Parenting: Raise Yourself Before You Raise Your Kids - Sadhguru

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  • Sadhguru looks at how a child needs a friend, not a boss. If we enforce our ideas upon a child, he will lose his sense of independence, and this could result in rebelliousness later on. Once you become a parent, the most important thing is that you have to be 100% straight. You just have to protect them from the wrong influences, the rest let them free, he says. At the same time, they should remain free from your influence, he points out.
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ความคิดเห็น • 94

  • @warrenbradford2597
    @warrenbradford2597 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    My narcissistic mother and sister became toxic because they never take the time to raise themselves. That is why I watched this video. To avoid becoming them.

  • @SunGodNika-bi2jr
    @SunGodNika-bi2jr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +715

    I wish I had a father like sadhguru

  • @kavitaverma9929
    @kavitaverma9929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    I wish my parents can listen to you Guruji 😣

  • @Hollowdarling
    @Hollowdarling 4 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    Speaking as a Latino raised in Puerto Rico, this was so beautiful to hear and see. I wish more elders had the intellect and empathy this person has.

  • @Ggdivhjkjl
    @Ggdivhjkjl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    Marvelous to see a man talking sense about parenting in today's world.

  • @marianap1121
    @marianap1121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    children are not your property! love that - you are so right

  • @8270361507
    @8270361507 6 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    Major respect to this man. A very good and true genuine human being. All people before planning to have children should watch this because there are plenty of people who have children as some kind of asset to fulfill something rather than allowing them to grow and flourish themselves.

  • @duuuuuuuuuuuup
    @duuuuuuuuuuuup 6 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    I'm experiencing such deep love towards this being. He is lovely and incredibly precious

  • @deepanagaraj2072
    @deepanagaraj2072 7 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    some parents really need this!!
    excellent one..!!thank you sadhguru :-)

  • @adriansherlockdamondark.1094
    @adriansherlockdamondark.1094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    Best words I've ever heard on the topic of parenting.

  • @malcontent6303
    @malcontent6303 7 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Sometimes Parents need to make decisions which their child doesn't agree with but they should always include their children in decisions which affect them. Many parents think they listen to their kids when in fact what they are really doing is telling their kids what to think. They conflate respect and obedience when the two are entirely separate concepts

    • @thedarknessofnana
      @thedarknessofnana 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Mal Content agreed. I feel what you described in the beginning of your reply goes along with that 'guiding them from negative influences' bit that he said.

  • @faza553
    @faza553 8 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    Most will misunderstand the deep truth of this sage advice.

  • @savoryicon
    @savoryicon 7 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    In western countries they let their children go to work and earn their money, makes the child independent. Even better, I feel, introduce them to success philosophy which they can understand at their pace. Most children have learned behaviour, which is what they learn looking at their parents, we cannot teach what we do not possess. Let them learn from able masters.

  • @melanie6697
    @melanie6697 7 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    He is so correct! I try to practice this with my kids and so far it is working well. It builds confidence and a sense of self.

  • @tierax8992
    @tierax8992 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It was like talking to my father I never had

  • @maxifernandes2654
    @maxifernandes2654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Hope my husband could know about being a parent is such a blessing

  • @bhoopalsinghRoheria
    @bhoopalsinghRoheria 7 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Beautiful. I never heard anything like from any other eminent people.

  • @warrior7478
    @warrior7478 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    He is a true guru with natural n real solutions without any conflicts. Bcoz today's we all r leading a fake n artificial life n going into a dark cell n he is a light. Plz listen sadguru n remove all darkness from yor life.try to be natural n honest with yourself n live n love natural life n follow law of nature.

  • @terigopula
    @terigopula 6 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Haha my life would have been absolutely miraculous, if I had 1/100th of Sadhguru's wisdom.
    Goosebumps every single time whenever I hear u Sadhguru.
    #respect #youAreTheBest :)

  • @naniroda495
    @naniroda495 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Best speech ever on parenting! Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @miha3847
    @miha3847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I think I found my best life advice in the moment , thank you so much Sr !!!!!

  • @artikaintura5846
    @artikaintura5846 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    guruji, i want hindi version of all your vedios for my mother . is that possible?

  • @nishthamishra7573
    @nishthamishra7573 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I love him he is superb

  • @drjaya8838
    @drjaya8838 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Grateful to you guruji... This is true spirituality. different from mere devotion. Thank you.

  • @tanmayeevishwanath1266
    @tanmayeevishwanath1266 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's so into reality , and I am surprised to see that sadhguru is little older than my parents but they really understand the present generation .👏💥

  • @harsha9792
    @harsha9792 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Humour in serious talk... Simply liked it..!!

  • @shivabr3112
    @shivabr3112 8 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Most comforting message for parents ......

  • @yasaswisriram1285
    @yasaswisriram1285 8 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    A wonderful explanation. Every parent should watch this

  • @HamzaKhan-lm8yz
    @HamzaKhan-lm8yz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Whatever Sadhguru has said in this video is happening to me by my parents.

  • @bhaveluthra
    @bhaveluthra 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    so beautiful.... This is a true path.... Hail to you. Respect!!!

  • @stm32user
    @stm32user 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    nice my sadhguru grandpa. I love you so much...

  • @harinesriramoju5340
    @harinesriramoju5340 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    thanq sadguru.i think i feel like iam understanding something.

  • @TheOvaisshamsi
    @TheOvaisshamsi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Excellent
    A very Good Massage for Parent

  • @PriyaSharma-jq5zn
    @PriyaSharma-jq5zn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Very supportive for children 🤣🤣🤣🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Thank you Sadhguru

  • @renuchhawal9875
    @renuchhawal9875 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Bless me God with such a wisdom all z time

  • @shreeaum
    @shreeaum 7 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Sadguru thrashed stupid minds of parents. Jai sadguru maharaj. Your blessings brings well being of society.

  • @ishaveer
    @ishaveer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Do Inner Engineer program conducted by Sadhguru in your city! Its can take you a long way :)

  • @ramyasharma2008
    @ramyasharma2008 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every parent should listen this, also elder siblings

  • @snr5950
    @snr5950 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thanq Sadguru for the sagely n precious advice to all parents.

  • @SujataMukherjee01
    @SujataMukherjee01 8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    guruji many people just become parent just to become one without knowing what it really takes to become a true parent,some become helicopter like,they must listen to this session

  • @AnanttNagarkar
    @AnanttNagarkar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sadhguru personifies Clarity and wisdom!

  • @satminderkaur5344
    @satminderkaur5344 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    beautiful ...

  • @mariasimic2271
    @mariasimic2271 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Thank You ! ❤️

  • @KillerFaceification
    @KillerFaceification 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I definitely agree

  • @frankiebrooks641
    @frankiebrooks641 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Awesome thanks

  • @prachikhirwadkar6870
    @prachikhirwadkar6870 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    awesome....intended to learn a new things about life..

  • @akankshamaurya6456
    @akankshamaurya6456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thankyou so much for sharing this wonderful knowledge.

  • @renusingh4629
    @renusingh4629 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You always have cool ways to make us understand anything

  • @anuradha-zd8kn
    @anuradha-zd8kn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    very nice explanation.

  • @lilil2081
    @lilil2081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for sharing this 🙏
    Namo Amituofo 🙏

  • @jean-francois5505
    @jean-francois5505 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank's Good reflexion

  • @ItzKyra_seyz
    @ItzKyra_seyz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    makes sense !!!

  • @kathleenvang2339
    @kathleenvang2339 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    absolutely right.

  • @jandepajanostan7086
    @jandepajanostan7086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow absolutely right❤. His wisdom is awesome...

  • @michaelfraser3991
    @michaelfraser3991 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Dwarpa Yuga 315 ascending; I wrote a long paragraph at how wrong I thought you were. Who am I to judge you? Glad to see you know all the answers to parenting. The bits of good advice you shared I will try to assimilate and the rest will leave to the streets and prison systems.

  • @RiteshAgarwalGwalior
    @RiteshAgarwalGwalior 8 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I am strongly influenced by your words.. I would like to have you as my Guru...

  • @favouriteworld3702
    @favouriteworld3702 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    perfect and very great speech

  • @ashaservanda8861
    @ashaservanda8861 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    that's right!!!

  • @rambhakthanumanram4330
    @rambhakthanumanram4330 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very true

  • @kaivalyasiddhi195
    @kaivalyasiddhi195 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    great words....

  • @vahn883
    @vahn883 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This guy looks so cool and hes so cool🤓🖒

  • @farhad56560
    @farhad56560 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    totally agree 100%

  • @nielaniela3900
    @nielaniela3900 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    sadhguru jou are amazing

  • @gigraphickinstallers
    @gigraphickinstallers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤

  • @ryanramkissoon1630
    @ryanramkissoon1630 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes a child needs it!!!

  • @menenaanee818
    @menenaanee818 ปีที่แล้ว

    Timeless

  • @mitchellknight1852
    @mitchellknight1852 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You Sadhguru 🙏🌄🎉

  • @chandini8833
    @chandini8833 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Perfectly said

  • @palashbiswas8936
    @palashbiswas8936 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Namashkaram sadhguru🙏🙏🙏

  • @blessedarethebroken3089
    @blessedarethebroken3089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    💙

  • @MeenakshiAnantram
    @MeenakshiAnantram 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I admire the thoughts...fantastic stuff

  • @arielsuralta3998
    @arielsuralta3998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Damm its right

  • @karna6651
    @karna6651 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Superr

  • @johnraju1
    @johnraju1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wonderful thought

  • @suleymanartun8932
    @suleymanartun8932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    But there is no guarentee.😂
    Very good speech, thanks.

  • @Sheebakumar
    @Sheebakumar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very well said
    #sheebakumar

  • @elennabaron1465
    @elennabaron1465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ojasvijain9477
    @ojasvijain9477 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:44 - 11:22

  • @jitanderkumarkhurana672
    @jitanderkumarkhurana672 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Teachings worth their weight in gold

  • @flamechick6
    @flamechick6 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    excellent

  • @ee_30_harshitaarya33
    @ee_30_harshitaarya33 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RESPECT THE SACRIFICES OF OUR PARENTS BUT TOXIC PARENTING IS NOT GOOD. PARENTS ALWAYS COMPLAIN THAT CHILDREN SHOULD BE AS OBEDIENT AS LORD RAMA BUT PARENTS SHOULD NOT FORGET THAT HE ALSO GOT FATHER LIKE KING DASHRATH WHO WAS NON ABUSIVE AND WHO USED TO RESPECT HIS WIVES INSTEAD OF BEATING AND ABUSING THEM AND HE WAS A GREAT HUMAN BEING TOO 🙏🙏

  • @huaren6229
    @huaren6229 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    😢

  • @viyyapusaratchandra
    @viyyapusaratchandra 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Children aren't your slaves, love them don't put your stupidity ideas on them because they forget to love people 💔

  • @joeslob1199
    @joeslob1199 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    and so the story would continue...plus or minus .

  • @kalyanc9279
    @kalyanc9279 ปีที่แล้ว

    #Sadhguru🙏
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  • @MISSMADISONMEDIA
    @MISSMADISONMEDIA ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Allow me to offer a teacher’s perspective: …..PLEASE

  • @pandurangasmaladakar8105
    @pandurangasmaladakar8105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kannada dub maadi plz

  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ...

  • @shilpamarudha5732
    @shilpamarudha5732 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Typical Truth, but ‘easier said than done’ in the current generation of so unsafe, unstable and judgemental people around!
    Hope things would change with more practicality and sensible enough if the future generation kids are lucky /blessed enough.

  • @mokesuvik5980
    @mokesuvik5980 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    But sadly most parents take us as their property..I am being beaten up throughout my childhood for marks & mentally abused too & all by parents..They r frustrated & if I m going for playing, they slapped me-this was the regular scene..Indian parents suck..sorry but not sorry…

  • @rajnishah2214
    @rajnishah2214 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thought is good . But not practical

  • @ryanramkissoon1630
    @ryanramkissoon1630 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is wrong. Easy for him to say what he says cuz his daughter is well behaved. Not West Indians. If you dont teach they will make your life a hell.
    Most people who talk abt parenting have well behaved children

    • @mamtasingh4723
      @mamtasingh4723 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He is not wrong. Children become adults and those adults be the way they were treated in their childhood. If his daughter is well behaved then it must be because he was a good father, it must be because he never was toxic with his daughter. Listen, parents need to accept this.