙏🏻
Thank you Lesley ❤️☀️🙏
Andrew you are a true gem! Thank you for sharing your story to everyone. When I discarded him I moved in with my sister who also went thru this for 10 yrs. I fell to my knees and looked to Jesus to help me and cried for along time. This shit really hurts!!! I am proud to be in this group. I am almost 6 months out and feeling much better. I hope we can all come together and be friends sharing and caring. Breaking that trauma bond is the hardest thing for me. I give all my love and hugs to you cause you deserve it!! We all do. Never give up and keep Jesus at the forefront and know that Satan will soon be defeated!!!
You are amazing and loved Donna ❤️🙌🙏
Who defines me...ME !!!
That 's it !!!
Me first me second me third!!!
Thanks for your videos!!!
Welcome Lupe 💯🙌☀️
This is Me. This is who ..I am meant to be. Let the light shine down on me. 🎵🎶💪
I'm so glad our path crossed. And together we all go on our recovery path.
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I've been out of the narcissist life now for 8 months, no contact from her for 3 months, my last message between Xmas and New year. Now I'm learning the truth, I'm having a second depression, of sorts, I'm really emotional and cry watching characters on a TV show or film, I've been like this for years but not as bad as the last few weeks of enlightenment. I know I'll get better
Continue on the path..💯🙌🙏
Feel it all good or bad. 💛
Hi Andrew from beautiful Costa Rica, many thanks for your advice. Like you rightly said we were not taught at school to deal with such distorted behaviors. I thought once having read about it will cure me. I was totally wrong. It has taken me an ocean of ears, sleepless nights, physical ache, doubts, hope... I finally realised the toxicity of that man. The tricks he used to keep me under control. It ended with a depression episode. But having thought again and again I decided that this man would not define me as his commodity. The path is not an easy one but I know sun will shine again, that is called HEALING. Merci beaucoup, from Brussels with Love (true Love, universal that a narcissist will never experience)🙏🏽💖🙂
Thank you for sharing this Ginzama..🇧🇪🇨🇷💯💯🙌
Karma
Oh can I relate, with the grief, the loss of ourselves, money, health! The tears flowed sooo easy in the beginning. Now it’s a quick teary eyed thought. We are genuine. I like genuine people but if others don’t, oh well. This is life!
l am grateful for waking up every morning. When I go on walks I count the positive things. I try to find 50 things but I must have ADD because I keep losing count, (smile). It’s a big beautiful world out there and we don’t know how much time we’re given so I try to make every day a good one.
What defines me? It’s something inside myself, knowing that I keep trying to do the best I can.
Love to you too!
Thank you happy harpist 🙏🙌💯
Finding the positivity in all that surrounds helps us heal as we continue to move forward on our healing paths. I love that you focus on your gratitudes when you walk. Live in the moment and appreciate all of the little things💛
I was always called anti-social, I shyed away from people cuz of negative comments & treatment by others. My father is a narcotics, he would say such hurtful things that it be hit at the core in my healing process I am still remembering things he had said (how could I even have for gotten ) because of him & others I always thought there was something wrong with me.....
Through this channel, education, healing I have learned I am a empath, spiritual, a daughter, a mother, a best friend
I think we are all more than we realuze, once the fog is lifted the healing begins, embrace who you are now, who you are becoming........
A BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING
Remember it takes time for a acorn to grow into a mighty oak tree
Give yourself time to heal. Take care....
Beautiful empowerment and growth 🙌🙏🙏💯☀️
Thank you Andrew for taking the time to share your awareness and truth. I am not alone! I'm 2 weeks post relationship for the 3rd time, and have learned so very much to recover. ♥️
Continue on the path..🙌☀️🙏
You have committed fully to yourself and committed to us here on this channel and we appreciate this so much, thank you Andrew. A very open and honest video - beautiful. They are indeed the darkest days being with a narcissist but it takes a true empath to overcome their terror but also to fall into their traps. Educating ourselves is the answer - the answer to a beautiful, strong, healthy and loved future 💙🙏💙
Thank you for sharing this Polly..❤️☀️🙏💯🙌
What does NOT define me: the cell phone (seeking continual external validation from “sources of supply” via text messaging).
What I desire to define me: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (the fruits of the spirit).
Beautiful Raven 💪💯🙏
Beautiful 🕊️
THANK YOU FOR YOUR BRILLIANT POSITIVE COMMENTS
I agree.
Agreed. We define ourselves. Our healing, survival, and our light defines us. Thank you. 🦋
Welcome 🙏
I needed this lesson . Just out of a relationship ..4 friends dying 3 from covid one got killed on Valentine's Day I'm so depressed I appreciate you for sharing your time life and energy..thank you God bless you 🙏 ❤️ I'm fighting to get back to a better place 🙏 and the person from the relationship never ever called to say sorry for my loss.. Like you said in time things won't get better thank you 🙏 ❤️ ❤️
Sending healing energy and strength 💯🙌🙏
Thank you for your prayers 🙏 on my way to work today I lost control of my car and God kept me safe car and Spent around 3 times and landed in the bushes I didn't hit anybody I think God's still be here .. I just been going through .. But This to shall pass 🙏🙏
It is a lonely place post narcissistic relationship and I've a lot of work to do, as it only ended three weeks ago after over 30 years. I worked so hard to keep the relationship going but I now realise, I was the only one contributing while the narc had a very different agenda. I'm so grateful to be listening to these videos and words of wisdom, thank you. We have to step up and become our own best friend and not let ourselves be defined by our narcissistic relationship. This is not who we are - we are bright lights, kind and empathetic human beings and one day we will regain our authentic selves again. It's a process....for as long as it takes......in the pain I feel I'm still that kind person and a precious child of God. That is what defines me! One day I will walk free of this nightmare, we all will heal. Stay strong! We certainly are not alone and thank God for this community. Thank you Andrew.......God bless us all.
Angela, keep moving forward on the path. I understand everything you are feeling. You will heal! It takes a lot of dedication and commitment. You are surrounded by a community that gets it and are never alone. 💛
@@christine11347 thank you so much Christine. Yes since coming across this channel a few weeks ago, I know I'm not alone and that there are other people just like me out there I will keep moving forward on the path to healing. Thank you for reaching out, I appreciate your kindness. I hope you are doing well on your own healing path. God bless you.
@@angelacahill9083 Thank you I am doing great. I get stronger everyday. I am very blessed and I know it. This community is amazing. Andrew selflessly continues to educate and help us all move forward on the healing path. It's a true gift. Have a great day💛
@@christine11347 I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. Yes being a part of this healing community is a real blessing and it's educational and supportive. It really helps us to make sense of what we've experienced. We are all on this healing journey together. We are not alone! We are more than conquerers. We are loved! Our best days are still ahead of us - hold on to your dreams. Have a lovely day - and thanks again.
@@angelacahill9083 Thank you ❤️ Post narscistic abuse recovery you dream big and you turn your dreams into reality. I am stronger and more resilient than ever. Let the challenges keep coming and I will continue to crush them one at a time 💪💪
I have been a child of narcissistic parents and severe neglect.
I relate to your isolation.
Then a husband, then a boyfriend and now my children.
My heart is utterly broken.
My ex husband destroyed my wealth.
$1.1 million worth of real estate.
He was penniless.
The fact my children are narcissists is the end of the line for me.
I need to write a book.
I need help with it though.
Thank You !!!
God Bless You !
Welcome Margaret 🙏💯☀️🙌💪
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
Thank you so much.
I have been on this journey my whole life.
I didn't know what it was.
Yet, there is a healthy level of narcissism, especially in young adults.
But, you witness a tipping point, where, you no longer recognize their soul.
And you realize that these people are entities that are very different people.
It is akin to demonization.
I believe that it is a spiritual phenomenon more so than strictly psychological.
Thank you for understanding and support . ❤️
I am accountable also.
"Psalm 127:1
Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that built it : except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain."
I built the house outside of God's purveyance.
My God exactly 💯 my story and yes want to write my book and I need help to heal ..God bless us
This is one of your most powerful videos and testimonies yet. Really hit home for me. You speak from the heart, from the depth of your experiences, and this can be felt. It is remarkable that you have upheld that commitment to yourself to make videos each and every day, that you have moved beyond those excruciatingly gut wrenching moments and are bringing to light your new understanding. Your consistency, dedication, and courageousness is what has earned you a rapidly growing channel. Thank you for serving us all through your unique insight and through expression of the precious spirit you have!
Welcome Kristien..🙏💯☀️🙌
I wish I could “love” emoji this. The whole narcissistic experience is one thing (we obviously all share). Your continued vulnerability…. that’s a special gift and I want you to know I really appreciate it.
Thank you 🙏🙏
Good morning Andrew! Coming from Staten Island New York. Once again you are 100% correct you have to put in the work if you accept what happened to you I mean this is for your subscribers from my personal experience when you start putting the pieces of your puzzles together you will figure out why it happened and if you accept it in a good way in a positive way you could overcome so many obstacles for me you have to be consistent if you have to write it down on a piece of paper make it all positive if you're an empath like me and Andrew you could get through this even better than the first version of yourself!!! I promise to all your subscribers put in the work you will get better and stronger healthier you name it if it's positive you will get there!!! Okay Andrew looking forward to your next video you have amazing knowledge you really do God bless you!!!🙏💯🙌💛💪💯⭐🙏
Thank you Giuseppe 🙏🙌☀️💯❤️☀️💪
When you love them with all you have and you discover they hate you. 🤷🏻♀️
Thank you for sharing 💯🙏🙌
Andrew, you're such a beacon of light, one day I'll share my story here, after 29 years with a covert, I've just came out of a traumatic 2 year discard when I called her out in 2020, her mask dropped completely and she threw the kitchen sink at me, I can't believe what I just went through and how far she went, she got the house and our three beautiful kids, everything you say completely resonates.
Beautiful message HipStar.. I appreciate your kindness and honesty 💯💪🙏
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone ❤
Andrew-everything you speak of is so spot on..20 years and walked away from a covert narc…day by day..step by step..I am too valuable to endure anymore emotional abuse! I’m taking my power back.. the smear campaign is absolutely mind blowing.. lean on family and close friends!
Thank you for sharing this Jennifer 🙌🙏☀️
This video has given me strength to try another day. Each day I get up and try to be positive but as my day goes on I falter. I am so tired.
Thank you Andrew for being there for us. God Bless
Welcome Tony.. you are on the path.. and doing great..🙌☀️🙏💯🙏
I am still so hurt and things are so fresh. I gave so much and got treated the worst. I do have a lot of work to do and need to heal from this. I know that I am a beautiful person, he made me feel like I wasn’t. I’m waiting to sincerely smile again. You help me start on the path of healing daily.
You will smile again. You'll laugh and have joy again. He me told to my face on my birthday that he knew he and his son abused me but that he did it because he saw no worth or value in me. He didn't mind using me though. They destroyed me with their smear campaign. People are afraid to be seen talking to me because of the horrible lies. Narcissists are experts at devaluing you, destroying your confidence and making you feel unimportant. But you are important. And you do matter. You deserve a good, long, healthy, happy and fulfilled life. It will come. He wouldn't have been with you if you weren't someone special because they like to have the best for appearances. I think they see us as easy targets because we are compassionate, helpful, kind and forgiving people and they take advantage of us. They also seek to rob you of all that and destroy you because you have what they don't have and the jealousy eats them up. I know you'll come through this. Your heart will heal and you will find Joy again. It doesn't seem like it but it will happen.
Sending strength and healing energy 🙌☀️☀️
@@donnahazlett7305 Thank you 🙏🏾
Andrew, I start and end each day with you. I've seen all your videos and your amazing growth. When you tell us where you were just a year ago, it resonates. This year was the rockiest road I ever walked. I still stumble but don't fall. My Dark Night was a deep descent that rocked my soul. My friends, you will get through it, I promise. Just stay tuned and the miracle will come.
Thank you for sharing this Susan 🙏🙏
Just thank you.. I don’t where I would be right now if it wasn’t for your channel. Sending love right back at you. Keep on going Andrew. Thank you for keeping us strong during our weakest times✨
We find our greatest strength in our weakest moments along the healing path 🙏💪🕊️
Thank you Cornish..🙏🙌☀️💯
Every single word you have said is how I have felt. Thoughts I have had. Thank you for the respite.
Welcome Clt..🙏🙌💯
Recovery is like grief...it is not linear. It's like the waves of the ocean. One day I am okay and another I am a mess. I still cry every day. I also still feel anger and fear. But I've learned SO much and will continue to learn something new everyday. Your videos inspire me and so do so many of the other people here when I read their comments. I am not out of the woods. But I can see the light at the end of the tunnel and it is not the headlights of a train....it is sunshine. p.s. I have remained no contact and for that I feel proud of myself.
Beautiful progress and growth Anita..🙏💯🙌
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thanks for the encouraging kind words, Andrew!
The grace that God has instilled in me is what defines me now Andrew after coming out of the fire !! My work and education will not be in vain !! I came through this program and your videos in the fight of my sanity !! Today is a beautiful blessed day 💞🌺 💪🙌👌🙏
Beautiful Candida 🙏🙌💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 👌😊🙏
I am a fixer too, but I had thought I had grown enough to not do that anymore. I ignored 🙁 😔 the signs of abuse because they were not as evident as past abuse. I gave to the narcissist more than I thought I ever would. I am looking into what I gave so that I can recover my self again. Thanks 😊 Andrew for sharing and I truly appreciate you!
Welcome Debbie 🙏🙌💯
I had a moment of weakness this evening and got into an argument with my narcissistic enabler parent. As per usual, I was left feeling angry and completely invalidated. I'm incredibly grateful for this community - even though we are all physically apart, knowing that there are others out there who have survived and understand narcissistic abuse gives me a sense of camaraderie.
Thank you for sharing this Ashley 🙌🙏💯
Ashley, I even had to cut my own mom out of my life. She is the ultimate narcissist & I understand today why I unknowingly ended up in a seven year transaction with a malignant covert passive aggressive narcissist - of course, it felt right, it felt like being at home...no way. We now create our own reality & do not have others define who we are💫
@@carol-xk3lq I can definitely relate. I was in a six year transaction with a narcissist myself. I'm still young, but I fear that I may eventually have to cut my parents out of my life for the sake of my sanity and healing. Thank you for the kind words and best of luck to you!
@@swanam_1 possibly you do not have to cut them out for good, but make sure to go gray rock. Do not give them surface to attack. Smile, say "whatever" when they provoke, snuggle yourself in, with an imaginary lightbubble or with a good perfume scent & let their darkness be swallowed by your honest cheerful light. Good luck from here to there💫
Wow. You really understand. Thank you so much.
Welcome 🙏
Even after 2 years still going thru times thinking about 38 years I dealed with it. Now getting educated and going to heal .I am not sick anymore and get stronger every day got goals again after loosing everything.new home new job soon retire and live life to the fullest.hope that divorce goes in my favor. I am strong now and will go to the end.thank you Andrew
Welcome Elke..🙏🙌☀️
Stay strong Elke💪 You're doing great. Sending prayers that your divorce goes smoothly.🙏
Andrew, we are all proud of you… for all the work you did with yourself to go out from the tunnel🎆… You’re an exemple for all of us .Thank you again for opening your heart and educating us 🙏😊Wish you a beautiful peaceful weekend ☀️🌈
Thank you Laetitia ❤️🙏☀️💯
Wow this really speaks to me in this moment! I needed to be reminded that I am not where I was, I have more education, I have a deeper understanding , I’ve spent this past year trying to keep looking forward with hope! Your message today was the inspiration I needed to trust the healing process, deep feelings…. Keep going on my time! Thank you for shining the light on your journey to encourage others!! One foot forward, another day towards hope and healing🙏
🙏Amen
Welcome Donna 💯🙏🙌
It takes years to recover from our ex narcs, but take that time to stay out of relationships so you can heal. For a lot of us, while healing from our narc marriages/relationships we discover that our parents were narcs too. Tack on even more time to recover from that too. I’m discovering what I like, and what I want to do in a day. There’s no need for codependency. I have the Lord, and my dog, and they are all I need. :)
🙏 Amen. Take time to heal and discover who you were, are, and meant to be. The journey is long and full of emotion. It is so worth it though and completely transformational. Stay blessed and keep moving forward 🙏💪🕊️✨💛
Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌
I adore your intro: think about that for a minute. I always pause and do that. Your channel is helping so many, I am sure, focus inward on ourselves in a safe space where-finally!-we are allowed to do so ❤️Thx sm, Andrew!
Welcome The Kellers 🙏🙌💯
My narc ex would disappear and I wouldn't know why. I would call him and his phone eventually went to voicemail for days till eventually I gave up. I wondered if he was ok. Then he would bombard me with calls out of clear blue sky. When talking to him he accused me of never calling or leaving messages and would try to convince him I did, thinking I would show him my phone when I saw him again, to prove it. Talking to him was exhausting and pointless! I wondering how he could be so thoughtless. I went through that many times and finally woke up. I considered going through the pain of going no contact with him versus life long suffering. The irony is that it takes so long to get out of those relationships because I understand now the process of trauma bonding. For the rest of my life I'll have to keep abreast to educating myself, but gladly to fortify myself in protecting myself from these predators. Definitely, it takes a lot of courage to get out of the cycle of abuse. I applaud you for raising awareness.
Kick him to the curb. He is a waste of your time and energy.
Thank you for sharing this Barbara 💯🙏☀️
@@kimalonzo3363 I haven't seen ex for a year now. Best thing I ever did was go no contact. Although it was difficult to do that eventually did it by seeing less and less of him. I wanted out a long time ago, but he wouldn't let me go.
I would add health issues to this:
While working on my undergraduate degrees, I had beautiful nails, always kept them polished. They were flexible yet strong. I've always worn my hair long... it's always been thick & easily manageable, held a curl well.
While with the narc, I took note of how weak my nails were getting, developed ridges & started peeling & cracking. My hair slowly got dry, brittle, frizzy, split ends, all of which I never had before.
Nothing I did to try & mitigate the downward spiral of either nails or hair did any good... They both deteriorated right before my eyes. It wasn't until about 2 months after the narc left, that my Dr explained that my hair & nails were early warning signs of an overloaded central nervous system. I wasn't sleeping nor eating properly, nor was I doing anything to calm the stress driving the overload. The evidence my body was giving me I didn't recognize until the damage was beyond scalp & nail bed deep.
My hair is slowly returning to its original luster. The manageability has returned, the frizz & split ends are gone...the thickness is slower to rebound but making progress.
My nails have come back BETTER than they EVER were!!! I can wear polish again...with pride!!!... I took back a part of me!!! They stopped peeling & although I still get an occasional crack(the result of grabbing something the wrong way), the plates & beds regrow the length quickly. It took research to develop a protocol to nurture them & the process worked!!! I've applied the same approach to my hair & that is making a bigger difference too.
While the best revenge IS good living, healing the damage inside & out makes that good living GLOW... a vivid difference!!!💞🖤
Narscistic abuse takes a toll on you mentally, physically and spiritually. By removing the toxicity, your body, mind and spirit can begin to heal. My health has had a complete turn around also. Self care is so important as you move forward on your healing path. You're doing great 💛
Beautiful message of healing and inspiration 💯🙌☀️🙏
@@christine11347 Something that narc loved to deliberately try to sabotage & STILL gaslights me over is the wildlife rehab hospital I started in '95- 2 yrs before they showed up on the scene!!! I channel my intuitive empathic capabilities where they can do the most good. Animals don't lie. Hand-feeding a hawk too weak to feed itself would enrage that fool: I ignored them & paid attention to a hawk!!! Sick & totally juvenile!!! That hawk, like hundreds of other animals, got released, no thanks to the narc... BUT IT'S ALL THOSE SUCCESS cases that kept me going through my "dark months of the soul(never mind dark night!!!). I had repeatedly proven that my intuition & intellect to tailor a treatment protocol was laser on point...something the narc still twists & LIES ABOUT to this day. What MATTERS is the animal got better & GOT RELEASED... NOT any bullshit claims by a covert narc!!!
Helping others...making a true difference in their lives... Is what really accelerates our healing process, because it validates our worth to ourselves in quiet ways that MATTER...to the recipients and to us...💞🖤
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Read my comment to Christine: it says alot about you too, Andrew...💞🖤
@@catherinerhea6336I agree with you 💯 Catherine. God bless you that you are helping rehabilitate these rescue animals in need. By sharing your passions you are truly able to live out your purpose. Stay strong. You're doing great one success at a time. 💯💪✨
Thank you for your vulnerability. It really helps us to understand that we are truly not alone.
Welcome always 💯🙌🙏
You are incredibly strong Andrew, just like all of the people here sharing stories. Your work is helping so many of us. Thank you~
Welcome always 🙌💯💯
This is a beautiful video thank you so much. Post narsscasist relationship I also died and against all the odds I came back had to process this too. For me life is so precious and during my time here, I help myself and also other beings who are experiencing difficulties if this is what they want. I don't wish for things that have already happened and instead accept myself now and also my historical past. My biggest wish is that this world becomes a better place. Whilst the narsscasist is polluting this world with their negative energy the rest of us as a collective have the potential to rise above adversity and have a happy and forfilling life. Narsscasists and their monkey brain agents do need to be held accountable and whilst on the healing path the primary concern should be thyself. Thank you for being such an inspiration in this world and may you always be blessed.
Thank you Jean 🙏💯☀️
Thanks for the inspiring message Andrew! I've been out for a little while now and you are so right! To those on the channel who are still in the midst of the narcissist hurricane and abuse cycle, just know that you need to save yourself, just as you would if you were in an actual storm of that magnitude. Do everything you can to believe in yourself and as Andrew mentioned, surround yourself with positivity and positive, like-minded people. Just like in a hurricane, when you board up your place of shelter and protect yourself, that's what you do. The storm will pass. Some are stronger and more long lasting than others, but there is calm and peace when it starts to subside. ⛈🌀🔜🌅🌞
Welcome K Max..🙌💯☀️
I have moved on & enjoyed my life & I'm getting stronger & am getting even stronger due to you being here with all your videos & every one comments here . thank you all . Wish you all have a wonderful blessed day
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Andrew, thank you so much for your message on healing and moving on. For me, it was incredibly timely. My Jekyll and Hyde boyfriend just ended our relationship recently after a tumultuous weekend of going from sweet and kind to cold, critical and emotionally abusive. I never gave up hope. But I now know it has ended and your posts are giving me the spiritual and emotional uplifting and encouragement that I need. Thank you again for your selfless giving and service to those of us who are hurting from narcissistic abuse. Be blessed. ❤️😇
Pamela, accepting that you are in an unhealthy relationship is the first step to putting an end to abuse and allowing the healing to begin. Education is key to understanding what has happened to you. Sending you prayers of peace and strength as you begin your journey. 🙏💪🕊️
@@christine11347 Christine, thank you so much for taking the time to encourage and uplift. What I am learning about my ex is that he is incredibly vindictive, angry and incapable of feeling the hurt of others. Definitely someone I’d never trust. Thanks again and be blessed today! ❤️
@@pamelamuench4900 I understand and agree 💯 I was thinking of how untrustworthy narcs are this morning. Completely oblivious, self absorbed and selfish. It is heartbreaking that even when people see this they accept it and stay with them for their personal own reasons . Every situation is unique and I pray for everyone in this no win situation. I am happy you are moving forward and know your worth. Stay blessed and free💛
@@christine11347 Thanks for your kindness and for taking the time to care. ❤️
@@pamelamuench4900 Always 💛 It helps keep me grounded also. When I see these narcs in action it's awful. Thankfully they stay away from me now. I have ZERO tolerance for any of them. Education is the greatest gift you can give yourself to ensure you do not get involved with a narc again in the future. Stay strong and keep moving forward. You are doing great! 💛
Thank you for all of your videos. You are so encouraging and I love your uplifting messages! You are right - in time we need to learn to forgive ourselves to heal.
Welcome Maur..🙏🙌💯
Forgiveness is the best gift we can give ourselves to be able to move forward on the healing path.💛
I know better now from the last two months. I'm still in the relationship because of my kids. I need to protect them with knowledge and empowerment. Thank you for the videos.
Welcome 💯🙌💪
I am newly post no contact, and yes it's hard but with videos like yours and great books like "Becoming The Narcissists Nightmare" are really helping me. Thx Andrew 👍👍👍❤
Welcome always 🙌☀️🙏
The amount of tears I have cried during the 15 plus years with the narc can probably fill up an ocean. My eyes were always puffy those days and I hide my face with my hair. He was so insensitive to my tears that I stopped showing him that he made me cry.
Sending prayers and positive energy ..💪🙌🙌
When my wife left me for another guy 16 years ago, I didn't miss her...but I still hated being alone...sleeping alone. I was much more torn up by the death of my 16 year old cat (kidney failure) because we had a really sweet bond. I still miss him. There are "Divorce Care" programs available here in the U.S.A. often held at various churches from time to time...and they try to put things in a Biblical perspective, but often leave out what good things there are about marriage and what it's like to be married to a very loving partner. Most of us who attended these weekly meetings were empaths who were feeling down and out about divorce and having difficulty processing it. Their main point was to take time to reinvent ourselves...to take up new interests, to stop going to the same places and restaurants where we used to frequent while married, to take our mind off of who we were and what our role was in the old relationship. I threw myself into workaholic mode in my window cleaning business and lost 20 pounds...wondering if I was going to earn enough to afford to keep the house with my own money once she moved out. It was an anxious time for sure !! Never did the word "narcissism" come up in the Divorce Care classes...as this was 15 years ago and TH-cam was just barely up and running at that time and I hadn't even gotten an account on here till a bit later so I could watch music videos...no narcissism recovery content was available. So, ideally, I just wanted an average life...a happy marriage, a couple kids, no divorce...not being stressed with negative dramas. I guess you can't always get what you want. I suppose if I'm supposed to move on and get involved in another relationship, it's VERY important to know what to watch out for...and to truly appreciate someone else who does NOT have a personality disorder. It's been a lot to process this past year...recognizing the narc's playbook and realizing how many others have come in and out of my life who were also narcs. I feel ashamed that I let them get close to me...as if they were whiskey bottles that needed to be avoided and here we are on a daily basis trying not to get caught up in their snares...staying vigilant. I do think we need reminded daily of this warfare. Thank you for all you do to make this possible for us ! I never imagined I'd be part of a narc abuse recovery group...but here we are. I'd like to think that many of us won't let our narc experiences define who we are...I mean...there are a lot of other interests we can develop...sad to find out there isn't a local mini bike club for me to join up with...but there are many other interests we can throw ourselves into and live a more fulfilling life.
I understand how you feel. Education is so important to help you put the past in the past and know what red flags to look out for in the future. Don't let your experience in the narc relationship rob you of the joys and happiness of the present and future. The light is bright. Surround yourself with people who build you up🙏✨💪🕊️💛
Thank you for sharing this beautiful insight Old Boy.. I appreciate your kindness and honesty..sincerely..🙌🙏☀️💯
Hang on there, for a long time I blamed myself when I was abused by the Narc.Now I'm free and healing one step at a time
it was not easy for me for 1st two weeks but I keep doing my meditation day and night ... Do my yoga practice no matter how I feel.. I attached to the nature everyday..BINGO its almost a month my ex narc bf left me for no reason I feel so good now.. GOD IS GREAT 👍
Beautiful Maricel..🙏💯☀️
I have been watching you for about 4 months now and I think that you have healed a lot it gives me encouragement to know that I can get so much stronger than what I still am today I truly appreciate your dedication to helping people You're such a sweet human being I only wish the best for you
Thank you Ruth..💯🙏🙌
This is a good one Andrew everything you said has happened to me and more ..
My regret is I could’ve stopped it earlier I knew something wasn’t right but I took it for eight years . I am a little mad at myself but I resent him . I was discarded 4+ months ago in a unexpected and cruel way .
The first month of his departure I can only describe it as misery.
But with you and the community and time I’m starting to see the light again .
He has tried to Hoover a few times but I could never go back there . I have said this before, if you don’t like the effects don’t produce the cause . IM WiNNING ! But a monopoly I wish I never would have played ! Namaste 🙏🏻
My God and my daughter and myself defines me ..
Awesome
Namaste 🙏 ❤️😊
Vicky do not fall for the hoovertrap - they all learn from the same book, will not change, keep on lying & destroying. Protect yourself & your child & move on into a better future where the light will conquer the darkness💫
Once you leave lock the door on the past tight. The narc has no place in your present. You and your daughter deserve peace and happiness as you move forward together to build a new beautiful narc free life. You are doing great! 🙏✨🕊️💪💛
@@carol-xk3lq my ex narc is trying to Hoover because he wants to use some of my land to plant a garden probably sometime in March, I know this I know what he’s up to and I know that’s his passion . No matter what he says or does it is not going to happen. I have no desire to see or talk to him ever again .. he is and has been nothing but pain ..
Thank you Andrew. Always very uplifting to hear your videos.
Welcome Barbara 💯🙏🙌
Hi Andrew, the Did Happen to me too! Healing that. I understood that a few weeks ago. I was 13.
Sending healing energy and strength 💯🙌☀️
It’s almost been a blessing to have the world ‘isolating’ in 2020-> with Covid19 bc it gave those of us processing & healing loads of time where no one noticed or thought it odd we were self-isolating to do our inner work 😉
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Learned helplessness I experienced. Slowly I'm doing cooking better food.
I lost a decade without knowing what was happening... that shit gaslighted me and stalked me in every way possible and all sorts of emotional abuse with authorities watching and doing NOTHING to stop the beast against me
Sending healing energy and strength 🙏💯🙌
Andrew, I just wanted to let you know that your videos have been very helpful for me during my divorce. After educating myself I realized that he is a malignant psycopath narcissist, I went through the biggest fight of my life divorcing him, 20 months of fighting in court, $85k in court fees, no child support, it was worth every penny for the peaceful life me and the kids now have. I feel that this has been one heck of a journey, my ex narc has ghosted us 4 months ago and we couldn't be happier about that. Now everything is final, I got my name back, I'm going back to school, buying a home, living in a new beautiful community with a wonderful church, getting closer to the Lord! I'm going to unsubscribe now because I don't want to keep spending time watching narc videos and focus more on me, my kids, and those that truly love me. I feel the need to say Goodbye and Thank you for educating me. God Bless you Angel 😇 keep doing the Lords work, I know you're blessing many as you blessed me. You're a Beautiful soul!
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Welcome always Laura..💯🙌🙏☀️😊
Thank you Andrew. 🙏🏼
Welcome Jmnicole..💯🙌🙏
I'm thankful for you...being able to cry and to grieve is a strength...
Thank you so much Andrew 🙏🏻❤️ this is Beautiful , you are such an amazing man 🙌🏻 Ly ❤️
Thank you 💯🙌☀️🙏
Beautiful video ❤️ Special and heartfelt. A true blessing👏🙌✨
I went to Costa Rica to heal last year for a few months. I shouldn't have left. It's definitely the best place to slow down and process.
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So grateful for this channel. ✨❤️🩹✨
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Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability.
Welcome 🙏
✨I LOVE YOU ANDREW! Bless you and THANK YOU for serving the world! ✨🕊💕 What a road! Stories like ours were only something you'd see on TV! Not ever reality! Is this a new thing or are we all just now getting the LANGUAGE to handle and HEAL from it? NARCISSISM needs to be taught from the 1st grade on! Make these narcs RUN FOR COVER! Adapt or else.
COST ME LITERALLY MILLIONS! I've been surrounded by them since my first breath. SO exhausting.
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Exactly why I watch videos here and elsewhere, to continue to hone my skills, increase my knowledge and understanding ( almost 7 years into my education and I still get lightbulb moments 😁) and support others who feel stuck and lost. 🙏
It's amazing how the lightbulb moments continue to come when you least expect them.💡💛
@@christine11347 Indeed t is. Or in more recent UK slang terms, init! Everyday is a schoolday 🙏
@@petedevlin3077 You learn something new every day 👍
Thank you Pete..🙏🙌☀️💯
Recovering from the a narcissistic relationship was very difficult and took a long time. We walked on ashes , we experienced the dark night of the soul and now we healed after realy hard working on ourselves .
Beautiful tamador 💯🙌☀️
You commitment is outstanding to help us. Life goes on after the narc. Rising from the ashes after my experienced and the most empowermentI have ever experienced.. I found my tribe. bless you Andrew
Thank you Kerry..🙏🙌☀️💯
Thanks again. 💓
Welcome 🙏
Got goosebumps. I'm part of the Tribe and very proud to be so. We are all connected through our experiences. Thank you Andrew for your strength & understanding. Namaste 👣
Welcome 🙌🙏☀️
I do know what you are talking about…
You have a beautiful soul.
Thank you.
Thank you Deana 🙏🙏
It takes lots and lots of courage to be open, direct and vunerable the way you are, Andrew..omg..this just hit me so hard..you are an extraordinary person..words are not enough..❤❤❤ what you just did..most of the people would not dare..you have such a big big heart and we all love you for it. Be strong and take care 🍀🌹
Thank you for this beautiful message Idunn..🙏🙌💯
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I will try to make a joke..I hope it's not over the top..
Next time I run into narc, I just might ask: "Plata o plomo?" 😃😃😃
Thank you for your daily support...and sharing your personal journey of depression to healing. It is really helpful and hopeful
Welcome 🙌🙏☀️
Thank you Andrew. Great message!
Thank you Straddlin..🙏🙌☀️
Hello Andrew, thank you for sharing and thank you for doing this. Leading us out of the dark, providing a light.
Welcome Sally..💯🙌☀️
Continue to shine your light. You are a true blessing ✨💛☀️
Yes Being positive encouraged supporting loving forgiving seeking growth & maturity & wisdom Amen ❤I have come to really Love 💕 you Andrew Brotherly Love 💕 God bless you. ❤
Thanks, Andrew! ☀ Unbeknownst to us, the other person was never participating; therefore, it was a non-opportunity. Hence, the only reasonable option is to see what is left and to begin the building/rebuilding process from that point. Additionally, thanks for sending out the much-appreciated and healing love.
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Welcome always Karen 💯🙌🙏
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🎶 🕯 🎶
I pray that I can help as many people as I possibly can and get the word out about these nasty people. A lot won't listen.
Do it regardless.
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I am an empath and I really didn't know that I realized that after my divorce I was given messages to total strangers I was pushed into telling the person it will be ok and this person just burst into tears and said thank you 🙏🏻❤🙏🏻 understand exactly what you went through by not wanting to be seen or get out of bed cried and cried I couldn't understand what I had done wrong and as you say let it out get it out slowly the light at the end of the tunnel was getting nearer and nearer but even now I have to push myself to get up and go out but I do eventually get out 🙏🏻❤🙏🏻
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Thank you for sharing this 🙌🙏☀️💯
So grateful to have you here...and I think I may, hopoefully,speak for 'ALL' of us. You are handing us Life Lines and I, for one,thank you most sincerely. You have rebuilt yourself...and shown us all that 'it can be done'. We did NOT 'imagine' the horrors...it was REAL...with your help, we have surpassed and survived them. Thank you again, much LOVE xo
God Bless!!
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Truly empowering Andrew x I wish more men would get in touch with their emotions as were all human x I had dark nights of the soul too x I blamed myself and some of it was my fault and my behaviour and understood why I was behaving that way x it was so tough to realise my part in it x I forgive myself and others and hold onto my goodness with better insight now x Thankyou Andrew x
Welcome always 💯🙏☀️
Thank you Andrew for your transparency and honesty. You are a great encouragement. Your videos have helped me understand what I have experienced. I am thankful for you. God bless you.
Welcome always Libby..🙌☀️🙏💯