I just took myself back in 11/14/2024. Packed my bags, took myself, daughter, cat and dog and walked away in silence with my head held high! No contact since. FREEDOM! Thank you Andrew!
Just wanted to share something i heard yesterday....when the devil couldn't take you down he sent a narcissist ❤❤❤❤ thank you Andrew for understanding and caring..😊
My light bulb moment came one month after he discarded me. I had gone full no contact the entire time. Since I make friends easily, I found a new (and sober) social scene. He must have sensed I was feeling better and sent me a text that read "Long time no see, hope you're well." As I read it, I saw it as a basic temperament check and felt certain that he does NOT hope I'm well. I had finally figured it out! At that moment, I knew 100% that I WAS well and healing. Needless to say, I ignored the hoover. 😊
It's so creepy how they know when to do a heat-check hoover. After financially abusing me for decades, I finally cut my malignant narcissistic relative off. My husband and I had just started becoming financially stable again, and so I made a donation to a local food bank. That same day, after MONTHS of nothing, my mother tried to hoover me through my father's sister -- whom she has hated all my life. It was the only person I haven't blocked yet. How did she even KNOW????? It's creepy as heck. She didn't hoover on my kids' birthdays. She didn't hoover on Thanksgiving. She only hoovered when I gave MONEY TO SOMEONE OTHER THAN HER. It's creepy as heck.
My ex had me so mixed up ! I went to get therapy and discovered that my ex is a psychopath and toxic and I was not safe with him anymore! That woke me up and I couldn’t pack my bags fast enough, he was shocked I wanted out. He thought we were happy! Gone after 24 years
My mother in law is living with him and I certainly have been wondering what she knew all along. He told me he was giving his mother crap like he was realizing how he treated me. I love all your videos and they’re my stability to keep going and stay “no contact.” I miss being married and I wish I was right now but with someone who could actually love me.
Same. 18 years with what I would describe as a malignant narcissist with many psychopathic traits. I asked my then husband to go to couples therapy and he refused so I went to therapy on my own. When I got help and was validated was when I realised. My lightbulb moment. I started reading about narcissism and psychopathy, and listening to videos on TH-cam. This was 10+ years ago. I basically stopped listening to videos and studying personality disorders years ago but when I stumbled on Andrew's channel I started listening and I find that I still benefit from being in contact with others who've experienced the same. Nobody else will ever understand. So now I'm here every day.
If you’re alone today at Christmas, you’re already winning! Stay strong and savour the peace as it could’ve been another nightmare had you of stayed. Remember nothing you did was your fault. You were scapegoated and set up, blamed for everything! Lots of love Andrew! Thank you for being everyone’s best Christmas present ever! 🎄❤️🎄❤️
It's crazy, I watch these videos and they describe my ex to a T! It breaks my heart to believe people are allowed to do this to others. If I were taught about this 25 years ago my life would be so different! Thank you Andrew!
My older sister is highly narcissistic ...she is now 56 me 52 and she hasn't changed one bit :( we' don't talk anymore... it hurts but I am so over all narcs.
We're all spiritual warriors, as the hawk is there to remind us to celebrate our resilience and how far we've come. Beautiful message today Andrew. 💜🦅✨️
Mic Drop: When the narcissist says, "Wow, I didn't think you were that strong." They are really acknowledging how strong you have become and that they underestimated you.
Scary isn't it! "You're very resilient, I'll give you that" or "I didn't expect you to react like that" is what I got in the last few weeks of my Five year journey into hell. They will implode spectacularly one day - I'll be ascending higher than ever before...
I didn't have much of a choice after finding the education. Either I keep on doing the dog paddle in that contaminated, toxic pond...or pull myself out, out out!
@andreabill7719 Ikr. when I left a narc the narc said to me "You're so strong". I wanted to say to the narc "damn right I'm strong you effing narc and you are not winning this one, and you're (the narc) just a pathetic, disgusting evil creature, and the good news is that I am out of here but YOU (the narc), you're stuck with your own miserable pathetic little self." yep, that's what I wanted to say but of course I didn't say anything, i just got the heck out and no contact forever with that evil monster! I've learned there's a lot of power in not saying anything to the narc, and narcs hate it when you don't let them know what you're thinking or feeling.
Dear reader believe this man And save your time and energy Nothing improve with them it only get worse If you go back you might feel worse Seal the block do not deal with these creatures Or their flying monkeys Force your boundaries and if you're highly skilled worker and have good amount of money just think about relocate yes , staying in environment that keep trigger you won't bring you peace Dust your old self heal and embrace your new version Good luck for everyone .
The misery you feel with them isn't half the misery you feel without them at first. But the misery you feel without them....goes away. The misery you feel with them is forever.
Your analysis is always spot on Andrew, the last time our children spoke to their dad. He said something about how i managed to come out of the break up so well. I didnt, i came out of hellhole literally by the skin of my teeth but i gave him the impression that i was doing well. I didnt want to give him the satisfaction that he destroyed me. Im healing now. Thank you Andrew your videos are supportive and helpful❤
I’m nearly at the pinnacle. I am different I’ve learnt so much. I’ve been through hell. I had a downer because I’m Alone at Christmas but it’s much nicer than being with a Narcissist and the feeling of getting stronger is so much nicer.
I realised nobody was going to save me from my Narcassist. I had to do it myself. It took all my strength to leave him on that day. It was the 4th of July which was the day my husband had died 3 half years ago and Independence Day. It was the best thing I could have done. I thought I was going to be spending the rest of my life with him. I’ve never been so sad but I had to do it. It sounds like a tragic film but it’s real.
Be proud of yourself for working through all of the challenges. Always remember that you come first in your future. The sadness does lift, and we find that we have changed. It takes time to learn to recognize our new self. It is amazing at how heavy sadness can feel. I used to time the parts of the day when I felt grief. I found that it needed to be felt, but was also not good for my health. I learned to limit it to twenty minutes...for real. Whatever it takes to heal. Again, be proud of yourself.
I'm just a woman who had a baby with the narcissist, and it still stings. He pulled the rug, laughed at me, and moved on with the new supply. Disbelief that someone could do this when claiming they love and care for you. I'm totally changed forever. I gray rock while co-parenting and continue to heal and educate myself.
The difference is clear ,...as empaths we just want to be loved and valued , whereas a narcissist just wants to be important and feared , they simply don't care whether they are loved or not !! HAPPY XMAS , ANDREW !!! ⛄🎄❤️
We have all had various degrees of chaos, disappointment, grief, violence. May we all take some time in this "season" to let go, have some fun. Maybe some carols in the background, a fun Christmas movie, some baking, etc.... Hugs Andrew and all here! 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄 ❣️
36 yrs before the rug was pulled. Never will trust anyone fully again. I got the best though-my family. He’s now with his “new” supply and family and lives 4 hrs away. Good riddance!
I am so happy that the nightmare ended in 2005. Years of hoovering. I didn't get the education until 2022. I had no idea what any of this was. I am so glad that during his hoovered I didn't go back to him. Being by myself is so peaceful. Thank you so much for this kind education. He fell asleep in death in 2023. There is much more to this but I put enough here
Saying NO, is by far, one of the most powerful acts anyone will do for their own well-being. When you say NO, be prepared as you're overcoming and breaking free from the lifetime of brainwash. You will disappoint others and will learn " it is what it is". And come to a point where you feel like you just don't care. What that really reflects is that you are caring for yourself FIRST...no need for guilt or sorrow. You really can't please all the people all the time!😂🎉
I don’t feel sorry for them. They had a choice to be a decent person but they never chose that road. Yes two narcissistic marriages took and took from me, but I am very glad to say no more. Make a plan to get out, this wisdom is the most important advice you will ever hear. Merry Christmas everybody! The truth will set you free!❤😊🎄
I won't start a rant on this one because everyone who's been through this and watches this channel we just get it. If you're new here? Andrew is such a blessing and this will help you. Go back and watch other videos! (OK mini rant) 🙏
I heard this one once: "You said you were going to get rid of me but you still haven't done it yet." That was it. I filed the next day for the big "D".
I remember at Christmas time my x could decorate the house like you couldn’t believe! The hot chocolate stuff on little tables and lots of little hand foods decorated impeccable! It would look like Santa’s team of 50 elf’s cooked a Christmas banquet I was in awe of how amazing she could turn the house into a white Christmas Santa himself would be in awe of! Now I get it though. (Everything is a production a show, and they are masters at the show) That’s why a relationship with a narcissist is so devastating their whole lives are about a fantasy and selling the fantasy. They are like cocaine or crack or something. If you don’t get away you will eventually find yourself in a homeless shack in a corner of the room hoping for another hit off the narc pipe .
Yep, you got it right. Everything is for show and getting attention. It's the attention they want and everybody praising them for what they've done, and the narc just sucks up all that supply. Disgusting narcs.
that’s it, I thought crazy people were put into a Psych Center thus is why I never expected there were any crazy people in my Neighborhood when I was a kid. Just happened so, the older crazy person who lived across the street that I married at 18 tried to drive me crazy for years and make me believe it was me, he lied, had many other sources of supply, etc. My jewelry was missing, my favorite items or items co-workers gave to me missing too. Per him I was to go to work, be home directly after work, take care of everything including. his business books, our kids, cook a full meal oh & I couldn’t have Friends). I had no idea there were crazy people walking around (e.g. my NarcHusband) called Narcissists. He passed away 5 mos ago tomorrow Christmas Day. (we were married 54 yrs). If you are not free from the Narc in your lives I pray you have a plan and get away from them asap and begin healing. Stay safe and strong!! Know you are stronger than you think! ❤🌲
Wow Andrew you absolutely nailed it in this one I'm glad I was able to see it. This was me once upon a time but I was able to get away and once I did I never looked back
When we moved into the new house and his father died. Mom and son are narcs. Yep that was exactly what happened to me. I did see the mask slip I agree. But I believe I am a high level Light-worker - I am so so so very strong now. My soul came to get this strong
Just a word of thanks Andrew, your strength is amazing because you are sincere. I found you just in time last year. i'm still healing and trying to understand but no contact works best for me. Just wanted to show my gratitude! Have a good one!
It's because they're so used to getting their way. Get away from the concept that they're to be trusted when they're not. They must earn our trust. Talk us cheap. Be cheap right back at them. A friend of many is an enemy of themselves.
Yes. That's true. Just two years ago I went through the very thing you are talking about. He is trying to come back. I will never go back. He's trying to keep the communication open. I close the door tight. He calls me Baby now. No!!! He can't come back ever. Has gone No Contact. He took that from me but I have put myself back together. "But God"
Merry Christmas and good will to all. Yes they will place into so much shame, until you will be too ashamed to share it all with anyone (we have all been there). So we understand the relentless disrespect and the endless shame. However we got you, we know many roads, we know many tears and will support you here. I've been following Andrew for years because what he will tell you, will always matter because I'm still a caring person, dealing with narcs ( lambs amongst wolves).
A peaceful holiday with friends and family,he went to visit his family and I’m never invited ,but peacefulness is mine,Merry Xmas Eve Everyone,have a great evening😎
I'm home alone. Remembering good times and bad. I'm ok with that. Took a long time. I did make a huge mistake, and the narcsib caught me off guard. I was no contact for over 2 years. I'm still healing, hurts from time to time. But, I will never get off the path again. Thank you for sharing your post. Merry Christmas Eve and God bless. 🇺🇲
Happy Christmas, a saying which I pass on to anyone who will listen. Never let the devil in the back seat of your car, because it won't be long before they want to drive! Thank you for your candid insight and putting a name to this demonic power. May the Lord continue to heal you and wash away all the scars.❤
I got myself out. Your channel is what i need. I am sorting things out and realize how I missed chances to walk away and heal. I learned I had more confusion than I ever would have imagined.
Hi once again! Happy holidays & it's my pleasure to report 2 years narcissist-free. So hard to see it, realize it, and maintain the truth - these are scary people. Thank you, for your channel & keep up the great work 😊
Hey Andrew so I'm going to the party Sunday and I decided not to get revenge on the narcissist or anyone else cuz I know that if I did I would be kicked out of the party and I don't want to risk it and have a Target on my back Merry Christmas Andrew
Merry Christmas Andrew because of you and your videos have enlightened me so much of what you say I never thought of until something you said made that light bulb click! Oh yeah he did that you are great reminder exactly what I will never go back to Thank You Merry Christmas Andrew 😍🧑🎄🙏🎄⛄
I’m sending what I hope is my final blast tomorrow. Absolutely I want him to know he didn’t get away with it. Absolutely I want to heal thru NC. I’m praying I can do it this time. Pray for Me.
because they're so outward focused they never stopped to look and heal inward. Peace, Peace. Peace. Nameste ....Forget about them!!! Andrew the details are like nobody else can articulate, you nailed every aspect!!! They are energy vampires ....sucks.. Love Ya Andrew! Merry Chrismaskhah To Everyone💎
Andrew please do some Video's about Spiritually and spiritual practice pro and con. My faith and spiritual practice over the years are what have helped me trying to grow but not without pitfalls. Please share with us your thoughts and experiences.
Happy happy Christmas Andrew. Thanks to you, my rather confusing life, is now getting some order. There is no substitute for hearing narcissist's traits put into real words, that totally hit the nail on the head. I could never explain to myself, the behaviour being displayed. And hence..... I just thought I was overreacting, made an excuse for the poor behaviour, and go back into the breech! And Merry Christmas to all on the channel. Shine bright, Keep it strong. Love to all. XXX
This is true!! My ex narc makes those girls from dating site to fall in love with him or convince them that he was an awesome guy (what a loser$ but sooon enough he loses them cos it backfires 🔥
Happy Christmas Eve. Blessings. "That also wasn't going to go well." LOL! True dat. "You didn't realize someone could switch their energy toward you on a dime." Freaky accurate. Who stayed true? Pretty much no one. !5 years of utter Hell because of narc-abuse, coercive control, and exploitation.
You’re word for word spot on and it’s exactly as you’re saying in this content He has a criminal mind and stole 100,000.00 ‘s of dollars from me and hid his own money too Plus worse stuff that he said and did to me and my own adult children and grandchildren 😮 Evil man 👨🏽 (…john ramos…)
I just took myself back in 11/14/2024. Packed my bags, took myself, daughter, cat and dog and walked away in silence with my head held high! No contact since. FREEDOM! Thank you Andrew!
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Last night was my first Christmas Eve in 25 years spent without a single narcissist in sight. Yay!🎉
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Just wanted to share something i heard yesterday....when the devil couldn't take you down he sent a narcissist ❤❤❤❤ thank you Andrew for understanding and caring..😊
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And then some! All demons
@@daphnewilliams3664 Couldn’t be more true …..
"I never thought you'd actually leave." she said. Yep...
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Good evening Merry Christmas Eve everyone. I hope you are all healing 😊❤
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Merry Christmas to everyone in the cocoon of boundaries. We are all healing together. 🙏🎄
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My light bulb moment came one month after he discarded me. I had gone full no contact the entire time. Since I make friends easily, I found a new (and sober) social scene. He must have sensed I was feeling better and sent me a text that read "Long time no see, hope you're well." As I read it, I saw it as a basic temperament check and felt certain that he does NOT hope I'm well. I had finally figured it out! At that moment, I knew 100% that I WAS well and healing. Needless to say, I ignored the hoover. 😊
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he was trying you thats all.
It's so creepy how they know when to do a heat-check hoover. After financially abusing me for decades, I finally cut my malignant narcissistic relative off. My husband and I had just started becoming financially stable again, and so I made a donation to a local food bank. That same day, after MONTHS of nothing, my mother tried to hoover me through my father's sister -- whom she has hated all my life. It was the only person I haven't blocked yet. How did she even KNOW????? It's creepy as heck. She didn't hoover on my kids' birthdays. She didn't hoover on Thanksgiving. She only hoovered when I gave MONEY TO SOMEONE OTHER THAN HER. It's creepy as heck.
The best gift is love, joy and peace away from narcs forever!
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My ex had me so mixed up ! I went to get therapy and discovered that my ex is a psychopath and toxic and I was not safe with him anymore! That woke me up and I couldn’t pack my bags fast enough, he was shocked I wanted out. He thought we were happy! Gone after 24 years
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My mother in law is living with him and I certainly have been wondering what she knew all along. He told me he was giving his mother crap like he was realizing how he treated me. I love all your videos and they’re my stability to keep going and stay “no contact.” I miss being married and I wish I was right now but with someone who could actually love me.
@@dawnwagoner8307 this sounds like me I ran away from him
Same. 18 years with what I would describe as a malignant narcissist with many psychopathic traits. I asked my then husband to go to couples therapy and he refused so I went to therapy on my own. When I got help and was validated was when I realised. My lightbulb moment. I started reading about narcissism and psychopathy, and listening to videos on TH-cam. This was 10+ years ago. I basically stopped listening to videos and studying personality disorders years ago but when I stumbled on Andrew's channel I started listening and I find that I still benefit from being in contact with others who've experienced the same. Nobody else will ever understand. So now I'm here every day.
Crazy to think how much health we would’ve preserved over the years had we not been with em
He grabbed me by neck, I’m 5’4, he is 6’5. I saw his evil eyes of hatred. Once you see that you can’t un see it
If you’re alone today at Christmas, you’re already winning! Stay strong and savour the peace as it could’ve been another nightmare had you of stayed. Remember nothing you did was your fault. You were scapegoated and set up, blamed for everything! Lots of love Andrew! Thank you for being everyone’s best Christmas present ever! 🎄❤️🎄❤️
So, true. Merry Christmas!
And to you! Stay strong ❤️🎄❤️
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It's crazy, I watch these videos and they describe my ex to a T! It breaks my heart to believe people are allowed to do this to others. If I were taught about this 25 years ago my life would be so different! Thank you Andrew!
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yes my life would of been different 55+ yrs ago. Stay safe and strong.
My older sister is highly narcissistic ...she is now 56 me 52 and she hasn't changed one bit :( we' don't talk anymore... it hurts but I am so over all narcs.
@@deb2319 It annoys me when other people speak so well of them. They just needed one target to get what they needed though.
We're all spiritual warriors, as the hawk is there to remind us to celebrate our resilience and how far we've come. Beautiful message today Andrew. 💜🦅✨️
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Accepting the truth and learning and growing from it. It is hard but it is working. Merry Christmas to everyone. ♥
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Mic Drop: When the narcissist says, "Wow, I didn't think you were that strong." They are really acknowledging how strong you have become and that they underestimated you.
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Scary isn't it! "You're very resilient, I'll give you that" or "I didn't expect you to react like that" is what I got in the last few weeks of my Five year journey into hell. They will implode spectacularly one day - I'll be ascending higher than ever before...
I didn't have much of a choice after finding the education. Either I keep on doing the dog paddle in that contaminated, toxic pond...or pull myself out, out out!
@andreabill7719 Ikr. when I left a narc the narc said to me "You're so strong". I wanted to say to the narc "damn right I'm strong you effing narc and you are not winning this one, and you're (the narc) just a pathetic, disgusting evil creature, and the good news is that I am out of here but YOU (the narc), you're stuck with your own miserable pathetic little self." yep, that's what I wanted to say but of course I didn't say anything, i just got the heck out and no contact forever with that evil monster! I've learned there's a lot of power in not saying anything to the narc, and narcs hate it when you don't let them know what you're thinking or feeling.
@@lindajh5672 great advice (regarding not explaining). I am glad that you are ok. ❤️🙏
Merry Christmas Everyone!! 🤶 🎅 NARC FFRRREEEEE!!! 👏 😊 We are all blessed and saved from these demons.
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Dear reader believe this man
And save your time and energy
Nothing improve with them it only get worse
If you go back you might feel worse
Seal the block do not deal with these creatures
Or their flying monkeys
Force your boundaries and if you're highly skilled worker and have good amount of money just think about relocate yes , staying in environment that keep trigger you won't bring you peace
Dust your old self heal and embrace your new version
Good luck for everyone .
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The misery you feel with them isn't half the misery you feel without them at first. But the misery you feel without them....goes away. The misery you feel with them is forever.
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I feel blessed I found your site Andrew I’ve listened everyday for months. 🙏
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My son has started answering the quizzes, and I talk to him about narcs. Something I never knew walked the earth.
It is like living in a madhouse, but you have to pretend to the outer world that everything is fine. Sick and sickening.
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So true.
Your analysis is always spot on Andrew, the last time our children spoke to their dad. He said something about how i managed to come out of the break up so well.
I didnt, i came out of hellhole literally by the skin of my teeth but i gave him the impression that i was doing well. I didnt want to give him the satisfaction that he destroyed me.
Im healing now. Thank you Andrew your videos are supportive and helpful❤
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I’m nearly at the pinnacle. I am different I’ve learnt so much. I’ve been through hell. I had a downer because I’m
Alone at Christmas but it’s much nicer than being with a Narcissist and the feeling of getting stronger is so much nicer.
@@louiseedwards9589 I am alone to but it's better than all the Christmas' s ruined by the Narcissist! Merry Christmas 🎄
YOU ARE NOT ALONE ❤ We are all here with you in spirit 🦅 😊
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Louise, many of us are solo during these holidays. God bless you.❣️
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I realised nobody was going to save me from my Narcassist. I had to do it myself. It took all my strength to leave him on that day. It was the 4th of July which was the day my husband had died 3 half years ago and Independence Day. It was the best thing I could have done. I thought I was going to be spending the rest of my life with him. I’ve never been so sad but I had to do it. It sounds like a tragic film but it’s real.
Be proud of yourself for working through all of the challenges. Always remember that you come first in your future. The sadness does lift, and we find that we have changed. It takes time to learn to recognize our new self. It is amazing at how heavy sadness can feel. I used to time the parts of the day when I felt grief. I found that it needed to be felt, but was also not good for my health. I learned to limit it to twenty minutes...for real. Whatever it takes to heal. Again, be proud of yourself.
Congratulations. You're free! Well done!
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I'm just a woman who had a baby with the narcissist, and it still stings. He pulled the rug, laughed at me, and moved on with the new supply. Disbelief that someone could do this when claiming they love and care for you. I'm totally changed forever. I gray rock while co-parenting and continue to heal and educate myself.
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The difference is clear ,...as empaths we just want to be loved and valued , whereas a narcissist just wants to be important and feared , they simply don't care whether they are loved or not !! HAPPY XMAS , ANDREW !!! ⛄🎄❤️
We have all had various degrees of chaos, disappointment, grief, violence.
May we all take some time in this "season" to let go, have some fun.
Maybe some carols in the background, a fun Christmas movie, some baking, etc....
Hugs Andrew and all here!
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Statistics show that 1 in 6 people is a narcissist. They were all around me, but now im LIVIN!
Think it's more than that from my perspective
Ranges from full on Narc personality disorder to narc traits I presume
36 yrs before the rug was pulled. Never will trust anyone fully again. I got the best though-my family. He’s now with his “new” supply and family and lives 4 hrs away. Good riddance!
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Good riddance to bad rubbish!
I am so happy that the nightmare ended in 2005. Years of hoovering. I didn't get the education until 2022. I had no idea what any of this was. I am so glad that during his hoovered I didn't go back to him. Being by myself is so peaceful. Thank you so much for this kind education. He fell asleep in death in 2023. There is much more to this but I put enough here
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Saying NO, is by far, one of the most powerful acts anyone will do for their own well-being.
When you say NO, be prepared as you're overcoming and breaking free from the lifetime of brainwash.
You will disappoint others and will learn " it is what it is". And come to a point where you feel like you just don't care.
What that really reflects is that you are caring for yourself FIRST...no need for guilt or sorrow. You really can't please all the people all the time!😂🎉
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I don’t feel sorry for them. They had a choice to be a decent person but they never chose that road. Yes two narcissistic marriages took and took from me, but I am very glad to say no more. Make a plan to get out, this wisdom is the most important advice you will ever hear. Merry Christmas everybody! The truth will set you free!❤😊🎄
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Good evening Andrew and tribe ❤and very Merry Christmas everyone 🌲🎁🎊 !
It's my pleasure to be here with all of you tonight .
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Merry Christmas ❤
Thank you for this sweet message!
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@@Tanja-g3f Merry Christmas 🎄
Thank you, and Merry Christmas to you as well. God bless 🇺🇲
Thank you dear brother for your deep wisdom, insights, compassion and courage. 🙏🎁👑💖
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Thank you andrew and everyone ❤ wishing you all a happy Christmas have a lovely day tomorrow
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Merry Christmas! You have been a blessing to me. You helped me regain my sanity.❤
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I won't start a rant on this one because everyone who's been through this and watches this channel we just get it. If you're new here? Andrew is such a blessing and this will help you. Go back and watch other videos! (OK mini rant) 🙏
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lol. Good words!
I heard this one once: "You said you were going to get rid of me but you still haven't done it yet." That was it. I filed the next day for the big "D".
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I remember at Christmas time my x could decorate the house like you couldn’t believe!
The hot chocolate stuff on little tables and lots of little hand foods decorated impeccable! It would look like Santa’s team of 50 elf’s cooked a Christmas banquet I was in awe of how amazing she could turn the house into a white Christmas Santa himself would be in awe of!
Now I get it though.
(Everything is a production a show, and they are masters at the show)
That’s why a relationship with a narcissist is so devastating their whole lives are about a fantasy and selling the fantasy. They are like cocaine or crack or something. If you don’t get away you will eventually find yourself in a homeless shack in a corner of the room hoping for another hit off the narc pipe .
Yep, you got it right. Everything is for show and getting attention. It's the attention they want and everybody praising them for what they've done, and the narc just sucks up all that supply. Disgusting narcs.
Instead of calling them crazy people like they are they're now called narcissist
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that’s it, I thought crazy people were put into a Psych Center thus is why I never expected there were any crazy people in my Neighborhood when I was a kid. Just happened so, the older crazy person who lived across the street that I married at 18 tried to drive me crazy for years and make me believe it was me, he lied, had many other sources of supply, etc. My jewelry was missing, my favorite items or items co-workers gave to me missing too. Per him I was to go to work, be home directly after work, take care of everything including. his business books, our kids, cook a full meal oh & I couldn’t have Friends). I had no idea there were crazy people walking around (e.g. my NarcHusband) called Narcissists. He passed away 5 mos ago tomorrow Christmas Day. (we were married 54 yrs). If you are not free from the Narc in your lives I pray you have a plan and get away from them asap and begin healing. Stay safe and strong!! Know you are stronger than you think! ❤🌲
Wow Andrew you absolutely nailed it in this one I'm glad I was able to see it. This was me once upon a time but I was able to get away and once I did I never looked back
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When we moved into the new house and his father died. Mom and son are narcs. Yep that was exactly what happened to me. I did see the mask slip I agree. But I believe I am a high level Light-worker - I am so so so very strong now. My soul came to get this strong
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Happy Holidays to everyone. Great channel, Andrew. 🎄🎁
Happy holidays John...
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Thanks for this on Christmas Eve…🎄🎄
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Just a word of thanks Andrew, your strength is amazing because you are sincere. I found you just in time last year. i'm still healing and trying to understand but no contact works best for me. Just wanted to show my gratitude! Have a good one!
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I’m getting stronger and stronger it takes time but as you get stronger it very exciting
That look you be giving cracks me up lol😂 its cute!
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Yeah the lack of communication is no bueno not good it makes you ask yourself where’s human decency?
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@ it’s like you mentioned the blocking unblocking Merry Christmas Andrew have a good holiday.
Because they are not human.
@ yeah but there frustrating themselves thinking woe is me I suffered and now so do they what crap.
Grasping and clinging are at the root of our unhappiness
It's because they're so used to getting their way. Get away from the concept that they're to be trusted when they're not. They must earn our trust. Talk us cheap. Be cheap right back at them. A friend of many is an enemy of themselves.
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Yes. That's true. Just two years ago I went through the very thing you are talking about. He is trying to come back. I will never go back. He's trying to keep the communication open. I close the door tight. He calls me Baby now. No!!! He can't come back ever. Has gone No Contact. He took that from me but I have put myself back together. "But God"
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Thank you for this powerful message Andrew😊 Merry Christmas ❤
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Merry Christmas and good will to all. Yes they will place into so much shame, until you will be too ashamed to share it all with anyone (we have all been there). So we understand the relentless disrespect and the endless shame. However we got you, we know many roads, we know many tears and will support you here. I've been following Andrew for years because what he will tell you, will always matter because I'm still a caring person, dealing with narcs ( lambs amongst wolves).
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Merry Xmas. We are strong and resilient. Thanking this community and Andrew for keeping me positive and motivated thru my healing journey 🎉
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Thank you, Chaz❣️
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Merry Christmas/Eve, Andrew God bless everyone, wishing you a beautiful New Year ☮💜🎄
Merry Christmas Julian.
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Merry Christmas to all!
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Great video !!!
The hawk clicks nicely. I love it ! It's so beautiful to hear.
Restore and strengthen your aura and your energy.
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A Very Happy Christmas to you Andrew ❤️🎄☃️🎁
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😊❤😊 thank you Andrew!
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A peaceful holiday with friends and family,he went to visit his family and I’m never invited ,but peacefulness is mine,Merry Xmas Eve Everyone,have a great evening😎
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I'm home alone. Remembering good times and bad. I'm ok with that. Took a long time. I did make a huge mistake, and the narcsib caught me off guard. I was no contact for over 2 years. I'm still healing, hurts from time to time. But, I will never get off the path again. Thank you for sharing your post. Merry Christmas Eve and God bless. 🇺🇲
Happy Christmas, a saying which I pass on to anyone who will listen. Never let the devil in the back seat of your car, because it won't be long before they want to drive! Thank you for your candid insight and putting a name to this demonic power. May the Lord continue to heal you and wash away all the scars.❤
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Great video Andrew!!
Sending a holiday hug to all.
Wishing everyone clarity and peace..
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Hugging you back!!! 👍❤🎄⛄
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Enjoy, Chaz! Today and every single day of the year!👍
Merry Christmas, Andrew. Thanks for your unconditional effort to awaken people and protect them from abuse. Love, Kristo Gabriel
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I sooo appreciate all your responses. We are such a great tribe. Thank you all, and God bless you.❣️
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It's a blessing to be a member of this tribe, and I am so thankful to be a part of it.
Sending you a huge hug....
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Great video Andrew thank you 😘 wishing you a very happy christmas 💜🦅🎄🫶🙏
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Merry Christmas Marie.....
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@chazbickel4518 thank you 😘 you too! Enjoy your Christmas Holiday 💜☃️🎄✨️
Merry Christmas Andrew, bless you...!!!! ☘☘☘☘☘☘☘
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Oh the hawk searching for its prey at 10:50 ,so symbolic of the Narcissist hunting to devour its prey. True wolves in sheep's clothing
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Merry Christmas to all you glorious wonderful narcissist survivors ❤❤❤
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I got myself out. Your channel is what i need. I am sorting things out and realize how I missed chances to walk away and heal. I learned I had more confusion than I ever would have imagined.
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Thank you for doing these great videos over Christmas 🎉
Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays, Andrew and all the surviving lights of the world 🎄☃️❤️🎅
Merry Christmas...
Keep shining that light
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We are all connected !!
Namaste Light Family ❤
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Hi once again! Happy holidays & it's my pleasure to report 2 years narcissist-free. So hard to see it, realize it, and maintain the truth - these are scary people. Thank you, for your channel & keep up the great work 😊
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Hey Andrew so I'm going to the party Sunday and I decided not to get revenge on the narcissist or anyone else cuz I know that if I did I would be kicked out of the party and I don't want to risk it and have a Target on my back Merry Christmas Andrew
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Merry Christmas, Andrew and everyone else. God bless you all. Stay strong. 🌟❤
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I did some investigation and found his ex who told me he’d done a lot of horrible things to get she had to have therapy.
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Yes, Andrew and still is heading, and I’m getting there, it’s always wonderful to hear from you so encouraging and inspiring!!!!!!
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Merry Christmas Andrew because of you and your videos have enlightened me so much of what you say I never thought of until something you said made that light bulb click! Oh yeah he did that you are great reminder exactly what I will never go back to Thank You Merry Christmas Andrew 😍🧑🎄🙏🎄⛄
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I’m sending what I hope is my final blast tomorrow.
Absolutely I want him to know he didn’t get away with it.
Absolutely I want to heal thru NC.
I’m praying I can do it this time.
Pray for Me.
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because they're so outward focused they never stopped to look and heal inward. Peace, Peace. Peace. Nameste ....Forget about them!!! Andrew the details are like nobody else can articulate, you nailed every aspect!!! They are energy vampires ....sucks..
Love Ya Andrew! Merry Chrismaskhah To Everyone💎
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Some people don’t know how to create an exit plan. It would be good to give some ideas of how to leave your Narcassist
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That is the story of my 9 last years. I’m now in my cocoon. This video brought me new perspectives, as the narc family being aware.
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Christmas blessings Andrew and tribe.❣️
Merry Christmas, Roslyn!🎄
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Andrew please do some Video's about Spiritually and spiritual practice pro and con. My faith and spiritual practice over the years are what have helped me trying to grow but not without pitfalls. Please share with us your thoughts and experiences.
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💯 truth god bless us all. Merry Christmas Happy New Year. We are now blessed. Thank you Andrew
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Happy happy Christmas Andrew. Thanks to you, my rather confusing life, is now getting some order. There is no substitute for hearing narcissist's traits put into real words, that totally hit the nail on the head.
I could never explain to myself, the behaviour being displayed. And hence..... I just thought I was overreacting, made an excuse for the poor behaviour, and go back into the breech!
And Merry Christmas to all on the channel.
Shine bright, Keep it strong. Love to all. XXX
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The same when love falls apart. They changed their minds sometimes we miss out on the greatest blessings out of fear when saying no.
Merry Christmas
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Last thing for now. I just finished watching another
talk I had never seen called Just Let Go by Watts. I highly recommend it.
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Happy Christmas. Thank you ❤
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Hope everyone has a good Christmas. 🙏🎄❤️
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Merry Christmas Andrew and everyone in the community,peace love and happiness 🙏
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This is true!! My ex narc makes those girls from dating site to fall in love with him or convince them that he was an awesome guy (what a loser$ but sooon enough he loses them cos it backfires 🔥
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Merry Christmas Andrew and Thankyou from Canada 🇨🇦
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Merry Christmas Andrew!
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Happy Christmas Eve. Blessings.
"That also wasn't going to go well." LOL! True dat.
"You didn't realize someone could switch their energy toward you on a dime." Freaky accurate.
Who stayed true? Pretty much no one. !5 years of utter Hell because of narc-abuse, coercive control, and exploitation.
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Very helpful video ❤ I needed to hear that today 🙏
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You’re word for word spot on and it’s exactly as you’re saying in this content
He has a criminal mind and stole 100,000.00 ‘s of dollars from me and hid his own money too
Plus worse stuff that he said and did to me and my own adult children and grandchildren 😮
Evil man 👨🏽 (…john ramos…)
Thank you Andrew
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