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  • * im aware of how many times i said um, i was extremely nervous talking about this so if you're here to point that out, exit*
    i've wanted to tell this story for a very long time and i finally feel comfortable talking about it. feel free to ask any questions and i'm happy to answer any i can.
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  • @brookecsabey
    @brookecsabey  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3653

    you can skip to 15:00 if you want the quick version

    • @emiliaoldfield3295
      @emiliaoldfield3295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Brooke Sabey I’m so sorry girl. I hope your okay now xx

    • @yahyo4429
      @yahyo4429 4 ปีที่แล้ว +354

      Ur real asf for that

    • @kathubbard3631
      @kathubbard3631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      damn girl. gotta extend that watch time 😂

    • @Dawnnem
      @Dawnnem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Pineapple Girl 👧

    • @zephyraskamori89
      @zephyraskamori89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      No I’m good I’ll just watch it from the start

  • @khadija9441
    @khadija9441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8708

    If Kendall Jenner and Dua Lipa had a kid.

    • @TeddyBearCrippen
      @TeddyBearCrippen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Khadija she looks like amanda steele to me

    • @reinal7896
      @reinal7896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      Khadija I see Dua . Don’t see Kendall at all ..

    • @sophiebailey4849
      @sophiebailey4849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Due Lipa and Adelaide Kane

    • @user-np8yf8fj2w
      @user-np8yf8fj2w 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Khadija nope

    • @lilith5752
      @lilith5752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Lily Smith i see kendall. But i respect your opinion

  • @Jenniiiiiii92
    @Jenniiiiiii92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3903

    Terrifying how many people in the comments are saying they have gone through similar situations.

    • @hottie846
      @hottie846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Eriii Bambi my thoughts exactly

    • @Kelpweed
      @Kelpweed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah it is.

    • @foxonfoxy1
      @foxonfoxy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@juliaobrien5353 9/10 people are telling the truth. What does this have to do with the fact that many women experience this??

    • @foxonfoxy1
      @foxonfoxy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@juliaobrien5353 And? What does that have to do with the fact that most women have experienced this? Anyone can lie about anything, that doesn't take away from the actual issue? What tf are you even talking about?

    • @Miss_SkiPp_8812
      @Miss_SkiPp_8812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      With social media set up the way it is, its way too easy for them to achieve thier goals now. The amount of information people will share is nuts. Its basically served to them on platter. Its absolutely terrifying.

  • @caristewart481
    @caristewart481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4055

    I don't know who needs to hear this but:
    If someone threatens to hurt or kill themselves if you leave them, leave them. It is abuse. They are using your pain, compassion and empathy against you. If they hurt themselves *it.is.not.your.fault*
    Period.
    If someone hurts themselves because you leave them, that is on them. They need help. It is not your job to save them. It is never your fault. They are already broken people by then.

    • @julie8954
      @julie8954 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      good book exactly on that subject is "A Heart in a Body in the World"

    • @fairymystonight1783
      @fairymystonight1783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Cari Stewart my ex boyfriend did that to me in the beginning of the relationship. I remained with him. I ended up be the physically abuser which is why it all ended. We really rub off negativity on one another.. and it sucks, but I’m going to therapy and learning.

    • @madisenc5309
      @madisenc5309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Periodt

    • @ashlyndeslatte8585
      @ashlyndeslatte8585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      PERIODT.

    • @nishikigoi.
      @nishikigoi. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That happened to my family friend, she had a boyfriend who was super controlling, he broke up with her and said that he hated her. He starting cutting his wrists, he said he would kill himself unless she came back with him and that it was her fault. She blocked him and is now safe and happy with a nice and loving boyfriend. She still goes to school with him and says that he’s in deep depression and putting threatening notes in her locker but that’s all on him.

  • @edfynn7621
    @edfynn7621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2168

    U already know all 400+ dislikes are bobs different accounts😂

    • @itzeltrejo2274
      @itzeltrejo2274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Mystery Man 😂😂💀

    • @alyshiajansen8020
      @alyshiajansen8020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Exactly

    • @ggmr399
      @ggmr399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Her story is boring

    • @choochipochi5629
      @choochipochi5629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Its 788 now, he still makin more accounts🤣🤭

    • @alyssamalynn
      @alyssamalynn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Atharva Shrivastava how?

  • @maddi3318
    @maddi3318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7911

    “I was a senior in high school and I just finished my sophomore year in college, so that gives you an idea of how long this has been going on for”
    me, an australian: nope. no clue.

  • @victoriaarriaga9977
    @victoriaarriaga9977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3403

    The view outside your windows gives me the creeps even though it looks beautiful. Be safe.

    • @noemijoseph2
      @noemijoseph2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Victoria Arriaga I was thinking the same thing

    • @MVal94
      @MVal94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      I didn’t even notice the windows until I saw this comment lmao.

    • @shrubmongeau6499
      @shrubmongeau6499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Victoria Arriaga just trees 😂😂

    • @jorgemontes4855
      @jorgemontes4855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      @@shrubmongeau6499 yeah imagine that at night and bob standing there with a knife and a clown mask or some kind of mask and weapon

    • @vaniafernandez2125
      @vaniafernandez2125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh God I swearrr

  • @ceciliacorral7060
    @ceciliacorral7060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +732

    pov: you came here from the part 2

  • @heyitshal816
    @heyitshal816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1507

    long story short: don't date guys named bob

    • @rex639
      @rex639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@viktoriailieva314 r/whooosh

    • @viktoriailieva314
      @viktoriailieva314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rex639 huh?

    • @rex639
      @rex639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@viktoriailieva314 he was joking

    • @heyitshal816
      @heyitshal816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@viktoriailieva314 i was joking lmao

    • @juliogreenland6213
      @juliogreenland6213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@viktoriailieva314 bruh

  • @GenevieveBrodeur
    @GenevieveBrodeur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4304

    The 10 dislikes are Bob and his fake accounts 🤷‍♀️
    Edit: Thanks for the likes... did not expect that 🤪😂

  • @nikkidincau9506
    @nikkidincau9506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2924

    Sorry this is really off topic from what you're talking about but I have decided after 18 minutes I should tell you that I think you're absolutely gorgeous.

    • @kaitlyns3414
      @kaitlyns3414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      same she is so pleasing to look at

    • @elinkomulainen7297
      @elinkomulainen7297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Bob is that you. 😂😂 joking

    • @nikkidincau9506
      @nikkidincau9506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@elinkomulainen7297 No way lmao 😂

    • @elinkomulainen7297
      @elinkomulainen7297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@nikkidincau9506 😂😂

    • @praeliasaringer4851
      @praeliasaringer4851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Your really pretty. A.k.a not a creepy old bob🤣

  • @jocelynebuenrostro98
    @jocelynebuenrostro98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +954

    This video hit home for me. I'm crying. My ex did the same exact thing, except I didn't get a restraining order against him. He threaten to kill me, literally pointed a gun at me and said " If I cant't have you, nobody will." He showed me that the gun was loaded and shot the ground and I'm soooo glad there were houses around (we were in a hiking trail) because they heard the gun shot and called the police. Once the officer arrived I felt so relieved I went back into my car grabbed my phone (that he told me to leave in the car) and blocked him on everything. It took him about 6 months for him to understand that I didn't want anything to do with him and I haven't heard a thing about him since.

    • @bangtanimosity8564
      @bangtanimosity8564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Holy shit!! I’m so glad you’re ok

    • @kylinestertnuz2725
      @kylinestertnuz2725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Scary

    • @alyshiajansen8020
      @alyshiajansen8020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      IM DO GLAD YOU OKAY

    • @tahaafridi4563
      @tahaafridi4563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Girl you're so prettttyy ❤️❤️❤️❤️ IAM sorry that happened to you

    • @kajsamajaroupe8730
      @kajsamajaroupe8730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Wait. He pointed A GUN at you and you DIDN'T get a restraining order against him?

  • @vfxjo7155
    @vfxjo7155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +811

    Me : *See's stalker and proof in the same sentence*
    Me: clicks

    • @kaylaxmedlock
      @kaylaxmedlock 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im Johana th-cam.com/video/Rsej6jhABxQ/w-d-xo.html check out my storytime on my college roommate from hell, she tried to STAB me!

    • @aaryaasastry8099
      @aaryaasastry8099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg! So accurate! I did the same too! Lol 💯😂

    • @arriibacon531
      @arriibacon531 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 😂😂

  • @Gabsloch
    @Gabsloch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +575

    The “recognizing the way he texts” thing absolutely makes sense! This creepy guy that I blocked followed me on a different Instagram account under a different name to try to talk to me and I knew it was him because of the way he was texting!

    • @rileymatthews9161
      @rileymatthews9161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeah, like because of using “u” instead of “you” or like “bc” or “because”
      I get it it’s like the way someone talks, except with texting

  • @3mecproductions03
    @3mecproductions03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1580

    side note but your university is 35 min away from me and I'm super proud of u for getting in, its a really good school :)

    • @princessnightwalker3202
      @princessnightwalker3202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      miasalvano88 where did she go to school! I live in Indiana

    • @addsi3964
      @addsi3964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      Krystal Early It’s not information that everyone needs to know. There are some real creeps out there and everyone knowing where she goes to school can put her in danger. Even if it is a big school.

    • @princessnightwalker3202
      @princessnightwalker3202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Madison Thomas I mean agreeable but it’s on her instagram which is where this other person probably found out .

    • @addsi3964
      @addsi3964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Krystal Early I see. Idk I still don’t think it’s our business to spread her info. I personally just don’t feel like it’s ok to do that.

    • @princessnightwalker3202
      @princessnightwalker3202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Madison Thomas it’s literally on her insta that is public . Just saying .

  • @chiamaka4877
    @chiamaka4877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1018

    me watching brooke's eyebrows for 39 minutes straight

    • @mariamsy_1284
      @mariamsy_1284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Sameee

    • @taliamcrae7776
      @taliamcrae7776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I stared at her eyebrows for 5min

    • @robbiepasturrp
      @robbiepasturrp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Chiamaka PLEASEEEEEJHAHA SAME

    • @brookemckinley5709
      @brookemckinley5709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I can’t stop staring at her eyelashes myself, wondering if they’re hers or falsies, I’m leaning more towards they’re hers

    • @equiidiana
      @equiidiana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      me watching brook's smile for 39 minutes straight

  • @stacyrodriguez128
    @stacyrodriguez128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +479

    Your stalker: YoU nAmEd Me BoB?!

    • @lovelytutorials7802
      @lovelytutorials7802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      😂🤣

    • @mxksjd3939
      @mxksjd3939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lmao

    • @kailvn
      @kailvn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He deserves that name

    • @monica-ry4is
      @monica-ry4is 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what I was gonna comment 😭😭😭

  • @grayweeden204
    @grayweeden204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2206

    You have the most pretty lips i have ever seen (I’m so jealous)

    • @ashlynnthomas6924
      @ashlynnthomas6924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hello 7 right😢

    • @sagelegas5843
      @sagelegas5843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That’s what I was thinking

    • @brooklyn0323
      @brooklyn0323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ikr 😂😂

    • @TeetoTiana
      @TeetoTiana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I was staring at them the whole time. So nice I’m hella jelly

    • @MOTORCYCLES-ANDGUNS
      @MOTORCYCLES-ANDGUNS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      YOU GUYS NEED A BOB IN YOUR LIFE.

  • @DixiNormous50150
    @DixiNormous50150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +879

    1. I love your sweater
    2. You shouldn’t have to apologize for using TH-cam as a self expressive therapy 👌🏼😊
    3.first video I’ve seen of yours can’t wait for more

  • @prettierinpink2597
    @prettierinpink2597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    the fact that people were blaming brooke for men's actions. ugh i hate that

  • @Mara-ri9ik
    @Mara-ri9ik 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1666

    Anyone else seeing this in December 2019?

    • @Absajj
      @Absajj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jut did

    • @clairemcilroy8542
      @clairemcilroy8542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dee Xo me

    • @zailynz
      @zailynz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah

    • @celalauren9543
      @celalauren9543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I’m watching from December 2034... it’s so weird to see so much green trees and grass in the background.

    • @lylamichelle9235
      @lylamichelle9235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dee Xo OMG YESSSS

  • @RXMemes
    @RXMemes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    You look like a glossier ad. GORGEOUS GIRL

    • @kendramelissa9754
      @kendramelissa9754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      RXMemes omg you are right! She absolutely does!

  • @silque575
    @silque575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    back here for a recap

  • @galinigdh2092
    @galinigdh2092 4 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    I have finally found someone that has gone through something I did aswell. I still remember videos he used to send me carving my name onto his skin and putting salt on it and screaming, the image and sound is stuck inside my head to this day. Bless your soul, remember that you aren't responsible for his actions and you should never feel guilty. My heart goes out to u

    • @kiwifit620
      @kiwifit620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Oh my! I'm so sorry you had to go through that! That's horrible and it gets me fuming that some people would go to those extremes just to keep control over someone smh.
      I really hope you take your own advice and don't blame yourself because it's not your fault in any way. 💕

    • @bonsaiinamu7807
      @bonsaiinamu7807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Im so sorry you went through that shit it's disgusting. Stay safe and happy babe ❤️

    • @lizycolette5305
      @lizycolette5305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      What the buttcheeks dude that's disgusting pray for your enemies (him) and pray for his help. God bless!

    • @babydaddy4886
      @babydaddy4886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That’s horrible man I’m so sorry you went through that I had something similar when I was 14 my ex boyfriend carved my name into his arm and sent me photos it was terrifying so my heart goes out to you b

    • @JohnsonKayla12
      @JohnsonKayla12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omg! Wow 😳 makes me so afraid to even date... I hope things are better mow

  • @ShawnaHill83
    @ShawnaHill83 5 ปีที่แล้ว +642

    My question is where the hell were his parents!? As a mama of 3 boys and 2 girls I can honestly say if any of our children boy or girl behaved this way me and my husband would be beating that ass! Idgf if they are 18 or 28! I'm sorry u had to go through this love, stuff like this changes u in ways no one but a survivor could understand and I was there for 7 long ass years and wouldn't wish that on ANYONE.

    • @brookecsabey
      @brookecsabey  5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Shawna rocks her feathers with hoops williams His parents were always very disconnected from his life and I assume they had no idea this was going on since he didn’t live in the home anymore. I’m really sorry you had to go through something similar.

    • @ShawnaHill83
      @ShawnaHill83 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@brookecsabey kind of makes you wonder why tho? Maybe they knew how he could be. I noticed that my ex's family all knew how he was and even told stories about him after I was finally able to get away.

    • @TanyaMedina77
      @TanyaMedina77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shawna rocks her feathers with hoops williams Same!

    • @maymay5812
      @maymay5812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Makes no sense why westerners kick there kids out with this economy. I always think there is some messed up dynamic with that.

    • @ashleygomez9400
      @ashleygomez9400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Shawna rocks her feathers with hoops williams same thing happened to me & when I’d tell his damn mom? it was my “fault & problem”😂😂😭 I’m so glad we have a no contact order by the judge now. We need more moms like you cause that fucker was babied by his mother

  • @jaelyngunter3991
    @jaelyngunter3991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1375

    anyone else seeing this November 2019?

  • @tanisrees1701
    @tanisrees1701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Her fear to break up with him bc of what he might do to himself WHILE losing everyone else in her life hit HARDD

  • @abbywolf1016
    @abbywolf1016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Anybody else quarantine 2020?

  • @shyanne4894
    @shyanne4894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    I swear we dated the same guy. Except I had a baby with him 😭

    • @alexlol9712
      @alexlol9712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Damn

    • @nikkigulayan3754
      @nikkigulayan3754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Oh, I’m sorry. I hope your baby is happy and healthy tho

    • @femboyrules7594
      @femboyrules7594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      💀

    • @kys571
      @kys571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      if your still with him run away or just leave I mean it your and your child's mental health is going to be pretty bad. either way stay safe and strong ❤️❤️

    • @shyanne4894
      @shyanne4894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      isαviвє вiτcн we’re not with him anymore. Unfortunately things turned so bad we needed a restraining order

  • @oifooofdaa9840
    @oifooofdaa9840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1198

    you remind me of the youtube Bella Fiori you guys look very similar

    • @jaidynkk5373
      @jaidynkk5373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oif Ooofdaa very off top is but at 6:39 on
      my phone the l in the work look lines up with the red bar...

    • @happyuniverse5721
      @happyuniverse5721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yasss girl

    • @allieking2086
      @allieking2086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      YES! I KNEW SHE LOOKED LIKE SOMEONE ON HERE! THEY'RE BOTH SO GORGEOUS!!

    • @mackenzielewis1905
      @mackenzielewis1905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i thought the SAME thing!

    • @vaner309
      @vaner309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr

  • @skyllarsophie8918
    @skyllarsophie8918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +644

    she is like Charli from tik tok, Kylie Jenner and Dua lipa all in one! 🤣
    Omggggg thanks for the likes

    • @ambersmith3737
      @ambersmith3737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Skylar youtube I just made this comment to 100 likes

    • @user-tl1er3nh1m
      @user-tl1er3nh1m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      She’s prettier than Charli lol

    • @juanaal-alami6373
      @juanaal-alami6373 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Much lol

    • @josy2608
      @josy2608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She dont look like kylie at all 😭

    • @angie.e.e3293
      @angie.e.e3293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr

  • @briii5997
    @briii5997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    Anyone else here bc she made a new story time and it was confusing so u had to go back and watch this??? No... no one else 👌🏽
    Edit: omg thank you guys for all the likes :)

  • @shayleetilley8979
    @shayleetilley8979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1327

    I think every girl has had a "Bob" in there life :/

    • @reemaalwaer602
      @reemaalwaer602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      DEFINITELY 😫😫

    • @StephanieeAlexandra
      @StephanieeAlexandra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sadly. 😓

    • @llacey
      @llacey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yesss

    • @MeliLove8
      @MeliLove8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      uhhh im sorry but no

    • @kaebutt5266
      @kaebutt5266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @K and K um how about you take a step back for a second. Saying that maybe you're smarter than women that find themselves in abusive relationships is ignorant and false. A lot of these relationships start out normal and they grow a connection with you before they start the abuse. I hope you or people that you love never have to go through an abusive relationship.

  • @anniek4919
    @anniek4919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    Always ignore a stalker, don't reply or react to anything, don't respond to emails. Ignore, ignore, ignore. I am worried for you for even posting this video, it's acknowledging him. Knowing that he stalks you, you know that he will find this video and it could start all over. I had a stalker twice and it's scary! I hope this guy has found something else to focus on, sorry you had to go through this.

    • @haleyrose946
      @haleyrose946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I’m sorry you had to go through this as well 😔

    • @rachelh3250
      @rachelh3250 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ignore and screenshot everything

    • @clewdyedition5888
      @clewdyedition5888 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im going through this now-

  • @lilywagged7156
    @lilywagged7156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    “I got my wisdom teeth out... then I went to a rave”

    • @hollyweikle
      @hollyweikle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It was her last day...🙄 she said she was in bed almost entire break

    • @grixxly8531
      @grixxly8531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hollyweikle I think he/she just thought it was funny

  • @chelsearose.m
    @chelsearose.m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    He sounds just like my ex boyfriend “can u unblock me on snap?” 😷 I’m cringing

  • @kaya-dj2yq
    @kaya-dj2yq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    The 53 dislikes are Bobs fake accounts on yt lmao

    • @laceymarie1274
      @laceymarie1274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maria Agreste your pfp teehee 🥰

    • @kaya-dj2yq
      @kaya-dj2yq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@laceymarie1274 Lol im a miraculous fannn

    • @laceymarie1274
      @laceymarie1274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maria Agreste everyone should be at this point ❤️🖤

    • @kaya-dj2yq
      @kaya-dj2yq 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laceymarie1274 Omg yess😍

    • @ryshlovanoodo7591
      @ryshlovanoodo7591 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not interested.

  • @raechel0823
    @raechel0823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    When I was in my abusive relationship I lost so many people for the same reasons. I really felt that

    • @wm304wv
      @wm304wv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Raechel P. Same. Still going through it. It was hard to hear someone go through the same thing bc they had been friends of mine for 10+ yrs and I never imagined the fall out from a bad relationship affecting so much

    • @kelsythompson6351
      @kelsythompson6351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wm304wv i don’t think any of us realize the fall out and how badly these toxic people effect not just their victim, but the victims friends and family. i lost so many friends with my “Bob” eight years ago. you ladies aren’t alone. speak your truth & stay safe. ❤️

    • @leaedenk5975
      @leaedenk5975 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Raechel P, yes this is really sad because when someone like a narcissist takes control of our lives, and that it's so hard to get out of this situation all we really need is our friends to be there. . We have to rebuild a new life after these destroyers..and this is not easy.

  • @CherryBombBabe101
    @CherryBombBabe101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    sadly your first boyfriend was a and "is" a narcissist, they are horrible dangerous people. always beware when dating. you can even have these types of people in your family.

    • @SuperAnimecity
      @SuperAnimecity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No he sounds more like a sociopath then a narc

    • @randomwolf545
      @randomwolf545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No, no. That's a narcissist alright. Sadly my dad is one. It's a disorder though so all you can do is feel bad for them that they have that disorder.

  • @ambersmith3737
    @ambersmith3737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +299

    Was this on anyone else’s recommended?

  • @jessicam4825
    @jessicam4825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I went through the same thing!! My restraining order only lasted 3 years. It ended this year and he literally counted down the days so he can harass me again. He thinks I had his baby and literally had me served to court to try to get custody of this "baby"

    • @mirandasant3624
      @mirandasant3624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Wow that's creepy . So glad it wasn't his baby it would have been a way to get to you.

  • @violetsforviolet
    @violetsforviolet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Girl it is NOT your responsibility to make sure 'Bob' or anyone else doesnt do anything stupid. I am so sorry.

  • @suneasha2191
    @suneasha2191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    He thought u going out is u cheating is exactly what he does . Guys who cheat always feel insecure that the girl is cheating too.

  • @milanavujkovic827
    @milanavujkovic827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I had stalking situation yesterday, and the man (who is about age of my dad..) took picture of me when I was walking to my boyfriends house, like he passed me couple of times. And when I was near my boyfriends house he honked at me and took a picture, btw like I wasn't in any provocative clothes (even if I was this doesn't give him the right to do that). Even tho my boyfriend walks me home every night I am still scared. Btw (2x) town where I live is really small and this stuff never happeneds, and I found out that this man has kids and wife...so yeah I am scared and people here don't take seriously this kind of situations. I am really scared guys. Some advice? Love you all, stay safe. ❤️

    • @karlasokol5542
      @karlasokol5542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Report it, try to get evidence of him stalking you if it happens again

    • @milanavujkovic827
      @milanavujkovic827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@karlasokol5542 thank you, I hope I don't see him ever again

    • @NoProb4Rob
      @NoProb4Rob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sorry you are facing this. You should report it in person so it's on record. If you know his name and address this is good info. If he is reported by someone else for the same activity then there will be more evidence for arresting him.

    • @lizycolette5305
      @lizycolette5305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pray and put your trust in God!
      God bless!

    • @lexiandkimbarnes4608
      @lexiandkimbarnes4608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tell your parents or someone you trust

  • @mirandarose47
    @mirandarose47 4 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    3:40 glad to know I wasn’t the only one. never settle for less because you are lonely ladies. Wait for the right guy.

    • @dxrkfoxx
      @dxrkfoxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miranda Rose definitely done this too. Let my ex walk all over me and cheated and I just believed his excuses :/

    • @panheadgirlofskillet
      @panheadgirlofskillet 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Made this mistake too :(

  • @christian092299
    @christian092299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    if he’s still giving you problems, we can get that handled. be safe

  • @user-er6qz5zr8c
    @user-er6qz5zr8c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    GOD i went through almost the exact same thing. he would try to contact me on SPOTIFY (edit: he would make playlist names saying “*something* *something* *MY NAME*”)

    • @ramona3840
      @ramona3840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How do you contact someone on spotify?

    • @jo6934
      @jo6934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ramona3840 fr lol

    • @lalhruaitluangi3038
      @lalhruaitluangi3038 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tf

  • @mucize31
    @mucize31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    POV:You’re watching story time video’s during Quarantine

  • @joannafreedom7914
    @joannafreedom7914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    If someone accuses you of something you wouldn't do...it projection...they'll accuse you of everything they do. Gas lighting you. Sound like Bob is a sociopath. Stay safe. Question everything.

    • @amandasiple9936
      @amandasiple9936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It’s definitely not sociopathy, it is most likely better categorized by borderline personality issues, one of the big hallmarks for BPD is an intense fear of abandonment and impulsivity. Sociopathy would be Antisocial personality and that is characterized by lack of empathy.

    • @kendramelissa9754
      @kendramelissa9754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amanda Siple people way overuse BPD..... it’s a huge range of different symptoms not just fear of abandonment....just about everyone you meet has/had at least one symptom of BPD.... again it’s a broad range of symptoms not only checking off a couple and calling it BPD. All it’s doing is further stigmatizing and demonizing it...... people with BPD are more likely to hurt themselves than hurt others FYI. (Coming from someone with actual diagnosed BPD) smh

    • @orania8033
      @orania8033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kendramelissa9754 Thank you❤ BPD and PTSD sufferer over here. Thought you worded it perfectly x

  • @anandamensah4413
    @anandamensah4413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +449

    *Everybody
    talks about how crazy her story is*
    Me: I like her freckles!

    • @hanogami
      @hanogami 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ananda Mensah ye but pretty sure there fake

    • @priels.f3375
      @priels.f3375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Madison St 💀

    • @sarahpolich2582
      @sarahpolich2582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She is rly pretty tho

    • @hanogami
      @hanogami 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madisn St sorry smarty pants

    • @atreyujordan5428
      @atreyujordan5428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol yea they are pretty cute

  • @jayleenmarie
    @jayleenmarie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    “Ik the light behind me is out , just ignore that” me- 👁👄👁

  • @angelabarnes8418
    @angelabarnes8418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    "Bob turned me into an awful person" makes me so furious 😤😡🤬 I've been a sexual violence and domestic violence victims' advocate for 10+ years. One of the many tactics abusers use is isolation. There are an array of reasons relationships with family/friends fade but you becoming an awful person is NOT one of them. From my experience support dwindles because HE is forcing a wedge between you and people who care about you under the guise of protecting you from people who are trying to "come between" you because they are "jealous" of what you have. Another reason people in your support system take a step back is a misguided belief that them sticking around for you is being misconstrued as support for your relationship and dont want to enable the relationship's continuance. Lastly, some of the people in your support system have to take a step back to protect their own mental/emotional health because of the detrimental affect witnessing your abuse while being powerless to stop it has on them over time: in some cases they need to create distance for their own well-being because they don't know how to support you without internalizing an inability to protect you as a personal failure on their part. None of the above reasons have anything to do with being a terrible person (because you're not a bad person) and has everything to do with the abuser's need to dominate and control you. Isolating you is accomplishing the goal of havIng you alone with no one to interfere on your behalf: convincing you being alone is because you have a character defect (changing your perceptions aka gaslighting) is a bonus and further supports his claims there's something wrong with you and only he could possibly ever love you. Abusers wouldnt continue these tactics if they werent effective.

    • @leonita3742
      @leonita3742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im sorry u had to go through this.Hope u get better.

    • @greekchick104
      @greekchick104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm so glad you are bringing this up! I'm a criminal justice student (hoping to be a prosecutor working on sex crimes and domestic violence cases) and I actually learned a lot about the many points that you discuss here in a victimology class that I took when I was working towards my associates degree. The points you bring up are SO important, and it's even more important to educate about this, especially given the stigmas and myths and stereotypes surrounding domestic violence and sexual violence. Thank you for bringing up these points!!

    • @itisfinishednowtimetoclean2723
      @itisfinishednowtimetoclean2723 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for working with those of us who need support. It’s a scary place to be alone. I lived it, my family stood with me as much as they could. For those who are in it, know your stronger than you think! There is life beyond stalking! Stalking is a dangerous dysfunction. Listen to those who love you and see reasons to not like the person your with. Wished I had listened to coworkers and family… after many years I left. Boy did he make me pay! It’s terrible, a living nightmare for the one target. Dangerous, if someone rages/screams at you. Run, and Do Not communicate at all! Ever again, it’s not a fixable nor a functional relationship.

  • @crysta1queer
    @crysta1queer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    This is so grossly similar to my ex.
    He’s an alcoholic, dependent on weed, and unable to hold down a job.
    I dealt with him for 3 years until I finally full got rid of him because he found a new victim, which I’m pretty sure I was getting cheated on near the end of the relationship. Pretty sure this new person is dealing with the exact same shit I dealt with. (He will never change) they give you so many false promises.
    I went back even after he threatened to kill me and my mom if I left him.
    I went back even after getting a black eye.
    It’s hard to get away from.
    I would go away for months at a time and then I’d get notes on my car, he’d show up at my job, email me.
    Also the not fully blocking them I totally understood because it was like a comfort knowing they have a way to contact you because then you know they are okay but also they will be less likely to just show up because they have a way to contact you.
    It’s fucked up how it’s less scary to be with them than to be without them because it’s the fear of what they will do if you leave. When you leave they are far less predictable than they are when you are together. I’m so glad you got out of this. Also proud of you for going to the police I didn’t because my ex is transgender so he would guilt trip me about how he would get beat up or killed if he was locked up for being trans which is very valid but also more manipulation and isn’t fair that he can use that as a way to get out of being punished for what he did.
    Also fun fact about blocking people on an iPhone is there’s a folder for “blocked voicemails” so then when you know that you can see if they have left you voicemails even while blocked, that folder is full of voicemails.

    • @Theflyawaybabe
      @Theflyawaybabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sounds like my narcissist ex

    • @Theflyawaybabe
      @Theflyawaybabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Crazy thing is he live around the corner from my street

    • @qpriscilla
      @qpriscilla 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He won't get beat up for being trans, he will get beat up for doing that to you

  • @kaebutt5266
    @kaebutt5266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    If someone hurts themselves it isnt your fault. That is such a common form of manipulation and is extremely abusive. Never let someone make you feel responsible for something they do.

  • @Jodi_DiademForever
    @Jodi_DiademForever 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Being stalked by strangers is weird and they usually don't know something is wrong with them

  • @yamotha222
    @yamotha222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I relate to this way too much.. I’m 13 and I dated him from August to November and he was very abusive and manipulative and multiple people warned me constantly, and my friends and family hated him, and he always threatened me and himself if I left him and I lost so many friends because of him. I’ve learned my lesson and none of it is your fault, he manipulated you, I know how that feels. I appreciate you so much for being brave enough to share your story. I admire you so much ❤️

  • @Countryphotography88
    @Countryphotography88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    Okay not to change the subject but you are absolutely gorgeous girl!

    • @mariar4428
      @mariar4428 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Think she has ed

    • @juliaf946
      @juliaf946 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maria R why do you think that ??

    • @mariar4428
      @mariar4428 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliaf946 Because she is extreamly skinny, she could put on some weight

    • @Countryphotography88
      @Countryphotography88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ignore them, you’re beautiful girl

    • @sofiarotelletti7269
      @sofiarotelletti7269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ya! She’s SOOOO pretty!

  • @BriannaFullerton
    @BriannaFullerton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    this has nothing to do with the video but you are so freaking gorgeous like im in awe

  • @asdjklasdhjkl396
    @asdjklasdhjkl396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I remember being around 13-14 years old, walking my dog, this guy in a rundown blue car saw me and stopped very quickly right next to me, my dog was NOT having it, lunging, barking, all that. and she has never done this before. I didn't want to run and make it obvious I was scared, I let my dog off-leash and she kept in between me and the guy, he had the passenger door open and had scooted himself into that seat. I was on the brink of passing out from fear. I didn't tell my parents I don't remember why. But a week later on the news, I see an attempted abduction by a man with a blue ford of an 11-year-old girl, the next suburb over from mine. Always trust your instincts.

  • @summerwagner270
    @summerwagner270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Who’s here sitting in 2019 thinking she looks like Charlie

  • @trotski619
    @trotski619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    It breaks my heart that many women who tell these stories feel compelled to start with saying they're not telling it to get sympathy or "play the victim". This is your story, and eff anyone who has that perception! As women we're programmed to please and be as affable as possible, and its not right. Thanks for sharing this, you're a strong person.

  • @furryksier7349
    @furryksier7349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    168 dislikes are all of "bob's" extra accounts he made

  • @abitofbay2973
    @abitofbay2973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    My step mom is in this situation with my dad. My dad is abusive to her. She admits to what he did but a few days later she’d say she tripped or she was drunk and fell. But I know that we can’t do anything about it. He’s taken her phone an has control over everyones’ phones so we can’t communicate. I can’t see him anymore every since today. How can I help her see what’s going on? And plus there are kids in the mix both her kids and my dads kids, including me. What can I do to help? I’m so worried for my step sister especially as she’s been very affected by this.

    • @hannaandsunny4076
      @hannaandsunny4076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I found this website. but ur step mom would have to be willing to contact them. best of luck with your family
      www.thehotline.org/help/

    • @abitofbay2973
      @abitofbay2973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hanna and Sunny sadly she doesn’t think that he meant any harm when you know... she still thinks he’ll change. I feel so bad for her and wish I could help. We’ve contacted ppl and we’ve given her notes saying that we’ll help but she ignores. I wish we could help but it’s in her hands

    • @taranorth6495
      @taranorth6495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm curious to see how everything turned out for you. I read this and I'm so worried for your family, especially you and the other kids. Do you have a relative you and the kids could stay with till this situation is solved? Your mom has got to see how damaging it is for you guys and I'm not trying to say she's the bad guy. It has to be awful for her too.

    • @abitofbay2973
      @abitofbay2973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tara North my mom is getting full custody of me and my sister. We tried to tell her we were here for her and he’s done this before and she’s fully committed to him. She won’t even admit what he did anymore. I feel awful for her and her kids. He’s an awful person even besides the abuse.

    • @taranorth6495
      @taranorth6495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A Bit of Bay I am so sorry this is happening to you guys. Your poor mom has probably been told that she will never be able to find anyone else who wants her and that's so not true. I know it's hard but you keep your head up and keep an eye on those kids. If he even lays a finger on any of you call the police, even if your mom doesn't want you to. If you ever need a shoulder please let me know. You're so brave and shouldn't have to be worried all the time. Let this make you a stronger person and don't let it ruin your life. Please take care. I'm praying for you guys.

  • @MaddieWilt0n
    @MaddieWilt0n ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have this ex who cheated on me and continually tried to hit me up even after I blocked him. He texted my number. Facebook. Tiktok. Fake Instagram accounts. And he tried to act like he was someone else when he hit me up with a random account. I could tell it was him based on how the texts sounded. found out he would do the same to other girls. Scary.

  • @Tor.e
    @Tor.e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +538

    You kind of look and talk like Kendall Jenner !!!!

    • @lit721
      @lit721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Tori R lmfao i don’t see it at all, and she doesn’t have kendall’s obnoxious valley girl voice

    • @Tor.e
      @Tor.e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      LIT aw I didn’t mean it in a bad way. She’s way more beautiful than Kendall, I think it’s how she carries herself. She takes like Kendall without the actual annoying voice

    • @reinal7896
      @reinal7896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Tori R I mean Shes really pretty but so is Kendall. I don’t see the resemblance tho. They’re just both white with brown hair lol

    • @Tor.e
      @Tor.e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’m white with brown hair and look nothing like either of them? The way they talk, eye brows, nose, lips, her hand gestures. Didn’t know I had to be so specific. Also doubt she took it as an insult or read as deep into it as anyone in the comments

    • @reinal7896
      @reinal7896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tori R you missed my point ... lmao
      I’m saying they don’t have any similarities in appearance except being white with brown hair. In other words, I see no resemblance. Of course, it’s fine if u do lol

  • @itssaadia2075
    @itssaadia2075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    You remind me a bit of Dua Lipa

  • @millencarino5031
    @millencarino5031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I really feel bad for what happened to you tho! First of all I'm glad that i met u today, May 22, 2020! I don't know but after watching ur whole video i was urged to give comment and a friend talk, i really hope that you're totally okay now, better than before i know it's already 1 year ago that this happened but, I'd like to offer u a short prayer:
    Heavenly Father, Thank you for the life that you've given to this person, indeed that she's a child of Yours, i pray atm God that You may cover her everyday of her life, cover her by Your protection, Strength, love, comfort, support, courage, wisdom and also You may guard her heart. Keep her away from any harm and hurts, and fill her heart with Your love, fill her mind and heart with peace. Lord, i pray for total healingness to this person, mentally, physically and spiritually! and also to her family, to the people that surrounds her. I'm blessed what she concluded to her video, that it is indeed important that we must and should listen to what our important people and love one's is telling us, give us a heart to listen and take their advice, we believe that You have send them to protect us from harm! God bless you brooke with more strength and courage! In Jesus Name, Amen! Sending love & hugs for u Brooke 💗 u're so genuine!
    RIGHT TIME, RIGHT PERSON!
    Love, Millen Philippines!💙

  • @elisenicole3713
    @elisenicole3713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The way our stories matched up is insane. 💯With my experience with my psycho ex I literally had to get my Dad to scare him off at the level he was harassing me. I’m sorry this happened to you gurl. 💗💗

  • @nicoledrea9149
    @nicoledrea9149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Finally a story time i can peacefully watch without ads. Not all heros wear capes.

  • @rhiarnaparker5935
    @rhiarnaparker5935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    You need to publish his name so girls know to stay away from him! How scary 😪

    • @alexbryyan
      @alexbryyan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Rhiarna Parker shed be sued tho

    • @sofiarotelletti7269
      @sofiarotelletti7269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Alex Bryan she would, but it’s safer for everyone if they know who he is

    • @reinal7896
      @reinal7896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Alex Bryan How would she be sued tho ? I don’t see how that would work in this case

    • @amyblood5568
      @amyblood5568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lily Smith it would be defamation which could get into legal trouble

    • @sofiarotelletti7269
      @sofiarotelletti7269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because “BOB” could sue her

  • @samantharosee_xx6810
    @samantharosee_xx6810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate you sharing your story! I can tell this was reallllyyyy serious and it must’ve been hard for you to talk about. Thank you for sharing the screenshots and everything!

  • @ginapapai2332
    @ginapapai2332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love your voice,
    Why are all the girls that do story times so pretty and have soothing voices?!

  • @Brycesaggiebabe
    @Brycesaggiebabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I had a similar boyfriend experience.. I went out with this manipulative abusive guy for 4 years. I went to college and the guy got worse. I even had him stalk me when I was home for the holidays. I can feel your pain.

    • @jessbri20
      @jessbri20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Glad you're out of that situation💖

    • @Brycesaggiebabe
      @Brycesaggiebabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jessbri20 Thank you, me too. It was one hard thing to overcome. I am stronger for it, and I know Brooke and everyone else who has to suffer from similar situations are too. I wish no one has to go through such terrible things.

  • @entrnlagb
    @entrnlagb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Ok so basically this is a psycho stalker ex-boyfriend??...

    • @jadeashley4929
      @jadeashley4929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly i thought it was like a real stalker not ex..😐🤨

    • @babydaddy4886
      @babydaddy4886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Jade Ashley an ex can be a real stalker? Don’t be stupid

  • @beautyandbrainz
    @beautyandbrainz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If your single please don't rush into a relationship and accept just anyone. You're valuable and your time is valuable. If your in a dark place use that time to love yourself first and then right person will enter your life. Waiting for the right guy is worth the wait with someone who will treat you with love and respect. Never accept physical & emotional abuse from anyone. It's a big red flag and if your best friends and family are telling you they don't like them there's a reason. Leave!!

  • @androow1983
    @androow1983 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I've seen a lot of people here blame men and act like it's an issue that men create, when men commit stalking only 15% more, which is not a big enough difference to say that at all.

  • @oOzephyrOo
    @oOzephyrOo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Been through a similar situation, and 2 years later, he's just waiting for any occasion to recontact me or threaten my friends, I've got a restraining order but I have to make it a permanent one. The good news, I'm with a loving wonderful man now, who will protect me if the psycho tries to come near me, and the psycho is living in a camping car and sometimes with his mommy (he's approaching 40), waiting to find his next victim to leech of, another young girl to submit, dominate, abuse, call awful names, make him dinner, scratch his neck while he plays computer games all day, and pay the bills. That's what women are here for in his eyes. And I payed my insubmission a high price, but I'm out.
    I can relate to this story on sooo many levels. I'm glad you got out of that relationship. The "funniest" thing is after everything, when they innocently ask you if you could just unblock them. They got no soul, those people.

  • @appleagxx
    @appleagxx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I had a similar situation like this.
    I told the guy to stop contacting me and once I blocked him on my iPhone it still went through on my MacBook. I later told him I was contacting the police if he didn’t stop what he was doing, then it died down.
    But this was honestly so scary and I would have honestly handed it the way you did.

  • @stephanieshanonn366
    @stephanieshanonn366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had a relationship extremely similar to this when I was 15. I am so happy we both realized what was going on and found ways to leave those situations and I pray for anyone who is in this situation. Much love ❤️

  • @vanessaultimo1926
    @vanessaultimo1926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Every time I hear a story like this I feel less alone with my own story (which is sooooo damn similar). So thank you.
    It really sickens me how many people like "Bob" are out there in the world 😔

  • @brookebilling2186
    @brookebilling2186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Just got out of something almost exactly identical to this story after 3 years! He would randomly show up in different locations in seattle if I went out, sat outside of the gates of my house, and got access to my card number and spent a load of money... whats up with these seattle heads tho? feel ya girl

  • @PinkZebraT
    @PinkZebraT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So so grateful that you got yourself out of this. It's alarming to me that I can relate to some of the minor details you mentioned when I was with someone in the past. You sharing this really helped bring to light a lot of things for me. Thank you, Brooke! Stay safe, girl.

  • @WhiteDragon6mg
    @WhiteDragon6mg 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    you seem very genuine and kind. It is so sad good people get put through ongoing harassment with little to no help from authorities. hope things are better for you in 2020 and i hope you have more positive people in your life nowadays. If someone isnt adding to the relationship and holding you back or guilting you to stay major RED flags. i think many people have these situations and the best that can come from it is learning the signs and surrounding yourself by the polar opposite of this creep. its hard to stay single but even that doesnt protect you from weirdos so keep being a positive role model for others and good things will likely come your way. subbed to your channel since this is old i look fwd to other uploads.

  • @thirstyspirit9567
    @thirstyspirit9567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you're lucky your alive..

  • @MinimiMax
    @MinimiMax 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Gotta say, I did not expect this to be the way you return to TH-cam. I'm glad things didn't escalate and you managed to escape this situation.

  • @darknessbarbie6615
    @darknessbarbie6615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This reminds me of my ex who is now in jail. He horrified me still does, I hate him so much because we had a baby and I gave my baby up for adoption because I couldn't protect him from his dad which makes me want to die because I love my son so much but I needed to protect him and if you think I'm the worst person in the world I feel that but I couldn't be selfish I had to protect my baby 😥😭

    • @justme-ii7kq
      @justme-ii7kq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't worry you did what was best for your son

  • @julie717
    @julie717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Why didn’t she just make her account private?? This might be a dumb question but I feel like that’d be a logical thing to do..

    • @samraymond4967
      @samraymond4967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      She is also kind of a public figure but in that situation she should have

    • @anoni6108
      @anoni6108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @James Doyle you can disable that on ig

    • @grixxly8531
      @grixxly8531 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think she’s like an influencer or just popular in general so she needs her socials

  • @laurita92
    @laurita92 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    What a narcissist. He blackmailed u. These narcs are always ALWAYS watching u. This is why its so important for young teens to tell their parents whats going on with their relationships.

  • @arismith2403
    @arismith2403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is the first video of yours I've seen. You're strong & no-one ever deserves what you went through.

  • @xoArmy20GirLxo
    @xoArmy20GirLxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    OMFG! How terrifying!!!
    "Bob" is absolutely BEYOND PYSCHO!!!
    You poor girl, hopefully you're far away from him and you're safe

  • @fremabrenyah1
    @fremabrenyah1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for posting this. People have no idea how scary this is. Huge blessing that people believed you off the jump. I can empathize with nearly all of this story.

  • @Melody-ud5kz
    @Melody-ud5kz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so horrible that you had to go through this. This must have been so terrifying. I am truly sorry that you had to experience this. I am just very happy to see you happy and I am glad that everything worked out for you!

  • @unknowngirl6824
    @unknowngirl6824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    GIRL!! You are drop dead gorgeous and didn't deserve to have such a toxic relationship(nobody does) and I hope you find a man who will love and appreciate you for the amazing person you are!!
    And I'm so sorry you had to deal with such a negative and toxic person.

  • @braydeevolpa3069
    @braydeevolpa3069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    this story hits home cause it reminds me so much of my moms old relationship :( thanks for sharing your story💞

  • @summerjames1542
    @summerjames1542 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your a strong beautiful woman 💕 It’s so hard,fear does take over,distance sometimes doesn’t make a difference because they are so manipulative and controlling it’s like they are stood behind you watching every move,you do what makes them happy for the sake of your own safety,it’s sad to see so may people go through this,I hope your doing well now (not finished the vid) wishing you all the health and the happiness in the world,stay strong 🥰

  • @nopeee._703
    @nopeee._703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Outta everything u called him bob😭💀

  • @ryleemilligan433
    @ryleemilligan433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    "He was talking to himself at this point." - Brooke 2019

  • @aynsleylohr550
    @aynsleylohr550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    girl. you are completely describing my life. I went through all of this for the past 5 years... glad we are both out of these relationships and doing better ❤️

  • @Mylang121
    @Mylang121 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re gorgeous , your video was so calm to hear because of your voice I love it! Im sorry you went through that😢 and also you live in a beautiful place with garden or forest around, that’s my wish😭 I live in the city !! I love the nature around your windows. I’m sorry I have to say it!

  • @emily-vt4bf
    @emily-vt4bf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate these types of videos because it can really help other people and myself to prepare for things like you experienced.