I have a beagle, I told him that I had a beagle and he preceded to say that he hates beagles and would kick my dog in the face if he met it. Beagles are the sweetest dogs.
my number one ick was a date i went on a year ago--he showed me his balance on his bank account on his phone to show me that he was capable of paying for our dinner....
My ick is cheapskate guys! One guy that I went on a date with actually had the nerve ti pull out his wallet and opens it right in front of me and says” oops! Sorry can you cover me?!?” So lame !!
I was about to tell someone about a dream I had, and he just freaked out and said dreams aren't real and whatever; they don't mean anything. It was really disgusting, and I hadn't even described the dream yet.
Jacy has 6K subs now! Congratulations on the milestone. Also, one of my biggest pet peeves is when people spit loudly in public. This goes for everyone, including loved ones😂💯
😂😂😂 I had to think of one more… when a guy took me out to a really fancy restaurant (he had been talking about for ages) and after seeing the menu (prices) he asked me “Will you also eat?” and then said he had only 5 Euros on him… which was barely enough to cover 2 drinks …. so I even paid for my drink… I mean I wouldn’t mind paying for myself … but the whole concept - I mean … why do you take a girl out to a place you can’t afford just to leave there hungry and embarassed 😂😂😂 I was so upset so I told him I was starving so we went to a nearby Subway afterwards.I got a Subway sandwich and I asked him if he also wated something … he said no … so then I asked him if he wanted a bite of my sandwich…. well…he ate it all …😂😂😂
They were all good icks!! LOL!! If any guy had gas in front of me...kiss of death!! And one guy on a 1st date changed the channel on his car radio with his toes, I guess to amuse me, and I was so grossed out...sooooo............. LOL!!
Bad Offensive Cavity breath is 100% an ick. I can not deal with nasty teeth/bad breath 🤮🤢. I can not understand how some people can overlook this major detail. They workout, dress nice, but there mouth looks and smells like a trash bin! Why? How? Dental hygiene is huge, is says so much about how you keep the rest of your holes. 🤣
Love your humor 😃 I can really relate to your videos, as dating especially on bumble can be a huge waste of energy, time and effort, especially if you value mental and emotional connections more than superficial ego talk plus pushy macho behavior. I have my career on track, love to dance and do sports and am very focused on my personal growth. With this profile, I attract narcissistic mumma boys who feed on my empathy and politeness. Clingy WhatsApp behavior, love bombing and other childish games is what I cut inmediately as life is too short ;)
I once had one date with a guy and I thought it went well and then he sent me card where the spelling and grammar were so atrocious I couldn't believe it. It began, "Dere Amy," and the whole thing was a huge ick turn-off. I did feel shallow for judging but I just couldn't spend any significant time with him after that.
Bahaha These stories were so weird but also funny at the same time. I would've gotten second hand embarrassment from the 'feeding' story. Thanks for this video Jacy! :)
Jacy, I luv u!!! U introduced me to some of the dating apps. Lol Anywho. Red Flags if someone abuses or does not like dogs!! I love animals, especially doggies! Anywho, I rescued one. I came home to the X punching it when I came home from work. What the heck! Long story short..I should have known this is what it meant!!! I'm a Domestic Violence survivor. So these kind of individuals abuse not only animals but also humans. That's how Jeffrey Dommer started...killing cats. The x is a Psycho and a Narcissist. Girls run!!!
I tried to get used to a guy’s house that had every available surface covered with the heads of dead animals. He was a taxidermist. I could never sleep in that house with the souls of all those dead animals staring at me! LOL! ICK!
Your “ICKS” are well justified!!! I’ve gotten the ICKS from guys too! And believe me ....those icks definitely change things! Glad to know I wasn’t the only one. Thank you!👏♥️
Lmao I'm a Cap and grosss I can't even spell all those saliva, etc. stories and yes heavy weight ppl claiming they work out. Ugh. I work hard ...I'm not dating someone who doesn't take care of themselves!!! Hahaha a 28 yo tried to hit on me at the laundromat saying he was tired of working and Already had Diabetes and wanted a sugar mommy!!! What the heck!!!😡🤬
Love these stories! Spitting in front of me is definitely a major ick for me! I agree with pretty much all of your icks. The guy feeding you had me laughing. 😂 I'm not even sure what I'd do in that situation but it's extremely weird he killed the vibe and got all huffy after you said you could feed yourself AFTER already letting him do it multiple times. One ick I experienced was a guy I went on a date with to a Mexican restaurant started picking his teeth with a butter knife. He did it for a long time and was really getting in there. ICK!
A date I had with a woman ended up being “belly up to a bar” while she was slowly getting drunk to a point where she passed out. I drove her home and made sure she was sleeping on her side all night that she wouldn’t choke on her own vomit. What a disaster.
I feel ya, Jacy. Spit and loogies are GROSS! Dip at a party? Who does this? No amount of physical attractiveness would cancel out the ick of that, for me, anyway!
Glad that didn't work out. Can you imagine being married to someone like tha!? I was ..So now I see, feel, know the Red flags..Happy Dating(": Blessings. Stay Safe🙏
Once in a chat, he asked "what are your hobbies?", I responded "I love to dance, especially tango...".... he replied: "ughhh tango is depressing, don't do that 😢" Me: "YOU are depressing."
It's superficial but I get the icks when a girl has nail polish that isn't maintained. It just seems so dirty. Keep em fresh or just don't paint em at all! Lol
Jacy, I just found your channel because you did a review on a product, and because of your review, I decided not to waste money on it. Thank you! I saw this video and decided to check it out and we are on the same page! Men spitting their phlegm is never attractive. I also avoid men who call their exes “crazy”. For some reason, that is the go-to word men use when describing their ex. Bottom line, it’s disrespectful to refer to their ex that way and it’s just a foreshadowing of how they’ll refer to you. I am loving your channel and you’re a great storyteller.
My ick is that i went to dinner with a really awesome guy... That wouldnt stop talking 😰 he wouldnt let me talk either. I had to tell him its time to leave the restaurant cuz they were closing. He talked 4 hours straight 😱
Great video as always :D btw one guy (who was hitting on me) also told me I reminded him of his sister - he even proceeded to show me her pictures... it was just soooo weird :D :D :D
The guy who almost gave himself a hiking heart attack was too stubborn. He might have been a great guy, but he refused to accept the reality of that day. The anti-dog guy might have had a traumatic experience with a dog that he was too embarrassed to talk about. I think he had some past fear working in his head that he would not admit. The other guys were just wrong.
The spitting and use of the word ‘female’ in the way you described is exactly the same for me… Something about the way a person can use the word ‘female’ as if the trait they’re about to talk about applies to all women or something is just so 😖 like there’s really no need. We have names dammit 😭😭😭
OMG yes to the “female” and “crazy”!! That’s a huge turn off and shows you have zero respect for women and just use them as bodies. My weird one is IN nostril nose itching. I get that itches happen but if you’re sticking your finger UP there in front of me? No.
I mean to be fair, its valid for people to not like dogs, maybe he had a bad experience. I also think its a bit strange to allow animals in a food and drink facility. It's not that I dont like dogs, I love dogs, but I also dont want strange dogs that I know nothing about, jumping on me and licking me without my consent. So I can kind of see where he is coming from.
😂😂😂😂😂spitting is deffo a gross ick!!!🤮🤮🤮that feeding you one is so awk!!!!😂😂😂the horoscope one I have had said to me!!! Soooo rude!!🙈🙈🙈agreed when men say their exes are crazy that's a red flag!!!💯👍❤🖤
I kinda empathize with the jogger guy. Maybe he was just feeling motivated and wanted to prove something to himself? Maybe a one off masculinity situation. Could've been an all round nice guy otherwise or lost weight over time. But ur allowed to have ur preferences and icks. lol
Dating isn't about "declaring what my thoughts are and being dominant", it's about finding out about you as a person and seeing how much I can reach across my ignorance to learn from you. Sounds like the last guy would have crossed right into controlling dominance at the drop of a hat. I have to admit I kind of wonder what was in the "edits" that didn't make it into the video? 😉
Why do you keep on calling us guys and why are you speaking to us like everyone in the "guy" group needs your instructions?I am a gentleman.I do not require your advice on how to be one.
What are some of your icks?? I wanna hear em 🤣
I have a beagle, I told him that I had a beagle and he preceded to say that he hates beagles and would kick my dog in the face if he met it. Beagles are the sweetest dogs.
I hope you ran far far away because that is insanely out of line. I love beagles!!
my number one ick was a date i went on a year ago--he showed me his balance on his bank account on his phone to show me that he was capable of paying for our dinner....
Ewwwwww what the heck? Did he think it was a flex?? Hard pass 🤣
What was ur response?
o my god! I had a guy send me his bank account statement too! Strange and creepy.
My ick is cheapskate guys! One guy that I went on a date with actually had the nerve ti pull out his wallet and opens it right in front of me and says” oops! Sorry can you cover me?!?” So lame !!
Oh my lanta, huge red flag!
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Oh I’m still laughing at the “feed me” date lol
Where do you meet all these “icksters” ???
Lolz I have an open heart and am clearly not picky enough 🤣🤣
I was about to tell someone about a dream I had, and he just freaked out and said dreams aren't real and whatever; they don't mean anything. It was really disgusting, and I hadn't even described the dream yet.
Jacy has 6K subs now! Congratulations on the milestone. Also, one of my biggest pet peeves is when people spit loudly in public. This goes for everyone, including loved ones😂💯
Yayyyy!! Thank you 🤗🎈 and hard agree, there’s almost never a need for it!
😂😂😂 I had to think of one more… when a guy took me out to a really fancy restaurant (he had been talking about for ages) and after seeing the menu (prices) he asked me “Will you also eat?” and then said he had only 5 Euros on him… which was barely enough to cover 2 drinks …. so I even paid for my drink… I mean I wouldn’t mind paying for myself … but the whole concept - I mean … why do you take a girl out to a place you can’t afford just to leave there hungry and embarassed 😂😂😂 I was so upset so I told him I was starving so we went to a nearby Subway afterwards.I got a Subway sandwich and I asked him if he also wated something … he said no … so then I asked him if he wanted a bite of my sandwich…. well…he ate it all …😂😂😂
Wow 😂. Where do you women find these dudes. Blowing my mind.
They were all good icks!! LOL!! If any guy had gas in front of me...kiss of death!! And one guy on a 1st date changed the channel on his car radio with his toes, I guess to amuse me, and I was so grossed out...sooooo............. LOL!!
My mouth literally dropped. His toes?!?! That's a huge no-go for me 😭
Bad Offensive Cavity breath is 100% an ick. I can not deal with nasty teeth/bad breath 🤮🤢. I can not understand how some people can overlook this major detail. They workout, dress nice, but there mouth looks and smells like a trash bin! Why? How? Dental hygiene is huge, is says so much about how you keep the rest of your holes. 🤣
My number one ick is body odor, untrimmed nails(toes and fingers), running late on a first date with no apology or explanation
Love your humor 😃 I can really relate to your videos, as dating especially on bumble can be a huge waste of energy, time and effort, especially if you value mental and emotional connections more than superficial ego talk plus pushy macho behavior. I have my career on track, love to dance and do sports and am very focused on my personal growth. With this profile, I attract narcissistic mumma boys who feed on my empathy and politeness. Clingy WhatsApp behavior, love bombing and other childish games is what I cut inmediately as life is too short ;)
Another Storytime???!!!
Jacy why are you blessing us so much?😭🤣
Don’t ask, just be grateful!!! 🤩🤩
@@elizabethgoff5494 noted!😂
You’re too sweet! More coming your way 🤗
I once had one date with a guy and I thought it went well and then he sent me card where the spelling and grammar were so atrocious I couldn't believe it. It began, "Dere Amy," and the whole thing was a huge ick turn-off. I did feel shallow for judging but I just couldn't spend any significant time with him after that.
I get the ick far too easily. Makes dating difficult
Love your storytime snippets! Had one woman who catfished me so hard that not only she lied about her age, and all her pictures were not even her!😆
Bahaha These stories were so weird but also funny at the same time. I would've gotten second hand embarrassment from the 'feeding' story. Thanks for this video Jacy! :)
Jacy,
I luv u!!!
U introduced me to some of the dating apps. Lol
Anywho.
Red Flags if someone abuses or does not like dogs!!
I love animals, especially doggies!
Anywho, I rescued one.
I came home to the X punching it when I came home from work. What the heck!
Long story short..I should have known this is what it meant!!!
I'm a Domestic Violence survivor. So these kind of individuals abuse not only animals but also humans. That's how Jeffrey Dommer started...killing cats.
The x is a Psycho and a Narcissist.
Girls run!!!
Wow, that’s so scary! Definitely cruelty or apathy in general can be an indicator of something more sinister 😓
I tried to get used to a guy’s house that had every available surface covered with the heads of dead animals. He was a taxidermist. I could never sleep in that house with the souls of all those dead animals staring at me! LOL! ICK!
Your “ICKS” are well justified!!! I’ve gotten the ICKS from guys too! And believe me ....those icks definitely change things! Glad to know I wasn’t the only one. Thank you!👏♥️
Thanks for the fun video Jacy! Not only funny, but also a pretty good PSA 😂👍
Hahaha, I can so relate! I had a date with a really nice handsome guy. The ick was I didn’t like the look of his hands… the thought of holding hands 🤢
This is so valid hahaha!!
“What about things in the bedroom..” hahahahahaa
P.s. still waiting for a video on your face, skincare….looking gorgeous 💕
Lmao I'm a Cap and grosss I can't even spell all those saliva, etc. stories and yes heavy weight ppl claiming they work out. Ugh. I work hard ...I'm not dating someone who doesn't take care of themselves!!! Hahaha a 28 yo tried to hit on me at the laundromat saying he was tired of working and Already had Diabetes and wanted a sugar mommy!!! What the heck!!!😡🤬
Haha sounds like his own mother stopped taking care of him, so he was looking for a replacement 🤣🤣 wonder how that’s working out for him hahah
Love these story times. Keep them coming!
Love these stories! Spitting in front of me is definitely a major ick for me! I agree with pretty much all of your icks. The guy feeding you had me laughing. 😂 I'm not even sure what I'd do in that situation but it's extremely weird he killed the vibe and got all huffy after you said you could feed yourself AFTER already letting him do it multiple times.
One ick I experienced was a guy I went on a date with to a Mexican restaurant started picking his teeth with a butter knife. He did it for a long time and was really getting in there. ICK!
I audibly said Ew 😂😂 that is absolutely a valid ick, hope he didn’t get another date!!
Oh no, not the butter knife picking😭💯
Gosh, he could have gone to the bathroom and rinse his mouth or use a floss.😮
A date I had with a woman ended up being “belly up to a bar” while she was slowly getting drunk to a point where she passed out.
I drove her home and made sure she was sleeping on her side all night that she wouldn’t choke on her own vomit. What a disaster.
You’re such a good story-teller
I feel ya, Jacy. Spit and loogies are GROSS! Dip at a party? Who does this? No amount of physical attractiveness would cancel out the ick of that, for me, anyway!
Yeah that last one was weird lol. And totally agree. Can’t stand people that put down things you’re interested in. Very rude.
Glad that didn't work out. Can you imagine being married to someone like tha!? I was ..So now I see, feel, know the Red flags..Happy Dating(":
Blessings. Stay Safe🙏
Yes! Like aren’t you supposed to be getting to know me and not hating on the things I tell you? So crazy 😂
Once in a chat, he asked "what are your hobbies?", I responded "I love to dance, especially tango...".... he replied: "ughhh tango is depressing, don't do that 😢"
Me: "YOU are depressing."
@@anjas.2236 😂😂😂😂 for real
Went on a date with a guy that showed up with plaque on his front teeth….
Great video as always!!
Thanks Angie!!
It's superficial but I get the icks when a girl has nail polish that isn't maintained. It just seems so dirty. Keep em fresh or just don't paint em at all! Lol
I totally relate to the ick "female" comment. It's like they're referring to a dog and not a women or human lol
Jacy, I just found your channel because you did a review on a product, and because of your review, I decided not to waste money on it. Thank you!
I saw this video and decided to check it out and we are on the same page!
Men spitting their phlegm is never attractive.
I also avoid men who call their exes “crazy”. For some reason, that is the go-to word men use when describing their ex. Bottom line, it’s disrespectful to refer to their ex that way and it’s just a foreshadowing of how they’ll refer to you.
I am loving your channel and you’re a great storyteller.
Yay, thanks so much for checking out my other videos!! I totally agree, it’s disrespectful and usually unwarranted calling them crazy 😓
My ick is that i went to dinner with a really awesome guy... That wouldnt stop talking 😰 he wouldnt let me talk either. I had to tell him its time to leave the restaurant cuz they were closing. He talked 4 hours straight 😱
😂😂 he kept feeding you 🤣🤣 like dude, I'm an adult, we're on a date, I'm not your kid. Bu bye! Lol
LOL, I hate dogs, so I laughed so hard at the brewery guy. 😂
Khanh no!!! Hahaha you and you only are forgiven 😂
Sociopath
When someone says they don’t like animals it’s an automatic red flag for me haha like something’s definitely wrong with you
Right? Like I understand if there’s fear or trauma, but disgust towards them is concerning 🤔
Great video as always :D btw one guy (who was hitting on me) also told me I reminded him of his sister - he even proceeded to show me her pictures... it was just soooo weird :D :D :D
Big yuck, do they think it’s a compliment?? 😂
@@JacyErin right!!! I was speechless and disgusted but I would like to know what was going through his head when he said that 😂😂😂
The guy who almost gave himself a hiking heart attack was too stubborn. He might have been a great guy, but he refused to accept the reality of that day. The anti-dog guy might have had a traumatic experience with a dog that he was too embarrassed to talk about. I think he had some past fear working in his head that he would not admit. The other guys were just wrong.
The guy getting mad at Cards Against Humanity was a red flag. Like dude it’s just a game tf
Right?? Imagine when he gets mad at something worth getting mad about, could be dangerous!
I get annoyed being fed it just feels like they’re rushing me 😂😂
12:13 😂😂😂”i don’t want to see your saliva POOLING in a water bottle” 😂😂😂😂
The spitting and use of the word ‘female’ in the way you described is exactly the same for me… Something about the way a person can use the word ‘female’ as if the trait they’re about to talk about applies to all women or something is just so 😖 like there’s really no need. We have names dammit 😭😭😭
Right? So many better descriptors than that, it feels disrespectful
The dog one was extremely extra lol can’t lie it’s not a must you like dogs if that’s a ick we have no hope in todays relationship world 😩
Jacy!!!!! Great stories
OMG yes to the “female” and “crazy”!! That’s a huge turn off and shows you have zero respect for women and just use them as bodies. My weird one is IN nostril nose itching. I get that itches happen but if you’re sticking your finger UP there in front of me? No.
this is spot on, like I know you aren't picking your nose, but there's classier ways to accomplish the scratch hahaha
My ex used to spit a lot and it would disgust me. She had a garbage can next to the bed and would spit in it 🤮
Thank God you didn’t date your ,”Crush”, or he would criticize every little thing you ever did.
🤣🤣🤣 these are all so hilarious and I have some of the same icks lol
I mean to be fair, its valid for people to not like dogs, maybe he had a bad experience. I also think its a bit strange to allow animals in a food and drink facility. It's not that I dont like dogs, I love dogs, but I also dont want strange dogs that I know nothing about, jumping on me and licking me without my consent. So I can kind of see where he is coming from.
I dont like dogs, can’t stand them licking my hands
urrgghh 🤮🤮🤮
Amen
I got secondhand cringe watching this. 😂
God I love her videos 😂
Unfortunately I am most of these 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂spitting is deffo a gross ick!!!🤮🤮🤮that feeding you one is so awk!!!!😂😂😂the horoscope one I have had said to me!!! Soooo rude!!🙈🙈🙈agreed when men say their exes are crazy that's a red flag!!!💯👍❤🖤
You get me 😂😂
@@JacyErin deffo!!!!! I've had the ick many times....used to get it over crappy or dirty shoes!!!😂😂😂
I kinda empathize with the jogger guy. Maybe he was just feeling motivated and wanted to prove something to himself? Maybe a one off masculinity situation. Could've been an all round nice guy otherwise or lost weight over time. But ur allowed to have ur preferences and icks. lol
He clearly didn't realise how difficult it was , or maybe like you say he just wanted to push himself .
Dating isn't about "declaring what my thoughts are and being dominant", it's about finding out about you as a person and seeing how much I can reach across my ignorance to learn from you. Sounds like the last guy would have crossed right into controlling dominance at the drop of a hat.
I have to admit I kind of wonder what was in the "edits" that didn't make it into the video? 😉
Totally agree!! Hahaha omg I might actually have to make a part 2 with some icks that got cut lol
The hiking one is jacked. Not an ick really, IMO.
You got to bite 4!? 🤣
Why do you keep on calling us guys and why are you speaking to us like everyone in the "guy" group needs your instructions?I am a gentleman.I do not require your advice on how to be one.