I just want to say, that in my opinion you are amazing when it comes to giving advice. God has given you the gift expression. You are very good at helping sooth my out of control emotions. I love listening to you speak.
Glad the videos are helpful to you Catrina. We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and again at 9 PM Vancouver time. You are welcomed to join us and ask your question. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from. Click on the subscribe button and the bell so hopefully you will be notified ( by TH-cam) when I go live!
Expert advice... Don't follow someone who doesn't want you... Have a little respect for yourself... I just love all your perfect advice... Simplifies everything.
I am delighted that you see it clear and regaining your powers in clarity. Please make sure to share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about the help that it is available. I also have a live talk on Sundays 8.30 AM pacific time on a FB page called " Amazing things in the world “ ( here is the link :facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ ), and usually I answer questions as the end of the 10-15 minute talk, you are welcomed to join us there. Also please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. Be good to yourself always. with thanks, Mehran
+Veikko Tikkanen I am glad the videos are helpful to you dear. Please share them on your social media as my newly finished books are on their way from the printing plant and I need as much exposure as I can for the marketing site www.mindthatseekstruth.com . Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category are you in. With thanks, Mehran
So true!! Very true after a relationship we are so silly to think like no he is the one for me because the truth is we made him the one by talking to him and getting attached to him and getting used to him we can do that with any other similar guy to him or even better than him and be so freaking happy ! God!! Why we are so stupid when we fall in love we go thinking like no I can't love anyone but him. Well sister no! U can love infinite times after him there's so many guys out there get yourself out of that shell and go meet people better than him years from now you will hardly remember his name. It's very dangerous to get attached to one guy because that will make girls very very stupid thinking that he is the only one out there for her that is totally not right. I see the truth now and you are so smart sir I raise my hat to you ;) love your channel keep it up man thanks and peace
The tea got cold because you didn't nurture it like you did in the beginning. Now the benefits and the way it warms you are gone. So often, people want a second chance to reheat the tea in hopes of bringing back the delicacy of it, but they're better off starting with a new fresh blend and doing their best to savor and cherish its goodness.
+Aquarian Healer Right, It is always ok to try to make it warm again but if you tried and it still not warming up ! then better to keep going and make a new one from the scratch. :)
In the end you were not good enough for them to stay, for whatever reason they chose to discard what you offered and the memories that they have for what some one else offered and to build new memories with them. That is the lesson I see, nothing one offers will be enough and you will be discarded once some thing better comes along. The truth is that emotion is a fleeting thing and love most of all, once it grows cold and still don't try to resuscitate it, let it die. This is the way of all things, the fires of lust and love burn to ash in time and ashes do not warm.
That's depressing to think. I believe you can find your soulmate it just takes a lot of self improvement (physically, spiritually, mentally, emotionally) and a lot of faith. Once you work on your self you can attract someone who's worked on themselves too and shares your same principles
You are welcomed dear. Please let me know your gender, age and where you are tuning in from( which city). Don’t forget we have live stream every Saturday at 1 PM Vancouver time.
The best anology of change and relationship dynamics. Thank You, Sir. I wish I had seen this 3 months ago. She stopped by yesterday, and we talked a few minutes. It all makes sense now...why I broke up with her 3 months ago, and why she refuses to be anything more than civil with each other. After watching this, it's all good now. Continuing to focus on myself and my goals, without the distractions of wondering or worrying.
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Aaron. There are over 1,300 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life. Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world. You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic), 1.30 after midnight (India), Europe 8.30-9 PM, (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
When you picked up the tea and started talking about it I had a breakthrough. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos. You have helped me greatly and eased my suffering immensely.
Mehran, I have been so heartbroken I haven't been able to function, I've been miserable. This is the third of your videos I've watched... and it's affected me the most of the three. Your tea growing cold analogy illuminated a lightbulb in my head. Thank you for your empathy and caring enough to post these videos. I appreciate you.
+David Hart Hello David, I am delighted that the videos have been and are helpful to you and bringing yu back to strength and freedom. :) We all have gone through these scenarios of life and we all have eventually came out of it all ok and enjoyed a happy life. For a while it might be uncomfortable but it will never lasts for too long as long as we understand what is happening in our psyche! Be good to yourself always, Mehran
Wow, Sir you just turn me around and make me start respecting myself. Well she left me 15 days ago, I have spent my time, my money everything to support her what she is today. But at the end of the day she left me with many excuses. But what I have learnt today from your couple of consulting videos that - Oh! Yes I am the inventor, I am the master and I am the work in charge, if I can made that pebble glittering than the other why don't I make another.. it's all about me... Thanks God , He introduces me with you in appropriate time. Thanks.
You are very welcomed my dear. Enjoy your life and many blessings as they are all around you. Just relax and believe that you are the master and the universe offers lot more than one relationship or one woman and if it does not work between the two people then move on and find a better suited relationship. :) Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Thanks you Sir. believe it or not you just taught me to respect myself Sir. I am really really happy today, I wish I could just drive away to your home and give you a hug. :) Thanks.
+Asad Jaman :) good I am glad. I accept the hug and consider it delivered. now go and build your life independent to any relationship. you will meet the suitable woman when the time comes and you can choose better. :) Be well and be happy, no relationship is the whole of life and is just an experience of life. life is much bigger than any relationship. Please let me know from where you are watching the videos and which age category you are in.
Thank you Sir. I am watching from Bangladesh (A South -East Asian Country). I am 26 years old, I am working as a VA for multiple of US and Canada based industries. I have already sent you an invitation in you LinkedIn profile. Thanks
Thank you for your advice. I think that problem is that we believe it would be much easier to get something back that we already knew existed in a person than to search for it in unknown territory. We know this person we have lost is capable of displaying desirable qualities so why would we just give up when it could be re-ignited? Forgive me if i have missed the whole purpose of the video but that is how I am seeing it!
I think what you are saying makes sense, it's a comfort and time invested thing. I love how my ex was driven, smart (both book/common sense wise), successful (nurse), attractive, caring and had a great family. On the flip side she was EXTREMELY insecure, stubborn, sensitive and unstable. I just focus on the cons because those cons were always there but when we break up we suddenly become blind to their negative qualities.
LOL that is ok Emma as long as it makes you think about what was shared. In regards to your sentence ( "why would we just give up when it could be re-ignited? )" I say : Is it? can it be re-ignitable? Are you certain about this? if what no longer is apparent or ignited in the person worth the try more than what has been tried already and perhaps should be tried indefinitely, then why would one not think of the others who also do not show any of such preferred qualities at the outset, to have the same potential to have their inner qualities ignited and see if that is what happenes and suits you instead of wasting more time on the person that you have already tried after his/her desirable qualities disappeared, on the person who had it and yet has chosen not to have it any longer or have replaced it with some other characteristics preferred by him/her. The one who has changed has decided not to have what he/she had and that might be less likely to return to how s/he was. In another words they are both unknown in having this potential at this point with "A less likely " checked beside the one who had it and changed it. When a test/ try period is over then replacement seems to be the logical choice! Overly hopeful to such change backs after the first round of changes, means you are looking at it with the eye of the past! You may enjoy this : th-cam.com/video/GqNM2odntDc/w-d-xo.html
I Agree ..that's how I feel but unfortunately I have no control over that person ..I tried to "control"things but nothing happened that I wanted ..so what now? I just let go today and my ex and I will not be talking anymore, it became too stressful for me so if he was truly for me then it will still happen but I have given up on the "control" when I realized I have no control over him can't make someone love and want to be with you
Hello Mehran, I just want to say that I've watch a couple of your videos about how to help myself after a break up in a relationship and you have given me the most helpful advice I've heard in a very long time. I have been in a couple of relationships before, which lasted no longer than 2 months, but I moved on quickly from them because I knew they weren't compatible with me anymore. Only this time, earlier this year, for the first time I found a relationship that had meaning to it because we both shared the same interests and we both knew how we felt about each other. But, after they broke up with me, I was left feeling hurt for a long time and no matter where I looked to find help, nowhere had the answer I needed in order to get over the relationship. But watching your videos now has helped me so much that I'm already starting to feel better about myself. So, thank you for your strong and helpful advice/guidance about relationships. I'll know to watch your videos the next time! :)
+Michael Talbot Thank you Michael for the kind words. I am delighted that the videos have been helpful to you. I owe it all to my son as this whole thing started with discussing his break ups with his girlfriends and noticed that so many other young men found the topics and discussions helpful and the rest is history ! :) Since 3 years ago the number of people enjoying the videos and finding them helpful increased to a noticeable number and the Skype consultations have been almost none stop , I have as you know started to write a few books reflecting my findings and research. One is " The Break Up Pain Handbook" the other is " Me, My Psyche & I " and the third is called " Transient Thoughts and Me ". They will be published by mid January 2016 and you are most welcomed to visit www.mindthatseekstruth.com and take a look at the sample chapters of each book and go from there depending on your needs. Now that I have completed my plug for the books ! :) I wish you a happy holiday season and hope that you will continue socializing with positive people and stay active and enjoy exercising to your fitness level and attend to your day to day duties and responsibilities and make new friends and before deciding that some one is your girlfriend get to know her first and I mean get to know her in the way of getting to know about her consciousness and how complementary you guys are to each other and how understanding you are to each other and then call each other boyfriend and girlfriend. Let me know what age category are you in and from which part of the world are you watching the videos. Be good to yourself and enjoy your life dear as life is lot more than one or two relationships.
Love your philosophy - thank you. Your videos are very helpful, and I love the perception of how to see things differently - I obviously ended my relationship with someone I thought was the Love of my life because after he moved in with me I saw all his true colours, mood swings and bad habits that were not aligned with me because I expect better!! If respect and the same effort is not being served, then yes, just like the tea, he went cold on me and no longer warmed my heart. I was putting in 80% and getting 20% back. It's sad that something I thought would be a beautiful future with this person turned out to be the opposite. Although at the start we discussed and were on the same page with what the relationship would head to....once he moved in and got comfortable....he didn't show or take action with making them commitments and started withholding money & not contributing fairly towards bills, holidays etc always had an excuse for everything and drinking habit was getting progressively worse instead of better. I tried my best to help him, but you can't help someone who doesn't want to change 😢 I'm done enough is enough ‼️
Thank you. That helped me partly. currently going through a break up that i didn't want but it has happened. It's not that easy though to forget years of good memory. I know that person has changed somehow, not the same person I met, doesn't have that heat yet it's difficult to forget all those good memories. they all the time pop up in my mind and don't let me to do all the tasks I am supposed to be doing.
I understand Mohammad, that is why I have made over 280 videos on the subject and how your mind ( your psyche) plays a big roll in how you think, feel , act and react about break ups. Please watch many of the videos and you will find everything you need to clear your mind, get strong and move on. Look up the list and choose from the titles. You will be fine. All is explained for you why you feel the way you do and what you need to understand and how to analyze it and how to deal with it by understanding your psyche. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for free webinars, Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
I'm older here! I like your videos and you being closer to my age helps because so many of the videos are coming from much younger people. When you're younger you have plenty of time for another relationship. Not so much at my age. My guy left me and we are both in our 60's. But of course he left me for another. We'd been together 23 years, so I'm having a tough time coming to grips of being alone the rest of my life, while he's just starting a new one with a partner. Life isn't fair. I'm disabled and that sure doesn't help in my being alone. I can't get out of my head.
Hello Karla, I see what you are dealing with. If you like please go on my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and make a Skype chat appointment for us to discuss your challenge one on one on Skype as we need top exchange in real time and interactively . I will add an extra hour to your registration for one hour so we will have ample time to explore what is happening in your head and what things could be helpful in dealing with it all. Should you decide to chat with me on Skype just chose any time or day as you register then we will fine tune the appointment on Skype by text before we have our chat appointment.
Thank you for the kind words Cozma Daniel. Glad you enjoy the videos and find them helpful. :) Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Up and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Thanks a lot Mehran. it is definitely a very different angle to what people usually do in this kind of situation. You have given me the tools to feel a lot happier now.
Just about the best logic and advice for processing a breakup that I have found. Kudos, sir! Many could use this advice and your compassion. Have you ever thought of blogging and/or submitting articles/content to other blogs and online forums? Peace!
I am glad you find them helpful Frank. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: iIf you would like us to address certain specific situation you might be facing with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options is suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may chose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
You are like a grandfather I always wanted. All my grandparents passed away either when I was a kid or before I was born. My dad also passed away when I was 3. I am thankful for your guidance and wise words.
Thank you Debu, I am here and the videos are made for you to enjoy. Soon you will have access to the videos that are unlisted through my site as well. Let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you are in. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
This is phenomenal.. Never knew one video of yours Sir would push me into thinking right. I have been having the same troubles of hanging one to someone (ex) emotionally but you brought sense and positivity into me. Very grateful.. Thanks
You are welcomed Kunal. I am glad the videos are helpful to you. Make sure to visit my FB Page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ I have free webinars for the next few weeks and you can ask your questions live and get answers and also listen to other people's questions and answers I will offer. Be good to yourself always, Mehran :)
you King my friend. super straight forward and I love to listen to you and Yes, my ex broke up with me and i was in Long distance relationship . for a year and when I finally sort all problems and find solution for us to be together she said she changed and is not attracted to me anymore and she break up. I think in life people who will stay with you forever are those who don't break up that easy. Although It was very hard year for us and I don't blame her but I can't change her decision. Its her mind changed perspective on me. Its hard but is better to move on too.
Good for you, you got it. Be good to yourself always and enjoy life as it is not summed up in one relationship or one girl in a broken relationship. Mehran :)
mehran jan, firstly great choice in your comfort food. i can highly resignate in your wise choice on confectionary. Secondly, just wanted to thank you for your video. It's the first of your video's i have seen but it has opened my eyes to a new way of thinking. I'd been struggling to move forward from a relationship that ended over 6 months ago but i feel enlightened from watching this and feel optomistic that this is the start of a change. Best wishes from your persian friend in england.
+Ehssan Ashkboos Dear Ehsan, Thank you for the kind words. I am delighted that you find the videos helpful and feeling better and stronger. From now on you can not stop the recovery as it is like a hole in a dam, when there is one then the hole in the dam will open wider and wider and the wall will break down bit by bit for a while then all at one big fall causing a large opening letting the water to flow out ....and your emotional freedom will be restored and you are free you to enjoy ! :) It's all in the mind and thoughts dear. Please share the videos you like along with my site address www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media so others get to know about my work and have a chance to read a sample chapter of my newly published 3 books. Please let me know which age category you belong to as well. With warm regards and thanks, Mehran P.S. Hope you enjoy this one as well : th-cam.com/video/guMDhsmVNHA/w-d-xo.html
I am glad you find them helpful "Crash". Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
David Bäcker You are cetainly welcomed. These topics have no time limits ( old or new) as they apply to all times as it is about logics, mind, thoughts and consciousness. So enjoy them all whenever you need them they are helpful for all times. :)
Hello Lenka, The tea example was to show if the tea changes it's characteristics and no longer possesses the attributes palatable to you because it has changed it's main inner specifications or characteristics like warmth or colour or integrity in character and essence then why would I or why could I like it as it no longer has what is necessary to be to my liking and to attract me as I chose it because of it's characteristics of warmth and colour and taste... that translates in person to be her warmth and interest towards her partner. So if she does not like him any longer, does not show the necessary interest, loyalty, love any more or having gone to some one else , then she does not have what I liked about her which was liking me and wanting to be with me. But the relationships in which the partners continue stay loyal to each other and like each other and want to and stay together then there will be togetherness and family and all the good things necessary to remain and stay together with closeness and continue happy relationship.... :) Please let me know your age and where you are watching the videos from dear . Thanks, Mehran :)
hi prof, how do I get past the idea that, if I had done better, ie. I should've put the tea on the stove and keep it warm, then the tea might not have changed and things would've been alright for both of us? I just can't help thinking that I should've done better for my ex and kept our love going.
LOL , I understand what you mean. But that is to turn the clock back! What you can do is to realize that each relationship has it's duration and offers certain level of experience through which we become wiser and make proper analysis and advance forward with more knowledge, experience and wisdom. No sense trying to think backwards as that is like saying if man would have not done or not done certain things in the history of life since the beginning of time then we would have not been in the mess we are as a civilization with not much civility...which are all good reasons to turn back time but it is not realistic , is it? A part of the special abilities of human being is to work through the research and experiences and elevate him/herself to a higher level of expertise and understanding in matters in life. So you do the same and stop worrying about something that no longer exists and is just a memory and learn from your experience and build a better life. So go on living and become who you want to become using these experiences and live your life and enjoy every minute of it without looking much in the rear mirror as then you will not be paying enough attention to the road ahead to have a good and safe journey! Be good to yourself always. Mehran P.s Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age group you are in.
Thank you so much for making this video it really helped me a lot. I was with the same girl for 7 years and we just broke up about a week ago and I've been incredibly sad about it but this video shows me aspect into the psychology of why I am feeling like this and that gives me tremendous comfort. Thank you Mehran! you are a good dude! keep making video's. I subscribed to you and I do not do that often. I will not follow my Ex like I was trying to make her like me again but I will make MYSELF happy and maybe she will either come back to me or I will find a new girlfriend. great advice thank you so much again for giving insight into these type of subjects.
MON3YonPC You are very welcomed dear, I am glad that the videos have been helpful to you. This makes me happy. Keep going forward and watch the videos as there are lots of angles and most if not all have been discussed. Enjoy your life, don't look back and keep doing your stuff and build yourself further and prepare for when your next serious girlfriend will present herself into your life. Also watch the following and let them explore some other points of views and angles. Please let me know your name, age and location for my referance dear. Mehran th-cam.com/video/5kZ7d7NFS0Q/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/K0tbb64mPko/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/gTD0KMvMZ2c/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/uKvk4r72ph8/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/RYEdB5jkRew/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/guMDhsmVNHA/w-d-xo.html
Mehran Dadbeh Exactly. I just need to prepare my life for when the next serious girlfriend comes into my life. that's such good advice! I am 27 and my name is Tony and I am from Chicago, IL in the United States. Thanks again. And I will definitely watch those videos and any videos you post in the future. Salute.
MON3YonPC how’s it going now man 3 years later? You recovered now and met someone new I hope? And did she ever come Back or reach out to you? I’m 5 months into my break up with my girl of 7 years. Getting better but still struggle thinking of her and hoping one day she might come back (that’s the hardest part, giving up hope I’m having trouble getting past that even tho I’ve been in no contact the whole time). Anyways any update or advice is appreciated thanks
Your distance with the "problem" is helping a lot of people. Our feelings often rush around after a break up... 5years relationship broke up, 3 days depressed, no sleep, no eat, drunk all the time (and much worse) but those reflection really help me to use my brain instead of trying to forget ( letting the time do the job ). Great use of TH-cam... Thanks Again, sir :) ( apologies my english, not native and my grammar is terrible ^^'... )
Hello Mehran. My gal came home on Monday and we have been digging deep inside ourselves and communicating about our feelings and dreams. She is still in love with me... and I her. We going to give this long distance relationship a shot and I feel positive about it. We are both very busy with families and now I'm returning to work come Monday so I feel that distance can be good and possibly beneficial and positive to both of us. Just because the relationship has a physical distance does not mean it's a negative one or wrong. We also talked about regular visits and trips together and I'm happy and willing to do so. Change is not one I deal well with but I believe this can bring forth growth for me and appreciation for her on new and different levels. :)
Dan Jack-son Well ok , I hope you are not setting yourself up for another future change of heart from her side. Any ways I would be delighted if things work out and hope that you both communicate sincerely and not because of needs and go forward and give it a sincere chance. :)
I'd just like to say thank you for this video and advice. My girlfriend and I have been more distant recently and last night at our prom she spent the night with another guy. This made me feel worthless and not good enough. I struggled to sleep but after watching this, I felt better. Thanks so much, sometimes people who are feeling upset and overwhelmed with their feelings just need a kind friendly voice to listen to. I can say that you have provided me with that and I think you do help people, impact their lives as you have done with mine.
Delighted to hear this Joseph and thank you for the kind words. Perhaps this also would be something you might enjoy. th-cam.com/video/DYZGRmlKhFs/w-d-xo.html Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Yes, I will be sure to visit your Facebook page and share the videos. I think more people should see your videos and have the support that I feel I have gained from them. I am watching from the United Kingdom and am 16 years old.
How you doing Mehran, i find it funny having to search for some sort of help through youtube. I got out of a 6 year relationship, its been practically a year now. I watched two videos. "how to feel better psychologically" and this video. Everything you talked about are all cliche. I've heard them all, "plenty of fish in the sea" "she aint the same" typa shit. BUT I have to say, the way you explained everything completely changed my perspective for some reason. The Pebbles, Salt (NaCl) and Tea were some phenomenal examples. I honestly rarely leave comments cause frankly i don't give a shit, but my friend, you deserve a big thank you. I wish I had seen these videos sooner to save me some time, and tears. Again, thank you for taking the time out of your day to help others with their personal issues. Kudos to you boss! For everyone else, godspeed. Y'all can do it.
you are welcomed and thank you for the words. I am glad that the videos resonate with you..please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you are in. Be good to yourself always. Mehran.
The United States. I live in Los Angeles, California. I'm 21 years old boss. Excuse my profanity on my previous comment lol its 5 in the morning, i got carried away haha.
:) no worries, thanks for the kind words. Please make sure to share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about the help that is available. I also have a live talk on Sundays 10.00 AM pacific time ( west coast Canada time ) on a FB page called " Amazing things in the world “ ( here is the link : facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ ), and usually I answer questions at the end of the 10-15 minute talk, you are welcomed to join us there. Also please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. Be good to yourself always. with thanks, Mehran
You are so welcomed Clarence. I am happy that it is helpful to you. Life is short, no body in no relationship could be that important to stop life, to stop us from having a happy and positive, enjoyable life with good flow of energy. :)
Your videos really helped me. I just broke up with my first real girlfriend, i mean, i had many others in the past but never love then, and also i had never been in a serious relationship, until i meet her. She is really kind and generally a good person, she was really devote to me, she loved me like I never thought someone would, but I was busy with other thing and sometimes I ignored her by choice, this went for over two years, until I realized that she was moving away from me, she was not so in love, she did not care that much, so I started to care more and more, but could not made her fell in love with me again, so i decided to break up yesterday and I was felling fine, I went out with my friends, meet some really nice girls, and the i came home and just started to cry, and cry, and getting really depressed, so I could not sleep, and went to se her, but she said that she I was right when i broke up with her, that we are to far from each other. I know that I loved her, but looking back in our relationship i realized that we never really had a meaningful conversation, when we were together we just look at each other and gave kisses and said "i love you" "you are my life" and sometime that made me really happy, but I know that most of the time was kind of boring even though I liked her. But now i feel depressed, I am nostalgic and my biggest fear is that one day, maybe in a week, or a month, or a year, i see her with someone else, that will be the most painful thing.
Yayo amigo message me on Skype and when I am available we can chat about it together and figure out how and why you feel the way you do. my Skype address is md.trading1
+Justin Cuento You will be ok. Almost every one has experienced such things, gone through similar stuff and have come out of it after a while and became wiser and stronger and able to choose better next time. The videos contain more than necessary to understand your psyche and how to deal with this temporary feelings and questions. You will be just fie . Enjoy the videos and enjoy the wisdom you will have having dealt with this .Be good to yourself. Let me know where you are watching the videos from and what age category you are in. Visit my FB pages " Mind That Seeks Truth " ( Two pages one Author and one Books both same name and both good). :)
+Mehran Dadbeh thank you so much. For now this is the worst but I believe someday somehow this breakup will be the best thing that happened in my life.
+Justin Cuento "For now this is the worst but I believe someday somehow this breakup will be the best thing that happened in my life." Hi Justin, I too was betrayed by my ex girlfriend. It's far too long a story, but basically she walked out on me and got back with her physically abusive ex boyfriend, and she emotionally and psychologically abused me in the process of it all. I would have done anything for her, and tried to help her in more ways than I can count, and in return she absolutely wrecked me. It took some time, but I did manage to find my balance again, and I turned the pain of it all into fuel that helped me focus on my greatest goals in life. Now I'm a published author. For several months after she left me, I'd have done anything to get her back. But let me tell you, now I wouldn't dream of it. To say I deserve better is a massive understatement. I would never treat someone the way she treats people (not just me), and that really sums it up. I'm a better person than she is, and she is architect of her own misery.
+Justin Cuento So basically, keep telling yourself that the break up is a positive thing. Channel the emotional energy you feel into something proactive, and yes, it may very well turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you.
THANK YOU FOR THE ENLIGHTENMENT ITS VERY INFORMATIVE AND IT SUITS TO THOSE WHO REALLY GOT HURT BADLY AND HAS DIFFICULTY LETTING GO OF THE RELATIONSHIP AND OR FEELING.
You have no idea how much you helped me... I'm a teenager, and I just broke up with my first girlfriend and it hurt me so bad, until I watched your video, which helped me a lot... Thank you! :)
+esoteriastudio Good I am delighted to hear that you feel strong again dear. Share the videos you like and my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about my work as well. Please let me know from where you are watching the videos and what age category are you in. Be good to yourself always, Mehran :)
You are very welcomed trmnblck! ( not sure what your name is :) I am glad you find them helpful . Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address certain specific situation you might be facing with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options is suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may chose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Please control your emotions, if you love your partner. Don’t dismiss her or his warnings to you about the things that are making them unhappy. If your not the nurturing type consider it with the person you are with. So that the tea bag stays warm and hot because you continue to pour warmth and understanding to their cup. Always state how you see yourselves with them. If they don’t correspond in the like, ask them how they view you with them. It’s how you look at your relationship my friend. Blessings in finding your partner.🙏
thank you very much I have had a battle within me since she told me she doesn't feel the same way anymore walked away, it's a pain too hard to bare but thank you for making this video it just gave me a push to my strength.
I am glad you find them helpful Roy. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on TH-cam th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or on my Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talks which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talks which could be held either on Face book or TH-cam channel. ( Most often these days will be on TH-cam and the post will provide the link to it: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Vancouver time (Pacific), Right here on this link:: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish Then with some additional information on my site or events www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
Break-Ups, Life & Your Psyche, Mehran thankyou very much for replying to my comment am grateful and humble, am new to your channel and I will definitely subscribe. am watching from Algeria Africa.
You are welcomed Destinee, I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful. Here below is standard info response with some information in regards to the channel and support: There are over 1,300 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life. Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world. You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 PM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic), 1.30 after midnight (India), Europe 8.30-9 PM, (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Great analyses and helpful video, thanks for helping so many people raise their self-esteem, even when it does not cure the whole pain..it becomes a useful medicine in its treatment...., thanks again
You have welcomed Jon, I am glad you are enjoying the content. Tell me please how did you find my channel as we are not so easily found! hundreds of people find us accidentally and when they do they have the same positive reactions as you do but they all find my channel by chance. How did you find it?
@@MehranDadbeh To be honest, I am going through a break up, it has about a month now. We were together for almost 4 years. I am not so broken down like I have been before only because I know she is not the one for me. But I still am hurt by the situation. I have issues with my ego. When you are alone you look for certain things to basically make you feel better. So many other channels on TH-cam do not explain things the way you do. You break it down to a science, but are also very personal while you do it. Thank you
@@jonbenson680 Jon do you know that I have live streaming on Friday, Saturday and Sunday around noon Vancouver time? Join us there and ask your questions and I will briefly try to address the questions and when it needs more detail discussion you can always go to my site and make a Skype consultation appointment and we will explore your concerns together one on one.Here is some info on the support available on my channel: There are over 1,500 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life. Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world. You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 PM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic), 1.30 after midnight (India), Europe 8.30-9 PM, (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com My Instagram: instagram.com/mindseeks/ For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
@@jonbenson680 Jon, Please elaborate and tell me what were you looking for when accidentally stumbled on my video? what did you search on TH-cam or what were you looking for that my video showed up?
This is my second video observation of you and your perspective. I appreciated your simple parallel of the pebbles. Your way of encouraging is very pleasant. Thank you sir.
Thank you Allison. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
I am glad you find them helpful, " Mithun ". You will be fine, there are over 1,000 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ishor On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! (Today or the day of the week) 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
delighted that the video is helpful to you. Hope you subscribed! :) and click on the bell so when we have live streaming you can join in and ask your questions ( free of course) :)
Thank you for the kind words Maria. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran P.S I just responded to your other inquiry about Skype sessions....( sent to your e-mail address )
Thank you for your gift. I need help moving on, and your perspective here is helpful. Four months of flirting with giving up and obsessing over someone has been devastating to all areas of my life. I will check in on other videos from you Mehran. Thank you.
I am glad you find them helpful Scott. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
still watching your video's and they are great food for thought. Mehran your correct my girl changed and that girl was the one I loved. After a car accident in 2013 then a major chest operation in 2014 she changed and became very bitter. Then after that she had an awakening of self and I respect that but it changed our relationship forever. This is not the same girl that fell head over heels for me and it's a shame as we were to be married at one point. I thought if I should her how much I loved her and was dedicated to her she would become that woman again.... but she is gone and may never come back. I was thinking of moving to the same town she is now moving to at the end of June... but I now think I should just stay where I am in Kelowna and do my thing,heal and become a more healthy person. If she wants me bad enough then she knows where I am. But my life will move on with or with out her.
Dan Jack-son Yap , now your talking. Lots of fish in the sea and just because you caught one that does not mean is the one or the best one for you or anything, it's just that you caught one and nothing more. It is not what you wanted and now it is apparent, so release her in the ocean or she is already gone on her own way to attend to her own vision of life and plans, and you go about your way and life and the right girl will present herself when the time is right. :) In the mean time do what you need to do and live healthy and enjoy your life experiences and simply live. Life is not limited to what a girl can bring or to one girlfriend or one relationship, there is more to life than we can see at any one moment ! :) Go, go on and live your life as it has lots to offer Dan :)
Mehran Dadbeh Thanks my friend you have helped me pave a new road for myself. I will now have big challenges ahead as their is more to this than just a break up or relationship change... as I have supported her and her two boys with all the finances I made and also at one time was working two jobs to support us all and even my own children as well. I have now not much to live on as I have been laid off and now may be homeless for a bit. Thanks to love and I guess my blindness and lack of foresight has cost me to now be in this position. I never saw this coming(she talked about a future) and she will be fine as she has family to support her and I none only young children. I cant believe after all this I still love her... but now that is changing. Again thank you so... much :) PS she will be back home tomorrow with me for month till we have to move out of our residence.
Dan Jack-son None of us are so blind or unable to know that we do not love the one who is no longer what and how she was. What you think you love is not her is the order that you are now used to, what she was doing for you ( if anything specific) such as may be care for the kids, or cooking, or house keeping or sex or feeling of having a family of some sort.... when some one changes to what we do not like then we know what or how we feel about them can not be love but we have no other word for the psychological security which we felt and so we call it love. So think clearly, we can not love some one who has changed from what we liked, we just think since she was part of the order that we liked, it is her that we still love. Now it is the memory of what and how she was that we love and we think we love her now, but we do not. We love what we remember of her and how she was and we think it is her ( now) because she has the same physical appearance of the time when she had not changed yet, when we used to love her and mistakenly we think we still love her now. :) You will get a job again, you will build again , it was you who used to have two jobs and used to work and was capable to support every one and it is you the same person and same capable person now and can and will do it again and better this time as it is you and your kids and you can dedicate more time to them and have a real family than a uncertain one. :) Then ager on will find a woman who will fit you better and will be more accountable and certain about her role and her worth and her responsibilities and you will build a better relationship when the time is right. In the meantime just take care of you and the children and put all shit behind you and march forward. We are men, we are tough and we can do anything and we will. :)
Hello Luwei, good sleep easy as you have whole life ahead of you with new experiences and lot more to offer. Enjoy every minute of your life and all these things are just a wind which will always pass as they have no real importance and just seem like they do. :) watch the videos and you will be more clear why you should never treat a break up as if it is any thing other than a turbulance to get your attention and a vector to the road towards a better destination.! :) Hope you will enjoy the many videos on this subject and have a lovely day. Mehran
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Alejandro. There are over 1,500 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life. Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world. You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 PM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic), 1.30 after midnight (India), Europe 8.30-9 PM, (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Thank you very much for this, i've watched a few of your videos now on break ups. I had suffered a horrific depression for the last 4 months over a break up where the girl changed from being so loving towards me and then changed to being cold and awful to me within 2 weeks of moving back to germany. When i tried to be straight with her and say if you've gone back , moved on, or found someone else just tell me she said no! Wen i went out to see her, she treated me like a stray dog, telling me off for the simplest things. would sleep in the same bed as me, but at arms length. would guard her phone constantly, but would tell me she loved me every night. I then gave her another chance, and said if something was going on you'd tell me right? she said of coarse, but i didn't trust her at this point. we finally got it back together at the end, like it was before she left britain. Then i came home, 1 week later we were split up. It absolutely crippled me, i tried to end myself. got incredibly depressed cause we were once in love and then it turned awful. I'd seen so many doctors, and their talks never really helped me. But you absolutley nailed everything with these videos. i think the first bit you really nailed me was with the " you think she's better than you" bit, so accurate. Thank you very much, you've really helped me here!
I am delighted to hear that you find them helpful and getting stronger Dan. You will be fine , watch the videos they are what will bring you to understand why you feel the way you do and that it is not a must to feel that way but a reaction to the ego, desire and the way you think and led to believe that is how you should be thinking. The videos will unlock your mind! Keep going, you will be fine :) Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
Thank you very much for your reply. I think what messed me up the most was that she left me so confused. I didn't and still don't understand how someone who says they love you can break away from that person so easily without even any evidence of them having a thought for you. She just left, never to be heard from again. which made me think i had been right all along that she had been seeing someone else. It crippled me because, and has continued to, cause i wanted to know if i was right. But the important thing is to get better now, i liked how you said it shouldn't mark how you feel about love. cause it really did for me, and made me have complete loathing for german people, because it made me think of them as soulless. Anyway, i'll stop rambling now. Thank you again.
LOL, no rambling on is ok :) However this has nothing to do with her being German, or Japanese or French or Italian or Canadian.......it has to do with their need and what they were hoping to achieve and what their intention was for finding a partner or being in a relationship.... and this is about what kind of person they are and what kind of consciousness and what are the conditioning of their consciousness is like and so on . So it is about who and how they are rather than which nationality they are. There are wonderful German girls and there are wonderful women from all nationalities and also shitty people in all nationalities as well. It is about that individual and stuff I said above and not where they come from! :) I know you think in this way as that is the default reaction when we have a bad experience with a relationship and we somehow generalize it to the nationality of that woman but I am sure once you have moved on and possibly meet another German woman with whom you build a wonderful relationship then you will think all German girls are equally as perfect, and that is not correct either. All kinds are found among all nationalities and cultures. :) Be good to yourself always and keep moving forward and do not give a rat's ass why she left , just know that the one who leaves is no longer qualified to attract your time and attention and you focus on moving on and enjoying and building your life as best as it could possibly be. :)
glad you found the channel and find it helpful Tim. You can join in the live talks ( they are all free) on Fridays Vancouver time 12 noon. Ask yr questions and listen to other people’s questions and concerns as well. Watch the trailer on my channel intro to know the extent of support on this channel. You will be perfectly fine, I am certain of that. 😊
I needed to hear this. Wife cheated several times. Getting divorced, she has a boyfriend and introduce him to my kids and her family four days after I moved out. Divorce will be finalized on April 29th. It will be 39 days on the 29th. She clearly moved on and I was looking to see how I could. I'm glad I found your channel. Thank you.
Find tea Checklist: Warm=✅ Good colour=✅ Good cup=✅ Taste=✅💯 When tea is cold Dont torture yourself to drink it when you wont expect what you want form it Make new tea and finish it till its emty So keep having time with tea so you can have full time love with it and when it ends the tea died you suffer you dont want any other tea
I think you are an amazing person and your logics are so real and reasonable. Thank so much for existing in this world and sharing all this. You are helping me a lot. Lots of love from INDIA
Thank you Preeti, you are very welcomed dear. I am glad the videos are helpful to you. Try to join us at my live talks usually on Fridays 12 noon Vancouver time. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
It's a 4 years relationship with her...yesterday night suddenly she called me and said she is no longer gf of mine and love some one else from 2 months...i got shock....but this video has helped me a lot...thank you sir
+Arkaprabha Bhowmik You are welcomed dear, You will be fine and you are not alone. Move on and celebrate that you found this now than later ! :) Enjoy your life and meet new friends and be good to yourself always. It will all be ok.
I am glad you find them helpful Edwin. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Very helpful video, this helped me understand that i miss the bond and relationship with my ex not necessarily her. I had been attempting to immediately fill it again with someone new, but those bonds and rapport will never be again.
The delicious food you made in your kitchen may never exactly taste the same when you make it next time, but it will be just as delicious or even better because you have the recipe! And you never know, you might very well get better ingredients to put in your recipe the next time and make a far better dish any ways! :)
I am glad you find them helpful Ramen. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Glad that the video has been helpful to you. Live stream: 1- We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and sometimes again at 9 PM Vancouver time. Often I have a surprise live stream which would not have been scheduled and on spare of the moment we go live. So if you like to be notified of them all please click on the bell and choose the option "always". You are welcomed to join us and ask your question. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from. Click on the subscribe button and the bell so hopefully you will be notified ( by TH-cam) when I go live! (This service is free fro all) If you are under the age of 18 I would like you to have permission from your parents to watch my videos or participate in the live stream. Other options available: 2- Skype consultation is another option where you can have a one on one consultation session with me to explore what may be concerning you in life. For Skype appointments please visit my site to book your appointment. For new clients I will add one hour complementary to your one hour registered appointment to have ample time to explore your concerns. www.mindthtaseekstruth.com
Hello Mehran, Thank you for your video. I have a question. What if the "old person who used to love you comes back to you all nice, friendly and loving one week, and then completely changes to another person, cold, unavailable the other. Then goes back to that same old friendly person, who you shared your memories with. Basically playing " hot and cold game with you". It's emotionally draining. The person gives you hope one day, then take it away from you the next day. What do I do in this situation?
this is exactly what happened to me. Together three years, swept me off my feet, after a year he starting treating me differently cold and someone that was so different . I left and he wooed me back was back for a year and then he says he is not sure if he love me so I go to leave, right before I move out he says he wants another chance, which I give to him because I love him now three months later its back to cold empty and rejection, and he says he does not love me anymore????j WTF now I am feeling like a yoyo and I fell like he is using me for his whims
Somehow never saw this message until now Sunny! :) The short of the long is that such people are not balanced and you need to move away from such situation or behaviour/ treatments that ends up conditioning you. This bit of so called good, friendly behaviour once in a while causes you to look forward for the good behaviour/ treatment and to tolerate the bad in order and with the hopes of receiving the good treatment which becomes like a treat and for this treat you become conditioned and become willing to endure the nonsense/ the abusive behaviour. Then you feel if you move away from this person then you will no longer receive the relief that you have been conditions to look forward to every once in a while making you think that you are actually receiving such valuable prize and will jeep enduring the bad situation, the bad treatment and never move on and free yourself from such people. Just free yourself from such dependence on the good treats and move on and build a normal relationship with some one else eventually and when ready at some point in time after having moved away from it all and regained your balance and normal respect for yourself and higher and normal expectation from a relationship.
Thank you so much for your reply. I really appreciate it. I've gone no contact with that particular individual. Hopefully I'll be able to heal and move on completely as soon as possible.
Hi, I was in a relationship not so long ago and my reason to break up with her was a misunderstanding. I broke up with her because I though she lost feeling and I didn't want to get hurt so I ended there. Afterwards, I see parts of her that I really didn't like(personality wise) but I like what she does, how she looks and somethings very little of who she really is. Now I'm faced with this problem. I do not like to hurt people, and she wants to be together with me still. I don't know if I should complete leave it as, we have broken up and let's be friends or if I should be with her again. I will thank you for your advice
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Kieth, There are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life. Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world. You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India), (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Glad you enjoyed it and found it helpful Rudi. You will be perfectly fine. Just watch the videos and you will know why you feel the way you do and how to look ahead and move on to bigger and better things. Join in the live talks when you get the notification ( if you click on the bell) and ask your questions. I am always here for you all and if need be you can go on my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and make a Skype consultation appointment with me and we will focus on what is concerning you one on one and explore it in detail together. Please let me know your age and where you are tuning in from.
Thank you for the great video. Very philosophical. Regarding the end of the video when you said have a little bit of respect for yourself, don’t go after someone who doesn’t want you... but what if both former partners are thinking the same thing about each other, caring for each other still but will not reach out to the other because in their mind they believe the other does not care anymore, so we have a Mexican stand off and a relationship that could potentially flourish once again, but sadly will not??? Thank you.
Just send her/him a message and say if you wonder whether I care or not, I do! So if this is why you are not reaching out I want to tell you that I do care about us and I would welcome a discussion if you feel the same way. Just so that there would be no misunderstanding I wanted to clarify this so we will never later on regret that we were not clear about such things! Then you know if she /he also cares then s/he would respond and if not then you know that you have communicated that and there are/ were no ambiguity as you are wondering or questioning now. Let me know your gender, age and where you are tuning in from/ where you are located.
I am glad you find the videos helpful, Jay. You will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :) Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live. Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page: This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic), 12.30 after midnight (India), (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com For Skype consultation: If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Simbaibass Thank you, you are very welcomed, glad you enjoy the videos. Please feel free to visit and like my FB age where you will find posive posts and Live talk schedues when you can ask questions and listen to answers to other people's questions from around the world. Http://facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/
Thank you for the kind words Yogi. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
I am glad you find them helpful Teeah. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran P.S. How to join the live talks: You can join my live talks on TH-cam th-cam.com/users/MD007ish or on my Fb Page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ This is how the post looks like for the Live Talks which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk: LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life. With Mehran D (Author) Unlock Your Mind & Move On! Vancouver time (Pacific), Right here on this link:: th-cam.com/users/MD007ish Then with some additional information on my site or eevents www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
I just want to say, that in my opinion you are amazing when it comes to giving advice. God has given you the gift expression. You are very good at helping sooth my out of control emotions. I love listening to you speak.
He is really the best and i love how he uses his humor!!
It's like your dad sitting you down lol
He's like a father figure for us who grew up without a dad
One thing that makes your videos great is that you tackle the root of the problem, instead of trying to handle the symptoms
"Please don't condense the whole life and the whole univers and the whole world to one person". Stunning truth 🔥
Glad the videos are helpful to you Catrina. We have live stream on Saturdays at 1 PM Vancouver time and again at 9 PM Vancouver time. You are welcomed to join us and ask your question. Let me know your age and which country you are watching the videos from. Click on the subscribe button and the bell so hopefully you will be notified ( by TH-cam) when I go live!
@@MehranDadbeh Forever greatful for your advice!!! it helps me move on quickly!!
Expert advice... Don't follow someone who doesn't want you... Have a little respect for yourself... I just love all your perfect advice... Simplifies everything.
I am delighted that you see it clear and regaining your powers in clarity. Please make sure to share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about the help that it is available. I also have a live talk on Sundays 8.30 AM pacific time on a FB page called " Amazing things in the world “ ( here is the link :facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ ), and usually I answer questions as the end of the 10-15 minute talk, you are welcomed to join us there. Also please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. Be good to yourself always. with thanks, Mehran
I just found this channel. And i freaking love this dude with his advices amongst a cup of tea and some persian delicatesy
+Veikko Tikkanen I am glad the videos are helpful to you dear. Please share them on your social media as my newly finished books are on their way from the printing plant and I need as much exposure as I can for the marketing site www.mindthatseekstruth.com . Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category are you in. With thanks, Mehran
I was thinking the same thing. 2017 good wisdom is timeless. Thank you great advice.
You're the father figure I needed right now.
+Nick Plano thank you guys I am glad the videos are helpful to you. :)
Thank you Joseph, glad the videos are clearing up your mind more.
Even after 8 years this man makes a difference with one video. Going through some hard times so thank you
So true!! Very true after a relationship we are so silly to think like no he is the one for me because the truth is we made him the one by talking to him and getting attached to him and getting used to him we can do that with any other similar guy to him or even better than him and be so freaking happy ! God!! Why we are so stupid when we fall in love we go thinking like no I can't love anyone but him. Well sister no! U can love infinite times after him there's so many guys out there get yourself out of that shell and go meet people better than him years from now you will hardly remember his name. It's very dangerous to get attached to one guy because that will make girls very very stupid thinking that he is the only one out there for her that is totally not right.
I see the truth now and you are so smart sir I raise my hat to you ;) love your channel keep it up man thanks and peace
Haha! The first 30 seconds was perfect. You already made me feel better, now I will watch the rest.
+apeskatt LOL, looks likes you enjoy sweets ! :)
The tea got cold because you didn't nurture it like you did in the beginning. Now the benefits and the way it warms you are gone. So often, people want a second chance to reheat the tea in hopes of bringing back the delicacy of it, but they're better off starting with a new fresh blend and doing their best to savor and cherish its goodness.
+Aquarian Healer Right, It is always ok to try to make it warm again but if you tried and it still not warming up ! then better to keep going and make a new one from the scratch. :)
In the end you were not good enough for them to stay, for whatever reason they chose to discard what you offered and the memories that they have for what some one else offered and to build new memories with them. That is the lesson I see, nothing one offers will be enough and you will be discarded once some thing better comes along. The truth is that emotion is a fleeting thing and love most of all, once it grows cold and still don't try to resuscitate it, let it die. This is the way of all things, the fires of lust and love burn to ash in time and ashes do not warm.
Well put
Tim Waugh exactly...can i copy that?
Junior sngab Go right ahead.
That's depressing to think. I believe you can find your soulmate it just takes a lot of self improvement (physically, spiritually, mentally, emotionally) and a lot of faith. Once you work on your self you can attract someone who's worked on themselves too and shares your same principles
Tim Waugh well said ... Very true
8 years later and you still helping people, thank you
You are welcomed dear. Please let me know your gender, age and where you are tuning in from( which city). Don’t forget we have live stream every Saturday at 1 PM Vancouver time.
The best anology of change and relationship dynamics. Thank You, Sir. I wish I had seen this 3 months ago. She stopped by yesterday, and we talked a few minutes. It all makes sense now...why I broke up with her 3 months ago, and why she refuses to be anything more than civil with each other. After watching this, it's all good now. Continuing to focus on myself and my goals, without the distractions of wondering or worrying.
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Aaron.
There are over 1,300 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live.
Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages.
Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
P.S.
How to join the live talks:
You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel:
th-cam.com/users/MD007ish
or
On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page:
This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic),
1.30 after midnight (India), Europe 8.30-9 PM, (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link:
th-cam.com/users/MD007ish
www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
For Skype consultation:
If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
When you picked up the tea and started talking about it I had a breakthrough. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos. You have helped me greatly and eased my suffering immensely.
MooCow Rex you are welcomed, glad the videos are helpful to you.
Mehran, I have been so heartbroken I haven't been able to function, I've been miserable.
This is the third of your videos I've watched... and it's affected me the most of the three.
Your tea growing cold analogy illuminated a lightbulb in my head.
Thank you for your empathy and caring enough to post these videos.
I appreciate you.
+David Hart Hello David, I am delighted that the videos have been and are helpful to you and bringing yu back to strength and freedom. :) We all have gone through these scenarios of life and we all have eventually came out of it all ok and enjoyed a happy life. For a while it might be uncomfortable but it will never lasts for too long as long as we understand what is happening in our psyche! Be good to yourself always, Mehran
+Mehran Dadbeh Will do, Mehran... love your relaxed, caring persona. You're very calming.
Wow, Sir you just turn me around and make me start respecting myself. Well she left me 15 days ago, I have spent my time, my money everything to support her what she is today. But at the end of the day she left me with many excuses. But what I have learnt today from your couple of consulting videos that - Oh! Yes I am the inventor, I am the master and I am the work in charge, if I can made that pebble glittering than the other why don't I make another.. it's all about me... Thanks God , He introduces me with you in appropriate time. Thanks.
You are very welcomed my dear. Enjoy your life and many blessings as they are all around you. Just relax and believe that you are the master and the universe offers lot more than one relationship or one woman and if it does not work between the two people then move on and find a better suited relationship. :) Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Thanks you Sir. believe it or not you just taught me to respect myself Sir. I am really really happy today, I wish I could just drive away to your home and give you a hug. :) Thanks.
+Asad Jaman :) good I am glad. I accept the hug and consider it delivered. now go and build your life independent to any relationship. you will meet the suitable woman when the time comes and you can choose better. :) Be well and be happy, no relationship is the whole of life and is just an experience of life. life is much bigger than any relationship. Please let me know from where you are watching the videos and which age category you are in.
Thank you Sir. I am watching from Bangladesh (A South -East Asian Country). I am 26 years old, I am working as a VA for multiple of US and Canada based industries. I have already sent you an invitation in you LinkedIn profile. Thanks
Thank you for your advice. I think that problem is that we believe it would be much easier to get something back that we already knew existed in a person than to search for it in unknown territory. We know this person we have lost is capable of displaying desirable qualities so why would we just give up when it could be re-ignited? Forgive me if i have missed the whole purpose of the video but that is how I am seeing it!
I think what you are saying makes sense, it's a comfort and time invested thing. I love how my ex was driven, smart (both book/common sense wise), successful (nurse), attractive, caring and had a great family. On the flip side she was EXTREMELY insecure, stubborn, sensitive and unstable. I just focus on the cons because those cons were always there but when we break up we suddenly become blind to their negative qualities.
LOL that is ok Emma as long as it makes you think about what was shared. In regards to your sentence ( "why would we just give up when it could be re-ignited? )" I say : Is it? can it be re-ignitable? Are you certain about this? if what no longer is apparent or ignited in the person worth the try more than what has been tried already and perhaps should be tried indefinitely, then why would one not think of the others who also do not show any of such preferred qualities at the outset, to have the same potential to have their inner qualities ignited and see if that is what happenes and suits you instead of wasting more time on the person that you have already tried after his/her desirable qualities disappeared, on the person who had it and yet has chosen not to have it any longer or have replaced it with some other characteristics preferred by him/her. The one who has changed has decided not to have what he/she had and that might be less likely to return to how s/he was. In another words they are both unknown in having this potential at this point with "A less likely " checked beside the one who had it and changed it. When a test/ try period is over then replacement seems to be the logical choice! Overly hopeful to such change backs after the first round of changes, means you are looking at it with the eye of the past! You may enjoy this : th-cam.com/video/GqNM2odntDc/w-d-xo.html
I Agree ..that's how I feel but unfortunately I have no control over that person ..I tried to "control"things but nothing happened that I wanted ..so what now? I just let go today and my ex and I will not be talking anymore, it became too stressful for me so if he was truly for me then it will still happen but I have given up on the "control" when I realized I have no control over him can't make someone love and want to be with you
Good old Mehran.. A cup of tea, calm voice and a cup of wisdom, which is allways welcome to me. Respect, and long live Mehran
Hello Mehran, I just want to say that I've watch a couple of your videos about how to help myself after a break up in a relationship and you have given me the most helpful advice I've heard in a very long time. I have been in a couple of relationships before, which lasted no longer than 2 months, but I moved on quickly from them because I knew they weren't compatible with me anymore.
Only this time, earlier this year, for the first time I found a relationship that had meaning to it because we both shared the same interests and we both knew how we felt about each other. But, after they broke up with me, I was left feeling hurt for a long time and no matter where I looked to find help, nowhere had the answer I needed in order to get over the relationship. But watching your videos now has helped me so much that I'm already starting to feel better about myself.
So, thank you for your strong and helpful advice/guidance about relationships. I'll know to watch your videos the next time! :)
+Michael Talbot Thank you Michael for the kind words. I am delighted that the videos have been helpful to you. I owe it all to my son as this whole thing started with discussing his break ups with his girlfriends and noticed that so many other young men found the topics and discussions helpful and the rest is history ! :) Since 3 years ago the number of people enjoying the videos and finding them helpful increased to a noticeable number and the Skype consultations have been almost none stop , I have as you know started to write a few books reflecting my findings and research. One is " The Break Up Pain Handbook" the other is " Me, My Psyche & I " and the third is called " Transient Thoughts and Me ". They will be published by mid January 2016 and you are most welcomed to visit www.mindthatseekstruth.com and take a look at the sample chapters of each book and go from there depending on your needs. Now that I have completed my plug for the books ! :) I wish you a happy holiday season and hope that you will continue socializing with positive people and stay active and enjoy exercising to your fitness level and attend to your day to day duties and responsibilities and make new friends and before deciding that some one is your girlfriend get to know her first and I mean get to know her in the way of getting to know about her consciousness and how complementary you guys are to each other and how understanding you are to each other and then call each other boyfriend and girlfriend. Let me know what age category are you in and from which part of the world are you watching the videos. Be good to yourself and enjoy your life dear as life is lot more than one or two relationships.
Love your philosophy - thank you. Your videos are very helpful, and I love the perception of how to see things differently - I obviously ended my relationship with someone I thought was the Love of my life because after he moved in with me I saw all his true colours, mood swings and bad habits that were not aligned with me because I expect better!! If respect and the same effort is not being served, then yes, just like the tea, he went cold on me and no longer warmed my heart. I was putting in 80% and getting 20% back. It's sad that something I thought would be a beautiful future with this person turned out to be the opposite. Although at the start we discussed and were on the same page with what the relationship would head to....once he moved in and got comfortable....he didn't show or take action with making them commitments and started withholding money & not contributing fairly towards bills, holidays etc always had an excuse for everything and drinking habit was getting progressively worse instead of better. I tried my best to help him, but you can't help someone who doesn't want to change 😢 I'm done enough is enough ‼️
Wise wirds my friend. Helped me out a lot. I think ill subscribe.
I appreciate your videos. They are helping me deal with my divorce right now.
Thank you. That helped me partly. currently going through a break up that i didn't want but it has happened. It's not that easy though to forget years of good memory. I know that person has changed somehow, not the same person I met, doesn't have that heat yet it's difficult to forget all those good memories. they all the time pop up in my mind and don't let me to do all the tasks I am supposed to be doing.
I understand Mohammad, that is why I have made over 280 videos on the subject and how your mind ( your psyche) plays a big roll in how you think, feel , act and react about break ups. Please watch many of the videos and you will find everything you need to clear your mind, get strong and move on. Look up the list and choose from the titles. You will be fine. All is explained for you why you feel the way you do and what you need to understand and how to analyze it and how to deal with it by understanding your psyche.
Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for free webinars, Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Mehran Dadbeh I am from Iran and I am currently 27
I'm older here! I like your videos and you being closer to my age helps because so many of the videos are coming from much younger people. When you're younger you have plenty of time for another relationship. Not so much at my age. My guy left me and we are both in our 60's. But of course he left me for another. We'd been together 23 years, so I'm having a tough time coming to grips of being alone the rest of my life, while he's just starting a new one with a partner. Life isn't fair. I'm disabled and that sure doesn't help in my being alone. I can't get out of my head.
Hello Karla, I see what you are dealing with. If you like please go on my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and make a Skype chat appointment for us to discuss your challenge one on one on Skype as we need top exchange in real time and interactively . I will add an extra hour to your registration for one hour so we will have ample time to explore what is happening in your head and what things could be helpful in dealing with it all. Should you decide to chat with me on Skype just chose any time or day as you register then we will fine tune the appointment on Skype by text before we have our chat appointment.
Best adviser to fix broken heart. I wish to have a Father like you. Take care !
Thank you for the kind words Cozma Daniel. Glad you enjoy the videos and find them helpful. :) Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Up and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Thanks a lot Mehran. it is definitely a very different angle to what people usually do in this kind of situation. You have given me the tools to feel a lot happier now.
+Andres Arango You are eelcomed Andres, I am delighted that they are helpful to you. Be good to yourself and enjoy your life dear :)
I like it. Specially that one " Everything changes and it is ok to be changed".
Just about the best logic and advice for processing a breakup that I have found. Kudos, sir! Many could use this advice and your compassion. Have you ever thought of blogging and/or submitting articles/content to other blogs and online forums? Peace!
I am glad you find them helpful Frank. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
P.S.
How to join the live talks:
You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page:
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or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
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iIf you would like us to address certain specific situation you might be facing with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options is suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may chose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
You are like a grandfather I always wanted. All my grandparents passed away either when I was a kid or before I was born. My dad also passed away when I was 3. I am thankful for your guidance and wise words.
Thank you Debu, I am here and the videos are made for you to enjoy. Soon you will have access to the videos that are unlisted through my site as well. Let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you are in. Be good to yourself always, Mehran
Thank you. I am in India, and I am in my mid-20s.
This is phenomenal.. Never knew one video of yours Sir would push me into thinking right. I have been having the same troubles of hanging one to someone (ex) emotionally but you brought sense and positivity into me. Very grateful.. Thanks
You are welcomed Kunal. I am glad the videos are helpful to you. Make sure to visit my FB Page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ I have free webinars for the next few weeks and you can ask your questions live and get answers and also listen to other people's questions and answers I will offer. Be good to yourself always, Mehran :)
you King my friend. super straight forward and I love to listen to you and Yes, my ex broke up with me and i was in Long distance relationship . for a year and when I finally sort all problems and find solution for us to be together she said she changed and is not attracted to me anymore and she break up. I think in life people who will stay with you forever are those who don't break up that easy. Although It was very hard year for us and I don't blame her but I can't change her decision. Its her mind changed perspective on me. Its hard but is better to move on too.
Good for you, you got it. Be good to yourself always and enjoy life as it is not summed up in one relationship or one girl in a broken relationship. Mehran :)
mehran jan, firstly great choice in your comfort food. i can highly resignate in your wise choice on confectionary. Secondly, just wanted to thank you for your video. It's the first of your video's i have seen but it has opened my eyes to a new way of thinking. I'd been struggling to move forward from a relationship that ended over 6 months ago but i feel enlightened from watching this and feel optomistic that this is the start of a change. Best wishes from your persian friend in england.
+Ehssan Ashkboos Dear Ehsan, Thank you for the kind words. I am delighted that you find the videos helpful and feeling better and stronger. From now on you can not stop the recovery as it is like a hole in a dam, when there is one then the hole in the dam will open wider and wider and the wall will break down bit by bit for a while then all at one big fall causing a large opening letting the water to flow out ....and your emotional freedom will be restored and you are free you to enjoy ! :) It's all in the mind and thoughts dear. Please share the videos you like along with my site address www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media so others get to know about my work and have a chance to read a sample chapter of my newly published 3 books. Please let me know which age category you belong to as well. With warm regards and thanks, Mehran
P.S. Hope you enjoy this one as well :
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man u deserve this Persian delicacy just because u r helping us to get out of the enormous pain rumbling inside.
I am glad you find them helpful "Crash". Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
P.S.
How to join the live talks:
You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page:
facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/
or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
th-cam.com/users/MD007ish
www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
These are all old videos, but I want to say thank you for creating these. This is helping me a lot.
David Bäcker You are cetainly welcomed. These topics have no time limits ( old or new) as they apply to all times as it is about logics, mind, thoughts and consciousness. So enjoy them all whenever you need them they are helpful for all times. :)
Hello Lenka, The tea example was to show if the tea changes it's characteristics and no longer possesses the attributes palatable to you because it has changed it's main inner specifications or characteristics like warmth or colour or integrity in character and essence then why would I or why could I like it as it no longer has what is necessary to be to my liking and to attract me as I chose it because of it's characteristics of warmth and colour and taste... that translates in person to be her warmth and interest towards her partner. So if she does not like him any longer, does not show the necessary interest, loyalty, love any more or having gone to some one else , then she does not have what I liked about her which was liking me and wanting to be with me. But the relationships in which the partners continue stay loyal to each other and like each other and want to and stay together then there will be togetherness and family and all the good things necessary to remain and stay together with closeness and continue happy relationship.... :) Please let me know your age and where you are watching the videos from dear . Thanks, Mehran :)
hi prof, how do I get past the idea that, if I had done better, ie. I should've put the tea on the stove and keep it warm, then the tea might not have changed and things would've been alright for both of us?
I just can't help thinking that I should've done better for my ex and kept our love going.
LOL , I understand what you mean. But that is to turn the clock back! What you can do is to realize that each relationship has it's duration and offers certain level of experience through which we become wiser and make proper analysis and advance forward with more knowledge, experience and wisdom. No sense trying to think backwards as that is like saying if man would have not done or not done certain things in the history of life since the beginning of time then we would have not been in the mess we are as a civilization with not much civility...which are all good reasons to turn back time but it is not realistic , is it? A part of the special abilities of human being is to work through the research and experiences and elevate him/herself to a higher level of expertise and understanding in matters in life. So you do the same and stop worrying about something that no longer exists and is just a memory and learn from your experience and build a better life. So go on living and become who you want to become using these experiences and live your life and enjoy every minute of it without looking much in the rear mirror as then you will not be paying enough attention to the road ahead to have a good and safe journey! Be good to yourself always. Mehran
P.s Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age group you are in.
wow Thank you!!
MY GOD THAT WAS THE BEST EXPLANATION I HAVE EVER HEARD
Good, glad you are clear. enjoy your life and be good to yourself always. Mehran
Thank you so much for making this video it really helped me a lot. I was with the same girl for 7 years and we just broke up about a week ago and I've been incredibly sad about it but this video shows me aspect into the psychology of why I am feeling like this and that gives me tremendous comfort. Thank you Mehran! you are a good dude! keep making video's. I subscribed to you and I do not do that often. I will not follow my Ex like I was trying to make her like me again but I will make MYSELF happy and maybe she will either come back to me or I will find a new girlfriend. great advice thank you so much again for giving insight into these type of subjects.
MON3YonPC You are very welcomed dear, I am glad that the videos have been helpful to you. This makes me happy. Keep going forward and watch the videos as there are lots of angles and most if not all have been discussed. Enjoy your life, don't look back and keep doing your stuff and build yourself further and prepare for when your next serious girlfriend will present herself into your life. Also watch the following and let them explore some other points of views and angles. Please let me know your name, age and location for my referance dear. Mehran
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Mehran Dadbeh Exactly. I just need to prepare my life for when the next serious girlfriend comes into my life. that's such good advice! I am 27 and my name is Tony and I am from Chicago, IL in the United States. Thanks again. And I will definitely watch those videos and any videos you post in the future. Salute.
MON3YonPC how’s it going now man 3 years later? You recovered now and met someone new I hope? And did she ever come Back or reach out to you? I’m 5 months into my break up with my girl of 7 years. Getting better but still struggle thinking of her and hoping one day she might come back (that’s the hardest part, giving up hope I’m having trouble getting past that even tho I’ve been in no contact the whole time). Anyways any update or advice is appreciated thanks
Your distance with the "problem" is helping a lot of people.
Our feelings often rush around after a break up...
5years relationship broke up, 3 days depressed, no sleep, no eat, drunk all the time (and much worse) but those reflection really help me to use my brain instead of trying to forget ( letting the time do the job ).
Great use of TH-cam...
Thanks Again, sir :)
( apologies my english, not native and my grammar is terrible ^^'... )
Your english It is fine, I understand and thank you for the kind words :)
Hello Mehran. My gal came home on Monday and we have been digging deep inside ourselves and communicating about our feelings and dreams. She is still in love with me... and I her. We going to give this long distance relationship a shot and I feel positive about it. We are both very busy with families and now I'm returning to work come Monday so I feel that distance can be good and possibly beneficial and positive to both of us. Just because the relationship has a physical distance does not mean it's a negative one or wrong. We also talked about regular visits and trips together and I'm happy and willing to do so. Change is not one I deal well with but I believe this can bring forth growth for me and appreciation for her on new and different levels. :)
Dan Jack-son Well ok , I hope you are not setting yourself up for another future change of heart from her side. Any ways I would be delighted if things work out and hope that you both communicate sincerely and not because of needs and go forward and give it a sincere chance. :)
I'd just like to say thank you for this video and advice. My girlfriend and I have been more distant recently and last night at our prom she spent the night with another guy. This made me feel worthless and not good enough. I struggled to sleep but after watching this, I felt better. Thanks so much, sometimes people who are feeling upset and overwhelmed with their feelings just need a kind friendly voice to listen to. I can say that you have provided me with that and I think you do help people, impact their lives as you have done with mine.
Delighted to hear this Joseph and thank you for the kind words. Perhaps this also would be something you might enjoy. th-cam.com/video/DYZGRmlKhFs/w-d-xo.html
Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Yes, I will be sure to visit your Facebook page and share the videos. I think more people should see your videos and have the support that I feel I have gained from them. I am watching from the United Kingdom and am 16 years old.
How you doing Mehran, i find it funny having to search for some sort of help through youtube. I got out of a 6 year relationship, its been practically a year now. I watched two videos. "how to feel better psychologically" and this video. Everything you talked about are all cliche. I've heard them all, "plenty of fish in the sea" "she aint the same" typa shit. BUT I have to say, the way you explained everything completely changed my perspective for some reason. The Pebbles, Salt (NaCl) and Tea were some phenomenal examples. I honestly rarely leave comments cause frankly i don't give a shit, but my friend, you deserve a big thank you. I wish I had seen these videos sooner to save me some time, and tears. Again, thank you for taking the time out of your day to help others with their personal issues. Kudos to you boss!
For everyone else, godspeed. Y'all can do it.
you are welcomed and thank you for the words. I am glad that the videos resonate with you..please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you are in. Be good to yourself always. Mehran.
The United States. I live in Los Angeles, California. I'm 21 years old boss. Excuse my profanity on my previous comment lol its 5 in the morning, i got carried away haha.
:) no worries, thanks for the kind words. Please make sure to share the videos you like along with my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about the help that is available. I also have a live talk on Sundays 10.00 AM pacific time ( west coast Canada time ) on a FB page called " Amazing things in the world “ ( here is the link : facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/ ), and usually I answer questions at the end of the 10-15 minute talk, you are welcomed to join us there. Also please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. Be good to yourself always. with thanks, Mehran
Thank you Mehran!
Suddenly i feel so much better, ..Really great work, Awesome channel!
Cheers from Sweden.
You are so welcomed Clarence. I am happy that it is helpful to you. Life is short, no body in no relationship could be that important to stop life, to stop us from having a happy and positive, enjoyable life with good flow of energy. :)
Your videos really helped me. I just broke up with my first real girlfriend, i mean, i had many others in the past but never love then, and also i had never been in a serious relationship, until i meet her. She is really kind and generally a good person, she was really devote to me, she loved me like I never thought someone would, but I was busy with other thing and sometimes I ignored her by choice, this went for over two years, until I realized that she was moving away from me, she was not so in love, she did not care that much, so I started to care more and more, but could not made her fell in love with me again, so i decided to break up yesterday and I was felling fine, I went out with my friends, meet some really nice girls, and the i came home and just started to cry, and cry, and getting really depressed, so I could not sleep, and went to se her, but she said that she I was right when i broke up with her, that we are to far from each other. I know that I loved her, but looking back in our relationship i realized that we never really had a meaningful conversation, when we were together we just look at each other and gave kisses and said "i love you" "you are my life" and sometime that made me really happy, but I know that most of the time was kind of boring even though I liked her. But now i feel depressed, I am nostalgic and my biggest fear is that one day, maybe in a week, or a month, or a year, i see her with someone else, that will be the most painful thing.
Yayo amigo message me on Skype and when I am available we can chat about it together and figure out how and why you feel the way you do. my Skype address is md.trading1
Mehran Dadbeh thank you so much.
Hoping that me watching your videos everyday will help me get through all the pain from breakup and betrayal
+Justin Cuento You will be ok. Almost every one has experienced such things, gone through similar stuff and have come out of it after a while and became wiser and stronger and able to choose better next time. The videos contain more than necessary to understand your psyche and how to deal with this temporary feelings and questions. You will be just fie . Enjoy the videos and enjoy the wisdom you will have having dealt with this .Be good to yourself. Let me know where you are watching the videos from and what age category you are in. Visit my FB pages " Mind That Seeks Truth " ( Two pages one Author and one Books both same name and both good). :)
+Mehran Dadbeh thank you so much. For now this is the worst but I believe someday somehow this breakup will be the best thing that happened in my life.
+Justin Cuento "For now this is the worst but I believe someday somehow this breakup will be the best thing that happened in my life."
Hi Justin, I too was betrayed by my ex girlfriend. It's far too long a story, but basically she walked out on me and got back with her physically abusive ex boyfriend, and she emotionally and psychologically abused me in the process of it all. I would have done anything for her, and tried to help her in more ways than I can count, and in return she absolutely wrecked me. It took some time, but I did manage to find my balance again, and I turned the pain of it all into fuel that helped me focus on my greatest goals in life. Now I'm a published author.
For several months after she left me, I'd have done anything to get her back. But let me tell you, now I wouldn't dream of it. To say I deserve better is a massive understatement. I would never treat someone the way she treats people (not just me), and that really sums it up.
I'm a better person than she is, and she is architect of her own misery.
+Justin Cuento So basically, keep telling yourself that the break up is a positive thing. Channel the emotional energy you feel into something proactive, and yes, it may very well turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you.
THANK YOU FOR THE ENLIGHTENMENT ITS VERY INFORMATIVE AND IT SUITS TO THOSE WHO REALLY GOT HURT BADLY AND HAS DIFFICULTY LETTING GO OF THE RELATIONSHIP AND OR FEELING.
You are welcomed dear, glad you enjoyed it. :)
You have no idea how much you helped me... I'm a teenager, and I just broke up with my first girlfriend and it hurt me so bad, until I watched your video, which helped me a lot... Thank you! :)
+esoteriastudio Good I am delighted to hear that you feel strong again dear. Share the videos you like and my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com on your social media if you will so others will get to know about my work as well. Please let me know from where you are watching the videos and what age category are you in. Be good to yourself always, Mehran :)
Thank you mister Mehran. Your insight and wisdom awakened me from emotional slumber. :) Looking forward for your new videos.
Tomas Kneitas Thank you Tomas, you are welcomed. I am glad the videos are helpful. :)
i needed this video, you probably won't read this but thank you so much
You are very welcomed trmnblck! ( not sure what your name is :)
I am glad you find them helpful . Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
P.S.
How to join the live talks:
You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page:
facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/
or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
th-cam.com/users/MD007ish
www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
For Skype consultation:
If you would like us to address certain specific situation you might be facing with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options is suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may chose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Break-Ups, Unlock Your Mind Mehran Dadbeh thank you!! i will share your videos for sure, and i am 18 years old and i'm from Ecuador
A great video and wake up call!
Please control your emotions, if you love your partner. Don’t dismiss her or his warnings to you about the things that are making them unhappy. If your not the nurturing type consider it with the person you are with. So that the tea bag stays warm and hot because you continue to pour warmth and understanding to their cup. Always state how you see yourselves with them. If they don’t correspond in the like, ask them how they view you with them. It’s how you look at your relationship my friend. Blessings in finding your partner.🙏
thank you very much I have had a battle within me since she told me she doesn't feel the same way anymore walked away, it's a pain too hard to bare but thank you for making this video it just gave me a push to my strength.
I am glad you find them helpful Roy. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
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How to join the live talks:
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Break-Ups, Life & Your Psyche, Mehran
thankyou very much for replying to my comment am grateful and humble, am new to your channel and I will definitely subscribe. am watching from Algeria Africa.
I think your videos are the only thing helping me go on. they give me confidence and strength for a new day. thank you
You are welcomed Destinee, I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful.
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There are over 1,300 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live.
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LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
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Great analyses and helpful video, thanks for helping so many people raise their self-esteem, even when it does not cure the whole pain..it becomes a useful medicine in its treatment...., thanks again
I have watched 5 straight videos of you. You are amazing. You make me come to the realization of true reality with breaking up. Thank you
You have welcomed Jon, I am glad you are enjoying the content. Tell me please how did you find my channel as we are not so easily found! hundreds of people find us accidentally and when they do they have the same positive reactions as you do but they all find my channel by chance. How did you find it?
@@MehranDadbeh To be honest, I am going through a break up, it has about a month now. We were together for almost 4 years. I am not so broken down like I have been before only because I know she is not the one for me. But I still am hurt by the situation. I have issues with my ego. When you are alone you look for certain things to basically make you feel better. So many other channels on TH-cam do not explain things the way you do. You break it down to a science, but are also very personal while you do it. Thank you
@@jonbenson680 Jon do you know that I have live streaming on Friday, Saturday and Sunday around noon Vancouver time? Join us there and ask your questions and I will briefly try to address the questions and when it needs more detail discussion you can always go to my site and make a Skype consultation appointment and we will explore your concerns together one on one.Here is some info on the support available on my channel:
There are over 1,500 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live.
Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages.
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P.S.
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LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 PM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic),
1.30 after midnight (India), Europe 8.30-9 PM, (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link:
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www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
My Instagram:
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For Skype consultation:
If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
@@jonbenson680 Jon, Please elaborate and tell me what were you looking for when accidentally stumbled on my video? what did you search on TH-cam or what were you looking for that my video showed up?
I'm so glad I found this channel
Good Guy.... has some good advise. Keep up the good work.
This is my second video observation of you and your perspective.
I appreciated your simple parallel of the pebbles. Your way of encouraging is very pleasant.
Thank you sir.
Thank you Allison. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
this really helped me. they have changed and no longer same as we were in a relationship.
I am glad you find them helpful, " Mithun ". You will be fine, there are over 1,000 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
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Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
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This video calmed me so much. I'm so grateful. Thank you, man!
delighted that the video is helpful to you. Hope you subscribed! :) and click on the bell so when we have live streaming you can join in and ask your questions ( free of course) :)
This is probably one of the vest videos I have ever seen on your tube... Thank you Mehran for sharing your wisdom and experience!!!!
Thank you for the kind words Maria. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
P.S I just responded to your other inquiry about Skype sessions....( sent to your e-mail address )
Thank you Mehran. 👍👍👍
+Brian B You are welcomed dear. I am glad it has been helpful to you . :)
Thank you for your gift. I need help moving on, and your perspective here is helpful. Four months of flirting with giving up and obsessing over someone has been devastating to all areas of my life. I will check in on other videos from you Mehran. Thank you.
I am glad you find them helpful Scott. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Your videos are wonderful thank you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge on this subject.
Channing Ratcliff Sr. You are welcomed dear. I am glad they are of some help to you. :)
still watching your video's and they are great food for thought. Mehran your correct my girl changed and that girl was the one I loved. After a car accident in 2013 then a major chest operation in 2014 she changed and became very bitter. Then after that she had an awakening of self and I respect that but it changed our relationship forever. This is not the same girl that fell head over heels for me and it's a shame as we were to be married at one point. I thought if I should her how much I loved her and was dedicated to her she would become that woman again.... but she is gone and may never come back. I was thinking of moving to the same town she is now moving to at the end of June... but I now think I should just stay where I am in Kelowna and do my thing,heal and become a more healthy person. If she wants me bad enough then she knows where I am. But my life will move on with or with out her.
Dan Jack-son Yap , now your talking. Lots of fish in the sea and just because you caught one that does not mean is the one or the best one for you or anything, it's just that you caught one and nothing more. It is not what you wanted and now it is apparent, so release her in the ocean or she is already gone on her own way to attend to her own vision of life and plans, and you go about your way and life and the right girl will present herself when the time is right. :) In the mean time do what you need to do and live healthy and enjoy your life experiences and simply live. Life is not limited to what a girl can bring or to one girlfriend or one relationship, there is more to life than we can see at any one moment ! :) Go, go on and live your life as it has lots to offer Dan :)
Mehran Dadbeh Thanks my friend you have helped me pave a new road for myself. I will now have big challenges ahead as their is more to this than just a break up or relationship change... as I have supported her and her two boys with all the finances I made and also at one time was working two jobs to support us all and even my own children as well. I have now not much to live on as I have been laid off and now may be homeless for a bit. Thanks to love and I guess my blindness and lack of foresight has cost me to now be in this position. I never saw this coming(she talked about a future) and she will be fine as she has family to support her and I none only young children. I cant believe after all this I still love her... but now that is changing. Again thank you so... much :) PS she will be back home tomorrow with me for month till we have to move out of our residence.
Dan Jack-son None of us are so blind or unable to know that we do not love the one who is no longer what and how she was. What you think you love is not her is the order that you are now used to, what she was doing for you ( if anything specific) such as may be care for the kids, or cooking, or house keeping or sex or feeling of having a family of some sort.... when some one changes to what we do not like then we know what or how we feel about them can not be love but we have no other word for the psychological security which we felt and so we call it love. So think clearly, we can not love some one who has changed from what we liked, we just think since she was part of the order that we liked, it is her that we still love. Now it is the memory of what and how she was that we love and we think we love her now, but we do not. We love what we remember of her and how she was and we think it is her ( now) because she has the same physical appearance of the time when she had not changed yet, when we used to love her and mistakenly we think we still love her now. :) You will get a job again, you will build again , it was you who used to have two jobs and used to work and was capable to support every one and it is you the same person and same capable person now and can and will do it again and better this time as it is you and your kids and you can dedicate more time to them and have a real family than a uncertain one. :) Then ager on will find a woman who will fit you better and will be more accountable and certain about her role and her worth and her responsibilities and you will build a better relationship when the time is right. In the meantime just take care of you and the children and put all shit behind you and march forward. We are men, we are tough and we can do anything and we will. :)
Mehran Dadbeh Thanks so... much! Your words are truth. God bless you :)
After watching this, I finally fell asleep nice and sweet last night since the breakup in 6 weeks ago.
Thanks Mehran!
Hello Luwei, good sleep easy as you have whole life ahead of you with new experiences and lot more to offer. Enjoy every minute of your life and all these things are just a wind which will always pass as they have no real importance and just seem like they do. :)
watch the videos and you will be more clear why you should never treat a break up as if it is any thing other than a turbulance to get your attention and a vector to the road towards a better destination.! :) Hope you will enjoy the many videos on this subject and have a lovely day. Mehran
some of the best advice I've received about break ups.
True
This is the video that open up my eyes thank you so much.
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Alejandro.
There are over 1,500 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
Hope you have subscribed and clicked on the bell so you will be notified when I go live.
Below is my standard E-mail respond which contains some information in regards to my live talks, how to join in when I have a live talk on TH-cam and where to see my site and one on one Skype consultation packages.
Please feel free to visit and like my FB page: facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know which country you are watching the videos from and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
P.S.
How to join the live talks:
You can join my live talks on Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone), Always on TH-cam channel:
th-cam.com/users/MD007ish
or
On some days of the week ( Same Time Zone) on my Facebook page:
This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 12.30 PM Vancouver time (Pacific), 3.30 PM (Atlantic),
1.30 after midnight (India), Europe 8.30-9 PM, (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link:
th-cam.com/users/MD007ish
www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
For Skype consultation:
If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
Thank you very much for this, i've watched a few of your videos now on break ups. I had suffered a horrific depression for the last 4 months over a break up where the girl changed from being so loving towards me and then changed to being cold and awful to me within 2 weeks of moving back to germany. When i tried to be straight with her and say if you've gone back , moved on, or found someone else just tell me she said no! Wen i went out to see her, she treated me like a stray dog, telling me off for the simplest things. would sleep in the same bed as me, but at arms length. would guard her phone constantly, but would tell me she loved me every night. I then gave her another chance, and said if something was going on you'd tell me right? she said of coarse, but i didn't trust her at this point. we finally got it back together at the end, like it was before she left britain. Then i came home, 1 week later we were split up. It absolutely crippled me, i tried to end myself. got incredibly depressed cause we were once in love and then it turned awful. I'd seen so many doctors, and their talks never really helped me. But you absolutley nailed everything with these videos. i think the first bit you really nailed me was with the " you think she's better than you" bit, so accurate. Thank you very much, you've really helped me here!
I am delighted to hear that you find them helpful and getting stronger Dan. You will be fine , watch the videos they are what will bring you to understand why you feel the way you do and that it is not a must to feel that way but a reaction to the ego, desire and the way you think and led to believe that is how you should be thinking. The videos will unlock your mind! Keep going, you will be fine :)
Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
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LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
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Thank you very much for your reply. I think what messed me up the most was that she left me so confused. I didn't and still don't understand how someone who says they love you can break away from that person so easily without even any evidence of them having a thought for you. She just left, never to be heard from again. which made me think i had been right all along that she had been seeing someone else. It crippled me because, and has continued to, cause i wanted to know if i was right. But the important thing is to get better now, i liked how you said it shouldn't mark how you feel about love. cause it really did for me, and made me have complete loathing for german people, because it made me think of them as soulless. Anyway, i'll stop rambling now. Thank you again.
LOL, no rambling on is ok :) However this has nothing to do with her being German, or Japanese or French or Italian or Canadian.......it has to do with their need and what they were hoping to achieve and what their intention was for finding a partner or being in a relationship.... and this is about what kind of person they are and what kind of consciousness and what are the conditioning of their consciousness is like and so on . So it is about who and how they are rather than which nationality they are. There are wonderful German girls and there are wonderful women from all nationalities and also shitty people in all nationalities as well. It is about that individual and stuff I said above and not where they come from! :) I know you think in this way as that is the default reaction when we have a bad experience with a relationship and we somehow generalize it to the nationality of that woman but I am sure once you have moved on and possibly meet another German woman with whom you build a wonderful relationship then you will think all German girls are equally as perfect, and that is not correct either. All kinds are found among all nationalities and cultures. :) Be good to yourself always and keep moving forward and do not give a rat's ass why she left , just know that the one who leaves is no longer qualified to attract your time and attention and you focus on moving on and enjoying and building your life as best as it could possibly be. :)
Very powerful words and ideas that I had never though of but memories are so strong and still very hard to deal with, thank you
thank you very much mr.mehran ,,, thank you and keep doing more
thankyou for your time sir. you are making a huge difference.
This was so helpful, thank you.
Thanks a lot for your efforts and great videos.
Thank you Sir for pointing out what is so obvious , but "love" makes us (me) blind to.
glad you found the channel and find it helpful Tim. You can join in the live talks ( they are all free) on Fridays Vancouver time 12 noon. Ask yr questions and listen to other people’s questions and concerns as well. Watch the trailer on my channel intro to know the extent of support on this channel. You will be perfectly fine, I am certain of that. 😊
I needed to hear this. Wife cheated several times. Getting divorced, she has a boyfriend and introduce him to my kids and her family four days after I moved out. Divorce will be finalized on April 29th. It will be 39 days on the 29th. She clearly moved on and I was looking to see how I could. I'm glad I found your channel. Thank you.
+Saul Medina you are welcomed dear. Be good to yourself always :) Mehran
Find tea
Checklist:
Warm=✅
Good colour=✅
Good cup=✅
Taste=✅💯
When tea is cold
Dont torture yourself to drink it when you wont expect what you want form it
Make new tea and finish it till its emty
So keep having time with tea so you can have full time love with it and when it ends the tea died you suffer you dont want any other tea
Yes you are absolutely correct thank you very much
aziz aljishi You are welcomed Aziz
I think you are an amazing person and your logics are so real and reasonable. Thank so much for existing in this world and sharing all this. You are helping me a lot. Lots of love from INDIA
Thank you Preeti, you are very welcomed dear. I am glad the videos are helpful to you. Try to join us at my live talks usually on Fridays 12 noon Vancouver time.
Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Thank you, i needed to hear this and understand it and I do, thank you
Thank you for making these videos.
It's a 4 years relationship with her...yesterday night suddenly she called me and said she is no longer gf of mine and love some one else from 2 months...i got shock....but this video has helped me a lot...thank you sir
+Arkaprabha Bhowmik You are welcomed dear, You will be fine and you are not alone. Move on and celebrate that you found this now than later ! :) Enjoy your life and meet new friends and be good to yourself always. It will all be ok.
Thank you! The right video, for the right time.
I am glad you find them helpful Edwin. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Your videos are helping and comforting me. Thankyou so much!
Very helpful video, this helped me understand that i miss the bond and relationship with my ex not necessarily her. I had been attempting to immediately fill it again with someone new, but those bonds and rapport will never be again.
The delicious food you made in your kitchen may never exactly taste the same when you make it next time, but it will be just as delicious or even better because you have the recipe! And you never know, you might very well get better ingredients to put in your recipe the next time and make a far better dish any ways! :)
superb explaination sir....it help a lot
I am glad you find them helpful Ramen. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
This was stated wonderfully. I appreciate your insight! Thank you!
Glad that the video has been helpful to you.
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Hello Mehran, Thank you for your video. I have a question. What if the "old person who used to love you comes back to you all nice, friendly and loving one week, and then completely changes to another person, cold, unavailable the other. Then goes back to that same old friendly person, who you shared your memories with. Basically playing " hot and cold game with you". It's emotionally draining. The person gives you hope one day, then take it away from you the next day. What do I do in this situation?
this is exactly what happened to me. Together three years, swept me off my feet, after a year he starting treating me differently cold and someone that was so different . I left and he wooed me back was back for a year and then he says he is not sure if he love me so I go to leave, right before I move out he says he wants another chance, which I give to him because I love him now three months later its back to cold empty and rejection, and he says he does not love me anymore????j WTF now I am feeling like a yoyo and I fell like he is using me for his whims
Sunny C. I need help with this situation too.Did he make a video yet?
Somehow never saw this message until now Sunny! :) The short of the long is that such people are not balanced and you need to move away from such situation or behaviour/ treatments that ends up conditioning you. This bit of so called good, friendly behaviour once in a while causes you to look forward for the good behaviour/ treatment and to tolerate the bad in order and with the hopes of receiving the good treatment which becomes like a treat and for this treat you become conditioned and become willing to endure the nonsense/ the abusive behaviour. Then you feel if you move away from this person then you will no longer receive the relief that you have been conditions to look forward to every once in a while making you think that you are actually receiving such valuable prize and will jeep enduring the bad situation, the bad treatment and never move on and free yourself from such people. Just free yourself from such dependence on the good treats and move on and build a normal relationship with some one else eventually and when ready at some point in time after having moved away from it all and regained your balance and normal respect for yourself and higher and normal expectation from a relationship.
Thank you so much for your reply. I really appreciate it. I've gone no contact with that particular individual. Hopefully I'll be able to heal and move on completely as soon as possible.
Hi, I was in a relationship not so long ago and my reason to break up with her was a misunderstanding. I broke up with her because I though she lost feeling and I didn't want to get hurt so I ended there. Afterwards, I see parts of her that I really didn't like(personality wise) but I like what she does, how she looks and somethings very little of who she really is. Now I'm faced with this problem. I do not like to hurt people, and she wants to be together with me still. I don't know if I should complete leave it as, we have broken up and let's be friends or if I should be with her again. I will thank you for your advice
i like your tea analogy...ty for all ur helpful videos
You are welcomed BJ. Glad you find them helpful.
Wooow this is powerful. This helped me soo much.
I am glad you are enjoying the channel and finding the videos helpful Kieth,
There are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
The secret to manage a break-up and to be able to move on to a happy life is to understand how you are put together and why you feel, act and react the way you do in life.
Such knowledge is provided on this channel through numerous discussions ( in videos ), or when live streaming and exploring people's questions and concerns after a breakup, from around the world.
You will be perfectly fine once you get to know yourself a lot better! :)
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You are a brilliant and very helpful man
You are very welcomed dear. Be good to yourself always. Mehran
Best advice on the net.
Glad you enjoyed it and found it helpful Rudi. You will be perfectly fine. Just watch the videos and you will know why you feel the way you do and how to look ahead and move on to bigger and better things. Join in the live talks when you get the notification ( if you click on the bell) and ask your questions. I am always here for you all and if need be you can go on my site www.mindthatseekstruth.com and make a Skype consultation appointment with me and we will focus on what is concerning you one on one and explore it in detail together. Please let me know your age and where you are tuning in from.
Thank you for the great video. Very philosophical. Regarding the end of the video when you said have a little bit of respect for yourself, don’t go after someone who doesn’t want you... but what if both former partners are thinking the same thing about each other, caring for each other still but will not reach out to the other because in their mind they believe the other does not care anymore, so we have a Mexican stand off and a relationship that could potentially flourish once again, but sadly will not??? Thank you.
Just send her/him a message and say if you wonder whether I care or not, I do! So if this is why you are not reaching out I want to tell you that I do care about us and I would welcome a discussion if you feel the same way. Just so that there would be no misunderstanding I wanted to clarify this so we will never later on regret that we were not clear about such things! Then you know if she /he also cares then s/he would respond and if not then you know that you have communicated that and there are/ were no ambiguity as you are wondering or questioning now. Let me know your gender, age and where you are tuning in from/ where you are located.
Thankyou for the fatherly advice I never got.
I am glad you find the videos helpful, Jay. You will be fine, there are over 1,200 videos on my channel now and I am certain that they will be helpful beyond expectations! :)
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LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
Usually on Friday, Saturday and Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
12.30 after midnight (India), (but it could be earlier in the day), Right here on this link:
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www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com
For Skype consultation:
If you would like us to address the certain specific situation you might be faced with, then please visit my site www.MindThatSeeksTruth.com and click on the " Talk to me for consultation " button and see which one of the appointment options are suitable to your needs. I will receive the request through the system and will confirm one of the 3 time and date choices you may choose and will confirm it through e-mail or the Skype address of yours.
You are so loving my friend...I thank you!
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U r blessed to help others..
A person sent by god to soothe those in pain
Thank you for the kind words Yogi. I am glad you find them helpful. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With Thanks, Mehran
Than you Mr Mehran Dadbeh!
You are welcomed dear.
I loved every word you said thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Very good. I wish I had this understanding in my 20s.
I am glad you find them helpful Teeah. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what this channel is all about. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
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LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
With Mehran D (Author)
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