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Well.... Got married, had kids, built a nice home, had three kids.............and....... Here I sit, by myself! No friends, ex wife, family, nothing! Paying child support! 🤷
What was the reason for divorce
if you lost all that, you deserve it. You must have been real dumb to lose all that
We need men to fight for more rights rather than being forced into a full time supporter and have to be a weekend dad. Not enough men speak up
What happen with your kids man??
@@manikyum I'm quite sure she was contemplated leaving, way before this, but we got into a big argument over something, that I didn't agree with her on, and she used that as the final excuse to get a divorce! Also, she worked in the school system, and there was a woman on her job, that was bragging about how she divorced her husband, and got a new man! She would let me know this on a consistent basis! It was already the beginning of the end, I just didn't know it!
Abusive families, narcissist friends, toxic coworkers, annoying people everywhere taking advantage of you, bullying you and treating you like rubbish ... I think being alone is a true blessing. 😂
there are some decent people out there i know it because i choose to follow The Lord and do right even though i've been done and influenced so wrong but i know exactly how you feel im all alone with no one the only people i interact with are my colleagues at work but Jesus loves us and he has a plan i thank God for protecting me and i trust he will put the right people in my path and i know he will work in your life too open your heart to him God does not want us to be alone
This is why woman don't teach men.
100%
Louder for those in the back 🔊
As a lonely man I would say "The grass always look greener on the other side".
Im 62 and I will die alone. I've accepted that reality. People don't care about me because when the chips are down nobody will be there for me but me.
Jesus is waiting for you to accept him, my friend.
Same (I'm 20) and nobody is there for me apart of me
Virtual Hug for you am so sad😢
Same. I'm 56. But yeah basically that's it. I have nothing to look forward to anymore. I work full time. Great job. The pay comes in. Goes out. Week after week. Year after year. My kids live a little far from me, both doing well. I'm proud of them both.
I lived life on the wildside for 3 decades plus. Had a ton of fun. Made some great memories. But then it got out of hand. So I quit that lifestyle and now stay under the radar for the most part. I have 2 of the best cats in the world. They love me unconditionally. They're loyal and SO BOSSY 😂😂😂 but I wouldn't change it for the world.
I guess I'm still here today for a reason. He's not done with me yet ❤ 🙏 I am really grateful for the small things today. It can all disappear in a New York minute.
Great video. I got alot out of it. Thanks so much.😊
@@Real_shred_kruegerAnd Jesus will always be there for you.
I am 45, single with no kids. I retired early and own property and endulge in things I love to do. I am the happiest I have been my whole life. All the relationships I have been in I felt alone and was very unhappy. Once I worked on myself and decided to go solo, I don’t have any regrets. If I am single for the remainder of my life, I am fine with that. It’s about self love. If you have self love, no one can take that from you. Life is always beautiful.
Amen sister.
@@ajthedirtpoet9433unfortunately people who preach "self love" are usually some of the worst people to be around, if you do one thing they don't like they cut you out or worse for the alleged sake of their "energy" it just reads as new age slop.
Copium
@@jennifermyers775😂
I also love living by myself.
This is why people in tribes are often genuinely very happy. They don’t have a lot, but they have each other.
Very nice point indeed
It's because there not brainwashed by consumerism and social expectations they live at one with nature and appreciate the simple things people have forgot. Replace vanity with humanity 👍
Their women arent bombarded with sexual options constantly on social media!
Are you sure they are happy? I heard stories that they are not, especially woman.
Just like Maga Morons. 🤣🤣
All of us, even your children, will eventually be forgotten. Most wealth doesn't last 4 generations. Everything you do will fade away, family or not. Enjoy life while you have it.
True, basically everything is meaningless, just have fun
All we are is dust in the wind.-Kansas.
Depopulation is a natural process after overpopulation.
This man just realise he needs to settle down. He still doesnt know the next phase yet. If he is lucky he may stay married till 67? He may take care of his family but His kids will unlikely take care of him when he is invalid, at most they pay a visit some time not often. He be back to being alone again in his last phase of life.
Unless ur a star ⭐
Growing up in a narcissistic home, rest of my life was coping and surviving. After probably 8 years of trying to figure this life out, at 35 I can finally say that I have found myself again.
Do you have any advice for a young adult whom just got out of a narcissist family. How do you get the chance to know yourself? How do you heal for that situation and move on to a better life?
have to find the environment where if you are not appreciated, atleast where you will be free. You must to have as much freedom as possible to make your own decisions and do what you want to do. For yoursefl only. I would say even leave most of the relationships, even friends, because they will never understand you. Leaving the environment you have been you do not trust yourself, do not feel worthy of anything good and most likely are a people pleaser. Now it is time to please you, only you matter. Love yourself as much as you can, little by little, call out to God (if you believe). Pretty much nobody cares about you really, but in your journey you will be blessed by people who will want to see you for who you are. But they will be gone too, because you will be constantly growing@@applepretz5368
@@applepretz5368You have to physically put your life back together. If you need qualifications go to school and get them. If you need a better job do what the employer wants for you to get that job. If you want friends become a person your ideal friends would like to hang out with. If you want a family go and start one responsibly of course. Most likely none of this will be easy but if you want it you will need to make a start wherever you at. Self will come through living life. Healing comes with time and no contact. Best of luck I am doing it now.
@@applepretz5368Honestly the best thing you can do is turn to God. He will be your guiding light and provide everything you ever need. Just pray, stay strong, and whatever you do, do NOT allow your family back into your life. They will try especially once you become successful. They'll try to shame you and blame you ever more, for things that aren't or we're never your fault. Keep your privacy and life away from them. Go back to school if you can do you can get a career and ensure your financial stability/future. They hate independence but that's what you'll need. Always get some therapy or counseling if you can. You'll need that as well when healing and moving forward.
Same for me.
Well that was a bitch slap of truth if I ever heard it. 60, broke as a joke, 50k medical debt, unemployed, alone with no children may God have mercy on me.
adopt a dog or a cat
Tell me, how does it feel. I’m worried and want to die now, I’m 22. I live utterly alone and away from family because I was dumb and wanted to move up in life, I sometimes just want to go back to that simple life. Fuck success.
Tell me, someday I will not have anyone in my life anymore. No love. How does it feel?
I wish you the best man (y)
@@i-hope-nobody-me Thanks
@@agarrikr2996hold tight man, we will survive this.
35, recently divorced, no family. This one hits right in the feels.
35 here, single wolf all my life, life had been always struggle to survive for me, it hits bad in the feels, but I did the best I could, this one gives me peace, and I am honestly now just happy I am alive and healthy every single day, it's enough for me, if I don't have kids ever that's ok.
Hey, chin up. Was in your situation once. A funny thing happened a year later and met my new wife. Neither of us had kids and we started a family. King story short, the universe has another plan for you. It’s coming. Hang in there.
Recently divorced. That’s an ouchy. This is why I preach don’t rush cause of ur age . Could be a long road of stress
I got divorced a few years ago in my 30's, having been with her since I was 18. Honestly, it was messy and the worst thing I have ever been through. The worst part for me was having my children turned against me and that still haunts me. But work on yourself for a period of time, might be 6 months or 2 years. During that time don't date anyone. I needed that time on my own to find myself more than anything. I still have issues with my children and the ex-wife, but I have a different girlfriend now. I've upgraded. As horrible as it was, it gave me massive determination to improve myself and go for what I want in life. I think it either does that, or you go the other way and drink/take drugs or commit suicide. Choose the right path, you can come back better but as a man it takes time. You can win in the long run.
37, no kids no family and happy as I've ever been. As recently as February of this year (2023) I was bed ridden for 3 months with one of the most painful diseases known to medicine. I was literally screaming every day and had chronic lethargy so I just had to lay in bed 24/7. But now I feel perfect and have also started going to the gym. I couldn't be more thankful. I thought I was gonna die or never get my health back. It was a blessing in disguise though because I really am as happy as I've ever been.
Not everyone is meant to have children and that's okay.
Kids often don’t make people happy, sure you can leave them your inheritance of broken cell phones, tattered clothes and a heavy urn…
often people who arent meant to have kids and are terrible parents, have kids...
@@pete531 - here in NYS you have to have a license to do just about anything including fishing… but absolutely no training is required to raise a child…
Like every street kid in 'The Wire'. Their "parents" consist of a non-existent father and a drug addicted or perma-aggro broke mother.@@pete531
makes no sense. as raising kids is the most important thing to do right... @@RustyZipper
Hell, I'm 62, and I forgot to build a life for myself. If anything, take solace in the fact that you've helped a lot of people through your work. Hell, 50 years from now, NONE of us will be remembered anyway. So eat that steak, drink that beer, enjoy life as much as we can while we're still here. The bad news is, we're lost. The good news is, we're WAY ahead of schedule. So eveybody keep dancing.
My wife have kids and they don't even call her, so just because you have kids it doesn't mean that they will not throw you under the bus.
How come every married man I talk to seems beaten down and dislikes their wife? I've had this interaction so many times
They stop sex for the man but the man feels trapped due to money commitments
Most married men are happy. Youre delusional.
try to get married
I'm a a single gay man. All my straight guy friends vent to me about their wives or girlfriends. They break down into sobs. Alot of them take huge risks because their sexual needs and urges blind them into toxic situations.
Because marriage to women is HELL.
I'm 28, My whole life was literally just trying to survive. I've never had these thoughts of leaving something behind for my next generation, because my mind is always preoccupied with trying to leave something for myself.
Relatable.
May you leave the survival mode and enter your thriving era in 2024. We all fight a personal battle in different ways. Wish you well 😘
@@moniqueabundance thank you so much. Much love
4 real I'm 47 and still feel this way. Pass the legacy over? 🥴 Brah! We live in different times. Can a man's average measly income provide to pay today's mortgage payment as well as college for your brats as well as every other expenses? Women nowadays don't need us around anymore neatless to say they're financially independent and very self centered it's all about me me me. Just live life as best as you can keep on doing what you're doing don't rely on no one really cuz you know what at the end....we all die alone.... anyway!
@@gregoriopreciado6719honestly it doesn't matter when we are dead and gone. I think a lot of the legacy thing stems from ego and existentialism. But to each their own and people should do whatever makes them happy. Everyone had a different path!
I am 44, no kids and don't miss them. The Universe was fine before I was born, and it will be fine after I die. Our lives mean nothing.
Not true it's the woke feminist ideology that has infected the west and the legal system that is constantly telling straight white men you are useless, worthless, dangerous and we don't need you it's all lies. l have never believed that about men you are strong, reliable, dependable, you protect,you serve,you are amazing. I spend so much time alone telling myself I can't wait to be gone because life is unbearable and then I get those times when a sweet,kind thoughtful gentleman will treat me with respect and kindness and he has no idea how much that act of kindness meant to me. I am 45,I have a son and I have been single for 12 years. I am just glad I never slept around and did a lot of stupid things instead I am extremely lonely, no friends,no family. I hope you read this message even if you send me a thumbs up, I just wanted you to know that someone cares. I wanted to send this message and a reminder that a stranger cares about you. YOUR LIFE MEANS SOMETHING 🌻 YOU ARE SOMEONE 🌟
AMEN. Preach brother. 😆
My father is 75. He doesn’t have friends, doesn’t have social media and phone because he doesn’t know how to use it. He didn’t want to watch tv at all, he just want to listen to his old radio, listening to music and news. He is so contented and eating same kind of food of what he knows and liked. Im so amazed because I can’t live without my phone and I’m getting depressed if I didn’t go out for travel. How I wish i can live longer like my father.
Happiness are simple actually just enjoy every single little thing with pleasure, last just be grateful and don't be overthinking
I don't know how old you are but I'm guessing you grew up with cell phones. I'm 47, no internet, no cell phones growing up. Those of us that didn't grow up with them have a easier time not having them because we lived without them. Im on my phone just as much as anyone, but if all phones went away tomorrow I'd be fine
simple difference between men and women, women need validation it's just their nature. not a bad thing, find a good quality man
That’s different, he has his family.
Depopulation is a natural process after overpopulation. Why travel when you do not know your own hometown? There is a lot of places to find the exact sense of fulfillment. Let me guess, you are idealizing traveling to an exotic location or Europe. Look, baby, all those places do not exist anymore like they used to exist. This problem is global.
Passing my wealth onto my nephew. No problems. No cope. Never wanted kids since the day I was born. I still watch all your videos and agree with 99% of it.
I might do the same and charity
Same boat a lot of ppl have told me if I had the chance to do it all over again (having kids ) I wouldn’t do it .
He only thinks it's COPE because he WANTS kids and he's projecting his own shortcomings onto his audience. My younger brother HAS 3 kids...He gave nearly 13 yrs of HIS life to a Single Mom and got kicked to the curb 3 yrs ago. I can BET my bottom dollar he loves his kids but would hop into a time machine and NEVER give that Bitch a chance and just stay single IF he could do it all over again. Having kids isn't some type of secret formula to Happiness. Plenty of Men rope themselves or blow their heads off AFTER having children...
You guys sounf like boomers not giving your children inheritance giving it to yourself and leaving debt
Most folks nowadays are so in debt that they’ll never leave an inheritance beyond some tattered clothes, a bunch of broken cell phones and a heavy urn.
58 and the forever bachelor. Been through it all...houses, women, and cars. Now I'm happy with a good book and a round of golf. Will walk the 18 tomorrow! Timmy C Arizona
46 no kids, never married.. probably never will!!
@@brians2328Yep, same here. It’s a wonderful life 🙂
No wife = happy life. 😊
52, no kids, no wife, never married, nice car, house, collection of motorbikes, money in the bank, couldn't be happier.
@@Markycarandbikestuff Kickass!!
I never had kids, never regretted a minute of it. I’m 55 yrs old. Today I visited my dad, he’s 84. I had to help him to the bathroom and off the toilet. On my ride home I questioned, “ who will do this for me when I’m old?” I don’t know, but still glad I didn’t have kids.
Just keep stacking your money, and when you're older, you can afford to hire a care nurse to help you with stuff you can't do. Wishing you and your dad all the best. Godspeed, brother.
@@strangerdanger8462 I’m saving lots of money, I want a hot nurse. LoL. Thanks for well wishes on my dad
Even if you have children, it's usually hired health care aids who does this for them. Children can visit once in a while but usually not available for daily care because they are busy with their own lives.
How about taking care of yourself through exercising. Mainly strength training instead of sitting around consistently and eat better healthy food and work on your mental health. Old people like that never cared for that their entire life by choice and they most often pay the price in the end. No disrespect for your father but as someone that works at a hospital and sees these elderly people going through with this while talking about how they should’ve taken care of themselves and many other regrettable stories they share, it’s just not worth letting age catch up for you to find out. They did and already living a life of regret by choice
My parents are still alive, and I have no intention of taking care of them. Meanwhile, I'm helping my best friend with her parents, because they were there for me when my parents weren't. Be kind to people, and you won't die alone.
I am 45. Never got married. Never had kids. The amount of life experiences, self-worth, VERY low levels of stress, great health, financial security, and my overall happiness can all be attributed to "no kids, never married". When taking a look at my fiends, family, and others around me I don't think anybody would argue that I appear to be MUCH happier and fulfilled than most if not all of them. And they'd be correct. I go to bed whenever I want. I wake up whenever I want to. I go where I want to. I buy what I want to. I flirt/date whomever I want to. Furthermore, by not having kids I am not subjecting any other life to the dilemmas of living/surviving.
Is it really?
No kids, no wife, get old and die alone eventually. It’s sad, I know someone like that at a nursing home. He was miserable
Yes, you go out and never have anyone to nag you when you come home. Is that independence or loneliness?
And nobody to support you or share your problems with.
Sounds like a sad existence to me pal
The movie "Fight Club," had so many gems. One of Tyler's sayings that stuck with me was, "The things you own, end up owning you." That movie is a must see for every man.
31, no family, no friends, I live out of my car. I love Jesus and I love making the most of each day. Being outdoors is what keeps me healthy and happy. I haven't found the right man yet but I know he's out there ❤ Thank You God for this life, and everything about it.
you have no real expenses (no family or friends) yet you live out of your car ? You would have either mental issue or drug issue, which is it ?
@@AbdalMalik-ye1dfI'm in the same situation but I'm not addicted to anything and not mentally ill I just cannot afford rent on my full time paycheck
Continue praying, read the Gospels, Psalms & Proverbs, but work hard to get a roof over your head. It might be a roommate situation, but hopefully something will come up. There are good man out there, but for the love of God, stay away from the players and F-boys, they will destroy you. Peace. 🙏
I'm glad you love god ... your doing just fine .... be you and be proud of yourself ... you will find someone who loves god and also loves you :)
Love Jesus ❤️ Praying for you 🙏
33, no money, no job, no friends, never had a girlfriend, never had a single date, don't fit into this world because of my autism. The only thing I have to look forward to is my final breath.
Hey don’t think like that.. there’s a purpose for everyone of us! And only because you don’t fit into the typical drawer doesn’t mean your life is worthless. ❤
Don’t forget now God has been with u all alone if u believe in him, he WILL NEVER for sake u. When ur heart ❤️ gets heavy and u feel stress, or anxiety, have a conversation with God. Invite him in ur bedroom, bathroom, living room or kitchen it won’t matter if the place is a bit messed God won’t care cause he loves u he loves u. Please don’t EVER forget that. I send u positive vibes, good feelings, love and prayers 🙏🏾
I would like to say the same thing to you as the others. We are all here for a short short time. My advice is to look at nature, there you will find wonder and hope. Look at the smallest insect, magical, and ours to study and marvel at whenever we like. We are not expected to do anything, that's just society pressure. Look at the world and love it while you're here xx lots of love from the UK xx
Hei! Can we be friends?
I agree with everyone's supportive comment here. I've found burning incense helps me alot, especially when it feels like I'm drowning in my own thoughts, & normal breathing becomes a problem. Burning & moving from one room to the other releasing that stuck up energy ,especially bathrooms. Regularly mopping floors . Remember to take off your shoes & ground yourself, allowing actual earth to touch your feet, 5 mins once in a while. Find a good herbal tea. Learn some home gardening skills ( currently doing that ). & regularly talk to your heavenly Father.
This life ain't for the weak.
I'm turning 65 in a week and I believe that we should live for God and nothing else. Self improve for yourself not to just try to get women. Keep your body and mind strong. Help others who could benefit from your wisdom
"Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's Mighty Hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." - 1 Peter 5: 6-7
What a lot of nonsense coming from an elder. Just because you will die alone doesn’t mean other have to. If you truly lived for God then you will have a family since that’s what God wants us to do unless your calling was to be a monk. Nobody loves or cares about old people except their own children. Your advice only proves one thing and that is Misery loves company
@@ThePatrick464 You sound full of misery
@@ThePatrick464 I think what Ricky is trying to say here is to encourage young men to conduct their lives with a foundation rooted in God. In other words, hold yourself accountable to a Love and Power greater than yourself. Having this Love will see you through the dark times and will embellish the good times. Some men will get married to the right spouse and have a wonderful family. Many others will get divorced or widowed, suffer through job loss, family deaths, illness, injury or loneliness. Some bad things and some good things will happen to many of us. The problem is when we fall into the abyss of darkness and despair or vanity and hubris. Having God will help keep you on an even keel. Its so hard to understand this when you're young, but do the best you can. I recommend reading The Book of Job and Ecclesiastes as a start.
Whatever makes you happy!
47, no family, no true friends, never married and no kids. I hard a tough upbringing so right now struggling with depression
Exactly the same but at least you have no divorce and no kids …
@@EscartefigueuhI know buddy. That’s a major thing. It creates options. All the best
@@BuffaloBilly69 just really don’t know what to do about my life.
Invest in real estate, gold, taking care of my grandma et mother.
What’s next ? Woman are not anymore my focus, they can do whatever they want I don’t mind 😅
44 here. Marriage and kids isn’t for everybody. You can adult without them. It’s actually quite freeing.
Finding love isn’t a requirement but having a tribe is
@@slapshotjack9806you love your tribe so in heart, finding love is part of the requirement & discovery.
@@slapshotjack9806 For you perhaps
If I’ve learned anything in my 33 years of life it's that you will never be completely happy no matter what. Life isn't about being happy. Life is a mix of moments of joy, happiness, and pain and suffering. From birth to death. Having family and friends won't solve your problems, it just adds on more. Life is an experience, neither good nor bad. Life is about living, there's no right or wrong way, ultimately.
Goal
Living life peacefully, through god
Through displine
Have more positive memories than bad
And enjoy every money don’t just exist
Enjoy the rain sun food sand dirt drive traffic enjoy every moment living with intent
Naw there’s many wrong and many right ways although I do agree with your sentiment
i would say health is the most important tool of all, without it everything else fails to work.
Yeah, We are not here to be happy, but to survive, to sell our genes on, and that's how it goes. Happiness and the like is just chemistry in the brain, that too is genetically determined.I certainly do not want this game for my children, so I will not bring any into this cruel, deadly world.
LFA is a straight up dude that drops knowledge daily, he needs more subs. Thanks for everything LFA.
I’m his age I’ve come across ALOT of dudes so called “ dating gurus “ he’s the best .
Definitely one of the most practical advice channels ive come across in the past few years
Dude gave more wisdom in 11 minutes regarding interpersonal relationships than my father has in the 20+ years of my life.
Damn that’s sad. Isn’t this common sense? I wouldn’t call this a brutal “black pill” as he said, it’s just reality.
Some dads are dumbfu**s like mine was. 😎
@@467076Common sense is black pill when delusion is ubiquitous.
Jesus the amount of people that blame parents for not being perfect in this age... U do realize they're just trying to live life like everybody else is, they probably had the same shitty experience growing up, it's on you to improve the next generation. A fathers job is to bring the food to the table and keep you safe, anything else is a bonus. They're not there to babysit you and teach you philosophy all your life. As a man you need to embrace responsibility no matter how hard your childhood was because nothing will give you more pleasure than to help the people in need.
Overthinking "life is a gift." No choice in it. Having a negative mindset instead of trying to live helps no one thrive😢.
No kids, no wife...No problems! Life is too short worrying about what others may think of me. There's nothing wrong with being a lone wolf.
After almost died from my depression after my partner dumped me and hurt me mentally and emotionally i love being alone.I used to think i would not be able to live single but single is the best of best PEACEFUL NO UNNECESSARY STRESS,CHEATING,GHOSTING.Thank God for the rescued from toxic relationship🙏
Same experience, I’m alone and that’s ok.
She will never find what’s she’s looking for… be sure of that. So don’t regret her.
I agree on what your saying.
Life balance is the secret.
I found my wife very late in life and had kids at 44.
After thinking l was never going to have a family.
Best thing l ever done.
I'm jealous. Congratulations on your success!
congrats man
David Goggins: “yeah balance is important to a lot of fucking people”
Stay hard
My mate said it's "life changing." He's a great dad too.
44 is kinda late. The energy level goes down, I guess.
We have a similar story, LFA. I haven't suffered the same amount of loss as you, but I have lost many friends including my best friend. Keep in mind that you have impacted the lives of countless people on this platform. You're the most balanced person in the space imo. Keep up the good work.
huh????? Stuffered?????? He not saying his sufferer he saying he be winning to much..... his tired of winning...
@@pro.empireI suggest you rewatch the video.
@@pro.empireyou seem to have no idea what the video is all about brotha
The message wasn't for you man, @@MrFlynn-bt6mt its was for frankimus go read his comment...
its was for frankimus go read his comment... @@artemisentreri4244
Did that stuff.
I’m currently 47, alone and lost. Going through the motions until death comes.
Me too
Me three. 58. Maybe another 15 years that would put me at 73. Id be fine with that
are you a woman?
me too
its because your sexual market value has dropped to nil and now you dont get attention, this is a sad reality that most women dont see or take notice of until they hit that point in their life, but before that women spend their lives looking down on men and using them so its natures way of dishing out what women dish out earlier in their life.
46, never married, no friends, no family.
You forgot the third phase…likely divorce and financial ruin which hopefully is offset by what you achieve in number 2. The fact that cool dudes like you aren’t having kids shows there are underlying issues. Having lost my father and only sibling when I was young, you have my prayers and best wishes. Keep fighting
But even if you don’t divorce and hit financial ruin - an almost scarier fate is being trapped with someone you don’t like or live anymore. I don’t know how many of these “dead marriages” are out there but I know of several. That or where half the time you are fighting with your wife and just want her out of your sight or vice versa. I mostly agree and understand what LFA is talking about in this video but it’s not easy meeting someone you really are into - even harder to make it last. Oh and trying to meet childless women that are somewhat attractive in your 30s is very difficult
Facts. Dead bedrooms and/or divorces are where most marriages head to. Most married men look absolutely miserable to me. Then again, nobody wants to end up alone. We’re kind of screwed either way.
that's my thinking at the moment. I hate loneliness, but my missus is getting more and more disrespectful by the day. @@Thatdude64317
@@ajthedirtpoet9433 yessir
I feel amazing being alone with no friends and no family.
Me too ❤❤
How old are you though? 20s 30s? That’s a big stumbling block in me developing a relationship - I need to find someone that is worth sacrificing my solitude for .. of the women I’ve met lately - they don’t come close
no you don't or you wouldn't be looking at this videos LOL ! Don't cope, just admit you are a loser and need help
Then that means you're living life right. Don't listen to these normies and fuck conventional standards of "fulfillment" and "happiness"
Me too, and I'm 59.
I had the whole wife/family thing and had a kid in my early 30s. Later I got divorced and had a blast living the single crazy life dating mostly much younger women in my early 40s , but I tell ya'all if it wasn't for my kid everything else would have just felt empty at the end of the day... The coach is spot on on this one. Family and legacy is everything.
so did you divorce because you wanted to hook up with younger women?
@@limitlesky nope we just grew apart in the relationship... Then I realized I was single again as a mature man and still had a lot of options in the dating market with younger women, which I was never aware before it happened
@@trqster hey man more power to ya! Everyone is different. For me I dont want a family and recently got out for a 13 year relationship. I found what makes me happy is focusing on me, finding new hobbies, spending time with friends and loved ones, and I love being by myself! Anyway, wish the best of luck to ya on your future endeavors. Happy trails brotha
@@kingjoseph5901 Thanks bro, like you said everyone has a different path, but eventually things change and that's ok too
"...but I tell ya'all if it wasn't for my kid everything else would have just felt empty".
How do you know this? You can't have a kid and not have a kid at the same time so you can't know how your life would have unfolded if you didn't have a kid. This is usually said unconsciously as an internal defense to squash feelings of doubt before that feeling manifests into regret and resentment. This not to take away from the positives that having a kid has done for you which I don't doubt. And why do you (or anybody for that matter) care about one's legacy?
41 years old, no kids, no wife, my 5 year old relationship ended 3 years ago. I have very little friends at the moment. My parents are still alive but I think that once they are gone I am going to be very very lonely.
I’ve been there done that. I was married for twelve years and had a daughter. Marriage and having a child is not all that it cracked up to be. I’m still ordered to pay alimony twenty seven years later. My daughter thinks I’m the reason for the divorce and doesn’t talk to me. I’m more than happy to be by myself. I’ve been in the United States Navy and retired from a great company. I really enjoy the peace of being single and retired, with a comfortable retirement check every month. Living the in San Diego, California
You sound like a deadbeat dad playing the victim card who women can't respect not even your own daughter because you sound cowardly and pathetic.
Sorry to hear things didn't work out with your daughter, Frank. Keep your chin up, sounds like you are doing better than most out there.
You just chose wrong. I did too cause I didn’t know self, Boundaries and self respect. Now I know what I don’t want. What’s important! Choose wisely. Don’t rush. Watch the person actions and not words.
Yeah das how it goes
If you're retirement age, I would strongly consider getting revenge.
Was married 22 years thought it was the best thing in the world until it turned into a nightmare. Divorced at 44, had a family, good job, house, 2 cars and the rug was pulled out from under. It was a living hell going through that. Looking back don't know that I would do it again. Today everyone appears to be out for themselves, nothing but surface talk, no real connections for the most part. I am blessed to have a few close, true connections, but I am with the other commenter, live your best life for Jesus and help as many as possible.❤
You might think married people are happy and not lonely but you can be the most unhappy and lonely while married. No one really is honest about it. I bet you 10% of current marriages are good. Could be less. I’ve never in my life seen a married couple and thought “I want that”. It just comes with so much negatives. It’s relationships that are challenging and are forever challenging. Always need work
@@b-rare I’ve been married nearly 5 years and I can tell you it hasn’t really made my life any better. I’m more lonely and miserable than I ever was when I was single.
I never really appreciated the single life as I always felt I was on the outside looking in.
Many if not most women will cut off the sex and affection after marriage and kids. All you’re left with is a lot of work and responsibility and very little reward other than spending time with your kids and watching them grow up (which you don’t really need to be married to do).
My wife even admitted to me that her only priorities are the kids and her job; a very clear indication that she doesn’t give a shit about me as a husband or a lover anymore.
I think is “normal” for most married men.
I did 13 years lol, got out of it last year and am learning self love and finding new hobbies in my mid 30s.
Quincy on TV said in 1978, "Women you can't live with them and you can't live without them. Today, we men can live without them, we have microwave ovens, washer/dryers, dishwashers, dogs/cats, Big Screen TVs, Unlimited Free XXX online, chatting apps, etc. and our hobbies and interests. Women need men, men don't need them anymore.
@@MD-xl1sq do you believe you chose wrong or too hasty to get hitched?
One of the most happiest moments in my life is when I was alone. I like being alone. It's peaceful and quiet. I don't like being around people anyways. I just like focusing on myself. I live for me. Not for anyone else.
Same bro
When I was younger, I thrived living alone...but I also had my family that cared about me..and maybe a couple of acquaintances. Now that I'm older I'm not so self confident. ...and only a few family members left that I cherish. Things change with time.
I would rather leave the money to organizations. I don’t care to take care of souls who didn’t ask to be here. This world suckssssss
Make peace with yourself, accept yourself as you are, then you will see that none of what you mentioned are a must. When you NEED something, be it family, kids, woman, friends, material things, to be happy, that is a sure sign you are not balanced and there is work to do with yourself. Again, start by ACCEPTING yourself as you are.
that's just another way of 'improving' yourself. the never ending acceptance of your shitty situation you pushed yourself in.
amen. abreeze of logic, not some wisdom.
That honesty was brutally refreshing, I am 37 and I felt every word uttered. Real knows real. Love 🧡
I am 42 i have no family, no friends and no kids.
I am 32, no kids. Had a vasectomy to ensure it never happens. I love my life! Every person will have their own personal definition on what a good life is. there is no one-size-fits all prescription. Appreciate your perspective though!
I"d have to say this is one of your best videos. I've done a lot of self improvement. Retired at 46, no wife or kids, and no regrets. The ones that are most jealous of me are the ones with a wife and kids. As far as leaving your wealth to your offspring, I've seen a lot of kids piss their inheritance away. For me, the only thing that keeps me grounded is my faith in Jesus, and that there is something better after this world. I think having a wife and kids in this day and age is a bad decision, with the financial cost, and the quality of women to choose from.
@@VaGdude Thank you for the compliment.
Maybe.
Let’s not forget guys the grass is always greener on the other side of the tracks .. the single guy will sometimes be envious of married family guy - the family guy will sometimes be envious of the bachelor. It’s human nature .
So true, how did you manage to retire at 46, an age most can only dream of.
Anyone can retire at anytime they want. Buy a tent and live off the land and stop being obsessed with money and material things.
It takes two. Gotta self improve to a certain level to attract someone. Gotta earn enough to support a family. Think a lot of it can come down to having the means to access parenthood. But definitely some people can talk themselves into needing more time or not being ready
Broke, flaky dudes have kids out the ass, so the money aspect only matters to a man that actually want more than being a "baby daddy."
Those are the very basics tough.
I agree. While its easy for LFA to say to fellow 37-year-old dudes to "get out there and meet people" etc. its a mountain to climb for out of shape, semi socially awkward, and broke guys to do. Heck, if you're broke you don't even have the gas money to go to any kind of social event anyway.
Never married, no kids. No friends, no family and couldnt be happier. Regret not having a family? Hell no. I have had a great life, despite the narcisstic family. Freedom can be a very powerful drug.
31 girl at work left me a week after my dad died for a colleague. Got another job. now I just love making my car faster and sending it. ❤ From South Africa
Wow!!! 👏👏👏 Thank you LFA , I needed to hear this at this exact moment. We're all going through struggles and take things for granted whether alone or with family.
Family is vital brahs, but not with damaged females.
Facts!
@@LFA you inspire me to create new content bro. Hope all is well. Merry Christmas 🎄
💯 no compromises on that matter. Better to be at peace alone than to be trapped with someone who makes you feel alone.
Proverbs 21:9 KJB
“It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.”
Most of them are damaged beyond repair. Pass.
Exactly
You said it yourself mister, in the end is the family if you have that family with the right person. They are the one who will be with you through tough and joyful times!
Nah dude. Im 52,no kids, dont want kids. Life is amazing and i look forward to everyday and see my family and friends and fiance everyday.
Well, ultimately we are always ALONE. We just distract ourselves with friends, family, career, goal, self improvement etc..Embrace the loneliness and those things are you saying won't affect you.
You'll be forgotten in this world in a series of twos. 2 days after death, your acquaintances will forget about you. 2 months after death, your friends will forget about you. 2 years after death, your spouse and children will forget about you. The ONLY people who would never forget about you are your parents, and only in the rare occurrance where you precede them.
Let’s not forget that simply being in a relationship doesn’t mean you aren’t alone
A family which you brought into this world together with a kind woman cannot be termed as a "distraction"
@@manikyumI agree. It gives your life purpose and meaning....healthy relationships that is 😊
Exactly
I’m afraid if I have kids they’ll grow up in a dystopian tyranny
I have watched a video for you 5 years ago and I remembered you so much... here you are so realistic and true and down to the earth thanks bro. ❤
I'm Gay and disowned at 15.
No kids, no friends,or family.
I don't mind it.
No partner?
Self improvement is always good. It's not the reason why most guys are single nowadays. It's the feminism, family laws, promiscuity, social media.
So you haven't met the first girl you'd consider for a partner? Or even a date?
Sounds like you're blaming women instead of taking ownership of your shortcomings.
Everything you listed has been endlessly shoved into your face by those that want to create an external locus of control. It creates a perpetual victim mindset.
You want self improvement look into attachment theory. That creates an internal locus of control so that you are in control of your life instead of intangible boogie men that are "features, not flaws" of reality.
@@anicamatthews2283 not really, i don't blame or hate anyone, i just don't want to take part in the degeneracy.
The majority of people who have children didn't plan on having children,it just happened with unprotected sex. It doesn't work that way like 1+1=2,a man will most likely end up paying over half his life but he still has children. Most likely will have much trouble in a marriage but he still got children out of it with a divorce. I haven't seen one married couple who been together over 20 years that didn't have troubles,and most likely the man had to bear much burden just to keep that marriage together. You know we can think in our own minds this fantasy looking from the outside but in reality it doesn't work that way. Ask men who have children about their view points,most children today do not appreciate their fathers they only view them as a resource unfortunately. I get where this man is coming from,but in reality the majority of men who have children didn't just wakeup one day and decided to have children. The majority had children young in their 20's sleeping with women or a woman having unprotected sex,unmarried. Many decided to get married,and later divorced as a majority. Now those children are adults and the parents have grandchildren,but through those 3 generations it's wasn't a fairly tale walk in the park. Many of those children have nothing to do with the fathers,because their mothers painted them as in the negative. Some of those children fathers are not the fathers,many of those fathers had to pay 18-20 years of child support..but hey those men still have children. Very few families and children structure turns out the way the man was describing,very few.
THIS IS ME!!!! I regret this soo much. 47. No kids. Never married. I want a family to love. No one to leave everything I have to. It’s a damn shame.
it"s ok brother you are not the only one
Lol never marry these 304s ever gentlemen
50% of the time it ain't the correct father
Same and I’m 45. Dating for me has been a complete and utter waste of time. No matter how low I make my standards it’s never low enough to draw interest
You come into this world with nothing,and you will leave with nothing but your faith.
Don’t feel bad. I have been married for 34 years and I’m very lonely. My bio family is mostly gone now. My husband and I have drifted apart and aren’t close like we once were. My best friend since childhood and only friend, died at 46, six years ago. It’s lonely sometimes. And no amount of self improvement makes any difference when it comes to making me happy. People are crappy towards each other. It kind of stinks.
This hit home majorly. Thank you.
There's nothing more powerful than being Authentic...
Im alone at 63 divorced 2x My family was small and passed on...even my 2x best friends my horses have passed away. But I have the Lord. He helped me in so many ways its hard to explain. When I get to a dead end a new road opens up and leads me to new opportunities. I have my health and im fortunate to have a good paying career. I see everyday as new opportunity for adventure or just finding the beauty all around me and not take it for granted. The negative is in todays world true love rarely exists....its very fleeting.....my parents were married 50 yrs......I was lucky as a child. Great video.......God bless.
“All things work together for the GOOD of those that love the Lord”- Romans 8:28
@@SpiritusMundi4EVER amen! everyone who called out to the Lord in his life he helped from the woman who just touched his robe was cured... to the thief on the cross called out to christ who stopped dying to promise him a place in paradise.....Russian Orthodox.
So nice to read about your faith in God and how you see the positive in life. I am also Orthodox but I am so acutely aware of all the evil in this world. I see it everywhere and in everything. And even though I believe in God it’s hard to get rid of this feeling
@@hautecouture2228 True but you must not waste your time here...the past will never return...focus on the new.... At this very moment someone is being diagnosed with stage 4 cancer.......soon the bell will toll for all of us....focus on what you can do to make yourself happy.... God is giving you this time dont waste it. God Bless.
Offfff get a cat and kitty litter.
In an attempt to save any/every guy who isnt married and doesnt have kids yet, let me say a little about me. I have kids. They were complete accidents. Not a day has gone by since losing my freedom, meaning the birth of my first, that I dont wish I could hit the rewind button. They cost a sh!t load of money, time, energy and mental health. Whatever fantasy of love you have in your head wont be enough to cope with it all. Their Mom doesnt completely suck, but she sucks enough, that it adds to the mound of reasons to regret doing it in the first place. Without a doubt, I am a resentful Father. I hide it from my kids as best I can because I do love them and dont wish to hurt their feelings, but I hate it. I would never EVER do this again. Everyday Im just biding my time until they are adults and are grown and gone so I can get back to doing ME. I have had to give up so much personal growth, personal endeavors, adventures, experiences...you name it. Its never ending. Not to mention the lack of sleep and just being able to wake up on your day off from work and just chill and relax around the house without javing to cater to somebody else. You have kids and its ALL OVER. Atleast with marriage, which you should NEVER do, you can get it out of it. It will cost A LOT of money, but you can end it eventually. With kids you're locked in. Theres no undoing that. I have a hell of a lot more to say but its too long to write. I soooo desperately wish SOMEONE would have told me these things when I was growing up. Some kind of a heads up would have saved my life from this misery. I absolutely would have gotten snipped at 18 years old . I would have begged any Doctor to do it since they typically wont to someone so young. Women obviously suck in a million ways. Thats why MGTOW and the Redpill have taken off so much with Men. However, not enough gets said about kids and what that will do to a Mans life. For whoever cares to read all of this, if this saves you from F*cking your life up... just one guy...Im happy. Saving other Men is literally all I have left at this point.
I appreciated your effort. It made me feel better as I am not missing out everything from girls not wanting me as I am quite short to them 5'6. I hope you survive this 20 years. Head up, many parents starting new life, when kids leave home and are quite happy. Be strong bro! You will look back and say, its not that bad after all....
@@am-vy1fb HI. I am 6'2" and have purposely never dated, as I saw what could happen once you gave up so much control of your life. And I am a senior. Every lifestyle has its payoffs and tradeoffs. Right from loving Nature at age 5, I did not want to be in any sort of relationship. I was already happy. I steadfastly kept that reference point despite the arrival of the sex drive at puberty. It is said that no woman can ever be truly happy. Why would I want to associate with such a person for years and years? Thanks.
thanks brother, really appreciated the message.
@@am-vy1fb 5'6 aint that bad, its just about acceptable as average height on the low side, my dads buddy is 5'6 and he looks well proportioned with a large head and a good head of hair so he looks 5'8 in shoes and pulls it off well, you should also just concentrate on women who are 5'2 and below then it wont matter to them.
@@am-vy1fb try to obtain a "swimmers physique" by lots of swimming and this makes you look taller, it gives a broad elongated look to the body with broad shoulders and a strong neck with good posture.
Thank you for this LFA. I needed this.
Bro this video hit me exactly in the spot. I’m 100% in this rut. I just turned 32. Im always self improving lol. I also am able to just cut people out and I have no friends but I do have family just not my own family. Problem is I don’t want a girlfriend or a wife it grosses me out . I do want kids . Something I have to figure out. Being alone coming home to an empty house to me is gold man. I don’t know how life could get better but I do want kids eventually. I just dont like girls man. They’re horrible most of them and they like only want you if you’re rich. I have my own business I own real estate I’m a landlord I’m jacked shredded 6ft I have the package but I find woman are super shallow today and it grosses me out so bad. I have to get over that mindset cause I know they’re not all like that. I don’t even want a hot girl I’m not even into hot girls they normally have big egos. I want like a humble loving person who’s kind and just feminine . I wish I had that. Dating apps are useless dude. Has to be real life connection for me. I have to open up more too im an introvert so I avoid all social interactions purposely but I do know I need to change. This video hits me exactly in the feels. But also you can be 50 and have kids it doesn’t matter for a guy so don’t feel like you’re too old. Also don’t rush cause one wrong woman can cause you tons of stress for life.
You will find a good woman from another culture.
50? You Want to be able to play and run with your children not a grandpa
Yea bro, save money for a ticket and hotel to Philippines or Thailand or Indonesia. You will find what you're looking for in a woman there.
@@DavidLoveOfficial Exactly what I was going to say, I've seen quite a few guys in workplaces who's wifes are from South-America, Far East etc. they treat men so much better from there. Wish I'd done it years ago as dating was a nightmare for the most part in UK!
Just be patient my man. Take your time and dont rush into anything even when you finnaly find one thats different. Within a year or two all true colors will show. Most importantly if we are not living for God life is meaningless. Worship your creator and obtain salvation through His
Son Jesus Christ. Believe in Jesus and repent of your sins and and He will make you new! Ask Him to bring you the right wife for you and he will. There are still some good ones out there but most are found through traditional means, the grocery store, meeting through friends etc.
im 34 lost everything lost apt losing a relationship with my older brother. Got scammed twice. Addicted to Pornography and Masturbation addiction since 2000. im homeless lost everything. lost job.
Everyone is going through shit be stronger
This is your problema Bro, semen Is the creation Energy from god you need yo retain AND transmute your sacred Energy all your live can change
I appreciate this video. I’m a 36 yr old single woman with no children and I agree. There is nothing more fulfilling than meaningful connections and relationships. Thank you for this I feel less alone.
Wow bro i really needed this one. Thank you 💯
I’m 50 and spent my whole life chasing the society’s norm, and yes I had relationships, love, children and lots of good times. But I also had heartbreak, abuse, betrayal, depression, sadness. Well that’s it for me. Ive got off the hamster wheel of life and going it alone. I’m chasing peacefulness and calm these days. Lone wolf. 3 years into it and most days I’m content and at peace. Sure I feel loneliness on occasions, but it gets less over time.
This is the dark side tradcons don't tell you. Even if you win, life can still smack you in the face
Yep, life is no story book. Relationships most of the time will end, especially now days in the social media era. I've been in 4 long term relationships myself, 13 years being the longest which ended last year. I'm not learning to love myself, spending time with childhood friends and finding new hobbies. I'm in my mid 30s and feel I am having some sort of awakening. Anyway I wish you all luck and good health.
As a lone wolf by choice from age 5, including no intimacy, I would say I get lonely about 15% of the time. But I spell it as horny. :) As a senior, the Internet has opened world upon world of interesting things to explore, along with the Nature I loved from age 5. To me a relationship is a distraction. I would rather have that occasional loneliness, than be in a relationship and wanting to be alone 85% of the time, and not being allowed to do so. Thanks.
This video hits home. I am 31 single as fuck, rejecting women who have good intentions for me for reasons like " she has a high body count " or " she is not submissive" and see all my friends making happy lives with women who on paper had a bunch of red flags. I am really wondering if I fell into the same type of rat race that we often fall in our careers, but in my case in my personal/love life. The thought of ending up alone creeps up on me and scares me, but then I remember that I am 31 and if I get my shit together I can turn this around. Fingers crossed
Yeah try to not be as picky - just go on dates and try to have fun.
Don't let the fear of being alone convince you to put yourself in a worse position. #1 you don't know what is going on behind the scenes with those women and what they might be up to unbeknownst to your friends. Leopards do not change their spots and you don't know if they will make it #2 the sad reality is most of us die alone even if you are married and manage to stay that way unfortunately someone dies first and you are often still by yourself unless you have extremely good kids. My grandma lived many years a widow without my grandad and my mom the same thing. That being said don't give up and don't be down on yourself.
Stay a way from females with high body counts. You better yet dating older woman. Younger girls are hard to deal with. They expect everything from you for free and never I Mean never have I met a young girl to take responsibility for her actions. That bothers me to the core. I can't stand it. Try older women. They have their shit together and are easy to talk to.
I'm 30 and feel and see everything you're seeing. But honestly bro those friends making happy lives with women.... they're in their 30s. It's all roses at this age because of the endless achievements that keep coming like marriage, kid 1 + 2, career growth etc.. when they're 40 and the kids start answering back, the wife starts complaining and there are no more "achievements" left to unlock and post on social media, maybe then they won't be so happy.
It'll always look like sunshine and rainbows from the outside until it falls apart. Making life decisions out of FOMO is not good. Be calculated, know what you want out of life.
By far the most powerful, impactful video you have ever made. Our lives are nothing without loved ones, close friends to share it with. I know this all too well.
Dude, thank you for being honest and putting yourself out there like you did here, such a powerful message, thank you for your bravery, everything will be great for you, simply bc your head is in the best place.🙏🙏🙏
I turned 35 yesterday. I am broke
I am military and lonely. No kids and over weight.
I literally tried to buy my friends….
I guess I’m lost.
LFA talking about some REAL stuff. Thank you for sharing your story brother.
I had this girl that i had such an amazing connection with. We weren't in the LTR since we were 600 km apart but everytime she came back from uni to my city we would spend time together. I thought she was the one until one day she just basically dissapeared on me, and gave e the coldest answers to simple questions. With the heaviest of harts i had to move on. One day after 3 years I saw a picture of her i've taken myself and I just couldn't resist and i reached out.
To make story short we started seeing each other again and it was even better. I couldn't belive how in love i was. One day she casually told me she was in a lesbian relationship from the moment she dissapeared on me the first time. She never even considered or understood how she broke me the first time. Regardless I was so in love that i've forced myself to ignore it since we weren't in the commitet relationship the first time. Still this changed something with me.
I wanted to tell her to be with me for real this time but I was scared (and hurt) I just couldn't We did almost everything as a couple. She even told me how special our connection was. The day I decided to tell her how much she ment to me and how much I wanted for here to be mine the "COLDEST" version of her came to see me. She turned away from my kiss, we had the worst coverstation about nothing for half an hour, she gave me this "sad" look that I will never forget to disappear from my life. This time for good.
Now I see her having a boyfriend and I'm jelous. Not crying myself out. But the feeling "it should've been me" never left. Sometimes I feel I've missed out on the women of my life because of my fears of telling how I feel. On the other hand some people told she just wasn't for me and I actually dodged a bullet.
All of this is to convey the massage LFA is preaching. Connection, chemistry are the most important and powerfull feeling you can have with the girl. I had more sex this year than in half of my life and still the only thing that matters is that feeling. I miss it a lot.
Wow, this video hit. I think a lot of people..all ages..are suffering from loneliness and social isolation. I go for walks every day in my neighborhood and smile and say hi to strangers, but usually an average of 2/10 will even look at me. It seems this world has become so disconnected. Teens from the middle school nearby walk with their heads down, wear black hoodies in 90 degree weather while staring at their feet, and look depressed. It breaks my heart. Also, it's so easy to get caught up in the "self-improvement." When you don't have a family of your own or many friends or maybe just never felt good enough or like it's been the right time, I think we turn that inward, constantly trying to fix/heal/work out our issues...it can be a constant battle. Thank you for sharing this. I think a lot of men and women can relate. ❤
“I don’t see why LFA is so popular… he’s just a normal guy.”
No fake flexing, no fancy edits. Just real conversation from the patio.
Not many will show their face and be genuine like this. Too many people flexing cars and watches online. This dude prob has all that and he’s honest about it not filling the void. I totally get all this. Men need to have kids that’s what’s missing
Authenticity
the majority of married men are not happy or men who went thru the divorce machine wish they never got married......spend a day in divorce court and talk to some of them. talk to someone who is broke from divorce and child support payments, can't pay their bill's, maybe living with other people or in their car, or maybe went to jail because of false allegations by their ex or not able to pay child support. or the guy working 3 jobs 7 days a week and is in debt ---go talk to these people - their are a lot of them
38 and had ny first kid. Total game changer. I never thought i would be a good parent, but it was the best self promotion i ever got. Nothing is more rewarding to me and i can't imagine my life without her.
That’s nice, you should have 10 more then
@@blessings4life maybe I will
Really appreciate your thoughts, LFA!
Been here since day one.
Enjoyed every single video . The lighthearted ones, the ones were you make jokes and play around ideas and these serious ones.
You really hit it hard when you make these.
I think anyone can relate to these, even partially. Regardless of social status, physical appearance and even the country they live.
Take care!
by definition, people crave things they don't have. It's like water, in the civilized world, means nothing. In the desert is everything. Don't let your cravings or your needs define you.
Or freedome means nothing, but imagine slaves being killed by their owner. That freedome had to be their dream of the life as something like being rich today....
I've been treated with indifference/left for other guys by every girl I ever dated. I somehow can't imagine marriage being a good idea for me.
It's not. Marriage is dead.
Why did they leave have you tried really finding out the reason
@@manikyum They didn't give me honest answers when asked, but the guys usually were either more popular, party hard type of guys that everyone knew, or had more money/nicer car.
@@mikeb6383 and let me guess you were the nice guy type
@@mikeb6383 That's usually the case. Women often times think they can do better, until the wall finds them and they are finally humbled by reality. Unfortunately, it's usually an inexperienced unattractive provisioner whose been beta orbitering her for some time. He gets his chance, but what he fails realize. He's not getting her in her prime, he gets in her decline. If that isn't already bad enough, he gets weak conditional sex and eventually cheated on or in some cases cucked for a more genetically superior man. So the majority of married men aren't winning any prizes, unless you want a wife that's 50 pounds overweight with a body count that rivals Jason Voorhees.
Thanks brother. It feels good to know I’m not alone. God bless all who read this.
Such a profond message here… I can relate 100% ! Self improvement is great to a certain extent. What they forget to tell you is to accept yourself here and there while you’re on that journey, to always be gentle with yourself. Not to only focus on self but connect with like minded people on a deeper level and protect your relationships like gold. This is what matter the most at the end of the day.
You sir have helped a lot of people. That is not for nothing. Maybe that is part of the journey? We appreciate your honesty, it takes a strong man to do that. Thank you LFA.
Thank you, LFA for sharing! Very real. It's scary for sure. The uncertainty. I'm going through that right now. I recently got into a relationship and it's all very new and scary to me, but I'm learning, going through the emotions, the anxiety, the fear, and accepting my masculine animal side of me. Learning to be dangerous but choose to be kind. Lots of stuff to still learn in life! I find the hardest part is going through the emotions and learning how to regulate it.
I hear you bro. I missed the boat, and now 61. Ive been fearful of people, but hearing what you say has made me think you gotta try. Ive started going to Church, and after a slow start, it has been amazing in terms of connections Ive made.
I needed to hear this. Thank you
"Lifes meaning is simply just to be alive
and yet people run around trying to accomplish something beyond themselves"
-Alan Watts
This is probably why Americans are among the most unhappy people. Everything is a lecture about "not living up to your potential" or trying to "change the world" or making you feel bad for not being a multi-millionaire by age 30.
So what are you saying?
If life's meaning is simply to be alive, then I wish I never had to live.
@@TirianOfNarniado you need to talk? With sayings like this it seems like you do.. I mean if you are willing to reach out I can lend an ear. Maybe lend some words that could help.
I see it as, everything may be meaningless but that in itself is reason enough to go make someone elses life feel a little less so. Try enjoying the small still moments mate, think about how far you've come. Everything in life is either blessings, lessons, challenges etc. it's all there as part of the game.
There's this quote I like, may help you possibly.
"If someone tried to take control of your body and make you a slave, you would fight for freedom. Yet how easily you hand over your mind to anyone who insults you. When you dwell on their words and let them dominate your thoughts, you make them your master"
Don't let your own thoughts get to you, here's two more quotes "Your mind is dyed by the color of your thoughts"
"We suffer more in imagination than reality"
The greatest gift is being a miracle to someone else, Were gonna die anyway, either you makes someone's meaningless life a little better or you just don't and then you're dead. The end ya know. It is what it is. Accept yourself, love your fate. Treat yourself like a good friend. Be patient. You have worth mate.
@@TirianOfNarnia It's a primary meaning, if you are not alive you can't do much can you? So the primary meaning of life is to learn to enjoy simply being alive NOW, not giving in to FOMO etc. But it does not have to be the only meaning. For instance "Only life lived for others is worthwhile" could be a secondary meaning of life.
This hits deep, not gonna lie.
Thanks LFA, great video, Cheers!!!
i will never be alone because i am always with myself
LFA at its finest in these past weeks. Nuff said. God bless you brother . !
LFA speaking facts we can chase a checks but it’s nothing like a reality check. Keep putting out the content . Highly appreciated.
Facts..love this video!
Much respect to you for the vulnerability. Hope all is well with you also brother 🙏🏽