There was an update on cakepop story! OP talked to Dad, who was pissed when he found out what happened. He returned everything gf bought and put gf and daughter in a hotel until her mom came home so she could have some space. Good dad!
"MY son is SPECIAL, he can do WHATEVER he wants because *I* say so!" That's fine, Lady, let him do whatever he wants. Remember those words in the future when you're SLAPPED with a lawsuit from your son's victims for assault, sexual assault, battery, hate crime and just being an entitled horrible slob like you, because YOU couldn't be bothered to BE a damn parent and PARENT your spoiled brat of a Demon Semen! Honestly, entitled folks deserve to live on their own island, where they can self destruct each other by trying to Out Karen/Chad each other!
I'm autistic and even i didnt act like that grew up surrounded by other special needs kids and low and behold even the "lower functioning" kids could learn not to hit others
If it's true that he was special needs, honestly doesn't sound like the kid was getting what he needed, combined with a crappy parent. Honestly feel bad for the kid either way.
i dont care who you are, or how old you are. the only response to the girlfriend should have been "you are not going to call me a liar in my own house!!!". (add "colorful" language to spice it up as you will) kids mostly have the most unbiased and truthful views, that sadly are ignored by "adults".
*Story 4:* Special needs or not, there is NO excuse to let your child engage in this type of behavior! Having a child that is special needs simply means you may need to take an atypical, slower approach to teaching them a lesson. Not parenting a kid with special needs because theyre special needs is going to do near-permanent damage. I knew a brother-sister duo who was raised like that & their family legitimately had to move out of town because their children were hated by everyone. Their eldest son tried to walk in on me undressing at a party he was not invited to, then break into my friend's car as they drove us home. And when I threatened to call the cops on him for it, he claimed I was discriminating against him. Parenting classes should be a REQUIREMENT.
Yeah, chances are the kid wasn't 'special needs' at all. That's just some bullshit the mom says to cover for the fact that she refuses to parent her kid. Frankly if your child can't sit quietly in a public place, you shouldn't bring them to that place. End of story. A beauty salon appointment isn't a critical need. So there's no reason to bring your poorly behaved child with you.
The kid might be "special need" like... adhd or something like this. It doesn't mean he can't be controlled. I mean, maybe by her it's true. He is at an age of testing limit. So, if he doesn't have limit anytime soon, what do you think will happen? He gonna hit again and (if he doesn't get reply equal to his) he will go further : stealing? Toutching others body? Anyway, on that "I can't controlled him", I cross my finger the mom doesn't have any weapon at home... And in the US, it's likely that some is in the house!
Story 6: Geez, both of them are creeps. All OP did was just look at shelves and the kid was creepily staring at OP. And then when the dad arrived, he decided that rather than just keep the son away from OP, he decided to sexually harass OP about her chest.
There is update to 3rd story, I will copy from Reddit: Update: I just finished talking to my dad. I explained everything that happened at the mall and he apologized and said that he'll be returning everything that was bought and will be taking a day off work tomorrow so we could do something together. He also put up gf and daughter in a hotel so I can have space from them, and said they'll be staying there until my mom gets back. Once I'm ready to see them he said they will apologize to me and once my mom comes back he's going to have a talk with gf.
Very simple procedure. You're in a store, kid hits you, alleged parent refuses to deal, report it to the store staff. If they refuse to act call security or police then take your business elsewhere.
@@christianknight1649 maybe lightly shove the kid away from you? Hitting back seems like...a bit much since they'd definitely call police if the parent screams their kid was hurt. Plus you don't wanna let them see you do exactly what you yourself complain about. Kinda makes you look like the person in the wrong.
Story 3: NTA. Dad provided the money for a day for them all, and not a cent of it spent on his daughter. But you can definitely say the day out fulfilled its purpose. OP actually did get to know GF and daughter better in that OP was absolutely able to confirm that GF and daughter were just as bad as OP thought them to be.
I hope OP told her dad exactly what happened on that 'girls' day out'. Basically the GF used OP to get extra money to waste on her own kid. Hope dad is paying more attention now.
There was an update on this one. OP's Dad blew up at the gf, returned everything and the relationship was on the rocks after that. I don't remember if OP updated if they stayed together or not but...I do remember OP said her Dad did take OP out to treat her and apologized for not realizing what the gf was like and putting her in the position of being around someone who would treat her like that.
@@fdm2155 OP told him everything. He went through the bags wanting to know what was for OP and nothing was. GF tried to claim that OP didn't want/ask for anything but he didn't fall for her lies.
@@brandygiovinazzi3460 At the very least, she asked for a cake pop. Kudos to dad. This was a learning experience for him too because he now knows he has a potential gold digger and her spoiled princess before he closed the deal and got married. You killed the golden goose before it could lay its eggs karen.
My brother is special needs and is a brown belt in karate. He has never gone around smacking random ppl as a kid nor would he now as an adult. That mom is just a lazy parent and it's damn disgusting.
Story 4: I am a hair stylist. This story is my #1 pet peeve at work. Parents assume it is part of my job to watch their children while getting their hair done. I went to cosmetology school and spent a lot of hours honing my craft doing hair, and not becoming a babysitter. We have kicked out clients for not controlling their children.
A local newspaper did a story on this and I'm sorry to report that that post on Instagram summoned All the Karens: "kids need to move! I can't afford a babysitter! Spoken like someone that's not a mother! Etc etc.
@@riel4553 My husband is a semi retired massage therapist. He always told his clients that under no circumstances would he allow children into his practice. The mother would be distracted by her kids when she is supposed to be relaxing and getting a treatment. Some didn't like it but most understood.
I work in a nursing home and one of the Activities Directors brought her 4 year old into work. We were forced to watch her as she was stealing from residents, eating other people's food and drinks, and looking through the residents' files to color over. I put Bluey on my phone to keep her still for 15 mins. Got chewed out for "wasting time on the clock". I wanted to tell them, "You guys are always on your phones when residents need you. What wrong with monitoring a 4 year old as she's on mine?", but my best friend at work beat me to it and added that the mom should be entertaining the kid, not the Autistic Unit Aid (me) who would rather be doing her job of making up the beds and stocking linen carts as we waited for dinner to be ready to serve to the residents. It's one thing to bring your kid when picking up our paychecks because the company doesn't believe in direct deposit, another if they are old enough to help out a bit, a completely different thing if they are a distraction from our duties.
@@jagirl966 It would be a different story if the child was well behaved but what child of 4 is not going to get into things. I wonder if the lady had any other option and if this was a one off thing. But apart from that, she should definitely have been looking after her own offspring and not have someone else entertain her. Did you go to the mother and tell her what her child was up to?
@@1toshi32 It was a Saturday and both her husband and her parents were free to watch the kid. The mom is an Activities Director acting as a CNA (because we can't keep CNAs long) and was changing a resident. The daughter was pulling the bathroom alarms in every bathroom and taking things from the rooms. We tried to bring this up with her, but she refused to hear us out. It's not the first time someone brought their kid(s) in, but they kept an eye on them. This mom didn't for long. That's when I put Bluey on my phone, but even that didn't hold the kid for long. Until they left, the daughter even hit residents who wouldn't give her something. Some are paralyzed or have dementia. I talked with some coworkers after they left. We knew she had options, so why did she bring the kid in? No idea. One of my coworkers said she will bring it to our boss and have them talk to the mom.
Story 3: To GF... you didn't do anything to deserve a cake pop either, so why do YOU get one and OP doesn't? Story 4: Hey lady, your son is assaulting OP. You're his legal guardian, so YOU are responsible for his behavior. Let him touch me one more time, and I'll call the cops on YOU for assault and battery.
Wilbur has been crushed by his overbearing mother his whole life to the point of being unable to speak for himself in her presence. Also, a trulyvresponsible chiropractor would take X-RAYS to assess the injury before attempting an adjustment. That comes from 25 years, 3 states, and even more chiropractors.
There are studies where the same X-ray is taken to multiple chiros and there are a bunch of different readings of it. Fact of the matter is most chiropractic schools don't teach how to correctly administer or read X-rays. That's also why they tend to administer WAY too many X-rays. People think chiros are back experts, but they are not. They are alternative medicine because they are not medicine, and they are not evidence based. This story is quite common. I've had a lot of patients in the rehab facility I work at who were harmed by chiros. Strokes, back injuries, etc.
I would held Wilber’s mother accountable for this. If the doctors solution is surgery to save Wilber’s life, so be it. The entitled mother choose to go the opposite and ruins his life instead.
@@TheToasterPirate my personal belief is that you don't go to a chiro to treat a bone injury, you go to the hospital, chiros only know how to give massages... And that's when they're not causing said injury themselves... Man, gotta hate pseudomedicine
The last line of Wilbur's story made it so much more sad. I was sad for him not being able to walk but the line about not being able to feel the grass, sand or waves on his feet, felt so much more tragic.
💯 true. When my fist daughter was a baby I lived in a house where the local kids ran feral. They’d be out in nappies (diapers) and nothing else and they’d literally (no word of a lie) pull off drain covers, climb down one and pop out the other. With the 7 adults (that lived with the 13 young kids in a 3 bedroom house) out on the front street drinking
There's more to story 6: op had a male friend with her when she entered the store and when op informed everyone about the cameras and scaring the perverted father and son, the manager wanted to call police on the father and son duo, but they ran away and the manager chase them to prevent them from leaving the store but to no avail while the male friend started to scold and insult the employee for siding with the father and the son without 1) listening to ops side of the story and 2) calling another employee or security to check the cameras to check both sides of the story. The same employee who sided with the father and son was fired from the manager after the employees failure in handling the situation in resolving the issue between op and the father son duo.
Yeah, it looks like Fluff only used part of the story, maybe because it was so long. That did make me go to the OP's post which ended up leading down a rabbit hole that causes me to very much doubt it happened, though.
Story 4 A parent not disciplining their child does not make them special needs and parents saying that makes them able to do whatever they want makes parents with children who actually have special needs look bad. If the child is actually special needs and out of control they will be taken by the state
2nd story: Fluffy, I, too had the same symptoms, had back surgery to remove a tumor INSIDE the spinal cord cavity that was threatening my cord & even had plates for stability put in as well. Today, I can stand & walk thanks to a wonderful neurosurgeon who saved me from a wheelchair! 😀
I'm not even Wilbur and don't even know of anyone who had this happen but I literally feel homicidal thinking of what his mother did to him. How big does your ego have to be to think a spinal chord injury can be fixed with a "massage" essentially... so upsetting
@@ChichiPee HI Tamsyn! I know from experience that surgery is the only way to go when a spinal cord would be compromised in any way. That "Karen" was crazy to let her kid do that to op!
Story 2: Now I've seen another channel cover this one, and their assessment was that the fault was majorly on Mildred for being controlling over every aspect of Wilbur's life while Wilbur gets a small amount for not standing up for himself (figuratively, of course) and making his own decisions considering his age. Maybe Wilbur doesn't want to upset Mildred, but honestly, he's being way too nice to her. If I was at the hospital, I would've just laid into Mildred with no hesitation.
I don’t think Wilbur is to blame for not speaking up for himself because it’s very likely that he is *not able* to speak up for himself after 50 years of conditioning with the awful mother.
@@audreyricci6383 Exactly. He will probably have to go into care somewhere. Not a good outcome for this poor man. But having said that, he would at least be rid of her.
Story 3, hope the dad realizes that the witch isn't worth marrying if she's going to treat his daughter like that. Story 4, "he has special needs. So I can't control him". Then apparently your not fit to be a parent. I'm autistic and my parents actually knew how to raise me and I was their first born. I also have two younger siblings that are also very protective of me. My parents never played favorites and treated us all equally. That Karen isn't fit to be a parent.
From what people have said on other Channels the 3rd story DID get an update where the dad fully confronted the entitled girlfriend then kicked her and her daughter out to a hotel and took back the clothes she purchased, while he decided what to do as he apologized to OP and made a dad and daughter shopping trip with op
story 4: parents that refuse to parent are the worst, just letting their kids run rabid and then when they're 16 doing drugs, assaulting people, getting in trouble with the law and never listening to her she will complain "omg i was such a good mom why won't they listen to me"
When the lady said "some people have no manners" I would have responded with "yes that why you should have taught your kid better but obviously no one taught you"
The last story brought back memories for me. I was 30, and like that poster, well endowed. I was walking along a quiet street, having left my husband to park the car, to go to a store on the opposite corner. Two men - probably in their 50's - were heading toward me. It was a narrow pavement and I expected to stop for them to pass or for them to step into the road. No - they divided so I had to go between them. As I did so, they both put a hand out, grabbed a breast each and laughed, saying "they're real". I was in so much shock, I ran to the shop I wanted to go to and burst into tears. My husband didn't see what they did, but did see my reaction. Sadly he had no way of finding the men or involving Police. I have never left him to park and gone ahead since.
@@LoriPeace Thank you. It knocked my confidence a lot and even now, 20+ years later, I am wary and will cross the street or turn around if alone and approached.
@@lizg5574 I'm not surprised. Something like that would have to have an impact on you. I just wish your husband could have caught them. I'm sure they thought they were being funny, but someone needed to teach them that making jokes at someone else's expense is NOT FUNNY and not okay. {{hugs}} (Wonder how they would have felt if a random woman had grabbed their privates and made some rude comment?)
Story 2: I really hope if Wilbur has some sort of at home help because of this, that person isn't mommy dearest because who knows what other crazy opinions Mildred has. "You can't take those pain meds! The drug companies put addictives in them so they can make more money off of people!" Story 4: That kid is going to be raised thinking hitting people is okay and he is going to end up in serious trouble for it, trouble one can only hope is being put behind bars and not in an early grave. Story 5: And here is when CPS needs to get involved but apparently that's to difficult for the police to do. It's going to take that girl getting seriously injured or kidnapped for those parents to get a wake up call, but by then its going to be way to late and that women is still probably going to blame someone other than herself.
@@f687sNFM It's not that; they aren't *trained* properly. They are supposed to have medical licenses for it but don't, and for some reason it's allowed
@@lovelysakurapetalsyt That's actually not true at all. There is a national board that all chiropractors need to be licensed by and all but 5 states require additional state specific qualifications. The issue with going to a chiropractor is more to do with the fact that it is an alternative medicine based on pseudoscience. There isn't any evidence it is actually effective, but there is evidence showing that is could be dangerous.
@@Ryujishida I think you're both actually saying the same thing. They're not medical doctors, yet they tend to act like they are despite all evidence that shows chiropractic is a placebo at best, and dangerous/deadly at worst. Yet they exist (just like homeopathy, which has the exact same root) because some people would rather pay for a placebo that does nothing or worse, than get treatment that actually could help, because the former is easier.
Yes you should tell someone with special needs what to do, just like every child they need to know and understand what is and isn't okay. You can't just do nothing just because someone is different, do that and they'll never survive in this world.
I'm guessing that kid isn't special needs. The mom has likely just learned to say that because telling people you aren't interested in parenting your child isn't gonna get her what she wants. Obviously, no matter what's going on with her kid, if she can't get him to sit quietly in a place of business, she shouldn't bring him there. I also blame the staff who have a responsibility to tell the mom to get out if she can't control her kid.
@@aduckofsomesort Yes, there are parents who hold this belief no matter what's going on with their kid. I say this as someone who has raised two children on the Autism spectrum. We certainly see that all the time with Reddit stories.
That Chiropractor in story 2 is as culpable as the 70 year old Mommy in the fact that he didn’t X-ray the son’s back before just heading straight to adjusting him. No Chiropractor will ever touch me that doesn’t do a full investigation first.
Considering mother thought the doctors were "scamming" them out of their money, she probably shopped around for the cheapest, shadiest, Chiropractor money could rent. I'm surprised she didn't just try walking on top of her son's back herself just to save even that money. Now surgery is a drop in the bucket compared to what he is going to have to go through for the rest of his life.
Story 3 had an update in the comments “Update: I just finished talking to my dad. I explained everything that happened at the mall and he apologized and said that he'll be returning everything that was bought and will be taking a day off work tomorrow so we could do something together. He also put up gf and daughter in a hotel so I can have space from them, and said they'll be staying there until my mom gets back. Once I'm ready to see them he said they will apologize to me and once my mom comes back he's going to have a talk with gf.”
The special kid would have been either kicked or punched, depending on how startled I was. My first instinct when startled is to swing. I've gotten boyfriends, coworkers and even my own mom once.
Story 2: *Control Freak Mom Ruins her son's life* I feel bad for the Guy, imagine that there is a preventable risk that you might lose your ability to walk, but then you lose the ability to walk because "Mommy knows Best"
And he loses yet again, you'd think losing your ability to walk was bad enough right ? Wrong. You either go no contact and have to find a carer, or go in a home OR be stuck with the cow wiping your ass for the rest of your life. I mean, bit of revenge I guess BUT imagine being stuck with the person that crippled you for the rest of your life ??
For story 5, I used to escape the house as a 2 year old, but my parents tried EVERYTHING to keep me inside. They put alarms on the doors, I figured out how to open the windows. They couldn't do too much about the windows because it'd be a fire hazard. CPS had been called at least twice on my parents, but luckily nothing happened because they saw my parents were trying. I'd even take the hit out of my crib and get out. I just wanted to be outside and explore. I was also lonely because my siblings were much older than me and in school. So no, it's not normal for a two year old to be allowed to just wander around to their own delight, and those parents should have their kid taken away with that sort of attitude...
What I find funny is that she claimed the Tattoo was traumatizing her son, who was fast asleep in the EM's arms. So, how the heck is it traumatizing him? *giggles*
I'm still trying to figure out how a Spirited Away tattoo could be considered indecent exposure....unless the lady means ANY tattoo is indecent exposure, in which case she must spend a lot of time being traumatized these days...
Story 2 is why I don't want to go to a chiropractor. An actual trained medical person wouldn't put direct pressure like that ON THE FUCKING *S P I N E*
Story 4: My niece is 5 years old and autistic. She has NEVER hit anyone like this kid. She listens when she is told to stop, respects authority, but still has her tantrums and overstimulated moments. Yes there are many times she won't listen to you, but it gets taken care of quickly with some authority in your voice, redirection, or taking her out of the situation
That Last Story makes me thank my parents even more. They raised a girl who turned into a woman with a steel backbone I have never carried mace. I carry knives
@@ryukaze7392 County girl. I feel naked without a blade. It's a bit of a joke at work, my boss thinks it's funny to ask me for A knife and watch me pull out three Everyone who knows me is aware I can be dangerous, but also that I'm a helpful if asked. I've been known to hand a coworker my last $5 to buy lunch.
I've dealt with people speaking for competent adult patients. It's one thing if the patient honestly doesn't know their own history or medications (you'd be amazed how common that is!), but something else entirely when the other person is stepping in to talk for them. Usually, I'm able to get them to stop by (truthfully) telling them I need the PATIENT to answer, because HOW they tell me something is as important as WHAT they tell me; it's an assessment tool. If that doesn't work, or likely won't work, I send the overbearing person to speak with another member of my crew, because "they need to get some information from you", and that lets me talk with the patient without that person present. Only rarely have I needed to do that for minor patients - that's always risky because they're legally not able to make decisions for themselves. But sometimes I need to get the minor's story without Mom or Dad leaning over their shoulder. I'm sure you can imagine a good few reasons why.
Story 4, I've had the displeasure of having to deal with someone like the kid in this story all grown up and old. She was the absolute worst person to ever walk through the doors of my workplace. And was allowed to do whatever she wanted because the police would just tell her to move along and corporate wouldn't let us ban her cause she never stole anything. Just scream at and threaten anyone who looked in her direction or said anything to her. Swear at you if you did 1 thing she didn't like. Turn around and say you treated her the way she treated people. Not to mention the blocked number calls she would make to stores threatening employees saying she would be waiting for them to get off work and would kill them. She'd get her dad's .45 and kill all the people who were mean to her. Just an all-around psycho that no one liked or wanted to be around and wished would die to end the anxiety and distress she would cause them, me included. She was also the worst customer we ever dealt with and was a bitch to us at any turn just because she could.
Story 4 If I was in OP's place I would have asked the receptionist to deal with them since if a child is assaulting another person regardless of special needs they need to be removed.
Story 5: I think the most impressive part of this story is how OP somehow found a way to mow the lawn while sitting on a bench and drinking from a glass of water.
I worked in a fluff and fold laundromat and I asked a mother to stop her son from running around the place. Right as I was explaining to her it wasn't safe because she was so angry with me for "telling her how to parent", he bumped his head. Some parents are messed up.
Wilbur's mother is a monster! What kind of parent gaslights their kids to not get that kind of surgery? I have a herniated disk in my lower back and I regret not getting the surgery while I still had insurance.
Story 6: I like breasts as much as the next guy, but I'm not gonna go up to some random woman I see at a Walmart and ask if they're implants or attempt to touch them. If I want to look at boobs, I'll go online and do so from the safety of my home.
OP should call cops, show them the camera footage and have the ED and kid reported as sexual predators. If they get put "on the registry", then all the better.
Yeah, I recognize this story, some other channel (probably Lost Genre) covered it a while ago with updates, own comments, community comments and all that stuff.
Story 4: My niece *is* special needs, and while she is only 3, she acts 100% better than that. She's a sweet girl who minds her mom and even me (when I stayed with them for a week I helped watch her so mom could do things like go to the bathroom, cook dinner, and such without worry.) Now, my niece's older half-sister on the other hand is 8 an is a holy terror. Her mom is terrible to both the 8 year old and the two younger girls. Definitely a Karen type. My sister and I are working on getting things together so that we can call CPS on the other mom as what we have heard happens in that house (and what mom says to my sister) makes us truly worried for those kids. My sister is worried about it getting out that she was the one to call CPS, hence the preparations. For some perspective: I am a survivor of domestic violence, and her mom is sending up all the same red flags my mom did, so I have first-hand experience with why they are worrisome.
Well, as far as Story 5... Apparently, I used to escape our house when I was a toddler. Like, any time my mom turned her back, I would escape. In fact, my mom said I used to grab apples that fell onto the street, put them in my shirt, and cross the street so I could feed our neighbor's horses. She says no matter how hard she tried, I would escape like freaking Houdini. I doubt the parents were innocent like she was, though.
Pretty sure a parent is responsible for almost anything a child does, special needs or not. I mean, if he broke a bunch of merchandise in a store I'm sure she would be responsible for paying for it.
Story 6 comments: My little sister was sexually assaulted twice by a couple different guys. All I heard in my head throughout that story was intrusive thoughts saying, "KILL. KILL." Good God am I glad my sister is safer nowadays especially since she moved out-of state recently. I'm no longer able to play the part of overprotective older brother since she lives out of state. Kind of sucks.
There is a difference between "special needs" and "special" needs. One of my favorite friends in high school had spinal bifida, so was confined to a wheel chair and had other issues. Her mom was a nurse who worked odd hours sometimes, and she'd pay me to spend the night with my friend and her little sister, just so there was someone there who was old enough to know when to call for help and able to do so, not because there would be any trouble. There never was. My friend and I would have fun, play with her little sister, then life went back to usual until the next weird shift her mom needed to work. I had spent the night there before her mom's shifts got moved, so I more or less knew what to do. It was a little weird because I had never seen my friend's waste elimination bags before I started "baby sitting", but it wasn't freaky, just weird, and no one made a deal out of it, so it just seemed normal, which it was for them and just not for me. I was 14/15, I have no idea how I kept it together with all these new things, except I didn't want to let my friend down. No, I didn't become a nurse because I had some sort of enlightenment, but it did enable me to be a better friend in later years when other friends were hit with cancer and other health issues, it was no longer scary after facing what Amy went through in our teens.
@@jlessien3826 Have you looked in the mirror? I'm sure your friends count you as a blessing. Keep being that blessing for yourself, you can never escape yourself.
Story 6: I would’ve pepper sprayed anyone who too close at that point who wasn’t an employee trying to diffuse the situation & called the cops right away! None of their behavior is ok.
Story 4 - I'm ADHD and autistic, one of my sons is ODD, ADHD and autistic, another son is ADHD and autistic - and they grew up knowing you don't run around doing what you like and hitting people. Even if the child in that story had ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder), he can still learn *not* to trash the place and to *not* hit people. In his case, any "deficit" in "attention" in that story is on the part of the mother who is clearly not paying any attention to what her kid is doing. I feel sorry for that kid - his mum's a waste of oxygen and he's going to suffer the consequences for that later in life.
Story 4: the second time that she said second needs i would turn around and say "i think the only one who is special needs is you lady because clearly you don't understand normal etiquette of not letting your kid regardless of age and disability hit other people"
From the 4th story it’s apparent that sorry excuse for a parent is not qualified to be a parent and needs to lose custody of her kid until she completes parenting classes.
Story 4: Kids with special needs, like all kids, NEED rules and kind discipline, because they NEED guidance on their behaviour. Not all kids may have the capacity to remember not to hit people, but it's up to the parent/ care giver to make sure that they have plans in place should such things occur, so that the child can keep their dignity and have the best chance at being able to live in society. I've worked with adults with special needs, and they know that this kind of behaviour is unacceptable. The times they can't help it are when they have been overstimulated and that's when they lash out (Stimuli vary and can be internal or external, so not always easy to compensate for). And they ALWAYS said sorry after, because they were really sweet, kind human beings who hated that they might have hurt someone when they couldn't control themselves. They had excellent rapport with not only the staff that helped care for them, but also service staff we'd see on a daily/ weekly basis and those five minute interactions were such a big deal. It enabled them to do more. The mother is robbing her child of his chances to have positive interactions with people, instead people will grow to dread to interact with her kid, and may assume other kids that need extra help are the same.
The son with the broken back were just foolish. As a doctor you explain that is a complication of being moved. A chiropractor would not of touched him if he had taken X-rays first. Big mistake on not getting a better history.
Story # 4. When the rude Karen sarcastically asked the young women if she needed her to call an ambulance for her I would have answered, of course not, but if your brat slaps me again you will need an ambulance for YOU!
Story 3: NTA The GF and Daughter were basically acting like the evil StepMother and StepSister from Cinderella! Hope the Father has some brains and breaks up with that vile, toxic witch IMMEDIATELY! If that's how GF treats her boyfriend's own child, I can't imagine how she'd treat her if GF and OP's Dad got married! I mean, NOT even married and yet SHE'S treating OP like CRAP! I need an update to this story, because I REALLY want OP's Dad to break up with that witch and her Karen in Training! Story 6: I would've SLAPPED the Dad AND Son Creepy Duo while SCREAMING "R*PE! R*PE! ASSAULT!! THESE CREEPS ARE TOUCHING ME!!!" just to try and get these two sexual perverts away from me! As for the so called "Store Employees", I would've tried and asked the Manager to either retrain their employees into stopping a would be sexual assault or had them fired, because if they INSTANTLY sided with the would be molesters and not hear MY side of the story, there'd be HELL to pay!
Story 6: I know right. The fact that a young girl is holding 2 guys at bay with pepper spray while crying too hard to be coherent is a pretty clear indication that she is most likely the victim in this situation. Where was security and why didn't they restrain the pair when they tried to make their escape immediately after the girl telling them to check the store cameras?
Story 2- Wow! What if that could have been avoided!? Like, i dont know, a surgery? But that's impossible right!? Im quite sure that the mother is very happy about that, now the poor man is forced to rely on her...
I have to admit I was very lucky as my eldest son was found pushing his toy truck down a busy street. We had been living in an apartment that had little in the way of an enclosed area for kids to play. I had just checked on my son (I think he was between 2 and three years old at the time) and had to visit the toilet, By the time I got out there was a lady at the door who said she had caught him pushing his truck down the street. Things can happen that fast when the child is young and he was very active and could get away from me easily so I put bells on his shoes so I could find him by listening for the sound. I have to say that he had a good imagination and would play along so when I had his younger brothers in a stroller we would pretend I super glued his hand to the stroller and he would hang on until I released him. Eventually, I saw a child harness and leash that a neighbor had for her granddaughter and asked he where she got it. I got one for use with him which gave him a bit more freedom even though people would yell out that he was a child, not a dog. The reason that my neighbor had one was that someone picked up the girl while her mother was looking through a display at the store and the guy grabbed the little girl. The child had the presence of mind to yell out this is not my daddy and a security guard stopped the guy at the door.
That chiropractor should have their license revoked. My chiropractor will not start treating a patient without first having a full series of x-rays (head/neck/spine).
And you know the Karen with the wandering child would blame OP if the brat ended up missing! She’d end up saying that OP kicked the misfit out so it’s her fault. Even if she did the child isn’t OP’s responsibility. The brat needs to learn responsibility and to stay in its own yard.
Story 3 if the girlfriend says you dont deserve something coz you haven't done whatever it is she wants, dont do anything for her anymore, go out of your way to have things she and the daughter wont get
I'm special needs and as a kid I bit others. You better believe I got in trouble every time, because I had responsible adults. That said, not all disabilities are visible - posting that shit makes OP sound worse, not better like they think.
I'm special needs as well. All of my disabilities/challenges aren't easily seen unless you're around me long enough to see that I can't focus on folks for long, not able to sit/stand still for long (cat laying on my lap or reading a book notwithstanding) and me enjoying to fidget with stuff. About the only other signs for me is that I'm slow on the uptake in social scenarios. My family's very responsible as well. I just can't remember most of my tantrums from when I was younger.
I've worked with kids with various special needs for decades now. Yes some of them are aggressive but we 100% teach them that it's not okay and intervene when they are becoming aggressive. I have a strong suspicion that the kid in the story doesn't actually have any special needs and the mom just can't be bothered to parent her child. My mum said when I was born and she saw how much more active I was than my older sister she had to retrain HERSELF how to parent because she knew I would need a lot more monitoring. I was wild but absolutely never hurt people. It's up to the parents to figure out the best way to teach their kid how to be a functioning human.
My heart breaks for Wilbur. What could have been fixed and maybe just a minor annoyance going forward turned into a lifetime of full disability. Well, Mildred got what she wanted. Wilbur completely dependant on her for everything for the rest of her life.
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There was an update on cakepop story!
OP talked to Dad, who was pissed when he found out what happened. He returned everything gf bought and put gf and daughter in a hotel until her mom came home so she could have some space. Good dad!
Way to go dad! I'm glad to hear that. GF clearly figured she had dad completely snowed. Dad was much nicer than I would have been.
That's all he did? Should of kicked them both out and realized she's using him for $$$.
@FDM 215 I genuinely hoped he would reconsider the relationship and maybe he did, but OP never posted again so we'll never know.
I'm very glad to hear that!
Please let that be true! That would be just desserts for being so selfish and rude.
"He's special needs; I can't control him!"
No, you just don't want to do your job as a parent and teach him what's appropriate behavior.
"MY son is SPECIAL, he can do WHATEVER he wants because *I* say so!"
That's fine, Lady, let him do whatever he wants. Remember those words in the future when you're SLAPPED with a lawsuit from your son's victims for assault, sexual assault, battery, hate crime and just being an entitled horrible slob like you, because YOU couldn't be bothered to BE a damn parent and PARENT your spoiled brat of a Demon Semen!
Honestly, entitled folks deserve to live on their own island, where they can self destruct each other by trying to Out Karen/Chad each other!
I'm autistic and even i didnt act like that grew up surrounded by other special needs kids and low and behold even the "lower functioning" kids could learn not to hit others
@@sesshomaruslover1 *ME TOO AND ME EITHER*
If it's true that he was special needs, honestly doesn't sound like the kid was getting what he needed, combined with a crappy parent.
Honestly feel bad for the kid either way.
Very easy response to special needs mother, ,get the hell out
Story 3 is instant break-up material.
You mistreat my child for no valid reason, you're out of my life.
i dont care who you are, or how old you are. the only response to the girlfriend should have been "you are not going to call me a liar in my own house!!!".
(add "colorful" language to spice it up as you will)
kids mostly have the most unbiased and truthful views, that sadly are ignored by "adults".
OP did update in the comments. Her father sent GF and her daughter to an hotel and returned all the gifts bought and said he would make GF apologise
*Story 4:* Special needs or not, there is NO excuse to let your child engage in this type of behavior! Having a child that is special needs simply means you may need to take an atypical, slower approach to teaching them a lesson. Not parenting a kid with special needs because theyre special needs is going to do near-permanent damage. I knew a brother-sister duo who was raised like that & their family legitimately had to move out of town because their children were hated by everyone. Their eldest son tried to walk in on me undressing at a party he was not invited to, then break into my friend's car as they drove us home. And when I threatened to call the cops on him for it, he claimed I was discriminating against him.
Parenting classes should be a REQUIREMENT.
If the kid has special needs to where you can't control him, don't take him to a place like that. Period.
And as good as it sounds on it's face, requiring parenting classes is an absolute violation of rights.
@@TJDious Not if it's court mandated, which, OP should call the authorities and report them for neglect.
Call me cynical but I suspect that special needs is her excuse to not parent her kid.
Yeah, chances are the kid wasn't 'special needs' at all. That's just some bullshit the mom says to cover for the fact that she refuses to parent her kid. Frankly if your child can't sit quietly in a public place, you shouldn't bring them to that place. End of story. A beauty salon appointment isn't a critical need. So there's no reason to bring your poorly behaved child with you.
Story 4: Yes, that child has special needs. He especially NEEDS a MOTHER. Which she clearly ISN'T.
Well put!
The kid might be "special need" like... adhd or something like this. It doesn't mean he can't be controlled. I mean, maybe by her it's true. He is at an age of testing limit. So, if he doesn't have limit anytime soon, what do you think will happen? He gonna hit again and (if he doesn't get reply equal to his) he will go further : stealing? Toutching others body? Anyway, on that "I can't controlled him", I cross my finger the mom doesn't have any weapon at home... And in the US, it's likely that some is in the house!
With a mom that won't parent her gremlin I worry that the little one will upset the wrong person and get decked for hitting random people.
Story 6: Geez, both of them are creeps. All OP did was just look at shelves and the kid was creepily staring at OP. And then when the dad arrived, he decided that rather than just keep the son away from OP, he decided to sexually harass OP about her chest.
Fluff didn't read whole 6 story, store employe was on ED side and he was fired. OP was driven to home by a coworker.
I wouldn't be surprised if the guy isn't on a list or has it charges of a sexual nature on his record.
@@Mithandune Wait, have you read this before?
@@JadenYukifan28 Yes, on another site. I remember there was more, so I went on reddit to make sure :)
@@Mithandune Is there a way I can see it? I don't have Reddit
I'm autistic. The Karen with the 5 year old? Just an excuse to not be a parent. I NEVER acted like that when I was 5!
There is update to 3rd story, I will copy from Reddit: Update: I just finished talking to my dad. I explained everything that happened at the mall and he apologized and said that he'll be returning everything that was bought and will be taking a day off work tomorrow so we could do something together. He also put up gf and daughter in a hotel so I can have space from them, and said they'll be staying there until my mom gets back. Once I'm ready to see them he said they will apologize to me and once my mom comes back he's going to have a talk with gf.
3th?
@@samboyd1828 the one with stepmom and 300$ on girls day.
@@Mithandune I know, just seeing if ya meant to say 3th or not
@@Mithandune Yes, it is supposed to be 3rd, not 3th.
@@lindat3595 Ok, fixed it :)
Very simple procedure. You're in a store, kid hits you, alleged parent refuses to deal, report it to the store staff. If they refuse to act call security or police then take your business elsewhere.
what if there was no where else to go?
@@Negi1001 Hit the kid? It would at least get results and force the "parent" to actually parent.
@@christianknight1649 maybe lightly shove the kid away from you? Hitting back seems like...a bit much since they'd definitely call police if the parent screams their kid was hurt.
Plus you don't wanna let them see you do exactly what you yourself complain about. Kinda makes you look like the person in the wrong.
@@christianknight1649 reminds me of this kid that kept attacking an elderly woman in the laundromat she almighty pushed that Boi to Atlantis
@@christianknight1649 Nah, hit the parent. Teach them that their failure to teach their kid consequences has consequences.
Story 3: NTA. Dad provided the money for a day for them all, and not a cent of it spent on his daughter. But you can definitely say the day out fulfilled its purpose. OP actually did get to know GF and daughter better in that OP was absolutely able to confirm that GF and daughter were just as bad as OP thought them to be.
I hope OP told her dad exactly what happened on that 'girls' day out'. Basically the GF used OP to get extra money to waste on her own kid. Hope dad is paying more attention now.
There was an update on this one. OP's Dad blew up at the gf, returned everything and the relationship was on the rocks after that. I don't remember if OP updated if they stayed together or not but...I do remember OP said her Dad did take OP out to treat her and apologized for not realizing what the gf was like and putting her in the position of being around someone who would treat her like that.
@@fdm2155 OP told him everything. He went through the bags wanting to know what was for OP and nothing was. GF tried to claim that OP didn't want/ask for anything but he didn't fall for her lies.
@@brandygiovinazzi3460 Glad her dad is paying attention! Thanks for the update.
@@brandygiovinazzi3460 At the very least, she asked for a cake pop. Kudos to dad. This was a learning experience for him too because he now knows he has a potential gold digger and her spoiled princess before he closed the deal and got married. You killed the golden goose before it could lay its eggs karen.
My brother is special needs and is a brown belt in karate. He has never gone around smacking random ppl as a kid nor would he now as an adult. That mom is just a lazy parent and it's damn disgusting.
Story 4: I am a hair stylist. This story is my #1 pet peeve at work. Parents assume it is part of my job to watch their children while getting their hair done. I went to cosmetology school and spent a lot of hours honing my craft doing hair, and not becoming a babysitter. We have kicked out clients for not controlling their children.
A local newspaper did a story on this and I'm sorry to report that that post on Instagram summoned All the Karens: "kids need to move! I can't afford a babysitter! Spoken like someone that's not a mother! Etc etc.
@@riel4553 My husband is a semi retired massage therapist. He always told his clients that under no circumstances would he allow children into his practice. The mother would be distracted by her kids when she is supposed to be relaxing and getting a treatment. Some didn't like it but most understood.
I work in a nursing home and one of the Activities Directors brought her 4 year old into work. We were forced to watch her as she was stealing from residents, eating other people's food and drinks, and looking through the residents' files to color over.
I put Bluey on my phone to keep her still for 15 mins. Got chewed out for "wasting time on the clock". I wanted to tell them, "You guys are always on your phones when residents need you. What wrong with monitoring a 4 year old as she's on mine?", but my best friend at work beat me to it and added that the mom should be entertaining the kid, not the Autistic Unit Aid (me) who would rather be doing her job of making up the beds and stocking linen carts as we waited for dinner to be ready to serve to the residents.
It's one thing to bring your kid when picking up our paychecks because the company doesn't believe in direct deposit, another if they are old enough to help out a bit, a completely different thing if they are a distraction from our duties.
@@jagirl966 It would be a different story if the child was well behaved but what child of 4 is not going to get into things. I wonder if the lady had any other option and if this was a one off thing. But apart from that, she should definitely have been looking after her own offspring and not have someone else entertain her. Did you go to the mother and tell her what her child was up to?
@@1toshi32 It was a Saturday and both her husband and her parents were free to watch the kid. The mom is an Activities Director acting as a CNA (because we can't keep CNAs long) and was changing a resident. The daughter was pulling the bathroom alarms in every bathroom and taking things from the rooms. We tried to bring this up with her, but she refused to hear us out. It's not the first time someone brought their kid(s) in, but they kept an eye on them. This mom didn't for long.
That's when I put Bluey on my phone, but even that didn't hold the kid for long. Until they left, the daughter even hit residents who wouldn't give her something. Some are paralyzed or have dementia.
I talked with some coworkers after they left. We knew she had options, so why did she bring the kid in? No idea. One of my coworkers said she will bring it to our boss and have them talk to the mom.
Story 5: THE KID COULDVE DROWNED WHAT THE HELL?! part of me thinks she kind of doesn't want the kid and is waiting for an "accident"
Agreed
Story 3: To GF... you didn't do anything to deserve a cake pop either, so why do YOU get one and OP doesn't?
Story 4: Hey lady, your son is assaulting OP. You're his legal guardian, so YOU are responsible for his behavior. Let him touch me one more time, and I'll call the cops on YOU for assault and battery.
There you go -- nailed it!
Wilbur has been crushed by his overbearing mother his whole life to the point of being unable to speak for himself in her presence. Also, a trulyvresponsible chiropractor would take X-RAYS to assess the injury before attempting an adjustment. That comes from 25 years, 3 states, and even more chiropractors.
*THIS*
Agreed. They probably went to a shitty chiro to try and save money. My heart goes out to Wilbur
There are studies where the same X-ray is taken to multiple chiros and there are a bunch of different readings of it. Fact of the matter is most chiropractic schools don't teach how to correctly administer or read X-rays. That's also why they tend to administer WAY too many X-rays. People think chiros are back experts, but they are not. They are alternative medicine because they are not medicine, and they are not evidence based. This story is quite common. I've had a lot of patients in the rehab facility I work at who were harmed by chiros. Strokes, back injuries, etc.
I would held Wilber’s mother accountable for this. If the doctors solution is surgery to save Wilber’s life, so be it. The entitled mother choose to go the opposite and ruins his life instead.
@@TheToasterPirate my personal belief is that you don't go to a chiro to treat a bone injury, you go to the hospital, chiros only know how to give massages... And that's when they're not causing said injury themselves... Man, gotta hate pseudomedicine
Story 4 I was a special needs child and that shit didn’t fly with my parents. Being special needs doesn’t excuse bad behavior
The last line of Wilbur's story made it so much more sad. I was sad for him not being able to walk but the line about not being able to feel the grass, sand or waves on his feet, felt so much more tragic.
Nope my 2 year old stays inside unless her dad or I can be with her and we lock all of our doors. Some people do not deserve kids.
More like kids don't deserve some people.
OP should have called cops and CPS.
💯 true. When my fist daughter was a baby I lived in a house where the local kids ran feral. They’d be out in nappies (diapers) and nothing else and they’d literally (no word of a lie) pull off drain covers, climb down one and pop out the other.
With the 7 adults (that lived with the 13 young kids in a 3 bedroom house) out on the front street drinking
@@mistypuffs Jesus and no one called the police or idk a care worker they just said meh and sipped their tea?
I also wanted to add I live in a very rural area, and we still don't allow our kiddo out by herself regardless of how quiet and safe our area is.
There's more to story 6: op had a male friend with her when she entered the store and when op informed everyone about the cameras and scaring the perverted father and son, the manager wanted to call police on the father and son duo, but they ran away and the manager chase them to prevent them from leaving the store but to no avail while the male friend started to scold and insult the employee for siding with the father and the son without 1) listening to ops side of the story and 2) calling another employee or security to check the cameras to check both sides of the story. The same employee who sided with the father and son was fired from the manager after the employees failure in handling the situation in resolving the issue between op and the father son duo.
Yeah, it looks like Fluff only used part of the story, maybe because it was so long. That did make me go to the OP's post which ended up leading down a rabbit hole that causes me to very much doubt it happened, though.
Story 4 A parent not disciplining their child does not make them special needs and parents saying that makes them able to do whatever they want makes parents with children who actually have special needs look bad. If the child is actually special needs and out of control they will be taken by the state
My 9 year old is special needs & I’ve always made sure he was as self aware as possible. Teach them young.
2nd story: Fluffy, I, too had the same symptoms, had back surgery to remove a tumor INSIDE the spinal cord cavity that was threatening my cord & even had plates for stability put in as well. Today, I can stand & walk thanks to a wonderful neurosurgeon who saved me from a wheelchair! 😀
I'm not even Wilbur and don't even know of anyone who had this happen but I literally feel homicidal thinking of what his mother did to him. How big does your ego have to be to think a spinal chord injury can be fixed with a "massage" essentially... so upsetting
@@ChichiPee HI Tamsyn! I know from experience that surgery is the only way to go when a spinal cord would be compromised in any way. That "Karen" was crazy to let her kid do that to op!
@@ChichiPee Not a massage but a spinal crack. Massage is done by a massage therapist or a masseur. The chiropractor should have known better.
Story 2: Now I've seen another channel cover this one, and their assessment was that the fault was majorly on Mildred for being controlling over every aspect of Wilbur's life while Wilbur gets a small amount for not standing up for himself (figuratively, of course) and making his own decisions considering his age.
Maybe Wilbur doesn't want to upset Mildred, but honestly, he's being way too nice to her.
If I was at the hospital, I would've just laid into Mildred with no hesitation.
I heard that story from the channel, "Am I the jerk?"
I fear that Mildred did it on purpose. Now that he's in a wheelchair she can control him completely.
I don’t think Wilbur is to blame for not speaking up for himself because it’s very likely that he is *not able* to speak up for himself after 50 years of conditioning with the awful mother.
Who will care for him when mommy dearest dies.
@@audreyricci6383 Exactly. He will probably have to go into care somewhere. Not a good outcome for this poor man. But having said that, he would at least be rid of her.
Story 3, hope the dad realizes that the witch isn't worth marrying if she's going to treat his daughter like that.
Story 4, "he has special needs. So I can't control him". Then apparently your not fit to be a parent. I'm autistic and my parents actually knew how to raise me and I was their first born. I also have two younger siblings that are also very protective of me. My parents never played favorites and treated us all equally. That Karen isn't fit to be a parent.
From what people have said on other Channels the 3rd story DID get an update where the dad fully confronted the entitled girlfriend then kicked her and her daughter out to a hotel and took back the clothes she purchased, while he decided what to do as he apologized to OP and made a dad and daughter shopping trip with op
Karen: Haven't you heard of Stranger Danger?!
Me: Your son is hitting a stranger lady isnt that dangerous enough?
story 4: parents that refuse to parent are the worst, just letting their kids run rabid and then when they're 16 doing drugs, assaulting people, getting in trouble with the law and never listening to her she will complain "omg i was such a good mom why won't they listen to me"
The irony of her saying OP has no manners, when her own kid is running around destroying property as she basically ignored him
Hypocrisy
When the lady said "some people have no manners" I would have responded with "yes that why you should have taught your kid better but obviously no one taught you"
The last story brought back memories for me. I was 30, and like that poster, well endowed. I was walking along a quiet street, having left my husband to park the car, to go to a store on the opposite corner. Two men - probably in their 50's - were heading toward me. It was a narrow pavement and I expected to stop for them to pass or for them to step into the road. No - they divided so I had to go between them. As I did so, they both put a hand out, grabbed a breast each and laughed, saying "they're real". I was in so much shock, I ran to the shop I wanted to go to and burst into tears. My husband didn't see what they did, but did see my reaction. Sadly he had no way of finding the men or involving Police. I have never left him to park and gone ahead since.
I'm so sorry! {{hugs}} Why do some men think they have the right to do things like that?
@@LoriPeace Thank you. It knocked my confidence a lot and even now, 20+ years later, I am wary and will cross the street or turn around if alone and approached.
@Dark Wizard Unless they did it again, they didn't get caught, which does make me feel annoyed. Thank you for your comment.
@@lizg5574 I'm not surprised. Something like that would have to have an impact on you. I just wish your husband could have caught them. I'm sure they thought they were being funny, but someone needed to teach them that making jokes at someone else's expense is NOT FUNNY and not okay. {{hugs}} (Wonder how they would have felt if a random woman had grabbed their privates and made some rude comment?)
Story 2: I really hope if Wilbur has some sort of at home help because of this, that person isn't mommy dearest because who knows what other crazy opinions Mildred has. "You can't take those pain meds! The drug companies put addictives in them so they can make more money off of people!"
Story 4: That kid is going to be raised thinking hitting people is okay and he is going to end up in serious trouble for it, trouble one can only hope is being put behind bars and not in an early grave.
Story 5: And here is when CPS needs to get involved but apparently that's to difficult for the police to do. It's going to take that girl getting seriously injured or kidnapped for those parents to get a wake up call, but by then its going to be way to late and that women is still probably going to blame someone other than herself.
I'm hoping the fucking chiroquack got sent to prison
2nd story:
As soon as I heard "chiropractor" I knew what happened.
Arent they usually not used properly
@@f687sNFM It's not that; they aren't *trained* properly. They are supposed to have medical licenses for it but don't, and for some reason it's allowed
@@lovelysakurapetalsyt That's actually not true at all. There is a national board that all chiropractors need to be licensed by and all but 5 states require additional state specific qualifications. The issue with going to a chiropractor is more to do with the fact that it is an alternative medicine based on pseudoscience. There isn't any evidence it is actually effective, but there is evidence showing that is could be dangerous.
@@Ryujishida
I think you're both actually saying the same thing.
They're not medical doctors, yet they tend to act like they are despite all evidence that shows chiropractic is a placebo at best, and dangerous/deadly at worst. Yet they exist (just like homeopathy, which has the exact same root) because some people would rather pay for a placebo that does nothing or worse, than get treatment that actually could help, because the former is easier.
I highly doubt that kid is special needs, would be willing to put money on her using it as an excuse to try and get people to shut up
Yes you should tell someone with special needs what to do, just like every child they need to know and understand what is and isn't okay. You can't just do nothing just because someone is different, do that and they'll never survive in this world.
I'm guessing that kid isn't special needs. The mom has likely just learned to say that because telling people you aren't interested in parenting your child isn't gonna get her what she wants. Obviously, no matter what's going on with her kid, if she can't get him to sit quietly in a place of business, she shouldn't bring him there. I also blame the staff who have a responsibility to tell the mom to get out if she can't control her kid.
@@fdm2155 I'm not saying that the kid does, I was just making a general statement.
@@aduckofsomesort Yes, there are parents who hold this belief no matter what's going on with their kid. I say this as someone who has raised two children on the Autism spectrum. We certainly see that all the time with Reddit stories.
@@Kilvieo I wasn't disagreeing with you. Just saying I'm suspicious of the mom's claims.
That Chiropractor in story 2 is as culpable as the 70 year old Mommy in the fact that he didn’t X-ray the son’s back before just heading straight to adjusting him. No Chiropractor will ever touch me that doesn’t do a full investigation first.
So right, I've never been to a chiropractor that didn't want an xray before doing anything.
And I've been to a lot in my life.
Considering mother thought the doctors were "scamming" them out of their money, she probably shopped around for the cheapest, shadiest, Chiropractor money could rent. I'm surprised she didn't just try walking on top of her son's back herself just to save even that money. Now surgery is a drop in the bucket compared to what he is going to have to go through for the rest of his life.
Story 3 had an update in the comments
“Update: I just finished talking to my dad. I explained everything that happened at the mall and he apologized and said that he'll be returning everything that was bought and will be taking a day off work tomorrow so we could do something together. He also put up gf and daughter in a hotel so I can have space from them, and said they'll be staying there until my mom gets back. Once I'm ready to see them he said they will apologize to me and once my mom comes back he's going to have a talk with gf.”
Thanks for the update!
The special kid would have been either kicked or punched, depending on how startled I was. My first instinct when startled is to swing.
I've gotten boyfriends, coworkers and even my own mom once.
Story 2: *Control Freak Mom Ruins her son's life*
I feel bad for the Guy, imagine that there is a preventable risk that you might lose your ability to walk, but then you lose the ability to walk because "Mommy knows Best"
And he loses yet again, you'd think losing your ability to walk was bad enough right ? Wrong. You either go no contact and have to find a carer, or go in a home OR be stuck with the cow wiping your ass for the rest of your life. I mean, bit of revenge I guess BUT imagine being stuck with the person that crippled you for the rest of your life ??
Because mother is a narcissist?
Story one: I will admit that I'm a bit afraid of OP's tattoo, only because it isn't executed/done well imo.
Exactly what I was going to comment. Kinda looks like No Face, but in no way does that look like Sen.
I cringed so hard when I saw it, dose not look professional at all. It looks like a middle schooler drew it.
Story 2: I truly hope the chiro was totally unaware of the MRI/CT scan results.
For story 5, I used to escape the house as a 2 year old, but my parents tried EVERYTHING to keep me inside. They put alarms on the doors, I figured out how to open the windows. They couldn't do too much about the windows because it'd be a fire hazard. CPS had been called at least twice on my parents, but luckily nothing happened because they saw my parents were trying. I'd even take the hit out of my crib and get out. I just wanted to be outside and explore. I was also lonely because my siblings were much older than me and in school. So no, it's not normal for a two year old to be allowed to just wander around to their own delight, and those parents should have their kid taken away with that sort of attitude...
The tattoo is a very effective way of identifying wild Karens.
What I find funny is that she claimed the Tattoo was traumatizing her son, who was fast asleep in the EM's arms. So, how the heck is it traumatizing him? *giggles*
Or just any unsavory characters
I'm still trying to figure out how a Spirited Away tattoo could be considered indecent exposure....unless the lady means ANY tattoo is indecent exposure, in which case she must spend a lot of time being traumatized these days...
@@robertc.9503 That's probably it
Story 2 is why I don't want to go to a chiropractor. An actual trained medical person wouldn't put direct pressure like that ON THE FUCKING *S P I N E*
Story 4: My niece is 5 years old and autistic. She has NEVER hit anyone like this kid. She listens when she is told to stop, respects authority, but still has her tantrums and overstimulated moments. Yes there are many times she won't listen to you, but it gets taken care of quickly with some authority in your voice, redirection, or taking her out of the situation
That Last Story makes me thank my parents even more. They raised a girl who turned into a woman with a steel backbone
I have never carried mace. I carry knives
Is this a real life Himiko Toga?
@@ryukaze7392 County girl. I feel naked without a blade.
It's a bit of a joke at work, my boss thinks it's funny to ask me for A knife and watch me pull out three
Everyone who knows me is aware I can be dangerous, but also that I'm a helpful if asked. I've been known to hand a coworker my last $5 to buy lunch.
Ah, the Klingon method.
Good for you
I've dealt with people speaking for competent adult patients. It's one thing if the patient honestly doesn't know their own history or medications (you'd be amazed how common that is!), but something else entirely when the other person is stepping in to talk for them. Usually, I'm able to get them to stop by (truthfully) telling them I need the PATIENT to answer, because HOW they tell me something is as important as WHAT they tell me; it's an assessment tool. If that doesn't work, or likely won't work, I send the overbearing person to speak with another member of my crew, because "they need to get some information from you", and that lets me talk with the patient without that person present.
Only rarely have I needed to do that for minor patients - that's always risky because they're legally not able to make decisions for themselves. But sometimes I need to get the minor's story without Mom or Dad leaning over their shoulder. I'm sure you can imagine a good few reasons why.
Story 4, I've had the displeasure of having to deal with someone like the kid in this story all grown up and old.
She was the absolute worst person to ever walk through the doors of my workplace. And was allowed to do whatever she wanted because the police would just tell her to move along and corporate wouldn't let us ban her cause she never stole anything.
Just scream at and threaten anyone who looked in her direction or said anything to her.
Swear at you if you did 1 thing she didn't like.
Turn around and say you treated her the way she treated people.
Not to mention the blocked number calls she would make to stores threatening employees saying she would be waiting for them to get off work and would kill them. She'd get her dad's .45 and kill all the people who were mean to her.
Just an all-around psycho that no one liked or wanted to be around and wished would die to end the anxiety and distress she would cause them, me included.
She was also the worst customer we ever dealt with and was a bitch to us at any turn just because she could.
Story 4 If I was in OP's place I would have asked the receptionist to deal with them since if a child is assaulting another person regardless of special needs they need to be removed.
Story 5: I think the most impressive part of this story is how OP somehow found a way to mow the lawn while sitting on a bench and drinking from a glass of water.
I worked in a fluff and fold laundromat and I asked a mother to stop her son from running around the place. Right as I was explaining to her it wasn't safe because she was so angry with me for "telling her how to parent", he bumped his head. Some parents are messed up.
Just send a two year old outside alone???!!!?!!?! I have a four year old and a six month old. I would never let her out alone
Wilbur's mother is a monster! What kind of parent gaslights their kids to not get that kind of surgery? I have a herniated disk in my lower back and I regret not getting the surgery while I still had insurance.
Story 1: I feel so bad
For “Wilbur”. I had a company doctor force me to a chiropractor (I wasn’t paralyzed) I’ve been disabled since 2009.
I'm so sorry man , I cant believe how much we need to question the people who are supposed to make us healthy again
Oh, and "don't talk to kids" has plenty of caveats. Like if the kid is punching you (or slapping, whatever).
Seriously. Responding to assault is perfectly reasonable.
Don't talk to your kid? No problem. I'll just yell at him to leave me the FUCK alone.
Story 4, In about 15 years the mother screams at the judge Don’t tell my son what to do, he has special needs!
...the irony, I was actually looking up stitches for a new crochet project during the last story!
Story 6: I like breasts as much as the next guy, but I'm not gonna go up to some random woman I see at a Walmart and ask if they're implants or attempt to touch them. If I want to look at boobs, I'll go online and do so from the safety of my home.
OP should call cops, show them the camera footage and have the ED and kid reported as sexual predators. If they get put "on the registry", then all the better.
@@lancerevell5979, I agree that right there is sexual harassment. I know OP isn't the only victim.
@@lancerevell5979 and she should also sue the store staff for letting the perps get away
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I have a contraption on my purse. If I would’ve had a creeper like that dad and his kid, I’d be pulling the pin on the little scream grenade.
wasn't there an update where OP's dad was pissed non of the $300 was spent on OP, and broke up with the GF.
Yeah, I recognize this story, some other channel (probably Lost Genre) covered it a while ago with updates, own comments, community comments and all that stuff.
Story 4: My niece *is* special needs, and while she is only 3, she acts 100% better than that. She's a sweet girl who minds her mom and even me (when I stayed with them for a week I helped watch her so mom could do things like go to the bathroom, cook dinner, and such without worry.)
Now, my niece's older half-sister on the other hand is 8 an is a holy terror. Her mom is terrible to both the 8 year old and the two younger girls. Definitely a Karen type. My sister and I are working on getting things together so that we can call CPS on the other mom as what we have heard happens in that house (and what mom says to my sister) makes us truly worried for those kids. My sister is worried about it getting out that she was the one to call CPS, hence the preparations.
For some perspective: I am a survivor of domestic violence, and her mom is sending up all the same red flags my mom did, so I have first-hand experience with why they are worrisome.
That little comment by Stevo in between videos was hilarious 😂 thank you for always cheering me up DF especially as I'm not too well at the moment ❤
The mother in the second story should be in jail. It’s just plain wrong🤬
Hi everyone, hi Darkfluff, I hope you all are having a great day today
Well, as far as Story 5... Apparently, I used to escape our house when I was a toddler. Like, any time my mom turned her back, I would escape. In fact, my mom said I used to grab apples that fell onto the street, put them in my shirt, and cross the street so I could feed our neighbor's horses. She says no matter how hard she tried, I would escape like freaking Houdini. I doubt the parents were innocent like she was, though.
1:09 Gee, I didn’t know a child could be scared and traumatized by a tattoo while they’re sleeping.
The tatoo haunted his dreams!
Story 4: Am It the only one who would have replied "I see he takes after his mother in that regard" to the "special needs" child.
That Spirited Away tattoo... They got done dirty.
Pretty sure a parent is responsible for almost anything a child does, special needs or not. I mean, if he broke a bunch of merchandise in a store I'm sure she would be responsible for paying for it.
Story 6 comments: My little sister was sexually assaulted twice by a couple different guys. All I heard in my head throughout that story was intrusive thoughts saying, "KILL. KILL." Good God am I glad my sister is safer nowadays especially since she moved out-of state recently. I'm no longer able to play the part of overprotective older brother since she lives out of state. Kind of sucks.
Your newborn baby does not give you authority over your neighbors.
My son is special needs too, but he's not an a-hole. Sounds like the only condition that kid has is that he's an entitled brat.
Story 2: perfect example of mother doesn't always know best
Poor Wilbur. He paid a terrible price for her bad decisions.
She is a malignant control freak.
There is a difference between "special needs" and "special" needs. One of my favorite friends in high school had spinal bifida, so was confined to a wheel chair and had other issues. Her mom was a nurse who worked odd hours sometimes, and she'd pay me to spend the night with my friend and her little sister, just so there was someone there who was old enough to know when to call for help and able to do so, not because there would be any trouble. There never was. My friend and I would have fun, play with her little sister, then life went back to usual until the next weird shift her mom needed to work. I had spent the night there before her mom's shifts got moved, so I more or less knew what to do. It was a little weird because I had never seen my friend's waste elimination bags before I started "baby sitting", but it wasn't freaky, just weird, and no one made a deal out of it, so it just seemed normal, which it was for them and just not for me. I was 14/15, I have no idea how I kept it together with all these new things, except I didn't want to let my friend down. No, I didn't become a nurse because I had some sort of enlightenment, but it did enable me to be a better friend in later years when other friends were hit with cancer and other health issues, it was no longer scary after facing what Amy went through in our teens.
Catherine, you are that non judgemental friend a lot of us wishes to have, but never have met. Unfortunately.
@@jlessien3826 Have you looked in the mirror? I'm sure your friends count you as a blessing. Keep being that blessing for yourself, you can never escape yourself.
Story 6: I would’ve pepper sprayed anyone who too close at that point who wasn’t an employee trying to diffuse the situation & called the cops right away! None of their behavior is ok.
Story 5 should have called CPS when she was loose on the street at 2 years old.
Yeah you’re right no children should be wondering outside at night without supervision that is child neglect
Story 4 - I'm ADHD and autistic, one of my sons is ODD, ADHD and autistic, another son is ADHD and autistic - and they grew up knowing you don't run around doing what you like and hitting people.
Even if the child in that story had ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder), he can still learn *not* to trash the place and to *not* hit people. In his case, any "deficit" in "attention" in that story is on the part of the mother who is clearly not paying any attention to what her kid is doing. I feel sorry for that kid - his mum's a waste of oxygen and he's going to suffer the consequences for that later in life.
Story 5: I hope OP sued the neighbors for what the daughter did to the pool pump.
This is how I feel whenever I watch a Darkfluff video:
Me: people can't be any more stupid, right?
Next Darkfluff video: hold my beer!
Story 4: the second time that she said second needs i would turn around and say "i think the only one who is special needs is you lady because clearly you don't understand normal etiquette of not letting your kid regardless of age and disability hit other people"
Seriously, letting a 2 year old roam around on their own? I'd have immediately called the police and CPS on them. That's straight up child neglect.
From the 4th story it’s apparent that sorry excuse for a parent is not qualified to be a parent and needs to lose custody of her kid until she completes parenting classes.
Story 4: Kids with special needs, like all kids, NEED rules and kind discipline, because they NEED guidance on their behaviour. Not all kids may have the capacity to remember not to hit people, but it's up to the parent/ care giver to make sure that they have plans in place should such things occur, so that the child can keep their dignity and have the best chance at being able to live in society. I've worked with adults with special needs, and they know that this kind of behaviour is unacceptable. The times they can't help it are when they have been overstimulated and that's when they lash out (Stimuli vary and can be internal or external, so not always easy to compensate for). And they ALWAYS said sorry after, because they were really sweet, kind human beings who hated that they might have hurt someone when they couldn't control themselves. They had excellent rapport with not only the staff that helped care for them, but also service staff we'd see on a daily/ weekly basis and those five minute interactions were such a big deal. It enabled them to do more. The mother is robbing her child of his chances to have positive interactions with people, instead people will grow to dread to interact with her kid, and may assume other kids that need extra help are the same.
The son with the broken back were just foolish. As a doctor you explain that is a complication of being moved. A chiropractor would not of touched him if he had taken X-rays first. Big mistake on not getting a better history.
Story # 4. When the rude Karen sarcastically asked the young women if she needed her to call an ambulance for her I would have answered, of course not, but if your brat slaps me again you will need an ambulance for YOU!
Story 3: NTA
The GF and Daughter were basically acting like the evil StepMother and StepSister from Cinderella! Hope the Father has some brains and breaks up with that vile, toxic witch IMMEDIATELY!
If that's how GF treats her boyfriend's own child, I can't imagine how she'd treat her if GF and OP's Dad got married!
I mean, NOT even married and yet SHE'S treating OP like CRAP!
I need an update to this story, because I REALLY want OP's Dad to break up with that witch and her Karen in Training!
Story 6:
I would've SLAPPED the Dad AND Son Creepy Duo while SCREAMING "R*PE! R*PE! ASSAULT!! THESE CREEPS ARE TOUCHING ME!!!" just to try and get these two sexual perverts away from me!
As for the so called "Store Employees", I would've tried and asked the Manager to either retrain their employees into stopping a would be sexual assault or had them fired, because if they INSTANTLY sided with the would be molesters and not hear MY side of the story, there'd be HELL to pay!
Story 6: I know right. The fact that a young girl is holding 2 guys at bay with pepper spray while crying too hard to be coherent is a pretty clear indication that she is most likely the victim in this situation. Where was security and why didn't they restrain the pair when they tried to make their escape immediately after the girl telling them to check the store cameras?
Fluff: calling me beautiful.
Me: wondering why the mirror is cracked
I know, right? No one ever calls me pretty (or beautiful) without an ulterior motive.
I know I'm not pretty.
Story 2-
Wow! What if that could have been avoided!? Like, i dont know, a surgery? But that's impossible right!?
Im quite sure that the mother is very happy about that, now the poor man is forced to rely on her...
16:52 - loved that tiny on-screen message that popped up ! 😂🤣😂🤣😂LOL
I have to admit I was very lucky as my eldest son was found pushing his toy truck down a busy street. We had been living in an apartment that had little in the way of an enclosed area for kids to play. I had just checked on my son (I think he was between 2 and three years old at the time) and had to visit the toilet, By the time I got out there was a lady at the door who said she had caught him pushing his truck down the street. Things can happen that fast when the child is young and he was very active and could get away from me easily so I put bells on his shoes so I could find him by listening for the sound. I have to say that he had a good imagination and would play along so when I had his younger brothers in a stroller we would pretend I super glued his hand to the stroller and he would hang on until I released him. Eventually, I saw a child harness and leash that a neighbor had for her granddaughter and asked he where she got it. I got one for use with him which gave him a bit more freedom even though people would yell out that he was a child, not a dog.
The reason that my neighbor had one was that someone picked up the girl while her mother was looking through a display at the store and the guy grabbed the little girl. The child had the presence of mind to yell out this is not my daddy and a security guard stopped the guy at the door.
That chiropractor should have their license revoked. My chiropractor will not start treating a patient without first having a full series of x-rays (head/neck/spine).
And you know the Karen with the wandering child would blame OP if the brat ended up missing!
She’d end up saying that OP kicked the misfit out so it’s her fault. Even if she did the child isn’t OP’s responsibility. The brat needs to learn responsibility and to stay in its own yard.
Story 3 if the girlfriend says you dont deserve something coz you haven't done whatever it is she wants, dont do anything for her anymore, go out of your way to have things she and the daughter wont get
My grandfather an orthopedic surgeon HATED chiropractors, because he got a lot of patients like Wilbur.
I'm special needs and as a kid I bit others. You better believe I got in trouble every time, because I had responsible adults. That said, not all disabilities are visible - posting that shit makes OP sound worse, not better like they think.
I'm special needs as well. All of my disabilities/challenges aren't easily seen unless you're around me long enough to see that I can't focus on folks for long, not able to sit/stand still for long (cat laying on my lap or reading a book notwithstanding) and me enjoying to fidget with stuff. About the only other signs for me is that I'm slow on the uptake in social scenarios. My family's very responsible as well. I just can't remember most of my tantrums from when I was younger.
I've worked with kids with various special needs for decades now. Yes some of them are aggressive but we 100% teach them that it's not okay and intervene when they are becoming aggressive. I have a strong suspicion that the kid in the story doesn't actually have any special needs and the mom just can't be bothered to parent her child. My mum said when I was born and she saw how much more active I was than my older sister she had to retrain HERSELF how to parent because she knew I would need a lot more monitoring. I was wild but absolutely never hurt people. It's up to the parents to figure out the best way to teach their kid how to be a functioning human.
My heart breaks for Wilbur. What could have been fixed and maybe just a minor annoyance going forward turned into a lifetime of full disability. Well, Mildred got what she wanted. Wilbur completely dependant on her for everything for the rest of her life.
Every guy worst nightmare having to be dependent on their Karen mom
The second story is exactly why most chiropractors take x-rays before touching you now.
Parents can be held to account for assault committed by their child of they are aware and do not stop it.