Great video! PA divorce lawyer here. Best thing you can do: don’t get married! Go live your best life! Low stress! Travel wherever, whenever you want! You can still have terrific intimate relationships without bringing in state divorce laws. Stay safe out there!
So if my sociopath narcissist already screwed me mentally and monetarily and it's done in 2016. Nothing can be done? He took my life literally. He came back and I had to take him because he left me broke in many ways. I signed what he wanted under using something to cope with it all. I took antidepressants bc of his abuse. Another abuser stole 5k from me and the abuse can be listed from.other sources. So all I got is Karma to help me???
Yep you are right. Once the Hallmark movie new wears off some spouses want out like my wife did. No ground faults but she still filed and swiped our whole entire bank account. Not only did I hire an attorney, I went to work part time with them so I could over see my own divorce case and in my off time I helped build a very strong case. Got most of my money back! which from what I hear is very rare. If I ever get married again, accounts will stay separate and the marriage will only be under God's contract, not the state.
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I am a California woman who was blindsided by divorce after 20 years of marriage. He served me mid-December. I am still in shock but managed to maintain my silence for our teenage girls. I didn’t want to ruin their Christmas. Today I meet with an attorney to find out where I stand.
He has a younger woman. It happened to me after 20 years but he tried to destroy me out of nowhere just hate. They found out he left me for someone younger
@@fayechamp4156 I have my suspicions about this too. Our kids are 18 and 16 and both girls. About a year ago I noticed that someone ordered toys for boys (4 yo kids) on our Amazon account. I asked the girls if they accidentally ordered these and they both said no. Then I asked my husband if he ordered them and he got all defensive about it and I said no big deal I’ll just return them and he said no, that he would take care of it. I didn’t follow up on it because I was not suspicious. Then another suspicious package came and I opened it…viagra! Finally, about 6 months ago I found a stack of cash in the top drawer of his desk. I didn’t ask him about it but a week later it was gone. So yeah, I totally agree with you about the fact that he is leaving me for another woman 👩
Men go where they are wanted, and desired.. somewhere along the way you stopped desiring, and wanting him around... If the man that you married, that you swore before heaven in earth, that you'd take care of all those sexual needs.. like wtf lol?? If his needs are met, how does he have to energy to bang younger women.. ohhh you mean, fit attractive women, right?? Is it shallow you don't wanna bang jabba the hut?
Are you sure that’s not my story 24 years married blindsided now he decides to be narcissistic and take everything I’ve ever worked so hard for: 50% of the house, 401K and my pension. he never stepped up to the plate very lazy. I made a big mistake in marrying him. Can’t wait till it’s over. I will pray for you, my sister.
Unfortunately there is no restraining order from emotional abuse. It is hard to prove , so an abusive parent will get 50% custody. Physical abuse if not documented through law enforcement won’t count and an abuser will get away . Many don’t know when a spouse throwing garbage , items , punching walls , damaging property is a physical abuse and have to documented!! Even if your spouse -- mentally inadequate and dangerous emotionally- the spouse still will get a custody. Dirty trick -- when a spouse fears the mom will get custody during his negligence and her being a good mom- he may propose a foster care . True story. Lie -- courts often do not act the best interest of the child . Kids become a product for a price the highest bidder is whiling to make. In the situation -- mediation is the worst option. If dealing with a narcissist- mediation is the worst option. Find those extra money to go to a trial and the court . Painful lesson is learned.
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Parental alienation is so effective that it is hard to tell who is the abusive parent. If a child strongly aligns with one parent and is hostile toward the other - chances are the child is brainwashed and aligns with the abusive parent and most professionals who are not trained in parental alienation get it wrong. 50% custody for both parents is a safer bet until proven that a different % is better for children. It is way safer than giving full custody to one parent because he was unemployed and therefore spent much more time with children than the employed parent or for one parent there is an "incredibly strong bond" with the child. In the case of 50%/50% custody, it is hard to do parental alienation because the children have a chance to see that the alienated parent is not so bad. And the assumption that a child is always better with a mother is obsolete, so 50% by default is a much better assumption. There should be less weight on what children prefer(children are easily brainwashed and aligned with abusive parent) or how it was during the marriage. A common situation is a stay-at-home mom and working father who is labeled as "absent" or "not interested in children" because he has to work overtime to compensate for the lack of his wife's income who refuses to be employed. In that situation giving full custody to the mom, she will not be motivated to get a job and the children will have even less chance to see their overworked father. 50%/50% custody by default is great progress and in most cases best for the children.
Can someone explain please how on earth our justice system is giving a green light to this behavior at least in Chicago..... MOREOVER some lawyers that are on the payroll of those con rtists and crooks will.not hasite to compromise their professional conduct of ethics and their duty as an officer of court.
You know what you're absolutely right for choosing not to. But you know what 24 years I give my loyalty I invested sweat blood and tears, and all I got in return was lies betrayals and hurt including wrongful accusations with life changing repercussions. I cannot take those 24 years back but now I've been single for the last year, and you know what as much as he hurts me to garden ripped out on my own home and my family, however if I want to do bad I could do that all on my own. And now I understand some people choose and don't want to change their evil narcissistic ways it is no longer my job
How long will government allow this? We need to go back before women voting rights. Either that or make a singular head of the family, either a man or a woman. In that way people consciously choose what gender role they wanna play. There are some men who don’t want to work, sit at home and play video games and take care of children and there are women who just want to go 9-5 job.
Rule no. One: Spouse is to have a budget and live by it. Separate checking and credit card accounts. This is the standard of living de facto. Never joint accounts. Play fair but never get tangled up in fixing her financial screw ups, late payment, over draft on checking. It’s on her. If it becomes a problem early out of the gate and you want to stay together, get legally separated. That means you are married but your finances are separate. Note this is a common practice for the elderly to save their loved spouse from economic catastrophe when they themself, will have extreme medical expenses in the forward future, and can only receive government help after their personal finances are exhausted. So no it is not unusual to be married but legally separated.
In community property states, there is the very strong presumption that all income after marriage and sometimes all assets are community property. You can have total separate property agreement and practice, but extremely difficult to do in practice.
70 to 80 percent of divorces are filed by women and 90 percent if the woman is college educated. Women never fall in total love. It’s only a short term excitement that fades. Then the woman looks for here next emotional high taking cash and prizes from the man as she leaves.
Thanks. Great report. One of the best videos on the subject I have seen. Sounds a lot like my cousin's ex-husband did. She had a great lawyer who kept tracking him down and making him comply with the divorce degree. Dirty Trick#12. The spouse #2 jumps from state to state to evade obeying the divorce decree, so the spouse #1 has to sue #2 in each of those states to force #2 to comply with the original divorce decree. that happened to my cousin. Her ex-husband kept moving from state to state to evade paying for child support.
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My soon to be Ex wife did # 7 #9 against me when I came to pick up my kids for a few weeks its too bad some ex spouses really don't want to co parent but to make you pay in any way possible for leaving and trying to move on.
When my wife filed for divorce, I had to find an attorney. I set up an appointment with one, and spoke to him and gave him a bunch of details and voiced concerns. Then he said wait a moment, it appears I am already representing your wife. Umm, excuse me? You tell me that AFTER I give you all those details?
That’s when you ask the attorney to represent you both to ensure an amicable divorce. My parents did that they both agreed it was the least amount of stress and what needed to be done and divorced was without a fight.
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I deeply appreciate *JohnsonSpy* for helping me get the divorce I deserved from my toxic wife. We are married for 3 years now and I never even had the balls of cheating on her but I discovered she didn't feel the same way. She was still sleeping with her ex lover claiming the had a good relationship.
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If either one is having an affair, they are a BAD PARENT. They don't deserve custody of the children they disregarded. Cheaters are not good parents...the end.
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Dirty truck #7 on steroids is what happened to me. I have two children that doesn’t know me because their mom hated me more than she loved her children All was going good until she got a new lawyer and called me one morning saying that I done things to our daughter, at that moment it was a good thing I was 100 miles away because I would’ve been in prison for a real reason if I could’ve seen her that moment. So the day we went in front of the “judge” I was not only slandered and accused of extremely sick things, I also lost the rest of my life that day. I left there contemplating suicide. I went through three “attorneys”. EVERY ONE OF THEM DROPPED ME It was too complicated for them. So yea I ended up a lonely depressed angry apathetic man. A woman school teacher (that had issues as a child) against a construction worker (that would never even have thought about someone lying on such a sickening scale) and now ruined for life and had rights taken from me but never served a day in jail.
Sounds familiar, my husband has been shacked up with his coworker for 10 plus months, he won't settle HIS divorce from me and it's going to trial. He filed 🤷♀️
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I deeply appreciate *JohnsonSpy* for helping me get the divorce I deserved from my toxic wife. We are married for 3 years now and I never even had the balls of cheating on her but I discovered she didn't feel the same way. She was still sleeping with her ex lover claiming the had a good relationship.
This is a good advertisement for a corporate prenuptial contract and avoiding state sponsored marriage. Do that and we can pretty much cause most of these divorce attorneys into a different area of law practice.
All of these things are complicated. The law tries to neatly pigeonhole the issue and sometimes turning grey into black & white dosen't work except for the lawyers.
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Financial starvation for eight months, hiding assets, trying to keep the kids when he didn't care, and the courts ignore everything I bring up. He emotionally abused me, and then turned it on the kids. He quit his job and tried to block them from church all so he wouldn't have to pay as much child support. I wouldn't have ever filed had he helped keep the home the kids were born into (and that mortgage was two hundred less than what he wound up having to pay in support).
Why is the mother at fault in these scenarios? The most common factor is cheating spouse who hides assets and starving the less bread winner who’s raised children maintain the home .
No matter whose 'fault' it is - and it's highly debatable that it's always the man's - no one is entitled to be supported for the rest of his or her life by an ex-partner. Relationships end for a variety of reasons and we live in a time when women can work to support themselves (and their children) if necessary. And that is what she should be prepared to do if a marriage ends. That means that even if they agree she will be the primary caregiver to any children, she can and should work part time to keep herself marketable and take responsibility for keeping her skills at least somewhat up to date when the kids go back to school. One of the primary reasons that ex-husbands end up supporting ex-wives forever is that the women stop working once they have kids and then claim that they've 'sacrificed their career' or ability to get a decent job after being out of the workforce for so long. Even if they never had a career or wanted one. To be clear, I don't mean that a father shouldn't pay a fair amount towards his children (as well as being given 50% custody assuming he's a decent parent,) but this nonsense of an ex-husband being responsible for an ex-wife for the rest of his life, as if she is a helpless child or as if we were still living in the 1600s when women had no opportunities to work, needs to stop.
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For Sure I’m make and in the middle of divorce. I think the lawyer presenting the 11 dirty tricks was reasonable in his application of gender carrying pronouns.
The adulterer should be required to forfeit everything to the victim spouse. And the adulterer is out on their ass to start over themselves. There is a war on men in this country.
@@jimcole6423 We Do need to enforce adultery and other laws .,,you see when you marry if the government becomes your three is a crowd partner on the alter at least it should enforce a set of basic marriage rules both parties play by..otherwise there will be a penalty.
Interesting to see the lack of real integrity in American society, generally speaking. I had the opportunity to do many of these things and I haven’t and won’t do it. It’s a mere of true values and principles. I was born and raised in a corrupted country in South America, but my parents taught me really well what is right and what’s wrong. Being honest and loyal is a task to the brave ones. Good bye to my dear abusive American husband! Today I celebrate my freedom and my true worth , filing for uncontested divorce ! Thank you very much for your valuable content. ❤️🇧🇷
During the 1980s in Utah spouses would file sex abuse charges that sometimes sent the husband to prison and walked away with everything. It was a real headache for the husband.
It's clear to so many of us that family court needs to be overhauled or abolished. If a dad wants equal or primary custody he has to move mountains. It took me over 3 years to prove that, as a father, I was a better custodial parent and I got primary custody. Nobody else should have to go through that effort.
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This is an ancient wisdom from the times of the Bible. I have read it in a book from the same time the bible was written and they advised the same thing. Dont marry young, marry old.
Men should know that the women usually drops the husband off at the nursing home and never returns when he gets sick. The husband always returns for the wife. Go ask someone that has worked at a nursing home for 20 years.
What if your spouse quit their job voluntarily and moved away to live off of their inheritance and has been “unemployed” for almost an entire year voluntarily? Especially when they are now wanting 50% time with the kids (due to remote education and Covid) so they can pay $0 in child support?
Are you in America? We have the 13th Amendment that protects the spouse who chooses not to work. The other parent deserves 50% custody. No child support is a good thing.
Keep tax records and as much financial info as humanly possible. My ex-husband tried something similar and thank God it back fired. I was able to prove that he intentionally took a lower paying job to try and starve us. I used to let my son visit his parents as much as he wanted and my husband tried to use that to say that he shouldn’t pay child support. The judge not only made him pay back for all the years he gave us nothing but he used the income that he should’ve been making to determine the amount. It’s hard when a spouse uses dirty tricks, but if you stick with doing the right thing, things have a way working out. I know your comment was from 2 years ago and I pray that everything worked out for you and your family, be blessed.
Don't get married. Don't have kids. Avoid family court. Even if you get the best lawyer the courts favor the mother in custody disputes. Simple. Don't do it. Marriage rates and birth rates are declining. Take heed.
Husband asked for divorce then 6 days ago filed for divorce. He has been so bad to me and he hired a lawyer. I have no money for a lawyer. He did so much emotional physical financial and adultery to me our whole marriage. I don't even know where to begin since I can't afford an attorney.
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the great work mate well done Respect
Is it possible to file for a divoce without a lawyer? Married 8 yrs. No kids, no property, no joint credit cards together. We have our own separate banking accounts and one joint account to pay the rent. There is no extra savings in that account. He does owe me $3,400 half the balance of the total tax fee of $6,800 i paid from my personal account to avoid interest charges from tax year 2022 so we can file separately. He claimed the balance would go away if we didn't acknowledge it. So he had no intentions of paying it! This will be the 1st year we will be filing separately. Now that the balance is paid.
It’s not a dirty trick to move your paycheck to a separate account. If your spouse leaves you, they should not have access to your continued paychecks.
Good morning, I one thing to ask my soon to be ex-wife won't a divorce the reason for the divorce on her part, she won't me to agree on (cruel and inhuman treatment)She won't me to sing this and get it notarized, I dont agree with her choice of words should I sing this? Thank your for your time....
One very important information it depends what state/country you getting divorce. Different states/country have different rules. NYC is the worst. Only thing they do right is 50/50 retirement split. Oh and lawyers/divorce are expensive. It’s really sad.
More like thousands. But if a spouse is hiding hundreds of thousands of dollars, it is the logical thing to do. Spending a dollar to recover ten dollars makes business sense everything.
@@ChristianDenmon makes more sense to do but what if there is no money to pay the lawyer? Do they wait to be paid? Does the earner foot the bill once it's done? Thanks for your comment I hope you answer.
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Question, my wife and I are trying to apply for divorce. We own $80k on the house we live in and have 2 children. We want divorce, however, we will remain living together, like we have been doing for the last 11 years. We will continue living with the girls, under our same roof. What do I need to do? or who I need to contact? Miami based
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I'm in a long marriage. I reported my husband, for abuse, over 30 years ago. Wasn't believed. He is in prison, for hurting our children. Not by me, but by a granddaughter. He has abused me so bad & used our children as pawns. They are plenty old enough, with children of their own, that he also hurt. He's recruiting other narcissist. There has been attempted murder, by black smoke. While recovering from a heart attack, there was attempted arson & tried to blame me. Police were out twice, in one week & once over the phone. I saw a patrol car going down my street slowly today Tues. 10/13/20. Now, there is insurance fraud, there is financial abuse & it's not just one narcissist. There is, at least, six narcissist trying to destroy my creditability & my health. I'm an advocate for any kind of abuse no profit. My organization was also attacked. He illegally threw me off our joint acct & pays my rent only. He is trying to scare & control me, to stop my claim over 270 pages with the CFPB. My family has tried to stop me & so did the property manage of this apt. complex. So far, my doctor raised my BP medication to try to get my BP down. If it hasn't, he said, "I will look into your stress level." I'm in Pa. There are laws against throwing someone off a joint acct., unless it's legally done, by both parties. Laws against stalking. 302ing without a judge is illegal, but they get past it. I left my husband & my family. Not in a relationship, not after this. Do not want a man personally near me. If a man is honestly being nice or we have to work together for whatever reason, I can accept the fact, but don't cross me.
Carol Vevle Don’t panic , CHILD SUPPORT problems have been for a while now disturbing my credit giving it a downlook and my accounts, fortunately I came across Aeon_llc on Instagram. Aeon has cleared my child support account and also removed a lawsuit for me and my friends. I’ll be forever grateful !🙏 you all need to contact Aeon now :347-580-7087.And yes Aeon also fixes and boosts credit.
Mr Denmon your information and that of your firm has been so very helpful to me, although I moved here to Florida I filed in NJ where I left. Had I waited 6 months in FL to file I would have been a client of yours for certain. Thanks for putting your educational videos and your eBooks out there. Denmon / Pearlman excellent advise !!
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funny to see this cause i played the wage game by voluntarily paying my ex after our split from my corporation and taking no wage myself so she was doubly screwed when we finally got to court never paid her a penny after the case
Unilateral no-fault divorce is a curse on our nation. It is forced divorce. It violates the federal and state constitutions in multiple ways. Do a US Supreme Court docket search for Pankoe v. Pankoe.
Trying to understand... Why would it make more sense that the taxpayers foot the bill for your family member if you are making enough to continue support the person you vowed to love and care for? Just wanting to understand. No hate no nothing like that, please know that.
I was very naive, he divorced me one month before the 10 year mark so I can’t access widows benefits. I’m on permanent disability. Narcissist. Judge found he had no grounds for the divorce but gave it to him to get him away from me.
What happens if we both have our own separate accounts and one joint account just to pay the rent and household maintenance if needed. The joint account doesn't have any savings in it.
British ex wife here … hidden accounts, contributing v little to the family account and he put me £30k in debt before I woke up. He was laughing at me and I didn’t know it … I worked two jobs whilst he spent money on anything he liked. I wasn’t dependent on him, I paid all the bills etc. He was never fair to our family and we all suffered greatly at his hands and financial control. The UK courts put things right.
Have you noticed all the solutions are going to cost you $25,000 ? Tell your lawyer, get a professional, call a tax accountant and financial specialist, call CPS. Your going to lose everything you worked for once a divorce starts. If you had it, it will be gone. Keep your money and house, don't sign the state contract that just allows them to transfer your wealth.
I was a stay at home mom who just spent close $20 of my inheritance in lawyers fee which has been going on for exactly 2 yrs yesterday and my lawyer is just dilly dallying. Not only just the delay I have been told by my counselor that my to be ex can’t afford to give me financial support what I need as bare minimum and here I am thinking that my lawyer will have my best interest 😡Any suggestions I am all ears
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Thanks but I had. Wife cheet on me and when I wenf to do my monthly amry weekend reserves I came home to nothing she took the car and everything we owned didnt pay the rent money before and then Went to my bank every time I get paid and take every single dime of my pay check and when you believe me enough money for gas she also took the car the only real car we had that I cosign for and never made another payment and still to this day is not returned it which I have been sued for then she plows for divorce in a state that we didn't live in and I absolutely could not show up because again I was working and had no money what should I do
CHANGE YOUR BANK ACCOUNT! When she left with the car you should have hurried to a dealership and got another one to offset the repo of the other one. Simple. Also, you could have sent a letter to whomever served you for divorce if you couldn't show up for court.
My wife recently obtained her visa, brought her family to the country and now wants a divorce, seeking to take our two children with her. I’m concerned because I believe her actions may be part of a plan to secure her status here and then leave me while taking the kids. She has a history of infidelity, narcissistic behavior and pathological lying, which worries me about her ability to care for our children. I want to understand my legal options for protecting my rights while she’s wanting to coparent, (still living in the house) and ensuring the best interests of our children. I also have some evidence to support my concerns. I would appreciate your guidance on how to proceed.
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My spouse took money from my pre marriage home that I placed in a Joint account for purchase of our home into his personal account. As it’s more than 7 yrs they tell me the credit union can’t trace it and my lawyer tells me it’s fruitless to try to trace it, is it true ???
@anetaintegra8543 Because it's a joint account you can get copies of the monthly statements even if the account is closed there are laws to protect this and the statements will show where he took the money Also your statements will show where you deposited the money in joint account
I worked my ass off as a stay at home mom of three. Four if you count his alcoholic verbally abusive cheating absentee father ass! Yes the system is broken! I spent 30 years of my life taking care of everyone but myself and got kicked to the curb and screwed in a ridiculous divorce! Now I live in poverty and sickness from marrying and standing by an evil man. Silly me, I thought he'd grow up and fly right. I thought it was important for my kids to not come from a broken home. Nothing could have prepared me for what's happened. I will never trust another man as long as I live.
@@MaryMicheleful I'm so sorry. I know how that kind of rejection hurts, wounds, breaks your heart and damages so many parts of a woman. I'm still healing and it's been a long time. Maybe I'll never completely heal. I'm hoping though! God is good and I stand on that.
@@tracy85777 Sorry to say this but "looks good on Ya"....I would be willing to bet good money (assuming I had it of course, which I don't) that You passed on good reliable Men and chose an "alpha bad boy" as your eventual husband hoping that he would change down the road of your relationship. News flash Tracy, MEN DON'T CHANGE. Furthermore, You stayed with an abusive and cheating husband for 30 years who as I said earlier, was likely an "alpha bad boy" when You met him. Millions of women sadly, just like You follow this path. Then when things don't work out, that's when You want the nice and successful guy who wasn't good enough for you back then (such as myself) to come in as the "white knight in shining armor" on his high horse and rescue You and your children that You had with your loser husband. I'm not about telling people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear and that is this.....let your unfortunate experience with a loser be a lesson to many other women out there who have either done what you did or who will likely do what you did. As for Me, I have been offered the opportunity to date many attractive women but once I learned they had children, I lost all interest and not because I don't care about children but because I, like most responsible Men out there do not want to accumulate the emotional and physical "baggage" of others for it is that same exact "baggage" which will be My downfall when the relationship ends, which it will, and that is as certain as sunrise in the morning.
What if a spouse opens saving accounts for their kids, and moving money to the kids accounts, and what if the saving was opened before divorce was wanted?
Dirtier tricks - keep all the money in the company first, then “sell” the company to a shell company. He now has no income and no company. All of a sudden, He can not support the children! But he can afford two lawyers to keep filing law suits against the wife! Drained the wife’s saving as she has to hire lawyer too. If she can not afford. Then let settle. Wife does not want any money - no he insisted giving her one of his companies which is in deep debt! So now in front of the judge she is the bad one who woukd not settle!! I want to know who can help someone who is penniless with 3 children with a psycho after her!
Here is bs. The idea that mom spends time and cares for the kids. Some moms suck. The kids know it. But she will get to operate on the social projection of what she ‘should’ be as a person and mom. - this delusion negatively impacts the future care of the children. - social context: if wife cheats or leaves it’s because her husband sucks. additionally if a husband cheats or leaves it’s because he sucks. Anyhow, if you marry - oh man - you better see serious proof of character traits you like - deep stuff hard-wired. Stuff you will fall in love with - and honor. Hard stop on anything that’s not.
What if you’re wife is the one who wants to leave and has committed adultry in the relationship before and she has got a epo against you and gets your kids and your stuck with all the bills and everything as before and she wants money for child support or any support? Should she get anything for leaving on her own and expecting you to still support her?
I dont rly think if a dad wants 50/50 custody during a divorce, but he didn't spend as much time with them as the wife did during the marriage that its a dirty trick. Maybe he wanted to be home.with them too but was forced to go work and provide for everyone, and now that she'll be providing 50/50 financially, at least that's how it should be, he'll get to spend more time with them.
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Hummm, really, how is number 6 extortion. I mean I see the threat and the force. But if the leverage in question actually happened. Isn't this sort of thing exactly what lawyers do behind closed doors all the time? You know what I'm talking about. Sign this confession and we'll give you a lesser charge. Its hard ball negotiation, and purely a choice. The person being extorted can still choose either way. My feelings are if someone doesn't want to be extorted for doing something wrong, well, don't do something wrong. Now, if the leverage in question is a total and complete lie; then ya that is clearly against the law...
My spouse of 40 yrs embezzled about $50k/year from our lucrative small business for a long time, and my money is being used to have me stalked, shot at, burgled, harassed, and more -- it's beyond imagination, values of assets deliberately diminished in numerous ways .. huge financial debt for me -- and still going to court - 6 yrs after divorce was signed. He's prohibited most all efforts to Divide Marital Property thru unethical, false filings ... Blah blah blah. It's sickening.
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Great video! PA divorce lawyer here. Best thing you can do: don’t get married! Go live your best life! Low stress! Travel wherever, whenever you want! You can still have terrific intimate relationships without bringing in state divorce laws. Stay safe out there!
Amen to that.. going through divorce right now.. its devastating
So if my sociopath narcissist already screwed me mentally and monetarily and it's done in 2016. Nothing can be done? He took my life literally. He came back and I had to take him because he left me broke in many ways. I signed what he wanted under using something to cope with it all. I took antidepressants bc of his abuse. Another abuser stole 5k from me and the abuse can be listed from.other sources. So all I got is Karma to help me???
Yep you are right. Once the Hallmark movie new wears off some spouses want out like my wife did. No ground faults but she still filed and swiped our whole entire bank account. Not only did I hire an attorney, I went to work part time with them so I could over see my own divorce case and in my off time I helped build a very strong case. Got most of my money back! which from what I hear is very rare. If I ever get married again, accounts will stay separate and the marriage will only be under God's contract, not the state.
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I know how that can be divorce is a terrible thing to go through mostly if you don't have proper evidence to back up your case you might just be tossed I got lucky a man I meet in court told me about this team who helped him got evidence from my wife without are knowledge I know it's sounds wired but it's was worth it's cause legal documents and other good evidence we're found and I had a good case in court I'm super glad it's all over and i have 60% of my money back thanks to the team above I'm free to live my life now
Hi handsome. I have and will continue to live my life my way. I want to thank you for honesty and your thoughts toward life's and how to live. Thank you. P. S please invest in cryptocurrencies.
I am a California woman who was blindsided by divorce after 20 years of marriage. He served me mid-December. I am still in shock but managed to maintain my silence for our teenage girls. I didn’t want to ruin their Christmas. Today I meet with an attorney to find out where I stand.
He has a younger woman. It happened to me after 20 years but he tried to destroy me out of nowhere just hate. They found out he left me for someone younger
@@fayechamp4156 I have my suspicions about this too. Our kids are 18 and 16 and both girls. About a year ago I noticed that someone ordered toys for boys (4 yo kids) on our Amazon account. I asked the girls if they accidentally ordered these and they both said no. Then I asked my husband if he ordered them and he got all defensive about it and I said no big deal I’ll just return them and he said no, that he would take care of it. I didn’t follow up on it because I was not suspicious. Then another suspicious package came and I opened it…viagra! Finally, about 6 months ago I found a stack of cash in the top drawer of his desk. I didn’t ask him about it but a week later it was gone. So yeah, I totally agree with you about the fact that he is leaving me for another woman 👩
Men go where they are wanted, and desired.. somewhere along the way you stopped desiring, and wanting him around...
If the man that you married, that you swore before heaven in earth, that you'd take care of all those sexual needs.. like wtf lol?? If his needs are met, how does he have to energy to bang younger women.. ohhh you mean, fit attractive women, right??
Is it shallow you don't wanna bang jabba the hut?
Are you sure that’s not my story 24 years married blindsided now he decides to be narcissistic and take everything I’ve ever worked so hard for: 50% of the house, 401K and my pension. he never stepped up to the plate very lazy. I made a big mistake in marrying him. Can’t wait till it’s over. I will pray for you, my sister.
Unfortunately there is no restraining order from emotional abuse. It is hard to prove , so an abusive parent will get 50% custody. Physical abuse if not documented through law enforcement won’t count and an abuser will get away . Many don’t know when a spouse throwing garbage , items , punching walls , damaging property is a physical abuse and have to documented!! Even if your spouse -- mentally inadequate and dangerous emotionally- the spouse still will get a custody. Dirty trick -- when a spouse fears the mom will get custody during his negligence and her being a good mom- he may propose a foster care . True story.
Lie -- courts often do not act the best interest of the child . Kids become a product for a price the highest bidder is whiling to make. In the situation -- mediation is the worst option. If dealing with a narcissist- mediation is the worst option. Find those extra money to go to a trial and the court . Painful lesson is learned.
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Parental alienation is so effective that it is hard to tell who is the abusive parent. If a child strongly aligns with one parent and is hostile toward the other - chances are the child is brainwashed and aligns with the abusive parent and most professionals who are not trained in parental alienation get it wrong. 50% custody for both parents is a safer bet until proven that a different % is better for children. It is way safer than giving full custody to one parent because he was unemployed and therefore spent much more time with children than the employed parent or for one parent there is an "incredibly strong bond" with the child. In the case of 50%/50% custody, it is hard to do parental alienation because the children have a chance to see that the alienated parent is not so bad. And the assumption that a child is always better with a mother is obsolete, so 50% by default is a much better assumption. There should be less weight on what children prefer(children are easily brainwashed and aligned with abusive parent) or how it was during the marriage. A common situation is a stay-at-home mom and working father who is labeled as "absent" or "not interested in children" because he has to work overtime to compensate for the lack of his wife's income who refuses to be employed. In that situation giving full custody to the mom, she will not be motivated to get a job and the children will have even less chance to see their overworked father. 50%/50% custody by default is great progress and in most cases best for the children.
Thanks, i will never marry and start investing wisely.
EMOKIRIEMI ABEDNEGO ABED um ok
Can someone explain please how on earth our justice system is giving a green light to this behavior at least in Chicago.....
MOREOVER some lawyers that are on the payroll of those con rtists and crooks will.not hasite to compromise their professional conduct of ethics and their duty as an officer of court.
Wise man!
You know what you're absolutely right for choosing not to. But you know what 24 years I give my loyalty I invested sweat blood and tears, and all I got in return was lies betrayals and hurt including wrongful accusations with life changing repercussions. I cannot take those 24 years back but now I've been single for the last year, and you know what as much as he hurts me to garden ripped out on my own home and my family, however if I want to do bad I could do that all on my own. And now I understand some people choose and don't want to change their evil narcissistic ways it is no longer my job
How long will government allow this? We need to go back before women voting rights. Either that or make a singular head of the family, either a man or a woman. In that way people consciously choose what gender role they wanna play. There are some men who don’t want to work, sit at home and play video games and take care of children and there are women who just want to go 9-5 job.
Rule no. One: Spouse is to have a budget and live by it. Separate checking and credit card accounts. This is the standard of living de facto. Never joint accounts. Play fair but never get tangled up in fixing her financial screw ups, late payment, over draft on checking. It’s on her. If it becomes a problem early out of the gate and you want to stay together, get legally separated. That means you are married but your finances are separate. Note this is a common practice for the elderly to save their loved spouse from economic catastrophe when they themself, will have extreme medical expenses in the forward future, and can only receive government help after their personal finances are exhausted. So no it is not unusual to be married but legally separated.
In community property states, there is the very strong presumption that all income after marriage and sometimes all assets are community property. You can have total separate property agreement and practice, but extremely difficult to do in practice.
Wow marriage is supposed to be beautiful but it's sad that two people that once was in love will become enemies after a while
70 to 80 percent of divorces are filed by women and 90 percent if the woman is college educated. Women never fall in total love. It’s only a short term excitement that fades. Then the woman looks for here next emotional high taking cash and prizes from the man as she leaves.
Thanks. Great report. One of the best videos on the subject I have seen. Sounds a lot like my cousin's ex-husband did. She had a great lawyer who kept tracking him down and making him comply with the divorce degree. Dirty Trick#12. The spouse #2 jumps from state to state to evade obeying the divorce decree, so the spouse #1 has to sue #2 in each of those states to force #2 to comply with the original divorce decree. that happened to my cousin. Her ex-husband kept moving from state to state to evade paying for child support.
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My soon to be Ex wife did # 7 #9 against me when I came to pick up my kids for a few weeks its too bad some ex spouses really don't want to co parent but to make you pay in any way possible for leaving and trying to move on.
Going through that right now
I’m so sorry 😢. I’m begging my ex would get involved in the kids life. He’s motive in court is about the house money money money forget the kids 😢.
When my wife filed for divorce, I had to find an attorney. I set up an appointment with one, and spoke to him and gave him a bunch of details and voiced concerns. Then he said wait a moment, it appears I am already representing your wife. Umm, excuse me? You tell me that AFTER I give you all those details?
Looool 😅
This happened to me too.
That’s when you ask the attorney to represent you both to ensure an amicable divorce. My parents did that they both agreed it was the least amount of stress and what needed to be done and divorced was without a fight.
OMG!!!! BRO!!! That sounds like a massive kick in the balls!
That attorney needs to recuse himself by reason of conflict of interest and having compromised himself by not disclosing that information immediately.
Great vid! The attorneys are the only winners in an ugly divorce.
I won't ever get married again
And why did you say that
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Wise decision
@@certaindeed I might change my mind one day. Never know. But as of now? Or a while from now? Nope.
@@certaindeed take care.
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I deeply appreciate *JohnsonSpy* for helping me get the divorce I deserved from my toxic wife. We are married for 3 years now and I never even had the balls of cheating on her but I discovered she didn't feel the same way. She was still sleeping with her ex lover claiming the had a good relationship.
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Dirty Trick Number 7 is exactly what happened to me
Same here, buddy
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If either one is having an affair, they are a BAD PARENT. They don't deserve custody of the children they disregarded. Cheaters are not good parents...the end.
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They are morally and ethically bankrupt.
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After 29.5 of a relationship, it’s sad to know the ppl we love most are cheating financially
So sorry if this is your story.
Dirty truck #7 on steroids is what happened to me. I have two children that doesn’t know me because their mom hated me more than she loved her children All was going good until she got a new lawyer and called me one morning saying that I done things to our daughter, at that moment it was a good thing I was 100 miles away because I would’ve been in prison for a real reason if I could’ve seen her that moment. So the day we went in front of the “judge” I was not only slandered and accused of extremely sick things, I also lost the rest of my life that day. I left there contemplating suicide. I went through three “attorneys”. EVERY ONE OF THEM DROPPED ME It was too complicated for them. So yea I ended up a lonely depressed angry apathetic man. A woman school teacher (that had issues as a child) against a construction worker (that would never even have thought about someone lying on such a sickening scale) and now ruined for life and had rights taken from me but never served a day in jail.
My husband has been dating his Paramore for almost a year. They are now engaged, and we are still not divorced.
Sounds familiar, my husband has been shacked up with his coworker for 10 plus months, he won't settle HIS divorce from me and it's going to trial. He filed 🤷♀️
I wish I had known this in 2014, so much was used against me and hurt our daughters. Yes much of what you covered was used on me.
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I deeply appreciate *JohnsonSpy* for helping me get the divorce I deserved from my toxic wife. We are married for 3 years now and I never even had the balls of cheating on her but I discovered she didn't feel the same way. She was still sleeping with her ex lover claiming the had a good relationship.
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This is a good advertisement for a corporate prenuptial contract and avoiding state sponsored marriage. Do that and we can pretty much cause most of these divorce attorneys into a different area of law practice.
All of these things are complicated. The law tries to neatly pigeonhole the issue and sometimes turning grey into black & white dosen't work except for the lawyers.
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Financial starvation for eight months, hiding assets, trying to keep the kids when he didn't care, and the courts ignore everything I bring up. He emotionally abused me, and then turned it on the kids. He quit his job and tried to block them from church all so he wouldn't have to pay as much child support. I wouldn't have ever filed had he helped keep the home the kids were born into (and that mortgage was two hundred less than what he wound up having to pay in support).
Why is the mother at fault in these scenarios? The most common factor is cheating spouse who hides assets and starving the less bread winner who’s raised children maintain the home .
No matter whose 'fault' it is - and it's highly debatable that it's always the man's - no one is entitled to be supported for the rest of his or her life by an ex-partner. Relationships end for a variety of reasons and we live in a time when women can work to support themselves (and their children) if necessary. And that is what she should be prepared to do if a marriage ends. That means that even if they agree she will be the primary caregiver to any children, she can and should work part time to keep herself marketable and take responsibility for keeping her skills at least somewhat up to date when the kids go back to school. One of the primary reasons that ex-husbands end up supporting ex-wives forever is that the women stop working once they have kids and then claim that they've 'sacrificed their career' or ability to get a decent job after being out of the workforce for so long. Even if they never had a career or wanted one.
To be clear, I don't mean that a father shouldn't pay a fair amount towards his children (as well as being given 50% custody assuming he's a decent parent,) but this nonsense of an ex-husband being responsible for an ex-wife for the rest of his life, as if she is a helpless child or as if we were still living in the 1600s when women had no opportunities to work, needs to stop.
@@suzy1750it does matter hence the dirty tricks video !
My soon to be ex husband sucks. He purposely works at Walmart with a college degree so He doesn’t have to pay child support.
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Wanted to renew my vows in the US legally. Never... I'll deal with Mexican courts if ever need it.
Wonder why...i 🤔
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Great video . Very informative and interesting.
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I know how that can be divorce is a terrible thing to go through mostly if you don't have proper evidence to back up your case you might just be tossed I got lucky a man I meet in court told me about this team who helped him got evidence from my wife without are knowledge I know it's sounds wired but it's was worth it's cause legal documents and other good evidence we're found and I had a good case in court I'm super glad it's all over and i have 60% of my money back thanks to the team above I'm free to live my life now
Hey stop saying him and start saying they, because I am male and the stay at home parent and this same shit happens to "him" as well.
sissy boy
@@jamesmanter8731 haha sexist
@@forsure2283 proud of it
For Sure I’m make and in the middle of divorce. I think the lawyer presenting the 11 dirty tricks was reasonable in his application of gender carrying pronouns.
Thank you for this video!
Yeah, it's all nice and pretty but lawyers cost $$$ and if mom is a stay at home mom, where is she going to get $$$ to pay for a lawyer??🤔
Your pocket, naturally.
How about #7 where the wife cheats on the husband then tries to take him for all he’s worth while she’s the one who broke the marital vows.....
The adulterer should be required to forfeit everything to the victim spouse. And the adulterer is out on their ass to start over themselves. There is a war on men in this country.
@@jimcole6423 We Do need to enforce adultery and other laws .,,you see when you marry if the government becomes your three is a crowd partner on the alter at least it should enforce a set of basic marriage rules both parties play by..otherwise there will be a penalty.
Like an attorney told me. Its immoral but not illegal. We are here to redistribute assets and liabilities.
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Interesting to see the lack of real integrity in American society, generally speaking. I had the opportunity to do many of these things and I haven’t and won’t do it. It’s a mere of true values and principles. I was born and raised in a corrupted country in South America, but my parents taught me really well what is right and what’s wrong. Being honest and loyal is a task to the brave ones. Good bye to my dear abusive American husband! Today I celebrate my freedom and my true worth , filing for uncontested divorce ! Thank you very much for your valuable content. ❤️🇧🇷
Thank You very much. Very useful information.
During the 1980s in Utah spouses would file sex abuse charges that sometimes sent the husband to prison and walked away with everything. It was a real headache for the husband.
Still happening today that is typical in divorce cases everywhere
It's clear to so many of us that family court needs to be overhauled or abolished. If a dad wants equal or primary custody he has to move mountains. It took me over 3 years to prove that, as a father, I was a better custodial parent and I got primary custody. Nobody else should have to go through that effort.
Wait until you are old to get married. I’m 56 on Tuesday. Met my wife when I was 48. So far, so good.
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This is an ancient wisdom from the times of the Bible. I have read it in a book from the same time the bible was written and they advised the same thing. Dont marry young, marry old.
@@oama2009 what's the difference?
Men should know that the women usually drops the husband off at the nursing home and never returns when he gets sick. The husband always returns for the wife. Go ask someone that has worked at a nursing home for 20 years.
What if your spouse quit their job voluntarily and moved away to live off of their inheritance and has been “unemployed” for almost an entire year voluntarily? Especially when they are now wanting 50% time with the kids (due to remote education and Covid) so they can pay $0 in child support?
Are you in America? We have the 13th Amendment that protects the spouse who chooses not to work. The other parent deserves 50% custody. No child support is a good thing.
Keep tax records and as much financial info as humanly possible. My ex-husband tried something similar and thank God it back fired. I was able to prove that he intentionally took a lower paying job to try and starve us. I used to let my son visit his parents as much as he wanted and my husband tried to use that to say that he shouldn’t pay child support. The judge not only made him pay back for all the years he gave us nothing but he used the income that he should’ve been making to determine the amount. It’s hard when a spouse uses dirty tricks, but if you stick with doing the right thing, things have a way working out. I know your comment was from 2 years ago and I pray that everything worked out for you and your family, be blessed.
Don't get married!!
especially men
U are honest good for u first time I wached ur vedeo I'm going through a devorce after 47 years had had hedin all the money we have 6 grown children!
Very helpful info. Thank you
Dirty Trick number 3, is perfectly Legal in the UK
Don't get married. Don't have kids. Avoid family court. Even if you get the best lawyer the courts favor the mother in custody disputes. Simple. Don't do it. Marriage rates and birth rates are declining. Take heed.
Not true.
Don't be so afraid of life lol come on...
Husband asked for divorce then 6 days ago filed for divorce. He has been so bad to me and he hired a lawyer. I have no money for a lawyer. He did so much emotional physical financial and adultery to me our whole marriage. I don't even know where to begin since I can't afford an attorney.
Money is nothing move on be happy brrathe a fresh air.
Dont worry you will be fine.
Most or many lawyers will take the case to the first hearing, with first item is husband paying the lawyers fees.
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the great work mate well done Respect
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Is it possible to file for a divoce without a lawyer? Married 8 yrs. No kids, no property, no joint credit cards together. We have our own separate banking accounts and one joint account to pay the rent. There is no extra savings in that account.
He does owe me $3,400 half the balance of the total tax fee of $6,800 i paid from my personal account to avoid interest charges from tax year 2022 so we can file separately.
He claimed the balance would go away if we didn't acknowledge it. So he had no intentions of paying it!
This will be the 1st year we will be filing separately. Now that the balance is paid.
Good stuff…thanks….it’s sad though
It’s not a dirty trick to move your paycheck to a separate account. If your spouse leaves you, they should not have access to your continued paychecks.
Good morning, I one thing to ask my soon to be ex-wife won't a divorce the reason for the divorce on her part, she won't me to agree on (cruel and inhuman treatment)She won't me to sing this and get it notarized, I dont agree with her choice of words should I sing this? Thank your for your time....
One very important information it depends what state/country you getting divorce. Different states/country have different rules. NYC is the worst. Only thing they do right is 50/50 retirement split. Oh and lawyers/divorce are expensive. It’s really sad.
All of this information is great, but to investigate and prove stuff. Your lawyer will charge you hundreds
More like thousands. But if a spouse is hiding hundreds of thousands of dollars, it is the logical thing to do. Spending a dollar to recover ten dollars makes business sense everything.
Tens of thousands
@@ChristianDenmon makes more sense to do but what if there is no money to pay the lawyer? Do they wait to be paid? Does the earner foot the bill once it's done? Thanks for your comment I hope you answer.
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Question, my wife and I are trying to apply for divorce. We own $80k on the house we live in and have 2 children. We want divorce, however, we will remain living together, like we have been doing for the last 11 years. We will continue living with the girls, under our same roof. What do I need to do? or who I need to contact? Miami based
I hope you make a future video about lawyers fees I’m way over $10,000. It hasn’t been a year yet.
One email $30
One phone call $90
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I'm in a long marriage. I reported my husband, for abuse, over 30 years ago. Wasn't believed. He is in prison, for hurting our children. Not by me, but by a granddaughter. He has abused me so bad & used our children as pawns. They are plenty old enough, with children of their own, that he also hurt. He's recruiting other narcissist. There has been attempted murder, by black smoke. While recovering from a heart attack, there was attempted arson & tried to blame me. Police were out twice, in one week & once over the phone. I saw a patrol car going down my street slowly today Tues. 10/13/20. Now, there is insurance fraud, there is financial abuse & it's not just one narcissist. There is, at least, six narcissist trying to destroy my creditability & my health. I'm an advocate for any kind of abuse no profit. My organization was also attacked. He illegally threw me off our joint acct & pays my rent only. He is trying to scare & control me, to stop my claim over 270 pages with the CFPB. My family has tried to stop me & so did the property manage of this apt. complex. So far, my doctor raised my BP medication to try to get my BP down. If it hasn't, he said, "I will look into your stress level." I'm in Pa. There are laws against throwing someone off a joint acct., unless it's legally done, by both parties. Laws against stalking. 302ing without a judge is illegal, but they get past it. I left my husband & my family. Not in a relationship, not after this. Do not want a man personally near me. If a man is honestly being nice or we have to work together for whatever reason, I can accept the fact, but don't cross me.
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What can parents do when they put half of the marital property in the name of the daughter in law?
Great video.
Mr Denmon your information and that of your firm has been so very helpful to me, although I moved here to Florida I filed in NJ where I left. Had I waited 6 months in FL to file I would have been a client of yours for certain. Thanks for putting your educational videos and your eBooks out there. Denmon / Pearlman excellent advise !!
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there's nothing Fair or Equitable in divorce
funny to see this cause i played the wage game by voluntarily paying my ex after our split from my corporation and taking no wage myself so she was doubly screwed when we finally got to court never paid her a penny after the case
Yes ! I'm going through all this dirty tricks. Wow how sad is this
they don't win in the end. Keep your head up and stay positive.
Greetings from Florida, land of no-fault divorce and permanent alimony after 17 years.
Unilateral no-fault divorce is a curse on our nation. It is forced divorce. It violates the federal and state constitutions in multiple ways. Do a US Supreme Court docket search for Pankoe v. Pankoe.
Trying to understand... Why would it make more sense that the taxpayers foot the bill for your family member if you are making enough to continue support the person you vowed to love and care for? Just wanting to understand. No hate no nothing like that, please know that.
@@sg-cg6lr taxpayers? The spouse needs to get a JOB and earn their own income
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I was very naive, he divorced me one month before the 10 year mark so I can’t access widows benefits. I’m on permanent disability. Narcissist. Judge found he had no grounds for the divorce but gave it to him to get him away from me.
You could have prolonged the divorce another 30 days. Who was your lawyer?
@@BlkOnyx0508 that’s what I said looking back on this.
In some states if your disabled the spouse may have to pay you the rest of your life depends on the situation Can you go back to court
@@Mit-op6bo he killed himself a few years ago. Been divorced from him for30 years. Remarried to current husband for 14 years.
What happens if we both have our own separate accounts and one joint account just to pay the rent and household maintenance if needed. The joint account doesn't have any savings in it.
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Background music is too loud sir, great video tho 👌
Thank you
This is a great 👍 Video,!
Can I get some information about your law firm
British ex wife here … hidden accounts, contributing v little to the family account and he put me £30k in debt before I woke up. He was laughing at me and I didn’t know it … I worked two jobs whilst he spent money on anything he liked. I wasn’t dependent on him, I paid all the bills etc. He was never fair to our family and we all suffered greatly at his hands and financial control. The UK courts put things right.
Have you noticed all the solutions are going to cost you $25,000 ? Tell your lawyer, get a professional, call a tax accountant and financial specialist, call CPS. Your going to lose everything you worked for once a divorce starts. If you had it, it will be gone. Keep your money and house, don't sign the state contract that just allows them to transfer your wealth.
I was a stay at home mom who just spent close $20 of my inheritance in lawyers fee which has been going on for exactly 2 yrs yesterday and my lawyer is just dilly dallying. Not only just the delay I have been told by my counselor that my to be ex can’t afford to give me financial support what I need as bare minimum and here I am thinking that my lawyer will have my best interest 😡Any suggestions I am all ears
$20k to be precise
Some have always been this way and would use these tactic on anyone no matter the relationship. Narcissists. The bread and butter of family court
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By the time you finish with them there be no money left anyway.
Thanks but I had. Wife cheet on me and when I wenf to do my monthly amry weekend reserves I came home to nothing she took the car and everything we owned didnt pay the rent money before and then Went to my bank every time I get paid and take every single dime of my pay check and when you believe me enough money for gas she also took the car the only real car we had that I cosign for and never made another payment and still to this day is not returned it which I have been sued for then she plows for divorce in a state that we didn't live in and I absolutely could not show up because again I was working and had no money what should I do
Maybe if you were smarter you would have had better luck
CHANGE YOUR BANK ACCOUNT! When she left with the car you should have hurried to a dealership and got another one to offset the repo of the other one. Simple. Also, you could have sent a letter to whomever served you for divorce if you couldn't show up for court.
@chuck wood some are, some aren't. You just cannot be blind to the actions of those who aren't, so you can move on from them and find one who is.
My wife recently obtained her visa, brought her family to the country and now wants a divorce, seeking to take our two children with her.
I’m concerned because I believe her actions may be part of a plan to secure her status here and then leave me while taking the kids. She has a history of infidelity, narcissistic behavior and pathological lying, which worries me about her ability to care for our children.
I want to understand my legal options for protecting my rights while she’s wanting to coparent, (still living in the house) and ensuring the best interests of our children. I also have some evidence to support my concerns. I would appreciate your guidance on how to proceed.
How much say do 11 and 12 year old kids get on who gets custody?
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Hire a good team to get you concrete evidence on the case you don't need to depend all alone on your lawyers with a private investigator you can simply get all the evidence you need and provide it's to your lawyer and don't just sit there and do nothing and waste all this money for nothing
My spouse took money from my pre marriage home that I placed in a Joint account for purchase of our home into his personal account. As it’s more than 7 yrs they tell me the credit union can’t trace it and my lawyer tells me it’s fruitless to try to trace it, is it true ???
@anetaintegra8543 Because it's a joint account you can get copies of the monthly statements even if the account is closed there are laws to protect this and the statements will show where he took the money Also your statements will show where you deposited the money in joint account
Don't get married. Women think they should get half for doing nothing but dishes and vacuuming after they cheat on you. The legal system is broken.
I worked my ass off as a stay at home mom of three. Four if you count his alcoholic verbally abusive cheating absentee father ass! Yes the system is broken! I spent 30 years of my life taking care of everyone but myself and got kicked to the curb and screwed in a ridiculous divorce! Now I live in poverty and sickness from marrying and standing by an evil man. Silly me, I thought he'd grow up and fly right. I thought it was important for my kids to not come from a broken home. Nothing could have prepared me for what's happened. I will never trust another man as long as I live.
@@tracy85777 trust me
Tracy same thing happened to me
@@MaryMicheleful I'm so sorry. I know how that kind of rejection hurts, wounds, breaks your heart and damages so many parts of a woman. I'm still healing and it's been a long time. Maybe I'll never completely heal. I'm hoping though! God is good and I stand on that.
@@tracy85777 Sorry to say this but "looks good on Ya"....I would be willing to bet good money (assuming I had it of course, which I don't) that You passed on good reliable Men and chose an "alpha bad boy" as your eventual husband hoping that he would change down the road of your relationship. News flash Tracy, MEN DON'T CHANGE. Furthermore, You stayed with an abusive and cheating husband for 30 years who as I said earlier, was likely an "alpha bad boy" when You met him. Millions of women sadly, just like You follow this path. Then when things don't work out, that's when You want the nice and successful guy who wasn't good enough for you back then (such as myself) to come in as the "white knight in shining armor" on his high horse and rescue You and your children that You had with your loser husband. I'm not about telling people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear and that is this.....let your unfortunate experience with a loser be a lesson to many other women out there who have either done what you did or who will likely do what you did. As for Me, I have been offered the opportunity to date many attractive women but once I learned they had children, I lost all interest and not because I don't care about children but because I, like most responsible Men out there do not want to accumulate the emotional and physical "baggage" of others for it is that same exact "baggage" which will be My downfall when the relationship ends, which it will, and that is as certain as sunrise in the morning.
What if a spouse opens saving accounts for their kids, and moving money to the kids accounts, and what if the saving was opened before divorce was wanted?
Dirtier tricks - keep all the money in the company first, then “sell” the company to a shell company. He now has no income and no company. All of a sudden, He can not support the children! But he can afford two lawyers to keep filing law suits against the wife! Drained the wife’s saving as she has to hire lawyer too. If she can not afford. Then let settle. Wife does not want any money - no he insisted giving her one of his companies which is in deep debt! So now in front of the judge she is the bad one who woukd not settle!!
I want to know who can help someone who is penniless with 3 children with a psycho after her!
Here is bs. The idea that mom spends time and cares for the kids. Some moms suck. The kids know it. But she will get to operate on the social projection of what she ‘should’ be as a person and mom. - this delusion negatively impacts the future care of the children. - social context: if wife cheats or leaves it’s because her husband sucks. additionally if a husband cheats or leaves it’s because he sucks. Anyhow, if you marry - oh man - you better see serious proof of character traits you like - deep stuff hard-wired. Stuff you will fall in love with - and honor. Hard stop on anything that’s not.
Marriage is a delusion.
What if you’re wife is the one who wants to leave and has committed adultry in the relationship before and she has got a epo against you and gets your kids and your stuck with all the bills and everything as before and she wants money for child support or any support? Should she get anything for leaving on her own and expecting you to still support her?
Yep
People are sick that way, dirty tricks
I dont rly think if a dad wants 50/50 custody during a divorce, but he didn't spend as much time with them as the wife did during the marriage that its a dirty trick. Maybe he wanted to be home.with them too but was forced to go work and provide for everyone, and now that she'll be providing 50/50 financially, at least that's how it should be, he'll get to spend more time with them.
What happens if yr joint estate should be shared yr husband refuse married incomunity of property n divorce il
Can a spouse manipulate you to do these dirty deeds yourself? Or they’re doing them but flip it to where they pin it on you?
Dirty trick #1 is not a dirty trick. Making less money is a personal issue.
Right? This guy desperately wants to hand over free money to the person who didn't earn it.
my youngest is 24 and he has the kids messaging me because after trying to leave five times I finally got away.
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Hummm, really, how is number 6 extortion. I mean I see the threat and the force. But if the leverage in question actually happened. Isn't this sort of thing exactly what lawyers do behind closed doors all the time? You know what I'm talking about. Sign this confession and we'll give you a lesser charge. Its hard ball negotiation, and purely a choice. The person being extorted can still choose either way. My feelings are if someone doesn't want to be extorted for doing something wrong, well, don't do something wrong. Now, if the leverage in question is a total and complete lie; then ya that is clearly against the law...
My spouse of 40 yrs embezzled about $50k/year from our lucrative small business for a long time, and my money is being used to have me stalked, shot at, burgled, harassed, and more -- it's beyond imagination, values of assets deliberately diminished in numerous ways .. huge financial debt for me -- and still going to court - 6 yrs after divorce was signed. He's prohibited most all efforts to Divide Marital Property thru unethical, false filings ...
Blah blah blah.
It's sickening.
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