RELAXED MY 4c HAIR AFTER 5 YEARS - 9-MONTH UPDATE! | LESSONS & REGRETS *before & after pics*

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  • @kamsinnamani
    @kamsinnamani  ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Hi my loves! Finally filmed my relaxer update🥰 let me know if you have any other questions 🤍

    • @maryamali9136
      @maryamali9136 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hii kamsi, the link to the relaxed hair video isn’t working

    • @nicholebent2661
      @nicholebent2661 ปีที่แล้ว

      What mild relaxer brand can you recommend. Thank you

    • @bgoode1820
      @bgoode1820 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am feeling exactly like you felt in this video.

  • @tay.chalant
    @tay.chalant 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    This video is confirmation, relaxing my hair tonight , I can’t take it anymore

    • @corie3586
      @corie3586 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Me too 🎉

    • @rebeccay-borotto2090
      @rebeccay-borotto2090 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      😂😂😂 talk about impulsivity, you go girl!!

    • @PelaeloMatabane
      @PelaeloMatabane 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Every time I say I am going to relax, someone complements my hair and I rethink the relaxing.

    • @konvoswithkai2
      @konvoswithkai2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I hear you cuz babayyyyyyy

    • @bridgettesweeney9809
      @bridgettesweeney9809 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😅😅😅 I'm thinking about it

  • @Yhudiejames
    @Yhudiejames ปีที่แล้ว +616

    I am a Natural hair content creator and I will like to point out that it’s possible to have a healthy relaxed hair…. As long as you are moderate on the chemical usage. The goal is to care for your hair whether natural or relaxed.

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Thank you

    • @Survivormj
      @Survivormj ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for saying this.

    • @deealia2568
      @deealia2568 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope! Anything chemically altered to that extent is by its very nature of being unnatural, unhealthy

    • @deealia2568
      @deealia2568 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, the goal is to care for the manufactured hair so it doesn’t break, but that doesn’t mean it’s healthy! That’s like saying weave is healthy. It’s over. All you are doing is maintaining it

    • @crumbz2106
      @crumbz2106 ปีที่แล้ว

      a wig/weave is not hair that is still attached to a human scalp and still alive. So the comparison don't make sense.@@deealia2568

  • @phoebeedwards8561
    @phoebeedwards8561 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    I have been relaxing my hair nonstop from the time I was 9 years old. I will be 56 next birthday. I have a full healthy head of hair. I have never worn braids or wigs. I relax my hair every 8 weeks. I wash my hair every weak and deep condition every other week. I take a regimen of vitamins and I eat healthy. I also get regular trims. I have absolutely no problems with my hair. Its cheaper to maintain and less fuss. My mother had it relaxed because I had plenty thick hair and she has problems combing it. At the start of menopause I had breakage and I just cut it into a shorter style until grew back out. There is no debate about relaxed or natural. You just have to do what is right for you.

    • @MphoPhokojoe-ir7we
      @MphoPhokojoe-ir7we ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Did you have cancer or fibroids coz that's what is scaring me

    • @hzlkelly
      @hzlkelly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How often do you trim? I think that’s one thing I don’t have down. I prefer my hair relaxed.

    • @Unique77783
      @Unique77783 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you!

    • @carolorishaba8536
      @carolorishaba8536 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MphoPhokojoe-ir7weme too

    • @treasuresais8416
      @treasuresais8416 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MphoPhokojoe-ir7we my mother and I developed them. Been relaxing since 8 and have zero familial history.

  • @tomi.a
    @tomi.a ปีที่แล้ว +335

    Girl I had such a deep sense of relief when I relaxed my hair. Natural hair took so much from me. Had it for 10yrs.

    • @uchechinwanosike4458
      @uchechinwanosike4458 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I can imagineeeee. Tbh I feel like I am gonna relax my hair or just cut it and dye it different colors because natural hair is just a lot. Do this, do that. I really don't have patience for it tbh. It's beautiful quite alright and all but abeggg

    • @ebby5129
      @ebby5129 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I permed my hair last week after being natural for about 5-6 years. I feel so relieved

    • @MsMoneyonMyMind
      @MsMoneyonMyMind ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Chile I cut all this sht off after 15+ years of being natural; I needed my Sundays back lol 😆

    • @e.o.a101
      @e.o.a101 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I want to relax my hair with the Avlon relaxer, But I'm scared my hair might fall out or I might get cancer...I'm bored of natural hair...What do you think I should do?

    • @DeeDeeKarol
      @DeeDeeKarol ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too, too much work. My stylist texlaxed mines on Saturday ❤️

  • @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique
    @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique ปีที่แล้ว +63

    A relaxer makes your hair more manageable!

  • @nazikiwe8259
    @nazikiwe8259 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    This is a good conversation to have - not being a slave to fake hair whether you're natural or relaxed.

    • @D0NCH33T0
      @D0NCH33T0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This. I really hate having weave in, especially since my dry 4c hair grows dandruff too easy, but two strands kinky twists are the only ways to keep my hair manageable

    • @sydbey947
      @sydbey947 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or hats 😂

    • @treasuresais8416
      @treasuresais8416 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Weave doesn't increase the chance of cancer and infertility so lets not prioritize relaxing over wigs

    • @simplesboutique
      @simplesboutique 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@treasuresais8416 Relaxers don't cause cancer, that's a half truth.

  • @Yarii85
    @Yarii85 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Relaxing my hair this week after a few years of wearing it natural. I’m so ready.

    • @G.A-m1t
      @G.A-m1t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How did it go?

  • @heathernicole8856
    @heathernicole8856 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I’m going back to relaxed hair. I’m tired of knots and tangles. Relaxed hair is more manageable

  • @officialvanny
    @officialvanny ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I relaxed my natural hair last year after 3years and am happy i did. It makes your life so easier, easy to comb and style.

  • @estheredigbe1518
    @estheredigbe1518 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I love this video because I was overwhelmed with wearing wigs and even more overwhelmed with wearing my hair out because I couldn’t seen the beauty in MY OWN HAIR. It’s a journey so I hope my confidence grows out more as I do it.

    • @CP-gq7en
      @CP-gq7en ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I was the same. I found confidence when my natural hair hit a certain length then I loved how it looked. Keep growing it out. I always felt self conscious in wigs it’s not for me x

  • @Didiecurls
    @Didiecurls ปีที่แล้ว +98

    As a natural hair content creator, I have to say people are honestly so different. When I was relaxed, I always had my hair ‘done’ because I was bored of the constant ‘packing style’. Now I’m natural, I have sooo many styles to explore and i rarely get added hair even when I style it. But my norm 70% of the time is THE PUFF! Yes girl😂 I’m over here puffing my whole life away! Lol but really everyone is different, just do what works best for you and enjoy the journey. ❤

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I would never ever relax my hair. The volume yassss!
      My 4c is easy to manage. I shampoo it like 3x a week

    • @elizabethhelget919
      @elizabethhelget919 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My 12 yo daughter has hair just like yours... what do you use to keep it so bouncy looking lol

    • @osamedennadi6309
      @osamedennadi6309 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@tmcurly3 times a week?

    • @Justsomebodyelse235
      @Justsomebodyelse235 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@osamedennadi6309The myth of black women not washing our hair 3-4 times a week is why black women have trouble retaining length. Our hair follicles clog and we consider it normal. It’s not. We should be washing our hair WAY more than we do.

    • @osamedennadi6309
      @osamedennadi6309 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Justsomebodyelse235 interesting.

  • @IAmPhasion
    @IAmPhasion ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love my natural relax ponytails that’s my signature . It’s so timeless and classy

  • @graceHumphreyy
    @graceHumphreyy ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Knowing what you want is where it all starts from! I also agree that this sleek and laid-back style complements you so well 😍.

  • @still.sophieee
    @still.sophieee ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Relaxed or 4B/C hair, they’re all natural.
    It’s from “Your” roots. I think what should be more important is that your hair is healthy💯
    I’ve watched you slay your relaxed hair and can’t dare to hate, it’s a great compliment to your look and aesthetic, I love it🙇🏽‍♀️❤️

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww thank youu🤍

    • @treasuresais8416
      @treasuresais8416 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the most important thing is that you're healthy and relaxers can be detrimental to your health.

  • @brendaboyd5830
    @brendaboyd5830 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I know exactly what you mean. Im about to relax my hair after 2 years of agony. I understand the bondage part. Im wearing MY hair from now on

  • @reginaokereke
    @reginaokereke ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I relax my hair 2-3 a year. I even use natural hair products to still take care of my hair. My hair grows really well and fast.
    I think most people should get to know their hair type (not just 4c kinda thing ) but how fast you hair get dry, your scalp etc.

    • @MaeOtto
      @MaeOtto ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I do twice a year as well. I use natural hair products too. I'm almost at mid back length. Relaxed hair grows too. Retention is key

  • @franklyfrances
    @franklyfrances ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Relaxing my 4C hair was the best thing that happened to me! 5months since I relaxed my hair and I have not put any extensions or worn a wig, just enjoying my hair and styling it however I want and it looks so good on me and ppl say it looks gorgeous as well! My life is def easier now for sure and no regrets!

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happy for you🤍

    • @_snicoles
      @_snicoles ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whew….. Im so closeee

    • @senaiaharris3574
      @senaiaharris3574 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Has it grown more?

    • @ItsjustKey
      @ItsjustKey 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What relaxer did you use? I am thinking about going my to relaxers

    • @franklyfrances
      @franklyfrances 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ItsjustKey I used Mega growth. It did the work.

  • @brittanyb4705
    @brittanyb4705 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love that you mentioned about the comments of “having your hair done” I love wearing my own hair in a low bun and feel my most beautiful that way! We are able to
    Show our features! And you look beautiful with your hair like that! ❤

  • @tosinolorunsola711
    @tosinolorunsola711 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    plss not the indomie lmao. i am glad you've found what works for you, Kamsi. as someone who has also found "their hairstyle" within the last year, i am an unofficial advocate for doing whatever tf you want. people will always have something to say. i have and LOVE my buzz cut and some folks (including family sometimes) won't stop asking me where my wigs are. let's all just do what works for us jare

  • @gho7787
    @gho7787 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with you wearing your regular hair in a simple style is perfect....you look beautiful ❤

  • @amarajenniferojiaka6239
    @amarajenniferojiaka6239 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Oh my gosh Kamsi! You hit the nail on the head. I used to never carry my actual hair out and always hid it under wigs. My hair wasn’t healthy back then but I started educating myself and being intentional with my routine and my hair started thriving.
    I started wearing it out more and that’s when I observed that Nigerian ladies and men alike think it’s awkward for you to not have any extensions. I remember someone once asked if I never “made my hair” for religious reasons.
    I was like haaa!!

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂 real haa o

    • @goodnews_hanson
      @goodnews_hanson ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same experience here. I just ignore people's thoughts and opinions

    • @MsJayski
      @MsJayski ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Everyone is convinced I'm Muslim cos my hair is never out...how do I explain aloe and clove water under a shower cap to people 😂😂

  • @thatssoez6523
    @thatssoez6523 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for your confidence as a relaxed girly, I as a guy enjoy even my hair relaxed but I took in so much information i live for it. Bout to relax my hair today 😂

  • @shellyb.8387
    @shellyb.8387 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your hairstyle compliments your beautiful skin and features. You look amazing

  • @jesusisgodislove9912
    @jesusisgodislove9912 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    In bondage, that's a really good way to put it. I felt that way too

  • @Tahiha
    @Tahiha ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m 48 and my “hairstyle” since high school has always been a bun or ponytail too. It compliments my face the best. Even when I wear wigs it’s in a low bun or ponytail.

  • @dearomonso
    @dearomonso ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love the new background! Amazing video Kamsi.
    I relaxed my natural hair last year and its the best decision i've made. I don't regret it at all because its alot easier for me to manage and manipulate my hair now.
    I'm able to do more styles. I stress less about how my hair looks. There's more versatility. Its just so easy!
    At the end of the day just do what you want with your hair and keep it healthy.

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true, big emphasis on stressing less

  • @adhope2729
    @adhope2729 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your hair looks awesome. I had a relaxer since I was 18. I have been natural for two years and I am fed up with how much work it takes for ME being natural. I think I'm going to get my hair relaxed. Not because straight is better, it is just so much easier.

  • @iamme50
    @iamme50 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this video! So many parts that had me screaming YAAAASSS!!! You look amazing and you're so funny lol I have locs and considering combing my locs out soon. I'm ready for this change 💛

  • @le3659
    @le3659 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow, contemplating relaxing my hair and this shows up❤❤

  • @fromsilver5
    @fromsilver5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was contemplating stopping relaxers as I have only had 2 starting last year and want to be healthier but the maintenance involved and how I just want to look DONE out the shower very minimal work involved has me reconsidering 😀

  • @mikabwembya3696
    @mikabwembya3696 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Babyyy your teeth, your smileee I love it❤🥹
    Love your videos even more!❤️

  • @angelasmit9979
    @angelasmit9979 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow, I started this journey at the beginning of the year and my hair has grown so well, and for a while I received such harsh comments that relaxing your hair is not natural. I'm happy that you encouraged me once again to continue. Thank you so much Kamsi.

  • @anjaniquesomiari
    @anjaniquesomiari ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I have fine 4c natural hair, and wearing my hair everyday in sleeked looks is very doable. People ask me a lot when I’ll get my hair done, but my hair hates protective styles, and I don’t even love them either. Sleek looks give me the confidence I need. I’m literally getting my hair done everyday, so what are they saying fr 🤣.

    • @sirennoir258
      @sirennoir258 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have fine 4c hair and the weather is dry l. Relaxers are what it is for me

  • @Sisima13
    @Sisima13 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I used to be relaxed my whole life and decided to go natural during Covid lockdowns because I felt adventurous 😂
    Now I don’t really see myself going back. I feel like relaxed hair is pretty high maintenance too because you always have to keep up with the relaxer touch ups and make sure to find a way to keep your hair from shedding excessively(which I was not good at 😅) I’m honestly more of a lazy natural, just wash my hair once every 1-2 weeks and leave it in a protective style. That’s what works best for me. At the end of the day, relaxed or natural you still need to make some kind of effort in taking care of it. Just do what’s best for you 😊

  • @MBCrusin
    @MBCrusin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Been natural my entire life. Got my first relaxer at 27 and will never go back to natural again. My hair is still past bra length

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really admire your hair anytime i watch your videos thanks for the tips you dropped about growth.

  • @princessbuttercup482
    @princessbuttercup482 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kamsi, please preach!!!!!!!! Why can't I appreciate my hair? Why is it seen as “not being done”?

  • @shashavonlovely8202
    @shashavonlovely8202 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I came to this video for confirmation. I been natural for over 10 years and I’m thinking about getting my hair relaxed again. It’s hard to maintain natural hair.

  • @darrenlynb
    @darrenlynb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve been thinking I wanted to get a perm. This is motivating me. Thank you so much.

  • @ladyj8552
    @ladyj8552 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When I was still on relaxed hair, I leave my hair for 6months before I relax again so I just relax my hair just twice in a yr. It helped me retain lenght. But I notice my hair was shedding too much at a time so I decided to go natural

  • @zikoraozor8947
    @zikoraozor8947 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved this video. relaxed hair is so comfortable and stress free. Made the best decision relaxing my hair ❤️

  • @ifelajakehinde
    @ifelajakehinde ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She has spoken what has been on my mind of late😂. My hair is done if I’m on my natural hair period😌💅.

  • @JasmineL-hr6yk
    @JasmineL-hr6yk ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg, you look absolutely stunning! I intend to relax my hair in a few months and saw your relaxer video. Thank you for the update. Great to see you so happy with your hair. Very inspiring.

  • @hilaryantwi9523
    @hilaryantwi9523 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Relaxing my hair tomorrow

  • @RachelRoseMusafiri
    @RachelRoseMusafiri ปีที่แล้ว

    Your favourite hair style is my favourite hair style on myself too. The bun just brings out all the beautiful features.

  • @teyoo.lindsay
    @teyoo.lindsay ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Also, yes to the new background. The wood used to reflect your light sources. This is really lovely

  • @Asmyyyyy
    @Asmyyyyy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the detailed wardrobe doors😍

  • @harajuka1barbz
    @harajuka1barbz ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We shed on average 80-100 strands daily. As you mentioned in your video, you wore your hair 90% of the time in protective styles. Therefore, it was hard for you to notice the shedding.

  • @bbhairyfros1996
    @bbhairyfros1996 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your hair is giving.
    I remember when you decided to relax your hair
    I was like oops I hope the outcome will worth it.
    But now seeing your hair on relaxed
    I.must confess I think I love it more🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @sariahlace5944
    @sariahlace5944 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If you find a combination of products,that really (soften)your new growth.Then you can,extend your gap,between relaxing.
    Shampoo/conditioner,moisture & protein treatments,your styling products.And you can also,use a electrical pressing comb,to straighten your hair.This is what I do.Also you can saturate your hair with Ghee,it’s an Indian cooking butter,it conditions,softens,smoothes,and grows hair.

    • @nzingascott3309
      @nzingascott3309 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m about to give it up 15 years natural.. I had a baby and can’t take it anymore..what is your ghee hair regime ?

  • @sincerelyels
    @sincerelyels ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve never been natural but I looove my relaxed hair so much, I can’t imagine my life without it. I do believe natural hair is beautiful and would love to consider it at some point though. Your hair is thriving by the way 🤩😍💗

  • @danielleholland3491
    @danielleholland3491 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your honesty Kamsi and appreciate your transparency!!! Hair is beautiful either way, and I am relaxed as well. Was natural 6 years and was very unhappy and too time consuming. I love being relaxed again and I am NEVER going back natural lol

  • @Eveningstar836
    @Eveningstar836 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you this video gave me the push I need :)

  • @chinenyeosuji8267
    @chinenyeosuji8267 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need a hair care routine and tips

  • @Yhudiejames
    @Yhudiejames ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I asked Bae today, remember kamsi that my favorite TH-camr and he goes…. How can I forget, you drum her name in my ears 😅😅😅 go girl I am always rooting for you. You made me start my TH-cam channel and I love my growth so far. Thank you ❤❤❤

    • @Joanloveikani
      @Joanloveikani ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can relate. That's how my sister won't let me rest. Everytime kamsi, kamsi, kamsi. I tire...I'm sha here😅

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thank youu🥹 and congrats on your channel

    • @Yhudiejames
      @Yhudiejames ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Joanloveikani kamsi has an effect on people❤️🥰🥰

    • @Yhudiejames
      @Yhudiejames ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kamsinnamani Thank you Sis🤎

  • @PaulineMitchell
    @PaulineMitchell ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes girl, I love your attitude you definitely motivated me to go through with it today. I am running to the store to get my perm

  • @tomisinakintokun305
    @tomisinakintokun305 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First one here 🎉
    I’ve had relaxed hair all my life but never use to wear it out. But after seeing you girlllll, ponytails have been the order of the day for me for the past couple of months. If I’m trying to be fancy, I add a detachable ponytail 😅

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww so happy to hear🥹🤍

  • @toreraibrahim8182
    @toreraibrahim8182 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love and enjoyed this video.. Thank you for sharing, the new background looks very pleasant. Have an amazing rest of your week kam 💜

  • @Ms_Ifunanya
    @Ms_Ifunanya ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve really enjoyed watching this video.

  • @diboleloanniekamota6585
    @diboleloanniekamota6585 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this video,i have a full on 4c thick natural hair that everyone seem to love and i do too but that ish is painful.. For my bday next month I'm letting it hang loose..i cannot wait..And thank you soo much for your tips,i will definitely be taking note😉🤗🤗

  • @Dandydiddy
    @Dandydiddy ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi kamsi please could you drop the hair routine

  • @TestimonysPOV
    @TestimonysPOV ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The makeup though 🤯👏🏽

  • @Theonlinebillionaire22
    @Theonlinebillionaire22 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is really lovely!!! Can you please do a video on the real effects of Edge control 😊

  • @hzlkelly
    @hzlkelly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly. My hair is a lot too. I just prefer to relax. I totally understand why my grandma and mum kept it relaxed and it was always healthy and beautiful.
    I’m just not with keeping it natural it costs me more money because some people’s hair isn’t as thick they use less of the product. I use three times as much which makes it expensive to maintain it natural.
    I love it relaxed and will continue to. I’m going for a pixie cut. I had a baby 8 months ago and my hair has become rogue 😂😂😂

  • @CmartY66
    @CmartY66 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly I can’t wait to relax my hair. I have such thick natural hair which really overwhelms me these days, limited hairstyling and what not. I want to leave my hair out more.

  • @itunuolukunle
    @itunuolukunle ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am at the point where I do not want to do anything at all to my natural hair, feels like I am in bondage, I have been hiding it away in protective styles, not having fun with my hair anymore. I am really contemplating relaxing it.

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 ปีที่แล้ว

      I started to feel like that but I choose colour and a tapered cut instead of relaxer. I also find having two textures annoying when the relaxer grows out.

  • @toshag888
    @toshag888 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my goodness… I absolutely love wearing my hair in a pony tail pulled back. I get the same bs about doing my hair… I don’t like how I look with weave or wigs and I don’t like wearing my hair down all the time🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @teyoo.lindsay
    @teyoo.lindsay ปีที่แล้ว +8

    it's interesting that you get comments on your hair not being 'done'. it's been the opposite for me. since my relaxer in Jan 22, I keep getting compliments on how beautiful the hair looks, how it's made me look more mature etc. people will always have weird opinions lol

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol really…I get compliments but then followed up with when I’m doing my hair🤣

    • @teyoo.lindsay
      @teyoo.lindsay ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kamsinnamani Lmaoo we can never win😭😩

  • @vanessaosei-bonsu8603
    @vanessaosei-bonsu8603 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve been going back and forth about relaxing my hair and I’m thinking to just go ahead and relax my hair tomorrow. Can you share your routine, and what you do in between relaxers, do you do any relaxers at home?

  • @bridgetabakunebe8965
    @bridgetabakunebe8965 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loving the new background 😍😍

  • @perryrand876
    @perryrand876 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omor the quality of this video 🔥🔥🔥

  • @armygurl399
    @armygurl399 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was relaxed from the age of 9 to about my late 20s. My hair was so healthy. I’m now natural and don’t wear wigs and braids maybe 5 times and I’ve been natural for over 10 years. I’m not considering going back relaxed.

  • @aguguachidera1131
    @aguguachidera1131 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What salon do you get your hair done at? Cause it looks like you have the relaxing professionally done

  • @Susan_adike
    @Susan_adike ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ✨Lowkey love the new background, very simple and very Kamsi if that makes sense but yeah you gerrit😂☺️

    • @kamsinnamani
      @kamsinnamani  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank youu Susan 🥰 not done yet though

  • @IamLanesia
    @IamLanesia 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your freedom

  • @favouryahaya878
    @favouryahaya878 ปีที่แล้ว

    Relaxed my hair last week after 2years of being natural.... Best decision ever ..

  • @nalaamour
    @nalaamour ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Totally agree!! My hair grows better and much faster when relaxed! 💯

  • @marienguessan8520
    @marienguessan8520 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't understand when people talk about chemicals, even our shampoos, conditioners, leave in, body wash are chemicals.
    And I read the article, some deep conditioning and some other type of straightening were mentioned, plus certain hair coloring. And many of the people already have genetic predispositions, the frequency which they used the relaxer at, the type of relaxer had more to do with the study than a literal causation from what I recall.
    I used to be afraid for years of going back of the popularization of the conclusion without giving enough details. But when I read it, I texturized it the same week because it was either that or cutting my hair again, more than 8 times. It is healthy but too dense and requires too much work and time, especially in the cold now.

  • @uchechinwanosike4458
    @uchechinwanosike4458 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can relateeeeeeeee oh my! I can so relate to that feeling of bondage. I really am not one who has the time to care for my hair and natural hair requires just so much care. Anytime I loose my hair, I have to quickly make a bew hair because caring for natural hair is just a lot. I have full hair and so I can't decide to just leave my hair packed when it's natural and it's so annoying

  • @arvyarvy4242
    @arvyarvy4242 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    in the last 4 years ive gone through natural to microlocs , last weekend i cut of my locs (big chop) i want to grow my hair out this time straight and ill be "heat training" its a great alternative to relaxer

  • @kikaamadin
    @kikaamadin ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Not the shade at indomie please 😂 The slick back hairstyle fits you alotttt and it has this clean look
    I use to be a relaxed hair girl right from childhood,but I decided to go natural for change of look, something different I guess, sometimes it can be a lot when managing, but I love it though, I enjoyed the video btw ❤️

  • @ibcntvirayahbroadcasts4607
    @ibcntvirayahbroadcasts4607 ปีที่แล้ว

    And you look beautiful! I'm thinking about it as well...my hair has a great length and I'm a little nervous.

  • @ThrivewithTemi
    @ThrivewithTemi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please the link for the relaxed hair channel isn't working, can it be rectified

    • @blackebony4090
      @blackebony4090 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The link isn’t working for me either😢

  • @prudievibes
    @prudievibes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just relaxed my hair...so m here to read to comments

  • @Topself24
    @Topself24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It looks good slick back. Beautiful

  • @auducomfort7632
    @auducomfort7632 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im going to relax my hairrr!!. What relaxer did you use

  • @osarugueigbinigie9879
    @osarugueigbinigie9879 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much Kamsi😍

  • @amarachiruth1685
    @amarachiruth1685 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love love the new background kamsi and you rock your hair so well, as long as it’s not illegal, do what works for you always💕 💕

  • @princessivwurie
    @princessivwurie ปีที่แล้ว

    road to 100k, im so gassed 4 youuuuuu

  • @duduzilezondo2200
    @duduzilezondo2200 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thinking of relaxing my hair. Im tired now

  • @Angelros3
    @Angelros3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s GIVING! 😍

  • @Lizbethefe
    @Lizbethefe ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Notification geng 😁. I relaxed my hair a month after yours. Thank God I'm loving it the way you are.

  • @flythrive6633
    @flythrive6633 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had my natural hair for about 4 years. Its thickness and shrinkage are authentic curios to go back to relaxers because I'm tired of braiding and twisting out and constantly having to get protective styles because my hair isn't the pretty lossy glossy curls. I felt that because unfortunately, even blowouts or silk presses would only last 1-2 days, even with wrapping before heat and humidity takes over.

  • @angelvenus-africa4161
    @angelvenus-africa4161 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been natural my entire life . Somewhat. I've dyed my hair. A couple times . Same issue . It's a chemical
    I didn't feel connected to myself.
    When I used these chemicals.
    With my natural hair I feel closer to my self , my ancestors , my culture, my GODS AND GODDESSES!!
    I AM OF THEM.
    I LOVE THEM I LOVE ALL OF MY CURLS MY TEXTURES AND MY FEATURES.

    • @teneillegordon9946
      @teneillegordon9946 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I agree. I'm not the biggest fan of black women having to alter their natural hair just for it to look straight all of the time. Black hair isn't straight, so our natural hair is our own lovely ethnic beauty. It's fine if others don't agree and obviously you can do what you want with your hair, but...I can't be the only one that's kind of disappointed in this...

  • @TestimonysPOV
    @TestimonysPOV ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your hair Kamsi, it's giving hair goals for me☺️

  • @sirennoir258
    @sirennoir258 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I went back to relaxers. It is what it is.

  • @cayfordhephzibah
    @cayfordhephzibah ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the new background! The hair really suits you ❤

  • @DigitalEzenwanyi
    @DigitalEzenwanyi ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl do You!

  • @aramideugbomeh
    @aramideugbomeh ปีที่แล้ว

    Your hair is beautiful, whichever way you choose to flunt it. It'll still be beautiful. And you're looking real good here.