Q&A: answering your personal (and sometimes invasive) questions

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  • In today's vlog, I'm answering some very personal questions posed to me by my viewers on topics including my divorce, new boyfriend, alcohol, BPD progress, mental health, and more. Thanks to everyone who left a question for the Q&A. I appreciate you! And thanks for watching!
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ความคิดเห็น • 316

  • @NanaIsMyNickname
    @NanaIsMyNickname 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    girl McDonalds IS the american diet

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      It's definitely a large part of it for many people.

    • @Sufferfish
      @Sufferfish 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      It's the cheese that has all the weird additives and emulsifiers in it

    • @Ske2016
      @Ske2016 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Right. And to say eating McDonalds every day is healthy and plant carbs are bad I just… plants are good for herbalism, but not to eat…. A lot of mental gymnastics going on.

    • @indo6012
      @indo6012 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Mc Dickles is the best. Nothing like cardboard flavoured like meat between sweet cake buns. 😊

  • @babajayne
    @babajayne 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    To the person who asked about the infant loss and how to support their family through it, I’m so sorry… maybe this will help. After having a miscarriage my OB told me something that helped me. “If it’s a strong pregnancy, there is nothing you can do to end it. If it’s not a strong pregnancy, there is nothing you can do to keep it.”

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Thank you for sharing that. 🖤

    • @everchangingskies
      @everchangingskies 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      i think that comment would make me feel worse. unless ive totally missed the point? why would you want to hear you cant end it or keep it?

    • @mimsycookiiess
      @mimsycookiiess 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      @@everchangingskiesI think it means that it’s not your fault and there’s nothing you could’ve done to prevent what happened especially since most parents blame themselves when their child dies

    • @babajayne
      @babajayne 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@everchangingskies like the PP said. I couldn’t help but wonder if I could have kept it if I had done something differently. I got pregnant again shortly after, and I was so afraid it would happen again. What my doctor said helped reassure me that it was beyond my control. Now I have a 1-year-old 💕

    • @everchangingskies
      @everchangingskies 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@babajayne i understand, glad it helped you

  • @nala9750
    @nala9750 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Just my opinion, BUT if I was in a new, and healthier relationship, and really was really happy, BUT I was still married to another guy, I would want to get out of that marriage ASAP.. I wouldn't keep it in the background. Why? get rid of the old baggage and fully move on. :) That's me, once again you do you.

  • @jenny881283
    @jenny881283 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Hey Cindy! Thanks for sharing with us. I believe you can file for divorce yourself. There would only be a filing fee, you would need to travel back to were you got married, but it shouldn't be too expensive. Since you don't seem to have any assets together aside from the car he kept and no kids it shouldn't be too hard. I highly suggest you don't put it off for too long because technically you could be liable for any loans or assets ur husband gets and defaults on. Also, if anything were to happen to you (God forbid), he would have complete control of what happens to you or your body. Love and glad you are in a much better place now. 💕

  • @mandiprice9043
    @mandiprice9043 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You may not see this now cause im commenting super late on this, but my brother recently went through a pretty nasty divorce. His wife had cheated on and off for years and finally ran off to be with her boyfriend she had on the side. He was completly devastated. He had a really hard time letting go of her, similiar to your situation. Its only been a few months and hes started dating a girl he knew from high school. Its done wonders for him! I havent seen him this happy in years. I couldnt tell you how thankful my family is that he seeing her. So yes, dating someone can be really helpful when youre trying to move on.

  • @loraleepooley3669
    @loraleepooley3669 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If something went wrong it’s normal to be sad.

  • @ladylucke09
    @ladylucke09 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    A suggestion for Salem Massachusetts.. yes it’s very cool during Halloween but super crazy. Sometimes a little too much. To really appreciate the history. I recommend going off-season or just after Halloween. that will allow you to visit all the shops, and talk to the shop owners, because many of them are into witchcraft. It’s really fabulous there and have a feeling you would enjoy more off-season. It’s absolutely gorgeous in the summer.

  • @eshqa
    @eshqa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love the honesty, Cindy. 👌💖

  • @GradientWinds
    @GradientWinds 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    This video made me a little sad because I feel like a lot of these questions fall under the bucket of the fact that women can just never win, no matter what they do. Cindy, if you’re happy, that’s all that matters and I’m proud of you. ❤

  • @thescrappay
    @thescrappay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Cindy, thank you for answering my question about your relationship with alcohol! I know it can be really complicated. 💜

  • @guineapiglove78
    @guineapiglove78 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Really enjoy your videos. Stumbled across it when you were going through a horrible time and wondered what I'd come across. Stuck with it and now watch them all. Love your thrift shop visits and different shops you go to. 🙂

  • @marciawright2600
    @marciawright2600 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "Crouched in a corner with a Fricken box of Captain Crunch just shoving it down my throat like a Mad Man" 🤣😆😂

  • @gingerrogers5062
    @gingerrogers5062 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wow, this Q & A looks and sounds very different in light of your recent breakup. While the interim has certainly been painful, the insights you’ve gained since this was shot are exceedingly important and valuable. Good luck going forward!

  • @craiglogan4604
    @craiglogan4604 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love videos like these! It’s so good to get to know you!

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!! 😊

  • @claudiathormann9852
    @claudiathormann9852 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    The fact that so many people think that UTIs only come from people’s “dirty” parts is actually embarrassing… most sexually active people will get one at some point, it doesn’t mean the other person didn’t shower lol

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      People are sorely misinformed about UTIs. That's what I've learned here. Lol

    • @plumdutchess
      @plumdutchess 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Everyone has different bacteria on their body. Touching any part will cross those to and from two people and can cause issues. Any kind of issue. People really think any type of infection on the outside of the body means you don't have any hygiene.

  • @snowlocke1342
    @snowlocke1342 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Hi Cindy! RN here, the uti question was so wack. One tip I could give is to increase your water intake. I know you’ve mentioned you struggled drinking water and that is one of the easiest way to help prevent it while adjusting to a new partner esp if your are doing the do sporadically and not on the regular. Good on your for always taking it seriously tho bc I had patient who went septic after a uti didn’t clear up. Hopefully you won’t be dealing with much in the future tho ❤️

  • @kaleighhowarth9331
    @kaleighhowarth9331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    these backhanded type of “questions” are making me upset for you! 😢 You do you Cindy!!! ❤❤❤

  • @robertivers4200
    @robertivers4200 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I had a stillbirth at 40 weeks took decades to recover

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I'm very sorry to hear that.

  • @lisalou2789
    @lisalou2789 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Bella boo hope ur feeling better💕💕

  • @indo6012
    @indo6012 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Your boyfriend is good for you. Having someone who’s older and not willing to take shit and talk things through is what you need. Honesty and communication is key even if feelings might get hurt. Never hold back.

  • @hope_bear
    @hope_bear 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cindy, the game you bought at the estate/garage sale, i highly recommend playing it! That Sims game is so fun with storyline! 😊

  • @BubbsAvocado
    @BubbsAvocado 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I miss the Poshmark box ups and ship outs, seeing what you sold, how much and watching the packing up. Are you going to come back to that?
    I loved your video showing the walk you went on-it was pretty motivational and I hope you do more exercising ones and walks in the future or hikes. They make for pretty inspiring content.
    Also love the shopping videos where we see what is in stores, kinda fun doing shop with me's.
    Also I think the thanking people for coffees at the end was a great addition-a favorite TH-camr of mine does his thanking like an end credits from the prior to each video donations-it makes those who donate a coffee feel pretty appreciated and noticed in videos.
    Anyways, great video!

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I don’t have any plans to do resale anymore, sorry! But I will definitely make more hiking and shopping videos in the future.
      Of course, I will always thank anyone who buys me a coffee in my videos too! Thank you for your comment! :)

  • @sarbeardontcare7439
    @sarbeardontcare7439 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I laughed so hard when you said crouched in a corner with a box of captain crunch 🤣🤣🤣

  • @MichelleZB1
    @MichelleZB1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope you have a good time in Dallas! That's my neck of the woods 😊

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! Really looking forward to it!

  • @emilyroseleaa
    @emilyroseleaa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Morty and Bella are the cutest ❤

  • @susan1156
    @susan1156 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Loved this video (except for Sherrie). It amazes me how much progress you've made on multiple levels. ❤.

  • @TheJalenDelvey
    @TheJalenDelvey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Cindy!!! I'm going to Hot Springs, Arkansas next summer! Hopefully i can meet you then!

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh, you'll have such a lovely time! It's really fun here!

    • @TheJalenDelvey
      @TheJalenDelvey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@LifePlusCindyI can't wait! ❤

  • @gigglesandhugs5690
    @gigglesandhugs5690 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Like i said before I am super proud of you for living and thriving. I am glad that you put boundaries in place. I am glad you are living on your terms. So many times we default into behaviors or labels and dont know better till something happens to shake the tree if you will. growth always brings snarky people.

  • @eternalbookwyrm9481
    @eternalbookwyrm9481 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I worked at McDonald's for 5 years I ate a lot of McDonald's and Taco Bell and Panda Express in that time. Wish I could go back and change things, but I can just move forward. I try not to eat out too much.

  • @itsMalma
    @itsMalma 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    My fave youtube channel is Serpadesign. he makes terrariums and ponds and stuff like that, stuff without animals in them too. it's a cool hobby you and your bf might enjoy considering you have so much moss and nature around you guys and rocks and stuff! Super relaxing channel to watch and inspiring! he makes art with plants, moss, rocks and random items like jars etc!

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh, thank you for the rec! I think I have seen that channel - or a similar one - before. Really relaxing to watch!

    • @pamsplace6255
      @pamsplace6255 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LifePlusCindy i love serpadesign! probably one of the most relaxing youtubers. i think you would enjoy him!

  • @jewels2113
    @jewels2113 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I lost 2 babies in 2018 and 2019. In 2018 my sister in law was also pregnant and we found out the SAME DAY and we also were pregnant in 2016 together as well…. But losing that baby in 2018 was so hard. I drank and drank the pain away, then I sobered up and just kind of pushed my feelings away. Then last weekend I did drink with my sister in law at a family party and had a complete mental breakdown talking about the baby I lost. Writing this I still feel detached and don’t think it bothers me but deep deep down that pain lives on… we move on life doesn’t stop and like Cindy said the pain gets easier to deal with but it never truly does go away

    • @to-nem-ai
      @to-nem-ai 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry for your loss

  • @Puppylove82-gv3gm
    @Puppylove82-gv3gm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Damn the expensive hobbies! 😂 I used to LOVE finding and collecting mini oil lamps and DAMN they can be expensive. 😂 and freaking deluxe makeup. I need to go out in the driveway like i did as a kid and find fossils in rocks. Lol, totally free!😂

  • @modest8930
    @modest8930 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    i gasped at some of these questions being asked, kudos to you for actually giving them the time!

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Lol! Thank you!

    • @Puppylove82-gv3gm
      @Puppylove82-gv3gm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yes! But on another note, she's the one that inspired me to start my carnivore journey. I've never felt better. I don't crave the carbs like I used too.

    • @mimsycookiiess
      @mimsycookiiess 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      No fr

  • @babybluecheeks
    @babybluecheeks 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I started watching after Zachs first video about you. It was so sad seeing you go through all of that.
    I love that you've come through all of that, I enjoy seeing you thrive ❤.
    My BF has BPD. He doesn't get any help for it, apart from meds
    I have bulimia, anxiety, and panic disorder. Life is hard, but it's worth it.
    Thank y0u f0r sharing y0ur life ❤.

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you so much for watching. I'm sorry you have to deal with all that. I know it isn't easy. 🤗

    • @babybluecheeks
      @babybluecheeks 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@LifePlusCindy life is hard and also so beautiful.
      And you really do help some of us see the beautiful, its the simple things. Thank you.

  • @charliethesimmer6506
    @charliethesimmer6506 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Morty coming in for kisses 😭

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He's such a sweet boy!

    • @kate4623
      @kate4623 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It was the sweetest, he loves her so much ❤

  • @simssavvi5764
    @simssavvi5764 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Have you ever watched MrBallen? He's awesome and i love listening to his stories when im at work

  • @Hazheelh
    @Hazheelh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    With that choice of books, I can't go away xD

  • @MaharaniToxic
    @MaharaniToxic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Regarding your UTI problem: have you tried a sumplement called D-Mannose? It helps balance the bacteria in the urinary system and can prevent future infection.
    I had UTIs since early childhood at least twice a year and after my gynecologist recommend d-mannonse i didn't had one since two years

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’ve actually ordered some and it’s arriving today! Going to start taking it immediately!

  • @JS-so3hl
    @JS-so3hl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Highly recommend the book Holistic Tarot to learn how to read your own cards

  • @robertivers4200
    @robertivers4200 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Do you think jumping into a new relationship pushes your unhealed issues down only to resurface later?

  • @danishmodern55
    @danishmodern55 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    chill..........

  • @Hendrik_McSims
    @Hendrik_McSims 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I appreciate your honesty and lengths you go to answer these question. One problem with vloggers is that viewers never know how personal questions are okay for that vlogger (yourself included), since it's common courtesy to not ask extremely personal questions.

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Thank you! I don't mind the questions, and I would just refuse to answer if they were too out of line!

  • @boltcore._.
    @boltcore._. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    FIRST HERE. i can t watch rn but im sorry if you felt some questions were a bit invasive. Remember it is up to you if u want to answer them. Take care cindy 😊

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It's no problem! If something made me super uncomfortable, I wouldn't answer. Thank you so much for watching if you do! :)

    • @boltcore._.
      @boltcore._. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I literally put it on my schedule to watch this video tomorrow it is a priority and a need. ✨️✨️

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@boltcore._. Aww, thank you so much!

  • @EJ-ku7dh
    @EJ-ku7dh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Cindy, you mentioned following Delphi before. Just wondering if you saw the latest update about the recently released documents. And if you have any thoughts about it, etc. Devastating stuff.

  • @thewrongshoes
    @thewrongshoes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I would like to know about those income generating websites you have. How do they make money

  • @yagprince1503
    @yagprince1503 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Cindy! Some of these questions-💀 love you so much

  • @Randomnescz
    @Randomnescz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was about to ask an invasive question on your last video but chickened out.😅
    *my question was along the same lines as the 2nd question answered

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lol! Bring them on! No promises I'll answer, but I might!

  • @claudiao4001
    @claudiao4001 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I really enjoyed this q&a and appreciate you sharing so much with us. But you do come off very defensive toward some questions. Try not to let it get to you. Take care!

    • @lisaharrigan1370
      @lisaharrigan1370 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, some questions are out of hand but some are valid and I wish Cindy would not let her BPD go on attack mode when people have valid questions. They are not attacking her! They just have valid questions about her content.

    • @claudiao4001
      @claudiao4001 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lisaharrigan1370 agreed!

  • @sarahgabel1528
    @sarahgabel1528 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have you tried needling for hair growth

  • @Drewsparanormalvlog
    @Drewsparanormalvlog 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So glad your doing great I love that your starting back your herbalism.. People will be jealous Mrs so ignore the sherry's if the world that are stuck in misery 😂

  • @Vociferoustart
    @Vociferoustart 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a lifelong Masshole (god that's cringe word 😂), definitely come to New England. It's so magical in the fall. Salem in October is busy as heck but it's also so so fun. Make sure you take a day trip into Boston as well. (If you ever make it this way, let's hang out :P )

    • @Vociferoustart
      @Vociferoustart 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Also as far as cryptids go, I'm a Squonk kind of girly 😂

  • @debra13
    @debra13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for being so real and putting yourself out there with some who don't seem to get you.... not that we "get" everything about you , but it's good to see you confidently answer these questions.

  • @XxXAnGeLXxX13100
    @XxXAnGeLXxX13100 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I watch 48 hours too! Great video thank you! ❤

  • @czilalakart
    @czilalakart 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    You get mad about people asking you those questions, you call them dicks, you get frustrated because they don't acknowledge how far you have come, but keep in mind that they only know what you show them/tell them. I wouldn't blame them, especially that they have been lied to many times before.

    • @nala9750
      @nala9750 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I agree, with this I haven't been here long enough for the "being lied too" But the rest yes I'm reacting to what I've seen now I didn't write any questions in the Q&A because I didn't know there was one, and I don't have any burning questions about her life, I wouldn't know what to ask anyway. I figure we see everything she wants to show us some of it I'm fine with other things I'm not and if I disagree with something I will say so.
      Now she could have chosen to skip the offensive weird questions.. I don't really understand why she didn't I have my idea's but I'm not her so I won't speculate. :)

  • @CriminalFinds.
    @CriminalFinds. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    You’ve had such a glow up. You’re looking great & you definitely seem to be mentally doing better. From the first video I saw of you (he left me) to now is a massive difference. I’m happy for you👏🏻💖

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you! I am doing so much better now.

  • @gavitar7113
    @gavitar7113 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Imagine in the future we have the famous writer/internet personaltiy Cindy

  • @lisatakeitorleaveit
    @lisatakeitorleaveit 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Been carnivore for 10 years - lost 135 lbs and kept it all off. Completely reversed type 2 diabetes without meds- glad to see you realized right away the effect changing your diet was having before it took you down that road- carnivore for life here :-) - I’m 58 and aged backwards just like you 😘

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's awesome and I'm so glad to hear it!

    • @lisatakeitorleaveit
      @lisatakeitorleaveit 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@LifePlusCindy people that mind don’t matter and people that matter don’t mind. We know what works for us. It is the simplest best thing I have ever done for myself - simple! You know! 💕

  • @LinnOlsson1
    @LinnOlsson1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    You are my comfort youtuber and I make sure to never miss a video🥰 hope you have a nice day Cindy!

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate that!

    • @silkcatgirl3597
      @silkcatgirl3597 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same 🥰

    • @mimsycookiiess
      @mimsycookiiess 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same

    • @Melododia80
      @Melododia80 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same!!

  • @CrazyClara101
    @CrazyClara101 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If you ever feel bad about eating sone carbs, remember you NEED carbs to have energy thoughout the day. Its heathier to have some carbs for breakfast or lunch than to guzzle a bunch of soda or coffee filled (nothing wrong with coffee of soda either lol, sometimes you need a extra boost)

  • @lucaswebster7941
    @lucaswebster7941 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's lovely to see you happy again Cindy, I do hope in the near future you will start playing the Sims again and giving us your honest opinions about the Sims 4 content that I miss.

  • @brebre461
    @brebre461 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope doing these Q&As don't negatively affect your mental health after you do them. I know if I had to answer some of these invasive, rude, and presumptuous questions I would be pretty angry about some of them for a while. People on the internet have become more and more rude over the years and it keeps getting worse. It's ridiculous.

  • @skybrewer37
    @skybrewer37 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Absolutely SNAP BACK GIRRRRRL ❤❤❤ I love this

  • @lisatakeitorleaveit
    @lisatakeitorleaveit 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Also regarding the infections that can be tied to eating more carbs and sugar- look into that ❤

  • @Wild-Card34
    @Wild-Card34 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi Cindy thank you for answering my question and I think you are right that sometimes it’s best to ask for help and get therapy because it’s not healthy to bottle everything up and hope it will get better because it will in fact get worse therapy exists for a reason and I’m sorry if my question was too personal or upsetting for you 😊😊😊

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You're very welcome! Thank you for the question!

  • @eternalbookwyrm9481
    @eternalbookwyrm9481 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Have you heard of Sonobello? They are a less invasive way to deal with loose skin. I hope you see this and do some research!!!

  • @SpookyGhostHippy
    @SpookyGhostHippy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Looking good Cindy! Haven’t watched in a while but you’re glowing

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! Appreciate you watching!

  • @babybluecheeks
    @babybluecheeks 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Vlog! 🥳. Lol x.

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for watching! 🖤

    • @babybluecheeks
      @babybluecheeks 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LifePlusCindy always x.

  • @kaylaslovely_
    @kaylaslovely_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just because you’re in a relationship, doesn’t mean you aren’t an individual. Sherri needs help 😭

  • @KeaIrene23
    @KeaIrene23 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m amazed at your progress. I’ve been here for a LONG time. And anyone who has been can definitely SEE and HEAR the difference/how far you’ve come. People are going to judge 🙄 I’m glad your happy and continuing therapy (personally I know how much continued “treatment?” Works.) I truly appreciate how real you are, and I hope you continue to be (obv within reason online) and ignore the rude comments. We can most definitely heal and grow also while in a relationship. Can’t wait for more herbal videos. Would also love to see you try candle making. I think it would be a fun video!

  • @elle7856
    @elle7856 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Oh my gosh to the UTI question, anyone can get a UTI. Grandma told all of us to always use the restroom after taking a bubble bath, being with your partner, swimming, etc. I thought it was basic female advice. Bubble bath is the worst for that, I would get bladder infections as a little girl before my family realized. Having a weak immune system can affect it as well, if you have been sick. Anyway, the dogs are such cuties, they look at you with such love

  • @lisaharrigan1370
    @lisaharrigan1370 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The problem with eating fast food all the time is that there are A LOT of chemicals in those foods and the FAT content is bad FATS not good FATS. And the actual realness of the MEAT is questionable at best. It's the worst of the worst of the meats! Is it 100% beef, sure ,but is still all the stuff the meat packing plants couldn't actually sell to grocery stores, so they grind up all that crap meat and sell it to the fast food places and the fast food places add a bunch of chemicals and bad fats to it to make it taste good. There is nothing "good" about fast food! The actual Carnivore diet is based on REAL meats and healthy FATS. You might have lost the weight and you needed something quick and easy because you were going through a hard time but it doesn't mean fast foods are "healthy" or that it is the best way to go about the Carnivore diet. You have to be careful about giving advice about diets, you have a lot of followers and don't want to spread bad diet advice across the internet after it is shared hundreds of thousands of times by your followers. Just because someone offers constructive criticism doesn't mean you have to let you BPD go on attack mode. You can actually say that you didn't do the Carnivore diet as best as you could because you were going through the worst time of your life and you were just trying to hang on until that bad period past and if I could do the carnivore diet without that massive amount of life disruption I would have and would recommend doing it in a healthier manor. You could even do a whole video series on what you "did" eat compare to what you "would" eat if you weren't going through such a hard time. I'm not saying this to be mean or harsh but eating a consistent diet of fast food IS NOT healthy! If you need further proof watch the documentary...super size me... about a guy who montitored his bloodwork every week for a month while eating 3 meals a day for a month from a fast food restuarant. His health detriorated so quickly that after 3 weeks the doctors were so concerned about his detriorating bloodwork numbers that they said if he continued to eat that consistent diet that he would be dead in 3 months. Even all the doctors were completely shocked by how quickly his bloodwork numbers turned horribly in the wrong direction. Very Great Documentary! Very Eye Opening about all the crap that is in fast food! If it only takes a month of consistenly eating fast food 3 times a day to put you on death's door then I really wonder exactly what bad regular things and what bad chemicals they are putting in it!

  • @paxonjax
    @paxonjax 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for being so honest and open with us! You are one of my favorite TH-camrs 🥰

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!! I appreciate that! 🖤

  • @MikaylaLuna
    @MikaylaLuna 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @RedxRiot
    @RedxRiot 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have you seen the video Becky made and Destiny made about ALR?

  • @hannahm.9881
    @hannahm.9881 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I lost 86lbs 2 years ago and i can honestly say in MY experience...no one treated me worse when I was fat. Honestly being slim most of my life ive been told to eat more and had really nasty comments. Something that never happened when i had 2 chins.

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Very interesting! Thank you for sharing that!

  • @bimbochan666
    @bimbochan666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the zoom in 😂😂😂 32:00

  • @buffandbrindle
    @buffandbrindle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Yeah SHERRY...LOL

  • @user-kn9yh7hq5j
    @user-kn9yh7hq5j 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @AbsintheCosmos43
    @AbsintheCosmos43 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You sound like you’re in a much better place now and I’m so proud of you. Everyone has days where they struggle, it’s normal. But it sounds like you’ve got a better hold on your life than you did months ago. And it’s good how you’ve got a supportive partner now. Everyone deserves that!

  • @Ske2016
    @Ske2016 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Divorce isn’t your top priority yet you’re in a committed relationship and have been separated for this long? Interesting.

    • @taryngeissler8797
      @taryngeissler8797 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      They have to be separated for 18 months in order for her to get a divorce in Arkansas. Colorado doesn't have a separation period, but A would have to file since he is the Colorado resident.

    • @HH-yq6ch
      @HH-yq6ch 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Not really that interesting.
      I’ve always heard divorce can be a messy and long process.
      I doubt she wants to get into that right at this moment.
      Especially if for some reason she’d have to get in contact with her ex.
      Absolutely nothing wrong with HER decision for HER life.
      Many people choose to do what Cindy’s doing for a variety of reasons.
      It’s not like she’s about to marry the guy she’s with anyway, so calm down.

    • @Ske2016
      @Ske2016 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@HH-yq6chlol okay, i’m calm, all i said is it’s interesting. Maybe you should calm down lol. If I had been through that I’d be doing all the research myself to figure it out and get out of that situation asap, but guess she doesn’t need to with everyone’s expert comments 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @Jaaayke
      @Jaaayke 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Ske2016you obviously either don’t have enough life experience or (considering your comments on her other videos 👀) are just looking for reasons to criticise, either way I hope you find peace

  • @envy2069
    @envy2069 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    YAY VLOGMAS LETS GOOOOO

  • @jlw1200
    @jlw1200 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you ever watch court trials!?
    The trial for Joel guy jr(murdered his parents)was insane. That’s what geared me more to trials then documentary true crime. I feel like some docu series are biased(but not all)

  • @hooverkinz
    @hooverkinz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hi Cindy, thank you for my answering my question (the first question you answered) thank you for your honest response ❤️

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You are so welcome! Thank you for the question!

  • @livingforJesus2120
    @livingforJesus2120 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm so proud of you and excited for whatever you got going on in your life. I love watching your videos. Some of these people are a damn mess themselves so I'm glad you don't read into their drama. You keep doing you and remember you are loved by more than you know. ❤

  • @CuteGothChick
    @CuteGothChick 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Man, I agree so much with the wear whatever you want no matter what your age. My monster in law had the nerve to try and scold me while wearing a sexy corsetted dress her son bought me for mother's day saying "You're a mom now and you need to start dressing your age. You're married ffs!" I was like yeah, to your son. Who has no problem looking at girls wearing the same shit when we walk by so.. if he isn't looking at me, someone else will and I'm going to make sure he is looking at me too.

    • @lisaharrigan1370
      @lisaharrigan1370 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He will keep looking at other girls while you are dressing the way you are, men are never satisfied with what they have. They will always look for the more sluttier version of what you are. Men like to hurl the word slut around in a deragatory manner but that is exactly what they want. So the sluttier you dress, the sluttier the woman they will be attracted to. So I would suggest that you stop demeaning yourself to "keep" your husband, you will only regret it in the future, when he moves on to a younger and sluttier version of yourself.

  • @eternalbookwyrm9481
    @eternalbookwyrm9481 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Funny, I wanted to be a teacher too, even went to school for it, but changed my mind. I'm fine if he never is on your channel. I think he should feel safe for it. But you love Morty and Bella so much, how could you not want another animal companion someday? Someday I will always have an animal companion.

  • @noestestristecass
    @noestestristecass 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I haven-t been on YT much even on my own channel making vids but i'm glad to see you cindy! I feel like you are soooo much better than a year ago

  • @spiderqueen5074
    @spiderqueen5074 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really don't see a problem with starting to date again after a relationship. It's getting yourself out there again, and to meet new people. That's a big positive step to me especially if you're someone who doesn't have many friends or is used to isolating themselves. I'm proud of you Cindy, I feel like you've come a long way and you seem much happier now.

  • @nonamesorry7135
    @nonamesorry7135 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    It's good to have a person in your life that isn't just a fucking wall and expects you to just deal with all your issues on your own.
    I understand that when your significant other really doesn't know what to do, or are themselves unaware of a toxic behaviour, but a lot of people just really don't give a single fuck about your well being and only care about you giving something to them and then leaving them the fuck alone. Miserable. I'm happy that you found someone who actually cares about you.

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank you! That's a very good way to say it. I'm really happy I have someone who actually cares about my well-being in my life too, and I'm glad I'm not the only one who recognizes what truly "caring" about someone means. :)

    • @nonamesorry7135
      @nonamesorry7135 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@LifePlusCindy God bless you. I lived in a world all my life where I had no idea anybody can possibly care about me that deeply. That turned into complete isolation because I would quite honestly rather live all my life alone than like some people choose to settle, and how I lived so far.

  • @Rekowcski
    @Rekowcski 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love amberlynn too, ive been watching for years

  • @freyxleon7638
    @freyxleon7638 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hi Cindy. I’m happy to see you do Q&A again. I hope you do it again sometime.

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for watching! I definitely will!

  • @sarandon7816
    @sarandon7816 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’ve only had 4 sexual partners and everytime I get UTIs. No matter how clean you are it happens to some of us regardless!! Don’t feel bad girl

  • @dunchi
    @dunchi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Haha its refreshing to see you show attitude on the stupid type of questions

  • @Kimonwatersedge
    @Kimonwatersedge 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I started watching you the first time your Ex left. The Cindy then and the Cindy now are like night and day. You are resilient, strong , and vulnerable at the same time and that is your charm. Anyone who has been left or had their heart broken would know how absolutely awful those feelings are. You keep on keeping on Cindy. I follow a lot of really lovely people on TH-cam , everyone of them say and ask people to be kind and not judgmental as comments are upsetting. people comment on their kids and all they are doing is decluttering a closet or cleaning their house! the haters are going to hate. Don’t give the gob shites a thrill by answering them. they love the attention. Thanks for sharing Cindy 🤓♥️

  • @sexiredjeep
    @sexiredjeep 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Cindy, I'm 57 yrs old and I truly Admire you ❣ I want to send you the Utmost Positive Respect Vibes 🤙🏼 you're very candid and mature and I'm so PROUD of how you handle yourself ... Right On Girl Yo Go 🍾 I Love Ya 🌺

  • @melissacummings496
    @melissacummings496 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You are so well spoken. Tackle that dream of writing a book 📖

  • @yurtyahearne9044
    @yurtyahearne9044 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sherri girl you need to get a HOBBY

  • @timpancakes2011
    @timpancakes2011 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you for being so open and honest with us and I'm sorry that people are still so nasty sometimes. YOU are one of my creators that I drop everything to watch :) your videos brighten my day and I am so delighted to see you thriving. Enjoy the rest of your week!!!

    • @LifePlusCindy
      @LifePlusCindy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aww, thank you so much! That's very kind of you!

  • @fenderchick2010
    @fenderchick2010 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for being open. Your confidence has grown a lot and it shows. I'm glad you are making steps to healthier living overall in multiple areas of your life.
    Ignore the hate-watchers. I feel bad for you that there are people who admit they just hate-watch. If they don't like you, why do they spend so much time watching and thinking about you? If only they had the self-awareness to work on themselves instead of bringing down strangers.

  • @kyleyG
    @kyleyG 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Sooo funny to me when it's the other partner that has a HUGE part in why you're getting divorced.. but they never want to start the process 🫠🙄 my ex husband cheated on me and left me with nothing.. but never wanted to start the divorce and I had to pay for everything. Wouldn't change it though, beats being married to him still 😂

    • @kyleyG
      @kyleyG 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Baby.Annihilation 100% agree with you! 🤦‍♀️