That person who complained about the menu has never truly been hungry. I offered to work for a pizza when I was out of food. I've sold my hair to pay bills. He had some nerve.
Been there myself. The owners should definitely take the "free food" sign off of their property and do it on the quiet to prevent choosing beggars from taking advantage.
In my experience, it's usually people with money are the ones who will abuse such things as free food. Most people who actually need food will try to pay for it in some way, such as working to pay for a pizza.
(The last story) I wouldn't have opened the door. When I lived close to my family my siblings always expected me to babysit for free because I worked graveyard so they thought it meant I could babysit during the day, one of them just dropped their kids on my porch so I called the police who turned around and told them it's child abandonment regardless of us being related.
That last story, I hope the OP makes it clear to the siblings that the main issues are with the parents, not with them, provided THEY behave and stop stealing.
Story 1 - I used to live in a building set up for women coming out of homelessness. Low income, et al. The hair salon across the street offered us free cuts, perms, color, whatever, we just cover the products used. This really helped with our self esteem and in getting work. Truly a hand up rather than a hand out. We would give as much of a tip as we could each time. One time, though, a resident who was moving out went in on her last day and brought her sister who never lived there for free hair cuts. When we were told about this, some of us volunteered to go with the resident services staff member to apologize profusely to the salon staff. This attempt to abuse their generosity nearly ruined things. Eventually the salon changed hands and the new owner wouldn't continue this benefit. It takes so little for someone to destroy something that benefits those who really need it. I don't know if that man's family was complicit or not but may karma bite him in the arse, anyway. 😾 =^..^=
I experienced something similar to that house story 10+ years ago. 13 years ago I bought my first house. I rented a room out to a friend so the friend could also save money for a house. Friend got a girlfriend. Girlfriend is on disability and has never lived in a house before. Fast forward 3 years later I’m getting married and husband gets a job 60 miles away and we live in the worst traffic area in the US. So we decide best thing to do is sell the house and use the money to buy a new house near husband’s job. I bought the house for $190k with a 20% down payment. I’ve also made improvements to the house. Friend tries to offer $150k. I say no because I paid more for the house. He tries to offer $200k. Again I say no because that how much I bought the house for and I’ve made improvements and property values have gone up. He whines that girlfriend loves this house, he’s already promised it to her, and $200k is all he can afford. He adds on that his mom was going to sell him her house for half its price why can’t I do that for him. I tell him I’m not his mom. My asking price is $280k and if he can’t afford it he needs to find a house he can afford. I ended up having to evict him. Just to show a few pointers. He made significantly more money than me but I saw him spending it on girlfriend instead of saving. So no sympathy he didn’t save enough.
Story 1: No good deed goes unpunished. I worked at a national chain coffee shop and my manager would allow homeless people to take the unclaimed orders (drinks, food, etc) Well a girl pulls up in a new BMW, designer clothes, and a $3000 handbag. She starts looking through the mobile orders and complains that there isn't anything good for her to take. I'm like what? She says that she heard from a friend that we give away free food and drinks, and wanted me to make her a free drink and a sandwich (her order would have cost $30). I explained that we gave away unpicked mobile orders to the homeless and she clearly wasn't homeless. She demanded her free drink and sandwich or she'd call her daddy who was a very important lawyer to sue us. My manager kicked her out of the store and banned her. As promised her daddy showed up threatening to sue for "discrimination" (because rich white people are sooo discriminated against 😂) My friend recorded everything and posted it to the city's website, It turned out the guy was a district attorney or something. Lol His boss wasn't happy 😁
I'd laugh about this if it wasn't for the fact that these kind of entitled people get away with pulling this kind of stuff more than they do getting called out on it.
( racism is not based on one or two skin colours, and denying that is like saying no you can't face depression because xxx) But I hope the video of the dad and hopefully of the daughter was posted and seen by everyone in the city! I can't understand why someone would do that if they are not strafing?! These people should work in caretaking jobs or as servers for just one week! After that they will do voluntary work and will behave like normal people!!
Mentioning she was white was useless, as you probably would have had a lot of white homeless people as well, that her father was a lawyer and she came all dressed up in a new BMW means she was rich, but that also doesn't mean you can't discriminate against them. In this case, it has nothing to do with anything, because it's just a kind gesture toward the needy, so a jury would laugh at the claim, but the way you said it was just a idiotic.
The arches story reminded me of what happened with my luminaries. Twenty years ago I spent an entire year collecting a certain size of glass jars to make luminaries to line our driveway for Christmas time. I had beautiful red bows made to go around the mouth of each jar with sand and lovely red candles in each. A woman that I vaguely knew called and asked if she could borrow them for a wedding. I stupidly said yes. A month later (after many phone calls!) to get them back I came home to find them at my front door just randomly thrown in a box. The beautiful red bows were gone and in their place were sad, pathetic yellow ribbons. Also most of the clean beach sand was gone and there were blobs of melted wax stuck inside. I called her and said what the heck! She said that red didn’t match the wedding colors so she cut them off and threw them away. I told her that the bows were specially made from very expensive ribbon and I was expecting her to pay for it. She got all huffy and said what’s the problem it was only ribbon. We went back and forth, she hung up and a couple of days later the was a single roll of very cheap pinkish ribbon on my front porch! You can be assured that I made a point of telling everyone in our neighborhood as well as at church about what she did.
These Entitled Karen act like a child that can't figure out the work behind something (and I don't mean know exactly, but at least can't figure out that they don't know the work) and like if they can't figure out any kind of estimate of weight & size of thing and know that they don't know. And, as child, instead of asking, they test the limit and demand and won't take a "no" as an answer. Maybe we should all get some adult diaper: when we see an adult that will definitively throw a tentrum over something insignifiant, let them have a diaper so they can complete their baby act correctly!
OP & Sister who is a Single Parent: OP, the next time your Sister tries to guilt trip you about your being able to afford stuff, tell her, "well if you didn't get 'knocked up" you'd still be living at home with Mommy & Daddy, & could afford anything you wanted."
My wife has a half-sister that posts online all the time how she cannot afford things for her and her kids, and always gets people to pay for stuff. A few days later she'll post pics of her new tattoos and partying and drinking with her friends. it's awesome....
Sounds like someone needs to call DCF on her! Posting pictures of herself out partying while also posting how she can't afford stuff for her children will most certainly suggest neglect and a need for the authorities to step in. I would and I have! A relative and his wife were too busy doing drugs and getting drunk to take care of their kids. I called DCF and then helped his mother-in-law to get custody! Many years later the couple are now clean and sober and grandparents. They needed that push to go get help and are glad we forced their hand.
Yeah I have family and friends (friends said loosely) that always have their hands out but buy whatever they want... I guess if someone paid for my necessities, I'd have money for tattoos and anything else I want too.
@@sharon22669 I'd lend them money for any tattoo they want as long as they agree to get an additional tattoo on their forehead that reads "I am sponge that wastes money, lend at your own risk."
I hope she got called out on it because if she didn't, someone eventually will. Call her out and then CPS and the FTC because what she did falls under charity fraud
Story 1: if I was the boss I would make it clear to my workers that they have the power to refuse service to anyone ordering from the free menu along with having a limit on how much they can order when needed.
Yeah, when the man said he'd order this, this, and this; I was expecting him to claim that was his order and now the rest of the family had to make theirs. And Geez, shrimp. There is usually a surcharge to add shrimp when ordering from a regular menu, so them expecting to get it from a charity one is absurd. I'm guessing they want filet mignon and veal added to their options too.
That's... how businesses work, you're not legally required to serve people who are disrespectful, want a discount from Nothing, or even get physical. People always yammer on about " what happened to "the customer is always right"?" Well boomer Karen it's stopped becoming relevant when we started using "we at *enter name here* reserve the right to refuse service to anyone"
Story 5: I get that the bid was rejected back then, and that's a bummer, but you can't just force the owner to sell the house to you, even if it was years later. That's not how it works
My siblings and I had to sell our Mom's property a couple of years ago. When my Mom died last year, I drove past her house after the funeral, and I noticed the family that lives there had made some changes to the place. Being the sentimental type, I can't honestly say I like it. Did I knock on their door and complain to them? Of course not! It's their property now, and what they do with it is their business. Simply put, some people just need to grow up!
The first story reminds me of an encounter I had with a choosing beggar. I was on my way to buy lunch when I met a homeless guy on the street. I decided a dollar would be a reasonable donation, but I didn't have any $1 bills. I had a $20 bill, but then I realized that I also had some coins, so I offered him four quarters. The choosing beggar said that he wanted $20. I told him that was too much for a single donation, and I offered him $1, but he continued to demand $20. Losing my patience, I explained to him the simple logic that $1 is more than zero, which is the only alternative I'm offering. I practically shoved my four quarters in his face, giving him one last chance to take them, but CB refused to take anything less than $20, except for $0, apparently. I finally gave up and left for the restaurant with all my cash still on me. I paid for lunch with my debit card, ate it, then walked home, trying to ignore CB. As soon as I walked past him, he recognized me and loudly called me a cheapskate. I lost it and told him that he's lucky my $1 offer was on the table for as long as I had kept it there, as most people would have given up sooner. After walking another block, I ran into a second homeless guy (humble beggar) who had overheard my argument with CB, whom neither of us could stand. I gave HB the four quarters that CB had refused. After we chatted and had a good laugh, I felt much better, so I gave HB a $20 bill. Yes, I was being spiteful, but I felt that HB deserved a $21 reward for improving my mood. It's not that I couldn't spare $20, but if I gave it to the worst personality I've ever met among homeless people, it would be unfair to those with better personalities unless I gave $20 to each and every one of them, and that's definitely something I couldn't afford.
Sadly, I've known parents like in the last story. The best thing to do is to cut all ties. When I was growing up. My older sister had a friend with such people as her parents. At this time, America still had orphanages. I remember this girl going down to the orphanage to get legally imancipated from her family. The court, after hearing the circumstances, granted it to her.
Story 3: About those arches, I'm glad that op didn't fall for "karen's" request. Always remember, NEVER loan anything like that to anyone as you'll NEVER get it back! If I know "karen" she'd keep it! 😀
The fact that they are large, required a forklift to move them, and were welded into the ground made the decision pretty easy about a lending policy, especially random strangers that saw their project on the web.
@Meh Good morning Meh! Sure, those arches are big & heavy as I've seen them at a McDonalds & they are also stainless steel, bolted down & probably require a forklift too for transport! Don't know what that "karen" was thinking--she's crazy ! 😀
Story 2: Imagine constantly guilting others because you don't have the money others have instead of trying to get a better income. Like, it sucks that she's broke, but leeching and guilting is not the way to go
The new trend on Tik Tok are parents crying over their children going No Contact and it’s amazing how abusive and entitled they are whining because their children won’t talk to them. It’s bizarre.
Yep. I just met a "mom" today whose son and his wife declared no contact with her. Granted, I don't know her well and never met this son, but oh boy I could barely last 2 hours in the same room with her and some other folks. 2 hours was more than plenty for me.
I don't use tiktok but might now just for these nuggets of gold. I had to listen to my partner's mother whine about her 19 daughter moving out. My only thought was thank goodness SiL is finally able to get the F out of that. I've blocked MiL phone and only have in person conversation with her in the presence of others. I don't need to read any messages about how I should take the kids and leave her son one text then how I'm a horrible mother in the next text.
Pretty sure if my mom knew what TikTok was, she'd be one of them. She still tries to get into my good graces with birthday and Xmas presents, but I don't budge. I am polite and thank her, though.
I can’t blame some of them. Though my mom is gold, and my son and I are really close. Both of my sisters did not fare well in the MIL department. Both of their FIL are great though.
That last story was so sad and frustrating. I was the eldest and only girl and my mom and aunt would drop my brothers and male cousins on me to watch all day, even when I was a child. I remember one particularly horrible night when my mom arrived with some of her friends I didn't know, handed me their BABY and then left for the whole night. I was like 13 yrs old and had never been in charge of a baby. It was awful.
i feel you here. Im 6 years older then my little siblings and i was in charge of them since day 1 because my step dad was a drunk and my mother refused to do anything after she go off work. Its horrid and what make is even worse is my little sister ended up just like our parents and like to "drop by" whenever she wants so my wife and i can watch her 3 kids for free because we dont have kids and shes a single mother of 3 with 1 on the way. She 20 and her BF is a bum and while she does work he does not. What should i do?
@@leemitchell7841 For how much it can hurt, start drawing an HARD line. Start by telling her that you two will NOT watch her kids anymore unless if she asked in advance and if she starts to pay you for babysitting. And if she start to whine and get all pissy simply tell her that next time she pulls this stunt you will NOT hesitate to call the police and tell them she abandoned her children in front of your house without warning, and that you and your SO cannot watch them at that time and that she also dropped them without even telling you. That's the only way to get your point across. Otherwise she'll just keep taking advantage of you and your generosity, sometimes you need to be the bad guy and put your foot down in the most harsh way possible, as these types of people will not stand otherwise. I had to do it for my roommate who expected me not to go to my lessons to University in the mornings because her and her partner needed to work and took me for a live-in nanny. Which I'm not and I'm absolutely not the type of person to leave your children with (I never hurt them, but I don't like kids, can't stand them, heck I don't even stand my own family members children! Let alone a woman I barely know who rented the room next to mine!), so I started calling the police any morning in which she just openedy door without knocking and let her children loose in my damned room (My room, besides being sacred for me, it's full of expensive art supplies that I also need for school and I'm not thrilled to have dirty grabby hands touch my works and supplies) After the third call she moved out thank the gods, but unless you start to get really harsh she will not listen nor learn, trust me
A man put up a video of money taped to him while holding a sign money for people in need. (In NYC). Most people who took were not in need. He questioned one woman in designer clothes and pruse. She replied she's getting her nails done the next day and what she's taking will pay for it. People like her and the family in the first story are only hurting people struggling by taking advantage of good people.
Honestly. The people who need it most won't take it because they consider someone might be more in need than them. Well-off people see it as an opportunity to profit even more. (Obviously not all well-off people, but there's definitely a good amount of stingy assholes who wouldn't see anything wrong with it
Story One: With the attitude that that dad gave if I were OP I would have only given each of them a small taco and a small drink and then sent them on their way and limited that from 50.00 dollars to about 15.00 dollars and then put them on your BAND LIST!? It's not like they were allergic to what was on that menu so there were no excuses for their behavior. This guy was a Grade-A KEN!
If he was picky about what he was ordering, then it is obvious he had never gone to a soup kitchen; and therefore was only abusing the policy to give a good meal that was supposed to go to a needy family.
Last Story : OP : Why don't you have the older ones at home babysit? PArents: We don't want to take away their ability to have a life OP: Why not you did it to me
Kuddos to the young person in the last story!! I've been NC with my toxic egg donor for almost 10 years now & couldn't be happier!! I still talk to my amazing dad that I was kept away from all my life & have had a great relationship with him for almost 30 years now, which drove my egg donor even crazier than she already was!!😂😂 But in all seriousness, I'm so happy for them putting their foot down, setting boundaries & upholding those boundaries!!
For the lady that tried to steal the arches by thinking that receipt what you did was called attempted theft and she belongs Behind Bars they should have pressed charges
"what kind of business do you run? You dont get to pick and choose who you give discounts too" Um, yeah it does, if hes the owner/manager he can 100% pick who he wants to give a discount to
last story: the reason the siblings were never made to babysit much was to make room for op to do it, since the family, mostly the dad, is mad they cant control op anymore, so they made op their enemy
Story 1: real beggars are not that much of a p.o.s. Story 2: don't help unless sister is worthy! Story 3: I agree with fluff on this! Story 4: Where did she even get the idea she was entitled to those arches??? Say NO to begin with and leave it at that. 😡 Story 5: Just...NO. 😡. Taking turns?? 🤷 Story 6: Good for you, OP!!
If they're going to offer free food to the public like this they need to have the people that are destitute apply for some kind of a card at a shelter or a Section 8 place to ensure that these people aren't ripping off the system when they have a Hummer and a paid house. Also there has to be a limit on free food like $20 for each visit per day.
My only disagreement on this is for college students I've read to many stories where college students are struggling to eat because of tuition fees and textbook costs. I feel in that situation I suppose you could show them a student id for a local college.
@@angelsnyder6381 if they can prove on their school ID that they are low income that they can get that is part of a discount then yes I am nothing against that.
Actually good idea. Basically it's not out of malice, but fairness. If entitled people start misusing the kindness of the owner, then the owner might run out of supplies to make food for those who are actually in need.
@@PanduPoluan yeah anytime I hear a story like this I think of meme when it comes to food stamps. The guys getting food stamps has a Hummer or Ferrari.
Story 1: No Contact Story 2: No Mercy. If he destroys stuff, call the police. Story 4: I would have loved to see that "contract". So I can print it out xD
⭐️Well, what are YOU going to do about it? ⭐️ Story 2: if someone is telling you to stop talking because THEY can’t afford food or whatever this is what you say and ONLY say - “So, what are you going to do about that?” (with slight emphasis on the word “you” if you’re feeling passive aggressive 😂). We are not responsible for other people’s emotions or situations. Even when it’s family. Saying “what are you going to do about that?” Or “what are you doing to change that/your situation?” You have to be a broken record and only respond with a version of this. They won’t like it and they will be pushing EVERY button to make you crack - DONT crack. If you’re consistent with putting the responsibility back on to them (where it belongs), they will get tired of not getting the attention and usual response from you and hopefully they’ll stop ….hopefully.
Story 1: "No Good Deed Goes Unpunished" example #2,000,004 Story 2: Envy is an ugly thing, and no one ever improved their lot in life by whining about other people being better off. Story 5; No, bad Karen. You don't get to demand someone sell you a house because they've "lived in it long enough" and "owe you a turn." Story 6: No, bad failed parental units. You get the respect you earn, not the respect you demand. If you have to demand it, you probably haven't earned it.
My step mother and father ( may he rip) used to brag about all they were doing when me and my husband were struggling, and if I made a comment they just barked we should budget better. Fast forward hubby and I move to a new state and things begin to look up for us with better health care, cheaper rent etc. And now they are the ones struggling. My father recently passed away and my step mom is complaining about her bills etc. Apparently my dad never changed his pension ( military) after my mom passed away and he remarried. So now she's struggling but manages to do fun things occasionally but is upset that he ( hubby) and I go out to eat etc. So when she stopped. I just casually said well learn how to budget on the money you have ( as they used to tell .me) she huffed and hung up. Karma is a witch. She still gripes but in another breath says I'll get by shell never learn
Story #6 18:58 : it's not asking if she just left them! OP should have called CPS and said that there are unattended kids and OP has no business with them because OP has other plans outside the house and wasn't informed of them beeing left there!
s1: i think the owners should stop advertising this because entitled people like this charmed prince and his family are taking advantage and then have the balls to give a 1 star review on yelp. the servers can use their own judgement if someone should get the food which this guy shouldnt have. s2: op's sister sounds like a professional victim who likes the attn when people feel sorry for her. i have a friend like this who just complains but does nothing or at least try to improve things. she's just in this mindspace where she feels sorry for herself and wallows. i've stopped helping her because i got tired of wasting time and energy. s3: op's nicer than i am. i'd call the police and let them deal with him s4: what an unhinged, entitled woman. and her family is just as bad. s5: unhinged woman, again. s6: oh look, entitled parents who think that their children are possessions. dad sounds like an immature, insecure asshole who cant handle the fact that he isnt lord of all and cant control op. and i have to agree with darkfluff. it really does sound like the parents had too much children they couldnt handle and tried to fob their kids onto their eldest like a 3rd parent. he really would be better off NC. I wouldnt even allow the siblings in my place.
My dude....... don't think about it too much. Just hearing that makes my brain hurt............. a metric shit ton. The only exception that might come up is the public library. But still..................... gonna complain about a free meal.
"What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine." ha. My dad's father used to say the exact same thing. 😆We didn't have to live with my grandparents, though, or I wouldn't be as amused that someone else's family has the same saying.
Story 1 - I've done volunteer work at a local food bank, and they always have clients who complain about the limited choices. I always want to tell them, "The supermarket is just around the corner. If you've got the money to pay for it, they'll let you have anything you want."' Story 3 - When I worked in retail, my manager had a favorite saying: "No good deed goes unpunished." Story 4 - If that woman's daughter is anything like her, then I have some advice for the prospective groom: RUN!!!
I don't really understand why you would constantly tell everyone you are broke. I would hate knowing that my personal finances are public knowledge whether they were good or bad. Today's society shares way too much.
Story 1. While I commend the sentiment and action of giving Free Meals to the needy I feel that the way this establishment is going about it is the wrong way and will lead to more confrontations with entitled customers and the staff as this one. They may even be putting their staff in danger, a better way would be to connect with local homeless charities to offer free meals once or twice a week from one of their outlets not the restaurant.
The sister who ALWAYS complains about not being able to afford things, tell her that she was the one who had a child and that Life's Hard Get A Helmet 😂
The 1st story, reminds me of when my mom went to the pizza place that's around. And she would've ordered, but the lady at the front working, says that she can take 2 on the house, since they were gonna toss the extras away and were cool. That made my mom happy and it's pretty much something I wanted to tell. So yeah that was my mom's dine N dash moment. If there was something I could say, is that know the reasons as to why something is free and reasonable.
I once went to a local grocer that had a deli that made fried chicken and ribs and whatnot. It was afterwork and the store was about to close soon, so they offered me a free package of ribs because they would have to toss it out if it wasn't sold anyway. Sometimes lady luck falls your way. Also, the ribs were pretty good so I was motivated to buy some at another date, which was likely a side effect they were hoping for by giving away their leftovers to customers.
What's nice about 1 star reviews is that owners of the business can respond to them. I doubt that the reviewer would be kindly looked upon once people read the owner response of what really happened. Likely also the reviewer would leave similar bogus reviews and get the account banned.
Oh no!! That story abt the lady trying to buy the house- be very careful!! This reminds me of the true crime story I heard about a woman finally charged after stalking & threats etc after a couple refused to sell a woman their house (whom their bid won over), and the lady actually was posting online dating profiles pretending to be the homeowner & was talking to guys that she had a link and wanted them to force their way into the house and force themselves onto the unsuspecting woman!! Very scary, good thing they warned their neighbors too
16:46 Story 5: EW (entitled woman): “You have to sell us this house!” Me: “I don’t HAVE to do anything!” EW: “You’ve lived here long enough. It’s our turn now.” Me: “What do you think this is, a playground? Living in a house is not a “take turns” deal!”
The family from story 1 ... Whoa, how can people be so audacious?! The man has never really been hungry, otherwise he would have been humble for being able to eat food for free!
"you dont get to pick and choose who you give discounts to" uh...yeah they do, if they are the owner/manager or authorised by the owner/manager, they absolutely do
I think she should make a list of the cost of all she has done for her sister, itemized. And, each time the sister says something take the list out and make a debit entry. Tell her when it's in the black, she'll help her again. Oh and publish. Lol
Story 4: I hope Crazy Lady spent serious time in the slammer for an open-and-shut case of attempted fraud: she handed the evidence to the sheriff's deputy. Probably a few other crimes in there aa well.
I absolutely feel the second story. I probably have hundreds and thousands of stories of entitlement with my family. I absolutely love this channel because I can relate to a lot of the stories. I just wish people could be better. Peace love and good vibes.
Love you Fluff!!! Thanks for entertaining me while I was in the hospital for 6 days!!! ☺️ Literally all I did was listen to your “r/entitledpeople and r/Idontworkherelady” videos. Other than when I was in surgery for 7 and a half hours lol. Bad car wreck for those who are curious about why I was in the hospital. Anyways, thanks again and you ROCK!!!
story 1... very well intentioned.. but definitely not ideal... it shouldn't be broadcasted for exactly the reason in the story...that angers me that entitled aholes like them takes advantages of good people like those owners... that last story...i'm surprised OP didn't just block them all when he left the house
Story 4... if the police had to get involved... I would have then also been getting the courts by having her charged with fraud (over 5k), attempted theft (over 5k), and filing a false report, trespassing, and harassment.
Story 1 really takes the cake. Anyone who refuses the conditions of service for free food can go and stick it in their rear and end. They ought to have refused to give them food at all and told them to leave. As you say, people will always take advantage of someone who is kind enough to offer help when someone is down. My husband used to donate his time to a place called Hands On Health. They offered their services for a minute fee which covered the use of the church hall that they did it in. They offered their services to people who couldn't afford to pay full price to have treatments like massage therapy etc which is what my husband does. The receptionist had a sister who was well off and could afford to pay normal prices, but because she had a pension card, she was entitled to get a massage for the minimum price which was only $8 for the hour. It was only once a week and he could only do three massages a day. She took the time from someone who could really use the treatment. I have absolutely no time for people like that.
W. T. F, when a stranger comes on your property and asks to barrow a permanent item you do not hem haw n explain yourself! Get the F off my property n if you return it trespassing and you will be arrested! Lol
That is a beautiful thing for that Mexican restaurant to offer food to people who can't afford it. A warm meal would bring some happiness to a lot of people and they're proving kindness is an amazing thing, sad people take advantage of thier big hearts.
Story 2 - 4:36 - Is anyone else a little concerned that OP's fiancé seems to feel he can lay down the law to OP? In this case, it may be just as well, but overall, it's a little disturbing.
Damn, I became disabled at 35 and still buy food for the family when I am at my mother’s house, it just means plain oatmeal for the next month and a half. I save up to be able to buy the holiday dinner. Sure, it irks me when my bourgeois sister (who have their retirement solidly paid off and live on a golf course) pushes me to buy something from whatever pyramid scheme she has jumped into for the month, as the first month membership sometimes is a big enough discount for her to get shit free…I still buy the $30 hand lotion. Then she doesn’t get anything for Xmas.
The story about the jealous sister struck a nerve with me. This year I’m studying for the first time in almost 30yrs and I’m so excited, I’ve also changed a bit and living for me instead of sitting home waiting on others but I’ve made some people unhappy. They pretend to be happy for me or just not talk about it. I just found out my mum didn’t even know where and what I was studying. She also keeps telling me to grow up because I’m in my 40s and shouldn’t have fun even with my kids.
First story: That guy had an electronic device capable of connecting to the internet and leaving a one star review on a restaurant that he expected to believe that he had no money?
The story about the arches really should have pressed charges for fraud and attempted grand theft considering the woman was there demanding property she didn't pay for with a fake bill of sale.
Story 1: Another reason beggars can't (or rather, shouldn't) be choosers. If someone offered me free food in my (hypothetical) time of need, I'd take it. I would say the restaurant should require proof of poverty, but I don't know how that would work. Story 3: Good for you, OP! Disrespectful people don't deserve discounts. Story 6: I've said it before and I'll say it again. Laws against favoritism and parentification: *what's the freaking holdup?!* Favoritism is abuse, plain and simple. Parentification is also abuse, bordering on slavery! Parenting is never a sibling's job.
On that last story of OP babysitting. He needs to quit with the threats and do it! If he keeps threatening, then the parents will continue to test his boundaries and harass him! He also needs to get a restraining order, again because the parents will continue to push and browbeat him.
Old dude is two years old! Edit: regarding the arches. My husband and I were married under an arbor that we decorated with balloons and flowers in our wedding colors. It currently is set up at the foot of our steps going into the home we purchased a few months after our wedding. We have to go under it every time we leave or enter the house. We even stop to kiss under it occasionally.☺️ It didn’t cost anywhere close to $4000, but I would NEVER lend out for any reason. Not even to my kids! During the summer, my husband plants morning glories on the sides of it and the vines climb and wind there way completely over the top. It’s quite beautiful when the flowers open up. That arbor has stood out there for over 15 years as a wonderful reminder of our wedding.
Story 4. Wow that woman really knows how to haggle: "Let me borrow the arch" "No" "You'll need to get a forklift so we can move it" "No" "Also, you'll have to paint it white"
Worse-he saw a sign saying “if you can’t afford to pay, we will feed you” and was clearly taking advantage of their generosity meant for those in actual need. (I *highly* doubt that he was someone who truly did not have the ability to pay.)
Story 5 - after my first refusal, my response would be "off my property now, or I'm beating the shit out of you and telling the cops that you tried to force your way into my home."
That person who complained about the menu has never truly been hungry. I offered to work for a pizza when I was out of food. I've sold my hair to pay bills. He had some nerve.
I hope things are better for you now.
Been there myself. The owners should definitely take the "free food" sign off of their property and do it on the quiet to prevent choosing beggars from taking advantage.
@@dinascharnhorst6590 they are. Kind of. I knit to make extra money. Thank you for the kind words.
In my experience, it's usually people with money are the ones who will abuse such things as free food. Most people who actually need food will try to pay for it in some way, such as working to pay for a pizza.
@@heididietrich9800 glad things are better for you now
All props in the world to the young person from the last story for moving out of that toxic household and living their own life.
When Mom left the kids and dashed, OP should have called Cops and CPS then.
And go total NC!
(The last story) I wouldn't have opened the door. When I lived close to my family my siblings always expected me to babysit for free because I worked graveyard so they thought it meant I could babysit during the day, one of them just dropped their kids on my porch so I called the police who turned around and told them it's child abandonment regardless of us being related.
That last story, I hope the OP makes it clear to the siblings that the main issues are with the parents, not with them, provided THEY behave and stop stealing.
Story 1 - I used to live in a building set up for women coming out of homelessness. Low income, et al. The hair salon across the street offered us free cuts, perms, color, whatever, we just cover the products used. This really helped with our self esteem and in getting work. Truly a hand up rather than a hand out. We would give as much of a tip as we could each time. One time, though, a resident who was moving out went in on her last day and brought her sister who never lived there for free hair cuts. When we were told about this, some of us volunteered to go with the resident services staff member to apologize profusely to the salon staff. This attempt to abuse their generosity nearly ruined things. Eventually the salon changed hands and the new owner wouldn't continue this benefit. It takes so little for someone to destroy something that benefits those who really need it. I don't know if that man's family was complicit or not but may karma bite him in the arse, anyway. 😾 =^..^=
I experienced something similar to that house story 10+ years ago. 13 years ago I bought my first house. I rented a room out to a friend so the friend could also save money for a house. Friend got a girlfriend. Girlfriend is on disability and has never lived in a house before. Fast forward 3 years later I’m getting married and husband gets a job 60 miles away and we live in the worst traffic area in the US. So we decide best thing to do is sell the house and use the money to buy a new house near husband’s job.
I bought the house for $190k with a 20% down payment. I’ve also made improvements to the house.
Friend tries to offer $150k. I say no because I paid more for the house. He tries to offer $200k. Again I say no because that how much I bought the house for and I’ve made improvements and property values have gone up. He whines that girlfriend loves this house, he’s already promised it to her, and $200k is all he can afford. He adds on that his mom was going to sell him her house for half its price why can’t I do that for him. I tell him I’m not his mom. My asking price is $280k and if he can’t afford it he needs to find a house he can afford.
I ended up having to evict him.
Just to show a few pointers. He made significantly more money than me but I saw him spending it on girlfriend instead of saving. So no sympathy he didn’t save enough.
Story 1: No good deed goes unpunished. I worked at a national chain coffee shop and my manager would allow homeless people to take the unclaimed orders (drinks, food, etc)
Well a girl pulls up in a new BMW, designer clothes, and a $3000 handbag. She starts looking through the mobile orders and complains that there isn't anything good for her to take.
I'm like what? She says that she heard from a friend that we give away free food and drinks, and wanted me to make her a free drink and a sandwich (her order would have cost $30).
I explained that we gave away unpicked mobile orders to the homeless and she clearly wasn't homeless.
She demanded her free drink and sandwich or she'd call her daddy who was a very important lawyer to sue us.
My manager kicked her out of the store and banned her. As promised her daddy showed up threatening to sue for "discrimination" (because rich white people are sooo discriminated against 😂)
My friend recorded everything and posted it to the city's website, It turned out the guy was a district attorney or something. Lol
His boss wasn't happy 😁
I'd laugh about this if it wasn't for the fact that these kind of entitled people get away with pulling this kind of stuff more than they do getting called out on it.
( racism is not based on one or two skin colours, and denying that is like saying no you can't face depression because xxx)
But I hope the video of the dad and hopefully of the daughter was posted and seen by everyone in the city! I can't understand why someone would do that if they are not strafing?! These people should work in caretaking jobs or as servers for just one week! After that they will do voluntary work and will behave like normal people!!
Mentioning she was white was useless, as you probably would have had a lot of white homeless people as well, that her father was a lawyer and she came all dressed up in a new BMW means she was rich, but that also doesn't mean you can't discriminate against them.
In this case, it has nothing to do with anything, because it's just a kind gesture toward the needy, so a jury would laugh at the claim, but the way you said it was just a idiotic.
I also enjoy lying on the internet.
Ya gotta celebrate victories where they happen, especially if they're rare. @@meh2510
The arches story reminded me of what happened with my luminaries. Twenty years ago I spent an entire year collecting a certain size of glass jars to make luminaries to line our driveway for Christmas time. I had beautiful red bows made to go around the mouth of each jar with sand and lovely red candles in each. A woman that I vaguely knew called and asked if she could borrow them for a wedding. I stupidly said yes. A month later (after many phone calls!) to get them back I came home to find them at my front door just randomly thrown in a box. The beautiful red bows were gone and in their place were sad, pathetic yellow ribbons. Also most of the clean beach sand was gone and there were blobs of melted wax stuck inside. I called her and said what the heck! She said that red didn’t match the wedding colors so she cut them off and threw them away. I told her that the bows were specially made from very expensive ribbon and I was expecting her to pay for it. She got all huffy and said what’s the problem it was only ribbon. We went back and forth, she hung up and a couple of days later the was a single roll of very cheap pinkish ribbon on my front porch! You can be assured that I made a point of telling everyone in our neighborhood as well as at church about what she did.
Who is 'she'?
@@zombinosh sorry, I realized that a sentence didn’t print first time I posted. I reposted it.
What a jerk.
@@stuckinmopro8533 Ta 😊
These Entitled Karen act like a child that can't figure out the work behind something (and I don't mean know exactly, but at least can't figure out that they don't know the work) and like if they can't figure out any kind of estimate of weight & size of thing and know that they don't know. And, as child, instead of asking, they test the limit and demand and won't take a "no" as an answer.
Maybe we should all get some adult diaper: when we see an adult that will definitively throw a tentrum over something insignifiant, let them have a diaper so they can complete their baby act correctly!
OP & Sister who is a Single Parent:
OP, the next time your Sister tries to guilt trip you about your being able to afford stuff, tell her, "well if you didn't get 'knocked up" you'd still be living at home with Mommy & Daddy, & could afford anything you wanted."
My wife has a half-sister that posts online all the time how she cannot afford things for her and her kids, and always gets people to pay for stuff. A few days later she'll post pics of her new tattoos and partying and drinking with her friends. it's awesome....
Sounds like someone needs to call DCF on her! Posting pictures of herself out partying while also posting how she can't afford stuff for her children will most certainly suggest neglect and a need for the authorities to step in. I would and I have! A relative and his wife were too busy doing drugs and getting drunk to take care of their kids. I called DCF and then helped his mother-in-law to get custody! Many years later the couple are now clean and sober and grandparents. They needed that push to go get help and are glad we forced their hand.
Yeah I have family and friends (friends said loosely) that always have their hands out but buy whatever they want... I guess if someone paid for my necessities, I'd have money for tattoos and anything else I want too.
@@sharon22669 I'd lend them money for any tattoo they want as long as they agree to get an additional tattoo on their forehead that reads "I am sponge that wastes money, lend at your own risk."
@@lynprincevalli5221 i wonder if she genuinely can’t afford stuff for them or just says that to get handouts
I hope she got called out on it because if she didn't, someone eventually will. Call her out and then CPS and the FTC because what she did falls under charity fraud
Story 1: if I was the boss I would make it clear to my workers that they have the power to refuse service to anyone ordering from the free menu along with having a limit on how much they can order when needed.
Yeah, when the man said he'd order this, this, and this; I was expecting him to claim that was his order and now the rest of the family had to make theirs. And Geez, shrimp. There is usually a surcharge to add shrimp when ordering from a regular menu, so them expecting to get it from a charity one is absurd. I'm guessing they want filet mignon and veal added to their options too.
That's... how businesses work, you're not legally required to serve people who are disrespectful, want a discount from Nothing, or even get physical. People always yammer on about " what happened to "the customer is always right"?" Well boomer Karen it's stopped becoming relevant when we started using "we at *enter name here* reserve the right to refuse service to anyone"
Story 5: I get that the bid was rejected back then, and that's a bummer, but you can't just force the owner to sell the house to you, even if it was years later. That's not how it works
She's probably a Nellie Oleson who rarely heard a "NO" to her demands as a kid
Asking if they are intrested in selling is one thing, but demanding they sell is just stupid.
My siblings and I had to sell our Mom's property a couple of years ago. When my Mom died last year, I drove past her house after the funeral, and I noticed the family that lives there had made some changes to the place. Being the sentimental type, I can't honestly say I like it. Did I knock on their door and complain to them? Of course not! It's their property now, and what they do with it is their business. Simply put, some people just need to grow up!
The first story reminds me of an encounter I had with a choosing beggar. I was on my way to buy lunch when I met a homeless guy on the street. I decided a dollar would be a reasonable donation, but I didn't have any $1 bills. I had a $20 bill, but then I realized that I also had some coins, so I offered him four quarters. The choosing beggar said that he wanted $20. I told him that was too much for a single donation, and I offered him $1, but he continued to demand $20. Losing my patience, I explained to him the simple logic that $1 is more than zero, which is the only alternative I'm offering. I practically shoved my four quarters in his face, giving him one last chance to take them, but CB refused to take anything less than $20, except for $0, apparently. I finally gave up and left for the restaurant with all my cash still on me. I paid for lunch with my debit card, ate it, then walked home, trying to ignore CB. As soon as I walked past him, he recognized me and loudly called me a cheapskate. I lost it and told him that he's lucky my $1 offer was on the table for as long as I had kept it there, as most people would have given up sooner. After walking another block, I ran into a second homeless guy (humble beggar) who had overheard my argument with CB, whom neither of us could stand. I gave HB the four quarters that CB had refused. After we chatted and had a good laugh, I felt much better, so I gave HB a $20 bill. Yes, I was being spiteful, but I felt that HB deserved a $21 reward for improving my mood. It's not that I couldn't spare $20, but if I gave it to the worst personality I've ever met among homeless people, it would be unfair to those with better personalities unless I gave $20 to each and every one of them, and that's definitely something I couldn't afford.
Sadly, I've known parents like in the last story. The best thing to do is to cut all ties. When I was growing up. My older sister had a friend with such people as her parents. At this time, America still had orphanages. I remember this girl going down to the orphanage to get legally imancipated from her family. The court, after hearing the circumstances, granted it to her.
Story 3: About those arches, I'm glad that op didn't fall for "karen's" request. Always remember, NEVER loan anything like that to anyone as you'll NEVER get it back! If I know "karen" she'd keep it! 😀
The fact that they are large, required a forklift to move them, and were welded into the ground made the decision pretty easy about a lending policy, especially random strangers that saw their project on the web.
@Meh Good morning Meh! Sure, those arches are big & heavy as I've seen them at a McDonalds & they are also stainless steel, bolted down & probably require a forklift too for transport! Don't know what that "karen" was thinking--she's crazy ! 😀
Story 2: Imagine constantly guilting others because you don't have the money others have instead of trying to get a better income. Like, it sucks that she's broke, but leeching and guilting is not the way to go
Remember the Hater's Ball from Dave Chappelle? The mentality is pretty much that - only the person is serious and not doing a sketch.
Good will is granted, not demanded
The new trend on Tik Tok are parents crying over their children going No Contact and it’s amazing how abusive and entitled they are whining because their children won’t talk to them. It’s bizarre.
Yes, do they not understand why, They don’t, because them being entitled is why no contact is started.
Yep. I just met a "mom" today whose son and his wife declared no contact with her. Granted, I don't know her well and never met this son, but oh boy I could barely last 2 hours in the same room with her and some other folks. 2 hours was more than plenty for me.
I don't use tiktok but might now just for these nuggets of gold. I had to listen to my partner's mother whine about her 19 daughter moving out. My only thought was thank goodness SiL is finally able to get the F out of that. I've blocked MiL phone and only have in person conversation with her in the presence of others. I don't need to read any messages about how I should take the kids and leave her son one text then how I'm a horrible mother in the next text.
Pretty sure if my mom knew what TikTok was, she'd be one of them. She still tries to get into my good graces with birthday and Xmas presents, but I don't budge. I am polite and thank her, though.
I can’t blame some of them. Though my mom is gold, and my son and I are really close. Both of my sisters did not fare well in the MIL department. Both of their FIL are great though.
That last story was so sad and frustrating. I was the eldest and only girl and my mom and aunt would drop my brothers and male cousins on me to watch all day, even when I was a child. I remember one particularly horrible night when my mom arrived with some of her friends I didn't know, handed me their BABY and then left for the whole night. I was like 13 yrs old and had never been in charge of a baby. It was awful.
Yeah. Sad and misogynistic attitude. (Not to mention terrible parenting). That should have been a call to CPS for those children and for you!
i feel you here. Im 6 years older then my little siblings and i was in charge of them since day 1 because my step dad was a drunk and my mother refused to do anything after she go off work. Its horrid and what make is even worse is my little sister ended up just like our parents and like to "drop by" whenever she wants so my wife and i can watch her 3 kids for free because we dont have kids and shes a single mother of 3 with 1 on the way. She 20 and her BF is a bum and while she does work he does not. What should i do?
@@leemitchell7841 For how much it can hurt, start drawing an HARD line. Start by telling her that you two will NOT watch her kids anymore unless if she asked in advance and if she starts to pay you for babysitting. And if she start to whine and get all pissy simply tell her that next time she pulls this stunt you will NOT hesitate to call the police and tell them she abandoned her children in front of your house without warning, and that you and your SO cannot watch them at that time and that she also dropped them without even telling you.
That's the only way to get your point across. Otherwise she'll just keep taking advantage of you and your generosity, sometimes you need to be the bad guy and put your foot down in the most harsh way possible, as these types of people will not stand otherwise.
I had to do it for my roommate who expected me not to go to my lessons to University in the mornings because her and her partner needed to work and took me for a live-in nanny. Which I'm not and I'm absolutely not the type of person to leave your children with (I never hurt them, but I don't like kids, can't stand them, heck I don't even stand my own family members children! Let alone a woman I barely know who rented the room next to mine!), so I started calling the police any morning in which she just openedy door without knocking and let her children loose in my damned room (My room, besides being sacred for me, it's full of expensive art supplies that I also need for school and I'm not thrilled to have dirty grabby hands touch my works and supplies)
After the third call she moved out thank the gods, but unless you start to get really harsh she will not listen nor learn, trust me
I hate when men are favored over women. I'm guessing you went no contact with your family.
A man put up a video of money taped to him while holding a sign money for people in need. (In NYC). Most people who took were not in need. He questioned one woman in designer clothes and pruse. She replied she's getting her nails done the next day and what she's taking will pay for it. People like her and the family in the first story are only hurting people struggling by taking advantage of good people.
Honestly. The people who need it most won't take it because they consider someone might be more in need than them. Well-off people see it as an opportunity to profit even more. (Obviously not all well-off people, but there's definitely a good amount of stingy assholes who wouldn't see anything wrong with it
People take advantage of people who want to help others. It's why a lot of people don't do handouts anymore.
The Karen of the 5th story was literally being like a little boy saying, "Mom said that it's my turn on the Xbox."
Lol. That and apparently Karen doesn't get how hard it is to find a place to live.
Story One: With the attitude that that dad gave if I were OP I would have only given each of them a small taco and a small drink and then sent them on their way and limited that from 50.00 dollars to about 15.00 dollars and then put them on your BAND LIST!? It's not like they were allergic to what was on that menu so there were no excuses for their behavior. This guy was a Grade-A KEN!
If he was picky about what he was ordering, then it is obvious he had never gone to a soup kitchen; and therefore was only abusing the policy to give a good meal that was supposed to go to a needy family.
Last Story : OP : Why don't you have the older ones at home babysit? PArents: We don't want to take away their ability to have a life OP: Why not you did it to me
Good for the young man in the last story. Too many dont get out of those situations. Thanks DF. Stay warm
Kuddos to the young person in the last story!! I've been NC with my toxic egg donor for almost 10 years now & couldn't be happier!! I still talk to my amazing dad that I was kept away from all my life & have had a great relationship with him for almost 30 years now, which drove my egg donor even crazier than she already was!!😂😂
But in all seriousness, I'm so happy for them putting their foot down, setting boundaries & upholding those boundaries!!
For the lady that tried to steal the arches by thinking that receipt what you did was called attempted theft and she belongs Behind Bars they should have pressed charges
"what kind of business do you run? You dont get to pick and choose who you give discounts too"
Um, yeah it does, if hes the owner/manager he can 100% pick who he wants to give a discount to
last story: the reason the siblings were never made to babysit much was to make room for op to do it, since the family, mostly the dad, is mad they cant control op anymore, so they made op their enemy
Story 1: real beggars are not that much of a p.o.s.
Story 2: don't help unless sister is worthy!
Story 3: I agree with fluff on this!
Story 4: Where did she even get the idea she was entitled to those arches??? Say NO to begin with and leave it at that. 😡
Story 5: Just...NO. 😡. Taking turns?? 🤷
Story 6: Good for you, OP!!
If they're going to offer free food to the public like this they need to have the people that are destitute apply for some kind of a card at a shelter or a Section 8 place to ensure that these people aren't ripping off the system when they have a Hummer and a paid house. Also there has to be a limit on free food like $20 for each visit per day.
My only disagreement on this is for college students I've read to many stories where college students are struggling to eat because of tuition fees and textbook costs. I feel in that situation I suppose you could show them a student id for a local college.
@@angelsnyder6381 if they can prove on their school ID that they are low income that they can get that is part of a discount then yes I am nothing against that.
Actually good idea. Basically it's not out of malice, but fairness. If entitled people start misusing the kindness of the owner, then the owner might run out of supplies to make food for those who are actually in need.
@@PanduPoluan yeah anytime I hear a story like this I think of meme when it comes to food stamps. The guys getting food stamps has a Hummer or Ferrari.
Story 1: No Contact
Story 2: No Mercy. If he destroys stuff, call the police.
Story 4: I would have loved to see that "contract". So I can print it out xD
⭐️Well, what are YOU going to do about it? ⭐️
Story 2:
if someone is telling you to stop talking because THEY can’t afford food or whatever this is what you say and ONLY say -
“So, what are you going to do about that?”
(with slight emphasis on the word “you” if you’re feeling passive aggressive 😂).
We are not responsible for other people’s emotions or situations. Even when it’s family.
Saying “what are you going to do about that?” Or “what are you doing to change that/your situation?”
You have to be a broken record and only respond with a version of this. They won’t like it and they will be pushing EVERY button to make you crack - DONT crack.
If you’re consistent with putting the responsibility back on to them (where it belongs), they will get tired of not getting the attention and usual response from you and hopefully they’ll stop ….hopefully.
Story 1: "No Good Deed Goes Unpunished" example #2,000,004
Story 2: Envy is an ugly thing, and no one ever improved their lot in life by whining about other people being better off.
Story 5; No, bad Karen. You don't get to demand someone sell you a house because they've "lived in it long enough" and "owe you a turn."
Story 6: No, bad failed parental units. You get the respect you earn, not the respect you demand. If you have to demand it, you probably haven't earned it.
My step mother and father ( may he rip) used to brag about all they were doing when me and my husband were struggling, and if I made a comment they just barked we should budget better. Fast forward hubby and I move to a new state and things begin to look up for us with better health care, cheaper rent etc. And now they are the ones struggling. My father recently passed away and my step mom is complaining about her bills etc. Apparently my dad never changed his pension ( military) after my mom passed away and he remarried. So now she's struggling but manages to do fun things occasionally but is upset that he ( hubby) and I go out to eat etc. So when she stopped. I just casually said well learn how to budget on the money you have ( as they used to tell .me) she huffed and hung up. Karma is a witch. She still gripes but in another breath says I'll get by shell never learn
Story 3: I would have slapped him with a permanent ban from the store!
Dumbfuck's given a $25 discount off $60, then proceeded to go apeshit, I'd still call the cops after he paid
Story #6 18:58 : it's not asking if she just left them! OP should have called CPS and said that there are unattended kids and OP has no business with them because OP has other plans outside the house and wasn't informed of them beeing left there!
s1: i think the owners should stop advertising this because entitled people like this charmed prince and his family are taking advantage and then have the balls to give a 1 star review on yelp. the servers can use their own judgement if someone should get the food which this guy shouldnt have.
s2: op's sister sounds like a professional victim who likes the attn when people feel sorry for her. i have a friend like this who just complains but does nothing or at least try to improve things. she's just in this mindspace where she feels sorry for herself and wallows. i've stopped helping her because i got tired of wasting time and energy.
s3: op's nicer than i am. i'd call the police and let them deal with him
s4: what an unhinged, entitled woman. and her family is just as bad.
s5: unhinged woman, again.
s6: oh look, entitled parents who think that their children are possessions. dad sounds like an immature, insecure asshole who cant handle the fact that he isnt lord of all and cant control op. and i have to agree with darkfluff. it really does sound like the parents had too much children they couldnt handle and tried to fob their kids onto their eldest like a 3rd parent. he really would be better off NC. I wouldnt even allow the siblings in my place.
Yay! Time for Dark Fluff, hope you've been taking good care of Steveo😆
So no money to pay for food but has money for a phone or computer to leave a lousy review to the business that fed you for free?
My dude....... don't think about it too much. Just hearing that makes my brain hurt............. a metric shit ton. The only exception that might come up is the public library. But still..................... gonna complain about a free meal.
They almost certainly had money, just didn't want to pay
"What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine." ha. My dad's father used to say the exact same thing. 😆We didn't have to live with my grandparents, though, or I wouldn't be as amused that someone else's family has the same saying.
Last Story: I am impressed that the guy has such good sense of self for someone that was brought up in that house.
Doing physical therapy right now and listening to DarkFluff!
Good luck with that mate 🤞👍🏻
"Fluff Therapy"! 😎
"The woman is demanding the sheriff enforce this"
Ffs she brought in the police to enforce fraud?!?!?
Story 6 : Siblings or not, i would have called the cops for child abandonment after she pushed the siblings inside and ran away. And then theft.
Story 1 - I've done volunteer work at a local food bank, and they always have clients who complain about the limited choices. I always want to tell them, "The supermarket is just around the corner. If you've got the money to pay for it, they'll let you have anything you want."'
Story 3 - When I worked in retail, my manager had a favorite saying: "No good deed goes unpunished."
Story 4 - If that woman's daughter is anything like her, then I have some advice for the prospective groom: RUN!!!
Story four: call the police and get that psycho arrested.
Last story seems sketchy.
I don't really understand why you would constantly tell everyone you are broke. I would hate knowing that my personal finances are public knowledge whether they were good or bad. Today's society shares way too much.
Story 1. While I commend the sentiment and action of giving Free Meals to the needy I feel that the way this establishment is going about it is the wrong way and will lead to more confrontations with entitled customers and the staff as this one. They may even be putting their staff in danger, a better way would be to connect with local homeless charities to offer free meals once or twice a week from one of their outlets not the restaurant.
Omg I need this today. And it's the entitled people too. Thank you dark fluffy
The sister who ALWAYS complains about not being able to afford things, tell her that she was the one who had a child and that Life's Hard Get A Helmet 😂
Well I probably won’t get to the top but I’m here to say that I love your videos!
OP in the last story was a saint for waiting until 9pm. I would've called the cops for child abandonment on the spot.
The 1st story, reminds me of when my mom went to the pizza place that's around. And she would've ordered, but the lady at the front working, says that she can take 2 on the house, since they were gonna toss the extras away and were cool. That made my mom happy and it's pretty much something I wanted to tell. So yeah that was my mom's dine N dash moment. If there was something I could say, is that know the reasons as to why something is free and reasonable.
I once went to a local grocer that had a deli that made fried chicken and ribs and whatnot. It was afterwork and the store was about to close soon, so they offered me a free package of ribs because they would have to toss it out if it wasn't sold anyway. Sometimes lady luck falls your way. Also, the ribs were pretty good so I was motivated to buy some at another date, which was likely a side effect they were hoping for by giving away their leftovers to customers.
@@meh2510 If it's gonna get tossed away, well then hey free food and less of an issue.
What's nice about 1 star reviews is that owners of the business can respond to them. I doubt that the reviewer would be kindly looked upon once people read the owner response of what really happened. Likely also the reviewer would leave similar bogus reviews and get the account banned.
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I don't understand why people are like this
Entitlement is a mental illness. This guy in first story has it bad.
Oh no!! That story abt the lady trying to buy the house- be very careful!!
This reminds me of the true crime story I heard about a woman finally charged after stalking & threats etc after a couple refused to sell a woman their house (whom their bid won over), and the lady actually was posting online dating profiles pretending to be the homeowner & was talking to guys that she had a link and wanted them to force their way into the house and force themselves onto the unsuspecting woman!!
Very scary, good thing they warned their neighbors too
The 20 yr old OP needs to save up and move asap. Don't tell them where you live. That should take care of the drop off of kids.
Last story: OP should have gone no contact right after moving out, and not told them where he lives.
OP1: Yeah no way do I believe fajita man was unable to buy a meal.
16:46 Story 5: EW (entitled woman): “You have to sell us this house!”
Me: “I don’t HAVE to do anything!”
EW: “You’ve lived here long enough. It’s our turn now.”
Me: “What do you think this is, a playground? Living in a house is not a “take turns” deal!”
The family from story 1 ... Whoa, how can people be so audacious?! The man has never really been hungry, otherwise he would have been humble for being able to eat food for free!
"you dont get to pick and choose who you give discounts to"
uh...yeah they do, if they are the owner/manager or authorised by the owner/manager, they absolutely do
"Silence Peasant" is a putdown of the year.
I'm always grateful for any free food I can get, that family was nuts
I'm amazed how many people think the silent treatment is punishment when it's usually a blessing.
Old man: Quit being a brat about this
Me: Says the man who starts breaking things after not getting his way
The “Arch Lady” will forever be known as OP’s “Arch Nemesis”
I think she should make a list of the cost of all she has done for her sister, itemized. And, each time the sister says something take the list out and make a debit entry. Tell her when it's in the black, she'll help her again. Oh and publish. Lol
Last Story: Isn't it funny how often the people that show the least respect always seem to think they're owed the most respect?
Story 4: I hope Crazy Lady spent serious time in the slammer for an open-and-shut case of attempted fraud: she handed the evidence to the sheriff's deputy.
Probably a few other crimes in there aa well.
I absolutely feel the second story. I probably have hundreds and thousands of stories of entitlement with my family. I absolutely love this channel because I can relate to a lot of the stories. I just wish people could be better. Peace love and good vibes.
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OP4: Why did these people even discuss this matter with a trespassing stranger?????
Yeah, I would have threatened to call the cops on the second opening of the door-And called the cops on the third barrage of the doorbell ringing
story 1... very well intentioned.. but definitely not ideal... it shouldn't be broadcasted for exactly the reason in the story...that angers me that entitled aholes like them takes advantages of good people like those owners...
that last story...i'm surprised OP didn't just block them all when he left the house
The first story's on OP's customers being that entitled and choosing beggars?!? That's a unusual blend and switch.
Story 4... if the police had to get involved... I would have then also been getting the courts by having her charged with fraud (over 5k), attempted theft (over 5k), and filing a false report, trespassing, and harassment.
Story 1 really takes the cake. Anyone who refuses the conditions of service for free food can go and stick it in their rear and end. They ought to have refused to give them food at all and told them to leave. As you say, people will always take advantage of someone who is kind enough to offer help when someone is down. My husband used to donate his time to a place called Hands On Health. They offered their services for a minute fee which covered the use of the church hall that they did it in. They offered their services to people who couldn't afford to pay full price to have treatments like massage therapy etc which is what my husband does. The receptionist had a sister who was well off and could afford to pay normal prices, but because she had a pension card, she was entitled to get a massage for the minimum price which was only $8 for the hour. It was only once a week and he could only do three massages a day. She took the time from someone who could really use the treatment. I have absolutely no time for people like that.
W. T. F, when a stranger comes on your property and asks to barrow a permanent item you do not hem haw n explain yourself! Get the F off my property n if you return it trespassing and you will be arrested! Lol
Seriously, these people are too polite. Entitled strangers do not deserve your kindness
That is a beautiful thing for that Mexican restaurant to offer food to people who can't afford it. A warm meal would bring some happiness to a lot of people and they're proving kindness is an amazing thing, sad people take advantage of thier big hearts.
Story 2 - 4:36 - Is anyone else a little concerned that OP's fiancé seems to feel he can lay down the law to OP? In this case, it may be just as well, but overall, it's a little disturbing.
Damn, I became disabled at 35 and still buy food for the family when I am at my mother’s house, it just means plain oatmeal for the next month and a half. I save up to be able to buy the holiday dinner. Sure, it irks me when my bourgeois sister (who have their retirement solidly paid off and live on a golf course) pushes me to buy something from whatever pyramid scheme she has jumped into for the month, as the first month membership sometimes is a big enough discount for her to get shit free…I still buy the $30 hand lotion. Then she doesn’t get anything for Xmas.
If someone beggs me because they are broke. I say, "good for you" unless i know them
8:02 sounds like this man was initially trying to get off with five finger discount prices... The audacity Of some non-customers
The story about the jealous sister struck a nerve with me. This year I’m studying for the first time in almost 30yrs and I’m so excited, I’ve also changed a bit and living for me instead of sitting home waiting on others but I’ve made some people unhappy. They pretend to be happy for me or just not talk about it. I just found out my mum didn’t even know where and what I was studying. She also keeps telling me to grow up because I’m in my 40s and shouldn’t have fun even with my kids.
Story 2: I always find it interesting that such opposite people can come from the same family. I presume they were all brought up the same...
First story: That guy had an electronic device capable of connecting to the internet and leaving a one star review on a restaurant that he expected to believe that he had no money?
I mean...this family was 100% lying about not being able to afford food...but libraries often give free computer&internet access to people.
@@gaxalee7392 As if he could keep his voice down long enough to use a library computer without getting kicked out.
@@computernerd1101 Fair enough 😂
Story 2; My oldest daughter behaved that way towards my younger daughter. Younger went no contact with her older sister for that and other reasons.
It's truly amazing how people act so foolish all over the world. What makes them this way?
Last story: the Dad wants the Switch for himself LOL
#4: that was attempted grand theft. OP should have pressed charges.
The story about the arches really should have pressed charges for fraud and attempted grand theft considering the woman was there demanding property she didn't pay for with a fake bill of sale.
Story 1: Another reason beggars can't (or rather, shouldn't) be choosers. If someone offered me free food in my (hypothetical) time of need, I'd take it. I would say the restaurant should require proof of poverty, but I don't know how that would work.
Story 3: Good for you, OP! Disrespectful people don't deserve discounts.
Story 6: I've said it before and I'll say it again. Laws against favoritism and parentification: *what's the freaking holdup?!* Favoritism is abuse, plain and simple. Parentification is also abuse, bordering on slavery! Parenting is never a sibling's job.
On that last story of OP babysitting. He needs to quit with the threats and do it! If he keeps threatening, then the parents will continue to test his boundaries and harass him! He also needs to get a restraining order, again because the parents will continue to push and browbeat him.
Old dude is two years old!
Edit: regarding the arches. My husband and I were married under an arbor that we decorated with balloons and flowers in our wedding colors. It currently is set up at the foot of our steps going into the home we purchased a few months after our wedding. We have to go under it every time we leave or enter the house. We even stop to kiss under it occasionally.☺️ It didn’t cost anywhere close to $4000, but I would NEVER lend out for any reason. Not even to my kids! During the summer, my husband plants morning glories on the sides of it and the vines climb and wind there way completely over the top. It’s quite beautiful when the flowers open up. That arbor has stood out there for over 15 years as a wonderful reminder of our wedding.
Story 4. Wow that woman really knows how to haggle:
"Let me borrow the arch" "No" "You'll need to get a forklift so we can move it" "No" "Also, you'll have to paint it white"
16:28 Another person who doesn’t take “no” for an answer.
rule number one when buying anything or going outside your own home. and its fucking simple.
D O N O T B E A D I C K !!
Story 1: That's not the worst part, he saw the sign "free food" but didn't bother to see the clearly visible fine print
Worse-he saw a sign saying “if you can’t afford to pay, we will feed you” and was clearly taking advantage of their generosity meant for those in actual need. (I *highly* doubt that he was someone who truly did not have the ability to pay.)
Story 6 wow those parents are the worst. Just constant emotional blackmail. Op should move and change nimbers
Story 5 - after my first refusal, my response would be "off my property now, or I'm beating the shit out of you and telling the cops that you tried to force your way into my home."