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Yes the best solution is that parents should limit usage of electronics. Take your kid out or let them read books or just engage them in something else.
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Sir, you have covered much in 8+ mins. You tried to touch most of the points and it's very productive. I appreciate your effort to come up with this topic. I have read some comments here, yes completely agree that the change should start from the parents. We parents, stopped getting our phones to the dinning table, and my children follow the same. They don't anymore nag about getting i- pads when dining. We used to give my older kid a phone while driving but now we made it a strict NO, and rather play some games like 'I- Spy' or reading books. We too don't use phones while in the car (passenger seat) unless it's important or emergency. There are several ways to prevent/ control the issue and it takes just a clean and willful mind to start implementing. Parents, don't loose hope, keep trying and trust your children.
Show them they HAVE to abide. By this i DON'T mean hit and try to kill them. I mean, show your love to them and make sure you are FIRM in your rules that you set. No threats, just the rules to be followed. Love them, don't put conditional love on kids, they don't deserve so much stress. If you are here, then maybe I can say that you are here because you already know that you execute these things and are here to change some aspect; or in the end, you are here to become better.
Thank you for sharing this video; my child is only 3 years old and she is addicted to the mobile phone watching videos on TH-cam. If we take the phone away from her, she starts throwing a tantrum which is very annoying. We try to not lose our cool but at times we have to shout OR wack her to behave. This is still not helping us anyway; but it's hard to blame the child too as schools are closed and they don't have their peer group to interact with in person
Hai sir it's very very helpful to all human beings in general leave alone kids and parents. U r doing a great job. Keep it up. Will support u every possible way
Hello sridhar, You really spoke well about the burning problem today's parents are facing....screen time. But I would like to add that even 2-3 hrs of documentary watching is not necessary for kids. Instead they can do other productive things like reading books. It's a very good habbit which kids these days r not aware of.
Please develop a video targetting children that they can watch and learn. This should be in the language that they usually speak abd undestand. Not completely prescriptive but tactfully highlight the drawbacks of excess screen time. This will be too beneficial for children and a great service to humanity and our future generation.
I am a single mother, My children don't obey and respect me, they r all the time on the mobile. I and my Aunt r fed up of correcting them time and again. I live in a joint family. I am very troubled, what should I do?????
We didn't allow our kids to have phones until they were 18. The last one is now graduating form medical school next year and say they are grateful they were not allowed to have them.
I hope I get answer for my question. My son is 13 years old, but still he dont eat veg or any curries. He eats curd rice, Chapati with Jam, Jaggery or Sugar. Tahts all tje food he hav. What and how I can make him eat all kinda food?
Thank god i have already restrict my son's screen time... Just bcz looking at others children... Whole day in front of TV n no one else can watch anything bcz they started showing tantrums.. My son is all OK if Tv is not available for whole... Mobil is also limited for him... He loves to play outdoors n v r trying him to play sport rather than increasing his screen time.
I have those rules set but my children must spend a lot of time with their grandparents who let them be on the phones all day! What should I do? I've told them but they don't get it
What about a boy who is going to take 12 th boards and still he doesn't want to leave phone hours and hours he spends over phone or sleeping what may I do
Hello...I'm actually a student of class 12....I completely understand what u say but it only stays for a while...I'm completely addicted...and I feel I have all the qualities you showed but I self study online...and you know how distractive it is and it's affecting my studies and mental health a lot....how do I get rid of it.... please read my comment and please suggest something 🤕🤕😭
Please don't wait for a school or institution to call you, please make an initiative to just be a Super Man to appear on the ground of every Major and Most Popular and MOST Populated Institutions or organise a state school meet on a football stadium just once!!! In every state , you will be the God for us Affected children and groaning parents!!!
Hi I’m in join family where inlaws doesn’t allow my child to play with toy r some other else where as they complain that she may noisy with the toys pls keep her in the room so that I can’t allow her alone in the room so I use to give mobile for a while when I work is it good r I have to change pls advice
My daughter is 13 and she stuck to her smartphone. So what the child see suppose to do while I am at work? Activities last only for 3-4 hrs should my daughter just seat and look at the wall instead of internet?
Nowadays it's difficult as all schoolwork is online, even after that they have assignments online,then chatting with friends , and both kids are 9&7.nothing is working
This is so helpful! Thank you so much...This session really helped. It's so easy for parents to actually nag and shout but it creates a negative effect on the child which we realise later. Good suggestion. Hope to see more videos like this for us parents. Thanks again
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Hi Sridhar You dealt with younger kids what about adolescents. I wanna know for my own daughter who after going to the hostel needed a phone and now is badly addicted that her vacations are all about online friends and we as a family are unable to spend time.
You’ve really nailed this topic! If you're fascinated, a similar book is something you'll love. "A Life Unplugged: Reclaiming Reality in a Digital Age" by Theodore Blaze
Now a days elders who are retired people they started screening. They are addicted to TV and phones. When these younger kids come home we parents can't say to elders. The elders play emotional game. They say we are watching all this now a days. In your childhood we missed everything. So please leave us alone and also say its OK beta. He is too young. He will learn later.
My technique to break the screen time is start calling the mobile from another number. The child gets interrupted and ultimately leaves the phone. Sometimes I start sending whatsapp messages continuously and break the link of the child :) It works!!!!
FIRST OF ALL if the parents are not organised then definitely the kids never going to be an organised manner. In Indian culture ,our schools are teach many things in their syllabus. but most important thing they don't teach common sense,manners, punctuality,dedication,and honesty. this is the same way we grown up, that's why we are facing lot of troubles in our day to day life. In my understanding, parents should make a note for kids in day basis it includes Dailey activities,toileting,schooling preparation. Once kids start follow the note they will be organised in long term.
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Most important is to become role model for kids
What about parents who are addicted ?🤷
Kindly tell the parents as well
Parents must limit their screen time is a well known fact. No need to say it. But being consistent with child like what he insists is the key.
So far, I have found the best advice .. All parents please give him gratitude
Hi Sridhar,
I think you forgot to mention that the parents should correct themselves before or in the proccess. ;)
So true. If parents use a lot phones, children will do too. And its harder to tell them no. Parents should definitely show example in the first place.
Yes the best solution is that parents should limit usage of electronics. Take your kid out or let them read books or just engage them in something else.
Mostly they give phone to the kid because, to keep him calm and at one place so that they can do their jobs at home.
Really true Nathan
Absolutely true.. . I take the whole blame on me.. For introducing them to this gadget.. . My twins
One should keep check on children.......policing....well said !! I liked the example of custom officer......very insightful !!
You dont know how difficult it was for me to find you. I had watched you in the past but couldnt remember your name or the channels name . But finnally i found it
I think I need this policing for myself more than anyone else
U r acent and fluency is very good,as like a mother language
also buy rollerskates for everyone in family, make regular times to go rollerskating together
Hi Sridhar. Thanks for your parenting and relationships videos.. That simply changed my approach towards my family. Thanks again.
Sir, you have covered much in 8+ mins. You tried to touch most of the points and it's very productive. I appreciate your effort to come up with this topic. I have read some comments here, yes completely agree that the change should start from the parents. We parents, stopped getting our phones to the dinning table, and my children follow the same. They don't anymore nag about getting i- pads when dining. We used to give my older kid a phone while driving but now we made it a strict NO, and rather play some games like 'I- Spy' or reading books. We too don't use phones while in the car (passenger seat) unless it's important or emergency. There are several ways to prevent/ control the issue and it takes just a clean and willful mind to start implementing. Parents, don't loose hope, keep trying and trust your children.
Absolutely!! Agree full on!?
I am a teen, thanks
This waw enough
Very very informative.
Thanks alot sir. From today I'll follow your tips
Show them they HAVE to abide. By this i DON'T mean hit and try to kill them. I mean, show your love to them and make sure you are FIRM in your rules that you set. No threats, just the rules to be followed. Love them, don't put conditional love on kids, they don't deserve so much stress.
If you are here, then maybe I can say that you are here because you already know that you execute these things and are here to change some aspect; or in the end, you are here to become better.
Hi sir,
This video is very good sir, I hope this video gets shared as much as possible to have better citizens
This is a marvelous video. Thanks for the effort.
Increase their outdoor activities and playtime.
You are absolutely right, I am agree with you
Thank you for sharing this video; my child is only 3 years old and she is addicted to the mobile phone watching videos on TH-cam. If we take the phone away from her, she starts throwing a tantrum which is very annoying. We try to not lose our cool but at times we have to shout OR wack her to behave. This is still not helping us anyway; but it's hard to blame the child too as schools are closed and they don't have their peer group to interact with in person
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Very very useful information you have shared.. Thank you very much
"Well, you'll never understand why."
-that's an underrated dialogue
Masha Allah Masha Allah that's so true...👏👏👏👏
Gr8 job for doing this video stay bless
Hai sir it's very very helpful to all human beings in general leave alone kids and parents. U r doing a great job. Keep it up. Will support u every possible way
Managing kids screen time is possible for me I feel managing my husband's screen time is much difficult
Hello sridhar,
You really spoke well about the burning problem today's parents are facing....screen time.
But I would like to add that even 2-3 hrs of documentary watching is not necessary for kids. Instead they can do other productive things like reading books. It's a very good habbit which kids these days r not aware of.
Please develop a video targetting children that they can watch and learn. This should be in the language that they usually speak abd undestand. Not completely prescriptive but tactfully highlight the drawbacks of excess screen time. This will be too beneficial for children and a great service to humanity and our future generation.
Such a neat presentation...
All ur videos are really useful...
Thank you so much it's helpful ideas
Thanks a lot sir 🙏🙏ur tips work for me Nd kids too
What if its your parents that uses too much phone? How do we mitigate that?
QUICK MAFS are you stupid
Good question
Very good advice.
Very well explained
Give a motivation to parents
I am a single mother, My children don't obey and respect me, they r all the time on the mobile. I and my Aunt r fed up of correcting them time and again. I live in a joint family. I am very troubled, what should I do?????
We didn't allow our kids to have phones until they were 18.
The last one is now graduating form medical school next year and say they are grateful they were not allowed to have them.
Fantastic 👍👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
Helpful video shridhar🌷
All is said easier than done.
I myself using mbl plus laptop too much 🙄
excellent 😊
Wonderful voice and message.
Is there any internship programme for master in psychology students?
it's very helpful for both children and to all parents tanq sir
Hello sir I m ur regular viewer pls tell about handling teenagers and sibling revalary
Very informative
Hi Shridhar,
It's a very nice video with helpful tips. Can you also make videos on
how to teach kids on how they can handle bullying?
Thank you
This was helpful you explain that very well💯💯💯
Thankyou sir
Hi Shridhar.. Ur videos are ear and very useful..can u make videos on self develooment and decision making?
I hope I get answer for my question. My son is 13 years old, but still he dont eat veg or any curries. He eats curd rice, Chapati with Jam, Jaggery or Sugar. Tahts all tje food he hav. What and how I can make him eat all kinda food?
Thank god i have already restrict my son's screen time... Just bcz looking at others children... Whole day in front of TV n no one else can watch anything bcz they started showing tantrums.. My son is all OK if Tv is not available for whole... Mobil is also limited for him... He loves to play outdoors n v r trying him to play sport rather than increasing his screen time.
i have seen parents who have almost given up on their child's screen addiction and their life falling apart
I have those rules set but my children must spend a lot of time with their grandparents who let them be on the phones all day! What should I do? I've told them but they don't get it
It's a good video sir but what should we do if none of the above steps work. My son is in 12th n doesn't touch books.
Sir AP ki English itni acchi jaise hai
Vry useful tips thanks bro
No... I should thank myself for this...
What about a boy who is going to take 12 th boards and still he doesn't want to leave phone hours and hours he spends over phone or sleeping what may I do
I hav seen ur videos i like all videos
Hello...I'm actually a student of class 12....I completely understand what u say but it only stays for a while...I'm completely addicted...and I feel I have all the qualities you showed but I self study online...and you know how distractive it is and it's affecting my studies and mental health a lot....how do I get rid of it.... please read my comment and please suggest something 🤕🤕😭
Very nice
Please don't wait for a school or institution to call you, please make an initiative to just be a Super Man to appear on the ground of every Major and Most Popular and MOST Populated Institutions or organise a state school meet on a football stadium just once!!! In every state , you will be the God for us Affected children and groaning parents!!!
Hi I’m in join family where inlaws doesn’t allow my child to play with toy r some other else where as they complain that she may noisy with the toys pls keep her in the room so that I can’t allow her alone in the room so I use to give mobile for a while when I work is it good r I have to change pls advice
Thank you so much
Hi shridhar,
My son is also addicted to mobile, I'm really fed up.
There are 12 hours in a day, 4 is activities the rest is screen time or just looking at the walls
@Dr Memes easy tiger
Your video-content is amazing.
People video_ watching span is very short. if your videos are three to four minutes' it will be viewed more.
good advise will follow . 👍👍👍👍👍
My daughter is 13 and she stuck to her smartphone. So what the child see suppose to do while I am at work? Activities last only for 3-4 hrs should my daughter just seat and look at the wall instead of internet?
Nowadays it's difficult as all schoolwork is online, even after that they have assignments online,then chatting with friends , and both kids are 9&7.nothing is working
But in today’s situation studies r also online for 5 hours so what is the solution for it
This is so helpful! Thank you so much...This session really helped. It's so easy for parents to actually nag and shout but it creates a negative effect on the child which we realise later. Good suggestion. Hope to see more videos like this for us parents. Thanks again
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Excellent
Thank you :)
Shridhar need help for parenting. Can u make a video on how to tackle child when one of the parent is too aggressive and suffers from mood swings.
Hi Sridhar
You dealt with younger kids what about adolescents. I wanna know for my own daughter who after going to the hostel needed a phone and now is badly addicted that her vacations are all about online friends and we as a family are unable to spend time.
He dealt with that also; that in suche cases a counsellor is needed
Great. Well said must shAre
What kind of games to Introduce for my kid...three yrs old baby
You’ve really nailed this topic! If you're fascinated, a similar book is something you'll love. "A Life Unplugged: Reclaiming Reality in a Digital Age" by Theodore Blaze
What do I do now with my 15 year old son addicted and angry now?
Never heard any of his videos but He looks quite good
Now a days elders who are retired people they started screening. They are addicted to TV and phones. When these younger kids come home we parents can't say to elders. The elders play emotional game. They say we are watching all this now a days. In your childhood we missed everything. So please leave us alone and also say its OK beta. He is too young. He will learn later.
Also tell how to keep kids busy
My technique to break the screen time is start calling the mobile from another number. The child gets interrupted and ultimately leaves the phone. Sometimes I start sending whatsapp messages continuously and break the link of the child :) It works!!!!
Haha...good ones
My kid cuts the phone n hel. Happily Read the messages
@@devsai21 call again and again
Delete all games from mobile
Good Video.... I have suggestion why don't you look into the camera ? Are you reading the content like points... ???
How to get your counselling?
How can we contact you sir
Do you do career counseling
Thnq bro. I will follow
Thanks for useful video.
FIRST OF ALL
if the parents are not organised then definitely the kids never going to be an organised manner. In Indian culture ,our schools are teach many things in their syllabus. but most important thing they don't teach common sense,manners, punctuality,dedication,and honesty. this is the same way we grown up, that's why we are facing lot of troubles in our day to day life. In my understanding, parents should make a note for kids in day basis it includes Dailey activities,toileting,schooling preparation. Once kids start follow the note they will be organised in long term.
How much for a session ? Any session ?