that bra thing is what guys do that are stuck in this kind of child age shenanigans mode like it worked being a bit like that as kids (he probably did that on his mom do tease her as a kid and she laughed about it!)
OMG - You need to write a book about this experience and any other bizarre life moments. The left ear part totally slayed me; the tattoo was the icing on that rancid cake. Thanks for being such a ray of sunshine!
Oh wow I've only just watched your previous bad date story, looking forward to hearing this one 🤣 I've just had a bad date experience myself where a guy I met on a dating app asked me at 9pm if I'd go on a drive with him on a cold, dark rainy October night, for our first ever meeting? Seemed super dodgy. He kept trying to bulldoze my boundaries and when he realised it wouldn't work he started insulting me under the guise of jokes and called me a cougar as I'm older than him. He was horrible! I feel much better knowing it's not just me meeting these bad apples.
Omg "Bulldoze my Boundaries" is an incredible line. I'm so sorry you had to go through that! Dating can be fun, but they're definitely balanced with some awful dates in there. Just be safe and enjoy the good ones.
HOW do you only have 1.7K subscribers? You're a great storyteller and were so respectful throughout! Definitely subscribing & looking forward to seeing this channel grow 💚
You do have a really unusual good talent for telling stories, i have worked in theater and media and i imagine that i have aqquired an "ear" for this talent (but i can't prove that here, i just want to tell where i am coming from with my opinions below) i am absolutely convinced of that if you told stories like this, from your life or others lives it would be the thing that explodes you on youtube, I've spent hundreds of hours listening to what people do on the stage and help them adjust to find their best way to tell stories on stage you nail almost all of the generl "boxes" really well, and you do it naturally on top of everything. That it's natural makes it even better, much better! My humble suggestion is that you go all-in on storytelling like this, study the art of storytelling by reading about it and studying others, etc but keep your natural thing, develop it and experiment so, why am i doing this?, why am i engaging in trying to inspire you become big on youtuber? is it because your beautiful and i am just trying to flirt with you? no its not, i am gay, tho you are very very beautiful of course :-)! the reason is, that i watched many many other storytelling videos the same night i found yours, and i found that you have something in your ways that in my theatre, we would call "healing quality". it is a real thing, its when an actor beyond what they're "doing" and beyond their acting, have a something natural that they can't turn off, that makes peoples wounds heal and makes their well being become refilled, (in theatre we are forced to invent words that dont exist for things that cant be described - and shouldn't be described by anyone outside of this business) im not sure if its needed, you probably understood from what i wrote already but to be sure that you understand, 100 percent sure, because i think it is that important that you do, please allow me to talk raw inside the office walls only theatre language with you for a moment this quality that you have cant be bought for money, and so people infinitely appreciate when they get it for free, without taking it from someone else. this world is really starved of well being and healing and most people are desperate, for it for good reasons, but there is nobody around to give it out but on the stage, it is possible to heal a thousand people for the price of none, if its a natural quality it is the perfect match! giving good things without it costing anyone anything! i want to help you because i see a possibility for you to do a lot of good, for millions of other people, and become famous at the same time! seems a deal too good to be true, but in this case, it is true! I get out of this that if i inspired you do a lot of good for others, just by writing a letter (this became more of a letter then a comment) then i have done a lot of good too, with very little effort, and this makes it a good deal for me! i want to add that it is extremely hard making it by doing the other kinds of videos that you have made since there are a trillion other channels that already do that, to become big doing that yo have to be very good at overkill and overdoing everything to reach out through the screen better than everyone else when everyone else screams people expect you to scream! but in storytelling people zoom in, listen in, and want exactly what you already have, so this way you already are unique without any effort!
Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate your sweet comments and words of wisdom. Storytelling is definitely something that I enjoy doing, so I hope to continue doing it on this channel! It absolutely sounds like you know what you're talking about, so I am grateful you took the time to share your thoughts :)
Boundaries... people only do what you allow them to. Men will always test women to see how far they can go and you have to be okay with dismissing them and no longer engaging... no matter how much you may like the person
That last line happened to me.😆 My right ear is slightly deformed and I can't hear out if it. The annoying overly friendly entitled priest at my church who was very soft spoken, apparently said 'hi' to me in a loud crowded hallway every Sunday, on my right ear for months? Years? I don't know. I just remember him always staring at me as I walked by. I didn't figure it out until he asked me why I was so rude one day. He looked so embarrassed once I told him I was deaf in that ear and couldn't hear his quiet voice over everyone else with my other ear. He never said hi to me again. Praise Buddha. 🙌🏽
Sorry about the bad date, but honestly this was hilarious to me because my fiancé is deaf in one ear. We’re two years in I still tell him shit in his left ear completely forgetting he can’t hear 😂
Appreciate you for going on this date and detailing your evening. You sound like an awesome girl. Those piano battle spots are super fun. Celebrated my birthday at The Shout House here in SD.
NO the saying goes "Fool me once, shame on YOU, fool me twice, shame on ME. That's also not what "Gaslighting" means. Gaslighting is convincing someone that something they experienced didn't happen, and telling them that they are mistaken, crazy, or dreamed the whole thing. That is not what you described.
Who teaches these kinda guys about these inappropriate behaviors and just expecting sex. Like I'm really confused and disturbed the deeper I keep thinking about these issues
Don't forget, alcohol was involved. Combine that with a recent war vet, where the majority of his actions is with other men, interactions with women can easily go askew.
Okay I’m married to a guy now for 7 years who was also a veteran and told me the same things your date told me. Granted I was 49, divorced. I had been married 14 years with two kids. Pretty much found out our whole marriage was a lie. Smooth talker, shallow and a liar and a cheater. So at this point in my life I wanted straightforwardness. And I love deep conversations over superficial ones. The few stories he told didn’t bother me. (Btw I’ve learned way worse things he’s been through. Horrific things from the military. I would guess this was the tip of the iceberg from your date too.) Now when I was your age would I have felt the same way? I don’t know. These guess have been through hell. All I know is I’m happily married for 7 years now and he’s awesome.
I found the way she was talking about his PTSD in the millitary part very offensive..I guess some people are still immature and want to have only fun conversations like kids..Deep conversations over shallow superficial ones are only for matured people..
@@swejyotimitra6450I have a ptsd diagnosis but I wasn't offended. It's OK if she can't handle ptsd, not everyone can. That's what dating is for, to find out about eachother and learn any potential deal breakers. Not everyones deal breakers are the same, ie for me smoking is a deal breaker but for other women it's not. I definitely think when we're older we look for different things in partners, she looks young and was just dating casually. It's OK to not want to take on certain types of baggage, better to be honest about it early on and part ways so you can find other people you're better matched with.
It's disgusting that this poor man has been through absolute Hell, in a toxic relationship, and serving his country, even getting injured protecting our freedoms, and you all call that cringe. Even mocking his disability. You should be ashamed. Also stop dating dudes that you have no interest in. It's called leading someone on, and it's a shitty thing to do. You're just manipulating their emotions, taking advantage of their resources, time, and validation, with no genuine interest whatsoever. It's no different than committing fraud, and it makes you a terrible person.
Never take a woman to a loud bar or movie for your first date. And he needed to keep his secrets and personal demons to himself. He should have planned the date to be in a fun and quiet place... where you two could speak to each other without all of the drama.
You’re funny ! Loved your storytime 😊... (I guess he went into that part of his life because it plays a great deal of importance and it’s part of his story, he felt especially comfortable saying this because of the drinks, I’m sure. But I do carry a soft spot in my heart for the military because my siblings have had tours overseas and it can be a sad/happy subject at times.)
Thanks so much 🤗 and definitely, I guess he was just more comfortable with the situation than I was, especially considering some of the other actions he took 😬
Hi Jacy I love your hair I was just wondering is it high lights or one color?? Can you please tell me the color so I could mention the color to my hairdresser ?? Thank You
Hi Theresa, I actually dye it myself! I have a tutorial on here of how I do it, but I basically weave out sections, bleach only the regrowth, then tone with Wella T11. Hope it helps!
Morals of the story (spoilers): 1. Be on time 2. No gaslighting 3. No pity parties 4. No creeping 5. No weird flattering 6. No tatooing chicks on your bicep.
I don't know why but I like this guy already... this girl was definitely expecting him to put her on a pedestal and bend over backwards to please her, he treated her like what she is, another woman, at this point she also hasn't demonstrated anything special about her for him to be all gentleman about it all... I love this guy. As soon as you realize there will be no sex or no good possibility of sex and the woman is this sensitive and standoffish, feeling herself the prize or something, than do as you please, and screw it if she doesn't like it... remember people, he knew her better than she knew him, she didn't even know he drank at the bar before, she is all about her, but I bet you he did pay attention and observed her all those times she went to that bar!! So he knew her better than she imagined.
The guy didn’t share any true interest in her in the first place? He trauma dumped on her to gain “a connection” and then undid her bra in a public setting more than once even after noticing her discomfort. That’s weird. I don’t know of any circumstances where this would be normal behavior for taking someone out FOR THE FIRST TIME. Also if you watched the full story time she bought a round of drinks and participated throughout the whole date even when he crossed the line twice. She even offered to talk to him privately about what made her uncomfortable. I don’t see how she’s the “issue”. They just weren’t a good fit. No need to shame or point fingers.
@@user-vo8uc7qp3c No need to shame or point fingers?? isn't the what you're doing here?? You shared your point of view, the woman in the video did too, but we event heard from him, she seems playful (goofy?) like she is too cool for whatever place she is, I've seen this behavior on people who feel the opposite, it is a coping strategy> But even if it was a first date, they knew each other better than most people know each other, what did HE see in her all those times she went to the bar prior to this?? She wants to portray herself as an angel but that is unlikely... he known habits and behavior tells otherwise, that is not "shaming" anyone, it is what you can deduct by reasoning beyond the words, if you concentrate on the actions of both parties, don't you think she would have noticed this behavior prior if he is as nuts as he portrays him to be?? If she DIDN'T that also tells a different story about her narcissism. To each his own, what I said is what I got from it, you can believe her all she said, she is cute and likable and all that, most of it pretended, but that will end as soon as her beauty fades. Then all those quirks and goofiness will just be what why are, an annoyance. People tolerate this sort of woman for her beauty, if she didn't have that no one would put up with it, and by now the world, life, wold have told her to stop that crap. Is not like she didn't know what men want, even if she pretends he just wanted to know her great personality.
I just recently found you on TH-cam ur a delight and so entertaining to listen too . Ive been laughing my butt off while cleaning. I think You look like Anna Lynn McCord beautiful 😘.
The guy in your story you've had a date with had probably read Models by Mark Mansion or something alike on the importance of vulnerability in attracting women. Unfortunately for him, he took it too seriously and went on being too transparent with you too quickly instead of keeping stuff for himself and filtering less and less of it as the relationship grew. He probably tried to manipulate you into being sympathetic towards him to spark feelings of compassion and love in you. Look into Mark Mansions's dating advice, particularly Models. It is one of the best advice I've read but men have to be careful in gauging how they approach it. The guy you were on a ''date'' with seemed to have used the advice as a technique instead of a way of approaching dating with honesty and being himself. Hanging out in a musical bar is not the place to share traumatizing experiences.
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Make sure to check out my first Bad Date Storytime here: th-cam.com/video/AI588Of1xyk/w-d-xo.html
Girl ur story-telling skills r immaculate. I was able to imagine every single detail 👏🏽 sorry u had to go through that
Thank you so much! It at least made for a good story lol
Ditto that!
Yeah the bra thing was creepy....he doesn't understand boundaries which is the worst trait.
Thought the same thing!
Creepy is the best way to describe it, especially since the first time was not well-received!
that bra thing is what guys do that are stuck in this kind of child age shenanigans mode like it worked being a bit like that as kids (he probably did that on his mom do tease her as a kid and she laughed about it!)
Yes, boundaries, cause I would have never come back to the table.
I had a guy do that once n to b honest I was kinda impressed lol
what i took away is that PTSD really affects all facets of your life. Sad.
I love it when a guy let's me know he's a train wreck on the first date lol. I block him as soon as I leave!
Haha better on the first one than wasting my time on more dates 😅
your hair is so so so so so cute!! I also adore how you tell stories. :D
OMG - You need to write a book about this experience and any other bizarre life moments. The left ear part totally slayed me; the tattoo was the icing on that rancid cake. Thanks for being such a ray of sunshine!
Icing on the rancid cake, what an amazing phrase! But thanks so much :)
Great and hilariously funny dating story! I would have been out of there after the first bra thingy though.
Haha well i didn't think he was dumb enough to do it again!! But lesson learned lol
Your reenactment of the bar with him talking about serious stuff was hella funny
not the left ear 😭💀
Haha omg Jenna I love you 😂
Oh wow I've only just watched your previous bad date story, looking forward to hearing this one 🤣 I've just had a bad date experience myself where a guy I met on a dating app asked me at 9pm if I'd go on a drive with him on a cold, dark rainy October night, for our first ever meeting? Seemed super dodgy. He kept trying to bulldoze my boundaries and when he realised it wouldn't work he started insulting me under the guise of jokes and called me a cougar as I'm older than him. He was horrible! I feel much better knowing it's not just me meeting these bad apples.
Omg "Bulldoze my Boundaries" is an incredible line. I'm so sorry you had to go through that! Dating can be fun, but they're definitely balanced with some awful dates in there. Just be safe and enjoy the good ones.
These stories make me feel better too, I’m glad I’m not the only one meeting these nightmare men- wtf is wrong with the men?
The thing with the "good ear" and army stories is so on point, I had the same experience with a guy and it was so cringe 😂😂😂🙌
Haha I hope it's not a common thing, but cringe is the best way to describe it!!
also your complexion and hair are absolutely gorgeous and enhance your features a lot!
"I'm sorry you felt that way"
Gaslighting 101 😂😂
HOW do you only have 1.7K subscribers? You're a great storyteller and were so respectful throughout! Definitely subscribing & looking forward to seeing this channel grow 💚
Thank you so much!! Hoping to grow in the new year ☺
You do have a really unusual good talent for telling stories,
i have worked in theater and media and i imagine that i have aqquired an "ear" for this talent (but i can't prove that here, i just want to tell where i am coming from with my opinions below)
i am absolutely convinced of that if you told stories like this, from your life or others lives it would be the thing that explodes you on youtube,
I've spent hundreds of hours listening to what people do on the stage and help them adjust to find their best way to tell stories on stage
you nail almost all of the generl "boxes" really well, and you do it naturally on top of everything. That it's natural makes it even better, much better!
My humble suggestion is that you go all-in on storytelling like this, study the art of storytelling by reading about it and studying others, etc but keep your natural thing, develop it and experiment
so, why am i doing this?, why am i engaging in trying to inspire you become big on youtuber?
is it because your beautiful and i am just trying to flirt with you?
no its not, i am gay, tho you are very very beautiful of course :-)!
the reason is, that i watched many many other storytelling videos the same night i found yours, and i found that you have something in your ways that in my theatre, we would call
"healing quality".
it is a real thing, its when an actor beyond what they're "doing" and beyond their acting, have a something natural that they can't turn off, that makes peoples wounds heal and makes their well being become refilled,
(in theatre we are forced to invent words that dont exist for things that cant be described - and shouldn't be described by anyone outside of this business)
im not sure if its needed, you probably understood from what i wrote already
but to be sure that you understand, 100 percent sure, because i think it is that important that you do, please allow me to talk raw inside the office walls only theatre language with you for a moment
this quality that you have cant be bought for money, and so people infinitely appreciate when they get it for free, without taking it from someone else.
this world is really starved of well being and healing and most people are desperate, for it for good reasons, but there is nobody around to give it out
but on the stage, it is possible to heal a thousand people for the price of none, if its a natural quality it is the perfect match! giving good things without it costing anyone anything!
i want to help you because i see a possibility for you to do a lot of good, for millions of other people,
and become famous at the same time!
seems a deal too good to be true, but in this case, it is true!
I get out of this that if i inspired you do a lot of good for others, just by writing a letter (this became more of a letter then a comment) then i have done a lot of good too, with very little effort, and this makes it a good deal for me!
i want to add that it is extremely hard making it by doing the other kinds of videos that you have made since there are a trillion other channels that already do that, to become big doing that yo have to be very good at overkill and overdoing everything to reach out through the screen better than everyone else when everyone else screams people expect you to scream!
but in storytelling people zoom in, listen in, and want exactly what you already have, so this way you already are unique without any effort!
Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate your sweet comments and words of wisdom. Storytelling is definitely something that I enjoy doing, so I hope to continue doing it on this channel! It absolutely sounds like you know what you're talking about, so I am grateful you took the time to share your thoughts :)
LMFAOOOO I love it 👂 deafinitely need more horror stories 😂💀
Haha thanks for the support, stay tuned :P
I see what you did there 😂😂
Girl, I just watched the first bad date video this morning. 😂
Boundaries... people only do what you allow them to. Men will always test women to see how far they can go and you have to be okay with dismissing them and no longer engaging... no matter how much you may like the person
My absolute favorite story time 😭😂🤣 I’m at work right now listening and when I heard the line I bursted out laughing 😂 Love you Jacy! 😘
I would buy the merch 😭 this entire video is amazing. But the tattoo 🤣 , definitely a sign.
Haha the tattoo should've been my clue to get the heck outta there 😅
Im 💀!! I’m literally binging all you videos!!! You’re Hilarious! “Did you say it in my left ear” 🤣🤣This guy seemed so inappropriate, I can’t! !
this was pretty funny girl the left ear part 😂😂 u made me smile so hard new sub
Haha glad I could brighten your day!
I like the fact that you were going to tell him you weren't interested. Most people ghost.
That last line happened to me.😆 My right ear is slightly deformed and I can't hear out if it. The annoying overly friendly entitled priest at my church who was very soft spoken, apparently said 'hi' to me in a loud crowded hallway every Sunday, on my right ear for months? Years? I don't know. I just remember him always staring at me as I walked by. I didn't figure it out until he asked me why I was so rude one day. He looked so embarrassed once I told him I was deaf in that ear and couldn't hear his quiet voice over everyone else with my other ear. He never said hi to me again. Praise Buddha. 🙌🏽
I love your personality, you are so funny! Subscribed and bell on! :D
Thanks so much for your support 🤗
Yes! Please more dating horror stories! You’re such a great story teller 🙏🙏
Yoooooo you are HILARIOUS 😂😩🤣🤣🤣😩 I almost chocked when you said did you say it in my left ear 🥴😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣daaaaaammmmmmnnnn ittttt
I’m deaf on my left and I use that line far too often, I want that T-shirt
Lmao, Just Friends cracks me up. 😂
Sorry about the bad date, but honestly this was hilarious to me because my fiancé is deaf in one ear. We’re two years in I still tell him shit in his left ear completely forgetting he can’t hear 😂
Hahaha what are the odds 😂 glad he can make light of the situation!
Please do more story times! Your really good at telling them! :D greetings from Mexico!
Thanks so much!! I'll add them to my list 🤗
I am cracking up because you are laughing at his line!!
haha ... great story. Yea he was definitely out of line with his behavior. My go-to is this when I'm not into someone via text or in person ...
U are soooo funny hunny ♥️🤣
The loud music and the deep conversation 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you! Yes, not the time or place for that 😅🤔
Appreciate you for going on this date and detailing your evening. You sound like an awesome girl. Those piano battle spots are super fun. Celebrated my birthday at The Shout House here in SD.
Thanks so much 🤗 those Piano bars are so fun, can't wait until post-COVID when I can go again!
@@JacyErin: I strongly agree piano bars are fun. Same here, waiting for post Covid.
LOL great story! Im dead lol. Funny AF
NO the saying goes "Fool me once, shame on YOU, fool me twice, shame on ME.
That's also not what "Gaslighting" means. Gaslighting is convincing someone that something they experienced didn't happen, and telling them that they are mistaken, crazy, or dreamed the whole thing. That is not what you described.
Who teaches these kinda guys about these inappropriate behaviors and just expecting sex. Like I'm really confused and disturbed the deeper I keep thinking about these issues
Don't forget, alcohol was involved. Combine that with a recent war vet, where the majority of his actions is with other men, interactions with women can easily go askew.
Sooo waiting for these shirts.
“Did you say it to my left 👂 “
I spit out my wine /// that was too funnyyy
Please stay away from this guy..😮😮😮 Ladies please be careful in the modern dating world.
HAHA I just found your channel and you’re so freaking awesome!! I love the way you tell stories and you’re BEAUTIFUL. I need a friend like you!
That was a great punch line....worth the wait!! I did laugh out loud right with you. Was the tattoo a name or a portrait??
Portrait in a pin-up style! Straight outta Ink Master!
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I’m cracking up 😭🤣🤣🤣
love your channel and ur personaility!
Thank you so much!! I'm having a fun time here on the Tube 🤗
Okay I’m married to a guy now for 7 years who was also a veteran and told me the same things your date told me. Granted I was 49, divorced. I had been married 14 years with two kids. Pretty much found out our whole marriage was a lie. Smooth talker, shallow and a liar and a cheater. So at this point in my life I wanted straightforwardness. And I love deep conversations over superficial ones. The few stories he told didn’t bother me. (Btw I’ve learned way worse things he’s been through. Horrific things from the military. I would guess this was the tip of the iceberg from your date too.)
Now when I was your age would I have felt the same way? I don’t know. These guess have been through hell. All I know is I’m happily married for 7 years now and he’s awesome.
I’m only addressing the military part. I hadn’t watched the rest.
Okay he was an asshole. Haha
I found the way she was talking about his PTSD in the millitary part very offensive..I guess some people are still immature and want to have only fun conversations like kids..Deep conversations over shallow superficial ones are only for matured people..
@@swejyotimitra6450I have a ptsd diagnosis but I wasn't offended. It's OK if she can't handle ptsd, not everyone can. That's what dating is for, to find out about eachother and learn any potential deal breakers. Not everyones deal breakers are the same, ie for me smoking is a deal breaker but for other women it's not. I definitely think when we're older we look for different things in partners, she looks young and was just dating casually. It's OK to not want to take on certain types of baggage, better to be honest about it early on and part ways so you can find other people you're better matched with.
I love your energy
the statements at the end are always so iconic 😂
It's disgusting that this poor man has been through absolute Hell, in a toxic relationship, and serving his country, even getting injured protecting our freedoms, and you all call that cringe. Even mocking his disability. You should be ashamed.
Also stop dating dudes that you have no interest in. It's called leading someone on, and it's a shitty thing to do.
You're just manipulating their emotions, taking advantage of their resources, time, and validation, with no genuine interest whatsoever.
It's no different than committing fraud, and it makes you a terrible person.
Great video! The unclipping the bra on the first date… 😂😂 that’s a no go. 🙅🏻♂️
Girl….you are such a greaaaat storyteller! I subscribed 5 min into the video :)))
Thanks so much! I'll be coming out with more soon 🤗
I wasn’t expecting the ending I’m dead😭😂 ahaaaa! Smh no but definitely the bra part was super creepy. 🥴
Your story telling is impressive but it's rather " fool me once Shame on you, fool me twice shame on me".
Thank you so much! And this is very true 😅
Sooo many red flags! Glad that you never ended up going back out with him.
I enjoy the editing and sound fx on this one
Thank you! Definitely learning more each time I edit 🤗
i am a new subby and I LOVVVV the stories! Keep em all coming!
This is exactly how men test women..by testing our sexual boundaries
LOLLLL you got me cracking up at 4:10am in the morning🤣🤣🤣
Never take a woman to a loud bar or movie for your first date. And he needed to keep his secrets and personal demons to himself.
He should have planned the date to be in a fun and quiet place... where you two could speak to each other without all of the drama.
Guys don't really move on from the one that got away very well
Girl I love these story times😂 new subscriber!!!
Thank you for the support 🤗
Was it Howl at the Moon? I loved going there!
Not to divert from the story, you are so beautiful, queen 👑
WARNING!!! DO NOT WATCH THIS IF YOU ARE EATING LOLLLLL i almost choked on my damn food from laughing sooooo hard!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😆😆 this video is gold
Hahaha the best reaction ever 😅
Lmao!!!! Hahahahhaa omg 😂😂 yes please make merch
Why is this titled Bumble
You’re funny ! Loved your storytime 😊...
(I guess he went into that part of his life because it plays a great deal of importance and it’s part of his story, he felt especially comfortable saying this because of the drinks, I’m sure. But I do carry a soft spot in my heart for the military because my siblings have had tours overseas and it can be a sad/happy subject at times.)
Thanks so much 🤗 and definitely, I guess he was just more comfortable with the situation than I was, especially considering some of the other actions he took 😬
Well your face is very likable😂😂i like watching you give stories..
Master storyteller so engaging. Great post 👍😎
Your hair is Beautiful! Love the stories also
Thanks so much!!
The reenactment killed me😂
You're good! Why not more subs?! Well I've gotten laid from talking about exes in first dates but it has to be done.. very very... carefully 😅😂.
SHE GOT, CAT EYEZ!!! LOL
Hahah nah the left ear is epic 😂😂😂
Please tell me the name of this dueling piano bar!!
Hi Jacy I love your hair I was just wondering is it high lights or one color?? Can you please tell me the color so I could mention the color to my hairdresser ?? Thank You
Hi Theresa, I actually dye it myself! I have a tutorial on here of how I do it, but I basically weave out sections, bleach only the regrowth, then tone with Wella T11. Hope it helps!
I sorta saw that coming with the left ear thing
such a cute story
Morals of the story (spoilers):
1. Be on time
2. No gaslighting
3. No pity parties
4. No creeping
5. No weird flattering
6. No tatooing chicks on your bicep.
I don't know why but I like this guy already... this girl was definitely expecting him to put her on a pedestal and bend over backwards to please her, he treated her like what she is, another woman, at this point she also hasn't demonstrated anything special about her for him to be all gentleman about it all... I love this guy.
As soon as you realize there will be no sex or no good possibility of sex and the woman is this sensitive and standoffish, feeling herself the prize or something, than do as you please, and screw it if she doesn't like it... remember people, he knew her better than she knew him, she didn't even know he drank at the bar before, she is all about her, but I bet you he did pay attention and observed her all those times she went to that bar!! So he knew her better than she imagined.
The guy didn’t share any true interest in her in the first place? He trauma dumped on her to gain “a connection” and then undid her bra in a public setting more than once even after noticing her discomfort. That’s weird. I don’t know of any circumstances where this would be normal behavior for taking someone out FOR THE FIRST TIME. Also if you watched the full story time she bought a round of drinks and participated throughout the whole date even when he crossed the line twice. She even offered to talk to him privately about what made her uncomfortable. I don’t see how she’s the “issue”. They just weren’t a good fit. No need to shame or point fingers.
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No need to shame or point fingers?? isn't the what you're doing here??
You shared your point of view, the woman in the video did too, but we event heard from him, she seems playful (goofy?) like she is too cool for whatever place she is, I've seen this behavior on people who feel the opposite, it is a coping strategy> But even if it was a first date, they knew each other better than most people know each other, what did HE see in her all those times she went to the bar prior to this?? She wants to portray herself as an angel but that is unlikely... he known habits and behavior tells otherwise, that is not "shaming" anyone, it is what you can deduct by reasoning beyond the words, if you concentrate on the actions of both parties, don't you think she would have noticed this behavior prior if he is as nuts as he portrays him to be?? If she DIDN'T that also tells a different story about her narcissism.
To each his own, what I said is what I got from it, you can believe her all she said, she is cute and likable and all that, most of it pretended, but that will end as soon as her beauty fades. Then all those quirks and goofiness will just be what why are, an annoyance. People tolerate this sort of woman for her beauty, if she didn't have that no one would put up with it, and by now the world, life, wold have told her to stop that crap. Is not like she didn't know what men want, even if she pretends he just wanted to know her great personality.
I had a very awkward date yesterday with a guy I met on hinge. I am glad it was not this mad though😂
I’m completely not lesbian but you’re soooo cute! Is that your natural hair state?
Thank you so much 😭 It is! Took a few years of a natural hair journey, but it was worth it 🤗
you can provide someone a compliment and not have to disclose that you aren’t a lesbian...and even if you were, why would there be an issue...?
I'm completely heterosexual and your are sooo cute. 😂😂😂. I love your natural hair state.
Lol the line was hilarious.
There is a Seinfeld episode about this exact scenario.
Ok. The line was pretty funny
Refreshing and funny stories
Not the tattooo .....lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 thats like my luck. Thats shitty luck lmao at least its not a family member
I love this 😂😂
drop all the bad date stories in your catalog, please.
Hahaha more coming for sure!
I just recently found you on TH-cam ur a delight and so entertaining to listen too . Ive been laughing my butt off while cleaning. I think You look like Anna Lynn McCord beautiful 😘.
Ahh thank you so much for checking out my channel! And oh my lanta, what a compliment I appreciate it!! 🥰🥰
@@JacyErin Anytime ! :) Look forward to watching more of ur vids
Your eyes are mesmerizing
Your storytelling is on point! Much props!
The guy in your story you've had a date with had probably read Models by Mark Mansion or something alike on the importance of vulnerability in attracting women. Unfortunately for him, he took it too seriously and went on being too transparent with you too quickly instead of keeping stuff for himself and filtering less and less of it as the relationship grew. He probably tried to manipulate you into being sympathetic towards him to spark feelings of compassion and love in you. Look into Mark Mansions's dating advice, particularly Models. It is one of the best advice I've read but men have to be careful in gauging how they approach it. The guy you were on a ''date'' with seemed to have used the advice as a technique instead of a way of approaching dating with honesty and being himself. Hanging out in a musical bar is not the place to share traumatizing experiences.
You were too nice 😂
Omggg poor guy he didn't hear you😭😞
"You surround yourself with shitty people..."
And look who he is on a date with. Hilarious that you don't even realize the irony of that.
Oh if only we could be judged by our last line.
I like your hair like that very cute
You remind me of Hilary from Fresh prince of bel air
Yoo the left ear😂😂