The last words my husband's narcissist first wife ever spoke to him when he served her with divorce papers was, "I CAN RUIN YOU AND DON'T THINK I CAN'T." And she very nearly did.
I had to start recording every interaction with my narc. He would say all the things he wanted to have happen and then ignore my disagreeing with it. He then would proceed as if I agreed, because I didn’t say what he wanted to hear. The recordings are saving my backside in court. I only regret not getting all of the arguments on video.
In some states, California included, you cannot record your conversations without first getting the assent of the person(s) you are going to record. Of course you want to be able to record without the knowledge of the narc, so that's out. But you can retain all written communication like SMS messages (texting), and emails.
Yes they want a reaction. Video recording they do it all for evidence. Reactive Abuse was his favorite recordings . It’s so sad how the lawyers and judges are not educated on how they work
I won a few in pro per motions in my divorce from a narc. Didn't lose any. But it really burned me up that the judge wouldn't sanction him, or even give me my costs.
I just want to say, I love the 🤍"elegant and enlightened" white color on you, of your suit. Thanks for this episode, Rebecca. It helps pile more power onto me. I am not going through a divorce myself, but I am actually going through someone ELSE's divorce!!!
I feel bad for the people that are stuck attached to a narc by reason of the fact that they have kids together. It seems like a life sentence only minimized once the kids become adults. What an awful thing to have as a constant in your life.
That is my life. Thank you for acknowledging this as it seems no one does. There is a lot of advice out there about dealing with a narcissist that I can't do, simply because we share a child. I've grown strong enough to take the personal abuse, but trying to deal with his abuse to her is an ongoing battle. I feel I have to be the strongest person in the universe and it's so exhausting.
@@bonzbeasty Yes, narcs thrive on exhausting you. I've gotten to the point where I only allot a set amount of time compiling this police report against him so that I can take better care of myself, and then come back at it stronger. Not so easy to separate like that when there's a child involved, or you live under the same roof.
@Lucy Braun I'm proud of you for loving yourself and staying strong. When people share their stories and have empathy, it really helps me feel less alone and stay strong myself. As a community of survivors we have to stick together! Best of luck to you💜🩵💙❤️
@@bonzbeasty Likewise. I so value the support here. I've become so isolated, but it's a season I have to go through until I am away from the narc and his fly monkeys. Looking forward to the day I am free!
I have been victim of narcissistic abuse since I was a teenager. I am ready to go against them in court. I am 38, they built a whole case against me and manipulated me my whole life essentially. I am ready to confront their accusations in court. All I need is someone with concrete evidence of the torture I am living with since 12 years, I have been under mind control since I was a child.
Hey Ms. Zung, can you do a video about covert narcissists using other people to take you to court? I'm dealing with an ex with a covert narcissistic mother who is using him to take me to court to file for joint custody although he left me while pregnant and will not come see our child despite me trying to get him to do so. She has done this before by using another person she was controlling to take someone to court to get at them while she sat back with her hands clean. She doesn't like things like vaccinations and will try to use my ex (who could care less about our child) to fight and argue with me about things like that. He claims he can't stop our case when I know he's just afraid of her and she's paying for everything. I was only a few days out of the hospital after receiving a c-section when she tricked me into getting on the phone and started insulting me and pushing me for visitation. 1 month and a half post partum I was served papers and she had the lawyer come at me aggressively. She did this knowing I'm out of work and thought I wouldn't be at a disadvantage trying to defend myself but I found a way to get an attorney. Now I have to sit with my ex in mediation in a few days to discuss this when he could care less because he's just his mom's puppet into trying to control me. I've created a timeline, have some proof and I have people that know her willing to testify against her but it's HIS name as the plaintiff which makes this situation that more difficult.
I have a 9 year old and she’s been with me since day one. Haven’t been with him in almost 10 years. He recently served me and he wants to be the primary parent but has not done things to do so. He barely see her on average 6 days a month gives me child support but uses it as a tool to mess with me . He’s a millionaire and has not worked in 4 years. I have a lawyer and we go to court Wednesday. Any advice?
I'm dealing with issues about hidden assets. Can you give us a game plan on how to get that exposed without a civil lawsuit? I know the banks where Mom's assets were held and where her various retirement income came from, so the D.A. can subpoena those records, but it's hard to know what the narc has left out. I also know where the narc banks. Reverse lifestyle analysis? Mom had 2 retirement incomes, plus rental property income, but her investments also brought in income that the narc is hiding. I have no idea how to get at that.
Nah...My children had to be taught...they know who he is! He tried grooming them into him...and one day I woke up and started letting them know what he was doing but they were well aware
What do you do when the narcissists solicitor ie also a narcissist? Solicitor omitted all of my evidence and cheated and ignored practice directions...surely I can have her up for misconduct with the SRA?
couple of questions. as we know, narcissists will project and accuse you of things that they are doing or how they feel. I learned my mother was a narcissist because she kept calling me One so I went and took a diagnostic test. The test that the therapist gave me is similar to ones that every therapist uses, so why is it that we cannot diagnose narcissism if we have concrete examples and they fit the criteria? The other thing is as we know, narcissist full therapist all the time so unless the therapist is one that specializes in it, they are actually doing a disservice because we’re trusting somebody these word who may or may not know what’s going on the person experiencing the abuse knows better than anyone. and how is it at this day and age with 51% of marriages ending in divorce that the system is still antiquated why is it that the judicial system gets away with not being up-to-date on training and educating themselves on narcissism ?
My wife recently obtained her visa, brought her family to the country and now wants a divorce, seeking to take our two children with her. I’m concerned because I believe her actions may be part of a plan to secure her status here and then leave me while taking the kids. She has a history of infidelity, narcissistic behavior and pathological lying, which worries me about her ability to care for our children. I want to understand my legal options for protecting my rights while she’s wanting to coparent, (still living in the house) and ensuring the best interests of our children. I also have some evidence to support my concerns. I would appreciate your guidance on how to proceed.
Rebecca, even though you are only licensed in FL, there is a manner of practicing in another state via a pro hoc vici motion, in case something comes along outside FL where you feel compelled to get involved. I don't know all the details, but numerous times, I have seen lawyers have these motions granted fairly easily.
I used to be quiet, didnt worked, once i opened my mouth and started to call him names, started to play his game, he went tired. Trust me zero fear makes massive difference. But u have to act like them. In the same time u have to plan to leave him
This has been going on behind my back and I Just got hit With 4 show causes and a Motion to have physical custody given to the father and his wife. I'm so scared. They are both drug addicts Habitual and stepmom has Been hitting our son and dad disappeared for the past 8 months but because we have joint custody and I didn't share. Doctor's appointments in school stuff with him that I purposely wasn't including him but I thought he was in jail to be honest with you. And it is too narcissist and I am terrified to go up against these allegations when they are the ones who have been abusing my son. I don't know what to do i'm so scared
How do I defend myself against their allegations that? We need a video on how to defend ourselves in court and flip it to show that. They're really the ones that are harming the child I don't know What to do and I don't want to send my son to their house? I'm afraid for him to go there and I dropped the ball because his dad just was not in the picture and he showed up in full force with a. Case ready to throw at me and I had no clue this was going on.
@@krazychic I would file a report with the police and let them know you're desperate. At least you'll have a legal record. Also, contact your local news so they can start an investigation about your rights to protection if the system is not working. I escaped my abusive marriage without having to press charges, however I had a folder on file with the police just in case anything went wrong, or I got hurt. I wish you well.
that fine i have 2000 pages of pdf files of text messagesand fb post gas lighting me, lieing, silent treatment, cursing me, causing me to have reactive abuse ect....... from 2 years total so now im going for full custody of my son
I wish I could afford an attorney like you I’m being tortured during this custody dispute and the judge keeps postponing my case causing my son and I more and more stress
Also, co-habitating is OK! JUST BE SURE TO PUT IN WRITTING EVERY STEP OR MAJOR DECISIONS MADE TOGETHER IN WRITING AND GET IT NOTARIZED. DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT.
Mine threatened to make sure I end up in a cardboard box and I told my son and my son said do the the same thing to him and then I mistakingly told him what my son said and he got angry and said my son has failed me my son is a failure because my son is on my side at the end of the day. ... I guess after years of him saying even so and so said and even so and so said and even your son said He doesn't see how my son could possibly actually care about me...
No contact, no sitting around in s%$t talking, no looking for others to re-fuel the below surface hatred, look for authetic people, try to find employment that understands i look as bad as i've lived and been treated. Now that suicide idolization is no longer a factor by slowly snapping out of it. I love myself today, they didn't take my voice away and i could tell on them anyway ... music notes everywhere. 🎵
One issue that absolutely daggered and skewed, my diabled daughter was given to the ex partner to be given over to facility care ( no offer of help to me to care for her), and 12 people were paid upwards of $ 60,000/year in that facility to keep her. After 23 years of not being allowed to know where she was, i was allowed to go see her. The person that let me in to see her ssid , oh look, there's a mom, a look of a imbasil on her face , i asked for some water to place drops on her lips ( they were dried to cracking and bleeding), the imbasil gave me mouthwash. I hope that $70,000.00 a year she made for a cushy life makes them baffled as to why the system out did their own jobs.
Typo" 13 years and disabled daughter, she also had no side rails on her bed , she had cerebral palsy, fell out of that bed and broke her fever. Now that suggests my daughter completely disabled, couldn't walk talk or see suffered like she was christ himself. Disgusting .
How can I force the narc to pay the late fees that got assessed against my property because he paid the Decedent's 5/6 share of property taxes late? It was so ridiculous. He tried to con me into believing that I owed ALL the taxes when I only owed 1/6 of them. I DIDN'T TAKE THE BAIT! The told him he had to pay the Decedent's 5/6 share but his delay stunt caused the late fees, and now, he's refusing to pay the late fees he caused on my property.
So spot on !! Thank you. The judge in Orange County, New York , that moron Andrew B., showed poor judgment as well. At least I had finally begun DOCUMENTING ex’s behaviors. Dates, times, behavioral specifics, and names of who else knew( neighbor, friend, family member, & most important, law enforcement I had contacted!).
Just make sure you fully understand what it takes to get your documentation admitted into evidence. You have to be able to authenticate it, lay a foundation for it, and speak on how it is relevant to the cause of action at issue.
@@latinalife2458 i ve been raised by NPD family. I ve been abused so badly. And i never abused one person. I remeber myself as teen girl, i promissed myself that i will be the best mum, and best friend. Being raised by NPD u can become one too, or u will be vurnable, and others will abuse u again. This is what happened to me. I ve been too good to be true, and my ex abused me. So, again i let people abused me, bully me, but i ve never abuse one person. After so many years of abuse, i became angry, but only angry for myself, hard to forgive myself, people played me hard.
There seems to be a lot of people suffering and benefitting from these tactics and society's games long before my time. It's never been a game, not with all the lives lost and being lost on this planet and wherever else. Apparently no sincere care, love, morals, values, respect or concern for human life regardless of color or sex. Eyes wide open or closed; it's still the same; the blind/deaf man uses other senses and still what they call a Game simply ABUSES/BULLIES THEM...SMH..STANDARDS/SUPPORT SYSTEMS/RESOURCES MANIPULATED AND MISUSED.🎉LOVE OPINIONATED 🎉🎉
They put lots of lies in the court record. My ex did this non-stop to where he was quadrupling the amount of time I had to put in by proving the lies. It was insane all the crap he made up & put in the court record without a shred of evidence to prove what he would state. And don't think for a second that if you prove their lies that the court will sanction them, or prosecute them for perjury. It won't. You're supposed to just eat all that time & expense you put into proving their lies. If you can, skip court, and just get away from them, or else they will devastate your finances! And the judge doesn't give a damn.
I have visions of him bringing character witnesses for himself and those he has turned against me with his lies. But that's not the issue. There is no character B.S. that can counter his embezzlements.
GOD DAMN . My wife lied so much. She's a narcissist. She got a free lawyer Western Mass legal associates . I had zero. She got OUR son , my house. To show what kind of mother she is. Our son died of an over dose. at the age of 21. When our son was eight years old she shut me out of his life. I'm his FATHER. SHE, a nacissist, did the most terrible thing. Very sad. She, "BETH", Always referred to Danny, our son, as" her " son. Oh yeah, HER SON! What a narcissist. Awful, terrible. We all lose. I think of Danny every single day. It's the worst thing to happen to a parent. Danny is dead. At least , I have a wonderful wife now. "BETH" has zero. This should NOT have happened. FORGIVENESS would've stopped this from happening. Divorce and death. Forgiveness. Divorce and death. Which one would you choose? Forgiveness of course! Please learn from our mistakes.
I am so sorry. My husband suffered all the things you did at the hands of his first wife. Except that none of the kids died. They are now 4 useless adult narcissists now doing the same crap to their children.
SHUT THEM DOWN1!!!! Why is it so hard for me not to take the bait?? Probably has to do with born in a different era, and in a culture where women were taught they were supid and needed a man to make it through life. YES! I lived during those times and in that place. Trauma bonded. ughhh... I was so conditioned... So ture.. All of this information from MS Zung is true for me. n
The last words my husband's narcissist first wife ever spoke to him when he served her with divorce papers was, "I CAN RUIN YOU AND DON'T THINK I CAN'T." And she very nearly did.
Whoa! That is very scary, especially when you have built a lifetime's worth of wealth with your own dedication and sweat!
I had to start recording every interaction with my narc. He would say all the things he wanted to have happen and then ignore my disagreeing with it. He then would proceed as if I agreed, because I didn’t say what he wanted to hear. The recordings are saving my backside in court.
I only regret not getting all of the arguments on video.
In some states, California included, you cannot record your conversations without first getting the assent of the person(s) you are going to record. Of course you want to be able to record without the knowledge of the narc, so that's out. But you can retain all written communication like SMS messages (texting), and emails.
Yes they want a reaction. Video recording they do it all for evidence. Reactive Abuse was his favorite recordings . It’s so sad how the lawyers and judges are not educated on how they work
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
Thanks for this uplifting video. Will be in court in a few months. Good to get perspective of judges. My narc is tying up selling the house.
Victimised by a narcissist,you drive them wild,they'll drive you crazy,if you don't like it,escape the situation before it does you any harm🚩🆘❌💲✔️❔
Thank you! So glad I can help!
I won a few in pro per motions in my divorce from a narc. Didn't lose any. But it really burned me up that the judge wouldn't sanction him, or even give me my costs.
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
I just want to say, I love the 🤍"elegant and enlightened" white color on you, of your suit. Thanks for this episode, Rebecca. It helps pile more power onto me. I am not going through a divorce myself, but I am actually going through someone ELSE's divorce!!!
I feel bad for the people that are stuck attached to a narc by reason of the fact that they have kids together. It seems like a life sentence only minimized once the kids become adults. What an awful thing to have as a constant in your life.
That is my life. Thank you for acknowledging this as it seems no one does. There is a lot of advice out there about dealing with a narcissist that I can't do, simply because we share a child. I've grown strong enough to take the personal abuse, but trying to deal with his abuse to her is an ongoing battle. I feel I have to be the strongest person in the universe and it's so exhausting.
@@bonzbeasty Yes, narcs thrive on exhausting you. I've gotten to the point where I only allot a set amount of time compiling this police report against him so that I can take better care of myself, and then come back at it stronger. Not so easy to separate like that when there's a child involved, or you live under the same roof.
@Lucy Braun I'm proud of you for loving yourself and staying strong. When people share their stories and have empathy, it really helps me feel less alone and stay strong myself. As a community of survivors we have to stick together! Best of luck to you💜🩵💙❤️
@@bonzbeasty Likewise. I so value the support here. I've become so isolated, but it's a season I have to go through until I am away from the narc and his fly monkeys. Looking forward to the day I am free!
Its pure hell. Im there now
I have been victim of narcissistic abuse since I was a teenager. I am ready to go against them in court. I am 38, they built a whole case against me and manipulated me my whole life essentially. I am ready to confront their accusations in court.
All I need is someone with concrete evidence of the torture I am living with since 12 years, I have been under mind control since I was a child.
I shut them down by telling the truth and stating the facts....and I get accused of lying...so absurd!!
Hey Ms. Zung, can you do a video about covert narcissists using other people to take you to court? I'm dealing with an ex with a covert narcissistic mother who is using him to take me to court to file for joint custody although he left me while pregnant and will not come see our child despite me trying to get him to do so. She has done this before by using another person she was controlling to take someone to court to get at them while she sat back with her hands clean. She doesn't like things like vaccinations and will try to use my ex (who could care less about our child) to fight and argue with me about things like that. He claims he can't stop our case when I know he's just afraid of her and she's paying for everything. I was only a few days out of the hospital after receiving a c-section when she tricked me into getting on the phone and started insulting me and pushing me for visitation. 1 month and a half post partum I was served papers and she had the lawyer come at me aggressively. She did this knowing I'm out of work and thought I wouldn't be at a disadvantage trying to defend myself but I found a way to get an attorney. Now I have to sit with my ex in mediation in a few days to discuss this when he could care less because he's just his mom's puppet into trying to control me. I've created a timeline, have some proof and I have people that know her willing to testify against her but it's HIS name as the plaintiff which makes this situation that more difficult.
Yep mine wanted to negotiate at the kitchen table. When i said no. Lawyer assisted mediation…he blew up, bullied, intimidated, harass me. I hung up.
Thank you for getting right into it. Binge watch
SHUT THEM DOWN!
TOTALLY!
I have a 9 year old and she’s been with me since day one. Haven’t been with him in almost 10 years. He recently served me and he wants to be the primary parent but has not done things to do so. He barely see her on average 6 days a month gives me child support but uses it as a tool to mess with me . He’s a millionaire and has not worked in 4 years. I have a lawyer and we go to court Wednesday. Any advice?
Rebecca, thank you so much for creating this video. Just starting my divorce process now. I feel so much better prepared!
Check this out - icanslay.com/ Keep slaying!
Wow, it's like she knows my ex personally, the accuracy.
As a Glaswegian I'm loving Gary....brilliant....by the way.
Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?
I'm dealing with issues about hidden assets. Can you give us a game plan on how to get that exposed without a civil lawsuit? I know the banks where Mom's assets were held and where her various retirement income came from, so the D.A. can subpoena those records, but it's hard to know what the narc has left out. I also know where the narc banks. Reverse lifestyle analysis? Mom had 2 retirement incomes, plus rental property income, but her investments also brought in income that the narc is hiding. I have no idea how to get at that.
Nah...My children had to be taught...they know who he is! He tried grooming them into him...and one day I woke up and started letting them know what he was doing but they were well aware
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
What do you do when the narcissists solicitor ie also a narcissist? Solicitor omitted all of my evidence and cheated and ignored practice directions...surely I can have her up for misconduct with the SRA?
Nobody is above the law. Doesn't matter which personality disorder you have.
couple of questions. as we know, narcissists will project and accuse you of things that they are doing or how they feel. I learned my mother was a narcissist because she kept calling me One so I went and took a diagnostic test. The test that the therapist gave me is similar to ones that every therapist uses, so why is it that we cannot diagnose narcissism if we have concrete examples and they fit the criteria? The other thing is as we know, narcissist full therapist all the time so unless the therapist is one that specializes in it, they are actually doing a disservice because we’re trusting somebody these word who may or may not know what’s going on the person experiencing the abuse knows better than anyone.
and how is it at this day and age with 51% of marriages ending in divorce that the system is still antiquated why is it that the judicial system gets away with not being up-to-date on training and educating themselves on narcissism ?
My wife recently obtained her visa, brought her family to the country and now wants a divorce, seeking to take our two children with her.
I’m concerned because I believe her actions may be part of a plan to secure her status here and then leave me while taking the kids. She has a history of infidelity, narcissistic behavior and pathological lying, which worries me about her ability to care for our children.
I want to understand my legal options for protecting my rights while she’s wanting to coparent, (still living in the house) and ensuring the best interests of our children. I also have some evidence to support my concerns. I would appreciate your guidance on how to proceed.
This is 100% my experience.
Check this out - icanslay.com/ Keep slaying!
That you, Rebecca.
Rebecca, even though you are only licensed in FL, there is a manner of practicing in another state via a pro hoc vici motion, in case something comes along outside FL where you feel compelled to get involved. I don't know all the details, but numerous times, I have seen lawyers have these motions granted fairly easily.
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
Don't let them scare you. Don't react. They need our reactions to sell their smear campaigns, even in in court.
I used to be quiet, didnt worked, once i opened my mouth and started to call him names, started to play his game, he went tired. Trust me zero fear makes massive difference. But u have to act like them. In the same time u have to plan to leave him
This has been going on behind my back and I Just got hit With 4 show causes and a Motion to have physical custody given to the father and his wife. I'm so scared. They are both drug addicts Habitual and stepmom has Been hitting our son and dad disappeared for the past 8 months but because we have joint custody and I didn't share. Doctor's appointments in school stuff with him that I purposely wasn't including him but I thought he was in jail to be honest with you. And it is too narcissist and I am terrified to go up against these allegations when they are the ones who have been abusing my son. I don't know what to do i'm so scared
How do I defend myself against their allegations that? We need a video on how to defend ourselves in court and flip it to show that. They're really the ones that are harming the child I don't know What to do and I don't want to send my son to their house? I'm afraid for him to go there and I dropped the ball because his dad just was not in the picture and he showed up in full force with a. Case ready to throw at me and I had no clue this was going on.
@@krazychic I would file a report with the police and let them know you're desperate. At least you'll have a legal record. Also, contact your local news so they can start an investigation about your rights to protection if the system is not working. I escaped my abusive marriage without having to press charges, however I had a folder on file with the police just in case anything went wrong, or I got hurt. I wish you well.
@@missywink1504 thank you for the advice ❤❤❤❤❤
You should get child protective services involved. They will get to the bottom of who is doing the abusing.
Ke kept track of my PERIOD! On his calendar!
Same, why?
💯 true about everything!
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Excellent video!!!
Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?
@@RebeccaZungEsq New insights into managing the courtroom battle ahead. Wish I'd had them in my divorce from a narc 12 years ago.
If they lie under OATH it is perjury! Especially when you provide evidence to the contrary
SO READY TO SHUT THEM DOWN
that fine i have 2000 pages of pdf files of text messagesand fb post gas lighting me, lieing, silent treatment, cursing me, causing me to have reactive abuse ect....... from 2 years total so now im going for full custody of my son
Me too it’s going on 1 year for me
I wish I could afford an attorney like you I’m being tortured during this custody dispute and the judge keeps postponing my case causing my son and I more and more stress
@@CrystalTriedDIY I get it🙏🏾🤦🏽♀️
Also, co-habitating is OK! JUST BE SURE TO PUT IN WRITTING EVERY STEP OR MAJOR DECISIONS MADE TOGETHER IN WRITING AND GET IT NOTARIZED. DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT.
Slay ...as always thank you 🙏✌️
I’m so ready to shut them down
Proud of you! You got this ❤
Mine threatened to make sure I end up in a cardboard box and I told my son and my son said do the the same thing to him and then I mistakingly told him what my son said and he got angry and said my son has failed me my son is a failure because my son is on my side at the end of the day. ... I guess after years of him saying even so and so said and even so and so said and even your son said He doesn't see how my son could possibly actually care about me...
No contact, no sitting around in s%$t talking, no looking for others to re-fuel the below surface hatred, look for authetic people, try to find employment that understands i look as bad as i've lived and been treated. Now that suicide idolization is no longer a factor by slowly snapping out of it. I love myself today, they didn't take my voice away and i could tell on them anyway ... music notes everywhere. 🎵
One issue that absolutely daggered and skewed, my diabled daughter was given to the ex partner to be given over to facility care ( no offer of help to me to care for her), and 12 people were paid upwards of $ 60,000/year in that facility to keep her. After 23 years of not being allowed to know where she was, i was allowed to go see her. The person that let me in to see her ssid , oh look, there's a mom, a look of a imbasil on her face , i asked for some water to place drops on her lips ( they were dried to cracking and bleeding), the imbasil gave me mouthwash. I hope that $70,000.00 a year she made for a cushy life makes them baffled as to why the system out did their own jobs.
Typo" 13 years and disabled daughter, she also had no side rails on her bed , she had cerebral palsy, fell out of that bed and broke her fever. Now that suggests my daughter completely disabled, couldn't walk talk or see suffered like she was christ himself. Disgusting .
How can I force the narc to pay the late fees that got assessed against my property because he paid the Decedent's 5/6 share of property taxes late? It was so ridiculous. He tried to con me into believing that I owed ALL the taxes when I only owed 1/6 of them. I DIDN'T TAKE THE BAIT! The told him he had to pay the Decedent's 5/6 share but his delay stunt caused the late fees, and now, he's refusing to pay the late fees he caused on my property.
What do you do when the judge is biased?
So spot on !! Thank you. The judge in Orange County, New York , that moron Andrew B., showed poor judgment as well. At least I had finally begun DOCUMENTING ex’s behaviors. Dates, times, behavioral specifics, and names of who else knew( neighbor, friend, family member, & most important, law enforcement I had contacted!).
Just make sure you fully understand what it takes to get your documentation admitted into evidence. You have to be able to authenticate it, lay a foundation for it, and speak on how it is relevant to the cause of action at issue.
Please check this out for extra support - icanslay.com/
Shut them down!
Help. Happening right this moment, iam strong.
Be strong, be good to yourself! Put a protective shield around you ❤
Pray fast and meditate
You got this! 💪
Slaying
Penalty of perjury( risk)...evidence evidence evidence...rules of discovery...rules of evidence
Yupppp!
It's time to shut them down!
Totally agree!
Yes yes it’s time shut them down
I'm bloody angry, not a narcassist.
Its normal to be angry, best way is to leave them
@@MuseLaBetthe problem is the kids that will be abuse till they leave . And that means more narcs in the world !
@@latinalife2458 i ve been raised by NPD family. I ve been abused so badly. And i never abused one person. I remeber myself as teen girl, i promissed myself that i will be the best mum, and best friend. Being raised by NPD u can become one too, or u will be vurnable, and others will abuse u again. This is what happened to me. I ve been too good to be true, and my ex abused me.
So, again i let people abused me, bully me, but i ve never abuse one person. After so many years of abuse, i became angry, but only angry for myself, hard to forgive myself, people played me hard.
Omg they do use the court system. Ong. I thought when this happened to me, it was insanity first me. I had no idea. Omg.
The narc is an emotionally dangerous person. Its one step away from a murderer.
He is going to use everything Against me but i have strong evidence
Shut them down.
SLAY ..!!!
Keep SLAYing!
There seems to be a lot of people suffering and benefitting from these tactics and society's games long before my time. It's never been a game, not with all the lives lost and being lost on this planet and wherever else. Apparently no sincere care, love, morals, values, respect or concern for human life regardless of color or sex. Eyes wide open or closed; it's still the same; the blind/deaf man uses other senses and still what they call a Game simply ABUSES/BULLIES THEM...SMH..STANDARDS/SUPPORT SYSTEMS/RESOURCES MANIPULATED AND MISUSED.🎉LOVE OPINIONATED 🎉🎉
They put lots of lies in the court record. My ex did this non-stop to where he was quadrupling the amount of time I had to put in by proving the lies. It was insane all the crap he made up & put in the court record without a shred of evidence to prove what he would state. And don't think for a second that if you prove their lies that the court will sanction them, or prosecute them for perjury. It won't. You're supposed to just eat all that time & expense you put into proving their lies. If you can, skip court, and just get away from them, or else they will devastate your finances! And the judge doesn't give a damn.
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Yes
You got this! 💪
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Louder Gina! 👏
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"Slay the Nar"
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Oops I meant can I have one to one session with you
Can I gave have one to one session with you.
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I have visions of him bringing character witnesses for himself and those he has turned against me with his lies. But that's not the issue. There is no character B.S. that can counter his embezzlements.
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GOD DAMN . My wife lied so much. She's a narcissist. She got a free lawyer Western Mass legal associates . I had zero. She got OUR son , my house. To show what kind of mother she is. Our son died of an over dose. at the age of 21. When our son was eight years old she shut me out of his life. I'm his FATHER. SHE, a nacissist, did the most terrible thing. Very sad. She, "BETH", Always referred to Danny, our son, as" her " son. Oh yeah, HER SON! What a narcissist. Awful, terrible. We all lose. I think of Danny every single day. It's the worst thing to happen to a parent. Danny is dead. At least , I have a wonderful wife now. "BETH" has zero.
This should NOT have happened. FORGIVENESS would've stopped this from happening. Divorce and death. Forgiveness. Divorce and death. Which one would you choose? Forgiveness of course! Please learn from our mistakes.
I am so sorry. My husband suffered all the things you did at the hands of his first wife. Except that none of the kids died. They are now 4 useless adult narcissists now doing the same crap to their children.
Slay
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Louder!
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I'm sick of it. 9 years of marriage.
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My wife is a narcissist and trying to divorce her.
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I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?
As my LORD writes down his case's against all of them...😂
There is nothing in your marriage license that discloses narcissism...
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Why is it so hard for me not to take the bait?? Probably has to do with born in a different era, and in a culture where women were taught they were supid and needed a man to make it through life. YES! I lived during those times and in that place. Trauma bonded. ughhh... I was so conditioned... So ture.. All of this information from MS Zung is true for me. n
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Istnnot about different era. Its all about u. U have to leave, No matter what
Snakes
Oh how wonderful they truly are not@😂
😂 divorce is not a good smell
A narcissist is just someone you don't like.
Shut them down 😂
Proud of you! You got this ❤
Outrageous lier
The narc is an emotionally dangerous person. Its one step away from a murderer.
Shut them down!
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