Great video. This is what I've been doing. It's very ego based. There are others that will find me attractive and choose me. No need to linger on the past. Great video again
+Sakura haruno Thank you dear. I am delighted that the videos are helpful to you. Please share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about my work as well. With kind regards, Mehran
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yes Mr.dadbeh...trying really hard to paddle but I don't know why this very person has such a impact on me..it is not that I never met anybody else or didn't had any relationship before.. but this person I am not able to come out of..don't know why!! but really appreciate your advice and I will try with all my whole and soul from now to not to think of him.
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Hi Mr.Mehran, I have to admit. I am not sure what would I have done without your videos. It helps me to see through the reality. It helps me think with a factor of positivity. But even after I have decided to move on for better things in life, there is still a question that lingers in my mind. Why did she leave me all of a sudden without giving me a damn reason. Whatever things I pursue to keep myself busy the question keeps popping up. However please continue your good work. Infact I have been talking about your videos with my friends circle and I wish more people finds this useful. Please keep up the good work and thanks a ton.
+Krishna Boopathy Thank you Krishna, I am glad that the videos are helpful dear. I believe we have spoken on the phone a couple of times, right ? Have you watched this one : th-cam.com/video/zU4B4nLlAus/w-d-xo.html Be well, Mehran P.S I just checked and remembered that we have not spoken on the phone and it is just a similarity of your name with some one else. In any ways wish you well dear. :)
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hello sir, I am watching your videos on you tube from India .I am 27 year old.had a strange relationship with a single person from last 4 years who left me and come back and again left me..going through a tough time from every part of life...I don't know what to do..I am seeing my life ruining in front of my eyes and feeling helpless but still found your videos very helpful and soothing. so thank you Mr. dadbeh!
You are welcomed dear, nothing is being ruined in front of your eyes or behind you back, you have allowed this to become the whole of your life but it is only a fragment of your life and is not all there is to care about:) So realize the magnetite of life and the opportunity of life and living and go and build and live a life with some one else and let this fragment of life pass as it will whether you want it or not :) So best to help paddle and move forward before you get stuck in the mud! :) Life has lot more to offer than this or that fragment and you must be aware of this and enjoy the whole of life and not making a fragment of it to represent the whole. Mehran
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Thanks for a great video again, listened to this in the morning, great way to start my day, i think for me its that he describes me to be this horrible person, my intentions are clear and i never did anything to cause harm in the relationship, he is a narcisst, and has a personality disorder, so i wouldn't expect anything less than to be trying to ruin me, even after the relationship has ended, and throwing more guilt at me , cause he knows itl make me suffer, thanks for the video i shall continue from here knowing that i have the truth, its all that matters..lovely shirt btw :)
+Delilah Di Thanks dear, this is one of my favourite shirts! :). Yes set your life based on the truth and not other people's opinion as they give such opinions to satisfy and justify themselves and not based on truth and facts. Enjoy your life dear :)
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I really needed this. I was being bullied and the truth about me was always being distorted, sabotaged to their own benefits. And I recently broken up with my boyfriend who now ended up with one of my bullies. Now the problem i have is because im alone i became the mean one and my bullies looks like saints. But i was only mad in the first place because they keep on spreading lies about me. But now I understand how chaotic it is and no longer try to prove them my own version of the truth.
am glad you find them helpful Patricia. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
+Bhairavi Jagtap Thank you Bhairavi, glad you find them helpful dear. Share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you could so others get to visit my site and get familiarized with my work as well. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
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Excellent video, your so right! My gf who doesn't love me and just visits a couple hours a week without a happy face. She is making wrong choices and I was determined for her to admit it and change and let me help her, but she is too stubborn and doesn't want help from me. I was only focused on her and not the other people and good stuff going on in my life. Its still hard to breakup with her but i know she is not good for me. Thank you for your logic to help clear my mind and heart.
It seems hard for you Haus because Directly or indirectly you are focused on the pleasure and the intimacy you receive from her in this relationship and it seems hard to breakup with that pleasure of intimacy and the rest of the pleasures you receive otherwise when you focus on her, her person, her centre, her consciousness and not the pleasure and the intimacy part only, then you will see that you want to break up to free yourself from being a hostage to your desire and her differences and preferences and mentality for the pleasure that you may receive and be free to search and prospect and find a woman with whom you will have the pleasure and the compatibility of consciousness to a level much more balanced than it is with your present gf. After all to have that intimacy and the physical pleasure you enjoy, you have to realize that her person and her consciousness is in control of that pleasure and intimacy you receive so there will always be conflicts and divisions along side of the intimacy that you might receive from the relationship you are in now. So see it as a whole ( her person and consciousness and the intimacy....) and not that what you are breaking up with is all "the good stuff"! Thinking only like you are breaking up with the good stuff is what makes it hard to manage the breakup but knowing the whole person then you will see that you are breaking up with the person who is in control of the part that you like and not that the part that you like is the whole entity of the person you are in the relationship with!
I agree with you 100%. It's been a few months since we broke up. She threw mix messages at me after the breakup about space and the relationship being over. I don't know if I should move on or wait it out.
It is not her choice what is best for you to do. If you had a prettier friend who liked you and wanted to be in a relationship with you, would you still hang around for your ex? Is it because no one better around or you know she is the best choice for you? If it is not clear then comunicate with her about it clearly and then decide one way or the other. You are as important as she is and must be clear on that. Only you know if you want to move on or wait around. Relationship is about mutual interest , intention and attraction and that must be clear for both! Hanging around could sometimes lead to disapointments as you may see after a while hanging around that she has moved on or found someone....or may be good to wait as she may see you are the best choice ...... either way a clear communication would be better than an unpleasant surprise after a long while of mixed signals and hopes! Be good to yourselfe always.
Mehran Dadbeh It's a long distance relationship and we have only talked once in the past few months. In all honesty, she is the best choice for me in my opinion. So the only clear message I've gotten in that she wanted space. Thats the thing about hanging around;I don't wanna hang around just to find out she has someone else. best.choice
It's a long distance relationship and she still wants more space? :) how much space does she need? Long distance relationship is no good and you best be on your way specially that for that every once in a while talk on the phone or Skype if she still wants space from you then what do you think would happen if you guys were actually in the same city? :) You are probably very young or young enough to not having noticed that life has lot more opportunities to offer than a long distance illusion of a relationship. I think it is best for you to move on and do not wait any longer as there is a good chance that she is not waiting around for you to stop waiting around! :) Women prefer some one near by to do things and stuff and you better be smart about this and if there is no clear commitment then most definitely move on as there is a good chance that she already has. But then again you are the only one who could make the right decision and know what is best for you. Illusion or actuality? Generally it is best not to waste your time and hopes on some one who wants space in a long distance relationship! Be good to yourself always.
Mehran Dadbeh @dayum12 Mr. Mehran is so right. I experienced the same but it's over now. It's been almost 3 weeks since I cut off my communication w/ my ex whom I had long distance relationship with for 2 years. Reason was because I found out by doing my own investigation/checking that he recently got married to someone else. I thought our relationship was leading somewhere because I met his family and friends when we met. He also sent me gifts such as on Valentines Day or whenever he had a chance to do so (which made me feel good about our relationship, I thought he was really into me). In addition, we also maintained our communication through skype, messenger or viber since he left after we met in person because he has to work abroad. Til there were changes in him since March this year. It all started when I confronted him about a girl (w/c by the way was not the one whom he married with) who commented on his FB post saying "she missed him". Long story short, he said she was nothing and I had him blocked the girl/had her removed from his contact list as I explained to him I didn't feel comfortable about it. Of course, he did it but I knew it made him upset the way he replied to me after that. So since that time, he didn't message me, if he did would only dropped by to say "take care, I'm thinking about you but I just need space". I realized that day that there was really something wrong because why would he made a big deal out of it. Little did I know that he was getting married to someone else who's pregnant. I now feel like the girl who commented on his post seemed like he used or asked her to do it because he knew I would react to it, for him to have the reason to be upset thus to not message me. Worst is after weeks since he got married, he sent me a msg through viber since I deactivated my Facebook saying "he had to let go of me, he said sorry for not meeting me when he came home". I didn't reply and he continued to send me message saying "he loves me so much, he always thinks about me, said to take care of myself always, this and that". So I replied and continued to exchange messages to each other as if nothing happened to the point that we booked a ticket for me to see him where he's working this coming September supposedly. So yes long story short, I found out by doing my research that he got married this June and I sent him all the pictures of him and the girl and expressed my emotions about it. He said he married her because he had no choice, he got her pregnant and that it was me whom he wanted to be with. That his aim of us meeting each other this September is for him to make it up to me. I love him but I decided to let go. Didn't have the courage to really say goodbye to him, I just told him that I'll do the right thing even congratulated him (it was really painful for me to say this to him), I also told him that I'm not a toy, I'm a human who has feelings, who gets hurt as well and I don't want to be a mistress then blocked him. It's painful, until now I'm in pain but I'm gonna stand for what I think is right and normal that a relationship should only be exclusive to one man and one woman. Sorry for the long message though ☺️. So yes Mr. Mehran is right. You may want to consider to start to move on or maybe look for someone near you as long distance relationship as I have just learned from it that it's too much of a risk. It may have worked for others but we really never know what will happen. There's really no assurance and security for long distance relationships not unless we're lucky. NOTE: By the way, I didn't know he's married when we booked my ticket to see him where he's working. I also didn't know this girl even existed not until early this month.
Your thoughts are great and very spiritual. I am not getting my needs met in a relationship. When I try to talk about it, which he hates, I feel guilty and undeserving. He also has a very manipulative way of making me question myself. Basically that's bull. I'm a kind and giving person and should be treated the way I want to be treated. Society has done a number on women. I would love to hear more on trusting in the Universe so we don't have to settle.
Hello Susan, I am delighted that you enjoy and find the channel helpful to you. This question/ concern of yours is an important topic to ponder and discuss , however it is beyond a paragraph or two to discuss it in writing back and forth! :) Please visit my site www.MIndThatSeeksTruth.com and book a Skype consultation for us to discuss this in detail and help you with your concerns and questions on this topic. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
Thank you for your reply. I am in the US in Vermont, a relatively remote state. I am 64. Though I am active and youthful, I have lyme disease which fatigues me and causes depression. He is a good man, but very limited as far as communication and blinded to new possibilities. I stayed in this unfulfilling relationship because I thought it would change. My needs were not met. I was raised to believe that love will conquer all. My dear husband died suddenly when I was 32. That was a long time ago. I have dated a lot, but have found most men to be uncommunicative and detached. I am very lonely since all my friends are married and it is a cold and quiet life here. I want the rest of my days to be happy and fulfilling as the first part of my life is. I do see a counselor and I am not opposed to reading self help or try to help myself in any way. I am becoming very depressed and don't know what to do any more. I'm not sure if you can help either. I don't drink or shop to soothe my pain. I just want to feel hopeful that I can find a compatible companion to share life with. I am not in a good financial situation, so I have to be careful. Do you think you could help someone like me to gain confidence and a new perspective? Thank you.
Susan, if you are not financially ready to book a one on one with me on Skype then try to join one of my live talks and perhaps there we can explore it a bit. in the meantime you need to focus on bringing happiness and contentment from your own efforts and plans and activities and interests and not through some one else or through a relationship, as even when you find a good relationship it still needs you to conduct your day and reasons for happiness on your own, as people and their plans and interest may change so you or your partner may also at some point in a relationship change or become somehow or somewhat disinterested or reduced interest or changed in some ways. So rely on bringing this happiness by your own efforts, plans and projects, perhaps that would be step one to independence in regards to happiness and contentment and harmony with life independently! :)
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can you talk more about the group security as you mentioned in the video? i would really love to learn more about the basic human wants/needs. your relationship talks are great but if you can dive into other subjects, i would really appreciate it.
+Radical reza I try to blend in the discussions into the relationship challenges and remedies otherwise not too many people may be interested to watch! :) However you may want to take a look at the seminar I did at Capilano University just a few weeks ago. Visit my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and go to "Video of Seminars" Section and buy it, it is a very nominal price but that is the only way to watch the full seminar which is a worthy discussion for you to enjoy. I will try to fit in such discussion more when I discuss relationship challenges and remedies.
helloi previously told you my story ( i know you dont remember of course) but at that time i did bad things post breakup when she wanted to get back to me for 5 months daily talking to me but i told her to stop talking and get away as a revenge of her breaking up with me. i disrespected her i many ways for a long long time. finally when shs stopped talking to me and gave up on me i realized all the bad things i did but now after a year shes the one ignoring me. you told me to tell her how i feel about the things i did. but she doesnt want to see me. she told me she doesnt want anything from me more than friends and always gives excuses to not seeing me. can you please make a video about stop feeling guilty or sometjing like that? because whats hurting the most is that i caused this awesome relationship of 2 years to fail. even after she tried fixing it i threw it away and i cant stop feeling guilty. she texted me last week wishing me a happy easter. but still i feel guiltythank you
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The second part is very eye-opening. I guess a part of me hopes that he would tell me he made a huge mistake to have broken up with me. Is this a narcissistic behaviour?
No that is normal among us human beings Linh. Our ego and that conditioning of wanting to be affirmed and that we are good, worthy and we are "more" is at work. Watch this video and see how it resonates with you: th-cam.com/video/AvogAXiJtiQ/w-d-xo.html Be good to yourself always, Mehran Hope you have subscribed and like and share the videos you like so the channel gets more recognition and reaches more people around the world.
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I'm the one thinking of doing the breaking up because I know that he's not the right person for me but it's still really hard to do , I'm in a constant fight with my unconscious mind , i keep on reminding myself that what I'm really missing is comfort and not exactly him ,because I really don't like him yet I feel like I love him .. why do I not like him as a person so much but I love him still ?
You love him because he fulfils whats missing in you/ your life, you love him because maybe he has loving characteristics in him that you admire or like, you love him for what he does for you that you can not do for yourself, you love him perhaps because you need him, you love him perhaps because you are trying to justify your selfishness for using him for he is providing what makes you feel good about your life or part of your life or your image that you have created for yourself in your mind and like to have. Perhaps you love him for the attention he gives you and that is what fulfills you which is a response to your need to fluff your ego which we all have to some extents. There are many reasons why you may love him, perhaps pleasure that you receive, the intimacy that is what you are used to. The thought of all these changes to happen all at once might be why you would love your partner even more when you think of breaking up. But then again you may love your partner for all the right reasons as you are the only one who can decide what is and what is not. All what I have mentioned above are a list which may or may not be accurate about your feelings and how it is for you. So use them only as guid lines or points of contemplation or consideration and not facts as I do not know all the details. Perhaps you fond your partner to be the basis for your part psychological security and it is the psychological security that you love and afraid of not having and that has been provided through the security of this relationship which might have brought a certain pleasant order to your life and you enjoy this order.....Perhaps you love him because you have not accomplished what you hoped to accomplish in your life or perhaps you have not created that finical or academic or professional independence and accomplished characteristics that you always wanted and because of these non accomplishments you figure if you change trains you may feel as if you have accomplished or tested your worth and value out there or perhaps you think if you are not happy with yourself it is his lack of ability to be catalyst for that and that by breakup you will remedy this as perhaps your happiness and accomplishments are residing in the essence of another relationship! ......If you are not happy with your life , you will not necessarily find it in another relationship, or on the contrary to all this perhaps you are all accomplished and satisfied with your achievements and find him unable to keep up and keep that image you have of yourself and your parter as you have imagine it and you wish to upgrade to some one with different personalities , interests and qualifications closer to your standards........There are many points of discussion on this subject which I am unable to discuss in detail for the lack to detailed information. If you need to talk to me further on this you may go to my site www.MIndThatSeeksTruth.com and book a Skype consultation appointment for us to discuss your concerns Sophia. Hope this helped a bit, with regards, Mehran
Mehran Dadbeh thank you so much for replying I appreciate it immensely .❤️ last year my life got really really bad I lost everything for awhile he was all I had , I feel like I've always settled for less because of my bad self esteem but ever since I started getting my life together I feel more and more like he is just not right for me, he's also 10 years younger than me , he doesn't support me financially in anyway and emotionally hes just not very mature or emotionally prepared to handle something real and set and I don't want to waste more time .... I think I just have to be honest with him ..
Sophia C Sophia book a consultation through my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com so we could discuss it as this needs interaction and not message back and forth. Mehran
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Great video. This is what I've been doing. It's very ego based. There are others that will find me attractive and choose me. No need to linger on the past. Great video again
How amazing you are! thank you so much, sir. You are the reason I'm getting through it. Bless.
+Sakura haruno Thank you dear. I am delighted that the videos are helpful to you. Please share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about my work as well. With kind regards, Mehran
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yes Mr.dadbeh...trying really hard to paddle but I don't know why this very person has such a impact on me..it is not that I never met anybody else or didn't had any relationship before.. but this person I am not able to come out of..don't know why!!
but really appreciate your advice and I will try with all my whole and soul from now to not to think of him.
Shweta Gill so you are over him, or still hoping for reunite
So true! I do want my ex to admit his cruel behavior.
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Hi Mr.Mehran,
I have to admit. I am not sure what would I have done without your videos. It helps me to see through the reality. It helps me think with a factor of positivity.
But even after I have decided to move on for better things in life, there is still a question that lingers in my mind. Why did she leave me all of a sudden without giving me a damn reason. Whatever things I pursue to keep myself busy the question keeps popping up.
However please continue your good work. Infact I have been talking about your videos with my friends circle and I wish more people finds this useful.
Please keep up the good work and thanks a ton.
+Krishna Boopathy Thank you Krishna, I am glad that the videos are helpful dear. I believe we have spoken on the phone a couple of times, right ? Have you watched this one : th-cam.com/video/zU4B4nLlAus/w-d-xo.html Be well, Mehran
P.S I just checked and remembered that we have not spoken on the phone and it is just a similarity of your name with some one else. In any ways wish you well dear. :)
Very true. Thanks for sharing.
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hello sir, I am watching your videos on you tube from India .I am 27 year old.had a strange relationship with a single person from last 4 years who left me and come back and again left me..going through a tough time from every part of life...I don't know what to do..I am seeing my life ruining in front of my eyes and feeling helpless
but still found your videos very helpful and soothing.
so thank you Mr. dadbeh!
You are welcomed dear, nothing is being ruined in front of your eyes or behind you back, you have allowed this to become the whole of your life but it is only a fragment of your life and is not all there is to care about:) So realize the magnetite of life and the opportunity of life and living and go and build and live a life with some one else and let this fragment of life pass as it will whether you want it or not :) So best to help paddle and move forward before you get stuck in the mud! :) Life has lot more to offer than this or that fragment and you must be aware of this and enjoy the whole of life and not making a fragment of it to represent the whole. Mehran
incredible thoughts! why can't I think the way you do. :)
thank you!
LOL , You can and you are doing by sharing these videos with me and hopefully with the others! :)
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Thank you! So grateful for your help and advice.
+Crystal Ashcraft You are welcomed Crystal, be good to yourself always.
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Thanks for a great video again, listened to this in the morning, great way to start my day, i think for me its that he describes me to be this horrible person, my intentions are clear and i never did anything to cause harm in the relationship, he is a narcisst, and has a personality disorder, so i wouldn't expect anything less than to be trying to ruin me, even after the relationship has ended, and throwing more guilt at me , cause he knows itl make me suffer, thanks for the video i shall continue from here knowing that i have the truth, its all that matters..lovely shirt btw :)
+Delilah Di Thanks dear, this is one of my favourite shirts! :). Yes set your life based on the truth and not other people's opinion as they give such opinions to satisfy and justify themselves and not based on truth and facts. Enjoy your life dear :)
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Ah Mehran, I detect a bit of 'scientist' in you!
Another excellent video.
I love your angle in this one.
Thank you.
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As always, right on !
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wow, thanks Doc. this explains a lot really deep.
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I really needed this. I was being bullied and the truth about me was always being distorted, sabotaged to their own benefits. And I recently broken up with my boyfriend who now ended up with one of my bullies. Now the problem i have is because im alone i became the mean one and my bullies looks like saints. But i was only mad in the first place because they keep on spreading lies about me. But now I understand how chaotic it is and no longer try to prove them my own version of the truth.
am glad you find them helpful Patricia. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
its amazing to listen to you..such clarity of thought.
loved your concept of 'Alone'.
thanx for happening
+Bhairavi Jagtap Thank you Bhairavi, glad you find them helpful dear. Share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you could so others get to visit my site and get familiarized with my work as well. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
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Excellent video, your so right! My gf who doesn't love me and just visits a couple hours a week without a happy face. She is making wrong choices and I was determined for her to admit it and change and let me help her, but she is too stubborn and doesn't want help from me. I was only focused on her and not the other people and good stuff going on in my life. Its still hard to breakup with her but i know she is not good for me. Thank you for your logic to help clear my mind and heart.
It seems hard for you Haus because Directly or indirectly you are focused on the pleasure and the intimacy you receive from her in this relationship and it seems hard to breakup with that pleasure of intimacy and the rest of the pleasures you receive otherwise when you focus on her, her person, her centre, her consciousness and not the pleasure and the intimacy part only, then you will see that you want to break up to free yourself from being a hostage to your desire and her differences and preferences and mentality for the pleasure that you may receive and be free to search and prospect and find a woman with whom you will have the pleasure and the compatibility of consciousness to a level much more balanced than it is with your present gf. After all to have that intimacy and the physical pleasure you enjoy, you have to realize that her person and her consciousness is in control of that pleasure and intimacy you receive so there will always be conflicts and divisions along side of the intimacy that you might receive from the relationship you are in now. So see it as a whole ( her person and consciousness and the intimacy....) and not that what you are breaking up with is all "the good stuff"! Thinking only like you are breaking up with the good stuff is what makes it hard to manage the breakup but knowing the whole person then you will see that you are breaking up with the person who is in control of the part that you like and not that the part that you like is the whole entity of the person you are in the relationship with!
I agree with you 100%. It's been a few months since we broke up. She threw mix messages at me after the breakup about space and the relationship being over. I don't know if I should move on or wait it out.
It is not her choice what is best for you to do. If you had a prettier friend who liked you and wanted to be in a relationship with you, would you still hang around for your ex? Is it because no one better around or you know she is the best choice for you? If it is not clear then comunicate with her about it clearly and then decide one way or the other. You are as important as she is and must be clear on that. Only you know if you want to move on or wait around. Relationship is about mutual interest , intention and attraction and that must be clear for both! Hanging around could sometimes lead to disapointments as you may see after a while hanging around that she has moved on or found someone....or may be good to wait as she may see you are the best choice ...... either way a clear communication would be better than an unpleasant surprise after a long while of mixed signals and hopes! Be good to yourselfe always.
Mehran Dadbeh It's a long distance relationship and we have only talked once in the past few months. In all honesty, she is the best choice for me in my opinion. So the only clear message I've gotten in that she wanted space. Thats the thing about hanging around;I don't wanna hang around just to find out she has someone else.
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It's a long distance relationship and she still wants more space? :) how much space does she need? Long distance relationship is no good and you best be on your way specially that for that every once in a while talk on the phone or Skype if she still wants space from you then what do you think would happen if you guys were actually in the same city? :) You are probably very young or young enough to not having noticed that life has lot more opportunities to offer than a long distance illusion of a relationship. I think it is best for you to move on and do not wait any longer as there is a good chance that she is not waiting around for you to stop waiting around! :) Women prefer some one near by to do things and stuff and you better be smart about this and if there is no clear commitment then most definitely move on as there is a good chance that she already has. But then again you are the only one who could make the right decision and know what is best for you. Illusion or actuality? Generally it is best not to waste your time and hopes on some one who wants space in a long distance relationship! Be good to yourself always.
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Mr. Mehran is so right. I experienced the same but it's over now. It's been almost 3 weeks since I cut off my communication w/ my ex whom I had long distance relationship with for 2 years. Reason was because I found out by doing my own investigation/checking that he recently got married to someone else. I thought our relationship was leading somewhere because I met his family and friends when we met. He also sent me gifts such as on Valentines Day or whenever he had a chance to do so (which made me feel good about our relationship, I thought he was really into me). In addition, we also maintained our communication through skype, messenger or viber since he left after we met in person because he has to work abroad. Til there were changes in him since March this year. It all started when I confronted him about a girl (w/c by the way was not the one whom he married with) who commented on his FB post saying "she missed him". Long story short, he said she was nothing and I had him blocked the girl/had her removed from his contact list as I explained to him I didn't feel comfortable about it. Of course, he did it but I knew it made him upset the way he replied to me after that. So since that time, he didn't message me, if he did would only dropped by to say "take care, I'm thinking about you but I just need space". I realized that day that there was really something wrong because why would he made a big deal out of it. Little did I know that he was getting married to someone else who's pregnant. I now feel like the girl who commented on his post seemed like he used or asked her to do it because he knew I would react to it, for him to have the reason to be upset thus to not message me. Worst is after weeks since he got married, he sent me a msg through viber since I deactivated my Facebook saying "he had to let go of me, he said sorry for not meeting me when he came home". I didn't reply and he continued to send me message saying "he loves me so much, he always thinks about me, said to take care of myself always, this and that". So I replied and continued to exchange messages to each other as if nothing happened to the point that we booked a ticket for me to see him where he's working this coming September supposedly. So yes long story short, I found out by doing my research that he got married this June and I sent him all the pictures of him and the girl and expressed my emotions about it. He said he married her because he had no choice, he got her pregnant and that it was me whom he wanted to be with. That his aim of us meeting each other this September is for him to make it up to me. I love him but I decided to let go. Didn't have the courage to really say goodbye to him, I just told him that I'll do the right thing even congratulated him (it was really painful for me to say this to him), I also told him that I'm not a toy, I'm a human who has feelings, who gets hurt as well and I don't want to be a mistress then blocked him. It's painful, until now I'm in pain but I'm gonna stand for what I think is right and normal that a relationship should only be exclusive to one man and one woman.
Sorry for the long message though ☺️. So yes Mr. Mehran is right. You may want to consider to start to move on or maybe look for someone near you as long distance relationship as I have just learned from it that it's too much of a risk. It may have worked for others but we really never know what will happen. There's really no assurance and security for long distance relationships not unless we're lucky.
NOTE: By the way, I didn't know he's married when we booked my ticket to see him where he's working. I also didn't know this girl even existed not until early this month.
Thank you ❤️
Your thoughts are great and very spiritual. I am not getting my needs met in a relationship. When I try to talk about it, which he hates, I feel guilty and undeserving. He also has a very manipulative way of making me question myself. Basically that's bull. I'm a kind and giving person and should be treated the way I want to be treated. Society has done a number on women. I would love to hear more on trusting in the Universe so we don't have to settle.
Hello Susan, I am delighted that you enjoy and find the channel helpful to you.
This question/ concern of yours is an important topic to ponder and discuss , however it is beyond a paragraph or two to discuss it in writing back and forth! :) Please visit my site www.MIndThatSeeksTruth.com and book a Skype consultation for us to discuss this in detail and help you with your concerns and questions on this topic.
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Thank you for your reply. I am in the US in Vermont, a relatively remote state. I am 64. Though I am active and youthful, I have lyme disease which fatigues me and causes depression. He is a good man, but very limited as far as communication and blinded to new possibilities. I stayed in this unfulfilling relationship because I thought it would change. My needs were not met. I was raised to believe that love will conquer all. My dear husband died suddenly when I was 32. That was a long time ago. I have dated a lot, but have found most men to be uncommunicative and detached. I am very lonely since all my friends are married and it is a cold and quiet life here. I want the rest of my days to be happy and fulfilling as the first part of my life is. I do see a counselor and I am not opposed to reading self help or try to help myself in any way. I am becoming very depressed and don't know what to do any more. I'm not sure if you can help either. I don't drink or shop to soothe my pain. I just want to feel hopeful that I can find a compatible companion to share life with. I am not in a good financial situation, so I have to be careful. Do you think you could help someone like me to gain confidence and a new perspective? Thank you.
Susan, if you are not financially ready to book a one on one with me on Skype then try to join one of my live talks and perhaps there we can explore it a bit. in the meantime you need to focus on bringing happiness and contentment from your own efforts and plans and activities and interests and not through some one else or through a relationship, as even when you find a good relationship it still needs you to conduct your day and reasons for happiness on your own, as people and their plans and interest may change so you or your partner may also at some point in a relationship change or become somehow or somewhat disinterested or reduced interest or changed in some ways. So rely on bringing this happiness by your own efforts, plans and projects, perhaps that would be step one to independence in regards to happiness and contentment and harmony with life independently! :)
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can you talk more about the group security as you mentioned in the video? i would really love to learn more about the basic human wants/needs.
your relationship talks are great but if you can dive into other subjects, i would really appreciate it.
+Radical reza I try to blend in the discussions into the relationship challenges and remedies otherwise not too many people may be interested to watch! :) However you may want to take a look at the seminar I did at Capilano University just a few weeks ago. Visit my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and go to "Video of Seminars" Section and buy it, it is a very nominal price but that is the only way to watch the full seminar which is a worthy discussion for you to enjoy. I will try to fit in such discussion more when I discuss relationship challenges and remedies.
I wish I'll comeback here after I've such problems back when my current get overcome
helloi previously told you my story ( i know you dont remember of course) but at that time i did bad things post breakup when she wanted to get back to me for 5 months daily talking to me but i told her to stop talking and get away as a revenge of her breaking up with me. i disrespected her i many ways for a long long time. finally when shs stopped talking to me and gave up on me i realized all the bad things i did but now after a year shes the one ignoring me. you told me to tell her how i feel about the things i did. but she doesnt want to see me. she told me she doesnt want anything from me more than friends and always gives excuses to not seeing me. can you please make a video about stop feeling guilty or sometjing like that? because whats hurting the most is that i caused this awesome relationship of 2 years to fail. even after she tried fixing it i threw it away and i cant stop feeling guilty. she texted me last week wishing me a happy easter. but still i feel guiltythank you
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The second part is very eye-opening. I guess a part of me hopes that he would tell me he made a huge mistake to have broken up with me. Is this a narcissistic behaviour?
No that is normal among us human beings Linh. Our ego and that conditioning of wanting to be affirmed and that we are good, worthy and we are "more" is at work. Watch this video and see how it resonates with you:
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Be good to yourself always, Mehran
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Sir, every time I hear and listen to you I feel so confident but later my moon goes back to past which I don't want.
But I know it not good for me.
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I'm the one thinking of doing the breaking up because I know that he's not the right person for me but it's still really hard to do , I'm in a constant fight with my unconscious mind , i keep on reminding myself that what I'm really missing is comfort and not exactly him ,because I really don't like him yet I feel like I love him .. why do I not like him as a person so much but I love him still ?
You love him because he fulfils whats missing in you/ your life, you love him because maybe he has loving characteristics in him that you admire or like, you love him for what he does for you that you can not do for yourself, you love him perhaps because you need him, you love him perhaps because you are trying to justify your selfishness for using him for he is providing what makes you feel good about your life or part of your life or your image that you have created for yourself in your mind and like to have. Perhaps you love him for the attention he gives you and that is what fulfills you which is a response to your need to fluff your ego which we all have to some extents. There are many reasons why you may love him, perhaps pleasure that you receive, the intimacy that is what you are used to. The thought of all these changes to happen all at once might be why you would love your partner even more when you think of breaking up. But then again you may love your partner for all the right reasons as you are the only one who can decide what is and what is not. All what I have mentioned above are a list which may or may not be accurate about your feelings and how it is for you. So use them only as guid lines or points of contemplation or consideration and not facts as I do not know all the details. Perhaps you fond your partner to be the basis for your part psychological security and it is the psychological security that you love and afraid of not having and that has been provided through the security of this relationship which might have brought a certain pleasant order to your life and you enjoy this order.....Perhaps you love him because you have not accomplished what you hoped to accomplish in your life or perhaps you have not created that finical or academic or professional independence and accomplished characteristics that you always wanted and because of these non accomplishments you figure if you change trains you may feel as if you have accomplished or tested your worth and value out there or perhaps you think if you are not happy with yourself it is his lack of ability to be catalyst for that and that by breakup you will remedy this as perhaps your happiness and accomplishments are residing in the essence of another relationship! ......If you are not happy with your life , you will not necessarily find it in another relationship, or on the contrary to all this perhaps you are all accomplished and satisfied with your achievements and find him unable to keep up and keep that image you have of yourself and your parter as you have imagine it and you wish to upgrade to some one with different personalities , interests and qualifications closer to your standards........There are many points of discussion on this subject which I am unable to discuss in detail for the lack to detailed information. If you need to talk to me further on this you may go to my site www.MIndThatSeeksTruth.com and book a Skype consultation appointment for us to discuss your concerns Sophia. Hope this helped a bit, with regards, Mehran
Mehran Dadbeh thank you so much for replying I appreciate it immensely .❤️ last year my life got really really bad I lost everything for awhile he was all I had , I feel like I've always settled for less because of my bad self esteem but ever since I started getting my life together I feel more and more like he is just not right for me, he's also 10 years younger than me , he doesn't support me financially in anyway and emotionally hes just not very mature or emotionally prepared to handle something real and set and I don't want to waste more time .... I think I just have to be honest with him ..
Sophia C Sophia book a consultation through my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com so we could discuss it as this needs interaction and not message back and forth. Mehran
this is brutal
He broke it off knowing you were leaving him.....move on!
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