concerns about my relationship + touring a historic hot springs bathhouse ~ daily vlog
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ค. 2024
- In today's vlog, I'm addressing some concerns from viewers about my relationship with Ted and how much time we're spending together. Then, I'm taking you downtown to tour a historic bathhouse museum that I've never showed you before. I've never even been there and I can't believe how awesome it is! Thanks so much for watching!
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Here we go again. "she has never felt this way about someone before"
Just let her be. I know it's early, but most people feel this way in a new relationship. We are not there she has to do what feels right. She is acting and sounds different from the last guy she dated. Ted seems more down to earth and caring than limbs. So let her be.
You can speak on your feelings and she can speak on hers. You can’t possibly know how she or anyone else feels
Yeah 😂
I like Ted. He seems like a cool guy. I fear that once he starts to go back to work your insecurities and codependency will start back up, and cause issues in your relationship
Yeah hopefully this time will be different because Cindy is still actively in therapy to address her Trauma.
She thinks her relationship is everyone's biggest concern??? 😂 its the way you act and don't take accountability girl
The chewing 😭
I've been watching you for so long Cindy, the problem I had was using such a powerful word when it comes to describing paying too much for a drink. Any kind of acknowledgment of being in the wrong would be something but it wasn't addressed at all.
"I'm sure everyone can relate to, like, having their heart broken and saying, 'I'm done with men.'" So... I don't understand this comparison you're making...? First, you owned up to the fact that YOU turned into a banshee and drove Limbz away. He didn't hurt you - you hurt him. How is that having your heart broken? Second, you were not saying you were done with men because he was horrible to you... you were saying you were done dating so that you could heal from BPD behaviors and not be horrible to men. The whole point of taking a break was to fix yourself so that YOU could be a better partner, not vice versa. Do you really think you've grown enough in a just a few months?
You've already fallen back into the pattern of black and white thinking and obsessiveness. Everyone can see it but you, and that's why everyone is concerned. I hope you slow down a little bit. Maybe even make a pros and cons list about this guy/relationship so that you can see him as he really is, and not put him on a pedestal. Just some friendly advice. But, you do you.
If it was an old shoe that showed her attention she would do the same behaviors.
Exactly
In the video were she tell us thay limbz broke up with her (the first one) she admits she is a manipulator and liar, and that limbz was a strong man and he wasnt going to put up with her shit, and that he was listing the same things andrew did when complaining about the relationship. So yeah she might have had an broken heart, but because limbz left her crazy ass. And now she is all condesending and acting like we dont know she lies and pretends everything is perfect. Just wait for the "we broke up" video, its coming.
Well said 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 And she kept on lying her whole freaking life
God you sound so condescending
Yeah, she is like 13 traped in a 40 year old body...its frustrating to see how she keeps doing the same bullshit. Also saying that she needed a break from man is wild, when she is adicted to have a man in her life.
What beautiful buildings. Hot Springs is such a beautiful place 🫶🏻💖.
Yes, it is! 🖤🖤
Thanks for sharing your BEAUTIFUL journey!
Thats great to hear youre still doing trauma therapy while enjoying your new relationship. It shows the growth youve made from a couple years ago. I think that will be the key difference in the success of this relstionship, that will make this one only continue to grow stronger over time. Wishing you and Ted happiness and continued betterment of your individual selves and your relationship together.
Cindy, you are a grown woman. You don't have to answer to anyone. You met a friend and it blossomed into something more. I think that's when the best things happen... when you're not looking for it, or trying to make it happen. It just happened organically. You know what's best for you. Please don't listen to what anyone else thinks. It amazes me that folks think they can tell you what they think is best for you. They don't even know you in real life. He seems like a nice man. More importantly, you think he is! It's a really good sign that he rearranged his plans so he could stay close to home to be able to see you more. He must be really fond of you!! That's so sweet and I couldn't be happier for you! You deserve all the good things, enjoy it sweet Cindy!
I loved seeing that bath house you walked by. I was there for Mother's Day last year and my daughter treated me to a spa day at the Quapaw Bathhouse. We had a private massage and swam for a while in the Springs indoor pool. It was an amazing experience. I can't wait to go back and do it again! You are so lucky to live in such a neat place. I'd have to treat myself at least once a month. You should treat yourself to a spa day, Cindy!
I enjoyed the video. Thanks for sharing!
Ted seems like a wonderful guy
she was out on the prowl for a man all along for quite a while, its so obvious. go out all the time alone to bars and make room for yourself with others in the bar pmsl so sad cindy. you were looking for people/men to attach to
Make room?
she was looking for friends and companionship🤷🏻
You should really address screaming the r word and making a joke out of it and posting it on your channel
You should really address the lack of accessibility for disabled people across the US, or the fact that disabled people can't get married without relinquishing their social security benefits, which can mean life or death for some.
Or you can like... worry about a random woman's foul language, like she has political power or something...
@@edeedeewardstupid ahh comment, cindy has control over her language and impact and this random person doesnt have control over all those things u mentioned u need to be so fr
I mean back in the day they got called like that why is everyone is sensitive about this..
@@xReaghanmaybe because it's an inherently sensitive thing that happens and should not be compared to overpaying for booze?
@@edeedeewardWasn't aware that we can only worry about one issue at a time. Or that we're all American. She doesn't have political power but has a platform and can easily edit out problematic shit but keeps in it for views
As long as you’re cognizant that when you spend less time together because of his work, that you’ll be fine emotionally. I think that’s important since you’ve mentioned your co-dependency in the past
I absolutely love how Hot Springs has so many mature trees along the streets for shade. So so pretty.
It is so gorgeous there! I definitely want to visit some day.
Oh yeah.. You go girl and enjoy it.. And if it changes we'll all still be here.. Now you enjoy you deserve it Cindy everyone takes happiness when they get it 💪💙🤗
It's your life for sure❤❤Glad you found him
Hot Springs looks really cool, I wanna go!
I visited hot springs years ago and did the spa thing and sat in one of those boxes with my head sticking out! you do feel cooler when your head isn't in the heat with your body.
Looks like Hot Springs is surrounded by this healing waters. Very interesting and thanks for the tour! Hope to see more places in Hot Springs.
Hope it’s all going well, you have absolutely earned the happiness. If you’re happy and feel like your cup is full awesome.
I am very concerned that you guys are having too much fun together 😂
omg. pls don't chew gum while recording.
I'm listening with earbuds in and I'm about to *die* from the mouth sounds
I was wondering did it bother anybody else lol!
It's her channel so she can do whatever she wants
Agreed stop chewing!
Now that's a new level of a soft person
I’ve been single for 3 years nearly, too scared to go looking for a relationship seeing as mine ended so badly. So good for you for jumping in again. I just can’t seem to want to 😂🙈
Ted seems genuinely very nice. Happy for you Cindy. ❤ Enjoy yourself.
Can definitely tell that this relationship is different from your last one. You’ve revealed his actual name instead of a pseudonym, we’ve seen him on camera. You seem to be very together with him. I wish you well with Ted, he seems to make you happy. It’s your life, live it as you see fit. Life can be hard so we have to grab our happiness where we can. Good luck.
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@@Indigoflower1111Take your hate somewhere else.
This was fun! I so want to visit my coworker in hot springs and go see all the places you have taken us to!
You are happy, that’s what matters. I’m happy for you both and enjoy your vlogs.
For sure happiness is what matters, but sometimes things that temporarily make us happy can make us very unhappy later on if we're not careful. I think people sharing concerns and encouraging Cindy to take it slow are worried about her future happiness, not current happiness.
I love you girl, and have noticed since Ted came into your life, your southern drawl has come on thick. You can tell you both are locals to your town.
20:30 that’s like a little tour of the Titanic, almost, the sports and swimming areas. Super cool. :) also can imagine the Downton Abbey ladies and cast in there esp the tea room and beauty parlor. Too bad about the garden and it would have been cool to see the kitchen/refreshments area if it still exists. My grandma took my sister and me to see a civil war era garden at a mansion converted to a museum in Memphis ages ago with all the original plants and layout it was awesome.
it’s nice to see you happy! i’m not really invested in whether you’re dating or not (it’s your life as you’ve said) so my only question is will we continue to get the same content as before?
i subscribed to watch for you and your personal development journey rather than seeing dates vlogged so that’s why i’m asking! thank you!
Did that man say mercury cures all ails? 🤣
seeing you grow and become more confident in yourself through the past year or so is so inspiring, you seem so much more happy and i'm happy for you :)
I’m glad you’re happy. Go be happy girl! I was one of those who is concerned. I admit it. Knowing you don’t like to be alone is what makes me hope you don’t get too dependent. He seems chill so I hope it keeps you chill. You deserve a healthy romantic relationship. I hope this is it.
The hot springs info/tour is so interesting to me! ❤
It’s wonderful to see you truly happy!
Thanks for the tour... it was so interesting!! 👌
I swear for a second i thought Ted was Andrew. Its insane how similar they look. I checked the date of this video just to make sure.
I’m so happy for the both of you Congratulations ❤❤
This was a genuinely interesting tour to see, it looks gorgeous in there !
You have such a healthy outlook on dating now. I’m so happy for you, I might look into EMDR for myself. I’ve done regular cbt for 2 years and while I do see improvement, my ptsd hasn’t really budged without meds.
I went to the Fordyce Bathhouse when I was in Hot Springs for the eclipse back in April! So cool! 🤩
Guess she told yall… remember this video 😉
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Exactly
Have you ever heard the saying, “ don’t bite the hand that feeds you.” She puts herself and her life out for anyone to see and gets paid to do so. If she doesn’t want comments, get another way to make money. I will say that so far he does appear to be a nice guy.
@@cutypieable I hate to be so cynical but this is part of keeping videos out there also. The more drama the more views and even if it’s not yet people will watch to see when the drama starts! Had to keep the public interested! ☺️
Finding someone that is right for you is really a great thing
Congratulations Cindy and Ted ❤
Love your town - used to live in a town in Australia that is very similar - it is also a mineral water town - if you ever make it to Australia its Daylesford in Victoria - you and Ted seem very happy together - stay happy- he is cute and sounds a bit like Forest Gump which is charming- 🇦🇺
That is super cool! You just have me an idea for a business trip! I'm so excited to visit there now
Ohh my thoes bildings are beautiful from the outside, wonder how the other bildings look like indside too.
Yes there are only one that can critique you that are yourself.
Don't lissen too poisen people, if it isn't you they are going after it is a another person they are go after.. Unfortunately.
You don't have to tell enyone if you choose too change what you want.
Thank you so much, I loved too see more of your town.
And thank you too your boyfriend fore having us writh you on your time together.
Big hugs from Denmark 💝🌹🥰
Your hair really suits you up, brings out your features, and makes you look super pretty.
This is so very cool Cindy ♡ Hi Ted! Hope you both had a lovely day.
Cute 💜 Do have fun in the moment and get out there. But do take care, and know that reckless impulsivity can look similar, and no one wants to see you getting yourself in danger even if thats simply a messy emotional situation. 💌
(Also.... in the nicest way possible... please dont chew gum while recording... 😅 i like to listen with earbuds haha....)
I sweat the same way too! I live in San Antonio Texas and it’s extremely hot here as well, omg! Humid!!! I wear my hair back in a small low bun like yours and wear a folded bandanna, like a headband, to catch the sweat lol. Works great. I also carry a small face towel to dab my face and lots of spray deodorant for freshness 😊🙏🏼💗
When my husband and I first started seeing each other, I basically moved in the second day 😂 6 years later and never left! Sometimes spending a lot of time together doesn't mean anything negative.
If you have BPD and your last two relationships ended mostly because of it, then maybe it is 😅
@@mirza6531 true but when it comes to someond with bpd, the reason relationship gets destroyed isn't necessarily because of spending too much time together, its more likely caused by harmful patterns of behavior that come from poor emotional regulation and destructive coping mechanisms. Spending a lot of time together maybe can just fuel that sometimes but isn't problem in itself
Thanks for the tour! Very cool. I sweat like crazy just like u but I think it’s antidepressants and since going off them isn’t an option I bought a neck fan off Amazon, that might really help u! Kinda looks like your wearing headphones around the neck and they are a game changer
Happy for you Cindy. Love your channel and your TS2 gameplay.
You look nice with your hair pulled back. Ever want to try and do those fancy updos? I think you have enough hair to try!
You seem like you can truly be yourself around him which is awesome and a great sign. He seems like a really nice guy and it’s good to see you so happy.
I need to ‘re-educate’ my muscles and joints.
I watched the cringe interrogation and i actually think its really sweet that he feels so comfortable that he can have fun and be cringe with you. My partner and i can be super cringe sometimes, and we've been together 3 years going on forever! Theres nothing more special than finding someone you can be silly with, who doesnt make you feel bad for being weird, and who will support you in your career. You bagged a good one Cindy! Embrace the cringe! What was his reaction to posting the interrogation?
Yeah but it was alcohol
@@ByeByeBelly what's your point?
That shower looks like it was designed by Jigsaw 11:20 😂
Here we go! here we go again!whats cindys weakness MEN!!
Yeah but I'm done commenting about it though. She doesn't want to see it and neither does her Stans. Waste of time. Amberlynn Reid is the same
Hi Cindy glad you and yiur fellow ate happy 😊❤ Mary watching from hot springs Arkansas ❤
Fordyce looks like such an awesome place! Thanks for showing us!! :)
Yall are flourishing together! I can't wait to go on even more adventures with yall! Like seriously you've grown so much, even when you were overheated and plans changed, you kept your cool, even if things got a little out of yalls control yall adapted and had a good time!
I just love that your happy Cindy ❤💙
I sweat sooooo much in the summer. It must be a side effect of PCOS 😢
You don't owe anyone any explanation on who you are spending your time with. I'm happy to see you having a good time with someone who seems like a genuinely nice person. Nothing wrong with that.
It looks so cool, but I don't think I'd ever be able to visit there. Lol I'm terrified of plumbing 😅
Yeah spend time together and Cindy it's amazing you met someone.. I told you you would remember 😂
Love this kind of content
Giiiirrrlllll you look gorgeous ❤❤❤❤
It's nice that you took the time to snarkily address all the "concerns about your relationship", but not one peep about the atrocious language you decided to edit and post in the last vlog from you and your boyfriend (let alone an apology and assurance that you will be more mindful in the future). I have no opinion on whether or not using that language makes your new boyfriend a bad guy as many of the comments from the last vlog pondered on, it was a tense situation on a hot day and I don't care, but that is not the type of language that I want to randomly come across in the content I watch. Bye Cindy
Girl !! I’m not trying to tell you what to do but I think it’s time for divorce .. 😉😉 you never know 😉😉
This suggestion that they’ll soon get married is wild. It’s been 2 weeks! She has also said before that she won’t get married again yet she’s liked this comment. Just insanity.
@@brunoruggbyrne actually some men don’t like the idea of dating married women BUT if these two free willed human beings by some chance want to get married well ….. let’s just say it’s their business and not ours or yours to judge their decisions. Perhaps you don’t believe in the type of love where if you know you know. Cindy deserves love and we all should be happy for her married or not.
I mean she should be getting divorced anyways bc her and A have been separated for a long time now. Insinuating marriage for a TWO WEEK LONG relationship is actually crazy.
@@Ske2016 I just realized as long as her and Andrew are married, Cindy is step mother to Andrew's child, legally anyway. I am shocked that Andrew's significant other is ok with him still being married, and apparently Andrew is too. It's beyond bizarre.
@@harper_anne2089 I wish i could show this channel and situation to an anthropologist/sociologist lmfaoooo
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I'm happy to see you with someone that loves Hot Springs as much as you do!! It's great that you enjoy your time together.
I really like Ted and you seem to be a lot stronger, is he Christian?
Im not from us, but i notice a lot of men from south are so he may be
Why does that matter?! If you love someone, their religion shouldn't matter. It's not the 1950s anymore.
@@DennisAlexis just wondering because I am, and I love when I see others! That is all
You look younger but you’re 41…I think you know what you’re doing 😂 plus if it doesn’t work out you just put a plague on him and move on lol best of luck 🤞 ❤🦄
LOL!
She already gave him the 12 minute bleach cure so... He's good! 😂
Cool arcitecture there🎉😊
Yes girl!! Always improving xx
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Is he a june cancer? I get the vibe
Good Tuesday morning ☀️ sweet Cindy 💖🌹💖🌹💖🌹 drinking my coffee ☕ enjoying your new vlog hugs 🤗 and love and roses 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 keep being you
Cindy do you if it makes you happy that’s fine your an adult we learn we live we love it’s thing I’m happy for you
This is just the best… so happy to see that genuine smile in your eyes, not just on your face.
RustytheScooterDog and I are in Alabama. Away from the abusive husband. ❤ Right into the awaiting jaws of roommate dog number 1. Still safer than with the husband. I'll take Cujo. 😅 I will post the maw damage on my channel tomorrow. She got me pretty good.
So glad you're safe!
You look so much happier now. ❤️
I am very happy! Thank you! 🖤
I sweat a lot to bestie. I totally get it
It's the worst! I can't wait until summer is over!
@@LifePlusCindy I'm in Indiana and it's too hot here right now but it doesn't last long. We get cool nights and lots of fall/spring days
Really interesting place :D
My gosh that place reminds me of the titanic!!
You do you Cindy! Find men now as 10 more years it wouldnt be the same anymore 😗
Hot spring is so beautiful, I would love to live somewhere like Hot springs.
What is the population size?.
EDIT: around 38,100.
I enjoyed every minute of touring with you two.
I think its cool you found a guy that you love to be with that loves to be with you. Have fun!!!!!!
Thank you! 🖤
I feel like he is so good for you. He seems like he is there for you and loves to be around you.
I'm excited to see this blossom. ❤
Oh my god his shirt has where I'm from on it no god no please no
Haven't been watching recently. Is this the same server guy that she met downtown?
Different guy met tru friends
@@Agnieszka11102 thanks.
Good for you Cindy-you do you. No one and i mean no one has the right to dictate to anyone else how to live their life
i love seeing you happy cindy! you dont need to justify anything 💜
Good for you Cindy! You deserve love
Thank you so much! 🖤
Cute date 🥰