I am venturing in to a new chapter of my life, being a step mom. I have two grown daughters, and now have a 10 year old. I reeeeally appreciate this advice, these reminders 🤗❤ one of your best topics yet, thank you!😊 hugs from Oregon
Seriously your channel is so underrated. I hope people share your videos so that it can reach out to as many people as possible. Never came across such high quality content. You suggestions and observations are commendable !! Kudos to you for doing such great work.
Got two children Son 24 daughter 19. On a scale of 10 I score 10 .....seriously :) good to listen to you Sridhar I am an educator and take pride in being successful in interacting not only with my own children but a whole lot of other children !! Thanks you're doing great service to humanity .
Amazing advice. Much appreciated. I am more towards the friendly side may be 8 on a scale of 10. And though I am very busy I make it a point to spend quality time with my daughter and focus on building happy memories.
Absolutely agree! A 💯 👏🏽Thank you!Its about having a harmonious Balance! My children are 15/18! They can’t wait when I get home! We talk about our highs/lows about their day. We talk as I would talk with my adult friends(with a lil tweekin) YesWarm & friendliness-when poured into them they give you the same thing right back! MULTIPLIED!!Being Harsh/belittling you create not Only distance but creeping hostility 😡
You are fantastic ! Love your advice. One of the best parenting advisors I’ve ever seen. You break everything down in a way I can understand and implement. Thankyou
Good morning. Bingo.. Honestly, U r absolutely right. I am a mother of my daughter. I follow this principle with her. In fact my parents followed this principle with my brothers and myself. It is very straightforward and simple. No complications at all. In fact my daughter says that people/parents/anybody have a tendency to make matters complicated whereas it is not. So let's be simple ,honest and straightforward and not complicate matters. Thanks to u for wonderful videos.
My emotional engagement with my children is 10/10. Ur ideas and thoughts are awesome and the language you use is very respectfull as well as clear. Even the thougher words are explained with easy. The course which you have started who so ever are interested in your skills always shows that there is no space plz take a look about it. Thank you
Been listening to many of your parenting videos today. I do want to add that it’s one thing to discuss “adult” topics with your child but another to dump your adult problems on them. They should not feel like they have to raise the parent. Just sharing my thoughts 🙏🏽
Thank you so much Mr.Shridhar!👍 I can be very authorative and focused only on discipline and dictate stuff! Sometimes I feel my kids are helpless with this behavior ...Will definitely try and make up with my kids for the lost time.
On the scale of 0 - 10 I don't know to judge myself where I'm.. but so far I understood I have set of bad rules to make them rite... Our biggest mistake was a Big NO to everything and deciding everything by ourselves instead of giving a choice to them fearing loss of money and time... Tnk you so much for your tips and advise...
5 out of ten because intentional distance like getting aggressive and authoritative when he can't listen what the command is like please switch off fan in bedroom he rush n pause switches off which is near to him rather in bedroom. Really helpful me watching for first time but subscribed.
Hello. Your, way, of conversation about parenting topic which is, very, important not only, for parents, but simultaneously for all, kids, It is commandable. Hatts, of to you and, your attitude God bless you
Your speech is nice. I learned many things. The thing is if your voice is towards us, seeing the video straight i may feel like my friend sharing with me.
I m really in tension with my 14 year old son because my husband has no time to be with us since he is doing government service but now I am so much happy this video helped me a lot thank you so much may God bless you and be a good father
Your channel is absolutely fantastic that delivers the best of parenting tips. Thanks to u . I can relate to what u say and pick up the advice which is required for a particular situation .
I am more on the friendly side. As my child started growing up I moved from authoritative to friendly. N yes I hv had talks with him on diverse areas n the children do understand. Sharing childhood memories is also important both theirs n yours.
I really like your content! But i really recommend to look up didactically alternatives. You are talking so extreamly fast that the content isnt able to reache our mind. Pause between the ideas and breathe in between... In my opinion this will increase the learning effect of your videos (maybe the klickrate/ likerate too?)
So true!!!! I think im inbetween. I have been wrong many a times but as a single mom have tried to makeup for the other parent too. I think i belong to the point where you mentioned abt being negative. Thanks for this video it Will help change the perspective.
Hello shridhar wonderful video my princess is 6 now her bday on 29 of this month my emotional score 8 as I told I m a single parent she is close 2 me score is not 10 due to my busyness n her small age I can't share wid her negative phases of my lyf she's my everything I m surviving just 4 her
Truly helpful... And surly very encouraging... Makes me happy to find out I'm trying to get a 50/50 or may be 60/40 balance with authority and friendliness with my 13 year old ....
My main concern is that M harsh with my child. Very strict with the schedule. She probably hates it. But thank you so much for the excellent piece of information and advice. God bless you
Thanks Shridhar. You are doing an amazing job. Parenting is a skill which I intend to get better on everyday basis. Your videos are very insightful and honest. Please continue the good work 👍🏻
Sir, awesome video, my daughter will be completing two in sept, I am very close to her but from last few months she is not ready to eat, don't want breakfast to eat, I mean to say kids do dat, so I am getting strict wen it comes to home food becose till now I have not given outside food, so I shout at that moment to her, I have to do that I think. Thank u
The balance is difficult to implement. If our child spills something, immediate reaction is to scold him. But if one adopts the friendly side and control one's reaction and instead say its okay. Sometimes it makes them used to such nice behaviour atleast from us. Then when they interact with their teachers or other adults they expect the same level of patience and understanding. But not everyone outside the child's family will be that way.Which makes them upset and confuses them. Also sometimes we also get tired of trying to respond correctly to anything and everything they do or say. Then momentarily we may snap.back or something. This also upsets them. Shouldn't parenting then be instinctive instead of a practised style? One thing for sure is extremes can be harmful. ButI hv seen children of authoritarian parents grow up later to have lot of respect for their father. In some cases.( I am not in favour of authoritarian style personally) And children of friendly parents , sometimes grow up unfocussed in their life and disrespectful of parents due to friendly parents. When to be friendly and when to be authoritarian is so dificult to decide. Some may say...where we feel they may be going wrong. But again are we not controlling them , instead of allowing them to grow , make mistakes? Should we intervene only when they ask for help?
I am venturing in to a new chapter of my life, being a step mom. I have two grown daughters, and now have a 10 year old. I reeeeally appreciate this advice, these reminders 🤗❤ one of your best topics yet, thank you!😊 hugs from Oregon
Your video ideally good .All dominating aggressive and unstable parents should watch
Seriously your channel is so underrated.
I hope people share your videos so that it can reach out to as many people as possible.
Never came across such high quality content. You suggestions and observations are commendable !!
Kudos to you for doing such great work.
Got two children Son 24 daughter 19. On a scale of 10 I score 10 .....seriously :) good to listen to you Sridhar I am an educator and take pride in being successful in interacting not only with my own children but a whole lot of other children !! Thanks you're doing great service to humanity .
Just fabulous! I am improving a lot to be a better parent by watching your vids. Thankyou!
You really made me clear about what wrong i was doing and what should I do to correct it. Thanks lot.
I love ur way of communication ... Ur word language is awesome ❤️
Amazing advice. Much appreciated.
I am more towards the friendly side may be 8 on a scale of 10.
And though I am very busy I make it a point to spend quality time with my daughter and focus on building happy memories.
The way you talk I liked as parent and your energy in ur words gives power gives positive energy. It's great job what you are doing thank you
Superb flashback to mistakes of my far right parents and I plan to be on left side.
It is surely help full for parents and upcoming parents too
Absolutely agree! A 💯 👏🏽Thank you!Its about having a harmonious Balance! My children are 15/18! They can’t wait when I get home! We talk about our highs/lows about their day. We talk as I would talk with my adult friends(with a lil tweekin)
YesWarm & friendliness-when poured into them they give you the same thing right back! MULTIPLIED!!Being Harsh/belittling you create not Only distance but creeping hostility 😡
You are fantastic ! Love your advice. One of the best parenting advisors I’ve ever seen. You break everything down in a way I can understand and implement. Thankyou
Good morning. Bingo.. Honestly, U r absolutely right. I am a mother of my daughter. I follow this principle with her. In fact my parents followed this principle with my brothers and myself. It is very straightforward and simple. No complications at all. In fact my daughter says that people/parents/anybody have a tendency to make matters complicated whereas it is not. So let's be simple ,honest and straightforward and not complicate matters. Thanks to u for wonderful videos.
So clear cut behavioural solutions...thank you!!
Excellent and simple approach.
My emotional engagement with my children is 10/10. Ur ideas and thoughts are awesome and the language you use is very respectfull as well as clear. Even the thougher words are explained with easy. The course which you have started who so ever are interested in your skills always shows that there is no space plz take a look about it. Thank you
Your suggestions.make sense. Thanks for your support.
Sir ,its true we cannot share everything with a child, except this I really feel good to hear this vedio
You are amazing, your tips are very valuable and helpful. God bless you brother.
Been listening to many of your parenting videos today. I do want to add that it’s one thing to discuss “adult” topics with your child but another to dump your adult problems on them. They should not feel like they have to raise the parent. Just sharing my thoughts 🙏🏽
We both do same with my both sons as u said
My both kids r very close to me.shares everything with each others.
You probably just saved my life 🙏🏽
First time I heard your speech that was amazing.In future it will be very helpful to me.Now my baby is 3 months.Thanks a lot.Good morning.
Your videos are so coherent and cover every detail. I am glad I found your channel.
Thank you for the advise, I am trying to make sure I be a better parent. 😊
Thank u sir I was very upset with all the circumstances going on with me, but I got hope from ur suggestions to rise me up. Thank u once again.
Thanks a lot for giving so much precious knowledge.
Thank you so much Mr.Shridhar!👍
I can be very authorative and focused only on discipline and dictate stuff! Sometimes I feel my kids are helpless with this behavior ...Will definitely try and make up with my kids for the lost time.
On the scale of 0 - 10 I don't know to judge myself where I'm.. but so far I understood I have set of bad rules to make them rite... Our biggest mistake was a Big NO to everything and deciding everything by ourselves instead of giving a choice to them fearing loss of money and time... Tnk you so much for your tips and advise...
Sir your are super speaker..... keep going.. all the best
What u suggest us. It's all true. I will follow it as a parent ..pls continue like this videos
5 out of ten because intentional distance like getting aggressive and authoritative when he can't listen what the command is like please switch off fan in bedroom he rush n pause switches off which is near to him rather in bedroom.
Really helpful me watching for first time but subscribed.
We are more towards the friendly side.
Very very informative video.Wishing you god speed in your progress.
Thank you once again.
Hello. Your, way, of conversation about parenting topic which is, very, important not only, for parents, but simultaneously for all, kids,
It is commandable.
Hatts, of to you and, your attitude
God bless you
very good content and good explanation, very true
Very well said. Thanks for sharing
Good guidance and helpful 🙏
thank you for your advice,will give it a try
Thanks sir... child is our priority ..alongwith our old parents and the spouse.! Such detailed exposition and solutions will sure help us..
Your speech is nice. I learned many things. The thing is if your voice is towards us, seeing the video straight i may feel like my friend sharing with me.
I m really in tension with my 14 year old son because my husband has no time to be with us since he is doing government service but now I am so much happy this video helped me a lot thank you so much may God bless you and be a good father
Very nice speech, thanks for reminding us.
Fabulously explained .. it is going to be very helpful in our parenting journey .. thank you for sharing such a wonderful video 👍
Awesome. Very nice information. I think iam more on an authoritarian side as a mother. Definitely I will work out on it for the good.
Thanks again
Your channel is absolutely fantastic that delivers the best of parenting tips. Thanks to u . I can relate to what u say and pick up the advice which is required for a particular situation .
I like your voice & pronunciation.
Some words are new .
Very nice video ,every point very nicely and very simply explained.
your way of speaking and explaining is super awesome. I watched your video today for the first time and I have become your fan.
thank you for the wonderful inputs.. i am a learning parent . would love to hear more from you ..
I am more on the friendly side. As my child started growing up I moved from authoritative to friendly. N yes I hv had talks with him on diverse areas n the children do understand. Sharing childhood memories is also important both theirs n yours.
10 marks i will give my relationship with my child
In your every video iam learning something new sir thank you
You are just amazing, hitting the nail 👏👏
I really like your content! But i really recommend to look up didactically alternatives. You are talking so extreamly fast that the content isnt able to reache our mind. Pause between the ideas and breathe in between... In my opinion this will increase the learning effect of your videos (maybe the klickrate/ likerate too?)
So true!!!!
I think im inbetween.
I have been wrong many a times but as a single mom have tried to makeup for the other parent too.
I think i belong to the point where you mentioned abt being negative.
Thanks for this video it Will help change the perspective.
Very crisp and clear expression of your thought. Really liked it. I have just gone through this one video and will watch all other things here.
Super Sridhar sir. 👏👏👏👏
Really very useful information
Your speech is super duper .. but plz upload some on the kids growing means 5 yr.. thnx
I learnt too much with the same😊
Hello shridhar wonderful video my princess is 6 now her bday on 29 of this month my emotional score 8 as I told I m a single parent she is close 2 me score is not 10 due to my busyness n her small age I can't share wid her negative phases of my lyf she's my everything I m surviving just 4 her
Perfect insight
Nice words ......we should fallow this things....
Sir i really want to know how u did this course and learnt so much. And u r an absolute genius
All thoughts are great
Excellent speech.. I understood my mistakes... Thanks a lot
Amazing speech
Sir u r doing great job, God bless you. Its really helpful.
Truly helpful... And surly very encouraging... Makes me happy to find out I'm trying to get a 50/50 or may be 60/40 balance with authority and friendliness with my 13 year old ....
Thank you so much😊
Sir,every word excellent
Sir same thing to be explained in Tamil is very very useful for Tamil parents.to apply and follow
Useful for present parents and future parents 👍
This is really good❤❤
Thanks for ur wonderful videos sir it is helping me to understand my mistakes and how to be close to my kids .
Superb pointers and thanks for sharing the vital information!
My main concern is that M harsh with my child. Very strict with the schedule. She probably hates it. But thank you so much for the excellent piece of information and advice. God bless you
This topic was so necessary for me.🙏
Thank you for your wise speech , it helps me, keep going
Thank u so much for making these vedios . Your suggestions are superb and help to understand our kids better
I could relate myself with this topic n could actually make out mistake that I was making. Thanks so much for your guidance
Thank u so much 🙏🏻
Sir a very much helpful video
I am soooo impressed with the content of your video....
Awesome wow wow just wow .....
You have explained very well all the nits and nags👍
Thankyou sir for this video. It is helpful us to understand the children. Your suggestions are just awesome. Thankyou.
Your suggestions are awesome...
I like ur all video its very helpfull fir me.thank u
I love your professional advice. It's right on point. 👍👌💙
Thanks Shridhar.. we will follow ur advice.
Thanks Shridhar. You are doing an amazing job. Parenting is a skill which I intend to get better on everyday basis. Your videos are very insightful and honest. Please continue the good work 👍🏻
Hi...thank you for this valuable lessons
Sir, awesome video, my daughter will be completing two in sept, I am very close to her but from last few months she is not ready to eat, don't want breakfast to eat, I mean to say kids do dat, so I am getting strict wen it comes to home food becose till now I have not given outside food, so I shout at that moment to her, I have to do that I think. Thank u
The balance is difficult to implement. If our child spills something, immediate reaction is to scold him. But if one adopts the friendly side and control one's reaction and instead say its okay. Sometimes it makes them used to such nice behaviour atleast from us.
Then when they interact with their teachers or other adults they expect the same level of patience and understanding. But not everyone outside the child's family will be that way.Which makes them upset and confuses them.
Also sometimes we also get tired of trying to respond correctly to anything and everything they do or say. Then momentarily we may snap.back or something. This also upsets them. Shouldn't parenting then be instinctive instead of a practised style? One thing for sure is extremes can be harmful. ButI hv seen children of authoritarian parents grow up later to have lot of respect for their father. In some cases.( I am not in favour of authoritarian style personally)
And children of friendly parents , sometimes grow up unfocussed in their life and disrespectful of parents due to friendly parents.
When to be friendly and when to be authoritarian is so dificult to decide.
Some may say...where we feel they may be going wrong. But again are we not controlling them , instead of allowing them to grow , make mistakes? Should we intervene only when they ask for help?
Such wonderful recommendations, just subscribed
simply super but we will try our best to our children like you are saying
Too good man 👍 you are a great help
For the first time I have gone through your blog and it's awesome. I think me and my husband comes under 50% 50% category 😀👍