Consider it shaken SCL 75 :) as I am delighted that the channel has been helpful to you and that is enough "thanks" for me. Join in if you like on the tonight's and tomorrow's live talk for the new year so hoping no one would feel lonely or sad at this time of the year although it would be a temporary low mood but still I want you all to know its all fine and we can spend it knowing many around the world have such temporary feelings in common at this time of the year and it will pass. Perhaps we wil spend a few hours of it together on the live streaming.
My boyfriend of almost three years broke up with me a few days ago and I somehow stumbled on to your videos. They are so helpful and inspiring, thank you very much for giving such hopeful light into this dark tunnel I'm having to go through. Thank you!
+Min Ha Lee Hello Min Ha, I am glad that the videos are helpful to you dear. Make sure to share the ones you like and my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others would get to visit my site and learn about my work. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
I used to come to this guy for my HOCD recovery and now I come for him to help me overcome this little sorrow I got after losing her. If it ain’t one thing, it’s another
So all I need to do is find someone else that provides what I desire? Awesome. Let me go find another one like the one it took me 30 years to find. Or, instead, I can learn to accept rejection, take responsibility for my words and actions, and learn from failure.
I hear you but when you love someone truly, you want to best for them even though if it’s not by your side. Falling in love generates this selfish idea of possession which is nice at the beginning of the relationship. But real love comes from freedom.
Wow, after feeling so lost for four years and going to therapy, your “ice cream” theory has made me feel better in the 15 minutes it took to watch your video than I’ve felt since February 2017! What a wonderful realization! Thank you so much! Liked and subscribed!
this video blew my mind. I NEVER would have thought about it in that context. I'm going through a separation right now and I'm finally getting out of the woe is me phase. That was deep. Thanks.
It's been exactly a month since my break up. I cry every day and I'm getting sick of it. Why does this person have so much control over me? After this video, I just realized I'm the reason to my own pain and struggle of moving on. Tonight, I take back the control over my life, my happiness. I am not alone, I am All as One ❤️
I absolutely love your videos. This is my second break up I’ve gone through, and coming back here really heals me. You deserve such a larger following!!! Thank you for your wisdom. ❤️
Hello Mara, glad you are still enjoying the content. Yes I too am surprised and wonder why my subs are so low in numbers while some channels who offer no real discussion and worthy of pondering enjoy over 500 thousand subscribers!! I am baffled. :) perhaps you would enjoy this one as well: th-cam.com/video/XK06ZEAv0P4/w-d-xo.html Please remind me of your age and where you tuning in from, I do kind of remember that you are a lady, right?
I broke up with my ex in August of this year. I miss her even though she moved on quickly and blocked my number. Now I feel lost, confused, and suicidal. I feel sad every time I see things and activities that remind me of her. This pain is just too unbearable. I honestly dont know how I can continue to go on. Life sucks ass
Please understand that this was an experience and regardless of how you are making it seem or feel (as if it was the only girl you would ever meet), It is not that important at all and you will move on and will not care about this at all as the time passes. Pay respect to your life and all what life has to offer you and do not condense your life into one experience in relationship, life is far bigger than that. Just do your best, attend to your duties and responsibilities every day, advance in life and meet other more suitable girls and friends. These things sometimes could take some time to not be on your mind any more. As you grow your preferences in the type of girls you find compatibility with will change as well. If you feel unhappy, make sure to stay with family and friends and if you feel you are not grasping this to be only an experience and is not important ( specially when you get older and meet other wonderful girls) then please consult your family physician and get psychological help as this sorts of talk about how you can go on ... is not becoming of a strong and balanced young man like you and you should seek medical advise from your physician or psychologist where you live. You are more important than such experiences. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Same here after 18 years..she now walked away saying she didn’t know what she wanted only to find out she hooked up with someone else ..devastated but know I must now move
Oakland, I'm not saying you should never feel better or anything, but don't listen to this guy. He's just this Boomer with a channel that thinks he knows stuff. He's incredibly cynical. Yeah, a lot of us have lost someone. But there's no way to say there's no tragedy involved. There is tragedy. It's very real. Don't let anyone invalidate what you're going through.
You are welcomed dear. :) Share the ones you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media so others will also get to know about these videos and what my work is all about. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you are in. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
It was difficult to overcome my break up with my gf while she went back to her ex bf. I completely felt I was a failure, but through this video, the only person I love the most in this world is MYSELF❤. Thank u so much for, the ice cream story simplified everything.
You are welcomed Louis. Please make sure to share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get a chance to know about my work, Be good to yourself always, Mehran
My problem was that before I met my ex I was angry with the world. I wasn't 'fine' at all. I didn't love life or myself. We got together based on attraction. We found that we had loads in common but my self-loathing and regrets ate away at her and she got fed up. So I HAVE lost the love of my life. I was the problem, not her.
Then learn from it and build your life and then go after her and if she was no longer interested, use your knowledge and what you learned from this experience and your self pitty and interact with the next opportunity/ relationship in a more positive and hopeful manner. Who knows maybe even when she sees you have built a life and are changed to a hopeful and positive person, she may want to re-start where you guys left off. Learn and re-build yourself for her or for the next girl.
@@MehranDadbeh I will do my best to build a positive life for myself. I am very disappointed with myself that I have only just learned this at 32. I am anxious that I may never find anyone now.
@@MikeJackson690 Often we become the best version of ourselves when we become disappointed of ourselves and that is when we have grown more. You are just 32, so learn more and more as you are very young and certainly you will find more girlfriends and will choose the most suitable one, that will happen weather you want it or not! :) Be good to yourself always. Let me know where you are watching the videos (which country/ city). Mehran
@@MehranDadbeh Thank you. I don't feel young. I feel like I should be happily married and starting a family about now, but I'm way off now, as is my ex who wanted a family young (she's 25). Now I have my head screwed on I can offer her exactly what she wants, but trust has broken down and she doesn't see me as a potential father to her children. It hurts. I need to upsticks and start a new life to move on, hopefully within 6-8 months I will do so. My surroundings need to change as much as my mindset. I am watching from the United Kingdom, by the way. I hope you're well.
@muneyjordanisaproI'm with you in this experience. It stings like nothing else. Wherever I look nothing compares to her. I try not to hate myself for letting her slip away, but some days I just fall apart completely
Over one month ago I left a 43 year marriage and my son because both men were abusive. I couldn't sleep and then found you. Your advice is very sound. Thank you Mr. Dadbeh.......I also listened to Delete your memories. Very good as well.
Beautiful soul thank you for being such a light . I love how you don't take life so seriously. But I would like your opinion... I agree that letting go of someone that doesn't want to be with you is necessary. In my case I am having a hard time because this man didn't say bye or give me an explanation. we dated close to 6 months with one previous break up. There was no fight but he just blocked my number and when I looked for him he said he needed time to think. I never heard from him so I sent him a message asking him to please tell me why he blocked me and ended things in such a way and to please give me closure. He didn't respond ...so now it's very hard to move on because I don't understand why he did what he did and why so cruel to not respond. I can't get him off my mind ...I'm so sad and hurt
+Nancy Lopez Hello Nancy, glad that you are enjoying the videos and find them helpful. This video perhaps would address your question. th-cam.com/video/zU4B4nLlAus/w-d-xo.html You may have to reverse the word girlfriend for boyfriend and make it pertaining to you.There are other videos which does talk about what you have asked me here but this is what I could think of and pinpoint right now. Hope you will enjoy it. Be good to yourself always, Mehran Here is another one : th-cam.com/video/M1r5OQBYxMw/w-d-xo.html
I am delighted that the videos are helpful to you dear. Share the ones you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media so others would also get a chance to know about my work. Please let me know from where you are watching the videos and in which age category you are in. With thanks, Mehran D
The love you transmit in your videos just makes me feel comfortable after this horrible time I had. Thank You so much for sharing all this thoughts and reflexions. I really need it!
Thank you for the kind words Angie, I am glad the videos are helpful to you. I have live streams and here are options available to further support you in these somewhat challenging episodes: 1- We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and sometimes again at 9 PM Vancouver time. Often I have a surprise live stream which would not have been scheduled and on spare of the moment we go live. So if you like to be notified of them all please click on the bell and choose the option "always". You are welcomed to join us and ask your question. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from. Click on the subscribe button and the bell so hopefully you will be notified ( by TH-cam) when I go live! (This service is free fro all) If you are under the age of 18 I would like you to have permission from your parents to watch my videos or participate in the live stream. Other options available on this channel: 2- Skype consultation is another option where you can have a one on one consultation session with me to explore what may be concerning you in life. For Skype appointments please visit my site to book your appointment. For new clients I will add one hour complementary to your one hour registered appointment to have ample time to explore your concerns. www.mindthtaseekstruth.com
i was at a little kiosk to buy a soda yesterday, they sold icecream...i looked at it and smiled..ill remember this stuff evertime i look at icecream :)
thank you I lived with my girlfriend for 3 years, we broke up and I was the one who had to leave the apartment which we rented together and your analogies really had helped me. Thank's
Then that means that you have not established a balanced relationship between you and life. That is more important than a romantic relationship between two people. Relationship with life is the most important relationship that you need to focus on first and then once you have established/ created that, then you will be strong and independent and not fearful if the romantic relationship did not work and you will not be hanging on hoping someone else would make you happy. People do not come to the relationship to make you ( the other side) happy, they come into a relationship to "find" happiness ( to become happy themselves) and that is why breakups take such a big toll on people. But if you find happiness in your personal relationship with life then everything else will be safe whether it works or not! Go first build your life and then find a relationship with the hopes of building a good relationship and not for the purpose of becoming happy. Become happy before a relationship and then experience a romantic relationship(s).
+Amanda Briceno You are welcomed Amanda, delighted that the videos are helpful to you. Share my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media as well if you will. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
+sunder war You are welcomed dear, delighted that the videos bring more strength and happiness to you. Don't forget to share the videos and my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media so others will get to know about my work and newly converted soft cover books to e-books .... Be good to yourself always, Mehran
+stan carter It is my pleasure to see good people feel strong again and enjoy their lives and continue this journey stronger than before their break up challenge. Be good to yourself always, Mehran Please let me know from where you are watching the videos.
She did not pull you out, she became the reason for you to be motivated to pull yourself out of where ever dark place you had parked while you were always capable to pull out and move on from that dark place on your own but you were looking for an excuse or a reason beyond the obvious and most important reason that without you being out of a dark place nothing so beautiful will ever happen and that should be the only motivation needed for you to never sit or remain in a dark place even though you might find yourself in such places now and then due to life's ups and downs which is normal but staying in it for long is not and does not and should not need any excuse other than that it is a dark place and I don't want to be in a dark place and to direct and navigate my life from a dark place where nothing is visible clearly, so I need to come out of that dark place to see clear and steer myself correctly through this journey of life and cause good things to happen and not wait for someone else to appear whenever and then become dependent on them thinking that it was them who directed me to a good life where it is and must always be up to me to command a good direction in life and activities in life to exact the results that brings me happiness and contentment for my own reasons and not for the reasons of pleasure or satisfaction of any other..
Thanks again for this video. It's been a little bit harder for me because my relationship last 20+ years. For nearly half my life on this earth it was me & her. As I said I'm out the woe is me phase. Thanks again. God bless you
Yes that is not easy. Please watch these two along with many other videos I have for you on the channel . I think it might be of some help in directing your focus to some new reality rather than you thinking of her as if she is still the same girl you spent all that time with , as if she is still the same as before! th-cam.com/video/ka7rAyR1i0k/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/PC262p7zzew/w-d-xo.html With my regards, Mehran
You are an amazing, powerfully minded gentleman with a unique and meticulous way of going into the darkness of peoples minds and emotions and pulling them into the light. Thankyou for helping and its a nice reminder of those out there who genuinely care about others and want to help those in need.1 second ago•
I am glad you find the videos helpful, Philip. You will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India), (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
I discovered your videos about a month ago. Ups and downs and when I am struggling I find your wisdom very helpful in helping me see the true perspective . Thank you for these. Just enjoying your fb page now too!
you are welcomed dear. I am delighted that the videos are helpful. Be good to yourself always. :) Mehran p.s. Plse let me know from which country you are watching the videos and what age category you are in.
thanks for video. i am going through a relationship breakup. Even i am much older and wiser than years ago. The talk keeps my mind out of the muddy mind field. Eventually, i will get out of it. But the talk really add a new perspective to thing, thank you thank you.
I am glad you find them helpful Ando. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
Oh, thank you but i am not on FB. But i listen to every youtube videos from you. it helps me through the nights. Please go on with you sympathy and positiv thinking about divorces. Such pain can be really hard.
I broke up with my ex a month ago and every single day since then I have been depressed, anxious, and angry. I loved her more than I loved my own self, I did everything and anything she asked of me. She thinks I don’t truly love her because we broke up once before and I had an encounter with two other females 2weeks after we broke up. Since then she would punish me everyday emotionally for it, and said she could never trust me and believe I love her. But seeing this video shows me that I am the one who is the love of my life, my love and desires for myself are far greater than some girls. Thank you so much for your videos
I am delighted to hear you have seen the light Zach. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on TH-cam th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or on my Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talks which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talks which could be held either on Face book or TH-cam channel. ( Most often these days will be on TH-cam and the post will provide the link to it: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Vancouver time (Pacific), Right here on this link:: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish Then with some additional information on my site or events www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
I've been watching this video for months once in a while after finding out that the girl I always wanted is getting married. Today I was coming into work earlier and this girl I work with dyed her hair and I saw a resemblance between them and it made me remember this video. I finally understand what you mean when you say we can find the traits we love about a girl in other girls if we try to find someone else
Come to the live stream we will discuss it further. Live stream: 1- We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and sometimes again at 9 PM Vancouver time. Often I have a surprise live stream which would not have been scheduled and on spare of the moment we go live. So if you like to be notified of them all please click on the bell and choose the option "always". You are welcomed to join us and ask your question. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from. Click on the subscribe button and the bell so hopefully you will be notified ( by TH-cam) when I go live! (This service is free fro all) If you are under the age of 18 I would like you to have permission from your parents to watch my videos or participate in the live stream. 2- Skype consultation is another option where you can have a one on one consultation session with me to explore what may be concerning you in life. For Skype appointments please visit my site to book your appointment. For new clients I will add one hour complementary to your one hour registered appointment to have ample time to explore your concerns. www.mindthtaseekstruth.com
I met a guy while another girl was in love with him. At this time I had a boyfriend, but he was a crush, I never thought I was in love with him. And then with this new guy, it was something completely different. I made sure to do everything to just see him happy, and he also had a crush on me. But he also had a crush on the other girl. And because the other girl didn't have a bf, but I had, I helped her get together with the boy I loved. I saw them get closer and distanced myself from him. I helped them with their first steps and I was so happy for them, but still I cried every night. They are together and he told me he really is in love. I broke up with my boyfriend and now I am lost between total happiness and total sadness about loosing the love of my life, but he's happy and that's all that matters.
thorns no worries in this universe it is unlikely that we can just find one person that we can like. There are always others if we open the field of vision a bit wider and allow others communicate with us and if we be noticing the specialities that others have for us to notice. Move on and stop making a god out of your assumption about that guy and understand the truth which is not reasonable or logical to think only this guy whom you created his qualification all in your mind is the perfect match for you and that there are no others! Change your thoughts on this illusion that you have created in your mind and live life in its actuality and see what it has to offer and live happy with actuality and possibilities of life not in the limitations of your psyche and the memories of the past.
Thank you dear, I am delighted that the video is helpful to you. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you are in. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Dear Mehran, you are so logical and you are right about everything you say, in fact, I tested how much he loves me and asked him to add me on his house deed. He all of the sudden stopped loving me and went to the next. There is no such a thing as "love", it all comes down to money, if he loved me, he would feel comfortable share his house legally with me and put me on deed paper, but he only wants to bullshit me and waste my time, there is no love in the western world like the one in the books" majnun layla" and etc... today money rules and all else fails....lol that's why i listen to your videos every day to stop thinking that there is love. Thank you
lol ya leila & majnoon, farhad & shirin, romeo & juliette all were the true olden but golden days. love was for life and appreciation of the other and for being together on the journey of life but things in most cases are different now. but dear I had no intention of projecting that love does not exist via my videos . I just hoped that the talks brings clarity and reasonability in expectations and helping to look for the right stuff in the partner and how to be confident and move on if things are not working but not to say or prove that love does not exist ! :) anyways I am glad that you are enjoying the videos.
+Mehran Dadbeh , if love existed, you would be looking for a partner too, but you seem to be happy alone and not looking anymore, because you are smart and you know that each one of us is" born alone and will die alone", be honest and teach people the truth, relationships don't work and you know it.
+Alexandra Berger Lol Alexandra, lol. From which side of the bed did you get up today dear ? :) why so gloomy :) You know that love exists but the expectations that some people have from love is not what love is all about and not considering how this emotion of love is manipulated or affected , influenced by the way the consciousness of each person is put together throughout their lives due to all what shapes the consciousness and conditions us all ( as discussed in many of the videos ), makes love look like something entirely different than what it is intended to be, to do and to help us become stronger and have stronger lives. Not understanding the differences in our conditionings and the make up of our consciousness is what leads to always trying to be in control and think that being loved is equal to have things our way and for ourself and not equally compromised and work to keep the outside influences out of the love, not allow it to be spoiled by economics, selfishness, controlling behaviour, domination, not using it as a tool to show our success, not to be for pleasure only, not to be based on physical connection only and ending up having love to become anything but love is, and be replaced by some notion or symbol of accomplishment rather than notion of being alive and living with this emotion as part of our experience of living throughout our journey of life. I love and adore woman and as far as I remember I was always in love most of my single times in my life so love surely exist but we have lost the real meaning of love and the respect love deserves and it's meaning has been replaced with pleasure, sex, comfort, service, convenience and security, and because love these days is being evaluated and measured by economic or comfort values and not by it's natural and specific measuring unit "love itself", then that is why and when things starts falling apart in most relationships. ! :) Love should not be bought or sold , love should only be measured by itself, the emotion and by the depth of love and nothing else so therefore no one would ever be able to replace their feeling of love if it is true therefore a real chance for it to last as they can never get something more valuable than love if they betray it or exchange it therefore it would never be abandoned ( which would mean they would never abandon each other ). Now tonight is my night off and I am going to watch a movie with my tea and enjoy :) , so if you don't hear from me again tonight with a respond to your respond, I hope it is understood and I am forgiven! :)
Thank you Mehran, I am originally from germany and I've been to Iran, and I loved Iran, I also know the culture and I drink tea a lot, i have many iranian rugs, but this culture here in US and canada is different, they don't care about their food, how will they care about their wives? I dated american boy, but he dissapointed me, he was not loyal. I left him, still asking myself why? why?, he kept contacting me and I only answered by text and asked him to add me on his house deed, as guarantee, because i did not trust him, he did not want to, that's how i found out he doesn't love me. Anyways, i think oriental culture is doing it right, that they ask for gold and a guarantee, because look what these spoiled rotten idiots are doing, and they get away, they walk out and find the next stupid american girl that fools with them and gives them everything for free. that's why I am single.
+Alexandra Berger dear Alexandre, saw yr comment, will respond in more detail and properly later on tonight. am visiting my dad at cemetery and just recovering from this beautiful emotion and feelings of crying ...now on my way to an appointment so will respond when I have my tea in front of me :)
I am glad you find them helpful, Maulik. You will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! (Today or the day of the week) 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Good glad you kept watching and listening as intelligent people will listen, consider and ponder and then decide. This is the idea to be thinking about the matters of life and our actions and reactions and the movement of our psyche in depth and detail. Good job.
+dabbwizard Of course you can dear. Go to www.mindthatseekstruth.com and click on consultation and see which arrangement/ package is available and suits your time table, budget and needs and we go from there. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
+Rivka Aloni Thank you I am glad that the videos are helpful to you dear. Share the ones you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others get to visit the site and learn about my work as well. Be good to yourself always, Mehran :)
helloi previously told you my story ( i know you dont remember of course) but at that time i did bad things post breakup when she wanted to get back to me for 5 months daily talking to me but i told her to stop talking and get away as a revenge of her breaking up with me. i disrespected her i many ways for a long long time. finally when shs stopped talking to me and gave up on me i realized all the bad things i did but now after a year shes the one ignoring me. you told me to tell her how i feel about the things i did. but she doesnt want to see me. she told me she doesnt want anything from me more than friends and always gives excuses to not seeing me. can you please make a video about stop feeling guilty or sometjing like that? because whats hurting the most is that i caused this awesome relationship of 2 years to fail. even after she tried fixing it i threw it away and i cant stop feeling guilty. she texted me last week wishing me a happy easter. but still i feel guiltythank you
I am glad you find the videos helpful, Michael. You will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India), (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
My boyfriend and I weren’t together for a long time..but I really truly loved him and was ready for a life with him..we had a military relationship and I was always so ready and willing to try and make sure things were okay between us..only for him to leave me due to a “gut feeling”
What is a military relationship? you mean you are both in the military or you mean you were always listening and doing what he was suggesting or saying? What do you mean by that phrase?
I was in love once. I met her when I was 17 she was 15. We were together for six years. We said we would never split up. We said we would grow old together. Then one day her family decided to move back to Michigan. There was nothing I could do. She couldn’t stay and I couldn’t go. I didn’t have the money to take care of us. The whole time I was with her I had just worked menial jobs just to make ends meet. I had made no future plans because I was so wrapped up in the moment and in love I was just living day by day. It was bliss. I couldn’t wait to get off work to see her. I thought of everything I could to make money to be able to have her stay. The last few days she was here we spent just laying in bed and crying and holding each other. The pain was unbelievable. So she left and we talked every day on the phone. We would write letters nonstop. Then eventually the calls slow down until we hardly talked at all. Long distance relationships like that don’t work well when you are young. Eventually we lost touch. I mopped around for years afterwards pining over my lost love. My mother said there are other fish in the sea. I wasn’t having that. Every girl I dated afterwards I always secretly compared to her. If I ever felt myself falling for a girl I would do something to break it off. I went on for years like this. The mother of my two sons was a nice girl but I just couldn’t commit I couldn’t let go. I have since been with many women but none are like that first true love. I think you only get one of those in a lifetime. I mean you can love again but it’s not that breathtaking head over heals butterflies in the stomach kind of love. For as much happiness and joy those years that I spent with her were nothing compared to the heartache and despair that followed her leaving. That crushing claustrophobic feeling of not being able to breathe when I would think of her. I have long since given up on dating or even trying. It doesn’t even appeal to me anymore. Although I do often think about her and what she is doing. Where she is at in life and if she is happy. Then I realize I’m an almost fifty year old man thinking of a girl I knew. A girl I haven’t seen in 30 years. I wonder if she ever thinks of me to.
Good story Walter, but neither you nor her are that 17 and 15 year old boy and girl to have no expectation from each other and in your case not having any expectations from your girl friend would had been to the point that the girl would seem perfect in every way ( not because she was but because she was because you had no expectations, so her or any other girl that you would have liked would seem perfect and in fact would be perfect in your eyes as you had no idea who you were at that age let alone knowing what kind of girl you wanted and with what characteristics. If you guys has stayed together eventually both would decide to separate as when both would grow up each year you would have changed your standards since your consciousness would have been changing all along as you were growing up and in that case the separation would have had a different image and reasoning in your minds and the story would no longer be as tasteful and romantically beautiful as you remember it now and it would have probably been a story like most other break ups based on conflicts and divisions, interest in some others ( from both of you) or unreasonable expectations and so on. So at least now you have a good story and not what would in fact happen if you guys had stayed together for a few more years!
@@MehranDadbeh so like in a parallel universe type situation this is undoubtedly how it would have played out you suppose? I suspect you are right. Really given me something to think about. I’m not depressed on the matter, I just happen to think about the situation from time to time and what could have been. From your perspective, which is undoubtedly the most realistic perspective, the what could have been scenario doesn’t play out as I would have preferred. Makes perfect sense though, as people change. Yes that’s what we do. Maybe I won’t entertain that notion anymore. I’ll just accept and cherish it for what it was and nothing more. Thanks for that. You really do know your stuff. Got me thinking.
@@waltersobchak7275 you are welcomed Walter. What is most precious is not the memory of what once was precious and special, but it is what is precious now and that is the woman you are with as that is the one who loves you for certain and cares about you and does things for you, the other is none existence and is doing what ever she is doing is for herself and someone else, so cherish and honour the one who is making your life go around and cherish her and be happy as the other one would have been statistics if you guys would had stayed together for another couple of years or so maximum and then it would had been nothing and nothing to remember the experience and definitely not the way you are remembering it.! 😊 Go celebrate for things turned out the way they did and you ended up having a real compatible and happy wife and life and focus on appreciating your life and make sure you feel happy and make others in your family happy because of this fortune of yours that worked out in fact to your advantage without you knowing that it has!
+Eric S You are welcomed dear. Glad they are helpful. Share the videos and my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
Mr Mehran thank you for your videos. They are thoughtful and make changes in people's lives. After watching this video I have a question though. You are asking "are you wanting her with her all package (joy, companionship ...) for you ? And you answered it as if I want her back so I could have those for myself... But what if I want her back because of how I made her feel. I enjoy making ppl feel happy and she was certainly happy until I ended it. Simply she was much older than me and I didn't see a future for our relationship and didn't want to waste my n her time anymore. But after letting her go I realized that I loved her.
Hello Arman, This question can have an elaborate discussion and for that I need to know more detail and chat about it rather than write back and forth. Short of the long is : find some one else to make happy if you feel this was not working or had no future with it.....and again you are making her happy because that would make you feel good so then again you are doing it for you so then do it for some one else while you are doing it for you. If you wonder that you still want her but then there is no future for you guys with each other then make a decision and stick to it otherwise you will be like a YOYO going up and down without any stability or balance or logic to follow your decision as you wish it. Not enough info to continue this talk dear. You can always check my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and see if you find a chat package suitable for you to continue this discussion together dear. I am delighted that you find the videos helpful and are enjoying them. Be good to yourself always, Mehran :)
I am glad you find them helpful Fergie. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
Lars Mazzucchelli Glad the videos are helpful to you Lars, Feel free to join my FB page FB page : Mind That Seeks Truth facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ It would also be good if you share my animation promo ( you can find it with embeded link to my youtube channel on my FB page ) on to your social media to let others know that there is support after break up and also about my work. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
My girlfriend broke up when me recently from a two year relationship and I'm having hard times to get over this break up... I been her best friend since 6 years.. and she found better than me..I'm currently her friend but it hard to watch her happy with another guy
You will be fine Dominick, there are over 1,000 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ishor On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! (Today or the day of the week) 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
What if i broke up and left what i thought and think is the most suitable lady i have ever met? Is it ok to come back into her life, even if we dont live in the same country anymore? That i broke up 9 month ago and we spent 2 years together... Reason of break up : basicaly, i thought that i couldnt stand a long distance relationship. That it would be easy to split and let her live her life instead of waiting for me to come back. Today i still think of her everyday...
If the same conditions as when you made that decision still exist, you may come to the same conclusion eventually and possibly think in the same way and with same logic again. So if the circumstances have changed and you no longer have the same challenges ( logistic or otherwise ) which were of concern to you, then why not. :)
Thank you so much your kind reply Mehran :) It's a big help! Only thing that change is that i can see clearer now and i know when i will be back to country again. The fear of long distance relationship and wait don't scare me anymore. She was never scared of that and highly believed in us no matter what the logistic were. Time and distance where not a problem for her. It was for me at that time, it is not anymore.
You have "expanded consciousness" type of level of insights. And you remind me of Dr.Albert Hoffmann. Thanks for these videos, they are insanely valuable for ones understanding. And u give this out for free, bless You!!!
I am glad you find the videos helpful, "HybOj ". You will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India), (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
The thing is I wasn't fine before I was with her. The journey I have taken with her has changed me and no one else however better they are can replace her. And about serving myself. Its not just about me. I believe I have so much to give and add to her life and I can't do it anymore
what you want so let it be , wish her well and wish yourself well and build another, find another, as world/ life does not stop because of she does or does not want this or that or you .....Well every one has a choice and regardless of what you want and can do for her, sMove on as she has . If she can do it so can you. You can not want good things for her more than how badly she would want good stuff for her and what she wants may be different than he has a choice and if she does not want it then you need no to offer it or concerned about it.
@@MehranDadbeh I try to understand what your saying. I see no meaning or point in life without her. Who am I if I give up on what's most important to me? Ever since she left me my life has been so confused and, I don't know, surreal. Time, school, family passing by like nothing every happened while I sink into darkness, unnoticed. I'm just glad she is talking to me again, so we can work through what went wrong. And I can try explain myself to her, the things I did. And hopefully clear up misunderstandings and incorrect beliefs she has of me. I know she still loves me, she told me too. We had such a beautiful and pure relationship. It's so precious to me and worth fighting for. Love is such a beautiful magical spiritual wonderful thing
@@eranbroide3003 communication is always good, but if she feels you are needy and incapable of living successfully she will not come back or be interested in you as while it is important to be compatible with each other she also expect you to be a strong person to lead the relationship when it is struggling or when life is more challenging and not just be so desperate to get her back as she feels that she is the power in this relationship when she does not want to be or feel as if she can be or to have that role. So bring balance in this what I said otherwise no woman wants to be with a weak and needy man no matter how much she likes or loves you as she wants security and a weak presentation or needy spirit does not bring that feeling of psychological security for them.
Thank you for the kind words. My reward is people like you learning about their psyche and manage their emotions and thought better and more clear and then to " Share the videos you like on your social media to promote the channel and my work" ! :)
thanks. this is the third vid i have watched. what if one finds the confidence but feels guilty about ending 30 year relationship that would devistate the partner even though respect and communication have nearly gone. its like we are frightened of the abyss.do you have a link that applies.... thanks again. dan.
There are many videos that help to move on like the two below but to try to feel guilty because the relationship that is now broken had lasted 30 years it is like saying that whatever stuff you have in storage becomes important as soon as you throw them out! You were not using them at all any how and they were in a storage but you just liked the idea that they are there even though you had no use for them! The same with the 30 year that you suddenly think it now supposed to make a difference because the relationship is no longer working! The memory of the 30 year was just there ( in the storage) but was not useful to the relationship as if it was not an actuality any more and was just a dead memory and no longer in existence and had no use of any kind in helping to resolve the differences or the challenges which eventually got the two separated any ways. So the memory was always dead and not in existence all along and now that you guys have separated there is no difference in it's value either. So what was or what is it's use any ways? The 30 year memory or the duration of the relationship was of no use then and of no use now after the breakUp. So stop feeling guilty for something that you do not use, never helped or could help to keep the relationship together ( because of the duration of the relationship ), and move on and understand that what you feel guilty about does not exist ( the past is always dead and have been dead the minute that it was no longer the present) and has no real use any ways and so let them be where they are but do not think that they were ever of any real use any ways and move on! :) Hope that makes sense and is of help to you. Mehran th-cam.com/video/N3uaQE-VbI4/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/9q0vosfXiDM/w-d-xo.html P.S. Do visit my FB page facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ if you like and see the Free Webinar post. It should say 10.30 AM Pacific, which is 1.30 PM Atlantic and I think it will be 12 midnight India time on Saturday January the 14th. Where are you watching the videos from?
My bf broke up with me yesterday... it's not that I wasn't fine... it's just I wasn't happy or content. I was miserable. He helped. For 4 years.. now...
Come to live stream and ask your questions or discuss why you were miserable. Saturdays at 1 and 9 PM Vancouver time. What is your age and the country you are watching the videos from?
My ex broke up with me out of the blue after I stayed with him for almost a week. I took care of his daughter , I accepted him at his worst. He's a single father .He told me if I love him i should set him free coz he said he's happier that way and then he also said that my attitude sucks and deleted our pictures right away on Instagram after a week. He blocked my number when I tried to reach out. I don't know but I feel betrayed by him. We were just sweet a week before he broke up with me. Now it feels like I'm so scared to love again .I love him and he's daughter. I love them with all of my heart but then he just threw me that easy.
Gee Gee, go to my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and make a Skype consultation appointment and we will explore it together and get you moving on to your balanced self and happy days again. Or You can tune in to my live talks which are on most days of the week and the announcement of it is usually posted on my Facebook page. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on TH-cam th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or on my Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talks which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talks which could be held either on Facebook or TH-cam channel. ( Most often these days will be on TH-cam and the post will provide the link to it: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Vancouver time (Pacific), Right here on this link:: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish Then with some additional information on my site or events www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
She left me, and now has him?? She left me for another guy and she told me she loved me, I feel so awful, I watched your other video using the pebbles metaphor, but she left me, and went straight to him, I feel so used and hurt
+jack “badnoll31” horsley pople have different tastes and just because a pig runs around in shit that does not make shit better than other things ! it just means that pigs like shit but does not mean shit is better than grass or hey or barley that horses like....! So go find a horse who will like good and clean stuff...find some one who likes high quality person like you. That guy is not better than you , your ex does not have high expectation than who she is with now, so this, her choice, is not a reflection on you, it is a reflection on her. See it clearly and do not make up stories which is not the reality but some thoughts due to the fact that most boys at younger age think whomever their girl friend picks is the better man...no that is not true. who says that they are the judge of guys. Relax and enjoy your life, life is not about one relationship or one girl, life has lots more to offer which you are not even able to imagine now. :) good that you found out how wishy washy she is now that later in life so go ad celebrate and count your stars and enjoy every minute of your life . :)
my girlfriend left me and then she gave me two cookies, that she didn't make!! I was so hurt and now I think she wants me back I'm so confused what do I do
+Mushaba Hineklin Why confused? she gave you two cookies ( which I don't know what it means ) and now wants you back too :) so whats wrong with this ? :) Just kidding dear, want to make you smile as what you seem to be confused by is not worth the confusion. It's life so enjoy the moment, if you want her back too then re-join and see what happens and how it goes , if this time around was not suitable to you then you leave and find another more suitable friend or partner.. Don't think that decision you make is for ever so no confusion necessary and see how you feel and act on it and if things are not warm and cozy enough for you then just say good bye and move on. As simple as that. :) Make a choice and don't wait to be chosen all the time. If she offers what you offer, warmth, stability, kindness and friendship... then good and if not then move on. It is not just dependent on her decisions or preferences, it is up to you too and as far as it goes for you, relates to you, you are the only decision maker that matters. So don't play with her and don't let any one play with your emotions either and if you are not happy with how she treats you then move on and don't look back and if you are happy or ok with it then let it go on and see how it goes and when not suitable any more then simply and kindly move on and wish her well. Not a rocket science ! :) very simple , all you have to do is not to think with your .... and use your mind and real feelings and not just focused on your desires for pleasure only.... in this way you will be fine. Be good to yourself always.
Hi again Mr Dadbeh another great video by u sir tnx so much , i really appreciate your works sir. i have a question about your last sentences in this video when u said u will find someone else Finally and in many other articles that i red about breakups, there was mention to this subject and they named it something like ultimate cure for breakup ,but what if we don`t want anyone else in our life ever again i`m just 23 years old but after breakup i felt so old in deep down of self & i really don`t want anyone else in my life so if we don`t replace our ex with someone else is there anyway that one day we get well without anyone else sir? once again tnx so much sir Regards Ashkan
+Ashkan kashi Yes Ashkan, you will be fine whether you find some one else right away or later or not for a long time ....You will get over this no matter what. Not wanting any one else at this time is very normal almost no one who has just broken up would want another relationship for a while and they usually feel like they will not trust any one any more or they would think that they do not have any interest in another relationship....but all these feelings are part of normal journey after a break up and nothing out of the ordinary. So take your time and enjoy your life and be busy with your things to do in life and eventually you will feel ready and will meet the right girl and would love to be with a new girl but not for now but you certainly will again. :) These are all normal feelings at this time dear. Just be patient and enjoy your life and all will be just perfectly fine again in time when you are ready. Be good to yourself, Mehran
Thank you for the kind word Patricia. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Saturdays on Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ or on Sundays on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: iIf you would like us to address certain specific situation you might be facing with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options is suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may chose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
I guess before losing my#2 I wasn't fine...then I met another widow who showed me I could love again. It all went down hill once she started to see a psychologist. I wonder what it was that he told her that ruined the relationship.
jtaylorb88 good question! Perhaps you join in one of my live talks and let me know more detail about her past and mentality, interaction with you and so on. We can then explore it a bit.
Thank you you are right, almost because I did feel like that right now but slightly different on top of loosing the love of my life is aswell loosing someone who is very vulnerable alone she is actually lonely girl in different country Whitchurch have been abuse sexualy in the pass but we split because I did abuse her mentaly we both did to each other but I did more. despite we both love each other so much we just fight and done to many bad things to each others.. therfore she told me she don't want to be with me anymore but she said she want to be friends I said if not together can't be friends after being together...
Once again. A great video sir, the knowledge you share is amazing thank you, it offers me great healing, i cannot thank you enough, i was just wondering if you offer skype chats at all? Theres no information of this in the description, or could i possibly email you? I have a situation on my hands, i need some advice :)
+Delilah Di Hello Delilah, thank you for your e-mail and the kind words. All consultations are done through www.mindthatseekstruth.com if you go on that site and click on consultation then you can see which package or choice of time suits you for booking an appointment. With regards, be good to yourself always, Mehran
Amazing perspective, but the one I lost was so original and unique I will never taste such amazing ice cream again. It was like going to a place designed specifically to make you happy and losing it because of your own selfish stupidity.
Thank you for the kind word. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
ALthough I do agree with this video you're missing a point. Love is unconditional...and if we really someone we should be showing them a mirror reflection of the best version of themselves...and supporting them to actualize, realize...that potential. With my ex I enjoyed supporting her and doing things for her because seeing her happy, made me happy. Your opinion kinda presupposes that we're kind of selfish. If that was the case, if I really wanted someone just to give me those two feelings...well then, that wouldn't be entering into a healthy relationship because I'm relying on the other person to lift me up, make me happy, etc. Also, it would be that pretty much almost anyone would do. I don't throw away love for free....it has to be with someone that I feel honoured to love and show affection to. Hope that makes sense. Cheers :)l
Let’s think a bit deeper Horace. Being selfish, and expecting to be reciprocated and holding your partner responsible for her behavior according to what both find humane and fare, are two different things. Love is not supposed to be unconditional in BF & GF situations. It should not be unconditional as there are no attachment, or devotion for the purpose of development, protection or building a family is formed, shaped, promised or built yet. Once all that has become clear and each have over time proven their commitment and sincerity and loyalty to each other and become a family with all its privileges and responsibilities ( or a similar formal expectations or understanding), then we will have a different set of expectations and tolerance and level of devotion in that relationship. Otherwise that what one may call or want it to be is not unconditional love and that simply seems that it is or must be love ( unconditional or not) but it is just lust which you will mistake it for love and then turn yourself into a slave for the benefit and promise of intimacy which is the pleasure that most desire and are guided by. Unconditional love is only for your children, spouse ( given time proven feelings and loyalty ) and for one’s parents. Why should you love your GF or BF unconditionally? On what basis or what promise? So at the outset love is not unconditional or at least it should not be expected to be unconditional love as there is only lust as the fuel of this emotion which could eventually possibly become love and then decided to be unconditional or not!
Wow...you’ve said a lot in that reply. Thank you so much. Took me a while to sit and re-read it. After reading what you wrote, and looking inward (I’ve been doing a lot of self reflecting lately), you’re bang on. A few things I did that weren’t right. 1) Jumping into the relationship too soon and not taking the time to get to know the other person, establishing trust. 2) mistaking lust for love. I’ve done that before and I’m happy to say it’s a pattern I’ve broken. 3) making the other person too much of a part of my life. Your words were great. I turned myself into a slave for the relationship and based my happiness on it. If it was going great...I was happy….if it wasn’t, look out! Overall though it was life-affirming in that it showed I was capable of being with someone fully - a scary proposition for someone who was transient overseas and didn’t take relationships all that seriously. So in the end, through the lens you’re looking through...I totally get what you mean. Thanks so much in taking the time to respond to my comment. Very much appreciated! All the best
You are welcomed Horace, Keep going forwards. Don't forget to share the videos you like on your social media if you will, it will help others and also gives more exposure to the channel and the work I do. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Mind That Seeks Truth! This was a great thread, it’s really helped me a lot in my current break up. I thought my fiancé was the love of my life. And I thought I’d given him my all because his happiness was my happiness just like Horace. Now I can see that I was wrong and the happiness I was chasing was my own and that I still have that.
I hope I run into this guy one day. I’d like to shake his hand and thank him. He’s helped many people.
Consider it shaken SCL 75 :) as I am delighted that the channel has been helpful to you and that is enough "thanks" for me. Join in if you like on the tonight's and tomorrow's live talk for the new year so hoping no one would feel lonely or sad at this time of the year although it would be a temporary low mood but still I want you all to know its all fine and we can spend it knowing many around the world have such temporary feelings in common at this time of the year and it will pass. Perhaps we wil spend a few hours of it together on the live streaming.
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My boyfriend of almost three years broke up with me a few days ago and I somehow stumbled on to your videos. They are so helpful and inspiring, thank you very much for giving such hopeful light into this dark tunnel I'm having to go through. Thank you!
+Min Ha Lee Hello Min Ha, I am glad that the videos are helpful to you dear. Make sure to share the ones you like and my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others would get to visit my site and learn about my work. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
Min Ha Lee how are you doing now
So true. I feel this
The same exact thing just happened to me..
How are you now?
I used to come to this guy for my HOCD recovery and now I come for him to help me overcome this little sorrow I got after losing her. If it ain’t one thing, it’s another
So all I need to do is find someone else that provides what I desire? Awesome. Let me go find another one like the one it took me 30 years to find. Or, instead, I can learn to accept rejection, take responsibility for my words and actions, and learn from failure.
That's true. But not for everyone. When you fall truly in love you fall for a person who is not replacable.
True
I hear you but when you love someone truly, you want to best for them even though if it’s not by your side. Falling in love generates this selfish idea of possession which is nice at the beginning of the relationship. But real love comes from freedom.
Im in a lot of break up pain. I have depression and anxiety.
Hope your doing well now bro
Me too 😞
This is how I’m feeling…
I am in your place ride now. I wounder how did u overcome that n how do you feel now?
Do you still feel that way? Hope you’re doing better. I deal with the same thing and have for many years. I do a lot of breathing exercises. Take care
Wow, after feeling so lost for four years and going to therapy, your “ice cream” theory has made me feel better in the 15 minutes it took to watch your video than I’ve felt since February 2017! What a wonderful realization! Thank you so much! Liked and subscribed!
Delighted that the videos are helpful to you 😊
Brilliant.
Absolutely brilliant.
Excellent perspective, and you're exactly right.
I love your analogies.
Thank you for what you do, Mehran.
+David Hart You are welcomed dear.
+Mehran Dadbeh Thanks for such a quick reply Mehran! You're a good man.
this video blew my mind. I NEVER would have thought about it in that context. I'm going through a separation right now and I'm finally getting out of the woe is me phase. That was deep. Thanks.
You are welcomed Latreakeus, I am glad you enjoyed the video. Be good to yourself always. Mehran :)
It's been exactly a month since my break up. I cry every day and I'm getting sick of it. Why does this person have so much control over me? After this video, I just realized I'm the reason to my own pain and struggle of moving on. Tonight, I take back the control over my life, my happiness. I am not alone, I am All as One ❤️
I absolutely love your videos. This is my second break up I’ve gone through, and coming back here really heals me. You deserve such a larger following!!! Thank you for your wisdom. ❤️
Hello Mara, glad you are still enjoying the content. Yes I too am surprised and wonder why my subs are so low in numbers while some channels who offer no real discussion and worthy of pondering enjoy over 500 thousand subscribers!! I am baffled. :) perhaps you would enjoy this one as well: th-cam.com/video/XK06ZEAv0P4/w-d-xo.html Please remind me of your age and where you tuning in from, I do kind of remember that you are a lady, right?
I broke up with my ex in August of this year. I miss her even though she moved on quickly and blocked my number. Now I feel lost, confused, and suicidal. I feel sad every time I see things and activities that remind me of her. This pain is just too unbearable. I honestly dont know how I can continue to go on. Life sucks ass
Please understand that this was an experience and regardless of how you are making it seem or feel (as if it was the only girl you would ever meet), It is not that important at all and you will move on and will not care about this at all as the time passes. Pay respect to your life and all what life has to offer you and do not condense your life into one experience in relationship, life is far bigger than that. Just do your best, attend to your duties and responsibilities every day, advance in life and meet other more suitable girls and friends. These things sometimes could take some time to not be on your mind any more. As you grow your preferences in the type of girls you find compatibility with will change as well. If you feel unhappy, make sure to stay with family and friends and if you feel you are not grasping this to be only an experience and is not important ( specially when you get older and meet other wonderful girls) then please consult your family physician and get psychological help as this sorts of talk about how you can go on ... is not becoming of a strong and balanced young man like you and you should seek medical advise from your physician or psychologist where you live. You are more important than such experiences. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Going through something like this.. could we talk?
Same here after 18 years..she now walked away saying she didn’t know what she wanted only to find out she hooked up with someone else ..devastated but know I must now move
Terry karenbauer i completely feel you. After 13 years with my wife, she cheated on me multiple times 😔 and we have two kids
Oakland, I'm not saying you should never feel better or anything, but don't listen to this guy. He's just this Boomer with a channel that thinks he knows stuff. He's incredibly cynical. Yeah, a lot of us have lost someone. But there's no way to say there's no tragedy involved. There is tragedy. It's very real. Don't let anyone invalidate what you're going through.
This video just blew my mind!!! Thank you so much.
You are welcomed dear. :) Share the ones you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media so others will also get to know about these videos and what my work is all about. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you are in. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
It was difficult to overcome my break up with my gf while she went back to her ex bf. I completely felt I was a failure, but through this video, the only person I love the most in this world is MYSELF❤. Thank u so much for, the ice cream story simplified everything.
You're a God send. Thank you for these videos, they are helping me get through this breakup and finally find peace.
You are welcomed Louis. Please make sure to share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get a chance to know about my work, Be good to yourself always, Mehran
Make a video about being played and intentionally hurt and how to get over that as a guy.
Dude. Here...
My problem was that before I met my ex I was angry with the world. I wasn't 'fine' at all. I didn't love life or myself. We got together based on attraction. We found that we had loads in common but my self-loathing and regrets ate away at her and she got fed up. So I HAVE lost the love of my life. I was the problem, not her.
Then learn from it and build your life and then go after her and if she was no longer interested, use your knowledge and what you learned from this experience and your self pitty and interact with the next opportunity/ relationship in a more positive and hopeful manner. Who knows maybe even when she sees you have built a life and are changed to a hopeful and positive person, she may want to re-start where you guys left off. Learn and re-build yourself for her or for the next girl.
@@MehranDadbeh I will do my best to build a positive life for myself. I am very disappointed with myself that I have only just learned this at 32. I am anxious that I may never find anyone now.
@@MikeJackson690 Often we become the best version of ourselves when we become disappointed of ourselves and that is when we have grown more. You are just 32, so learn more and more as you are very young and certainly you will find more girlfriends and will choose the most suitable one, that will happen weather you want it or not! :) Be good to yourself always. Let me know where you are watching the videos (which country/ city). Mehran
@@MehranDadbeh Thank you. I don't feel young. I feel like I should be happily married and starting a family about now, but I'm way off now, as is my ex who wanted a family young (she's 25). Now I have my head screwed on I can offer her exactly what she wants, but trust has broken down and she doesn't see me as a potential father to her children. It hurts. I need to upsticks and start a new life to move on, hopefully within 6-8 months I will do so. My surroundings need to change as much as my mindset. I am watching from the United Kingdom, by the way. I hope you're well.
@muneyjordanisaproI'm with you in this experience. It stings like nothing else. Wherever I look nothing compares to her. I try not to hate myself for letting her slip away, but some days I just fall apart completely
Over one month ago I left a 43 year marriage and my son because both men were abusive. I couldn't sleep and then found you. Your advice is very sound. Thank you Mr. Dadbeh.......I also listened to Delete your memories. Very good as well.
gordon mac millan You are welcomed Gordon. Glad the videos are helpful to you.
Beautiful soul thank you for being such a light . I love how you don't take life so seriously. But I would like your opinion... I agree that letting go of someone that doesn't want to be with you is necessary. In my case I am having a hard time because this man didn't say bye or give me an explanation. we dated close to 6 months with one previous break up. There was no fight but he just blocked my number and when I looked for him he said he needed time to think. I never heard from him so I sent him a message asking him to please tell me why he blocked me and ended things in such a way and to please give me closure. He didn't respond ...so now it's very hard to move on because I don't understand why he did what he did and why so cruel to not respond. I can't get him off my mind ...I'm so sad and hurt
+Nancy Lopez Hello Nancy, glad that you are enjoying the videos and find them helpful. This video perhaps would address your question. th-cam.com/video/zU4B4nLlAus/w-d-xo.html You may have to reverse the word girlfriend for boyfriend and make it pertaining to you.There are other videos which does talk about what you have asked me here but this is what I could think of and pinpoint right now. Hope you will enjoy it. Be good to yourself always, Mehran Here is another one : th-cam.com/video/M1r5OQBYxMw/w-d-xo.html
you are the best. exactly what I needed to hear now. thank you! ♡
+JE ENN You are welcomed dear, gad that you enjoyed it and feel good.
I lost the love of my life when she gave birth to my daughter. Now she is the love of my life.
I'm so glad to meet you Mr. Dadbeh. Your videos truly help.
I am delighted that the videos are helpful to you dear. Share the ones you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media so others would also get a chance to know about my work. Please let me know from where you are watching the videos and in which age category you are in. With thanks, Mehran D
The love you transmit in your videos just makes me feel comfortable after this horrible time I had. Thank You so much for sharing all this thoughts and reflexions.
I really need it!
Thank you for the kind words Angie, I am glad the videos are helpful to you.
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that was truly eye opening...thank you !!!
+bbroegger You are welcomed. Glad things are more clear for you.
i was at a little kiosk to buy a soda yesterday, they sold icecream...i looked at it and smiled..ill remember this stuff evertime i look at icecream :)
+bbroegger :)
Your videos are amazing! I love the positive energy :) Thank you!
you are welcomed Brian. be good to yourself. Mehran
thank you I lived with my girlfriend for 3 years, we broke up and I was the one who had to leave the apartment which we rented together and your analogies really had helped me. Thank's
You are welcomed dear . Be good to yourself :)
Man this is so good. You really helped me. Thank You!!!
You are very welcomed dear.
Thank you Mehran, you're a good soul.
+Albert Einstein Thank you dear :)
what if u werent fine before meeting him. and now that he left im back to being depressed/anxiety. yes i lived life be4 him but i wasnt the happiest..
Then that means that you have not established a balanced relationship between you and life. That is more important than a romantic relationship between two people. Relationship with life is the most important relationship that you need to focus on first and then once you have established/ created that, then you will be strong and independent and not fearful if the romantic relationship did not work and you will not be hanging on hoping someone else would make you happy. People do not come to the relationship to make you ( the other side) happy, they come into a relationship to "find" happiness ( to become happy themselves) and that is why breakups take such a big toll on people. But if you find happiness in your personal relationship with life then everything else will be safe whether it works or not! Go first build your life and then find a relationship with the hopes of building a good relationship and not for the purpose of becoming happy. Become happy before a relationship and then experience a romantic relationship(s).
This video saved me in the first 6 minutes. Good lord it gave me a whole new perspective.
Glad you found the video helpful to you.
Thank you so much! Great words of wisdom. I had never thought about it that way.... I am enjoying your videos so much! I will share on facebook :)
+Amanda Briceno You are welcomed Amanda, delighted that the videos are helpful to you. Share my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media as well if you will. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Another masterpiece of a video.
Thank you for making our lifes so much easier!!!
+sunder war You are welcomed dear, delighted that the videos bring more strength and happiness to you. Don't forget to share the videos and my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media so others will get to know about my work and newly converted soft cover books to e-books .... Be good to yourself always, Mehran
When ever you laugh... i start laughing as well haha youre actually hilarious
+Zad Mangat LOL , glad that brings good energy to you. Take good care and enjoy.
Zad Mangat I agree!!! I start laughing too :) Mr. Mehran you are my new fave guru :)
I am Glad the video is helpful to you. :)
thats so deep.. Thank you
Good video about initial break ups... Horribly depressing for people who still feel that way 7 years later.
I have said this before sir you are an incredible man thank you for your wonderful words.
+stan carter It is my pleasure to see good people feel strong again and enjoy their lives and continue this journey stronger than before their break up challenge. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
Please let me know from where you are watching the videos.
Wonderful idea and thank you very much for provide us such videos that really help me .......
what if i wasnt fine before her? what if i was in a really dark spot and by coming into my life she pulled me out?
She did not pull you out, she became the reason for you to be motivated to pull yourself out of where ever dark place you had parked while you were always capable to pull out and move on from that dark place on your own but you were looking for an excuse or a reason beyond the obvious and most important reason that without you being out of a dark place nothing so beautiful will ever happen and that should be the only motivation needed for you to never sit or remain in a dark place even though you might find yourself in such places now and then due to life's ups and downs which is normal but staying in it for long is not and does not and should not need any excuse other than that it is a dark place and I don't want to be in a dark place and to direct and navigate my life from a dark place where nothing is visible clearly, so I need to come out of that dark place to see clear and steer myself correctly through this journey of life and cause good things to happen and not wait for someone else to appear whenever and then become dependent on them thinking that it was them who directed me to a good life where it is and must always be up to me to command a good direction in life and activities in life to exact the results that brings me happiness and contentment for my own reasons and not for the reasons of pleasure or satisfaction of any other..
Best video ever!! Thank you!!
Thanks again for this video. It's been a little bit harder for me because my relationship last 20+ years. For nearly half my life on this earth it was me & her. As I said I'm out the woe is me phase. Thanks again. God bless you
Yes that is not easy. Please watch these two along with many other videos I have for you on the channel . I think it might be of some help in directing your focus to some new reality rather than you thinking of her as if she is still the same girl you spent all that time with , as if she is still the same as before!
th-cam.com/video/ka7rAyR1i0k/w-d-xo.html
th-cam.com/video/PC262p7zzew/w-d-xo.html
With my regards, Mehran
I guess there are worse than me, just 3+ years already broke my life. 20 years, can't imagine that
You are an amazing, powerfully minded gentleman with a unique and meticulous way of going into the darkness of peoples minds and emotions and pulling them into the light. Thankyou for helping and its a nice reminder of those out there who genuinely care about others and want to help those in need.1 second ago•
you are welcomed Joe and thank for the kind words. I am delighted that the videos are helpfu
thank you so much! your videos have given me a different perspective on how I should see things!
Delighted that you find the videos helpful and you feel stronger. Be good to yourself always. Mehran :)
I appreciate it man! 🙏🏼 the ending made me smile
I'm so sad. I was in a 22 year relationship that broke down. This video helps.
I am glad you find the videos helpful, Philip. You will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
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I discovered your videos about a month ago. Ups and downs and when I am struggling I find your wisdom very helpful in helping me see the true perspective . Thank you for these. Just enjoying your fb page now too!
you are welcomed dear. I am delighted that the videos are helpful. Be good to yourself always. :) Mehran
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thank you. this video helped me a lot
You're welcome!
thanks for video. i am going through a relationship breakup. Even i am much older and wiser than years ago. The talk keeps my mind out of the muddy mind field. Eventually, i will get out of it. But the talk really add a new perspective to thing, thank you thank you.
Verry,very wise. You helps me a lot. Its Amazing!! Thank u a lot. Greetz from Hamburg (Germany)
I am glad you find them helpful Ando. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
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Oh, thank you but i am not on FB. But i listen to every youtube videos from you. it helps me through the nights. Please go on with you sympathy and positiv thinking about divorces. Such pain can be really hard.
You are so helpful!!! Thank you!!!
You are welcomed Birdie, Share the videos you like to help the channel to become more visible, reach and help more people. :)
I broke up with my ex a month ago and every single day since then I have been depressed, anxious, and angry. I loved her more than I loved my own self, I did everything and anything she asked of me. She thinks I don’t truly love her because we broke up once before and I had an encounter with two other females 2weeks after we broke up. Since then she would punish me everyday emotionally for it, and said she could never trust me and believe I love her. But seeing this video shows me that I am the one who is the love of my life, my love and desires for myself are far greater than some girls. Thank you so much for your videos
I am delighted to hear you have seen the light Zach. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
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I've been watching this video for months once in a while after finding out that the girl I always wanted is getting married. Today I was coming into work earlier and this girl I work with dyed her hair and I saw a resemblance between them and it made me remember this video. I finally understand what you mean when you say we can find the traits we love about a girl in other girls if we try to find someone else
Same traits if not more and better ones.
Your every word is blessing for me! Sir!♥️
Thank you Mehran!! Struggling a lot to keep myself in pace since he left me 18 days back. 😭
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I met a guy while another girl was in love with him. At this time I had a boyfriend, but he was a crush, I never thought I was in love with him. And then with this new guy, it was something completely different. I made sure to do everything to just see him happy, and he also had a crush on me. But he also had a crush on the other girl. And because the other girl didn't have a bf, but I had, I helped her get together with the boy I loved. I saw them get closer and distanced myself from him. I helped them with their first steps and I was so happy for them, but still I cried every night. They are together and he told me he really is in love. I broke up with my boyfriend and now I am lost between total happiness and total sadness about loosing the love of my life, but he's happy and that's all that matters.
thorns no worries in this universe it is unlikely that we can just find one person that we can like. There are always others if we open the field of vision a bit wider and allow others communicate with us and if we be noticing the specialities that others have for us to notice. Move on and stop making a god out of your assumption about that guy and understand the truth which is not reasonable or logical to think only this guy whom you created his qualification all in your mind is the perfect match for you and that there are no others! Change your thoughts on this illusion that you have created in your mind and live life in its actuality and see what it has to offer and live happy with actuality and possibilities of life not in the limitations of your psyche and the memories of the past.
what are the chances i meet someone who has all that ? and chemistry !
I love this video ❤❤❤ thank you so much !!
Thank you dear, I am delighted that the video is helpful to you. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you are in. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Dear Mehran, you are so logical and you are right about everything you say, in fact, I tested how much he loves me and asked him to add me on his house deed. He all of the sudden stopped loving me and went to the next. There is no such a thing as "love", it all comes down to money, if he loved me, he would feel comfortable share his house legally with me and put me on deed paper, but he only wants to bullshit me and waste my time, there is no love in the western world like the one in the books" majnun layla" and etc... today money rules and all else fails....lol that's why i listen to your videos every day to stop thinking that there is love. Thank you
lol ya leila & majnoon, farhad & shirin, romeo & juliette all were the true olden but golden days. love was for life and appreciation of the other and for being together on the journey of life but things in most cases are different now. but dear I had no intention of projecting that love does not exist via my videos . I just hoped that the talks brings clarity and reasonability in expectations and helping to look for the right stuff in the partner and how to be confident and move on if things are not working but not to say or prove that love does not exist ! :) anyways I am glad that you are enjoying the videos.
+Mehran Dadbeh , if love existed, you would be looking for a partner too, but you seem to be happy alone and not looking anymore, because you are smart and you know that each one of us is" born alone and will die alone", be honest and teach people the truth, relationships don't work and you know it.
+Alexandra Berger Lol Alexandra, lol. From which side of the bed did you get up today dear ? :) why so gloomy :) You know that love exists but the expectations that some people have from love is not what love is all about and not considering how this emotion of love is manipulated or affected , influenced by the way the consciousness of each person is put together throughout their lives due to all what shapes the consciousness and conditions us all ( as discussed in many of the videos ), makes love look like something entirely different than what it is intended to be, to do and to help us become stronger and have stronger lives. Not understanding the differences in our conditionings and the make up of our consciousness is what leads to always trying to be in control and think that being loved is equal to have things our way and for ourself and not equally compromised and work to keep the outside influences out of the love, not allow it to be spoiled by economics, selfishness, controlling behaviour, domination, not using it as a tool to show our success, not to be for pleasure only, not to be based on physical connection only and ending up having love to become anything but love is, and be replaced by some notion or symbol of accomplishment rather than notion of being alive and living with this emotion as part of our experience of living throughout our journey of life. I love and adore woman and as far as I remember I was always in love most of my single times in my life so love surely exist but we have lost the real meaning of love and the respect love deserves and it's meaning has been replaced with pleasure, sex, comfort, service, convenience and security, and because love these days is being evaluated and measured by economic or comfort values and not by it's natural and specific measuring unit "love itself", then that is why and when things starts falling apart in most relationships. ! :) Love should not be bought or sold , love should only be measured by itself, the emotion and by the depth of love and nothing else so therefore no one would ever be able to replace their feeling of love if it is true therefore a real chance for it to last as they can never get something more valuable than love if they betray it or exchange it therefore it would never be abandoned ( which would mean they would never abandon each other ). Now tonight is my night off and I am going to watch a movie with my tea and enjoy :) , so if you don't hear from me again tonight with a respond to your respond, I hope it is understood and I am forgiven! :)
Thank you Mehran, I am originally from germany and I've been to Iran, and I loved Iran, I also know the culture and I drink tea a lot, i have many iranian rugs, but this culture here in US and canada is different, they don't care about their food, how will they care about their wives? I dated american boy, but he dissapointed me, he was not loyal. I left him, still asking myself why? why?, he kept contacting me and I only answered by text and asked him to add me on his house deed, as guarantee, because i did not trust him, he did not want to, that's how i found out he doesn't love me. Anyways, i think oriental culture is doing it right, that they ask for gold and a guarantee, because look what these spoiled rotten idiots are doing, and they get away, they walk out and find the next stupid american girl that fools with them and gives them everything for free. that's why I am single.
+Alexandra Berger dear Alexandre, saw yr comment, will respond in more detail and properly later on tonight. am visiting my dad at cemetery and just recovering from this beautiful emotion and feelings of crying ...now on my way to an appointment so will respond when I have my tea in front of me :)
VERY INTERESTING AND MOTIVATED VIDEO CREATED BY YOU ALL ACTIONS ARE GREAT GOOD POSITIVITY OF LIFE FOUND AFTER DIVORCE THANKS TO YOU 1 MORE TIME.
I am glad you find them helpful, Maulik. You will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
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This is really helping me deal with my heart break. In other words we imposed a meaning on thar person..
Glad the videos are helpful to you.
What if I want all that from THAT specific person? Nothing to to with me
bruh
i was ready to contradict you on everything but i kept listening and now you have me thinking a lot
Good glad you kept watching and listening as intelligent people will listen, consider and ponder and then decide. This is the idea to be thinking about the matters of life and our actions and reactions and the movement of our psyche in depth and detail. Good job.
Thank you, you have helped me alot im subscribing for sure. I wish I could talk to you in person.
+dabbwizard Of course you can dear. Go to www.mindthatseekstruth.com and click on consultation and see which arrangement/ package is available and suits your time table, budget and needs and we go from there. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
You are so great! this helped me so much
+Rivka Aloni Thank you I am glad that the videos are helpful to you dear. Share the ones you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others get to visit the site and learn about my work as well. Be good to yourself always, Mehran :)
helloi previously told you my story ( i know you dont remember of course) but at that time i did bad things post breakup when she wanted to get back to me for 5 months daily talking to me but i told her to stop talking and get away as a revenge of her breaking up with me. i disrespected her i many ways for a long long time. finally when shs stopped talking to me and gave up on me i realized all the bad things i did but now after a year shes the one ignoring me. you told me to tell her how i feel about the things i did. but she doesnt want to see me. she told me she doesnt want anything from me more than friends and always gives excuses to not seeing me. can you please make a video about stop feeling guilty or sometjing like that? because whats hurting the most is that i caused this awesome relationship of 2 years to fail. even after she tried fixing it i threw it away and i cant stop feeling guilty. she texted me last week wishing me a happy easter. but still i feel guiltythank you
Thanks. These videos are helping me after my wife left me still struggling to deal with but these are a help.
I am delighted tat the videos are helpful to you.
His videos speak to my current life situations so accurately its starting to feel weird .. lol.
I am glad you find the videos helpful, Michael. You will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
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My boyfriend and I weren’t together for a long time..but I really truly loved him and was ready for a life with him..we had a military relationship and I was always so ready and willing to try and make sure things were okay between us..only for him to leave me due to a “gut feeling”
What is a military relationship? you mean you are both in the military or you mean you were always listening and doing what he was suggesting or saying? What do you mean by that phrase?
I understand Kim im still hurting myself
Thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾
I was in love once. I met her when I was 17 she was 15. We were together for six years. We said we would never split up. We said we would grow old together. Then one day her family decided to move back to Michigan. There was nothing I could do. She couldn’t stay and I couldn’t go. I didn’t have the money to take care of us. The whole time I was with her I had just worked menial jobs just to make ends meet. I had made no future plans because I was so wrapped up in the moment and in love I was just living day by day. It was bliss. I couldn’t wait to get off work to see her. I thought of everything I could to make money to be able to have her stay.
The last few days she was here we spent just laying in bed and crying and holding each other. The pain was unbelievable. So she left and we talked every day on the phone. We would write letters nonstop. Then eventually the calls slow down until we hardly talked at all. Long distance relationships like that don’t work well when you are young. Eventually we lost touch. I mopped around for years afterwards pining over my lost love. My mother said there are other fish in the sea. I wasn’t having that. Every girl I dated afterwards I always secretly compared to her. If I ever felt myself falling for a girl I would do something to break it off. I went on for years like this. The mother of my two sons was a nice girl but I just couldn’t commit I couldn’t let go. I have since been with many women but none are like that first true love. I think you only get one of those in a lifetime. I mean you can love again but it’s not that breathtaking head over heals butterflies in the stomach kind of love. For as much happiness and joy those years that I spent with her were nothing compared to the heartache and despair that followed her leaving. That crushing claustrophobic feeling of not being able to breathe when I would think of her.
I have long since given up on dating or even trying. It doesn’t even appeal to me anymore. Although I do often think about her and what she is doing. Where she is at in life and if she is happy. Then I realize I’m an almost fifty year old man thinking of a girl I knew. A girl I haven’t seen in 30 years. I wonder if she ever thinks of me to.
Good story Walter, but neither you nor her are that 17 and 15 year old boy and girl to have no expectation from each other and in your case not having any expectations from your girl friend would had been to the point that the girl would seem perfect in every way ( not because she was but because she was because you had no expectations, so her or any other girl that you would have liked would seem perfect and in fact would be perfect in your eyes as you had no idea who you were at that age let alone knowing what kind of girl you wanted and with what characteristics. If you guys has stayed together eventually both would decide to separate as when both would grow up each year you would have changed your standards since your consciousness would have been changing all along as you were growing up and in that case the separation would have had a different image and reasoning in your minds and the story would no longer be as tasteful and romantically beautiful as you remember it now and it would have probably been a story like most other break ups based on conflicts and divisions, interest in some others ( from both of you) or unreasonable expectations and so on. So at least now you have a good story and not what would in fact happen if you guys had stayed together for a few more years!
@@MehranDadbeh so like in a parallel universe type situation this is undoubtedly how it would have played out you suppose? I suspect you are right. Really given me something to think about. I’m not depressed on the matter, I just happen to think about the situation from time to time and what could have been. From your perspective, which is undoubtedly the most realistic perspective, the what could have been scenario doesn’t play out as I would have preferred. Makes perfect sense though, as people change. Yes that’s what we do. Maybe I won’t entertain that notion anymore. I’ll just accept and cherish it for what it was and nothing more. Thanks for that. You really do know your stuff. Got me thinking.
@@waltersobchak7275 you are welcomed Walter. What is most precious is not the memory of what once was precious and special, but it is what is precious now and that is the woman you are with as that is the one who loves you for certain and cares about you and does things for you, the other is none existence and is doing what ever she is doing is for herself and someone else, so cherish and honour the one who is making your life go around and cherish her and be happy as the other one would have been statistics if you guys would had stayed together for another couple of years or so maximum and then it would had been nothing and nothing to remember the experience and definitely not the way you are remembering it.! 😊 Go celebrate for things turned out the way they did and you ended up having a real compatible and happy wife and life and focus on appreciating your life and make sure you feel happy and make others in your family happy because of this fortune of yours that worked out in fact to your advantage without you knowing that it has!
Mehran - your videos and wisdom are excellent. And you're hilarious. Thank you so much.
+Eric S You are welcomed dear. Glad they are helpful. Share the videos and my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
Mr Mehran thank you for your videos. They are thoughtful and make changes in people's lives. After watching this video I have a question though. You are asking "are you wanting her with her all package (joy, companionship ...) for you ? And you answered it as if I want her back so I could have those for myself... But what if I want her back because of how I made her feel. I enjoy making ppl feel happy and she was certainly happy until I ended it. Simply she was much older than me and I didn't see a future for our relationship and didn't want to waste my n her time anymore. But after letting her go I realized that I loved her.
Hello Arman, This question can have an elaborate discussion and for that I need to know more detail and chat about it rather than write back and forth. Short of the long is : find some one else to make happy if you feel this was not working or had no future with it.....and again you are making her happy because that would make you feel good so then again you are doing it for you so then do it for some one else while you are doing it for you. If you wonder that you still want her but then there is no future for you guys with each other then make a decision and stick to it otherwise you will be like a YOYO going up and down without any stability or balance or logic to follow your decision as you wish it. Not enough info to continue this talk dear. You can always check my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and see if you find a chat package suitable for you to continue this discussion together dear. I am delighted that you find the videos helpful and are enjoying them. Be good to yourself always, Mehran :)
Amazing really changed the way I that was about it wow thank you so much
I am glad you find them helpful Fergie. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
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You are just a great guy! Thanx!!!!
Lars Mazzucchelli Glad the videos are helpful to you Lars,
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My girlfriend broke up when me recently from a two year relationship and I'm having hard times to get over this break up... I been her best friend since 6 years.. and she found better than me..I'm currently her friend but it hard to watch her happy with another guy
You will be fine Dominick, there are over 1,000 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
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What if i broke up and left what i thought and think is the most suitable lady i have ever met? Is it ok to come back into her life, even if we dont live in the same country anymore? That i broke up 9 month ago and we spent 2 years together...
Reason of break up : basicaly, i thought that i couldnt stand a long distance relationship. That it would be easy to split and let her live her life instead of waiting for me to come back. Today i still think of her everyday...
If the same conditions as when you made that decision still exist, you may come to the same conclusion eventually and possibly think in the same way and with same logic again. So if the circumstances have changed and you no longer have the same challenges ( logistic or otherwise ) which were of concern to you, then why not. :)
Thank you so much your kind reply Mehran :) It's a big help!
Only thing that change is that i can see clearer now and i know when i will be back to country again. The fear of long distance relationship and wait don't scare me anymore. She was never scared of that and highly believed in us no matter what the logistic were. Time and distance where not a problem for her. It was for me at that time, it is not anymore.
You have "expanded consciousness" type of level of insights. And you remind me of Dr.Albert Hoffmann. Thanks for these videos, they are insanely valuable for ones understanding. And u give this out for free, bless You!!!
I am glad you find the videos helpful, "HybOj ". You will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
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The thing is I wasn't fine before I was with her. The journey I have taken with her has changed me and no one else however better they are can replace her.
And about serving myself. Its not just about me. I believe I have so much to give and add to her life and I can't do it anymore
what you want so let it be , wish her well and wish yourself well and build another, find another, as world/ life does not stop because of she does or does not want this or that or you .....Well every one has a choice and regardless of what you want and can do for her, sMove on as she has . If she can do it so can you. You can not want good things for her more than how badly she would want good stuff for her and what she wants may be different than he has a choice and if she does not want it then you need no to offer it or concerned about it.
@@MehranDadbeh I try to understand what your saying. I see no meaning or point in life without her. Who am I if I give up on what's most important to me? Ever since she left me my life has been so confused and, I don't know, surreal. Time, school, family passing by like nothing every happened while I sink into darkness, unnoticed. I'm just glad she is talking to me again, so we can work through what went wrong. And I can try explain myself to her, the things I did. And hopefully clear up misunderstandings and incorrect beliefs she has of me. I know she still loves me, she told me too. We had such a beautiful and pure relationship. It's so precious to me and worth fighting for. Love is such a beautiful magical spiritual wonderful thing
@@eranbroide3003 communication is always good, but if she feels you are needy and incapable of living successfully she will not come back or be interested in you as while it is important to be compatible with each other she also expect you to be a strong person to lead the relationship when it is struggling or when life is more challenging and not just be so desperate to get her back as she feels that she is the power in this relationship when she does not want to be or feel as if she can be or to have that role. So bring balance in this what I said otherwise no woman wants to be with a weak and needy man no matter how much she likes or loves you as she wants security and a weak presentation or needy spirit does not bring that feeling of psychological security for them.
in what did you complete your masters????
Straight up genius, may god reward you👍
Thank you for the kind words. My reward is people like you learning about their psyche and manage their emotions and thought better and more clear and then to " Share the videos you like on your social media to promote the channel and my work" ! :)
Good one❤
This is absolutely true!
Good :)
thanks. this is the third vid i have watched. what if one finds the confidence but feels guilty about ending 30 year relationship that would devistate the partner even though respect and communication have nearly gone. its like we are frightened of the abyss.do you have a link that applies.... thanks again. dan.
There are many videos that help to move on like the two below but to try to feel guilty because the relationship that is now broken had lasted 30 years it is like saying that whatever stuff you have in storage becomes important as soon as you throw them out! You were not using them at all any how and they were in a storage but you just liked the idea that they are there even though you had no use for them! The same with the 30 year that you suddenly think it now supposed to make a difference because the relationship is no longer working! The memory of the 30 year was just there ( in the storage) but was not useful to the relationship as if it was not an actuality any more and was just a dead memory and no longer in existence and had no use of any kind in helping to resolve the differences or the challenges which eventually got the two separated any ways. So the memory was always dead and not in existence all along and now that you guys have separated there is no difference in it's value either. So what was or what is it's use any ways? The 30 year memory or the duration of the relationship was of no use then and of no use now after the breakUp. So stop feeling guilty for something that you do not use, never helped or could help to keep the relationship together ( because of the duration of the relationship ), and move on and understand that what you feel guilty about does not exist ( the past is always dead and have been dead the minute that it was no longer the present) and has no real use any ways and so let them be where they are but do not think that they were ever of any real use any ways and move on! :) Hope that makes sense and is of help to you. Mehran
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australia. and thank you for helping. i appreciate it.
What is shes the mother of your child, and the only reason you split up to begin with is because of past trauma getting in the way, on both sides
My bf broke up with me yesterday... it's not that I wasn't fine... it's just I wasn't happy or content. I was miserable. He helped. For 4 years.. now...
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My ex broke up with me out of the blue after I stayed with him for almost a week. I took care of his daughter , I accepted him at his worst. He's a single father .He told me if I love him i should set him free coz he said he's happier that way and then he also said that my attitude sucks and deleted our pictures right away on Instagram after a week. He blocked my number when I tried to reach out. I don't know but I feel betrayed by him. We were just sweet a week before he broke up with me. Now it feels like I'm so scared to love again .I love him and he's daughter. I love them with all of my heart but then he just threw me that easy.
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She left me, and now has him?? She left me for another guy and she told me she loved me, I feel so awful, I watched your other video using the pebbles metaphor, but she left me, and went straight to him, I feel so used and hurt
+jack “badnoll31” horsley pople have different tastes and just because a pig runs around in shit that does not make shit better than other things ! it just means that pigs like shit but does not mean shit is better than grass or hey or barley that horses like....! So go find a horse who will like good and clean stuff...find some one who likes high quality person like you. That guy is not better than you , your ex does not have high expectation than who she is with now, so this, her choice, is not a reflection on you, it is a reflection on her. See it clearly and do not make up stories which is not the reality but some thoughts due to the fact that most boys at younger age think whomever their girl friend picks is the better man...no that is not true. who says that they are the judge of guys. Relax and enjoy your life, life is not about one relationship or one girl, life has lots more to offer which you are not even able to imagine now. :) good that you found out how wishy washy she is now that later in life so go ad celebrate and count your stars and enjoy every minute of your life . :)
my girlfriend left me and then she gave me two cookies, that she didn't make!! I was so hurt and now I think she wants me back I'm so confused what do I do
+Mushaba Hineklin Why confused? she gave you two cookies ( which I don't know what it means ) and now wants you back too :) so whats wrong with this ? :) Just kidding dear, want to make you smile as what you seem to be confused by is not worth the confusion. It's life so enjoy the moment, if you want her back too then re-join and see what happens and how it goes , if this time around was not suitable to you then you leave and find another more suitable friend or partner.. Don't think that decision you make is for ever so no confusion necessary and see how you feel and act on it and if things are not warm and cozy enough for you then just say good bye and move on. As simple as that. :) Make a choice and don't wait to be chosen all the time. If she offers what you offer, warmth, stability, kindness and friendship... then good and if not then move on. It is not just dependent on her decisions or preferences, it is up to you too and as far as it goes for you, relates to you, you are the only decision maker that matters. So don't play with her and don't let any one play with your emotions either and if you are not happy with how she treats you then move on and don't look back and if you are happy or ok with it then let it go on and see how it goes and when not suitable any more then simply and kindly move on and wish her well. Not a rocket science ! :) very simple , all you have to do is not to think with your .... and use your mind and real feelings and not just focused on your desires for pleasure only.... in this way you will be fine. Be good to yourself always.
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Hi again Mr Dadbeh another great video by u sir tnx so much , i really appreciate your works sir.
i have a question about your last sentences in this video when u said u will find someone else Finally and in many other articles that i red about breakups, there was mention to this subject and they named it something like ultimate cure for breakup ,but what if we don`t want anyone else in our life ever again i`m just 23 years old but after breakup i felt so old in deep down of self & i really don`t want anyone else in my life so if we don`t replace our ex with someone else is there anyway that one day we get well without anyone else sir?
once again tnx so much sir
Regards Ashkan
+Ashkan kashi Yes Ashkan, you will be fine whether you find some one else right away or later or not for a long time ....You will get over this no matter what. Not wanting any one else at this time is very normal almost no one who has just broken up would want another relationship for a while and they usually feel like they will not trust any one any more or they would think that they do not have any interest in another relationship....but all these feelings are part of normal journey after a break up and nothing out of the ordinary. So take your time and enjoy your life and be busy with your things to do in life and eventually you will feel ready and will meet the right girl and would love to be with a new girl but not for now but you certainly will again. :) These are all normal feelings at this time dear. Just be patient and enjoy your life and all will be just perfectly fine again in time when you are ready. Be good to yourself, Mehran
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You sir are a truly genius
What if there is a mix between the two?
I guess before losing my#2 I wasn't fine...then I met another widow who showed me I could love again. It all went down hill once she started to see a psychologist. I wonder what it was that he told her that ruined the relationship.
jtaylorb88 good question! Perhaps you join in one of my live talks and let me know more detail about her past and mentality, interaction with you and so on. We can then explore it a bit.
I don't ever remember life before her, 12 years ago.
Thank you you are right, almost because I did feel like that right now but slightly different on top of loosing the love of my life is aswell loosing someone who is very vulnerable alone she is actually lonely girl in different country Whitchurch have been abuse sexualy in the pass but we split because I did abuse her mentaly we both did to each other but I did more. despite we both love each other so much we just fight and done to many bad things to each others.. therfore she told me she don't want to be with me anymore but she said she want to be friends I said if not together can't be friends after being together...
Once again. A great video sir, the knowledge you share is amazing thank you, it offers me great healing, i cannot thank you enough, i was just wondering if you offer skype chats at all? Theres no information of this in the description, or could i possibly email you? I have a situation on my hands, i need some advice :)
+Delilah Di Hello Delilah, thank you for your e-mail and the kind words. All consultations are done through www.mindthatseekstruth.com if you go on that site and click on consultation then you can see which package or choice of time suits you for booking an appointment. With regards, be good to yourself always, Mehran
Amazing perspective, but the one I lost was so original and unique I will never taste such amazing ice cream again. It was like going to a place designed specifically to make you happy and losing it because of your own selfish stupidity.
I fear this time, I'll be lonely till i die
And so what happened? You said this 2 years ago. Has anything changed?
1 word.. genius !!
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I was not fine before my ex...🙁
ALthough I do agree with this video you're missing a point. Love is unconditional...and if we really someone we should be showing them a mirror reflection of the best version of themselves...and supporting them to actualize, realize...that potential. With my ex I enjoyed supporting her and doing things for her because seeing her happy, made me happy.
Your opinion kinda presupposes that we're kind of selfish. If that was the case, if I really wanted someone just to give me those two feelings...well then, that wouldn't be entering into a healthy relationship because I'm relying on the other person to lift me up, make me happy, etc. Also, it would be that pretty much almost anyone would do. I don't throw away love for free....it has to be with someone that I feel honoured to love and show affection to. Hope that makes sense.
Cheers :)l
Let’s think a bit deeper Horace.
Being selfish, and expecting to be reciprocated and holding your partner responsible for her behavior according to what both find humane and fare, are two different things. Love is not supposed to be unconditional in BF & GF situations. It should not be unconditional as there are no attachment, or devotion for the purpose of development, protection or building a family is formed, shaped, promised or built yet. Once all that has become clear and each have over time proven their commitment and sincerity and loyalty to each other and become a family with all its privileges and responsibilities ( or a similar formal expectations or understanding), then we will have a different set of expectations and tolerance and level of devotion in that relationship. Otherwise that what one may call or want it to be is not unconditional love and that simply seems that it is or must be love ( unconditional or not) but it is just lust which you will mistake it for love and then turn yourself into a slave for the benefit and promise of intimacy which is the pleasure that most desire and are guided by. Unconditional love is only for your children, spouse ( given time proven feelings and loyalty ) and for one’s parents. Why should you love your GF or BF unconditionally? On what basis or what promise? So at the outset love is not unconditional or at least it should not be expected to be unconditional love as there is only lust as the fuel of this emotion which could eventually possibly become love and then decided to be unconditional or not!
Wow...you’ve said a lot in that reply. Thank you so much. Took me a while to sit and re-read it. After reading what you wrote, and looking inward (I’ve been doing a lot of self reflecting lately), you’re bang on. A few things I did that weren’t right. 1) Jumping into the relationship too soon and not taking the time to get to know the other person, establishing trust. 2) mistaking lust for love. I’ve done that before and I’m happy to say it’s a pattern I’ve broken. 3) making the other person too much of a part of my life. Your words were great. I turned myself into a slave for the relationship and based my happiness on it. If it was going great...I was happy….if it wasn’t, look out! Overall though it was life-affirming in that it showed I was capable of being with someone fully - a scary proposition for someone who was transient overseas and didn’t take relationships all that seriously. So in the end, through the lens you’re looking through...I totally get what you mean. Thanks so much in taking the time to respond to my comment. Very much appreciated! All the best
You are welcomed Horace, Keep going forwards. Don't forget to share the videos you like on your social media if you will, it will help others and also gives more exposure to the channel and the work I do. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Mind That Seeks Truth! This was a great thread, it’s really helped me a lot in my current break up. I thought my fiancé was the love of my life. And I thought I’d given him my all because his happiness was my happiness just like Horace. Now I can see that I was wrong and the happiness I was chasing was my own and that I still have that.