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  • @karishort1891
    @karishort1891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Narcissists are a test for empath's to be able to finally have discernment. Once we pass the tests and wake up, blessings rain down on us 💕 it is inevitable 💕💗 and you are one of our blessings 💗 Thank you 💗💕

  • @frankdavf4599
    @frankdavf4599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Happy anniversary Andrew!!! Know that your voice and your thoughts have been a therapy for me, a medicine, a solace and light place for my battered soul. Thank you for being here. Always be blessed.

  • @sindydawkins8657
    @sindydawkins8657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can all us empath's get together & buy a piece of land & live in peace together knowing we'll never be screwed over ever again
    It's the hippy in me 😂😘

  • @vickery8205
    @vickery8205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    So true! I used to be a people pleaser, and still am, but I look after me now , too 🥰. Thank you!

    • @Bak23471
      @Bak23471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same here good luck take care of yourself your number one

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me as well, but making sure now to show myself the care I need. I wish I knew this lesson years ago and I wouldn't have been taken advantage of so much. Better late than never to realise this life lesson. God bless. 🙏

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Welcome Vickery 🙏🙌💯

  • @debieaves4788
    @debieaves4788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Thank you, Andrew, for continuing to produce valid content and educating men and women about narcissistic behaviors! Tomorrow I’ll be celebrating 1 month of Narc-free life. 😁 When his behavior began to change/his mask began to slip, we’d been in a “romantic” relationship for about 4 months. (We’ve known each other since 7th grade, but just got reacquainted after a 45 year gap.) Even as he was slowly integrating his life into mine & moving in with me, the Love Bombing began to wane. (We live 2 hours apart.) I’d noticed the excessive interest he had with his cell phone. He just passed it off as communications with his day job supervisor and with members of his band. I bought it. One evening he arrived for his extended weekend visit. I was standing on the front porch with my arms outstretched and a huge grin on my face. As he parked and got out of his car, he looked at me with a pissed off expression and told me to “Hang on while I unpack the car.” WTF? He had no interest in coming up to the porch and greeting me like he’d missed me as much as I’d missed him and THEN going to unload the car. 😢 He came into the house mad and stayed that way for 24 hours. I was clueless. We hadn’t had any squabbles before his arrival. I just sat in silence all that time, not wanting to risk escalating his ire. The rest of the weekend was uneventful. Once he returned to his hometown, he started to frequently ignore my responses to his texts. There is sooo much more I’m leaving unsaid here, but these behaviors became glaring Red Flags. I’m secure (emotionally and financially) and don’t “need” a man to “take care of me.” I just want a good man to love and be loved by in return. However, I’m not so desperate that I’m going to let him walk all over my heart! Yours was the very first TH-cam channel I started watching about narcissistic behavior. WOW! 😳 Thank you for yanking me back to reality and shining the spotlight on a subject I was previously ignorant about. It only took me 4 days to get my wits together and tell him I was not the best woman to be his “forever person.” (See how I placed the blame on ME, to prevent him from blowing up? 😉) Anyway, I met him in a public location in a neighboring town and then I went totally NO CONTACT with him and all of the Flying Monkeys on Valentine’s Day. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us - the Survivors!
    Wishing you, and the rest of “our” Tribe, FREEDOM and PEACE! ❤️✌️

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Beautiful message Debi.. thank you for sharing 🙌💯🙌

    • @Scorpscorpdorp
      @Scorpscorpdorp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Beautiful! 🤗🙏

    • @1Tmally3
      @1Tmally3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes, stay strong❤💯

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well done and you have a right to be happy and have genuine love and respect in your life. You are a strong, independent lady. We never truly know people, no matter how long we've known them? We have to test that by how they treat others but most importantly, by observing them......if their words don't correspond with their actions/behaviours, best to not go there. Have a lovely day....stay strong....we're all on the same path together......God bless 🙏

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brave; Beautiful share! 💞

  • @invincible8997
    @invincible8997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You've risen from the ashes of your former life like a Phoenix, Andrew. That's what gives you the power to help others to get through the harsh and wounding experience of dealing with a narcissist. You're fulfilling your destiny. Thank you for taking action in your life.
    You've shown courage and resilience.
    Namaste.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you 🙌💯🙏

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Keep rising. Acknowledge the red flags! Redirect that healthy energy to growth & service.

  • @debkeeler
    @debkeeler ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, Andrew. I appreciate what you do for me and the world.

  • @marissafortunato7557
    @marissafortunato7557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Let's go for a walk

  • @virginiatinkler-moor6081
    @virginiatinkler-moor6081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Thanks Andrew. After 23 yrs on the merry-go-round l'm proud to say 2yrs. Out and hopefully my divorce will be coming up soon. It is and has been brutal.
    Listening to you and others has become a part of my daily diet
    Again thank you so much.

  • @theglobalvagabond3074
    @theglobalvagabond3074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Several folks have asked how long will the healing process take? Imagine that your car is your life, and one day you look in your driveway, and your car is completely dismantled in a large pile down to the individual nuts and bolts. You now have to put it back together with no assistance from anyone and no tools. Some people can do it sooner than others, but it will take a long time to figure out everything. BUT, after completion, you will have learned so much about life, people, the physical world, and everything in between. That is the essence of your newfound superpower status. The key is to never give up and understand that each day that goes by is a day closer to healing if you've committed to doing so.

  • @newlife2288
    @newlife2288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am still alone but now only 1 week from the Bankruptcy caused by the Demon. No contact 5 months. Hoping to find work to thrive and someone to love and share my gifts and beauty with.

    • @carriedillmann4455
      @carriedillmann4455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Take one step at a time and start with SELF LOVE AND SIMPLE PLEASURE!❤️🌷

    • @lilly7162
      @lilly7162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep going share your love and gifts with yourself! Truly I thought this was silly when I first started hearing it from channels like this one but it’s true!! Have a loving sexy fruitful fun energetic and beautiful relationship with you! 💕❤️‍🩹

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well done! You've come so far now....five months out. I'm just over five weeks out. Keep going, hold your head up high. You are strong, you're proving that everyday. God bless you. 🙏💛

    • @JohnSmith-wo7ns
      @JohnSmith-wo7ns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel your pain and am here. I'm struggling every day but together we can beat this. 👍

    • @newlife2288
      @newlife2288 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lilly7162 🤗🥰

  • @californiacat9762
    @californiacat9762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Andrew, just the sound of your voice is comforting. 🦁 A breath of fresh air after a suffocating dark experience

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I appreciate your kindness and sharing this California Cat..💯🙌😊🙏

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. God bless you Andrew.

  • @Scorpscorpdorp
    @Scorpscorpdorp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Going No Contact, and sticking with it, over time is like winning the 'Spiritual Lottery' you gain so much growth once you put in the inner work. It felt so painful to be discarded but as time goes by my pain and the work put in to healing turns into golden light. All of your messages turn into fruition as I keep being committed to myself. I cannot thank you enough! Love and light 🙏🌟

  • @marlaalbert7906
    @marlaalbert7906 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Bible says “By their fruits you shall know them.” I love the abundance of your harvest, Andrew! Congratulations to you on the realization of your hopes and dreams! Can’t wait to see what the future has to hold for all of us! God bless!
    🙏🏻🦋🌷💝

  • @jenniferwilson7171
    @jenniferwilson7171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Timely video for me. After 4 mos. the darkness is lifting. I don’t feel controlled. I’m starting to really flourish and my light is coming back. My mind is right. The education you have provided truly helped me turn the corner. I’m still work in progress but feel unchained. Thank you,!

  • @denise9683
    @denise9683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    That was so heartfelt! I found this channel just at the right time and honestly it’s been life changing. Forever grateful ❤️🥰💫🙏

    • @myst2.0
      @myst2.0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same feeling here Denise. : )

    • @denise9683
      @denise9683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@myst2.0the only way is up from here 👏💪😊

    • @myst2.0
      @myst2.0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@denise9683
      For sure Denise, for SURE!

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are amazing and loved Denise..🙏💯🙌😊

    • @debieaves4788
      @debieaves4788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      “Just at the right time”! Sooo TRUE!!
      As has been said, “When the Student is ready, the Teacher will come.” ❤️
      THANK YOU, Andrew!
      Echoing @Denise, “forever grateful”!!🙏🙏

  • @onlybosslion9267
    @onlybosslion9267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The thing is we all live in our comfort zone, if you are smart. I just give it to God and Spiritual Devine knows me and what is best for me. I say walk your Path. Mine is mine and it’s a sure thing. Praise God. Thank you for the message. Wishing you the best. God Bless
    Beautiful honesty. Your comments. 🙏🏼♥️🕊. I pray everyone gets the healing from the Devine. Blessings to everyone.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for sharing this Boss..🙏💯🙌

    • @onlybosslion9267
      @onlybosslion9267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you 🙏🏼♥️🕊 to you.

    • @christine11347
      @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God sees and hears all our prayers and answers them in his time and place. 🙏

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, trust Him, delight in Him, commit to Him and rest in Him (Psalm 37). God knows our struggle and the pain of what we're going through/have endured. We are all in His waiting room, at different stages along the healing path. He will set us free....the truth is out now. His grace will sustain us as we we wait. Thank God for you all here - Andrew we are grateful for all that you do to help us. Your videos are like a life line to me since joining you all in February this year after my relationship ended. Have a great day everyone, God bless 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻

  • @bryalee2782
    @bryalee2782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you andrew. It is really that deep with my sister, even though she is 3000 miles away and i think i can think about her with all I see what she did, I allowed, it really still held me down.

  • @suzismith9681
    @suzismith9681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mom used to say action speaks louder than words. So when ppl talk I have always waited to see what happens , and how soon. Over the years many many empty promises . Time has run out. I'm worth more , I'm the one to put the value on me , no one else and I'm not for sale either. Freedom has always been my thing even as a teenager. Funny that . Freedom to do, Freedom to live, Freedom to dream. Thankyou Andrew for your open and honest content. I'm sure like me many others will have had light bulb moments when they finally put all the pieces together. You call it fog and thats what it is!

  • @techmail5820
    @techmail5820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Andrew! You always have a beautiful and powerful message to give! Awesome!👍

  • @kimgordon3695
    @kimgordon3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's our equinamity they find so appealing. Our super power is self sufficiency. Few & far between. Time to reassess EVERYTHING 💞

  • @libbypolglase4975
    @libbypolglase4975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have no idea how much you have helped me. I am soooo very grateful for you . Thank you thank you 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Lorraine6330
    @Lorraine6330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy anniversary Andrew, you are everybody's gift of truth ❤️ and I'm grateful 🙏

  • @mssarah38
    @mssarah38 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Now it's time to Shine Bright 🌟🌟🌟. Thank you for Sharing 💙

  • @kdg6525
    @kdg6525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you Andrew!! Your message is life saving. ❤️

  • @annielopez8465
    @annielopez8465 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks to you I’m going to Costa Rica! Thanks for all you do.

  • @maevemaiden
    @maevemaiden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so inspiring and empowering thank you 🙏 Andrew. It feels so good to give to others who actually appreciate our energy and empathy. When giving is done with purity and accepted with grace and appreciation it never feels depleting or draining. It always feels like love 💗

  • @maisumsobreviventedeabuson5277
    @maisumsobreviventedeabuson5277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I thought it was lucky... I survived the narcissist attack on me trying to kill me and blind me before it.

    • @maisumsobreviventedeabuson5277
      @maisumsobreviventedeabuson5277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just 4 days ago

    • @vickery8205
      @vickery8205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry to hear that…I hope you are safe now 🙏

    • @donnaengelman1171
      @donnaengelman1171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OMG! YOU ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND BE WATCHFUL, ORGULHO. HAVE FAITH IN GOD ALWAYS! 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes keep safe, God bless you and protect you.

  • @sharonshim5046
    @sharonshim5046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks Andrew for your inspiring words,we are all in this thing together we are going to be happy again. Love always from Jamaica. 💕🇯🇲🙏🙏

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Welcome Sharon 🙏💯🙌

    • @christine11347
      @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree Sharon. There are so many beautiful things to be happy about each and every day. Thank you always for your beautiful spirit. 🇯🇲🌺♥️🌊☀️

    • @sharonshim5046
      @sharonshim5046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@christine11347 Thank you Christine 💕🙏🇯🇲

  • @newlife2288
    @newlife2288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gooooo Andrew.

  • @leeedwards6505
    @leeedwards6505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thankyou Andrew for sharing all your knowledge, support and inspiration, we all are truly grateful and appreciative of all you share. This is much needed to help us recognise, learn, heal and change our lives for the better. You are a godsend and forever grateful. Love and blessings🙏💝🌹

  • @ruthstevenson7169
    @ruthstevenson7169 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love your power of energy My nark didn't drain my money but he definitely drained my energy and I'm having a very tough time snapping out of it it's been 8 months now I'm still feeling very lethargic

    • @lilly7162
      @lilly7162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You’ll be okay!! ❤️❤️‍🩹💕🙏🏻keep going journal every morning before you get out of bed make commitments to you just for you hug yourself dance touch the grass sending you love

    • @carriedillmann4455
      @carriedillmann4455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The more time and understanding what you went through you will gain energy for you !!!!
      Learn that you and all of us lost ourselves for a while but now we get ourselves back !!

    • @californiacat9762
      @californiacat9762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏💗

    • @christine11347
      @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Remember to take time each day for you. Exercise, staying hydrated, getting enough sleep, spending time in nature, positive self talk and love will help you discover how amazing you are. In time your energy will come back and you will start feeling better than ever. Keep moving forward. You are doing great. 🙏💪🕊️✨

    • @californiacat9762
      @californiacat9762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@christine11347 wonderful advice 🌷

  • @maisumsobreviventedeabuson5277
    @maisumsobreviventedeabuson5277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As we say in Brazil: nobody throws a stone at a fruit tree that is unfruitful...

  • @karen81681
    @karen81681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes the Energy most definitely changes!! I don't associate with anyone that is negative. Including some family members! I always sense bad energy!! I just LOVE you and what you are doing for the world!! Happy Anniversary!!💯⚘

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 🙏

    • @karen81681
      @karen81681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🥰 You're very welcome! I'm so happy i found your channel today!! Looking forward to more!! When i kept getting texts from the Narcissist, i would send those🙌 to Stop texting. Lol

  • @donnaengelman1171
    @donnaengelman1171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    YOU ARE RIGHT, ANDREW, I’M TRYING TO GET MY POWER BACK, BECAUSE I’M FED UP BEING CONTROLLED, MANIPULATED, ABUSED OF MY KINDNESS. I’M SOOOO TIRED OF MY TOXIC RELATIONSHIP TO NARCS PEOPLE AND I KNOW THROUGH THE HELP OF GOD, I’LL SURVIVE, LIKE YOU MY FELLOW VICTIMS, LET’S MOVE ON AND ENJOY LIFE LIKE ANDREW. I LOVE YOU ALL!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @victorelliott5066
      @victorelliott5066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you..

    • @vickery8205
      @vickery8205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love you too 🥰💕

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes Donna, I want to survive and come through it too! We are moving in the right direction now and we'll keep going, until we are totally free of our shackles. God bless you, stay strong. 🙏💛

    • @christine11347
      @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree 💯. It's so true as Andrew said who cares about the narc and their life. All that matters is we are no longer part of it thank God. 🙏🙌☘️

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautiful message Donna 🙏💯🙌😊

  • @pollyjohnson-allthingsgood
    @pollyjohnson-allthingsgood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Beautiful and inspiring video, thank you Andrew. Finding the power you possess , again, I.e returning to your true, pre narcissistic self (only now you’ll be stronger than before) is very hard to do during recovery but, each and every day the power energy increases and I am in no doubt that one day, when I’m fully healed, the power will be a super power! Right now I’m stuck between never ever wanting to be hurt that way again and wanting to be loved that way again. Though I know the love part wasn’t real …on their part. Therefore, taking action, like you say Andrew, is essential. I’ve started with little changes, altered the house decor and environment- that was satisfying and next I’m moving on to “venturing” out and about more. Next weekend I’m taking my daughter to London to see a West End show, go shopping and sight seeing. Sounds little?? It’s really not, I’m starting to do social things that I’d only done with the narcissist for 12 years. It’s like being a brave teenager again and starting to do so much I’d missed out on as an independent individual. The next step…next week I’m joining the local theatre group - new things to think about and meeting new people. Also, this week I celebrated 10 years clear from cancer and have been totally discharged from the hospital. How blessed am I !! I shall be fundraising for cancer research too. This is now my beautiful new life and I embrace all the new changes. 💙🙏💙

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Absolutely beautiful message Polly.. you are amazing and loved..🙏💯🙌😊

  • @lorina-janebuonanducci.1042
    @lorina-janebuonanducci.1042 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    (" Andrew, one of my dark nights of the soul was 2005-06. It was a rabbit hole.Finally I remembered where I was and got out immediately. I had tool box from meetings I had attended many years. And still the insidious narc you speak of keeps us OFF the path to self. Gradual back sliding and gravity want to keep us down. Collective conscious garbage doesn't lift anyone higher. You're words uplift. Your words are powerful, very meaningful words. So we hear/share the message everyday. The cream always floats to the top. Much love.")🥇💙🙏

  • @blingmyblinds
    @blingmyblinds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Happy for you / happy your here Andrew / wishing you a awesome day / thanking God for you, love you much too xoxo *happy cry*

  • @gograybechic
    @gograybechic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow Andrew I resonate with you wholeheartedly! This is incredible! I HAVE THE POWER. I feel it!!!!!!!❤️🙏🏾💪🏾so glad I started my TH-cam channel to share my skills and talents and wisdom with women!!!
    GOD BLESS YOU ANDREW!!!

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome 🙏🙌💯☀️

    • @gograybechic
      @gograybechic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Had to come back to this video 2 months later to remind myself of this message 😢❤THANKS AGAIN!!!

  • @Eyeshaveit
    @Eyeshaveit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Andrew.
    Keep up the good work..
    🙏

  • @angelacahill9083
    @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is very motivational.Andrew, thank you! It is our time to shine. We have to dig deep and find our courage again and it's our life's mission. We need to live it well. Your courage shines through, it brings with it so much hope and it's helping us all. We all have something wonderful to give to the world. We are certainly not alone! Thank you so much for lifting our spirits and helping us to move forward through our pain
    I appreciate you, your time and effort. God bless us all. 🙏

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Beautiful message Angela..🙏🙌🙌😊

    • @christine11347
      @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Beautiful Angela. God has given all of us one life and what we do with it going forward is fully within our control. 🙏💜✝️

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christine11347 I agree Christine. We have it within our control now, to live the best life, filled with love and peace, as God intended for us. Have a blessed day. ✝️💜🙏☘️

    • @christine11347
      @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelacahill9083 Thank you. You as well Angela. May your blessings today be in abundance. 🙏❤️☘️

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christine11347 May you find your blessings in abundance too! Have a lovely day Christine 🙏✝️🌻

  • @thebigh9324
    @thebigh9324 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a very long road , with a few bumps along the way , but you will EVENTUALLY get there ! Truth is you allowed the narc to define your decisions , your truth and reality !

  • @_Louise__
    @_Louise__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This really resonated with me. I think the additional strength we build while enduring the relationship gets us to a place of having a wealth of energy (once we come through this and heal) and so this is the time our mission can really take off and we can do so much good in the world. My mission has been nagging at me for years but I couldn't see the good in it until the final part slotted into place recently. Mostly because my mind is now free to focus on helping people rather than coping with the trauma of the relationship. I'm so glad you listened and acted on your mission Andrew, I can't imagine how many people you are helping

  • @jetstaring5803
    @jetstaring5803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you Andrew! Your video's give me so much power! You are amazing!!🥰💪

  • @sohiniwellen8497
    @sohiniwellen8497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Uplifting message! Also nice reminder that the narcicist saw all my talents and qualities and that is why they pursued me...but only to use. Today I can focus on my talents as I move forward.

  • @susanwilliams5396
    @susanwilliams5396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm glad I found you last week. It's helping me process thoughts. Ended a 14 year relationship in Nov. After finding out his latest supply scheme.

    • @christine11347
      @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good for you Susan. Things will get better each day as you move forward on your healing path. 🙏💪🕊️✨

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Welcome to the community Susan 🙏💯🙌

    • @JohnSmith-wo7ns
      @JohnSmith-wo7ns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good luck Susan, mine very similar 13 years to jan this year. Still in pain and struggling to understand. Hope you're doing better x

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      take your focus back. Namaste

  • @Benjamin-mx1vf
    @Benjamin-mx1vf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thx 🖖🙏 Namaste

  • @lisakreimes1345
    @lisakreimes1345 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My inner Spirit has grown back since I rid myself of my narcissist

  • @rosemarygiuliani8463
    @rosemarygiuliani8463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for this. …
    God bless you

  • @Resiliant777
    @Resiliant777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an amazing message Andrew! 😄😄😄

  • @christine11347
    @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video Andrew. I agree 💯. It only takes one thing to change the whole trajectory of your healing path. When you find it you know it and thank God every day for giving you a second chance to live life as it was intended to be in peace and happiness. The power has always been within all of us to go out, make a difference and live our best life each and every day. Never give up on your dreams. They are all within our reach. With dedication and commitment all things are possible. As Andrew said the minute that toxicity is removed everything changes. It's that quick and it gets better every single day. This abuse will never define any of us. We are all enough and always have been. Once we realize this we take all the power back and leave the narc with NONE, just as God intended it to be.
    Keep making a difference changing the world one person at a time Andrew it truly is your path. You have done an amazing job building this community and reminding all of us that we are never alone. God bless you always 🙏💜✝️ 💪🕊️☘️

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for sharing this Christine 🙏💯🙌😊

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Powerful, uplifting message Christine! I agree 💯 with what you've said. Andrew is definitely a blessing in all of our lives.....he is making a huge difference and is helping to change/challenge our conditioned way of thinking. We are worth so much more, to ourselves and what we have to offer. In time we will all figure that one out, as we come to understand what we've endured. Your comments are filled with hope Christine, for those of us who are struggling, like myself..Have a great day - God bless us all on the healing path and Andrew who is shining a light for us. 🕯️🙏💜✝️

    • @christine11347
      @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@susand7202 Good Morning Susan. I agree. When we see the power within ourselves it's a complete game changer. My family definitely is proud. Getting used to the change was an adjustment for everyone at first, because my transformation has been extreme. What is amazing to me; however, is how much my family and friends are all benefitting and changing as well. Through sharing positivity and lessons learned along the way with my core inner circle in our lenten positivity challenge it's been a blessing watching them grow and find themselves. It truly is amazing to be able to share in their personal victories. My journey has been a true testament to the guiding principle that when you love and feel good about yourself everyone around you benefits. This is the true silver lining. Stay blessed Susan. Have a great day. Thank you for your kindness as always. Xo😘🌠🌌

    • @christine11347
      @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angelacahill9083 Good Morning Angela. I agree with everything you said 💯. Andrew is a true blessing to all of us survivors. He continues to provide us with the tools we need to be able to do the inner work ourselves. This is a true blessing. Take one day at a time Angela. It gets better everyday. Start making a plan. I realized the other night that having an exit plan was so instrumental in transitioning into narc free life with less stress. Once that plan is in place it's important to start on making a new one. Planning for the future has significantly helped me move forward and give me renewed hope knowing that I am in control of where my path takes me.
      Angela remember the path is not linear. Music and song lyrics have been so vital along my healing path. One of my favorite songs is God Gave Me You by Blake Shelton. It can have so many beautiful meanings and is a continued reminder that we are never alone. Trust in yourself. Where there is a will there is a way. We may have to give up stuff along the way until we rebuild and that's ok. At the end of the day it's only stuff. What we get back when we put ourselves first and say no more is worth so much more then what we may temporarily lose. Stay strong and blessed Angela. Never give up. You are surrounded by love and support. Remember you are never alone. YOU GOT THIS! 🙏💪🕊️✨♥️☘️

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to the #Tribe

  • @lisagoffnett867
    @lisagoffnett867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All I can say ..... Speechless and thank you. I will get there.

  • @carlosgarzajr.8402
    @carlosgarzajr.8402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is exactly what I needed for today. Thank you Andrew for your dedicated work and for replying to all these comments.

  • @tonyroma7599
    @tonyroma7599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can’t believe how the things you mention are on point. I too was in the hospital at the beginning of C-19 three times in and out for 2 months and my dog died.
    I was always there for my narcissist when she was sick in the hospital and saved her life. It’s sad that when I was in the hospital, I was alone. When the dog died, I was alone. All this was in the beginning of leaving my narcissist. Unreal time in my life. I almost died. I never told the narcissist because I feel she would have been happy I was in pain. Pain of any kind I feel she would be happy because when the dog died, that’s when she text me to say how sorry she was. My son told her the dog died. That’s how she knew.
    There is one thing I feel is, the narcissist may do the things you say but they don’t all do the same things. There are different kinds I found out. I married the kind that drained me and my kids of all the money. The other one cheated, amongst other things.
    That’s my luck. I will now be single to the day I leave this earth and that’s ok with me. I’ve had enough.
    God Bless all who have had the pleasure to be with a narcissist. It’s not easy. 🙏🏻❤️💙

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for sharing this insight Tony..💯🙌🙏💪

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's not easy at all. They only care about themselves and I can relate to what you've said. We will heal our wounds one day and God will help us to come to terms with all the emotional pain. Take care of yourself....God bless 🙏

    • @sharonshim5046
      @sharonshim5046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank God you are alive.You will be healed, I am getting better each day. Blessings from Jamaica🇯🇲💕🙏🙏

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My heart to You. Stay true to You. Don't stay "anything" Love is a journey. 💞

    • @tonyroma7599
      @tonyroma7599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angelacahill9083 thank you for your thoughts 🙏🏻💚

  • @paulaleijenaar3274
    @paulaleijenaar3274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Andrew, your videos make me stronger every day. You are a beautiful person doing this. My relation has ended 2 months ago. Next day he had somebody else. You make people understand how it works and how to heal from this pain. A narcist is mixing up all your feelings. Narcistic anger. Silent treatments. Lovebombing to get me with him. Then devaluation again. Lying and manipulation. Always looking around and contacting other woman who did not know he had a relation. It was horror. But you. You are the key with your words for healing from this. And I am great full for that. Thank you dear person. Bless you.

  • @kristinej.4182
    @kristinej.4182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your message is so encouraging and hopeful. I am almost approaching seven months since the discard and I do feel the power in me more and more. Just like you said, so much of my time and energy was wasted on the narcissist before. I didn’t realize how much I had neglected myself until actually devoting 💯 to self care and love. I can see myself getting so much stronger mentally and physically. Again, thank you, Andrew, for your encouragement. 🙏🌟

  • @wesleydavis1532
    @wesleydavis1532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I find myself at times holding on too some anger and letting go of all the positives.And then it dawn's on me that that would cause the narc extreme joy..Then happiness and positivity fill my soul within a few moments.The sunlight begins too climb the dark places in my heart where these disturbed individuals once roamed freely. Thank you Andrew for all your motivation and encouragement.YOU ROCK!!🙏✌️☮️

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Beautiful empowerment and growth Wesley..💯🙌🙏💯💪😊

    • @wesleydavis1532
      @wesleydavis1532 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙏Thank you Andrew,Your content is a great blessing my friend.

  • @annmarieladuke3276
    @annmarieladuke3276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how you just tell it like it is & you cover a variety of topics/Truths dealing with a Narc & you get to the point. May God enrich your life & territory with abundance & great joy. You are an amazing , powerful speaker & genuine man. Love you & be Blessed. Thank you! Annmarie

  • @hennisincoff502
    @hennisincoff502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so grateful 2 travel on the same path u have been on. May I have the courage, humility & strength 2 learn the message of love & power needed 2 live my most beautiful life, free from narcissistic abuse. Your kindness resonates with all the help you provide. Thank you Andrew, namaste ❤🌻

  • @GigiOAH
    @GigiOAH 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So true bro!

  • @deborahjohnson1065
    @deborahjohnson1065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am having a Spiritual Awake ing RIGHT NOW!!!!

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautiful Deborah 🙏💯🙌❤️

    • @adanaryjacques7776
      @adanaryjacques7776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe you. It happened to me. Messages from the universe. These teachers, this community. Our lives will never be the same. 🌈🌤 peace, love and light.

  • @ellemoo44
    @ellemoo44 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so thankful to you Andrew. I cannot express my gratitude enough, how I came across your channel and your knowledge and insight has helped me and continues to help me. I am 6 weeks in, 5 weeks no contact. He has blocked me on everything because he knows that I know now. I feel for the new supply but she has her own lessons to learn, we cannot rescue them. Just like nobody rescued us! However, your channel has been a life line for me and he has brought some wonderful 'awakened' people into my life that now see through him and were wondering when i was going to see it! Thats the thing when you surround yourself with educated empaths and true souls, you are going to get caught! I see through people now like never before. 2nd time in with a narc, this one was particularly clever doing the cult leader spiritual / new age thing which was how he got me but i see through his love and light act now and I shall know better for next time. I am so happy you got out and you count your blessings each day, showing up for others despite your own pain and struggle. We help others now. Namaste ,my friend. With love and thanks from the UK.

  • @nancythornton2947
    @nancythornton2947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great day and great video. Healing one day at a time.

  • @anne3230
    @anne3230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thx Andrew- I just found your channel. I appreciate your optimism and pep talks. It’s been a long and exhausting road but one day at a time and there is hope. Thank you for caring

  • @SucessulSaima
    @SucessulSaima ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Andrew! ❤️

  • @Bak23471
    @Bak23471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you Andrew for the motivation you have given us today.

  • @leilagomulka5690
    @leilagomulka5690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @haimlevy1950
    @haimlevy1950 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let me tell you something Andrew, l've heard many really many youtube videos about narcissists and narcissisim. You have a way with the right words. You describe exactly what l was through. My narcissist wife told a friend of hers years ago that l am a narcissist.
    lt was the first time in my life that l heard of such a word. Then l started to learn in youtube about narcissisim. And guess what..? All the descriptions pointed to her. This video about the power within ourselves is so beautiful. You are always spot on . I need to hear this 10 times a day so it goes to my subconscious. We are all full of gratitude for your beautiful videos.

  • @NancyKelly-cu2uh
    @NancyKelly-cu2uh ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow Andrew your giving me butterflies 🦋 in my heart ❤️‍🩹 God Bless 🙏

  • @DorothyCPincus
    @DorothyCPincus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks so much!!!!God bless you.

  • @karenzilverberg4699
    @karenzilverberg4699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks, Andrew! 👍🏼 Excellent details! 👍🏼
    🙏 🎶 🌞 🎶 🙏

  • @ruthstevenson7169
    @ruthstevenson7169 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You do dish up great information and I have hope

    • @angelacahill9083
      @angelacahill9083 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes Ruth, I have hope too! We are truly blessed to have this information and Andrew sharing with us from his experiences. God bless, stay strong! 🙏

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Ruth 🙏🙌❤️

  • @howardgilling3255
    @howardgilling3255 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True...

  • @myst2.0
    @myst2.0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Real truths, thanks Andrew, Vicky gonna do like you and do for me too.. What a long journey. Listening lately to Shabana Bhojani. Tried a different hair color. Actually came out good . Suns out today too and sooo warm and friendly on the skin. : ) Thanks once more Andrew and Fab, Community...

  • @---_277
    @---_277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You really need to understand and believe in yourself. Self knowledge is so important, if you REALLY know you are a good person who tries hard to do good then believe it! Don't ever let anyone else bring you down, keep the bullies out! FOR GOOD!

  • @soulincommon
    @soulincommon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your advice is so helpful!! I left the narcissist yesterday and I’m never going back. Thank you for your videos!!

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome 🙏

    • @adanaryjacques7776
      @adanaryjacques7776 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay!! 11 days for me. 4 years married, 5 years in the relationship. Enough was enough. It's not entirely over but someone needed to end the cycle. I did. Thankful for Andrew and this community ☺️ Congrats 🙌

  • @moirabijker
    @moirabijker 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Andrew. Remaining steadfast in my resolve to remain in no contact. The most satisfying thing I have done lately is served him with court papers for a substantial amount in arrears on child maintenance. This shut him up. I am no longer afraid of his actions because I know whatever happens, I will somehow make it through. What is there that he has not done to me? Nothing. And I have survived all of it already. Stay blessed, as you always say, in beautiful Costa Rica. With love from South Africa.

  • @1Tmally3
    @1Tmally3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you, Andrew! I appreciate this so much! I plan to continue, listening to your knowledge, and the survivors! We were'nt made to walk alone! Namaste, ❤U2, and survivors! 🙌

  • @KimAllemang-h6m
    @KimAllemang-h6m ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Grateful and thankful for you

  • @AdaBrown3personalupgrade
    @AdaBrown3personalupgrade 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Andrew, I'm so gratefu for all these life changing information that you present here and I'm planning to personally contact you regarding staying firm about not wanting any contact after the separation as this continues to happen no matter how many times I'd say no calls please.

  • @narcissismcognitivedissonance
    @narcissismcognitivedissonance 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We realize our spiritual power also when we see how we take some time to rest and then get back to work with God’s will. Example: took some time to rest, then it was time to implement something new that was learned. Get online to execute it while editing another video. The enemy all of the sudden awakes and tries to distract from what we are working on. Welcome to the digital world of narcissism. We learn to just laugh at it. Nothing can stop God’s plan for us!

  • @editszegedi4857
    @editszegedi4857 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with everything you say except one thing: There's a reason we were in a narcissistic relationship. No one deserves to be hurt by another person. Some people can learn from anything, but when human dignity is undermined...it's a hard break...
    And thanks for the videos! :)

  • @margaretwhelan1475
    @margaretwhelan1475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🙏❤

  • @rachellewis9251
    @rachellewis9251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So many people do these videos and they annoying or no content whereas Andrew has nice voice good points doesn't often repeat himself and he just has a good vibe WEll DONE ANDREW

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Rachel 💯🙌🙏😊

    • @rachellewis9251
      @rachellewis9251 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not sure everything is meant to happen as opposed to coincidence and certainly no karma nice notion to make ourselves feel better

  • @mamitalinda3915
    @mamitalinda3915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I look forward to your videos!!!! ☺️☺️ Thank you!!!

  • @58cherylt
    @58cherylt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh Andrew!!! You have literally saved
    my life. 🙏 I am crying as I type this!!! 🥲 You are so amazing & strong!! I love you💕💕💕🌈💐

  • @JohnSmith-wo7ns
    @JohnSmith-wo7ns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you anyway Andrew. 🇬🇧👍

  • @nicolewilliams1268
    @nicolewilliams1268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for loving others and caring about this horrific situation for any human to live in but your so helpful.

  • @deb2319
    @deb2319 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly- A true narc. does hold us back. Great Ideas here Andrew, Thank you.

  • @leticiaperaza524
    @leticiaperaza524 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeeesss!! I know I have my power back because I took actions...Thanks for reminding me the beautiful energy and power a have now!! saludos 😃✅💯🔋

  • @monicabelle8581
    @monicabelle8581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Andrew …I am so focused on productivity because I feel like 6 years of my life were stolen…so I value time so much right now and I try to make sure it’s spent wisely for my future …my dreams…4 months in of no contact…I feel nothing for the ex…he’s becoming more and more such a faded insignificant memory…little irritation does surface every now and then…at how such a turd could have destroyed me or put me in a very bad life situation…but the universe never ever left me…blessings keep coming my way…and I am just thankful…I can sleep well because I have a clear conscience and I don’t envy the narc who will remain restless to his end….what a way to spend your life. Thankful,to you.🙏🏻

    • @christine11347
      @christine11347 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with your comment 💯 Monica. Beautiful and empowering. The narc made their bed now they can lie in it for the rest of their life without us. 💯

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing this Monica.. you are beautiful and loved.. 🙏💯🙌

  • @JessicaEconomou
    @JessicaEconomou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Realizing what I’ve been dealing with all of these years…it took my children disclosing abuse they endured from him. It’s all been busted open. I’ve got him by the you-know-whats.
    Binge studying what a Narc is has been so educational and is filling in all the gaps! This study includes finding your videos and info. 🙏🏻❤️

  • @bevfaria3300
    @bevfaria3300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🖤💛💚💙♥️🖤💜💙💚💛❤️ .. THANKS SOOOO MUCH ANDREW .. A GOOD NIGHT Y'ALL .. ALWAYS .. JUST L🖤V E ~~🖤~~ BEV

  • @janemcgillivray8163
    @janemcgillivray8163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you Andrew..... so courageous... and so wise...

  • @vonettalcooks3536
    @vonettalcooks3536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Andrew with your help 🙏 I'm getting stronger .. one day at a time your lessons are powerful and positive I appreciate you speaking to us every day 🙏 ❤️ peace and love

  • @DanielaPerez-yp1gb
    @DanielaPerez-yp1gb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ❣️🙏👍WOW SUPER COOL. I'm Happy to hear your powerful Voice~Message in this Video. I agree completely 👍👍. THANK YOU SO MUCH. MANY LOVELY GREETINGS

  • @ornellarose6378
    @ornellarose6378 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God Bless you Andrew, Thankyou!!!! You say the most heart-felt things and I can feel it!!! Hugs my friend 🤗

  • @drm9373
    @drm9373 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen 🙏

  • @ginnylinn8224
    @ginnylinn8224 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm grateful to you .❤